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I think being honest with her is the best thing to do. Especially if you feel like her red flags are too much. You won’t be able to make her a plate. It will probably shatter her ego and in a way drive her towards you more but genuine honesty in this situation will go a long way.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 09:20 PM
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Yea I think this could sum it up. She is playful with me but only if I don’t try to. If I actively try to talk to her she doesn’t reciprocate all the time. She showed me text messages of guys obsessed with her. But she also talks about going to clubs and having guys grind on her which is a huge red flag for me (obviously). She also says things like “I don’t want anybody”. I feel like she says these things in front of me to get a reaction but I never do. I simply remain stoic. I’m not going to pu…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/23 01:54 AM
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I’m definitely gonna go to the MMA event but I will probably not head to the club after as the drive there is an hour or so and I only care about the MMA event. If I can’t drink I won’t go to the club. I don’t think she knows what she wants tbh. She says shit in front of me, not to me but someone else like “I don’t want anybody right now” knowing I’m listening to see how I react. She constantly shit tests me and I know I pass them which I think is a reason why she is orbiting me. But idc. Think …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/23 12:14 AM
1

It’s a mix tbh. She has a lot of female friends and a lot of male friends.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/23 12:07 AM
2

To the mma event, yes. To the club afterward? Probably not.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 04:11 PM
5

It’s an MMA event and afterward they are going to the club. I’m actually interested in the MMA event but may dip after and not go to the club.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 11:40 AM
5

It’s an MMA event. Her friend is fighting and I am cool with her friend. They plan on going to a club afterward. Either way I’m going to tell her we are better off as friends and go to the event. Idk if I will go to the club afterward but the MMA event I’m actually interested in.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 11:20 AM
1

Because I don’t text her or nothing and then she’ll hit me like “you should come to this bar with my friends it will be fun.” I had a short conversation via text and the last time I texted her before that was two months ago. I don’t go out of my way to talk to her but every couple of weeks she hits me with “hey you should come out and meet my friends more.” Like- she wants me around but doesn’t? Imma just tell her we are better off as friends and that’s it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 02:05 AM
5

What’s a wingback
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 01:46 AM
5

Yea she’s not a bad person. But I definitely think she is looking over her options. She really didn’t have to text me but she chose to so idk. But she is most likely not into me.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 01:37 AM
-1

Ya know, I don’t know much but what I can tell you is that I think you have no clue what you are talking about.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 01:30 AM
4

Honestly, I’m just confused and don’t know how to read what she is trying to do. Which is why I came here.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 01:28 AM
3

Don’t think so. Cause when I go out at a bar with her and a few people she doesn’t pay attention to me that much. If she was interested she wouldn’t have flaked two times. Imma just tell her we will be better off as friends and leave it at that.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 01:00 AM
4

I am. Im currently talking to a different girl and already took her out once. But this other girl keeps bringing up this event and saying things like “whenever you wanna hang out with my friends let me know.”
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 12:44 AM
8

Thanks. It’s strange. She never flakes if other people are there. But one on one she never shows.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 12:03 AM
20

I definitely wanna do something along these lines. But what do I do when I see her again? Cause I will see her a couple of days after the fact.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/23 10:24 PM
10

Sorry if I didn’t clarify. So both times I asked her to go out with just the two of us, she flaked. But if it was out to a bar with some other people she was always there. But yea, I definitely won’t ask her to go out solo again.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/23 10:22 PM
2

“For the next few weeks be both try to link with each other but plans keep falling through” That’s literally your problem right here. It’s not rocket science my friend. If a girl wants to meet with you she will meet with you. She will make the time for you to come fuck her. If things “keep falling through” and it’s this game for weeks on end then she clearly doesn’t want to fuck you. Why would you waste so much time on one person? You should have hard nexted the moment she said she wasn’t availa…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 02:52 AM
22

You’ve made a mistake by waiting 5 months. Before she even moved in that should have been a conversation for the two of you to have.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:03 PM
17

Immediately scrolled to the comments to see if anyone had te same idea 😂
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:31 AM
9

Bro. Just keep doing you. Read the sidebar. People come and go. There is no one.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 11:47 PM
42

