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| 3 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 11:58 PM |
| 1 | the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awarenessProbably correct, good observation imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Women make different men they date play by different rulesCommon knowledge. Different rules for different men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 02:59 AM |
| 6 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?Isn't this common knowledge? Women settle for 'beta' providers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Women in relationships with male best friends?it's true i think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:14 AM |
| -8 | Women in relationships with male best friends?reported (fat shaming) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:04 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Bait post. There's already a post about N COUNT, weekly discussion . Close this mods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 01:55 AM |
| 4 | We do not live in a “hookup” culture and the amount of casual sex going on is grossly exaggeratedThe reality is women these days are pretty much always dating/never single so although it may not be a 'hook up' culture i'd say the majority of women are having frequent intimacy compared to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 11:03 AM |
| 0 | We do not live in a “hookup” culture and the amount of casual sex going on is grossly exaggeratedDisagree I'd say the majority of women are having regular sex since the time they are old enoough to date for men not so much for women it's eiher relationship, ONS, situationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 11:01 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toThat's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 10:59 AM |
| -5 | Is it wrong to "settle" because you can't get what you really want?But what if you can't get any better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 05:52 AM |
| -14 | Is it wrong to "settle" because you can't get what you really want?reported for sexist post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 05:52 AM |
| 6 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?harsh but true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 05:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?it is what it is, there are worse off in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 05:18 AM |
| 6 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingit's not even close to average, delusional see my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:38 PM |
| 10 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingOp is delusional: the average height for adult males in the United States is approximately 5 feet 9 inches Having an intimate group of friends like that seems to be a rare thing for men these days. In fact, according to a recent American Survey report, men have fewer social ties overall than they used to, with only 27% of men in 2021 saying they had at least six close friends compared to 55% in 1990. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/why_friendships_among_men_are_so_important#:~:text… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Is the online dating phenomenon reflective of real life?get your hormones checked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 07:49 AM |
| -1 | Is the online dating phenomenon reflective of real life?Wrong, they decide in the first few seconds of meeting a man. Its one of the pills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 02:33 AM |
| 34 | Your personality is mostly determined by factors outside your control and changing it fundamentally is EXTREMELY difficult, contrary to what other people might be espousingNot reading all this but I 100% agree do you know that ambition is also genetic as well? People have a hard time accepting most of life is pre determined | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:50 AM |
| 34 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Average men are literally invisible to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Women are just as redpilled as men.another post where the source is tik tok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:48 AM |
| 2 | How come it is almost never considered that a guy can develop feelings for a woman he is friends with and that he just became friends to get into her pants?So you like their personality and you find them sexually attractive how can you not have romatic feelings ? What separates that from romatic feelings? seems like you are coping with being in the friend zone. sorry bud., | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 04:46 AM |
| – | Do people really want marriage or just the photo ops of marriage?Actually pretty interesting thanks for the link, OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 02:31 AM |
| 2 | How come it is almost never considered that a guy can develop feelings for a woman he is friends with and that he just became friends to get into her pants?Because if you are friends with a women you find sexually attractive how can you not have romantic feelings towards them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 02:19 AM |
| 0 | Are women not getting approached anymore?I thought personal advice was sagainst the rules.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:41 PM |
| -5 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 07:42 AM |
| 3 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 06:20 AM |
| – | Is height the most important physical trait women value in men when it comes to being attractive?No face is well above height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 03:05 AM |
| 8 | Are relationship worth it?Agreed, how can you have that with someone who is just a friends with benefits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Are relationship worth it?Honestly, I was going to make this post, it doesn't really seem worth it for an average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Women base most of their “preferences” on trends and what is popular, and are far more influenced by what other women think than even their own instincts - the whole 6 foot thing is a perfect exampleYes women usually have more a heard mentality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What do you suppose influences hypergamy from in a systemic social context?I think it's a consequence of society changing over time. It's not just in dating but other facets of life people act differently now days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 06:41 AM |
