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You are projecting an awful lot. You have invented an entire backstory from whole cloth. Most likely he was never a good man. He was probably an isolated shut in and by pure dumb luck some poor woman with felt pity for him on an online date from POF. I was dating on POF back in 2007-10. The only way you couldn't get laid back then was to be a derp. It worked back then. I'm this dudes age. He's either a psychotic shut in and had been his whole life or she's lying about his inceldom. She's got her…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:08 PM
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She's his little girl and he adores her. If there is one woman's opinion who would matter. It's hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:58 PM
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Don't punish your father. The man is probably still trying to figure out life post divorce. He probably has a lot of pain and resentment. I would simply talk to him and say you heard about red pill online and would like his opinion on it. See how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:32 PM
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Right? Porn addiction and can't ejaculate naturally. Lmao I hope someone checks this guy one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:29 PM
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That's disgusting. My heart goes out to that poor girl and whatever abuse that idiot gave her is not anything "red pill" that I can see. He's a monster and deserves inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:27 PM
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No, it's not Russian roulette. Just communicate clearly and make sure she's still enthusiastic about the hookup and make damn sure she isn't black out drunk. I've turned down plenty of women who were to inebriated to properly consent. Those women thanked me the next time I saw them. But even they wouldn't have cried rape. Many men acting like many women cry rape for sport just to hurt men when in reality it almost never happens. Less than a percent of all rape accusations are false.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:08 PM
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Bullshit. I have so many drunken hookups and not a single one ever claimed I SA'd her. The worst that happens is the sex is bland and boring because they are too drunk to put any effort into it. Geez the limiting beliefs and irrational fears based on a few horror stories someone read on the interwebz are one of the biggest problems I see around hetre. Quit reading horror stories and negative narratives. It just gives you a poor mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:29 PM
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Obsession with purity is a limiting belief. Men don't have a right to demand low n-counts. Sex is no longer some sacred act to do with as few people as possible in one's life. Get that judeo Christian nonsense out of your head. It's holding you back. Kitty is kitty and you'll dance for it whether it is virginal or been fucked by 100 men or you can sit down and be incel and let the rest of us enjoy the sexual bounty modernity has granted us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:39 PM
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Women are not making dating and society worse. I'm willing to bet even if dating and sexual norms were a lot stricter most of the men on this sub still wouldn't get laid and would be demanding a 60's style sexual revolution to liberalize sexual mores so they could get some. Modern day women demand a lot because they can get a lot and if they can't they are perfectly fine with being alone. There is no shame in being a cat lady anymore and they give zero fucks about being alone. I think THAT is wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:31 PM
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Compared to a lot of guys here hell yes I am. I am a musician, popular with plenty of options. Before I was no better than any of the chodes on here. A humble simp doormat. When it comes to women. Narcissism and delusional levels of self confidence pays dividends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:47 PM
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Narcissism can be a good thing. It's better to be a narcissist than self hating or humble. Like many things. It exists on a spectrum. Closed mouths dont get fed. So being a humble, quiet person with a closed mouth will mean going hungry. The loud boisterous narcissist tends to get what they want. Women demand a lot, simoly because they can get a lot by doing so. Saying "men need to quit giving so much to women" is just lame. Instead you should demand more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:22 PM
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Ya can't be that way forever though. I don't know many 60 yr old players.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:30 PM
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Then you'll be dumping 99% of potential partners and probably have to settle for a player lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:29 PM
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Female validation online is worthless though. If the woman isn't in front of you validating you, it's worthless so why would a guy look for approval from women online? It's not like any of those women are going to slip into his DM's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:36 PM
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I can imagine someone who thinks like this poster out on one of their infrequent online dates. They want to make sure they have a good woman so they ask pertinent questions like "What do you bring to the table?" and "What's your n-count?". The when they get ghosted they blame society for telling them "women are wonderful" rather than "the truth". That being the majority of women are just coiled vipers waiting to strike and suck a few dollars out of anyone who isn't a "HVM". Its all just so circu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:53 PM
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My job is 50 hrs a week and the hours are the hours there is no rearranging them. White collar professionals may have more leeway but in thr working class you take the hours you are given and stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:03 PM
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Because in reality that isn't always economically feasible. The fact is that in real life one parent must work full time and concentrate on career and the other must take one for the team professionally and allow their career to stagnate in order to prioritize children. Two full time working parents leaves the kids short changed. Your solution of "equality of unpaid labor at all costs" isn't realistic. It just isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:36 PM
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Men don't want to take the same hit that women do to their career ambitions and they shouldn't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:58 PM
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Well acting passive aggressive towards women is never gonna get you a chance that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:09 PM
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I don't care what they do. I think any man so pathetic that he can only see himself with a robot or worse some virtual AI gf on his phone is too far gone for any real help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:51 PM
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Because many of us grew up in and work nightly in places where they sweep eyeballs up at the end of the night. We're often the center of attention and attract jealous men looking to throw down over their woman smiling/flirting with us. Biker bars and honky tonks can be tough places.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:52 PM
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The idea that the criteria by which women choose men has changed, thereby invalidating pickup artistry is straight up cap. Players today are no different than players of decades gone by. Mystery is in his 50's, living in Toronto with a young protege and is living the life still. I learned game in 2006-7 and the same shit still applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:42 PM
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Yeah I know. Anyone who expresses any kind of confidence or high self esteem on a sub full of insecure boys gets called a key board warrior. I don't care if you believe me. You're the one who is talking out your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:36 PM
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Where? Online? Because I guarantee you anyone open their mouth to my face about my(48) gf(29) then they better be ready to throw hands with me or my girl if they are a girl. Plenty of younger guys did nothing but abuse my gf and leave her broken and afraid. I turned all that around for her, gave her her self esteem and strength back. What younger men took from her an older man gave back and she adores me for it. No one cares what online randos in their teens and 20's thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:13 PM
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Another incel revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:01 PM
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Where tf is all this hatred publicly displayed at? I'm a popular local musician. I travel all over and play gigs. From small dive bars to large music venues and festivals I have played them all. I have observed thousands of approaches and interactions between men and women. Every kind of couple imaginable and have hundreds of my own. Women are not out here cowering in fear preferring a bear to a well dressed, well groomed, well spoken, pleasant smelling and confident man. Its THAT FUCKING SIMPLE…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:54 PM
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At 21 you are just getting started in life . I wouldn't recommend settling down with a man tbat old at your age. Definitely not having kids with. I'd stick to a max 10 yr older policy. Now I am 48 and my gf is 29. But she doesn't want kids and has spent her 20's figuring herself out and what she wants and our goals and values align closely. YMMV
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:23 PM
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I wouldn't call it predatory but I definitely groomed my much younger low SE gf into being the perfect woman for me. When I met her she was at rock bottom. She was grieving the murder of her father at the hands of the evil step mother who abused her her whole life. She had no self esteem, no self regard to the point of self destruction. She was broken, drunk and making bad decisions regarding men. Terrified to come outside her house except to the bar across the street where I met her. She owned …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:14 PM
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Meh I am 48 and my gf turns 30 next month. That isn't so bad. When I was in my early 30's as a local musician in a college town I was with women 18 to 22 all the time. No one ever had a problem with it. But then I wasn't a wierd creep either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:31 AM
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Wow. Some men are just absolutely ridiculous. Makeup is fantastic. So many guys have all these weird hangups about petty stuff. It's just so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:25 PM
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Well having gone from a very high self to a girl with low self esteem I will take the low self esteem girl any day. The low SE girl is prettier and works harder to keep me happy. She's appreciative of my time and attention. She's fiercely loyal and protective of our bond and would rather jump off a cliff than betray her king as she calls me. She gladly cooks great meals for me, makes my lunches, does the grocery store, loves me intensely and deeply. The high self esteem girl was entitled, never …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:17 PM
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You sound bitter and jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:50 PM
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Bull shit. I did it. Lots of men do. You gotta quit being a skinny fucking geek introvert or a fat cheeto breath. That's the first part. Second part is learning to dress flamboyantly so you stand out. Third part is get a socially useful/sexy talent or skill. Spend your time learning to play an instrument instead of improving your k/D ratio. Learn to dance. Read some books on social influence. Fourth is to go out and be a fucking party animal/social butterfly. Boom league improved. Otherwise just…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:51 AM
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It's up to each individual man to handle his own mental health issues. I was lucky in that I was put into martial arts at a young age and was taught mental discipline and emotional control in a healthy way. I feel for men who were abused or otherwise little equipped by their parents/mentors with the ability to emotionally regulate in a healthy way. I still have mental health issues of my own. I am definitely a covert narcissist. But I once again developed a healthy means to draw energy and valid…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:05 PM
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Liberal men don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:38 PM
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Liberal men don't abuse their wives/women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:38 PM
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Which doesn't apply in the real world. At all..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:35 PM
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This sub isn't a normal, everyday sub. Having been here awhile I am pretty convinced that a lot of men here are part of the creeper/wierdo extreme belief set. This sub acts like a pressure valve for their sexual frustration and rage. They want to have sex with the good looking women like in the porn videos they masturbate to but when they go out the best they can attract, if anything, is a frumpy and half crazed fat girl. Or they get an online date once every 2-3 months and blow it every time an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:12 PM
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Or an expose on red pill jealousy their pale, skinny, weak bodies don't attract anything except Betty Big Butts while social, masculine men walk through life owning their worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:54 PM
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So what do you want? A return to strict sexual morality? Arranged marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:18 PM
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Well it sure beats living in a socialist shit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:08 PM
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No. I understand fully well the very serious flaws in feminism. But those flaws can be managed over time. The 4b movement and the bear argument are stupid online fads and nothing more with no effect on society whatsoever. Not a single western male is being denied a woman or relationship because of her politics or ideology. Simple fact is we have a bunch of retrograde, reactionary males who are upset women are no longer clean, virtuous angels who treat sex like a sacred act to be done with as few…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:46 PM
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The comments on this thread really show why so many men on here are celibate or at least deserve to be. It's clear that many men here believe that for a society to thrive and prosper it has to restrict or constrain the sexual behavior of its women by any means necessary. "If women keep having free choice to fuck who and what they want whenever they want, it will bring society to its knees! They are scientifically proven to be biologically incapable of making proper mate choices you see!" Just ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:20 PM
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Such BS. Simple fact is a bunch of anti-social men with no game now have the internet to unite themselves into some kind of half ass *movement" and circle jerk each other about how women are some social problem to be solved or mitigated so t How about just learning some game or failing that, accepting your involuntary celibacy with same damned masculine grace? Because 20 years ago I was no different t than most guys on this sub. 28 and 3 garbage relationships under my belt. The difference is I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:30 AM
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The only thing that is going to give a man confidence is compliments from women. External validation. A built body is more likely to get said positive validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:10 PM
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Narcissism gets a bad rap. Like everything else it is a spectrum. I am an admitted narcissist. But I have healthy ways of getting my energy and validation without having to harm anyone else. I can tell you this. Having once been an introverted simp with no self esteem. Being a narcissist is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:04 PM
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I don't think anyone is telling women to settle for less than desireable men. But some men are asking women to give soft, weak, nervous or anxiety prone beta men a chance because such men need a handicap and life is too cruel to grant them one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:20 PM
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I am not a high status man. But I fake being one really well. I don't lie or anything but in terms of body language, walk, talk, dress, etc. I have over time mastered that shit. Girls often have told me "You walk into a room like you own the fucking place." I'm confident as hell too. Maybe delusionally so. But too much self love beats too little any day. I get approach anxiety and mess up and lose girls all the time. Get ghosted, pumped and dumped lol but I keep hitting the night life hard and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:29 PM
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Then it's time to talk about a divorce. You are both treating yourself unfairly and just as much.. Him. When people get married it's a promise of monogamy, not forced celibacy under duress. You have a right not to have sex with him. He should have the right to step out or to a divorce. If he's too cowardly to file himself you should do it for him. For both your sakes. Screw God or Jesus or whatever they might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:11 PM
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I wish there was a way to make it clear to humble men that being humble is not a flex. It isn't attractive to most women. If you have almost narcissistic levels of self confidence despite your mediocrity. You will do better than the average man all things being equal. Humility is beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:58 PM
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Mm hmm I bet you'd decide to have an all white workplace too if you could. Hence the law.. Libertarians are dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:53 PM
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It's precisely to force assholes like you to hire women and minorities that the law was created in the first place. To literally force bigots like you to in some way evolve no matter how much you hate it because descrimination based on sex or race alone is a caveman attitude unfit for an advanced civilization. Yes the law is meant to be "unjust" to people with the belief that women and minorities are some kind of lesser sub species of humanity that needs the protection and guidance of men like y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:22 PM
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Lol I find it hilarious how insecure I make some men by merely arriving on the scene. But I can't blame some of them. I've had wives openly flirt with me and puff their chests out at me right on front of their husbands. Had girlfriends eye fuck me, etc. Men certainly have reasons to guard their mates around me. But not through anything I do. The behavior of their girls. But that mate guarding behavior has backfired on them more than once when they act all clingy and insecure and the woman knows …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:50 PM
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I'm 48, work out, maintain a lean body and while I am positive my looks are a 5 when you take into consideration all my various talents and personality I'm at least a 7. I am not interested in girls below 25 because they often have ambitions beyond their hometown and are ready to split to the coasts where the money is. My current gf though is 29 and is convinced I'm the greatest man she has been with in her life. Her mom and grandmother think I am too old for her but agree I'm good looking and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:44 PM
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LMAO Seriously? No this sub is not full of lived experiences and anecdotes. It's full of men who watch TikToks of pretty girls acting stupid, rejecting guys and being shallow and then pretending that was their personal lived experience online lol Men with real lived experience know much of the RP theory is BS. That women really aren't all shallow and ready to dump on a man who approaches them or leave for another man at the drop of a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:23 PM
