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| 1 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?lol I don’t know what kinda of thoughts lead ppl to these questions | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 07:36 AM |
| 15 | Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effectsWhat percent of the women u slept with were from apps? | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effectsWhat percentage of the women u slept with were from apps? | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Is Passport Bros a scam?This freeely Ashley girl seems like a person who has either lost an ex to a foreign girl or feels very threatened by foreign girls - how obvious is it?! | /r/MensRights | 01/04/24 05:52 AM |
| 2 | I started crushing on my best friendI personally think it’s never ever a good idea for a guy to be just friends with a woman. A guy can fall in love with a female friend but a female friend very rarely falls in love with a guy friend. It’s just something in the DNA plain and simple. Too risky for a guy to be friends with a female. | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Things are finally workinghow do some posts get that red box around them? Is it soley based on most likes? I'd love to see a daily summary of all the red boxed posts like this. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Disasterous date sequence - post-mortem analysis for next time?when u say led her by the arm to the truck, u held her hand or just grabbed her wrist or what? Pick her up off the ground seems aggressive for a 1st date? Maybe fine on the 2nd date but there is simply too much of an intro mood on the 1st date to just pick her up off the ground lol. Or are you texting her a lot before and there is some flirtation and repoire established? | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Disasterous date sequence - post-mortem analysis for next time?lol so give me some specifics on what you would have done here? Especially with the fair amount of resistance I was getting! | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Any particularly good cologne that you have found women especially love?montblanc perfume isn't perfure for women? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Disasterous date sequence - post-mortem analysis for next time?agree, what other decisiveness could i have done other than the move to the sofa? Like just go for the kiss type of thing? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Disasterous date sequence - post-mortem analysis for next time?agree - what are some specific details to take control? Because at the same time if she's not ready yet, she's not ready, u know? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Any particularly good cologne that you have found women especially love?wow Aventus Creed is nearly $500 for a couple of ounces?! | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Any particularly good cologne that you have found women especially love?Aventus Creed wow Aventus Creed is nearly $500 for a couple of ounces?! | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Is this too slow of a pace when dating in the early stages?Nonchalant why and how should I do it? | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Is this too slow of a pace when dating in the early stages?Why do you say that I am not playing my position? What should I be doing? More aggressive in terms of intimacy? | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Is this too slow of a pace when dating in the early stages?Any good examples on romantic locations? Especially within the US since the pandemic continues to go on. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]ah typo, i meant it still tends NOT to get to phone number and date | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]ya that has all happened for me but it still tends to get to phone number and date. Have you done it? | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]is that what u said? lol | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | First time approach, got a number at my airport gate from an absolute babewhat are some examples of safe places? International? Not a lot of places in the US these days it seems but could be wrong | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 12:55 AM |
| 3 | First time approach, got a number at my airport gate from an absolute babedo women really go on vacation solo? It seems they always go in groups, especially for personal safety? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 10:54 PM |
| 4 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?LOL what is this randomactsofbj?! Is this for real? How can ppl even tell what the women look like? Its hard to believe a hot woman would go on there and advertise that she is going to be in a city and wants to hookup? It feels like that thread is probably full of shady ass ppl pretending to be a woman. Gotta be, right? | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 08:38 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]DAMN who are you?! Have you considered writing a book? The level of detail is amazing! The good news is I do a lot of these things but #4 and #5 has some very fascinating ideas and again thank you so much for writing this all out. Some quick follow-up questions for you: (1) When going to hold the hand or kiss the hand, how to do it without being awkward? The last time we went out it was super cold, and it will be this weekend too when we go out, so her hands are usually in her jacket pockets. I … | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | What should be my next step with this girl who almost friend-zoned me but now we are heading in the right direction?lol ok useless post without reasoning or logic so not gonna take this seriously | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 08:24 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]ur the best! i love this advice and how ur so open about it. I agree with everything you said and its very insightful. What about calling on the phone more often just to talk? When do you think that is most appropriate? I've heard that in the beginning stages (which is where I am at with this girl), that calling/texting should only be used to set-up dates which is what I have been doing but when is the point I should call her more often just to talk and ask her about her day and all that kind of… | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 07:13 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]good point, I am totally fine with that that. Also, when should I start calling her more often? Right now I only call/text for setting up dates | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:09 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]true true very good point...also, when should I start calling her more often? Right now I only call/text for setting up dates | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]well the make-outs have only been like 40 seconds | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:08 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]it's definitely not assault given she is kissing you, unless she says no and you keep doing it and even then some women say no initially bc they want the guy to try harder | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | What should be my next step with this girl who almost friend-zoned me but now we are heading in the right direction?why NEXT? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?she has actually said before that her love language is touch. How do I implement touch other than the obvious like touching her shoulder and arm and basic things like that? | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 08:36 PM |
