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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | An annoying thing other guys do in clubs/bars with regards to competitionI’ve never had this happen but my friend had the girl say she was fine after an approach. I don’t see any issue with expressing sexual intimacy. We’re human at the end of the day. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Ditching apps and cold approachHey I don’t like it, but that’s the reality. Most people, especially the younger generation are brainwashed. | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Ditching apps and cold approachLow volume, but arguably more natural? My past girlfriends felt uneasy telling their friends I met them on the street. | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Ditching apps and cold approachIt feels natural for me. You have to agree it’s not a socially accepted method of meeting your partner. | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Ditching apps and cold approachLove the metaphor | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Ditching apps and cold approachI’m doing fine. This is my gift to other people. There’s not many clubs where I am but there’s plenty of lonely guys that are failing to find their partner. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 02:25 PM |
| 5 | Laughter being anti-seductiveConnection > entertainment. For sure. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Laughter being anti-seductiveI feel like if I laugh, I’m the one that’s being entertained instead of her. I’ve been complimented on my smile/laugh. I’m treading into woo-territory but I think by me not eliciting that emotion she feels like she needs to work to get my smile/laugh. If I sit there smiling all the time it’s not a scarce resource anymore. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Laughter being anti-seductiveFair. I agree with that. Another reason why I brought this up is because I’m having a party and the humor/personality of a couple of guys coming is really unattractive. I don’t think many girls would be attracted to them unless they toned it down. But then again, that’s who they are, right? Would you say a girl has to validate a guy even if it’s impossible to be attracted to his character? | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | I feel bad for these young girls, confession.My rule is if I’m their first I need to be ready to consider them a LTR. Slags that have a body count? They’re spiritually fucked anyway. I don’t like spoiling the sex market by taking a good girl that would make a different guy happy and turning her into a bitter and resentful person. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Is the text spamming really that bad?But also this is just one data point. I tried to see if this tactic worked again but it didn’t. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Is the text spamming really that bad?Nope | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Is the text spamming really that bad?Just showing an alternative perspective | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Is the text spamming really that bad?Don’t u think the interval is too short? Text the next day? Why not experiment with the next week, month or even year. | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 08:34 AM |
| -4 | Pickup in Japan - a quick storyWe’re meeting tomorrow. We’re going to smash. | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | online datingHow would you open the conversation | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”That’s pretty good analogy. Btw why r u a virgin? | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 09:07 AM |
| 1 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”Nice | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”Can you elaborate more on trauma dumping? I don’t understand what you just said. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 02:45 PM |
| 2 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”That’s good too | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 02:43 PM |
| 2 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”100% agreed but it’s good to have some playful fun. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 02:43 PM |
| 7 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”Exquisite 🤌 | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 02:40 PM |
| 2 | dealing with the 'manly' manAll you have to do is make him feel like ‘the man’. That’s it. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 03:24 AM |
| 37 | Some guys just have it. Funny story on a night outI found it pretty entertaining. Sounds like the guy has something going for himself too. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 05:01 AM |
| 3 | How to bring a girl back home?Some argue that if you’re having trouble bringing her back, the date didn’t go well. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of the way I’m dealing with my fear of approaching?You just do it. It’s like riding a bike. You’re going to fall at first. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 01:02 PM |
| 40 | I'm really starting to wonder if it's even worth it. I'm on a massive as dry spell guys. Is this what hookup is about?I’ve got a friend like you. I’ll tell you what I told him. You have to enjoy game and the things it will do for you. Get excited by the idea that ONS is possible. Realize there’s somethings to do that. Workout, money, socializing. You’ll see that you’re growing as a person throughout the process. This inadvertently rewards you with a more positive energy. Eventually it does come. And even if it didn’t, you should be happy with the person you sculpted. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Is there a nice guy game?He doesn’t pull “a lot” of girls. He pulls a certain type. The type people have mentioned here “less attractive, older, ran through”. My curiosity is whether or not the nice guy game is better at pulling these women. I don’t think it’s the most optimal approach but whenever there’s a woman besides a guy, I think there’s something to be learnt from that. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there a nice guy game?Definitely. The distinction between nice and kind is important. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Is there a nice guy game?100% agree. Seen a lot of dysfunctional marriages where the guy lets even his own wife push him around. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Is there a nice guy game?Agreed. Women want to know you’re capable of danger without being dangerous. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Is there a nice guy game?I can agree to this. A lot of the nice guys are getting the type of girl that has accepted she can’t get the one she wants. Which isn’t good for his mentality. No one likes knowing he’s second third or even fourth place in his girl’s mind. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there a nice guy game?That’s a really good point. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 12:50 PM |
