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| 1 | What is your hormonal composition? Do you lean more masculine or feminine?I'm actually the opposite. Liberal guy, more feminine at my core, but still into strong or masculine girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners?So you're a switch? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Men settle for me due to my tall height :(Yes and yes, but short and muscular is okay too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners?I know. I assume I'm the first guy you've met who's like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners?Yeah, but I'm especially into leadership and physical strength. I place a lot of importance on those. Thanks. And hopefully, I'll find a strong masc girl I can settle down with and be a boymilf. Not a dad or a DILF, a BoyMILF. Thought of that after hearing people say "malewife." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners?Yeah, sexually, but more so in a romantic context. And it's because I get to feel cared for and safe, and I have a partner that I can admire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:30 AM |
| -1 | Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners?And you know who really loses out because of this? The LGBT community. Many LGBT folk are not unreasonable, ignorant SJWs and perverts (gay pride parades are notoriously sexual). And globalhomo and all these groomer teachers make these sane people as a whole look bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners?Yes to both, but I'm also short, unathletic, laid-back, and as I said earlier, a sub. Ironically, I'm a black man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners?Because I'm more in my feminine. Some men are just like that. And before you ask, no, I did not come from a fatherless home. No, I was not taught that masculinity is toxic. Yes, I had a masculine father growing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners?I do like guns and action films (but horror more so), but emotionally and mentally, I need a woman who's strong and a leader to balance me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Men settle for me due to my tall height :(Personally, I prefer tall over short. But what's unfortunate is so many tall women are insecure about their body. They're obsessed with wanting to be small and delicate, which is a real pain in the ass. Just like how women who like short men consider insecurity in short men a pain in the ass. 5'6 guy here, by the way. And yes, I get it, most men prefer short women. But notice I said "most" and not "all". There are outliers, and again, I am one of them. The fact that I'm a short man makes ME wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:09 AM |
| 0 | Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners?Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners?Ironically, I'm into masculine women, but want to be the feminine and submissive partner (Yes, I'm a man). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Is the "killer instinct" attractive in a partner to you? Why or why not?Lucky you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 11:26 AM |
| – | What personality traits are important to you when it comes to dating?I look for a lot of the traits women look for in men (I'm a man btw). Leadership, dominance, assertiveness, emotional and mental strength, courage, stoicism (that's bottom of the list but still), protectiveness, and really just masculinity in general. And as fucked up as it may seem, I REALLY love it when a woman is willing to fight and even kill (ideally for a good cause like protection or hunting or serving in combat); I am NOT a fan of pacisism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to find masculine traits in women attractive? And how can I go about it?The weird thing is, I was considering that 10 minutes ago. And physically, I'm just boyish (blame God for making me short and babyfaced). So my femininity is on the inside. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to find masculine traits in women attractive? And how can I go about it?Well, all of that's pretty fair. I never thought of it that way. So what can I do about wanting a dominant partner? | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to find masculine traits in women attractive? And how can I go about it?Your tips sound pretty good. And "cross-sexual?" What does that mean? Never heard that one before. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to find masculine traits in women attractive? And how can I go about it?That would come in a situation when you're watching a horror film, playing a violent and gory game, or if you're a hunter. I'm a total horror fan, so guts and gore doesn't bother me very much. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.You're actually right on the money. And keep in mind this is coming from a man who adores masculine qualities in women (Yes, I'm counting corporate success and status as "masculine"). I don't care that much about a woman's intellect as long as she's not an idiot. So the bar is low. I'm talking "Christopher Judge's voice" low. And if a man IS attracted to how smart or rich a woman is, he's likely on the feminine side. Not to say that there is anything wrong with that. I'm just saying, a man who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | What kind of women do feminine or low-testosterone men (Or "beta males") look for?...Uhh, what is a terp? I've never heard that one before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What kind of women do feminine or low-testosterone men (Or "beta males") look for?And that's exactly what you've seen these guys go for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | What kind of women do feminine or low-testosterone men (Or "beta males") look for?So the issue is that they just aren't masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | What kind of women do feminine or low-testosterone men (Or "beta males") look for?So they don't get themselves out there and try to shoot their shot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:21 PM |
| 0 | What kind of women do feminine or low-testosterone men (Or "beta males") look for?for what reasons? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?So you think men like me are...what exactly? What do you think this says about us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Is the Red Pill life the best way for the genders to coexist? Should everyone live it?In their case, why are they miserable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Is the Red Pill life the best way for the genders to coexist? Should everyone live it?I understand. Do you think it's the be-all end-all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?And the "liking masculinity" part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?And how are we supposed to unpack the "strength=masculine" part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?That's right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?"Though to me, you sound fairly pacifist yourself..." My nigga, you could not be any more wrong. So growing up, while I did love and respect my mom, I always saw that mercy toward her enemies and things she was afraid of as a flaw. She would also use pretty much any measure to protect the house and herself