| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 6292 | Message to Male Lurkers | MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS | Sherbert-Trick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:51 PM |
| 740 | One time a man I was dating sent me this “joke” so I blocked him. Did I save my own life? Potentially. | MALE DEPRAVITY | Sherbert-Trick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:13 AM |
| 172 | Avoid marrying a LVM: scientific proof that your career depends on it | STRATEGY | Sherbert-Trick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:24 AM |
| 136 | Just another reason to stay away from casual sex and men in general: Headjobs Might Be Giving You Cancer - Vice | SEX STRATEGY | Sherbert-Trick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 109 | Absolute pickme GARBAGE on The Guardian today | GLOBAL RESISTANCE | Sherbert-Trick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 02:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 164 | Why are relationship-seeking attractive men on OLD single? What’s the catch?That’s exactly it, they only look good on paper. They have used old photos that are 5 years and 50 lbs ago, pumped up their job titles to sound more important, live in their mother’s basements, are porn addicts, actually have girlfriends, are low effort, are just looking for hookups, are narcissists. They lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 11:55 AM |
| 3 | 🤡 Etiquette (“it was a joke” 🤢🤢)My finger hovered for a block button instinctually 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:50 AM |
| 6 | Queens with healthy, successful relationships: where/how did you encounter your HVM?We met at a BBQ hosted by mutual friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:17 PM |
| 272 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.I like how he thinks calling you beautiful will make you reconsider your own boundary/want/need/goal as though you don’t hear that 5 times a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Saw this screenshot on facebook with the caption "When will women understand" and then, a lot of LVM tagging their gfs. Worst part? The girl in this post is a professional voice actor, really pretty, really positive and talented person in other ways :(Sorry, not while we still make 71 cents to their dollar. They can pay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:25 PM |
| 55 | How to handle mutual acquaintances asking about LVM in school/professional environment?I think you’re way overthinking this. You respond with “Who? Oh, I don’t know, we haven’t talked in a while.” You’re not his secretary, his mom or his wife so you’re not expected to keep tabs on him or anything. And how do you make it clear that you are not associated with someone and don’t condone their behavior? Quit associating with them (which you have done). That’s enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 295 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?I’m going to get downvoted to hell, but most men are on OLD for a reason. That reason being that they can’t get any dates in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 15 | Man with Cannibalism Fetish is also a Sex Offender. I mean WHAT were the ODDS?!😱Shocker! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 15 | I dated an “Alpha” Red Pill Man so YOU DONT HAVE TO!He rides a bicycle to the bar. No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:21 PM |
| 38 | Woman posts about fiancé who refuses her request for help carrying something while she’s on crutches. He admits that he doesn’t feel empathy, and many comments telling her she needs to help him. Also, my reply triggers angry scrotes.I can’t. Some people are beyond help 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 04:46 PM |
| 110 | Woman posts about fiancé who refuses her request for help carrying something while she’s on crutches. He admits that he doesn’t feel empathy, and many comments telling her she needs to help him. Also, my reply triggers angry scrotes.The commenter who said “I dated a sociopath for 2 years” as though it shouldn’t be a dealbreaker 🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 113 | Oh.....oh no.......What a kind and empathetic man./s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:50 PM |
| 23 | 💯😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 01:59 AM |
| 43 | Yo??Never take a guy’s number. He has to take yours and make the first move with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 03:37 PM |
| 59 | I doubt it shocks anyone here that Evan Rachel Wood is calling out Marilyn Manson for abuse. He has been such a crucial normalizer of sexual depravity. Out your abusers. Let’s help end this libfem sexpos mindset.Is anyone surprised that he’s an abuser? Ladies, DO judge a book by it’s cover. It may save your life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 12:37 AM |
| 166 | As of today, February 1, 2021, I am DONE being a pick-me doormat!I’m so happy for you!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ You blocked him, right? We’re here for you on this journey! ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:47 PM |
| 9 | I want to do things to you that you will hate but I want you to stay sweet and submissive. In return I give nothing and like to game, while expecting you to bow down to my every need!AND HE WORKS RETAIL 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:19 PM |
| 21 | I could not believe what I was reading.🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:39 PM |
| 592 | Women exist only for male pleasure...🤢🤢Imagine walking around all day believing that you deserve for everything you see to be a “turn on.” If nothing else, they certainly have the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Needing AdviceIt’s a no from me, dog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 02:59 AM |
