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Omg waking me up in the middle of the night too! Like hitting me with her elbows and kicking me. Pulling the covers off. Yelling. Too much. Good luck
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 11:11 PM
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This is my story word for word.. she is unrelenting after I got caught (7 months ago) I regret the affair (was only 3 months) but life with her was pretty bad for years before-she doesn’t seem like she even realizes how bad it was-I begged her to have counseling or have her family talk to her about her behavior and feisty attitude towards anyone she came across and her general paranoia about everything and sudden extreme religious tendencies. I’m waiting until the kids school year is over then f…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 06:56 PM
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No I’m just mature enough to say I am to blame for most of the problems. I’m sure a lot of the men here are justified in saying the ex wives or wives were to blame primarily but some self reflection is all I’m suggesting. The camaraderie here is great and sharing stories to help one another get through a painful period in our lives is very helpful. It would also help some of us that are feeling guilty about the failures in their relationship to express and read others stories that are similar. D…
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/22 04:21 AM
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Sounds like me
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/22 03:01 AM
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I mean is it too shameful for the men posters like myself to say the divorce or relationship issues were their own fault? 95% of the posts are full on blaming the ex-wives …it cant be true
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/22 02:53 AM
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Same here..16 years married and 44 years old. I have a 12 and 13 year old and scared of the fallout. Im stuck here but I keep finding a sliver of hope in the marriage only to see it crushed and the cycle continues.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 06:13 AM
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This is crazy man-I think my wife has the potential to be somewhat this cruel because Ive seen it with my own eyes and thats why Ive been afraid to file the divorce. Every day is shit pretty much but Im sure if I filed that it would get way worse and drain me financially and emotionally. Thats why Im hanging on until the kids are 18 (6 more years) or until one of us dies. Fuck Paranoid Personality Disorder and NPD
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/21 12:04 AM
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Dude-I don’t condone violence at all-but if I were in your situation and my bitch ex wife moved MY kids cross country and turned me into an indentured servant-I would think long and hard about committing some
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/21 06:54 AM
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what religion if I may ask? In Islam it states that both the wife and husband should love each other and be selfless when it comes to intimacy-So sex/intimacy is a big deal. I wonder what religion teaches that its not
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/20 07:56 PM
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Thats why I haven’t pulled the trigger yet. I don’t want to end up financially destitute. I will just live in misery albeit with some money
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/20 06:07 AM
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Yeah we are too nice. We should have a contract before marriage stating that the wife needs to go back to work within one year of having children otherwise they don’t get anything after divorce. Simple verbal promises never work and you will be a slave your entire marriage and after you divorce
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/20 12:03 AM
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Thats what happens when we try and be the nice guy and let our wife stay at home instead of go to work. Not only do they not have to endure the stress of working a job all those years but then they get 2/3rds of your retirement and half your home that YOU paid for before marriage. Life is Beautiful. Sorry buddy. It will be ok at the end
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/20 09:20 PM
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She sounds like she has paranoia personality disorder and resentment for something you did early on in the relationship that has never been addressed. Better to cut the cord early because your life will continually be painful living with this person. It will go from extreme happiness to extreme sadness and bickering. It doesn’t seem like shes the type to do any kind of counseling to better the situation. In her mind its all YOUR fault for everything and nothing you do will change that. And in yo…
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/19 04:41 AM
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Seriously they can be so evil sometimes. Going through this with mine as well sort of. She will only let the kids to my parents house if she is present. She wont “let” me take them by myself. She called the cops before and said I verbally assaulted her and threatened her ( I punched a door and threw things around a bit in frustration) but I did not touch her. So now she thinks she can do that if I try to take them without her permission. Also she has alienated the kids from seeing their extended…
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/19 11:39 PM
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Thats why I stayed. Fought hard and still hanging on. Id rather live in a boring/strained relationship with my kids living with me than seeing them every other week. Thats just me though. Get a hobby or two. Do some volunteering. Go to Church, Mosque, Temple if you are religious. Workout. Good luck -Hang in there!
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/19 11:40 PM
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Jeeez! Sorry you’re going through that. Cant you just call social services on her? Driving your kids while drunk is insane! I would have literally taken my kids and left. Called the police on her. If police don’t do anything just take the car keys from her and don’t give them back. Its all under your name anyways
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/19 06:12 PM
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Hey thanks for the advice! Another poster said I should try to make less money and you are asking if I can make more money-Im confused. She hasn’t gone back to work because she says she wants to take care of the house and kids full time and doesn’t want to leave them with strangers after school. Also probably to spite me for god knows what. Other than her mental issues she is physically healthy so no reason she could not get a job. Would a judge force her to get a job if that is the case? She is…
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/19 02:39 AM
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Oh so she deleted her email account and changed her phone number. When she contacts me ( we barely speak) she uses my sons phone. I know what you are all thinking-Shes Cheating! No she isn’t. She is very religious and I have never had any suspicion of her doing that. She just is very narcissistic and has anger and jealousy issues that have gotten worse over the years. The worst thing is her paranoia-thats why she deleted her email account, cell phone etc (she thinks people are watching/listening…
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/19 10:35 PM
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Hey thanks for the insights. I just used the CA alimony and Child support calculators online. Based on my income. I will just bring my family (parents, siblings, extended family, friends) to the courthouse and have them testify at how she shielded the kids from them. You think the judge will buy that?
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/19 10:24 PM
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Thanks for the positivity! I guess being poor and happy is better than being miserable and comfortable
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/19 08:05 PM
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Sorry to hear-It will get better slowly.. if you don’t mind me asking did your wife just cheat one time or many times?
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/19 10:31 PM
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Sounds like he freebased lines of coke before he typed that
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/19 05:57 AM
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Were you guys having problems before you found out about the cheating?
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/19 02:19 AM
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Okay-You are definitely in a great position compared to most guys.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/19 09:22 PM
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Good points! By the way what is your occupation? 600k pension and you still have 18 years before retirement
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/19 09:16 PM
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Damn $600k for cheating? I would have fought tooth and nail to keep the house
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/19 07:54 PM
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I’m just saying it could be too early to throw in the towel- Maybe try to make it work unless theres no chance of reconciling
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/19 05:23 AM
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That was a short marriage-why did u have a kid with her?
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/19 10:14 PM
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I didn’t know women can be worse than men -but your wife is proof that they can be. Wholly crap man why did you have a second child with this woman?
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/19 02:25 AM
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