| 2 | 1992 talk show with a PUA, MRA and a feministIsn’t being a dick part of the game though? Narcissism is one of the most attractive of the dark triad traits. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 07:06 AM |
| 3 | Has your views changed since learning gameFrom the women I’ve been with so far, I’ve realized that those that had a lot of partners have their soul torn up. From a guy perspective the ones I want to take seriously and feel like the best partner long term are the girls with limited experience. They behave in a special way that girls with a high body count cannot. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Has your views changed since learning gameFor me personally, i didn’t think marriage/being with your partner a long time would be an issue with me. Then I got into a long term relationship and it all started to make sense. Really feels like an inevitable progression to ruin. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Has your views changed since learning gameTbh, not an issue for me personally but comment for other people. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Has your views changed since learning gameLove all the points. And social game is great too. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 03:19 PM |
| 21 | Has your views changed since learning gameWell said. I used to do that approach of being a gentleman and slowing down. I just found it doesn’t work. You’ll get the number but most likely ghosted. I switched my game up to only going for an instant hook up and it works. For better or worse I’ve been conditioned to aim for that over the slow cooking method. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 03:16 PM |
| 21 | Has your views changed since learning gameThe sexes aren’t judged equally and they aren’t hardwired equally either. What men should and shouldn’t do is different to what women should and shouldn’t do. As much as it doesn’t feel fair, that’s just the way it is. I didn’t make the rules. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 10:43 AM |
| -10 | Has your views changed since learning gameI don’t want the mother of my daughter saying it’s okay to sleep with a guy she’s known for 30 minutes. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Casey ZanderWhat was something u thought was stupid? | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 10:08 AM |
| 1 | First dateI don’t like screwing around with married couples, but if ur girl cheats on u, u gotta take responsibility | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I overcome seeking validationTrue masculinity is when guys don’t give a fuck about the opinions of others and especially of girls. You talk, live and do things knowing that it is the way. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Indirect gameI’m not a fan of indirect game personally. I don’t think the girl likes knowing ur using tactics to talk to her | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 09:53 AM |
| 4 | Is it a good idea to completely cut off online dating ?I’ve been doing this. The quality of my relationships are better. The success rate is lower. If I wasn’t me, I’d do cold approach and apps but wouldn’t take the people I met on the apps seriously. I always say that I’m not telling my kids I met their mother on a dating app. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 09:26 AM |
| -1 | Long-Term SeductionIf you went bowling with a girl and it kept hitting the gutter, do you think it’s going to keep her attracted? | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 11:38 AM |
| 8 | Long-Term SeductionRespectfully disagree. You’re gonna get ur ass handed to u in a relationship by getting into the habit of being vulnerable. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | How to be the person that attracts women?Completely agree. I think all of us gave ourselves a pat on the back when we overcame our fear of approach and could get numbers as easily as buying McDonald’s. But if you want to create a casual exciting experience or do something more noble and actually make a gf, you need to escalate ASAP. This isn’t to be mean, it’s most peoples experience after doing this for a while. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Wanna start game but have social anxietyWhen you label yourself as “socially anxious” you are subconsciously creating an excuse to make up for your shortcomings. Everyone is socially anxious about game, you’ll get used to it. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Going out for some approachesHahaha speak Japanese. Not white | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a 0 sense of humor girl?I date a lot of asians and they’re like this. I always joke around with the boys and western girls but just kept it to pure attraction with asians. You could have the same approach with this girl | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 07:38 AM |
| 1 | How can I seduce older women when I’m 19Lots of good advice here. Keep up the hard work! | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 01:07 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on Casey ZanderHe’s on YouTube | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Casey ZanderAnything you’ve disagreed with so far? | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 12:47 PM |
| 6 | I am living in my head and so sick of it. How the do I calm downJust remember that nothing matters and people forget all the time. I live on the mantra that I’m insignificant and no one gives a fuck about me. It’s not self-deprecating it’s liberating. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How is it possible to be attractive if we are not preselected?Agreed but it’s undeniably powerful. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 01:49 AM |
| 2 | How is it possible to be attractive if we are not preselected?Gold. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 01:48 AM |
