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SingularityOne198/r/RPChristians24/10/19 08:07 PM
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SingularityOne198/r/askRPC21/10/19 12:24 AM
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OYS #1 - 04/07/20 PHYSICAL: Lifting 4/7 days a week - Monday and Thursday: Dumbbell bench 50-pound dumbbells each side, shoulder raises 10 pounds each side, 3x20 situps, 4x25 pushups, 3x10 incline bench with 35-pound dumbbells on each side. - Tuesdays and Saturdays: 3x30 modified curls with 20-pound dumbbells each side, tricep overhead curls 3x14 45 pounds, 3x20 situps with 15-pound dumbbell in hands, dips 3x20, skullcrushers 3x15 with 15/20 pound dumbbells, lunges with 35-pound weights 3x14. Ma…
/r/RPChristians07/04/20 07:21 PM
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Interesting. How successful are you with that tactic?
/r/seduction07/04/20 04:15 PM
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Interesting. Why do you say it was the right thing to do to give her my number and not asking for hers? Are you also saying it would be a lost cause to DM her?
/r/seduction07/04/20 03:54 PM
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Heard! Thanks for letting me know.
/r/seduction07/04/20 03:53 PM
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Yeah, I know it’s a Hail Mary for sure. But, yeah, I think you may be right. Thought she may be more receptive due to the approach I’ve already done as well as the COVID situation making this one of the only ways to chat (making my teaching out a bit less “weird”). Thanks for the tips man.
/r/seduction07/04/20 03:41 PM
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We all fall man. But, don’t stay down. Get back up and don’t despair. Learn from the mistake and move towards your mission brother.
/r/seduction07/04/20 03:56 AM
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“Hmmm. I don’t like that. I gotta go” sounds like you broke frame and emotionally reacted to her. Don’t send that text that you don’t think things are working out. It’s inauthentic and dishonest and incongruent with what you want (aka; a LTR). Don’t message her. Let her message you. You can text her in a few days if you want. Give her space and pursue your mission in life. Don’t make this girl your mission. It turns women off.
/r/seduction07/04/20 03:29 AM
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What are your core values and beliefs? What are your hobbies?
/r/seduction06/04/20 03:08 AM
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How long has the silence been between her last text and now?
/r/seduction28/02/20 05:22 PM
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Delete the number and move on. Confusing, sure, but go on out and approach other women... and if she texts you back, cool. Don’t catch oneitis if you aren’t dating. Develop yourself and go to the gym, work on projects, do something fun you enjoy.
/r/seduction28/02/20 04:33 PM
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It was more about overall shape/contour of her face. I was trying to rationalize (fight to generate attraction toward her) my attraction for her rather than it being innate. Very difficult decision because she was objectively beautiful, but not fully attractive to me. Being 24, I know I have more time and more opportunities to meet an attractive woman anyways. Back to mission. This is helpful. Thanks!
/r/askRPC25/02/20 03:54 PM
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I agree with you wholeheartedly here. I didn’t burn with passion with her - what does the word for “passion” mean here in that verse? Is it mere infatuation or attraction, or both? Ultimately, I’m 24, so I’m young. However, looks are really important to me along with their taking care of their physical health. It all came down to not being attracted to her face and I feel picky and vain for that considering she had such a high RMV. She also agreed with all of the biblical roles too... super hard…
/r/askRPC22/02/20 09:13 PM
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We went on 2 dates and there wasn’t any attraction on my end. So I let her know I didn’t see things going anywhere romantically.
/r/askRPC22/02/20 03:26 PM
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Ah, I’ve seen these before. Thanks for linking them. Good stuff. Thanks man.
/r/askRPC14/02/20 07:29 PM
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Agreed. Thanks Chuck.
/r/askRPC14/02/20 07:28 PM
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Thanks for the insight brother. Never thought about it this way.
/r/askRPC14/02/20 02:33 AM
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Yeah, just leave her be for 3 days and, if you want to (key words here), send her a text after those 3 days are up. If there is not a response after that, then “next.” Don’t get stuck on her and pursue growth.
/r/seduction11/02/20 08:50 PM
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What did you say in the text? I’d just let her go if she doesn’t text or send a Hail Mary in 3 days if you want. Honestly, don’t put much attention into her and put your attention towards things that you enjoy doing to better yourself and grow inner game.
/r/seduction11/02/20 08:31 PM
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2/3’s of the time she does. Basic rule.