except for a gun, which I also disagree with. I could never agree with her pacifism, or my grandmother's. So my feminine energy and my genes are basically telling me that the mother of my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?Like I just said, I'm not attracted to thuggish behavior or criminality, but I find it appealing--and dare I say, masculine--if a woman has the killer instinct. If she's not afraid to kill, it tells me on an almost primal level that she's emotionally strong, that she's tough. It tells me that she would be a tough mother and she could teach her children to be tough, and that she could do a better job protecting and feeding herself or others. I'm attracted to that because I find it masculine, no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?Well, it's good to hear that men like me aren't nessecarily fucked up. A lot of men who are into physical combat can have a preference for women like this. Ironically, I am NOT one of those men. Feminine energy and all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?Well, more so disagreeing with my mom and grandma on their pacifism and the extent of their mercy. I was never a pacifist. But apart from this, my relationship with both of them is pretty good, and I'd take a bullet for both of them. But I do think that my energy is feminine, so me finding killing instincts attractive may be because I look for masculine energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?Masculine, hardworking, protective, charismatic, and a leader. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?The latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?Well, regarding the final part of the post, what does a man being attracted to killing instinct say about him, in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?Actually, I'm not afraid of them. I mentioned in one of the paragraphs that I wanted to kill mice that were scaring my mother, but she forbade me. According to her, it would have been cruel if I did it, but she was totally fine with an exterminator doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?Actually, the problem was that she forbade ME from trying to kill that mouse, despite that mouse essentially being an enemy of hers(again, due to her phobia of mice). I disagree with the idea of showing compassion and mercy to your enemies. Strongly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?Then what do you think explains my attraction to it (as well as my disdain toward my mom and grandma's pacifism and softness)? And if it is as impossible to find as you say, what should I do about my attraction to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:13 AM |
| 3 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?I did have a masculine father in the house, as well as a half-brother who could come to spend every first weekend with me and my brother. But apart from that, I was closer to my mom, my grandmother (remember that I said in the post that I disagree with their pacifism and mercy), and my grandaunt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:08 AM |
| 3 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?...No. No, I cannot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:02 AM |
| 2 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?For some reason their women aren't weak and can play a role and stay loyal. It's amazing how many people are clueless. Why there's the 1%. The sheep. ...What? What is that even supposed to mean? And what was that 300 clip for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?How did you even guess right with ME? I never mentioned dominance or submission in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?d psychologically and he needs some professional help or he has not yet developed a strong personality. The first guess, I get. But do you mind explaining your reasoning for the latter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?So you think a guy who likes the killer instinct in women is a sub? In my case, that's actually true. But what about other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:35 AM |
| 2 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?The sad thing is, you're actually right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?Killing isn’t masculine. It’s an extremely violent act that humans have had to perform in the past to defend and feed ourselves. The reason why I consider the act of killing masculine is because throughout human history, it's mostly been done by men and boys. Even today, this is the case, because most hunters, soldiers, and violent criminals are male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | If a man finds the killer instinct attractive in women, what does that say about him?How so? I never mentioned submission and dominance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?In my case, how is biology at play? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.And from what you see, guys who like women who are more masculine than them are what? I'm pretty scrawny and boyish-looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.Yeah, EXTREMELY common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.My dating age range would be 20-28. And I guess I could qualify. I mean, I'm short and babyfaced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.And u/Impossible_You_8555, your advice for me would be...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.I help my grandmother and grandaunt with problems with their smartphones, or how to use one of their iPads. I use both a pretty big chunk of the time, so I am more experienced with them. But do I feel proud of it? No. I also graduated from trade school this year for office administration. But that accomplishment barely registers in my head; not proud of that either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.When your testosterone was low, exactly what traits in women attracted you? Like I said in one of my paragraphs, part of the reason why I like those who strong/tall/masc is because I lack these instincts. At least, that's my theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.So for me, my options are what? And can my lack of dominance and protectiveness be fixed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.So my options are what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.I'm totally straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.And regarding me not having the instincts I mentioned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.The bigger problem isn't that. It's that I lack the "instincts" to be a protector or to be dominant. That's supposed to be innate, according to the Manosphere, but I just...don't have it. And as I said in one of the first paragraphs, that's why I'm attracted to physical prowess and height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.So what the hell do I do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.Not willing to, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 10:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.Well, now I know what you mean. Except I wasn't looking for a tradcon woman in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 10:05 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.What do you mean by "make trade-offs?