What are some things a guy can do or say to make sure he does not create too much of "platonic vibe" in a first date setting of drinks?

bean_addict · 2021-09-14T16:14:03+00:00

Only do compliments later (if at all), when you have stablished some emotional connection with her. They are much more meaningful that way.

Eye contact and physical touch are the most important factors.

hisgreatness64 · 2021-09-15T18:37:40+00:00

The way you stay out of the friend zone is to.go as far as you can as fast as you can. When it comes to a person's mannerisms, Heterosexual women are attracted to all.things masculine and repulsed by all things feminine. Being timid is very feminine and men can't get away with that. I'm.not saying be forceful. If you've built connection and if you think maybe it would be okay to whatever and if you want to hold hands, kiss, hug etc. then go for it. Plus I hate maybe's. Maybe if I did this or that then this or that would of happened. Remove the maybe, that's masculine. If you go for it, you wont have to post in subs like this because you'll have your answer.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-09-14T00:32:19+00:00

Invite the girl straight to your place - for drinks.

Sexual seductive eye contact, flirting, sexual escalation with touch, start off the night in the right way with a manly hug.. no friend zone side hug BS.

bean_addict · 2021-09-14T14:53:08+00:00

Don’t do that. Girls, especially online dates, are not going to go straight to your place. In my experience, I usually say “do you want to head out of here” at the end of the drinks. They say yes and then while we head out, I go to hold her hand. If she pulls away, dates over there and I know she’s not interested. If she holds my hand, then I’m usually like, we should go to this other bar next. It works pretty well in my experience and communicates to the girl that you’re interested romantically.

Title	What are some things a guy can do or say to make sure he does not create too much of "platonic vibe" in a first date setting of drinks?
Author	SimpleLeaff
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	September 13, 2021 8:28 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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