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How/why would I control whether my daughter was friends with a prostitute? Do you weirdos just stop being parents after the kid turns 18. No mentoring? No direction? Honestly what the fuck is wrong with yall, its like I'm talking to progressive robots instead of humans. Whats your next robotic reddit npc line you have prepared to spit out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:35 AM
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Many sex workers are incredibly intelligent Not in my experience. Most cis female sex workers are dumb as bricks. Different story when it comes to trans. I'll leave you to figure out why (hint: Options). If they were intelligent they wouldn't be selling sex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:30 AM
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Why would I judge someone for something I myself have no problem with? So you would judge her for things you do have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:26 AM
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Cheating doesn't hurt anyone. Its just sex. Its not a big deal. Unless you are some religious purity person. People insecure about cheating are not different than people insecure about N-count or other "sex" things. Its about loss of possession.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:24 AM
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Is it white French that do this? Or the "other" types of "French"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:21 AM
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Nobody really knows how they will change after the responsibility of a child. Even women. Wong. There were signs that they would be bad fathers, but those women ingored them, because their pussies tingled for those men for reasons that had nothing to do with fatherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:15 AM
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But boys playing CoD are not getting turned on... where as you are getting turned on by this fantasy.... and then claiming you don't want it. Doesn't compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:13 AM
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I give a shit what my parents think of me. I'd guess you two are the outliers in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:10 AM
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In the past, yes. Nowadays women go to sex parties and have 3somes. Even the ones who look innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:09 AM
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Ooooohhh so when it comes to cheating, context matters. But when it comes to N-count, there is no context, there is no number where a man stops being "pathetic" and "insecure", those insults you love to throw around, disguised as commentary
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:07 AM
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Is someone insecure for not wanting/rejecting a former cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:57 AM
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Oh k, what about a woman who has cheated in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:52 AM
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More performative bs from you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:40 AM
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Hes not a hypocrite because porn is addicting. Thats like saying a drug addict is a hypocrite for disliking drug dealers who get him hooked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:31 AM
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She knows who she is. She plays a character on this sub. Its silly and immature, but in her mind shes the "mature" one by lying, obfuscating and playing narrative games to frame herself as some natural wonderkin
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:21 AM
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Ya a better question is if you would consider a guy "insecure" for not wanting to date a woman who had a 3some with two men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:19 AM
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Would you let your daughter be friends with a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:57 AM
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So you are a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:55 AM
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very specific period of French history i'm fixated on Hint: they don't. Sex workers are EXTREMELY shallow people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:51 AM
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Thats insane that you would be friends with them and then shun guys who use sex workers. I know you don't care about moral or logical consistency though, just whatever feels good right? Why do you even have sex worker friends. Would you be ok if your mom became a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:48 AM
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Just seems like youre more gleefully insulting towards those you feel are secretly homosexual. Shouldn't you be more repulsed by the straight ones, afterall they have no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:29 AM
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A man being socially awkward or bad at "game" most of the time does not come from a place of desperation. You are just projecting negative qualities onto guys who may struggle. With modern porn, very few men are actually "desperate", everyones getting a good nut these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:26 AM
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I didn't say social awkward. I said guys who aren't funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:24 AM
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unfortunate it is for them that I'm fucking her and they're not. They already did fuck her. Just no longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:22 AM
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I will get married to a woman where I know her past. You can keep your blissful ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:20 AM
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What about the ones that have "misogynistic tendencies and attitudes" not born from internalized homophobia? Are we really going to act like that type of man doesn’t exist? I don't know any men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:19 AM
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Oh? Does bisexuality repulse you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:17 PM
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Most men aren't desperate for a date. Regardless of how successful they are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:16 PM
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That still doesn't change that she chose you or that you chose her. Being chosen doesn't mean she sexually desired you more than other men but I bet thats what you tell yourself when you are fucking Other men arouse and AROUSED her MORE than you. She chose you for a mix of reasons, not because you aroused her the most. Also what kind of sluts are you dating that you "always had sex on the first date" how ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:04 PM
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You can't trust your wife. She could have easily had extreme sexual experiences in the past that she doesn't feel comfortable sharing with you because she knows it would harm your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:03 PM
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Lots of women like public sex. And spontaneous sex. And then when they get a with a beta man they stop doing it because it doesn't feel as sexy to her with HIM as it did with spontaneous sexually charismatic chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:02 PM
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You are making mens points for them, men SHOULD BE resentful for being a beta guy. It sounds like a situation that any guy with self respect should feel resentment towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:01 PM
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How is a guy cheating on her a year into the relationship damaging? I know you are not a good faith debater on here but your second point, yes your suppose to fucking know if your SO could get addicted to drugs. I don't know anyone who "randomly" got addicted to drugs, all the druggy people I know are obviously druggy people. You really think drug addiction is some hollywood movie where the great family ma stumbles into an opiod addiction from hurting his knee or some shit. Puuuuulease.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:53 PM
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no one wants you, you r probably ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:51 PM
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If you are just going to reference market value than whats the point of discussion. I assume you would also agree then that everyone gets what they deserve based on market outcomes then yes? Abusers, cheaters, losers, they all just didn't have high enough market value to get a better partner. Ill keep that thought the next time I hear some sob story from a woman about being abused. That was just her marketvalue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:49 PM
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If someone fucks with me they are getting fucked with back. Also fuck your racist bs, its making me fatigued
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:44 PM
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If you vet men for how they treat you then you won't be treated poorly. If you vet men by how exciting they are and good they fuck you, then take your dice role and stfu. You decided to role the dice, don't make it some other mans problem
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:33 PM
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You should get him fired. Fk people making other people uncomfortable just because they are unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:16 PM
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But women blame the men who abuse weak and vulnerable women, and never point the finger at the women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:15 PM
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lol no. In the context of sex and relationships, Youre literally framing it as girls have to be a sex toy and used by men like its some kind of right of passage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:14 PM
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People can appreciate each other while acknowledging their flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:59 PM
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Ya we don't want women that were used and abused by other men like toys. We want strong women with self awareness and self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:56 PM
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You let him damage you and now you want me to deal with your damaged self. When we could have met before he damaged you and grown together in free spirit and exploration.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:54 PM
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Exactly, once they have men in front of them they have to make a choice or be alone. But social media disrupts this more and more every day. They can ignore all the men at the party if they want and hope a different guy messages them on instagram the next day from some mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:52 PM
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You think of these groups as all the same don't you? So you want men who aren't witty to prey on autistic women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:51 PM
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Its not bleak, its fine. Looksmatch should be with looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:51 PM
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cause typically even other ugly people don’t want to date other ugly people. They wil date fellow ugly people if they want to date, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:22 AM
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What point did you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:21 AM
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The amount of charisma and hollywoodesque social skills they expect out of a man. One I hear a lot is "I just want a man who can make me laugh". So should all the guys that don't have a good sense of entertainment humor just cut their balls off? Many many men are not funny and would not be able to make a girl laugh easily on the first date. They should all be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:21 AM
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Not true. Plenty of good looking people who lack charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:19 AM
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It is logically incoherent to argue that liking someone's personality is shallow No, there are shallow aspects to personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:19 AM
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Oh you are different from the other girls, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:41 PM
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don't give a flying fuck about "bloodlines" Its not grown up to avoid having children. Its juvenile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:40 PM
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Ya I guess that explains your man-hating personality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:03 AM
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I am the last one of my bloodline Thats sad. Someone in your family fuckedup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:56 AM
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No one respects gay men. They see them as jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:47 AM
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There always men who want to fuck you and desperates looking for mate, not the men you want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:38 AM
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Women do not fantasize about billionaries, they fantasize about big dick studs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:24 PM
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Because it is. Its also funny when they start making porn to fund their "lifestyle". People in poly relations, who go to sex clubs, who have group sex, are sexually damaged people chasing highs like drug addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:15 PM
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I will instruct my kids how to be attractive and get what they want from the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:54 PM
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Sure it is, I will definitely be involved in my kids lives and try to influence how they see sex and relationships and the opposite gender. If you don't then you are letting the internet raise your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:41 PM
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Its reading between the lines. You been read. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:39 PM
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Don't worry, I am sure eventually you will be able to explore your black fetish with the right person. Maybe you can post videos like so many of your type of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:37 PM
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This is just a round about way of asking about race. Thats what people want to know. No one cares that you like a skinny guy and want to try a muscular guy. Or a red head and a swarthy guy. People are freaked out that modern western women can sample races of men like an ice cream shop and compare and contrast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:35 PM
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For me, I just don't care about a woman like that and don't actually want anything from them until I know we are sexually compatible and she desires sex from me. And for those things to be known we have to have sex. Women take from men, they don't really give anything back to a man until after the sex part and after the relationship part. Even then you apparently have to hold "masculine frame" or they get "the ick". I was shocked when I read women getting the ick from men AFTER they established …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:26 PM
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For consistent sex. Something you also don't care about because you have a women's libido. A few good romps per year is enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:22 PM
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I don't earnestly desire a man until he's expressed desire for me first. Right you are a passive player. You only care about men who want to fuck you and make it known. Women are passive and wait for men to insert themselves into their lives. Then they complain about the types of men they have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:20 PM
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But getting men hasn't ever been a problem? Getting men for sex is rarely a problem for any woman. The reality is that you are alone. You wake up alone. You have no one to share the intimate moments with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:07 AM
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Being alone is only preferable if you can't find someone you want and have given up on ever having a real motional bond with another human. You are forced to be alone, you didn't choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:04 AM
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The men you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:03 AM
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because we aren't interested Because you can't get the men you want anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:09 AM
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Shes going to be heartbroken that she has no choice in men at 40. The men she really wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:07 AM
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Not click, get wet for him you mean. Want his cock you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:47 AM
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Haha you probably the type to think a black man calling you a bitch is a term endearment because "culture". You realize blacks say the female shit for the exact same reasons "incels" do. Because black people like to boil people down and dont like intellectualize stuff, it absolutely caries a misogynistic connotation, especially because black culture itself is more misgynistic than "main stream" culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:45 AM
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Yes you are only attracted to the guys with balls to come up and try to flirt with you. Everyone else is an NPC. You drift through life ignoring all the men unless they INSERT themselves into your life. You are passive. Waiting for a man to decide your fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:39 AM
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To women. Average is ugly. I say this as an above average looking guy. All it does is get me matches on OLD. I am shocked by all the women that match me. Like fat girls, super ugly girls. They all match every hot guy they come across on those things, they have zero self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:37 AM
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There are lots of physically attractive men that cannot attract attractive women. From what I gather from your post, if you are an physically attractive man and you aren't able to sleep with attractive women in your 20s then you are right to be resentful? but he doesn’t want her to be so shallow as the value him by the same metrics Women don't value men only for their appearance, thats only like 20% of how they choose men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:03 AM
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Not enough to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:47 PM
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Fat women deserve fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:47 PM
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None of that has anything to do with attracting women. Most women love partying and doing drugs with the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:46 PM
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None of that is definitive for attracting women. A man who does all those things can easily be deemed unattractive and uninteresting, unimpressive to an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:44 PM
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You mean sexy fun personality. Not "good". There are many types of "good".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:05 PM
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Oh really? Then what does being responsible entail? Ready for your detailed response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:02 PM
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Chemistry is generated by the man, its something men make women feel. Its just another performance for the woman. If she doesn't feel chemistry with you its because you did something wrong, were not acting sexy. "We don't have chemistry" is just another way of telling men they are bad at sex and bad at being sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:56 AM
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Been with many. No thats just what women tell their insecure average size boyfriends to make them feel like studs. Most men are average size and average face, so dick sets them apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:54 AM
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not only for its size Ok. So size still being the key factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:53 AM
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But the men with no charisma can have the women with no beauty, evenly matched. In your mind this is evenly matched somehow? An even match for me would be a woman who looks similar to me, I'm sure most men would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:52 AM
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Its just another way of saying assertive/passive, inhibited/unhibited
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:51 AM
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It doesn't apply to men, because men lead and determine the quality of sex, not women. A man could have 100 partners and fuck them all exactly the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:50 AM
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its true for all women, I make $200k, women do not care. They care how I flirt with them, how I kiss them, how alpha/beta I am. How funny I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:11 AM
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Then you don't know anything, and no one should listen to a word you have to say on these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:53 AM
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Reddit isn't using systematic pressure or using force to make people trans, so no brainwashing. Yes it is. They tell any questioning person that they are an egg. They come with feelings like "I don't feeeel like a guy" and tell them they sound like they were trans. Its exactly like brainwashing. Like a cult. Maybe you should talk with more trans people You just fking told me to talk to more trans people when I just said my own brother was you troll. Seriously fk off. I hope all your kids end up …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:51 AM
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The ones that do are simply using the older guy's money on them and their real (same-aged) boyfriends. Duh fuq. Talk about trashy...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:45 AM
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Troll comment. They are in fact very nice. In fact they are too nice. You've heard of the term before yes? Betas? They don't know how to manipulate women like high-n count men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:33 AM
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My brother reverted back after 3 years taking HRT and it was because he was brainwashed online. Specifically on reddit, and he lacked a strong identity to see through the bullshit. Transgenderism is extreme escapism for most "gen z"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:30 AM
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Ha that super pathetic. Imagine selling yourself to a woman, you work hard for your body, for your career, your style, you do it all and you have to settle for a fat woman because of how fucked the market place is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:27 AM
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I know plenty in real life. My best female friend for example. I don't need redditors to validate it. I definitely don't need some old boomer who is sexually repressed to validate it. Go talk to girls going out there and CHASING HOT SEX and see what they think about dick. Thats not you, and thats ok. When its too big that it hurts, then thats the limit. They all want rightttttttt up until that point. Some even like the pain for some reason, guess they think about how powerful all that masculinit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:21 AM
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Just because you say it is? Because I have direct experience within my own family and my job, where i constantly see these trans kids going back after the fad runs its course. Internet bubbles are brainwashing these kids HARDCORE. Reddit is a HUGE culprit. ASktranzgender ect ect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:12 AM
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You keep dishonestly emphasizing about how you slept with him because he was safe, when its actually that he was charismatic. You should just leave the safe part out of it. Its not real. Violate boundaries? Like what? How would you have any idea if he was a stalker. All you care about is charisma. You don't think stalkers can be charismatic and generate rapport? You live in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:10 AM
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that’s really not a thing Women being submissive to men is not a thing? Huh? You probably never had good sex in your life, very common for women of your generation. Women are very impressed with dicks. Having a big dick is the single best feature a man can have all else being "average". If a man is beautiful in all else but has a tiny cock hes not a real man in the minds of most women. And no woman is ever going to get on her knees and get dickmatized by a small cock like we can see women doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:05 AM
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Youre trying to scare her into being a single old hag but she won't even have children or a legacy to show for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:02 AM
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No, that is internet brainworms. Or are you implying your mother is treated like shit? If so I am sorry, but that is not standard procedure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:01 AM
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he was educated, had a job, and was living well within his means I have many friends like this around 30 years old that get scraps and no attention at all. Accountants. Sales guys. One even is inheriting his parents very successful company. So stop with the bullshit. Women are not attracted to 'stable jobs' and "having your shit together". Nor do they care about bieng educated. Literally everyone has a college degree these days, its worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:57 AM
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Hooking up and casual relationships are a whole other story. This directly leads to relationships.... talking about "marriage" and "being single" without talking about sex and who is fucking who is meaningless. so there are way more bi women Its a fad. Just like being a genderqueer and pansexual. Lol no, no source suggests this to my knowledge. The one I provided puts Gen Z as 4.1% transgender I've seen a much higher percentage of identifying as trans, guess you aren't looking hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:54 AM
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No one gets married anymore until they are like 30. We aren't talking about marriage. We are talking about dating and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:53 AM
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Did you know and understand he wanted sex from you the moment he began his whole routine with you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:47 AM
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Women don't care if a man has his shit together, they care about humor, charisma, tingles in their tummy, and then sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:41 AM
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Women don't fuck men based on their "income". Especially gen Z women. Your entire thesis is autistic. There are vanishingly few lesbians compared to gay men. Anyone in the gay community has observed this. Do you also believe that 1/5 of gen Z is fucking trans? You think thats a legitimate description of these millions of kids? What an absolute joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:40 AM
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Just performance to get sex. If you were a dude he would never have talked to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:37 AM
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Why don't you encourage her to build something with someone instead of assuming shes going to end up alone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:35 AM
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Wrong. Family is family. Blood is thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:35 AM
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Are you happy that the only reason your ex talked to you and your friend is he wanted to see his dick go in and out of your pussy later.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:24 AM
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Women definitely like dick. Talk about dense take. Yes, yes everyone is gay who says women like dick. Youre so clever. I hope your daughter ends up with a bisexual dude. Then you can work out those feelings you have towards bisexual dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:22 AM
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Again, talk to bisexual men. Ass is not the same as dick. Some penises are literally twice as long and twice as thick as others. Of course you can remember any body part "oh I loved her eyes, oh I loved this about her/him". But nothing is as powerful as dick. Bisexual men will absolutely remember monster cocks more than "perfect" asses theyve encountered. Even a perfect ass doesn't look that different bounching on your dick than a "decent" ass. And it definitely doesn't feel very different. Puss…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:43 AM
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I'm taking your word that youre the biggest. And I said she hasn't fucked around enough if you are the biggest. Sorry if you don't like that answer, shouldn't you be pleased you aren't with a high-n woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:41 AM
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They are. But women are still VERY much into penis. So its still a good example. Men and women are attracted to penis for the same reasons (power, masculinity), they just conceptualize it in different gradients. Yes men have higher sex drive and visual sexual cues than women, shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:38 AM
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I see you don't disagree with my read of you. Because you know its the truth. You got read. Its fine to move on now sis. Same how a 3 inch dick is not a "real" man in your mind. All the same stuff sis, all the same stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:35 AM
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Guess she doesn't have a high N-count if your 7-incher is the biggest. But the fact that you believe that adds even more context to your annoying trolling that you do around here. Talk about complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:30 AM
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immature sociopath. Yes continue not giving a shit about people, Idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:27 AM
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Oh, what about Findom where women prey on male kink and fetish and literally taking money from them to play into their fantasy of being pathetic cucks who give money to women who are better than them and "dominate" their minds. So done with you sex positive kink people, fuck I don't have enough insults to call you people, you are ruining so many lives with all the shit you shit out on the internet regarding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:23 AM
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able to be direct enough with me to make me feel secure that he does find me attractive. Lies. You just like men in a heirarchical fashion. Approaching women singles masculinity to you. Men who don't approach are too passive and not "real men" in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:21 AM
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Nah but the other guy that she was with before you, she remembers him. Maybe hes even a totally different type of guy than you... but she wanted to "experiment"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:19 AM
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If you can’t get off without your “kink” it’s technically a “fetish” and a different category psychologically. Kink and fetish are the same thing. Youre splitting hairs to explain away your damaged sexuality. all types of sex can be healthy. Absolutely wrong. What a naive take.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:17 AM
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that it would be weird if they didn’t know what they liked. The number of lesbians that really has no like for men and dick is very low. Lesbians are basically another version of the women PPD loves to champion who 'drop out' of the dating game unless the "right guy" comes along. Yes the vast majority of men lesbians want nothing to do with, but if you are high enough value, they biologically want to feel full and plastic does not feel like real dick. Its often less about them being attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:14 AM
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This is why I don't want muslim immigrants. They are the biggest fucking hypocrites in the world. Its just true. How do you spend all the time hating the west, saying jews control everything, saying that white women are whores, and then want to move there, mentally ill FUCKS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:09 AM
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Your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:00 AM
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If you are child free you shouldn't be lecturing anyone who wants to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:00 AM
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Ask the bisexual guy. Its how people attracted to men perceive men and the all powerful dick. You presumably would not understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:59 PM
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Again you are missing the analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:57 PM
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It’s to help you empathize with the concept that some women are going to have different preferences. I don't see your point at all. I have got to ask, how many times have you, personally, experienced or witnessed this? I have experienced it once. It was two fat lesbians, they didn't have a lot of sexual market place value because they weren't very attractive. Met them through reddit actually. Talked to other men that have been propositioned by lesbians, usually just a single girl, not couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:56 PM
