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Male sterility is actually an epidemic that is not talked about publicly. Source: I am sterile and have no functioning T and just found out that it's a rampant problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:07 PM
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Nobody is ready for the honest truth that these individuals are known to be mass shooters far ahead of time, there is a massive legal tie up in how to intervene
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:04 PM
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I mean sure probably some aren't. But seriously one of the earliest questions I always get is do I have tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:28 AM
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That tatted thing is stupid but sadly true women love ink, literally all women. I'm not going to tattoo myself for literally someone else though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:39 AM
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That feel when not yet strong fat mode enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:51 PM
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It may be surprising givin my assumption, but sadly I am pretty ingrained in the fitness lifestyle myself. Only look okay so far, but I'm making it back to old me. The thing is you don't commonly see women go for the all out look to be honest so you are correct we Don't see that often. As for abs, dude I've tried before and man I'm too pasty to even pull off abs on the most insane cut. Feels bad man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:32 PM
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I assumed you were on at least a low dose of some gear, but I then read further about your restrictions and competitions. Nuts then, you must be natty peaked with that physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:40 PM
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You're stacked, but more to the point, I have to ask what's your stack
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:29 PM
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This is the answer. It's legitimately person looks okay, but has no draw to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:04 PM
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This but unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:26 AM
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That sounds absolutely depressing. My wife and I opened up our marriage together 8 months ago and we both dabbled. But I only seriously tried for a short period as dating in the polyamorous world is a whole other shit show. I'd rather just swing or something in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:10 AM
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Only 5 years ago and met 8 on Tinder. I've seen tinder for my age group though and it's interesting. The women are either prostitutes/egirls or have kids, but tons of them, at least through their photos, are gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:15 AM
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Ahh. Funny enough I am in Dallas so kind of close, but good to know. Also I mean I am married, but I come to this sub because it's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:10 AM
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I'm a dude and I rarely see this shit in public ever. My literal criteria for attraction is height and weight proportional and a cute face sans makeup. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:54 PM
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Risk manager prior insurance. I used to work with only women and am married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:13 PM
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Women's attraction to men increases exponentially once they talk to them and actually like their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:59 PM
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Viagra is so common now even for BDSM parties everyone does it. It's to cheap to get off brand stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:11 PM
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Im average, maybe slightly above in some areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:44 PM
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I wouldn't. Non consent in the imagination is like the #1 female fantasy. It exists as such because exactly what they want can happen in the safety of their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:34 PM
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Yes. I currently am with my spouse. We are not in a triangle, however. We each do our own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:18 AM
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I don't think that's typical. My first girlfriend wasn't even THAT crazy and she had 16 partners by age 20. My wife has 24 at age 30, and we were monogamous 8 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:30 AM
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Dank. I want to start cold approaching more. However, I have the unique situation of being married in a non-monogamous relationship. Kind of hard to swing women with that one sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:52 PM
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I agree. OLD created a fucking weird mental state for so many guys and they treat RL like online dating where they can look but not get anything. Yeah having friends and friends of friends is always better. Cold approaching has ALWAYS been hard and awkward depending on where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:33 PM
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Almost every woman I've ever met says they are most attractive to a handsome guy whom looks at least moderately fit and physically active, even if with a bit of fat, OR the polar opposite of taller and rail skinny. I never understand the dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:29 PM
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FUCKING SLUTS REEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:35 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:36 PM
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I tend to sadly agree with this one OP. I'm not saying platonic friendships don't happen, but it's probably more rare than people think. My wife had 3 long term male friends she has seen on and off since middle school. Both of them are alcoholic addicts. Leading up to my marriage we had some get togethers with friend groups and all 3 ended up at one event or another and all 3 ended up getting drunk and professing their love for my wife, and one even told me he should be the one marrying her, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:28 AM
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Your right it very well could. But I definitely had tons of women who cried on the phone to me telling me I did an amazing job despite their circumstances. However, I had tons of other people (mostly men) who were extremely threatening. They don't do that to women nearly as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:24 PM
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In my opinion the 80/20 rule is a bit incorrect and stated poorly. The rule really should be that 80% of the women find 20% overtly attractive, knowing nothing about them, their hobbies, or who they are as people. I believe the same or similar is said of men. My wife even tells me that most guys she met including me were okay/good looking from the photos, but became more attractive after meeting in person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:47 PM
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True. Also my brother in law said this when I was really young and it kind of bewildered me. He said "The unemployment rate of beautiful women is 0%"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:29 PM
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Women are generally more well received in intense or high stress phone calls. I was an insurance adjuster for 8 years and my women counterparts all had substantially less confrontational phone calls. Their voices are just more disarming to both men and women. I was accused of being sexist, racist, received credible death threats where my home had to be monitored. My team was all women, nobody else had anything close to as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:27 PM
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Paywalled. I researched Bernard Schiff and his statement are somewhat shitty. He doesn't think Peterson is necessarily misogynist, he thinks his wording will lead men to it. I don't really care for Peterson and Ive hardly listened to him, but like any and all self help shit it's probably like all others where you dive too deep into it and over analyzing shit makes it worse.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 07:02 PM