| 37 | Negging because your pretty 💀The last guy I dated said, “You’re so hot that I can’t believe you’d even go out to lunch with me.” Ok sir??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 12:35 PM |
| 54 | Cellar-Dweller-Turned-Spouse would rather play video games than have sex w/ his own wife. When confronted, Hubby essentially blames Wife for being too ugly. Wife all but has a mental breakdown over this; sadly, Hubs is now too busy playing on Tinder (+ other dating apps) to offer much comfort.I hope she comes to join us ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 01:42 PM |
| 23 | What Should a HVW Say When a Man Asks Her to Pay Half on a Date?Yup. We’re just not compatible. No amount of explaining will change that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 326 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬What in the pickme hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:58 PM |
| 22 | Baffling LVM experience I just needed to shareYou blocked him, yes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:14 PM |
| 14 | Baffling LVM experience I just needed to shareSame. Video games are a dealbreaker for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:14 PM |
| 52 | Love makes you look weak to men.I have to admit that it took me about 40 years to figure this out, but it’s true. Once I started ignoring “love” and demanding respect, my marriage changed 100% for the better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:11 PM |
| 162 | In other news, at least 64% of women are delusional pickmes.I mean, they do. But are they good relationships? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:50 PM |
| 14 | There’s literally scientific evidence behind why men are more disgusting than womenOh my god. Just...how. How are people so cruel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:41 PM |
| 28 | There’s literally scientific evidence behind why men are more disgusting than womenExactly. Imo it has everything to do with our ability to put ourselves in the place of the person we are caring for, no matter how “gross” the care is. I’m a mom of two kids and would never let them be in a dirty diaper for one second longer than necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:28 PM |
| 87 | There’s literally scientific evidence behind why men are more disgusting than womenI just don’t think that women find these things any more disgusting inherently, or else we wouldn’t do the majority of this kind of work. We are just socialized to not be as lazy as men and more empathetic (thinking more about the well-being of the kid sitting in their soiled diaper rather than how gross it is for us to clean it, for example). I am automatically leery of any “BC BiOlOgY” argument | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:04 PM |
| 124 | There’s literally scientific evidence behind why men are more disgusting than womenIf women have a lower threshold for the disgusting, why are we the only ones who can manage to change a dirty diaper without complaining and dry heaving? Why are we the ones that bleed for a week every month? Why are we the ones more likely to stay and care for our sick husbands and wipe their asses when husbands are more likely to bolt? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:55 PM |
| 39 | I feel so bad for her... his penis is more important than her boundaries.I am tired just from reading this. How are you supposed to achieve anything in life when you are constantly being hounded to provide someone an orgasm? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:13 PM |
| 104 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.Girl I read every word of this post thinking YES! YES! YES! He just couldn’t handle your success and felt the need to knock you down. You handled the situation beautifully. I am so proud of you and happy for you and your new home. Enjoy your scrote-free life. Never again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 31 | Always check who they follow on social mediaAnd you can’t change them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:42 PM |
| 17 | “My boyfriend thought we’d been engaged for two months. I had no idea.”LOLLLLLLLL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 297 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.It’s the satin pants for meeeeeee 💅🏻 bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 9 | What are your dealbreakers?I drove a sports car that was a stick for forever. If he can’t handle one too, I don’t want him. I’m not about to have the biggest stones in the relationship. I have an automatic SUV now bc I have two kids 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 21 | What are your dealbreakers?Mine were: has children, is bald or balding, has less than a master’s degree, is separated or recently divorced, is a renter, doesn’t know how to drive a stick shift and make repairs around the house, is less than 6’, has bad teeth, doesn’t have a career or a decent income, keeps ex-girlfriends close, has paid for sex, abuses drugs or alcohol, has poor grammar, can’t hold an intelligent conversation, uses social media a lot, doesn’t do things like make dentist appointments and renew his car regi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:32 AM |
| 240 | No thank you🙂I hear you, but I have a six-figure income and still came across those who “never want to get married.” They will avoid the commitment as long as they think they can still benefit from your money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:48 PM |
| 55 | Forever gf offers to move in, pay half his bills and do all the chores. Instead of thanking his lucky stars, this scrote throws a mantrum, trying to force her into a ‘real job’, because he wants to make her life even more miserable and is jealous of her succes.Wat did I just read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:37 PM |
