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Yes course.... everything that happened before the "commitment" doesn't matter. Because a nebulous "commitment" has been stated. Now every action is real and has consequences while every action before was apparently fantasy, not real, and has no impact on anything. Yes what brilliant critical thinking. Oh wait its actually just self serving shit to justify every action you've ever had in your life. I will help you out, I have done some fucked up shit sexually. And I absolutely would not tell som…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:41 AM
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Oh you are bi. Probably 90% chance you have a cuck fetish like most bi men, so that explains your attitudes. You want to worship big dick with your wife? You can both be under it together
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:37 AM
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What about filming porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:36 AM
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How/why would I control whether my daughter was friends with a prostitute? Do you weirdos just stop being parents after the kid turns 18. No mentoring? No direction? Honestly what the fuck is wrong with yall, its like I'm talking to progressive robots instead of humans. Whats your next robotic reddit npc line you have prepared to spit out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:35 AM
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Racist? How is that racist? You haven't fucked a huge black football player, so that wouldn't be something you have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:34 AM
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Many sex workers are incredibly intelligent Not in my experience. Most cis female sex workers are dumb as bricks. Different story when it comes to trans. I'll leave you to figure out why (hint: Options). If they were intelligent they wouldn't be selling sex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:30 AM
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Why would I judge someone for something I myself have no problem with? So you would judge her for things you do have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:26 AM
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Cheating doesn't hurt anyone. Its just sex. Its not a big deal. Unless you are some religious purity person. People insecure about cheating are not different than people insecure about N-count or other "sex" things. Its about loss of possession.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:24 AM
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Depends on who she slept with and what they did. Would you be comfortable knowing your wife slept with some giant black football player in college? Most guys wouldnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:23 AM
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Is it white French that do this? Or the "other" types of "French"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:21 AM
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Nobody really knows how they will change after the responsibility of a child. Even women. Wong. There were signs that they would be bad fathers, but those women ingored them, because their pussies tingled for those men for reasons that had nothing to do with fatherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:15 AM
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But boys playing CoD are not getting turned on... where as you are getting turned on by this fantasy.... and then claiming you don't want it. Doesn't compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:13 AM
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I give a shit what my parents think of me. I'd guess you two are the outliers in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:10 AM
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It's weird to be bothered by that. No, it completely depends on the context of the sexual past. In some cases its absolutely correct to be bothered by it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:10 AM
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In the past, yes. Nowadays women go to sex parties and have 3somes. Even the ones who look innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:09 AM
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Ooooohhh so when it comes to cheating, context matters. But when it comes to N-count, there is no context, there is no number where a man stops being "pathetic" and "insecure", those insults you love to throw around, disguised as commentary
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:07 AM
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Is someone insecure for not wanting/rejecting a former cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:57 AM
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Oh k, what about a woman who has cheated in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:52 AM
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More performative bs from you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:40 AM
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Hes not a hypocrite because porn is addicting. Thats like saying a drug addict is a hypocrite for disliking drug dealers who get him hooked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:31 AM
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She knows who she is. She plays a character on this sub. Its silly and immature, but in her mind shes the "mature" one by lying, obfuscating and playing narrative games to frame herself as some natural wonderkin
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:21 AM
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Ya a better question is if you would consider a guy "insecure" for not wanting to date a woman who had a 3some with two men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:19 AM
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Would you let your daughter be friends with a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:57 AM
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So you are a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:55 AM
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very specific period of French history i'm fixated on Hint: they don't. Sex workers are EXTREMELY shallow people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:51 AM
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Thats insane that you would be friends with them and then shun guys who use sex workers. I know you don't care about moral or logical consistency though, just whatever feels good right? Why do you even have sex worker friends. Would you be ok if your mom became a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:48 AM
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Its not a huge deal, you just pay if you want those novel experiences. Women already treat bars and clubs like brothels
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:47 AM
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It was mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:44 AM
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Just seems like youre more gleefully insulting towards those you feel are secretly homosexual. Shouldn't you be more repulsed by the straight ones, afterall they have no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:29 AM
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A man being socially awkward or bad at "game" most of the time does not come from a place of desperation. You are just projecting negative qualities onto guys who may struggle. With modern porn, very few men are actually "desperate", everyones getting a good nut these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:26 AM
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I didn't say social awkward. I said guys who aren't funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:24 AM
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unfortunate it is for them that I'm fucking her and they're not. They already did fuck her. Just no longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:22 AM
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I will get married to a woman where I know her past. You can keep your blissful ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:20 AM
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What about the ones that have "misogynistic tendencies and attitudes" not born from internalized homophobia? Are we really going to act like that type of man doesn’t exist? I don't know any men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:19 AM
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Oh? Does bisexuality repulse you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:17 PM
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Most men aren't desperate for a date. Regardless of how successful they are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:16 PM
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That still doesn't change that she chose you or that you chose her. Being chosen doesn't mean she sexually desired you more than other men but I bet thats what you tell yourself when you are fucking Other men arouse and AROUSED her MORE than you. She chose you for a mix of reasons, not because you aroused her the most. Also what kind of sluts are you dating that you "always had sex on the first date" how ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:04 PM
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You can't trust your wife. She could have easily had extreme sexual experiences in the past that she doesn't feel comfortable sharing with you because she knows it would harm your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:03 PM
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Lots of women like public sex. And spontaneous sex. And then when they get a with a beta man they stop doing it because it doesn't feel as sexy to her with HIM as it did with spontaneous sexually charismatic chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:02 PM
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You are making mens points for them, men SHOULD BE resentful for being a beta guy. It sounds like a situation that any guy with self respect should feel resentment towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:01 PM
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How is a guy cheating on her a year into the relationship damaging? I know you are not a good faith debater on here but your second point, yes your suppose to fucking know if your SO could get addicted to drugs. I don't know anyone who "randomly" got addicted to drugs, all the druggy people I know are obviously druggy people. You really think drug addiction is some hollywood movie where the great family ma stumbles into an opiod addiction from hurting his knee or some shit. Puuuuulease.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:53 PM
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no one wants you, you r probably ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:51 PM
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If you are just going to reference market value than whats the point of discussion. I assume you would also agree then that everyone gets what they deserve based on market outcomes then yes? Abusers, cheaters, losers, they all just didn't have high enough market value to get a better partner. Ill keep that thought the next time I hear some sob story from a woman about being abused. That was just her marketvalue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:49 PM
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If someone fucks with me they are getting fucked with back. Also fuck your racist bs, its making me fatigued
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:44 PM
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If you vet men for how they treat you then you won't be treated poorly. If you vet men by how exciting they are and good they fuck you, then take your dice role and stfu. You decided to role the dice, don't make it some other mans problem
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:33 PM
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You should get him fired. Fk people making other people uncomfortable just because they are unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:16 PM
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But women blame the men who abuse weak and vulnerable women, and never point the finger at the women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:15 PM
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lol no. In the context of sex and relationships, Youre literally framing it as girls have to be a sex toy and used by men like its some kind of right of passage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:14 PM
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People can appreciate each other while acknowledging their flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:59 PM
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Ya we don't want women that were used and abused by other men like toys. We want strong women with self awareness and self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:56 PM
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You let him damage you and now you want me to deal with your damaged self. When we could have met before he damaged you and grown together in free spirit and exploration.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:54 PM
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Exactly, once they have men in front of them they have to make a choice or be alone. But social media disrupts this more and more every day. They can ignore all the men at the party if they want and hope a different guy messages them on instagram the next day from some mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:52 PM
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You think of these groups as all the same don't you? So you want men who aren't witty to prey on autistic women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:51 PM
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Its not bleak, its fine. Looksmatch should be with looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:51 PM
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cause typically even other ugly people don’t want to date other ugly people. They wil date fellow ugly people if they want to date, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:22 AM
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What point did you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:21 AM
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The amount of charisma and hollywoodesque social skills they expect out of a man. One I hear a lot is "I just want a man who can make me laugh". So should all the guys that don't have a good sense of entertainment humor just cut their balls off? Many many men are not funny and would not be able to make a girl laugh easily on the first date. They should all be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:21 AM
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Not true. Plenty of good looking people who lack charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:19 AM
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It is logically incoherent to argue that liking someone's personality is shallow No, there are shallow aspects to personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:19 AM
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Oh you are different from the other girls, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:41 PM
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don't give a flying fuck about "bloodlines" Its not grown up to avoid having children. Its juvenile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:40 PM
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Ya I guess that explains your man-hating personality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:03 AM
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I am the last one of my bloodline Thats sad. Someone in your family fuckedup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:56 AM
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No one respects gay men. They see them as jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:47 AM
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There always men who want to fuck you and desperates looking for mate, not the men you want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:38 AM
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Women do not fantasize about billionaries, they fantasize about big dick studs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:24 PM
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Very true. They also bully each other into being high n-count and having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:22 PM
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Because it is. Its also funny when they start making porn to fund their "lifestyle". People in poly relations, who go to sex clubs, who have group sex, are sexually damaged people chasing highs like drug addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:15 PM
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I will instruct my kids how to be attractive and get what they want from the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:54 PM
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Sure it is, I will definitely be involved in my kids lives and try to influence how they see sex and relationships and the opposite gender. If you don't then you are letting the internet raise your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:41 PM
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Its reading between the lines. You been read. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:39 PM
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Don't worry, I am sure eventually you will be able to explore your black fetish with the right person. Maybe you can post videos like so many of your type of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:37 PM
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This is just a round about way of asking about race. Thats what people want to know. No one cares that you like a skinny guy and want to try a muscular guy. Or a red head and a swarthy guy. People are freaked out that modern western women can sample races of men like an ice cream shop and compare and contrast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:35 PM
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For me, I just don't care about a woman like that and don't actually want anything from them until I know we are sexually compatible and she desires sex from me. And for those things to be known we have to have sex. Women take from men, they don't really give anything back to a man until after the sex part and after the relationship part. Even then you apparently have to hold "masculine frame" or they get "the ick". I was shocked when I read women getting the ick from men AFTER they established …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:26 PM
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For consistent sex. Something you also don't care about because you have a women's libido. A few good romps per year is enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:22 PM
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I don't earnestly desire a man until he's expressed desire for me first. Right you are a passive player. You only care about men who want to fuck you and make it known. Women are passive and wait for men to insert themselves into their lives. Then they complain about the types of men they have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:20 PM
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But getting men hasn't ever been a problem? Getting men for sex is rarely a problem for any woman. The reality is that you are alone. You wake up alone. You have no one to share the intimate moments with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:07 AM
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Being alone is only preferable if you can't find someone you want and have given up on ever having a real motional bond with another human. You are forced to be alone, you didn't choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:04 AM
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The men you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:03 AM
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because we aren't interested Because you can't get the men you want anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:09 AM
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Shes going to be heartbroken that she has no choice in men at 40. The men she really wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:07 AM
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Using only fans is being a whore. Worse than a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:59 AM
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The purity culture is dying with some caveats Its dead. Being a slut is celebrated by women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:02 AM
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Its obvious once you are around enough trans people, im sure you know this :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:52 AM
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Chastity and purity is really only enforced on women Its absolutely not enforced on western women. Thats why white girls make 90% of the porn in the world. Chastity and purity??? LMAO give me a break. The second they get to college they act as slutty as they want, most of them do this in high school unless they come from decent families. Then the ones from decent families just wait until college to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:51 AM
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Not click, get wet for him you mean. Want his cock you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:47 AM
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Haha you probably the type to think a black man calling you a bitch is a term endearment because "culture". You realize blacks say the female shit for the exact same reasons "incels" do. Because black people like to boil people down and dont like intellectualize stuff, it absolutely caries a misogynistic connotation, especially because black culture itself is more misgynistic than "main stream" culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:45 AM
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I have no prejudice against real trans people, tru trans people. The real deal I have sympathy for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:42 AM
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Yes you are only attracted to the guys with balls to come up and try to flirt with you. Everyone else is an NPC. You drift through life ignoring all the men unless they INSERT themselves into your life. You are passive. Waiting for a man to decide your fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:39 AM
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To women. Average is ugly. I say this as an above average looking guy. All it does is get me matches on OLD. I am shocked by all the women that match me. Like fat girls, super ugly girls. They all match every hot guy they come across on those things, they have zero self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:37 AM
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You referred to them as trash, not me. I already described who they want to give their pussy to, "fun" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:35 AM
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Because I know trans people, I know to never take trans people seriously about trans shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:33 AM
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I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:33 AM
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You will find the younger demographic fucking around and falling in love with broke dudes who will use them and abuse them, but that will never be anything other than a mistake in her mind. Oh so those women are trash, but you expect me to want them when they turn 30 and "learn their lesson"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:16 AM
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Ughly blue haired, fat, piercing women. Not high quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:15 AM
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Because I'm a trans woman. Ahhhh there it is. Hunny you are not educated in this stuff, you live in a bubble. Go deal with your AGP and stop roping others into all this. Please dont "mentor" anymore vulnerable boys and girls struggling with their identities, many of them driven by porn and fetish. Hes doing just fine. He got his breast tissue removed and now living as a normal dude. The FTMS aren't as lucky. They are fucked for life from testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:13 AM
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Nice guys are nice to everyone. You really think nice boys are out there being dicks and then flipping switches for women. Those guys who can flip switches between "asshole" and "nice" for the 'right girl' ARE THE TYPES WOMEN WANT. They want men who can manipulate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:10 AM
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but it absolutely does not apply to adult women. Yes it does. It applies to all women, all the time. Women only care about entertainment. They don't value my money, my "stability", my qualities to raise a family, my critical thinking. All they care about is if I say the right sexy performative bullshit to them and am able to make them laugh. A woman would MUCH rather be with a broke irresponsible dipshit who can make them giggle, even better if hes a good fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:07 AM
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she might not be the hottest one. Why wouldn't she be the hottest one? Do you think handsome men with boring personalities should actively look for uglier women than them if those are the only ones that will have them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:03 AM
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There are lots of physically attractive men that cannot attract attractive women. From what I gather from your post, if you are an physically attractive man and you aren't able to sleep with attractive women in your 20s then you are right to be resentful? but he doesn’t want her to be so shallow as the value him by the same metrics Women don't value men only for their appearance, thats only like 20% of how they choose men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:03 AM
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Its not transactional niceness. Many men are just nice. There is no transaction. You just want excuses to emasculate men and create heirarchical justifications of your lust for certain male behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:00 AM
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If you were more self aware you could handle truth. Maybe in another 5 years you will comprehend what I am saying and that I am not the enemy. They are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:58 PM
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which is important to most women looking for a partner. Its not important. What is important is making women laugh, entertaining them, and triggering their dopamine channels. Girls just want to have fun. If you are not easy on the eyes, being an irresponsible and whiny child is not going to do you any favors, why not have at least one attractive quality? That quality is worthless. All women care about is entertainment and then sex, in that order.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:57 PM
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I consider myself a good one as I was in a relationship through most of my 20s but quickly found out that being attached to a good person who values you just sets you for failure against all the narcissistic desires and masculinity tests of the average woman. Sounds like your ex didn't learn anything about women from dating you. He just got lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:55 PM
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I am just describing how women see bi guys. You want to ban the truth? How sad. This is a debate forum
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:48 PM
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Not enough to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:47 PM
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Fat women deserve fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:47 PM
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None of that has anything to do with attracting women. Most women love partying and doing drugs with the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:46 PM
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Youre bi, 95% of women would never touch you with a 10 foot pole. Cause you like dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:45 PM
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None of that is definitive for attracting women. A man who does all those things can easily be deemed unattractive and uninteresting, unimpressive to an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:44 PM
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You mean sexy fun personality. Not "good". There are many types of "good".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:05 PM
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Post-college
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:02 PM
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Oh really? Then what does being responsible entail? Ready for your detailed response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:02 PM
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I'm in a lot of trans spaces Why? generally there's an unwritten rule to not do this kind of thing. There was no rule in 2015 when my family member began using those spaces. I'll stuck with listening to him and his trans friend who know way more trans people and shit about trans online spaces then a person like you, the "do-gooder" head in the sand lemming woman. And I intend on being child-free Exactly, you do not even care about the children or what malign influences they are being exposed to,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:58 AM
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Chemistry is generated by the man, its something men make women feel. Its just another performance for the woman. If she doesn't feel chemistry with you its because you did something wrong, were not acting sexy. "We don't have chemistry" is just another way of telling men they are bad at sex and bad at being sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:56 AM
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Been with many. No thats just what women tell their insecure average size boyfriends to make them feel like studs. Most men are average size and average face, so dick sets them apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:54 AM
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not only for its size Ok. So size still being the key factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:53 AM
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You have biases, we all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:52 AM
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But the men with no charisma can have the women with no beauty, evenly matched. In your mind this is evenly matched somehow? An even match for me would be a woman who looks similar to me, I'm sure most men would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:52 AM
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Its just another way of saying assertive/passive, inhibited/unhibited
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:51 AM
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It doesn't apply to men, because men lead and determine the quality of sex, not women. A man could have 100 partners and fuck them all exactly the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:50 AM
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You hush, thot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:12 AM
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its true for all women, I make $200k, women do not care. They care how I flirt with them, how I kiss them, how alpha/beta I am. How funny I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:11 AM
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Its definitely an outlier. Usually this happens at a house party or a study group (my experience)or something. Virgins rarely approach and lose virginity to some random girl at a bar that they just met. Its also irrelevant because college dating is not like post-college dating. Post-college is where the pain starts and where you have perform the most as a man to get any attention
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:04 AM
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Then you don't know anything, and no one should listen to a word you have to say on these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:53 AM
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K. Outlier story. Guessing you were 19 or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:53 AM
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Reddit isn't using systematic pressure or using force to make people trans, so no brainwashing. Yes it is. They tell any questioning person that they are an egg. They come with feelings like "I don't feeeel like a guy" and tell them they sound like they were trans. Its exactly like brainwashing. Like a cult. Maybe you should talk with more trans people You just fking told me to talk to more trans people when I just said my own brother was you troll. Seriously fk off. I hope all your kids end up …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:51 AM
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The ones that do are simply using the older guy's money on them and their real (same-aged) boyfriends. Duh fuq. Talk about trashy...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:45 AM
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Too pushy, too aggressive and coming on too strong Still better than passive betas, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:37 AM
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Can't. Not on a level to date, or spend significant time together. Do I chat with the bartender at the places I go to? Sure. You too obsessed with equalizing everything, you want everything to validate your life experience and I doubt you would admit to a single area of life where others have too different of life experiences to want much of anything to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:36 AM
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Troll comment. They are in fact very nice. In fact they are too nice. You've heard of the term before yes? Betas? They don't know how to manipulate women like high-n count men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:33 AM
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Its just the easiest example. I do not relate with a working class line cook who never went to college. Neither will the female version of me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:32 AM
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My brother reverted back after 3 years taking HRT and it was because he was brainwashed online. Specifically on reddit, and he lacked a strong identity to see through the bullshit. Transgenderism is extreme escapism for most "gen z"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:30 AM
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Sorry im not such a masterdebator to have it all lined out ahead of time for you. The bisexual guy immediately validated my post, so I mentioned him first. Prostitutes definitely have giant dick database.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:29 AM
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Ha that super pathetic. Imagine selling yourself to a woman, you work hard for your body, for your career, your style, you do it all and you have to settle for a fat woman because of how fucked the market place is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:27 AM
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Human interaction is human interaction Only on the most basic level. Sure the charismatic migrant scam artist on the street of London can strike up a conversation with me and my party, can do his shimmy and dance, we all know he is not like us, he is the out-group. Some ghetto black can spit shit in his neighborhood, and me and mine wouldn't even be able to understand him if he came at us with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:25 AM
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I know plenty in real life. My best female friend for example. I don't need redditors to validate it. I definitely don't need some old boomer who is sexually repressed to validate it. Go talk to girls going out there and CHASING HOT SEX and see what they think about dick. Thats not you, and thats ok. When its too big that it hurts, then thats the limit. They all want rightttttttt up until that point. Some even like the pain for some reason, guess they think about how powerful all that masculinit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:21 AM
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Your just talking past me. I said its relevant because it influences who you can relate to. I didnt say it makes it easier to attract a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:18 AM
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No, I referred to one bisexual man in the thread who responded to my comment in this thread. That is why I mentioned bisexual men. I didn't say I talked to high-n who verify. But of the few women I've talked to, they definitely remember the big dicks. But its not a common topic I can talk about to with normal women. But i've talked to some prostitutes about it and trans, the types who have seen 1000s of dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:17 AM
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Its not irrelevant, I just explained how its relevant to finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:13 AM
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Just because you say it is? Because I have direct experience within my own family and my job, where i constantly see these trans kids going back after the fad runs its course. Internet bubbles are brainwashing these kids HARDCORE. Reddit is a HUGE culprit. ASktranzgender ect ect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:12 AM
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You keep dishonestly emphasizing about how you slept with him because he was safe, when its actually that he was charismatic. You should just leave the safe part out of it. Its not real. Violate boundaries? Like what? How would you have any idea if he was a stalker. All you care about is charisma. You don't think stalkers can be charismatic and generate rapport? You live in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:10 AM
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just saying that “being smarter” amounts to a hill of beans in terms of dating successfully. It establishes your educational class, which does effect who you have access to and who you can naturally relate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:06 AM
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that’s really not a thing Women being submissive to men is not a thing? Huh? You probably never had good sex in your life, very common for women of your generation. Women are very impressed with dicks. Having a big dick is the single best feature a man can have all else being "average". If a man is beautiful in all else but has a tiny cock hes not a real man in the minds of most women. And no woman is ever going to get on her knees and get dickmatized by a small cock like we can see women doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:05 AM
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Youre trying to scare her into being a single old hag but she won't even have children or a legacy to show for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:02 AM
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No, that is internet brainworms. Or are you implying your mother is treated like shit? If so I am sorry, but that is not standard procedure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:01 AM
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I'm a solid 6-er. But i've talked to enough high N-count women and trans to know that while its fine for who I am, for another group its bordering on small, definitely not impressive. For another a different story the other direction. Thats why n-count matters and who your girl fucks with matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:00 AM
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he was educated, had a job, and was living well within his means I have many friends like this around 30 years old that get scraps and no attention at all. Accountants. Sales guys. One even is inheriting his parents very successful company. So stop with the bullshit. Women are not attracted to 'stable jobs' and "having your shit together". Nor do they care about bieng educated. Literally everyone has a college degree these days, its worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:57 AM
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Hooking up and casual relationships are a whole other story. This directly leads to relationships.... talking about "marriage" and "being single" without talking about sex and who is fucking who is meaningless. so there are way more bi women Its a fad. Just like being a genderqueer and pansexual. Lol no, no source suggests this to my knowledge. The one I provided puts Gen Z as 4.1% transgender I've seen a much higher percentage of identifying as trans, guess you aren't looking hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:54 AM
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No one gets married anymore until they are like 30. We aren't talking about marriage. We are talking about dating and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:53 AM
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And the guys in the kitchen can’t be that dumb, they have partners and the struggling dudes don’t. Dumb in the sense of not caring about education or critical thinking. Never read a book in their life after high school. Does that offend you that I consider that dumb? Lots of dumb people are very socially adept. All most girls care about is that you can crack a joke, thats it. The better ones are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:50 AM
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Did you know and understand he wanted sex from you the moment he began his whole routine with you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:47 AM
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Yours is average. Not the other guys. Dicks aren't "average" anyway. ethnicities have an average, within their ethnicity only. Outlier dick gets much more sex and repeat customer than average dick. Just like high charisma men can fuck 20 times the number of a low charisma man of similar looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:45 AM
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Women don't care if a man has his shit together, they care about humor, charisma, tingles in their tummy, and then sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:41 AM
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Women don't fuck men based on their "income". Especially gen Z women. Your entire thesis is autistic. There are vanishingly few lesbians compared to gay men. Anyone in the gay community has observed this. Do you also believe that 1/5 of gen Z is fucking trans? You think thats a legitimate description of these millions of kids? What an absolute joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:40 AM
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Just performance to get sex. If you were a dude he would never have talked to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:37 AM
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No. I said they always remember the big impressive dicks. So if your girl says she don't remember, then you know what you got on your hands... sorry champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:36 AM
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Why don't you encourage her to build something with someone instead of assuming shes going to end up alone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:35 AM
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Wrong. Family is family. Blood is thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:35 AM
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Prostitute, exhilarating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:32 AM
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Same with money. If a woman finds you attractive, your income is irrelevant. That is true. But if you tell that to guys who have nothing then you are just trolling them. are usually struggling for good reason What good reasons would those be and what exactly do you get out of spending every night on here lording it over them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:28 AM
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Are you happy that the only reason your ex talked to you and your friend is he wanted to see his dick go in and out of your pussy later.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:24 AM
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Women definitely like dick. Talk about dense take. Yes, yes everyone is gay who says women like dick. Youre so clever. I hope your daughter ends up with a bisexual dude. Then you can work out those feelings you have towards bisexual dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:22 AM
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I mean you spend your time talking down to dudes struggling with women when you work in the service industry as a tall big dicked dude... It would be like if I spent time making fun of guys who think getting women is all about money and grinding when I made $200K last year. They have their perspective for a reason and I cannot relate to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:21 AM
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Cool bro, you are in a good situation then as long as shes not hiding stuff from you. Still doesn't excuse your shit takes and trolling of other men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:46 AM
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Again, talk to bisexual men. Ass is not the same as dick. Some penises are literally twice as long and twice as thick as others. Of course you can remember any body part "oh I loved her eyes, oh I loved this about her/him". But nothing is as powerful as dick. Bisexual men will absolutely remember monster cocks more than "perfect" asses theyve encountered. Even a perfect ass doesn't look that different bounching on your dick than a "decent" ass. And it definitely doesn't feel very different. Puss…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:43 AM
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I'm taking your word that youre the biggest. And I said she hasn't fucked around enough if you are the biggest. Sorry if you don't like that answer, shouldn't you be pleased you aren't with a high-n woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:41 AM
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They are. But women are still VERY much into penis. So its still a good example. Men and women are attracted to penis for the same reasons (power, masculinity), they just conceptualize it in different gradients. Yes men have higher sex drive and visual sexual cues than women, shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:38 AM
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I see you don't disagree with my read of you. Because you know its the truth. You got read. Its fine to move on now sis. Same how a 3 inch dick is not a "real" man in your mind. All the same stuff sis, all the same stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:35 AM
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Guess she doesn't have a high N-count if your 7-incher is the biggest. But the fact that you believe that adds even more context to your annoying trolling that you do around here. Talk about complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:30 AM
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immature sociopath. Yes continue not giving a shit about people, Idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:27 AM
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Oh, what about Findom where women prey on male kink and fetish and literally taking money from them to play into their fantasy of being pathetic cucks who give money to women who are better than them and "dominate" their minds. So done with you sex positive kink people, fuck I don't have enough insults to call you people, you are ruining so many lives with all the shit you shit out on the internet regarding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:23 AM
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able to be direct enough with me to make me feel secure that he does find me attractive. Lies. You just like men in a heirarchical fashion. Approaching women singles masculinity to you. Men who don't approach are too passive and not "real men" in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:21 AM
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Nah but the other guy that she was with before you, she remembers him. Maybe hes even a totally different type of guy than you... but she wanted to "experiment"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:19 AM
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If you can’t get off without your “kink” it’s technically a “fetish” and a different category psychologically. Kink and fetish are the same thing. Youre splitting hairs to explain away your damaged sexuality. all types of sex can be healthy. Absolutely wrong. What a naive take.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:17 AM
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that it would be weird if they didn’t know what they liked. The number of lesbians that really has no like for men and dick is very low. Lesbians are basically another version of the women PPD loves to champion who 'drop out' of the dating game unless the "right guy" comes along. Yes the vast majority of men lesbians want nothing to do with, but if you are high enough value, they biologically want to feel full and plastic does not feel like real dick. Its often less about them being attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:14 AM
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This is why I don't want muslim immigrants. They are the biggest fucking hypocrites in the world. Its just true. How do you spend all the time hating the west, saying jews control everything, saying that white women are whores, and then want to move there, mentally ill FUCKS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:09 AM
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Your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:00 AM
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If you are child free you shouldn't be lecturing anyone who wants to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:00 AM
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Ask the bisexual guy. Its how people attracted to men perceive men and the all powerful dick. You presumably would not understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:59 PM
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Again you are missing the analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:57 PM
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It’s to help you empathize with the concept that some women are going to have different preferences. I don't see your point at all. I have got to ask, how many times have you, personally, experienced or witnessed this? I have experienced it once. It was two fat lesbians, they didn't have a lot of sexual market place value because they weren't very attractive. Met them through reddit actually. Talked to other men that have been propositioned by lesbians, usually just a single girl, not couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:56 PM
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You want a man to cold approach you because it makes you feel more special and like hes a higher value man. Most men do not cold approach women and suck at flirting. When you do OLD, you have to deal with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:54 PM
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Sexual chemistry =/= emotional connection. And we talking about sex here. Not "love" and getting married, and those types of feelings. Well, that explains why you feel the way you do about sex. Well I have the burden of performance, you don't. I can see why you would be callous and ridicule men who have trouble at sex, afterall its not your experience, so why would you give a fuck, you only care about your experience, not others. As you've stated many times on this sub. There is an ocean between…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:51 PM
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I see analogies and metaphors do not phase you. Carry on. Aren't you the one that loves to talk about being college educated and that you can't stand talking to uneducated types lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:44 PM
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And it's pretty hard to fail at sex. How do you figure? I've failed at sex many times. Its not an uncommon experience for men. that's due to the ✨️emotional connection✨️ Fuck buddies can have stronger sexual emotional connections than husbands and wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:42 PM
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Oh good analogy. I want a woman who sees me as her childhood home, nostalgic and full of emotion. Not the urban condo she likes for a while because of right time, right place, and desperation (on the womens part). Unfortunately, the condo fulfills her needs then, but does not make her feel the same emotions as her childhood home, and NEVER will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:40 PM
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Pegging is not the same thing as an actual penis. Its hard plastic. There is no comparison to be made. Thats why lesbians often seek out real dick to add to their bedroom experience. aren’t that picky. Oh so shes so burned out from random sex she barely even enjoys it anymore, lucky me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:37 PM
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If the man you're having sex with doesn't lead to the woman having strong orgasms what is the point? And what happens when she has amazing orgasms with one man, leaves him, and every other man after that pales in comparison? Or are you going to sit there as woman and say that all orgasms are the same and as long as you cum you don't care how, what, when, who. Or will you be honest and talk about how there are many levels of experiencing sex and perceptions of men and even obviously different phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:34 PM
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Theres always a better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:29 PM
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I am talking about the things you end up liking, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:28 PM
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Many guys are stoic, or introverted, bad at presenting their true selves Ah so you believe all men who lack charisma should be alone and there is no way for a woman to be attracted to them. Sounds like a recipe for a lot of angry young men if this is how modern women see the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:27 PM
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Let me educate you, when a man and a woman actually love each other and create a life (not the random sex-focused hedonstic lifestyle you have crafted for your life) things don't need to be 50/50 because they work as a team for the betterment of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:25 PM
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Because that sex is now imprinted in your brain, and you will want the same thing or better. You will not be able to enjoy a normal, average man once you experience a plethora of sexual highs from outliers and kinky taboo activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:20 PM
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I agree with you that women if they want to have strong orgasms and their goal in life is to have crazy kinky taboo sex, they should be promiscuous and sample many different men. Definitely different races and cultures as well. They should try double penetration. Try those crazy eyed guys with insane sexual energy and charisma. They should go through many men, if they really only care about their own pleasure over everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:19 PM
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I didn't say you think about past dick all the time. I said that women remember it. And that it is seared into their brains. That doesn't mean you think about it everyday. But its there, you carry it with you in all your dealings with your new man. The difference between a total stud, a top man, and that includes his sexual charisma, and an "average man" is an ocean. The gulf between a 10 and a 5 woman, for a guy, in terms of how he experiences sex, is like a stream. Sure the 10 is better and gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:13 PM
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You know what fucks a womans brain up? Having a bunch of dicks and kinky fucked up sex because shes promiscuous. Yet when women do this, other women go "slay queen, get it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:09 PM
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No. The more PARTNERS. Sex with them same guy grows and evolves slowly and is good because of intimacy barriers being overcome, not a random increase in skill from day to day. And obviously not dick size and stamina. And not personality. As these all remain the same for the same guy. Keep coming at me with your lame one liners, no one here believes anything you say about any actual experience. Your goal is to lie for entertainment and your own ego, certainly not debate. DEFINITELY not to be hone…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:06 PM
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Sure. Pass/fail. And the better sex you have, with better dicks and better men, the higher your standards for passing become. Thats how women's minds work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:53 PM
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Why would I, a non-charismatic non-alpha male, volunteer to mentor young boys? What could I possibly teach them, that would allow them to become the type of charismatic alpha man that you prefer and respect? Maybe you should ask some of your past dicks, why they don't want volunteer and teach boys the qualities that turn a woman like you on. Most of us are just regular dudes, sorry we can't be Mr. Charisma Stud, ie. the only type of guy you respect or want to have anything to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:50 PM
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I stick to apps, because I am handsome, and women like you only want to deal with high charisma men. You really think a majority of 20 and 30 yo men are out there propositioning and attempting to flirt with every attractive woman they see?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:46 PM
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Women remember all the impressive dicks that they see. Its seared into their brain, including the instant submissive instinct that seeing a large dick produces that regular guys will never get to experience... even if she chooses you later. Stuff like this is why n count matters. Same with every other kink and taboo. The second some guy chokes her (if thats what she likes) or really fucks her and says all the right dirty words, spins her fantasies and pushes her buttons just right and gets her i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:37 PM
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Women don't have to do anything but sit and wait and pick and choose the men that come into their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:16 PM
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This survey that asked people if they are sexually active (no way to determine accuracy) just supports what I am saying. Literally HALF of people stop having sex entirely between the age of 65 and 75, and thats on top of the HALF that stopped having sex before 65.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:15 PM
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What does old ass people having sex have to do with blackpill. Old people don't have much sex. Its like you guys can't fathom that people talk BS and lie about stuff in society. What you consume in the media is not always accurate. When you see a skit on SNL joking about old people having an orgy and having lots of sex, it doesn't mean thats actually happening. It means someone thought that was a pleasant idea. You all are obsessed with some kind of just-world logic. Because it seems pleasant an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:12 PM
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jealousy of the guys that have the ability to pull off the swindle, and anger that the games been adjusted to make it harder for the hustlers This is contradictory. Why would someone feel both of those. If you can't pull then you would love these apps if it actually made it harder for the hustlers. The unfortunate truth is that these apps don't make it harder for the hustlers. They are just gossip. And women will continue to fk whoever they want, which is why they fucked those guys in the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:06 PM
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how rampant STI are among the aging crowd. They aren't. STDs are most common amongst the most sexually active cohort, which are 20-30 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:03 PM
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Nice anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:01 PM
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Nah. Being competent at your job or "adulting" doesn't make guys any smoother with the ladies. If you don't know how to flirt, you don't know how to flirt. Its something you learn as a child/teen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:59 PM
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You claim your argument is based on logic yet you dismiss peer reviewed sociological studies like they’re on the same level as incel YouTube rants. That’s not logic bud that’s intellectual laziness wrapped in online bravado. Incels use the same surverys. Don't call them studies. They are surveys. Polls. Not science. I work in healthcare. I get to call myself Dr you don't lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:57 PM
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Hardly any of them do. The ones that do, usually they are hassled by their husbands and do it to shut them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:54 PM
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Nah, those men already know and succeed with women. Tea or AWDTG groups won't slow them down any. Women who like guys that get posted on those groups would rather be alone than date a "good" man who would not be posted on those groups. Female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:54 PM
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The point is that they are all discussing the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:46 PM
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I am holding you accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:45 PM
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Lots of old men still want to be sexual and be mentally aroused and can even orgasm with a soft dick. Its women that retreat from sexual intimacy. Come on. We both know that when you are 70 years old you are not going to be interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:44 PM
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My arguments are based on logic. Yours are "I said so". "Old people have lots of sex, I know they do, because a saw a few hard dicks as a nurse". Don't start quoting sociological surveys at me unless you equally take seriously all the ones the incels and manosphere people shit out to back up their stupid ass world views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:42 PM
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An 80 year old man or woman has zero reason to lie and say they are having sex. Yet women on this sub constantly accuse men of lying about having sex. In fact multiple are accusing me right now. Yet you think there is no motivation for people, especially men, to lie about being sexually active? You think men who go to the doctor tell the doctor they are pathetic incels that don't get laid lmao? Maybe this is why you are a nurse and not a Dr.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:28 PM
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Its not a date. Some women are just sluts and have no shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:21 PM
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So he sits around jacking off to porn all day. Sure sounds like a healthy young teenage boy, good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:17 PM
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From what ppl say, a lot of it is rating mens sexual performance and penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:17 PM
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I wouldn't know. I mean some yes I haven't given orgasms to. Others said I have. Seems like a normal experience for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:15 PM
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I have no problems with you reading my post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:11 PM
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OP said that it is impossible for shy men to overcome this and approach women Its close to impossible. I don't know any shy men that stopped being shy. It is up to women because they control the dating market now, not men. At least in the US. In India or Africa men are gifted beautiful women just for being in the top 10% income bracket. Hell in Africa you can have multiple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:08 PM
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You won't be having sex when youre 80 either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:08 PM
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Whats it like being a washed up middle aged woman who will never know what its like to have sex with two attractive men and be an object of desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:07 PM
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most are How do you know most are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:06 PM
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Just dishing out what you are. Its sad that you don't even realize your posts are insulting. Speaks to your narcissism like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:06 PM
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Name one thing that is more stressful for a man to do than approach a woman and try to flirt and entertain her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:05 PM
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Oh do you speak for most people? Whats it like being arrogant and narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:08 PM
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Approaching and initiating with women is an extremely difficult thing that most women will never understand. So forgive men for getting pissed at women when they brush it off like its nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:04 PM
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I'll have to remember how bitter I am when I fuck tonight I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:59 AM
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You don't see shit. Thats the problem. Confirmation bias would be off the charts for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:57 AM
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Oh, so you need another man to make her orgasm? She wants what she wants. I'd guess shes more into me than the other guy, but its more about the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:56 AM
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I have at least two gay friends who like older guys and going off from what they tell me, dicks don't work well. Also a couple sex workers I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:51 AM
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Professional women who are 30+ definitely have huge chips on their shoulders and are EXTREMELY picky, moreso probably then when they were in their early twenties. I really think women live in deululu land until they start getting closer to 40 and realize that family they wanted isn't going to happen. My point is that desperation to find a husband in women sets in much later than people would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:49 AM
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Youre clearly insecure about it. Let me repeat it again. Men have more intense orgasms than women. Thats why women go years without sex and barely even care. Have you ever been with two men at once? I'm doing that again tonight, there will definitely be some orgasms on the girl's part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:44 AM
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Projection. I have lots of sex. I don't know where this thing comes from where when a man says something you don't like you assume hes not having sex. I think it says a lot about you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:35 AM
1