Holy Shit
/r/askTRP21/03/21 11:46 PM
3

On another note too, you may be coming off as creepy asking her every day what she is doing and texting her asking where she is.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:59 PM
3

This is also very valid.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:58 PM
10

She’s clearly not interested. You wanted to go out on Thursday and then switched to Friday and then she is outright avoiding you it’s clear she doesn’t want anything to do with you. Move along. Act like nothing happened. Don’t acknowledge or bring it up. Take your loss and keep moving.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:02 PM
4

You need to go back and read the sidebar if you are asking a question like this. Go read “how to tease bitches” that will answer all of your questions.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 04:39 PM
1

Yes. She did this the first time I hung out with her.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 12:31 AM
1

Is your fashion level headed? Or are you dressing in sweatpants every day?
/r/seduction10/03/21 08:08 PM
0

It’s probably a shit test most of the time. They use it to leverage power over you. The one who needs the other less is not in good standing in the relationship.
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:01 PM
1

I guess we will agree to disagree. I’m only 20 but have had to grow up faster than others. Stay safe.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 09:48 PM
1

I accept.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:25 PM
1

I appreciate your response but have to disagree. I work 30 hours a week and go to school full time. I am not entitled, he is. He chose to take care of me, he chose to move in, he chose to pay the bills. Nobody forced him to do so. But the day that he took it upon himself to do so it became his obligation. When that obligation got hard on him he didn’t know how to handle it so he started dumping his responsibility onto me, my mom, and my Aunt. He promoted my Aunt to manager and she didn’t even wa…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:37 PM
1

And forgot to mention. I’m 20.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 05:55 PM
2

Thank you. I left my house last night and stayed at my uncles house. I have a very supportive extended family. I’m Italian so we are extremely family oriented. I will no longer see my step father. I am going to see if I can stay with my grandfather. I’ve been staying with him the past couple weeks. My main priority is to get a car now.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 05:55 PM
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This is very important to me. Thank you for commenting.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 05:51 PM
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This is not good advice. This is clearly violating law 1. It is extremely hard to violate law 1 and get away with it.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 12:09 PM
4

Thank you.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 12:02 PM
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I’ve also given much consideration into whether I am selfish. I spoke to several people and my therapist about it. Every single person I’ve spoken to agrees that I am not selfish. I also forgot to mention that I did help him at work at one point. But I know that eventually if I kept helping him there I would end up working there more and I would have a regular schedule. He is entitled and when referring to me helping him at work he kept using the word “use” to describe it. It’s plain and simple …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 12:00 PM
1

Yes we are there for when we need help. But I work 30 hours a week and go to school full time. My stepfather does not properly know how to handle his responsibility and he takes it home with him. He has a level of envy for me. He brought up that he took care of me because he loves me. And I love him but, the idea that I owe him something for taking it upon himself to take care of me is silly. He chose to move in, he chose to pay the bills, he chose to take care of me, and I am eternally grateful…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:54 AM
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I don’t care what anybody thinks of my story. I am who I am. I am simply lost. I am looking for guidance
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:05 AM
1

This sums it up right here.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:52 PM
10

Cool question
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:17 PM
2

Go read year 1 on TRM website.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:09 PM
2

Your overthinking it. As long as it has a useful purpose she would appreciate it.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 11:31 PM
0

Yea, still a jerk off so 🤷‍♂️
/r/askTRP16/02/21 03:01 PM
1

I will admit I am wrong in that aspect and you are right. But “sidebar” is still a jerked off response. You could have literally linked this article and it wouldn’t have turned into this. So yes. I admit I am wrong but, you are still a jerk off. Case closed have a good day.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 02:31 AM
1

Yea this jerk off doesn’t realize that there’s a difference between general information and asking specific questions that aren’t simply answered through the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 02:16 AM
2

Yea and hope your ass doesn’t get sore riding on that saddle.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 02:11 AM
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The purpose of this sub is to help people. You cannot fault him for not being aware, that’s why he is here dipshit. Get off your high horse and help instead of thinking you are better and “babying” people because they ask for help. Obviously TRM and Pook can be listed but you really expect someone to say to themselves “I have an issue” and flip a fucking book open? No, it’s more effective talking to people . You aren’t less of a man for helping someone but you are less of a man for thinking that…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 02:05 AM
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That’s a jerked off response
/r/askTRP16/02/21 12:05 AM
0