/r/seduction05/02/20 07:51 PM
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Thanks for this. Yeah, the structure is a good idea. I’ll change it around to make it more congruent for my personality. Gotta keep that OI at the end of the day though, for sure.
/r/askRPC03/02/20 07:40 PM
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Awesome, I’ll keep that in mind. I appreciate the advice!
/r/askRPC03/02/20 02:48 PM
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Yeah, I mean, I know the “rules” of texting generally. However, I like to be more safe than sorry since I know that eliminating unattractive qualities goes further than trying to improve positive qualities. I got the date set up (Chuck’s advice worked). Any advice on texting in general? Not something that’s talked about a bunch on ChristianRP from my searches.
/r/askRPC03/02/20 04:53 AM
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Awesome, that makes sense. Thanks!
/r/askRPC03/02/20 12:49 AM
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You’re welcome!
/r/RPChristians28/01/20 05:26 PM
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Thanks. This makes sense.
/r/askRPC20/01/20 11:38 PM
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I see. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/askRPC09/01/20 07:54 PM
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Agreed. So then, to play into this... what could one say to hold frame when one quotes research at the other and says that the other is wrong emphatically?
/r/askRPC09/01/20 06:03 PM
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Okay, interesting. Thanks for the resources.
/r/askRPC09/01/20 03:58 PM
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I agree on the last sentence for sure. Peer reviewed lit is mainly what I was talking about. 50% of studies cannot be repeated, sure, but the other 50% can. My teacher is all about research, so I’m trying to find some. Thanks though.
/r/askRPC09/01/20 03:57 PM
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Totally agree. Thanks. This reminds me of a concept called Self-Differentiation from Murray Bowen and David Schnarch: https://crucible4points.com/crucible-four-points-balance Although this concept is empirically validated, it still needs to be “baptized” and transformed into Christ-differentiation instead of Self-Differentiation.
/r/RPChristians17/12/19 08:50 PM
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I think I’m starting to understand now. However, to clarify/distinguish-between What’s the difference between healthy expectations and unhealthy expectations? Do healthy expectations derive from The Commandments of Christ and unhealthy expectations come from having expectations outside of The Commandments of Christ? Trying to figure out the difference so that I can understand OI more as well.
/r/RPChristians17/12/19 08:21 PM
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So, essentially do things without expecting a result and purely because either “God commands it” or you enjoy the thing you are doing independent of the other person or result? If this is true, what can one “expect”? Or should expectations be completely wiped out of someone’s mind? It seems that expectations aren’t inherently sinful, but they become sinful when directed away from God and His commandments.
/r/RPChristians16/12/19 03:46 PM
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“ The Crucible 4 Points of Balance™ by Dr. David Schnarch, Ph.D. What are the Crucible 4 Points of Balance? Holding on to yourself in relationships One of the most important things in life is becoming a solid individual. And another important thing is to have meaningful relationships. Two of the most powerful human drives are our urge to control our own lives (autonomy), and our urge for relationship with others (attachment). One of the biggest tasks of adulthood is being able to balance these t…
/r/RPChristians27/11/19 04:30 PM
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Monday’s/Wednesday’s: 3 sets of 50 pound (each side) dumbbells chest press (could do more weight, but that’s the max my free gym has), shoulder press 10 pound dumbbells 3x10, 3x20 sit-ups, 4x25 pushups, 3/10 40 pound dumbbells of incline chest press. Tuesday’s/Thursdays: Curls 3x10 20 pound dumbbells, skull crushers 3x14 15lb dumbbell, 3x20 sit-ups, 3x20 dips, tricep extensions 3x14 45lb dumbbell, 3x14 lunges 40lb dumbbells on each side. Yeah, working on it. Currently working creatine in and try…
/r/askRPC06/11/19 05:00 AM
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So, essentially, you're saying that the best way to vet is to just ask her to events and things you are already doing and gauging the quality of their following ability? If they don't join, then you're already on mission anyways. And, also, it doesn't matter whether they join or not because you learn from the situation either way and proceed with that information, while on mission, if I'm hearing you correctly here.
/r/askRPC05/11/19 05:09 AM
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Yeah, I do need to make eating a priority. The gym is not the difficult part for me.
/r/askRPC05/11/19 04:32 AM
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Agreed. This is something I forget every once in a while. Thanks for the reminder. I want to be truthful in my inner being about working for the Lord and not for man. What do you mean by a "one off"? I haven't heard that term before.