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You want a man to cold approach you because it makes you feel more special and like hes a higher value man. Most men do not cold approach women and suck at flirting. When you do OLD, you have to deal with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:54 PM
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I see analogies and metaphors do not phase you. Carry on. Aren't you the one that loves to talk about being college educated and that you can't stand talking to uneducated types lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:44 PM
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Oh good analogy. I want a woman who sees me as her childhood home, nostalgic and full of emotion. Not the urban condo she likes for a while because of right time, right place, and desperation (on the womens part). Unfortunately, the condo fulfills her needs then, but does not make her feel the same emotions as her childhood home, and NEVER will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:40 PM
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Pegging is not the same thing as an actual penis. Its hard plastic. There is no comparison to be made. Thats why lesbians often seek out real dick to add to their bedroom experience. aren’t that picky. Oh so shes so burned out from random sex she barely even enjoys it anymore, lucky me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:37 PM
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Theres always a better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:29 PM
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I am talking about the things you end up liking, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:28 PM
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Many guys are stoic, or introverted, bad at presenting their true selves Ah so you believe all men who lack charisma should be alone and there is no way for a woman to be attracted to them. Sounds like a recipe for a lot of angry young men if this is how modern women see the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:27 PM
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Let me educate you, when a man and a woman actually love each other and create a life (not the random sex-focused hedonstic lifestyle you have crafted for your life) things don't need to be 50/50 because they work as a team for the betterment of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:25 PM
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Because that sex is now imprinted in your brain, and you will want the same thing or better. You will not be able to enjoy a normal, average man once you experience a plethora of sexual highs from outliers and kinky taboo activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:20 PM
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I agree with you that women if they want to have strong orgasms and their goal in life is to have crazy kinky taboo sex, they should be promiscuous and sample many different men. Definitely different races and cultures as well. They should try double penetration. Try those crazy eyed guys with insane sexual energy and charisma. They should go through many men, if they really only care about their own pleasure over everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:19 PM
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I didn't say you think about past dick all the time. I said that women remember it. And that it is seared into their brains. That doesn't mean you think about it everyday. But its there, you carry it with you in all your dealings with your new man. The difference between a total stud, a top man, and that includes his sexual charisma, and an "average man" is an ocean. The gulf between a 10 and a 5 woman, for a guy, in terms of how he experiences sex, is like a stream. Sure the 10 is better and gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:13 PM
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You know what fucks a womans brain up? Having a bunch of dicks and kinky fucked up sex because shes promiscuous. Yet when women do this, other women go "slay queen, get it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:09 PM
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No. The more PARTNERS. Sex with them same guy grows and evolves slowly and is good because of intimacy barriers being overcome, not a random increase in skill from day to day. And obviously not dick size and stamina. And not personality. As these all remain the same for the same guy. Keep coming at me with your lame one liners, no one here believes anything you say about any actual experience. Your goal is to lie for entertainment and your own ego, certainly not debate. DEFINITELY not to be hone…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:06 PM
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Sure. Pass/fail. And the better sex you have, with better dicks and better men, the higher your standards for passing become. Thats how women's minds work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:53 PM
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Why would I, a non-charismatic non-alpha male, volunteer to mentor young boys? What could I possibly teach them, that would allow them to become the type of charismatic alpha man that you prefer and respect? Maybe you should ask some of your past dicks, why they don't want volunteer and teach boys the qualities that turn a woman like you on. Most of us are just regular dudes, sorry we can't be Mr. Charisma Stud, ie. the only type of guy you respect or want to have anything to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:50 PM
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I stick to apps, because I am handsome, and women like you only want to deal with high charisma men. You really think a majority of 20 and 30 yo men are out there propositioning and attempting to flirt with every attractive woman they see?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:46 PM
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Women remember all the impressive dicks that they see. Its seared into their brain, including the instant submissive instinct that seeing a large dick produces that regular guys will never get to experience... even if she chooses you later. Stuff like this is why n count matters. Same with every other kink and taboo. The second some guy chokes her (if thats what she likes) or really fucks her and says all the right dirty words, spins her fantasies and pushes her buttons just right and gets her i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:37 PM
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Women don't have to do anything but sit and wait and pick and choose the men that come into their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:16 PM
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What does old ass people having sex have to do with blackpill. Old people don't have much sex. Its like you guys can't fathom that people talk BS and lie about stuff in society. What you consume in the media is not always accurate. When you see a skit on SNL joking about old people having an orgy and having lots of sex, it doesn't mean thats actually happening. It means someone thought that was a pleasant idea. You all are obsessed with some kind of just-world logic. Because it seems pleasant an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:12 PM
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jealousy of the guys that have the ability to pull off the swindle, and anger that the games been adjusted to make it harder for the hustlers This is contradictory. Why would someone feel both of those. If you can't pull then you would love these apps if it actually made it harder for the hustlers. The unfortunate truth is that these apps don't make it harder for the hustlers. They are just gossip. And women will continue to fk whoever they want, which is why they fucked those guys in the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:06 PM
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Nice anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:01 PM
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Nah. Being competent at your job or "adulting" doesn't make guys any smoother with the ladies. If you don't know how to flirt, you don't know how to flirt. Its something you learn as a child/teen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:59 PM
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Hardly any of them do. The ones that do, usually they are hassled by their husbands and do it to shut them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:54 PM
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Nah, those men already know and succeed with women. Tea or AWDTG groups won't slow them down any. Women who like guys that get posted on those groups would rather be alone than date a "good" man who would not be posted on those groups. Female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:54 PM
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The point is that they are all discussing the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:46 PM
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Lots of old men still want to be sexual and be mentally aroused and can even orgasm with a soft dick. Its women that retreat from sexual intimacy. Come on. We both know that when you are 70 years old you are not going to be interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:44 PM
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From what ppl say, a lot of it is rating mens sexual performance and penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:17 PM
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OP said that it is impossible for shy men to overcome this and approach women Its close to impossible. I don't know any shy men that stopped being shy. It is up to women because they control the dating market now, not men. At least in the US. In India or Africa men are gifted beautiful women just for being in the top 10% income bracket. Hell in Africa you can have multiple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:08 PM
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Just dishing out what you are. Its sad that you don't even realize your posts are insulting. Speaks to your narcissism like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:06 PM
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Name one thing that is more stressful for a man to do than approach a woman and try to flirt and entertain her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:05 PM
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Oh do you speak for most people? Whats it like being arrogant and narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:08 PM
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Approaching and initiating with women is an extremely difficult thing that most women will never understand. So forgive men for getting pissed at women when they brush it off like its nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:04 PM
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Professional women who are 30+ definitely have huge chips on their shoulders and are EXTREMELY picky, moreso probably then when they were in their early twenties. I really think women live in deululu land until they start getting closer to 40 and realize that family they wanted isn't going to happen. My point is that desperation to find a husband in women sets in much later than people would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:49 AM
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LOL, I know they aren't having sex. Its you who needs to live in a delululu world to stay sane, its so pathetic to be honest. No sorry Icy_Ad, you won't be having sex when you are 80. Get over it. You will probably barely feel aroused at all at the age, let alone pine for sex. 80 year old men can't even get their dicks hard to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:29 AM
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That would be news to the girl last week. You are just insecure that men get more pleasure from sex than you do. Yes our orgasms are more powerful than yours. Go back to being a sexless over the hill mom, no one cares about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:27 AM
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80 year old men cannot even get hard. Do you women not understand how anatomy works??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:25 AM
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They aren't. You idiots read one pop culture news articles about STDs in nursing homes and fucking implant it in your brain as "I now know whats going on, this is the truth". Take a step back and consider the fact that yall are a bunch of lemmings that believe every stupid thing you read on the internet except when an incel says it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:23 AM
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Where did I admit that? What a bunch of stupid posts by you. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:21 AM
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Everyone answers yes to that question dumass. You really should not be calling people dumasses when you believe the things you do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:21 AM
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Why do you insist that the male orgasm is more intense than the female orgasm? Egoism, right? No. Its evident to me, based on how men and women behave. And nature in general. Males sacrifice their LIVES for orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:25 AM
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Everything is a spectrum of experience. I am talking in generalities. But no, I have no desire to orgasm 5 times in a row. Even as a teen they would be spaced out over the day. Two in quick succession can be a thing though. But its never as good the 2nd time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:15 AM
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A minority. Why is it so important for you to believe that 80 year olds are having sex? Most of them will tell you otherwise if you asked. You think your going to find an 80 year old mans body attractive when you are 80? I know I will not find an 80 year old womans body attractive when I am 80
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:04 AM
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Its not satisfying when you have to try super hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:59 AM
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Very rare. So no. Not "lots". 80 year olds are also not very aroused by 80 year old bodies, anymore than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:56 AM
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RIght so all these posters telling you to go buy ice cream or read philosophy are idiots. Because they have sex and you don't. So we both know what the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:44 AM
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Cause you haven't experienced it. But I agree a lot of people are not sexy and sex is not as great of an event for the soul or the mood when you feel "meh" about them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:38 AM
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Sounds like you are missing powerful orgasms with a sexy partner. I agree life is very bleak when you do not have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:24 AM
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Nah, that shit is for the women, which good on you, I am not saying I do not enjoy the validation that comes with pleasing a woman. But when you force another orgasm to soon as a man its a dud. I'd rather wait an hour at least before I am properly horny again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:17 AM
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Haha thats so pathetic. Makes me realize how good i have it to have had a completely open and emotionally raw relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:14 AM
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Very few old people have sex. Most mens cocks do not work. And most women due to their responsive and reactive sexual desire, no longer feel sexy enough to want to engage in sex after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:03 AM
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Its just downlow gay men getting exposed. You can't be gay in China and have a successful cookie-cutter life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:02 AM
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doesn’t mean the male orgasm is “more intense” than the female orgasm. It means more neuro-chemicals were released, and the body needs to reset. If you can do something over and over then its not releasing the same equivalent of neurotransmitters If you are experiencing something for 45 seconds its definitely mild. I can't even imagine what it feel like to have the sensation of cumming for 45 seconds, it would be disturbing and disorienting and not even enjoyable, it would be WAY too intense. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:59 AM
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Porn use exists BECAUSE of men not being able to get laid. Not the other way around. No. Boys start watching porn nearly every single day when they are like 10 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:55 AM
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Banning and blocking porn would immensely help men get laid. Why are you so obsessed with digital representations of sexy women. Women are more hypersexual than ever before, sex is not shamed. Young women worship sex. Having orgasms with "hot guys" is basically the new religion for young western women, now that actual religion has been tossed aside. They think and talk about it far more than their mothers ever did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:45 AM
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If something lasts 45 sec, its mild. The female orgasm is all over the place. A lot of them just define it as anytime their genitals feel good during stimulation with some kind of crescendo. Its why silly fucks say things like "ya gave my girl 5 or 6 orgasms going down on her". The male orgasm is so powerful and intense that you literally stop enjoying sex after because of all the dopamine that was dumped leaves you depleted. Post-nut clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:36 AM
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How did I tell on myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:27 AM
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Women don't actually have that intense of orgasms compared to men, thats why they are so "meh" about sex and can go years without sex perfectly fine. Its enjoyable but definitely producing less of a chemical high than orgasming does for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:12 AM
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Am I the only one that sometimes doesn’t know when they came from sex? Whenever I masturbate/use my vibrator, I know for sure when I do. The feeling is so intense and it’s so much feeling in one spot that it travels through my whole body. I know that cumming is supposed to feel different when having sex, and it’s good too, but idk it doesn’t feel strongly enough that I can pinpoint it to one moment? Supposedly, according to women, women have extremely intense orgasms, they even love to say that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:40 AM
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Isn't that crazy that those women wanted those other chosen men so badly that they chose a man who already had kids instead of finding one without a family. Only makes sense in the 80/20 universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:14 AM
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There is no hard science. Common sense says that 19 year old women are having more sex than 19 year old men in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:11 AM
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Sexual promiscuity is only less prevalent amongst young men because they literally don’t have the option to be more promiscuous even if they wanted to - 80/20 rule. What is your point? Its still the first time in history where young women are having more sex than young men, on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:10 AM
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Women don't choose men thinking about marriage and children. Its just charisma and how much you make her giggle, and then how well you fuck her. Thats all they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:09 AM
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Notice how she says actual value. To her a car is nothing. Having a huge dick is real value to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:59 AM
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Thats only because you can't show your dick on dating profiles. Majority of women, dick is Numba 2 on the list of most important phyiscal qualities, behind either face or height depending on the girl. Ask any women if they would rather have a skinny dude whose never done athletics in his life whose packing a thick 7+ vs a ripped athlete with a 5-er
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:37 AM
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Going on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:26 AM
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Looks don't matter that much. Women have a minimum threshold and once you pass that its 90% behavior. Looks have extremely diminishing returns because men are the initiators and performers. If you can't perform it doesn't matter much how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:03 AM
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If I show a picture of myself with jeans and no shirt, some women will offer to sleep with me. No they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:00 AM
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Men aren't actually lonely. Its a stand in for lack of sex/intimacy. Men can have a million male friends and still feel depressed and hopeless is they do not have access to sexual validation. The friends act as a distraction, a bandaid over the wound that continues to fester. Only very ugly women can have the possibility of a similar experience. Men can very well feel utterly defeated regardless if they enjoy some distraction time with the bros to distract them for a few hours
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:49 PM
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Probably because you are beta-ish compared to the other ghetto black dudes. Where as your sister is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:45 PM
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Hes clearly not hideous. Hes probably a very charismatic man who is good at flirting with women. All those women he fucked would never ever in a million years touch a "nice guy" or any kind of beta man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:44 PM
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Are straight submissive men just outta luck then? Yes? Why is this so hard for you to believe. Lots of men don't get to "do whatever they want" in the bedroom with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:38 PM
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K, man I shudder to imagine how you are going to raise a daughter with that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:31 AM
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Because to a nerdy asian college woman, a nerdy black guy is a "bad taboo boy". Shes transgressing just as much as your sister with the gangbanger thrill, just in a different relativistic way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:29 AM
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Shit talking strangers online has nothing to do with how you treat your loved ones. And you have the gall to call others naive!? Just say what you really feel which is that you are obsessed with what men talk about online and actually deep down are more emotionally angry at shitposters on reddit than you are at real charismatic abusers in real life who can make you giggle one night at least
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:25 AM
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Why would she date a man who would push a woman out of a car. Was there something really attractive about him that made up for this quality of his? Obviously she passed over many "nice polite guys" who would never consider pushing a woman or anyone out of a moving car and really felt this guy must be a catch to date him. You knew him. You tell us. I saw your other post saying that the only thing you care about when sharing your body with men is looks so I think we can make some assumption that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:16 AM
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Women have more of a responsibility to get better at this because they choose who gets to have sex and who gets access to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:13 AM
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Ask the women on this sub that constantly call men losers/incels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:07 AM
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Of course you disagree when you think of yourself as some women-warrior out to defend women at all costs and giving your oath to never break the in-group bias shroud that is cast over all female posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:05 AM
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Thats why your topic sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:58 AM
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Shouldn't you be more interested in nuanced opinion instead of trick questions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:56 AM
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Women are much more conformist than men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:54 AM
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No men dont always do x and you can't say they never do y.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:52 AM
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Isn't it kind of dumb to ask a question with "never" and "always" about human behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:51 AM
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All races are equally racist. If you don't believe that then you are an ignorant fool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:44 AM
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Extra hair carries smells. Its harder to smell clean when your crotch is extremely hairy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:42 AM
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Every race is racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:41 AM
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Yes men that know they have a woman who is actually an equal to him will treat her better than a man that took her simply because she was willing. People never treat people that they settle for as good as they should
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:38 AM
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Ya duh, you think any of those losers find a match? They pay women and watch porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:34 AM
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Yall need to be called out for your ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:52 PM
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It starts getting negative real quick when you realize the traits that women find attractive in men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:52 PM
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For women, good sex is being sexually dominated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:48 PM
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Dominant women just like being dominated by an even more dominant man. A woman identifying as "dominant" just means that she dislikes certain trappings of dominant men but definitely lusts after others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:46 PM
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Single yet running through men at a clip lamo. Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:42 PM
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You loved being single because you were having sex. What a disingenuous post. You weren't single. You can't claim to be single and being dicked down once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:39 PM
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"People are unique" is not an argument, its a thought-terminating Cliche. Look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:06 PM
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What is wrong with hypocrisy? Youre entire posting style BLEEDS with hypocrisy. Like youre entire persona on PDD is that of a hypocrite. Its crazy that you don't see this (or you do probably giggles)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:57 PM
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it's also dangerous thinking to assume that you have to just be Chad enough Nope. Its accurate, well-founded thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:47 PM
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Its all tied together. More gaslighting to protect womens egos. Yes baby girl your a strong powerful woman that just wants to get dicked down, but every where else yes youre so strong and powerful!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:34 PM
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Different races, different cultural backgrounds, different body types, different attitudes. No one views people purely as individuals, thats ignorant. It doesn't matter what you think of the word sampling, as long as it describes what happened accurately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:28 PM
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The dating process is “vetting” for a man they think they’d be okay with submitting to. (This topic is an entire rabbit hole that could be a post in and of itself, so I’ll stop there.) Thats the dating process for all women. Not just "trad women". Women vet for men they feel submissive enough to that they want him to fk her with his dick. Which is inherently a submissive act. More gobbledigook from women trying to make distinctions between different types of women when in reality they all operat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:21 PM
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Thats because you can only attract betas. Women hate being made to pick what to do on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:19 PM
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So how many different types of men have you sampled?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:16 PM
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The brain stops orgasming just like how women stop getting turned on by you when they find you sucked a dick. Because the idea of your partner changes. Sex is not mechanical, it is primarily mental and emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:14 PM
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Women have responsive sexual desire. "high libido women" "low libido women", are hardly a thing or a real distinction. What makes you categorize women this way? Do you really think you are being accurate with that black and white thinking about womens libidos. Either its "high" or "Low". Like what kind of poorly thought out thinking is that. The vast majority of women crave sex from a certain kind of man and a certain kind of performance, regardless of whether you would call them "low libido" or…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:12 PM
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Large social network =/= being friends with felons. Just say you like exciting people and don't care if they are dickwads or not, you just want to giggle and be entertained
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:09 PM
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With that logic you can't make statements or discuss anything. Special little snowflakes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:08 PM
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It can be. It can be other things to. Humiliating. Loving. Spiritual. Ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:07 PM
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You are coming off pretty dense right now, I am not talking about "mental issues". I am talking about the simple fact that orgasms are stimulated by the brain, especially intensity. Thats why sex is mental. Thats why your wife could easily tell you something one day that could destroy how your brain perceives sex with her. Do you deny this? This is basic human stuff. Only a true debate-bro exhaustive-type would argue about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:22 PM
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I want women who enjoy sex with a select few men. Very simple concept. Not troubling at all. I don't want women who enjoy sex with multiple men at once for example, regardless of how "good" it was. Yes shame is part of the human condition and a natural part of socialization. Its people who see all shame as "bad" and want a shameless world who are sick and twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:18 PM
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Because 90% of sex is mental, in the brain. Theres a million things your wife could tell you that would destroy good sex even if she still wanted it with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:16 PM
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Nah, men always lie about that sort of thing. The ease at which you, a sluty woman, gets sex, is like a fish swimming through water.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:15 PM
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Men not wanting hypersexual women because it destroys the good feels from sex, has nothing to do with religion. Majority of people aren't religious these days in USA. If you never shame women then they will continue to do more and more extreme things in the pursuit of hedonistic pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:09 PM
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You had more probably given the way you talk about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:08 PM
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Women who fake orgasms are why I can barely enjoy sex anymore. The constant gaslighting and lying to men about sex, really forces you to care less about the womans experience during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:05 PM
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No, women who like to be used in bed as sexual objects see themselves as sexual objects. He specifically does not like to think of woman being "dominated" in bed, because that is objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:02 PM
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Make it make sense! With this approach, your choosing your own misfortune. I am honestly asking, how does that NOT make sense to you? You said make it make sense, but it makes perfect sense to me. Why exactly does it not make sense to you....?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:58 PM
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Hardly anyone "falls in love" before having sex beyond a certain age. Sure teenagers. Thats PRECISELY because teenagers are not sluts and it feels special and NOVEL at that age because it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:56 PM
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Hopefully you get a bunch of neurodivergent grand children, then you can insult them instead of the ones on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:53 PM
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Aren't you concerned by the multitude of fetishes and 1000s of hours of porn content he has engrossed himself in during those 10+ years of virginity before meeting and having sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:52 PM
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WHere do you meet all these ex-cons? I live in a big American city and don't meet any ex-cons in my social circles? I think it says more about you and the types of people you like to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:48 PM