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Having a tattoo or two? No big deal. Having a shit ton? Yeah red flag. Especially if financially insecure. I have 0 tattoos and do not plan on getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:28 AM
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It's strange because the dating game is so skewed. I think dating a max of 10 years younger is typically feasible to an extent, but any more than that it gets sticky. I'm a 31 year old man and the absolute youngest I'd go is 25 at this time. I'd want a woman out of college knowing her path generally. However, I know women who are 33-35 who exclusively date like 48-53. I find it weird. Your partner is going to be suffering the effects of old age issues when you are still relatively youthful. To y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:25 AM
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He very well could be and I'd see that making Smiths actions more justified if so. But who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:42 PM
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I'm in an open marriage and my situation isn't even far off from his. The issue is that his wife was cheating on him multiple times and then they opened their marriage, plus countless other things. Smith is monogamous in their relationship still if I recall. Essentially it can be seen as saving face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:38 PM
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The action is understandable, it's the behind the scenes details that make Will look pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:34 PM
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If you took the events that happened at face value, then yes standing up for your wife is an understandable and even appropriate action. What makes it pathetic is that his wife is a shitty person who has cheated on him, used that as an excuse to make their marriage open (looked down on even by polyamorists), and this makes the action less about defending his wife and more about appearances. Even if you exclude all the rumor stuff this marriage is shit from an open marriage point of view and Smit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:33 PM
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Instagram is kind of a red flag lifestyle for me. Too many people are overcompetitive sharing stuff and appearing to have wonderful active lives than actually doing stuff. I personally don't want to have to make a record of everything. I've used Tinder with great success and while you are right I doubt many women share your idea of it though. I could be completely off base, however, again as I have literally never used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:32 PM
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These statistics are heavily skewed. Plastic surgery is pursued by women more often because it's been done longer, is safer, and things like breast augmentation can be done solely for reasons other than just appearance (ie: tubular breasts) for clothing fitting better NOT just appearance. Male cosmetic changes nothing, fake abs? Everyone knows. There aren't really any other male enhancement surgeries except face work theoretically. Which is only good to pursue if you're disfigured for both parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:19 PM
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I like the cut of your jib.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:08 PM
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Oh great dick purveyor will you rate my danger donger?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:56 PM
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My name is Slitelohel. I like going to arcades, The Simpsons is my favorite show, and I like woodworking and working with leather. Now that we got that off the table, your DMs open to some solo salami?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:54 PM
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I'm not going to talk down to you, because a lot of people who are ignorant about the human body and muscle training. But, it is very clear you don't know much of what you speak. Essentially you are just saying you like guys who look strong normally. Whey protein is nothing more than just concentrated protein to help hit numbers. As for drugs, 99% of people aren't on them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:03 PM
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Jeff plz go. I was not expecting to see /fit/ memes in ppd today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:00 PM
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Where are you guys following porn girls on Twitter? For some reason they follow me. My account only has like 25 followers and they're all OnlyFans girls. I've never even interacted with them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:21 AM
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I am just as against drugs and alcohol, don't drink, or use any substances and I worked in an area specifically at reducing opioid prescriptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:00 PM
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Obesity is the #1 internal issue with the American economy right now. It affects our production and decimates our healthcare industry. Type 2 diabetes accounts for 14% of ALL medical treatment nationwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:47 PM
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Do you mean actual abuse or are you talking about BDSM?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:36 PM
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These things are from my experience only things women under 22 partake in. I'm sure there are certain other women who do it after their 30s. Something to either make their man mad to see how he handles it, break fake bad news, or something of the other. The answer is 100% immediate breaking up, no further communication. If your relationship has been longer and she legitimately apologizes and discontinues the acts, maybe. I'm 31, I'm too old for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:47 PM
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Women do make the same as men for same jobs these days. It's literally been proven. The actual 30% wage gap myth that's pandered has absolutely 0 variables accounted for, like careers, industries, years in industry, etc. The ONLY gender difference on a career level that's comparable is executive levels, and it's because of what I just discussed, that fewer women were in those industries previously and now they are female dominated and numbers will adjust.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:04 AM
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The salary issue is already fixed largely. Women now compose most of the white collar work force and it will continue to increase. It'd just a matter of time experience and further growth. Just wait and see in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:57 PM
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The guy who already responded got it right. There is humor in tragedy and always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:02 PM
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It's not socialization. It's called mental compartmentalization and it's a major difference in male and female thought processing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:22 PM
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Yes. I have a fine amount of empathy and can acknowledge that, but I can also separate that from people I do not know. The idea of a maniacal 4channer going to kill the Chads and Stacies? It's so absolutely otherworldly that it happened you can't help but laugh. I truthfully don't know how you can be so judgmental, "but people died!" Yes it happens all the time. It could be me or my loved ones one day and there's nothing I can do about it so why worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:18 PM
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I agree with this to both genders. Men can definitely get away with being good/decent looking with more minimal effort, but everyone has to try harder as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:23 AM
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Everyone should be encouraged to better themselves at all times no matter what it is. I think all people should experience some level of physical fitness. Now, I don't think they should have to do it for the sake of men, but I feel an out of shape person should never EXPECT to date a physically fit person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:21 AM
