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Are they? The vast majority of these stories I hear the man never explicitly promised anything, they only heard what they wanted to hear. I see women get mad at the mere fact of men not being interested in relationships, regardless of what men say, being upfront about it might be labelled as even more crass and insulting to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:45 PM
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There is strong correlation between low-IQ This is coming from.....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:48 PM
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Anything as long as they gracefully accept being rejected for serious relationships instead of throwing fits and seething at men like spoiled children. Which unfortunately seems to be a tall order.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:18 PM
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thats how it be these days unfortunately. many men will have to BB. maybe its not so bad if they have kids of their own as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:00 PM
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not everything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:59 PM
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baby mommas can't afford to be as bitchy or let themselves go because breaking up is less beneficial for her, she can only get child support no asset division or alimony. and subconsciously i think women lose interest in mates that chain themselves to her via marriage, gotta keep things interesting yk. it's called dread game. this is the way things should be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:59 PM
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damn it must have been tight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:57 PM
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please link it fr i wanna see the shitlib reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:04 PM
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Dzungar killings were carried out by the Manchu ruling dynasty, also steppe savages(with incredibly r-slurred hairstyles).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:00 PM
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true but im tryna EUmaxx rn for developer roles that pay the equivalent of minimum wage here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:54 PM
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mochi train? i love this double entendre lmaooooo also mochis are ricecake desserts and they're delicious. especially ice cream ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:54 PM
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fr dude the "logic" is like some people wrote crazy shit a century ago so you're not allowed to notice obvious things anymore 🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:52 PM
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(she will be the diversity hire)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:50 PM
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who
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:48 PM
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IDK about you but "baby momma" sounds way hotter than "wife" tbh. "Wives" nag and get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:47 PM
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Drama is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:46 PM
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No I genuinely want to see you attempt to defend yourself because bro made a convincing argument NGL. What does your boyfriend know about your past?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:46 PM
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Well it's more about how old they were when they had the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:44 PM
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with regards to men yeah. with regards to her parents no IMO, there's nothing wrong with grandparents pitching in to help raise children. alloparenting is a normal human behavior that has been unfairly stigmatized by western societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:43 PM
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There's more to life than just money
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:42 PM
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u/MoshiMoshi78 defend yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:41 PM
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please link it saar
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:40 PM
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If you think not being treated favorably because of your race is being "fucked over" then there is no more discussion to be had, you are genuinely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:39 PM
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embedded devs are insane i cannot do that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:38 PM
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where is this from link it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:37 PM
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nah i haven't. potato famine soon inshallah, this time for real tho 💯💯💯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:34 PM
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is it true that there are entry level applicants that cannot solve fizzbuzz? i hear it all the time but i genuinely cant believe it. like how tf did they even graduate? ChatGPT isn't THAT good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:32 PM
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No one thinks that LMAO are you on crack or just slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:30 PM
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funny meme but the US doesn't give ireland billions every year
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:29 PM
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Good for her!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:22 PM
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The real explanation for America's stalwart support for Israel is so blatantly obvious to anyone with at least two brain cells, and it's infuriating how suppressed the truth is in mainstream discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:20 PM
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I think the bigger factor is people generally being unhappy with the state of the economy, and possibly key Democratic electorates lacking motivation like Arab-Americans in Michigan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:18 PM
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Racism like Biden/Harris' support for racial discrimination in university admissions? That racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:17 PM
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With Biden in 2020 I could see it. Not this year, deep-down Harris belongs on the far-left wing of her party.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:14 PM
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Trump supports and has enacted many aspects of the archetypal American conservative political platform, certainly to a much greater extent than Harris.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:13 PM
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<image> On today's episode of shitlib brainrot.........
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:56 PM
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Lucky, especially the last part. Seems to be one of the few silver linings of single parenthood, your own parents are more willing to pitch in. Do you know if the guy earns good money? Stereotypically at least single mothers prioritize that because they have a child that needs provision.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:21 PM
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How old is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:21 PM
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That's a strange and very judgmental view. People's lives shouldn't be defined by work, I'd say the same for men as well. And there are substantial physiological advantages for having children younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:19 PM
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Already have and did, got my ears pinned back when I was 17 courtesy of the government of Ontario.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:33 PM
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These women were never married to the BD and had their kids young? How old were they when they met their current partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:31 PM
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Depends on your definition of "similar". Per Pew analysis of ACS data, men are the sole or "primary" earner in around half of US marriages, "primary" meaning that they outearn their partner by at least 50%, most notably even for childless married couples. This of course excludes men that outearn their partners by 20-49%, which are labelled as "egalitarian". But if you suddenly got that much of a raise would you not consider it significant? I think most people would. And depending on how they spl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:52 PM
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Well it's not the entire basis of MY beliefs. This stance is a response to the "violinist question" posed by pro-choice activists where they accept fetal personhood for the sake of the argument, and proceed to question why the mother should have the obligation to gestate it. And for the record I wouldn't support legal exceptions for rape because they are practically unworkable and would incentivize false complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:32 PM
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I think the way most people use the term "rationality" is essentially a value judgement, referring to thinking in a way that they personally deem ideal. But the reality is that different people have different values and no one's values are more correct than the other, and arguing over "rationality" is pointless. It's more useful to ask which sex is more emotionally volatile, and whose behavior is more strongly influenced by emotions. To the former I would tentatively say women, to the latter I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:55 AM