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LMAO No self respecting biological male will settle for a trans facsimile.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:58 PM
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Do people forget we are a social species and both our survival and our sexual prospects are decided often by what other people think of us? Popularity matters! Even as adults if matters. Popular, well liked men and women get laid. Unpopular, forgettable men and women will suffer from loneliness and inceldom. See the problem is that we are still hierarchical apes and we as a society refuse to accept that reality because it's an inconvenient fact in a society that pushes for equality and is now re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:19 AM
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For young women under 25 I believe it has a major impact. But the only negative consequences I see from it are for men under 25 who don't have their mental shit in order. I have dated more than a few women in their mid 20's and they all were very ambitious and eager to leave the nest of their home towns and get to the coasts where the money is. They didn't want a relationship because that would tien them down precisely at the time they are ready to spread wings and fly. My heart goes out to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:41 PM
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Marginal effect at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:47 PM
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This aspect can be annoying though. I spent 6 years as a caretaker boyfriend for a severely depressed woman who refused to get help or lift a finger to change her circumstances or help me do so. But once I got tired and left suddenly she was in therapy and getting help and started taking care of herself and now for her new man she's an almost perfect woman for him. It's BS. But it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:45 PM
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Idiots are always out there looking for an apocalypse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:37 PM
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The feminist line is abolish the draft altogether, not bring women into it. Leftists don't like the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:36 PM
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Depends on the woman. All my women have loved the fact I knock on their womb door lol yeah it causes the some pain sometimes but they describe it as a good hurt. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:27 PM
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Yeah younger women are different now. Smarter, better educated and they have been told their whole lives by their mothers 2 things: "Dont settle for less than the best you can get" and "Don't settle down into a serious relationship in your 20's. Enjoy your youth and slut it up and settle down in your late 20's or early 30's when you actually know what the hell you want.." That's the only difference. Problem is we have a bunch of young men who were still raised on the "Find a chaste girl and sett…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:37 PM
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Ya know I can totally sympathize with a lot of men on here. I was the same way in my early to mid 20's. A weak simp who got walked on. Cheated on and left. Felt pretty crappy. But the red pill I swallowed in 2006 was much different than what I see today. Back then the PUA movement was just gaining mainstream attention. I read the Game, which led to How to Make Friends and Influence People, 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduxtion. Those books changed my life and soon I was on college campuses i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:55 AM
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Since when did "blue pill" become synonomous with weak simp under control of a strong willed dominant woman? Simply don't date entitled or heavily dominant women, problem solved. No man is going to be successful in an LTR who never lifts a finger for his woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:22 PM
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Well that's an unreasonable expectation that flies in the face if biology. Fact is a 5 woman can catch a 7 or higher. It's perfectly within the realm of possibility. Lots of good looking men have low self esteem and will settle for such a woman. It's not unreasonable at all from her point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:42 PM
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But women are victims in many other circumstances, just not specifically dating. Besides there are plenty of ugly women who don't feel privileged by society. Settle for one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:57 PM
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So much aggro bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:34 PM
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What I have noticed is a lot seem to simoly have what is called "hatred of the unattainable" It's a coping mechanism where someone's mind knows they can't have what they want. In this case say a young, hot IG girl. They convince themselves they aren't really worth the trouble or are in some way undesirable in order to cope with the fact they will never have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:32 PM
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Even if it's true that women have an upper hand in dating/casual. Why does it matter exactly? I see the same complaints posted over and over again. I don't understand exactly what men on this sub would like to see happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:11 PM
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Nah man. I'm just being realistic and delivering hard truths to a generation of men who simply failed to launch and I have room to talk. Personally I have an excellent relationship with women in general and see many if them struggling with the exact same issues men do regarding work, jobs, raising kids, etc. So this lopsided world I read about here just doesn't compute. If women these days ask for a lot from men, it's because they can get a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:21 PM
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Can you point here on this doll where the evil woman hurt you? Lol Seriously it ain't that bad and men screw women over all the time. We beat them, we humiliate them, we SA them, we ignore them while jacking off to porn, we cum in 2 minutes and roll over and go to sleep, we act possessive, jealous, insecure and a whole host of other pathological and evil shit that men do to women in general. Go read some of the other subs where young women are posting about their crazy possessive, red pilled, vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:39 PM
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This is SUCH BS. This sub and much of the red pill exist simply as an outlet of rage and frustration by guys who see the most gorgeous women on TikTok and Porn and IG and are angry they can't have such women and instead have to settle for an overweight dumpy 4 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:39 PM
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Yes. The gfs of the guys that do are usually posting in relationship advice subs about how their insecure and controlling bf "thinks women only want 10% of men" and other extreme RP beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:59 PM
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There is ample evidence from bush men in Africa, New Guinea and South America that women only rule in the sense of being the power behind the throne. For instance a tribe in New Guinea had a bit of a famine situation. The sweet potato crop on which these people survived was bad. The women couldn't find enough food and the men couldn't hunt enough. It was lean times in the jungle. The only solution was to appeal to another village nearby for aid. But there was a rivalry between the two villages. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:11 PM
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LMAO Matriarchy is not normal for humans. Look at every other primate with exception of a couple outliers like Orangutans and Bonobos. There is a hierarchy with a male at the top. Chimps don't do Matriarchy, gorilla's don't do Matriarchy. From what I have seen human sexual/mating practices seem to be closest to Gorilla's with our general social structure closest to chimps. Males form hierarchies, females choose males from that hierarchy, form serially monogamous pair bonds and family units that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:46 PM
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This has to be one of the most autistic posts I have seen in awhile. OP literally trying to math his way to masculinity. A masculinity equation. Lol All that matters is you have enough spine not let any woman run you over or manipulate you and have the rock solid confident belief in yourself as a man and what you have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:25 PM
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So a typical human society cannot function without seriously reducing the autonomy of its women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:53 PM
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I don't do LDR. If they ain't local I will find someone who is. She went off and got with some IT betabux guy I feel sorry for him because she is hot and smart and is probably breaking that poor man. But that's not my issue. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:56 PM
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There is no good reason to be afraid of approaching a woman under the right circumstances. I've made many hundreds of approaches and I have never once been humiliated or laughed at or filmed for later distribution. If I was I would find the video online and comment on it thanking them for the free advertising because my approaches are smooth and polite even if they only stay friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:17 PM
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LMAO I really can't judge a woman on her notch count because I guarantee you that mine is higher than even the most promiscuous girls. I was dating a woman not long ago and she had this bad reputation as a 304 and a couple of my friends told me such. I laughed and said no woman was a bigger 304 than this man and I'll be fine. She was one of the best gfs I had for awhile. But then she got a big job in another city and had to move. But I had that girl tamed like a kitten and people were amazed at …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:07 PM
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,,q8e
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:21 PM
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So your fear is that incels and sexless men will embrace right wing ideologies and vote for Trump or Trumpian candidates? A ridiculous fear. As far as stochastic terrorism goes. That's a just a made up word from progressives demonizing the expression of non-progressive anger online or anyone who exposes the most extreme elements of progressivism that embarrasses them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:35 PM
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I'm 47 and these "cat ladies" you speak of are quite happy. Most of them have been divorced, their kids are grown and often living with them, they have jobs they enjoy and if they need a quick lay that is easily available even to some of the ugliest because there is always a desperate drunk guy out there somewhere to put on the beer goggles. But many of these women have decent bodies, yoga and gym bodies. They don't smoke, they eat right. The ones with money have plastic surgery. Those women ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:16 PM
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I keep reading this ridiculous threat that sexless men are going to "cause serious problems" and I just laugh. What is little Johnny Autism or Cleft Palate Carl gonna do except stay ugly and die?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:46 AM
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There absolutely no solutions to assist the 33% of men who make up the left side of the bell curve. If you're ugly, deformed, neurodivergent or just plain socially inept. There really isn't much anyone can do to make attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:13 AM
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Oh geez. The only people I ever see use the world "worldly" are insufferable Christians deluded enough to think that sacrificing pleasure and fun and living a truncated life is somehow gonna win them a place in a mythical afterlife when in reality they are just wasting their one life and dying and going where everybody else goes. Nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:52 PM
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Who is "we"? Failure in dating is a personal problem, not a social one to be solved systemically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:52 PM
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Society is not evolving toward polygamy. Rich men aren't stealing all the girls for themselves. I'd like to know what idiot influencers are pushing this nonsense. Its almost like they want guys to give up and stop dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:42 PM
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I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:23 PM
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My experience is that we older men are seen as viable ONS or short term flings. Sometimes these turn out into LTR but mostly not. Though some are "old souls" and simply relate to older men better. Then you have those girls who for various reasons have daddy kinks. Not as uncommon as one would think. But such girls require a very special man who's masculine and dominant enough to be sexy but also kind hearted and patient enough to make her feel safe and protected enough to enter that kind of vuln…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:21 PM
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Its just kinky role-playing between 2 consenting adults. Do you know how rare it is for a woman sub to find a man who makes her feel safe enough to enter that head space? It's actually quite a privilege when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:00 PM
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Its a legitimate BDSM kink same as any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:08 PM
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Just ignore any haters. I'm 48m and my current SO is 29f Yes, she has daddy issues and related kinks. Yes I have kinks too. It works for us. But YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:01 PM
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I have no room to judge a woman's promiscuity because chances are that my body count outstrips even the horniest party girls by at least double, maybe triple. Men who are as successful at single life as many women have to shed certain prejudices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:45 PM
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33% of men are going to have to learn that they are doomed to have 0-2 sex partners and loooing stretches of celibacy between those partners. Someone has to make up the left side of the Bell Curve. I'd say this sub has a fair number of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:40 PM
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Even if that were the truth, which is highly questionable. That in no way means it is due to systemic/political reasons. It could be that men are simply less fit to prosper and thrive in a society that has less and less use for physical strength and resilience. I'm not sure that most men have been socialized to prosper in a world that requires social and emotional intelligence, empathy and the ability to influence people via means other than physical coercion/raw strength of will and it is only …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:17 AM
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I think the bigger question is. Why should anyone care?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:34 AM
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I don't really "date" per se. I go out and meet people. Some of those people are women. A few of those women might like me.. a few of those I might like back and hookup with. If it grows into a situationship and things seem to be stable and going well a relationship might ensue. But I'm of the opinion that most women may want a relationship but are simply emotionally incapable of it. So its best not to worry about one until she can prove she's capable of it. Lol I don't believe in "its my turn" …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:49 PM
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Incel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:59 PM
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Lmao really? So players are out there ruining the dating market for "weak men with shattered self esteem" because they abuse these men's future wives by pumping and dumping them? Oh wow I have read some goofy takes on this sub but this one is especially toxic and self defeating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:46 PM
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Dude it isn't all black and white. Reading some of these posts one would think Red Pill Theory says. A man is either good looking and rich and gets all the women or he is some horrendous Chud who has to buy love from a woman via betabux. Its actually a pretty wide spectrum and the variables are fuzzy more akin to Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle. You can't know where an electron is before measuring it but you know different probabilities of where it will . Mediocre guys can tweak the probabiliti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:56 PM
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We can't force women back into the box of socially policing their bodily autonomy or mating choices. As long as women are entirely free to mate with whoever and whenever they please or not at all. Nature applies over nurture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:29 AM
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Its perfectly logical. We're dealing with probabilities here. Fuzzy variables that aren't fixed in value really. Butngenerally there is almost never a 1:1 ratio of single women to single men in any particular community at any moment in time. This stuff involves game theory, chaos theory and even Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle. Where are the rest of the women? NOT DATING AT ALL. SITTING AT HOME/WORKING AND USING A DILDO. You seem to think women aren't willing to go through long stretches of cel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:56 AM
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Yeah I do agree with you. Where we disagree is whether this is a good or bad thing. Personally I think it's a good thing. I think men in their twenties can use this time to grow as men, work out, take trips and learn to get laid. I know that there are a lot.of guys who will be left out in the cold through little fault of their own but damn man we're talking about forces of nature here. We might as well try to stop hurricanes or droughts or forest fires. I'm of the personal opinion that 33% to 35…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:52 AM
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50% to 75% men Its not like anyone's displaced. There are always less available women than available men at any one time and it has always been that way through human history. Just because the overall population is 1:1 ratio doesn't mean the number of available women and available men is 1:1. It might be 1 available woman for every 1.5 - 2 males. My point is that yes. Modern dating is a vicious, unforgiving and oftentimes cruel institution that is extremely competitive at all levels and yeah man…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:45 AM
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The Gen X and Boomer women who raised this generation of women taught their daughters not to settle. To spend their 20's free and experience all the world had to offer while they are young enough to truly enjoy it. I'm 47 and all of the women I know strongly encourage their daughters to avoid any long term attachments until mid late 20's at the minimum. I watch your generation grow up. I know how they have been conditioned and raised. You have to understand alot of Gen X and Boomer women are res…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:32 AM
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For the bottom 50% of men in terms of wealth, looks or status? Yes. It does ruin the dating market. Because most women in the bottom 35 to 50% range can usually get a man in the top 50%. But hey guys, someone has to make up the left side of the bell curve. Sorry its you. But nature doesn't care about you as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:21 AM
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Its not. You're not supposed to settle down in your twenties anymore. Men and women are supposed to stay single, travel, play, hookup, start careers, etc. You should be too busy in your 20's to do more than hookup. Ambitious kids don't want to settle down until 30. So just learn to be a player in your 20's. Or incel it out and hope you still have some social skills at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:15 AM