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What? Lol dude. If your preference is large breasted women which is largely genetic factor and he's wanting something equatable to men, it's going to be another genetic factor like what are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:37 PM
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Fuck if I know, your chest is probably most equivalent, but really this isn't some flowchart type shit. Height would be a good basis. I put dick and pussy in their own categories because that truthfully plays out to sexual chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:07 PM
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Since large breasts are either fake or a result of puberty and that is your preference, you would ideally meet s woman with a similar strong preference for an uncontrolled asset you have, height, face, eyes, dick, whatever it may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:43 PM
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No men have these discussions with each other lol. I can say without a doubt I am 31 years old and in no situation have any of my friends or I ever had a conversation about our attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:08 PM
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That is typically my similar experience you outlined st the bottom. I'm married 5 years, started fit, got kind of dad bod (was alcohol) and now I'm fit again. My wife likes different types and doesn't go for the strong athletic type, but she definitely likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:15 AM
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I want to play a guessing game, your type is either the tall skinny alternative type, or the big "dad bod" but not really because still has muscles somewhat bearded type? Correct me if I'm wrong, I'm not judging you I'm legit just having fun with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:18 PM
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We as men - username: MsGoogleEyes Me: ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:17 PM
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He could have just been very busy without the time of wine and dine romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:40 PM
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They just do not have a big enough impact and in the majority of situations they end up dating each other in clusters or form trans/nonbinary polycules in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:57 PM
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Most Red pillers and FDS users really don't care about trans or non-binary. Both groups see them as not mentally sound for similar reasons. It's kind of interesting it's the one thing both groups agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:55 PM
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I mean you're right. OPs post is a little strange to ask women which are the group it doesn't affect largely, other than your potential future children or social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:04 AM
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I don't disagree with you in some points, but I personally do not like when any person in general only has passive consumerist hobbies. Kpop, Instagram, and TikTok are all passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:24 PM
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Bruh. People in life have activities they include Eating, working, sleeping, and hobbies. Everything you do outside of eating working and sleeping essentially makes up who you are outside of those activities. So yeah they are kind of important lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:38 PM
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I mean we don't know, but he's not wrong. In my dating career I have rarely found women with actual fucking hobbies. It's actually mind numbing to ask what they enjoy doing, then you spend time with them and it's only phone/television. "Hey slitelohel, what are you doing today?" Eating lunch, going to the gym, rock climbing then working in some carpentry project later, what about you? "Just chilling at home watching some house shows."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:55 PM
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I am actually very interested in this OP. There's a very good introspective question for FDS users. I'm very interested to see, as you appear a very successful person who's financial and social needs are met, that what do they bring?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:12 AM
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Man here who rejected sex with a drunk woman who was pretty staunchly lesbian who was using it to get over a breakup. I got an earful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:14 AM
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Women who like dad bods or say they do are afraid of the man leaving or cheating or some other shit. Women want to be the attractive partner it always seems. Whether due to self image issues or confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:38 PM
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I solely use reddit for shit posting, including this sub. I am however in a solid married relationship so I find a lot of this interesting. From a "redpilled" perspective, I probably am, but I've also used 4chan for over 15 fucking years so I'm a lot of things anyway. I don't hate when though, and have a decent amount of them in my friends circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:05 PM
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I don't post here hating on women, and I am in the process of improving myself, so I guess I win twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:36 PM
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I'm not talking best pics, I'm talking filtered or years old pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:35 PM
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I see it because I go to /fit/ and it gets reposted from Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr. While is doesn't have a reoccurring affect on my life, it has come up as an actual subject a few times and previously had some affect in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:13 PM
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Now you're just oversimplifying the conversation as some weird defense over a topic I never brought up, but you do you champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:09 PM
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I can agree with that if hate is directed at a person. I think hate towards a movement trying to change social views is not the same. Both movements are detrimental as a whole as they are a justification for predominately women to not to take comfort, but pride in their inability to improve while simultaneously demanding more from men. There's a lot of things I don't mind people taking pride in, or wanting to change, but these movements are designed to try to change the dating sphere for low val…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:58 PM
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It's not about being okay being fat. Though that is a factor. It's the self indulgent promotion if it, bragging about it, baseless pride in gluttony. Additionally the talking down to their skinnier counterparts on social media. All these things are the disgusting factors. If you want to be fat and exist go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:39 PM
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Why not do both? I personally hate the fat positivity and HAES movements. They are awful. Body positivity should be reserved for physical deformity and trauma, not gluttons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:34 PM
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I appreciate the honesty. I like being fit, my wife likes me fit. I enjoy people seeing me and checking me out as much as I like seeing pretty women. Everyone should try to be their best selves possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:04 PM
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I have NEVER heard of or seen this in my circle of friends and as the man I take on the vast majority of household upkeep. Dishes, laundry, lawn maintenance, floor cleaning are all mine on top of being the "breadwinner".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:16 PM
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It's going to vastly depend on where you live. College towns obviously going to be king.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:10 PM