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I'm not bothered by this app. Its only relevant for high profile guys with big social media presences who date lots of women and act like players. Apps like these are to take down guys who do well with woman. The average guy is invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:19 AM
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Does he know you had a bunch of casual sex with men you didn't even like enough to date before him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:15 AM
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They just want to keep having sex with you. Its not that complicated. I know you believe its because you are so amazing, but its actually because the "casual sex" arrangement with a woman usually runs dry after 2-3 encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:13 AM
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Wrong. Its just women having sex and "dating" guys who are better than them. They were NEVER going to get commitment from those men in the first place, no matter how hard they made him "work". Because hes better than her and he knows it. Honestly as a woman I think I’d prefer the slower build up to sex and getting to know each other along the way beforehand as well in a relationship. Then stop having casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:09 AM
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Very few people are like that. Just say you want a bf who gets in lots of fights and be done with it. There is a trend with the youth following ghetto culture and rap where politeness is framed as weak and bitch behavior. Instead everything has to be about disrespecting others and confrontation. It sick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:06 AM
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Aren't people disagreeable enough in America? People are fucking assholes. When did being polite become a bitch quality? Do you like people who act like ghetto retards?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:59 AM
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You meant to say that very few women prefer smaller. Are you one of those women that prefer small dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:43 AM
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It doesn't matter if women or men body shame or they don't. Women will keep craving larger than average penises regardless of who or what gets shamed. And thats why it will ALWAYS be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:38 AM
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What are women that drive those compensating for? Not having dicks at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:37 AM
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0 I watched a guy cold approach a group of girls at a rooftop pool in my city last weekend. When he left the one who he was giving attention to giggled, enjoying being focused on over the other girls, said she didn't know him thats that. I think I am better than that guy, better looking at least. But he has balls. I just do OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:35 AM
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Boring people You mean men. Boring men. Women can be as boring as they want and will easily find a man of similar appearance to them for whatever kind of relationship they desire
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:13 AM
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It happened. Not that I would ever be in a relationship with that girl, she is poly and an ultraprogressive (probably why she didnt slap that black-latino and instead let him do that to her, fking pathetic) and has another "boyfriend". Thats what happens to you sex positive "high-Ns", you get used and abused by guys looking to conquer and humiliate you (while keeping a charming smile on their face to get their nut), just like what happened to her. Real story. Deal with it. When I fk other races …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:00 AM
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Literally just had sex with a girl who pillow talked to me about how some blatino she fked talked about how excited he felt to fuck her because shes an "oppressor" (23 yo white woman). She was disturbed by this, the sad part is she didn't even know if she should be offended. Oh but ya, its all "porn".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:17 AM
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I don't think those forgotten women should get dates, I just think they are invisible. They would get dates if the dating market was not so fucked by modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:14 AM
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Uh I am implying the man has not done those things, thats why it disturbs him that she did. I didn't say "have sex". I said have sex with two bbc black guys while they degrade her (you know, interracial taboo, stuff thats all over the internet and in da clubs, but your not aloud to talk about)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:11 AM
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Why does it matter if handsome men do not see that those women exist, when those women are not their natural matches? Just be clear, you want men to date down, you think ugly women are worth more than average men and men who struggle with women should just keep looking for an uglier and uglier woman until one of them excepts him and his "flaws". That is what I am getting from your attitude about this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:04 AM
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I wonder what its like to think of your body as a set of holes for men to use lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:01 AM
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What if your gf got dp'ed by two hung black guys calling her a slut like in porn? Should men feel insecure about their gf doing something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:58 AM
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Yep you see it all the time with women commentators GLEEFUL at the idea of men failing at being attractive or taking themselves out of the dating market. Completely ignorant of the fact that thats one more of their sisters who will be single and not find a husband. Its like they do not comprehend there is only 1 man for each woman on this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:56 AM
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i know just wants to find a good personality match for herself Code for hypercharismatic man with a sharp sense of humor and wit, must make her laugh all the time and constantly be entertaining her. God forbid a man is ever "boring". Hell on earth, rather be alone and childless for life than deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:53 AM
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I disagree. I see the opposite more often. I see a lot of chads walking around with derpy faced, flat assed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:48 AM
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Don't know why your fellow women have trouble with this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:46 AM
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Most gay men would like to try with a women but they have absolutely no idea and very little motivation to attract women. Which is why the vast majority of gay men have literally NEVER fucked a pussy. Hint: Its the complete opposite for "lesbians" where the vast majority have fucked dick. Gays and lesbians can't escape biological heterosexual gender dynamics as much as they claim to not participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:44 AM
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People should date their looksmatch. What you are implying is that those ugly women deserve average looking guys when they should be with fellow uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:42 AM
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Lack of sexual charisma. Once women taste a certain type of guy, the others are "nah not my type!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:37 AM
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that you do not know about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:28 PM
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Many women go out looking for hook ups and are very selective in the men they choose to have casual sex with. Quite the opposite of "picking random guy when I am feeling down" Just offering a different perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:18 PM
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So, they can pick one of the sexy fun men, who exhibit those traits, to marry. The market for this is small. There are many more women looking for this than there are available men. Women clearly do not care about your perspective, given how many are perfectly satisfied being fat while still looking for "mr perfect"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:11 PM
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Your husband has lots of kinks you don't know about because you don't want to know. Your living in la la land thinking a man not pushing for his kinks means he has none
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:02 PM
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Your the one who said you'd throw a guy away if he became vanilla farther into the relationship. Also what do you kinky women even want? You are so proud to go around online talking about being "kinky" and disparaging vanillas sex but I notice when I ask about your sexual proclivities, even online, you go mute. Sounds like you are ashamed of your kinkiness, you can't even name it out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:00 PM
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may vary wildly across the group of people who dress alternatively. Or they may not...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:58 PM
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a guy who is doing >50% of the household chores, is the better and more enthusiastic cook, gardener, parent and interior designer? Cause he lacks sexual charisma. Those type of sacrificial qualities are less present in sexy fun men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:52 PM
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I agree. I think women are happiest in poly and cuckhold relationships. They get to sample whichever men they want, that push their emotional buttons in different ways. And they get to retain the comfort man at home to support them in life. No need to marry for any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:49 PM
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but the values others project on alternative or sexy dress are not necessarily the values they express for the wearer. I read this three times and you do have to explain this because grammatically it is not making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:48 PM
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Another pointless conversation, next time dont' bother responding. You must be lonely to want to ping pong with so many men here and never actually discuss anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:47 PM
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You left out the part where you will fuck outside a relationship with unsincere men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:42 PM
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Do you think deceptive men also have more sexual charisma and are more entertaining than boring, moral men, with principles and values. You know, the guys you never met apparently, in your dating phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:38 PM
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You don't believe how you dress is a reflection of your values and your sense of self? Sounds kind of autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:31 PM
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Lots of men suppress their kinks. Its part of being a guy, because women are very picky about male sexuality. For example "no submissive" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:29 PM
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So you want men to cater to you sexually and if they don't you end the relationship. You would never sacrifice sexually for a man. What if he gets injured? Thrown in the trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:26 PM
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What purpose do non-religious men have to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:22 PM
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oh so you agree with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:20 PM
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What a stupid response. Bi woman like men and women, they like men things about men, including their dicks. They like women things about women. I'm just telling you what women are doing, said nothing about what happens to small d guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:58 AM
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They do the same thing "vanilla women" do, find big dick studs to sexually experiment with. OF girls just film themselves in the act
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:52 AM
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Thats also why men are losing faith in women. We can see what sluts they are and the type of men and things they do online. In the past you could pass it off as single aberrant woman. Now there are 1000s of new "only fans" creators every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:49 AM
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Or you could use your brain. Guess thats a little hard for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:44 AM
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What purpose do men have to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:43 AM
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I'm not an intactivist and neither are most men. Not approving of circumcision does not require attacking circumicised men as defective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:42 AM
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The way she talks about herself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:39 AM
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You aren't a man, why would men treat you like a man. Hang out with women if you dont want to deal with sexual attraction. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:48 AM
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By being a respectful, mature and interesting person. No. You have to be sexually charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:43 AM
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Your point is that an AI can provide validation....? Why don't you divorce your husband if you don't care about male validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:31 AM
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They don't need to be in a relationship to be happy I disagree. If you know any men, you would know that is a stupid assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:28 AM
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half of you do not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:26 AM
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Western women do not want to have kids anyway so who cares about this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:20 AM
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Ya he will be a player, unless hes shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:17 AM
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Everyone that avoids approaching does so because they are anxious and shy. Its universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:16 AM
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Girl power! WOmen are wonderful! You must be really intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:15 AM
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Theres always signs, you liked their dominant behavior. Passive men are rarely abusive, but they aren't sexy either, so you don't pick them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:14 AM
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they are definitely are open to dating shorter guys but are filtered out by them because of their height No. They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:57 AM
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You sound like a huge narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:53 AM
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Tall women by and large, hate shorter men and don't view them as viable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:50 AM
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Very few tall dudes are handsome. They were birth by tall ugly faced fathers, and the pattern continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:47 AM
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Just as you don’t want to go out and try to meet women IRL because it takes too much effort What a delusional take. Approaching and meeting women in public has nothing to do with "effort" its overcoming approach anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:44 AM
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Or absolutely drooling over her boobs and ass, imagining having sex with her You do not want your partner to see you this way? In my experience women DESPISE sexually passive men who don't want to fuck them 24/7 and fail to get erections at the drop of a hat for seeing their ass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:36 AM
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Every relationship I've had with a man (except my husband) I've been abused in some way. They must have had a some pretty great qualities for you to pick abusive men. Was the sex really good or something? I can't think of why I would pick an abusive women to be with unless I got something great out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:31 AM
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If hes high value male who gets a lot of attention from women he will DEFINTELY treat them like objects. Maybe until he finds that one he wants to be his wife, but lots of pump and dumps leading up to that. But its ok, women enjoy being objects for men like him. So its all good. Both people get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:28 AM
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Gentlemanly betas do not get sex and they are very nice to women. Only sexually charismatic men get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:19 AM
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You are rare and that makes you insecure. You missed out on a lot of interesting situations and interesting men because you latched on to your beta early on. You did not sample the rainbow like so many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:17 AM
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Oh and how often do you get rejected when you proposition a man? When have you tried to kiss a man and have him pull away and look both ways and smirk at you. Or reject a hug. Have them eye roll at you for not being entertaining enough? You don't initiate shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:11 AM
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Circumsized dicks are not terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:04 AM
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Because it is so easy for women to have sex and much harder for men. And women love sex just as much as men, according to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:53 AM
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No I mean women who are mean, bitchy and lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:52 AM
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Why don't you troll the bitchy slutty women on here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:51 PM
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More women are doing it than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:49 PM
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Why can't women wait until after high school? You are too horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:04 PM
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Few times
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:02 PM
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not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:01 PM
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how often have you had sex with a large dicked man who knew how to use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:28 PM
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then theres no point to your comment. it doesnt apply to mine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:27 PM
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Are you trying to say that your first boyfriend was a big dick alpha compared to your hubby?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:47 PM
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Most women hook up, just not all the time or for their entire lives
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:46 PM
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Virgin women have more enjoyable sex with average men and appreciate them more than women who have casual sex with dig dick alphas
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:44 PM
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A lot of women get REALLY fat though past a certain age. Thats why I am always wary of latina women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:43 PM
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DOesn't matter what happens as long as its an alpha that makes you giggle and your pussy tingle, female sexuality is pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:39 PM
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Ya having a dick in you sounds so terrible omg. I am all outstep with your fantasies about dick I used the wrong words oh no, if only I had talked about you getting dick your vagina a different way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:34 PM
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It does actually. The only attractive women he will ever have a chance with are insecure types who prioritize the looks of a guy over his other qualities of status and skill because they are worried they can't do better. Or more likely he will settle for a girl way below his looksmatch. Anyway your friend was a kid, he has plenty of opportunity to spread his wings as he matures. Ugly dudes are stuck where they are after "social-maxing".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:54 AM
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Isn't all female pop music based around casual sex? They love it. They listen to cardi b, meghan the stallion, and all the grungey lesser known girls rapping about their pussies and asses and finding this big dick and that big dick? I pulled up to 4 girls just last night and they were singing along to the nastiest degrading music ever. They LOVED it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:52 AM
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I am talking about society at large. Not my own experiences. I have only had loving monogamous long term relationships. Its women like you who base relationships around sex as the primary keystone and you end relationships for the same reasons. Your insult shows how sex obsessed you are Do you enjoy trying to insult men based on their sexual skill? Is that engrained in the female psyche? When did you start using those insults as a little girl? When you were a teen? Or younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:48 AM
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Shell come back to him if he fucks her good enough and he can discard her over and over to his liking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:16 AM
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And are all the guys getting hook ups and situationships? Right down to the uggos or beta types?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:14 AM
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Average Women get to sample a smorgasbord of different types of men be it with sex, dating, or just socializing. Even if sex is not involved, because of womens neverending supply of male attention their standards and pickiness go up and up and up until they calculate they will start to run out of time and their looks decline then they pick someone, usually never the "best" guy they dated or had sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:12 AM
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Most men don't even approach women like that. You are ONLY dealing with alpha men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:55 AM
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You like intelligent sexually charismatic people, not intelligent people. Just stop with your moralizing of your attraction, its pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:52 AM
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Relationships are easy. They almost always fail because of SEX. You are delusional for thinking otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:51 AM
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Intelligent men are boring too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:55 AM
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Women can help men create the skill of generating a "spark". They just choose not to because they are narcissistic and have no empathy for men, just use men for sex, thrills, entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:55 AM
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Aggressive penetration is not jackhammering. ya because you find scared men to be beta bitches. Just admit it. You like dominate alphas. I did eventually date someone who was very sexually reserved Awww you settled for the beta bitch once, how cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:53 AM
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How could either of them demonstrate that they "don't respect you".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:51 AM
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Are they respecting her bodily autonomy when they are choking her while they fuck her? Or their BDSM garbage where they tie her up and use her like meat?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:41 AM
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Most women like dominant fun charismatic men and don't give two shits about his "morals". Nor are they thinking about his "morals' when hes making her cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:32 AM
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Why would they find "progressive guys" more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:31 AM
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Then the crazy boyfriend shows up and attacks and tries to kill you. Happened to a friend of mine. Smashed through his glass back screen door, luckily friend has some martial skills and managed to choke him out (because the guy was high on top of it all)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:15 AM
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Only crazy women ask a man about his politics before she sleeps with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:12 AM
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What a load of bullshit. The vast majority of people in relationships settle, and have a line of never ending relationship problems almost always stemming from SEX. Be kind, work hard, have fun This isn't how men attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:10 AM
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Those men would still have had sex with you just like all the other men did, aggressively penetrating you. You just did not like their beta gentleman quality so you had no interest in seeing their sexual side when they leave the inhibitions aside. The fact that you think a man who is beta is asexual, shows your are narcissistic and lack any empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:07 AM
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We think i went on a date with a really nice guy in every other way but there was no spark, that's a shame Its a shame he did not have the skills to turn you on. Men with sexual charisma will turn you on every time, but you pretend its some chaos and "spark" like random energy. Nope, its just that the vast majority of men lack sexual charisma. You aren't special and you aren't selecting for "spark" you are just filtering out men who lack sexual charisma to your standards. Its not unique snowflak…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:05 AM
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Interesting take, definitely super narcissistic to do that. "The men I choose are the 'good' ones". How ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:59 AM
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Women only reward entertainment, rarely intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:58 AM
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Ya blackpill dudes are mostly retards lost in internet bubbles. Anyone actually out on the scene, going out to fun places, going to meatmarket clubs, anywhere where people meet people, can see that above average looks guys fail all the time due to being boring passive, beta ect. Talking about personality is BS though because the vast majority of men cannot change their personalities. So it doesn't matter, your personality is what it is. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:51 AM
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The girl last night certainly thought so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:48 AM
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if I’m choosing between one average looking guy with a personality I vibe with who seems like he respects me as a human Why do you assume he respects you anymore than the hot guy? Because he makes you giggle and has a good sense of humor? Are you really this shallow about people? Fucking a man because his personality appeals to you, is no more shallow than fucking him because his body shape and face appeals to you. They are both superficial judgements. Some guy making you giggle doesn't tell you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:56 PM
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How do abusers hide their intention to abuse women? If women sense all this energy from men and can "read" men left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:53 PM
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Europe is way more fascist than the USA. What country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:47 PM
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Ya I am telling you. Deal with it. Stop lying and gaslighting people then you won't get called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:47 PM
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No they see America as a source of evil because they see it as a racist "white supremacist nation" which is also what I am guessing your country is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:39 PM
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Women aren't comparable to men. The bell curve for male bodies, and male behavior is MUCH wider and more diverse than for females. I guarantee those differences you described among the women you dated in the past are extremely mild compared to the differences in men your girl has experienced if she is "experienced" and high n-count. Some men have immense sexual charisma. Some men have ZERO. And they can look exactly the same physically. Or Some men have huge impressive dicks. Some men have liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:23 PM
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None of that is interesting or attractive to women. Women are attracted to charisma only.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:15 PM
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But women do not need men, so why would they be bothered by not being able to find a man. All we hear is that women can be happy without men in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:14 PM
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Democrats hate the country though. They have endless amounts of self-deprication and self-guilt or are minorities who see the USA as someone elses country (white peoples) but not theirs and hate it for racism. So Democrats hate American much more intensely compared to Europeans who are just neutral and "not patriotic". Europeans do not see their country as a source of evil or shame like the American left does
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:06 PM
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Once a woman gets blown out by a man better looking than you, better at sex than you, more sexually charismatic than you, with a more impressive cock than yours, you will always be vanilla to her, not nirvana. Always #2 (or #5 or #10). Good enough. Settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:00 PM
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Cause through her you can meet even better women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:54 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:53 PM
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What sport do you play
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:45 PM
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Everyone who likes dick has been fucked by dick at least a few times. Its impossible to be sexually attracted to penis and not want to be penetrated by it, even as an experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:13 PM
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Guess its similar to strippers. Sure other guys get to see everything, but only one gets sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:29 PM
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No. They have higher standards than female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:28 PM
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You can do all the things that make men valuable AND retain your female privilege. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:03 PM
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Who exactly are they fucking though? Thats what I wonder about when I see them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:57 PM
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High school is high school. Thread is about adult relationships with mature people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:49 PM
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Being not your type, does not preclude him from being attractive and having qualities that you find attractive in a man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:48 PM
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Hes not a chad he just works in highly sexual industry and is tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:46 PM
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If it had zero effect on your dating life then something is wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:45 PM
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But they don’t have to be fuckable or meet as many standards as a relationship does The standards for a woman to accept a straight male friend are SKY HIGH compared to the standards another man has to accept a male friend or hang out with a new dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:41 PM
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I am saying beyond a certain age, women do not want to be friends with single straight men, period. You are implying I am avoiding female friendships, its the exact opposite! There are hardly any to be disappointed by because women show such little interest in male friendships beyond when they are single and looking to date/fuck those "fun guys" they start hanging with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:39 PM
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I am friends with a few ugly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:38 PM
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More thought out than yours for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:30 PM
