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Until she goes bunny boiler on you, which arguably you deserve.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:19 AM
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If a man wants the best partner/parent he could get in a woman. He wants a woman that has the freedom to and is willing to put all of her time and effort into being the best partner/parent. For that reason it is better for him to go for a stay at home wife that does not work. Why would a woman do that if the man isn't willing to do the same thing? After all he only has 4 hours a day to be the best partner he can and 4 hours to be a father, without taking into account that he needs to rest other …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 03:55 PM
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Two counter-arguments to that: 1) The woman can work from home. 2) The man can stay at home while the woman works reversing the roles, if she makes more money. She doesn't have to be either dependent on the man or stay at home herself just because she is a woman. If you want your kids to have either parent to take care of them what you want is either a woman who works and makes more than you do so you can stay at home, or a woman who's willing to stay at home but works from home so she can have …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 03:16 PM
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She doesn't have to be dependent on him to be invested. Sounds more like he wants her to be dependent so she doesn't have a choice other than being invested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 02:51 PM
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Ok even so men lose interest eventually when they get bored of the sex even if you don't put out on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 01:00 PM
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What woman with sense would want to be just some fuckboy's plate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 12:17 PM
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Really? As a female I feel that unless I give sex, the man loses interest and goes elsewhere. And if I do, first date or not, he loses interest eventually anyway. Giving sex is just delaying the inevitable, so I stay alone. See how this works?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 12:15 PM
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And then if she agrees you'd think to yourself "I was right, women are all hoes who put out on the first date for high value men!", if she didn't "Whatever she is just a hoe anyway, hard next bruh" or "She didn't give me sex in the first date? She is using me! What a hoe!" or "Women only put out for high status men and she doesn't see me as one, hoe." In other words, "she has no morals either way, she is just a dog in heat with some standards". Smart women know to avoid men like that. If the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 12:13 PM
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I'd say that any man who is attracted to a woman who chooses to be completely dependent nowadays when she could be otherwise is most likely the controlling, manipulative type. Back then all women had to be dependent on their husbands. Nowadays they don't so why would a man specifically choose such a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 12:10 PM
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I'm with the 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 07:24 PM
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This is what I'm talking about. You wouldn't be either, but you won't see that because you fear being a flesh light or a cat post. What would I be then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 07:08 PM
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Because they are masochists. ​ (your theory is correct. If they get rejected they can just tell themselves "Well she is just a hoe anyway")
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:36 PM
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And what makes you think women want to be cucked and cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:35 PM
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Why did you bring up lesbians? I didn't say that the future for women is lesbian relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:33 PM
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They'll have miserable relationship because they don't want to be a slut with their man and they don't want to be anything that men want their women to be because it slightly resembles what women like you fear. In other words, either be a masturbatory fantasy for a man or end up alone with your cats. I refuse to accept this. Ultimately, you'll be strong and independent and perhaps you'll have women that hang out with you and have friends, but dudes don't want to build lives with women that are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:32 PM
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Nah fuck that I blame violent men for male-on-female violence. They would be less likely to beat up women if there wasn't this stereotype that they are "weak" and "passive" and "need men" and "like it" wouldn't they? Again, there's always going to be violent people and assholes. Think less of how bad the world is and more on how you can defend yourself. Men learn to defend themselves because no one else will. Women complain because there's always going to be white knights. Acting like a damsel i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:11 PM
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And why can't the man do that instead? Why does it have to be the woman? Say she makes more than the man. Wouldn't it be better for the family if the father stopped working instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:05 PM
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The women in my family grew up in the countryside in semi-poverty under a fascist dictatorship. It doesn't matter how tough you are, it still gets to you and it comes out in times of peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:04 PM
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What do you think women should change themselves into? So if they can't be traditional or slutty women, what should women be? And if they could be that woman, what would they get for it? For starters, the attitude. It doesn't matter what someone choose to do if they still have that mentally of looking for a leader who will tell them what to do. It's not bad to depend on others. What is bad is to be a follower and waiting for "the one" to give your life meaning. They should have some mission that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:02 PM
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Your point is that under the circumstances traditionalism is the best possible solution. I disagree. The alternatives aren't perfect but at least aren't as close minded and stagnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 05:46 PM
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They aren't so traditional then ;) I'd go with "dignity and respect". No need to be traditional. Functional does it and traditional isn't all that functional and never was. Lots of people like to delude themselves about the good ol' days that never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 05:36 PM
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But if you slapped a man and woman with the exact same force in a nonsexual environment, the woman will report greater pain experience than the man on average So we are talking about reports here. It's obvious why a man wouldn't complain about pain as much as a woman would. Doesn't mean he feels any less pain than the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 03:24 PM
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True doesn't help when most women would rather have a man defend them than learn to defend themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 01:41 PM
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Men have Quicker reflexes (can evade your attack and respond quicker than you) I'm not sold on this one. If women are smaller and lighter, if they are fit enough, then one average they will be faster than the average man. Less pain receptors on skin (equivalent hits don't hurt as much) Then why are most subs female?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 01:38 PM
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Why do women even need physical strength? In 30 years, I’ve done fine without it. I'm sorry to hear you've been living for 30 years as a vegetable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:38 PM
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Unless every woman does boxing and BJJ three times a week each as soon as they hit puberty it won't make a difference. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:54 PM
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Looks like all the odds are against us! Maybe we should all just go back to the kitchen and let our Chad Red Pilled husbands take care of us as estrogen makes us too fat and stupid to even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:53 PM
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I think you are all missing the point. Out there fights are not clean and there are no rules. Usually there's weapons involved, such as knives or guns. For knife fighting, speed is much more important that strenght. Out you can fight dirty. I'm talking about survival fighting, not competitive fighting. Even the biggest man can't do anything if he is attacked by a group of smaller men (ie prison).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:43 PM
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An average sized woman who is very athletic and works out and trains in martial arts (like BJJ) possibly has a chance against an average sized 5'9" skinny fat guy who doesn't work out and doesn't have any martial arts or real world fighting experience. But even it's going to be close. I think you are grossly exagerating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:30 PM
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Women in their happiest, most content state, are pee-pee poo-poo immature children who just want to be cute, adorable, and have fun. You do not argue with a child. You don't talk dirty to or insult a child either... Unless it's not really a child and it's an adult acting like a child because someone finds that appealing for whatever reason.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 12:26 AM
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It's well known that promiscuity, sexual dissatisfaction and intimacy issues are often connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:11 PM
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Can we agree than men and women are equally shitty?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:24 PM
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Even more delusional is the idea that sexual satisfaction is "banging a lot of hoes".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:20 PM
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CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:02 PM
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Women love gender roles that benefit them. So do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:12 PM
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I love your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:30 PM
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I feel ya. I'm that way too. It's as if there's an angry personality, a depressed one, and an indifferent/dissociative one that goes in between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:29 PM
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Ask anyone who’s wealthy in pussy how much it’s worth to them. “Nothing” is the answer to that question. Then why don't they go celibate?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 05:56 PM
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Careful not to become what you hate...
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 04:58 AM
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Why do you care so much what women do or don't do? Focus on yourself and your life. You can't change how others behave but you can change yourself.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:00 PM
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Mid 30s is not middle aged.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:46 PM
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People are sad.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:27 PM
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A part of me feels, as your post alludes to, that a lot of these 'gender dynamic' complexities might actually derive not from the opposite sex: but parents who have various designs and expectations for their children and need to deceive and manipulate them into conforming to them. A lot of the pressure to follow the life-script isn't really coming from the opposite sex: it's coming from parents and 'the parental generation' who want to make sure that their hard-work and sacrifice wasn't for a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:56 PM
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Exactly. Young men want young women, young women want men in their 30s (or at least happens often like you said). Older women are left with their cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:30 PM
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This is like asking if all men have a vested interest in turning women against other men since men compete with each other. Are there men who try and sour things for specific women so he thinks he can get a shot? Creepy male feminist nice guy types. Red Pillers to a degree because they treat women like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:27 PM
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Yes, it's true. The only thing my "strong independent" mother ever told me about men is that they are brutes who smell bad (projection). She has also tried to infantilize me and keep me dependent on her my whole life (female). This may sound odd but older women also side with incel types who also hate young women (for obvious reasons) and want them scared and away from "Chad". You know, the types of men who triangulate with mommy to keep the wife or gf under control, the original "slut shaming" …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:25 PM
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Probably because the castrated mice don't give them as much attention/don't care? According to TRP ignoring women gets them more anxious and willing to prove themselves. Those mice are the mouse equivalent of MGTOW. Not sure how vasectomy works with mice.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 07:22 PM
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Same logic behind men saying they want a "good girl" or when they try to turn a whore into a housewife and as soon as they do they lose interest and go after another promiscuous woman even if they trash talk such women constantly.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 05:11 PM
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lol, you have no morality to bash thots then
/r/askTRP30/08/19 04:28 PM
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So you basically take inexperienced and thirsty sugar babies for a spin to see if there's "chemistry" and never pay them?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 07:26 PM
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If running "salt" daddy game, it's a walk in the park. What's "salt daddy game"?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 07:07 PM
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But here I am today and she sends me a snap of a banana in her mouth and Im totally blown away how I should navigate this situation. Tell her she looks dumb.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 07:06 PM
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Nah man. Self loathing is self loathing.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:32 PM
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damn straight bro
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:32 PM
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First one came in her and she was giggling that the second and third dudes thought she was wet when they were licking her pussy and turns out it was the other guys cum.. in one day. And she got praises like “hawt!” , “nice!” , “I wish I was the lucky dude” ... bruv, disgusting. The penis envy of the women of that sub is fascinating.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:29 PM
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I was literally shocked by what I was hearing, girl 2 was bragging that she sucked off a dude she hated, she made out with 5 different guys one night because she got rejected and tried anal for the first time with a complete stranger. Bruh the degeneracy of todays women... Isn't this the same of abundance mentality?
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:27 PM
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You act like your only options are "safe" women who are bitchy and unfulfilling and plates you don't feel attached to, and then complain you are lonely.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 03:31 PM
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I never had a male role model. Or any kind of role model. Nobody gave me a model of how to be, just how not to be. This.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:34 PM
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Women have always exercised power, it's just that now someone has shown them that they can have more power by joining the workforce and voting for left wingers than by staying in a traditional marriage. Even if women had no agency (playing Devil's advocate here) they would still have to want something to be convinced to do one thing or the other, the same way that those migrants want to escape their countries. In other words, they want something so they do have at least some agency.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:29 PM
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You really don't think women have it in them to naturally crave power over men by emasculating them and that they are good and submissive at heart and this is all the doing of some evil men and ugly feminists?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:11 PM
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Their is nothing more blue pill then letting yourself get Psychologically reconfigured via pornography which is exactly how this whole femdom thing is propagated. I thought it was single mothers/the matriarchy.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:59 PM
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Indeed. Stekel's Sadism and Masochism is a good book.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:42 PM
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Not my kink. I find anything BDSM related pretty weird tbh. Others are free to do it ofc.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:35 PM
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Makes you think, "if my father couldn't do it, how can I?". Good question indeed.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:23 PM
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Same thing, one is just more subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:51 PM
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Slave mentality, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:10 PM
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Promiscuous women tend to be damaged inside. They use their bodies to pair bond or think that’s the right way. And their mindset usually is masculine, sexually. Interesting.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:33 PM
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It's patronizing, that's why.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:39 PM
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They are just telling you what you want to hear.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 04:48 PM
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Side note: a lot of my boys told me I should of just took her from him. I felt like that would of killed our friendship( because he has ONEits asf). What you guys think? I don't know what kind of person your friend is but if he's the kind of nice guy he seems to be he likely doesn't have a very strong character (more than ignorance of red pill stuff) and he resents you. Either strategy, taking the girl or not taking her and trying to lecture your "friend" on TRP is going to backfire eventually b…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 07:43 PM
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Throughout the night, this dude was doing all the beta blue pill behaviors by catering to her, following her around, and buying her drinks. Where's the equity in this?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 07:35 PM
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It's more difficult to find quality in a man than satisfying sex in a woman. I think that if everyone, men or women, tried to pursue self-improvement and independence from others and demand less of others they would have much more abundance, regardless of their preferences. A lot of women look for leaders in men, men don't look for leaders in women (at least not usually). Leaders are rare regardless of sex. So men with abundance mentality always win here. If women only looked for sex in men thin…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 07:17 PM
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Because (if the guy is worth it) she wants commitment from him more than he wants sex from her. In that case she is unwise. Abundance mentality here would benefit her too.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 06:56 PM
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Yes and no. If a girl comes across as a potential LTR guys are more prepared to put the effort in, offer exclusivity, invest in commitment, etc. LTR material is in scarce supply and is a valuable commodity as a result. I don't get the double standards. The girl has to fit all these things in a checklist, be faithful and bend herself over backwards to prove that she is not like other women, the guy just has to hold frame and is free to try other women and spin plates because, why?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 03:00 PM
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lol Yes they do. It feels like misery.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 03:23 AM
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Idk. It was in the asexual community so that may have something to do with it.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:20 AM
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Yes... I've heard some guys say it weird them out.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:17 AM
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Aren't there guys who get weirded out when women act in a feminine or sexual (feminine) manner? What's that about?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:12 AM
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I agree that trust should be earned and not given freely. At the same time, according to TRP AWALT so the trustworthy woman isn't real.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 11:30 PM
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Lots of guys think girls are bitches if they don't fuck, and then the same guys think girls are sluts if they do fuck. One of the core beliefs of red pill philosophy is that women are untrustworthy so no matter what they do it's always going to be interpreted in that sense.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 09:56 PM
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Thing is... if a girl doesn't put out others will. You want sex. So you will go for those girls. How does that leave you time for others?
/r/askTRP20/07/19 09:25 PM
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The quicker she gives it up the less the guy respects her. Yet if she never gives it up or gives it up too late he loses interest and goes for girls who give it up quicker. How long should a woman take to give it up, in you opinion?
/r/askTRP20/07/19 08:36 PM
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Depends on the kind of relationship you have with her. What do you mean?
/r/askTRP20/07/19 08:08 PM
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It is possible to love someone and not hurt if you have to let them go. It's called emotional maturity. You can still hurt but you know how to handle it instead of running away from your feelings.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 06:21 PM
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The classic negative visualization of stoicism aka sour grapes
/r/askTRP12/07/19 06:06 PM
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That too but I think there's genuine emotional investment in it. Not the lofty, loving kind of investment but definetly a possessive sexual type of investment. ​ In many cases, there's something quasi religious in it. It comes from the same human need to believe in a higher, caring, protective authority. Assholes are confident and have a pretty dominant dynamic over the women who fall for them. Subconsciously, if chad doesn't like her that's like their father doesn't like them. That's how those …
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:22 PM
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They hit them right in the Oedipal Complex, that's what.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:02 PM
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When you have no father figure, you become your father figure. Makes sense. Also the OP is clearly one massive cuck.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:05 PM
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lol tf
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:26 AM
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Show me a woman who's fucked 100 men, and you're showing me any old girl who says yes a lot. In fact, she probably has low discipline, poor impulse control, bad judgment, and mental health issues that cause her to seek out and value attention from lots of men. Not to mention, you have to wonder what the fuck is wrong with her. Uh...
/r/askTRP27/06/19 05:36 PM
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I'll get the popcorn. Don't forget the crucifix and the holy water too. And the garlic.
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 02:33 PM
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If it makes you feel better, they give the same (or worse) treatment to girls who actually perform and refuse to suck up.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 11:46 AM
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I’ve found them endearing at first, and then they turn out to be fickle little two-faces creatures. It’s like the worst of women on steroids. Oh the irony hahaha
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:49 AM
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I think I've taken all the pills at this point.
/r/askMRP15/06/19 06:05 PM
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Maybe she *does* want to have sex with you, she just doesn't feel comfortable because of her self esteem issues. Look on the bright side, if she didn't like you one bit she wouldn't care about your opinion of her body.
/r/askMRP15/06/19 11:56 AM
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The moment you stop being a "hypergamous whore" she's going to change and let out all the frustration she has been bottling up all this time. She's not a unicorn, she's just more cunning.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 11:18 AM
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Doesn't excuse gratuitously shitty behavior.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:02 AM
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Men love romantically Men fall in love with illusions and then complain when they get screwed over by whores.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:00 AM
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9/10 the girls are cool with it because they enjoy me. They are likely only saying that to keep you around.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:49 AM
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I never had the "good old days" because I've been unhappy as far as I can remember, only in the past I had hope things would change one day when I became an adult and became independent. Now that I'm an adult I'm not so sure anymore.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:48 AM
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Sounds like you got all sorted out.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:46 PM
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Those are some really cool plans. Which ones have you achieved so far? Build my own sustainable compound out in the middle of nowhere out of shipping containers, solar panels, etc. How are you going to do that?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 08:25 PM
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Yeah that would be depressing
/r/askTRP16/05/19 01:29 PM
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Why everyone and not yourself? Why not just focus on yourself and people who are like you and want to join you in whatever your mission is?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 01:18 PM
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I'm not too worried about being forgotten after I die. I always thought I'd be too dead to care anyway. Yeah I guess. Since we are here, might as well make something of it.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 01:02 PM
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Solidify my family's legacy. Doesn't apply to me, yikes. Why do you care about changing the world?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:05 PM
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I'd rather not have that kind of needs... maybe find some replacement?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:01 PM
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Sure beats "fuck mo bitches and lift bro" don't it? ;)
/r/askTRP16/05/19 11:52 AM
2