| 23 | Why do some people prefer casual sex while others prefer monogamy?Why is this even a discussion? Some people prefer apples Some people prefer oranges That's life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Have tradcons taken over the redpill?Good points | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Have tradcons taken over the redpill?" In general living a hedonistic life of short term sexual gratification isn’t good for you " Why? Would you say it's due to lack of fulfillment ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Have tradcons taken over the redpill?That's subjective, some people enjoy casual relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Someone complaining about their S.O. on social media or in a group chat is a huge red flag.Agree, not sure why this is even a discussion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:12 AM |
| 4 | “I’ll take Anyone at this Point”The problem is some guys don't have many social circles, or are introverted etc so only have dating apps to resort to. I know quite a few guys like this. I know the obvious answer is that they need to improve themselves and become social but for some doing that is actually a fairly challenging task (due to social anxiety, autism spectrum etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 03:54 AM |
| – | Would you care if your gf hung out with guys she’s slept with in the past?hahah lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?this is correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 01:33 AM |
| 17 | “I’ll take Anyone at this Point”Yes, I 've had male friends say the same thing, it's a bit sad but as a guy you go on dating apps and get 0 matches or really low quality matches I can understand why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?Because for the average man these days, getting a girlfriend and even marrying a women a women js a huge power imbalance the women has 1000 options compared to the average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 01:22 AM |
| -1 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityHow can that exist when women are oppressed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 09:25 AM |
| -2 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?B-B-BUT THAT'S SEXIST | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?mind blown | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?What percentage of men would have desirable qualities and not be promiscuous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?Oh my bad, link? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 03:23 AM |
| 5 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?Define good women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?" And yet not all non-virgins are promiscuous " I never said that. Strawman argument again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 02:55 AM |
| 2 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?My one; Women will tell men who complain about being single that they need to "love themselves" first and they need to work on their "confidence" Yet that same women hasn't been single since the age she was able to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 02:43 AM |
| 6 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?It would be logical that a promiscuous person, would sleep with random people i.e. people that don't know well (e.g. hook ups at clubs, dating apps and so on) Your argument is strawman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 02:38 AM |
| 8 | Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculatingWhat's the alternative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 02:31 AM |
| 6 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?Really? So you think a promiscuous person who sleeps with random people is more likely to have self respect, better judgement abilities, less impulsivity and less hedonistic than a virgin? I personally find that mind blowing that you could think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?Of course, but it's logical to think that on average a person who is a virgin is more likely to have these traits than a promiscuous person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 02:17 AM |
| 4 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 02:16 AM |
| 13 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?Women are more turned off by a virgin man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?Yes i see this parroted a lot , men want experience in the bedroom... yet i've never met a man ever in real life who has said that they would have a relationship with a porn star or a women who was highly experienced because she would be "experienced in the bedroom" who are the bots that keep saying this online? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:38 PM |
| 25 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?You did earn it though. It shows that you are - Selective in your partner - Good Judgement - Have self respect - Not impulsive - Not into a hedonistic lifestyle All good traits for a long term partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?Yes, speaking from experience most men find women with lower sexual partner counts and virgins more attractive for long term relationships. Thus, these women will have 'higher value' in the sexual dating marking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:35 PM |
| – | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredYea agree, You can be kind ASWELL as confident. People seem to think you either need to be Kind or an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:33 PM |
| – | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredCompletely disagree. In my experience women are attracted to kind men. Only damaged women are into abusive men. You can be kind, not be an asshole and still act in a way where the women will not get bored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:32 PM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?Strawman argument. I'm speaking about high body count not relationship experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:23 PM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?The worst is when you give women an analogy and say something like "I don't want a high body count women because it's like buying a car with high mileage" and then women respond "YoUu Caan't COMPARe AA Carrrr TO AAA WOMEN!!!" Um no, it's an analogy used to recognise how previous experience may not be a good thing. Why do women always do that though? i don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?Just buy a good sound system for home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?you can make drinks, play music and set up cool lighting at home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 08:00 AM |
| – | Is sleeping around while early dating morally okay behavior?no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?? Why do women go clubbing then? why not dance at home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?It's not about trust, it's about common sense and understanding human behaviour, probabilities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?Disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?Big red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 06:56 AM |
| 0 | What do you think is the cause for this to happen?reported. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?Subconsciously yes. Some men even discuss it also sex with wife is better than prostitute. But man can have sex with prostitute and not feel anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?but why is it disrespectful if you are not exclusive yet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 09:55 AM |
| -1 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?But why does the guy feel insulted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?But if they say "We wern't Exclusive!" is that a valid excuse? in your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 07:48 AM |
| 0 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?But if the women says, well we weren't exclusive! if the man confronts her about it - is it justified? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 07:47 AM |
| -3 | Women in their thirties are way better than many women in their twentiesSo you're a 24 year old male who can't get women his own age so resort to older women with lower SMV and to make yourself feel better you believe older women are better 😂 😂 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:37 AM |
| 10 | Does vulnerability and open communication tend to kill some sexual tension early in the dating process?Don't spill out your emotions on someone you just met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:50 AM |
| 2 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersTLDR? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:45 AM |
| 21 | Does vulnerability and open communication tend to kill some sexual tension early in the dating process?Of course it does, that's common knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe life is generally easier as a single person?A fulfilling relationship > spinning plates/meaningless sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe life is generally easier as a single person?No A fulfilling relationship has made me become a better person and made other areas of my life easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?Because one of them costs money/time/conveniency? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 12:08 AM |
| 3 | I don't know if this is a double standard or not.this and the funny thing is - that same women will still get a relationship and support as per reddit comments. just lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 10:49 PM |
| 3 | I don't know if this is a double standard or not.I'm honestly shocked at the comments reading that thread, honestly shocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 10:40 PM |
| 7 | I don't know if this is a double standard or not.I can't imagine having a relationship or even MARRYING someone who thinks the opposite gender are all evil/bad HUGE RED FLAG. One of the biggest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 10:38 PM |
| 3 | The fact that the rest of Reddit thinks PPD is “toxic” shows how messed up things are rnAgree, it's very strange other parts of reddit and real life people are oblivious to these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 10:27 PM |
| – | Redpill Men are Usually Right, Still LosingThanks brother, I just worked hard on my fitness, finances and priorities and just bagged a traditional beautiful women - it's that easy bro! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?If it wasn't true how come prostitutes exist? lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:46 AM |
| – | Apparently, a lot of women now want to meet someone while "running errands"Do you think social media is a representation of real life? I honestly can't tell you are trolling or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:42 AM |
| – | Apparently, a lot of women now want to meet someone while "running errands"Tik-tok does not represent real life though. Even if the majority of people use the application. That's like saying, Instagram represents real life because the majority of people use it. It's social media. Social media =/= real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:27 AM |
| – | Apparently, a lot of women now want to meet someone while "running errands"I'm glad i don't fall in that percentage and neither of my high value friends. How is 4% the majority? Strong maths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:17 AM |
| – | Apparently, a lot of women now want to meet someone while "running errands"There are people over 25 who get their information from tik-tok? yikes. I'm glad i'm not associated with people like that in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:10 AM |
| 8 | It is okay to quit dating but not okay to quit striving in life.brutal truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:23 AM |