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So a man can have a boatload of male friends who appreciate his personality but somehow his personality is also shit at the same time and thats why he doesn't have female friends. Is that what you are saying? Schordingers personality. You just proved my point. Women only want to be friends with high value men (highly entertaining personalities or highly attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:29 PM
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Right so they are both attractive, just not attractive "to you" for the purpose of dating. You just proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:26 PM
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Most women are not charismatic or fun. They just have the privilege of being the gatekeepers of all relationships, friends and lovers alike
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:25 PM
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Cause women don't want to be friends with average men, they only want to be friends with high value men (highly entertaining or highly attractive)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:24 PM
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Looking at who is friends in my life, try using your brain instead of performing for an anonymous audience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:30 PM
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Off-topic. Save it for a forum that doesn't ban all discussion of race and racial fetishism that is rampant in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:29 PM
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From observing who women pick to be their male friends. And the types of social dynamics at play
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:28 PM
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No, women only date up. There is a large pool of unnattractive men that get absolutely zero attention from women. The way you are framing it is that looks-matched people all end up together, so there is an ugly girl for each ugly guy. Thats not how it works at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:26 PM
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If women are inviting you, a single straight man, to their social events, its a good sign for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:25 PM
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She has no morals. Her morals are basically if something makes her feel good, than its good. If theres something she doesn't like then its bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:15 PM
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Never been my experience. Dorky guys who are unnattractive and can't pull women have zero women, or at best they befriend women even worse off than them. The hierarchy for friendships and sex is nearly identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:14 PM
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Even if they are not the same, you would think both would be looked down upon and selected against when dating, looking for a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:13 PM
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For sure. It is 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:12 PM
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Most men cannot change their personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:08 PM
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I respect your detailed response. Do you know these men who have lots of sex and very few female friends? Why would women not want to be friends with outgoing men, its free entertainment. Its like saying you don't prefer to watch a good entertaining movie. I don't care which personality traits women prefer, my point is that women filter out men and men have no control over this, so stop telling men to get more girly friends because those girls do not want to be friends with him. Just like in sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:03 PM
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Being treated kindly is not the same thing as being friends. Do you go out to bars with those women? Get invited to their friends parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:01 PM
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I'm guessing you are ugly. Sorry handsome, fit men (me) get sex, more news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:58 PM
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Rarely happens. Its a fever dream online. I never see Hotties wit dorky friends who struggle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:54 PM
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Nope. I like parity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:53 PM
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Nothing in my OP assumes friendships lead to sex. I'm talking about, how YOU, as a woman, pick your straight male friends and mixed gender friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:51 PM
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Women want to be friends with the same guys they want to fuck. So they will not be friends with you unless you already attractive. Unattractive men CANNOT make female friends. Unless, like in dating and sex, they pursue women who are ugly and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:50 PM
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Talking about how you feel with other people is not using them. Braindead take from you, as per usual. Spending time with others and enjoying others company is not "using them". I go out with friends - friends I enjoy time with - male or female Not that I would ever want to be friends with you as you sound like a terrible narcissistic woman, but the thread is about how you choose friends. So respond to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:47 PM
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That is... something. Wow. At least you don't have any children to pass down those sterling moral principles to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:14 PM
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Women will tend to find hypotheticals like that far less engaging to talk about if there is no correlation to their own life. Sounds like narcissism. Oh but we aren't allowed to say women are more narcissistic than men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:11 PM
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I have had lots of sex with many people. More than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:06 PM
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Also don't those guys who get taken along by women get viewed as "the gay dude" or "the sexually uninterested dude" No? They don't know anything about him. Only that hes her friend. Where do you get this stuff? Online I am guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:05 PM
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Those guys are fools. They can use her status to meet other women. When she goes to her friends party she will bring him along. He can meet women there. She can vouch for him, hes "safe", just by being her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:47 PM
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Post-school its harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:43 PM
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Women don't want friendships with single men. Thats why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:43 PM
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Typical homophobic rambling by PPD women. Just call them all fhaggs and be done with it. So tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:40 PM
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Well thats what I want. I think you are ignorant of how much people crave social status, and protect their own self-perceived status. Not everything is about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:39 PM
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How did you meet and become friends with them. I would kill for a larger female friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:37 PM
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but in a way that they don't initiate, never plan anything, will drop you when they find someone they want to date I agree. And also, be honest. When is the last time you made a genuine female friend. I also have two friendships with women that I met in college and we try to maintain the friendship and live close by each other. Meeting a girl who wants to be friends with me now, is a fool errand. They have zero interest unless they want to fuck me, see me as dating material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:35 PM
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I don't understand men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:33 PM
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Most men are "desperate" to be included in a mixed gender social group with looksmatched women doing fun mixed gender social group things. They are not desperate to fuck every girl that socializes with him. There is nothing more status signaling for a man than to walk around town, around the city with attractive women by your side. Women know this and they are loath to include men they deem unworthy, unnattractive, in their socializing, their brunches, their nights out. It has nothing to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:31 PM
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I have found the opposite. Women are VERY picky with the men they add to their friend circles. Especially after say college age, but even during college. Maybe its because my demo is upper middle class/wealthy white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:25 PM
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Says the guy who fucks all his female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:23 PM
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I don't want to fuck my female friends either. Its women who are for some reason assuming the worst of men AND saying that sexually successful men are less interested in fucking them, then sexually unsuccessful men, which is not correct in my opinion. The responses so far have claimed that women choose male friends based on how desperate they believe those men to be, because then.... they are safer from sexual advances from men who have lots of sex? It makes no sense. But I guess this will be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:22 PM
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My post stipulates straight men. Women don't see gay men as men, they see them as women. "One of the girls". Neutered males. Entertainment sissies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:07 PM
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Wrong. That is dehumanizing towards sexually unattractive men. By that logic you should avoid all male friendships because most men would fuck you if given the chance, just to try it. Just to give it a go. I disagree. Its absolutely about is he "worthy" to be my friend. That is what women are thinking about, not "does he want to fuck me". Most men want to fuck her. Thats a given for her. You are being disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:05 PM
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I'm just saying that women are way worse IRL than they are in this sub. This sub actually is a reflection of neglected and low value women. IRL women are cold bitches, they need constant entertainment from men, and the most brutal redpill takes tend to describe a majority of females. Especially ones with high self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:46 PM
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Most people are not doing interesting things and most started interests are lie that receive a few hours a month at best. So its all bullshit anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:44 PM
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This is just a reframing of alpha fucks, beta fucks. Men have to compete for every scrap of attention from women, every interaction, doesn't matter if its friendship or sex or just the opportunity to get to know a bit of their personality. Women are always evaluating whether you are "worthy" to be interacted with in any personal capacity. Cold bitches most of em Same thing we with "women don't like having sex, my wife is never in the mood". For YOU shes not in the mood. Tough luck loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:39 PM
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Why is this sub filled with women who say they like "anime". This sub must be filled with autistic homebody women. None of you are like the women I see out and about in my city. Or that I meet on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:37 PM
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You are because you are far more selective as to which penises you let in your body then they are with which vaginas they want to enter. You are offering and they are partaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:31 PM
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You know it when you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:30 PM
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Nah, studies have not proven any such link. Unlike studies showing women increase in downsyndrome dramatically rises past 40
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:29 PM
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I see tons of fat women with non-fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:03 PM
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The masculinity in males that attracts people to males is very very rarely found naturally in females, thats all there is too it. Other trappings of masculinity are esthetic, superficial, skin deep, which is what Tomboys and lesbians imbibe. Many men also fail at imbibing that type of masculinity that attracts people to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:56 PM
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Then why did you just respond "lol exactlyyyyy" to some poster sayings hes boring, and some other poster negging him saying hes terrible for talking about pissing in a bush playing golf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:53 PM
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The point is they lost access to sex with you and thats 80% of what they craved. Your in denial pretending you have the power, when you are offering your body no strings attached to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:52 PM
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Its not that confusing, I FWB (even though I hate FWB culture, I am a man with a sex drive so what can I do) a girl who identifies as a "boy". I have to use he/him with them. They are EXTREMELY feminine, and extremely submissive in bed. At least you aren't delusional about your gender like some of these people. Being a tomboy is not the same thing as being MASCULINE
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:02 PM
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Golf courses are outside, relatively isolated, what is problem with pissing outside. SOunds like you just hate Travis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:59 PM
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hes the leader youre the follower
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:57 PM
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Wow, people want to date/fuck archetypes instead of amorphous blobs, what a shocker, lets shame them for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:56 PM
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If you are very submissive in the bedroom how did you attract her in the first place, I imagine the firs time you had sex was very awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:54 PM
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incestuous friend group
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:01 PM
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Literally every female popstar has been quoted talking about mens dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:55 AM
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Women care about penis size, not men. Men care that women care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:54 AM
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Then why didn't you make a move from the get go
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:51 AM
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You didn't answer my question about when you started sexualizing her. I don't pursue woman I've been friends with, they are friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:09 AM
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Studies show half of women my age who want to have children will not have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:08 AM
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No, I said you would have failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:05 AM
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Were you jerking off to her before you actually got together? I find long term friends ----> relationship a strange development
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:44 AM
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Kids. TBH I don't really care if the marriage lasts or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:42 AM
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If you were 33 and single you would not have had children. You would have been out of time. I am 32 and can easily have kids over the next decade, though I am starting to feel a bit of pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:33 AM
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I dont trust these studies at all. Its funny watching women whose eggs are drying up try to claim men also have a biological clock when we all know they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:31 AM
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They wanted a relationship to keep having sex with you. Clearly you stopped having sex with them. Probably after the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:30 AM
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Hows that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:48 PM
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So how you filtering in the hung men without asking for dick pics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:42 PM
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I would have preferred to have remain intact, but from a visual perspective, and taste, smell, circumsized is better. Uncut dicks will always smell strongly of smegma unless right out of the shower. From a functional perspective, foreskins are better. They are basically built-in "pocket-pussy sleeves" that allow for gliding action.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:41 PM
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SO you are just asking them for dick pics. You sound like a gay man on grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:31 PM
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You were more interested in them than they were. You had sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:25 AM
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I assume people are gay based on their mannerisms not how they talk about women. Otherwise I'd have to assume every single polite inhibited man is gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:23 AM
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I don't know what making allusions to being attracted to women would be. You want him to tell you he likes your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:18 AM
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how does a straight man talk about women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:13 AM
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Its a problem with a lot of young men. A lot of young men come off as straight-up gay these days. They basically copy feminine mannerisms because our biased society worshipping women and declaring all masculine people to be "toxic". Personally I know two married guys that come off very gay. And I know some gays who don't come off as gay at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:04 AM
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Does anyone tell him that he comes off as gay. Or is that too taboo for yall
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:56 AM
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All a man has to be is shy and he will be single forever. Doesn't matter his other qualities. Women want to be taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:55 AM
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They described him as physically unnattractive. He also lost his virginity to a prostitute. Not the mark of a magnetic ladys man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:24 AM
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By reading books about him that have accounts from women and what they thought of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:49 AM
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Trans identities do not "sort themselves out". They continue with sunk cost delusions. Its completely different than being "punk"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:04 AM
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What does that have to do with you? You live your life based on "data"? What a strange argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:02 AM
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Read multiple books about him. Andrew Roberts for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:01 AM
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Woah homophobia from a anti-trumper, what a surprise. You going to call me a fhaggot next?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:58 PM
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Having a husband doesn't make you traditional though does it It does. Many modern women never get married. Like a least a third of 30 year old women will never get married and have husbands. You ignored the part of my post where she uses men like bull-studs until she decides to change her ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:56 PM
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He was charismatic with men (soldiers), not women.. As we see, women don't respect anything much a man does unless he turns her on, then hes the best man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:53 PM
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We live in a society where even two parents are no longer enough to ensure a middle-class lifestyle for our kids Kids don't need money to be happy or grow into successful adults. This is just another lie you tell yourself. Its not about the kids, its about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:51 PM
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A plastic surgeon wrote an article a couple years ago saying that female runners look old and haggard and come to him and theres nothing he can do. They age themselves through stress. They are confused because they think of themselves as these hyper healthy beings, and are confused why they look worse than the woman who lived a moderately healthy, comfortable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:13 AM
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The women, because they aren't hating "men" just men with small penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:05 AM
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This is what I actually believe to be the case. Maybe one day you will pick a loving, open, and honest partner and keep them around long enough to experience true trust and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:02 AM
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I am a cynic so that is part of why I fail to relate to and struggle to empathize with these types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:00 AM
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Being scammed is not the same thing as being abused in a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:55 AM
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Nope. You just weren't curious. No need to hide his intentions when you didn't really ever care to know them in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:40 AM
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Insulting men for their penises makes men hate women. So you are just creating more hateful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:37 AM
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Trump actually has a large dick. Theres been other women who've made comments. Stormy Daniels AFTER starting her feud with him, is the only one to say like something about how its just an "ok" dick or something. If a pornstar can't even call your dick small, then its big. Cause her frame of reference will be all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:33 AM
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No they dont Keep telling yourself that. I bet your girl told you that "you have a the perfect size, not too big, not too small". The gaslighting men go through is unbelievable when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:32 AM
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Bruh, good point, shes literally just a female andrew tate. Its hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:27 AM
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specific feeling like it comes off from insecurity So you see men you feel are insecure, and that gives you the impulse to shame them for their penises. You really sound like a gem.... i see no reason to shame him for it Yet you shame him for it. What exactly is going on in that mind of yours? It seems very topsy turvy. Do you need a moment to get your thoughts in order? I wonder if your dad has a small dick, maybe you will pass it on to your son.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:24 AM
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Sorry were you treated like property? No? Then what the fuck are you talking about. You didn't experience anything those women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:23 AM
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Body shaming has nothing to do with criticizing, rightly or wrongly, male or female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:22 AM
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Most women want big dicks that are "too big". The amount of men with actually "too big" dicks for a woman to enjoy is a rounding error. There are many many many men with MUCH bigger dicks than yours, that your girl would prefer and enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:17 AM
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Yes ofc, want whatever you want in the bedroom Submission in the bedroom is submission outside the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:08 AM
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Sounds like you didn't know him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:56 AM
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Napoleon is the perfect example of a sexually self conscious man taking what he can get and jumping into the arms of the first woman that gives him a shred of affection and understanding. He was the original tech nerd $200k+ salary beta that struggles with women because the women are more attracted to the charismatic bartender. Eventually he did grow into his huge status and had a bunch of mistresses but I think he was always a bit insecure. Ridley Scott still did him dirty in his movie by portr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:54 AM
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Ya I guess youre not good enough for those women. If you aren't getting what you want, then you definitely failed at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:38 AM
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Oh wow, you must be so attractive and sexy to have that happen to you. You must be a complete stud. You ever met another man as successful as you? Everyone must be jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:27 AM
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abusers are so clever They aren't clever. They just have things the other person wants. Could be a great sense of humor. Could be a nice dick. A high status social or professional life. Or maybe shes desperate and hes just the only moderately tall guy to give her a chance. Point is, they aren't "clever", the woman just wants things that he has, so she ignores the red flags, willingly. Men also choose to be abused. The alternative is having no pussy... can't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:24 AM
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Women don't invite strange men to their place for sex that they know nothing about and have barely conversed with. Is this a ghetto thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:11 AM
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There are lots of things I would be ok with if I knew the truth and context of her past. Unfortunately women lie about that kind of stuff. You can't have a high body count and have "all LTRs" thats not how life works. I have a few girl friends who enjoy being sexy, showing their assets off, going to places like clubs, raves, and are LTR oriented, and by virtue of this have lower body counts. But unfortunately it just takes one man to leave his mark on a woman. And even in one of my friends cases…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:06 AM
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I don't really care about numbers so much as WHO she slept with. What "types" they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:57 AM
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How the fuck is that a dad bod. Thats like a completely healthy average male body who goes to the gym a few times a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:50 AM
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You seem to think less of men who criticize women far more than men who use and abuse them through casual sex but say the right feminist words
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:49 AM
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I have a low N count, was in a LTR throughout my 20s. I have never taken a girl home from a bar I met that night and fucked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:46 AM
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The average women holds power over the average man, especially in the beginning of the relationship. Its only when they try to date up and out of their league that they let men treat them like garbage or even poorly at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:43 AM
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The most important thing to keep in mind is that abusive relationships don't start out as harmful. In fact, they often start out as perfect. Abusive people often have this uncanny ability to quickly figure out what you want, and they pretend to be that. Then, as time goes on, things start to change. It's very subtle, so you don't notice it as first. I don't believe this for a second. Perhaps you are describing the life of a stupid person though. I agree that the stupider someone is, the more lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:34 AM
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Lots of women avoid bad relationships by having principles and morals. Instead of following whatever makes their pussies tingle the most in their fantasies (probably how you live your life)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:30 AM
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Not if its a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:27 AM
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You are a pedant. You are ignoring the meaning of what I am saying and choosing to be autistic about the word inherent. Nothing about the definition of the word inherent has anything to do with "work". This is what inherent means: existing as an essential constituent or characteristic a constitutional inability to tell the truth in the nature of something though not readily apparent an underlying meaning It has nothing to do with work. It means Essentially present. Women have an essentially pres…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:26 AM
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no kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:21 AM
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Irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:21 AM
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Thats fine, I will think less of her for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:20 AM
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So if I want to have casual sex with women you think I will be more successful saying on my profile that I want to bang and am not looking for anything serious? Have you ever had to attract a woman for casual sex? No, you haven't. So you don't know what the fuck you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:19 AM
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No, women can't expect men to do things that are gay and turn off women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:15 AM
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Of course you are, no need to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:14 AM
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No. This used to be how the vast majority of women were, until sloot culture took over their minds. Honestly I cannot even get fully hard for a woman when I know I'm just another notch on their bedpost, just another point of comparison in their smorgasbord of experienced men. It feels like paying a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:57 AM
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Ideally Less promiscuous than average. Is not slavishly devoted to worshipping extroversion as the ultimate human personal quality Would never even entertain interracial dating, has no interest in racial fetishism or exoticism Understands and occasionally enjoys catering to male sexuality and male sexual fantasy even when it diverges from typical female fantasies Enjoys critical analysis instead of emotionally latching onto political movements because of the esthetics and mob mentality. Good rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:55 AM
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At least I'm not old. You already blew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:36 AM
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No I did not call women who have consistent values when it comes to sex arrogant. I called women who have inconsistent sexual values arrogant and irritating and I don't want to cater to their categories and their de-humanization of men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:35 AM
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True, I see those women everyday in my line of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:58 AM
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the puritan ideal wants to go back to an era of sexual repression only seen in modern day sharia States No they do not. often create disordered behaviours around sex and inter gender interaction. No. The porn industry does this. Not "puritain ideals". The puritan ideal sees no difference between rape and sex between two unmarried people. It's all the same and they don't care. Wrong again. I am not even religious, but your opposition to the "puritans" sounds about as dogmatic as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:45 AM
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All dating apps men are treating like dial a hoe. How would you know that unless you are the hoe they're dialing up? No connection, no getting to know us, no actual courtship. Just fuck a man and that's to them, equality. Fuck outta here. More projection. You chose to fuck all those men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:39 AM
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Why don't white women just stop making so much porn? Why are rich white western women making the majority of ONLY FANs and not poor african women who could really use the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:38 AM
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So you are thanking him for being successful at casual sex...? Huh? You women and your devotion to players is so strange
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:36 AM
