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Ah good old Lahwf. Andrew Hales is pretty successful just by going out there tbh.
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:41 AM
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Despite the fact that this never happened to me before, it puts the guy's end of the dating scene into perspective. Thanks for the post!
/r/seduction13/07/18 07:27 AM
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I like it. Respect.
/r/seduction22/05/18 01:31 PM
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I didn't bother replying to him, because it was ridiculous to consider anything he was saying. Yeah. After seeing his comment to my own reply, that would've been a better idea. My comment is just being reinterpreted to fit his agenda and undercut my own. Our date was between us and everything I did led to making out in front of 40 people at the front row of a show with two women. So yeah, your approximation is way more accurate than his and so yours deserved a response. Good job man. And thanks.
/r/seduction25/03/18 10:44 PM
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Sounds like a bitter, sexually frustrated man. Nah bro. This comment goes against the very spirit and core of this sub - knowing on a deep level that successful seduction comes from how well you demonstrate yourself, as a whole, as a high-value individual. It's not dependent on single factors like dick size that mean little compared to the whole package - social proof, intellect, respect, confidence, a well-put-together life, ambition (knowing exactly what you want and going after it), working o…
/r/seduction25/03/18 08:13 PM
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you're wrong He's not wrong. And neither are you. u/ImJustSo is talking about READING a girl's body language and gathering information. You, u/leaveitaloneitsfine, are talking about what to DO about those situations LATER, when you finally receive the information about it. Both of them are valuable pieces of information, because it has to do with CALIBRATION. It's about GATHERING INFORMATION from the interaction and CAPITALIZING ON IT WELL. If you just ignore all the signals a girl is giving you…
/r/seduction25/03/18 08:03 PM
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Do you have a certain routine for going out? I'm currently at that stage where I'm just "going out" without any real plan in mind. I'm just doing it to get out of my house.
/r/seduction03/03/18 08:04 PM
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LOL. Okay
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:22 AM
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That's the general idea I'm getting from this thread. Thanks
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:22 AM
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WHile I wouldn't say it exactly in this way (I'm a straight guy), this is the general message I'm getting from this thread. Thanks for your input.
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:21 AM
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Thanks for the input.
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:20 AM
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He is self assured because he spent time dressing up, he has the poise, posture and gestures down pat. Practice, practice, practice needed. He is not focusing on himself, he is focusing on HER, and that's important. That's the issue itself. I'm NOT thinking about what to say next. I'm thinking "don't look at her boobs." And that's what constricts my flow of thoughts. Oh and don't be afraid to look at her boobs, if she takes issue with it just calmly state "yes I'm looking at them and they're spe…
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:19 AM
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Thanks. I think most of the population understands the magnetic power of a good set of boobs. Has she said anything about it? Or has she ever caught you?
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:16 AM
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This. Particularly, get yourself a steady with a good rack. Steady doesn’t mean anything committed necessarily, just let her know you’re still seeing others. I'll get there. Building myself one step at a time. I use to objectify women like crazy until I started seeing success (dressed better, exercise, charm, etc) I was like that at one point. Let myself go for a bit. I'm now rebuilding myself with exercise and working on my charm. Dressing better and going steady is on the way. Thanks for the a…
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:15 AM
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Sounds like you aren't getting any action. You're spot on. My schedule is basically work, school, home (AND WORK) then repeat. I'm not even going out much right now. Talk to more girls. Will do. Also unconventional advice - go to a strip club so that hot women and their boobs don't leave you breathless any more. Helped a mate of mine with his anxiety. I'll keep that in mind.
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:12 AM
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Yeah, I get where you're coming from and in my mind I already know what you're telling me. If you read past my title and into the descriptions of my post, you might be able to glimpse that what you're saying is EXACTLY WHAT I'M TRYING TO GET HELP ON. My fantastic breasts are part of a fantastic person. With hopes and dreams and insecurities just like anyone else. As hard as it is, get over it. Look us in the eye, have a conversation, and forget about the boobs. That's my goal. That's why I wrote…
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:08 AM
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I do think of her like a person. She's my friend, and I relate to her like that. But when you're staring at her face, talking to her and having an intellectual conversation, and she starts stretching up, moving around, and having her boobs kind of on display for you... it's distracting. Sure, these can mean IOI's everywhere. But like I said, I'm not interested in a relationship. think of yourself as james bond and you have a mission. Haha! Thanks. I don't think of myself as James Bond. I think o…
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:50 AM
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I keep a chill calm and lighthearted demeanor when I’m interacting with people. That sounds alpha asf. As a smaller guy, if I saw a guy like that, and he was the size of the guy you replied to... I'm not a huge guy by any means. 6'1 210lbs I wouldn't feel "intimidated" to talk to him per se. But I would definitely wait for him to talk to me first. I might think "this guy is too cool for me." Or this guy seems like he's got shit to do on his own. That's part of the AFC mindset I'm working to shut…
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:47 AM
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Still, fuck you bot.