| 2 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?agree, what do i do if she says something like "uhh what are u doing" when i go for the kiss? Or should I try to hold her hand before which might be kind of a green light to go for the kiss? | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?Thanks! Just to clarify, my questions about not going in the friend zone and taking things to the next level with this girl are not only about sex and intimacy. It can also be just simple things like should I tell her "I am attracted to you" or "I find you to be someone I am interested in romantically and not for just friendship" - what I am trying to do is just make sure she seems me in a romantic way and not a platonic way. If we don't have sex until much longer in our relationship, I am total… | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 08:33 PM |
| 0 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?Well, I think women are so complex that they don't understand themselves to be honest. Its no offense. Guys are much more simple. And I've had a quite a lot of success but tbh I'm rusty because I was in a long relationship and now just trying to get back into the dating flow. | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?I hear what you are saying but I will tell you this. It's not patriarchy. The rules go both ways and there are rules that apply for men too. It's what I would call "rules of engagement" or "rules of dating" and they apply to BOTH men and women. No woman is going to like a timid, indecisive guy who shows lack of confidence. It's just biological. And in a similar fashion there are rules around attracting men. I know because women have used it on me and it has worked. Yes, reading the room is part … | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 10:13 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?I agree, you are 100% correct and when we go out this weekend, I'm going to ask her. Are there any other good appropriate questions to discuss that will open her up on this topic? Is it ok to ask her something like at what age she lost her virginity? | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?Interesting - is there a way to directly and/or appropriately ask her about if she is asexual or gray-ace without using those terms or being insulting? We are going to dinner this weekend so might just ask. | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 09:44 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?No, so the problem is not having sex or not but we have not really had much intimacy other than a simple kiss. I think we should at least have a little bit more (at least a makeout) after a few dates, you know? So I'm confused if maybe she's just very slow (which is fine with me) or if she is not attracted to me or what. We are going to dinner this weekend again and I am thinking what I can do to kind of get us to move forward a little. I'm fine going slow but the problem is we aren't really pro… | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 09:41 AM |
| 0 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?are you female? I only ask because only a female would say something like "there is no such thing as a friend zone." Putting a person into a friend zone means there can never be anything past friendship, it can never become sexual ever because the relationship is like one of siblings. There ABSOLUTELY is a friend zone. | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 09:31 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?i love these suggestions! She is a little shy though and who knows could even be a virgin. Before asking the sex position question, is it ok to ask something like "what are ur views on sex" or "are u a virgin" or "when did u lose ur virginity"? I think I need a more basic or bridge question before going straight to sex position questions | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?what's Jan? | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 08:17 AM |
| 2 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?I'm trying to accomplish using seduction techniques, not for one-night stands or hookups, but for meaningful long-term relationships. I said she "seems" life wife material - you don't think a person after one date can give you a really good feeling? I agree never to think in terms of scarcity of course but some women have the "it" factor. | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 06:19 AM |
| 0 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?Agree, what are some specifics you suggest I should use to escalate? I know subtle touch and touch on lower back and shoulder, more lingering eye contact with a desire look as someone described it, and then at some point just go for it. Any other tips? | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 08:41 AM |
| 0 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?well, we are going to dinner this weekend so i don't think she is upset or anything? She even said she is not offended but was just curious what i meant and that she knows i tease and then she put a laughing emoji. I know her well but the whole concept of sexual teasing and sexual inuendo I will admit that I am not very great at. I was before i was in a long term relationship but it feels like i have kind of forgot. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 08:39 AM |
| -1 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?this was a totally useless reply, why even reply if u only have hate to spew? There is literally nothing in my posting history to judge me as "a shitty person" - I'm just a regular dude. I might be a nice guy (and no not pretending to be) which is why I am on the seduction page to learn how to change that. I think one can be a nice guy as long as they use the right approaches in terms of escalation, teasing, flirtation, etc. And btw we are making plans to go out this evening so I'm still in the … | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 08:37 AM |
| 0 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?i know but some women need more time what can i say lol. i'd love to go straight to it, this is an south east asian girl and some of them sometimes are more prudish | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 08:36 AM |
| -4 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?what are goody two shoes like? How are they different? | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 04:44 AM |
| 0 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?that could be true but some ppl say that if a guy doesn't tease and doesn't have any intimacy with the woman, it will go to the friend zone. Do u see what i mean? Its a tricky slope. She did say that she was not offended at all and was just wondering what i meant if that makes any difference in ur thoughts. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 02:02 AM |
| -4 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?yeah that makes sense and could very well be true but she did say that she was not offended at all and was just wondering what i meant if that makes any difference in ur thoughts. At the end of teh day, I just don't want our relationship to become too much friend zone which can happen without the teasing and some level of intimacy (doesn't have to be sex). | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 01:59 AM |
| -9 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?agree and that is why i am doing but sometimes when there is a very slow pace of intimacy, there is a risk of friend zone. I am in no hurry to bang her and I am fine waiting until she is comfortable, but I also do not want to enter the friendzone - u know? Some people strongly believe that if a man and a woman hang out for too long without the physical, then it will automatically go into the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 01:58 AM |
| 4 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?how? can u explain reasoning? | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 01:56 AM |