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Most single women in later life dont die alone. They get married have kids, get divorced. Struggle a few years until the kids become teens/young adults and then they use their kids, friends and pets as their emotional support and just cougar until they are an advanced age where they die surrounded by their kids. Ita time to realize men really are entirely optional and quite disposable now. I don't know a single woman over 40 who care for a relationship with a man. They have a couple of guys they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:38 AM
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So to you its an unrealistic standard/expectation? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:10 PM
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I think that's a big part of many men's frustrations. That women in their 20's are having body counts in the dozens by the time they hit 30 and therefore they are pretty much used up and worthless to a man in his 30's who was incel until then. If a man only has 1 or 2 sex partners before 30 many will demand women with the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:44 PM
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Ah the typical socialist boiler plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:37 PM
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Well you and your fellow believers are cowards every bit as MGTOW men. The craving for a romantic partner/relationship is supposed to be mandatory and if you don't have that, then that is a mental health red flag. If you have no desire to be in a romantic relationship there is something wrong with you as a human heing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:35 PM
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And I'd tell such women the same thing I would tell a MGTOW man crying about going his own way and quitting dating altogether. Removing yourself from the dating pool out of bitterness and fear is cowardice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:28 PM
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But isn't that really a distinction without a difference? She's still out there spinning plates and being a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:26 PM
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So just accept the world the way it is and become another situationship. Monogamy is nice but its overrated and women as a general rule don't want it for the most part. Just accept it, become a player with your own situationships. Problem solved. Women got a right to spin plates too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:21 PM
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What kind of purity culture nonsense is this? Its either hook up culture or celibacy and your judgemental attitude is regressive and backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:10 PM
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You can't have it all. Its either "waste your youth" fulfilling the purpose nature creates you for or waste it being a man and chasing a career. Make your choice. But your youth is the only marketable commodity you have thats worth a damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:04 PM
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It may be 100% a male problem. But men alone can't solve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:54 PM
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So an American man is only allowed to have sex with/date American women and going on vacation means an American man must remain celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:52 AM
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Lol no. A fat girl who weighs 240 lbs and keeps getting pumped and dumped by 6'2 well built men doesn't have a right to complain or have the "standards" she does. We men are CONSTANTLY reminded of our limitations yet women aren't. As a result they make poor choices in men. Instead the good men are the ones punished due to her lack of self esteem and body dysmorphia.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:20 AM
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Then you are failing because you "feel ugly" and can't develop a sexy, confident attitude. Even if you are objectively ugly, you need to fool yourself into thinking you are not ugly. Better to be delusional than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:07 PM
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Lol Nice assumption. Actually its pro-woman content shared over to me from my toxic ex and who are you to tell anyone to go outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:57 AM
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Because one of these toxic monsters could become my boss, or become an SO for my son and abuse him while telling him he's not "man enough to put her in her feminine" and also I just escaped a toxic relationship where the woman watched videos like this and took it as gospel and was always verbally emasculating me because I didn't meet the narrow stereotype of "the man she needed" as shown on videos like this. Besides why is calling out toxicity a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:53 AM
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Thats because all of them are toxic in one way, shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:33 AM
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Marriage is a crap deal, even for tradcons and most tradcon relationships seem to involve very well off and established men who can actually afford a tradcon lifestyle. I can't and don't care to. Shes an adult, she needs to bust her ass the way my mother did working otherwise she's just another mouth to feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:13 PM
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I'd like a woman who doesn't celebrate toxic behaviors and call it "feisty".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:10 PM
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Well to be fair if the guy is running around in designer labels and drives a hellcat he obviously has a higher annual salary than the guy driving a Honda and wearing clothes from Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:58 PM
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First off WHEN DONE CORRECTLY the success rate for direct approaches is FAR higher than any online dating app. All you guys are so damn logical heres some fucking logic. Instead of looking at each approach as a life or death struggle to mate. Look at it as learning exercise. You need to absolutely convince yourself that the rejection was not the result of your failure as a man. It was the result of your failure to express to her in a way she can understand just how awesome you are. Analyze the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:18 AM
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Hell the early to mid aughts OLD was awesome. PoF was actually a great way to meet women and they even sponsored singles dances and other events locally around the country. Now it's a wasteland but I still manage a date once every month or two through it even though the vast majority of my dating is IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:37 PM
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This whole post is full of limiting beliefs and false ideas. Danny Masterson case had plenty of proof and evidence. He really was a douche of the highest order. Also unless they are deeply mentally fucked up a woman will not cry SA just for the thrill of doing so. Not saying it doesn't happen but usually it happens to men who knowingly put their wick in crazy. I don't mind spending money and paying for dates because I get to choose the date so I am going to have fun no matter what happens with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:25 PM
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I've yet to meet a woman who is as promiscuous as I as a man am so I refuse to judge them. Some people just enjoy various aspects of thr seduction process. It isn't always about the sex. Its often about getting validation of one's desireability after a blow to one's ego. It feels good to know you are sexy and desirable when you're feeling depressed or sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:48 PM
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Every man who ever went to work at a job he hates because it pays well enough to feed his ungrateful wife and kids is a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:10 PM
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Looki man I don't know what to say to the 33% of men who I believe for whatever reason be it physical or mental deformity make up the left side of the Bell curve and as a result will always struggle to find a gf of any kind let alone a decent mate and life partner. Having been with many women who have been in abusive relationships I can tell you their thinking. "Yes, he's abusive. But he's also a bad ass and as long as I am with him he is the only man I ever have to fear." They would rather fear…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:24 AM
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I don't think the "decent" ones are as decent as they claim and the terrible men aren't as terrible as advertised and since when was being decent alone make a man deserving of a woman's attraction? The sexual market is not a socialist entity based on equality and it isn't supposed to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:50 PM
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Look. IMO from vast experience out here in the field. 33% of men are just hopeless and will struggle to have maybe 0-2 lifetime partners with long bouts being single. Thats just the way it is. Someone has to make up the left side of the bell curve. So I automatically exclude 1/3rd of all men from even getting a woman or getting very very few of them across their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:03 PM
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To a lot of these men. Dating and sex is a zero sum game. In their minds there ought to be 1 woman for every man in existence and if any woman decides to just go her own way and not date at all. That means there is a man who will become an Incel. If 2 or more women decide to be in a poly relationship with a wealthy man. That will create more incels. If the demographics in the local area is wrong. More incels. One of those incels could possibly be THEM. So they are "fighting" for a world where ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:32 PM
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Which is a heartless, selfish and cruel way to treat someone you supposedly love and cherish more than any other human on the planet, even above yourself. Healthy relationships involve self sacrifice, not self aggrandizement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:19 PM
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The idea that women are driven solely by subconscious animal instinct and desire that shuts down all rationality is a red pill myth. Hypergamy is not some overwhelming force of nature women have no agency over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:40 PM
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Lifetime monogamy yes probably. Relationships and marriages will probably be much shorter but still monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:15 PM
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Purity culture and abstinence until marriage are backwards, outdated ideals left over from religious beliefs that should have died 50 years ago. God is dead and if you live life according to that stupid book you'll die miserable and alone. Maybe heaven will have a woman for you after you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:01 PM
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I've never seen any evidence of any kind of wall. Women in their 40's and 50's have plenty of options to date. Really good looking women can date younger men quite easily and I have lost more than one girl I was talking to/dating to younger men. The rest are perfectly happy being single and living with their kids and pets and there are plenty of good looking men in their 40's and 50's to fling with so why take on a full blown relationship? I don't see a wall. In fact I see a golden age for peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:26 PM
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You haven't refuted my statement in the slightest. I don't believe truly average men are unduly suffering in the sexual market. You claim that is delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:40 PM
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Look you don't have to become a top 10% man. Being in the top 40% is often enough. Just avoid being the left side of the Bell Curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:39 PM
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Well my "fanfic" is a lot more credible than "women are too stuck up and spoiled to date me"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:45 PM
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They're upset because for whatever reason be it neuro divergence or parental neglect/abuse or severe childhood bullying or video game addiction. They failed to develop in their adolescence the thick skin and basic social skills necessary to properly socialize with and attract women. Their egos are as brittle as Tiffany Glass. They become adults and since they are frightened or anxious in social spaces where people naturally meet they obsess over online dating and use it exclusively to try and me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:10 PM
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Nah. 33% of men will always struggle/fail at dating. Someone had to make up the left side of the Bell Cruve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:54 PM
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What if most human beings simply aren't compatible over lifetime spans and relationships seem designed by nature to fail within 7 to 10 years? The 7 year itch is a thing. So basically there is no such thing as a truly compatible couple and most will fail before or at 10 years. Marriage exists to provide stable legal partnerships most suitable for raising kids. Nature doesn't care if couples bond for life or not or if civilization will be better off or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:39 PM
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Sounds horrific if you ask me. I do just fine as a top 40% man. I don't need an AI to help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:22 PM
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80/20 rule is BS. Even if it wasn't so what? Become a top 40% man in income and looks you will do just fine. Below that you'll struggle. Just a fact of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:15 PM
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That proves nothing. Those women aren't representative of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:51 AM
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In my fairly vast experience. Most women in their 20's aren't looking to get wifed up. Seriously TRP is wrong on the idea that women are sleeping with Chads hoping for a relationship. They are just sleeping with Chad and moving on with zero fucks given.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:30 AM
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I believe most of the complaining is by mediocre men who are upset that modern technology has given even mediocre women a good shot at a better than mediocre man so they are choosing to stay single longer rather than settle for mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:25 PM
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I'm lucky. I maintained my good looks well into my middle age and still look mid 30's at 47. But I have seen guys much younger than me who have just been beat down by life. Fat, bald and gray. But I've seen dudes in their 50's that look way better than me. Juiced up gym guys. But hell at 50 a man should be on some kind of HRT anyway. Yeah, men can let themselves go. But getting in shape is much easier for an older man than a woman of equivalent age. So I think then advantage over 40 is definitel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:54 AM
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What would a red pilled alpha have said IYO in my place?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:34 PM
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I never said it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:15 PM
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So because mediocre women would rather stay single than be in a relationship with mediocre men? Buddy it had always been that way. Mediocrity is not acceptable in a man and never has been. Mediocre men have always and will always struggle to find mates. That's a consequence of mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:26 PM
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I'm not saying its a perfect one and for a lot of men its not one at all. But I don't know what else to say to Little Jimmy Neurodivergent who's crippling social anxiety or physically deformed body or wierdo social tics cause him to be celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:10 PM
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I guess at least temporary relief from sexual frustration for inferior men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:45 PM
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Because there really is no other practical solution to the problem of men who are celibate due to neuro divergence, physical deformities, or intense introversion and social anxieties. The fact is about 33% of men in my estimation are going to have probably very few if any relationships/sex partners and will spend vast amounts of time single. It's just a fact of life. So if that 1/3rd of men aren't happy with OF/Porn then prostitution is the only possible way they will see any kind of sexual/phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:16 PM
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It's pretty damn obvious for man who has any experience with women at all. Let's see.. Does she run her fingers through her hair or play with it a lot when she's talking to you? Does the look into your eyes and maintain eye contact? Does the smile a certain way, bite her lower lip? Do her eyes drift to your body and she checks out your clothes? Does she compliment your style/looks/accessories? Does she reach out and touch you? Does she accept your touch in return without freezing up or pulling a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:36 PM
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So what shoul be said to men upset that their.SO has had 20 "quick dicks" they gave it up for so easily but then meets a man with an n count of 2-3 and he is resentful he had to date her consistently for 4-6 weeks just to be settled for "long term". I can see where "long term" man feels he's getting the short end of the stick when he feels she shoild've started sleeping with him right away just like the "quick dicks". Her making him wait is NOT a compliment. It's an indictment of his masculinity…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:42 AM
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The guys I all.know work 12-14 hrs doing construction, roofing and other hard trade labor. Sometimes worse hours. How is he supposed to split housework except on his few days off a month when he is exhausted walking in the door?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:01 PM
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I'll admit it. I'm quite calculated in how I get laid. It never *just happens". My clothing choices are based on both what I have read and what my own experience shows women compliment me for wearing. My haircut and grooming are the same. I spent years experimenting with different looks, hair, beards, and clothing and talking to girl friends to get their opinions until I found the perfect combination that works for me. When I walk into a room, people notice and women instantly want to know who I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:28 PM
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Man I was one of these guys. Terrible social anxiety that prevented me from ever getting what I wanted in a woman. One day I became sick of it and decided I was going to do whatever it took to become successful with women. I read several books, learned about fashion and what catches a woman's eye and put it into practice. It took a long while but eventually it started to click. At first conversations only lasted a minute or two. But as I became more comfortable conversations became longer. After…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:44 AM
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It is not. Just not be nuerodivergent and weird as hell around girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:23 AM
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While you're waiting for your meagre ration the algorithm gives you. I enjoy the all you can eat buffet that is part of having a healthy and active night life. The number and variety of experiences I partake in every weekend is so much more fun and exhilarating than hanging out indoors. I might be at a music hall enjoying a favorite band or a karaoke night in a dive bar. I might be at a music festival or a county fair. I'm all over the place. If you can develop a distinctive look that makes you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:24 AM
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I'm a snake when it comes to that. I used to be very political but have decidednt9 give up and concentrate on improving my life regardless of political conditions. But I lean heavily to the right. But sometimes I will meet a very liberal or progressive woman. A very liberal woman who I otherwise find attractive. What does a man do? After 20 years of debating such personalities online I am quite aware of all the major progressive talking points and biases against the right. I've read research pap…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:18 PM