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64000 raped women and little girls have been forced to carry their rapists baby since the repeal. Source: "I made it up"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:56 AM
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Those exist but are contingent on the parent transferring parental responsibility to another willing party, with the state being an automatically willing party in the latter case. Anyways give birth to your grandfather's baby at 12 years old and get back to me on that because that's what you're advocating for. This does not accurately characterize the vast majority of abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:15 AM
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Lmao? That’s just an appeal to nature. Nature imposes no duties, only society And as far as born children go that's the standard parents are generally held to by society. A parent may be charged with child neglect for not feeding a child, especially if they have the resources to do so. But not for being unable to afford an expensive lifesaving medical treatment for a life-threatening disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:06 AM
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hello again lillth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:33 PM
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Those situations are not ordinary and foreseeable care like gestation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:17 PM
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I disagree 🤷‍♂️ Parents are already legally required to care for their born children, gestation is just another example of that but for unborn children. The bodily sacrifice may be considered more substantial than labor and monetary sacrifices, but when weighed against the literal life of the child the choice seems clear to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:47 PM
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If my dad was laying on his couch and wasn’t breathing, could not feed himself, speak, sleep, or move, I would assume he’s dead There are born humans in comas and vegetative states that are like this. If you pulled the plug on one of them without sufficient authorization you would be a murderer. Human development begins at conception, but until a fetus can survive without using the resources of its mother’s body it makes no sense to call it “living” in any practical sense. What is "living in any…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:43 PM
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Not just anyone. A parent who is causally and morally responsible for it's existence. And not just anything. Gestation, which is a form of certain, foreseeable, and ordinary care for an unborn child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:36 PM
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Human fetuses are alive...... And are actively suffering from parents that never wanted them and had no other choice They could have chose adoption. But for practical purposes the emotional attachment women have with their newborns often precludes it. whereas pro forced birth men literally gloat about how miserable the new moms life is with a child Have you personally witnessed this? And was this in the context of a woman who specifically wanted abortion, or a jab at single mothers generally? Fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:24 PM
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That's primarily due to doctors being overly cautious in their interpretation of new legislation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:19 PM
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The virgin "they're not eating dogs" vs. The chad "what's wrong with eating dogs"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:18 PM
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I don’t think men should be be able to vote on the issue or whatever Unfortunately for you we live in a democracy where people aren't denied suffrage based on sex. how it actually affects the real living breathing human beings who face the actual and most severe consequences. A human fetus IS a real living human being, if not quite "breathing" yet depending on how you define that. This is a well-established and uncontroversial scientific fact. no biological male has ever had to consider that he …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:17 PM
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and understand the importance of treating children like the valuable gift they are This is not even necessary to being pro-life, merely a belief in fetal personhood and rights, and outweighing the mother's right to bodily autonomy. Like, I don't even like born children, and I probably don't want kids of my own, but obviously I think they should still have rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:12 PM
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It's morally relevant to me because the mother's responsibility for gestating the fetus hinges on her responsibility for its existence. If she was raped there is no such responsibility. Of course, in practice rape exceptions to broad abortion prohibitions are not legally feasible and red states that have tried implementing them will learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:10 PM
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https://www.realclearpolling.com/polls/president/general/2024/pennsylvania/trump-vs-harris Looks like Trump is taking the lead across the battleground states according to the RCP battleground poll tracker. Consistently leading across various polls in AZ, MI, and GA, mostly leading in PA polls, and neck in neck everywhere else. If he wins the three former states, he only needs one of PA, WI, or NC for 270. Not a single battleground where Harris has a clear advantage. Not to mention polls underest…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:32 AM
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At least half of all young opposite-sex couples today, if not more, met online. You shouldn't discount OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:49 PM
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doesn't mean less communication and social trouble to deal with. It means MORE No one said otherwise. But some forms of communication are clearly better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:40 AM
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Because if it's above 0, especially well above, then I can't really take your complaints seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:30 AM
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what is your body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:26 AM
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is he wrong? non-verbal communication is clearly antiquated in an evolutionary sense given how humans are capable of insanely complex verbal(and written) communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:24 AM
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and no I'm not telling you to go find the most mannish woman that will have you but a few masculine traits like: height broader shoulders wider and more forward-projecting jaw "hunter eyes"(narrower, deeper-set eyes and lower brows) can make a world of difference for your son if he inherits them, while not significantly hurting her mainstream appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:19 AM
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Women with masculine aesthetics offer superior genetics for your children compared to women with feminine aesthetics because if your son looks too feminine he'll be an incel whereas a daughter will be fine either way stay with me now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:14 AM
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praying and looksmaxxing for this reaction NGL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:50 PM
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abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:59 AM
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I would probably try to avoid engaging with her from now on. She's one of the lower IQ women here, and that's really saying something......
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:26 AM
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Really? And what would you, a woman, know about what makes men happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:25 AM
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I will very likely see that by my 30s with my family real estate wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:22 AM
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And more delusional things you can tell yourself......
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:20 AM
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People call it "sex trafficking" when poor women do it, or when they're illegal immigrants lol. Can't take it seriously anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:19 AM
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high waisted pants and shorts are for fat bitches and i will die on this hill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:59 AM
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Nope, like 1/3 of pregnancies end in miscarriage. It doesn't matter, the fetus still needed gestation while it was alive. All pregnancies are inherently dangerous. Living is dangerous. We both know red states don't make exceptions for dying women. That's why there's so many women that have ended up dead when it could have been easily prevented. For the most part they have broadly worded exceptions. Doctors are just being overly cautious in the face of new laws and the lack of case law. We both k…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:18 AM
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the opposite actually. i thug israeli zoom meetings for palestine 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:12 AM
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its over
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:50 AM
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Q4W: If you found several gigabytes of ironic gay black porn memes on your boyfriend's phone would you think he was gay? Asking for a friend......