| -5 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?interesting and thanks for sharing your thoughts! I'm getting a pass to not say she is prudish? Is that even that bad of a statement to say? I did make fun of her a bit that shes like a nun but its not like i called her something insulting like a slut. I like your idea about talking about internal! But, does that create attraction and seduction? To talk about how i lik her personality and sweet nature? I would like to take things further next time i see her and we are supposed to be going to a n… | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 11:39 PM |
| 3 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?lol i could be wrong bc i can be naive, but i don't see any signs of ho with her. She dresses simply, she's a nerd who is a pediatrician specialist, she spends her free time with her mom and her girlfriends who are similar to her and they do things like hiking and going to restaurants. Wouldn't a ho be at clubs or other types of pickup areas? | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 11:37 PM |
| 5 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?very intelligent, a specialized pediatrics doc, highly responsible, sweet/kind - i've seen a lot of different types of girls and this one is very easy to spend time with and doesn't have any crazy personality aspects. And she's cute, not super hot or anything like that but sweet/cute. I guess just my type. | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?how would u talk about sex? Like ask her what her views are on sex? ask her if she's a virgin or something like that? Ppl say be sexual and talk sexual but what are examples? | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 05:33 AM |
| 1 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?gotcha, then how do u do it? whats an example? | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?can u give some specific examples how to do this? | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?any example in practice? | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?its not really neg but teasing, u don't think that works? | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 12:21 AM |
| 2 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?Russell Brand just googled him and he kind of looks like a crazy-eyed pyscho lol, what am i going to learn from him and how? | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 09:37 AM |
| 3 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?but this was a short phone convo! how can she so quickly conclude friend vibe from that? | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 09:36 AM |
| 3 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?true so in another words it should be like goofy but sexual teasing goofy? What are some examples of what I could do at first date dinner to do a seductive aura? | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 07:52 AM |
| -1 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?ok give me an example on a dinner date how to do that? | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 07:51 AM |
| -1 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?you are 100% correct! This is so true. But, what do you do if the girl seems kind of prude and shy? For example, one girl I was joking about dancing with her to a music video and she chose one where the guy got naked so i told her goal was to just get me naked and she got shy and almost uncomfortable. But she was such a beautiful and fun girl otherwise that i wanted to date her. And what's an example of complimenting her on ur favorite body party lol - like would u say something like "u have nic… | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | What are some things a guy can do or say to make sure he does not create too much of "platonic vibe" in a first date setting of drinks?agree for sure, but is timidity really feminine? I see aggressive females everywhere and not just work aggressive but sex aggressive and many other aspects aggressive. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | What are some things a guy can do or say to make sure he does not create too much of "platonic vibe" in a first date setting of drinks?ya i dont think this would work bc some girls might be interested in you but just not ready to hold hands that fast however if it can be done gradually then i thinking getting to the holding hands stage is HUGE and a very positive sign. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Where’s the best place to meet high value women?yeah i mean if they are all married then its not a holy grail! | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | How frequently to start spending time and calling/texting with a woman you have just begun dating?me too! | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | How frequently to start spending time and calling/texting with a woman you have just begun dating?agree, that makes sense. What about things like adding you on instagram. When did they do it or not at all or was it you who added them? | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | How frequently to start spending time and calling/texting with a woman you have just begun dating?I'm late 30s, how about you? I agree, no one uses FB. By adding her, does it signal too much interest? | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | How frequently to start spending time and calling/texting with a woman you have just begun dating?instantly as in 1 week? Or instantly as in the next couple days? I think instantly is probably too fast. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How frequently to start spending time and calling/texting with a woman you have just begun dating?excellent general guidelines! I think this makes sense. And how about things like adding on Facebook or following on Instagram? When is it the right time to do these things? | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | I made a lot of mistakes and turned things too friend-ish, now what?what kind of ways? | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I made a lot of mistakes and turned things too friend-ish, now what?agree, this is my thought too, but unfortunately with the pandemic and all, there is only so much going out and fun possible and, being 39, all my friends are married. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | A magic question: "Are you single?"I don't think this approach is a good one, its too blunt. You want a perfect balance between subtle/obvious and keep her guessing and wondering to some extent for the mystery. Asking if you are single could triple the awkwardness and she could easily say something like none of your business. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | What would your approach be for a hot nurse that you see each month because she administers a monthly IV medication?so ur saying i can't really work the game while being visiting the once a month appointment? | /r/seduction | 29/07/19 05:59 AM |
| 1 | What would your approach be for a hot nurse that you see each month because she administers a monthly IV medication?true how would you shoot the shot? | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 10:44 PM |
| 53 | Dating For The Busy Professional (Time Efficient Dating)boring long useless video that is not time efficient itself | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Online dating from a girl's perspective and the mistakes most guys makeFirst of all, you have to post your picture here before we can know to take your advise or not lol sorry but true | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 06:41 AM |
| 1 | 4 Texts to Send After You Get Her Number (Helps You Get More Dates)GirlsChase is girlchase on reddit or a separate website? | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 09:38 PM |
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