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.She doesn't necessarily have to have all 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.Honestly, in terms of percentage, what do you think my chances are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.Well, ironically I lacked this instinct before I felt insecure over my height. It kinda started back in 2012, when my height wasn't on my mind at all. I just thought masc/strong girls were really cool. Although I do think my lack of protectiveness and dominance is a second reason why I prefer them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.And what about your tastes in women, physically and otherwise? For me, I always just always found women who were physically capable or masculine (and to a much smaller extent women who are tall) cool, but in my personal opinion, my lack of protective and dominant instinct exaggerated my attraction to those traits. So for you, having power over others and caring for them helped? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 08:39 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.Yes, I know. And my lack of desire to be gender-conforming honestly hurts. But considering I find less gender-conforming partners (at least in terms of build or height) more attractive, am I being foolish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed.So you didn't want to be dominant or a protector either? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?Well for the second sentence, I'd probably actively have to look for a submissive girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?And exactly how is a woman supposed to help a man like me become more masculine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?Bro, at least give us an anecdote for your claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?I meant in general. Because I'm one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Cool. I just hope nerdy guys who like girls with masc/outdoorsy hobbies aren't shit outta luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:38 AM |
| -1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Because most women are horrified/saddened by the idea of hunting and killing an animal, I'm assuming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Kinda did. Women with masc hobbies are wife material. And also masc jobs, like being a cop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 0 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?What about hunting, though? That's up there for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?...You my nigga now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Same here, but also hunting. Love a girl who can skin a deer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | How can a man (re)gain protective instincts?And you think that will make a man like being the protector/the bigger and stronger one in the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of submission in women?You seriously didn't think I knew that women and men are completely different? I'm not an SJW. All I said was I'm not like you or some of the other men here, and I want to understand your way of thinking (why submission in women is appealing). Just because a man doesn't want that for himself doesn't mean he's a radical leftist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | How can a man (re)gain protective instincts?For me personally, I don't want to change this about myself; I've made peace about what I find attractive and what I want in a relationship. Knowing these things about myself used to make me insecure, but I accept that this is what I like and what I want. Bro, I said that this time, it ISN'T about me and that I've accepted myself completely. As for others, how can a man who has no instinct to be a protector (or no desire to be the bigger/stronger one in a relationship) gain this desire? This… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | What do you think are the ideal personality traits (for the genders you are attracted to)?What kind of man wants a woman who is (or acts like) a hoe? To quote Kieth Sweat, NO-BOOOOOOOOO-DY! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 01:31 AM |
| 0 | What do you think are the ideal personality traits (for the genders you are attracted to)?\Breathes in** BOI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 10:37 PM |
| 0 | What do you think are the ideal personality traits (for the genders you are attracted to)?So basically, just a masculine and dominant man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 10:07 PM |
| 2 | What do you think are the ideal personality traits (for the genders you are attracted to)?"Tomboyish" "Capable of murder" Ah, I see you are a man of culture as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Well, I see where you're coming from. Problem is...what if you're a short guy who doesn't really want to "throw around" his girl, or doesn't like being the protector? Those are two of the selling points of shorties, according to a lot of men: They're easy to throw around and dominate, and they make men feel protective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How can a man (re)gain protective instincts?For me, I did have a strong father in the house. But my lack of masculine desire proves that's not guaranteed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How can a man (re)gain protective instincts?How will that work? I'm interested to see where your train of thought is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How can a man (re)gain protective instincts?For me personally, I don't want to change this about myself; I've made peace about what I find attractive and what I want in a relationship. Knowing these things about myself used to make me insecure, but I accept that this is what I like and what I want. That advice is for others, not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Also, I know this reply is late, but why is it that only one of your short male friends has a taller partner? The rest want to feel more masculine, perhaps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?Why give it a shot with someone who's more feminine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?So what are you suggesting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?Tbh I think there's a higher likelihood of encountering them if you're into gym culture or a part of the lgbt community. Why part of the LGBT community? I'm straight, btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Nice. In your case, why is tall an attractive thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?Let me guess: You think I'm in the wrong for wanting this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?Is it really so wrong for a man to want to not be the leader? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?No. Where did you even get that idea? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?It's not purely a sexual thing. Part of the reason why is because, as a man, I really want to play the "feminine" or submissive role in the relationship. I want to make my woman feel strong, tough, capable, awesome, and even heroic. I want to hype her up. I want to make her feel like a hero. I want to be the one being protected (sometimes). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?As for emotional and relationship dynamics there are cuckold, hotwife, slutwife, FLR and swinging couples... Yeah, I am NOT into getting cucked. Not doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?So you are telling me that I have to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 12:40 PM |
