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Butter. Trust me. Generous amounts of butter gently tossed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 03:41 AM
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I know with 100% certainty it won't work. Unfortunately there are some groups that will only learn the hard way. Stupidity must-have material consequences.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 02:52 PM
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The good news is that opportunity knocks to once again level the playing field. War is coming and so is a draft... So let's enroll women in the draft and require them to be 50% of our frontline troops. Mandate it. Then they can prove to us that gender constructs have all been a ghost in our heads and that men and women are the same :) We should start a petition. I am sure they will support our efforts to give them equal access to high-hazard combat roles and the rewards for serving in them.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 12:23 PM
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I think you probably are wrong, because she’s right about how women were historically treated. Can you expand on this? Maybe quantify it? I would like to see something to back up this assumption before we accept it as fact.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 12:19 PM
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Bullet dodged... not investment grade...
/r/AntiFeminists21/02/22 03:15 PM
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Then you might not have the real answer yet. Keep inquiring.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/22 03:11 PM
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Because they want ALL the attention for themselves. They are intolerant of the focus being anywhere other than on themselves.
/r/MensRights17/02/22 12:41 PM
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Yes, it kind of struck me as simply rude.
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 04:49 PM
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"You're a woman?"
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/22 11:27 AM
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Life hack: Ask her which one she does not want...
/r/AntiFeminists12/02/22 05:03 PM
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Wear it as a badge of honor
/r/MensRights08/02/22 12:26 AM
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Kind of hard to top that one! :)
/r/AntiFeminists07/02/22 05:24 AM
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Don't ever back down from stating your opinion... and if or when you discover you are wrong you own it. :)
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/22 03:10 PM
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If you haven't been banned anywhere then you haven't had the guts to express your opinion. You spoke up, you got banned... do be NOT ashamed. You had a strong opinion and were banned for it. Be proud that you weren't intimidated. Edit: Fixed the omitted word "NOT" Thank you to u/BrolyParagus!
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/22 02:47 PM
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There is wisdom in the above post! For the quality man, the woman's character and personality count far more than the clothes on her body.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/22 02:25 PM
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Bingo! On a long enough timeline things shine through. There is a huge crop of wine-drinking cat-owning condo/townhouse dwelling cautionary tales that today's 20 somethings are looking at and vouching not to become.
/r/MensRights06/02/22 02:06 PM
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Wear the ban as a badge of honor.
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/22 02:02 PM
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All of life is a gamble... you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. :) If you are coming to the point where you have run out of options (ex you are unlikely to see him again unless something is setup...) you really don't have much to lose. If you feel asking for his number is too much, then ask for his email. Send him a confirmation email to confirm you have it right... and make certain your phone number is in the signature line...
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 11:46 PM
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I am sorry, there are red flags all over this situation. Especially noteworthy are the money-related red flags which tend to be relationship killers. Also, note that red flags usually grow with time. Additional shopping before investing is warranted.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 11:17 AM
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Certainly will. And a willingness to relocate has been a great comfort.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 10:09 AM
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I hold the line at my family and household but I make it a point to give the leftists the microphone, the stage, and the spotlight. The more they talk, the crazier everybody sees they are. I have to admit it has been years since I have laughed so hard at political proposals. Some of the great messages they have put out, and are or will face accountability for hare: Defund the police! - (Our city didn't, we vote!) Ivermectin doesn't work! - (We bought it for our relatives) The Vaccine is safe - (…
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 03:47 PM
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Shhhhh! Be quiet. When your opposition is busy totally wrecking themselves do not interrupt them!
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 02:55 PM
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I think you'll find that this breakup may not necessarily be about the guy just not having time for her due to a new business venture. With this being the case, then yes, what I wrote is probably moot. As to why give her the means to argue with him... the title of the post was "How to get him back" and the first step to getting him back is getting a dialog open and changing how he views the situation; however, my who train of thought was based on the supposition he viewed the relationship as a t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 05:41 PM
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I would be wary of advising young women to put their entire life on hold and serve someone else, without a ring or even an indication that one is coming. 100% AGREED. Oh my yes, I am draconian :) in agreeing with you on these points! No plan, no ring, no way... What I wrote for the OP is how to argue with the guy... actually moving forward requires not only a rind but some form of a sanity check that this guy even has a shot at what he is trying. And by the way... I am not perfect. 3 years after…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 05:13 PM
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No Never worked at the company. Yes brought my paychecks home. She managed take-home pay of about $30k/year. Living with and married during Mid 20's at start Early 90's
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 04:50 PM
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Thank you. It worked out quite nicely. What you called doormat, I called unconditional supporter who enabled me to work 70 and 90 hours a week for years to build my first successful company. She was there in the trenches embracing the massive suck misery with me, doing what I described in the post and WAY more. She kept the house alive, I kept building the company. It enabled me to work like a dog. I would up taking a 9 figure buyout when the company bore fruit. She shared equally in the success…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 04:37 PM
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So you place no value on a full-time homemaker and assertive active partner in marriage? Do you say there is no dignity in this role?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 03:28 PM
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These are really big questions for which I don't think I have the answers. I am not qualified to answer questions about Asians as a group. As to why I get asked out, I am certain that race and ethnicity play into it somehow. After all, people certainly look at you. Worth noting, the personality and the presentation of the individual matter too. I would be very surprised if a Western guy would "bag" a quality woman just for being a western guy. It's been my experience that quality women are a lot…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 03:01 PM
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He changed his mind once, he can change his mind again. -He can decide to get out of a relationship with you, he can decide to get back in. If what he is telling you is true (he feels he cannot make the time commitment) AND you are determined that he is the one for you, then fighting male logic with male logic will likely be the best course. If you want to keep him, the approach in the above post is likely the way to go. In the fighting male logic with male logic (which we can coach and support …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 12:55 PM
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Sure
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/22 01:57 PM
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There is someone out there for everyone and you seem to be very thoughtful which strikes me as positive and advantageous for you. This is a quality a mature guy would likely appreciate, Fertility is only important with someone who would prefer to have more children, for men who have already had children and do not want more, it is a non-issue or even a positive. Looking at whether or not possible a man has already had children can help you to predict expectations but don't use it as the only fac…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/22 11:14 AM
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You are right now in what is normally remembered as the high libido part of the relationship. Think for a minute about what happens in 10-20 years when things "cool off" Please, consider carefully the probabilities this situation will result in happiness for you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 10:20 PM
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... please don't be masculine This is great advice for women. How is this good advice for men? When and where has this EVER worked for men? It's a sincere question.
/r/AntiFeminists25/01/22 12:58 PM
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Is it possible that somewhere in your thought process you have the expectation that you and your husband will be of equal capability in all areas? Let me tell you how this appeared in a relationship of mine. I run a few businesses and after 20+ years know them inside and out. My partner also had a professional career in a totally different subject matter area that I know nothing at all about. Knowing I am not an expert in my partner's line of work, I never offered advice on how to do what she di…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 03:32 PM
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You are welcome :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 05:51 PM
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I am a fairly HVM (6'4" developed bodybuilder, usually owning 2-3 businesses, advanced level ballroom dancer, dressed well). Women asked me out constantly and my calendar was usually full. It was not only completely acceptable for women to ask me out... women who did not ask me out never had a chance because I always had a backlog. I never really needed to ask anybody out unless I simply felt like the thrill of the hunt so to speak. The fantastic lady I am with now was not at all on my list of w…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 12:51 PM
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male unity of any kind can't exist without empathy. Agreed.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 11:32 PM
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Much agreed!
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 08:54 PM
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I’m 5”5 and around 130lbs. I don’t intend to lose any weight as this weight is healthy for me. I have clear skin, I’m often mistaken for being younger than I am and I like my hair as it is very thick and healthy. Hello LanaTownsend, How ironic that you are not sincere enough to read all of the OP's posts. Read what she wrote about herself...you know, further down in the threads. OP is a healthy weight, has clear skin, is often mistaken for being younger, and has thick and healthy hair. Does this…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 08:53 PM
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I hope I can offer you a ray of hope. Like everybody else here, I will speak from my own point of view and tell you what I think. So here it is: I am a 50 something, healthy, high value ($$$$) guy who is an experienced consumer of relationships (as most at this age are). Candidly, I think you sound like you would be a very high-value woman to a man that was serious about being in a great marriage. You have many positives in your favor: No extensive list of emotional scars from bad boyfriends You…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 07:21 PM
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It's called go where you are valued. I go to London, nobody looks twice at me. I go to Shenzhen I find women waiting in the lobby for me to come downstairs so they can meet me. Guess which of the two places I go when given a choice? It never struck me as racist, I just made myself available to a demographic that found me desirable and was thankful for it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 07:05 PM
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What can you do? Work all the overtime you can and buffer up some cash. You are going to need it during the battle ahead.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 11:18 AM
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We work out our differences, we unite, we move forward.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 04:41 PM
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If you've lost a family member, and you meet someone else who has just lost someone, and you can understand what they're going through because you can recall that same pain, then that's empathy. Absolutely agreed. Also helping random people you barely know is not the definition of empathy, it si something else. It is likely a result of empathy but it is not the condition of empathy :)
/r/MensRights17/01/22 04:25 PM
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Having looked at it, and a sincere thank you for staying in the conversation, I think I can wholeheartedly agree with you that empathy is a prerequisite of brotherhood.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 04:01 PM
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It could be we simply have a disagreement on the etymology of the terms. Empathy the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. Empathy might result in an inclination to help others. Helping random people you barely know is not the definition of empathy. You don't know the meaning of the terms, you are making $hit up, and expecting me to agree. Get out a dictionary.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 08:14 AM
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If that is what he chooses, then so be it. I certainly don't advocate being that kind of a pussy.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 08:08 AM
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I will take your point and revise what I said. Men operate on respect, not empathy. YES, men can feel empathy, but it's not the operating system. YES, men can feel empathy, but its not the operating system. If a man goes into a burning building to pull someone out it's loyalty, duty, and sense of community. I don't see empathy as a primary motivator, possibly secondary, but not primary.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 03:08 PM
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A Man carrying his fellow men to safety even when's unable to walk is Empathy. A man carrying fellow men to safety from a burning building is Empathy! This is not empathy, this is brotherhood.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 02:34 PM
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This is not how men work. We respect each other as a result of competition and performance. We do not empathize. We are a brotherhood based on respect. I say this with a lot of love: Stop being feminine and get with the program. You have it in you. :)
/r/MensRights16/01/22 12:04 PM
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Ballroom dance studio group lessons... Ducati motorcycle club... Porsche club...
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/22 03:48 PM
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Cut all ties and ghost her & her supporters. There is no fixing this. You will feel better and better every day and you won't miss the abuse.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 11:53 AM
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You are welcome. You show loyalty and integrity, two aspects of character that are in short supply everywhere today and which have been of extremely high value since the dawn of time.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 05:51 PM
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You are doing a pretty good job of figuring out the intentions of these guys and taking action to protect the integrity of your relationship. I can only hope my son will find a girl as thoughtful, considerate, and wise as yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 05:27 PM