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:48 AM
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Then why don't more people do that if they want a more "egalitarian" marriage instead of the schizo hyphenated names?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:45 AM
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Are you RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:44 AM
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Why can't both people just keep their own names man? This is bullshit. White people were always so confused by me and my mom's names because she didn't change her surname, universal in my culture. And also the surname comes before your given name.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:34 AM
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How are you going to do things then if you get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:33 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:33 AM
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They have whole entire hospitals for sick kids. You can never guarantee a healthy child. But you can guarantee that every child will need food, shelter, and yes, gestation. The latter two are considered core parental responsibilities, why shouldn't the latter? If we can murder women to birth children The vast majority of pregnancies are not dangerous in developed countries. And even the US states with the most stringent abortion restrictions make exceptions for therapeutic abortions. Also, paren…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:18 AM
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No because it's not ordinary and foreseeable care. Same reason parents are prosecuted for neglect for not providing food and adequate shelter, but not for say, not being able to afford an expensive medical treatments in case of severe illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:59 AM
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"Self defense" when you were responsible for it's existence? And where there's a tiny probability of serious disfigurement or death for you, and certain death for them? Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:56 AM
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"we don't force people to give blood so you can't force me to gestate my own child teehee" mf you're literally responsible for the child's existence it's not some rando that you have no connection to. weighing someone's life against your discomfort for a few months, when you are responsible for that person's existence, and gestation is ordinary and foreseeable like feeding or housing them, i pick their life very time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:05 AM
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You ignored the first half of my response. This is not possible, you're yapping about hypotheticals. Since safe surrender laws are contingent on the continued health and safety of the child and it's not possible to do that with abortion, it's not a compelling justification for permitting abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:02 AM
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You can drop your baby off at a fire station and then it’s someone else’s problem This is contingent on the guaranteed continued health and safety of the child. Which is not possible if they are yet to be born. You're comparing apples and oranges. Also if the father finds out they can easily contest it and be awarded custody, and force you to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:54 PM
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let women birth the fetus whenever they want and the "complete" being can fend for itself. If we're content to let small humans "fend for themselves" then by that logic why not abolish all laws against child neglect and stop enfocing child support? because people don't care about other sentient animals being tortured or killed Killed not really, tortured it depends. I don't think most western populations would approve of wanton cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:34 PM
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That's irrelevant, it's not what "complete" means in this context. All the cells constituting the fetus, together, represent a whole, "complete", human individual. A collection of sperm cells or skin cells does not. Whether an organism is dependent on a host or not is irrelevant to biological individuation. There are trillions of bacteria living in your body that are separate organisms. a human woman Why specify "human" here? Do you somehow believe that the fetal offspring of two humans somehow …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:57 PM
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DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:18 PM
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Calling someone a fatty is being a "massive bully" about it? you would be resentful and mean spirited about the changes in her body. Something like stretch marks would be unavoidable(and permanent), I haven't said anything about those, and frankly I wouldn't mind. But getting fat is not like that. Women get fat after pregnancy because they overeat during and after it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:16 PM
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Pregnancy isn't an excuse to get fat LMAO caloric requirements of pregnant women are only marginally higher than normal. Difference is like two slices of pizza max. and why him calling her a “fatty” is not a good thing. Well she was a "fatty", it's the truth. Do you expect him to disbelieve what his own eyes saw?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:30 PM
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"Hold him accountable" for what? Not liking fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:18 PM
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And when exactly is that? Can you quantify it? Quantify it in what sense? And why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:02 PM
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and still isn't full personhood for women In the developed world? If so, in what respects? I was more thinking that legally they can't because there isn't any "moment" outside of birth that it can begin. Their existence as an individual human organism begins at fertilization, except in the case of monozygotic twins where it begins at zygote division. This much is a scientific fact. So why not start there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:04 AM
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well your countrymen in general do not exactly have a reputation for being warm and welcoming.........
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:02 AM
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Ye I definitely lean towards backend for sure but I'm a new grad looking for my first full-time position with no prior internships. I really can't afford to be picky. And it seems like more and more employers are expecting full stack competency, do more with less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:00 AM
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https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/persons-case https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personhood#Women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:57 AM
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How are French girls generally mr. baguette? Do they take care of themselves? Are most slim?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:25 AM
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He's just being real and he's entitled to his physical preferences. I bet you would be the first one to defend women who show interest in men after their glow ups. If she ever married you, she better not get pregnant or deal with the stress and exhaustion that comes with being a wife or mother because if she gains weight you would be calling her a “fatty” Just put the fork down. Being stressed doesn't mean you have to stuff your face lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:23 AM
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Women were not considered "persons" for many legal purposes until about a century ago. I'm not sure what your argument is supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:13 AM
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Semen is not an individual human organism, it is just a collection of human cells. An unborn human fetus is a whole, complete, individual human organism. This is such a ridiculous argument. If you were to, say, pierce someone's ear, killing some human cells where the incision is made, no one would say think that you killed someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:12 AM
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Not any more than a natural death from disease is "adult sacrifice"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:08 AM
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you're just making me feel worse bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:16 AM
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Also the frontend is a completely different task, the literally give you a picture of a ecommerce webpage and tell you to recreate it lmaooooo(with only the UI components but still)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:24 AM
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dude, I'm a new grad with virtually no front end web development experience and very limited knowledge of frameworks...... they said they're hiring for BE FE and FS and I'll still be considered for a BE position if I only submit the BE task
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:23 AM
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assessment asked for a REST API to solve the water jug algorithm problem, with requests and resposnes in JSON format. I used python and fastapi. was pretty simple, just one module. stole the actual algorithm off the internet and adapted it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:16 AM
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Any other developers here? Just finished a backend take-home coding assessment in a day, I think I'm cooked for the frontend one though......