The vast majority of men after a certain age cannot achieve erections. I know this from personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:32 AM
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LOL, I know they aren't having sex. Its you who needs to live in a delululu world to stay sane, its so pathetic to be honest. No sorry Icy_Ad, you won't be having sex when you are 80. Get over it. You will probably barely feel aroused at all at the age, let alone pine for sex. 80 year old men can't even get their dicks hard to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:29 AM
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That would be news to the girl last week. You are just insecure that men get more pleasure from sex than you do. Yes our orgasms are more powerful than yours. Go back to being a sexless over the hill mom, no one cares about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:27 AM
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80 year old men cannot even get hard. Do you women not understand how anatomy works??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:25 AM
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They aren't. You idiots read one pop culture news articles about STDs in nursing homes and fucking implant it in your brain as "I now know whats going on, this is the truth". Take a step back and consider the fact that yall are a bunch of lemmings that believe every stupid thing you read on the internet except when an incel says it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:23 AM
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Where did I admit that? What a bunch of stupid posts by you. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:21 AM
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Everyone answers yes to that question dumass. You really should not be calling people dumasses when you believe the things you do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:21 AM
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Why do you insist that the male orgasm is more intense than the female orgasm? Egoism, right? No. Its evident to me, based on how men and women behave. And nature in general. Males sacrifice their LIVES for orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:25 AM
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Everything is a spectrum of experience. I am talking in generalities. But no, I have no desire to orgasm 5 times in a row. Even as a teen they would be spaced out over the day. Two in quick succession can be a thing though. But its never as good the 2nd time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:15 AM
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A minority. Why is it so important for you to believe that 80 year olds are having sex? Most of them will tell you otherwise if you asked. You think your going to find an 80 year old mans body attractive when you are 80? I know I will not find an 80 year old womans body attractive when I am 80
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:04 AM
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Its not satisfying when you have to try super hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:59 AM
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Very rare. So no. Not "lots". 80 year olds are also not very aroused by 80 year old bodies, anymore than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:56 AM
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RIght so all these posters telling you to go buy ice cream or read philosophy are idiots. Because they have sex and you don't. So we both know what the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:44 AM
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Cause you haven't experienced it. But I agree a lot of people are not sexy and sex is not as great of an event for the soul or the mood when you feel "meh" about them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:38 AM
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Sex with MEN. Lesbians don't care about cock they are attracted to women. They aren't attracted to "strap-ons", they just occasionally use them as tools (most lesbians I believe do not even ever use strap ons). Again bisexual women are attracted to WOMEN in different ways than they are attracted to MEN, including the genitals and expectations from sex and as many different things as there are differences between men and women. Honestly it sounds like you haven't thought this stuff out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:36 AM
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Sounds like you are missing powerful orgasms with a sexy partner. I agree life is very bleak when you do not have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:24 AM
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masturbation =/= sex with men. Yes men will always have more intense lusts than women for bodies and visuals. Women definitely "mind" a small cock, how would you know anyway if you don't have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:21 AM
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Nah, that shit is for the women, which good on you, I am not saying I do not enjoy the validation that comes with pleasing a woman. But when you force another orgasm to soon as a man its a dud. I'd rather wait an hour at least before I am properly horny again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:17 AM
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Haha thats so pathetic. Makes me realize how good i have it to have had a completely open and emotionally raw relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:14 AM
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Very few old people have sex. Most mens cocks do not work. And most women due to their responsive and reactive sexual desire, no longer feel sexy enough to want to engage in sex after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:03 AM
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Its just downlow gay men getting exposed. You can't be gay in China and have a successful cookie-cutter life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:02 AM
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doesn’t mean the male orgasm is “more intense” than the female orgasm. It means more neuro-chemicals were released, and the body needs to reset. If you can do something over and over then its not releasing the same equivalent of neurotransmitters If you are experiencing something for 45 seconds its definitely mild. I can't even imagine what it feel like to have the sensation of cumming for 45 seconds, it would be disturbing and disorienting and not even enjoyable, it would be WAY too intense. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:59 AM
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Porn use exists BECAUSE of men not being able to get laid. Not the other way around. No. Boys start watching porn nearly every single day when they are like 10 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:55 AM
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Banning and blocking porn would immensely help men get laid. Why are you so obsessed with digital representations of sexy women. Women are more hypersexual than ever before, sex is not shamed. Young women worship sex. Having orgasms with "hot guys" is basically the new religion for young western women, now that actual religion has been tossed aside. They think and talk about it far more than their mothers ever did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:45 AM
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If something lasts 45 sec, its mild. The female orgasm is all over the place. A lot of them just define it as anytime their genitals feel good during stimulation with some kind of crescendo. Its why silly fucks say things like "ya gave my girl 5 or 6 orgasms going down on her". The male orgasm is so powerful and intense that you literally stop enjoying sex after because of all the dopamine that was dumped leaves you depleted. Post-nut clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:36 AM
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How did I tell on myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:27 AM
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Women don't actually have that intense of orgasms compared to men, thats why they are so "meh" about sex and can go years without sex perfectly fine. Its enjoyable but definitely producing less of a chemical high than orgasming does for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:12 AM
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You sound retarded. No one woman struggles to be chosen, thats the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:01 AM
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No thanks. I'm definitely a better person than you anyway, I can feel the bitchiness and narcissism from you through the screen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:41 AM
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Am I the only one that sometimes doesn’t know when they came from sex? Whenever I masturbate/use my vibrator, I know for sure when I do. The feeling is so intense and it’s so much feeling in one spot that it travels through my whole body. I know that cumming is supposed to feel different when having sex, and it’s good too, but idk it doesn’t feel strongly enough that I can pinpoint it to one moment? Supposedly, according to women, women have extremely intense orgasms, they even love to say that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:40 AM
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I'm in a loving relationship with a man. Its women that give me the problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:38 AM
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I'm already loved. Do you have empathy for abusers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:34 AM
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I do listen. And I judge. Empathy is a two way street. I afford empathy to those who give it. I don't give empathy to scum. That would make me a horrible person. Right? No that would make you a stupid person, not 'horrible'. I do not have empathy for women choosing bad men. Just like I don't have empathy for people who live a criminal lifestyle and get shot or thrown in prison. I believe in personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:17 AM
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Isn't that crazy that those women wanted those other chosen men so badly that they chose a man who already had kids instead of finding one without a family. Only makes sense in the 80/20 universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:14 AM
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There is no hard science. Common sense says that 19 year old women are having more sex than 19 year old men in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:11 AM
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Sexual promiscuity is only less prevalent amongst young men because they literally don’t have the option to be more promiscuous even if they wanted to - 80/20 rule. What is your point? Its still the first time in history where young women are having more sex than young men, on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:10 AM
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Women don't choose men thinking about marriage and children. Its just charisma and how much you make her giggle, and then how well you fuck her. Thats all they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:09 AM
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Women don't care about mens mental health. Men have to perform for them. They only care about the performance of masculinity/competency. Maybe they start to care after you trick them into being with you long enough that they actually have to start providing emotional support to you instead of just taking taking taking judging judging judging
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:04 AM
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Its hard for me to relate because I never treat anyone like garbage. So I don't know what women are talking about when they talk about being treated badly by men, I can't understand it. Its not my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:01 AM
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Notice how she says actual value. To her a car is nothing. Having a huge dick is real value to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:59 AM
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Its degrees of caring. Yes many women will settle, and ignore their true desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:56 AM
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Seemingly the exact type of guy you insist are the good ones. Huh? Who are you talking to? When did I insist that nerds are good guys? Totally. She was just attracted to criminals and deserved it. Lots of women are. Because low inhibition guys are more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:55 AM
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Thats only because you can't show your dick on dating profiles. Majority of women, dick is Numba 2 on the list of most important phyiscal qualities, behind either face or height depending on the girl. Ask any women if they would rather have a skinny dude whose never done athletics in his life whose packing a thick 7+ vs a ripped athlete with a 5-er
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:37 AM
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No I said your stupid ass friend was attracted to a PSYCHO. How do you and your friends give a dude who pushes women out of cars pussy at all? Shouldn't he be alone, like all the lonely dudes on this sub? Instead he bangs you and your friend lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:35 AM
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Going on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:26 AM
1