| 5 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?If I was homosexual, I would not be attracted to women at all. If you asked if I was bi, that would have been a better question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?I hate how being tall us seen as wrong for a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:29 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?In your case, why is height up there as an attractive trait? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:47 AM |
| 2 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Yeah. That is a bunch of bull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Yeah. Though I will admit, that on rare occassions, I want to be strong and the protector, mainly because I want to feel better about myself. Being short is an insecurity of mine. So I'm a little conflicted. On another note, what have people said about you being less educated and outearned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?No, but I admit, I don't really like the thought of being in charge. I have no desire to lead, or to even protect. So for a while, I thought I was feminine. As for the "wanting to be shorter" part, I'm short myself but I want to have children one day. Part of the reason why I want a taller partner is because I worry about having short kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Well, this fucking sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?So you like muscle because of him. And because it makes you feel protected? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:56 AM |
| 2 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?If we're talking personality, yes. Tomboyishness and male personality traits are it. But physically butch? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?I feel like as a man who wants to be the smaller, weaker one, I'm down right fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:30 AM |
| 6 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?And as a man who isn't tall...being short sucks ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Nice, nice. I'm guessing you want someone shorter because of the reasons I described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Not gonna lie, I as the man want to be the one being protected and caring for the children. Is that wrong of me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 10:04 PM |
| 3 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Nice. To you, what's the appeal of broad shoulders and toned arms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:50 PM |
| 4 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Bitch, I guessed it! Hoo! I was right... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:47 PM |
| 10 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?You live somewhere in Scandinavia, don't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you wish to play the "feminine" role, or the "masculine" role in a relationship? Do you really know what you want in a relationship?And anything you have to say about my rare urges to be strong and masc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:41 AM |
| – | How can someone regain ambition and passion for life?And my lack of ambition isn't just restricted to career choices. I've never been into sports or even martial arts as a man (to the point where I rarely work out) never been outdoorsy, never been social (although Yu-Gi-Oh does help me come out of my shell and get some human interaction as a homebody). Although I do still think of writing, and I have gotten interested in Japan and Japanese culture since 2020. Based on what I said, what do you think that thing is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 11:19 AM |
| 3 | What is the appeal of submission in women?I feel like many women would agree with you on that. And as a man who isn't masculine and wants a masculine partner, I'm convinced something is wrong with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What is the appeal of submission in women?Well, like I said in the post, I actually want to be led myself in a relationship. Right now, I'm doing YouTube and hope to make a career out of it, although I did graduate from trade school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:40 AM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of submission in women?So what the hell do I do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:33 AM |
| 3 | What is the appeal of submission in women?...I'm not doing good in life myself. And because I don't want to be in charge, I am pretty much screwed romantically. Sexually? Forget about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | What is the appeal of submission in women?Yeah, apart from being short and unathletic, I...am not very protective. Those two things are probably why I'm not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:00 AM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of submission in women?men tend to be predisposed to feel that strongest when we're leading or protecting. Well, my balls must be broken, because I never feel that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:50 AM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of submission in women?So according to you, me being repulsed by submission (and even liking masculine traits in women, which I didn't mention here, but in a previous post) is because I have lower testosterone. Do you think that's wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:37 AM |
| 3 | What is the appeal of submission in women?Ouch. Sorry if it seems like I'm not getting it, dude. But hearing about your experiences really piqued my interest. Forgive me if I'm overanalyzing. As I said, I didn't fully believe in myself and let the women take charge and the relationship crashed. That sentence kinda sounds like the women made a lot of bad choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:09 AM |
| 3 | What is the appeal of submission in women?Oh, no, I understand perfectly. But I imagine a lot of shit went wrong for that to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:04 AM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of submission in women?...They treated you badly, didn't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:03 AM |
| 3 | What is the appeal of submission in women?The rabbit hole gets deeper than that when you consider relationships from a physiological trait. Testosterone, hormones, neurochemicals, estrogen, etc etc, play huuuuge roles in our sexual and relationship preferences. Inject someone with testosterone and adrenaline, and they become more aggressive or domineering etc. Inject them with estrogen, and vice versa. And I assume you saw this happen to people yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of submission in women?So you honestly think that if my testosterone is higher, I'll want to lead? Some big, masculine men I've seen are subs (again, not necessarily in bed). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of submission in women?How did those relationships end? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | What is the appeal of submission in women?I’m very masculine and feminine submissive women appeal to the part of my lizard brain/ instincts that i can’t control. Well, what the hell is MY problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:51 AM |