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:09 AM
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This isn't limited to people as wealthy as Musk, not even close. And any model can be capped at a certain amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:29 PM
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Never said it was, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:23 PM
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Not particularly, and none of those are substantial expenses except for sleepaway camp. Plenty of people don't go, I never went and we were fairly well off. You could afford all of those things on top of essentials with no more than 2-3k in child support max, without even getting into the custodial parent spending their own earnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:21 PM
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No, I'm not arguing that, it would be a bureaucratic mess. You completely misinterpreted my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:20 PM
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they sometimes allow their natural interest in the welfare of their child to be superseded by their interest in getting vengeance against their ex. They don't need to pay child support to their ex to provide for their children, they can pay for things directly, or give money directly to the child if the child is older. generally one does see that most parents are motivated to provide the best-resourced upbringing that their means can accomplish. Good parents do. Many children are not so fortunat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:18 PM
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Up to a point, maybe. Don't see what significant differences it would make if the child is adequately nourished, getting enough sleep, and not stressed by juggling providing and school. Education up to high school is free, and aside from that there's also parental connections which child support can't address. I think a lot of research on this fails to account for genetic inheritance also.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:00 AM
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You didn't really read my point. I don't think private schools are that beneficial. Your second paragraph I disagree with. Which one? The last comment? Private schools are not necessarily less stressful, some of them are very academically demanding. And a student would not be disadvantaged at all for the purposes of college admissionsat a public school that offers AP classes. This benefit while a child is growing and developing is huge. I don't care, why should non-custodial child support payers…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:20 AM
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Many things today are abominations and will be condemned as abominations in the future, baby circumcisions is one of them. Not so long as a certain ethnic group has a stranglehold over your nation's politics and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:25 AM
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Are you talking about me because of the comment I just posted? If so, I give you permission to name me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:17 AM
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I do think private schools provide some benefit but it's probably overstated because of confounding factors. Private school kids are smarter and/or wealthier to begin with and those provide substantial advantages in of itself. Those kids would have, in all likelihood, done similarly well had they gone to a decent public school. And the biggest career benefits probably come in the form of the connections the kids make and the access to the alumni network, as opposed to the education itself. Which…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:14 AM
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The court tries to calculate who needs to pay what in order for the child to have the same standard of living as they otherwise would have, and they try to define what those needs being met looks like. No lol, there are guideline calculations are primarily based on the relative income of the parents, you'd have to make a compelling argumemnt for the judge to adjust it. As long as the money is paid and the agreed upon standard is met, then there are no consequences. Anything else is more of an ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:10 AM
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☝️☝️☝️ "bombshells" are overrated tbh, too exaggerated. have fun playing in the snow dude, hopefully that'll be me as well one day 🙏🙏🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:06 AM
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old enough to not be celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:02 AM
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What is money for if not to invest in your own children? It's just crazy to me. I can't imagine ever looking at my kid and thinking "yeah, I want them to have the bare minimum even though I'm making bank." I agree but this is about what should be legally enforced. If a single mother provides a minimalistic lifestyle for her children, and spends most of her earnings/child support on luxuries for herself, should she face legal consequences foor that? Because that's what child support ultimately bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:01 AM
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second part is more important than the first tbh. is she conventionally attractive 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:59 AM
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this is perfect considering how incredibly lazy I am
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:09 AM
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I reject that cringe ass definition of "incel"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:09 AM
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Is it? I haven't seen any credible statistics. Most custody arrangements are resolved out of court.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:00 AM
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dropping out of school
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:59 AM
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If you're a virgin due to dropping out of school as a young teenager and being basically a hermit NEET since then, never interacting with women, is that incel or volcel? Am I not allowed to call myself an incel until I make serious sexual/romantic efforts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:57 AM
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well since he asked, u/Unique-Afternoon6316 come on give us something here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:56 AM
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So the other parent can move wherever or change schools without consulting you because they earn more? If they have sole/primary custody that's how it already works, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:54 AM
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I would ordinarily include education in "basic needs" but public education is free so it's not relevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:50 AM
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As far as nurture is concerned, education in general and family connections, yeah, and the latter isn't really relevant to this. I don't see how designer clothes or the newest iPhone is going to help little timmy become a more successful as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:49 AM
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<image> China has never been that close to Israel and their increasingly anti-Western alignment and vocal pro-Palestinian stance has only made things worse. China also has plenty of other customers for their arms industry, they don't need your shekels. Time and time again throughout history their arrogance has been their downfall, and this time will be no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:45 AM
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Women may frequently be "fake nice" in their everyday social interactions. But what incentive does she have to be "fake nice" in an anonymous internet forum that has no meaningful ramifications for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:40 AM
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Yes you did, clearly: Yeah, notice where I said "willing and able to be an active parent". Their desire and ability to parent (based in part on their track record) should be the primary factors in the decision, and the vast majority of the time this will favor the mother regardless of earnings. Wealth and earnings should play a secondary role as a tiebreaker, as I said. Maybe to you that's a bad assumption, but there's no perfect way to mete this out: Nothing is perfect in family law or any fiel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:33 AM