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Early 2010s gym culture picked up a lot. Lots of people getting into fitness at one level or another. It's seriously insane. I started going back in 2008 when it was all older people. Now lots of young people. Tons of high schoolers go to my gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:10 PM
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There are a LOT more people, especially younger trying to get in shape. It's like a counter culture to the fast food gluttony everywhere else. You'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:08 PM
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I hate this shit. Nobody should push for mediocrity. I have never even heard a woman honest to God say she prefers it other than it boiling down to "obtainable" or not threatening to her on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:57 PM
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Brad Pitt IS small in that movie. He weighed 140 pounds. It's just the lean appearance and movie lighting aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:53 PM
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Right. Nice name btw. I drink far too much of that shit for a sane human.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:39 AM
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I agree with that, and I will note I didn't say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:38 AM
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Losing yourself and just being a better version of yourself are two different things. I got stuck in an alcoholic cycle for 2 years and broke free. I'm married though, but now I am constantly doing stuff trying to make up for lost time. We should always strive for self improvement. We don't have to compete with others but ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:29 AM
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And? Or women who want a man with a stronger financial situation work on themselves? Wanting a guy with a big loving social circle, do the same? It can be physical, spiritual, emotional, social, financial, it all applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:27 AM
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This doesn't really work well with women. They are generally accepted for the roles based on their looks, whether that be something exotic or just genuine beauty. Or, they play a specific role like a dumb fat friend, like that one chick from pitch perfect. While there is a middle ground I'd say most women are 7+ or at least get procedures to accentuate features to make them attractive, like Christina Hedricks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:05 AM
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Oh good, so does that mean I can just hate women without any pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:24 PM
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I would look down sadly on anyone who calls working out or games for a reasonable amount of time shallow interests. I don't judge harshly, but I do kind of wonder how men and women with hobbies that require 0 mental or physical stimulation manage to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:06 PM
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Even though I don't look down on women like most red and black pillers this is so fucking accurate it surprised me. I know like 5 women and this is all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:03 PM
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Lots of guys have "alt" styles and interests but generally present relatively normally for a myriad of reasons. I mean it depends on how alt you want to go. I'm 31 for instance and I can't be "alt" style in day to day life with a career, and all the people in my social circle have less than decent financial and life stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:01 PM
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You are mentally ill dude. I'm talking about my own wife and other women I talk openly about sex to. They have way more kinks and stuff than I do. I'm just happy to oblige them when asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:44 PM
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What the fuck kind of question. Lol all the women I know have way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:16 PM
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I'm 5'8" and had a 5'10" girl whom we were very into each other. She was not a height queen like many, but still said it wouldn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:06 PM
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Sure. It's all relative to that person, their mental state, and how they take things. I know my partner had more sexual partners before me, but I did have lots of sexual experience with my prior partners and that it would likely work. It did in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:51 AM
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I mean sure if you want them to. At the end of the day if you're dating a person, they like you, no matter the number they chose you. If you feel like they settled or they tell you they did, well they really can't fake that forever and while it can mess with you a while that person truthfully wasted both your time. I just have that conversation sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:18 AM
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I mean based on your flair I get what your coming from. Too many people focus on numbers games and the dating atmosphere rather than just dating so it defeats the purpose anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:41 AM
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I mean you can just wait. The most even playing field for dating is mid late 20s imo. Careers established, goals, and freedom of dating casually early 20s. Early 30s and onward it starts kind of changing but it depends on if you've been married/divorced/kids largely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:35 AM
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Both really, but the worse they get towards being black pilled, the more it is the general dating pool. The more and more you get upset at the fact there's lots of 7-9 guys going after 6-9 women then you're just losing an unwinnable battle. Guys being upset that the 6 chick has a 20 body count at 23 years old out of college and looking to get married is just kind of sad. Yeah, you are a 23-25 year old dude with like 1-5. Big deal. As long as she's stable, good head on shoulders, and happy with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:03 AM
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FDS women are idiots who have just made horrible choices in the past and horseshoed to unreasonable expectations that no sane man no matter how good would try to fulfill. TRP is jaded guys who cannot get over the current dating issues and don't care anymore. 31 y/o male, married if it matters. I'm largely red pilled but it's just sad at this point. Everyone's expectations have moved so opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:32 AM
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I agree with that. It's no fun doing anything sexually if there isn't at least curiosity about doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:24 AM
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Depending on cleanliness. Anal sex takes 5-10 minutes prep time during, is fun to do, feels different, and female partners who are comfortable and like it can achieve orgasm from it. Mine does and she asks for it specifically sometimes and is always down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:37 AM
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I enjoy being the one giving it, I have some sadism, but light, not extreme cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:48 AM
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Haha either way wouldn't bother me. She uses Reddit a bit but I know which ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:55 AM
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If you want something REALLY interesting. My wife's name is your username spelled exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:29 AM
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Scat and significant levels of pain torture of mine. Do like painal (minimal lubricated anal sex) though. Hitting should not go beyond bruising.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:22 AM
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It's called sounding. She was a domme, but didn't have the discussion with you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:20 AM
5