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No you are making assumptions, wrong ones. Thats not how sexual attraction necessarily works. Many people have sexual attraction towards things they know the public does not perceive well or that they know is objectively gross. Like an endless list of disgusting fetishes fit this bill. Just because something gives you a boner does not mean you think its the "most beautiful". Beauty=/= sexy in many cases. You just have an uncurious mindset, its like you absorbed all the popculture blue collar eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:25 AM
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Chubby chasers know fat women are ugly, they just feel that staring at their fat asses jiggling around their dick is worth the trade off. Similar to someone who would date a transsexual so he can suck on her dick in private, he knows hes taking a hit in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:11 AM
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I wish more women thought like you do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:00 AM
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He has low self esteem, maybe a small dick. He probably has zero sexual charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:40 AM
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What a dense reply
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:34 AM
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Not if you have any kind of decency. Which obviously you don't. Your friend group is probably an incestuous mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:26 AM
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I see it all the time. Basically passive beta guys take what they can get, even the tall handsome ones. I've been out with overweight women too, casually, so I guess I am part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:24 AM
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I'm not talking about dreams, I'm talking about lived behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:13 AM
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top men are higher status than top women, women are down to share a man who has more status than them. Also women who deal with famous men know the reality of the male sex drive, they often aren't fools and understand a mans need for variety, the strong impulses he would have to consistently overcome to avoid female attention that is gifted to him on a plater. Women don't have those impulses. Once they bond to a man they often ignore other men. Being famous forces women to deal with male nature,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:06 AM
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You couldn't be more wrong. Famous men always have more than 1 woman, unless they just plain don't want one. Doesn't matter if their wife is also famous. Amongst famous men (men, not women), harems are the rule. You think the wives that go out to hug their husbands on the superbowl don't know they have a different chick to bang out in each city? THey know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:01 AM
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Wifing up Asians as a white man is basically the same as being a passport bro. You went for lower hanging fruit. I don't say that to insult you, but its the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:57 AM
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only among upper middle class are OF shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:49 AM
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No, I mean produce and sell and post porn. Host sex parties in hotels. Sex isn't "sex". Sex encompasses a huge array of behaviors, many of which are sick crimes at their worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:02 AM
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Women make too much porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:35 PM
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any sort of sexual expression which isn't bland marital sex for procreation Why is it necessary for people to "sexually express" themselves to the general public? Are you for open nudity, public sex, ect? What exactly is harmful about seeing someone else have sex? This last part doesn't even make any sense I guess to you it doesn't. Those of us that are intellectually curious leave ideology at the doorstep until we have crafted appropriate moral frameworks with which to analyze behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:34 PM
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Why am I getting married according to your timeline? I don't know why you are getting married at all. Marriage is completely irrelevant for a woman like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:20 PM
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Yes I have been all over Europe and you have no idea how fat and slutty American white women are. Also many of their brains are completely rotted by politics. European men (maybe besides the brits and the french) should be very happy with the state of their women compared to America. I am talking about adults dating 25+. The college crowd does their own thing, and things are always nice and easy in those years if you put in a little effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:18 PM
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When you are a sexually charismatic man, women will play into your sexual fantasies and enjoy them, because they enjoy you and their brain is filled with sexual vaperous neurotransmitters, the intoxicating thrill of being with a high value man. For sexually charismatic men, his fantasies are her fantasies. There is no rejection of the "male fantasy" like there is with boring men. Women who are with particularly sexually charismatic men can even be coerced into making porn, thats how the majority…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:15 PM
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I'm 30, sorry youre old. You should have been married about 5-7 years ago, tells me there is something off about you and your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:10 PM
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Women get to ride their coattails in harems, so the average woman wins too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:08 PM
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still some women in the US with more traditional values They are picky as fuck. Because they know they are special, compared to the fatties, the blue hairs, the crazies, the fetishist women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:06 PM
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Cause youre old, and how you talk about the hubs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:04 PM
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And what about us white men who want white women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:05 PM
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Thats a good line actually, pretty cute and playful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:56 PM
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demanding obedience in exchange for a sandwich They are demanding obedience in exchange for sex. Because most men are not attractive to you women, the men with sexual charisma have immense power over you, and you absolutely submit to them and their desires and preferences. We see it filmed 1000s time over in online porn, the lengths women will go to sexually submit to attractive men. Womens standards are easily manipulated, regardless of their conscious manipulation of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:53 PM
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Aren't you the extremist reactionary for being so afraid of purity culture and traditional sexual restraint that you completely dismiss and deny a massive problem destroying young boys sexuality all around the world? Things are not so black and white, It seems you are so afraid of giving conservatives ammo, that you actively shield yourself from obvious truths. That is not intellectually honest or curious. Its ideological.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:50 PM
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You definitely settled. We all know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:39 PM
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It is a (western) woman's world, we're all just living in it. They control the social proof, social status, self esteem, and sexual pleasure, of men. And with our society having decided that shaming women is "wrong", they can wield this power more effectively than ever. Many men dropping out, but at least women get more short term sexuals highs with studs these days than in years past, hope the orgasms are worth it. What is to stop a woman from having a roster of men to meet all her needs? The r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:33 PM
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If anything, women are inherently at a disadvantage, because in every country in the world parents prefers sons over daughters. There is no country where parents would rather have a daughter than a son. Lets keep the discussion where it matters, the West. If a woman objectifies herself and pleases men she gets attention Do you consider a woman taking care of her appearance, smelling nice, having hygiene, and wearing normal clothes to be "objectifying herself"? Because that is all a woman has to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:27 PM
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Alpha fux beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:02 PM
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I want casual sex but don't want to say it" Saying you want casual sex in a dating profile as a man is vulgar and shows low social IQ. Mildy intelligent women know all men want casual sex. Casual sex is ALWAYS on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:00 PM
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I'm not, thats why I'm a bit sad cause I have plenty of money, but no woman to spend it on for cool trips like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:46 PM
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are basically paying them for their submission What women really want is to be forced (esthetically) into submission by the impressive aura of masculine sexual energy from a select man. All women want "submission". All women want to be with a "leader". They just choose the flavor that they seek out these dynamics. Most women want to be pulled into the dynamic by the charismatic power of the man, not have it set it up through a boring contract with a "provider".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:47 PM
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Men are not rewarded for their solipistic views, where as women are. Don't you think that will encourage said views in women? Afterall humans will continue to pleasure seek and extract everything they can get until they are grounded by CONSEQUENCES.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:43 PM
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I think soon a non-insignificant portion of women will be doing poly stuff, that way they can have the loving provider partner, and also the bull-stud to give them a sexual high and treat them like sexual animals. Cuckholding going mainstream. Or they will do the poly stuff through out their lives but at different points of their lives. They will have the bull-studs. And later the loving partner. Or perhaps reverse. They have the power, as the sexual selectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:41 PM
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Women inherently receive more attention in society than men do. How could that not lead to an increase in selfishness? If you have two children, and you praise one of them, give one of them more attention, while the other had "prove" themselves to get the same treatment... the outcome is obvious, is it not? "Providing" is only a small part of the dynamic, women receive more attention in general. Its called "women are wonderful" effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:38 PM
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Ok but don't be upset when men expect those things from you when they can pull up thousands of videos of women doing them enthusiastically for (apparently) high status sexual men online. You have to blame your "sisters" for corrupting the environment like that, worming their way into mens heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:34 PM
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Its actually the best form of partner bonding. Nothing better than relaxing hotel sex, then going on an adventure, constant stimulation of seeing new things, new environments, speculating, commentating. But its really only fun if you trust your partner. So many women undermine that trust, how can I feel safe spending all that time, money, and energy on an adventure like that when their feelings towards me are murky, pitted with "red flags" and self proclaimed "boundaries" (eroding my humanity), …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:28 PM
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Most men have those beliefs. When you make a list like that, I would guess that men are not upset about that list, but they are anticipating that you have given your love, body, and passion freely to "other types" of men. That don't follow your list. Men mostly just want women to be consistent. But that is a difficult for women, who want to have a few wild nights, that tantilizingly conflict ridden obsessive passionate sexual relationship, and finding a nice safe family orientated man who they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:21 PM
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Why would you trust a guys profile that says looking for LTR. Most of them are lying. Unless you are good enough for a LTR. I do it through jokes and innuendo, about being serious, about being fun. Everyone one is looking for something serious and casual all at the same time, and dating profiles just corrupt it and give picky women even more reasons to reject men. My thought is to not give them any reasons to reject you, just make them feel positive things when looking at your fun profile and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:24 PM
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Women are becoming more and more disgusting in their sexual desires, actually. Porn is affecting them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:17 PM
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Not fat. Personally in my profile I enjoy throwing misdirection, I am very irritated with the women who are looking to divide men into casual and serious types, so I have my profile set in a way to appeal to both. I find it arrogant to expect men to declare themselves "casual" or "serious" on a dating app. Its not like you have those bifurcations in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:43 PM
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Women do not see gay besties as men at all. Women categorize the male sex as "men" and "Not men". Men who they want to fuck are "real men" to them. The rest are neutered, and the gays are completely removed from the label all together. This is how the average womans mind processes these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:10 PM
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Those men will never have as much control as sexually charismatic men who can go through women like a knife through butter. Hes describing properly how women feel about men they aren't turned on by. Women want to have their cake, and eat it too. Always and forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:08 PM
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You should want to do a lot of things sexually with a man you love and trust. That you form a bond with. Too bad most women just jump on whichever dick makes them giggle and has a whiff of sexual charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:05 PM
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Its the opposite of selfish. Childless people are the most selfish people on the planet, its all me me me me me with them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:10 PM
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So when do men express sexual interest in you? When do they touch you? What sexual comments do they make to you on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:10 PM
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The average young womans politics is utter amoral trash without any principles or values whatsoever beyond "do what feels good" and "don't hurt people" or whatever silly meaningless 'harm' philosophy they promote while ignoring negative externalities and ignoring the impacts of their ideology on their future children (because most of them are childfree and don't give no fucks about the next gen anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:08 PM
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No, sluts just like having lots of sex with attractive men. They ONLY shoot above their league. Sluts aren't "easy", they are sluts. They have lots of sex with many men. That is what a slut is. Has nothing to do with being "easy".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:05 PM
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Its not what I am talking about. Marrying a frat bro later in life after "quieting down" and after fucking frat bros in college, is a girl sticking with her people, her type and her world and you can trust those women. Its not about casual sex. A sloot can still be a good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:58 PM
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Nope its all very real. Same with having an intense orgasm with a big dick, or having amazing sex, its all imprinted onto women and they carry it for life and adjust their standards and baselines.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:56 PM
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Being medically incapacitated, or sick is not the same thing as sexual rejection. They are two different things and require different responses and conversations. Don't worry I won't scroll your profile because I don't care. You really do just think of a woman as a sex machine dispenser. No I don't. You are projecting all your little "Issues" with men onto me. “hot chick wants my pee pee” Many many many men are in long term relationships with women that definitely do not want their pee pees. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:54 PM
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values Types are not about values. Its about fucking a frycook vs a techbro. The interracial relationship vs the men from her culture. A popular musician vs an accountant. Its about the thrill and taboo vs "normal and boring". Never be the normal guy after the taboo thrill guy. Even if she doesn't want him anyway, shes impacted by him forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:11 PM
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Sounds very demeaning for men involved with those women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:04 PM
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They don't say what turned them on changed, only superficial esthetics of the men changed. Immature tastes are their raw tastes before they settle for the "safer" husband. Women that have consistent values and tastes will choose similar men each time, and those are the women I trust. Those are family women as well. Otherwise known as, good girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:01 PM
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natural chemistry Chemistry is just something men create that women feel. Men don't feel "chemistry" the same way as women, mens excite and their feeling of chemistry is more like "oh wow she likes me and shes hot, maybe she wants to fuck me". Chemistry is created by men for a woman to feel, so that she has sex with him. Its not a mutual "magnetiC' feeling. It only feels that way to you b/c your a woman in a mans aura. I also mourn for your “future wife” I hope she never becomes ill or has a dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:59 PM
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None of the women in this sub talk about their tastes changing so I disagree. They know what they like, what turns them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:53 PM
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what i like the next woman might hate Nope. Yall are the same. should do what you want to, what you are comfortable with grab em by the pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:51 PM
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Ya both things can be true. Shocking for you, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:32 AM
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Women have types so if she fucked with guys radically different than you, then youre being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:25 AM
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Its not easy to sleep with a woman. They tend to be very guarded, picky and choosey.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:21 AM
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Yep, also they are the same women that have hypersexuality, make porn, have threesomes. High sex drive women also date and fuck with certain types of men that other women rightly avoid. They are more obsessed with penis size and swagger. And height. The higher a womans sex drive, the more intensely her hypergamy or whatever you want to call it, kicks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:20 AM
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Because women like to be sloots these days. So when things are all silly bullshit, and no one has any morals, then why not meet silly bullshit with other silly bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:14 AM
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I can't relate to anything you said. If someone is beautiful to me and CHOSE ME then I will automatically find their interests interesting. I like all kinds of music. I can enjoy talkin about anything as long as its interesting to the other person. I don't have to autistically obsess about specific niche entertainment like you apparently need to. I can go clubbing and go to raves and stay home and read a book and play boardgames. I can go on fancy international vacations and stay home all weeken…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:04 AM
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All i can say is try a few different things and see if any feel good for you. What a bunch of bullshit, I can tell you exactly what women have done for me that made me want to fuck them and feel comfortable with them. You don't even have the courage to verbalize it yet you are all over these threads giving "advice". Fraudulant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:47 AM
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He does desire you. Just not as much as some other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:34 PM
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Just say you don't understand male sexuality and leave it at that, its fine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:06 PM
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Thats why I said its a subjective concept undergirded by objective things. Also something can be "subjective" and still be broadly understood and PRACTICED and REPEATED and REINFORCED by enough people in society to make the "subjectivity vs objectivity" dichotomy meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:34 PM
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Women never have less sex. Only men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:16 PM
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Guess hes watching a lot of porn then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:09 PM
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Men get the most dopamine through sex. Both nerds and non-nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:07 PM
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Women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:01 PM
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I have the same or higher value as any guy I've ever had sex with. Sounds like someones a bit of a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:50 PM
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The better question is how would you feel if your boyfriend said he wished you had a bigger ass and tits and he thinks he would cum much harder but hes decided you are good enough and he can probably be happy, because you don't stress him out and you accept him for who he is, so hes going to stick with you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:45 PM
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So to you its just introverts are nerds, extroverts are "cool kids". Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:42 PM
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Exactly my point. Women don't think about it. They just do and absorb.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:37 PM
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No, I just thought of other stuff to orgasm. Very common male experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:32 PM
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Depends on who your wife is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:28 PM
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Serena Williams and Paris Hilton both went for nerds. No. They did not. I was a solid 9 hottie with unlimited dates. Doubt. Regardless, we'll never get to the bottom of this one, your definition of a "nerd" is clearly warped beyond belief. You seem to believe all men that care about their families, and are smart and dedicated enough to acquire wealth are "nerds", wtf is this society coming to. That used to be THE definition of a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:23 PM
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All that matters is that the woman subjectively BELIEVES its validating. Which I'm sure she believes the men who want her and that she chooses, all want her for validating reasons. She can believe whatever she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:20 PM
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Getting married is not figuring it out. The important part is WHO you marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:17 PM
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I have a proclivity for nerdy simps. Then you most likely are not very physically attractive compared to other women. You are the flipside of the coin for my thread, you are a woman who knows her value and seeks someone appropriate. Rather than swinging wildly and choosing for yourself the sexiest man who presented himself to you that night or that 2 month stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:07 PM
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Well its all relative. Dating app success is more about the total image, selling an experience, not golden triangle facial proportions or whatever. A lot of average guys suck at selling an experience to woman though. So they will struggle. Also the younger you are the less this matters. Younger people are more superficial but also more forgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:03 PM
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what people prioritize and value will vary from person to person. I think it varies much less than you apparently do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:52 PM
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Less barrier to entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:52 PM
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Fucking hot guys out of their league usually doesn't "scar" women, it just inflates their egos, until they get to the stage of attaching themselves to a man who is actually closer to their value (who is less interesting to them, than the best they had). Then they take out their negative feelings on that man. It shows up as complaints about feeling "unfulfilled" and criticizing him trying to re-create the man they had a fling with in the past. Chasing those Top Man qualities that most men Do Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:43 PM
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You won't even know they are promiscuous by the time you fall for them and sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:41 PM
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I cant speak for the average man. I think its possible the average dude is actually locked out of competition on the dating apps. For me, given that I get many matches, although I tend to swipe right on any women who isn't fat, I cant use my experience as evidence for the plight of the average man. Not that I'm such hot shit, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:40 PM
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Or else I guess like 80-90% of men are in their league? Is that your contention? Care to respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:37 PM
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Sure, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:36 PM
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I guess Virgin men are ZEROS then. How can they be anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:35 PM
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This is no different than red pill men thinking their ability to buy gold diggers equals their level. No, you’re not on the same level of physical or sexual attraction, but you will never see red pill men conceding to that either. I disagree. Very strongly. The vast majority of men with gold diggers or who buy whores, know their "value" is the money and lifestyle. I would concede that when they are actually having sex, those types of guys often need to play little tricks in their heads to believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:31 PM
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less forward about sex and live very differently see it as something meaningful they only consider with men they're already attracted to These women still define their league by the hottest guy they banged. Regardless of how prolifically promiscuous they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:27 PM
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Things can be a mixed bag. Its not black and white. There are pros and cons. Validating moments, and disheartening moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:26 PM
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The league for women is not defined by who wants to fuck them once or even multiple times. Or else I guess like 80-90% of men are in their league? Is that your contention?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:24 PM
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Sure Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:22 PM
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You are overselling sex. Its not that good. Or fun. It needs a lot of other things to go with it to make it fun and good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:21 PM
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Woahhh, burned me good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:19 PM
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You are literally claiming someone having sex with a person who wanted to have sex with them is apparently a moron for not realising the person who wanted and willingly had sex with them is apparently "out of their league" Yes. You got it. Does it ever cross your mind for a second that if she was that repulsive and below him in his eyes, Many men have sex with women they find to be "below them" but do not necessarily find to be "repulsive". You are just mixing up things to create confusion. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:17 PM
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he can make the choice to have sex with the ugliest woman on the planet ever. And she will then from then on believe that kind of man is in her league. That is the point of my thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:14 PM
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because attractive options are always available Not the case at all. Unless your definition of attractive man is very narrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:13 PM
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Listen I appreciate your analysis of your local 4am bar scene but thats not the point of this thread. This thread is not really about men at all or how to approach women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:12 PM
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I chose to settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:08 PM
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I value my boyfriend over a random man on the street Da fuck? Boyfriend vs. random man on the street? This thread is about sex and banging. Please stay on topic. No one is arguing that "boyfriends" have more value in relationships than some random man. If it was an objective fact then you would be able to find sources or evidence which states objectively what every persons value is. No. I'm sorry but thats not how this works. SMV is a real living concept. Or else people could just have sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:07 PM
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dating Sorry what, now? Dating? Thats not what this thread is about. who automatically disdains any woman he fucks Huh? Quite the opposite. Some women are goddesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:03 PM
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No, I am saying they do value those cocks, and the cocks that they ride define for them what kind of man they deserve. Just the sex. Not even who decides to actually date them. Just the cocks and the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:00 PM
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It shouldn't be an ego boost for a woman, or at least it wouldn't be for me if I was in her shoes. As women constantly say in this sub, they are drowning in sexual propositions from men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:57 PM
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Why would they think a guy sleeping with them is not in her league? Can you think of any reasons she may discover that hes not? Does she need to be explicitly told by that man "your fat, im not, I don't want to see you again". Isn't the fact that she is fat and hes not, and he chooses to never have sex with her again.... a sign that perhaps.... shes not in his league? I am just using an OBVIOUS example of this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:55 PM
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The idea that a woman's value is solely, or even primarily, defined by her sexual encounters Please take more time to read. What I said was that Women define their value this way. I am talking about a womans "subjective" understanding of her own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:53 PM
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entirely subjective right No. Its not. Concepts can have subjective outcomes undergirded by objective qualities. If this thread is just going to turn into arguing about whether "value" is a real thing in a dating context.... I just can't with you people. I can only talk and debate and live in reality, not in your made up worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:51 PM
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It doesn't matter how I measure it. I didn't say it was absolutely at all times objective. Its a concept with grey edges, but whats undeniable is that everyone has a concept of their own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:49 PM
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I've had plenty of sexual encounters where I felt regret that I had to settle for them. Just because I orgasmed didn't preclude me having negative feelings about the whole thing. Who you end up having sex with can absolutely be an ego blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:47 PM
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Most people do not obsess over other peoples "value" Proves my point. Despite value obviously being a real thing, women choose to ignore the concept entirely and subconsciously view themselves as having the same value as the guys they fuck. Afterall, to them, value apparently "isn't real".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:44 PM