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This has been studied and thought of to be in the best interests of the child. Where? How has it been studied? The legal field unfortunately is not the best when it comes to specific evidence. Would you seriously have me believe that if little Jenny no longer gets two vacations a year, designer clothes, and the newest iPhone, it's going to meaningfully affect her future? And why do you care so much? It's a small minority of child support orders that are this substantial, the average in the US is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:26 AM
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It's misguided because parents ordinarily are not expected to provide luxuries for their child under thread of prosecution so why should CS payors be treated exceptionally in this regard? By your logic one parent with means should then be barred from “spoiling” the kid when the other parent can’t afford to. No? How does it follow? Parents should be allowed to spoil their kids as much as they want, I'm just saying they shouldn't be forced to. Your argument in this respect I’m afraid falls flat at…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:49 AM
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One parent of means provides a million things versus another who can’t and means parent uses that to convince said child or children to be with them. And? So what? There are plenty of reasons for children to prefer one parent over another, and to have a say in their lifestyle when they're old enough. Why is this uniquely bad? CS isn’t about compensation to the child bearer or child rearer and never has been in the US at least. It’s solely for the support of the child. CS compensates the primary …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:42 AM
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Family law isn’t going to take the kid away from the primary caretaker simply because they have less $$ and why should they. Should the person who has spent more time as the primary caretaker be punished for making less money? No. Didn't say that they should. Don't strawman me. The idea (in these situations where there is such a wealth disparity that non primary residential custodial parent does have to pay a substantial amount in CS) is that they would have been paying this anyway to support th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:40 AM
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Family law doesn’t care about “well other kids get the shit end of the stick/bare minimum so it should suffice for your kids even though you’re making bank” etc etc. Wrt kids they primarily care about (and this is backed by research) maintaining the status quo. I think wanting to maintain the status quo if the status quo is luxury is misguided. I don't think kids not having things like designer clothes, nice vacations, private school, the newest electronics, or whatever, are issues of public con…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:29 AM
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as some sort of incentive to ostracize the lesser earning parent from their children Parental alienation is already prohibited and I never talked about that, don't know what you're getting at. Also CS is not about, and has never been about, “compensation” to the person who bore the child. Didn't say it was, or that it should be. It should compensation be for childrearing, men are sometimes the primary caregiver after separation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:28 AM
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Because the parents are supposed to love their children more than themselves and be willing to pay through the nose to lessen their suffering. I agree, ideally they should. But should it be mandated? Should they face prosecution incarceration if they don't? Because that's what legally mandated child support boils down to. How would you even decide whether parents are sacrificing enough for their children to not be prosecuted?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:09 AM
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I mean fat is most attractive on the ass/thighs and that's what she did. certainly not chicken legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:52 AM
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Why would I be embarassed? This is an anonymous forum, I will never face any genuine ridicule for what I say here so I'll say what I want. I'm very well aware how white women, and really most women here, including many asian women, feel about us. You don't need to tell me, I don't live under a rock. Personally I'm tall and facially above average at least, I want to relocate to the EU for work and I think I can make it there where they've had less negative exposure to my kind. If not then oh well…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:50 AM
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what race are u?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:47 AM
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its called a BBL. they take fat from other parts of your body and inject it into your ass, fairly straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:20 AM
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more like peak teen mom
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:19 AM
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I think you mean indigenous ancestry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:54 AM
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who said anything about blonde? most white people have naturally dark hair as adults, its just that a lot of white women dye it. but even then i don't think its a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:49 AM
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latina is not a phenotype. some are more white and some are more mestizo. there are even black latinas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:47 AM
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daily white women appreciation thread ❤️ https://www.instagram.com/graceciarmello/?hl=en
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:42 AM
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I don't think you need extracurriculars to have a good social life, kids can hang out in unstructured contexts as well. And in any case we don't force married couples to provide extracurriculars so why should this be different? Parents who are together try they damn hardest to give their children opportunities Good parents do. Not all parents are good parents, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:30 AM
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I'm not opposed to judicial discretion and adjusting support orders on a case-by-case basis as necessary, but I think these should be the guidelines that judges rely on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:26 AM
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So if that is the case should the parent with more money always get some custody? This is starting to get off-topic but IMO joint custody is usually a mess if the parents are conflicted enough to need to resolve this in court as opposed to making their own agreements. Sole custody would be better in these cases. Please understand that "custsody" in this context refers to decision-making power, not parenting time. Parenting time could be 50/50 with one parent having sole custody. Custody and prim…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:22 AM
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In any other context kids aren't legally entitled to anything but food, healthcare, clothes, education, and a safe place to sleep. Why are children of separated parents uniquely entitled? And child support is the recipients money to do with as they please. There's no guarantee that they use the additional income primarily for the child as opposed to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:17 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:16 AM
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There is no presumption anywhere else in society that children should never face a decline in their material standards of living, why should parental separation be an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:15 AM
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Yeah that's what I'm talking about, it's absurd that he takes on a greater share of the parenting and still has to pay her what I'm guessing is a substantial amount. At that point if there's such a substantial difference in lifestyle and earnings and he's happy to be an active parent, and he has you as well, it makes more sense for him to have sole custody and be the primary caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:14 AM