| 9 | It is okay to quit dating but not okay to quit striving in life.didn't read it all, but having sex and relationships studies have shown to be one of the most satisfying human experiences it's hard to excel in other areas in life without this. yes outliers exist before you quote a scientist who died a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:21 AM |
| 0 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?bump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?So if someone has terminal cancer, they should just lay down and rot? If you were diagnosed with terminal cancer would you late down and rot or try and live your best life before you die? Not all problems can be fixed. That's life. Unfortunately society/schooling/education teaches people that you can just got to "work hard and you can achieve anything". Once you realise this life becomes peaceful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:10 AM |
| 6 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Exactly right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?? There are people in life who are literally born with cancer, disabilities, blindness etc. Sometimes bad things just happen my friend. It's not about fighting or giving up , it's about accepting what life is. You value getting laid over helping starving kids? Says it all really. You sound young, maybe when you're bit older you'll understand. "Gratitude is for the weak" yikes.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:56 AM |
| 7 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?nice stoic approach, good comment. I have this mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:28 AM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?No, men like us just need to practice gratitude. I hate when people say "think of the starving kids in africa" but honestly, it's the truth. It could be way worse. At least we have video games, internet porn, escorts, we can live a comfortable life just need to accept it's a life without companionship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:27 AM |
| – | Why do girls make stupid faces in their OLD profiles?because they can, and still get 100+ matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?The real answer is they're not supposed to be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:18 AM |
| – | Yes, women are hypergamous, but not immoral.tldr? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:14 AM |
| 6 | Apparently, a lot of women now want to meet someone while "running errands"It seems every second post on this sub the source is tik tok it's really ruining the sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Debate : The Manosphere is wrong with „Women hate emotional man“ because emotional and vulnerable are 2 things.You are not aware of the manosphere/red pill if you are posting this. They never claim this, in fact they support being a gentleman. They just say don't act weak/pathetic infront of your girl. What a crap post by OP who is making a claim based on not understanding what manosphere says. They never say to act like a robot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Men feel that women will not allow them to have preferences but where do they get this idea?This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Men feel that women will not allow them to have preferences but where do they get this idea?Is this a rage bait post? men get shamed hard for sayuing they want a low body count women lmao op lives under a rock? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Is the problem with modern dating simply due to options and economics?agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Is the problem with modern dating simply due to options and economics?source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 11:54 PM |
| 18 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?Destiny is a cuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADShe just is so much more appreciative of me. Just everything I do she seems really appreciative and thankful. Whereas the previous partner, it seemed like she didn't really have that appreciation as if what i'm doing she's already done with previous men. She even said to me on a date once "Oh i did this with my ex" i've never heard the current girl ever say anything like that to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 02:18 AM |
| -2 | Slutshaming is objectively good (?)So much anecdotal evidence and not a single reference/study cited. Yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDating a girl who has only been with 2 guys before me (if she is lying i'll guestimate it's less than 5). The difference is night and day. She's wonderful. Way much better than the previous partner who as n count 25+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 01:37 AM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Society is now built for women. In the future i think women will be the ones taking out men an dating men and paying for men on dates . HAH | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.Options. Women have options. Men don't , this is why they accept less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever had a realization, or epiphany, about dating that helped put things in perspective?That looks are most important above all else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Debate : Most People in Dating strategy Subreddits use extreme examples to prove points, and this needs to stop.It works the other way as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Debate : Majority off Promiscous Women didn‘t want to be promiscous, they just had a bad gameplan and got played and pump and dumped often.Women chose who they sleep with. What a ridiculous post, to absolve women of bad decision making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 01:35 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADSure outliers exist, i don't deny that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:28 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD? You can not know the exact number but based on the traits above and overall picture you can safely make a rough estimate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:23 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's fairly easy to pick up on. I'm really surprised you've been with that many women but lack the ability to make an estimate. You may just not be an analytical