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validating sex Honestly, just stuff it. You are a misandrist and most of the men in these threads deserve sexual fulfillment far more than you. Luckily you have a pussy and men are horny, so you don't have to be a good, interesting, or sexy person. You can be a bitter old misandrist and still find some man or multiple men to put up with you to get between your legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:27 PM
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Kind of hard to humiliate someone who is consistently fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:20 PM
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If we go on a date and there is zero sexual energy that potential dies. When do you want him to touch you? Why don't you give these guys some tips. Its always the same with you prolific PPD woman posters, just bash men, never talk details, just rail on them for not knowing how to sexually escalate even though thats what EVERY woman wants. You identified why dating sucks for men. You just have to sit there looking cute, he has to do everything else, regardless of how he looks, or any other qualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:16 PM
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found a DnD group, went to swing dancing classes Sausage fests. Of course you found some nerd man because there are legions of single nerd men and only a few nerd girls like you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:13 PM
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Live your own life Just don't have sex. Do what makes you happy Having hot validating sex makes men happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:06 PM
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Ew, you swept up a widow. So weird that you were waiting in the wings for her this whole time. Waiting for your chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:03 PM
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No you are the one with an issue that you need to call someone a slutty whore to feel excited an cum. You are the one with deep psychological issues that you should confront.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:53 PM
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Couldn't resist stating the truth ya. Are you going to get on me next for saying Indian Americans have a lot of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:50 PM
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How are the "tates" representative of any man? Do you know anyone like the "tates"? You sound very online
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:46 PM
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What do sadists do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:30 AM
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She can message a man on a dating site, she doesn't have to go to loud clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:21 AM
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Maybe if you are an 18 year old inexperienced boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:10 AM
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Many shy women are promiscuous sloots. Because women CHOOSE to have sex. They have practically ZERO barriers to "fun spontaneous sex" outside of being ugly/fat ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:08 AM
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she pooped in Johnny Depp's bed and cut off his finger, among other things. Thats not what I think of when I think of a woman being "toxic" in a relationship. Are you saying your toxic BPD friends do those things to the men in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:03 AM
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How can a woman abuse a self-aware man?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:55 AM
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Butch Lesbians do not have a masculine aura, or else you'd be attracted to them. Butch lesbians are feminine with a masculine esthetic. They do not have masculine energy in the same way an alpha male does. You are probably more masculine energy-wise than the average butch lesbian based on what I've seen of your online demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:42 AM
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Referring to their girlfriends as “my bitch” and sharing with his friends what they do sexually, “I made my bitch deep throat me last night.” Toxic femininity is wanting to fuck and date a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:40 AM
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So you're saying there are no downsides to being in a toxic relationship? For me, no there are no downsides. Yes when you are younger and immature, and less worldly, then you can sustain damage. For me a "toxic" relationship would just be a short learning experience, with some sex. Whats to lose? Ya of course I'd to have a fling with a hot high status woman like Amber Heard, have her scream at me or do some weird shit and then I'd leave and move on. Whats the downside for me? But if you're openl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:38 AM
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Basically a wife to them is almost like a Pokemon. Hope you catch one with good stats such as: hot, takes good care of house, good at cooking, continues to put out sexually, take care of the kids entirely How does this imply this: But yeah, they aren’t looking for a partner that they actually have a deep connection with. Help me out here. A man can very easily and will very likely have a deep connection with a hot women who shares children with him, who he has satisfying sex with.... thats most …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:27 AM
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If you can date and fuck these 'bad' women you can then also date and fuck the good women. There is absolutely no downside in being able to date and fuck with as many types of women as possible as a man. All it does is increase your value. Women will NEVER see a man being able to make a woman want to have sex with him as a negative. Its all upside. All positive. Always will be. The more women you date and fuck, the more you know how they tick and can attract and lock down which ever one you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:24 AM
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It still roleplaying abuse. You really think you can have your man call you a slutty whore as he cums in you, and have that be inconsequential to how he thinks about you, don't you? Stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:15 AM
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Actually that is a good analogy, because black mens status in American society has risen exponentially, meanwhile we are all suppose to feel sorry for them or pretend like they have it hard because of history. Meanwhile they dominate the most popular pro sports, and music and culture in general. Compared to their numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:02 AM
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You look at someones face. And then you look at yours. And compare them with other people. I suppose this might be a difficult task if you are retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:13 AM
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Look, if you can befriend a hot girl, its in your interests as a man. As I have said before, women are just as picky about their male friends as they are about their male lovers. And women are VERY picky. If multiple hot woman want you as a friend, then I would confidently say you can also attract relatively hot women (in your physical league... goes without saying) as lovers/dating interests. Those guys are smart because if they are surrounding themselves with attractive women who don't want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:55 AM
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They told you why they cancelled? Surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:36 AM
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I agree that dating is humiliating and boring, or has a humiliation quality for men that I have never been able to square myself. As someone who was in a long term relationship from a young age (20) that lasted many years, the feeling of dating and even sex being a humiliation ritual, always being judged, has not sat well with me. Compared to when you are with someone you can ACTUALLY trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:30 AM
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You don't have to read the room. You just react to men. So honestly, stuff it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:14 AM
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Well now you know how men feel with all these sexually liberated women that jump from one dick to the next next like they're shaking hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:06 AM
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Well women want to be entertained, always, so if you have the kind of neuro-atypical personality that is entertaining rather than annoying, I would agree with you. Maybe its because you are a black novelty for these women, I don't say this to be malicious, unless I am misreading your social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:35 AM
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Well I am not 22 anymore. Yes of course Low Effort (this is key) hook up sex, No Strangs baby! is more common in those years. I can't focus on the past, I have to look at the present and future. I really don't think many 27-30 year old hot women are going to come over for sex with some guy they just messaged on tinder unless he is above their league. At least its a needle in a haystack. Its a dangerous thing to hope for, you will end up like my buddy who had some sex starved hot indian girl come…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:27 AM
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Surveys like those are the last refuge of people fleeing common sense. Of course single people with no families living alone are the happiest..... makes perfect sense.... why didn't I think of that!?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:20 AM
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Shes fucking hottie loser guys that work shit jobs. There are legions of them. I know plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:16 AM
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I date liberal women because I live in Chicago and its full of far left dipshits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:12 AM
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How are you making all those girl friends when you are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:10 AM
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Pretty scummy of you to report me for telling the truth. Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:00 AM
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Its usually an overreactive response. The otherside of the spectrum is being a passive bitch, being afraid of women, afraid to look in their direction, like when we are in second grade playing cooties. Staring like a freak is a way to take back the power, feel less impotent for these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:02 PM
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A man seeing a prostitute has no absolutely baring on whether he can or wants to love a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:50 PM
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Delulu. Enjoy your simulated rape fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:45 PM
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Or maybe youre just a willing woman...? Maybe go check his porn history to see what he likes ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:44 PM
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who I know also have sex drives and desire sexual outlets and sometimes watch porn cuz its an accessible outlet. Women don't understand the male sex drive and just assume that it is similar to their own, because they are arrogant and were told this by other girls for "girl power' reasons. But now I dont watch porn, havent for years, and wont ever again due to what I learned Nope. Its because you are getting your needs met or your needs are not very needy. As a man its impossible to be a virgin o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:39 PM
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the way you perceive the women you sleep with isn't any different from the way these women perceive you Its very different. You are an outlier. Otherwise known as a promiscuous woman. The only nerve you struck is I am scared to accidently invest in a woman like you. Reminds me that I have to keep my wits about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:27 PM
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Not when the the girl you match with just invites you over to her place to hook up. How many girls invite you over to their place to hook up? Personally I find that vulgar and usually suggest meeting in public. The likelihood of this happening exponentially increases the uglier and fatter the woman gets Even with actual dates, I would say 60% of first dates from apps in in sex, if not more. Why would you say this? You seem to be just be projecting your own experiences. It's broadly based on my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:25 PM
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You bunched a bunch of different qualities together. A short man can still physically dominate a woman for example. Also cheating vs abuse. Completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:30 PM
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That's because they're attractive, not because of how many partners they've had. I've never once been asked about my n count before hooking up with a girl I met from an app. They know absolutely nothing about whether I've been successful in the past. Men who don't get a lot of sex get weeded out on the first date for not being experienced enough to bring sexual charisma into the interaction. You have had a lots of typical sex and know what buttons to push to make a girl think "oh this is a norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:25 PM
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Yes exactly. But I think many will come to regret it. But humans have an infinite ability to rationalize their decisions, so we won't hear about this regret. It will just simmer, unspoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:20 PM
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S&M is simulated rape. Jesus you really have your head in the ground about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:19 PM
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What a delusional response. Men don't care if you don't think its validating for them to fuck you. Trust me, it is. Jesus, talk about having your head up your ass. Also your mindset is fucking weird. That you look at sex as such a commodity. That you are looking for some man that is attractive enough to fuck but "I don't want to see him often". That is fucking weird cuck shit. Are you going to have some stable of guys to pick from when you are married, afterall you don't really want to see them …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:16 PM
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You'd probably freak out if you found out you weren't REALLY your husbands "type"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:10 PM
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Women love to be fetishized and objectified, just try telling one of them that you don't have a type and watch the girl get offended. They want men to be sexually obsessed with "their type"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:19 PM
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Although this is a good explanation of the problems with porn, as usual women have little desire to be understanding of men, have any empathy for them or care to put themselves in his shoes even just a little bit mentally. The women in loveafterporn are perfect examples. When you read their posts, they come off almost mentally challenged with how little they understand, or relate with the male sex drive. And they seem to take pride in not understanding men or the male sex drive at all. Instead t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:16 PM
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Its not anymore healthy if it stays private.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:10 PM
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You aren't clever for posting nothing sentences with no substance. It just makes the conversation boring. Carry on though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:05 PM
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hey are complaining about someone not listening or being curious. No they are complaining about the mans performance. Him not saying the right things, him not moving the right way, him not touching her the right way, going to fast, going to slow, finishing too fast, taking too long to finish, not looking at her face, having the wrong expression on his face, the list is endless. Women don't teach men how to have sex, they observe silently and judge. Maybe when you are 18, then you can have pressu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:49 PM
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All other past behavior. You place no value on managing your lusts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:47 PM
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You don't have to like it or participate in it I think I'll just continue actively shaming it and calling it out. Like other behavior that is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:19 PM
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How is there any difference between getting consent from someone to rape them, and actively raping them? I am still getting off to raping them.... do you not see that? Its like women don't understand how mens sexual brains work AT ALL. They just see penises getting hard and assume lovely thoughts are being held behind his eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:17 PM
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What you are forgetting is that all the hot guys love porn too. And are frequently choosing pron over their hot gfs, because the scenarios are much more exciting. Women don't give a shit about single men. They could all kill themselves for what they care. They dont' like porn because their husbands, their boyfriends, that guy they have a huge crush on... they watch porn too instead of being obsessed with them (women believe any man they are with should be sexually obsessed with them, only gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:44 AM
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What a lazy argument. If money is the reason people don't have kids, then why do the richest countries have the lowest birthrates. Why do poor mexicans in the US have bigger families than rich whites. Women don't want to have kids. Modern women are lazy, they are scared of pregnancy, they just don't want to do it. It has nothing to do with money. They want to keep pretending they are 20 into their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:59 AM
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Ya and if your #1 quality you look for someone in a partner is how charismatic they are, then you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:57 AM
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Its your fault if you can't identify the good guys, because they are easy to identify. The truth is you ONLY care about the SEXY guys, you don't give two shits if hes "good". And you women are constantly trying to snag a guy who is better looking than your daddy and you think you deserve that for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:56 AM
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There are no flags for women until you get deep. You never really know. I know girls who show lots of skin, love attention at clubs and are completely loyal and have low N counts. And theres probably the opposite, the quiet uber sloots that do it all in private. Women don't expose themselves the same way men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:52 AM
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The only men who love you are the ones who you love and praise their dicks. So get to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:47 AM
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Its incredibly reasonable, you are just obsessed with sex. You treat it like something separate from all other behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:40 AM
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How is having sex once every 4 months "a lot"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:37 AM
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Sex isn't difficult and doesn't require much skill Yes it does, or else women wouldn't be complaining constantly about not enjoying sex. And deadbedrooming their hubbies that they claim to love so much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:35 AM
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Most men don't measure up compared to studs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:24 PM
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Because she chose the ex. Same reason I would never seriously date women with "abusive exes".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:21 PM
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Oh? Whats too many partners then? No ones trying to impress anyone. As a man, having a lot of easy sex is validating to ones deep ego. It tells him that he is valuable to women and that he is "being" a man correctly. It has nothing to do with impressing men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:18 PM
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Men and women are not the same, so comparing their sexual standards 1:1 is low iq behavior. Men NEED to have sexual partners in order to be attractive to women. Its a challenge for men to have sexual partners, it shows his fitness. Not the case for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:16 PM
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Unless its with gay shit. Then the woman feels "betrayed".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:09 PM
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I would be outta that too. She clearly would not share my values if she gave herself to men who would later behave like that. What you do in life and who you involve yourself with in life matters, end of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:05 PM
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No, what I wrote describes millions of men. Its funny because its true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:50 PM
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Hes right though, most men are dishonest little bitches when it comes to the "face" that they present to women. They will talk about respecting women to a womans face, then go home and jack off to a girl essentially being raped on screen. And then go vote for Kamala.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:40 PM
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Thats not been my experience. Mine is that women are very unforgiving and mean when a man does not get hard exactly when they expect him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:34 PM
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sometimes he does Re-read. No, you are selfish because you don't give a shit about catering to the man. Just your little fantasys. I cater to the women all the time. Its the standard protocol. You people.... try putting yourself in anothers shoes once in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:27 PM
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caring about your partner's experience You don't care about the mans experience. You assume hes greatful to perform for you and cater to your desires. two people together create a third energy A man does not always want to "create energy" with you, sometimes he does, sometimes he just wants to objectify your body and enjoy your body for what it is. You don't care about this, you just want sex to cater to what you find ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:22 PM
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Nope. Wrong. I have always had very caring and loving relationships in my family. When people are intelligent and humble, relationships are easy. When they are demanding, narcissistic, egotistical, like so many women are on this sub, then things don't work out as well. The biggest most obvious thing on this sub, is that women don't care about men, have no desire to understand men or empathize with them, they simply want men to perform for them and be their fantasy of competence. Because they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:18 PM
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I left. When you have complete understanding of each other, incompatibilities are also obvious and reveal themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:11 PM
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Nope. She can be average. Average women have more SMV than above average men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:10 PM
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I was in a 9 year relationship and it was extremely easy, because we both had complete understanding of each other, and were mostly completely forgiving of each other. Most women are emotionally abusive in relationships though, so thats why it feels like the man has to put constant "effort" in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:05 PM
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Yes, Ive had sex, iv been with 30+ people. Happy? What is your next response going to be, call me a virgin? You sound really dumb, hope you know that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:57 PM
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Women want to be dominated. They don't like passive men with no instinct for domination and control.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:33 PM
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But it's still fun, the electricity, the thrill of meeting new people and seeing where things go. Its only fun if they go to good places and have rewards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:30 PM
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And what fetish subcultures are you a part of exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:29 PM
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Why would you bring up boystown, when we are talking about straight men and straight women. Completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:24 PM
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Most Women expect men to be hard and ready to go the whole time. How would you know, your married. And aren't a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:22 PM
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You seem to be wanting a paradigm where mens appearances have nothing to do with their sexual success, just don't know what exactly your point is or why you think confident and personality do not elevate a man, when they absolutely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:20 PM
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You are the one projecting that men "hate" women. You inserted that into your lame generalization about single/desperate men. Maintaining a healthy relationship takes effort Actually it requires very little effort if you truly love and care for each other instead of trying to find "the best" man who fks them "just right" like most women search for, jumping from one to next to the next to the next and then believe they are relationship gurus from all their bedpost notches
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:15 PM
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People go all over to different neighborhoods dude. What are we talking about here? You think white south side neighborhoods have some genetic predisposition thats different from white Arlington Heights chicago transplants? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:13 PM
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Because what you mean, is that you want men to cater to your idea of sex. You don't give one shit about their idea of good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:11 PM
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You can just lumber and loom around as an attractive guy and as long as you dont offend or creep out you can always have a decent girl on the go. No. You still have to talk to her. And escalate sexual tension. Like, just can’t help look good kinda attractive. You are just raising the bar until it fits. So now its not "just an attractive guy" its some guy who is more attractive than every single guy within a mile around? I mean, big tall good looking guy who could skip a haircut for months and we…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:09 PM
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Lots of guys like themselves and still see the competition with other men, and all the attention and entertainment they have to provide to compete with other men for what it is, struggle and challenge. What you are saying is in the vein of "men should never be insecure about any aspect of themselves", what a load of BS and denigration of mens humanity, that we are suppose to be confident entertaining robots with no doubts or fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:02 PM
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These topics are so dumb. You need all the elements to be attractive to men at different levels. Hot guys who can't flirt with women get nothing. When the girl realizes he can't hold a conversation with other people and be the entertainer, his attractiveness plummets. Personality is so important. Whatever that guys deal was who got "looks-read" by the girl, his schtick will work on the next one. The hot guy that is too shy to even talk to her or has no jokes, there will be no next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:55 PM
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I'm not talking about orgasm. I'm simply talking about intense sexual pleasure and excitement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:52 PM
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Ok enjoy your degenerates. Meanwhile the people who build lives and maintain family networks will keep building, while you snicker "daddy paid for your bachelors"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:50 PM
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There are twinks and grizzeled bald uggos in both the southside and River North.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:49 PM
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Maybe you just haven't met the right guy who can "finish you" with his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:48 PM
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As long as she is fine with me not being hard while doing those things, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:46 PM
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Oh so you get to listen to your body and just do whatever feel good to you, but I have to get interested in things im not instead of just listening to my natural body reactions. Cool bargin we are making, really great for my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:45 PM
1

Well age catches up to everyone. Past 40 you just won't look young even if you have a baby face and good skin
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:39 PM
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Personally I balance it out by being jacked and having a great jawline. One upside is you can fraud your age if you want to and date the younger gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:26 PM
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What does this even mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:25 PM
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Its normal to occasionally be depressed. When you are doing the right things, it will recede with time and the good hopes and feelings come back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:24 PM
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wouldn’t have a lot of character and wisdom building life experience Another arrogant statement. Having "bad stuff" happen to you does not necessarily build character. More often it builds resentment and pathology. 13 year old who grew up in poverty fending for themselves would have MORE. Wtf? So you think little ghetto gangbanger kids have more character than some rich kid? What a weird world view. Here's some advice, character is about the people around you and rich people tend to cultivate qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:17 PM
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True of sex too. The moment a man realizes that most women are faking their enjoyment of sex and that they really only like having sex with a narrow subset of men, kills all the excitement. How are men suppose to enjoy sex when they enter into the situation knowing that PiV isn't even going to get her off?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:13 PM
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It is arrogant. 13 year olds will never have as much life experience as a 60 year old. Its gross to compare the two and insulting to the human experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:09 PM
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There are websites with guys who wear chastity cages and stick dildos up their asses that have 1000s of participants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:07 AM
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Women have more lust for big dicks. You will have better sexual experiences with women than someone with a 4 inch dick. Not all sex is created equal. Just because you bust a nut doesn't mean its validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:56 AM
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I like to watch boys kiss. Now what. Call me when you have a boyfriend who sucked another dudes dick. Boys kissing? Get the fuck out of here. Thats not sex. . Are u honest to god suggesting gay men don't care about aesthetics? They care much less than women like you. Average women who rides dick is MUCH more picky than the gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:52 AM
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Then don't talk about goon shit, because thats what it is. No one should be a "gooner" (porn addict with fked up fetishes)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:46 AM
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Again, you don't know anything about gay male lifestyle, you are a woman. Gays are not picky about sex. They will literally message BLANK grindr profiles their nudes, just from seeing basic info like race and height. I'm not homophobic. Women are homophobic. They get the ick from any whiff of male homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:44 AM
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Yes, we know only a minority of men are worth having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:40 AM
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i’ve met thirteen year olds with more wisdom in em than a 60 year old with 8 degrees. What an arrogant thing to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:38 AM
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Women are very sexual for big dick charismatic studs. Thats where their sexuality is directed towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:33 AM
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So you want women to be obsessed with porn tropes, obsessed with big dicks, and gangbangs, race fetishes? Your posts are dripping with a lack of perspective and a self obsession with your own life, ignoring the experiences of others. Men=/=women again for the idiots in the back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:30 AM
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Same for gay men No. You don't know shit about gay men. Gays are much more egalitarian when it comes to sex than women. Gays have no balance. Its all sex. All promiscuity. Sex is completely devalued in the gay world. 5/10 guys fuck 10/10 all the time. Maybe he just needs a hole that night or someone to suck on his dick. Or maybe the 5/10 has a huge dick which bumps him up. Call me when women start shaming hot men for having lots of sex, they PRAISE them. Women PRAISE men who gets lots of pussy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:28 AM