| 4 | What is the appeal of submission in women?So men like me, who hate leading PERIOD...we're doomed, aren't we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:50 AM |
| 5 | What is the appeal of submission in women?Yeah, I am NOT trying to argue and fight with my partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:23 AM |
| 3 | What is the appeal of submission in women?True. And honestly, knowing I have no desire to lead, despite leadership being attractive to most women, that bothers me some times. Knowing that I don't have this masculine inclination and don't want to fucks me up some days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:19 AM |
| 14 | What is the appeal of submission in women?Sorry. But when a lot of RP men describe a woman being disagreeable, my mind just defaults to them being aggressive, rude, arrogant, condescending, and just plain mean-spirited. This seems to be a recurring theme with the women they mock and criticize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:17 AM |
| 12 | What is the appeal of submission in women?So according to you, a woman can't be dominant (or at least not submissive) while also being a decent person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:11 AM |
| 7 | What is the appeal of submission in women?That's not always gonna be the case, from what I've seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:10 AM |
| 14 | What is the appeal of submission in women?Hey, I want peace too, and I'm not one of the men I'm describing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 17 | What is the appeal of submission in women?There's no men that I hate more than these rude boring macho guys that only hobbies are smoke and guns. What's ironic is, I'm a submissive guy who's pro-gun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:00 AM |
| 6 | What is the appeal of submission in women?So if a woman leads, what happens, in your experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:56 AM |
| 11 | What is the appeal of submission in women?First world nation; America. Ironically, I'm black, and our community has a lot of problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:55 AM |
| 5 | What is the appeal of submission in women?I agree with you on the second sentence. Dominance is attractive, but even more so when it's paired with decency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:31 AM |
| 13 | What is the appeal of submission in women?So you can't exactly describe it in detail, but it just seems natural to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?And is this necessarily a bad thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?Then what does that say about reclusive women and feminine guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?Can you name some of those examples? What were the stories, what happened? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?What do you mean by that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | How much do men need to be needed?Pretty sure not all women want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:19 AM |
| 0 | How much do men need to be needed?My post wasn't about men feeling wanted. It was about men needing to feel like they are doing their "duty". I was talking about men feeling a want to be a strong protector, provider, and leader. It was all about fulfilling the masculine role in a relationship. And instinct or not, I don't think all men have it. I know because I'm a man, and I have NO innate need to be stronger than my woman, nor a need to be protector or leader. And I certainly wasn't cucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How much do men need to be needed?The sarcasm is strong with this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How much do men need to be needed?And I'm assuming you're gonna recommend men always try to lead their relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How much do men need to be needed?So they just liked that you took the lead. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | How much do men need to be needed?How did they need you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How much do men need to be needed?Or just a conservative. And no, being conservative doesn't mean you're insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Taller ones rejected you more, or just not preferred by you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Should feminine men become more masculine?What's wrong with a guy letting his girl propose to them, or lead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?They were insecure as hell, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?So he still makes you feel safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?He's buff, isn't he? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?If a man does look for that in women, that means he's feminine or weak, doesn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Yeah. Judging from all that, it seems like height doesn't matter much to you personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Ouch. So no matter which group I choose, I'm still more likely to have shorter children?? I'm sorry. I can only imagine the crap you and your brothers go through. If you don't mind, can you explain exactly what problems your height caused you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?I'm guessing the preference for you is about feeling strong, masculine, and in control? Plus, like I said, my children's genes if I do as you recommend are a concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?How is that important here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Than the worldwide average. Worldwide average male height is 5'8, worldwide female average is 5'3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?The first two are because they're shorter than average, I'm assuming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?So I gotta have some sort of talent, according to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:29 AM |
| 10 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?...Okay...shit. And the fact that a redditor actually killed himself over his height? That is horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 01:57 AM |
| -1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Admittedly, I do love Japan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 11:22 PM |
| 0 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Yeah, that probably won't happen. Like I said, the thought of having short kids worries me. I am NOT a fan of my small genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Short women, most people's height preferences depend on their own height. Though I've met women who don't care about height and I've met women who say they only date over 6' most women are fine with anyone taller than themselves. And I do know a fair amount of short men with gfs/wives only one of them has a tall partner, all the others have a partner who's the same height or a bit shorter. So my best chances are with someone shorter than me, although I'm not screwed if I don't pick that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 11:11 PM |