To someone like you, any criticism of women is misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:18 AM
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Looks don't matter that much. Women have a minimum threshold and once you pass that its 90% behavior. Looks have extremely diminishing returns because men are the initiators and performers. If you can't perform it doesn't matter much how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:03 AM
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If I show a picture of myself with jeans and no shirt, some women will offer to sleep with me. No they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:00 AM
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I don't defend men, you defend women. Like you are in a tribe with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:59 PM
1

There aren't many deadbeat fathers in my social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:52 PM
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Men aren't actually lonely. Its a stand in for lack of sex/intimacy. Men can have a million male friends and still feel depressed and hopeless is they do not have access to sexual validation. The friends act as a distraction, a bandaid over the wound that continues to fester. Only very ugly women can have the possibility of a similar experience. Men can very well feel utterly defeated regardless if they enjoy some distraction time with the bros to distract them for a few hours
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:49 PM
1

Women despise accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:46 PM
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Probably because you are beta-ish compared to the other ghetto black dudes. Where as your sister is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:45 PM
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Hes clearly not hideous. Hes probably a very charismatic man who is good at flirting with women. All those women he fucked would never ever in a million years touch a "nice guy" or any kind of beta man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:44 PM
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Its not sick to question peoples decisions. Youre the one freaking out at being judged, calm down. Do you freak out every time you are criticized?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:41 PM
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Being the one who chooses, its by definition your responsibility who you choose. Act as dumb as you want IDC. You can't understand basic causation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:39 PM
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Are straight submissive men just outta luck then? Yes? Why is this so hard for you to believe. Lots of men don't get to "do whatever they want" in the bedroom with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:38 PM
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K, man I shudder to imagine how you are going to raise a daughter with that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:31 AM
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Because to a nerdy asian college woman, a nerdy black guy is a "bad taboo boy". Shes transgressing just as much as your sister with the gangbanger thrill, just in a different relativistic way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:29 AM
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Shit talking strangers online has nothing to do with how you treat your loved ones. And you have the gall to call others naive!? Just say what you really feel which is that you are obsessed with what men talk about online and actually deep down are more emotionally angry at shitposters on reddit than you are at real charismatic abusers in real life who can make you giggle one night at least
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:25 AM
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Why would she date a man who would push a woman out of a car. Was there something really attractive about him that made up for this quality of his? Obviously she passed over many "nice polite guys" who would never consider pushing a woman or anyone out of a moving car and really felt this guy must be a catch to date him. You knew him. You tell us. I saw your other post saying that the only thing you care about when sharing your body with men is looks so I think we can make some assumption that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:16 AM
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Women have more of a responsibility to get better at this because they choose who gets to have sex and who gets access to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:13 AM
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Ask the women on this sub that constantly call men losers/incels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:07 AM
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Of course you disagree when you think of yourself as some women-warrior out to defend women at all costs and giving your oath to never break the in-group bias shroud that is cast over all female posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:05 AM
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Thats why your topic sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:58 AM
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Shouldn't you be more interested in nuanced opinion instead of trick questions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:56 AM
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Women are much more conformist than men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:54 AM
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No men dont always do x and you can't say they never do y.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:52 AM
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Isn't it kind of dumb to ask a question with "never" and "always" about human behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:51 AM
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All races are equally racist. If you don't believe that then you are an ignorant fool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:44 AM
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Extra hair carries smells. Its harder to smell clean when your crotch is extremely hairy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:42 AM
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Every race is racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:41 AM
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Yes men that know they have a woman who is actually an equal to him will treat her better than a man that took her simply because she was willing. People never treat people that they settle for as good as they should
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:38 AM
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Thats very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:36 AM
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Ya duh, you think any of those losers find a match? They pay women and watch porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:34 AM
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Yall need to be called out for your ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:52 PM
0

It starts getting negative real quick when you realize the traits that women find attractive in men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:52 PM
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For women, good sex is being sexually dominated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:48 PM
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Dominant women just like being dominated by an even more dominant man. A woman identifying as "dominant" just means that she dislikes certain trappings of dominant men but definitely lusts after others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:46 PM
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The vast majority of young western women reject men based on sexual performance. Not other factors. Thats why love is bullshit beyond a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:45 PM
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I got pickier. Thats how I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:42 PM
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Single yet running through men at a clip lamo. Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:42 PM
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You loved being single because you were having sex. What a disingenuous post. You weren't single. You can't claim to be single and being dicked down once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:39 PM
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Ok I am back to being disturbed then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:35 PM
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Yet you know they go to swinger parties. SOunds pretty invasive already. I also know girls like this. They are everywhere. Mentally ill, but everywhere. Not at all uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:34 PM
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Oh youd get hard and fuck some 90 year old woman? I think you are the sheltered one. The more sex a man has, the pickier he gets, to scratch the itch. Ya I guess virgin 18 year olds cum at the drop of a hat, that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:33 PM
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I know some people in open relationships or who go to swinger parties. Do you think they look for BBC there? That seems to be ubiquitous amongst the "swingers"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:30 PM
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Actually I am remember you are some ghetto low class latina. Nvm, carry on, I feel at ease now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:28 PM
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My support is that crushes are not the same thing as "falling in love". Are you claiming that many people FALL in LOVE and then when the women sees he has a small dick or doesn't please her in bed and dumps him, thats just "part of love" to you? Those people were in love to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:27 PM
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Oh so when you have a daughter your just going to let her do wahtever she wants, fuck whoever she wants, afterall shes just a unique snowflake, its not like you have any influence over her. Thats a pathetic world view. Your insecurities and assumptions about women are only hurting you in the long run. I am on the hunt for a mother and wife, I've had plenty of meaningless sex. Insecurities are armor against fucked up people with fucked up world views.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:25 PM
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Well I hope everyone that pays attention to you posts and takes anything you have to say seriously reads this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:23 PM
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No, basically you are exactly what I thought you were, sorry. Trying going out in the world with the big boys and see what women respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:22 PM
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Outliers. They were still THINKING of something. A narrative. I never said men do not masturbate. No man is orgasming at the thought of sticking his dick in a apple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:21 PM
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What do you want from me? Do you deny that Western women are doing FREAK SHIT these days that their mothers would never have done? Thats all I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:12 PM
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Well let me help you out as someone very into the l g b t, they aren't homophobes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:10 PM
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Most promiscuous women do. They want to try some porn sex. Some dangerous sex. Some taboo sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:07 PM
1

"People are unique" is not an argument, its a thought-terminating Cliche. Look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:06 PM
1

You must run with a weird crowd, lots of blue-hairs, genderqueer types. Most women are very turned off by bisexual men. Especially good looking feminine women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:06 PM
1

Guess you didnt do anything bad then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:00 PM
1

Then 95% of women are homophobes by your definition. This is what you believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:59 PM
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What is wrong with hypocrisy? Youre entire posting style BLEEDS with hypocrisy. Like youre entire persona on PDD is that of a hypocrite. Its crazy that you don't see this (or you do probably giggles)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:57 PM
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No ones cares about body counts. Its a stand in for what the fuck have you done with other people and who were those other people that you did it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:55 PM
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Sounds like you don't have many bog-standard female friends. Ya I live in a huge liberal city its totally filled with "homophobes". Why are you so defensive of female nature, just except that women have shity sexual dynamics inside them, in HUGE NUMBERS, just like men, they just happen to have different focuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:54 PM
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You already said you'd never talk about that with him because its weird. Too late. Exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:52 PM
1

Lmao, most men don't cum from some rando touching their dick. I certainly don't. Again I guess you are that type of guy that just cums from the slightest bit of sexual attention. That really does not describe most men. There is a huge mental aspect to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:51 PM
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Men need to be mentally turned to be hard and orgasm 99% of the time. Maybe you get hard for anything that vaguely represents a female, and have no actual narrative in your head about what you are doing besides being a monkey, but thats not how I perceive sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:48 PM
1

it's also dangerous thinking to assume that you have to just be Chad enough Nope. Its accurate, well-founded thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:47 PM
1

Does hubby know about all the escapades? Nope. Yall would be WAY too insecure to ever talk about that. Just keep in the shadows..... out of sight out of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:45 PM
1

Women are very concerned over that as well. They just aren't as concerned about other WOMEN a man has fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:44 PM
1

You are a typical modern white woman. Enjoy the rainbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:42 PM
1

No, I am referring to both. For women it is even more mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:41 PM
1

It turns off women and men all the time. I can't believe I am arguing with someone who believes people never lose attraction to each other. what a silly conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:41 PM
1

I didn't suggest that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:39 PM
1

So you have sampled. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:38 PM
1

Orgasms are 90% mental..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:36 PM
1

Oh and which lifestyle will be the most popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:36 PM
1

I don't even know what you said. It had nothing to do with what I said which is that it is very easy to learn things about your partner that will then turn you off from your partner. Happens ALL THE TIME
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:35 PM
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Its all tied together. More gaslighting to protect womens egos. Yes baby girl your a strong powerful woman that just wants to get dicked down, but every where else yes youre so strong and powerful!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:34 PM
1

Non-sensical reply. Especially the quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:30 PM
2

I just don't like users.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:29 PM
1

Different races, different cultural backgrounds, different body types, different attitudes. No one views people purely as individuals, thats ignorant. It doesn't matter what you think of the word sampling, as long as it describes what happened accurately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:28 PM
1