Degradation is a huge kink and spitting on a partner is part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:19 AM
7

Funny enough that's how it started with my wife. Now she can achieve orgasm from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:18 AM
1

I mean you can say what you want, I have to take them at their word. Married dating is a whole other ballgame. Women flat out tell you they went to fuck or they can't, or they're not feeling the connection
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:31 PM
1

I have never heard of a HVM being submissive or sensitive, rather empathetic. Or is this just your male ideal because this isn't typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:10 PM
3

The unemployment rate of attractive women is 0% is one of the few intelligent albeit sexist things I've learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:41 PM
1

I'm married 5 years 31 years old, 5'8" in very good shape for my age. 150 lbs 250 deadlift 160 bench, 20 desdhsng pullups, etc. Etc. My wife and I recently became poly and it's going really well with ethical no monogamy. It's interesting because she does get more interest but not by much. I did think I'd be more successful at this age and my quality. There are a lot of open women around me, but I mostly get older women, and not always the attraction I'm seeking, but it takes time. I've attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:32 PM
2

I'll give you that in a traditional sense. But that's about 1% of the whole importance. It's just asking the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:24 PM
5

We are? Color me shocked I thought it required a mutual interest and both parties could leave at their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:48 PM
6

I'm going to be real with you. I'm a 31 years old married man and I hit 5 sexual partners only having long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:18 PM
15