| 16 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?I know that, but women like you seem damn rare, which doesn't really help my feelings of uncertainty. But it's good to hear regardless, and men like me really need to hear that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?...Well, Sugar Honey Iced Tea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?And if you are 5'6, your threshold is what? Also, I may have issues, but I would never abuse my kid because of them. That's horrible! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?OP here. In your case, what do you do, dating-wise? I imagine you going for a taler woman (assuming you do at all) doesn't work out at all, so you just go for someone shorter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.Well, I was looking in spaces on this site, yes, especially r/RoleReversal, since I am not a stickler for gender norms at all. And I have considered taking up an athletic hobby for that purpose and to get fit, but that's also because I find strength attractive, which I mentioned at some point in the post. I don't really try more "kinky" spaces because I'm not necessarily looking for dominance in the bedroom. And you seem to know that. Because there are a LOT of women who very much want to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.What's with the smile? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed....plenty of bi women, queer women, non-binary trans masculine folk (assigned female at birth) would be into being the dominant masculine partner. I assume you're speaking from experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.You're the second one to suggest feminine or submissive guys go for bi girls. Are bi women really that more accepting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.How? They have Y-Chromosomes, don't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.Not embracing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.Seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.Except the last thing I want is short children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.5'6. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.Yeah...my odds are shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.Basically, the man doesn't do anything to contribute to the relationship? Is that what you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.So short men are also screwed too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.I know I can't just expect my partner to do all of the work in a relationship, dude. I never said I wanted to be lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.So you think the best idea is for me to go through with what I was contemplating. What about my lack of desire to be a leader? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.I know. I was just like that; me also being short is just a coincidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.I'm only into women, and I'm not trans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.So in your case, you want equal power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.How will the relationship be unhealthy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.I know. I also gotta have something to contribute to the relationship. In traditional relationships, women were emotionally the rock for their men. They provided a place of comfort, peace, and nurturing. I also shouldn't agree or go along with objectively BAD decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.I'm talking about BDSM, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 12:19 PM |
| 5 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.That means who has the most power. I'm guessing you never heard that phrase before, or at least not very much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.When I mean dominant or submissive, I'm not talking about the bedroom. I mean who wears the pants in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | how confident are you with your body? does it affect your sex life?Honestly...2 out of 10, primarily because I'm short. I'm 5'6, and being short as a man is a huge strike against you in terms of attractiveness. It's one reason why I'm afraid to try dating IRL. Of course, having a preference for taller women probably doesn't help. Hell, one reason for that is because I'm afraid of having short children later down the road. It's just a curse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?...Well, this sucks ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?So all women want to be dominated and led, according to you, u/DLifts777. Essentially, I'm doomed dating-wise, since I don't want to dominate and lead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?...Yeah, except there's one REALLY big problem. As I mentioned in my post, I have ZERO instinct to protect and lead. While those two come naturally to a lot of men, they do not for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?You’re confused. Being attracted to tall muscular women is not the same as having a female-like mating psychology. Except in my post, I also mentioned liking male personality traits like dominance, aggression, and willingness to fight and even kill. In terms of personality, I love confidence, assertiveness, aggression, willingness to engage in violence, dominance...just masculinity in general. I also mention myself having practically no masculine personality traits, to the point where I ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?So my only hope if I don't want to get cheated on, according to you, is to be masculine and dominant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?Oh, HELL NO. I am not into being NTR'd! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?I honestly expected you to say her leading would doom the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?And her leading the relationship is...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?So in your opinion, fem men should still lead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?I feel a lot of people think they want some form of non traditional relationship purely because they're either incapable... What do you mean by "incapable?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?So just how fucked am I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?Well, my aesthetic is boyish, partially due to my height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?What about your personality traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?What about having physical masculine traits--like musculature and height? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex?I'm surprised you're not on r/RoleReversal. Also, didn't you comment on one of my old posts that you're more masc personality-wise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Why won't men accept the fact that tall men are desirable compared to short men?...I hate being short so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?[Rumi Usagiyama from My Hero Academia] (Mirko)](https://cdn.anime-planet.com/characters/primary/mirko-1-190x266.jpg?t=1626009851) Revy from Black Lagoon Emelie Lundberg Colleen Fotsch Lady Eivor from Assassin's Creed: Valhalla Buffbunnymika Karen Joshua from Mobile Suit Gundam Melissa Mao from Full Metal Panic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?Given my type, though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 01:29 PM |