Prefer hedonism. girls just want to have fun. Most of them. More and more at the younger age groups. Do you think in the future a majority of women will be in poly relationships so they can have different men meet all their needs? Why not right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:27 PM
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The dating process is “vetting” for a man they think they’d be okay with submitting to. (This topic is an entire rabbit hole that could be a post in and of itself, so I’ll stop there.) Thats the dating process for all women. Not just "trad women". Women vet for men they feel submissive enough to that they want him to fk her with his dick. Which is inherently a submissive act. More gobbledigook from women trying to make distinctions between different types of women when in reality they all operat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:21 PM
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Thats because you can only attract betas. Women hate being made to pick what to do on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:19 PM
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ugly girl then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:17 PM
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So how many different types of men have you sampled?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:16 PM
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Sounds like he deserves a virgin, not you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:15 PM
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The brain stops orgasming just like how women stop getting turned on by you when they find you sucked a dick. Because the idea of your partner changes. Sex is not mechanical, it is primarily mental and emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:14 PM
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Women have responsive sexual desire. "high libido women" "low libido women", are hardly a thing or a real distinction. What makes you categorize women this way? Do you really think you are being accurate with that black and white thinking about womens libidos. Either its "high" or "Low". Like what kind of poorly thought out thinking is that. The vast majority of women crave sex from a certain kind of man and a certain kind of performance, regardless of whether you would call them "low libido" or…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:12 PM
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Youre definitely not going to be in it, except for men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:10 PM
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Large social network =/= being friends with felons. Just say you like exciting people and don't care if they are dickwads or not, you just want to giggle and be entertained
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:09 PM
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With that logic you can't make statements or discuss anything. Special little snowflakes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:08 PM
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It can be. It can be other things to. Humiliating. Loving. Spiritual. Ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:07 PM
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You are coming off pretty dense right now, I am not talking about "mental issues". I am talking about the simple fact that orgasms are stimulated by the brain, especially intensity. Thats why sex is mental. Thats why your wife could easily tell you something one day that could destroy how your brain perceives sex with her. Do you deny this? This is basic human stuff. Only a true debate-bro exhaustive-type would argue about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:22 PM
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I want women who enjoy sex with a select few men. Very simple concept. Not troubling at all. I don't want women who enjoy sex with multiple men at once for example, regardless of how "good" it was. Yes shame is part of the human condition and a natural part of socialization. Its people who see all shame as "bad" and want a shameless world who are sick and twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:18 PM
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Because 90% of sex is mental, in the brain. Theres a million things your wife could tell you that would destroy good sex even if she still wanted it with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:16 PM
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Nah, men always lie about that sort of thing. The ease at which you, a sluty woman, gets sex, is like a fish swimming through water.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:15 PM
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Why should I care if he didn't bang more pussy??? lmao Cause it means hes a loser and not charismatic. Men can bang lots of women and still focus on studies and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:13 PM
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Men not wanting hypersexual women because it destroys the good feels from sex, has nothing to do with religion. Majority of people aren't religious these days in USA. If you never shame women then they will continue to do more and more extreme things in the pursuit of hedonistic pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:09 PM
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You had more probably given the way you talk about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:08 PM
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That being a 25 year old virgin man is abnormal and means his entire sex life has been dominated by porn. Or did you not realize that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:06 PM
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Women who fake orgasms are why I can barely enjoy sex anymore. The constant gaslighting and lying to men about sex, really forces you to care less about the womans experience during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:05 PM
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No, women who like to be used in bed as sexual objects see themselves as sexual objects. He specifically does not like to think of woman being "dominated" in bed, because that is objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:02 PM
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Make it make sense! With this approach, your choosing your own misfortune. I am honestly asking, how does that NOT make sense to you? You said make it make sense, but it makes perfect sense to me. Why exactly does it not make sense to you....?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:58 PM
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Hardly anyone "falls in love" before having sex beyond a certain age. Sure teenagers. Thats PRECISELY because teenagers are not sluts and it feels special and NOVEL at that age because it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:56 PM
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Hopefully you get a bunch of neurodivergent grand children, then you can insult them instead of the ones on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:53 PM
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Aren't you concerned by the multitude of fetishes and 1000s of hours of porn content he has engrossed himself in during those 10+ years of virginity before meeting and having sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:52 PM
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WHere do you meet all these ex-cons? I live in a big American city and don't meet any ex-cons in my social circles? I think it says more about you and the types of people you like to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:48 PM
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I'm not bothered by this app. Its only relevant for high profile guys with big social media presences who date lots of women and act like players. Apps like these are to take down guys who do well with woman. The average guy is invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:19 AM
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Does he know you had a bunch of casual sex with men you didn't even like enough to date before him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:15 AM
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They just want to keep having sex with you. Its not that complicated. I know you believe its because you are so amazing, but its actually because the "casual sex" arrangement with a woman usually runs dry after 2-3 encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:13 AM
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Wrong. Its just women having sex and "dating" guys who are better than them. They were NEVER going to get commitment from those men in the first place, no matter how hard they made him "work". Because hes better than her and he knows it. Honestly as a woman I think I’d prefer the slower build up to sex and getting to know each other along the way beforehand as well in a relationship. Then stop having casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:09 AM
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Very few people are like that. Just say you want a bf who gets in lots of fights and be done with it. There is a trend with the youth following ghetto culture and rap where politeness is framed as weak and bitch behavior. Instead everything has to be about disrespecting others and confrontation. It sick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:06 AM
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Why, because he doesn't act like a stereotype of a man, ie. FAKE
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:02 AM
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Aren't people disagreeable enough in America? People are fucking assholes. When did being polite become a bitch quality? Do you like people who act like ghetto retards?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:59 AM
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Women prefer all this stuff and also prefer not to talk about the consequences for the dating scene
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:57 AM
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genuine love. You mean lust and hedonism. Which yes describes the average young western woman in America to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:57 AM
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You can't escape the responsibility of being the choosers. THose friends of yours are consistently choosing men better than them if those men don't even see enough value in them to have a decent normal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:54 AM
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Shy girls don't get relationships any more than shy guys. Yes they do. I am going to have to stop engaging with you. Because your idiocy is making me legit angry. Look up the definition of solipsism and do some internal meditation. You don't know shit about the burden of performance that men face. You just need to shake your ass a bit and smile, does that make you angry or something? Why would female privilege in 1 solitary area of life make you so angry that you must defend lies to the death. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:46 AM
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You meant to say that very few women prefer smaller. Are you one of those women that prefer small dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:43 AM
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No one believes that women desire their looksmatch, ie. a man who looks like their father or brother. They always want someone "better".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:40 AM
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It doesn't matter if women or men body shame or they don't. Women will keep craving larger than average penises regardless of who or what gets shamed. And thats why it will ALWAYS be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:38 AM
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What are women that drive those compensating for? Not having dicks at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:37 AM
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0 I watched a guy cold approach a group of girls at a rooftop pool in my city last weekend. When he left the one who he was giving attention to giggled, enjoying being focused on over the other girls, said she didn't know him thats that. I think I am better than that guy, better looking at least. But he has balls. I just do OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:35 AM
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Boring people You mean men. Boring men. Women can be as boring as they want and will easily find a man of similar appearance to them for whatever kind of relationship they desire
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:13 AM
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Just because they care about appearance does not mean the are CAPABLE of attracting hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:11 AM
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It happened. Not that I would ever be in a relationship with that girl, she is poly and an ultraprogressive (probably why she didnt slap that black-latino and instead let him do that to her, fking pathetic) and has another "boyfriend". Thats what happens to you sex positive "high-Ns", you get used and abused by guys looking to conquer and humiliate you (while keeping a charming smile on their face to get their nut), just like what happened to her. Real story. Deal with it. When I fk other races …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:00 AM
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woah burrn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:21 AM
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Literally just had sex with a girl who pillow talked to me about how some blatino she fked talked about how excited he felt to fuck her because shes an "oppressor" (23 yo white woman). She was disturbed by this, the sad part is she didn't even know if she should be offended. Oh but ya, its all "porn".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:17 AM
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I don't think those forgotten women should get dates, I just think they are invisible. They would get dates if the dating market was not so fucked by modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:14 AM
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No, its all the same to you. Thats why theres nothing to be insecure about, right? Cause its all the same, just sex, no biggie, doesn't matter who you do it with or how you do it, its all just a big whatever. Doesn't mean anything, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:13 AM
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Uh I am implying the man has not done those things, thats why it disturbs him that she did. I didn't say "have sex". I said have sex with two bbc black guys while they degrade her (you know, interracial taboo, stuff thats all over the internet and in da clubs, but your not aloud to talk about)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:11 AM
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Ya you do. Sex don't mean nothing to you. Wham bam thank ya maam.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:06 AM
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Why does it matter if handsome men do not see that those women exist, when those women are not their natural matches? Just be clear, you want men to date down, you think ugly women are worth more than average men and men who struggle with women should just keep looking for an uglier and uglier woman until one of them excepts him and his "flaws". That is what I am getting from your attitude about this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:04 AM
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I wonder what its like to think of your body as a set of holes for men to use lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:01 AM
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What if your gf got dp'ed by two hung black guys calling her a slut like in porn? Should men feel insecure about their gf doing something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:58 AM
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Yep you see it all the time with women commentators GLEEFUL at the idea of men failing at being attractive or taking themselves out of the dating market. Completely ignorant of the fact that thats one more of their sisters who will be single and not find a husband. Its like they do not comprehend there is only 1 man for each woman on this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:56 AM
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i know just wants to find a good personality match for herself Code for hypercharismatic man with a sharp sense of humor and wit, must make her laugh all the time and constantly be entertaining her. God forbid a man is ever "boring". Hell on earth, rather be alone and childless for life than deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:53 AM
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I disagree. I see the opposite more often. I see a lot of chads walking around with derpy faced, flat assed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:48 AM
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Don't know why your fellow women have trouble with this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:46 AM
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Yes now women only trade sex for sex and for entertainment. Why do you think having sex for a provider man is a "loss of dignity" but having sex with a man because he makes you laugh or has a big cock is somehow "good".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:45 AM
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Most gay men would like to try with a women but they have absolutely no idea and very little motivation to attract women. Which is why the vast majority of gay men have literally NEVER fucked a pussy. Hint: Its the complete opposite for "lesbians" where the vast majority have fucked dick. Gays and lesbians can't escape biological heterosexual gender dynamics as much as they claim to not participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:44 AM
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People should date their looksmatch. What you are implying is that those ugly women deserve average looking guys when they should be with fellow uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:42 AM
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Its not easy as a man, you still have take initiative and action and break boundaries with women, which as a woman you would never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:40 AM
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Not as much as in the past. Not even close. For example the vast majority of mildly autistic guys got married in past generations. Now they are scorned. I say this as someone who is not autistic. Its just obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:39 AM
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Lack of sexual charisma. Once women taste a certain type of guy, the others are "nah not my type!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:37 AM
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I ended it. Yes that relationship failed, but many good times were had. I still love and respect them because they are a good human unlike most women who treat men like commodities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:29 PM
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that you do not know about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:28 PM
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Having a long marriage like relationship is not failing at relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:24 PM
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That is ideal. The most sought after men, the celebrities, professional athletes, can have a woman in their bed and a bunch of DTF "plates" they can call over when they are elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:19 PM
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Many women go out looking for hook ups and are very selective in the men they choose to have casual sex with. Quite the opposite of "picking random guy when I am feeling down" Just offering a different perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:18 PM
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So, they can pick one of the sexy fun men, who exhibit those traits, to marry. The market for this is small. There are many more women looking for this than there are available men. Women clearly do not care about your perspective, given how many are perfectly satisfied being fat while still looking for "mr perfect"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:11 PM
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You don't have any romantic life experience. You have the same life experience as a religious woman who got married to her sweetheart. I know. I was in an 9 year relationship. It didn't prepare me at all for all the shit women expect when I got out of said relationship. You are living in la la land. Go try being single. Then share your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:09 PM
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Your husband has lots of kinks you don't know about because you don't want to know. Your living in la la land thinking a man not pushing for his kinks means he has none
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:02 PM
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Your the one who said you'd throw a guy away if he became vanilla farther into the relationship. Also what do you kinky women even want? You are so proud to go around online talking about being "kinky" and disparaging vanillas sex but I notice when I ask about your sexual proclivities, even online, you go mute. Sounds like you are ashamed of your kinkiness, you can't even name it out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:00 PM
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may vary wildly across the group of people who dress alternatively. Or they may not...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:58 PM
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a guy who is doing >50% of the household chores, is the better and more enthusiastic cook, gardener, parent and interior designer? Cause he lacks sexual charisma. Those type of sacrificial qualities are less present in sexy fun men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:52 PM
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I agree. I think women are happiest in poly and cuckhold relationships. They get to sample whichever men they want, that push their emotional buttons in different ways. And they get to retain the comfort man at home to support them in life. No need to marry for any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:49 PM
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but the values others project on alternative or sexy dress are not necessarily the values they express for the wearer. I read this three times and you do have to explain this because grammatically it is not making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:48 PM
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Another pointless conversation, next time dont' bother responding. You must be lonely to want to ping pong with so many men here and never actually discuss anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:47 PM
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I never think my love interests are the "most beautiful people in the world". I think of them exactly how they are in reality. You like to live in delusion, and supercharge your emotions. That is childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:46 PM
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You left out the part where you will fuck outside a relationship with unsincere men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:42 PM
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Do you think deceptive men also have more sexual charisma and are more entertaining than boring, moral men, with principles and values. You know, the guys you never met apparently, in your dating phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:38 PM
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My point is that you have very little to add to this sub, which is about the experience of dating and singles. Its like a religious girl who got married to her high school sweetheart arguing with single men in their late twenties about what women want. What a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:35 PM
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I should be crazy about the guy in the beginning and be deluded that he is the most handsome man ever. That really seems like mental illness. Like are you an adult woman or a teenage girl crushing over a popstar?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:33 PM
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You don't believe how you dress is a reflection of your values and your sense of self? Sounds kind of autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:31 PM
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Lots of men suppress their kinks. Its part of being a guy, because women are very picky about male sexuality. For example "no submissive" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:29 PM
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So you want men to cater to you sexually and if they don't you end the relationship. You would never sacrifice sexually for a man. What if he gets injured? Thrown in the trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:26 PM
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20 years Doubt you even enjoy sex with him at all. Yall are roommates, be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:23 PM
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What purpose do non-religious men have to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:22 PM
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If hes a virgin he hasn't been close enough to a woman to "love" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:21 PM
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oh so you agree with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:20 PM
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Its a negative, but not a significant negative. You are trying to pathologize it and then referrin to a minority of men. Do you even like uncut cocks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:19 PM
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So again, you are misdirecting by throwing things out like "my boyfriend was not sexually charismatic" when you are talking abou underage virgin sex. What about when you are 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:18 PM
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Introverts want to do social couples activities as well... Just say your find introverts boring and you need to be constantly entertained
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:18 AM
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very unlikely that a virgin man has any significant emotional attachment to any particular woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:14 AM
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You guys are just a bunch of nerds, have you even ever used a dating app or met a man at a bar? doubt it. You are clueless about the average woman and average man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:10 AM
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What a stupid response. Bi woman like men and women, they like men things about men, including their dicks. They like women things about women. I'm just telling you what women are doing, said nothing about what happens to small d guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:58 AM
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They do the same thing "vanilla women" do, find big dick studs to sexually experiment with. OF girls just film themselves in the act
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:52 AM
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Why are you so aggressive and obtuse. What makes you hate? You have a lot of hate in you for a woman. Anyway, you discuss the benefits of the foreskin. There are benefits to being cut too, the obvious one being it smells better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:51 AM
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Thats also why men are losing faith in women. We can see what sluts they are and the type of men and things they do online. In the past you could pass it off as single aberrant woman. Now there are 1000s of new "only fans" creators every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:49 AM
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I'm extremely educated. Women do not give a shit about that. Just like you did not. PhD student lacked sexual charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:45 AM
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Or you could use your brain. Guess thats a little hard for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:44 AM
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What purpose do men have to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:43 AM
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I'm not an intactivist and neither are most men. Not approving of circumcision does not require attacking circumicised men as defective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:42 AM
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Sounds about right for a reddit woman. I doubt you are a catch if you picked a man with no sexual charisma who you had to hold his hand into sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:41 AM
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they tell me I’m worthless, ugly, past the wall, a drain on society, and stupid? They say I shouldn’t have the right to vote and I should be forced to provide sexual service AND risk my life via pregnancy for some fucking man just because he has a DICK. You sound mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:40 AM
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The way she talks about herself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:39 AM
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Ok so you date losers. I am talking about women who sleep with charismatic top tier guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:58 AM
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You aren't a man, why would men treat you like a man. Hang out with women if you dont want to deal with sexual attraction. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:48 AM
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You don't even care about the men on this sub, why would anyone believe that you care for random people in a foreign country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:44 AM
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By being a respectful, mature and interesting person. No. You have to be sexually charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:43 AM
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Your point is that an AI can provide validation....? Why don't you divorce your husband if you don't care about male validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:31 AM
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They don't need to be in a relationship to be happy I disagree. If you know any men, you would know that is a stupid assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:28 AM
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half of you do not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:26 AM
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Western women do not want to have kids anyway so who cares about this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:20 AM
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Ya he will be a player, unless hes shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:17 AM
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Everyone that avoids approaching does so because they are anxious and shy. Its universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:16 AM
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Girl power! WOmen are wonderful! You must be really intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:15 AM
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Theres always signs, you liked their dominant behavior. Passive men are rarely abusive, but they aren't sexy either, so you don't pick them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:14 AM
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they are definitely are open to dating shorter guys but are filtered out by them because of their height No. They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:57 AM
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You sound like a huge narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:53 AM
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Tall women by and large, hate shorter men and don't view them as viable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:50 AM
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Very few tall dudes are handsome. They were birth by tall ugly faced fathers, and the pattern continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:47 AM
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Just as you don’t want to go out and try to meet women IRL because it takes too much effort What a delusional take. Approaching and meeting women in public has nothing to do with "effort" its overcoming approach anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:44 AM
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Or absolutely drooling over her boobs and ass, imagining having sex with her You do not want your partner to see you this way? In my experience women DESPISE sexually passive men who don't want to fuck them 24/7 and fail to get erections at the drop of a hat for seeing their ass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:36 AM
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Every relationship I've had with a man (except my husband) I've been abused in some way. They must have had a some pretty great qualities for you to pick abusive men. Was the sex really good or something? I can't think of why I would pick an abusive women to be with unless I got something great out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:31 AM
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If hes high value male who gets a lot of attention from women he will DEFINTELY treat them like objects. Maybe until he finds that one he wants to be his wife, but lots of pump and dumps leading up to that. But its ok, women enjoy being objects for men like him. So its all good. Both people get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:28 AM
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You banged them. You thought they were amazing at one point or you'd never have sex with them. What a self-own. "I only let those douches fuck my pussy but they only got to do it a few times, now look at them! They had to find a new girl who will have sex with them for same reasons I did!" What a thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:21 AM
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Gentlemanly betas do not get sex and they are very nice to women. Only sexually charismatic men get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:19 AM
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You are rare and that makes you insecure. You missed out on a lot of interesting situations and interesting men because you latched on to your beta early on. You did not sample the rainbow like so many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:17 AM
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Oh and how often do you get rejected when you proposition a man? When have you tried to kiss a man and have him pull away and look both ways and smirk at you. Or reject a hug. Have them eye roll at you for not being entertaining enough? You don't initiate shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:11 AM
1

Circumsized dicks are not terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:04 AM
1

So what do you call dominant personality sexually charismatic men? You realize we are talking about the same men. We are talking about people who exist. What ever the fuck you label it does not matter, do you realize how stupid it is to obsess about labels? Just cause you like arguing with men instead of being genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:59 AM
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If you did not sleep with big dick alpha males, then just say you didn't sleep with big dick alpha males. Thats what my comment referenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:55 AM
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You should leave me alone. Keep your opinions to yourself next time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:54 AM
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Because it is so easy for women to have sex and much harder for men. And women love sex just as much as men, according to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:53 AM
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No I mean women who are mean, bitchy and lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:52 AM
1

Why don't you troll the bitchy slutty women on here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:51 PM
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More women are doing it than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:49 PM
1

Your the one who doesn't enjoy dick, thats gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:17 PM
1

Oh you don't enjoy penis in your vagina? Got it. Maybe you are lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:07 PM
9

Why can't women wait until after high school? You are too horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:04 PM
1

Few times
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:02 PM
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not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:01 PM
1

how often have you had sex with a large dicked man who knew how to use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:28 PM
1

then theres no point to your comment. it doesnt apply to mine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:27 PM
0

Are you trying to say that your first boyfriend was a big dick alpha compared to your hubby?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:47 PM
6