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You might and that would strike me as a very smart move.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 02:20 PM
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You're right. It's a horrible game. So stop playing. Stop searching and let the system do the work for you. RedPillWomen are rare, highly attractive to like-minded men, and highly sought after by a certain type of man. Turn inwards and become the best version of yourself and then be present in places where you the type of men you seek frequent. Find the most social ballroom dance studio in your area and take group lessons a couple of nights a week. Maybe take an evening art course once in a whil…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 01:28 PM
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If you were my daughter I would tell you: You are worthy of a man who places you first, treats you honorably, is honest with you, and is loyally exclusive to you. Breaking up is painful, still it is less painful than locking into a bad relationship situation. Hold to your standards, walk in faith (meaning get out there and meet people), and you will attract the type of person who has the same standards.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 01:28 PM
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Like all things in relationships, communication to learn about each other's thoughts and values is important. So add this subject to the list of things you will discuss and learn more about. Then you can make an informed decision. BTW - It sounds like your guy might be moving through a learning curve where he is exploring... people can evolve in their thinking over time. Even if he were to read everything Red Pill, he will not necessarily choose the thoughts and beliefs. Either way, this is a gr…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 01:21 PM
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My son's summer reading lists are all from the red pill forum reading lists. He has seen the horrors of the family court system and we have discussed it in detail. He knows not to get married before 40 if ever. He knows the most deadly disease in the world is pregnancy. My son's first asset protection trust was set up with the first money I passed down to him.
/r/MensRights04/01/22 10:13 AM
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Make a business investment in a financially sophisticated attorney and start the planning/structuring now to make the division of assets down the road an non-destructive as possible,
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/21 07:23 PM
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That I can understand and appreciate as an important part of the system here. Going forward I will stick to it when inside of the /askMRP forum. Thank you for the explanation. It makes a lot more sense now.
/r/askMRP26/12/21 10:14 AM
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The offer of holding accountable was an offer of support and encouragement. It was intended that way and I think it was taken in the same way. It certainly wasn't a threat... What are you thinking?
/r/askMRP26/12/21 05:28 AM
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Amen Brother! We have your back!! The best is yet to come, but I am sure you already know that! Be bold and become the best version of yourself!
/r/askMRP26/12/21 03:45 AM
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How about you demand we hold you accountable for staying the course?
/r/askMRP26/12/21 02:50 AM
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Listen our brother: YOUR TURN WILL COME :) -Just not today or this year because you have gotta earn it first. YOU WILL BAG THE YOUNG HOTTIES -Just not until you earn your way to Alpha status through self-development, self-mastery, and investment which are years-long journies So, step back and enjoy the ride. Set your expectations to reality and get started. Focus on learning the ways of manhood, improving yourself, building your finances, and mastering the world around you. One day you will look…
/r/MensRights23/12/21 04:56 PM
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Agreed. I have worked in 3rd world countries where marriage at 14 years old was common and considered a best practice. Are we going to go liberate all of these 3rd world cultures? Toss out their laws and customs?
/r/MensRights20/12/21 03:20 PM
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It's a good point, but it wasn't intended as an exchange. It was simply one of their only so many hours in the day and if your spouse is going to spend those hours cleaning or doing something else, and you have the ability to control which of the two activities they need to spend their time on. Most people choose to exert influence in the direction of the outcome they prefer
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 05:24 PM
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Sure! Tell your husband you want a lot more "quality time" with him (wink while you say this) and that in order to get more "quality time" you need him to help out with "list of items" to make the time available. Most men will dive in and become super productive around the house when they understand they are freeing you up and preserving your energy for more "quality time" In some instances you might even find he does everything before you get home...
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 01:21 PM
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There is no shortage os AWESOME in the universe. Everything you have listed as desirable in your friend is developable in yourself. Work on yourself and become the best version of yourself... the HVMs will come calling! It is a lot of work but you can do it and you are worthy to take on the task! Ask questions as you go, the community is here to assist and encourage you!
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/21 09:18 PM
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Don't invest in this guy. All the flags are there that you are not satisfied with him and do not value what he has to offer. Its about that simple. For BOTH of your sakes, break it off. You go find someone that meets your standards and allow him to find someone he can invest in with some hope of a positive return.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/21 07:31 PM
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Deciding to have your finances in order is a sign of mature thinking. Having a child is an incredible amount of (very worthwhile) work. Trying to hold down a job and take care of a child (even as a couple) is a huge burden. You are not crazy to show concern about whether or not your will need to immediately return to work. You have a good head on your shoulders and should be praised for your clear-mindedness. So think it through and make solving the items you need to deal with (a less expensive …
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 06:42 PM
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That's a great question and there are probably 3 ways to look at it: her way, my way, and what really happened... so in the interests of fairness, I will just say we are divorced. During the ensuing years since the divorce, we have both worked to have respectful interactions for the sake of the children and our own sanity. I am going to keep it that way :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 12:52 PM
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Supposedly men have "wife goggles" which means no matter how old & ugly you get, they'll still see your young hot self in their mind's eye. I think this is pretty...optimistic. I beg to differ. In my mind, my ex-wife, the mother of my kids, is still the same girl I met outside the train station decades ago. Has she grown older in the years that have passed? Certainly... but it's nothing I bother to notice. While there are certainly exceptions, men have a strong tendency to remember and think of …
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 03:48 PM
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How about you get started by making your own decisions? Seriously. Make a decision, act on it and own the outcome. Either way, you win.
/r/askMRP12/10/21 03:47 PM
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They get annoyed because they do what they do to gain ATTENTION. They do not give a damn about the argument or seeking the truth. Anything that distracts from them gaining more attention is put down; therefore, bringing up a male victim is a distraction to the outcome they are seeking - more attention.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 02:10 PM
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They are not poorly informed, rather they are opposed and they have an agenda to push.
/r/MensRights01/10/21 11:51 AM
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I can't speak for the community as a whole... as someone who has reached their 50's I can share a few observations on what I have observed over the decades. Personalities, strengths, and weaknesses tend to vary in intensity over time while maintaining the same direction. As to specific mistakes... People can and do learn not to repeat specific errors by creating new rules and living by them. Examples of this might be "I don't drink anymore" "I workout daily" "I found religion" though you have to…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/21 12:06 PM
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Praise what you like about him and you will get more of it. If you like his arms and upper body... show interest in them. Magically, he will do some exercises to enhance them... when he works out, notice. He will do more. Men are surprisingly easy to steer with praise for the woman who is constructive and consistent.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/21 01:17 PM
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There is a time to walk away and there is a time to run. Name calling? Really? -You have a man-child on your hands. Go get yourself a man. You are not going to fix this situation, you can only delay the day of reconing.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 10:34 AM
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I’m clearly inexperienced with this type of thinking, but I do know that my mindset has changed rapidly over the past year. Two years ago, I’d fall into deep, toxic love with guys I studied with… guys who always became insecure and belittled me etc. Now, I’m truly realising that these ‘partnerships’ aren’t good enough for me. I’m truly realising the calibre of masculine man I desire (and deserve/‘can get’ with my looks), and part of this journey is realising that things come at a significant cos…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 10:16 PM
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My ears are open... and maybe we have departed onto a different track... Are we talking about HVMs? Or Ultra ($$$$$) HVMs working in finance specifically sizing up 28 vs 23 year old women? Certainly, there are other pools of HVMs... though the group I am referring to has been pretty consistent over the years, and as a group, we've been pretty good at predicting which couples were going to stand the test of time. OMG the stories there are to tell... I am not trying to be a complete jerk... but in…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 09:51 PM
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I just don’t want to dismiss women who have other interests and individual goals as being “less good” I circle back around to RPW is for everyone. Agreed. There is someone for everyone... Decisions have consequences... and you have to understand your competition for limited resources if you want to consummate a deal. I am hoping we have, even if only in some small way, increased the OP's probability of success.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 09:18 PM
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”A late 20’s bride who wants to give part-time attention to the kids isn’t a very competitive offer.” This is a really dismissive and judgemental statement. Welcome to the Red Pill and getting the straight truth. I work side by side with the exact guys we are discussing here and I know exactly what I am talking about. The passion for biology and being educated are major pluses. Shortchanging the kids with a part-time mom is an absolute MINUS in a game where the smallest defects get her sidelined…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 09:01 PM
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Thank you for the chance to have an open dialog and explore the topic, it shows you have good character and are open-minded! You wrote: "Based on your reply, would you say that a woman being truly passionate about something APART from homemaking/kids/her femininity is a virtually guaranteed detractor for a HVM? Always?" Great question! The thinking will probably be along the lines of "Passion and intelligence are welcome. Leaving the kids at daycare or latch-key is less than what is best for the…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 04:39 PM
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Here's the tough love: Ask yourself, why would a HVM compromise and accept less than a full-on dedicated wife? The guy you are describing, if indeed he is a top-of-the-top guy who works in finance, is going to have top of the top expectations... and a late 20's bride who wants to give part-time attention to the kids isn't a very competitive offer. He's going to be looking for a wife and not going to be inclined to spend his hard-earned life being a patron of the arts. (Sorry)
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 03:37 PM
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While a guy cannot transform a hoe into a housewife... that does not mean a hoe cannot transform herself into a housewife, though it is likely to be a LONG journey to rewire your worldview. ​ Stay the course. It probably won't be fast or easy, though it will probably be well worth it!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 12:43 PM
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I will keep it simple: "It's already over." I will keep it simple: "It's over."our mother, and get a girlfriend 1/2 your mother's age. Trust me, in a year your dad will know it was the best move he ever made. Your mom, not so much.
/r/askMRP02/08/21 09:23 PM
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Sorry I was so crass... the message needed to be clear. It's the tough love brother and I am glad you hear it. Go read No More Mr. Nice Guy, start lifting really heavy weights, clean up your diet, get into monk mode for a while and things will start sorting out.
/r/askMRP28/07/21 12:51 PM
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It wasn't amazing, we had a lot of disagreements but she checks almost all my boxes for ltr WTF? Get your head out of your a$$ and raise your standards.
/r/askMRP28/07/21 12:15 PM
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Read this advice 10x. This is the big picture. Lifting, working, and getting girls are all preparations for the big move: Creating your legacy in the form of your son(s). Most will not progress to the point that they are ready for this level. Additionally, many will choose not to move to this level and that is OK.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 11:59 AM
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Develop some boundaries. His mom is feeding him poison and he needs the straight truth.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 11:12 AM
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With my test is dialed-in to 1200-1300, clean diet, and heavy lifting I gain healthy mass consistently. Body fat from 34% to less than 15% in 3 months and no starvation. I pin my test daily using syringes I fill in weekly batches. Peptides & Comments - Each 1 taken 1 at a time spaced over a year+ BPC-157 - 1-month cycle & wow! fixed aches and pains I thought were just "normal" across 6 different long-term injuries I had learned to live with. It was astonishing. HCG - Dropped after 3 months for n…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 11:10 AM
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Live between Baltimore and DC in Columbia, MD. It's the place you want to be...
/r/seduction21/06/21 05:54 PM
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Maybe you are just in recovery or stealth monk mode? You are doing the right things and you gotta stay on the path. Keep on doing what you are doing, listen to your mind & body, and you will feel it when the time is right. I went through something similar for a couple of years once. Later on, I realized I was simply focused on working the grind to achieve a much higher goal and did not want to be distracted. Stay on the path and/or take the workouts & career move up a notch. Always keep upping y…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:43 PM
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Never have I heard more toxic advice from a mother to a son. Hard next her.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:20 PM
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If your T is low then TRT + strategic employment of peptides is absolutely life-changing. Other than buying Bitcoin at $4, nothing in my life has changed so much for so little effort and expense. TRT is my 2nd best investment ever.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 08:26 PM
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Act like you know nothing Hire the best divorce lawyer in town Instruct your lawyer to take the most aggressive path possible to protect your interests Take action, follow the lawyer's advice to the letter, and get the divorce finished. The element of surprise is critical. So act fat dumb and happy.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:50 PM
1