person in general that's ok. I can help you out. Here are some indicators - If she has been on dating apps (e.g. tinder) - likes to party/rave/club/bar seen - her social media (thrist trap photos?) - How many relationships she has had - How long she has been single - Daddy issues - The type of sex she's into e.g. if she's into extreme/r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:18 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYes it's true, all the previous men used and threw her away, but you came a long and thought she was special... you "won" xD If someone picks up a sandwich has a bite throws it away and then the next person does the same and many people do the same then you come along and think its the best sandwich ever, who wins in that situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:10 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAnyone with experience and emotionally intelligence, would be able to have a rough estimate based on the way the women talks about her past. This is another thing i find weird, when men say "you'll never know anyway so why ask?". Maybe they lack intellect to / risk assessment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:03 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADSerious question, I don't get how guys don't care. If i'm dating a girl and she's slept with let's say 60 guys. I just feel like a cuck, like here i am taking her out, wining and dining her, whilst she gave herself away to low quality men in the toilet of a night club? How do men not feel this way? isee men say they don't care? do they lack self respect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:20 AM |
| 37 | How common is it for you to see people cheating?More common than you think in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:18 AM |
| -1 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateIt just how it is. Biology In caveman times when the male died, the women had to move on very quickly or her and her baby would die. Women always have options/guys they can turn to as soon as the relationship ends. There's so many stories i see on reddit and in real life a girl will say "my ex and i broke up after 7 years now i met a guy 1 month later and i am totally in love!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:04 AM |
| -6 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateNo women do not automatically cheat the moment a higher SMV comes into the picture. But one of the biggest red pills is every girl (married/relationship) has a lot of orbiters men they message. It's a hard thing to accept for most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:55 PM |
| -1 | Manchester night life guy issueIf brad pitt was filming this would anyone care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Manchester night life guy issueWhy do so many people quote tik tok on this sub. sigh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Most men live in a Sahara desert that's why they are so thirsty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:52 PM |
| 5 | Any explanations as to why dating seems to be feast or famine?Oh yea, that could be explained by seasonal changes. There are months in the yaer where reported break ups etc are higher than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:40 AM |
| 5 | Any explanations as to why dating seems to be feast or famine?Yes. The honest truth is - it's your looks. During times when i'm super lean, tanned, hair doesn't look like i'm balding, and so on = much easier time with women. When i don't put effort in = i'm a ghost for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Debate : The Bluepill doesn‘t exist anymore since around 5-10 Years.No, a lot of people still believe in 'true' love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:33 AM |
| 5 | Is there a double standard when it comes to women and men being single? Does one have it worse than the other?it just means you are voluntary celibate, not involuntary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 01:44 AM |
| 13 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?99% men aren't incels? Yes studies show 1/3 men don't even get laid. weird take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 07:29 AM |
| 18 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?But that is just a mind set, someone who lives in scarcity doesn't automatically no longer have scarcity just from changing mind set Some poeple do have scarcity no matter what mind set they have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Why is the % of men/women who have ever had a biological child so low and delayed? Is this a reflection of the changing dating market and sexual behaviour of people in USA?This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:03 AM |
| 0 | The RP Theory that a Women can become so undesirable (for whatever reason) where she can‘t find a Man which commits to her is completely wrong.Agreed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 04:50 AM |
| 2 | The RP Theory that a Women can become so undesirable (for whatever reason) where she can‘t find a Man which commits to her is completely wrong.True, but that would be a very small % of the female population that look 20 while in their 30's. compelete outliers imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 03:16 AM |
| 24 | Is there a double standard when it comes to women and men being single? Does one have it worse than the other?Women are never single This is common knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:15 AM |
| 0 | The RP Theory that a Women can become so undesirable (for whatever reason) where she can‘t find a Man which commits to her is completely wrong.But if that was true why do they often date women in their 20's/early 20's? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:14 AM |
| 3 | The RP Theory that a Women can become so undesirable (for whatever reason) where she can‘t find a Man which commits to her is completely wrong.Of course, but would the women be happy with the quality of man that is willing to commit to her? If you go to an all you can eat restaurant but all the food is terrible would you be happy with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:14 AM |