I heard some guru guy say that one should learn to live in the moment instead of having a mission... he seemed pretty convincing. I always envied those guru guys. Maybe my mission could be to find inner peace, regardless of circumstances? I've read many books on that, by people who were in gulags, nazi death camps, or completely lost hope and aim at some point (ie Beethoven). That kind of adversity makes you learn to find peace within yourself. Maybe I could really work on that...
/r/askTRP16/05/19 11:47 AM
5

Video games, drugs, casual sex. It's all temporarily. While enjoyable, it is fleeting. It's much better to develop long term happiness. I agree. I actually can't remember a day where I was genuinely sad, while I use to suffer wild mood swings before I got my shit in order. Are you genuinely happy or just good at running away from your existential crisis?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 01:33 AM
5

What drives you to accomplish all those things?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 01:16 AM
-9

Here's another shit-marriage-future-divorce in the making, if you ever get there.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:27 AM
-6

What's the point of kids? Most marriages end up in divorce. Or cheating. Your wife is going to nag the hell out of you. Do you think you can game her forever?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:19 AM
1

Women are emotionally unstable and prone to depression And who isn't these days.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 12:29 AM
1

No I get it, you don't have things handed out to you on a silver platter like young average+ looking women usually do if they use their sexuality. You can't use sex as easily or effectively as a woman can to get by. It makes you learn to be self sufficient and independent. Looks and sexuality aren't a real form of power, you are more controlled by your sexuality than it is by you. I think that a woman can be all that, if she chooses to. Men too have to make the choice between following the herd,…
/r/askTRP02/05/19 08:50 PM
1

What if you can't avoid them? Besides if you play them right it can be very useful.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 05:22 PM
1

You gave her attention which was exactly what she wanted. She won.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 04:46 PM
2

How do you use a misandrist system to your advantage if you are a male?
/r/askTRP02/05/19 04:45 PM
1

Why is it better to be a man?
/r/askTRP02/05/19 04:40 PM
1

“it’s okay if you want other guys, I’ll let em have you so long as they got something for me” You mean "so long as you got something for me"?
/r/askTRP02/05/19 04:26 PM
1

If only I knew what I mission was.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:12 PM
14

There's only 2 reasons for you to be doing what you are doing. One is that you know they most likely don't understand what you are saying so it makes you feel smarter than them which shows your lack of self esteem, second you are trying to turn them into conversation buddies when they just want sex because... I dunno. Why don't you have that kind of conversations with male friends?
/r/askTRP02/05/19 01:04 PM
3

I was being sarcastic hehe but you are right Much of the crazy women we observe is because we are closely observing hot women. Being an attractive person can be a factor in this insanity and mental issues. It's like being born wealthy, it messes with your head. The sane women, are unlikely the ones anyone would be pursuing. Power corrupts. Also, it's not just hot crazy women who get attention. An ugly crazy woman gets much more attention than a sane one. So does a hot crazy one over a hot sane o…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:36 AM
121

Thank you Dr Red Phil.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:06 PM
-1

No, I like guys.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:15 PM
2

You can still catch stuff with a condom and condoms can break.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:13 PM
7

Am I the only one who doesn't give a shit who the girl I'm plating is fucking? Aren't you afraid of catching some disease?
/r/askTRP23/04/19 02:44 PM
5

Let's say he impregnates two women per day. What if their periods align because they are all in the same factory?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 02:11 PM
2

I never said it was a majority. Look up the dynamics of narcissistic families.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 01:44 PM
9

The researched material is my personal experience. I have never met a father that didn't want his son to be a better version. Good for you. I've met more than I cared to. I wasn't talking about alcoholics by the way, just simps in general.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 01:31 PM
44

From my experience, Billy most likely has a narcissistic mother and a simping enabling father. Mommy knows Stacy doesn't threaten her and that she will keep hurting Billy, and every time Billy is hurt he will come crying back to her. The father enables all this because misery loves company and because he doesn't want to see his son succeeding where he failed. Of course I'm making assumptions, but this is a very likely scenario.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 11:24 AM
1

Stacy here didn't just snag your "fancy restaurant twice a month, maybe a bouquet of flowers once in a while" run-of-the-mill beta. No, she snagged the real deal. She seduced a guy who pays for their rent, their food, and her medical school tuition. That's the jackpot. That's a guy who's loaded. That's a guy who could easily sign up for one of those sugar daddy sites and have a new 20yo prostitute girlfriend within a week. All she has to do is keep being a mediocre girlfriend. ​ It's not rationa…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 11:19 AM
1

You cant run away from this sort of environment. Might as well learn to deal with it. I suggest OP learns how to smooth talk women and act like he is their little sidekick, but without looking like a simp. People who talk trash about you sometimes all they want is a bit of attention and that's all it takes to get them on your side.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:00 PM
1

Understand that in a given environment hierarchies are determined by competence. Not necessarily. Sometimes it's more about flattery than anything else.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:59 PM
7

Now that doesn’t mean you should develop oneitis, you must keep abundance and realize that it’s not the girl you miss but female affection in general, which you can get from other chicks too Is that all there is? Just hormones?
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:09 PM
3

You are lucky if your parents will go even that far. But I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 07:52 AM
35

Men—real men at least—take responsibility for their choices and actions, because we are judged by them from a very young age. More like because no one is going to save you if you fuck up so you don't really have much choice, but that too.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 03:16 AM
6

For example check gavin mcinnes interview with a woman. Why does she find him so funny? I don't get it. I got bored after a couple of minutes.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 04:35 PM
1

Maybe he thinks he gives her something that Chad doesn't, and that makes him special somehow.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:43 PM
2