Next time he goes on a tirade record the incident on your phones audio. Get it on recording of him being abusive and bring it to the police. Your mother will always defend your father in this situation
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:16 PM
0

If worse comes to worse then call child protective services. You gotta talk to someone. Your parents problems are not your problems. How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/askTRP15/02/21 02:23 PM
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If your dad acts up you got some place to stay for a bit? Like grandparents house? I am in a sorta similar situation where my relationship with my parents isn’t that good. You are not obligated to pay a single penny towards something SHE wants.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:44 PM
1

Was thinking this. I think he is in the right frame to do so now. I’ve asked him if he wanted to be unplugged and he didn’t know that it meant. So I let it go and I will ask him again sometime. If he says no I will never ask again but he constantly asks how I know what I know.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:42 PM
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If that’s all that gives you value, then no.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:57 PM
7

That’s lame. It just shows that you still care.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:24 PM
1

Sure.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:23 PM
2

I don’t shit where I eat and I told her that.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:39 PM
6

Lol tell her. If she cuts you off look at her and be like “excuse me what are you doing?” If she walks away during conversations then just ignore her and don’t talk to her. I would have already said something if I was in your position. Would have already asked who the fuck she thinks she is.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:42 PM
3

Just wait now.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:40 PM
19

Not sure tbh. I have a co worker who constantly asks me to hang out and I’ll either ignore her or tell her no. Today she asked me again and I said yes and she jumped like a little kid and said “really!?!” And I just go “nah”
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:39 PM
2

It indicates that you aren’t saying anything to get her hamster wheel going. Make yourself scarce and have her reach out to you. If she doesn’t then just move on. Women respond to things two ways. They are either really engaged or they are bored.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:37 AM
2

If it doesn’t get her hamster wheel going then no. It will be dry. Remember, they are children emotionally so they are either extremely engaged or they one word you.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:36 AM
1

What is your question
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:34 AM
2

Well for starters, I lock the door to my dungeon.
/r/seduction10/01/21 02:30 AM
1

Well you have to decide if you want to plate her or go into an LTR. From the looks of it you just want to plate her.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:20 AM
1

Who cares if she says no? Just next her.
/r/seduction07/01/21 11:30 PM
17

Move on. Literally millions of other women in the world. You cried about a girl that you didn’t even go on a date with? Cmon bro, man up. You got a bad case of oneitis. Just next her lol.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:57 AM
7

You shouldn’t have asked her to stay. You should have just escalated earlier. If she wanted to kiss you she would have regardless of a lockdown. When women want something they will do everything in their power to get it. Distance yourself from her to create scarcity. Don’t ask a women to stay because it comes off as needy and beta.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 04:20 PM
21

Drop and leave her. Now. If she does spontaneous things like this what would stop her from going a step further and cheating on you? Ghost her.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 06:04 PM
2

We obviously don’t do that lol. You should offer that after a date that doesn’t involve coffee
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:07 PM
1

Yes. Talking with a girl and straight up offering her to go to your place is kinda hard without having high SMV and smooth talking her.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:21 PM
3

I second this. Sometimes the guy can grow defensive and dismiss what you are saying as jealousy or not making sense.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:05 PM
3

Wanna go for some coffee at my place?
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:02 PM
1

Versace Man
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:58 PM
2

The aura of mystery attracts them. If you were too simple it could be a reason. Women find “love” in the madness and unpredictability in men.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:03 PM
0

Rich Dad Poor Dad.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:25 AM
1

This doesn’t fit into the context of the red pill.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:28 PM
11

There is no straight answer. It’s hard. But your mentality has to change. You have to tel yourself that you will find someone better.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:22 AM
4

You don’t.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:13 PM
1

If you think that the red pill is only about sex then you clearly haven’t done proper research. Is a lot of it about sex? Yes. But the more importantly it has to do with you staying on your purpose as a man and working towards something. The most important thing the red pill teaches is that you are a MAN. And to unlearn societies feminist agenda and achieve what you want to achieve as a man. Women are just a bonus to go along with it.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 02:00 PM
1

