| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 30 | Grey rock = Head space | Success Stories | Sketaverse | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 10:12 AM |
| 8 | I built an AI "Divorce Dashboard" - anyone interested? | Sketaverse | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/25 09:39 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Struggling internally on stay or go…after second chance attemptNo kids? Mate, run. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/26 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What is the end game with coercion and post divorce manipulation and control?^ this | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/26 10:27 AM |
| 3 | What is the end game with coercion and post divorce manipulation and control?There is no end game - you'll just waste time ruminating with your logical/rationale mind. Their brains are wired differently, optimising for control and pain. It's f**ked up but it is what it is. Try to let it go mate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/26 10:25 AM |
| 4 | Feeling myself backtracking on leaving her… Advise meStop complaining then and start fixing the 30 | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/26 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Feeling myself backtracking on leaving her… Advise meDude this is the definition of a toxic relationship: it’s bad 95% of the time, but the other 5% keeps you hanging on for hope. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/26 08:12 AM |
| -1 | Here we are again... drunkSuch an inspiration. Thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 11:06 PM |
| 7 | Is your self worth in the toilet?It’s supposed to hurt. That’s how you grow your future resilience 🫡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Grey rock = Head spaceYeah well said man. My ex would literally re-raise to Armageddon, total scorched earth policy 💣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 03:28 PM |
| 3 | How do I cope“I have done lots of wrong” < Time to accept it then. This is on you and now it’s too late. Own it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 07:41 AM |
| -2 | My wife is leaving me again.Get a grip | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/26 08:34 AM |
| 8 | Told her last night UpdateI mean, did you really think a chat like that would make her horny? lol… mate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/26 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Paying alimony after job lossI didn’t. I’m just stating the general problem | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/26 02:18 PM |
| 13 | Paying alimony after job lossCrazy how payments go up if you get a pay rise but stay fixed if you lose your job. Thanks government! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/26 01:01 PM |
| 4 | Where to meet women - Hot YogaI’m a guy and I love Lululemon haha | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/26 10:43 PM |
| 0 | How much time/week to dedicate to ‘divorce admin’?Here’s my advice: get a subscription to Claude and learn to use Claude Code. It looks technical because it runs in terminal but it’s honestly easy. The beauty is that it runs locally on your machine and can access all files. Then you just dump everything into one folder and let Claude run through it. You might initially think “I can’t do this” but you can and you should. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Staying for the kids—yay or nayShe’s addicted to Instagram… stuck in a dopamine fantasy | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 10:10 AM |
| 8 | This Is how I deal with my EX calls and texts“Let her sing to an empty theatre” | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 12:59 PM |
| 13 | Ex posted new guy on IGShe’s allowed to move on, as are you. ChatGPT will validate whatever you say so please be careful. Don’t date as a cure to your pain. Heal yourself before moving on to avoid repeating the same misstates. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/25 12:35 PM |
| 0 | How do I change after divorce?Tinder Gold and Kamagra Jelly. Source: Trust me bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 09:32 PM |
| 2 | How do I change after divorce?Creatine, methylene blue, 50 Laws of Power, history podcasts, back massager, cold water therapy (sea swimming or just buckets at the spa) | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Do i tell her the truth or sugarcoat it?This 100% | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/25 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Feel destroyedTbh she’s probably just using tinder as an escape fantasy, just having a browse, without the intent to actually cheat. But neither of you are happy and your daughter obviously picks up on that. Focus on peace, work towards separating as two healthy co-parents not rivals war. You’ll both need to learn compromise and the best way to do that is to arrive at a scenario where you both feel you’re both leaving more on the table. Happy new year | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 11:30 AM |
| 7 | Don’t let anyone convince you your entire worth is defined by your hardest moments.Needed to read this, right in this exact moment. Thanks man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/25 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Divorce Over: Dealing With The LonelinessIf you like board games, colonist.io is a fun way to waste 30 minutes | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 12:42 AM |
| 3 | I think I’m done, but the pain of divorce is crushing meTrue. My strategy was make sure the new one was hotter than the old one. The problem with that is they’re also crazier. My final boss was a New York 10. I do not recommend this strategy 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m done, but the pain of divorce is crushing meLucky guy. Definitely want my experience 😭 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/25 01:58 PM |
| -2 | I think I’m done, but the pain of divorce is crushing meKeep this in mind: The next one will probably be crazier lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/25 10:33 AM |
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