Then go where you will be motived. How about a 2-year military enlistment. That will give you a change of scene, money in your pocket, and some shock therapy. Stop being bored and without purpose my friend.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:00 PM
18

You don't answer them. You don't need to. There is never ever any need to justify yourself to others unless you have broken a commitment you made. You have acted as a man of honor. If it were me, the most I would say might be "I wasn't happy and I wasn't going to cheat on her, so I broke it off." -That's it. Well played.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 11:56 AM
49

Don't buy the bullshit. What you are talking about is the dream they sell. By contrast, it seems you got a real education, which is what you were there to do. Now put your education to work, make bank, and watch as the world comes around to you. Lift heavy, eat clean, redpill educate yourself in the sidebar. Continue the grind until the payoff. Men are built, not born. Keep doing the work.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:14 AM
15

Fantastic, now your eyes are open. Now, let's get your a$$ to a 6 figure income in a couple of years (or less). 1) Google "free code camp", find one you can take fully remote, sign up, and get started today. 2) Eat clean, workout hard, and work the code camp exercises 4 or 8 hours a day seven day a week. 3) Inside of 4 months the code camp will have referred you to a full-time job. Take the job. Now you are making money. 4) Shift to 8 hour works day, 2 hours study/day, eat clean and workout dail…
/r/MensRights18/06/21 08:18 AM
1

Man give a dental exam to gift horse. News at 6... Stop fighting a good thing unless there is a real problem.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:53 PM
1

Now you understand that most people are in situations they created for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 12:46 PM
1

Word!
/r/askTRP11/06/21 05:56 PM
6

Hmmm... we define things differently. You take the time and effort to prepare and motivate yourself to be a great lover... and you do not demand the same in return from her. -That's blue pill to me. You backed down from taking what you wanted, you backed down from her offer to comply, now you are running around and whining while she attempts to get back into compliance with your frame. Do your job: Lead and hold frame. -You should probably just go bang her right now and make it a point to do so …
/r/askMRP11/06/21 05:26 PM
4

If you are willing to work through the considerable baggage and fully understand that you will never put the specter of the past behind you, move ahead. Otherwise, break it off and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:10 PM
3

Stay no contact. It was an attempt to get attention. Do not make the attention-seeking attempt successful.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:54 PM
4

Chasing a failed investment is a great way to maximize your losses. A great son-in-law will take care of you in old age. She isn't going to.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:49 PM
7

Dependable friends are a great asset but they are not a necessity. Sometimes you need to walk along and improve yourself, possibly for years on end, before you qualify for a new peer group. Once you enter into a higher quality peer group, you might form friendships, you might not. My most powerful relationships are built on mutual respect that leads to friendly behavior. They are not based on being friends. -It's a key difference.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 12:32 PM
2