If nothing matters then what's the point of fucking around? What's the point of instant gratification? Nothing has any point or meaning, so why do anything other than just drift aimlessly and do the bare minimum to live comfortably, avoiding pain or excessive pleasure as much as possible because nothing means anything and there's no point, so why suffer unnecessarily and why strive for temporary pleasures? ​ I'm very skeptical of people with your kind of philosophy. It looks like you are just lo…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 03:23 PM
3

It is. I've met a few guys like this. Some think Red Pillers are dumb for working so hard and that they are the smart ones, playing with the cards they are dealt and making the most out of having to lower their standards.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:35 PM
3

Pretty much yeah. He knows that every time she has sex with him (the beta) she's doing it out of duty or sexual frustration. Partly he feels bad, partly he gets a sadistic kick out of it. Of course not all betas are like this. Another explanation is betas who are closeted gays and live vicariously through their cheating gfs, or get a kick out of being bossed around by women (ie women who are domineering and even sadistic with their beta partners but docile with chad. Little do those women know t…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:12 PM
2

Just because a guy is a beta doesn't mean he's stupid. Different strategies.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:05 PM
2

I'm too atheistic to be a monk.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 06:02 PM
0

sounds like you're an LTR type, dude. Right now I'm more of a nothing type, dude.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:53 PM
-5

You are wasting time yes. It's an empty, meaningless relationship that doesn't add anything to your life other than STDs.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:30 PM
1

How do you know he isn't taking advantage of her insecurities too? Nice guys are not as stupid as people think they are. He may be settling but the satisfaction of knowing she can't keep the commitment of the guys she really likes and the frustration it causes her might just make up for being cheated on for him. Some guys may settle for less but they try to have fun with it.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:27 PM
-6

Looks like you two are just wasting each other's time for what, orgasms?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:25 PM
-4

she said she's scared to be on her own, meaning she can't get into serious shit with me and found a guy for comfort? in that case i pity that dude. You should pity yourself, wasting your time being some hoe's sex toy.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:23 PM
1

The reality is that no one can tell you what to do, that's something you have to figure out on your own because having things figured out is knowing how to adapt.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:51 AM
1

I would much rather be a man than a woman. Yeah, tell me about it. When you can't or won't use your looks or your orifices to get what you want you actually have to figure things out. It's good in the long run.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 04:08 AM
0

God doesn't exist...
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:47 AM
1

I think it's Confessions.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:50 PM
1

I completely blow off shit tests that relate to this, although I'm not sure if this is the right way to go about it. People get jealous easy, and they get bitchy when they're jealous. Fuck 'em. It's best to just leave them wondering.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:20 PM
10

Damned if you do, damned if you don't. The less masculine you act the less people respect you, the more you do the more they test you and bother you.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:19 PM
1

When someone begs for your attention and mirrors you completely, it is impossible to view them as anything but a joke. People like that are really quite pathetic.
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 01:45 PM
3

I think there's a difference between a useless slob and someone who while not conventionally successful, is successful in their own way. Climbing the social hierarchy isn't always the wisest solution. You could be just chasing a carrot on a stick that's being held by someone else.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 05:31 AM
2

Once she gets to the big city all she has to do is install Tinder/SnapChat and suddenly you are one of thousands of Chads, instead of one of the few from her tiny hometown perspective. The indoctrination from females around her will be relentless, the options will fuck with her head and yours, and in the big city there are just tons of "flavors" she will never have tried before. Well... I mean, this woman is trying really hard to improve herself so OP becomes exclusive with her and for all her e…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:37 AM
8

and OP raises a red pill boy What if it's a girl?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:30 AM
5

It's gross how the more of an asshole you are, the more people like you.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:24 AM
2

Sometimes I wish less rigorous love making sex was more pleasing More pleasing for you or for them?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:57 PM
3

This was a turning point. Sex from this point on was primal, no holes barred (excuse the pun). For a long while it felt strange and wrong to be doing what I was doing. I wondered if one day what I was doing would be presented as evidence in front of a judge. But you know what? I started to love it. I also realised that no woman is ever been with sexually has enjoyed sex with me as much as she did when I was in caveman mode. And now, most of our sex is this way. If we’re lazy and tired sometimes …
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:55 PM
-4

Okay, forget it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:39 PM
0

I thought FereallyRed was being sarcastic. He wasn't?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:29 PM
2

Ha. However, if I remember right a certain prominent guy on this sub posted an article where he said he wasn't really into it, he did it more for the women.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:51 PM
1

It's a matter of quality over quantity.
/r/MGTOW17/03/19 04:46 PM
4

Women like to pass this image of purity and Blue Pill cucks go along with it because they want to get in their pants and because they hate masculine men. They want to be women's little sidekicks, that's why they are usually feminists. They are the male equivalent of a tradtoth. I've met my fair share of nice guys and I can say that they understand women fairly well. Actually, they are quite similar to them mentally.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 01:26 PM
1

Let's be honest here: you were only "in love" with her looks. Anyone ought to feel insulted when they are "loved" for nothing but their orifices and appearance. ​ Had she lost her looks you would've done the same thing. I don't see how any of this is unfair. You never really liked her, she never really liked you. Why do people always mix up things?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 08:51 PM
1

Women don't want men who are in touch with their feelings because not being so leaves them emotionally isolated and prey to their urges and instabilities, and also to the approval of women and other men. Women want men who are useful and controlable.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 05:25 PM
17

The only thing a period stops is a sentence You obviously never had a period.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:59 PM
4

Besides from acting on it, you could look at real life examples and try to apply that logic. 48 Rules of Power also has a long list of recommended reading at the end. You could try reading a few of those and seeing how the rules apply to each.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:42 AM
1

Something in the lines of "You look down on me for not being able to control my husband? Just look at how I make my son dance for me!"
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:44 PM
2

She says something like, "Wow, spring came early this year." Response: "Well, we've all had that problem at one time or another." :|
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:01 PM
1

Mommy wants to keep you around forever. Some will teach you to be a beta soyboy, the others will tell you to sleep around. Either way, you scare away decent women and avoid commitment. In the end, mommy wins.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 04:56 PM
1

They could not tame the father, but taming the son (who, after all, resembles the father) represents a form of "success". Stupid, cruel, and abusive "success" but they are so trapped in their rage at the ex-husband that they cannot even see what they are doing to their sons. I think they see it it, if they didn't they wouldn't do it. They also do it to show off to other women.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 04:18 PM
1

Anyway, she is demanding I watch Wuthering Heights with her tonight. I don’t want to watch this fucking movie. It seems lame as fuck and I’ve never heard of it. It’s a romance or some shit that was written by some dead dude. I told her I want to watch Avengers: Infinity War. I've never watched it nor read the book, but take a look at the synopsis: Wuthering Heights is a wild, passionate story of the intense and almost demonic love between Catherine Earnshaw and Heathcliff, a foundling adopted by…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 04:08 PM
1

Aren't smart 6s normally too full of themselves as well?
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:34 PM
4

Not saying there's anything wrong with smart women, just why do you prefer to have sex with them over the hotter ones?
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:51 PM
-1

You obviously don't have sexual conversations with your female family members, so are all your conversations with them boring? Yes. Except for gossip. I like gossip.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:48 PM
4

For intellectual conversation? They are mostly terrible at it. Don't bother. It's awful. They are used to getting a pat on the back for every dumb shit they say. There's two ways women can react to this: they will either try to change the subject/ dumb down the conversation (usually with uncalled for sexual innuendo, they think it's really witty for whatever reason) and they'll resent you, or they will try to keep up and fail and again, they'll resent you. ​ Intellectual conversation has 2 thing…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:47 PM
1

I've been a pro fapper all my life What's a pro fapper?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:58 PM
4

now this had an effect on my psyche as it made believe every woman was into femdom If you piss them off enough, they will be.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:48 PM
24

Unfortunately, you don't know that women don't give a shit about any of that. True, but doesn't mean you should give up your values, just means it's naive to have principles with people who can't respect them. People who want to behave like trash deserve to be treated like trash.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:00 PM
12

If she were to give herself easily to a nice guy beta he wouldn't stick around. The whole purpose of dating a beta is that he sticks around.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 08:58 PM
0

I saw my sister and step mother fight like trained dogs. Over what?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 01:04 PM
1

Yes it does make sense, I agree.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:46 PM
1

There's a reason there's all those memes about their crush leaving them on open and shit/their boyfriend not texting back. I still find it hard to believe... maybe they do have a suspicion, but would rather not think about it.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:45 AM
2

Game is by no means everything and quite honestly I don't see myself ever adopting it. Dominant high SMV guys don't need game/tactics. I disagree. Like you said, if you are sexy you'll do well either way but don't think that just because you are hot women won't walk all over you if you let them, or that you can't be cucked.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:40 AM
1

"Women are perfect harmless creatures who will love you and be faithful to you if only you debase yourself enough for them."
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:38 AM
10

Yet you still went in a relationship with her. FWBs, cool. A relationship? I have to wonder if it isn't more effective for women to act like complete bitches when they want a guy, judging by how much men like psychos.
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 02:15 AM
9

True. Even my own mother does that, that's why I never tell her anything. Fuck, I never trusted women and learnt from a very young age never to, precisely because of this sort of shit.
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 02:08 AM
2

I will take a look. I never think about anything when I masturbate anyway, porn and fantasies never did anything for me, if anything they just distract me. Also I'm not religious and never been ashamed of these things. If the OP is it would make sense why he'd feel better.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 03:37 PM
1

Nice guys usually didn't have a good relationship with their dads. That was me, because my father was emotionally absent. It was awkward to talk to him, I felt neglected, he would get angry super fast whenever we were doing man things together, like if I couldn't find the right tool, or if I forgot the name of a tool. This led me to be largely raised by my mother, and to seek my mother out for my problems, not my father. Also, mothers can't teach a boy how to become a man. Suffice to say, I had …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 03:21 PM
1

Good question.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:57 PM
1

Lions are just the pawns of lionesses. They control them by letting them think they are in charge. This is the crux of female power. EDIT: Before you downvote, go read Anatomy of Female Power or The Manipulated Man
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 03:57 PM
1

Of course women can separate things. But a girl who says "sex and love are two absolutely different things" to justify her hookups is not a girl I want to engage in a LTR with. That's why I was saying the double standard makes no sense if you are only talking in terms of emotional commitment. I don't think most women can be emotionally commited to anyone but themselves. They see sex as an investment, but not of the emotional kind. At least if they are smart. Would you rather be in a LTR with a w…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:24 PM
1

Oh, you have no idea. Even weirder, I met her on asexuality.org
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:52 AM
1

They are the ones that say yes or no to sex, and if they say yes to a lot of people, how valuable is that person? I think it's about different strategies. What if the woman doesn't really care about the guy and just wants to get pregnant so she can turn the kid into a future provider? With big daddy government she can manage that without the guy.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 01:56 AM
1

Is it so hard to believe that some women don't cheat? And just because they don't that doesn't negate the AWALT stuff. It just manifests itself differently.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 01:52 AM
1

We can't all be arab princes.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 01:49 AM
1

It is, isn't it?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 01:47 AM
0

IMO, this is normal healthy sexual behavior. I'm not sure if normal and healthy can exist in the same sentence these days.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 05:34 PM
8

He's not going to find her if he's only dating promiscuous, low-IQ sluts. Not saying housewife types are angels, they are just smarter.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:55 PM
62

It's true but not all women cheat when they get bored. Some are smarter than that and just make life hell for their beta husbands.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:53 PM
5

