Can you get good at seduction without being a party guy?

WIA20XX · 2018-08-08T13:10:10+00:00

There is no other way to get good at talking to attractive women face to face, other than talking to lots of attractive women face to face.

So any high density of attractive female strangers will work.

But if you think you can tool about your day and get good at talking to chicks by only chatting up shop girls and people at the book store, you'll never get good. There just aren't enough women, aren't enough problems to solve.

You might get occasional dates, but if your goal is be able to chat up any girl that you come across in any situation, with a reasonable shot at making a connection - you need volume.

You need a lot of data points to see patterns.

You have to know how a heterogeneous population reacts to you, and then bring out different parts of your existing personality.

Be real with yourself

Do you just want dates?
Do you just want sex?

Or do you want the skill set?

Cause seduction might not be the place for you. Most people on this sub, don't want the skill set. They want a girlfriend. They want a fuck buddy. Learning Seduction is not efficient to get those things. Better off doing a well designed dating spam campaign.

somethingWatermelon · 2018-08-08T12:14:31+00:00

Parties are places where people come to let loose, have fun, drink alcohol. So it makes sense to go there for pickup in the sense, that people are in general more willing to hook up.

It's also a place where there typically are a lot of chicks around, so you have a greater chance of meeting a girl that you like to hang out with, as opposed to lets say the local games shop where there might 1/50 chicks.

When that's out of the way, no you don't need to go to parties, it is possible to meet girls all over, the most important thing is that you put yourself in situations where there are girls, and that you approach and talk to them.

You said it yourself, you are an introvert because of this i would highly suggest that you go to parties and get out of your comfort zone as this will make you evolve and make you a greater man in all aspects. Just remember to also come back, slow down and relax afterwards.

By making yourself comfortable at parties you will have an easier time getting girls in all aspects.

-- Watermelon

Chamizo4 · 2018-08-08T13:09:19+00:00

Yes.

dailymanup · 2018-08-08T16:37:03+00:00

All you have to do is get good at Conversation with women. If it happens at a party, fine. If it happens somewhere else, also fine.

The venue doesn’t matter. What matters is improving yourself so you are the highest version of yourself. Particularly when it comes to conversation.

I know plenty of guys who aren’t big into parties and get plenty of girls. There are girls everywhere, not just at parties.

Title	Can you get good at seduction without being a party guy?
Author	ShardShank
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	August 8, 2018 11:44 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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