I know you're supposed to be stoic and happy entertaining yourself but it's also true that dependable friends are an essential network for quality of life. Be careful about the things you tell yourself, this statement is not true.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 11:48 AM
5

Two words: "victim culture"
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:15 PM
0

Share your shock and dismay that she has such an unhealthy attitude towards the most healthy and enjoyable part of life. Tell her that you hope she gets better soon and then give her your condolences on her ailment. Suggest she maybe calls you if she ever recovers. Say this with a straight face and mean it. If she immediately backs off, then bring up that she's not out of the woods yet. Point out everything that has been too mild in the bedroom, mention that breaking off the sex might be a good …
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:57 PM
14

The best is yet to come, you have no idea what lies around the next turn! It sucks now because you are in lag time - The time between making the changes and getting the benefits. You are now properly positioned. Stay the course and you are gonna be surprised.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 05:18 PM
1

Hooray again. Stay on it, the best is yet to come!
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 02:09 PM
1

It will only take you a day if you are working out hard enough. -Put on a 40lb pack and go walk 10 miles... or 15 then sit down and see what happens...
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 01:23 PM
1

Stop popping pills and looking for salvation in a bottle. Clean up your diet and work out until you are exhausted. Stay the course on diet and workout, you WILL get tired, sleep will follow.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 12:56 PM
16

Hooray! The learning process is started. You did not get the result you wanted (yet) and that's OK because you are learning. DO NOT STOP TRYING. Keep coming back, sharing your reports, and getting feedback to accelerate your learning. BTW, you are lifting heavy, right? <hint, hint>
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 12:53 PM
2

Go read "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck"
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:07 AM
2

With time, you will come to resemble a composite of the 5-7 people you spend the most time with. Choose the people you spend your time with wisely. I still see old friends from time to time, but I spend my days with business owners and strong leaders who are my peer group. This is not an accident. You don't have to cut anybody off, just don't allow them to be a peer influencer.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 11:51 AM
1

Stay the course. If you are doing what you say you are doing, this routine will bring you success. Success and transformation do not come quickly or easily. By continuing, you will figure out what you are not yet doing right. Stay the course, follow the plan, transform yourself, and earn success. Push through. You got this.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 11:42 AM
2

So i say yes and now I'm entering to her frames... Right here is where you went off-track. You are not joining them in their frame, they are joining you in your frame...
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:00 PM
2

YOu change yourself by ACTUALLY DOING THINGS, not by reading about them: 1) Workout with very heavy weight - daily 2) Eat a clean diet and a lot of it - daily 3) Learn and advance your career - daily 3) Learn and advance your career
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:56 PM
7

I agree. Spend $100 and have your Test checked. Put the question out of your mind.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:48 PM
1

This is sad but tends to be extremely true.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:18 PM
1

Stop trying to fake it. Be it. Lift painfully heavy weights for a couple of years while eating clean. Increase your income by 400% Build your intellect. Become superior. Stop the damn acting.... and watch what happens naturally.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:31 PM
1

Yes, they exist. NO, YOU WILL NEVER FIX THEM. Stop wasting time. Hard pass.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:26 PM
43

While reading and listening to your post the vibe I get is that you don't know what you want so I would automatically sort you into the short term or just for fun category. If you had written that you were determined to become a high-value wife for a high-value man, were working hard to understand what your man would need from the relationship, watching your diet and exercising so you are a healthy person to bear children, and moving yourself through a wide variety of social settings so you can …
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 01:14 PM
2

Thank you for the tip, I am going to have to google on that!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 09:04 PM
5

Take the job. The reason you take jobs is to learn what you need to learn so you can start your own business and make bank. Got for it, learn and grow! Selling is a key skill.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:54 PM
1

Very good points! Keep in mind that we aren't trying to reach all women... we are just getting you in front of enough women that you can be approached. Also notable, you are probably more interested in the women who are getting out and doing things (active) than you are the women who are shut-ins... :)
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:03 PM
1

Google bodyweight exercises and do them daily when you get out of bed from wherever you are. Want proof they work? Google "prison cell workout" and look at what guys accomplish. Stop using the "I need a gym" excuse. *Tough Love* brother. Get shredded and let nothing stand in your way.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:06 PM
2

It all depends on your state of mind and your relationship with money. For example, if you need a traffic cop in your life to tell you not to blow your $100K savings on a car, it's probably money well spent. On the other hand, if you are a natural saver, you might not need it. Example: I have been very aggressive about driving income and yes, I bought a lot of expensive toys - AND I always paid CASH for them. I also have been buying silver with both hands since $3 an ounce over the last 25+ year…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:02 PM
1

Write down your workout plan and diet plan. Create a schedule Keep records. Don't ever skip a part or either plan.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:04 PM
1

Agreed. And don't force me to quote Yoda again: There is no try, only do or do not.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:18 PM
5

Lift weights? Yes. ....but you need to be lifting heavy and doing compound moves. By the end of my second set, I am shaking and trying not to vomit when I put down my weights. It's an all-out effort where you totally engage everything you have. The body gets rock hard strong, real strength. And extended time bedroom fun becomes possible and easy. My own hypothesis is that a lot of ED stems from wanting to get done early because you are tired. As a bonus, when you have real strength you can do th…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/21 12:57 PM
2

The wider your circle of activities, the more visible you are, the more who will approach you with IOIs. The wamenz are not going to track you down in your living room. You gotta get out there and be seen.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:36 PM
1

...and you were not smart enough to demand the two of them come over so you could prove them wrong in a group setting. :) Lost opportunities. Where's your swagger. Rookies kill me.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:24 PM
18

You are learning, resolve to not do it again, and stop rethinking it. Time to next the LTR, you are never going to recover your frame with her and fix the situation. If anything the shit tests you previously failed will get worse going forward. Hard pass on the relationship. End it. Block and ghost. Get back to the heaviest workout you can handle, clean diet, career advancement, and self-improvement. Come back to spinning plates when you are refreshed, have analyzed your lessons, and are feeling…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:21 PM
3

The Penthouse Forum is reborn...
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:36 AM
2

It was his to f******, he had a good thing going and the only thing he needs to do is get back on the horse and start going in the right direction again.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:47 AM
2

A self-inflicted death spiral..
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:15 AM
3

Your problem is that you make excuses. Take extreme ownership of your problems. Google the term. Straighten your $hit out. You are screwing up a great situation and it is your fault. Effective immediately: 1) Body weight workout daily to exastion 2) Clean diet, even if it is no more than beans & rice 3) All out effort on your academics until degree completion 4) Monk mode until your shit is sorted. Stop making excuses/ Own your life.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:53 PM
19

Can we get an AMEN! on this one!!!!
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:38 PM
5

Here's the quick fix: 1) Increase the intensity of your workouts 2) Get serious about you macros and meal prep 3) Become an absolute master of your job 4) Study the sidebar or do a character enhancing activity, and do it all out If you do all of the above you are not going to have time to feel lonely. As you continue the above, you will become interesting and the world will show an interest in you.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:04 PM
5

My advice would be to learn what the kind of man you are seeking is looking for rather than looking for someone who is what you would like them to be. High-value men are extremely demanding when they do not get what they need. On the other hand, when high-value men get what they need they are loyal and abundant providers. If you embrace the reality of what makes them happy, you might be shocked how much you enjoy the relationship you can have together. Pro tip: High-value men are extremely good …
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/21 04:39 PM
3

This is super healthy introspection! You are asking questions that will lead you in the right direction and on this forum, you will probably find the guidance you are seeking, so let me mention a small thing to help you translate advice into action. Brace yourself, the actions you need to take are going to require resolve from you. Likely you will need to change your lifestyle, your current relationship, and adopt a long-term focus. These changes will take a lot of willpower if you focus on resi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/21 02:55 PM
1

As you accumulate power and capability, it will become more practical for you to choose a mission. Here's an example.... for years I have red-pilled the summer interns at our company, I know I have saved at least a few... And now that I am a bit older with a few more toys, in this case, a large ocean-going yacht, I am starting to do Red Pill adventure voyages with the purpose of enabling men to spend time in a challenging, hardcore, male environment as a means of discovering their masculinity an…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:37 PM
19

You know what happened. She decided that you are not enough to be her one and only. Pro tip: You never will be. Some other guy(s) most likely hammered her while she was off with her friends. This is not an investment-grade situation. Hard pass. Break up & ghost. Get your ass in gear. *Tough love brother* You have seen her true colors. This cannot be fixed and it will only get worse.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:21 PM
2

Some things you will agree with, some things you will disagree with, and some things you have not yet learned enough to agree with.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:38 PM
2