| 2 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?I essentially mean the sporty kind; fit and strong (or at least WANTS to be), and probably outdoorsy. Personality-wise, I find it more attractive when they are at least mostly masculine, but it's not like having a feminine side is a total turn-off. Basically, I look for someone strong and masculine to balance me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?I don't understand. I have and had a great relationship with my mom. So why the HELL am I looking for her opposite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?Well I look pretty boyish physically, so that won't be an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Do hormone levels determine if someone is dominant or not?....Yeah, I think I'm better off not taking test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?Part of the reason why submission is unattractive to me is pretty obvious: I have no real desire to be a leader; hell, I never really did. Especially since I'm an introvert and don't actively try to get involved with what's going on around me. Whenever me and my family or my classmates were doing something together, I was just along for the ride. Plus, I guess growing up, I always saw girls who could kick butt and were tough and boyish as cool. Part of that was due to media like Mortal Kombat … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Do hormone levels determine if someone is dominant or not?And how were those guys, behavior and attraction-wise, before they were on test? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?I'm attracted to lazy, scandalous hos. The sarcasm is strong with this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?Well, what would you consider me going for the exact opposite of my mom, despite my great relationship with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?...Ouch. I'm sorry to hear about your childhood, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 04:22 PM |
| 3 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?What were your dad's negative traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?Well, I don't get why the hell the opposite's the case with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?So yeah, feminine guys are almost doomed. Almost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?What if a feminine guy is attracted to masc girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Do hormone levels determine if someone is dominant or not?So you believe that my testosterone is low? Exactly how do you know all this? Were you low-t before and exactly like I am now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?Admittedly, I do want to find someone. But what I look for in women I like is masculine traits. And I don't just mean being a tomboy. I also mean dominance, muscles, height (though that's a preference and not a requirement), assertiveness and aggression, and so on. Femininity gets put on the back burner. The problem is, many masc women still want masculine and dominant men. What makes it even worse is that I find submission horribly unattractive; that's the feminine trait that turns me off t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Well, why would I look for someone who I'm gonna have to go to jail to visit in like a month? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?I'm not. You assumed that I was attracted to violent women, when I said I wasn't attracted to that (if it could lead to breaking the law). I made it very clear throughout the post that I did not mean criminal behavior. For the most part, I was referring to protecting others or oneself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?And to be clear, I have ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTION of dating a violent criminal or a thug. I clearly said in the post that it isn't criminality I like. Before that, I even clarified what I mean by "a capacity for violence." DISCLAIMER: For context, when I say "a capacity for violence", I mean "a willingness to fight and kill, even in the contexts of hunting, and killing pests." And I even explained some reasons where I think my attraction could have came from. I think it stemmed from having… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Why does everyone ignore the fact that I said I don't like violent thugs and criminals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?And what are some ways I can improve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?I just talked with another redditor. I'm not feminine physically (emotionally and attraction-wise, though...), more so boyish and neotenous. I look a lot younger than I actually am, especially since I keep shaving my mustache. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?That's me, partially because I'm short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?The sad thing is, I'm short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?Otherwise, these men are fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Should feminine men become more masculine?So if feminine guys want to find love (if they aren't gay of course), they should to become totally masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?I said early on in the post that I'm NOT attracted to criminals and thugs. I ain't trying to visit nobody in jail. I mean someone who is willing to fight and kill for good reasons, basically(although hunting is debatable). Killing pests, defending oneself or others, working for the cops or serving in combat, or just flat-out not being pacifists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?...Where the hell did "crazy in bed" factor in the equation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?I know about that thanks to Dr Shaym. Old anti-SJW YouTube. He now does a movie-reviewing channel called Possum Reviews. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Except if you saw THIS line from my post. Part of the reason why I find a capacity for violence appealing is because not only do I feel more protected (I'm more on the feminine side as a man)... A gym chick and a guy who's more feminine emotionally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Then something must be pretty damn wrong with me, if I'm a man who looks for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?I'm talking about personality traits, not physicality. Although being strong and athletic does make acts of violence easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Well, I'm not looking for all-round aggression and violence. Like I said in the post, I don't like criminals and thugs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?"Manifests itself as overt masculinity." Like...how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 04:17 PM |
| 6 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?So you say it's only attractive in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 04:13 PM |
