| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Some lingering RP damage | Skinned-Cobalt | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/24 07:59 PM | |
| 1 | Regarding condescension | Skinned-Cobalt | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 06:58 AM | |
| 0 | Another One to Debunk | Skinned-Cobalt | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/24 03:07 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Regarding condescensionOnly about 2/8 of the replies here plus a dm from u/ROByoutube (bro just put it on the post as a reply I don’t fuck with dms) have been sorta hostile so the ratio isn’t shit. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Regarding condescensionSorry if it came off that way. I was noting that this sub is not a resource I would point them to if my goal was to get them deradicalized . And based on a few responses, and not to offend, like your own, that seems to be assuming bad faith of me, I am going to maintain that position. A safer world is one with less redpillers and I am not going to point them to a place that’s probably going to act as a confirmation bias of the other side for them. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Regarding condescensionThis is a super awesome reply thank you for the thought you put into it. I suppose I have just been working off my own experiences with redpillers and what had eventually changed their minds. Perhaps others found success with a far more confrontational approach. If that is the case then I support it. I think the difference can be if the argument is being made in good faith or bad faith. It’s easy to hate redpillers. I hate everything they stand for. But pushing past that hate there is definitely… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Regarding condescensionI think there’s a difference between being real and straight up being hostile in bad faith. But I understand your point and am glad you brought it up. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Regarding condescensionWell I just got a dm from someone who read this post basically assuming I am a redpill hack and telling me not to be a crybaby. I am not redpill. I fucking hate redpill. As do most of you. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Regarding condescensionYea that’s very similar to my own journey, exactly that. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Cheating seems depressingly common now, is it really?It’s a super hard thing to measure. There are so many studies on this topic that it’s just unrealistic to get a solid percentage on it. From what I have seen it tends to jump around the 10-25% range with some going as high as 45%. Again, that’s just surface glancing a bunch of studies. You also gotta factor in methodology blah blah blah you get the point. Don’t mean to sound like one of those dipshit redditors when I say this but anecdotal evidence is almost always fruit of the poisoned tree. Su… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/24 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Now an Ex Red PillKey words being “has its own problems” as any movement does. I basically agree with you that the redpill movement is infinitely more dangerous by its very nature of being a sexist rebellion. I was saying that to pretend the movement has no issues at all is not gonna help our case. Sorry for the confusion. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/24 06:37 PM |
| 3 | A different questionThe only two good things you can get from the redpill are lifting and public speaking, then combine that with being a genuine person. I wouldn’t pay for sex as that might backfire and hit your confidence even more. But, if you feel like you need to, then make sure it’s at least legal in your area. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Now an Ex Red Pill3rd wave feminism is not nearly as proliferated as the red pill is, which I think makes the redpill inherently more dangerous. To pretend that 3rd wave feminism doesn’t have its own problems however is not going to help the greater discourse. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/24 03:37 PM |
| 2 | How can people really believe this crap?Solid. You as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 09:24 PM |
| 14 | How can people really believe this crap?Solid start to a conversation. I am confused as to why you write the West like that? Not harking on it just an interesting aesthetic. Yea lot of guys checked out of dating. I think that says a lot about a lack of community, rather than women. For instance a lot of dating in the past happened via recommendation of a family friend. Friends would set up dates with each other essentially. That’s rarer nowadays given that social media has torched the landscape and people’s ability to socialize. I’ve … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 07:00 PM |
| 10 | How can people really believe this crap?Okay? I asked you a question to have a conversation with? You gonna answer it? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 06:38 PM |
| 14 | How can people really believe this crap?What are these problems and how do they apply to your life? I can give you an honest conversation if that’s what you’re looking for. I hazard to guess you’re not actually. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 06:33 PM |
| 16 | Official List of Unhealthy BeliefsAdding to that, the redpill personality tends to attract a specific type of woman in my experience, which only leads to a confirmation bias. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 06:16 PM |
| 19 | How can people really believe this crap?Lot of anger in this one. Go hit the gym and get some therapy. Best you can get out of redpill is the fitness aspect as well as working on public speaking. Rest is pretty trash tbh. If you have to put up a facade of mental manipulation to get a woman to like you that’s pretty pathetic. People say be yourself. I say be the best version of yourself. That’s worked out pretty well for me. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Former Redpillers and AntifaI have found in my life that the worse things I go through, the more my humor expands. The world may take my life but it will never take away, the funny. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/24 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Former Redpillers and AntifaYep. Last I checked. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/24 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Former Redpillers and AntifaStarted out far right, then moved far left after getting out of the redpill. I still have religious considerations but I am pretty liberal on those as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/24 01:27 AM |
| 9 | "Men need to be confident to get a relationship. Women do not."Sorta true… maybe? Again we live in a culture that enforces different standards on men and women. That being said, confidence is one of those things where having it will literally help you in a majority of life’s scenarios. I used to be super insecure in myself throughout highschool and I decided that I needed to change. I adapted. I am a social butterfly now and my quality of life has changed immensely. I think this can apply to both men and women. Also, I feel like dating someone who is only p… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/24 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Another One to DebunkPart of what got me out of the Redpill were solid debunks on their talking points. HoeMath seems to have some new ones that are probably worth adding to the debunk list especially his manipulation of evolutionary psychology. I didn’t see anything on him here so figured I’d throw it out there. Ah well. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/24 03:27 AM |
| 10 | Some lingering RP damageThat people are people and anyone can hurt me regardless of gender. It’s the intrusive thoughts that pop in from that I’m trying to distance myself from. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/24 08:45 PM |
| 4 | What was the lure for RedPill?The final nail in the coffin was one of my friends sending me a Dr. K video about the RP. It helped break their credibility in my mind. The other thing that helped me was said friend telling me that I had so much to give but too much hate was holding me back. She said it in a very non-judgmental and caring way. Unfortunately my family never really knew. My other friends were kinda in the same boat so it was an echo chamber. It was really her, that one friend that stood by me and treated me well … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/24 08:50 PM |
| 17 | What was the lure for RedPill?I never got as far as Andrew Tate but I was definitely in it for a while. My first relationship had ended horribly and I felt like my ex got away without feeling any remorse or being held accountable in any way—I just didn’t understand why. Then the Red Pill came along. When everyone else told me to get over it they seemed to have different answers and I clung to that. Wasted 2 years on hatred. I knew I was getting radicalized the entire time. Somewhere in me I knew. I knew it was wrong because … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/24 08:39 AM |
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