Great question! You feed your body with food You feed your mind with ideas. Reading allows you to live the experiences of other people and to learn from their experiences. BTW you don't have to agree with what you read to learn from it (ex: wow I am glad I am not like that!). Studying and learning while change and evolve you in ways big and small. And that is how it impacts your character.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:34 PM
3

If you want success you have to EMBRACE the grind. Part of my food plan is a bowl of oatmeal daily with protein powder. I freaking hate it but I eat it every day because I need it to recover. I suck it up and do it. Clear the trash from your mind, put a list on the wall, and work the list daily. Embrace the grind.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:47 PM
3

My god that is complicated. Try this: 1) Did you work out heavy and hard yet today? If no, then do it now. 2) Diet you eat clean and healthy today? If no, then start. 3) Did you work on improving your job or career today? If no then work on it for an hour 4) Did you improve yourself or your character today? If no, then go read the sidebar Do these things EVERY DAY and after a year or two, you won't believe how far you have come. Throw your complicated crap out the window, just let it go. It's a …
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:14 PM
8

Credibility, a lifetime to create, a nanosecond to destroy. The only way to regain it is to disappear for a couple of years and then re-appear, though to be honest, even this doesn't work so well.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:07 PM
1

Sure, PM me anytime. If needed/faster we can even do a call.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 02:20 PM
1

Look Bro... You need to harden up and put yourself first. Exercise first thing in the morning when you wake up, not later if you have energy. If you are going to be low energy, it will be at work, not during your workout. Clean up your diet. For a long time, I packed beans and rice with some pork shoulder because it was the only clean food I could afford. Got a few plastic containers you can carry? Good you can eat clean. & no, it won't taste great but you are determined to build yourself, right…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:42 PM
1

Perfect! Thank you!
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:23 PM
1

This is not something you plan, it is something you work towards every day. You push forward as much as you can every opportunity you get. You work your ass off and avoid distraction. You get up again when you stumble or err. You go in the right direction. You walk in faith and invest in deferred gratification. There is no schedule or plan, there is only constantly going in the right direction as fast as practical.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:51 AM
1

You just let it go and choose to act differently. From there it is a matter of time. You might also want to consider moving somewhere new and starting over with a new social circle, though beware your habits will follow you.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:47 AM
1

Are you supplementing with a combo of pea protein / malted rice protein? Or something else? I have been doing hydrolyzed whey with a lot of success but would also like to get the dairy out of my diet, I have struggled to find a good alternative source. Any suggestions?
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:45 AM
2

What do you bring to the table? Probably not much *tough love* So here is your new plan, start today: Google bodyweight exercises and workout every day, minimum 15 minutes. 1 hour of time applying for positions in your industry, every day Clean up your diet Start saving aggressively and lower your cost of living This will get you started and end the drifting you are currently engaged in. The rest will follow.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:39 AM
2

I have had to give up believing the fairy tales I was told about how relationships work. Then I had to throw away my rose-colored glasses. I have to give up doing what I wanted so that I could do what was needed. Finally, I had to give up my eat whatever the hell you want to eat diet. There is no way in hell I am going to lift heavy and then starve my recovery or get fat. -I am probably typing this so I can delay eating my bowl of oatmeal + 50g of protein power for just another 2 minutes...
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:33 AM
2

Look at what people do not what people say. Develop your body to the maximum of your genetic potential allow and enjoy being fit. Benefits will follow...
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:25 AM
1

Let me explain it this way: You come to me and you say that you want to do something that's a bad idea, a really bad idea. In this hypothetical, you tell me you want to become an addict; furthermore, you tell me that you want to become addicted to both heroin and crack at the same time. You ask my thoughts and what I recommend. I respond that you 100% can become an addict to both heroin and crack at the same time, though I point out it might be better to go straight to the final result. I take y…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:59 AM
6

This is a false choice. Stop bullshitting yourself.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:53 AM
2

I second all of the comments on this thread regarding mission, let me add a new angle to it: distraction. At one of my lowest points 20 or so years back, I had a thriving business, 2 houses, several high-end cars, a yacht, a boat, and women. I got tired of it and I hated my life. After thinking about it I realized my business and my lifestyle owned me, I did not own them. I spun off the complicated parts of my life. The houses, cars, and everything that was a time/energy suck were done away with…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:51 AM
1

Stop lying, everything else will sort out.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:13 AM
3

For extra point utter the phrase "I accept your terms of engagement, let's step outside" and, most importantly, mean it.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:11 PM
27

Chad dumped her. Any other questions? :) Edit: grammar
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:06 PM
6

I would have him read the sidebar and then quiz him on the results. I would buy him a heavy set of dumbells and a weight bench and teach him how to lift. I would teach him how to eat clean. I would get him a job in a serious trade and then explore higher education if he was interested.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:01 PM
6

Isn't this kind of like asking how often I want a slot machine to pay off? :)
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:28 PM
1

Well, you see the problem. You are either in or out. Don't get down on her for having accepted the message you are putting out. If you are changing what she can expect from you, think it over, get clear about the new standard, and clearly communicate it to her.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:08 PM
4

I am in my 50's and I am not having any leftovers. I get top-shelf. Lifestyle, finances, dialed-in body, a full understanding of what I am worth... and 30 years of learning how the game with women actually works. Women approach me. Zero OLD.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:48 PM
1

Then I suggest moving to a state where people spend a lot more time at the beach.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:23 AM
1

I think you have to communicate directly with her and accept that the message will probably end the relationship. Have an abundance mentality and be ready to move on.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:22 AM
19

You don't. Instead, you change your focus. Enjoy seeing and spending time with them and accept that it is a "while it works" arrangement. Edit: grammar
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:19 AM
1

Your penance shall be to apologize for being a shmuck, pay for the fridge, soft pass her, and ghost her forever. Then you will straighten your $hit out (body/diet/mind/money) before you re-enter dating. Do these and you will be forgiven.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:22 PM
1

*Tough love & truth\* Mistake #1: Thinking you can negotiate with her biological clock/impending baby rabies. When the time is right to land a LTR she will say or do almost anything to lock you down. Mistake #2: Thinking logic/explaining your intentions will change anything. It won't. This is going to end in a train wreck and it will be your fault for allowing it.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:17 PM
2

Don't ever blame the girl if the sex life is meh. Step it up and then she will up her game. Develop a ripped six-pack that draws the eyes of other women... You are not giving her anything to be afraid of losing.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:12 PM
1

So to be clear: Aren't you glad to be ghosted so you were able to stop wasting time on people you were never going to meet? Sort and move ahead. Useful tactic: have a life and do interesting things. Invite them to join you... go anyway if they don't...
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:08 PM
67

It's not your turn yet. Stop pissing away time, opportunity, and money chasing women you are not prepared to handle. Focus on yourself: body, diet, money, & intellect for 10 years. In your 30's and beyond the women will be chasing you...
/r/askTRP19/05/21 10:27 PM
1

Great question! There is a huge Testosterone Replacement Therapy community. TRT is a common practice for people 40+ and increasingly common for people in their 20's and 30's who have symptoms of low testosterone. I do TRT myself. My starting testosterone serum was 459 and I had some of the symptoms you described. I got on TRT and not have testosterone serum levels of 1250-1300 on my bi-monthly bloodwork. I can and do have sex 2x daily with no problem maintaining high-quality erections for a half…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 10:02 PM
1

When you have money is when you learn about trust funds...
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:56 PM
1

Don't want to get her pregnant? pull out On a more serious note, if these things are happening your frame is weak or your value is not high enough.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:08 PM
5

Full Stop! The reason they tell you is never the reason. Stop trying to figure it out. Pass on this one & move on.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:57 PM
1

You can't handle the truth ;) with a "you're going to have to do the work if you want to figure it out...." follow up to whatever is said
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:25 PM
1

Ok.... so let me make sure I understand what you are saying. You are competing with guys who have made massive long term investments into their position in the heirarchy. You are new on the scene and have not yet made much investment and you are expecting immediate success? What could go wrong? :) Lift, eat clean, improve yourself, and elevate yourself so you have real status and the rest will follow. Just do the work, you will be fine. Really you will. Don't let this get you down.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:22 PM
3

Tough love headed your way as truth bombs. You are lazy. Got something awesome and exciting sexy you want to do? Great! Be a man, plan it, and bring it to life with your girl. She seems to be investing in you and you are being lazy. You are seeking other people to create the excitement you won't make for yourself. Don't blame her for the fact that you won't do the work necessary to deliver on and live your fantasies out with her. Now you know what you need to do. Time to step up and deliver. Gro…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:17 PM
0

If you think this question can be answered with the information provided, you might have some learning to do :)
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:13 PM
1