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If you are getting emotional pain from basic socialization and dating then your problem isn't the "system". It's YOU. I'm sorry but you can not just float through life as a pathetic introvert full of social anxieties. It is up to you as a man to step up, get the therapy you need, get over your odd social tics and quirks, your abject fear of "rejection" which isn't really a big deal and accept that just because you didn't succeed this time doesn't mean you won't succeed tomorrow with another. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:42 PM
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I was the guy women never noticed or if they did I was too dense/scared to capitalize on it. Now I'm like chad-adjacent would be the best way to describe it and I too know the feeling of being this attractive male and attracting only short term women due to long terms being turned off for various reasons be it self-esteem or a belief such a guy could never be loyal for long or some other ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:42 PM
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Nobody is approaching random people in the streets. I do my approaching strictly in bars/clubs/music venues/concerts, etc. Ya know.. The kind of places it's okay to do that sort of thing. Occasionally I run into a pretty girl out running errands or doing work stuff. But for the most part. I have a nightlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:02 PM
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That's straight up cap. I make more approaches a week than most men make in a year and what you just described is ignorant cap. Women strive very hard to be polite when approached and the most you get is "Well it was nice talking to you!" and they turn away from you. Approaching adult women isn't like approaching the mean girls at a high school dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:43 PM
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That was my path.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:29 PM
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Yeah better to be single and celibate for life than stop being a submissive doormat women can't help but walk all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:16 PM
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Lmao you are a tool "only men who don't care about the future are fun" That's cause ya'll are obsessed with getting ahead financially and licking the boots of The Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:48 PM
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Not really. But you do have to dedicate several nights a week to your nightlife and be happy with 6 hours of sleep or less most nights lol A man could very easily have Wednesday, Thursday and Sunday nights dedicated to a date with each woman leaving Friday and Saturday free for picking up new girls/one night stands, etc. resting in Monday and Tuesday. Expensive lifestyle though...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:27 AM
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No. I'd say read The Art of Seduction, The 48 Laws of Power and How to Make Friends and Influence People. Those 3 books will change your life. Those 3 books form the fundamental basis for the entire red pill. Master them and you will be a true red pill. Anything else is fluff nonsense to sell patreonage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:21 AM
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Umm. If you are hitting on a woman you are professionally involved with without some STRONG signals of interest from her then yeah, you shouldn't be risking your neck. But I have a hard time believing a doctor in a hotel bar at say a medical convention is under any more professional risk than any other professional male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:19 AM
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Lmao you scared of that???? Dude, you cannot please everyone and you cannot be everyone's cup of tea. Even the best looking, most charismatic guys bomb out and creep a girl out or give her a major ick. I see it all the time. The variables of what can go wrong in an approach are infinite and random and a trait you display that would drive 90% of women wild can make 10% cringe. It's just a fact of successfully single male life that you are going to.bomb once in awhile and creep a girl out or cause…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:07 AM
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Lol no. It's usually after the result of plenty of alcohol consumption in my experience which is pretty extensive. Burning desire?? Lmao more like "I'm horny and drunk and can't safely drive home. He'll do for tonight."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:43 AM
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They probably do a lot better than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:50 AM
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Lmao Nope. Not looks. An ugly.narcissist with rock solid confidence and charisma has a very good.chance.of beating out a.much better looking man who displays insecure/clingy/needy behavior. I just pulled it off last weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:44 AM
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The "system" is encoded in our most basic genetics. You are tilting at a windmill. Nature doesnt care if introverts/ugly/neuro divergent dudes get to reproduce. It just doesn't. The system is set up that the men with best genetics get to pass them on and the great fill in as best they can below that. It's never gonna change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:01 AM
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Well you obviously have a problem.with alcohol and got sober and I think that's a wonderful thing. But most of us don't have a problem with it, drink responsibly and it is the best social lubricant to enable people to loosen up and have fun. Sorry that alcohol isn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:09 AM
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I'm so glad I came up in the early days of the PUA movement before the more pernicious manosphere/pill ideology took over back when that stuff was legitimate and pragmatic and taught a man real stuff that worked. I guess all of this pill stuff is good for discussing certain social and dating phenomena online but a serious grain of salt needs to be taken with it when actually in the field. As far as I can tell very few men here have the intestinal fortitude to make the RADICAL life changes necess…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:45 PM
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47m and never been married or had kids. I was either in an LTR or out being a manwhore until I found a suitable LTR. Do I regret my lifestyle and never having kids? NOT AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:45 PM
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Nope. But that's because men who typically have the confidence, swagger and social skills to have sex outside of marriage/relationship is a rare thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:43 PM
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Love and romance from a confident, based and fully healed person is a wonderful thing indeed. Love and romance from a clingy, needy insecure and jealous person is creepy and frightening. Be the first. Don't be the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:40 PM
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Too many times I have read or heard from various girls about their boyfriend cant keep a hard on for longer than a few minutes but then jump up with their phones and run to the bathroom for an hour. Porn addiction is real and serious problem for men under 30 these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:37 PM
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It's not asexuality it's the fact that virtually all of these men are submissive, weak willed, quiet and introverted and that breaks every taboo of evolutionary biology in males. Society despises spineless, weak, submissive males. It is why "bottom" gays who don't follow masculine norms get slurs thrown at them while "top" gays are often respected. You show me a strongly confident, socially adept male who can't get laid. I'll.wait..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:56 PM
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Anyone who thinks women give anything for free simply don't know women. What they don't take financially they WILL take emotionally in some form. It is ALWAYS a fair transaction. ALWAYS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:31 PM
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Nature itself is biased against introverts/loners. See what happens to introverted/submissive male chimps in a troop. They are bullied, often the last to eat and often get their food outright taken by force. He may form platonic alliances with friendly females who might assist him when he needs a meal or grooming but he will rarely of ever get a chance to mate. Now human hierarchies arent as brutally cut-throat anymore except when it comes to reproduction... Sooo you can accept the judgment of e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:24 PM
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Because their male friends neutered themselves with them and are basically asexual drones in the woman's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:12 AM
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Wow. You gotta be next level desperate to lament being straight and wishing you were LGBTQ
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:48 PM
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I think the reason the entire "pay for dates" thing is even a thing is because of the high failure rate of online dates. Let's say you are average guy and you match online with 3-4 women a month and take them out and you spend $50 to $100 per date you are looking at a $150 to $300 dating bill come end of month and if all the dates go bust it's money "wasted". It can be very expensive to online date because of the high failure rate of individual dates means one has to go on a lot of them to succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:33 PM
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I'm out every night in the field and from what I can see most young men's inability to attract women is due to their own immaturity and lack of social intelligence after a life of staying inside playing video games and "socializing" online which leaves them unable to socialize "irl" without crippling social anxieties. Also a higher percentage of young men seem to have some really strange mental health issues that are openly displayed when placed under the slightest social pressure but what is ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:14 PM
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No. One also needs to have an almost narcissistic level of self confidence, a lot of social intelligence and the ability to stand firm and unbending when under immense social pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:40 PM
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Lmao so how is this vast female conspiracy to rob older men of fertile young wives and blame men for a supposed lack of genetic health in our society coordinated? Do older women get-together on a massive zoom call?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:23 PM
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Lol that would never happen because I'm not stupid enough to get married and even if I did that woman would always know by the bug out bag in the closet that I am always ready to leave on a moments notice. He who is willing to walk away holds all the power. You think I am a novice at this game? I'm a middle aged man with about a half dozen LTR's under my belt and the rest doing things that are unspeakable even on this sub. I KNOW how I would feel. I would be pissed af. I would throw the nasty wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:53 AM
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Ya know what saddens me? That so many men have such terribly low self esteem that a normal man with normally high esteem is considered a "narcissist". Unless you have personally experiences a real narcissist. You don't know shit about what a narcissist is. I'm often accused if being a narcissist even though I really just have normal, high self esteem and respect and love myself the way a man should. The internet has poisoned an entire generation of young people to see be8ng normal and mentally h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:23 AM
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"Pretty privilege" is a thing. It isnr fair, it isn't equal, it isn't right. But it is a thing. All a man can do is adapt as best he can. I have mad empathy for the men on this sub and provide actual, real tips that are hard won through long year's of experience. But sadly a lot of men here ain't accept it because it requires risk taking. There is no approach that isn't risky in some way. But it wasn't any better 100k year's ago. In fact probably MUCH harsher.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:49 AM
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Nah. Facial aesthetics and height aren't really too much a concern as body language. That is absolutely key. That is the main mark of a high status male. His clothes, his walk, his talk and his body language can make or break an approach/pickup. They call it swagger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:14 AM
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How is it a game changer? It's yet another marj of status. 7 figure income? What a ridiculous idea. You can buy attraction with that but it isn't good attraction. Generating initial attraction is easy. It's avoiding all the verbal pitfalls and traps that cause an ick. That is the hard part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:35 AM
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While money CAN be a game changer. It's just another tool in a box and not necessary. What women really want is to see that you have enough money to be self sufficient and give them fun and exciting nights out once in awhile. That doesn't require one to be a millionaire. I'm an average looking man with an average job in an average town in middle America. But what I do have above other men is just an almost narcissistic belief that I am a great, fun guy and woman should feel lucky to hang out wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:11 AM
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So what? Better inceldom than bang "ugly" girls?? What is this 'below average quality women" you speak of? I love all women and I love sex and seduction. I have had sex with women of all shapes, sizes, ages and colors. I've had fat girls rock me in bed better than 9/10 Instagram models and actresses. I've had dumb girls and smart girls. I can find something attractive about almost any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:51 AM
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Stay in denial. I know it makes it easier for you to bear your miserable existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:43 AM
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I guarantee you the ugly man who dresses well, has some kind of socially relevant skills and goes out consistently and approaches and lets rejection roll off him like water off a duck's ass will get far more sex than an average man who just goes out once in awhile and relies on OLD almost exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:11 AM
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Well if you living in podunk Wisconsin women are the last thing you should be worried about. Getting out should be first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:43 PM
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Why the obsession with dating apps? If you read this sub you'd think the only possible, safe and legit way to meet a woman is online. I meet one woman every few months online. I meet 2-3 a month just going out and having a fun night life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:09 PM
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What do you mean 'go back to". You realize that almost no one uses online dating exclusively right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:50 PM
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Then they can sit on their poor lazy asses and hope a dating app delivers a girl to them like DoorDash! Some guys apparently are in impossible positions. There is no help for them I guess. Society doesn't owe men access to single women to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:00 PM
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Too bad for the poor men then!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:50 PM
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But third spaces are all over the place. One can simply google "local events" and find lists of festivals, concerts, fairs, private dances and art shows. There bowling, dart and pool leagues. Tons of stuff to do. I don't understand this argument that "third spaces" don't exist when they absolutely do. Just takes a little digging and to get off your ass and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:10 PM
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Once again... Women respond to confident, outgoing and assertive men. Guess what? Most outgoing, confident and assetive men will be perceived as an asshole or a narcissist by a man with low self esteem, introversion and no social skills. Why? Because confident men play "rough". We banter and tease which can come across as "mean" or "assholish" to an outsider looking into the convo. We know how to be physical with a woman in a socially acceptable way. To the outsider it looks like we're rudely pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:31 PM
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Because boys are being fucked up in the head by the single moms raising them making them incapable of interacting with women in a healthy, masculine way and you attribute their romantic ineptitude to petty shit like rom coms. I also just don't like your disgusting tone either. These men on this sub here suffer real psychological harm from women like you talking to them like they are entirely at fault for their lack of dating success. They have a right to feel frustrated and angry. Every woman in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:25 PM
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Must've been nice having a male figure in your life to teach you game if you are a guy. A lot of men don't and some like me grew up in all female households filled with dominant women. It took me until 28 to undo all the shit programming that was put into my head regarding attraction and dating. You speak from a position of privilege and ignorance of it and your tone is arrogant and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:03 PM
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As a man I don't see it as kooky conspiracy theory. I'm just old and experienced enough to know that everything the red pill espouses is very old stuff that was first popularized in the late 70's to the late 90's. Stolen by red pill influencers who added their own warped evolutionary psychobabble and corrupted it for political and economic gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:34 PM
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Men who are successful with women give all kinds of great detailed advice on this forum. But the one being advised rarely takes it. Many seem beyond help anyway due to being so emotionally invested in red pill beliefs and their own inferiority that they simply can't think of women in any other context. Limiting beliefs really suck because they are hard to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:11 PM
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The mental gymnastics some guys must do to justify their shitty attitude and bitterness at being men really boggles my mind. I can understand and sympathize with men on the spectrum and others who are deeply frustrated at their inability to break out of their shells and become fully functional social beings.. But when I read posts like this I can't help but shake my head in amazement that these thoughts actually go through a man's mind to justify his irrational fear of rejection and bruising the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:37 PM
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Sometimes you need to walk before you can run. On this aub I would say that the biggest problem is a lack of consistent practice in the process of attraction and seduction. Such men should temporarily lower their standards so they can actually see in practice as much as possible the various stages of attraction from initial meeting to final seduction. For me, I had to start with women I generally considered less than conventionally attractive. But I was able to learn a lot about what women in ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:50 AM
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A good many men were raised by single mom's with more all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:25 PM
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I blame the women who raised the men. They pushed their daughters to be free and independent while telling their sons they aren't worth anything except an ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:51 PM
