Dead boyfriends...

MattyAnon · 2019-02-27T17:14:50+00:00

Situation is, in an LTR with a girl who's previous BF killed himself.

Don't talk about it, AT ALL. If she brings it up, say "yeah, that sucks, you should talk to someone about that, but it shouldn't be me".

Women try to trap you into being a white knight after an abusive ex with her as the victim. She leverages herself into being a dependent while limits your options. Many men like this because it makes them feel needed. Don't fall for it. Don't discuss it with her.

She's probably less fucked up by this than she appears.

SilenceOnTheWire · 2019-02-27T16:41:12+00:00

in an LTR with a girl who's previous BF killed himself.

Probably not a good idea.

SirKolbath · 2019-02-27T15:51:28+00:00

She’s broken. She’s not LTR material.

One of my former plates was dating a handicapped guy (MS, I think) and she came home to find him non responsive. He died later that night— 17 years ago. She was a wonderful person, but she was not promotable.

iLLprincipLeS · 2019-02-27T21:13:22+00:00

Statistics for kids raised by single mothers shows all manner of dysfunction (poverty, mental illness, crime) for kids raised by single mothers. e a kid alone. But the sheep don't see it like that, they start making all these wild accusations that the father was probably abusive or violent and that's why she raised the kid alone. It's presumed the mother is a victim of circumstance even though 99% of the time she created the circumstances she's in not only for herself, but for her kid(s.) And it's presumed the father is an asshole, but most the time he was a horny guy begged not to use a condom and told she was on the pill when she wasn't. So she gets pregnant and keeps the kid. Sometimes these guys don't even know they have a kid until they get a child support notice out of thin air. Then the poor guy gets fucking berated for being a deadbeat when all he did was fuck a woman under the presumption it was recreational sex and that no baby would be born.

If bitches are deceiving guys into fatherhood, and then crying victim when it backfires because he refuses to defer to her deceit, tough shit for her. The only victim here as far as I'm concerned is the child. She tricked the guy she fucked, tried to force him to become a parent, and when he wouldn't, tried to ruin his reputation and extract wealth. That is some fucked up shit. But hardly anybody sees it from that perspective, do they? Naturally, bitches be crazy and society is all jumped up on the sycophancy of feminism and the woman are wonderful effect, so she's blameless and he's just a cunt. People are so single-minded and intent on blaming the father it's unbelievable. If your father is never there for you growing up, there's a good fucking chance that's your mothers fault. But no, everyone acts like she's this marvellous creature for forcing her kid(s) to struggle for THEIR ENTIRE LIVES. And that the guy is probably some dark triad woman/kid abusing asshole. It's total fucking bullshit. Very few men are violent or abusive, that's complete lying utter horseshit used to smear the male name and justify the child abuse that is raising kids without a father.

No, the truth is, mummy was somebody's plate/one night stand and thought it would be a wise idea to not use protection AND THEN keep the kid. Her body, her choice, right? Does this oft gloated feminist principle not fucking extend to the responsibility of giving and raising life too? It makes me sick how everybody rallies to the aid of single mothers and exclaims how hard they have it and how everyone should feel sorry for them. Fuck that. Fuck them. They had a choice didn't they? I mean a whore has a fucking choice to take a pill, or get an implant or terminate. Or a million other things. The kid had no fucking choice to be born and go through all the dysfunction that awaits it. The kid is a total innocent and the mother, a cunt. I reserve all my sympathy for the boys and (to some extent, the girls) who grow up fatherless and fucking despise the child-abusing fucks that single mothers are. They are total fucking scum contributing to the complete and utter degeneracy of our society morally, spiritually, socially and economically. Total fucking scum. Again, it is total bullshit that the huge amount of kids who have no father all had asshole fathers who abused the mother/kid when most men in society are complete fucking betas. That's just not plausible. This is simple female blame-shifting mixed with misandry.

Title	Dead boyfriends...
Author	BrenHam2
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	February 27, 2019 3:49 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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