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I cannot think of any compelling reason why Elon Musk should pay the same amount of child support as, say, a plumber. Not the same, but the difference shouldn't exponential either. The very obvious issue is that if a child is spending half of his time in a busted ass trailer and half his time in a huge mansion, that's going to skew who he wants to spend his time with and cause tension in his relationship with the poorer parent. If there's that much of a wealth disparity and the wealthier parent …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:11 AM
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I recognize that one. PA? That's literally one of the ones I checked lmao. Parenting time only comes into play if it's very close to equal, minimum 146 nights as it indicates. It's still primarily based on their relative incomes, as indicated in your second SS. CS is not used to compensate the primary caregiver for anything but the costs of the child, why should it be If you want me to reframe it, childrearing is also a "cost", just one paid with labor instead of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:01 AM
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It's not a big deal because it has no substantial impact on their future, apart from college education(sometimes), so it is not a social concern. Some progressives might even consider this preferable because of their disdain for inherited inequalities, and some countries have banned or heavily restricted private education.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:25 AM
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i might need to go digging to find photos from a while back then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:22 AM
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Sometimes there aren't many assets to divided lol. And there's already 50/50 asset division for any post marital gains for married couples, I don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:20 AM
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don't care still bust five times today
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:16 AM
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can u link the app i wanna try.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:12 AM
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Who said anything about a payoff? Additionally men should be paying 50% of pregnancy and delivery costs. Maybe if abortion was prohibited. If not then it was her choice to keep it, then I'd say it's not reasonable. Additionally men should be paying 50% of the woman’s lost earning potential for the two years she is pregnant/nursing. Counterfactuals are difficult. You can't know what she would have earned, or if she would have progressed her career at all, had she not gotten pregnant. If she was w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:11 AM
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do it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:06 AM
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The only non-basic expense that would have a substantial impact on society as a whole is college education, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:02 AM
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i agree but idc, BBLs are permanent after all. Vids can be edited too It's more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:00 AM
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only chubby/fat bitches have fatter asses as far as I've seen. it's about the proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:00 AM
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we're in our soft boy eras 💅💅💅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:56 PM
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If a child is healthy, safe, and their basic needs are being met, I don't think anything past that is a concern for society. In every other context. Many are even hostile to the advantages that rich kids have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:55 PM
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snifffffff exhale ahhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:54 PM
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I know and I don't care. I would love to date an OF girl that's willing to be my sugar mommy tbh 🤑
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:52 PM
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Upon divorce, the child’s living environment, schooling, housing, location, food/clothing/healthcare would undergo substantial change. I don't know what to say other than I don't really care if the child has to go to public school or live in a smaller house after separation. It's not a big deal, living circumstances of children with married parents change as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:51 PM
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As in surgery or edited? If it's a BBL it's still definitely real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:48 PM
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Jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:48 PM
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it would depend on the prevailing wages for unskilled labor where the payor resides.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:45 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/veradijkmans/?hl=en this is by far the most conventionally attractive female body that I've ever laid eyes upon. inb4 edited, she has a tiktok too and posts videos there. looks the same in them. personally her proportions are a somewhat too exaggerated for me, but still, damn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:44 PM
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are you also balding?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:42 PM
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real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:41 PM
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No it would just be a set minimum amount, that can only be excused for disability or education(within reason). If I was faced with that I would also quit my job and move in with my parents rather than work overtime A custodial parent in all likelihood has to spend time raising the children on top of working full time. Welcome to parental responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:39 PM
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I made a small edit to the post a few seconds after initially posting to address that. But the child needs support and the primary caregiver deserves compensation for their labor regardless. If we do not demand exorbitant amounts from the richest payors then it also seems fair to ask for more than a token amount from the poorest. Even if they are unskilled they can take on more hours for overtime pay, which seems fair if they have little or no parenting time. And sometimes payors try to evade/re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:15 PM
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not in blue/purple states they're not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:32 PM
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ladies on top is peak because she has to do all the work 😎😎😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:16 AM
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Maybe if they're ugly and doing that to compensate (🦪🦪🦪)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:14 AM
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very true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:03 AM
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Dasha definitely looks good for her age
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:01 AM
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i tell myself that the orange man is like me to make myself feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:51 AM
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You don't need to actually be violent/criminal to thugmaxx just adopt some of their dress and mannerisms. But hey, it's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:50 AM
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How tall are you? Can you thugmaxx? You're maybe somewhat below average facially but not truecel tier IMO. The beard helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:38 AM
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longer 2D than 4D I take back everything I said the other day, it never even began for you boyo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:36 AM
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You can inbox me to see how I do it but I'll charge you a small fee LMAO, stopped reading there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:33 AM
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Are there any other smallhandcels here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:28 AM
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I doubt it, but a short beard wouldn't conceal it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:56 AM
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Like to pay her bills? I don’t think that’s a normal relationship It is, especially if they're living together. And sometimes if they aren't......