| – | Was cold appraching more successful before social media and online dating became common?Who hurt you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Was cold appraching more successful before social media and online dating became common?Of course, how else did people meet and date women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecuritywho hurt you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:11 AM |
| 7 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecuritySerious question for the females If you started dating a guy you liked and after a while found out he had 3 ex girlfriends and some how managed to find out he bought all his ex girlfriends super expensive gifts and took them to exclusive holidays but hasn't done these things with you and when you brought this up he said he is "changed" and doesn't do that anymore, would your feelings/opinion of him change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 11:23 PM |
| 4 | Women suffer from oneitis at least as much as men in my experienceIn my opinion, male and female oneitis is slightly different. For a male, it is his "true" love. They love that girl idealistically. Will always hold a special place in their heart. Whereas for the female - the oneitis it's more being "alpha widowed" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Why does everyone here generalize from a few social media posts?You are 100% right this is why i stopped coming on this sub someone will post something then their source is fricken tiktok WTF? It's just proof a large portion of people on here have never actually experienced things and just make assumptions based on a podcast or tik tok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:26 AM |
| 1 | How can one break away from this view of the world when it's been their exact reality?Yet i gurantee you are not single for long lmfao | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/23 06:32 AM |
| -2 | How can one break away from this view of the world when it's been their exact reality?coz its true. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/23 06:31 AM |
| – | Does my dating story mean other guys can have hope?So you became a beta provider? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:10 AM |
| 2 | 'Provider, Protecter, Leader' is outdated.Agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:33 AM |
| 0 | 'Provider, Protecter, Leader' is outdated.source? They have power, strength and leadership in the relationship status over the women. Maybe not so in society standings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:45 AM |
| 3 | 'Provider, Protecter, Leader' is outdated.I don't think i can provide the links because they get auto removed. In the meantime could you please provide references/studies that show women are not attracted to men who have the ability to provide, protect and lead? which coincides with masculinity. Or maybe even a source about your quote ; " . Norway is one of the countries with the most equality in the world between the sexes. It is also one of the safest countries. You will find few women wanting to be lead there. Most women never wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:24 AM |
| 3 | 'Provider, Protecter, Leader' is outdated.Yea sure, 1. Women tend to be attracted to the Dark Triad—narcissism, manipulativeness, & psychopathy Carter GL, Campbell AC, Muncer S. 2014. The Dark Triad personality: Attractiveness to women. Personality and Individual Differences. 56: 57-61 2. On PornHub, women consume most of the porn where women are violently raped and abused Rahman S. 2017. Why Are So Many Women Searching for Ultra-Violent Porn? Vice. 3. Male gang members have dramatically more female sexual partners Palmer CT, Tilley CF.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:09 AM |
| -2 | 'Provider, Protecter, Leader' is outdated.Source? Every study says otherwise i.e. women are attracted to power, strength, leadership status etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:03 AM |
| – | 'Provider, Protecter, Leader' is outdated.I'm sure you'll be just as attracted to a man who is incredibly weak and will squeal like a kid at any sign of danger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:03 AM |
| 4 | Nice guys/gals don’t finish last people with unhealthy dating patterns do.Correct psychologically, people with childhood trauma/abusive households seek our familiarity in future partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Nice guys/gals don’t finish last people with unhealthy dating patterns do.yea obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:00 AM |
| 0 | 'Provider, Protecter, Leader' is outdated.This doesn't make sense to me. Studies show that women are attracted to power, dominance, masculinity which coincides with leaders, providers and protectors. Do you really think men acting the opposite will be more attractive to women? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone tried dating homeless drug addicted women?Yes I am ugly and short the only women I can get interested in me are morbidly obese, drug addicted women or women with severe mental issues. I've tried it but it wasn't very good due to the drugs affecting their mental state but as people comment on here i take their advice i need to lower my standards and get my match so i cant complain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:55 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesThis is correct essentially but often women realise too late | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Are assumptions around women based on lack of exposure?It's funny you say this, I've been with women who had very high body counts and you are totally right, just because someone has more 'bodies' doesn't necessarily make them better in bed. It seems a weird assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:56 AM |
| 10 | Are assumptions around women based on lack of exposure?Yea it's true I think the problem is due to social media, internet, tik tok, those types of women get the most exposure and also usually end up dating apps (because men in real life/social circle avoid them). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:54 AM |
| – | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesthese gaslighting comments are so bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 06:06 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesgreat post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 04:36 AM |