People who are envious of you try to make you feel bad for being better. It's like they are saying, "Lower yourself for us or else", else being them turning on you. Don't do it, it's a mistake. They will just resent you and feel even contempt. Ideally, you should be very careful when making other people envy you. It might be satisfying, but it doesn't really compensate in the long run. It just creates a ton of enemies. You already did so the best solution is to get better friends. Or if you are …
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:48 PM
1

in an LTR with a girl who's previous BF killed himself. Probably not a good idea.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:41 PM
1

Women "love" betas in the same way guys "love" their slutty FWBs. They like to give them the idea that they really do love them, that the rest is all sex, but that's just a way of keeping them around. Women pit men against each other by encouraging this beta-alpha dichotomy, it's the old divide to conquer. The reality is that they love neither.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:37 PM
0

It does signal that she has little value and yet men pass women who aren't sluts over for sluts all the time.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:34 PM
2

No pussy is worth dealing with a bpd they are literal demons I've known of a pwBPD who had a fetish for drinking blood. She also said she liked to do oral because it turned her on to think of all the potential lives she was destroying (her words).
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:28 PM
1

OR, she just might like you a whole lot. If she did, she wouldn't be this affectionate so quickly because she could get hurt. Unless she's crazy or really stupid. I'll go with the love bombing stuff.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:27 PM
1

He's right. I'm surprised so few people on this thread find it abnormal that she is this affectionate so quickly. She's obviously lovebombing him. If what he wants is just sex, he's better off avoiding women like this and keep things strictly sexual.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:25 PM
29

If a man puts pussy over real friendships he deserves what's coming to him.
/r/MGTOW26/02/19 12:09 AM
1

Dump her and run. I'm sure she knew he was crazy when she got together with him and if you rub her the wrong way she might go as far as setting him on you by spilling some story on how you tricked her or whatever.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 11:52 PM
2

I would watch her more closely to see if she's crazy. Birds of a feather...
/r/askTRP25/02/19 11:47 PM
1

even though they probably aren't his kids. Is that a good or a bad thing for the kids?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:19 PM
1

Too bad the kids are always the ones getting caught in the crossfire of all that fuckery.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 02:10 PM
1

That's very true.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 01:51 AM
8

No, I think he means an intellectual equal with whom he discusses complex philosophical questions. ​ /s
/r/askTRP22/02/19 04:57 PM
2

They think they're in control, but only by being completely subservient to you. On their knees with your dong in their mouth. Ironically it makes them feel in control while being dominated I could never understand how women fall for that. Works like a charm on people with low self esteem. Obviously they are not in control of anything. What's the worse they can do, bite your dick off? What for, to lose what they think is giving them power?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:44 PM
1

once you stop having unrealistic idea of how a woman should express HER love and how love SHOULD be and you'll finally accept the truth for what it is (she loves you for who you are today which doesn't guarantee love tomorrow) you'll start enjoying their company again. Not sure I can learn to love a fair weather friend. Accept it yes, love it? No. I mean, you are always there for the woman, she won't be always there for you. Sounds like a shitty investment.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:32 PM
2

Maybe using sex as a coping mechanism? Make the pain go away using intense pleasure? Some existential crisis where you're forced to contemplate death and loneliness, so you fight it by seeking life (sex) and companionship? It might be in some cases, but I talking about arousal from the funeral itself, not sex as a cope. Someone can even train themselves to feel arousal instead of sadness the same way they can feel other emotions like anger, but that still isn't what I am talking about here. In t…
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 02:37 AM
1

Never watched it...
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 01:47 AM
1

I thought the most wanted women were the Stacies.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:04 PM
0

He might be trying to avoid just that, because then you'd resent him too.
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 06:49 PM
2

Wrong link, r/incest_relationships
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 05:56 PM
1

That subreddit and similar ones prove most of it.
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 05:46 PM
1

I assume he doesn't want to talk about it.
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 05:44 PM
2

Then why doesn't he get a divorce?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:43 PM
1

Almost all of Freud’s work has been thoroughly disproven. r/incest_relationships disagrees.
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 05:43 PM
12

Some people get horny during funerals. I have several aunts who make it a sport of going to funerals of people they barely know. It wasn't until relatively recently that I figured out why.
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 05:17 PM
1

Maybe your father went through it too. It would explain the reaction.
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 05:16 PM
1

What if the whole family knows about it and thinks it is normal? The whole family is a big pile of shit then.
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 05:16 PM
1

Oh I know, believe me.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:10 PM
9

The only people you should try to save here are firstly yourself (you can't save anyone if you can't save yourself), then any younger siblings. As for your father, he is a masochistic cuck who prefers his wife's approval over the well being of his children. Let him reap what he sowed. ​ This should be obvious, but the way your mother keeps control is by castrating everyone around her, by shaming your sister for being outgoing and feminine and by cucking and blue pilling the men. She is just afra…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:06 PM
5

So I saw her last friday and she was all over me. Asking why I never texted her blablabla. While I was talking to her I had 3 of her male friends walk up to me and tell me to leave her alone. If I broke her heart they'd beat me up, etc. Then I was talking with one of her male friends, turns out he's a brother of one of my classmates. He told me the girl who was all over me told everyone I was in love with her and apparently stalked her and didn't leave her alone. Guys who do that are so pathetic…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:01 PM
1

It does, and I'm not even attracted to women.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:52 PM
0

It sounds bizarre to us men, but women will want you more if they think other women want you. Isn't it the same way with men and women who have a lot of orbiters?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:50 PM
1

You could put those things on display on a shelf like trophies. Not sure if it's good advice or not, but it sounds funny.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:49 PM
1

And then there will be another one, and another one, and another one... I suppose at his age he doesn't really care.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:49 PM
4

Thanks. The easiest people to bs are the kinds of people who never achieved anything, don't know anything, aren't good for anything but think knowledge and self-improvement are for fools (this is just a cope, it's easy to look smart and like you have everything all figured out when you never try); the reason is that these people don't logic, so they judge everything by appearances. Most women of course fit in this group. They live in a world of appearances where value is defined not by what you …
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:18 PM
4

idk why or how he tolerates it but at almost 80, i guess he ran out of fucks to give long ago. lol. Maybe he's just hard of hearing? My grandfather is about the same age and I think he turns his hearing aid off when he's around my grandmother. She's annoying af and never shuts up.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:00 PM
1

This may be the appropriate route honestly, minus the gay sex. There's alternatives.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:57 PM
1

It's almost as if she's teasing him into calling her a slut or treating her like one and yet if he doesn't, she will know he's lying.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:56 PM
1

Where should one draw the line between a girl's gentle, well-meaning test of one's confidence and blatant disrespect? Shit tests are as gentle and well-meaning as checking some fruit you are about to buy for ripeness and quality. Being treated like a product doesn't seem respectful in any way. Just my opinion.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:52 PM
14

What you must do, I think, is realize that those hoes aren't worth shit. What does it matter if they think you are congruent or not? Who do they think they are, what have they ever achieved in their lives to judge you? By actually becoming the man they want you are making a mistake, you are playing into their own game. This isn't to say you shouldn't improve yourself; you should. But for yourself, not for them. People who never achieved anything can't properly judge value, they can only judge ap…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:45 PM
2

Penis envy. They want to tame you and choke you with your own masculinity. All these attempts at getting to you are just narcissism. At least that's my theory.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:34 PM
3

I think you might have found a female you, and she really seems to push your buttons lol
/r/askTRP15/02/19 07:01 PM
1

I just don't understand why she didn't clip them instead.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 11:24 AM
1

I don't know what the fuck you're trying to turn them into, but if you're taking them out on dates, doing each other's hair, having them bite your fingernails?!?, then they're not plates anymore. I think OP's idea is to turn plates into a defused oneitis and play-pretend to be a couple with them.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 04:35 AM
1

You had women bite your nails?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 04:24 AM
1

Flying under the radar is always the best approach.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 10:57 PM
2

Someone in my family convinced several female relatives, young and old, that microwaves were radioactive and made food radioactive too. I have no idea who it was, but it wasn't me. This happened many years ago but they still believe it.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:24 PM
7

It has to do with the fact that he let one crazy woman around and another who wouldn't let him see his kid. Red pilled or not, maybe he wasn't the best role model.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:06 PM
14

Those women are horrible but it's not like your father was a pure and innocent angel led astray by the evil women, you know. It's honorable that you are trying to make him proud but becoming like him maybe isn't the solution. Just pointing it out.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 08:46 PM
1

lol
/r/askTRP13/02/19 08:00 PM
3

How did you get her arrested? I mean, was there any evidence or did you make it up and the police believed it?
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:42 PM
1

Beaverton is a real city though https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beaverton,_Oregon
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:15 PM
0

If she is convinced you are morally superior I thought women liked immoral jerks? I'm confused.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 03:16 PM
3

I meant the latter. My bad.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:10 PM
1

Most guys who date single mothers don't.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:01 PM
-19

I think most men secretly like it too they are spoken to like little boys by a woman. EDIT: I meant it in an affectionate way.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:19 PM
2

No, mostly northern or central european countries.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:35 PM
8

My mother and my aunts are the same. Pretty sure in their case they aren't looking for dick because they are all 55+ and somewhat conservative, it's more about having cool stories to tell to pretend they are interesting. Whenever they talk about the places they have been to it's never things like the architecture, the history, the culture, etc... it's always "Oh we went there and then this happened and then we met this person and then the guide told us this blah blah blah gossip gossip".
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:52 PM
0

Haha cool. Was there an accent/persona that worked best?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:26 AM
2

"fake" personalities Which do you normally use and which are more effective with which people? Have you had any interesting results?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 02:34 AM
30

This. Talking to women is so tiring. It's like they are always trying to get you to enter their frame, like they don't understand the concept of having a conversation as a way of exchanging information.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:57 AM
5

This desire to want her make me feel so disgusted... I really don't understand what's wrong with me man... You are a normal human being who is capable of human emotion. What's wrong is that you have feelings for someone who doesn't deserve them.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 10:23 PM
1

Depends. I've known of guys who pull that well on women with low self esteem.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:55 PM
2

I've seen a similar question elsewhere, if getting out isn't an option like the others suggested you can always try acting really boring and beta until she is the one who leaves. If she felt like she lost she might be crazy enough to keep coming back.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:53 PM
1

But if your favorite homie flakes you still feel bad even if you have other people to be with...
/r/askTRP11/02/19 02:16 PM
1

Fun Fact: One of my plates, in an effort to increase her value to me (and because she’s bi) has offered up on of her gfs to me, because men like threeways, and she realizes this will increase her value to me. Do you think any part of me “feels bad” abt that? Fuck NO. You do you. Kill the bluepill inside you. How do you know she was really attracted to women and that it wasn't just her trying to mirror you? I've seen a few "bi" women pull that one. What happened to that plate?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 12:21 AM
1

How do you pass this one?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 12:03 AM
1

nvm
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:20 PM
0

It only bothers me when they can't separate the waters. One thing is wanting to get their dicks wet or just the challenge of it, the other is prioritizing sex and someone who only values them for their dicks and frame over their friends who value them for who they are. That is insulting.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:49 PM
2

Dont take my comment on "women are boring" too literal. It's not that some women aren't intelligent or that they are actually boring. This plate could of easily continued our conversation. She is smart. Deep intellectual conversations are just not FUN to women. Choosing fun over using your brain doesn't seem very smart. Besides, for some people mental exercises are fun.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:45 PM
9

I don’t want to be just another girl you’re fucking Too late. Me: “alright tell you what, because you’re such a cutie, you show me your best good girl behavior for a while, and then I’ll think about it... I’m just not sure you have what it takes” Her: “I do, I do! I am a good girl” How can those chicks be so pathetic? Do they seriously believe they will get anything with that behavior? Don't they ever feel embarrassed with themselves?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:52 PM
-1