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Yeah but it has always been that way probably since the days of homo erectus and certainly since the advent of modern humanity 250+ thousand years ago. Jwaller says it best. Men get-together and form a hierarchy and women then choose from that hierarchy. It doesn't matter if the hierarchy is a group of 20 males or a group of 20 million. Men present and perform.. Women choose. Whatever criteria women use to choose is up to them and is based on their survival. . We just have to meet the criteria a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:58 AM
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Re-read what I write. Adverse overreaction. As in crippling depression preventing one from trying again or developing limiting beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:29 PM
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I'm 47 and a musician is yes actually I am out most nights of the week either atte ding a music.concert of some kind to show my support for my other music friends or playing with my band. Plus I work 2 jobs. Ya know.. A fun, exciting lifestyle.. You should try it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:41 PM
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That's why "most guys" are going without sex and companionship. Dating is a numbers game. If you can't put up enough numbers you won't go anywhere. If a normal guy wants to be a player the he needs to be where the game is at and talk to as many new women as he can. The way to put up numbers is to have a healthy nightlife.. I'm really tired of hearing on this sub "that's not what normal guys do".. Which is why they are whining on this sub while I am getting 2-3 new women a month to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:08 PM
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You don't repress them. You feel them, you process them and you discard them. You don't dwell on it. You don't sit around analyzing it. You cope with it. Wtf do you want to hear? "Sorry little buddy you're scared of a little heartbreak."? Heartbreak is a temporary feeling that lasts a day or two at most for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:35 PM
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Because any man who is confident, mentally well adjusted and has at least his basic shit together isn't bothered or hurt by what any single woman does! The evil shit they do just rolls off our backs like water off a ducks ass. I see guys on here cry about how they get 4 online dates a year and everyone ghosted them. Just in the last 4 months... I've had a woman who I was carrying on a sexual affair with for weeks look over at me in bed afterward and say "Look, I didn't tell you this before but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:18 PM
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That's BS. Getting shot down is the norm. The default state. I am no different than 90% of the men on this sub. Worse off than many because I am middle-aged. I have no degree, no property, no assets. A cheap compact car and a guitar and the clothes on my back is all I own in this world. I'm don't have a gym built body or a chiseled jawline. There are nights I get shot down 3 or 4 times. I go home feeling ugly and unwanted and thinking women suck. I want to dive into red pill propaganda to feel b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:34 PM
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No. It isn't. You can't blame women for the fact that you rolled a natural 1 on the universal random number generator when born.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:32 PM
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Many men who regularly post on here ARE socially inept though. Entirely and thoroughly emotionally unequipped to handle even the most basic dating/relationship conundrums. The biggest one I can see being an overwhelming fear of rejection and adverse emotional overreactions to that rejection. Like one online date ghosts them and they are trapped in depression for weeks. If that is all it takes to bruise their egos. They'll unalive themselves when faced with REAL challenges of male/female relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:23 PM
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The key is color coordination. I wear the same stuff every other guy wears but in vivid, carefully matched colors and accessories. I joke around all the time I'm a straight guy with a queer eye. Women notice. They are at least curious about me and approach. Men who dress well are definitely rewarded with positive female and even male attention. Standing out is good because it shows you are confident and comfortable enough in your skin to be unique and stylish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:48 PM
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Because it is a parallel universe and not a direct reflection of irl male/female interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:39 PM
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It is true for this male. When I look good. I feel good. I like standing out from other men in the room with my own unique style. It acts like a magnet for female attention and compliments, which is a huge ego boost. It doesn't even require that much effort or expense as a man to do so. Hell I just put together a bad ass outfit for a total of $17 from Goodwill and got mad compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:11 PM
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The only thing worse than an incel is a leftist incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:46 PM
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I agree with the OP in a way. People do take visual cues of a person and form a stereotype in their mind and sometimes those stereotypes aren't kind to the person being profiled. It's just human nature and something many have to work around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:09 PM
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Hypergamy is not deterministic to the degree many on here seem to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:47 PM
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I met women who were just sane enough to function in society in general but have dark sides that you wouldn't want any child to have to suffer. Many who had their kids taken away and they always have a sob story about how they are the victim of the system or an ex husband. Has kids but doesn't have kids is a definite red flag. But none of this matters on this sub. That's adult stuff the majority of children on thus website wouldn't understand because they aren't old enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:31 AM
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So don't. Why blab your preferences all over Reddit? I'm 47. Chances of me getting a childless woman are very rare and if she is childless then that could indicate a red flag barring Medical infertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:58 PM
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Social value is determined by your general popularity. Full stop. I don't care if you are rich, poor, ugly, beautiful or in between. Your social value is pegged at your baseline popularity level and your skill at maintaining/expressing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:28 PM
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The problem is "low status" women are often mentally broken or damaged and quite dangerous to a man's mental and financial position.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:58 PM
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The question I have is: Why shouldn't she get an ick for low status, ugly or socially inept men? Him being a potentially awesome partner is no reason to ignore the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:55 PM
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I beautify myself. Absolutely! My hair style, my facial hair, my outfits are all carefully coordinated to draw female attention. Men will shake their heads at my outfits and I've gotten called a f*g by ignorant dudes. I got no shame. I go to sephora and ulta to try foundations and flirt with the girls that work there. But women know. Women see the hidden code. The dog whistle. So yeah. Men should beautify themselves. You're right. It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:49 AM
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No lie. My most recent ex expected that from me. To stand outside ger window in the rain with a boombox. When I scoffed at the idea as nonsense she lost her shit and said that I didn't care about her if I wasn't wiling to humiliate myself for her. She was always trying to get me to do ridiculous gestures of love like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:14 AM
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Science rejects such deterministic thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:14 PM
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There is a difference between animals.on natgeo and humans. We have agency. Lower animals do not. The whole hyoergamy argument and theory literally strips.women of their agency and says they are slaves to biology and "can't help themselves".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:33 PM
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Even if that were true. Which I don't believe to be the case. How are you gonna restrict hypergamy without rolling back the last 50 years of progress?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:02 PM
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Well that ruling class is trained in places like Harvard and Yale. Schools not exactly known to be reactionary or anti-progressive. The elites are progressives. The working class is reactionary to that progressivism. Only a member of the ruling class could take over Bud Lights PR and try to politicize it and advance progressive morality through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:50 PM
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But how often have they made it obvious? It almost never happens to me. I have to work hard and approach constantly. I do pretty well for myself, but it's still a lot of heavy lifting compared to the stetetyoicla chad and I am often mentally exhausted from the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:15 PM
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What is wrong with an active and healthy night life? A lot of men on here think meeting a woman in a bar or club is somehow sketchy or sus and I don't get why. A lot.of women come out for all kinds of reasons. Celebrate weddings, birthdays, pregnancies/births, divorces or just a night out. Alcohol has been the primary social lubricant for thousands of years for a reason. It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:08 PM
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That's just pathetic. A man who gets his ego bruised so easily doesn't deserve a good mate. An IRL rejection is so soft in 99.9% of cases as to be no rejection at all. The whole "creep" thing is a non issue. I'd laugh like hell of a woman put one of my approaches up on line and would thank her for the free advertising. If you want lots of opportunity you gotta taken the risk of offending or creeping out an occasional girl. It's harmless as long as you recognize it and eject right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:04 PM
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Why is traveling and pursuing education important? I am perfectly content to stay in my small city sitting between 2 major metro areas and enjoying the night life these areas have to offer and the women within them. I don't need to travel to a foreign country or get wealthy to find good women. So the world goes from patriarchy to matriarchy for a few centuries. Will a world dominated by women really be worse than one dominated by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:45 PM
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Read the Art of Seduction and 48 Laws of Power and leave all the ideologically tuned evo psych stuff in the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:14 PM
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So what? As a man with wrl over 100 notches on his bedpost. What right do Inhave to judge a woman who might 20-30 notches on hers? You're talking like most women have 100+ n counts and just hide it. The only nice guys who finish last are the nervous, shy, unassertive cowards who get sweaty palms just talking to any human being with a vagina. All my buddies are great guys who treat their women like gold. But they are all confident and strong men. So what if women have a backup? My latest gf whine…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:19 PM
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Because as men we naturally sort ourselves into hierarchies. So some form of physical intimidation is always at play. We often naturally bully each other as a means of establishing our packing order and it's rarely personal except at the very top. Women have much different means of establishing their pecking order and it is based on psychological and emotional manipulation and it is always personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:00 PM
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I love these off the chain, insane posts that imply some uprising or revolution or fall into dystopia if the lonely men of the world's needs aren't met with sex robots, government issued prostitues, artificial wombs or any other manner of half ass companionship and sex. As if an army of angry Elliot Rogers are out there waiting for the right leader to come along and lead them into the brave new world. Please try it. It'll be fun to watch the "uprising" brutally put down within a few hours on CNN…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:36 PM
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I don't have any friends but 2. My best buddy and my gf. The rest are what I call "single serving friendships" which are acquaintances in the various bars and venues I attend regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:46 PM
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If that kind of thing is too painful to bear what happens when you've slept with a girl a few times and she ghosts you or looks at you while laying in bed and says "Look, I have a boyfriend.." which happens all the time. A man needs to become impervious to rejection at anytime in the beginning of a relationship. Feel hurt after a loss of a real relationship? Justified to pain. A woman you don't even or barely know doesn't answer your texts? She's not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:31 PM
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Hell everything else goes these days. So why not? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:25 PM
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Being fashion savvy is a huge feather in any man's cap. The idea is pick a stereotype man that women are known to be attracted to and model your look after them. I swear for the entire run of peaky blinders I dressed in dress slacks, waistcoat and flat cap and had loads of women approaching me to compliment my style and talk about the show. I often reinvent myself depending on context but I always joke with girls that I am a straight guy with a queer eye. I see it as Silverbacks use size and dom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:06 AM
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I'm glad we're despised. I'd love for some yob to open his mealy mouth to me about being an American. I'll give him even more reason to hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:19 PM
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Status is just as important as looks. It's just easier to achieve status as a good looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:18 PM
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I did experience your first paragraph. I grew up in a small city with the same group of beautiful mean girls who ruthlessly bullied me, made me a pariah in my school where I was never invited to parties or could even date in my high school. I got stood up by my prom date and didn't go so I didn't even get a prom. The red pill didn't exist back then. If it had I might have fallen for the sweet nectar of resentment and frustration. Instead I found the early PUA community and books like The Game an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:33 PM
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"Working on yourself" includes ephemeral things like learning to become a better conversationalist, a more confident man in public, and developing inner game and charisma. Going to the gym in and of itself is worthless if you are still crippled by social anxiety and weak body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:51 PM
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Nah man. This is some straight BS. You as a man have the end choice. In the end YOU decide whether you sleep.with that woman and you decide whether to wrap that shit or take the consequences. You ain't got the right to lay that kid on me, the taxpayer's dime! I know women can be evil and play the justice system and I know that men often get screwed. But at the same time I won't be paying for them babies. I'm 45 yrs old and intentionally chose to remain childless and took proper precautions. If I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:19 AM
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Do or don't. I do simply for the fact I enjoy entertaining pretty women regardless of outcome. I usually get the outcome I want though. It's other guys who can't capitalize that pay and go home to their hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:04 AM
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They serve non alcoholic drinks at the bar. The bar is not some evil place where evil women hang out. It's the place people go to party and socialize and have fun. You don't have to drink. You shouldn't be afraid of places that serve alcohol. They are great places to meet women. Especially happy hours between 5 and 8pm. Then they tend to die out until about 10-11pm. As I live alone and get bored just sitting around the apartment. I usually go out for at least a few hours every night and just dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:26 PM
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Promiscuity does not impair the ability of humans to form pair bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:21 PM
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But people in their 20s today did not grow up with your values. Dating changed with the invention of the swipe app. Once that became popular dating values drastically changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:38 PM
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Dating now and 16 years ago are entirely different ballgames. In the modern day it is expected to have a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:16 PM
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Man I totally sympathize. When I got out of my last relationship 4 years ago. I was about 50 lbs overweight. My testosterone score was 322. I was middle aged and ugly af. My self esteem in the toilet. I took drastic action and lost that 50 lbs of lard and became a lean piece of meat. I got help with hrt and got my hormones right again. But while I was I was doing that I was out building a night life. I was out getting rejected right and left. Some nights I came home from the club scene so depres…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:34 AM
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I'm pretty good with women in general and I have this sick fascination with this sub though I don't know why. I guess because for a long time I thought much like a lot of men here. I was in a lot of pain from my last relationship ending and was frustrated. I had been bullied and humiliated by pretty women my entire childhood. But I eventually woke up. I realized that all these "average" guys in here really weren't average guys. They had deeply damaged psyches. Their entire view of women was base…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:23 PM
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I am in a monogamous relationship and very happy. But it took me 4 years to find that relationship. I wasn't about to go celibate for years on end waiting for miss right when I'm capable of hooking up with Ms Right Now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:39 AM
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Well of course they're your preferences and all and you have a right to it. I grew up with similar ideals and then recognizing those ideals were pretty much worthless in the modern day. They're regressive as hell, severely limits your dating pool. In the 21st century it just comes across as backward thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:04 PM
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Sex is not some sacred act that should be done with as few people as possible in one's lifetime. To believe it is is a negative attitude that severely limits one's sexual potential and one's dating pool to a puddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:10 PM
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But I did just that. I'm not Chad. But I am Chad adjacent. I work damn hard for every seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:54 PM
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But the issue with status is that it is relative and often based on subjective contexts. It isn't fixed. The richest poor boy in the ghetto has more status than the poorest poor boy. A poor musician on stage often has much more status that night than the best looking and wealthy men. An average man can dress and walk, talk and move like a high status man. Flirt and interact with women all over the bar and that man has much higher status than the good looking successful guy alone at the bar who t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:01 PM