| 1 | what wall?! women aren't the one losing their hair and turning bald ?!I feel like people and a lot of people in the comments section aren't really experienced and don't really understand "the wall" . They reference the fact that women of all age, size, and at ill have a tonne of matches on dating apps. This is true. In this day and age a grandma with boobs has a higher SMV than an average male. That grandma can get matches on tinder and men wanting to have sex wih her. The problem is people view this through a man's point of view. The majority of women actually wa… | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 01:47 AM |
| 4 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?Of course they do, too many factors involved. I'm surprised people saying it makes things hard. I have very small social cirlce, ,few friends and have done fine with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 12:49 AM |
| 12 | Why is there so much resistance against the blackpill?lol cope. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | If having casual sex is 'empowering' for women why do they need to 'heal'?source? | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 03:17 AM |
| 5 | Heightpill is the strongest pill.Being short honestly sucks, just one of those things in life. (i'm short as well) | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 02:00 AM |
| 15 | i hate how people pretend there's some "disconnect" between men and womenTrue Then you have women complaining about men, dating etc, because they go after the top 10% | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 01:59 AM |
| 3 | What tactical soap is this guy using?again personal insults. I think this debate is over. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 03:15 AM |
| 3 | What tactical soap is this guy using?Isn't that better than nothing? | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 02:19 AM |
| 5 | If having casual sex is 'empowering' for women why do they need to 'heal'?I just wrote a long response but for some reason it didn't work. Why do so many women regret having a "hoe phase" and so many women complain they can't find a man even though they have a plethora of options (on dating apps) and can sleep with a Chad at any time? Men and women are biologically different when it comes to sex. This is fact. Having sex with an attractive man is in itself not a traumatic experience but that is just a small part of the picture. Do you honestly believe women are happy … | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 02:18 AM |
| 2 | What tactical soap is this guy using?? what a great response i liked the part where you used critical thinking and explained how I'm wrong without resorting to personal insults and sarcasm. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:51 AM |
| 0 | What tactical soap is this guy using?and those same guys get 10 matches.. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:50 AM |
| 3 | If having casual sex is 'empowering' for women why do they need to 'heal'?indeed. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:50 AM |
| 3 | What tactical soap is this guy using?Cope, you are trying to dismiss the video because it's "edited" Show me an alternative then? short ugly men with interpersonal skills doing well? | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:49 AM |
| 7 | If having casual sex is 'empowering' for women why do they need to 'heal'?Women with a higher number of premarital partners report lower marital satisfaction, lower marital stability, lower marital happiness and not to mention, have higher rates of divorce than women with a low number of premarital partners. The surprisingly large number of Americans reporting one lifetime sex partner have the happiest marriages. The difference between having one and more than one lifetime sex partner is most consequential in predicting marital quality. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does… | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:30 AM |
| 8 | What tactical soap is this guy using?Giga cope, those same women have 100+ matches on tinder. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | What tactical soap is this guy using?giga cope. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:26 AM |
| 2 | What tactical soap is this guy using?You do realise self improvement is capped by genetics? | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:26 AM |
| 3 | What tactical soap is this guy using?Who is to say i do not have interpersonal skills? How does improving interpersonal skills resuilt in relationships and sexual relations for a short ugly male? any sources on this? | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:25 AM |
| 3 | If having casual sex is 'empowering' for women why do they need to 'heal'?Tingles / butterflys = emotions | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:24 AM |
| -2 | If having casual sex is 'empowering' for women why do they need to 'heal'?? Of course, sex reduces stress and makes you happier.But do you understand female biology from an evolutionary perspective? Women are designed to be attached to the man they sleep with. What happens to women who get ran through? Over time their ability to pair bond and get attached to one guy diminishes. Moreover, the trauma of going through different men adds up. Women may act like they enjoy sex with Chad (because they usually do in the moment) but over time it leaves long lasting negative af… | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 01:23 AM |
| 4 | What tactical soap is this guy using?thanks bro going to add this to my self improvement list | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 12:34 AM |
| 13 | What tactical soap is this guy using?just walk around smiling and having a good time works every time bro | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 12:33 AM |
| 9 | Might just escortmaxx next monthyea do it yolo etc. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Would you off yourself if you was 27 yo 6'5 avg face virgin with mental issues so called mentalcel?So what;s holding you back? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 11:57 PM |