/r/askRPC05/11/19 04:30 AM
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So, essentially treat everyone without sinful judgment/partiality and love others by bringing them to the knowledge of God that will increase their faith. Thanks, this makes sense. That's the goal after all... to make disciples.
/r/askRPC05/11/19 04:29 AM
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>How invested is she in religion? If she holds more conservative religious values, it’s possible that she hasn’t had much exposure to guys flirting with her / doesn’t know how to interact in a flirtatious way. These two possibilities could even hold true regardless of religion. She could be shy and/or anxious so instead of trying to come up with a reply she just avoids your text entirely. Maybe she didn’t see your initial text for a few hours and she felt the moment was gone. There are a lot of …
/r/askRPC04/11/19 11:09 PM
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>LOL Nope! Not unless you are surviving some kind of cancer or have a completely insane diet. >Which one do you look like? https://athleanx.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Body-Fat-Infographic3.jpg Between 5% and 10%. I'd say 7%. >This is why we tell men to text logistics only. Primarily because she gets her feelz from your attention no matter how it comes be it texting, phone, even stuff as petty as facebook "likes" or being tagged in memes, which means she has no reason to actually see you in p…
/r/askRPC04/11/19 10:59 PM
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So, some people are saying to not ask potential girls to events and others are saying that I should... is there a rationale to both sides? ​ I agree with what you say here. Thanks.
/r/askRPC04/11/19 10:45 PM
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Understandable. Done!
/r/RPChristians25/10/19 12:04 AM
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Look into Differentiation of Self: https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/7v3yvj/low_differentiation_in_both_partners_causes_db/?utm_source=amp&utm_medium=&utm_content=post_body
/r/askRPC22/10/19 08:23 PM
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They are different concepts, sure. But, after reading what you posted it really seems that they all come together in embodying love, joy, and peace alongside trusting in the Providence of God. However, there’s some discernment mixed in there too. For example, someone who lacks spiritual joy and peace would have a harder time with AM and A&A, and a person with less faith would have a harder time with OI. Frame seems to be more about humility and realizing where one is, however, ever striving towa…
/r/askRPC21/10/19 07:16 PM
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I would agree with you that one becomes spiritually mature because you are working synergistically with the Holy Spirit to make the flesh a slave to you (self-mastery) - putting everything in subjection to Christ by acquiring the Holy Spirit... temperance, continence and chastity, non-possession band almsgiving, spiritual mourning, compunction, and joy, gentleness, patience, self-control, the fear of God, humility, peace, love, etc. So, in essence, I agree with you here.
/r/askRPC21/10/19 07:09 PM
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Thanks for the explanations. I mean that they come together in that the higher one’s spiritual maturity, the more easily one will be able to abide by these principles.
/r/askRPC21/10/19 04:09 AM
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This makes a lot of sense. I’ve read the sidebar for the singles section and downloaded the PDF for it. Thanks for presenting another example/perspective for a single guy like me. I appreciate both DS and your guidance on this.
/r/RPChristians20/10/19 04:45 AM
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I think I’m understanding this a bit more now. Thanks for the help. Back to mission.
/r/RPChristians19/10/19 07:18 PM
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>Not really. Generally, if a woman is interested in you then you can pretty much tell. I would only "ask out" women (AKA invite them like Jesus did... "Come follow me") who are already interested. You will 100% get a yes, so there's no need to play games. Ah, so the "come follow me" is pretty much just asking them to do things that you are already doing for one's mission. In that the "yes" or "no" automatically indicates the interest level of the person one is asking to "come follow me", this is…
/r/RPChristians19/10/19 06:11 PM
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Again, you're approaching this from the wrong point of view. As RC said, focus on the mission and then see which women are wanting to hang around you and possibly follow you. If you're interested you can just ask them out. If they say no then oh well. You know one more woman who isn't a good fit with you. Jesus on rejection: John 6:60 Therefore many of His disciples, when they heard this said, “This is a difficult statement; who can listen to it?” 61 But Jesus, conscious that His disciples grumb…
/r/RPChristians19/10/19 05:20 PM
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Okay, so focusing on God’s mission is the way to go in investing my time, resources, and attention. I’ve already read half of that book, so I’ll have to finish it. My question about “forgetting anything about game” is that I know that I need to approach still to get over the fear of rejection (even though I have come a long way already). Are there other ways to do this instead of merely approaching women?