Most women hook up, just not all the time or for their entire lives
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:46 PM
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Virgin women have more enjoyable sex with average men and appreciate them more than women who have casual sex with dig dick alphas
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:44 PM
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A lot of women get REALLY fat though past a certain age. Thats why I am always wary of latina women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:43 PM
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DOesn't matter what happens as long as its an alpha that makes you giggle and your pussy tingle, female sexuality is pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:39 PM
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Ya having a dick in you sounds so terrible omg. I am all outstep with your fantasies about dick I used the wrong words oh no, if only I had talked about you getting dick your vagina a different way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:34 PM
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oh you mean hes a porn addict, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:33 PM
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No, dumpsterdiving is just having low standards for being attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:06 PM
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It does actually. The only attractive women he will ever have a chance with are insecure types who prioritize the looks of a guy over his other qualities of status and skill because they are worried they can't do better. Or more likely he will settle for a girl way below his looksmatch. Anyway your friend was a kid, he has plenty of opportunity to spread his wings as he matures. Ugly dudes are stuck where they are after "social-maxing".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:54 AM
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Isn't all female pop music based around casual sex? They love it. They listen to cardi b, meghan the stallion, and all the grungey lesser known girls rapping about their pussies and asses and finding this big dick and that big dick? I pulled up to 4 girls just last night and they were singing along to the nastiest degrading music ever. They LOVED it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:52 AM
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I am talking about society at large. Not my own experiences. I have only had loving monogamous long term relationships. Its women like you who base relationships around sex as the primary keystone and you end relationships for the same reasons. Your insult shows how sex obsessed you are Do you enjoy trying to insult men based on their sexual skill? Is that engrained in the female psyche? When did you start using those insults as a little girl? When you were a teen? Or younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:48 AM
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Still dumpsterdiving lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:45 AM
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Shell come back to him if he fucks her good enough and he can discard her over and over to his liking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:16 AM
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And are all the guys getting hook ups and situationships? Right down to the uggos or beta types?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:14 AM
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Average Women get to sample a smorgasbord of different types of men be it with sex, dating, or just socializing. Even if sex is not involved, because of womens neverending supply of male attention their standards and pickiness go up and up and up until they calculate they will start to run out of time and their looks decline then they pick someone, usually never the "best" guy they dated or had sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:12 AM
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No, I am just saying you loved those men, those alpha men whoa pproached you, they just said one wrong thing. If they had said something slightly different you would have loved them over a beta bitch any day of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:08 AM
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What happens when hes a boring beta bitch that doesn't entertain you or make you laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:07 AM
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I get tons of matches on tinder. So many I turn off the finder because its stressful having to try to start 10 conversations with women, half of them don't respond at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:06 AM
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Thats just because you were dumpster diving.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:01 AM
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Most men don't even approach women like that. You are ONLY dealing with alpha men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:55 AM
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You like intelligent sexually charismatic people, not intelligent people. Just stop with your moralizing of your attraction, its pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:52 AM
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Relationships are easy. They almost always fail because of SEX. You are delusional for thinking otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:51 AM
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Intelligent men are boring too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:55 AM
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Women can help men create the skill of generating a "spark". They just choose not to because they are narcissistic and have no empathy for men, just use men for sex, thrills, entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:55 AM
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Aggressive penetration is not jackhammering. ya because you find scared men to be beta bitches. Just admit it. You like dominate alphas. I did eventually date someone who was very sexually reserved Awww you settled for the beta bitch once, how cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:53 AM
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Well women definitely do not, because they do not need to. They leech off of male social energy. Thats why I specified men. Men are the only ones motivated to change their personalities, and even then its almost impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:51 AM
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How could either of them demonstrate that they "don't respect you".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:51 AM
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Are they respecting her bodily autonomy when they are choking her while they fuck her? Or their BDSM garbage where they tie her up and use her like meat?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:41 AM
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Most women like dominant fun charismatic men and don't give two shits about his "morals". Nor are they thinking about his "morals' when hes making her cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:32 AM
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Why would they find "progressive guys" more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:31 AM
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Then the crazy boyfriend shows up and attacks and tries to kill you. Happened to a friend of mine. Smashed through his glass back screen door, luckily friend has some martial skills and managed to choke him out (because the guy was high on top of it all)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:15 AM
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Only crazy women ask a man about his politics before she sleeps with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:12 AM
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What a load of bullshit. The vast majority of people in relationships settle, and have a line of never ending relationship problems almost always stemming from SEX. Be kind, work hard, have fun This isn't how men attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:10 AM
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Those men would still have had sex with you just like all the other men did, aggressively penetrating you. You just did not like their beta gentleman quality so you had no interest in seeing their sexual side when they leave the inhibitions aside. The fact that you think a man who is beta is asexual, shows your are narcissistic and lack any empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:07 AM
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We think i went on a date with a really nice guy in every other way but there was no spark, that's a shame Its a shame he did not have the skills to turn you on. Men with sexual charisma will turn you on every time, but you pretend its some chaos and "spark" like random energy. Nope, its just that the vast majority of men lack sexual charisma. You aren't special and you aren't selecting for "spark" you are just filtering out men who lack sexual charisma to your standards. Its not unique snowflak…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:05 AM
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Interesting take, definitely super narcissistic to do that. "The men I choose are the 'good' ones". How ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:59 AM
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Women only reward entertainment, rarely intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:58 AM
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Ya blackpill dudes are mostly retards lost in internet bubbles. Anyone actually out on the scene, going out to fun places, going to meatmarket clubs, anywhere where people meet people, can see that above average looks guys fail all the time due to being boring passive, beta ect. Talking about personality is BS though because the vast majority of men cannot change their personalities. So it doesn't matter, your personality is what it is. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:51 AM
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The girl last night certainly thought so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:48 AM
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Right so when the Netherlands becomes Majority Minority, then we will see how yall behave and how "fascist" you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:47 AM
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Most men who struggle do not treat women anymore like objects than attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:45 AM
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They weren't actually interested in your personality all that much. They just knew how to play the game with you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:01 PM
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Men can't change their personalities. The same men are selected for sex regardless if its based on their bodies or their personalities, in all cases you are cutting the majority of men out of casual sex. Most men are not charming flirts who can impress women with their wit at bars. And they never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:00 PM
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if I’m choosing between one average looking guy with a personality I vibe with who seems like he respects me as a human Why do you assume he respects you anymore than the hot guy? Because he makes you giggle and has a good sense of humor? Are you really this shallow about people? Fucking a man because his personality appeals to you, is no more shallow than fucking him because his body shape and face appeals to you. They are both superficial judgements. Some guy making you giggle doesn't tell you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:56 PM
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Hes probably not treating women like objects. He probably treats them like a gentleman, and they pass him for the guy who touches her thigh early in the date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:55 PM
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How do abusers hide their intention to abuse women? If women sense all this energy from men and can "read" men left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:53 PM
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Europe is way more fascist than the USA. What country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:47 PM
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Ya I am telling you. Deal with it. Stop lying and gaslighting people then you won't get called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:47 PM
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intense working out, skincare, dieting, optional grooming routines like makeup, manicures, facials, elaborate hair styling and maintenance. None of those determines female attractiveness besides dieting, ie. being healthy not a fatty. Men look for genetic signifiers of attractiveness in women just like women look for in men. This idea women have that they go from "hot to not" when they get their hair done or put some make up on is myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:42 PM
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No they see America as a source of evil because they see it as a racist "white supremacist nation" which is also what I am guessing your country is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:39 PM
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Women aren't comparable to men. The bell curve for male bodies, and male behavior is MUCH wider and more diverse than for females. I guarantee those differences you described among the women you dated in the past are extremely mild compared to the differences in men your girl has experienced if she is "experienced" and high n-count. Some men have immense sexual charisma. Some men have ZERO. And they can look exactly the same physically. Or Some men have huge impressive dicks. Some men have liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:23 PM
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None of that is interesting or attractive to women. Women are attracted to charisma only.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:15 PM
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But women do not need men, so why would they be bothered by not being able to find a man. All we hear is that women can be happy without men in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:14 PM
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I would find a physically hot nerd woman an ideal pairing for me. As I am a physically hot, handsome man with nerdy tendencies. However they do not exist. Nerd hobbies intrinsically attract unattractive women. There are specific areas of society that hot women congregate in, and others they reject. Women are herd followers, they determine their interests based on what they think other women and other men approve of. What is "cool".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:10 PM
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Democrats hate the country though. They have endless amounts of self-deprication and self-guilt or are minorities who see the USA as someone elses country (white peoples) but not theirs and hate it for racism. So Democrats hate American much more intensely compared to Europeans who are just neutral and "not patriotic". Europeans do not see their country as a source of evil or shame like the American left does
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:06 PM
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Once a woman gets blown out by a man better looking than you, better at sex than you, more sexually charismatic than you, with a more impressive cock than yours, you will always be vanilla to her, not nirvana. Always #2 (or #5 or #10). Good enough. Settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:00 PM
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Male nerds outnumber female nerds 10:1. You are just repeating the same mean spirited competition narrative that men should all be competing and a huge chunk of losers should just fuck off and except there are no women for them. Let me repeat. There are not enough "nerdy" women to match with all the "nerdy" men. Youre observation that nerd men should just look for nerd women, means you are consigning them to be single for life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:58 PM
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Cause through her you can meet even better women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:54 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:53 PM
1

What sport do you play
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:45 PM
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Everyone who likes dick has been fucked by dick at least a few times. Its impossible to be sexually attracted to penis and not want to be penetrated by it, even as an experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:13 PM
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Guess its similar to strippers. Sure other guys get to see everything, but only one gets sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:29 PM
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No. They have higher standards than female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:28 PM
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You can do all the things that make men valuable AND retain your female privilege. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:03 PM
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Who exactly are they fucking though? Thats what I wonder about when I see them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:57 PM
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High school is high school. Thread is about adult relationships with mature people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:49 PM
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Being not your type, does not preclude him from being attractive and having qualities that you find attractive in a man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:48 PM
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Hes not a chad he just works in highly sexual industry and is tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:46 PM
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If it had zero effect on your dating life then something is wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:45 PM
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But they don’t have to be fuckable or meet as many standards as a relationship does The standards for a woman to accept a straight male friend are SKY HIGH compared to the standards another man has to accept a male friend or hang out with a new dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:41 PM
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I am saying beyond a certain age, women do not want to be friends with single straight men, period. You are implying I am avoiding female friendships, its the exact opposite! There are hardly any to be disappointed by because women show such little interest in male friendships beyond when they are single and looking to date/fuck those "fun guys" they start hanging with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:39 PM
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I am friends with a few ugly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:38 PM
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More thought out than yours for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:30 PM
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So a man can have a boatload of male friends who appreciate his personality but somehow his personality is also shit at the same time and thats why he doesn't have female friends. Is that what you are saying? Schordingers personality. You just proved my point. Women only want to be friends with high value men (highly entertaining personalities or highly attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:29 PM
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Right so they are both attractive, just not attractive "to you" for the purpose of dating. You just proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:26 PM
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Most women are not charismatic or fun. They just have the privilege of being the gatekeepers of all relationships, friends and lovers alike
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:25 PM
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Cause women don't want to be friends with average men, they only want to be friends with high value men (highly entertaining or highly attractive)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:24 PM
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Looking at who is friends in my life, try using your brain instead of performing for an anonymous audience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:30 PM
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Off-topic. Save it for a forum that doesn't ban all discussion of race and racial fetishism that is rampant in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:29 PM
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From observing who women pick to be their male friends. And the types of social dynamics at play
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:28 PM
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No, women only date up. There is a large pool of unnattractive men that get absolutely zero attention from women. The way you are framing it is that looks-matched people all end up together, so there is an ugly girl for each ugly guy. Thats not how it works at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:26 PM
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If women are inviting you, a single straight man, to their social events, its a good sign for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:25 PM
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She has no morals. Her morals are basically if something makes her feel good, than its good. If theres something she doesn't like then its bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:15 PM
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Never been my experience. Dorky guys who are unnattractive and can't pull women have zero women, or at best they befriend women even worse off than them. The hierarchy for friendships and sex is nearly identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:14 PM
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Even if they are not the same, you would think both would be looked down upon and selected against when dating, looking for a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:13 PM
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For sure. It is 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:12 PM
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Most men cannot change their personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:08 PM
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I respect your detailed response. Do you know these men who have lots of sex and very few female friends? Why would women not want to be friends with outgoing men, its free entertainment. Its like saying you don't prefer to watch a good entertaining movie. I don't care which personality traits women prefer, my point is that women filter out men and men have no control over this, so stop telling men to get more girly friends because those girls do not want to be friends with him. Just like in sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:03 PM
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Being treated kindly is not the same thing as being friends. Do you go out to bars with those women? Get invited to their friends parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:01 PM
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I'm guessing you are ugly. Sorry handsome, fit men (me) get sex, more news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:58 PM
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Rarely happens. Its a fever dream online. I never see Hotties wit dorky friends who struggle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:54 PM
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Nope. I like parity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:53 PM
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Nothing in my OP assumes friendships lead to sex. I'm talking about, how YOU, as a woman, pick your straight male friends and mixed gender friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:51 PM
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Women want to be friends with the same guys they want to fuck. So they will not be friends with you unless you already attractive. Unattractive men CANNOT make female friends. Unless, like in dating and sex, they pursue women who are ugly and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:50 PM
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Talking about how you feel with other people is not using them. Braindead take from you, as per usual. Spending time with others and enjoying others company is not "using them". I go out with friends - friends I enjoy time with - male or female Not that I would ever want to be friends with you as you sound like a terrible narcissistic woman, but the thread is about how you choose friends. So respond to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:47 PM
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That is... something. Wow. At least you don't have any children to pass down those sterling moral principles to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:14 PM
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Women will tend to find hypotheticals like that far less engaging to talk about if there is no correlation to their own life. Sounds like narcissism. Oh but we aren't allowed to say women are more narcissistic than men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:11 PM
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I have had lots of sex with many people. More than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:06 PM
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Also don't those guys who get taken along by women get viewed as "the gay dude" or "the sexually uninterested dude" No? They don't know anything about him. Only that hes her friend. Where do you get this stuff? Online I am guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:05 PM
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Those guys are fools. They can use her status to meet other women. When she goes to her friends party she will bring him along. He can meet women there. She can vouch for him, hes "safe", just by being her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:47 PM
2

Post-school its harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:43 PM
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Women don't want friendships with single men. Thats why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:43 PM
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Typical homophobic rambling by PPD women. Just call them all fhaggs and be done with it. So tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:40 PM
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Well thats what I want. I think you are ignorant of how much people crave social status, and protect their own self-perceived status. Not everything is about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:39 PM
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How did you meet and become friends with them. I would kill for a larger female friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:37 PM
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but in a way that they don't initiate, never plan anything, will drop you when they find someone they want to date I agree. And also, be honest. When is the last time you made a genuine female friend. I also have two friendships with women that I met in college and we try to maintain the friendship and live close by each other. Meeting a girl who wants to be friends with me now, is a fool errand. They have zero interest unless they want to fuck me, see me as dating material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:35 PM
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I don't understand men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:33 PM
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Most men are "desperate" to be included in a mixed gender social group with looksmatched women doing fun mixed gender social group things. They are not desperate to fuck every girl that socializes with him. There is nothing more status signaling for a man than to walk around town, around the city with attractive women by your side. Women know this and they are loath to include men they deem unworthy, unnattractive, in their socializing, their brunches, their nights out. It has nothing to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:31 PM
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I have found the opposite. Women are VERY picky with the men they add to their friend circles. Especially after say college age, but even during college. Maybe its because my demo is upper middle class/wealthy white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:25 PM
2