Wife is bi, hits up gay bars some times with friends, also friends of friends who see photos. We know some sexual people. 6 years ago went to a Halloween party and a gang of gay dudes were very aggressive. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:34 AM
18

Gay men harshly judge, but are so easy to appeal sexually that it's easy to have physical relationships. I'm straight and my wife has gay men ask her about me. Few approach me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:20 AM
2

Cool. Then she is well on her way to an unhappy miserable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:48 PM
7

That's factually not possible since this subreddit is probably comprised of mid 20s to 40 year olds who are jaded as shit. No 16 year old has experienced enough in life to have a strong enough grasp to assert the views she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:11 PM
23

Absolutely not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:24 PM
7

Your post history says you are 16 or 17 possibly. You are way too young to be jaded and on this subreddit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:23 PM
1

I can't tell if your serious. Wouldn't a man like that be absolutely unrespectable as well as boring to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:29 PM
5

I was raised by a single mother, dad died when I was 14, and I was pretty self sufficient. Other than picking a questionable first girlfriend I did fine. I never got or asked dating advice from my mom I just figured it out. Been married nearly 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:50 PM
1

It could always be a local thing. But I largely see and hear requests for it by comparison. Chicks easily can handle 2 dicks is my assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:59 AM
2

For bisexual people you are right. I'm mainly talking what is sought after. Lots of couples only want bisexual men or women. The large majority of people seeking in my area do want one of the two, most couples seeking a women it's just for FF play. Probably just a location thing though. I personally have done a Fmf once, though. Maybe how rare bi guys are makes them more sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:23 AM
3

This must be some weird fds stuff I don't get because the large majority of 3somes I see are MfM and seeking a bisexual male, other than unicorn hunters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:06 PM
1

Unicorn hunters. Bisexual men are also Highly sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:43 PM
3

Unless it's the woman who engages it, I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:14 PM
11

Actually interesting read my man, and logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:13 PM
6

This is unironically very common because it's easier to date under the guise of being married already. Dead serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:10 PM
10

Bisexual men and women seeking to be a third are the most sought after in the community BY FAR.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:09 PM
0

Wait until you're 30 and in shape. As you get older and maintain physical fitness it becomes easier and easier as a man. You can still easily date down to 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:33 PM
2

We're all gonna make it bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:32 PM
2

I personally only date if I feel it can go anywhere, and I don't do one night stands or booty calls, myself. So to add to your data, yes I put in effort for women who I think will become something. But it can't be all the time because it's mentally draining trying to plan especially when still in the learning phase. Especially because some women may appreciate the gesture but overall not really want to do the activity at the time. Fun dates for me are picking up the lady, trying a new restaurant…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:27 AM
3

It started becoming popular in the US due to the hyper religious advocating for it to curb male masturbation, and I am dead serious.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 12:13 PM
4

It's essentially another subreddit made to be anti-Trump and was founded along with like 40 others in response to The Donald fiasco. They have very little users or engagement but will randomly have some post show up on the front page with 20k+ upvotes and like 100 comments.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 10:48 PM
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They went fully private. I once tried to get to their discord, but you have to submit photos of yourself timestamped with your username and voice verify on camera to get in.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 09:13 PM
31

Wait until you see how random women can act around men who are in great physical shape. I got only moderately in shape with a friend so it didn't happen to me much, but women at bars will randomly just feel on you and it is expected to be a complement. A friend of mine would randomly have women come up to him at bars and not say shit and just run their hand up his shirt on his abs, chest and back. Imagine if you did anything close to similar. I know it happens, but you generally will eat shit fr…
/r/MensRights12/10/21 02:40 AM
3

This is now extremely common in most white collar jobs.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 12:22 PM
6

It becomes substantially more depressing when you realize that girls are now starting social media accounts as early as their first years of highschool and promoting themselves. It has recently become a HUGE concern with high schools around me that many girls set time frames to their 18th birthdays on websites like twitter, Twitch, Reddit, TikTok to anounce their future OnlyFans. Young girls are literally grooming themselves based on word of mouth of income potential. What's even scarier is othe…
/r/MensRights02/08/21 03:22 PM
1

Public mischief is just a fine.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/20 01:46 PM
1

Public mischief sadly means nothing. It won't even really affect her life as it is a misdemeanor
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/20 01:45 PM
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