/r/seduction07/01/18 01:19 AM
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Good bot.
/r/seduction07/01/18 01:19 AM
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You must be the mother.
/r/seduction07/01/18 01:16 AM
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You must be the father.
/r/seduction07/01/18 01:16 AM
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Straight savage.
/r/seduction07/01/18 01:16 AM
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One of the biggest reasons is that this communicates non-neediness. Neediness is one of the biggest turn-offs both for guys and girls. If a man values himself enough to work on himself and cut off a girl who won't even give him the time of day, he becomes more attractive to her. To reference one of the best r/seduction posts of all time, you have an amazing, full, exciting life, with or without her. THAT'S the kind of person you want to be around - therefore, that's the kind of person you want t…
/r/seduction07/01/18 01:10 AM
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"Friends." They're definitely not in first before orbiting. But now that they are orbiting, they've killed off a lot of the vibe.
/r/seduction06/01/18 11:14 PM
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I love your username
/r/seduction06/01/18 11:13 PM
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I know, I'm kidding
/r/seduction11/11/17 04:42 AM
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Boiii. You made me use up a free article this month.
/r/seduction08/11/17 07:05 PM
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You telling me to get a wingman?
/r/seduction01/10/17 08:11 AM
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I'll apply it now. Thanks
/r/seduction30/08/17 03:41 AM
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If seduction is actually one of your goals, how is it not on your calendar? This just made me see things in a new light. Thanks for the epiphany. If you're truly going full force you should at least be going out Friday/Saturday nights. It has been added. The next step now is to do one or both of the following: 1) find a way to make more income, because I don't have much DISPOSABLE income. 2) Find ways to go out and have fun while staying frugal about it. My "excuse" now is finding the money to d…
/r/seduction30/08/17 03:39 AM
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Huh. You have a much more direct approach. Respect. All I was trying to do was try to break down what I habitually do into manageable steps. I was much more difficult to explain it. Maybe that's how it came off. Anyway, I do like your approach. It works better on an older crowd where people are already familiar and comfortable talking about sex and aren't playing games as much. With a younger crowd, they're still trying to get comfortable thinking about sex, so it has to be more subtle and intro…
/r/seduction30/08/17 03:12 AM
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This. I think you summed it up better than I did in my own response. I have two thoughts on the "if a girl freaks out or makes a big deal about it" part: First, I usually introduce the topic/ jokes about sex slowly. Build up to it by doing little tests. Tiny innocent jabs during rapport, First innuendo that hints at sex, then a slightly sexual joke, then a more blatant reference to sex... at the end you can just get outright descriptive and vulgar, but few girls are comfortable getting to this s…
/r/seduction28/08/17 07:26 AM
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Holy shit. I'm tired and I thought i would take a crack at that question. I didn't actually think I wrote that much until I posted it.
/r/seduction27/08/17 06:41 AM
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You're already attractive and funny, so you've got that going for you. You're probably already seen as sexually attractive too. On a foundational level, you can spice up your sexual attractiveness by expressing more of your manly side and highlighting the polarity between masculine and feminine energy - this is what creates tension in the first place. If you and the woman both have the same type of energy (masculine or feminine) then there is no tension. Highlight your masculine tension by expre…
/r/seduction27/08/17 06:40 AM
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I'm actually interested in this too. I can connect with you on the first and the "married by 21" thing.
/r/seduction26/08/17 02:11 AM
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Bro. GOOD FUCKING JOB. I would give you a hi-five and take you out to have fun if I could. I've been in a similar position before where I didn't care about the nuances as much as I cared about getting over myself JUST DOING IT. Good fucking job bro. You did awesome. Now that you have that experience under your belt, you can take some time to process it before moving on to the next level. You can practice on other girls.
/r/seduction25/08/17 03:41 AM
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Since I'm relatively new to the game, I try to push my boundaries with banter. As an addendum to when banter works: teasing doesn't go too well if you just met a quieter girl. The more confident once EAT UP your banter even if you sometimes feel like you're getting to the point of verbal abuse.
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:23 AM
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Oh yeah. Good reminder. I needed that.