Says the guy who fucks all his female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:23 PM
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I don't want to fuck my female friends either. Its women who are for some reason assuming the worst of men AND saying that sexually successful men are less interested in fucking them, then sexually unsuccessful men, which is not correct in my opinion. The responses so far have claimed that women choose male friends based on how desperate they believe those men to be, because then.... they are safer from sexual advances from men who have lots of sex? It makes no sense. But I guess this will be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:22 PM
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My post stipulates straight men. Women don't see gay men as men, they see them as women. "One of the girls". Neutered males. Entertainment sissies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:07 PM
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Wrong. That is dehumanizing towards sexually unattractive men. By that logic you should avoid all male friendships because most men would fuck you if given the chance, just to try it. Just to give it a go. I disagree. Its absolutely about is he "worthy" to be my friend. That is what women are thinking about, not "does he want to fuck me". Most men want to fuck her. Thats a given for her. You are being disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:05 PM
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I'm just saying that women are way worse IRL than they are in this sub. This sub actually is a reflection of neglected and low value women. IRL women are cold bitches, they need constant entertainment from men, and the most brutal redpill takes tend to describe a majority of females. Especially ones with high self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:46 PM
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Most people are not doing interesting things and most started interests are lie that receive a few hours a month at best. So its all bullshit anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:44 PM
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This is just a reframing of alpha fucks, beta fucks. Men have to compete for every scrap of attention from women, every interaction, doesn't matter if its friendship or sex or just the opportunity to get to know a bit of their personality. Women are always evaluating whether you are "worthy" to be interacted with in any personal capacity. Cold bitches most of em Same thing we with "women don't like having sex, my wife is never in the mood". For YOU shes not in the mood. Tough luck loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:39 PM
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Why is this sub filled with women who say they like "anime". This sub must be filled with autistic homebody women. None of you are like the women I see out and about in my city. Or that I meet on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:37 PM
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You are because you are far more selective as to which penises you let in your body then they are with which vaginas they want to enter. You are offering and they are partaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:31 PM
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You know it when you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:30 PM
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Nah, studies have not proven any such link. Unlike studies showing women increase in downsyndrome dramatically rises past 40
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:29 PM
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I see tons of fat women with non-fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:03 PM
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Women want barbarians. Women don't want sissies and dainty fellows. Women are not attracted to gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:59 PM
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The masculinity in males that attracts people to males is very very rarely found naturally in females, thats all there is too it. Other trappings of masculinity are esthetic, superficial, skin deep, which is what Tomboys and lesbians imbibe. Many men also fail at imbibing that type of masculinity that attracts people to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:56 PM
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Then why did you just respond "lol exactlyyyyy" to some poster sayings hes boring, and some other poster negging him saying hes terrible for talking about pissing in a bush playing golf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:53 PM
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The point is they lost access to sex with you and thats 80% of what they craved. Your in denial pretending you have the power, when you are offering your body no strings attached to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:52 PM
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Its not that confusing, I FWB (even though I hate FWB culture, I am a man with a sex drive so what can I do) a girl who identifies as a "boy". I have to use he/him with them. They are EXTREMELY feminine, and extremely submissive in bed. At least you aren't delusional about your gender like some of these people. Being a tomboy is not the same thing as being MASCULINE
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:02 PM
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Golf courses are outside, relatively isolated, what is problem with pissing outside. SOunds like you just hate Travis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:59 PM
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hes the leader youre the follower
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:57 PM
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Wow, people want to date/fuck archetypes instead of amorphous blobs, what a shocker, lets shame them for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:56 PM
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If you are very submissive in the bedroom how did you attract her in the first place, I imagine the firs time you had sex was very awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:54 PM
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You have no frame of reference, size queen fraud!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:30 PM
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YOu've never seen a small dick?! Then how do you know the big ones are big
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:04 PM
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So youve seen enough little ones to compare
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:02 PM
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incestuous friend group
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:01 PM
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Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:00 PM
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Literally every female popstar has been quoted talking about mens dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:55 AM
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Women care about penis size, not men. Men care that women care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:54 AM
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Twinks grow up, they still have twink features.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:53 AM
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Sounds like orgasms don't feel like much to you. Another example of the "female orgasm" being a fleeting mercurial thing. Maybe you just aren't orgasming when you have "bad sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:52 AM
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Then why didn't you make a move from the get go
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:51 AM
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Then why are you ranking orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:25 AM
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No its what you said. Big dicks = better orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:21 AM
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The study did not look at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:18 AM
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So the biggest dick gave you the best orgasm. SOunds like you should dump your guy and find a bigger one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:17 AM
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You mean you feel more valuable being with a big dick, sounds like a self esteem issue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:13 AM
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You didn't answer my question about when you started sexualizing her. I don't pursue woman I've been friends with, they are friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:09 AM
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Studies show half of women my age who want to have children will not have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:08 AM
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No, I said you would have failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:05 AM
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Cope. Big dicks are the ultimate representation of masculinity, everyone who likes dick likes big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:03 AM
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They probably were not even big
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:59 AM
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It rots Americans brains. Particularly the moralizing left that thinks their political opponents are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:57 AM
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Were you jerking off to her before you actually got together? I find long term friends ----> relationship a strange development
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:44 AM
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Kids. TBH I don't really care if the marriage lasts or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:42 AM
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If you were 33 and single you would not have had children. You would have been out of time. I am 32 and can easily have kids over the next decade, though I am starting to feel a bit of pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:33 AM
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I dont trust these studies at all. Its funny watching women whose eggs are drying up try to claim men also have a biological clock when we all know they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:31 AM
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They wanted a relationship to keep having sex with you. Clearly you stopped having sex with them. Probably after the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:30 AM
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Hows that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:48 PM
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So how you filtering in the hung men without asking for dick pics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:42 PM
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I would have preferred to have remain intact, but from a visual perspective, and taste, smell, circumsized is better. Uncut dicks will always smell strongly of smegma unless right out of the shower. From a functional perspective, foreskins are better. They are basically built-in "pocket-pussy sleeves" that allow for gliding action.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:41 PM
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SO you are just asking them for dick pics. You sound like a gay man on grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:31 PM
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Just go walk around outside and pay attention to the interracial couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:29 PM
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you are not his type I am 95% of gay guys types.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:33 AM
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If hes not hitting on me or something in that vein, giving me that extra attention, then hes not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:29 AM
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You were more interested in them than they were. You had sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:25 AM
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I assume people are gay based on their mannerisms not how they talk about women. Otherwise I'd have to assume every single polite inhibited man is gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:23 AM
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Her baby daddy must fuck her real good, animal wild sex. She probably enjoys being under a base mans power, a man not afraid to slap a bitch ect. Good job on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:19 AM
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I don't know what making allusions to being attracted to women would be. You want him to tell you he likes your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:18 AM
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how does a straight man talk about women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:13 AM
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ya mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:13 AM
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Except for the women that really love black men, which I see walking around with them anytime I go out in any fun neighborhood in my city.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:07 AM
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Its a problem with a lot of young men. A lot of young men come off as straight-up gay these days. They basically copy feminine mannerisms because our biased society worshipping women and declaring all masculine people to be "toxic". Personally I know two married guys that come off very gay. And I know some gays who don't come off as gay at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:04 AM
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Because its much more complicated than that. So its essentially wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:00 AM
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Does anyone tell him that he comes off as gay. Or is that too taboo for yall
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:56 AM
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All a man has to be is shy and he will be single forever. Doesn't matter his other qualities. Women want to be taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:55 AM
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As a fellow white man, settle down son. You coming off as an insecure spazz. Datings apps do not tell this story, and they haven't kept track of race preference in decades at this point anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:48 AM
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And who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:26 AM
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Not much data to support that actually. Black guys have an ever growing amount of clout as a group due to music, sports, porn, dicksize, so they will always have a large market.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:24 AM
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Its very good. The Injera bread has a flavor I never experienced before
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:14 AM
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Usually its the opposite, good looking white guys are raceblind, they can't tell a hot asian girl from an uggo one... can guess which ones give them the most attention, the uggo ones. I mostly see average white dudes with way BELOW average asian girls. And I have seen total white studs with like 3/10 asian girls on their arms. One has to wonder who the white girls are dating if so many white guys are dating asians
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:12 AM
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Don't know what that means, I don't really want to have that conversation anyway. Looking into the mindsets of women is disturbing and demoralizing as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:04 AM
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No I just see little cunts constantly using homophobic insults and language towards trump people. Glad you aren't in that homophobic camp, thanks for clarifying. Next time if you want to put a point on it, just call me trump's little fhaggot bitch, it means the same thing that you said, Miss progressive lefty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:03 AM
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Women here say all the time that they don't care about male competition, that guys competing against each other is stupid and "showing off for men, not women". That women don't care who men respect, thats not what turns them on and what makes them want to have sex with a man, that its all about how he treats women, not men. So why would women care that you inspire confidence in a bunch of 18 year old boys going off to war. Women care more that you told her a naughty joke and made her giggle and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:34 AM
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They described him as physically unnattractive. He also lost his virginity to a prostitute. Not the mark of a magnetic ladys man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:24 AM
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By reading books about him that have accounts from women and what they thought of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:49 AM
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You are trying to shame me by implying I have homosexual feelings towards donald trump. Is this where you repeat your question over and over again. How is this homophobi? How is this homophobic? You are implying sucking a dick is shameful, gay ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:49 AM
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Just accept that its weird to say that your kids will end up in shity lives because you make $100k/yr instead of $150k/yr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:47 AM
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Trans identities do not "sort themselves out". They continue with sunk cost delusions. Its completely different than being "punk"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:04 AM
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What does that have to do with you? You live your life based on "data"? What a strange argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:02 AM
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Read multiple books about him. Andrew Roberts for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:01 AM
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Woah homophobia from a anti-trumper, what a surprise. You going to call me a fhaggot next?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:58 PM
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Sorry hun, but your arguing with someone who has never been in an abusive relationship and has never abused anyone. Your life of abuse is alien to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:58 PM
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Having a husband doesn't make you traditional though does it It does. Many modern women never get married. Like a least a third of 30 year old women will never get married and have husbands. You ignored the part of my post where she uses men like bull-studs until she decides to change her ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:56 PM
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What do you mean wtf? You think you can get dominated in bed every night and still be on equal footing? Your the bottom, hes the top. Your his cumdumpster ect ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:53 PM
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He was charismatic with men (soldiers), not women.. As we see, women don't respect anything much a man does unless he turns her on, then hes the best man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:53 PM
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We live in a society where even two parents are no longer enough to ensure a middle-class lifestyle for our kids Kids don't need money to be happy or grow into successful adults. This is just another lie you tell yourself. Its not about the kids, its about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:51 PM
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A plastic surgeon wrote an article a couple years ago saying that female runners look old and haggard and come to him and theres nothing he can do. They age themselves through stress. They are confused because they think of themselves as these hyper healthy beings, and are confused why they look worse than the woman who lived a moderately healthy, comfortable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:13 AM
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Then what are you getting offended by, to declare my statements "rage bait". I would even hazard to guess that that man had some qualities that your husband lacks, and thats why you weren't curious about what he really thought about things and let it get to the point of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:10 AM
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The women, because they aren't hating "men" just men with small penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:05 AM
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This is what I actually believe to be the case. Maybe one day you will pick a loving, open, and honest partner and keep them around long enough to experience true trust and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:02 AM
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I am a cynic so that is part of why I fail to relate to and struggle to empathize with these types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:00 AM
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Being scammed is not the same thing as being abused in a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:55 AM
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Nope. You just weren't curious. No need to hide his intentions when you didn't really ever care to know them in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:40 AM
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Insulting men for their penises makes men hate women. So you are just creating more hateful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:37 AM
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Trump actually has a large dick. Theres been other women who've made comments. Stormy Daniels AFTER starting her feud with him, is the only one to say like something about how its just an "ok" dick or something. If a pornstar can't even call your dick small, then its big. Cause her frame of reference will be all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:33 AM
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No they dont Keep telling yourself that. I bet your girl told you that "you have a the perfect size, not too big, not too small". The gaslighting men go through is unbelievable when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:32 AM
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Many men and women are cruel. Those with power tend to exercise cruelty more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:31 AM
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Bruh, good point, shes literally just a female andrew tate. Its hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:27 AM
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specific feeling like it comes off from insecurity So you see men you feel are insecure, and that gives you the impulse to shame them for their penises. You really sound like a gem.... i see no reason to shame him for it Yet you shame him for it. What exactly is going on in that mind of yours? It seems very topsy turvy. Do you need a moment to get your thoughts in order? I wonder if your dad has a small dick, maybe you will pass it on to your son.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:24 AM
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Sorry were you treated like property? No? Then what the fuck are you talking about. You didn't experience anything those women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:23 AM
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Body shaming has nothing to do with criticizing, rightly or wrongly, male or female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:22 AM
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Most women want big dicks that are "too big". The amount of men with actually "too big" dicks for a woman to enjoy is a rounding error. There are many many many men with MUCH bigger dicks than yours, that your girl would prefer and enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:17 AM
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Yes ofc, want whatever you want in the bedroom Submission in the bedroom is submission outside the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:08 AM
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Sounds like you didn't know him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:56 AM
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Napoleon is the perfect example of a sexually self conscious man taking what he can get and jumping into the arms of the first woman that gives him a shred of affection and understanding. He was the original tech nerd $200k+ salary beta that struggles with women because the women are more attracted to the charismatic bartender. Eventually he did grow into his huge status and had a bunch of mistresses but I think he was always a bit insecure. Ridley Scott still did him dirty in his movie by portr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:54 AM
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definition makes you a hypocrite. No. Things are only comparable if they are comparable. A 12 year old boy watching porn is not comparable to a 20 year old girl having a 3some with two football players.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:48 AM
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Ya I guess youre not good enough for those women. If you aren't getting what you want, then you definitely failed at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:38 AM
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I agree men say a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:37 AM
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You’re just itching for a way to be insecure That is the universal challenge facing men with how modern women are. That makes you a hypocrite. Men and women are different. You can't compare the experiences of men and women say that because a man experienced x, thats equivalent of a woman experiencing y. That goes for "marks" as well. I can't answer your body count question because I have never thought about a specific number, but rather the behavior of the woman, the context of the sex, and who …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:36 AM
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Oh wow, you must be so attractive and sexy to have that happen to you. You must be a complete stud. You ever met another man as successful as you? Everyone must be jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:27 AM
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abusers are so clever They aren't clever. They just have things the other person wants. Could be a great sense of humor. Could be a nice dick. A high status social or professional life. Or maybe shes desperate and hes just the only moderately tall guy to give her a chance. Point is, they aren't "clever", the woman just wants things that he has, so she ignores the red flags, willingly. Men also choose to be abused. The alternative is having no pussy... can't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:24 AM
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So. You are doing the same to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:20 AM
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How many marks can a woman leave on YOU until you’re no longer valuable to women? Women can't leave any sexual marks on me. Porn already did that job when I was 12. The majority of men have felt every kind of sexual emotion one can have through porn. If a woman has had 6 LTRs, is that a high body count? Body count is subjective. If you are dating seriously or even choosing casual sex partners that I feel are compatible with my masculine ego, then we have no problems. How many “marks” can I woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:18 AM
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Yeh, sit there and respectfully ask about her goals in life I unironically do this on dates, because I find people to be interesting in general. And you are right, I think it just makes them think I am beta and not sexually charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:13 AM
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Women don't invite strange men to their place for sex that they know nothing about and have barely conversed with. Is this a ghetto thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:11 AM
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There are lots of things I would be ok with if I knew the truth and context of her past. Unfortunately women lie about that kind of stuff. You can't have a high body count and have "all LTRs" thats not how life works. I have a few girl friends who enjoy being sexy, showing their assets off, going to places like clubs, raves, and are LTR oriented, and by virtue of this have lower body counts. But unfortunately it just takes one man to leave his mark on a woman. And even in one of my friends cases…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:06 AM
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Just saying you seem to be aggressively oppositional to men saying they don't want a sluty woman.... instead of just being like "oh ya I agree, I also want a guy who dates seriously"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:02 AM
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I don't really care about numbers so much as WHO she slept with. What "types" they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:57 AM
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How the fuck is that a dad bod. Thats like a completely healthy average male body who goes to the gym a few times a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:50 AM
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You seem to think less of men who criticize women far more than men who use and abuse them through casual sex but say the right feminist words
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:49 AM
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I have a low N count, was in a LTR throughout my 20s. I have never taken a girl home from a bar I met that night and fucked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:46 AM
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The average women holds power over the average man, especially in the beginning of the relationship. Its only when they try to date up and out of their league that they let men treat them like garbage or even poorly at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:43 AM
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You fucked lots of chads and here you are a single 40 year old woman. Why didn't any of those big dicked studs marry you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:41 AM
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The most important thing to keep in mind is that abusive relationships don't start out as harmful. In fact, they often start out as perfect. Abusive people often have this uncanny ability to quickly figure out what you want, and they pretend to be that. Then, as time goes on, things start to change. It's very subtle, so you don't notice it as first. I don't believe this for a second. Perhaps you are describing the life of a stupid person though. I agree that the stupider someone is, the more lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:34 AM
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Lots of women avoid bad relationships by having principles and morals. Instead of following whatever makes their pussies tingle the most in their fantasies (probably how you live your life)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:30 AM
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Not if its a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:27 AM
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You are a pedant. You are ignoring the meaning of what I am saying and choosing to be autistic about the word inherent. Nothing about the definition of the word inherent has anything to do with "work". This is what inherent means: existing as an essential constituent or characteristic a constitutional inability to tell the truth in the nature of something though not readily apparent an underlying meaning It has nothing to do with work. It means Essentially present. Women have an essentially pres…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:26 AM
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no kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:21 AM
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Irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:21 AM
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Thats fine, I will think less of her for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:20 AM
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So if I want to have casual sex with women you think I will be more successful saying on my profile that I want to bang and am not looking for anything serious? Have you ever had to attract a woman for casual sex? No, you haven't. So you don't know what the fuck you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:19 AM
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I live in Chicago. Not amongst the puritans. Its the radical sex freaks that have more impact on my life by corrupting the minds of women around me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:18 AM
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No, women can't expect men to do things that are gay and turn off women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:15 AM
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Of course you are, no need to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:14 AM
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No. This used to be how the vast majority of women were, until sloot culture took over their minds. Honestly I cannot even get fully hard for a woman when I know I'm just another notch on their bedpost, just another point of comparison in their smorgasbord of experienced men. It feels like paying a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:57 AM
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Ideally Less promiscuous than average. Is not slavishly devoted to worshipping extroversion as the ultimate human personal quality Would never even entertain interracial dating, has no interest in racial fetishism or exoticism Understands and occasionally enjoys catering to male sexuality and male sexual fantasy even when it diverges from typical female fantasies Enjoys critical analysis instead of emotionally latching onto political movements because of the esthetics and mob mentality. Good rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:55 AM
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You realize you are just a typical case of a radical. You are radical on both ends. First you are a radical christian weirdo, and now you are a radical anti-christian weirdo. Try being a normal and having middle of the road opinions, it will suit you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:44 AM
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At least I'm not old. You already blew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:36 AM
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No I did not call women who have consistent values when it comes to sex arrogant. I called women who have inconsistent sexual values arrogant and irritating and I don't want to cater to their categories and their de-humanization of men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:35 AM
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True, I see those women everyday in my line of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:58 AM
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the puritan ideal wants to go back to an era of sexual repression only seen in modern day sharia States No they do not. often create disordered behaviours around sex and inter gender interaction. No. The porn industry does this. Not "puritain ideals". The puritan ideal sees no difference between rape and sex between two unmarried people. It's all the same and they don't care. Wrong again. I am not even religious, but your opposition to the "puritans" sounds about as dogmatic as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:45 AM
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off of the psychology behind fat fetishism Oh did you study that in college? GTFO clown
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:43 AM
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All dating apps men are treating like dial a hoe. How would you know that unless you are the hoe they're dialing up? No connection, no getting to know us, no actual courtship. Just fuck a man and that's to them, equality. Fuck outta here. More projection. You chose to fuck all those men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:39 AM
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Why don't white women just stop making so much porn? Why are rich white western women making the majority of ONLY FANs and not poor african women who could really use the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:38 AM
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So you are thanking him for being successful at casual sex...? Huh? You women and your devotion to players is so strange
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:36 AM
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No you are making assumptions, wrong ones. Thats not how sexual attraction necessarily works. Many people have sexual attraction towards things they know the public does not perceive well or that they know is objectively gross. Like an endless list of disgusting fetishes fit this bill. Just because something gives you a boner does not mean you think its the "most beautiful". Beauty=/= sexy in many cases. You just have an uncurious mindset, its like you absorbed all the popculture blue collar eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:25 AM
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Chubby chasers know fat women are ugly, they just feel that staring at their fat asses jiggling around their dick is worth the trade off. Similar to someone who would date a transsexual so he can suck on her dick in private, he knows hes taking a hit in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:11 AM
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I wish more women thought like you do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:00 AM
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He has low self esteem, maybe a small dick. He probably has zero sexual charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:40 AM
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What a dense reply
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:34 AM
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Probably reality, not fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:34 AM
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Why does she need a man 24/7 at all times?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:29 AM
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Thats just what you tell yourself to take the sting out of all those alpha guys who banged out your girl in the past. But don't worry, you "won".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:27 AM
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Not if you have any kind of decency. Which obviously you don't. Your friend group is probably an incestuous mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:26 AM
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I see it all the time. Basically passive beta guys take what they can get, even the tall handsome ones. I've been out with overweight women too, casually, so I guess I am part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:24 AM
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I'm not talking about dreams, I'm talking about lived behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:13 AM
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top men are higher status than top women, women are down to share a man who has more status than them. Also women who deal with famous men know the reality of the male sex drive, they often aren't fools and understand a mans need for variety, the strong impulses he would have to consistently overcome to avoid female attention that is gifted to him on a plater. Women don't have those impulses. Once they bond to a man they often ignore other men. Being famous forces women to deal with male nature,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:06 AM
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You couldn't be more wrong. Famous men always have more than 1 woman, unless they just plain don't want one. Doesn't matter if their wife is also famous. Amongst famous men (men, not women), harems are the rule. You think the wives that go out to hug their husbands on the superbowl don't know they have a different chick to bang out in each city? THey know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:01 AM
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Wifing up Asians as a white man is basically the same as being a passport bro. You went for lower hanging fruit. I don't say that to insult you, but its the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:57 AM
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only among upper middle class are OF shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:49 AM
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Can you link the NYT article.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:21 AM
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No, I mean produce and sell and post porn. Host sex parties in hotels. Sex isn't "sex". Sex encompasses a huge array of behaviors, many of which are sick crimes at their worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:02 AM
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The wrong people end up being all the same types of dudes though. They are just admitting there's a sexual heirarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:39 PM
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When you hear a woman who is actually devoted to her man and feels hes the best, it comes through in how she talks about him. When she had other flavors in the past that are radically different, some much more stimulating, then we hear a different tone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:38 PM
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Women make too much porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:35 PM
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any sort of sexual expression which isn't bland marital sex for procreation Why is it necessary for people to "sexually express" themselves to the general public? Are you for open nudity, public sex, ect? What exactly is harmful about seeing someone else have sex? This last part doesn't even make any sense I guess to you it doesn't. Those of us that are intellectually curious leave ideology at the doorstep until we have crafted appropriate moral frameworks with which to analyze behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:34 PM
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Its what you don't say about him ;) Everyone talks nice about their person in public
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:31 PM
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Why am I getting married according to your timeline? I don't know why you are getting married at all. Marriage is completely irrelevant for a woman like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:20 PM
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Yes I have been all over Europe and you have no idea how fat and slutty American white women are. Also many of their brains are completely rotted by politics. European men (maybe besides the brits and the french) should be very happy with the state of their women compared to America. I am talking about adults dating 25+. The college crowd does their own thing, and things are always nice and easy in those years if you put in a little effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:18 PM
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When you are a sexually charismatic man, women will play into your sexual fantasies and enjoy them, because they enjoy you and their brain is filled with sexual vaperous neurotransmitters, the intoxicating thrill of being with a high value man. For sexually charismatic men, his fantasies are her fantasies. There is no rejection of the "male fantasy" like there is with boring men. Women who are with particularly sexually charismatic men can even be coerced into making porn, thats how the majority…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:15 PM
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I'm 30, sorry youre old. You should have been married about 5-7 years ago, tells me there is something off about you and your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:10 PM
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Women get to ride their coattails in harems, so the average woman wins too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:08 PM
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still some women in the US with more traditional values They are picky as fuck. Because they know they are special, compared to the fatties, the blue hairs, the crazies, the fetishist women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:06 PM
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Cause youre old, and how you talk about the hubs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:04 PM
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And what about us white men who want white women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:05 PM
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Thats a good line actually, pretty cute and playful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:56 PM
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demanding obedience in exchange for a sandwich They are demanding obedience in exchange for sex. Because most men are not attractive to you women, the men with sexual charisma have immense power over you, and you absolutely submit to them and their desires and preferences. We see it filmed 1000s time over in online porn, the lengths women will go to sexually submit to attractive men. Womens standards are easily manipulated, regardless of their conscious manipulation of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:53 PM
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Aren't you the extremist reactionary for being so afraid of purity culture and traditional sexual restraint that you completely dismiss and deny a massive problem destroying young boys sexuality all around the world? Things are not so black and white, It seems you are so afraid of giving conservatives ammo, that you actively shield yourself from obvious truths. That is not intellectually honest or curious. Its ideological.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:50 PM
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You definitely settled. We all know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:39 PM
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It is a (western) woman's world, we're all just living in it. They control the social proof, social status, self esteem, and sexual pleasure, of men. And with our society having decided that shaming women is "wrong", they can wield this power more effectively than ever. Many men dropping out, but at least women get more short term sexuals highs with studs these days than in years past, hope the orgasms are worth it. What is to stop a woman from having a roster of men to meet all her needs? The r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:33 PM
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If anything, women are inherently at a disadvantage, because in every country in the world parents prefers sons over daughters. There is no country where parents would rather have a daughter than a son. Lets keep the discussion where it matters, the West. If a woman objectifies herself and pleases men she gets attention Do you consider a woman taking care of her appearance, smelling nice, having hygiene, and wearing normal clothes to be "objectifying herself"? Because that is all a woman has to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:27 PM
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Alpha fux beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:02 PM
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I want casual sex but don't want to say it" Saying you want casual sex in a dating profile as a man is vulgar and shows low social IQ. Mildy intelligent women know all men want casual sex. Casual sex is ALWAYS on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:00 PM
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I'm not, thats why I'm a bit sad cause I have plenty of money, but no woman to spend it on for cool trips like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:46 PM
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are basically paying them for their submission What women really want is to be forced (esthetically) into submission by the impressive aura of masculine sexual energy from a select man. All women want "submission". All women want to be with a "leader". They just choose the flavor that they seek out these dynamics. Most women want to be pulled into the dynamic by the charismatic power of the man, not have it set it up through a boring contract with a "provider".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:47 PM
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Men are not rewarded for their solipistic views, where as women are. Don't you think that will encourage said views in women? Afterall humans will continue to pleasure seek and extract everything they can get until they are grounded by CONSEQUENCES.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:43 PM
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I think soon a non-insignificant portion of women will be doing poly stuff, that way they can have the loving provider partner, and also the bull-stud to give them a sexual high and treat them like sexual animals. Cuckholding going mainstream. Or they will do the poly stuff through out their lives but at different points of their lives. They will have the bull-studs. And later the loving partner. Or perhaps reverse. They have the power, as the sexual selectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:41 PM
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Women inherently receive more attention in society than men do. How could that not lead to an increase in selfishness? If you have two children, and you praise one of them, give one of them more attention, while the other had "prove" themselves to get the same treatment... the outcome is obvious, is it not? "Providing" is only a small part of the dynamic, women receive more attention in general. Its called "women are wonderful" effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:38 PM
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Ok but don't be upset when men expect those things from you when they can pull up thousands of videos of women doing them enthusiastically for (apparently) high status sexual men online. You have to blame your "sisters" for corrupting the environment like that, worming their way into mens heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:34 PM
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Its actually the best form of partner bonding. Nothing better than relaxing hotel sex, then going on an adventure, constant stimulation of seeing new things, new environments, speculating, commentating. But its really only fun if you trust your partner. So many women undermine that trust, how can I feel safe spending all that time, money, and energy on an adventure like that when their feelings towards me are murky, pitted with "red flags" and self proclaimed "boundaries" (eroding my humanity), …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:28 PM
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Most men have those beliefs. When you make a list like that, I would guess that men are not upset about that list, but they are anticipating that you have given your love, body, and passion freely to "other types" of men. That don't follow your list. Men mostly just want women to be consistent. But that is a difficult for women, who want to have a few wild nights, that tantilizingly conflict ridden obsessive passionate sexual relationship, and finding a nice safe family orientated man who they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:21 PM