Time to throw a flag on this play! Here's the bottom line: the situation sucks and you don't like it. Totally fine. Do what makes you feel better. If leaving makes you feel better, do it. If riding it out for another week works better for you then do it.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:12 PM
3

What are your numbers?
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:09 PM
1

No, not at all. They just use them for sexual gratification. You might think I am joking but read carefully and you will see the truth in the statement.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:03 PM
20

Two issues: Your boundaries have been violated. Your frame is broken because you yielded. You will not recover in her eyes. Time to learn from your error and move on. That means "end it" Likely monkey branching in action, probably related to number 1. You have already lost. Cut the investment and start over elsewhere.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:01 PM
2

You need to raise your ambitions so they consume you better. Increase the weight at the gym and find a way to lift it. Revise your diet Push yourself to learn at work and at home. Do these things and you will have so much invested in yourself that you will refuse to settle for less than you are worth. ...and you are worth it, you just haven't convinced yourself yet.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:53 PM
0

I am 193cm tall. I grew 21cm after 17 years old. I ate the normal foods my family cooked plus I supplemented my diet with 2 liters of whole milk daily & an inexpensive multivitamin for about 2 years. -This was the only high-quality food I could afford.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:50 PM
2

On the presumption, you want to grow as much as your genetics will support, make sure you maximize the amount of protein you take in and have a healthy diet. If you want to validate this, google protein intake and teenage growth rates.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:44 PM
21

One of the great realizations of growing older is that the greatest waste of time you will ever engage in is trying to change other people. You can already see the situation is not working. Move on and stop letting her live rent-free in your head.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:41 PM
2

Full stop. -Stop reacting. You don't mind, it don't matter. Either don't care or stop caring. For real. It will clear up on its own.
/r/askMRP18/05/21 09:33 PM
3

You're not dazed and confused, you are recalibrating. Useless time sucking activities have left your mind and now you need something to replace the idle thought space. Time for you to go on a vision quest and get yourself something new to occupy your thoughts. Make the quest something that strains you and forces you to clear your mind. This will make a space for new thoughts. This is not a punishment, this is a reward. You are at the point you have earned it.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:52 PM
6

You are seeing things for the way they are. Asking why is a waste of time. Focus on improving yourself until they are chasing you. -That's the easy way :)
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:47 PM
5

Go hang out with her. If you are not comfortable taking her to your place, then get a hotel room for the night...
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:37 PM
20

This gift horse, self-delivering on a golden platter, is yours and yours alone to screw up.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:30 PM
3

I am sure you're right. LOL! Now that she knows you have a strong frame, you are probably insanely attractive to her. She will probably convert from a plate into a stalker :) Enjoy the ride brother :)
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:26 PM
4

Perhaps no one ever told her "no" ?
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:48 AM
1

Drive hard and go for it!
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:55 PM
2

Stop ducking the real issue: 1) Workout 2) Eat right 3) Improve yourself ...every day. The rest will follow. Stop attempting shortcuts, you have already proven they don't work.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:09 PM
172

You might be getting women who are "dating for dinner..."
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:06 PM
1

Try a six-pack or a twelve-pack if necessary.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:33 PM
2

If she said "somewhere closer" it sounds like she is trying to work around a problem and find a way to make it happen. Suggest a new place of your choice in the suggested area, provided of course she will wear some nice heels (cocky funny delivery, and offer a time.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:31 PM
2

Learn a new skill: "How to sell your business,cash out, and retire" Financing is super easy now and it has never been easier to sell out.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:24 PM
3

I don't give investment advice but I will tell you what I am doing with my own money right now and I will tell you why. There are very few investments for which the train has not already left the station. Silver and gold are two that have been largely while still having 20x potential. I see little chance silver will go down more than 20%. I see a likely hood it will go up 1000% or more. I am completing a major cash-sucking project that for a few more months, leaves me with little spare cash (pay…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:20 PM
4

Exactly. Now your head is in the right spot.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:32 PM
11

I hear you. Don't let the Covid remote thing hold you back. I also work remotly and just finished a SAVAGE workout over the last 2.5 hours while I listened to my monday breifings. Its very unlikely I would hit the gym for 2.5 hours daily... but remote work gives me the time... it the extra workout time is showing! 2 key points - 1) No matter what happens, turn it to your advantage. Be savage. 2) Learn to invest and build your business from home. DO NOT FORCE INVESTMENTS! Learn to invest... Learn…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:22 PM
31

Ok Shittyfuckdick, we are off to a good start. I am going to go for the low-hanging fruit in this comment, then we will go after the deeper stuff that will take more time. Get yourself a new account name and show yourself some respect. If you don't respect you then nobody else ever will. Get some balance in your life. You are working out and that is the right thing (Can we have an AMEN from the community please!!!). You are lifting hard and your body SMV is going up! Correct me if I am wrong....…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:21 PM
2

I have mixed thoughts. No specific plans for 5-10 yeasr in the future have every worked out for me the way I planned. On the other hand choosing the direction I will head when given the opporunity has worked very well for 30 years. Examples include: Always take the opportunity to learn more Choose to explore all opportunities Follow the good opportunites- most of the things that were most profitable for me I have no desire to do, they just paid out well. God bless those that follow their passion…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:32 PM
2

Excellent brother. Then you STAY THE COURSE. Right now you are in lag time. Lag time is the time between when you start taking action and when the action started to get results. The reality is the for most of us, myself included, that it is a 2 year journey to make the amount of improvement we need to shift our reality enough to start seeing results. Stay the course. Push yourself. the work pays off. You are worth it!
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:10 AM
8

Having built several companies and made serious money I find your statement shocking and in contrast with my own expericnce. I have never seen someone build a massive organization/business/cash flow with anything less than a 100% focus, absolute intensity, and ruthless attention to detail. Nothing of high value comes quick and easy. If you are not willing to work your ass off long, hard, and smart it is never going to happen. Ditch the fairy tales and join the men in the trenchs slugging it out …
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:00 AM
1

No not an all if you have built out yourself and your life.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:55 AM
0

You don't get it. You have the process reversed. First you build yourself: mind, body, finances, & power. Then they come to you and signal IOI's. They are not coming to you because you have not completed building yourself. Sorry bro, that's the *tough love* Lift some plates so you can stack some plates.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:54 AM
1

Just move on and end the distraction. She is living rent free in your head and robbing you of time and energy you need to spend building yourself.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:51 AM
17

Add more time and intensity to your workout routine Clean up your diet and prep your meals. Eat clean. Go to the side bar and educate yourself every day Increase the invesment steps 1-3 until you stop hampstering If you continue steps 1-3, opportunity will come to you and you won't look back.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:50 AM
4

Fine point here... Judging them, no. Why waste the time and energy. You are only going waste your own energy. Filtering them? Yes 100% you filter everyone to determine if and where they will have a place in your reality. No one shall occupy space in your mind or life unless they are part of your mission.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:47 AM
1

You don't. Instead you spend your time improving yourself (learning), adding and extra heavy workout set, and eating an even more clean diet because you have the time to do these things. Once the lockdown ends, you should be hitting the streets in beast mode.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:44 AM
0

Empire never comes cheap.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:03 AM
3

The key to success is found in your daily routine. Write this in the sky. There is no greater truth in determining outcomes.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 09:13 AM
8

Hard Pass
/r/askTRP16/05/21 03:33 AM
1

Hell yes brother, stay on the path. This is the way!
/r/askTRP15/05/21 11:34 AM
9

You are making yourself crazy. -Stop it. They are living rent free in your head. Your question, even if answered, does not matter. Focus on building yourself up. That is the pathway to satisfaction...
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:43 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with recongnizing that you do not want to do something. It might be as simple as knowing you are not ready. Take several years to think about it. Don't jump into a mistake.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:29 AM
13

Eject now! You have 60 years to get into the right situation with someone who is committed. Don't make this mistake, you already know you are in a broken situation that will not end well.
/r/askMRP14/05/21 12:08 AM
5

So naturally with all of this time on your hands you are: Doing body weight exercises to get back in shape for at least 15 minutes daily Eating clean Getting marketable by attending a free online code camp that leads to a job in 12 weeks Spending an hour a day reading about a self-help topic of interest Right? You're doing these things and if you aren't you are starting right now, right? Tough love. Peace. Get off you ass. Act depressed, feel depressed.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:16 PM
1

There's no secret: Pick your outcome, work on it every single day, put yourself out there, take challenges/risks, and up your game constantly. Notice that chasing women was not on the list. Build it and they will come...
/r/seduction13/05/21 05:22 PM
21

You stop caring.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:52 PM
6

End the One-Itis... This doesn't end well. Cut bait, move on.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:50 PM
3