To the title or the question?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:03 PM
1

They can fucking read your soul and mental state from just looking at you. I think you give them too much credit. Odds are you are just really transparent.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:04 PM
1

It's a dumb strategy. There will come a point where they can't run away anymore. Luckily for them there will always be some cuck willing to pick up the pieces.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 05:57 PM
2

I'm actually laughing. Deal ;)
/r/askTRP09/02/19 04:42 AM
4

It's just something I wonder about. You have to understand how women think, no?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 04:27 AM
2

If you're friendly to a guy and entertain a conversation with him and entertain his attention, that is indicating potential interest. He's going to get the wrong idea. Can't a woman be possibly interested in what he has to say and his finer qualities? Why do guys always have to assume she wants dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:34 AM
1

For some reason, I have this image of getting there. Where the shit doesn't fly and she just quietly respects me for the rest of my life. Maybe that's when I die. Then it will be your kid's turn.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 09:20 PM
1

Feigned is good because people love jerks. Real? No. Only does you harm.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 02:55 AM
1

You clearly hate women for something that happened to you in the past, they can pick up on that and that's why they avoid you. Spot on. You need to fix your mentality with them, and realize their people just like you. I know, that's why I hold them to the same standards as I hold myself. No one wants to hang out with someone who subconsciously thinks that all women are useless sluts. Well, look where you are... I guess you just have to hide it really well? I can even show this babe how to be gre…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 02:38 AM
1

It will only make them sluttier.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 02:01 AM
1

That's not quite what I meant. What I meant was that time wasted on certain types of people is time you aren't spending with people who might value more than hoes do. As for LTRs, AWALT right? Besides I think friendships are more important than sexual relationships of any kind. Those women would score their beta cucks/fucks with or without your alpha dick in their past. And that's true whether or not the time they sent with you would've been replaced with some other alpha dick. Refusing to fuck …
/r/askTRP08/02/19 01:49 AM
0

I see your point but still. Sluts will fuck around for validation, then settle down with a beta cuck, maybe become single mothers and leech the tax payers, and still get attention for being "strong and independent". That's their reward. They literaly just have to spread their legs. They are perfectly happy with that outcome because sluts are just one of the many maggots of a rotting society: hights scare them. You will spin plates and waste valuable time on whores when you could be investing tha…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 01:06 AM
1

So your argument is, if you aren't the one who's validating women's sluttiness other men will, so might as well get something out of it?
/r/askTRP08/02/19 12:59 AM
1

I know, but plates and such don't know that. They think their slutty behavior is being rewarded. Which it is.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 12:00 AM
1

I don't think chasing women is a good idea until you worked on yourelf first. I second that.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 02:19 AM
2

My theory is that women are less capable than men when we're talking about entering "of the good" state. Aristotle said something in the lines of how Aristotelian love implies loving oneself before loving others, or loving others as one would love oneself. Loving yourself takes courage to stand up for yourself and be your own leader. That kind of attitude is more of a male thing.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 08:39 PM
1

That's just the way sexual love works. Unpopular opinion but tbh I think MGTOW could be the only way to have peace. Like I said you either go MGTOW or learn how to stop giving a fuck and enjoy manipulating bitches and creaming pussy to get some sort of ''revenge'', I think both can be good if you prioritize yourself and accomplish your goals. Don't the MGTOW have sex with women too? I thought the difference was only cohabitation, LTRs and marriage.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:10 PM
5

"giving, but not expecting anything in return." All of the above can be applied to relationships. Not relationships with women, according to TRP. Of the Good, is a combination of the above, but is based upon none of them. It's more about "doing the right thing", virtue and I guess honor. The way I see it is that such friendships are ends in themselves, not means unlike those of Pleasure and those of Utility.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 08:02 PM
27

It's the same kind of love a deluded blue pill man feels for a hot woman. If she isn't hot anymore, it's gone. It's all sexual attraction. ​ Aristotelian love all the way.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 05:24 PM
1

Makes sense.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:51 AM
10

Pewdiepie
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:04 PM
1

Fetishes and convenience are both armor for plates. What does that mean?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:06 PM
1

How?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:48 PM
1

Fair enough, but how do you know she isn't genuinely jealous?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:14 PM
1

How do you conclude that?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:51 PM
1

c) same thing as a) and b), but the guy is pretending to be gay. There's a female equivalent of that, just reverse the genders in your examples.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:37 PM
6

Single mothers are a cancer on society.
/r/MGTOW05/02/19 06:10 PM
4

Advice on what?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 06:04 PM
6

I could make the same joke about my paternal grandfather.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:59 PM
3

Didn't help that I tried to connect on a philosophical level with women and found that most of them were incredibly shallow and narcissistic. They always get bored and prefer sex over real connection, or assume you have low self esteem. They just can't appreciate finer qualities, can they?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 03:28 PM
7

In the Red Pill way.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 03:22 PM
2

Chimps do it too. It's a sign of submission.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 03:19 PM
2

My girls do not have a clue about my income or job, only that I do interesting things. Why?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 04:08 AM
1

If she is just doing it to test/annoy you then look right back in equal measure, not more, not less. More and she will think you are either autistic or a psychopath.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 12:38 AM
1

What's yours then?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:27 PM
3

As men, we naturally want to care for women. It would be logical to think that showing a particular woman how much you care right out of the gate would bring her closer. Hah. That doesn't even work on men.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 07:57 PM
6

There's also been an increase in witchcraft, paganism and left wing ideology. Those ideologies worship the divine feminine, hence the worship of women by pop culture.
/r/MGTOW04/02/19 04:27 PM
5

*inferior
/r/MGTOW04/02/19 04:23 PM
1

I've known of guys who do it. Are they harder to break? The higher they are the lower they fall.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:25 AM
1

No, but as a red piller you think of women who show the exact same behavior. What I find fascinating about this guy is how he turns female manipulation against women.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:40 PM
1

He's an interesting specimen.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:39 PM
1

Do you use some nice guy beta act to get to them? How does that work?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:54 PM
1

Nothing wrong with being a bit lazy sometimes.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:21 PM
3

A woman can't really care about me, even though she loves me as much as she can?? By caring, I mean being sensitive/attentive/curious about who I am. Not in a self validating, attention seeking, worth leeching way. Just a genuine care. My point of reference is myself. They can, but most men's self esteem is so low they will think she's either stupid, crazy or lying. ​ She is ruled by feelings Didn't you just say earlier they don't have feelings? ​ They're not really equal partners then. I think …
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:07 PM
1

Thanks, that's good advice.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:38 PM
3

Do you ever develop a more intimate (but non sexual) bond with a man, since according to TRP women aren't to be trusted? Some of them will be helpless and you might help them. Blue Pill men? I could never really understand if they are genuinely naive or if they just pretend to be to prey on women with low self esteem. Either way they don't get much out of it. That strategy fails more than it works and even if it works it's more trouble than it's worth, so I have to wonder.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:05 PM
1

it starts to go downhill from that moment that you say it. Why?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:48 PM
2

Do you try to "domesticate" them?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:46 PM
1

I'm flat out telling you guys any woman higher than a 8 will laugh in your face if you talk like you guys do on here. Is there a correlation between looks and intelligence? I think you are being fooled by the halo effect.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 10:31 PM
1

desperate guys who fuck any women they get a chance with no matter how low they go. Gotta start somewhere no?
/r/askTRP02/02/19 10:28 PM
2

Meh. Bros before hoes.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 04:20 AM
2

They don't do it because they care about you, you know. In fact, it's the opposite.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:15 AM
1

Same thing, no? They have low self esteem.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:07 AM
1

It's a need to believe then.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:05 AM
1

What is it those low-bar girls fall for then? Do they think the act is real? Or do they know it's an act but they think you think they are good enough for you to pretend for them, that you really like the person and that they are not just practice?
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:03 AM
1

When you start out and feign confidence, at least then, it's clearly an act.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 12:54 AM
1

I get that. Point is, does she actually develop any kind of feelings for the manly act like when women get obcessed for alpha male types? How is that possible if she knows it's an act? Or does she project things onto what she thinks is the person behind the act? I'm just trying to understand the psychology because it makes no sense to me right now.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 12:51 AM
1

How do they develop feelings for you then? I mean, they know you are pretending. They judge you by how good you are at pretending. They are pretending themselves. You know they are pretending. What I don't get is how some women get feelings for the guy in the middle of all this. Or is it more narcissistic injury? Do they ever know the real you? Because if they don't and still get attached, what are they getting attached to, the mask? But they know it's a mask, or don't they? This confuses the he…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 12:29 AM
3

I think she is molding you into the perfect host and that she doesn't have your best interest at heart. You should never get too lost in the role.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:58 PM
0

A gray rock?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:48 PM
0

Most women are a bit BPD-ish, aren't they?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:37 PM
2

Thanks, to you as well!
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:28 PM
2

I agree. I just realized something. Women are drawn to masculinity because they are looking for a suitable counterpart for their femininity (think of it as a codependent type of intimacy). Funny thing about those free thinker types, they tend to be a mix of male and female traits (mentally) so neither sex can make them need them, if that makes sense. "Assume Formlessness". Makes sense now why the most successful red pillers drive women crazy. They can never get to them, it's a game they can neve…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:55 PM
2

A man whose self esteem depends on what women think of him is bound to create either a hypermasculine image or a castrated feminized one. One is masculinity the other is anti-masculinity. Either way, they are both created for women, so men who adopt those personas can become slaves to women if they get too lost in the character. If that makes sense.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:50 PM
1

She gets to keep her cuck boyfriend and gets the ego boost from you until she felt you got attached (or she got bored) and dumped you, knowing you'd still be thinking about her. And, she still gets a little revenge because she knew you were just using her for the ego boost of sex and of cucking some other guy.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:26 PM
1

You feel hurt, because what your ego wants to hear is "I love you and I will never find someone like you". It could be all a strategy on her side to have that effect.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:23 PM
2

Fuck me I'd rather be reborn as a man and earn my way to freedom than be a slave to my being for my whole life. Men can be as much slaves to their masculinity as women to their femininity.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:19 PM
4

Imagine being able to go through life without ever feeling emotional pain or heartbreak, having zero regrets, no nightmares, nothing...just pure bliss all the time. They are just better at hiding it because men don't like "moody" women, in the same way women don't like "weak" men.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:09 PM
1

And the wisest women?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:09 AM
1

I call them out - 'you seem like you don't say much'. Put's a bit of pressure on them If a girl said that to you what would you say?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:40 AM
2

good grades, traditional and submissive High agreeableness she's very boring. ​ Well, what did you expect?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:31 AM
2

Someone pointed out that this situations you described is 90% of girls. But guess what? Of the 10% left, most of those are fucking insane. All geniuses are a little crazy. And too smart for average red pill game too.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:29 AM
1

How does a woman withhold an ejaculation?
/r/askMRP31/01/19 09:26 PM
2

I try my best to avoid this, by teasing them early on and flipping the dynamic to me qualifying them. IF they start qualifying themselves, I tease a little more Out of curiosity, what would you do if a woman was completely unresponsive to your teasing and didn't shit test you either, but still kept talking to you?
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:51 PM
2

they are incredibly stupid, some cant even get semi-sarcastic jokes, keep it casual at first or u risk getting them bitter Be careful when telling jokes and using hyperbole with dumb people. Most of the time they don't understand them anyway, but if they like you they will laugh along. Just don't overdo it or you'll make them feel stupid but since you are a guy I guess that could work, depending on the woman. Negging and all. ​ u will feel pretty stupid after u start approaching. i was scared to…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:49 PM
1