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:21 AM
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That's a good start. Purely for the sake of diving deeper: if they smile and stay, how do you know if they are actually offended but like your company too much to let you know vs. they genuinely like the last line/ sentence you just said but can't think of any other response?
/r/seduction24/08/17 09:34 PM
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Burnout lasts for a day or two, and then you pick yourself back up and try again. Why is burnout a bad thing?
/r/seduction24/08/17 09:32 PM
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Oh definitely. Body language and vocal tonality are so powerful I love it. I already practice solid eye contact, lighthearted talk, loud voice, and the slight smirk a a lot of times. In fact, when I'm in that mode, the more STUPID SHIT I say (stuff I literally just improv and pull out of my ass) the more they laugh and seem to gravitate to me. In my head I just keep pushing it because "Fuck it. I'm already committed to talking to this person, and I feel like a burning man already (this will lite…
/r/seduction24/08/17 09:21 PM
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I'm trying to tackle 4 areas of my life to improve right now, because all four are parts of me I want to improve. I'm setting up and setting up, but you're completely right about "don't wait until you are ready."
/r/seduction23/08/17 07:36 AM
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"Don't worry. I'm not actually interested in you. I'm just insecure, and you're just practice." ...?
/r/seduction23/08/17 06:37 AM
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It's a process, and it's the reason we're here.
/r/seduction15/08/17 05:05 PM
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Wow, you just dropped a lot of wisdom right here. It sounds like you've been in the community for a while. This is making me want to learn THIS a bit more than math now. haha
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:55 PM
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ONLY as a long-term partner? I'm not sure I want that. Sounds like a sexless relationship.
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:54 PM
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Ah, so start the romantic stuff AFTER you already have their approval. Win them over by doing what I'm doing first, is that right? But isn't it true that when you lose the trait that attracted them in the first place (in my case the scarcity and the not giving a fuck about trying to win them over) then they start losing interest and attraction? I wouldn't want to be the guy who neglects his girl once they're finally together. At the same time, it sounds like that's what might keep them.
/r/seduction30/03/17 02:34 PM
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I think so too, which is why I'm kind of confused on this point.
/r/seduction30/03/17 09:31 AM
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in fact you could be completely ignorant to the fact that you're comfortable in your own skin, you dont try to be someone you're not. I see. So it comes off as confidence. Many times I don't even feel comfortable in my own skin when I'm talking to women I'm attracted to, so I never considered it comes off as that when I'm not attracted to them. Thanks for the feedback man!
/r/seduction30/03/17 09:30 AM
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LOL. This hits home on many levels, especially the mystery part. Girls have never outright addressed me as mysterious, but a few of my guy friends that I've known for years have mentioned that there's a lot they don't know about me. As for the not giving a fuck... I hope that's not the whole story. I don't like being nonchalant about life, and it would be awesome if they will still be attracted when I find something I'm even more passionate about.
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:53 AM
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I see where you're coming from... but if they think I don't care about perverted shit, they got another thing coming haha. Still, husband material? It's better how they see other guys, but it's still not how I'd like to be perceived. Oh well. That's one more thing I'll have to work on. Thanks for the feedback man.
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:30 AM
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You're a catch. You act like you could have any girl you want and don't need to chase. See how that's an attractive quality? Huh. You're right. Thanks for the feedback man. You were even on point about the nerdy girls too. I can only think of one girl who wasn't nerdy at all. All the other guys are sending them corny poetry or texting them to ask them how their day is. Sounds like they're REALLY good friends. u/Me2_0 mentioned that I probably come off as good husband material to these girls, but…
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:30 AM
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I have the strangest feeling that this will be removed pretty soon.
/r/seduction02/02/17 04:57 AM
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In only 4 days, you took 1st place in "Top all-time posts" for r/seduction; you effectively beat posts that have been there for 2-4 years. Have my upvote, stay in first.
/r/seduction25/07/16 08:07 AM
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Oh my goodness. It's crazy how it's only been four days, and this is already the top post of all time in r/seduction
/r/seduction25/07/16 08:05 AM
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Remindme! 24 hours
/r/seduction08/06/16 04:05 AM
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Since you're on r/seduction, check out this article by Neil Strauss. It tells you in detail all about the texting game and how things may have gone wrong. http://www.neilstrauss.com/rules/InnerCircleSupplement.pdf From what you've said, it doesn't seem like you alluded to anything fun/ valuable about your initial interaction in your text. Keep trying, you were bold enough to make a move. Don't be discouraged at any rebuffs. It's part of the fun.
/r/seduction12/04/16 10:48 PM
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