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One rule I live by is that any male that requests to be 'friends' with me has at one point fantasied about having sex with me - that alone is repulsive so I try to avoid friendships with men that I have not vetted extensively (even then I have to keep cautious)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 10:21 PM
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This is why its so important we continue to speak to other women about respecting their time and most importantly their worth. This was painful to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:36 AM
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Exactly! The risk levels are NOT comparable in the slightest When I first saw this shell of an comparison I was both disgusted but not surprised at the men saying that lying about Birth Control was its own sexual assault. The worlds we live in are so vastly different its horrifying and laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:41 AM
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Oh yes, quite disillusioned. The turning point for me was when I started to pay more attention to the company my 'friends' kept. It seemed that ever group had one to a few outliers that were inexcusable dangers to women - When I pointed this out to my 'friends' the general response I got was: "People say things sure, but he is NEVER like that with women when with me. IF he was like that around ME, I would of course call him out on his behavior." This answer never sat right with me and when I ask…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:48 AM
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I use InstantCheckmate - I pay but I get up to date information about criminal cases which is absolutely worth it in my mind. This is how I discovered my abusive ex partner is now a sex offender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 12:00 AM
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Great work ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:27 PM
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This is terrifying but a great reminder why I block messages here on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:08 AM
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If he doesn't know what a wash sale is, you're in for a bad time. There has been a rapid increase in would-be option trades unfamiliar with the true risk of gambling their savings like this. Any time a man tells me he 'trades for a living' I assume he has loss more than a third of his portfolio and had one minor gain in the last 8 months that convinced him he is a trading god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:19 PM
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He did try one last time under a different Facebook name to contact me. Said he was scared, homeless and just needed to talk to me one last time. I, unapologetically, sent him a list of shelters in our state and again - blocked him 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:44 AM
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For context: This creep is my former partner. A true NVM that had dated me when I was a teenager and he was over 18. I broke up with him once I entered college because I began having standards. This was his message to me 8 years later (2019). I let the conversation go on, made small talk and suddenly he started to bring up his sex life which made me uncomfortable (thus the "this conversation turned intimate") Of course he tried to slither his way back into my life. I blocked him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:33 AM
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This was absolutely wholesome. Thank you for sharing - I think I see so much that makes me think that stuff like this isn't possible - seeing the opposite is really humbling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:33 AM
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Ohh nooo! The horror! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:54 AM
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A male friend recently announced his declaration of love to me, then immediately lightly pressured me on doing a three day trip cross states as he moves - I have been ignoring him.. because obviously its all a bit much. Just. Why even do that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:47 AM
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Sometimes these guys are less upfront about this mindset, and they try to act intelligent, scientific, and "woke" and then try to slowly brainwash the woman Exactly! The Faux-Feminist men are the worse (in my opinion). Some of the most disgusting, aggressive, abusive individuals I have ever come across identify as 'woke' gentleman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:42 AM
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The turn around on that is a Woman's right to not have relationships with these men.. More reason to vet and enforce the rules that if a man decides he wants to live by this creed then he is not a worthwhile partner in any aspects. These men are so ready to preach about nature; I am all for using natural selection to weed them out completely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:27 AM
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This exactly! They are the hate they wanna see in the world afterall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:23 AM
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I have an acquaintance who sees himself as a feminist - He and I had a falling out due to his best friend that assaulted me when I was a young teenager. The story that my abuser told/ tells is that I was desperate and all over him - and he did what any man would do and used me and blocked me because I was 'crazy'. When I confronted my acquaintance about the fact that I was not ashamed about who I had sex with, even the messy situations. That his best friend, my abuser, was a lying bastard that k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:56 AM
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I am sure I am not the only one that had a partner 'accidently' try and do more than was agreed upon. So strange how that is a common theme during sex, how often the partner 'slips' and tries to gage your reaction in real time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:13 AM
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The line that absolutely stayed with me was when she spoke of the man that said: "Porn taught me how to masterbate into a Woman" -unnamed NVM That was an 'Ah, ha' moment for me and summed up soo much of the sexual abuse endured - why in this day and age some men continue to debate if the female orgasm is a real thing. (because why take a Woman's word for it, right? /s )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:47 AM
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[I am not the original person to think of this connection, but I feel its important to parrot here. If I find the OG I will come back to link appropriately] An explanation behind this comes from the idea that men have two categorizes that they put Women in (the third being the daughter trope described above): First is the parental figure, the eternal 'mommy' that caters and assumes a 'take care of me' role.. This can include a deep sexualization but not always. Second is the 'whore'. The word is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:17 PM
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Sure feel free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:02 PM
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Seems to me that every guy knows at least one sketchy guy that they still talk to, make excuses for and actively looks the other way whenever anything questionable happens. The usual response is: 'Well. I have known X for a long time. He's not like that around me and if you are that worried I'll just hang out with him alone.' Trash. The lot of'em
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:11 AM
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The conversations I have had with partners in the past about the subject always boils down to the same alarming and repugnant conclusions: Porn allows a completely disgusting reality where its not only common for the woman to be viewed as an object, but absolutely celebrated once you strip her of her humanity. This leads the porn consumer to disconnect from reality, often to a point were they objectify (and fantasize) about any woman they come across. The porn consumer will also begin to dive de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:05 AM
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I hope they stay mad. They essentially tell on themselves and it means we can further avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:40 PM
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I have too! I have little sympathy for anyone who amasses stuff like that. In my case, the person in question had used my computer to do a lot of the sorting so it felt more personal -
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:58 AM
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What shocked me the most about these secure folders is the range of content and the pure level of obsession some men put into their porn consumption. Its disgusting. Nothing makes my skin crawl as much as seeing their porn collection - thinking about how many hours they poured into sorting/ finding and amassing content.. Not to mention that some of the content is just simple pictures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:11 PM
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Ohh.. I have quite a few tells I have made note of over the years: The subtle phone tilt - Say your SO and you are close together for whatever reason. You may notice that if they do take out their phone, that their phone screen is ALWAYS conveniently faced away from your line of sight. If you were to move - so does that phone screen. - Related to 'The Hover' : Your SO shows you something from their phone, however, they stand directly over you to make sure you do not scroll, nor do you make any g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:49 PM
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With this weeks episode the line that really resonated with me was: "Being your Porn type is NOT a compliment" - with that line came a wave of memories of how my SO had compared me to his favorite genre, leading into his favorite kink to eventually constantly badgering me for (a*nal) sex to fulfill his desires. It bothers me soo much when I think about how I had tried to reason with MYSELF to make him more comfortable.. geez..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:05 AM
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This was a very eye opening episode especially because of how often I remember bitting my tongue when a partner asked if their penis was "the best I ever had" Or the dreaded "how many times did you cum?" Oof...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:35 PM
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I love this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:58 PM
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I just stumbled upon my partner's porn stash of partner sharing fetish stuff... Its a major red flag day for me - this podcast came at a much needed time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:00 PM
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Instincts are very important in situations like this. Great advice!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:28 PM
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I wish I had this advise when I was younger. Brief story: I had been casually seeing a man for a month or so by this time (five years ago in hindsight) when he had invited me to lunch. I thought we were having playful banter, he said he went on business trips a lot and I told him fondly if he was kidnapped I'd look for him. He scoffed but when I followed up by saying I was smart and cute enough to get by he ... changed. He stopped smiling and flatly told me that compared to other girls I'm avera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:51 AM
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