I just don't like parasites. I'm not Jesus to go around saving people.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 03:56 PM
1

What do you think of having to do and say certain things to fit in a group? Things you may not be proud of? Is it really worth it?
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:55 AM
1

All this petty role playing can be such a waste of time. More would be accomplished with honest, open dialogue. I'm guessing you are a more laid back shy type? Yes, I am a more live and let live kind of person.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 05:25 AM
1

I'd have to find worthwhile people then, not just sheep in need of a shepherd. People like that leave at the first sign of trouble, there's no point in investing in them.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 03:16 AM
2

You know what? The reality is that if you side with the victims you are enabling both them and the bullies, if you side with the bullies same thing, if you don't side with anyone same thing because you aren't doing anything. Might as well get something out of it.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 04:37 PM
1

I wouldn't live in the same environment as a druglord if I could help it.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:43 PM
1

I just feel bad enabling that sort of thing. Playing along is easy. Is there no other way?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:35 PM
1

Because like you said, you will inevitably have to deal with them in some form or fashion in your life. I know and I understand what you say, I don't think my problem is so much dealing with them, is wanting to. Whenever I feel like "playing along" with them is necessary to fit in or for some advantage I can't help but to feel like I am enabling them and giving them more power. Makes me feel like a disgusting hypocrite and like I am hurting others by proxy, for enabling this kind of person. On t…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:11 PM
1

Could be. Also I’m not sure how TRP is utilitarian. Would you mind expanding on that? The whole 48 Rules of Power stuff, for example.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:05 PM
1

I like men actually. What you said still applies though, ironically.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:03 PM
2

You never feel a bit cornered?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:21 AM
1

Though the perspective that might help you is that it is unfair to love a woman so much, unfair on her. Because she is a faulty human being too, but if you act like she is perfect then anytime she makes a mistake or has "bad thoughts" she will hate herself and feel trapped. Liking her flaws because you perceive potential to change and offering criticism aren't options? I know women don't like to be criticized. Just because you like someone that doesn't mean you have to idolise them... admire yes…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:09 AM
8

I'm speaking from empathy - I was you once. Your mission in the next 4 years needs to be (either cynically or earnestly) learning to win the approbation of others socially and build a strong network. You only get to be picky once you have the option to pick. Put another way, prioritize quantity of all relationships then define quality for yourself. Starting from your own mental point of origin is powerful, but misused it is dangerous. It is not the way of men to let them come to you, ever. Not i…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:04 AM
1

It is annoying that we have to maintain a certain attitude that is conflicting with out desire to just profess our love, throw roses and suck their toes. Shouldn't that alone show that they are not the kind of person someone should have romantic feelings for?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:39 AM
1

Women DO date their orbiters, because most women absolutely can't stand to be alone. It's actually almost a predictible cycle... Single, attached, bored, repeat. Her being attached can last anywhere from weeks to years. With the kind of guys you're describing, it's not a matter if if, but when. Like a man and his hoes/plates.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:43 AM
1

No one treats women worse than other women. Off topic, but who treats men worse? Women or other men?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:31 AM
1

Yes they do, and it's as pathetic as you'd imagine.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:30 AM
1

I have a friend who just tells his girl to shut up all the time, very hard to describe his tone but it seems to work. If he has to tell her to shut up all the time then it isn't working.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:16 PM
3

In my brief experience with them, they're pretty miserable people. They are cry bullies, you tell them to back off at they cry. So much for gender equality. When everybody is ignoring them they are usually busy self-harming in one way or the other and just being a pathetic nuisance.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:15 PM
1

They are not very intelligent then. Or if they are, they are just pretending to be submissive. I don't think that's what you are going for.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:05 PM
2

You want a pseudo intellectual cool girl type like OP does. Someone who is smart enough to give a little challenge, thus boosting your ego, but still not as smart as you and who will blow you afterwards, massaging your male pride even more. ​ In other words, you want a masturbation prop.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:03 PM
2

submissive ​ most importantly intelligent. ​ Pick one. Intelligent people are rebelious by nature.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 03:59 PM
1

Female beta orbiters then ;) Are you talking about those girls you are friends with? I agree with you on that last point. After all your buddies will resent you for prefering female attention over being around them, if they like you. Besides, it's much more productive.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 07:41 PM
1

Never waste time with a girl you haven't managed to fuck or you lost frame :) What about having female friends?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:51 PM
1

It's a shit test. She just used you as a replacement for the other guy. Her ego was sore, so she used you to boost it. Pretty sure she tried the same games on her ex but it didn't work on him, so now she's practicing.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:49 PM
1

Because a lot of this behavior is BPD-y stuff. BDPs aren't irrational. They try to appear irrational to make other people excuse their behavior. A lot of women too aren't as irrational as they seem. When they do shit tests or harm themselves there's always an intention behind it, a very "rational" one when you think about it. What confuses me is how this intention often doesn't take in consideration long term consequences. So I can't really tell how much of it is just being dumb, how much is man…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 04:57 PM
1

I'm talking about the average slutty woman Red Pillers often talk about.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 04:48 PM
1

Go on. If you want, of course.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:37 PM
1

What do you want from life, what are your goals? If only I knew.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 09:45 PM
1

Ok the topic of orgasm, if she’s dripping wet before you’ve removed her panties I think that’s a fair indication that she’s not faking attraction. And perhaps it’s different for other guys but when I go down on a women or properly fuck her.. her whole body convulses when she comes. I guess it's most likely genuine in those cases... There’s a certain point where you can’t easily fake the whole experience Hm I am not so sure. Women can be quite crafty with that sort of thing. Or they can be really…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:35 PM
3

You most certainly need to bang a good strata of women to get confident with women in the bedroom and in general I disagree. Just my opinion. And any half intelligent man knows when she’s faking intimacy and faking orgasm... especially if theyve spent some time with a range of lovely ladies That's what they like to think...
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:14 PM
6

Spank me daddy.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:09 PM
2

My family right there, all of it. They are just a bunch of sad old people who never got anywhere in life and are afraid of ending up alone. They keep me and my cousins around forever by sabotaging us and turning us against each other. My cousins can't seem to see that we are all just being used. Their problem. It's quite pathetic to seem them bend over backwards and stab each other in the back all for their worthless parents who are just using them. ​ You'll survive their BS if you're really IQ …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 07:45 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPs3EeRyL9Y
/r/askTRP26/01/19 06:43 PM
2

that aggression is actually one of the purest forms of masculinity. It's a primitive form of masculinity and not a very flattering one. There isn't much merit to acting like an ape. ​ Girls with rape fantasies, girls who like submitting to dominant men, will in fact, submit to pain as well. Well, yeah.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 06:34 PM
2

She's a legit HB10 and was very shy when we were at the bar drinking. Just blew my fucking mind someone with such high SMV is a sick fuck. Run.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 06:25 PM
1

I completely understand that but 1) no one can actually tell if you are a virgin or not. It's more of a self esteem thing and 2) you don't need to bang whores to understand how each sex works, or desire, or attraction. With most people you just have to listen to them. If you pay close attention you can read a lot of stuff in between the lines. Whatever they do in the bedroom is just the... sexual manifestation of that part of their personalities they keep hidden (I assume bringing this out is wh…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 06:12 PM
2

That's really good advice. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 06:05 PM
1

Why not start with something more fulfilling first to begin with and leave the whores alone? A more worthwhile challenge I mean.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:59 PM
9

It's an achievement like any other.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:46 PM
41

Now you realize sex is massively overrated ​ Now go off and use this gift to see women as the jerk off tools they are and you’ll be going through pussy in no time. ​ Ok then.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:36 PM
1

Thanks, I will take a look.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:45 PM
1

I get it it's a wonderful feeling, you just shouldn't extend that to their personalities. They just happen to be pretty, that's all. As for me liking men, I don't even think it's a looks thing. I've liked men who've ranged from 4-9/10-ish. I just think it's much better to have that sort of feelings for something that's real. A lot of guys tend to project some personality that isn't there on those girls who will gladly play along because it boosts their ego. Then guys cry about someone woman that…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:38 PM
0

I have, but I never got that nervous fluttering feeling. They are nice to look at, maybe they have a nice sounding voice that tends to get grating after a while, but that's about it. The "magic" is all in your head. Once their looks stop having that influence on you (it's all sexual attraction, don't kid yourself) you realize that there isn't much else going on besides from the pretty face. That which you describe is not an exclusively male thing either, I've seen many women act like that around…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:25 PM
1

That 10/10 steroided up hedonist bachelor banging models despite being 46... he is not a success. He is the archetypical failure. He contributed nothing, he is dead (genetically as that is all that matters), he has no purpose, no mission, he is arriving nowhere, he is meaningless, he is subversive to society and if you want to be especially blackpilled, he is usefull to collective only as an infection that is destroying shitgenes (vulrnerable and mentally weak females who are like that for biode…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:18 PM
1

I will take a look. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:47 PM
2

Believe me, that nihilism you have there wont exist anymore once you come back from your trip. Neither will a good part of my neurons.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:44 PM
3

There is true love and appreciation and desire to be felt with women. Is there? I've never felt it honestly. Beyond that though I see what you mean. You’re just young and are coming to grips with adult life. Probably that's just what this is.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:41 PM
1

Can't run away forever.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:38 PM
1

I have read it, very enlightening book. Only makes human nature look more disgusting. Maybe I am an idealist.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:37 PM
1

I've read a few of his books. Might read the Karamazov next.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:36 PM
1

Meh.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:33 PM
2

I will take a look, thanks.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:53 AM
2

Will do! Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:50 AM
1

How?
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:48 AM
12

Thanks. So uh, what am I looking for exactly at the bottom of the rabbit hole? Any advice? I think I'm pretty deep into this stuff by now.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:45 AM
10

No, no kids. I'm 20. Not considering kids ever anyway. I don't think it's fair to have a kid just so you can give some meaning to your life. I think that puts a huge burden on them.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:39 AM
21

Sounds fun.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:25 AM
3

At a glance, reminds me of Hoffer's True Believer. I will take a look, thanks.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:24 AM
3

A matter of perspective then. Nietzsche said something on that didn't he? Point is, people will see as good whatever benefits their particular demographic group and as bad that which doesn't. R k selection stuff. Reposting this because some dumb bot deleted it for some dumb reason.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:10 AM
1

you can love females in a red pill way. That doesn't look like love at all to me. Utilitarian partnership, maybe. I mean, point is, you don't love other men in a Red Pill way. You'd think such men are irrational. Why not hold women to the same standards?
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:03 AM
3

It could be that they are thinking about the same aspects of human nature but liberals deem them good and conservatives deem them bad. If that makes sense.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:03 AM
4

The world is "rational" in an animalistic way. Once you realize this you can play along but the pointlessness of everything eventually sinks in. Then what? The Red Pill doesn't cover that.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:54 AM
2

Can you imagine a group where there is no teasing like that? Everyone is all lovey-dovey, and singing Kumbaya around the campfire. There would also be a constant state of anxiety where everyone is trying their best not to hurt anyone's feelings, and being extra positive. It would be akin to looking at people's Instagram feeds: positive, happy, smiling, laughing, playing, all the time. Why can't there be something in between where people tease and test each other but get off each others back too?…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:40 PM
1

Indeed, and the best thing is that if people like you enough they will just project whatever they like onto you. They literaly do the job for you.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:21 AM
5