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We all know what she meant when she said monopoly. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:04 AM
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You would never ask this about an attractive man lol. I know lots of attractive men that dated only a few women. Lol. Ya, nothing. You are obsessed with the idea that men and women have the same sex drives. Delulu. You don't even know why you are obsessed with it. Its because you think having lots of sex is some kind of signature of your value, its not. You fucking 100 people doesn't make you more valuable or mean you will have more exciting, sexual highs than the couple that loves and cherishes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:01 AM
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bit more LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:59 AM
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Does this not apply to men as well? No. It does not. Average men don't fuck 10/10 women unless they pay prostitutes, how are you 19 and this delulu about the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:51 AM
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female gooner da fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:50 AM
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Yass slay quueen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:49 AM
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So all women who like sex are sloots? Why can't she just get a long term boyfriend? Also why are you so invested in believing that women have the exact same sexual drive as men? Why is it important to you, that this be true, so much so that you've developed a certainty, despite overwhelming evidence, that women MUST have the same sex drives as men. Why is this so important to you? Do you also believe men have the same muscle mass as women? Why do all things between men and women HAVE to be equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:46 AM
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How is that emotional. Thats logical. Also he is right. The end game of "unrestrained" female sexuality, is sharing all the big dick charismatic studs, harems, cuckholding ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:43 AM
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No its not. Unless you are being an obtuse autist about language instead of making inferences on what she means in a dating context
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:39 AM
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Its only worth it in that case if the man is a 10/10. So how am I suppose to feel secure in my relationship with you when I know you have been fucking 10/10s when you get really horny, so horny you "overcome" your self restraint..? Given that I may be an 8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:38 AM
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They already are fighting over them silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:35 AM
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I doubt hes still attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:33 AM
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No they don't. Fat girls are just more likely to have sex with less effort from the man. And they mistake this for the guy "liking fat girls".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:27 AM
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We're also being accused of being more homophobia than men because we're afraid of our partners being DL. Women are abused more often by unsatisfied partners and a gay man hiding his identity is bound to be unsatisfied. Such fucking bullshit. Just say you are turned off by fhaggots. Its not that hard. Women are such fucking cowards yet you want men to respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:56 AM
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Ya who cares. These age gap weirdos deserve what they get. Women should listen to and get approval from their parents on who to date and fuck. As its been the case for hundreds of years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:53 AM
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Making your personal life a representation of your gender politics, is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:21 AM
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Would need to see the body of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:20 AM
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The gay market is dominated by the same types of guys that dominate the straight market. But there are more niches. So you are right and also wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:18 AM
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Pretty stupid. If they were so concerned they should have bred with tall men. Short midget women should expect short sons too anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:16 AM
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Ya until they get a bit horny or lonely then they go "pick" a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:13 AM
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Women "going their own way" is just becoming uber sloots, not celibates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:56 AM
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Women don't even want to be friends with dudes they don't see on their "dating level". This only crystalizes as people get older. Teenagers are much more forgiving. If you are friendzoned it means you are behaving in a non-sexy way, but at least you are fun enough for her to keep you around. The easiest, fastest way to meet women is to have lots of women friends. Unfortunately women are just as picky about choosing their male friends as they are about choosing their male lovers. I would kill to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:32 AM
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It is out of reach for most men. Most men aren't studs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:20 AM
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Ya obviously, thats why I made my comment. Only you can prevent forest fires.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:10 AM
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Yes you can become a pron addict instead. Go for it champ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:07 AM
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I cannot imagine how we could get along having such different characters ? You would get along with her. She would not get along with you. Introverted men thrived in the past, now they are cast out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:51 PM
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You’ve seen what happens when every single “good man” ™️ is told that mutual sexual attraction is also important to women. Nah. Nah. What happens is that most men subconsciously realize shes not that into him unless he does x, y, z. When everything is a performance its best to create delusions about how much she wants you, removes all doubt, allows the performance to continue. Women don't want men to be sexually self-conscious about pleasing them, they will end up with a lot of men unable to per…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:47 PM
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Those "studies" are BULLSHIT. Men are more violent than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:41 PM
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female sexuality continues to be regarded as a pathology; a moral failure. No. Its not seen as a pathology, its seen as threatening. Its threatening because you females only have "sexuality" when it comes to a minority of studs. When as a man you realize most women are only interested in a narrow subset of men, then who wants to confront female sexuality? The reason male sexuality is seen as fun and ubiquitous in society is because its not threatening. Even ugly female realize they have a place …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:36 PM
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Ya you don't understand what you wrote or where your icks come from, you are un-self-aware. That is being a dolt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:31 PM
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Obviously they are hugely important. But no one has as much sexual power as men who can fuck women without needing to cozy up to them in social scenes. Studs often don't need social networks. Plus theres lots of lonely women out there that also have bad social networks, that can be swooped up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:30 PM
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Bi women see bi men the same way straight women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:17 PM
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Makes sense that you are bi given how much you simp for women here. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:16 PM
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All the women in PDD that don't comment in threads like this would reject any men thats done any whiff of gay stuff. Just saying, I see you. You are seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:10 PM
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Because shes a dolt. Women like her are turned off by men being fahggots. It has nothing to do with "being fucked by another man". Its the fact that the two ideas are linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:09 PM
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I'm not sure why a guy would lie about watching porn, to spend years courting me and eventually marry me. There are SO MANY of these cases? Are you for real. Go to loveafterporn. Thats like half the posters there. They all say they told their hubbies they don't like porn, the guy says he doesnt watch porn, he hides it, then she finds out and breaks down years later. Thats literally the trope. Wouldn't it just be easier to find a women who is ok with them watching porn? NO. NO its not. Jesus get …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:05 PM
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I've actually not struggled to find men who don't watch porn Ha. Thats what they tell you. Go on loveafterporn, every single one of them had their men say they don't watch porn when they started dating them. Obviously men have learned to say to the pretty woman they want to bone that they don't watch porn, they know what women want to hear. Naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:39 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:16 AM
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The problem is if he doesn't have the personality to back it up. If he does, he should fuck her and dump her. Kick her out right after cumming. That'd be a good revenge fantasy for that lovely lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:53 AM
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Its not getting called a name. Its that the tone and structure of your posts is very masculine. Which is common in autistic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:49 AM
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Thats the fourth leg though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:46 AM
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True for Miami. Even stag groups who are like bartenders and service workers by bottle service there lol its kind of funny. Its like you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:43 AM
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Yep. Kitchen cooks often bang hotter women than nerdy dudes making 200K
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:40 AM
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Windmill is either an autistic woman or a man. "She" has very little feminine coding in anything "she" says.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:36 AM
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Those guys don't want to waste time or money on interactions that don't result in guaranteed sex. They also don't want to pay for a first date because that's simping What stupid slander to say about guys here that struggle socially. What a delusional take. You are taking comments from men who are sexually frustrated, who are thinking about sex, and stretching that out to define what they think about friendship and other human connection. You are misrepresenting where people are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:33 AM
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Ya this post should be about men. Women don't have to work on their social skills at all, they just have to be pretty enough for charismatic men to invite them into their social niches and hop around and entertain them because it gets them sex and validation as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:31 AM
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Socializing is great. But a lot of people just don't have much to say. Not everyone is bursting with commentary and quips that they are suppressing because of anxiety. Most people are anxious BECAUSE they have so little to contribute to the social scene, the group conversation, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:29 AM
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The only one of those that wouldn't cover the majority of 22 year old men is "doesn't watch porn". Which is a challange you will have to confront with EVERY man, so you apparently will be alone. Unless you can negotiate with a man and get him to see the light about how you can be his sexual center and he should never look at other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:25 AM
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Oh? Enough for every woman who wants to find a partner to find one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:24 AM
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I've considered going to speed dating events, but couldn't shake the feeling that its "awkward" because everyone comes in with weird expectations. Basically that it will be many "weird" people. How did you feel about the event itself, without regard to whether you met a man you liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:11 AM
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You really think you are better than 95% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:09 AM
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What a great lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:45 PM
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Getting a match on tinder isn't pulling. Most dates won't end in sex unless you are a playa who can build sexual tension
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:37 PM
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The single women I know are happy being single over being in a shitty relationship. Ya thats what they tell you lmao. I am talking about the lonely women who want a nice satisfying relationship. Of which they are legion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:32 PM
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You weren't happy single, why do you assume other women are? Delulu..... you and so many other commentators in this sub. Just admit that you don't care about lonely women, you got yours and so why bother thinking about them. Just tell yourself "theyre happy" thats why you don't have to give a shit about any of it from a societal POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:22 PM
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Because she can always find some dick to hop on when shes REALLY lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:20 PM
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There will definitely be an epidemic of lonely women in the next decade. If only because porn exists and large portions of men have checked out. All the girlies on here that like to play IDGAF by Dua Lipa while they comment to men on here, they totally ignore these unfortunate girls. They don't give one shit about them. They assume every woman that wants a partner will find one, nope. Numbers of lonely women are set to explode, and their only saving grace will be if they can gaslight each other …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:17 PM
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Nah, men love tall women. They just know most tall women only like tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:07 PM
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I didn't say ignore them. But those are personal character flaws that would be revealed later, and what I said is that there are degrees to them. Someone who smokes weed twice a month is different from someone who smokes weed all the time. Same for porn. Depends on what content hes watching, and how often. I didn't say ignore them. Everyone knows a good relationship with your parents is important. No, a lot of people don't give a shit about that. Or they always have an excuse about why they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:03 PM
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Doesn't really add up that a single mom would have the time to go out to bars every weekend. What about soccer games. Homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:32 PM
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Its not "luck". She picked wrong FOR A REASON. It has to do WITH HER. There are very few exceptions to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:29 PM
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Smoking a little weed or watching a little porn is not something you would know about a guy by the time you are already attracted and committed to him. Prostitutes? Like he would ever tell you in the first place. Your list has no impact on dating, besides Job title. You can't pick a man based on these qualities because they are not something you can easily discern upon meeting with him. Values. How he treats people. What he thinks about things. His relationship with his parents. Those are discer…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:26 PM
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Wrong. You are. 95% of men want a tall naturally blonde woman on their arm. You are a status symbol, sorry just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:07 PM
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No, I believe women are desperate for validation and less and less men have the balls to approach them in public and give them the validation they crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:31 PM
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There are degrees to all those things. Most of those are not relevant by the time the woman picks the man, besides maybe career.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:28 PM
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They don't want to be catcalled on the street, they already know their status. Personally as a relatively handsome man, I don't feel particularly much when given compliments, because it becomes a banal thing about your status, we all want things we don't have ect. You end up wanting to be validated in other ways that are also important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:23 PM
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Average and ugly women do want compliments. You don't because your already considered universally hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:04 PM
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Nah, its usually that they picked wrong. Or didn't care at all to vet for long term compatibility and values. Just who made her laugh and who she thought was "Fun" and entertained her. Thats who she decides to have kids with, she doesn't even think about what kind of father hed be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:01 PM
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I would do it if she had children with me. Its a common thing these couples have to do, guy has to put an bun in the oven to re-assert claim to the woman. Dating a single mom without having your own kids with her is questionable. Then it really does feel like cuckholdry. Unless you are in your 40s or something. If we are talking about 20s, 30s, ya nah. But her having a kid is an automatic negative. So its just another thing she has to makeup for in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:58 PM
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Only certain groups catcall anyway. And you aren't allowed to talk about them here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:44 PM
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It is actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:04 PM
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Ya seems to have worked out. For sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:02 PM
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Ok miss Outlier, carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:16 PM
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Sure if I was having sex with men and birthing their children... I would have an idea about telling men that, specifically men I choose to fuck and have children with. But I am a man, so thats your job honey. Guess your friends didn't do their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:15 PM
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You won't even know hes a beach chair guy by the time he turns you on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:11 PM
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they couldn’t wait to be fathers n name their children. Nope. "Wanting to be a father" is not the same thing as wanting to father and wanting the things and responsibilities that come with fatherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:10 PM
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You would love to date the beach chair guy if he made you giggle and fucked you good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:05 PM
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They both earned good money. I'm sorry youre poor I guess. My dad couldn't force my mom to do anything. He is the definition of go-along-get-along man. If anything shes the domineering one. This is a normal experience of millions of families, I'm shocked you don't know any women who went back to work shortly after having kids. Maybe you are also the type to judge a woman that stops breast feeding and switches to formula "too early" or at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:02 PM
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Yes? What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:00 PM
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I know lots of women who did this, including my mom. She went back to work after 4 weeks. I think you are out of touch because you are child-free.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:58 PM
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That is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:57 PM
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They could ask questions about what he thinks about being a father, what he plans to do as a father, how is father treated him, what things he looks forward to about being a father. How he sees raising a family, how he thinks of the family unit. How he plans to have his kids be successful and thrive. Just off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:23 PM
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IDK, thats your job. I know I'd make a good father so I don't think about what OTHER men should be like to be a good father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:14 PM
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Thats just what women tell themselves. To justify their decisions about which men they picked and how they vetted them. The truth is that most women don't value qualities that make a man a good father. They value a bunch of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:05 PM
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Beta boring nice guys are usually friends with guys who support each other. Again.... you dont want this. You don't want a bunch of men who "support each other" it leads to men having no edge, and being boring basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:29 PM
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Lots of women do that. Its called getting a babysitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:25 PM
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Maybe his mother is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:18 PM
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I am sort of single, and personally I want to feel sexually validated and feel relaxing low pressure, MUTUAL sexual highs with a woman who I feel is similar to be me in looks and also enjoys me for who I am (not my money, or whatever fantasy things she wants to project onto me) Everything else is gravy, and really I would just look for things I don't like, Icks if you will, redflags, beyond that. One caveat is that I have to actually trust her to feel safe, and for that I need to feel confident …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:16 PM
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Taking the piss is how men develop that lovely wit that turns you on. All the behavior you describe is what women want from men. If there is no competition, how are you suppose to pick the "best" man? Which is what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:10 PM
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Huh, I wonder why they chose to have children with men who didn't want to be fathers or parent their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:06 PM
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You having just world fallacy is part of why you assume two ugly people in a relationship actually find each other attractive. They don't, often. And they are getting much less sexual satisfaction and dopamine than beautiful people fucking with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:03 PM
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And that's okay? Its not ok because you are lying and stating you would throw away your perfect man because he had a beard. You are being disingenuous because you've created an egotistical framework for yourself that you now have to double down on "uh oh they made a point about my beard ick, better double down instead of coming back down to reality". Yes I understand that you are saying if two guys were the same value you would take the one without a beard, but they way you mentally double down …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:00 PM
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Whatever you know what I am saying. A guy having tattoos doesn't say anything about his personality. Having a face tattoo, different story. A guy dressing well, only tells you that he dresses well, and doesn't preclude him being a little bitch, shy, awkward or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:53 PM
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If they have less competition then a lot of women are going to end up alone. Because there is only 1 male for each female on this planet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:38 AM
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Why were there 100% dudes at this meet up that was marketed a mixed gender thing, where you would think young men and woman would be there in similar numbers? Are all the women in chad-harem friend groups (like yours probably is)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:34 AM
2

So you'd reject a beautiful man who made you laugh, made you feel sexy and desired, because... he has a beard...? Really? Do you realize how shallow you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:33 AM
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Ugly people don't find each other attractive. Dirty secret about reality, sorry the world is not just, thats a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:28 AM
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Personality shows in clothes, hair, attitude, etc How clothes and hair similar to attitude at all? A man can be dressed on point, have attractive grooming and hair style, have the nice fitted shirt and the nice style, and be boring or have a meek attitude. They have nothing to do with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:17 AM
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No. Personality is its own thing. Making a woman laugh or creating sexual tension with comments and facial expressions, is independent of how handsome your face is, or cut and beautiful your body is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:16 AM
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THis is basically accurate. The meek man will have to date a woman uglier than him to make up for his boringness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:13 AM
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WHy does a man need to have a "skill level" for you to enjoy sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:11 AM
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social anxiety/asocialness Drugs and alcohol help but are not sufficient for most of these types of men to overcome this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:05 AM
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Correct, you don't know anything if you;ve been married for 30 years. You stopped trying to "attract" anyone, decades ago
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:04 AM
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Girls think about sex plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:03 AM
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Lots of attractive men are boring, bad with women, unable to create sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:03 AM
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eye roll. Its not about "shorts" its what kind of "shorts"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:16 PM
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human beings with the potential for true, long term partnership. Low effort. If you want an experienced man who brings a lot to the table, then he needs to get his dick wet and get experience wooing women, else he has nothing to bring to the table. If you want a guy with a high school mentality just "going with the flow" who is a near virgin or doesn't know what hes doing and hasn't been in a lot of significant relationships, then go for it chica. See men are objectified too. Sometimes in differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:51 PM
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If you don't ever stick your dick in holes, you won't know how to date the girls you really like. And they will reject you. And you will be alone. Especially once you get out of your teens and college years, when all the girlies have had lots of "experience". And they now have expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:42 PM
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Its still good advice for any man struggling with women. If you pursue a woman lower than you are pecking order, you will be more confident, less stressed, and be able to practice the "dance" and sex with less expectations and fear of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:41 PM
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If you don't have the social skills you just become a spazz. Maybe if you have things to say and just aren't saying them for some reason, then yes that would help. We all know the kids who were super extroverted and also a spaz, in grade school, they oozed energy and no one liked them. My point is that mind altering substances don't make someone interesting or charismatic - it just relaxes them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:37 PM
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It matters less that you know what you should do if you feel incapable of doing it. This especially applies to matters of personality and socializing. Boring guys don't become fun charismatic guys overnight or maybe ever. But a lot of the rhetoric about looks this, height that, is indeed simple ignorance from the young men here. Missing the forest for the trees. Because dating and attraction and sex is such a complex dynamic, people zero in on certain things, it makes them feel grounded and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:58 PM
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If he has a small dick then she will no longer admire and respect him. Also men want to be admired for being sexy, respected because of the sexual feelings they generate in her. "Admiration and respect" doesn't mean anything without context. A woman choosing to have sex with you is just a minimum bar to meet, then you have to actually turn her on and perform sex for her. Or else again, similar to having a small dick, she loses respect and admiration for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:46 PM
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tits =/= dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:41 PM
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Ya, those are 20 year olds that do that, not 12. I was just out last night so its fresh in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:37 PM
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I would never let my daughter wear shorts like those. And I am not perving. It doesn't give me a boner to see young girls sexualizing themselves, it just makes me sad. And I wonder who exactly they are doing for. Are they not realizing they are giving the homeless guy a free show? Who are they doing that for exactly? Their 12 year old boy counterpart who is grappling with his burgeoning sexuality? Doesn't make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:34 PM
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Gays also reserve their dick objectification for large ones. So no solution there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:33 PM
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Jealous of men who do get objectified for their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:56 PM
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I've seen 12 year olds wear little booty shorts where I can see the cups of their bare ass cheeks. Anyway. I said women objectify themselves. That doesn't preclude men from ALSO objectifying them. What exactly are you trying to say here? You don't think women objectify themselves? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:54 PM
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They should be jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:52 PM
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Truly big dicked men get to experience desire and praise and a level of sexual power that average men will never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:48 PM
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If women don't want to be objectified why do they walk around the their tits falling out and visible thongs up their asses?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:45 PM
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Have you tried looking at another mans dick in pants? No matter what kind of sweat pants he wears, theres not much to see of a soft dick under clothes. More silly BS from you. On top of the silly BS where you think you actually jerked and twisted your dick 2 inches more in length.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:44 PM
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Again, it only happens to stupid people. The west no longer culturally forces women to be in relationships for survival unlike Africa, Middle East, India ect. Women CHOOSE to be abused in the West. As the women in this sub constantly confidently shout out to the void "women are happy being single, we will just stay single if we don't like you!". And they are correct. So culturally western women who are "abused" are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:43 AM
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She didn't choose him for his domestic and parental qualities so why should she expect him to fulfull those? When she chose him because he made her giggle and made her pussy tingle. Thats all she should expect from him then, everything else is gravy on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:22 AM
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Just saying, being fat is a much bigger character flaw than being an "insecure" man. I'm sure you disagree lmao ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:45 AM
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Well thats the demographic I'm in and thats the only one that matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:42 AM