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My gf is a full blown Type A. I'm a strong and confident man who is dominant in 99% of my interactions in life. But that woman breaks me down the moment I stand in her presence because she's such a powerhouse of personality. Most men can't handle her. I can barely manage it and that's only because I introduced a Daddy/Little BDSM dynamic into our relationship where I force her to take a feminine and passive role in our relationship. Force her to be quiet and feminine and demure. She loves the dy…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:38 PM
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This is so odd to me. Maybe because I'm a musician/artist, all my friend's are musicians/artists and we're men naturally in touch with our emotions but we talk plenty about our gf/wives. In fact my buddies seek me out to talk about these things and I do much the same. When we're happy we brag and show our women off to each other. Having a beautiful and sexy woman who adores us is one of our greatest pleasures when we're not single and burning beer joints down. Our gfs/wives become a tight knit g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:15 PM
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Enthusiastic consent is huge with me. I cannot get turned on with a woman who is sloppy drunk, barely able to stand and walk or is whacked out on drugs. I need my partners to be fully present. Not passing out in the middle of the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:35 PM
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Bullshit! Dating apps are the worst way to find a relationship. It works for many but I prefer the excitement of the chase and the cold approach. A good, healthy and exciting nightlife cannot be beat when it comes to meeting women. Plain and simple. Apps are for cowards and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:29 PM
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They don't seek selfish men. They seek assertive and dominant men. A man can be that and still be sweet, kind, gentle and committed. The problem is that no one teaches men this path. They teach men to be passive and weak. I'm a strong minded male but my current gf who is a damn powerhouse of dominant femininity leaves even me looking and feeling beta at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:25 PM
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You know you can be confident, assertive and cocky without being selfish or an asshole right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:04 PM
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Status is more important and it doesn't have to be global, national or even regional fame. Local status or fame within a city or dense urban neighborhood works just as well. Money is a nice thing to have but it isn't mandatory as many a couch sleeping player can attest to. I once saw a guy get kicked out of his gfs house and went to a homeless shelter. Within a week he was living with the lady who ran the shelter and driving her car like it was his. Money isn't mandatory. But status and a good b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:06 PM
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Women's preferences are not overblown. Problem is an entire generation of men came into adulthood fat, lazy, broke, neuro divergent and unable to properly socialize in person due to constant online gaming being their preferred method of socialization. That's a disastrous combination because online dating doesn't really work and they don't have even the slightest clue on how to make a smooth, polite and successful approach. Average women's preferences haven't changed much in 30 years. What has ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:13 AM
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See this thinking is foreign to me. Despite all my trauma at the hands of various women in my life from being bullied by girls in school, to my mother to gfs, etc. You hate interacting with women. Hate having to initiate, feel extreme anxiety at socializing with them, even wish you could just turn off your libido. It just seems so depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:53 PM
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Well we're gonna police women's spaces, women's sports and any other aspect of women's whatever. I will admit your right to live as you want without undue bullying or harassment. But legal legitimacy equal to that of women? I deny it and if that's transphobic. To damn bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:38 PM
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I am so sick of hearing this lie. "It's about basic respect. All we want is to exist." Well sorry. These people also exist as a political special interest group. That special interest group has demands. Those demands are not all "basic respect". I can respect any individual trans person and be kind and considerate and use appropriate language. But when trans people as a political identity begin to trample on long established clauses of the social contract by demanding access to the bathroom/chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:29 PM
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"Women generally would rather share an Alpha with other females than be in a monogamous relationship with a Beta." Lmao You say this with such conviction. Such surety as if it's as solid a scientific fact as "The Earth is round". It's just not true guy. Most men and women don't live like Hollywood celebrities and one reading through infidelity subreddits do women cheat up. They almost always cheat down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:17 PM
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Predatory women meet their victims just like everyone else. Through work, bars, friends, dating apps, etc.. You still have to be as attractive to them as any other woman. They don't want a flabby loser incel anymore than any other woman would. It isn't always weak men. They take strong men and break them down over time with their dominant personalities and sexual skill. Be your fantasy woman for a month or two and then start push-pulling. Withdrawing attention from you for minor or inconsequenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:53 PM
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Apparently this sub has quite a few men whose sexual frustration has grown pathological and malignant and of course, social conditions are to blame for their lack of dating options. If social conditions can change so women have NO CHOICE but to seek protection in the flabby arms of a sweaty incel. They'll be fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:27 AM
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What kind of weird right wing catastrophizing is this garbage? It reads like a red pill version of White Replacement Theory. The ultimate revenge fantasy of inceldom. That social conditions deteriorate to the point that society will have no choice but to make women suffer disproportionately in an epic act of karmic justice for "average" guys everywhere to save the species! Seriously that's what this "essay" reeks of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:03 AM
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Female control of 51%+ of the world's wealth and 51%+ of democratic government politicians/leaders. Where women make most financial and political decisions over society and resource distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:57 PM
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I believe that's because their ideology demands female dominance over society and a shift in societal mores to make women the dominant sex and men who question or possibly stand in the way of that goal are subhumans to be mocked, bullied and crushed into silence wherever they are found.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:03 PM
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The. I don't know wtf to tell you! I'm out here taking 30-40 chicks a year making 50k. Maybe the women you are talking about are 9's and 10's on HCOL areas with Kardashian Syndrome. I don't know. I don't live in a big city full of rich guys and high end clubs and I'm perfectly happy settling for 5-8's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:05 PM
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It means EVERYTHING. EVERYTHING. High value masulinity isn't about money, it isn't about looks, it isn't about anything else except rock solid confidence and assertiveness and absolute lack of nerves and fear in the face of attraction. A nervous man is a turn off. A man visibly frightened by a woman half his size is a turn off. Fear of rejection is a turn off. That all points to a man with no experience either socially or romantically. I don't care how much money you have, how good looking you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:07 PM
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Lol when dude in front of her is fidgeting like he has tourettes, has sweaty palms, stutters, can't look her in the eye and a million other social tics. She most certainly can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:53 PM
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I'd sure like to know what average is because if I'm not average wtf is? Average state per capita income, a 5 yr old sedan worth about 14k, a small apartment about the size of a hotel suite. Looks that are at best a 6, MAYBE a 7 on a good day and 45 yrs old. It doesn't get any more average than that. The only difference I can tell is I am out there like a maniac enjoying an insanely fun hedonistic lifestyle full of music concerts, moderate social drinking, making new friends and meeting new wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:38 PM
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The biggest problem is people don't understand the dynamics of what a successful cold approach looks like. They think it's some guy who just walks up to some random woman on the street and chats a minute or two and asks her out on a date, phone #, etc. It doesn't work that way. Let me give you an example of a proper cold approach from my own life. I was on my lunch break from my sales job and stopped in a local dollar store to get some items for lunch. As I walk up to a door a pretty girl approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:52 AM
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It pops right up when you Google the tooic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:04 AM
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The chances of contracting genital herpes is very low for men. Certainly not 1.5%. The cdc calculates it at something like .5 to .8% I think and only 10% of uninfected men caught it from their infected partners after 1 year together. For women it's a lot more risky but I'm not sure by how much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:11 PM
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Hugh Hefner believed so. He said "Feminism will liberate men long before it does women."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:59 PM
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Why is this stupid topic so sensitive to you? Like you take it personally. Are you one of the victims of mother nature's ruthless eugenics program? Being a man with the privilege of almost unlimited options, it's hard for me to really care about the left side of the mating bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:57 PM
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Evolution says yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:14 PM
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It ain't about a pedestal. Fact is that if a man can't get laid it's entirely on him. Not society, not hypergamy, not a cold cruel uncaring universe. The man himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:55 PM
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Nope. Not everything has to be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:49 PM
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The problem with TRP is that it takes everything pickup artists, seductionists and cads already knew since at least the turn of the millennium(or much earlier) and then tacks an MRA political identity to it and IMO it's a poor fit. One can get good with women without having to make a political identity out of it. It smacks of the same flaws feminists have when they claim that being promiscuous, engaging in sex work, etc is a political act. Striking a blow against patriarchal purity standards. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:17 PM
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Man go over to dead bedrooms. Tons of wives on that sub who make extraordinary efforts to seduce their SO's and the men just go "shut up! I'm playing my game!!" Then disappears to the bathroom with their phone for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:11 PM
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Decent men with emotional and social intelligence can approach anywhere as long as they don't reek of desperation and ha e the ability to know within 90 seconds if a woman is potentially attracted. If not, dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:04 PM
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I refuse to be the cause of a child's broken home. If the wife does t have kids then I am a lot more receptive to an affair but I can't break a child's home.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:24 AM
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Yup. That's been my experience. Also I think that a man who has shit together can do "simp" things and have them actually work out because you are doing so from a position of power. For instance, if I was really interested in establishing a relationship.with this woman. I could easily send her a moderately price bouquet of flowers with a note thanking her for a great night and it would probably thrill her to no end. Simp activity, but done from a position of power, can be very alluring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:11 PM
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On the whole not clingy/needy thing I still fail every now and then. Especially when the woman is a certain type. I tend to fall for really strong, dominant women like my mother who exude a lot of masculine energy. Problem is such women are just as capable of turning the tables on me. They'll give me a taste of their goods, promise to be the woman I have been looking for and then once they think they have me they start putting the screws to me and I have to leave. Which really sucks because I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:48 PM
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In fairness I don't think that would work for me if she didn't already know I was pre-selected and while I didn't text her I still saw her once every week or so at the hang out spot and flirted and teased her. But she also saw me flirt and tease with a lot other women in that bar. She wanted her turn. Well she got it last night and it was pretty damn good I have to say. She was very enthusiastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:21 PM
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Well support for waywards can give pretty good insight. A lot of them seem to just be bored with their simp, and feel they "deserve" the same excitement they once had. Domestic life sucks for a lot of people. All responsibility with no reward for years, maybe decades. Also most men when they get married grow complacent and become simp doormats because it's the path of least resistance. They hold domestic tranquility above anything else not realizing that by being a doormat the domestic tranquili…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:10 PM
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It's great because you carry a few in your pocket and you can do impromptu performances anywhere. It's great fun at the bar for me. It's great music you carry in your pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:27 PM
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I'm a 45m and it's no better on this end! Every age appropriate woman in my area is just coming out of divorce with teenage or full-grown kids and deciding to be in a 304 phase like they are 25 again. They don't want a relationship ever again. They just want to chase young men for hookups. They have their jobs, property they acquired in the divirce, pets and adult kids as roomies. They don't need a man for anything but to scratch an itch. Just because a middle aged man has stayed a bachelor all …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:21 PM
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No shit. Luckily my family keeps their hair so no loss but I did get a receiving hairline but I keep my hair short so it isn't noticeable. My last relationship of six years ended 3 years ago. That woman wrecked my self esteem again for awhile and I believe the constant stress of that relationship wrecked my hormones. The woman literally took my nuts. When I went to the doc post relationship and got checked out I was 240 lbs of lard with a testosterone level of 322. I needed to take drastic measu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:51 PM
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Dancing is mucho bueno shit. Very few men can dance well. When I got into music I developed a sense of rhythm(duh) and also took some dancing lessons. Some of the prettiest girls I ever picked up I met on the dance floor. I play the harmonica, pedal steel and slide guitar. My area is midwestern Trumpistan so country music dominates here. If you want a nice easy instrument to learn, you can't beat the harmonica.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:22 PM
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Yes. I'm 45 but I routinely hookup with girls 25 to 30 yrs old. I am way to old for a girl in her early 20's though I have had make-out seshes with girls that young over the last year. But I'm not your average 45 yr old. I have 18 years of solid game, I'm a popular local musician with a name and a rep, I shoot gear(which I do not recommend for men under 40) and workout so I have the body of a man much younger. I dye my hair and stay clean shaven to avoid grey. I dress much younger than any man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:19 AM
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Because I'm a narcissist. I grew up in a small town where I was ruthlessly bullied and rejected by the same group of hot and popular "mean girls" from grade school until after high school which left me without self esteem and a spineless simp. I hated pretty girls. To this day I still.dont trust them. When I hit 28 in the mid aughts I discovered pickup artistry and dove in head first. Part of that was I learned to play music and joined a band and became popular.. As I became more successful with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:06 AM
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Well 99% of the time that's all I am interested in as well. Actually the sex is secondary. The final prize of what I am really doing which is enjoying the game and stealing energy to fuel my own ego. I am always open to a potential relationship but it takes a pretty unique woman who ticks certain boxes before I consider it. Great sex is common and easy. An easy going, calm and stable woman is a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:10 AM
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Of course. I'm an effeminate man in a lot of ways. Always have been. I learned to cope and succeed despite it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:53 PM
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I disagree only because in my experience women are starved for well dressed men. I'm not very good looking. Not very dominant or assertive. I can't be a silverback going around using size and dominance to win lays. I am more like a pretty bird with colorful plumage and a pretty song who struts in front of women and see which ones take the bait. Some women shit test me asking if I'm gay or bi because I'm so flamboyant but I just tell them I am straight guy with a queer eye and start flirting heav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:01 PM
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Pm me. Anything I say here in public will just open a can of controversy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:46 PM
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Which is a shame. because I do dress sexy and I love it. I get to stand out among the crowd and get noticed while all the offer guys fade into the background and grumble about why that "weirdly dressed" guy over there is getting action and they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:33 PM
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Even scientists have noticed the new sex negativity of Zoomers. The meme term I believe is "puriteen".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:31 PM
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I have to disagree slightly. I'm absolutely not an asshole or a dick or mistreat women. In fact I have a solid reputation as a great guy and gentleman. Whenever word gets back to me from the grapevine where someone was talking behind my back the words are always "He's a great/sweet/nice guy" There is just one caveat. I am well known and notorious flirt and cad and that is part of my reputation as well. Last night for instance I was out with a buddy I have been coaching who just got out of a 21 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:54 PM
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Why feel threatened? He's ONE man. He can't bed every woman in the room. At some point he will have to choose one to focus his efforts on and whether the rest if the women in the room want him or not is irrelevant. In fact a SMART man would attempt to befriend the Chad because he access to an unlimited supply of women and he simply can't do all of them and being the buddy/wingman for a Chad is a top notch thing to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:17 PM