“Hey! I got my kid circumcised!” “Oh yeah? Huh. Cool.” Wait ten minutes. “Remember when you told me you thought neutering your dog was mutilation?” “Yes.” “Just checking.” Do this. The reason this works is that she will feel you believe she can figure it out on her own. If you just explain it to her it's like you are saying she is stupid (which she clearly is). By doing this second strategy it's like you are saying "You are wrong, but I believe you can figure it out on your own.", so she thinks …
/r/askTRP22/01/19 05:43 PM
8

They are still women. They can’t fight the biology, no matter how hard they try. Everyone can fight their biology. Most people are simply too lazy to.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 05:33 PM
6

Let’s say a 4 year old child asks you why the grass is green. And being the brilliant and logical man you are, you delve into a deep explanation about chlorophyll. You’d be an idiot. Even if the kid wanted to impress you and did their best understand(equivalent of having frame with a woman), he would at best be exhausted and confused. I would have liked the chlorophyll explanation when I was a kid :/
/r/askTRP22/01/19 05:30 PM
2

You shouldn't rely too much on your father. After all, he married your crazy mother. I know everyone makes mistakes, still it shows there is a propensity there to excuse crazy.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:53 AM
9

Blue pill men need love too, even though they can be irritating af sometimes. Some are not beyond hope.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:45 AM
0

My grandfather talks to my mother like she is a child. She thinks he is wonderful because he makes her feel like a worthwhile, interesting person. The reality is that she is neither and my grandfather can't stand her, he thinks she is a bimbo. I tried to make her see this, gently, but she is utterly convinced he is being genuine.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 07:30 AM
2

The only females I trust is the ones in my family. ...because being related to you means they are different from all other women, somehow... ​ /s
/r/askTRP21/01/19 07:26 AM
4

Say yes if you want, but know you're just a tool. Even the Alpha's. We're all a means to an end. A truth I wish all Red Pillers would acknowledge. Beta or Alpha, they are just two sides of the same coin, both equally exploited by women in different ways. This doesn't mean TRP has no merit, just that sometimes it pushes men to hypermasculinity and women have a way of choking them with it.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 07:25 AM
1

Of COURSE my girls get angry at me and stop "respect" me when I text to much, get emotinall, lose frame. What kind of adult does things like that? What's wrong with having feelings and being a bit needy sometimes? No one is made of steel. Your mistake is that you assume your girlfriend is going to understand that.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 07:23 AM
19

11) Repeat.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:50 PM
32

You are right. Also C) keep envious friends from stealing the boyfriend just for the sake of it
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:01 PM
2

Damn straight.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:59 PM
3

my biggest problem is probably when i start caring about a girl my emotions will override logic It's called empathy, a natural consequence of actually liking someone. Most women are turned off by that apparently, which is ironic because women are always boasting about empathy and whatnot.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:15 PM
1

At least they are useful for something. I didn't mean discard in the kicking you out of the house way, I meant it more in the symbolical Gregor Samsa way.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:09 PM
1

Why didn't it work out, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 04:51 PM
1

I don't know where you are meeting those women, honestly, but I respect your opinion. Paying for sex is an alternative, far from optimal though That wasn't exactly what I meant.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 09:15 PM
1

From my experience the amount of BS is the exact same, only women with higher standards tend to be more subtle. Or simply less interested, depending on how they view you. BS is unavoidable, either you hate women your entire life OR you accept it and find optimal ways to deal with it There are alternatives... ;)
/r/askTRP19/01/19 08:57 PM
1

Did you do it just for the challenge or were you trying to find something? Or was it just for self esteem?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 08:40 PM
1

Usually after a month i'm ready for them to leave. What happens after a month?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 08:38 PM
1

You’re exhausted of fooling around with pathetic emotional wrecks, I’ve been there They are not all that different from the other types of women, they just have lower standards. Push a "decent" woman far enough and she won't behave that differently from the "pathetic emotional wrecks".
/r/askTRP19/01/19 08:36 PM
1

Why do you feel like it's your responsibility to parent your parents? I mean just think about it, if they are useless now that must mean they have always been pretty useless. You were raised by them, yet you didn't become useless. You try to fix your flaws, become your best self. If they don't do the same thing it's because they are lazy and parasitical. At least that's my experience. You know what's going to happen? Now that you are young and healthy (despite the back problem) you can still kee…
/r/askTRP19/01/19 07:19 PM
31

I've known of women who feel that way and self harm after sex. Could be just low self esteem, could be that she wants to make you feel guilty to make you commit. Either way she's crazy.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:15 PM
-3

Why?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:13 PM
1

It's true, even if I am not into women I still have to deal with them. TRP helped me in that regard.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 04:35 PM
1

Do you feel like the moment you can't keep up the manly act/lifestyle (because after all, you are just human), shit just starts falling apart around you because the people around you are too useless? Maybe I am projecting.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:44 AM
1

I prefer your analogy. The Devil is in the details.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:40 AM
1

No. The problem with the unicorn analogy is that it presupposes that NAWALTS are born, not made. Men aren't born red pillers or with a built in moral compasses either.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:00 AM
1

Out of curiosity, hypothetically, if two persons were a balanced mix of the male and female polarity would they be attracted to each other? Or what kind of person would they be attracted to?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:48 AM
1

Makes sense.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:47 AM
2

Why can't two guys just have an equal relationship?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:42 AM
2

Do you think gays react to game as women do?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:21 AM
0

Now where have I heard that before...
/r/askTRP19/01/19 02:39 AM
2

It sure confuses the hell out of people.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:45 AM
2

fatherly desires ​ fucking young hot girls ​ Why not be a mentor of sorts to a guy instead? Oh right, because you actually need to know more skills than just fucking for that, and guys are not as easily decieved by the daddy act as sugar baby chicks are. It would get his "Freudian kicks" out of his system too but that sort of thing isn't for losers.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 06:25 PM
33

Do you reckon the greatest manipulators start out as this guy and then develop a more masculine personality as well, and end up being a mix of both? ​ Are you like that?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 06:04 PM
1

I don't quite get what it is that bothers you exactly. Is it how easy it is for her to get free stuff and approval while you have to work hard?
/r/askTRP17/01/19 09:07 PM
3

no red flags Willingness to be a plate/FWB is a red flag. At least to me.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:47 PM
16

I notice that a lot, not just in terms of SMV. ​ It's the consequence of a feminized society. If their slutty single mothers don't think they are good enough, who will? They never try to raise above that.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:20 PM
2

If the gay friend fancies you he could try to get between you and the woman out of jealousy. ​ Ironicaly the kind of gay who does that tends to be the guys friend, not the woman's, and he's usually closeted.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:07 PM
5

Shit stirring by proxy then ;)
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 05:57 PM
20

What if women like that kind of men because they get to do the kind of shit stirring they like through them and still look good, even like a victim sometimes?
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 04:39 PM
1

Number 2 would make sense. Unless he enjoys being a bottom. If so he's either gay or bi. I agree.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 08:43 PM
3

Was it kind of a romantic attraction, but more the contemplative type? Where these men and women masculine and feminine leaning (respectively) or more in-between types, tomboy types perhaps in the case of the women?
/r/askTRP09/01/19 07:49 PM
3

Right. Did you experience any kind of attraction during your asexual phase? Perhaps something between romantic and sexual, but not quite either? If so, did you feel that way towards men or women?
/r/askTRP09/01/19 07:40 PM
33

Does anyone know why this is? What the fuck happened? Did I increase my testosterone through lifting to the point where my entire sexuality changed? Incresing your testosterone doesn't change your sexuality. If you give testosterone to a gay man that is only going to make him more gay. ​ In my opinion 2 things can be happening here: You are bisexual and you have been oscilating between the two poles (bi-cycle). Perhaps now that you've discovered TRP that made you develop your masculine side more…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 07:33 PM
0

A more realistic explanation is that he got bored of the sex ;) and perhaps he suspects she might be a bit crazy so he doesn't want to feed that any longer to avoid problems.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:10 AM
1

Successful relationships (as defined by the individual man) with women should be a pleasant accompaniment to a well-lived life, never a goal in and of themselves. The pleasant accompaniment is just women setting the man up for the kill. Unless he can outsmart them. Often he thinks he can but he is really just deluding himself. The reason is that masculinity implies competing with other men in one way or another which creates utilitarian relationships with men and isolates them emotionally. But o…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:21 AM
2

Exactly, but if said men follow a life philosophy where having sex with a lot of women is seen as an accomplishment, doesn't that give too much power to women? Innevitably those women are going to drive a wedge between those friendships, slowly but surely. One reason is because a hypermasculine mindset always creates blind spots that women innevitably exploit, another is because if a man decides that chasing hoes is more important than spending quality time with his male friends that is going to…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 02:51 AM
1

Can't there be friendships that transcend the utilitarian?
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:34 AM
3

What about consciousness and all that's associated with it? Evolutionary biology (at least the one TRP focuses on) doesn't cover it. I think there's more to people than biological urges.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 12:48 AM
3

That's what they all say.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:53 PM
3

Why is that though? Do you have any theories?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:51 PM
1

The more comfortable you get with them and treat them as "friends", the more boring they'll see you. You shouldn't generalize. If a woman responds to game and thinks you are interesting for it then sure. If she sees through your game and finds it silly like a man would then if you kept gaming her you'd just bore or annoy her.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:51 PM
1

If such a woman existed she probably wouldn't want to have sex with men because, since she think like a man, she would know that would make them lose respect for her. Why would a such a woman want to be reduced to a sex toy? I thought men are supposed to have some pride and dignity. Men don't really want a woman who thinks like a man, they want a woman who thinks like them but that isn't smarter than they are. Such a woman is really just a masturbatory thing, physically and mentally. You do real…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 11:07 PM
2

. It backfired on him when his wife started detonating his marriage with the usual shit Pardon my ignorance, but what is the usual shit?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 05:19 PM
-3

Listen to this guy OP, he knows.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 05:18 PM
2

It does when her biological code is being a slut.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 05:17 PM
5

If you want my honest opinion, both your parents are idiots and you are better off prioritizing your needs: they have already ruined your childhood enough. ​ I don't agree with the other posters when they say that you should be a good son to your father. When he chose your mother he was clearly thinking with his dick and he probably never gave a second thought to how that could impact you. Why bother with people like that? ​ If he wasn't a good father to you why should you be a good son?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 05:16 PM
2

Guess.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:37 AM
13

Some philosophy that helps fill the void. And more. A big part of TRP is learning the true nature of women and how they are not meeting men's emotional needs. After this you either spend the rest of your life pretending you don't have emotional needs or that you are fine with being a block of ice, or you find an alternative. I am still not entirely sure what the alternative is. I have a suggestion but I don't think most Red Pillers will like it :p
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:03 AM
27

You can handle that kind of loneliness when you are young, but it never goes away and the feeling piles up. I think TRP is just half of the way. In my opinion there should be something more after TRP otherwise it leaves a "spiritual void" that many Red Pillers try to fill with hoes and creature comforts. That to me just breeds cynicism, nihilism and boredom.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 10:45 PM
2

The path to truth and virtue is a lonely one.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 10:43 PM
1

A lot of men don't really develop a personality of their own either and like those unfortunate looking women, they just imitate other men. There's a lot of cool girls among those less good looking women. Better looking, feminine women tend to laugh at those less good looking cool girls because what they are doing is obvious.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 03:09 AM
1

Why don't most women ever try to develop an identity of their own? Do you think it's because they never feel the need to?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:31 PM
2

Do you think that the act of re-inventing oneself in your own image is more of a male thing and that most women just imitate instead?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:41 PM
2

I wonder if there is a prevalence of BPD among Cool Girls? Because the one's I've met were all a bit BPD-y.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:38 PM
2

Because their company casts a miasma around you that repels decent women (and decent people in general). Plus STDs. Plus they tend to be a bit possessive and have abandonment issues (which explains their Cool Girl act).
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:34 PM
0