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No, I'm saying no one should be dating them except for other fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:41 AM
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Then I guess the majority of women are also juvenile. Cause thats how most of you are with mens sexual performance. And thats why men are insecure. Because youre judgemental as a group and encourage judgement when it comes to mens sexual performance. You dig your own graves. I've had multiple traumatic experiences of being judged and rejected for sexual performance, occasionally being insulted (this would be the trashy low class women who pull this last extreme one, not educated). This from wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:35 AM
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Would you take a bullet for her? Sacrifice your career/ordinary life if she got badly sick? Practically I have not had to deal with any hardships related to a relationship. But emotionally, I would be very all-in if I was committed to someone to consider having children with them and I felt they were faithful and had my back. I think ride or die is a beautiful thing. I think poly relationships are gross for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:34 AM
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And lots do, the majority are NEGATIVE and EMOTIONLLY abusive about it. Similar to if I went cold towards you because you didn't want to do some specific sex act the first time we got in bed. How would you feel then? Bad of course. Negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:28 AM
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Maybe because women don't think it's a failure or shameful. Lots of women do, don't speak for women, speak for yourself. They freak out and call him gay or worry shes not sexy enough for him. It ruins everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:25 AM
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but it’s not flattering to be seen as a hole that someone want to dump their cum in you Thats not animalistic sex. Animalistic sex is high desire on both sides, KNOWING, the partner desires you fiercely. The whole, "this hole works tonight, let me pound it" aspect of gay sex life I consider to be nihilistic and not a strong sexual high. Animalistic sex is sensual, not simply using holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:24 AM
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If sex is traumatic for someone they shouldn't be having sex. What a nuanced intelligent take. Would you really say that to me or anyone in real life? Go look in a mirror and try it out. Realize how silly you sound. Maybe this is all a character for your username.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:21 AM
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Nah, its simply that it sucks to "approach" as a guy. The angst was always there, but men in the past were more desperate. I have to find things to talk about, be clever, charismatic, all to a complete stranger I know nothing about. All while she is analyzing me, judging me, deciding how entertaining I am compared to the last guy who talked to her. Its bullshit. And a lot of younger guys decided that a long time ago. Now with porn, and other distractions, no need to have to go through rejection …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:20 AM
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If you can't lose weight, no one should be dating you, but it seems the universe doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:15 AM
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My perspective is that sex is harder than love. Anyone can decide they love someone. Love is intentional. Sex is performance based. I don't consider it hard to find "love" in the sense of devotion to someone, perhaps because I lucked into it at the bright age of 19? Love always seemed like something only stupid or very unlucky people struggle to fulfill. Now being good and sexy enough for someone to desire you animalistically and then have that translate into love, that step is a bitch, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:13 AM
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I don't care who you would date. I wouldn't date you either. I'll find someone who does not make me feel insecure. And instead builds me up and makes me feel like a valuable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:07 AM
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Finding love is almost impossible Gay men choose not to find love because they care more about their next hook-up, or degenerate 3some than finding "love". So the real average man have it better when it comes to love life than gay guys Are you kidding me? Even getting the woman into bed comes with a host of sexual bullshit that one has to migrate through to even enjoy sex. At least with men you are on the same page, men are just more open and less judgemental when it comes to sex in general. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:05 AM
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Bro, just never compare the silly life experiences of a gay man to what straight men go through. You have to admit gay men live silly lives, sex is basically meaningless its so plentiful. The gay mans world becomes one of self restraint, rather than starvation. And yes this includes the "love" part. How can you have and find love if you just troll for random men online with sex in mind instead of actual dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:57 PM
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I do often wonder how many women I see walking around my neighborhood are alone. And how many are alone and don't go out to extroverted things like DJ parties and bars. I ain't going to talk to them though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:54 PM
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Imagine that, sex is traumatic for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:53 PM
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Exactly what I am talking about. If the man is not hard enough, then sex is ruined. He is shamed. And he failed the performance. Women have nothing similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:51 PM
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The women in this sub are radicalizing. They have so much bile and venom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:49 PM
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Its going to be skewed by religious folks. Do a study of upper middle class white girls who grew up in the suburbs and moved to major cities post college. Thats the only demo that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:48 PM
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Come on now.... Come on. Just admit if you get "abused" you are stupid. Its not 1950 anymore. If you find an abusive man, in 2025, you didn't vet for shit. You vetted for who made you giggle and who tickled your pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:46 PM
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Avoiding things that make you insecure is smart and is how you stay confident. Unless you think girlies staying with their abusive partners is "building character". Afterall they should just ignore that little insecure feeling telling them they deserve to be treated better, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:43 PM
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Sex is hard for men. Its easy for you, because you just follow the mans lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:42 PM
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The majority of young women these days experience at least one big dick, big dick energy, dominant lover who is "better than average" . So your suggestion is to not date women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:40 PM
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I doubt he'd fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:37 PM
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Being insecure about all of those things is legitimate. Insecurities are natural. Its strange how you talk about insecurities, as though they should not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:35 PM
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Women that prefer more experienced men tend to be experienced themselves. Thats not true at all. Maybe you are from a faith group like Muslim? Then there's a slim chance the women prefers less experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:33 PM
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You talk like insecurity is some kind of illegitimate feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:32 PM
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Every little bit helps in this slog we have to prove ourselves as men, its true. Grind grind grind. For that validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:58 PM
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I am confident in my observations. Meanwhile you haven't added anything except to call me a misogynist. Do you want a cookie? I am comfortable with objectifying language here and there. I have been objectified, I have objectified others for their enjoyment. Everyone enjoys it from time to time. No need to freak out about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:52 PM
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Yes, but it sucks, and eventually you run out of time for growth like that, probably in your 30s is your last shot at any kind of real growth as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:47 PM
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You should still take responsibility. You knew you were doing something socially taboo and didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:44 PM
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Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:41 PM
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WHere the fuck were your parents!?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:37 PM
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Its just aggravating hearing socially privileged women talk about "putting yourself out there" because of their social blindless, and their lifetime of experiences of being a women and "putting yourself" out there always leading to random ass people engaging her, most of them looking for sex, or just to have the trappings of social status (having a woman by your side) and thinking this at all is the experience of the average man. A man can go to every hot party in the city that night and have NO…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:36 PM
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They can but there will always be man to pick her up and choose her to be his current vagina lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:31 PM
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Its all mixed together. If you aren't getting laid as a man you also aren't getting a life or building a community. If you go to Ibiza with your friend and party but do not get laid, you didn't accomplish anything as a man, because if you ended up culminating the experience with love/sex, you would have had enthusiastic memoral rich social interactions to get there, it would have led to getting laid necessarily. So you didn't get laid then you necessarily did not have rich, growth-oriented, soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:27 PM
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Its effecting everyone. Immigrant parents are MORE involved in making sure their kids find partners, they engage with other families within their communities and set up marriages, how many white american parents are doing that for the lonely young men in their families? Shit is fucked. Western (white) culture is no guard rails, no holds bar, compete or die, no one gives a fuck about you, not your parents, or even if they do they no longer have the traditional structures to support you with and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:23 PM
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How is a preference a personal attack? All the women here saying they don't like this or that about a guy and wouldn't date him because hes a virgin, are those personal attacks. Try elevating your IQ next time maybe you will have a better perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:20 PM
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No one has authority to tell you. We live in a society with others and we all influence each other. I completely agree about the Muslims which is why I am confused why Western nations are importing them by the millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:18 PM
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Its still more of a choice than "just happens". If a woman gets with an older man its because she wants to have a daddy and all the implications that come with the age gap. Its part of the appeal, not neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:17 PM
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Its going to be more regular though. Seeing trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:16 PM
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Travelling as a man doesn't lead to sex. Like it does for sloots abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:14 PM
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Women who do "fun stuff" is guaranteed to lead to sex and relationships. Not the case for men. You can do everything right as a man and still fail. Burden of performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:13 PM
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Go travel. Go to burning man. Take a month long silent yoga retreat. Go to a nudist resort. When women do those things, they have sex with men, its guaranteed. Not the case for the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:12 PM
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I only dated religious virgins intentionally waiting for marriage. How is that any different than an unintentional virgin. It is different in small but not in important ways. What a take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:11 PM
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My parents were raised in a mind control cult that gave all autonomy to the discretion of the cult leaders. I really can't take anything you say seriously then because you weren't part of a healthy community, but rather a cult, which will instill a bunch of negative shit inside you. You are similar to the mormon girl who rejects her religion and becomes a porn sloot. You threw everything in the trash. We choose to be a part of moral systems, we don't "submit". That is cult language.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:09 PM
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And sounds like that 18y old is going to have an awesome night at the rave, so it was probably a good deed. So then what if they get dehydrated and end up in the hospital having a seizure? Just admit that your philosophy of "just don't hurt anyone" is childish, dumb, and simplistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:06 PM
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Most 23 year olds have ambitions, you are just telling on yourself that you are were a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:05 PM
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Right but then on some weekends you fuck the fuckboi without caring about what money he brings, or what he has had to work for and achieve, rather just if he makes you giggle and looks good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:04 PM
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"a Man will date a woman that works at McDonalds but a Woman won't date a man that works at McDonalds".. Cause its a big load of bullshit that is a popular redditism, but IRL holds no water. Hot girls don't work at McDonalds anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:02 PM
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Guys don't value women for their ability to bear children either. Until they want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:00 PM
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So you reject the morality instilled in you by your parents? Why? You don't mind sharing society with a bunch of sociopaths looking to use and abuse everyone and inject degenerate behaviors into the next generation so long as there is a veneer of "no harm". Is giving party drugs to an 18 year old so they can have a good time at a rave good or bad? Afterall you aren't "hurting" anyone, they asked for those drugs, your helping them! No ones talking about your "rights". If you are talking about you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:58 PM
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But IRL race is everywhere and impacts everything, yet no talky talky on reddit about it. Too "taboo"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:52 PM
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Lol wtf, where are you sleeping? You are homeless? What are you going to do when you have children...?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:51 PM
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Yep. They NEVER have a bunch of 19 year old boys as good friends, wonder why? Same thing for for other types of "unconventional relationships" (unconventional ways your dick gets hard is what they should be labelled cause thats all it is, not love)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:44 PM
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If love "just happens" why do we have so many preferences and specifications. You CHOOSE who you want to fuck, it doesn't "just happen"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:42 PM
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Shes angry at those men but not at herself, its cringe. Take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:39 PM
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That is not a good moral system. You live in a community with others, and your actions influence others and have externalities involved. But I agree that your simplistic take is very On Trend for modern westerners these days. Drifting. Aimless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:38 PM
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If your son is 6'8" and hates sports then you did something wrong as a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:10 PM
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I wouldn't date you with a history like that. Glad you found a man to overlook it though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:03 PM
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Because we don't live in times where old men get to have harems of young teenage women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:01 PM
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Nope, not just any woman falling for an older man. A young immature woman. Which is what gets those guys dicks hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:59 PM
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Do whatever you want culture is morally bankrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:52 PM
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I do see them as creepy losers though. I actually have more respect for the 40+ guys who have 20 year old sugar babies (I know quite a few of these relations through social clubs in my city) then the 35 year old who just so happens to link up with a 20 year old girl and corral her. Usually these are good women that should be dating men their own age, but got off track because of either sexual fetish or allure of masculine competence that is easier to pull off in your 30s than 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:51 PM
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She clearly doesn't have a great dating life if she is doing "FWBs" as a 30+ single mother
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:24 AM
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Yes but its because many successful women are narcissists with huge egos. Humble successful women are ALWAYS partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:11 AM
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Ok, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:08 AM
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Youre right. It does seem to be a woman thing to do to cut off family. I think its an effect of getting so much validation from strangers and new men that you can just replace the validation and support you get from a parent. Like women can always replace their fathers with some new father figure daddy love interest. I also have one girl friend who cut off her family. From her perspective, of course its all the mothers fault, shes crazy, yada yada. Yet her little sister lives with her mom and da…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:29 PM
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Same with competition for pretty girls of particular races.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:12 PM
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It is so strange how so many women online are so GLEEFUL about telling others to dump their SOs, divorce their husbands ect. Its like wrapped up in their identity, their self value, to see other relationships fail, it gives them some kind of dopamine rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:04 PM
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Definitely the trope of being trapped in a marriage did not come from nowhere. But tbf you are also "ignorant" of the status that the marriage you built afforded you, and the social opportunities. But in the end who you pick has consequences. To me it seems like you are a victim of your wife settling for you, that is my instinct but it could be wrong. I enjoy being "free" and being able to take crazy trips and do crazy things but life is full of choices and opening some doors closes others. In t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:57 PM
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I agree. But if you are a woman that supports "gender equality" and you criticize men for wanting to be courted, then youre a hypocrite. In our youth, high school ect, the high status boys are more often courted and chased and now that social media has shown men gathering following of many young women, it makes sense that many more young men desire this kind of position. Instead of putting in the shity work of being a entertaining monkey and trying to hop around and impress and entertain women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:40 PM
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They don't look as good in person as in the business cards lol. Its really not at a greater scale in vegas. There are more attractive escorts in NYC, LA than Vegas. Plus most of them move around from city to city and "tour"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:37 PM
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Haha. You are talking about fucking guys because of how they smell, and I am the anti-science, anti-logic one? Ok. Carry on. You just want to validate every and any little thing you do, don't you? No wrong moves for you, always an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:34 PM
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what do you mean treated like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:53 AM
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theres high class escorts in every large city
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:49 AM
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Haha well you will find plenty of vapid women who get turned on by "artists" and their music. I know multiple DJs that just started doing it to get a date basically, and I guess it worked for most of them. Like a man can have a solid job doing important work, and a woman will be more impressed by some two-bit DJ splicing together other peoples music for a crowd of 50 people in some random event space.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:35 AM
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Yes. No fap is solo masturbation and primarily porn abstention
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:44 AM
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There is no equivalent. Not everything male has a female equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:42 AM
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I agree. But personally I don't need shared interests as long as she is very sexually attracted to me. The exception being children. Also lots of people like me don't have some special niche, like many types of music, are open to good natured political disagreements and can generally be interested in other peoples niches even if I don't share them or find deep meaning in them. Honestly when I go to shows and see couples that dress a like in their little niche worlds, I cringe the fuck, its so ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:32 AM
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Oh so stories are sharing videos now, gotcha. Goon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:28 AM
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Nope, just not degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:27 AM
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What we see historically is that men pursued women more in public. Than they do now. What are you talking about functionless? Being horny does not make you "functionless".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:26 AM
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Psuedoscience. I doubt you emit much at all. Maybe pussy stank, hope you don't have an "imbalance" like so many girls I run into
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:25 AM
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Without porn, most men/boys are much less sedated and much hungrier for sex. At young ages especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:49 PM
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Great story. Anyway... my point is that you have to engage women and flirt with them, create sexual tension, to have sex with them. Not that women never show any interest to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:48 PM
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Calling a 13 year old boy an incel is fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:46 PM
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Wow what a catch. Showing videos to your friends of girls you fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:45 PM
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Why can't you just admit she bullied him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:43 PM
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Well 50% of current high schoolers are not dating, clearly they aren't all influenced by "family" and church. You really believe theres all these catholic school guilt boys out there, don't you ? Wrong. Boys with "religious inhibition" are an extreme minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:42 PM
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She does but she doesn't care. I'm sure all the guys in her high school who were not dating were also completely invisible to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:38 PM
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No, I am implying he was jacking off to porn during all those years he "didn't care about women". They didn't pursue women because they released their sexual energy elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:37 PM
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Wow dude, youre amazing. As someone who also has had girls hit on them, had girls friends at bars introduce me to their friends ect ect, I guess weve encountered different women. That is some trashy behavior! Maybe you are ghetto?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:31 PM
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I'm more concerned with looksmatching.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:30 PM
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never happens to me, seems like a weird femle thing like astrology. another ick for women to opine on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:19 PM
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And when you didn't hit on her back, or pursue her after she hit on you then nothing happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:15 PM
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Yes, that statement was too black and white. But its the FEELING, of having to be "chosen" and "picked" that i am takin about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:14 PM
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I couldn't think of anything less comparable to a dick, than a set of tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:11 PM
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awful ones look awful. Most girls don't have shapely nature tits. Most guys sexually doesn't center around tits either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:10 PM
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Whatever. If you are attracted to a woman, in the zone, you will be extra sensitive, it doesn't matter how tight she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:10 PM
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Eye roll. Yes attack the messenger. That will make it go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:43 PM
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But then where did all that sexual energy go, that is a problem a lot of boys don't figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:36 PM
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Its impotent rage. Most insults like this toward women from men are desperate attempts to retake control over the narrative that women have complete control over sexual validation in the modern era. They feel the inadequacies so they look for ways to "turn it around" on women, but its ineffectual and impotent because women are not men and you can't just turn things around and have the same effect. A penis is not the same as a vagina, and talking about vagina size will not have the effect on wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:32 PM
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Yes exactly. Nor are men talking with their bros about his last gf with big tits made him orgasm so much harder than his new gf with little tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:30 PM
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Ya go tell 11 year olds what they should and should not be looking for on the internet, I'm sure it will work out great!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:28 PM
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His prompts are bad yes. Thailand - you have to be careful with thailand. A lot of women make assumptions about your "fun" trip to thailand. Can't dance self-depricating joke - women want men who can dance, period. No need to remove this from her fantasy before she even meets you. Like a lot of men just need to write less, let their pictures do the work for them. The more you write, the more things you give her a reason to quibble over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:27 PM
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Nah women have sex for lots of reasons outside of how great the sex is, also most women aren't jumping your bones for sex, they want men to initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:24 PM
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The irony being that a lot of that behaviour is still dictated by male producers and male support, usually adult men. Doesn't matter. telling boys that if the boy can't get one of those fantasy women to chase after and submit to him, he's a failure as a person. Yes, this is how it would feel. Knowing and SEEING men get something you don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:21 PM
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Ya I will continue living in this world we all live in, you can craft your own reality to suit your notions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:19 PM
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Most men are ass men, and all the convos I've had, men pick ass over tits. No, fake tits are not like a strap on. Fake tits look amazing if she is smart about size and how they look on her frame, and goes to a good surgeon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:17 PM
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you wouldn't put a blanket claim over what men like would you Nope. I would only do that for women. Mens interests are too varied. Womens interest in male bodies is very narrow, and big dick is omnipresent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:15 PM
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Terrible profile and photo selection. I match with like 75% of the women on tinder. Guys just don't put effort into photo selection. Its like they don't even know what women are looking for. But then again hes 21. I think mine would have been like his at the age too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:12 PM
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I think seeing how western women behave in social media and in porn is leading to a lot of men viewing women with contempt. Online influencers have their place, and responsibility for the state of the culture, but if the culture did not also reflect what they were saying, then less people would be interested in paying attention to them, including children
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:06 PM
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Men and women are not the same. And neither are penises and boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:03 PM
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I want my woman to have vaginal orgasms. Otherwise what is the point of the intercourse. May as well pay a prostitute if my penis in her vagina does not lead to "orgasm"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:00 PM
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How are you suppose to know that. Women like about sex and orgasms all. the. time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:56 PM
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Men don't give a shit about tits. Women can just get fake ones anyway, they look just as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:55 PM
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To attract women you have to pursue them, if you don't pursue, you won't get anything. Universal rule. "Gotta be a man... ain't no other way..." So if you are interested in say, reading your favorite novel/series, more than finding pussy, you aren't going to get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:52 PM
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Cause its displayed in front of everyone now. Such as in porn. Its one thing to hear "stacy's going steady with carl" and having to use the imagination, decide if you are jealous or not or what you want exactly, and then seeing someone looking like stacy have depraved sex, knowing in HD detail what you may be missing out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:47 PM
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I didn't think about the dating hierarchy or getting laid at that kids age. Probably why I didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 20, which I don't feel is very late but if you say that in internet circles all the ghetto and low class kids that were fucking at 13 come out of the woodwork. I think the earlier you consider those things the better you do. Of course certain weak-minded individuals can and will get sucked into online niches just like cults that will not serve them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:44 PM
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Pretty much you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:41 PM
2

You can go buy hookers right now if you want to. What would legalizing it change
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:43 AM
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nope. i treat ppl with respect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:38 AM
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They did. And they had different values.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:33 AM
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YT women are weirdos in general. They do all the weird fucked up shit. So no surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:29 AM
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