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Why would you trust a guys profile that says looking for LTR. Most of them are lying. Unless you are good enough for a LTR. I do it through jokes and innuendo, about being serious, about being fun. Everyone one is looking for something serious and casual all at the same time, and dating profiles just corrupt it and give picky women even more reasons to reject men. My thought is to not give them any reasons to reject you, just make them feel positive things when looking at your fun profile and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:24 PM
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Women are becoming more and more disgusting in their sexual desires, actually. Porn is affecting them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:17 PM
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Not fat. Personally in my profile I enjoy throwing misdirection, I am very irritated with the women who are looking to divide men into casual and serious types, so I have my profile set in a way to appeal to both. I find it arrogant to expect men to declare themselves "casual" or "serious" on a dating app. Its not like you have those bifurcations in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:43 PM
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Women do not see gay besties as men at all. Women categorize the male sex as "men" and "Not men". Men who they want to fuck are "real men" to them. The rest are neutered, and the gays are completely removed from the label all together. This is how the average womans mind processes these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:10 PM
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Those men will never have as much control as sexually charismatic men who can go through women like a knife through butter. Hes describing properly how women feel about men they aren't turned on by. Women want to have their cake, and eat it too. Always and forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:08 PM
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You should want to do a lot of things sexually with a man you love and trust. That you form a bond with. Too bad most women just jump on whichever dick makes them giggle and has a whiff of sexual charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:05 PM
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So just kill yourself then, its all "circuitry" nothing is real, so just end it. No one even cares about you, its all fake molecular biology influencing neurons
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:14 PM
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Its the opposite of selfish. Childless people are the most selfish people on the planet, its all me me me me me with them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:10 PM
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So when do men express sexual interest in you? When do they touch you? What sexual comments do they make to you on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:10 PM
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The average young womans politics is utter amoral trash without any principles or values whatsoever beyond "do what feels good" and "don't hurt people" or whatever silly meaningless 'harm' philosophy they promote while ignoring negative externalities and ignoring the impacts of their ideology on their future children (because most of them are childfree and don't give no fucks about the next gen anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:08 PM
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No, sluts just like having lots of sex with attractive men. They ONLY shoot above their league. Sluts aren't "easy", they are sluts. They have lots of sex with many men. That is what a slut is. Has nothing to do with being "easy".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:05 PM
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Sorry thems the breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:59 PM
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Its not what I am talking about. Marrying a frat bro later in life after "quieting down" and after fucking frat bros in college, is a girl sticking with her people, her type and her world and you can trust those women. Its not about casual sex. A sloot can still be a good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:58 PM
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Nope its all very real. Same with having an intense orgasm with a big dick, or having amazing sex, its all imprinted onto women and they carry it for life and adjust their standards and baselines.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:56 PM
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Being medically incapacitated, or sick is not the same thing as sexual rejection. They are two different things and require different responses and conversations. Don't worry I won't scroll your profile because I don't care. You really do just think of a woman as a sex machine dispenser. No I don't. You are projecting all your little "Issues" with men onto me. “hot chick wants my pee pee” Many many many men are in long term relationships with women that definitely do not want their pee pees. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:54 PM
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values Types are not about values. Its about fucking a frycook vs a techbro. The interracial relationship vs the men from her culture. A popular musician vs an accountant. Its about the thrill and taboo vs "normal and boring". Never be the normal guy after the taboo thrill guy. Even if she doesn't want him anyway, shes impacted by him forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:11 PM
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Sounds very demeaning for men involved with those women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:04 PM
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They don't say what turned them on changed, only superficial esthetics of the men changed. Immature tastes are their raw tastes before they settle for the "safer" husband. Women that have consistent values and tastes will choose similar men each time, and those are the women I trust. Those are family women as well. Otherwise known as, good girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:01 PM
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natural chemistry Chemistry is just something men create that women feel. Men don't feel "chemistry" the same way as women, mens excite and their feeling of chemistry is more like "oh wow she likes me and shes hot, maybe she wants to fuck me". Chemistry is created by men for a woman to feel, so that she has sex with him. Its not a mutual "magnetiC' feeling. It only feels that way to you b/c your a woman in a mans aura. I also mourn for your “future wife” I hope she never becomes ill or has a dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:59 PM
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None of the women in this sub talk about their tastes changing so I disagree. They know what they like, what turns them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:53 PM
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what i like the next woman might hate Nope. Yall are the same. should do what you want to, what you are comfortable with grab em by the pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:51 PM
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Ya both things can be true. Shocking for you, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:32 AM
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Women have types so if she fucked with guys radically different than you, then youre being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:25 AM
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Its not easy to sleep with a woman. They tend to be very guarded, picky and choosey.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:21 AM
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Yep, also they are the same women that have hypersexuality, make porn, have threesomes. High sex drive women also date and fuck with certain types of men that other women rightly avoid. They are more obsessed with penis size and swagger. And height. The higher a womans sex drive, the more intensely her hypergamy or whatever you want to call it, kicks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:20 AM
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Because women like to be sloots these days. So when things are all silly bullshit, and no one has any morals, then why not meet silly bullshit with other silly bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:14 AM
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I can't relate to anything you said. If someone is beautiful to me and CHOSE ME then I will automatically find their interests interesting. I like all kinds of music. I can enjoy talkin about anything as long as its interesting to the other person. I don't have to autistically obsess about specific niche entertainment like you apparently need to. I can go clubbing and go to raves and stay home and read a book and play boardgames. I can go on fancy international vacations and stay home all weeken…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:04 AM
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All i can say is try a few different things and see if any feel good for you. What a bunch of bullshit, I can tell you exactly what women have done for me that made me want to fuck them and feel comfortable with them. You don't even have the courage to verbalize it yet you are all over these threads giving "advice". Fraudulant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:47 AM
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He does desire you. Just not as much as some other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:34 PM
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Just say you don't understand male sexuality and leave it at that, its fine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:06 PM
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I don't fight hard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:03 PM
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Thats why I said its a subjective concept undergirded by objective things. Also something can be "subjective" and still be broadly understood and PRACTICED and REPEATED and REINFORCED by enough people in society to make the "subjectivity vs objectivity" dichotomy meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:34 PM
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You could, you just choose not to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:26 PM
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Ya thats why he is so tiresome. Notice how he NEVER brings his real life experiences into the discussion either. Its always just throwing random statements out, playing word games. Tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:18 PM
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Women never have less sex. Only men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:16 PM
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Guess hes watching a lot of porn then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:09 PM
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lmao, only you could tell us that. I'm not asking you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:08 PM
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Men get the most dopamine through sex. Both nerds and non-nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:07 PM
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Again, it's not narcissistic to not have sex with losers. You've definitely been the "loser". At least a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:05 PM
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You should ask your fellow white ladies to stop making so much porn. How can all these men around the world not help but watch, when its your race making 90% of the porn and blasting it out to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:03 PM
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Women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:01 PM
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Well it just makes me think you aren't very smart. Rather than say what you said, you should have said what other women in denial in this thread say, which is that "value" isn't real, they don't see value, everyone is a unique snowflake, so they can't possibly have been lower value to any man, because its not even a real concept. But instead you chose the wrote of promoting your narcissism. Bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:57 PM
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I have the same or higher value as any guy I've ever had sex with. Sounds like someones a bit of a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:50 PM
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The better question is how would you feel if your boyfriend said he wished you had a bigger ass and tits and he thinks he would cum much harder but hes decided you are good enough and he can probably be happy, because you don't stress him out and you accept him for who he is, so hes going to stick with you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:45 PM
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So to you its just introverts are nerds, extroverts are "cool kids". Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:42 PM
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Language? Behavior? Music? What are you 12? Do you need me to explain to you how Norwegian culture is distinguishable from Chinese culture as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:41 PM
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Exactly my point. Women don't think about it. They just do and absorb.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:37 PM
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No, I just thought of other stuff to orgasm. Very common male experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:32 PM
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Depends on who your wife is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:28 PM
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Its everything white people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:27 PM
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Serena Williams and Paris Hilton both went for nerds. No. They did not. I was a solid 9 hottie with unlimited dates. Doubt. Regardless, we'll never get to the bottom of this one, your definition of a "nerd" is clearly warped beyond belief. You seem to believe all men that care about their families, and are smart and dedicated enough to acquire wealth are "nerds", wtf is this society coming to. That used to be THE definition of a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:23 PM
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All that matters is that the woman subjectively BELIEVES its validating. Which I'm sure she believes the men who want her and that she chooses, all want her for validating reasons. She can believe whatever she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:20 PM
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Getting married is not figuring it out. The important part is WHO you marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:17 PM
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Oh sorry, can you point out the bigotry?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:09 PM
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I have a proclivity for nerdy simps. Then you most likely are not very physically attractive compared to other women. You are the flipside of the coin for my thread, you are a woman who knows her value and seeks someone appropriate. Rather than swinging wildly and choosing for yourself the sexiest man who presented himself to you that night or that 2 month stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:07 PM
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Well its all relative. Dating app success is more about the total image, selling an experience, not golden triangle facial proportions or whatever. A lot of average guys suck at selling an experience to woman though. So they will struggle. Also the younger you are the less this matters. Younger people are more superficial but also more forgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:03 PM
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what people prioritize and value will vary from person to person. I think it varies much less than you apparently do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:52 PM
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Less barrier to entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:52 PM
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Maybe its because you are married. Youre done. You already made your decision. Now ride off into the sunset and leave the rest of us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:48 PM
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Fucking hot guys out of their league usually doesn't "scar" women, it just inflates their egos, until they get to the stage of attaching themselves to a man who is actually closer to their value (who is less interesting to them, than the best they had). Then they take out their negative feelings on that man. It shows up as complaints about feeling "unfulfilled" and criticizing him trying to re-create the man they had a fling with in the past. Chasing those Top Man qualities that most men Do Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:43 PM
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You won't even know they are promiscuous by the time you fall for them and sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:41 PM
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I cant speak for the average man. I think its possible the average dude is actually locked out of competition on the dating apps. For me, given that I get many matches, although I tend to swipe right on any women who isn't fat, I cant use my experience as evidence for the plight of the average man. Not that I'm such hot shit, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:40 PM
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Or else I guess like 80-90% of men are in their league? Is that your contention? Care to respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:37 PM
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Sure, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:36 PM
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I guess Virgin men are ZEROS then. How can they be anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:35 PM
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This is no different than red pill men thinking their ability to buy gold diggers equals their level. No, you’re not on the same level of physical or sexual attraction, but you will never see red pill men conceding to that either. I disagree. Very strongly. The vast majority of men with gold diggers or who buy whores, know their "value" is the money and lifestyle. I would concede that when they are actually having sex, those types of guys often need to play little tricks in their heads to believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:31 PM
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less forward about sex and live very differently see it as something meaningful they only consider with men they're already attracted to These women still define their league by the hottest guy they banged. Regardless of how prolifically promiscuous they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:27 PM
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Things can be a mixed bag. Its not black and white. There are pros and cons. Validating moments, and disheartening moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:26 PM
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The league for women is not defined by who wants to fuck them once or even multiple times. Or else I guess like 80-90% of men are in their league? Is that your contention?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:24 PM
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Sure Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:22 PM
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You are overselling sex. Its not that good. Or fun. It needs a lot of other things to go with it to make it fun and good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:21 PM
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Woahhh, burned me good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:19 PM
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You are literally claiming someone having sex with a person who wanted to have sex with them is apparently a moron for not realising the person who wanted and willingly had sex with them is apparently "out of their league" Yes. You got it. Does it ever cross your mind for a second that if she was that repulsive and below him in his eyes, Many men have sex with women they find to be "below them" but do not necessarily find to be "repulsive". You are just mixing up things to create confusion. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:17 PM
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he can make the choice to have sex with the ugliest woman on the planet ever. And she will then from then on believe that kind of man is in her league. That is the point of my thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:14 PM
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because attractive options are always available Not the case at all. Unless your definition of attractive man is very narrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:13 PM
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Listen I appreciate your analysis of your local 4am bar scene but thats not the point of this thread. This thread is not really about men at all or how to approach women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:12 PM
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I chose to settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:08 PM
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I value my boyfriend over a random man on the street Da fuck? Boyfriend vs. random man on the street? This thread is about sex and banging. Please stay on topic. No one is arguing that "boyfriends" have more value in relationships than some random man. If it was an objective fact then you would be able to find sources or evidence which states objectively what every persons value is. No. I'm sorry but thats not how this works. SMV is a real living concept. Or else people could just have sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:07 PM
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dating Sorry what, now? Dating? Thats not what this thread is about. who automatically disdains any woman he fucks Huh? Quite the opposite. Some women are goddesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:03 PM
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No, I am saying they do value those cocks, and the cocks that they ride define for them what kind of man they deserve. Just the sex. Not even who decides to actually date them. Just the cocks and the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:00 PM
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It shouldn't be an ego boost for a woman, or at least it wouldn't be for me if I was in her shoes. As women constantly say in this sub, they are drowning in sexual propositions from men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:57 PM
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Why would they think a guy sleeping with them is not in her league? Can you think of any reasons she may discover that hes not? Does she need to be explicitly told by that man "your fat, im not, I don't want to see you again". Isn't the fact that she is fat and hes not, and he chooses to never have sex with her again.... a sign that perhaps.... shes not in his league? I am just using an OBVIOUS example of this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:55 PM
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The idea that a woman's value is solely, or even primarily, defined by her sexual encounters Please take more time to read. What I said was that Women define their value this way. I am talking about a womans "subjective" understanding of her own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:53 PM
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entirely subjective right No. Its not. Concepts can have subjective outcomes undergirded by objective qualities. If this thread is just going to turn into arguing about whether "value" is a real thing in a dating context.... I just can't with you people. I can only talk and debate and live in reality, not in your made up worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:51 PM
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It doesn't matter how I measure it. I didn't say it was absolutely at all times objective. Its a concept with grey edges, but whats undeniable is that everyone has a concept of their own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:49 PM
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I've had plenty of sexual encounters where I felt regret that I had to settle for them. Just because I orgasmed didn't preclude me having negative feelings about the whole thing. Who you end up having sex with can absolutely be an ego blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:47 PM
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Most people do not obsess over other peoples "value" Proves my point. Despite value obviously being a real thing, women choose to ignore the concept entirely and subconsciously view themselves as having the same value as the guys they fuck. Afterall, to them, value apparently "isn't real".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:44 PM
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Sorry are there "k-pop" genes or "rocker" genes. Your friend must be pretty retarded to reject a handsome tall charismatic man because he isn't a "k-pop" dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:29 PM
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validating sex Honestly, just stuff it. You are a misandrist and most of the men in these threads deserve sexual fulfillment far more than you. Luckily you have a pussy and men are horny, so you don't have to be a good, interesting, or sexy person. You can be a bitter old misandrist and still find some man or multiple men to put up with you to get between your legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:27 PM
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We aren't talking about genes, we are talking about your unique and special personalities. Remember? Do you ever question your "tastes" or you are too narcissistic for that? Do you think you deserve an interesting man? What exactly is interesting about you? I think you just take what you can get, and women can always extract more out of men than the reverse, and you mistakenly believe that makes you on the level of those men. You are shamelessly trying to date up, you aren't shit, you aren't int…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:24 PM
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Kind of hard to humiliate someone who is consistently fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:20 PM
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If we go on a date and there is zero sexual energy that potential dies. When do you want him to touch you? Why don't you give these guys some tips. Its always the same with you prolific PPD woman posters, just bash men, never talk details, just rail on them for not knowing how to sexually escalate even though thats what EVERY woman wants. You identified why dating sucks for men. You just have to sit there looking cute, he has to do everything else, regardless of how he looks, or any other qualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:16 PM
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found a DnD group, went to swing dancing classes Sausage fests. Of course you found some nerd man because there are legions of single nerd men and only a few nerd girls like you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:13 PM
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myself and my girl friends prefer something more niche So you are a bunch of narcissists? What exactly is interesting about you and your girlfriends outside of the fact that you are women and guys want you for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:10 PM
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Live your own life Just don't have sex. Do what makes you happy Having hot validating sex makes men happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:06 PM
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Ew, you swept up a widow. So weird that you were waiting in the wings for her this whole time. Waiting for your chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:03 PM
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No you are the one with an issue that you need to call someone a slutty whore to feel excited an cum. You are the one with deep psychological issues that you should confront.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:53 PM
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hopefully the women you're fighting for are fighting for you too. They aren't because women are sheep and brainwashed by social media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:52 PM
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Couldn't resist stating the truth ya. Are you going to get on me next for saying Indian Americans have a lot of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:50 PM
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Yes, why do you think he thinks their sluts? He can go pull up an unlimited catalogue of them doing depraved sex acts on film
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:48 PM
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How are the "tates" representative of any man? Do you know anyone like the "tates"? You sound very online
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:46 PM
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Access to sex and dating is not a human right. It is of interest to the state and education systems. And the functionality of society at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:38 AM
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What do sadists do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:30 AM
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Thats my favorite kind of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:22 AM
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She can message a man on a dating site, she doesn't have to go to loud clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:21 AM
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That type of mentality is for shit dysfunctional societies. The societies we created in the west have reward systems in place and people are essentially owed certain outcomes by following the correct paths and behaving in prescribed ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:18 AM
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They are probably fatties, loe disciplined people tend to find each other
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:16 AM
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Yes, some of us just don't have it in us to use and abuse women like many men do. Not having the heart to use and dispose of women, does not get you respect from women though. They LIKE being used for sex. Its validating to them, until its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:14 AM
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Maybe if you are an 18 year old inexperienced boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:10 AM
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Many shy women are promiscuous sloots. Because women CHOOSE to have sex. They have practically ZERO barriers to "fun spontaneous sex" outside of being ugly/fat ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:08 AM
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she pooped in Johnny Depp's bed and cut off his finger, among other things. Thats not what I think of when I think of a woman being "toxic" in a relationship. Are you saying your toxic BPD friends do those things to the men in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:03 AM
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How can a woman abuse a self-aware man?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:55 AM
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Butch Lesbians do not have a masculine aura, or else you'd be attracted to them. Butch lesbians are feminine with a masculine esthetic. They do not have masculine energy in the same way an alpha male does. You are probably more masculine energy-wise than the average butch lesbian based on what I've seen of your online demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:42 AM
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Referring to their girlfriends as “my bitch” and sharing with his friends what they do sexually, “I made my bitch deep throat me last night.” Toxic femininity is wanting to fuck and date a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:40 AM
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So you're saying there are no downsides to being in a toxic relationship? For me, no there are no downsides. Yes when you are younger and immature, and less worldly, then you can sustain damage. For me a "toxic" relationship would just be a short learning experience, with some sex. Whats to lose? Ya of course I'd to have a fling with a hot high status woman like Amber Heard, have her scream at me or do some weird shit and then I'd leave and move on. Whats the downside for me? But if you're openl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:38 AM
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Basically a wife to them is almost like a Pokemon. Hope you catch one with good stats such as: hot, takes good care of house, good at cooking, continues to put out sexually, take care of the kids entirely How does this imply this: But yeah, they aren’t looking for a partner that they actually have a deep connection with. Help me out here. A man can very easily and will very likely have a deep connection with a hot women who shares children with him, who he has satisfying sex with.... thats most …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:27 AM
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If you can date and fuck these 'bad' women you can then also date and fuck the good women. There is absolutely no downside in being able to date and fuck with as many types of women as possible as a man. All it does is increase your value. Women will NEVER see a man being able to make a woman want to have sex with him as a negative. Its all upside. All positive. Always will be. The more women you date and fuck, the more you know how they tick and can attract and lock down which ever one you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:24 AM
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It still roleplaying abuse. You really think you can have your man call you a slutty whore as he cums in you, and have that be inconsequential to how he thinks about you, don't you? Stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:15 AM
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Without those rules she will be more likely to be a slut. This is why non-western cultures are looking at the west right now thinking "no, not me, I'm not going to let my daughter be a slut like those (white) whores"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:08 AM
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Actually that is a good analogy, because black mens status in American society has risen exponentially, meanwhile we are all suppose to feel sorry for them or pretend like they have it hard because of history. Meanwhile they dominate the most popular pro sports, and music and culture in general. Compared to their numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:02 AM
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You look at someones face. And then you look at yours. And compare them with other people. I suppose this might be a difficult task if you are retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:13 AM
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Look, if you can befriend a hot girl, its in your interests as a man. As I have said before, women are just as picky about their male friends as they are about their male lovers. And women are VERY picky. If multiple hot woman want you as a friend, then I would confidently say you can also attract relatively hot women (in your physical league... goes without saying) as lovers/dating interests. Those guys are smart because if they are surrounding themselves with attractive women who don't want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:55 AM
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define model I'm just talking about being very esthetically attractive. Not follower counts and all that. I am just using "instagram model" as a stand in for attractive put-together woman. Personally I am very insecure about my instagram, I only have about 200 followers, so I can't play the instagram game well. I think having closer to 500 is more "normal" for my age range. Also I hate making instagram content, it is soul sucking for me. I think of it as a stupid job I have to do to stay mildly …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:50 AM
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Plus there are trannies on raya. I don't see any instagram models really on tinder. Shrug. I see a lot of bot women selling their instagrams though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:07 AM
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They told you why they cancelled? Surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:36 AM
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I agree that dating is humiliating and boring, or has a humiliation quality for men that I have never been able to square myself. As someone who was in a long term relationship from a young age (20) that lasted many years, the feeling of dating and even sex being a humiliation ritual, always being judged, has not sat well with me. Compared to when you are with someone you can ACTUALLY trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:30 AM
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You don't have to read the room. You just react to men. So honestly, stuff it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:14 AM
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The instagram game is harder, thats why the rewards are greater. Have you been on "The League". Its similar to Raya and tries to filter out low effort men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:08 AM
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Well now you know how men feel with all these sexually liberated women that jump from one dick to the next next like they're shaking hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:06 AM
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You are also friends with chronic cheaters. You sound like a real catch. Just saying, you sound bitter and mean in these posts. And uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:05 AM
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When I was in college, some of the hottest girls in the best sororities would show up on tinder. Again college. Different game. I don't see any 10s on tinder. Might be getting filtered out cause I'm set at 5'10" though. I'm not the rating type anyway. All I am saying is I see hotter women on average through instagram and through other ppls instagrams friendlists than I see on tinder. I just went to a public instagrammy type party in my city, around Madi Gras and saw WAY hotter women than I encou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:59 AM
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Well women want to be entertained, always, so if you have the kind of neuro-atypical personality that is entertaining rather than annoying, I would agree with you. Maybe its because you are a black novelty for these women, I don't say this to be malicious, unless I am misreading your social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:35 AM
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You really just seem like a mean-spirited little shrew, you should be happy you are a woman and men put up with you to enter your pussy, if you had this attitude as a man you would be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:33 AM
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Well I am not 22 anymore. Yes of course Low Effort (this is key) hook up sex, No Strangs baby! is more common in those years. I can't focus on the past, I have to look at the present and future. I really don't think many 27-30 year old hot women are going to come over for sex with some guy they just messaged on tinder unless he is above their league. At least its a needle in a haystack. Its a dangerous thing to hope for, you will end up like my buddy who had some sex starved hot indian girl come…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:27 AM
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Surveys like those are the last refuge of people fleeing common sense. Of course single people with no families living alone are the happiest..... makes perfect sense.... why didn't I think of that!?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:20 AM
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As opposed to the aging 35+ married woman who spends her time here. You are a dime a dozen on this sub, must have very boring lives. I'll continue playing. Again I'd never marry and have children with a sloot unless she was extremely attractive and "above" my league in some way and we could make some beautiful children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:18 AM
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Shes fucking hottie loser guys that work shit jobs. There are legions of them. I know plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:16 AM
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I date liberal women because I live in Chicago and its full of far left dipshits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:12 AM
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How are you making all those girl friends when you are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:10 AM
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Pretty scummy of you to report me for telling the truth. Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:00 AM
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Its usually an overreactive response. The otherside of the spectrum is being a passive bitch, being afraid of women, afraid to look in their direction, like when we are in second grade playing cooties. Staring like a freak is a way to take back the power, feel less impotent for these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:02 PM
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A man seeing a prostitute has no absolutely baring on whether he can or wants to love a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:50 PM
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Don't worry, you're not the type of man women like me are interested in. What sloots? I've been with plenty of sloots. So i'd say youre interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:46 PM
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Delulu. Enjoy your simulated rape fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:45 PM
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Or maybe youre just a willing woman...? Maybe go check his porn history to see what he likes ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:44 PM
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who I know also have sex drives and desire sexual outlets and sometimes watch porn cuz its an accessible outlet. Women don't understand the male sex drive and just assume that it is similar to their own, because they are arrogant and were told this by other girls for "girl power' reasons. But now I dont watch porn, havent for years, and wont ever again due to what I learned Nope. Its because you are getting your needs met or your needs are not very needy. As a man its impossible to be a virgin o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:39 PM
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the way you perceive the women you sleep with isn't any different from the way these women perceive you Its very different. You are an outlier. Otherwise known as a promiscuous woman. The only nerve you struck is I am scared to accidently invest in a woman like you. Reminds me that I have to keep my wits about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:27 PM
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Not when the the girl you match with just invites you over to her place to hook up. How many girls invite you over to their place to hook up? Personally I find that vulgar and usually suggest meeting in public. The likelihood of this happening exponentially increases the uglier and fatter the woman gets Even with actual dates, I would say 60% of first dates from apps in in sex, if not more. Why would you say this? You seem to be just be projecting your own experiences. It's broadly based on my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:25 PM
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You bunched a bunch of different qualities together. A short man can still physically dominate a woman for example. Also cheating vs abuse. Completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:30 PM
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That's because they're attractive, not because of how many partners they've had. I've never once been asked about my n count before hooking up with a girl I met from an app. They know absolutely nothing about whether I've been successful in the past. Men who don't get a lot of sex get weeded out on the first date for not being experienced enough to bring sexual charisma into the interaction. You have had a lots of typical sex and know what buttons to push to make a girl think "oh this is a norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:25 PM
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Yes exactly. But I think many will come to regret it. But humans have an infinite ability to rationalize their decisions, so we won't hear about this regret. It will just simmer, unspoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:20 PM
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S&M is simulated rape. Jesus you really have your head in the ground about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:19 PM
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What a delusional response. Men don't care if you don't think its validating for them to fuck you. Trust me, it is. Jesus, talk about having your head up your ass. Also your mindset is fucking weird. That you look at sex as such a commodity. That you are looking for some man that is attractive enough to fuck but "I don't want to see him often". That is fucking weird cuck shit. Are you going to have some stable of guys to pick from when you are married, afterall you don't really want to see them …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:16 PM
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You'd probably freak out if you found out you weren't REALLY your husbands "type"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:10 PM
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Women love to be fetishized and objectified, just try telling one of them that you don't have a type and watch the girl get offended. They want men to be sexually obsessed with "their type"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:19 PM
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Although this is a good explanation of the problems with porn, as usual women have little desire to be understanding of men, have any empathy for them or care to put themselves in his shoes even just a little bit mentally. The women in loveafterporn are perfect examples. When you read their posts, they come off almost mentally challenged with how little they understand, or relate with the male sex drive. And they seem to take pride in not understanding men or the male sex drive at all. Instead t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:16 PM
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Its not anymore healthy if it stays private.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:10 PM
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You must be pretty stupid then if you can't read basic english. I can post the defitions of "manage" and "lust" if you need me to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:06 PM
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You aren't clever for posting nothing sentences with no substance. It just makes the conversation boring. Carry on though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:05 PM
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hey are complaining about someone not listening or being curious. No they are complaining about the mans performance. Him not saying the right things, him not moving the right way, him not touching her the right way, going to fast, going to slow, finishing too fast, taking too long to finish, not looking at her face, having the wrong expression on his face, the list is endless. Women don't teach men how to have sex, they observe silently and judge. Maybe when you are 18, then you can have pressu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:49 PM
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All other past behavior. You place no value on managing your lusts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:47 PM
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You don't have to like it or participate in it I think I'll just continue actively shaming it and calling it out. Like other behavior that is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:19 PM
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How is there any difference between getting consent from someone to rape them, and actively raping them? I am still getting off to raping them.... do you not see that? Its like women don't understand how mens sexual brains work AT ALL. They just see penises getting hard and assume lovely thoughts are being held behind his eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:17 PM
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What you are forgetting is that all the hot guys love porn too. And are frequently choosing pron over their hot gfs, because the scenarios are much more exciting. Women don't give a shit about single men. They could all kill themselves for what they care. They dont' like porn because their husbands, their boyfriends, that guy they have a huge crush on... they watch porn too instead of being obsessed with them (women believe any man they are with should be sexually obsessed with them, only gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:44 AM
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What a lazy argument. If money is the reason people don't have kids, then why do the richest countries have the lowest birthrates. Why do poor mexicans in the US have bigger families than rich whites. Women don't want to have kids. Modern women are lazy, they are scared of pregnancy, they just don't want to do it. It has nothing to do with money. They want to keep pretending they are 20 into their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:59 AM
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Ya and if your #1 quality you look for someone in a partner is how charismatic they are, then you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:57 AM
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Its your fault if you can't identify the good guys, because they are easy to identify. The truth is you ONLY care about the SEXY guys, you don't give two shits if hes "good". And you women are constantly trying to snag a guy who is better looking than your daddy and you think you deserve that for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:56 AM
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Right, so its quite arrogant to comment on other peoples value, when you aren't on the market, and if you were, you'd have VERY low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:53 AM
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There are no flags for women until you get deep. You never really know. I know girls who show lots of skin, love attention at clubs and are completely loyal and have low N counts. And theres probably the opposite, the quiet uber sloots that do it all in private. Women don't expose themselves the same way men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:52 AM
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The only men who love you are the ones who you love and praise their dicks. So get to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:47 AM
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Its incredibly reasonable, you are just obsessed with sex. You treat it like something separate from all other behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:40 AM
4