What? There's a lot of guys out there living unhappy with unmet emotional needs (everybody has them, nothing shameful about it) because they try to make women into something they are not.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:32 PM
2

We naturally repel each other.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:31 PM
1

This. People in general have a strange relationship with facts and reality. They will judge by appearance rather than whether a rumor makes sense or not.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 04:26 AM
0

Can't go gay, cause again, that's only a temporary fix. You could give it a try. There's more to intimacy than sex and you might get the kind closeness you are looking for more easily from a man than from a woman. Another man is more likely to understand you and putting on a front like TRP advises to do with women I assume doesn't work so well on men because they can probably see through it. I'm serious btw.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 04:24 AM
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I don't think it's naive, it depends on what you bond over and what kinds of people you bond over with. The most common tribe is a group of people who comes together because of some collective goal. Like the gym bros. Doesn't necessarily mean you are similar people, just that you have similar goals and are sharing experiences. ​ Then there is the other type of bonding where you bond over being similar types of people. Circumstances (mostly) irrelevant. I think this is the most powerful type of b…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:53 PM
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In my experience, 100% of women You slept with the entire female population of the planet?
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:08 PM
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I've found the advice and all of the subreddit helpful but that it falls short when it comes to connecting to people deeply and creating strong, long-term relationships (not even romantically, but with friends and family). ​ You dont say... TRP and stuff like 48 rules of power have merit to them. Theres the people you should save your empathy and the real connections for and the others. The others can be either people you have no interest on so you just avoid each other and keep things polite or…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 09:46 PM
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The other answers are generic and don't really answer anything. Just my opinion. ​ I struggle with the same thoughts. I'm still trying to figure out what else is there. ​ Love doesn't exist, and everything's just a race against others until we're six feet under. Friends are friends for what they/we can provide/gain from us/them. Family is no different. I don't believe love doesn't exist. Just that people confuse sexual attraction and people's interest in your usefulness with love. Everything els…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 05:09 AM
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Appreciation for what? Your manlihood? That's just your body, not you. If a woman thinks you are high value she is going to make your traits into something positive, if she doesn't she will make them into something negative. It's all relative to how useful you are to her.
/r/MGTOW23/12/18 01:06 AM
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There are several types of female manipulation, the whole feminist modern state one is just an example. Have you read The Manipulated Man by Esther Villar? Housewives do similar things.
/r/MGTOW23/12/18 12:48 AM
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You could say the say thing about men in the past when they kept women in the dark about all things sexual and forced them to get married. Not a feminist, by the way. Just pointing out that the genders aren't really all that different. It's part of human nature to have your tribe and dominate all the others.
/r/MGTOW23/12/18 12:26 AM
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On paper, they make very great mothers No, they don't. Those are the kind of mothers who will raise their children to be afraid of everything so they never leave.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:57 PM
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You mean "cool girls"?
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:51 PM
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Now it's the other way around.
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 11:51 PM
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Doesn't that contradict several points in the list?
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:43 PM
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• Girlie As in, a girlie sense of style? Or a girly personality? Or both?
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:38 PM
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Every girl gets incredible amounts of male attention and orbitters whether she's a slut or not (they're all sluts) whether she's ugly or pretty or fat or skinny. What about asexual women? Sex is GOOD for a girl if she gets pregnant. She will receive cash, prizes, AND A KID! What if the guy just pumps and dumps her (so no cash and no prizes) and she doesn't get pregnant? Or what if she gets pregnant and becomes a single mother? A woman can lie about her milleage but not about that.
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 11:34 PM
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So you are not teaching them to be servants? What are you teaching them to be then?
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:29 PM
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Once I read this book called Israeli Street Fighting or something in these lines. It was pretty good.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:25 PM
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Yes but still. You are teaching them to be servants. If they were guys you would have zero respect for them.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:23 PM
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I still like to think so. I think the problem is sex. It kills honesty and equality.
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 11:19 PM
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You are making your daughters into spineless servants and then complain that women can't think for themselves. No wonder.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:16 PM
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Either way it's all a business transaction. Isn't there more to male-female relationships?
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 11:15 PM
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is extremely submissive, but in a healthy way. ?
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:12 PM
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I agree with you on that. It's the innevitable consequence of living in a female dominated society. In the past men would do the same thing to women and keep them in the dark about sexual matters. Maybe the genders aren't so different after all...
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 11:07 PM
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Of course they did, come on. Wife gets old, he gets bored, no one will judge him, he gets to bond with and show off to his buddies, why not? What's keeping him? And what if he wanted to have sex but not children before contraceptives? He'd get a mistress. I think it was more how successful men were at keeping women around. It's not like they had much of a choice.
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 10:56 PM
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I read about him, I don't see how it applies? Are you saying I'm in a hopeless fight?
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 10:52 PM
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I am not saying women don't enjoy sex but how do they get that cash, prizes and sometimes even kids? Through emotional manipulation. There is also the whole other side to it which is the male attention and the orbiters. If you are young and don't have a lot of milleage you always get more attention than if you do. And men are more likely to have serious relationships with women with less milleage, so there's that too. Smart women don't slut around and end up old and alone, they use their female …
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 10:47 PM
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Often that man would get mistresses because, like I said, boredom. Besides she was completely at his mercy. And housewives are manipulative too.
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 10:31 PM
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Not really? I looked him up. What about him?
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 10:25 PM
1

Why?
/r/askTRP21/12/18 04:36 AM
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There are "good women" who won't cheat on you if you don't act needy, know how to lead the relationship, give just enough comfort, set boundaries, and so on. But here's another contradiction of the red pill. TRP says that you have to focus on self improvement. Self improvement means time alone with your thoughts, reading, etc... however if you are in a relationship where you have to play daddy to a fully grown adult who needs to be led you are wasting valuable time you could be using for self im…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:20 AM
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I personally don't think it's biological, I think it's really social. In that situation with the salon and many others if they had been men they would probably be reprimanded by their boss. People, particularly men, always go easy on women or else they will be accused of sexism, or simply because they want to get in their pants. Women are nice to women on the surface as well or else there will be gossip and mean girl antics. I personally find it enjoyable to interact with women because of the sp…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:08 AM
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Do you think this reason is biological or cultural/social? In other words, do you think women are wired like that or that it's a society that demands little of them that makes them lazy?
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:43 AM
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In the Bible, God gave Adam the task to rule over the land and animals (later joins by Eve to accompany him; as God says there needs to be a partner for man). Natural observations help too! I never read the bible without verifying it's function in everyday life. Reading about the sciences (observations by other people) also indicates that man is above woman. Above in what sense? Moral? Hierarchical? Biological? Intellectual? Although, the inclination to choose the alternative, stems from "good" …
/r/askTRP20/12/18 01:35 AM
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The problem with this argument is that our instincts still go back to looking for some form of validation (limiting our capabilities to build our ideal). But enlightenment is overcoming human nature. In both cases of building your own ideal or following someone's ideal you lose. How so? Both have positives and negatives. The former is the most difficult but I think that if you are succesful it's the most rewarding. You can start from what has already been established by someone else and build up…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 12:26 AM
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I don't think it's a matter of getting discipline from a father or not, nor of having role models. I think that a real man makes himself instead of following anyone. For men it's either that or being a loser or living permanently in someone's shadow, but no one really judges women for these things, for not being leaders. So they don't bother. But, women are led, so having poor leadership skills/ none at all makes useless women. You mean as a man? Isn't a woman still useless anyway if she chooses…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:38 PM
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First of all, TRP isn't simply about women but making the best version of yourself. And yet the best version of yourself, according to TRP, is coincidentally the type of man that slutty women find more appealing. The same types of women that red pillers are always going on about how they are dumb, manipulative, even mentally ill. You don't find this to be contradictory? You mean sluts or what? Before I elaborate I want to know the kind of women you mean. I meant sluts but don't red pillers say "…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:50 PM
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It's still the whole constant struggle to keep in control and the woman's constant testing that bothers me. You think it always has to be like that? The main thing that makes women have certain behaviors is the whole sexual part. If you have sex with a woman and dump her that lowers her value. So she has to resort to tricks to keep you around. Can't really blame her when this is the way these things work.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:46 PM
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I agree with everything that you said, really. A lot of Red Pillers only get into it because of women, so maybe I misjudged what the Red Pill is really about. However here's the problem. Those women are toxic. Their way of control is the nagging, the shit tests, the provoking, etc... even if you think you are in control you are really not. Deep down they know that even if a man pushes them around his sense of self-worth still depends on their approval. Ever heard the expression that in BDSM it's…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:40 PM
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It's the side effect of following the right path; it's not the end goal itself. Ok, the end goal is freeing yourself. But heres the contradiction: those types of women like dominant types of men. They like them because they are useful to them, or so they think. At least that's the idea. So it follows that whatever it is that you become after taking the red pill is something that appeals to these women, which can only be one of two things: either something that they perceive as useful to them, or…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:47 PM
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Then what type of women do you sleep with?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:32 PM
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Ok then. But why work on self improvement and valuing yourself and freeing yourself, and then use your true self as a tool to bang dumb hoes? Isn't that casting pearls before swine?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:31 PM
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It's because there's men who think like that that the majority of women are so useless. Red Pillers are always going on about how women are dumb and childish but how can they not be that way if there's always men around willing to take care of them? When you think about it a lot of the game of PUAs consists exactly on exploiting that need to be taken care of/ daddied.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:29 PM
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But if you are sleeping with them and spending time learning the red pill stuff and going through all the work to get laid you already are.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:27 PM
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Yes but here's my point, if the red pill is waking up from the matrix, and the matrix is realizing what women really want, when you see that reality shouldn't it make a lot of women look stupid and irrational, like they were seen in the past? What I am trying to say is, blue pill men are taught to worship women. Red pillers realize that most women are nothing to be worshiped. Yet in a sense, they still worship them, only differently. If what a man wants is to get laid then I understand the red p…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:25 PM
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Ok I get it, but then why expose your true self to women who can only nag, and shit test, and don't really amount to much as people? It's still putting your real self out there to seek validation from people whose opinion should be irrelevant.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:09 PM
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Why do you care so much about female validation? After all if you look at the tricks you have to employ to do it (game and all), why should you take seriously the opinion of anyone who falls for that kind of stuff? The fact that there are women out there who fall for it should be enough proof that those women are idiots and their opinion is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:59 PM
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I'm not saying you can't be yourself. I think you should be yourself, that that is what everyone should strive for, I just don't see this red pill persona as being yourself, I see it as being a persona. Why are you with a wife who puts you through bs? Can't she not see that she is being irritating? Or does she do it on purpose? One thing is caring about your partners health. Another is nagging him. I get it that marriage is a partnership but most marriages I have seen it seems more like a perpet…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:58 PM
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Doesn't explain why there is a need to game such women, unless they are the kind of women who only respond to game, in which case why'd anyone want to be married to them or keep them around?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:50 PM
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But if being a "valuable man" means seeking the approval of women, do you think that's worth? isn't there anything better than that?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:49 PM
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Why even let them tag along if their (these particular women's, not all) only ability is sex? They literally add nothing to your life other than validating your manlihood, and if you need "game" to get other men's honour and respect then it isn't worth much, is it? I mean, what kind of respect and honour is gained by getting the approval of women who have nothing to offer but their vaginas?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:33 PM
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I know all about Red Pill theory, my point is, don't you ever tire of being like that 24/7? Don't you ever tire of being with someone who is happy if they are being applied game to? Like you just have to keep pretending to be an asshole and can never drop the facade.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:21 PM
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