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Well of course they are. Society is changing and women are embracing a much more masculine approach to both professional and romantic relationships and basically going their own way. There is a theory I read about why human males have beards and why they have become so popular recently. The theory goes that throughout human history during times of plenty, when competition for mates is high and women come to dominate a society for a generation or two. When that has happened the men in those cultu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:49 AM
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Lmao I see that education is no shield against conspiracy theories coming out of left field. No.one is stifling innovation to save profits. That's a Hollywood plot device. Not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:06 PM
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Lmao.. I love the "we're in the late stages of capitalism" cope from Marxists. Non-capitalism is non-viable economically or socially. Post capitalism is a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:57 PM
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Infinite growth is the only humane solution unless you intend us to start eugenics and culling programs, forced abortions/contraceptives and child policies like China's. Most of the population growth is in the global south anyway where government infrastructure isn't adequate to enforce such policies anyway. Are we gonna cull the global north and let the south just fill in the empty space left behind?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:39 PM
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Oh wow. 160? What about the thousands of species that have adapted to thrive in our shadow? The utopian nonsense that we can or even if we should try to save every single species from extinction is simply stupid. And we've been hearing about everything being "unsustainable" and yet technological progress and innovation seems to keep throwing a wrench in all those ideas. Peak oil solved by fracking, peak food solved in the 70's by inventing new fertilizers and pesticides and now genetic modificat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:25 PM
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Whenever I read something like this I see it as "These 5's would be in relationships with guys like me if only the internet didn't give them access to all these 8's to hookup with." I simply can't agree with that premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:25 PM
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Of course not. No one around here is willing to do what works. Just read RP lit and agitprop about how dating is broken, women suck so bad. You would be surprised how many attractive women can be found on a week night celebrating birthdays, divorces, bachelorette parties, etc Happy hours from 5 to 8pm are loaded with good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:26 AM
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Which is why the numbers game is important. An average man who approaches and opens at least one or two women a night will get get a lot more action than one who opens one or two a week or month. Also, dressing and shaping your persona around certain cultural stereotypes women have about men can do a lot for you before you even arrive at the approach. I'm a musician and dress and act like a rock star. Women have an idea about how awesome I am just by looking at me and seeing my outfit and access…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:36 PM
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Lmao I love this. They try to treat social situations like a complex live action videogame and then get mad there isn't a cheat code.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:42 PM
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That's tradwife, Christian fundamentalist purity nonsense. Those women only exist in places like Utah where daughters are bought and sold among the men in the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:41 PM
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I love women. I love being around them, smelling them, laughing with and at them, teasing them, dancing with them and having sex with them. What you call a "waste of time" is a thrill for me. I get a dopamine hit when a pretty woman shows attraction to me. What is a burden for you is fun and exciting for me. I'm a social animal and given the choice between sitting at home alone and pathologizing my psyche on Reddit or seeking the thrill of pursuing a fresh, new woman. I'll take the latter. I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:46 PM
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Hmmm yeah that's not really a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:33 PM
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You don't. Not everyone is going to find someone. It's a brutal world. The only thing I can suggest for such men is to put themselves into situations where lots of women and alcohol are in close proximity and try their best to make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:39 PM
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Better to be dirt poor and have charm and charisma than to have everything else and lack that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:33 PM
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As a man with an unusually high amount of "feminine energy" I tend to turn off a lot of women because they think I am weak or a push over so get shit tested a lot and a lot of women push my boundaries to make sure I have them. I don't always pass these tests and it can be annoying when I fail and Insee the ick in their eyes. Having a high amount of energy in the opposite direction of your gender can be an inpediment but not always a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:55 PM
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Wow. A looking in the mirror moment here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:41 PM
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Lots of other ways besides "drinking and clubbing". What about concerts, music festivals, church festivals, county fairs, private dances and balls thrown by various organizations, cons, etc? Hell my city built an amphitheater and holds free out door concerts every weekend all summer. A simple google search of local events during any nice weather weekend will have whole lists of "3rd places" one can go. No, the only lack is in places for overly cerebral, boring, teetotaling straights to go and ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:28 PM
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That's my belief, yes. That there is a gap may be due to stress, exhaustion and a lack of skill on the part of most men to stimulate a woman either physically or psychologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:20 PM
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May not be one. Female orgasm would seem important to me evolutionarily because the waves of contractions move towards the cervix and massage and milk the penis therefore ensuring maximum sperm in the right place. It's got an evolutionary function.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:12 PM
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The orgasm gap would disappear if men actually learned a little anatomy of the female genitals and then gave a crap to actually take 20 minutes to warm her up with an orgasm or two before you even get to PIV. It may not be generally true but I pretty much hold to the belief a woman's orgasm is entirely dependent on her emotional state at the time and man's personal skill in getting her to the proper state for it to happen. It isn't all physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:03 PM
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I know what your saying. You have a bunch of false social conditioning drummed into your head. That your desires and sexual instincts are a threat. They aren't and you shouldn't be afraid of them. What you need to do is recognize immediately when she is not reciprocating and politely bounce somas not to be "that guy". That's all you need to do. Otherwise don't be afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:24 PM
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Lmao red pill is not some new discovery or revolutionary. It's the same old shit men have complained about since time immemorial repackaged and sold to young and impressionable boys who have money to spend on Patreons, books, articles and time to watch videos and hit the like button, etc. There is nothing you get from the red pill movement you couldn't get from reading the 48 laws of power and The Art of Seduction and at least those books won't leave you angry and resentful against society, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:27 PM
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Most men know this but are placed under enormous social and sometimes familial pressure to marry and have children and provide. It's the one sure sign a man has "grown up". Believe it or not. I've never had kids or gotten married and hit my mid 40"s some women see it as an orange flag and begin delving into my relationship experiences to decide whether I'm just a man who never found the one or just a man child happily playing through life and shirking responsibility. Hell my dad has all kinds of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:05 PM
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"Alpha" is defined by how dominant and assertive a man is. How much of a leader he is and how respected he is as a leader. How much pussy he gets or the quality of it is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:27 PM
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Wtf??? What qualifies you to say such a horrid thing? Fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:09 AM
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sigh Yet another attempt to analyze and math one's way into a woman's pants. Let me know how these theories work out for you Porndexter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:17 PM
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Condoms and birth control solve most of those problems. It's really hard for a man to catch a lifelong std like hsv2 which usually takes a year of regular sexual contact with an infected person to give a 10% chance of contraction. The CDC says average rate of infection for herpes is .1 to .3% for men. Syph and Gon are the real worries but condoms are quite effective. The other worries, hepatitis and genital warts have vaccines now which every sexually active person should responsibly get. So n c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:07 PM
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I think science and society has proven that virtually all.women are promiscuous to one extent or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:56 PM
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I can't judge a woman by n count. Mine is orders of magnitude higher, guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:45 PM
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Things should be sexual quickly. I can totally understand the frustration of men seeing that many women will gladly give it up to some men almost instantly "for free" but then make others go to ridiculous lengths to "prove themselves" and force them to wait while they play around to the last second. Men have their own issues with this but I'm a man and can't speak for female experiences. I have few problems relating to women. But there are certain trends even I find annoying. This is one of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:27 PM
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Same night lay with no contact info exchanged?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:46 PM
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Lmao where does this silly idea cone from? My mother never taught me all women are angels. She taught me that women are wild horses that can't be truly tamed the best thing you can do is let then run wild and hope you made a good choice and if not, cull the herd. Oh and to always have options so the loss of any one woman is no great loss. Putting eggs in one basket is a dangerous play these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:35 PM
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I think society will advance just fine with female sexual freedom as it stands. I know you and a large portion of the user base on this sub believe women are incapable of making "good" decisions with their hard won freedoms or perhaps are abusing society and most men through their "poor" choices. But that is the problem of future generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:15 AM
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I have more success becoming friends on FB or Instagram and not even bothering with the awkward number exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:21 AM
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Now you're the one with the fallacy argumebtum absurdum or arguing to the absurd by comparing justifying the cruelty of the dating market to justifying rape and murder. A man unable to operate within the current sexual marketplace is not a victim! Not a victim of a crime, not a victim of rights violations, not a victim of any sort. There is no crime in being undesirable to most women. You are trying to at least imply that incels and other men unsuccessful in loce/dating are victims. It smacks of…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:23 PM
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Lol that the problem. You keep looking for logical, rational arguments to why the sexual market is unfair.. There are no rational arguments because attraction isnt based in rationality. In fact it often operates on a completely irrational level. It makes no logical sense most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:14 PM
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There is no such thing as a just world in dating. It's entirely unfair and rigged against men. It's supposed to be. Nature doesn't want all genetic combinations to mate and reproduce. If the universal random number generator screwed you at conception you just have to accept it stoically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:59 PM
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Lmao any inequalities in the sexual marketplace are there for good reasons. I'd suggest sex workers for those incapable of coping. That's what they exist for. There is no reason to equalize the marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:32 PM
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As a middle aged man. I see the pathetic lives of some of those in my age group and shake my head. They don't have to be that way. But then I know a lot of great guys in late 40"a and 50's who are dating younger women who adore them. But then all of us are non mainstream type men. Outlaw and rock musicians, bikers, cowboys and other oddballs from mainstream society. We do attract and have honest relationships with younger women in the late 20's to early 30's because we're just bad ass. None is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:31 AM
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No and I would give such women a single night lay or something. Ships passing through the night and all but I wouldn't promote them to FWB status and let them join my harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:13 PM
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It has plenty to do with it because to be this cold, cruel and non-empathetic towards an intimate partner, regardless of casuality is narcissistic and sociopathic and all around disgusting. Even players should have a code of honor dude and yea, I'm judgemental as fuxk towards fellow players who act this way. You're supposed to leave them better than you found them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:27 PM
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His "conversation" came across to me as tone deaf and emotionless to the point that he was treating her like sex worker or a doll or something who's emotions or feelings are entirely irrelevant. Maybe it's just me but I treat my FWB's like actual friends and people who I care about to some degree. I don't just dismiss them as nothing but a hole to masturbate into.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:14 PM
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He could've shown at least a small bit of empathy for her feelings as his sexual partner, regardless of how casual. It ain't cool to be ruthlessly cold and dismissive like he obviously was. She's not a sex worker and treating her like one was pretty cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:55 PM
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Come on man. An FWB relationship still requires a modicum of empathy and consideration for the feelings of your partner. You show absolutely none towards her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:52 PM
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I dunno. Ask a narcissist. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:26 PM
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If that belief helps you sleep at night. Whatever. I never took this sub as an incel support forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:23 PM
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Better to be delusional and think well of yourself than realistic with low self esteem and self hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:33 PM
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No one has more empathy for these men. I help guys all the time IRL with these problems. The biggest problem that I see is an irrational and overwhelming fear of humiliation at the hands of women and crippling social anxiety. That requires professional therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:29 PM
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Because I'm not here to coddle low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:20 PM
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We don't know you or your specific situation. All anyone can do is give basic advice that would apply to the most people. If you want a step by step systematic way to attain a relationship. Reddit ain't the place to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:14 PM
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Shit. I lived a lot like that. My mom joined the damn army in 1972 to escape an abusive home and met my father who was just getting back from the war. They GTFO in 76 and had me and dropped into the 1% lifestyle. I grew up with all these big dudes I had a million uncles. Then I was about 12 my dad was out with his closest real brother, not mc and my uncle wiped out and died in my dads arms. He sold his bike, became a Christian and swore off the lifestyle. My mom never forgave him. They stayed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:13 PM
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No. Closer to Jax Teller from SOA. My mother wasn't as evil as Gemma Teller. But she was close.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:05 PM
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My mother and I had a very close relationship. She was a tough, no nonsense woman with no illusions about relations between men and women. She was a hard drinking, pool hustling thunderstorm but there was no doubt even to this day my mother genuinely loved me and wanted was best for me. As soon as I was old enough to get into a bar, she was taking me out and exposing me to single women, encouraging me to talk to them and even fuck them and helped me to have at least a basic competency with women…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:54 PM
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Something centered around a stimulating and fun activity/experience combined with food at some point and probably at least some alcohol. But that's just my dating style. I date women into music mostly so a date could be a reasonable $20-$30 a plate dinner and then some kind of concert or show. I'll buy her first 2 drinks and the rest is up to her unless we been dating a while. All that together could cost me anywhere from $100 to $200 for the date if she's a valued boo or FWB I like and have an …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:17 AM
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Look. You don't have to be rich. All you need is enough disposable income to provide fun and exciting dates for women. Dating can be expensive for a man and I know it sucks with modern living costs relying on crappy service jobs and door dash to make a living. But it is a hard core fact of life a man must provide at least the basics of an exciting and fun dat8ng life. That may require up to 200 in a week. You need a reliable, decent and clean car. Ideally you would have your own place with no ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:04 AM
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My bad. Tone is impossible to read online. Anyway I am just inspired by mystery method. Its a framework and a tool for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:14 PM
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Then WHY does it all work for me?!! Tell me WHY does it all.work for me?? You say women notice all this stuff as if it's a negative? For some PPD loser with zero social skill who isn't comfortable in his skin, may be so but for a man who is confident to the point of boldness yet otherwise well spoken and polite and self aware it works beyond imagining. I don't care if you believe all this is some made up fantasy by a geek with a keyboard. Tonight I'll be out finding the best parties and meeting …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:13 PM