Oh yeah, you are gonna notice the Pygeum. Esp during forplay.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:06 PM
2

Yes. It was a 20 year journey with a lot of detours. I kept my focus on what I wanted, never quit trying, failed a lot, and most importantly refused to quit until I figured it out. Then came the battle of deciding to stay hungry and keep chasing improvement - not as easy as it sounds. I am now a guy that has all of the 6's women look for and the results are very much what people tell you to expect with women, career, health, and finance. I enjoyed the ride, found myself a solid 10 with good char…
/r/seduction13/05/21 02:02 PM
1

Thank you for the tip on the L Arginine! I will start saving money by not wasting cash on it next month...
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:53 PM
5

Daily for 3-4 days... *L-Arginine, 1000mg *Zinc, 50mg *Pygeum, 100mg <-Seems to be the secret weapon *Lecithin, 1200mg
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:32 PM
2

<Grabs a bowl of popcorn>
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:55 PM
1

You don't start, you get on the path and stay on it. Serious daily workout Clean up your diet & fuel your workouts Pursue absolute excellence in whatever you do 1-2 hours daily on education to move forward your career / income Don't pursue distractions... after 6 months what you want will start chasing you
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:54 PM
49

Don't play their game. Stop trying to make sense of non-sense. Invest the time I just saved you into more time at the gym.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:45 PM
0

Go read "the subtle art of not giving a *uck"
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:26 PM
1

You are lag time. This is the time where you are investing in yourself. Praise yourself for staying the course and keeping up the right actions. Know that in time abundance will come. Learn to be thankful for the abcense of distractions...
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:25 PM
2

Spend a day surfing around Glassdoor.com and learn what different jobs actually pay. Then adjust your decision based on the reality of the jobs market.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:22 PM
7

The tipping point is when you make a choice. Like right now, make a choice and take action. 1) Resolve to work out daily using whatever you have on hand. Track it on the wall, check it off daily. 2) Do whatever you can to clean up your diet, then upgrade. When I first started lifting, most the only clean food I could afford was beans, rice, and pork shoulder. So I bought it and ate it every day. 3) Whatever you do for money, figure out how to be the best at it. Learn to become an expert at becom…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:20 PM
4

You might start by no longer asking questions like "How can I have “abundance” if I’m not getting laid ?" and instead: Set a strenous workout plan to develop your body and work it EVERY DAY Plan and execute a simple healthy diet that will support your body and workout plan Become a center of excellence at work Spend a minimum of 1 to 2 hours daily developing your skills to enhance your earning If you do all of the above constantly and on a continuous basis what you are seeking will come looking …
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:10 PM
5

Leaving aside the "most" part of your comment for others... If someone filled your head with lies, falsehoods, and unrealistic expectations... wouldn't you get crazy when confronted with rock hard reality that did not match the non-sense in your head?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:05 PM
2

Sent you a DM on Reddit
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:50 PM
2

Chad showed up!
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:42 PM
2

Keep doing the thing you are doing. Accept & embrace short term setbacks and struggles as OK learning experiences Understand you are in lag time. Lag time is the time between when you start doing the right things and when you get the result. Tell yourself that lag time is an indication of progress and commit to learning through it, including the mistake and failures. Your desire for success must remain stronger than your fear of failure.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:16 PM
1

Here's how to cure all problems with baldness: shave your head! Explanation: going bald is a problem, shaving your head is a choice. Being and staying in control is a strong frame, fighting a war you can't win (stopping balding) is a weak frame. Make a choice. Embrace it.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:12 PM
2

I 100% agree with what you are saying... and that is why I have ALWAYS worked as a contractor in the trades. Contractors are the only ones who make money... and you do it by jumping from project to project.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:08 PM
1

Google "Code Camp Free" and get into IT contractingBecome a certified pipe welder and be willing to travel Either one will pull you six figures if you are willing to pursue excellence, put in the hours, and work your way up.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:06 PM
5

I agree! Develop your body, your wallet, and your intellect and the world is yours for the taking. All of these things you can do!
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:34 PM
10

It's not morals, it's about actually having a real frame... not faking who you are. If you say your non-monogamous, then by all means sleep around and enjoy with my blessings! OTOH if you say you are in a committed relationship, be what you say you are. Avoid breaking your own rules and you will be a lot more solid in demanding others live up to your standards.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:12 PM
5

You have fat beta males coping with “muh frame” thinking that overrides their 20% body fat and shit hairstyle. ---AMEN TO THIS! - Sell wall-sized posters
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:07 PM
17

It's not about her, it's about you... You are not red pill, you are black pill. You have resentment. Resentment is where you eat poison and hope the other person dies.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:01 PM
19

Stop talking like a PUA -Being a weak liar is bluepill tactic Telling it like it is, no matter what, that's real redpill. Nothing at all bluepill about having rock-solid integrity and high value.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:42 PM
89

The RedPill is about reality and doing what is best for yourself. Be what you say you are.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:29 PM
366

Develop an appetite at the gym. Eat dinner at home. Choose to be a man of integrity who will on the table end the relationship before he lowers himself to cheating. Be the man who can look himself in the eye when he shaves in the morning. Pro tip: Karma is a bitch. You will never get what you do not give. Especially fidelity.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:25 PM
2

Monk mode means no dating. On the other hand, if something delivers itself to you on a silver platter... (and if you follow these instructions it will).... then by all means enjoy. If you follow these instructions you will become mentally sorted out, physically powerful, financially robust, and most of all you will have value and know that you have value. Then you will start to demand what you are worth from the people around you. And you get it. This is the only way to kill off the simpy pu$$y …
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:21 PM
3

1) Monk mode. Break all contact. 2) Meal prep & a clean diet. No cheating. 3) Got to the gym and workout like a monster daily 4) Work your career seriously & 1-2 hours daily upping your skillset 5) Maintain 1-4 for minimum of 2 years before starting to re-emerge.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:55 PM
-1

It was a shit test. You failed. -She got under your skin. If you are dropping her because she does not meet your standards, ok. If you dropping her to hide from your own shit test failure then shame on you. You decide. Which is it? Learn yourself and grow.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:54 PM
2

Then turn it around on him. Him: "The first girl you sleep with will become pregnant" You: "I share your confidence in my sexual prowess. Cheers!"
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:50 PM
2

You are experiencing "loss of mission" Time for you to choose a new mission and get back to living life on purpose. Until you choose a new mission & purpose you will be lost and depressed. If you do not know what you want your new mission to be, then make your new mission "to discover what your mission and purpose are", take the mission seriously, and start exploring. You are truly capable of doing anything if you choose to work with a purpose. So what is it you want to be in your heart?
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:43 PM
3

Did you ever think that he might be trying to incentive you to use protection? Maybe, just maybe, he's looking out for you. He might also just be enjoying having found a way to mess with you. Man up, laugh it off and stop taking offense to it. You are letting it bother you.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:35 PM
2

Dude, the world is against you. You gotta prove yourself and make a space for yourself in the world. Make the effort to rise to the occasion. Keep making the effort long enough and you will start to become effective. Carry on the effort long-term and you become worthy. Do your workout today & every day. Build your body. Feed your mind and body. Be better tomorrow than you were today. Work your ass off at your job and progress yourself to the next better job /business. Grind on these for weeks/mo…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:39 PM
3

You are not investing enough time in your mind, body, and mission. If you were, you would be demanding a lot more from the women who approach you. Not getting approached? Uh-oh, there's an indication that you are not investing enough... Up your game, you are being lazy and it shows.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:32 PM
2

The growth here is when you are honest with yourself about what you want to do and then do it. Turning to us to tell you what to do is not growth. Nonetheless, I will drop you a hint: You know she's going to want kids during a time frame that does not fit your plans. So why are you wasting her youth when you know you should send her on to someone who wants to have kids during her fertility window. Hanging on to somebody you are not willing to deliver for is a simp move. Have some integrity and p…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:12 PM
1

You have already figured out your decision. So now it is time to take action. Stop waffling.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:48 PM
11

Great, you have told us about your work. Now, where is your life? <hint>
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:02 PM
1

You are one high-stress event trigger that will teach you how fast things can turn on a dime.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:01 AM
1

You just tell her the truth: You are not willing to get into a LTR with her and you are breaking it off right now. Then you leave.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:59 PM
1

Don't $hit where you eat. That's a hard no! Your future HR director and Personal development coach will thank me later.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:51 PM
1

Years ago I made a big investment into Invisalign and about $18K in other dentistry with a high-end oral surgeon. 20 years later I can tell you it is some of the best money I ever spent in my life.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:06 PM
1