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:36 AM
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its over for eeyorecels
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:19 AM
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hey it's A-Train
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:19 AM
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A beard can be good is you have a weak or mediocre jaw. If you have a strong jaw it might be better to show it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:18 AM
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OP wasn't talking about prostitution. Women in normal relationships usually expect men to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:17 AM
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I wasn't making that argument. I'm just saying that it can have that effect. Just pathetic on all levels really I mean it really just says a lot about men The male reproductive drive isn't any more "pathetic" than the drive to eat or sleep. People too often forget that humans, all humans, are still animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:35 AM
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what does this mean? is she an outspoken feminist/misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:29 AM
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You're not forced to do anything, you don't have to date men. But men will be in a better position to demand more because they'd be less desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:24 AM
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I feel like you'd notice if someone was unconscious unless you were REALLY out of it. The latter two are similarly severe IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 08:11 AM
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I hope some of these replies help women better empathize with men's concerns about being "settled for", although I have to admit I don't have particularly high hopes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:56 AM
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Techically yeah but in this context I'm using it as a euphemism for any type of penetrative assault or anything involving genitalia. I feel this is how this term is usually used. I'd agree with most of what you write except the part about discouraging her to go public. Criminal complaints likely won't result in a conviction but winning a tort lawsuit is much more achievable, if she wanted to go down that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:51 AM
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Reasonable response to the situation. I would probably never openly go against a family member in that situation unless it was blatantly obvious that they lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:48 AM
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How are you defining "human trafficking"? Are those women being forced to work against their will by force or threats? I see a lot of cases where the SWers being illegal migrants leads to the label of "human trafficking".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:43 AM
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Are you sure about that? I've seen some American women label German men as stingy for expecting to split bills on dates. Is that a strong norm there? If it is then I think it's certainly indicative of something. American manosphere posters have this fantasy where, after prostitution is legalized, men go on some sort of mass strike and walk out on regular dating I don't think that would happen. But with easy access to sex, women will have to start bringing more to the table to be competitive for …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:40 AM
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Question: If your son was accused and he denied it, would you also give him the benefit of the doubt?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:38 AM
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You’d have to prove she willingly passed a baby off as another’s. Given how human reproduction works, at the very least she must have been aware of the possibility that another man could have been the father. She couldn't have been certain, because she would have been sleeping with someone else at the time. If you present something as fact while being uncertain, and you turn out to be wrong, that would ordinarily meet the threshold for fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:17 AM
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No, the angle definitely contributed to it. Your jaw is actually pretty average I'd say. And the rest of your face looks way better in this one as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:40 AM
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get your money up nerd. arena is so OP now, you can level to 15 just by playing arena and skip the flea grind. and if you play more to level ref you can get top quality shit and get consistent 1.5 mil rouble a day from arena rewards(that can be transferred). i played mostly arena before hopping into the base game recently, i get m80 and class 5 armor at ref 3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:01 AM
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you don't have to get close to the sawmill you know.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:34 AM
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Stormtrooper armor looks goofy AF, Phase II armor was the peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:20 AM
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I don't know, not as if they're mutually exclusive either. Sexual and romantic success is always some combination of desirability and luck/compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:19 AM
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How about escape from tarkov?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:13 AM
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Yes it means she's highly desirable or lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:12 AM
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im sorry fren
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:12 AM
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but with PAWGS, and some Latinas but these tended to be heftier Latinas. So fat bitches lol. Are you willing to lower your standards and settle for BBBs like they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:49 AM
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joever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:43 AM
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Yes thugmaxxing is legit. Were they successful with all women or primarily black women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:43 AM
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Jaw definitely looks better in this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:36 AM
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What are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:35 AM
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If you're a man posting here it's very unlikely that you're highly sexually successful, that's all I meant.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:34 AM
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I'd go even further to say it's mostly fabricated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:34 AM
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A lot of black guys here, must be difficult not living up to the hypersexual stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:28 AM
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This isn't about definition, I just think your jaw is smaller/recessed/less developed unless the angle is really THAT bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:27 AM
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Mature facial hair and structure + youthful skin = slayer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:14 AM
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Unfortunate, if you're interested you can try minoxidil + tretinoin + derma-rolling. Beards can level up a lot of guys. I've seen some minimal improvements doing that for half a year so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:40 AM
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I'm not even white, I'm a Chinese dude in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:38 AM
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I don't say this to be unkind, but if you are able to grow a beard you should consider it since your jaw is not the best IMO. A full beard would substantially improve your aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:37 AM
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In Ukraine yeah, although Trump's "peace" is unlikely to be favorable for Ukraine. In the Middle East no, they're all dogs of AIPAC.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:36 AM
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What country are you from. that the whole country was all 6'1 viking chads or something. THat's probably the average height for native Swedes yeah. But I think northern europeans are overrated facially, their faces especially midface is often too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:33 AM
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I feel like the DT is it's own little sub-community lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:32 AM
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you look zesty af bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:32 AM
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Where in Europe is your family from? Where I live most white people are northern/western European ancestry so maybe that's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:31 AM
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I can't say I've ever seen a European with naturally black hair, this is a first......