How is having sex once every 4 months "a lot"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:37 AM
7

Sex isn't difficult and doesn't require much skill Yes it does, or else women wouldn't be complaining constantly about not enjoying sex. And deadbedrooming their hubbies that they claim to love so much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:35 AM
1

You aren't in anyones league.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:34 AM
1

Yes most men are not impressive to most women. Women like a narrow subset of men. You can be handsome, well dressed, educated, doesn't matter to most women. You aren't the top 1% stud which is who they think about the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:51 PM
1

She probably wasn't actually that attractive. Genetics are the foundation for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:49 PM
3

So what. Doubt you could do any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:46 PM
1

Because she didn't deserve that treatment. Its typical simp behavior that is raising women's expectations and making it more difficult for men everywhere. Its not about the money, its the expectations it plants in women's minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:39 PM
1

I make a lot of money I don't know what to tell you. What angered me is that this douche actually thought that was appropriate behavior instead of taking her out for a drink at the local cocktail bar like I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:26 PM
3

Most men don't measure up compared to studs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:24 PM
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Because she chose the ex. Same reason I would never seriously date women with "abusive exes".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:21 PM
1

Wrong, I make a ton of money and could afford to do whatever I wanted to impress woman. But I am not a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:19 PM
1

Oh? Whats too many partners then? No ones trying to impress anyone. As a man, having a lot of easy sex is validating to ones deep ego. It tells him that he is valuable to women and that he is "being" a man correctly. It has nothing to do with impressing men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:18 PM
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Men and women are not the same, so comparing their sexual standards 1:1 is low iq behavior. Men NEED to have sexual partners in order to be attractive to women. Its a challenge for men to have sexual partners, it shows his fitness. Not the case for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:16 PM
1

Because she was a bitch to me and at that point I was just questioning her dating experiences because it was interesting to me. When she reminisced about the guy who flew her out her eyes got so dreamy (not because of the guy, because she was so happy with herself that someone would do that for her), she was SO PROUD of herself for being desired that way. It was pathetic to witness. She was also like 34. Women are so arrogant, in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:13 PM
2

Unless its with gay shit. Then the woman feels "betrayed".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:09 PM
0

I would be outta that too. She clearly would not share my values if she gave herself to men who would later behave like that. What you do in life and who you involve yourself with in life matters, end of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:05 PM
2

I asked her what is the most a guy has done for her a first date. Look no offense but, you both older and also from what I remember you are not "neurotypical". You really don't understand the craziness that goes on with sub-40 women in major cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:04 PM
2

No, what I wrote describes millions of men. Its funny because its true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:50 PM
2

Hes right though, most men are dishonest little bitches when it comes to the "face" that they present to women. They will talk about respecting women to a womans face, then go home and jack off to a girl essentially being raped on screen. And then go vote for Kamala.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:40 PM
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I wouldn't even call those actions effort. I'm guessing many women have different standards from your own. I just went on a date with a woman who had some guy fly her out to another state to go to a specific restaurant for their first date. So that is who I apparently am competing with in terms of "effort".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:38 PM
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Everything takes effort. The way people wax and wane about how every moment of the day they are thinking about how to cater to their partners and treat their relationships like second jobs is what I am talking about. That is too much effort. Relationships should be relaxing and enjoyable, not a second job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:38 PM
0

Thats not been my experience. Mine is that women are very unforgiving and mean when a man does not get hard exactly when they expect him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:34 PM
2

The lack of critical thinking is stunning
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:29 PM
1

sometimes he does Re-read. No, you are selfish because you don't give a shit about catering to the man. Just your little fantasys. I cater to the women all the time. Its the standard protocol. You people.... try putting yourself in anothers shoes once in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:27 PM
3

If it was so easy there wouldn’t have been any incompatibility in the first place. Sounds naive. Anyway in my case it was that the relationship was no longer sexually fulfilling. Thats why you have to lock them down with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:25 PM
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