Girls rarely approach.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:27 PM
1

I don’t think it is a good idea because she may not even be into you. She may do anything out of jealousy.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:44 PM
2

She may only want to be plated on the idea that you are going for her instead of her younger sister. This is not a good idea imo.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:38 PM
3

Nah. Women want certain aspects of beta and certain aspects of alpha. They want a alpha sperm donor to give them a strong kid and a beta who will keep racking in cash for them.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:35 PM
3

You cannot compare Alpha. Alpha is the state of mind. https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ just read through year 1. It’s a good place to start. I knew about TRP for 3 years but haven’t started taking it serious up until recently. Focus on yourself. Don’t worry about others. You cannot control what people think but you can control what you think.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:51 AM
14

Bro. You are 17. You are lucky to have even found this at 17. Stop focusing on other people. Attract value by working on yourself.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:39 AM
3

Happened to me a few weeks ago. I just ghosted. Don’t initiate any contact. If she wanted to see you she would of made an effort.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:18 PM
1

First example sounds like an edgy joke. If she said “get the fuck out of me car” with a smile then she clearly wasn’t serious. You could have easily responded with a “Yea?” With a smile back. Example 2 was a good response. Don’t ever bring it up later. In example three when she asked what is wrong with your arms all you had to say was “nothing” and then continue to work out. Just remain stoic. Half the time I get shit tested I just turn and say “oh okay.” And then continue like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:52 PM
1

You are further proving my point. Good luck....
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:11 PM
2

I don’t mean to put you down but geez you are such a fucking pussy. Man up dude. Look in the mirror. Ask yourself “What am I going to do about it?” If you accept defeat then shut up. If you want to do something about it then do it. Stop throwing these studies into every conversation it just sounds like you want people to agree that you are helpless.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:08 PM
2

No you just provide lame counter arguments for everything that everyone says.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:20 PM
2

Bro literally every single time you have been given advice by people on here you dismiss it or say that whatever advice they are giving you is not attainable because of how ugly you are. At this point you are just being an attention whore. Why do you keep coming to here every other day asking the same things and getting the same answers. What do you expect?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:58 PM
3

Dude shut up. You have posted this same post over and over on this sub. Why do you keep coming back here you weirdo?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:37 PM
1

Sounds like you already know the answer. Stop losing frame. Stop arguing. Change the subject.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:56 PM
2

Either way if she was interested she would have figured out a way to hang out with you. You really think a test is gonna stop a girl from getting some dick?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:28 PM
2

You should of planned something solid already. This happened to me too. You say let’s meet next week but never get anything solid down as far as meeting up goes until the next week. This is a mistake. “What are you doing next week on ____. Oh okay well wanna meet on ___ and do ______?”
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:15 PM
1

Try talking with them. Express how you feel. If it doesn’t work out and it’s really bothering you enough then save money and move out. If they provide you food and shelter you have very little say.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:28 PM
4

Rich dad poor dad is a good starter book.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:24 AM
5

Make yourself more scarce and stop typing these paragraphs.
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:33 PM
2

Making money is important but what is more important is having a mission in life.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 03:16 AM
-1

Well for starters don’t get a tattoo. You will lose respect from people if you get a tattoo. Also being daring, spontaneous, and adventurous isn’t what makes you a man. Having goals and achieving things in life even if it means dropping a few people along the way is what makes you a man and in turn what makes you not boring.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:35 AM
2

Stay on the same path.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:19 AM
46

Once a slut always a slut.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:51 PM
3

Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/seduction09/12/20 03:09 AM
1

Change the people you surround yourself with.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:02 AM
2

Her mentality regarding how she views you hasn’t changed. She already subconsciously classed you as beta. You need to do a 180 when you come in contact with her again and appear as a different person. But why try to piece a plate back together that already broke? Makes no sense in my eyes. If a plate breaks, it breaks. Just move on.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:02 PM
1

Where is the question in this post?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:38 PM
5