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:10 AM
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Is that your natural hair color or did you dye it black?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:40 AM
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Are you white or east asian?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:34 AM
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If he was attractive he would have no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:17 AM
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In non-institutionalized populations, it is overwhelmingly women, according to the NISVS data and other research on male sexual victimization. Also, there are several posts with over 1k upvotes regarding Terry Crews' story, involving sexual harassment by another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:48 AM
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You could see it yourself if you had been willing to take like 20 seconds. Instead you choose to repeat the same stale talking points like a parrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:47 AM
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How does the MRM "walk like a hate group" and "talk like a hate group". Attitudes and rhetoric towards women by them are, at the very least, no worse than mainstream feminist attitudes and rhetoric towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:46 AM
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Nothing will be good enough when your opposition that controls it has already decided you're a hate group.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:10 AM
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It's hard to do anything when your ideological opposition have captured all the major institutions in society and labelled you as a hate group, you get no external support, and until fairly recently men had very little sense of collective identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:09 AM
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Oh BOY, I love it when people say this. I already know you're not actually active in r/MensRights and are just parroting shit you heard from others. Let's take a look at the top posts this month: Popular tweet expressing hostility towards men Male-only draft registration Sexual orientation and divorce rates Gender bias on DV-related prompts by ChatGPT Favorable criminal sentencing for women in the UK without somehow bringing women into this. What a room-temperature IQ thing to say. For similar r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:07 AM
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I find they care a lot more about the abuser being a woman than the victim being a man, too. It's both. But emphasizing that men are most often victimized by women is important because the general public still believes otherwise, and feminists frequently claim "but by OTHER MEN" when we bring up this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:59 PM
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I think it's important to distinguish between normal women who may identify with feminism and the most vocal and activist women at the core of the feminist movement. There was a substantial amount of sympathy for Depp from women broadly, many of whom likely identify with feminism, which was good to see. But from what I saw at least, vocal feminist communities like r/AskFeminists and 2XC overwhelmingly either sided with Heard or reduced it to "mutual abuse" when all evidence indicates that Heard …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:06 AM
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From the testimony of their marriage counselor, she affirmed that Heard would frequently start physical fights, while indicating that it is possible (but less certain) that Depp would also instigate. The only other evidence I've seen thus far of Depp's instigation is the incident on the plane where he kicked her, but that incident is murkier and his side alleges it was more of a playful "tap". There is no text exchange or call recording in this case indicating the nature of the incident, unlike …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:01 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:39 AM
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So way after the fact Well not necessarily, in any one of those cases they could report a fabricated assault as having occured a few days before. Do you treat it differently when it’s an immediate report then It makes it somewhat more credible, but it could be still dishonest, and honest complainants still may not report immediately for a number of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:38 AM
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Not calling her back? Bitter breakup? Maybe she was drunk and regretted it, or blacked out and didn't even remember it(despite being fully conscious and willing at the time)? Maybe he cheated on her(shitty but doesn't deserve a false accusation)? There are countless reasons for sexually/romantically involved people to be angry at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:20 PM
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Externally, I would tell my kid, something happened where you have displayed a stunning lack of judgement and character that this has come up as even something you could be accused of So even if it's a lie he's still to blame? Talk about victim-blaming, I hope to god you never have a son.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:00 AM
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thankfully false accusations are subject to prosecution. Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:32 AM
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Monozygotic twins? I think in all likelihood you are more similar than you would have been had you been dizygotic. And sometimes monozygotic twins intentionally make extra effort to differentiate themselves because they want to be unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:34 AM
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You clearly didn't read anything I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:33 AM
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Because a daughter would be less like me than a son, and I would be less able to relate to them, and girls are more fussy. To tell you the truth I'd actually want to clone myself lol, that would be so cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:32 AM
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Honestly I don't really want kids, if I did have a child I'd certainly want a son and not a daughter. But if I did have one, or if this was my mother or female cousin, I'd internally reserve judgement in the absence of compelling evidence, but outwardly support them because they're my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:30 AM
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I would work really, really hard not to succumb to standard maternal bias and to evaluate the case on the facts. Follow up question: what if your daughter accused a guy of SA?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:02 AM
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I know. And the lack of an "unfounded" classification doesn't mean that she was honest either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:00 AM
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The chances of him being falsely accused are slim to none. How could you know that? The 2-5% statistic that always gets trotted out is based on the proportion of cases that law enforcement labels unfounded, but many if not most of the cases that aren't labelled as founded don't result in charges or a trial, much less a conviction. They were dropped due to insufficient evidence. he's doing some shady abusive or borderline abusive to be accused in the first place. This is the worst part, I hope to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:57 AM
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For my part I would probably withhold judgement internally unless there was quite compelling evidence one way or another, as someone who philosophically values truth. But as a parent I would outwardly support and stand by my child in all respects.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:51 AM
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SA victims usually have nothing to gain I think you underestimate how strong of a motive revenge can be. Or concealing infidelity, if the accuser was in a relationship with someone else.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:50 AM
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I would put him in therapy and pay for that too. What if he didn't do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:49 AM
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If there was reason to believe he didn’t do it of course I would support him. If there was reason to believe he did What if there was nothing but his word against hers? And maybe evidence of physical intercourse (which is mostly irrelevant because it doesn't really indicate consent). and not support him Not even with legal representation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:17 AM
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would inform their children that their father's love Well he no longer sees himself as the father, and he's certainly not the biological father. Like I tell my daughter all the time I love her no matter what I don't think truly unconditional love really exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:31 PM
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I don't think OP was making an exception so much as saying in a roundabout way that the child losing a father figure(and financial support) would be the fault of the mother. Obviously if the guy decided to start shoplifting jewelry or something that's wholly irrelevant to the issue of paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:30 PM
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Not all, but certainly a larger proportion compared to women. And even men who are visibly chubby can have a substantial amount of muscle underneath, the "adonis" look you're referring to requires cutting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:49 PM
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I'm sure it's possible but it's almost certainly less common than in men, because women are less interested in building muscle and it's harder for them to do so. And anyone can cherry pick, these are not necessarily representative of the average 5'4" 170lbs woman. I think those who carry fat better are more likely to be willing to share photos of themselves than those that don't. And they all have clothes on, it's harder to tell from that, especially if they're genetically lucky enough to not st…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:58 AM
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n the OKCupid study, even men in their 40’s and 50’s preferred women in their early 20’s The data you're referring to talks about blind ratings, where middle-age men rated younger women as the most attractive in blind tests where they weren't told the age, only provided the image. But for practical purposes, they were most likely to message women their age and slightly younger. 66% of men only messaged the top 33% of women The data I've seen doesn't indicate that, only that the most attractive w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:56 AM
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Marriage absolutely does not give men more free time or disposable income LMAO. Women are needy and expensive, children even more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:54 AM
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