| 3 | If having casual sex is 'empowering' for women why do they need to 'heal'?Women and men are different Women need emotional connection for sex. Women who say they don't are usaully already too far gone and slept with so many men they start looking at sex like a man and can have sex with no emotional connection (like a man can when he sees a sex worker) Women having casual sex is damaging period. Studies support this. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 11:51 PM |
| 3 | I've given upSorry to hear this bro, it's just the world we live in, 50 years ago you could just get a job and a wife easily i relaly dont know what to say, best bet is to just try and work and save money and pound some escorts when you want. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Do you find it crazy how the majority of qualities women find attractive you are either born with or not?Yes they can - lose weight - make up - hips/but - go to the gym - boobs - boob jobs are cheap How does a man easily fix his height, penis size, jawline, IQ level (to get a higher paying job) and so on? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 11:45 PM |
| 6 | Do you find it crazy how the majority of qualities women find attractive you are either born with or not?This a pig women on tinder has 1,000 matches what have you say now? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Do you find it crazy how the majority of qualities women find attractive you are either born with or not?But women can easily control those features? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 09:59 PM |
| 9 | Do you find it crazy how the majority of qualities women find attractive you are either born with or not?Very true. I honestly believe the majority of men would be happy with a women who isn't overweight and at least average-looking. God, the value of an average women who is not overweight is gigantically larger than the male equivalent. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you find it crazy how the majority of qualities women find attractive you are either born with or not?Yea true, it does make sense when you think about it logically from nature's poitn of view. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 09:40 AM |
| 10 | Do you find it crazy how the majority of qualities women find attractive you are either born with or not?Please explain how this "assumption" is inaccurate. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 09:39 AM |
| 24 | Dating as a minority under 6ft in Australia is brutalDating is a horror place for men who aren't a Chad Women in Australia have a plethora of options and access to a tonne of tall white males / chads who are often high income earners or tradesmen/ all tall jacked. it's honeslty crazy if you were to go on tinder for example and look at a girls instagram (who put it in their bio) look at their followers/likes and you'll notice chads ... and then go on another girl from tinder look at her gram youll see the SAME CHADS. Literally 1-5% of chads are sla… | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 05:42 AM |
| 0 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?Source: 2020 outdated source is outdated. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/10/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?? What does this mean? From the moment my sex hormones developed I desired sex/relationships. How do I go back to that time? Castrate myself? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 08:39 AM |
| 3 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?List the things that are more satisfying than experiencing a satisfying relationship with someone you love? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 08:38 AM |
| 1 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?yea i wish i was one of those dumb, happy go lucky guys | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 08:37 AM |
| 2 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?How to not be depressed about lack of sex/intimacy/relationships because of pre determined factors outside of your control that cannot be changed? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 05:12 AM |
| 2 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?i hate this advice, i've done that, it's really not that great. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 05:09 AM |
| 7 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?How is it a 'fucking joke' when that is literally what we are biologically designed to do? pro create. Science, do you know it? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 02:31 AM |
| 7 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?And you don't think that experience significantly outweighs jacking off and having friends? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 01:54 AM |
| 7 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?Have you ever had sex? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 01:52 AM |
| 10 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?But wanting sex/relationships is a basic need/biological desire ? how do you just ignore that desire? unless you have no sexual hormones | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 01:44 AM |
| 10 | How can you not be depressed about life after being black pilled?I don't really understand you, Relationships and sex are a basic human need and biologically driven desire. How does being denied that not make you depressed? Studies have shown that relationships sex and intimacy generate some of the greatest/satisfying human emotions. I undertand the black pill perfectly, it doesn't make it any less depressing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 01:43 AM |
| 13 | The absolute state of dating women in 2023: Man thinks first date went well, until he finds her TikTok.fucking brutal I swear this has happened to every single man even me Go out with a girl spend hours talking to her think her talking to you for that long = good but in reality it means nothing Women either want to fuck you or not within seconds of meeting you and determinign your genetic mating potential | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 01:27 AM |
| 1 | There's no reason to participate in society as a manthis | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 01:24 AM |
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