| 527 | No thank you🙂Why even get married tho? It’s just a piece of paper bae! We don’t need to involve the government in our love! The fact that I’ve been with you for 10 years should be proof enough! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:37 PM |
| 94 | Not funny in any way, shape or form.Were they ever? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:59 PM |
| 474 | Not funny in any way, shape or form.You get him to stop by divorcing him. When your kid someday asks why you divorced dad, you tell him or her that daddy used to pretend to push you down every set of stairs you encountered. And also...why do women come to message boards to get advice on how to make men stop doing things? You told him to stop and he didn’t, no one else is going to have a magic spell for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:49 PM |
| 7 | I just realizedThis right here! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 26 | So this woman I follow blurs her mans face. I thought they were married... turns out they aren’t so now that changes my perception of why she feels the need to do this. She says she does this because “people are weird”. What are your thoughts?I didn’t post my husband anywhere until we were engaged. To me, that’s a “wife” benefit because it puts a claim on me in the eyes of other men. Maybe she is doing the same but she doesn’t seem that savvy tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:50 AM |
| 20 | Reconsidering marriage and kids?Having kids can change your body, but does not ruin it. Quite the opposite, having kids gave me a new respect for my body and women in general. I also look basically the same. It’s true that you definitely don’t want to be tied to a NVM or LVM by having his kids and being forced to coparent with him, and that sometimes you don’t know until it’s too late. But honestly, if my husband decided that having his kids rendered me unattractive, I’d happily take my kids and go. There is no comparison. I’l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:21 PM |
| 27 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴Where was this man’s dad and why didn’t he show him how to pee into a toilet correctly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 32 | Reason #4819193 not to date men who watch pornWhere are these men, though? Church? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:52 PM |
| 57 | This touched my soul. I'm hoping you ladies love it, too: "Ask Polly: Why Don’t the Men I Date Ever Truly Love Me?"I remember when my last boyfriend told me he wasn’t in love with me, I googled and found this article. Apparently I’m not the only one...why are men. Luckily I did the right thing and moved on ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:42 PM |
| 21 | Using the Principles of War in DatingThis needs to be in the handbook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 12:10 PM |
| 29 | This man got a whole wife and family to support him, yet he wants to "clear up" things w/ his ex so that he can die in peace. They absolutely know that they are guilty of the way they treat you....don't let them feel the other way.His story was probably fake and he was using Reddit members to stalk her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:22 PM |
| 47 | Anyone else at a point where you just can't trust what they sayIt usually is, especially before sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:15 PM |
| 133 | This is exactly what we need to be doing.I’m a pretty serious ball-buster but I aspire to give this few fcks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:14 AM |
| 7 | Self-inflicted emotional injuryShit. I’m sorry you’re suffering. I’ve made this mistake before, you’re not alone. The good news is that it will galvanize you to finally get the loser out of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:16 PM |
| 23 | This sub never fails to get my blood boiling. NVM father let’s his child wear a dirty diaper for 9 hours because he’s too busy playing video games.What a stunning example of a Pickme mom 🤡 (his mother) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Make sure to nurture your man during YOUR pregnancy so he doesn't cheat, but if he does anyways, it's pretty normal and totally forgivable!What an absolute load of garbage. It’s up to the expectant mother to get the father involved in the baby planning and make sure he feels important so that he doesn’t cheat IN ADDITION TO GROWING AN ENTIRE HUMAN, doing the majority of the household chores and child rearing of older children, and working full time so she maintains that 50/50! Society truly does not expect men to take responsibility for ANYTHING. How about you just honor the promise and commitment you made to be faithful? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:44 PM |
| 62 | I told him (40yo man) about the time someone I previously dated organized to have various bottles of wine sent to me for our video date “cause he wasn’t sure which type I liked”. His response to that was attempting to schedule a FaceTime date with MY groceries 🤡Oh we are having a laugh indeed, sir 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 18 | As soon as I hear he watches porn, I'm no longer interested nor attracted.Girl, same here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:47 PM |
| 5 | As soon as I hear he watches porn, I'm no longer interested nor attracted.Are you me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:38 PM |
| 6 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...He appears to hate kids too- they are always screaming/crying in his “illustrations” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:37 PM |
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