| 6 | I can get numbers but then no replyNumber 4 cracks me up. Can you imagine retexting “ R u okay!? It’s been days since u replied. Did u get kidnapped?! R U DED!? I’m so worried about u.” | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 01:47 AM |
| 10 | I really don't understand why tinder is still so popular and why men keep using this trashThese dating apps have so many in built mechanics to make sure you don’t succeed without payment. They will push you to the top of the queue when you first start to get you hooked. You will have a lot of matches. Then these will dwindle because your profile is buried (most girls haven’t even seen your profile to swipe on). To get pushed back to the top you need to buy tindrs premium but now that there’s so many people on the premium even those guys are getting their profiled buried. Tindr also m… | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 09:08 AM |
| 14 | Saw this cute girl and talked to her.She has a preconceived notion that you are low value and not worth her time. She wants to make you feel that way, but she always wants you to be mentally strong enough to not care. If you know deep down that you’re a person worth talking to this “shit test” won’t affect you. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 03:53 AM |
| 0 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?“My name is rad rick. I don’t date women in the bar or club because they are statistically more likely to have an STD.” | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Quick question - BirthdayI used to think in this way, but eventually after having more options I didn’t really care about one individual girl and her birthday. By sending that message you’re signaling you care about her and girls don’t like guys that like them. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | What do you even talk about?Keep up the good work. Thank you | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:28 AM |
| 0 | What do you even talk about?Unfortunately, any approach is going to be looked at as creepy in our current society. Hopefully during the course of the conversation she will start to see that you’re just as normal as the guy that would’ve looked at his phone, wishing he could talk to her some way. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Does mystery method work for day game?Brutal… | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:22 AM |
| 0 | Does mystery method work for day game?Like this rules. I’m going to implement them today. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Does mystery method work for day game?I really like this idea of comfort. I think guys underplay it. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Little light hearted joke. Don’t take it seriously | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?With all due respect, scoring the girl outside of her own country is a lot easier. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Just gonna get surgery tomorrow to make me white lmao | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:06 AM |
| 2 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?This is shouldn’t be getting downvoted. With street approach here, I don’t escalate physically. I escalate with my sexual energy. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Crazy insult. Someone with autism would hate approaching someone in public. I think OP was just doing a rough number. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Same experience, but I think there’s something to be said about nonverbal communication. How can you convey sexual energy with just how you hold yourself. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 12:58 AM |
| 2 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?100%. The gas is can’t stay on forever. Strike when the pan is hot. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Agree and disagree. True most Japanese people have fantasized about a fellow Japanese man their whole life. When you first approach her she sees it as inconceivable for you two to be together. With a good grasp on the language and some knowledge of what she’s grown up with she will start seeing you as a potential mate. Make the approaches and make her understand you’re still a fellow human despite the difference in race. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 12:56 AM |
| -1 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?You need to understand that every swipe right that wasn’t reciprocated on an app is equivalent to being ignored and rejected on the street. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Ahaha I love this guys tease | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Polarity without negging100% agree. Gotta actually put peoples advice to the test to see if it’s bs | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Polarity without neggingThat’s a cool line. Do you think that makes the girl question herself or makes her think she’s dirty? | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Improving my game when I'm already an attractive guy?Never seen this before and it’s super insightful. Thanks for the post! | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Improving my game when I'm already an attractive guy?I like the post, but this made me laugh ahaha. Whether or not it’s true, it’s such a based way to think about it | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on feedbackHaha look I swear this is my friend | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on feedbacklol I agree | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 01:18 PM |
| 5 | Girls kiss ass for the guys they like and make the others wait for no reason. Going for maybe girls is POISONI heard that girls will make a judgement within the first 10 seconds of meeting you whether or not you’re fuckable. That being said only finding girls that like you isn’t helpful. 90% of guys aren’t exhibiting the attitude that girls are sexually attracted to. Keep finding girls and notice where you can work on your game. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How To Go Out Alone (And Why It’s Better Anyway)Love this. Great motivation to actually go and do it | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 02:36 PM |
| 2 | You don't NEED to get her numberThat’s awesome. Thanks for the insight | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 01:23 AM |
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