| 0 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?n of women who would be a complementary match for their particular taste is even far smaller. Why do you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Well, where do you say Aliens went right where most other "strong women" movies go wrong? What do you think Aliens is doing right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Yeah, I think for most people, abandoning gender norms doesn't work. Notice I said "most" and not "all." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?And what does this say about guys like me? Because trust me, I ain't the only one. Glances at the RoleReversal subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Ironically, I have an aunt and uncle who I and my brother went fishing with. I would like to try hunting once, or at least playing Airsoft. Too bad Yu-Gi-Oh is just as expensive a hobby! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?A male friend did not really like the fact that I did this, because it made me seem 'masculine' and he claims that many men feel a 'desire to protect' women when they are scared. Apparently the fact that I wasn't scared of a cockroach (as he put it 'strangely nonchalant') was in some way disturbing to him. (It disturbs even more of my friends that I have no fear of insects in general...) I assume your friends live in a more conservative state or country. And I can kind of understand how you fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?She was at a different school than me. And she was in the inner city when this happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Physical, but it was probably verbal too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?I don't think less of masochists, but the concept of finding sexual pleasure from receiving pain seems disturbing to me. It's not the people who have that kink I have a problem with; but the kink itself. And that second sentence was a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?She was getting physical because other students were harassing her. She was getting fucked with, so she defended herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Yeah, about that... And to be clear, I have ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTION of dating a violent criminal or a thug. And also, when I say a "capacity for violence", I also mean in the context of protecting themselves or other people, and the context of killing pests or hunting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in both genders, or only men?Well, I damn sure ain't no mascohist! That's unhealthy. And is that supposed to be the urban black version of King Of The Hill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in men and women, or only men?I said in one of the sentences that I won't date a criminal or a thug. I don't think we're talking about the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in men and women, or only men?What about women that hunt or are willing to kill pests? I included those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Is a capacity for violence attractive in men and women, or only men?Well, notice I included killing in the context of hunting or killing pests. Do you still think that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Do hormone levels determine if someone is dominant or not?ase sexual psychology of the brain. sexual aggression is caused by a ratio of estrogen to testosterone being in favor of testosterone during pregnancy, and can cause men and women to have opposite sex I see. What do you think is the case with me? What happened to my brain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Do hormone levels determine if someone is dominant or not?No, I'm not. I'm African-American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Do hormone levels determine if someone is dominant or not?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Do hormone levels determine if someone is dominant or not?Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Do hormone levels determine if someone is dominant or not?Then why the hell am I so unmasculine and attracted to masculinity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Yeah, well they seem to be pretty damn few and far between. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Yeah, as a feminine guy (personality-wise and submissive, I just look like a young teen due to being short)...I'm not doing so good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Yeah, and that I'm pretty much doomed. Feminine traits just aren't that attractive to me, which is pretty bad news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Honestly, the challenge probably isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Your research. So if I myself want a masculine partner... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Well, what about people like me and a lot of Red Pill men, who want the complete opposites of who we are? Gender polarity seems to be very important to a lot of people, based on what I've personally seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?The idea that opposites attract. People say that phrase for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Any advice for those passive, sub men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Personally, I'm a brainy guy who needs brawn in my gal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?So, guys with more brawn than brains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?I’m pretty feminine as a man. However I also prefer feminine women. I’m still single at 40 and never had a girlfriend. I think this is quite normal experience for guys who are feminine. Maybe go to r/RoleReversal? A lot of the women there are still feminine and would like someone like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?So in your case, you could go either way, power-wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?No, but statistically, men tend to be more career-oriented period; men tend to want to be the provider more. So when I say "career-oriented", I mean being focused on being a provider, especially the main one in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?How'd you find a guy like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Meaning who wears the pants/calls the shots. Who the more dominant partner/the partner who has the most power is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?What about who leads the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 04:15 AM |
| 4 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Well, I hope you've got a Catra costume! Then he can show you the honor of Grayskull! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?What about the power dynamic? Like, who calls the shots? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 03:34 AM |
| 6 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?I just ended up being the more dominant one usually, and I prefer it that way. I don’t think I am particularly more attracted to either one. I do value competence in all people though. Competence is important in not just the men I date, but all men and women that I choose to have around me. My boyfriend read this post, and started to call me a he-man. Then does that make him She-Ra? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Then you and your partner need to visit r/RoleReversal. You'd love it there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 03:06 AM |
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