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Well its not like I can demonstrate online short of not answering you at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:03 PM
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OMG I just had that happen over my snake skin boots! Some hipsters approached me after I got off a stage from playing with an acoustic artist who I knew and one kid thought my boots were awesome and his short little friend got all shitty with me about it and I laughed in his face and told him to go sit down before he had my boot in his ass. He stormed off and his friend apologized and followed after him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:55 PM
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Me:"So how long you guys been friends?" Girls:"Oh forever! We're like sisters!" Me:"Wel Let's just test if that's true. Do you guys share the same brand of shampoo?" Based on their answer I can playfully.claim they either are or are not best friends. Sounds ridiculous on paper. But IRL girls love silly questions and tests. Why you think all those survey games are popular on FB? Geez. There is nothing I do that is evil or sad or mean or makes me a loser. I am well loved and very popular. It's jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:50 PM
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I'm not good looking. A 5 or 6 at best
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:43 PM
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My motivation is to have a great time and break up the monotony of terrible drunks vomiting out their favorite songs. Getting laid is just the side effect. But let's say my motivation was to just be an unapologetic attention whore and get laid. It has worked for something like 18 years now. Why shouldn't I do it? Give me one good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:42 PM
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It's not. It's just some naysayers who can't stand the idea of a man being an absolute, unapologetic attention whore and being rewarded for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:39 PM
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Yeah and guess what? It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:26 PM
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Blah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:20 PM
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Except there is nothing stupid about it. I been playing almost 20 yrs and play beautifully. Worse I have singers who beg me to back them up while they sing! OMG!!! SO CRINGE to just be awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:20 PM
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Lmao what's cringe about it? Crowds love it. DJ's love it. I have a blast doing it. So scoff all you want. I been doing it almost 20 years and have yet to be called anything except awesome. I have videos all over of me kicking huge bars on karaoke nights. But I don't have anything to prove to naysayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:17 PM
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Well then stew in your ignorance. Anything I say you'll just scoff at. I could post videos of me rocking huge bars on karaoke night, getting cat called and cheered and you'd just scoff at it like I'm just another loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:14 PM
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Scoff all you want. It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:09 PM
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Examples of my "sleazy" pick up tactics: Go to a bar karaoke night with my harmonica and play a song that blows the crowd away and makes women hot To be a good story teller so that I can talk about my life experiences in ways that are both fun and titilating Have a couple games designed to poke fun at various aspects of a girls personality or to playfully question the bond between the two girls if there are a pair of them. To politely and absolutely socially acceptably touch them in carefully pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:47 AM
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Maybe about fat ugly middle aged troll men. But a well dressed, well groomed and decent looking man looks a woman in the eye and smiles. That feminist male gaze crap seems to be forgotten in the smiles I see returned back at me. You want to justify averting your gaze like Quazimoto from Belle then feel free. But true gentleman such as myself don't have to concern ourselves with such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:38 AM
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I can sympathize with many men on here emotionally. There have been so many days where it would be so easy to just crawl into any MMO of my choice and find a community and forget about the world. So easy not to go to the gym. So easy not to be sore all the time. So easy... I get a lot of ass. There is no denying it. But for every piece I get I suffer 2 or 3 blatant rejections. Last night a hot woman approached me but I wasn't in a very social mood and our conversation was stale and boring for he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:16 AM
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Consideration for what? The theorized ephemeral feelings of a small group of wierdos?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:18 PM
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I don't see a surplus of men because most men are submissive and weak with few social skills or emotional intelligence and by doing so check themselves out of the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:50 PM
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I refuse to avert my male gaze because some women deem it uncomfortable. Averting gaze is a sign of submission and weakness. I'll not have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:44 PM
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Nope. I can play, have fun, avoid attachment, etc. But if I meet someone special and emotional attachment between us occurs then I either bow out or go mono with them. I'm near8ng that point with one woman now. Sex with multiple friends with benefits is one thing. Emotional attachment is entirely different beast and I'm not playing those insane emotional gymnastics poly folks go through. I can't just pretend away my feelings of attachment, jealousy and mate protection instincts. Nature put that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:26 PM
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A man or woman with a lot of options has no incentive to commit or settle down. Getting into a relationship is easy af. Getting out of one when you have invested your financial and emotional resources is much harder. I have several women I adore. Different reasons for each one and each one fulfills a need that none of them as individuals could fulfill. We all have needs and maybe one person is great in bed but isn't the best mate. Maybe one is really awesome mate but not great in bed. If you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:43 AM
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"Narrows" it is an understatement. His obsession with purity dries it to a puddle in the middle a vast salt flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:33 PM
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You sound like a woman. "I need compaaaaaaassion! Why won't anyone tell me how great I am online when I whine like giiiiiirl???!" Go whine to mama or your sister or best friend that's a girl. Don't go crying online because you aren't gonna get support and sympathy. This isn't the forum for that Man the f up and get control of your emotions. Feel them, process them and then discard them. Because if you are this emotional upset about not being able to have the dating success you want now. You have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:10 PM
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I'm 45. I currently have 3 a to be FWB's. 62, 40 and 28 is the baby of the group. I've hooked up with women as young as 25 this year though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:12 AM
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One of my FWB's is a 62 yr old who looks fantastic for her age. She goes to the gym regularly, has beautiful muscular shoulders and legs and perky tits with cute nipples. We both know that relationship is impossible but every Thursday night we go out, get a good buzz on and go back to her comfortable king size bed and get it on with the gusto of a woman half her age. She gives the most awesome blow jobs, massages my back and cooks wonderful breakfasts for me. We have a really awesome thing going…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:41 AM
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But I'M no better than "ex hoe". Hell I'm worse than any hoe by orders of magnitude. I went through my entire 20's, 30's putting it in any woman I felt attraction to. I simply have no moral ground to judge a woman for enjoying sex during her younger years just like I did. Leveraging her body like I did. This obsession with body purity on this sub has to be because of latent religious training most guys on here suffered. Sometimes ya'll sound like fundamentalist sects when it comes to female puri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:12 AM
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What a loser. A fool who was parted from his money. No sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:03 AM
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Poor bastards. Glad I'm not one of them! No ramifications. Those guys are probably shut ins or just cursed by the universal random number generator. They'll work for their bosses and die of a heart attck fat, sad and depressed. You often see these bald losers at hotel bars crying into their beer not understanding that being on the road for 8 weeks out of every quarter is not conducive to a strong love life. There is always hookers!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:48 AM
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But for many of the men their problems with women stem from severe and possibly incurable mental health issues as a root cause. I know that some may need and deserve empathy but my philosophy is that you'll never coax them out of their isolation with a carrot, so maybe they need a stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:03 PM
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I believe me and my social circles are just par for the course. Formal dating is lame and dying. It's hookups, situationships and non-exclusive ambiguity now. That's the wave of the future and purity enthusiasts and other reactionary regressives need to get over themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:06 PM
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Minding ones own business is not the point of this sub. I ain't here to coddle. I ain't a guru but in my 4 decades of life I have coached or wing manned for many men and taken plenty of hits for the team to see them succeed. I know what I'm about. One of my good friends is a short, shy, balding ugly guy who can't get laid to save his life. I've had to intervene on his behalf when women reject him cruelly. But he puts himself out there every Friday and Saturday night despite every humiliation and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:15 AM
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Well if a man is a 3 and he doesn't want to date an obese woman, or an older woman, or a single mom or a woman willing to settle for him for other reason like resources or whatever. Then he needs to accept inceldom with grace and dignity as far as I am concerned because if you really believe you are 3 or a 4 but aren't willing to accept women who are a 3 or 4 (obese, single mom's, etc.] then you only have yourself to blame. Ugly men need to learn to love ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:37 AM
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For what?? I'm living my best life. A healthy and beautiful nightlife full of sex and fun. I'm in a band and have groupies. I go into the club or any bar and I am instantly surrounded by women who love and respect me. Wtf you got? An undeserved sense of moral superiority? You can keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:44 AM
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All I know is read this sub and others and see guys absolutely, emotionally devastated over ONE OR TWO rejections a YEAR!! I can collect 2 or 3 rejections or more in a SINGLE NIGHT and I go out A LOT. Almost every night. I don't know how to help someone with social anxiety so crippling that a single rejection can cause days long depression. What would these guys do if they actually managed to score a couple hookups with a girl and they really like her but she looks over to them in bed and says "…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:06 AM
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No. Manipulating vulnerable women is not pick up artistry. As an avid practitioner since many guys on this sub were in diapers I can assure you I am not manipulating anyone. Having carefully calculated game designed around storytelling intended to cause a planned emotional response in a woman is not manipulative or predatory. Let's say me and a woman are chatting and I tell her a story about me riding a roller coaster. I would intentionally try to tell my story in a way deliberately designed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:17 PM
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Exactly! I am a flat out 5 in physical appearance. All the men in my family our hair turns snow white by 35. I can't grow a beard worth a crap because I end up looking like an old man. So I developed a unique sense of attention getting fashion women love. I spent hours on YouTube and in classes learning to dance. I learned to play a couple musical instruments. While doing all that I went out every damn night and put myself in places where lots of women and alcohol are in close proximity and star…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:50 PM
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What is weird is the way they have a adopted this cope that they are morally superior beings and women are fallen, base creatures who are simply to decrepit in their morality to recognize the greatness that is them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:11 PM
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It's the norm in my dating life and the dating lives of most of my social circle. But I guess we lead a pretty unconventional lifestyle compared to your average internet shut in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:05 PM
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Gotta hook up a few times before you can get to the relationship stage. In the modern day people want to test drive each other out a while without commitment and see if their attachment styles are in sync before going exclusive. If you can't do that, you"re gonna be really lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:28 PM
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Why do women always think that 100% blind, unquestioned trust is necessary for arelationship? I don't even trust my own mama blindly. It's 2023, 100% blind trust is no longer tenable or necessary. That's fairy tale stuff. Being financially and emotionally vulnerable to a spouse is no longer on the table for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:52 PM
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No the average man can become an above average, attention getting one instead of just another idiot with a beer in the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:37 PM
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What? Humble bragging about being in the top few percent of men? That exceptions exist doesn't change the reality for 99% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:14 PM
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Yes AND? Being "hot" can involve alot more than physical attributes. How a man dresses, how a man walks, talks, the tone of his voice and how he interacts with other women the current one has seen in the past! Do you think Chad just walks into a random bar and picks up Stacy? That's BULLSHIT! Chances are Chad has been there for MONTHS, and Stacy too and they chatted and talked once in awhile but they didn't hook up. It wasn't until weeks or months later of small little chats and barstool convers…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:08 AM
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What "data" do you have that is more valuable than my own lived experience? You don't get it. I'm not LIKE YOU. I spend 3-4 nights a week in clubs and concerts and bars and other venues where lots of women congregate. I open 3 sets a night. Where are you? 1 set a month? a YEAR? WTF do you know?\ How many hundreds of women do I need to approach, open and talk to before I can say I have my own personal survey with enough data to call most RP for the bullshit it is? How many false proofs do you nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:59 AM
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Well that's your assumption. Even if I am, the practical consequences are nil and the benefits still accrue. Typically "that guy" would have some kind of negative consequences. Social shunning, isolation from the group. Yet here I am getting texts from my female friends "Where are you!? My friend wants to meet you!" on weekends. So if I'm "that guy" I really won't gaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:19 PM
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Older men who maintain their fitness and attractiveness can attract much 8younger women well into their 50's. Skinny fat or obese simps with balding heads and a double chin get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:20 PM
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Being "that guy" isn't a bad thing really if it's working for you. My female friends know I am a notorious flirt and perpetually single bachelor who likes to chase women. But they also know I'm charming, well dressed, well spoken and respectful of boundaries and very good at picking up social cues. So they have zero problems with me being a man whore. Many of my female friends are former hookups where we weren't compatible for longer term but still enjoyed each other a company and love to hear m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:00 PM
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That's simply a psychological leftover from the backwards purity culture you were raised in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:47 PM
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I keep hearing about these "studies" and then when I do the research I find some obscure, non peer reviewed article online some red pill influencer cribbed a few stats from and then added their own crap to make it look like irrefutable science. Wake up. These influencers are selling BS to desperate men form views and patreon donations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:37 PM
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You guys take this sexual market idea to weird extremes. There is no amount of statistical analysis, pattern recognition, or pop psychology or other pseudo scientific geek ways to improve your success with women. There is only one way. Dress flamboyantly and stylishly in a way that stands out and then put yourself into places where lots of women and alcohol are in close proximity and start making friends. And if you as a guy have little to no experience with women you may have to start with less…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:08 PM
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Lmao I only see toxic pop psychology dressed up in fancy scientific jargon designed to trick men with little to no experience with women into giving their views and money to influencers. A man is better served reading The 48 Laws of Power and the Art of Seduction and forgetting Red Pill exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:16 PM
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The idea that promiscuous women are less capable of "pair bonding" is ridiculous. Hell the idea of "pair bonding" in humans is even more ridiculous. We're not birds. Is there no nonsense dressed up with evolutionary psychology jargon guys won't fall for?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:06 PM
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No, they don't use manipulative strategies. I guarantee if you met me in any public setting you wouldn't be able to distinguish me from any other friendly and well dressed man. Also peacocking works! PUA's don't dress "weird". When done right peacocking is just dressing flamboyantly with an eye towards accessories and color coordination. I'd say the dozens of compliments I get on my sense of style from women a week is evidence enough for me that my attention getting attire works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:17 PM
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Lmao Those aren't Pick up artists. They are losers trying to LARP. A proper PUA is entirely indistinguishable from any other attractive man and they don't troll streets, stores, etc. Losers do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:00 PM
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Yes. I love the bar/club environment. I love to party, dance, meet new people, flirt and everything else that comes with a healthy and active night life. There is nothing stupid or unhealthy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:37 PM
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