/r/RPChristians19/10/19 01:53 PM
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This makes sense! Thanks for the lengthy, clear response.
/r/RPChristians18/10/19 09:56 PM
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So, essentially, passive game is to be worked on to build a foundation for active game if I’m hearing you correctly here. Wouldn’t God’s mission for us to become like Him in passive game by acquiring the Holy Spirit and then the active (thoughts, words, deeds) game that proceeds from that will be more “powerful” and attractive in that one is rooted on the foundation of God’s mission and then the mission is able to translate into active game more fluidly? To give you more information, my career p…
/r/RPChristians18/10/19 07:44 PM
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So, essentially, lifting, working for the Lord in ones chosen career path, and acquiring the Holy Spirit in The Church are the main “passive game” avenues. “Active game” seems to be generalized to everyone and not just girls that one finds attractive in that I’m just trying to be a better socialized/communicator, from what I’m hearing you say here in regards to “active game”. I have read both your book, The Bible, NMMNG, and half of WISNIFG. All of the other ones seem to be for already married m…
/r/RPChristians18/10/19 07:29 PM
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So, you're saying that "active game" can be used in conjunction with "passive game", if I'm hearing you correctly here. So prayer, fasting, and other spiritual disciplines alongside reading scripture, commentaries, etc. (knowing the faith), lifting, working for the Lord in grad-school to get my masters in Marriage and Family Therapy to help families stay together and abide by the Law of God in the roles that God prescribes for men and women (that being my career mission), etc. seem to be "passiv…
/r/RPChristians18/10/19 04:05 AM
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Thanks brother! Getting stuck in my head is the difficulty, but I'm ever striving more towards abundance mentality, amused mastery, and maintaining frame, in Christ each day.
/r/RPChristians18/10/19 01:53 AM
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Ah, I see. So "passive game" provides more of a social status (along with responsibility and authority) that attracts women more so that preselection happens more smoothly and constantly without expending valuable energy and attention that can be directed at the Lord and seeking His Kingdom. Is this a correct assessment, or is there more to this?
/r/RPChristians18/10/19 12:00 AM
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Ah, so it's more about implementing both using discernment. Why do you say that "passive game" has more "pros" compared to "active game"? Thanks man.
/r/RPChristians17/10/19 11:14 PM
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That's why I approach. I do agree with what you are saying. I accept the responsibility that I can be the only one that can change, I can't change or blame anyone outside of myself. I agree.
/r/RPChristians17/10/19 10:54 PM
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The Orthodox Church is the Church that wrote the bible; it's the fullness of the faith and the One, Holy, Catholic, and Apostolic Church. ​ The Catholic's added onto the faith. The protestants took away from the faith. ​ Start with these talks and readings for insight into proper gender roles and masculinity: http://www.newadvent.org/fathers/230120.htm https://www.orthodoxtalks.com/talk-67-does-christianity-repress-women-especially-in-marriage/
/r/RPChristians28/06/19 02:11 AM
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https://www.amazon.com/Irenaeus-Orthodox-Apologetic-Methodology-Presuppositionalism/dp/1545576564
/r/RPChristians27/05/19 02:46 AM
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You're welcome. May God bless you with strength and fortitude!
/r/RPChristians16/05/19 02:47 AM
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http://modeoflife.org/st-porphyrios-about-parental-education-and-upbringing/ ​ Best advice on parenthood that I've read so far.
/r/RPChristians15/05/19 06:35 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1932455302 “Bilingual edition: In English and in Greek. It is more blessed to give than to receive" (Acts 20:35). When you receive, your hands are filled but when you give, your soul is filled. When you swear for someone else, your body is getting tired but your soul is at rest. Life means "offering". Marriage is also an offering. It is a source of life and of joy. A candle will not illuminate a room if it does not melt. Incense doesn't become fragrant if it doesn'…
/r/RPChristians26/04/19 03:51 PM
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These talks point out both men and women. The argument is stated on both sides if taken the time to look into the content posted. Men’s roles in accordance with the commandment of God in marriage: Love, with responsibility and power, and honor the wife. He listens to his wife in humble-minded attentiveness, but ultimately makes the decision, in and after prayer, that is discerned synergistically, along with God, for the good of the wife/family that will best bring it into alignment with the will…
/r/RPChristians26/04/19 02:47 AM
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