Are you serious enough about what you are doing to have your hormone levels checked? I am not talking about steroids, I am talking about checking to see if your Testosterone levels are naturally high. If they aren't you can lift all day long and you will piddling results. Take a look at guys on bio-identical hormone replacement. Their test is on the high end of the NATURAL scale. If they lift like hell for 6-12 months... They become the gorillas you are eyeballing almost without exception. Check…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:44 PM
1

Place faith in yourself, not in others (Humanity). Go your own way and watch your life begin.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 11:48 PM
3

You will never recover the respect you will lose when you cry in front of a woman, especially your wife or girlfriend. By crying, you will permanently reclassify yourself from an alpha to a beta male. The harsh truth about respect: a lifetime to build, a nanosecond to lose.
/r/MensRights02/04/20 11:47 AM
8

Give her the gift of missing you. Don't call. Don't email. Don't look at her social media post. Give zero attention... Do work out, eat right, advance your career, and become the best version of yourself. Become the one that got away... and reap the rewards that come with success. In this case most likely an even younger, hotter, new girlfriend.
/r/MensRights30/03/20 08:03 PM
3

Feel like shit? Hell buddy, YOU WON! You danced with the devil and you are walking away intact.
/r/MGTOW20/09/19 04:56 AM
1

Your first step is to work out every day, even if all you do is a 30-minute walk. The second step is to clean up your diet. Simple, healthy, unprocessed foods. The third step is to set a goal and accomplish it quickly. I suggest super cleaning your car. Tomorrow, super clean your room and clothes. Step four is employment of ANY sort. Full court press to get any job. You need responsibility and purpose. Step five if to set the next goal and keep going. Take action. Get moving with purpose. You wi…
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 11:04 AM
1

Stop making excuses. Making excuses is why you feel like crap. Pick a trade and find a way to learn it. Make learning that trade the center of your life. Eliminate all other spending wherever possible. Decided to sleep and eat on schedule so you have time and opportunity to learn your trade. Do nothing else for the few months it takes to learn your trade, get a job in the trade, and improve your income. Then repeat. You have no idea how quickly this routine will lead to success.
/r/MGTOW24/08/19 01:12 PM
6

What if he finds someone else? IF.... why is there an IF??? He sure as hell will find someone else. She just tossed off a top shelf prospective husband...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/19 10:39 PM
1

Slap yourself in the face. Good. Now that you have come back to your senses, go your own way and stop comparing yourself to other people. It is a losing game. You are missing out on far far less than your bragging buddies, soon to be sporting STD's and child support payments, are telling you.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 05:56 PM
10

NTA - You have a right to have standards. No one is at fault, she simply does not meet your standards. Dating is an opportunity to gather information, which you did, and make an informed decision as to whether to enter a committed relationship. You have made an informed decision.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 05:17 PM
2

If you are looking to understand and and to heal, I would suggest you grab some audio books by Dr. Wayne Dyer. You will find a goldmine of perspective altering information in books he wrote such as Your Erroneous Zones. It is life changing stuff.
/r/MGTOW01/08/19 10:23 AM
4

Go read "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck" Useful tools and advice, you will start feeling better immediately. Each time you relapse, read the book again.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 05:34 PM
2

Nope... moved out of building ships and into building ever bigger teams of people to get things done. If you make it a habit to learn every single stinking day... (Hint: make audio books your hobby) and work to improve in your line of work (Hint: your improvements should be targeted at your next career step) then you will find yourself following the money. You are making smart choice with the bed and the food. They are valuable. Live crazy deep under your means. Learn to grow your earned and inv…
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 05:24 PM
1

I practice what I suggest to others... I just wish I had figured it out 15 or 20 years earlier than I did. I am not going to post my income in a public forum... but will tell you I am highly specialized and highly networked into my profession. So the money is very good Also note that the lower you push your living expenses... the higher that ratio goes...
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 04:52 PM
2

Not considering investment income, my earned income to expense ratio, all in, is greater than 30:1 Let that sink in... Have nice paid for car and live very cheaply in a nice place where the landlord appreciates and discounts for a tenant who is zero drama.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 03:44 PM
2

Stay on your path or improving yourself and building your finances. Relationships are just going to distract you and slow you down. Focus on improving yourself, building your career, build your character, build your body, and develop your financial base. One you do these things your marketplace value will skyrocket and you will have earned you options... and there will be many. Get yourself into contract coding. Find the high rates, learn whatever you must to get the positions, and make the mone…
/r/MGTOW29/07/19 01:51 PM
1

Decades ago I worked with overseas builders. Today I work with large software development organizations. Leadership is a highly portable skill. :)
/r/MGTOW29/07/19 12:48 PM
2

You are welcome, I am sure you would do the same for me! Follow the work and enjoy abundance!
/r/MGTOW27/07/19 01:35 PM
2

Yes, when I was younger. Then I used the skills I developed to move up the ladder so to speak. Managing yourself, leads to managing teams, leads to leading teams of teams, which leads to leading organizations... At the core of it is remaining debt-free, hard-working, and ready to follow the work.
/r/MGTOW27/07/19 11:19 AM
3

It's like any trade ... what matters is the work. Are you going to show up early for work every day? Did you take 20 minutes to clean and service your gear so you are ready to work? Do you settle in, listen to some music or a book on tape and totally zone into the work? Are you willing to be completely responsible for your own craftsmanship? Will you work whatever hours they give you without complaining? Can you write down names and phone numbers so you can provide references to recruiters? If y…
/r/MGTOW27/07/19 01:41 AM
16

And you are still considering marrying this woman because...? DUDE! Haul ass out of there!!! You just got a free education on what the future is going to be WITHOUT the cost of a wedding, divorce rape, and child support! GTFOOT - Get the *** out of there!
/r/MGTOW27/07/19 01:29 AM
2

Here another good one: *Certified Pipe Welder* 3-6 weeks to learn and get certified. $45/hour to start....1-2 years in and with your own equipment... $85-120/hour welding pipes in nuclear plants w/all the hours you are willing to work.
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 06:48 PM
5

OK, I will take the oil field option, which I think is a great one for you: Google oil field jobs and don't stop googling until you find ANYTHING related. Then apply until you get part of anything, anywhere. Whatever you get, take it. Once you are in the door learn, learn, learn, listen, ask questions, and be a model employee. The rest will take care of itself if you stay hungry!
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 06:13 PM
11

Run Forest! Run! Chew your own arm off if you need to in order to get out of this trap. Take action!
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 05:04 PM
1

You clearly don't get it. This is co-dependant blue pill thinking, early stage MGTOW exploration, or something else not yet defined. It is good that you are reaching out to the community. Here are some suggestions to help you reposition yourself so you can get your mind around it: Stop worrying so much about what other people think. Stop looking for approval. Approval is not needed. Realize that many of the memes are calling into sharp focus the truth long hidden by blue pill BS and others are v…
/r/MGTOW211/07/19 10:40 AM
7

Yes, become a certified pipe welder. Time in school, about 8 weeks... 2-4 years to break into contracting solo if you are willing to follow the work. Many state job programs will pay for your welding classes and once you certify the school knows all the recruiter. Become an absolute stickler for procedure, do it right, do it the right way every time. Work every hour they will throw your way. Earn 6 figures easy... more if you can build a team.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 05:07 AM
2

You have just been given a line by line plan for getting on the path to Healthy Living. Print it out, put it on your refrigerator door, and begin to execute on it line by line Crossing off each item as you get it done. By the time you get to the end of the list you're going to be in a completely different reality. Talk is cheap. You will never appreciate the value of the knowledge you have just been handed in the clan that was just given to you. The future is yours to choose. Hold yourself accou…
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 02:03 PM
35

He is simply not interested in starting a committed relationship with you, he is trying to maintain you as a trade down option in case he cannot do better. All the other reasons given are useless chatter or noise. Move on. Find the right person t have a relationship with. Hint: The right person probably would never even remotely consider letting you go...
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 01:50 PM
1

Bad birthday??? Are you kidding??? You received the greatest gift of all: THE COLD HARD TRUTH You know exactly where you stand. Go MGTOW or go find a woman that puts you first. Stop being a loser and stop asking for advice. Take action.
/r/MGTOW27/02/19 01:43 PM
6

Kudos for achieving clarity! You have already identified the problem. There is what you want and there is what he is... and he is not going to change. The solution is a change of attitude or a change of captain. Don't over complicate it and stop dodging the issue. Make a choice. Have an honest conversation with yourself, make a decision, and take action. Change one or the other. Both of you deserve a clear and committed decision. ​ ​
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 01:35 PM
2

I will take a copy please!
/r/MGTOW27/12/18 12:41 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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