Stop being so clingy and reaching out to her. If she wanted to see you she would have made effort. Just drop it at this point lol. Sounds like you failed some shit tests if she “accepted all my flaws” was there a night where you and her vented your problems to each other? If so, you probably came off as weak.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 10:20 PM
1

Think it depends on what type of women you attract
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:25 PM
10

The girls have oneitis for those types of guys. They have fulfillment.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 03:23 AM
19

We are all learning. I don’t think adding her to the rotation is smart in my opinion.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:24 AM
13

If you have a rotation then why even respond? You have 100% of the power right now and her texting you that paragraph is her testing if she could get some of it back.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:04 AM
5

Don’t really see where the question is in this post.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 06:47 PM
1

What’s asking her number going to do if she is 12 hours away? Sounds like a waste of time.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:54 PM
2

Out here like thanos collecting the infinity stones
/r/seduction03/12/20 06:19 PM
0

Go back and read the sidebar. If you are having these feelings then you forgot why it’s so important to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:38 PM
2

To really sum it up, don’t be a bitch. That’s basically the summary if you remove the sexual side of things.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:56 PM
7

Get used to it. “I have improved my physique, clothes, accessories, I walk with a good posture looking straight ahead” this is why they stare at you. Women want you and men want to be you.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:56 PM
1

48 laws is good but it deals more with deception. The book I stated above gives a solid approach in being nice and working with people from a genuine standpoint.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 12:48 PM
0

Learn how to handle people. Understand people. Become a people person even if you are not. The book “How to win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie will teach you how to deal with people under situations of stress as well as persuade people using their own desires to get them to do what you want them to do. If you cannot interact with people properly you won’t get anything done.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:37 AM
-15

Do me a favor and read the rules dipshit.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:32 AM
-6

Yes I agree. But not here. Like I previously said this sub is designed to ask questions. All of the people downvoting me clearly had that fly right over their heads and immediately downvoted something I am clearly right about. I don’t mean to be a dick and wish you well. But it just doesn’t fit the context of this subreddit.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:31 AM
-16

Oh did I rub your pussy the wrong way?
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:29 AM
-21

Although this is uplifting this sub is made specifically to ask questions. That is it’s only purpose.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 02:32 AM
1

Don’t let your pride leave a financial burden on you. But, if you think he is going to use it against you in the future then I would suggest being cautious.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 07:05 PM
1

I don’t wanna joke but I chuckled for a second cause I thought it said “buy a horse”
/r/askTRP24/11/20 02:50 AM
3

Don’t focus on the whole journey. I am at the same place you are at and what I realized is that taking it day by day is extremely important. Focus on what you are going to do THAT DAY. Plan it out the night before. Write down what you want to do tomorrow. Then do it.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:20 PM
7

No necessary cons. Just don’t think you should waste your time trying to explain. Typically when someone is caught in a lie they double down on that lie and hold it to a tee. We are not creatures of logic but creatures of emotion. If you know she won’t feel sorry then why waste your time? It seems to me that it would give you a level of closure with explaining everything to her when in reality closure is bullshit. You don’t really need it. But if it makes you feel better to tell her to go fuck h…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:39 PM
64

Drop her. You don’t need to explain. She lost a good man. It’s her loss not yours. It’s good that you found out within 3 months and didn’t waste more time with her.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:01 PM
3

If you want to gain the upper hand in every social situation you are in the 48 laws of power and how to win friends and influence people are two must read books. If you are looking to improve your own mindset and monetary levels read rich dad poor dad as well as think and grow rich.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 07:42 PM
3

Sometimes at work I simply ignore bossy people. Or people that want me to do something for them. It may actually perpetuate back on them that they are doing something wrong if YOU ignore their request. Most of the time I’ll just look at them and then walk away without saying a word.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 11:16 PM
21

Very important to not break frame and yield. I wouldn’t suck up and say “I need you” blah blah blah. Personally I would just ignore her especially if you got other plates.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:23 PM
1

“I can’t get my memories of her outta my mind” sounds like you have oneitis.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 03:45 AM
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You are 100% right. TV just loves stirring the pot with drama on every show.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/20 04:05 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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