Smugdemeanor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Conclusive proof that, as a typical guy, you're better off avoiding dating apps altogether and focusing on cold approach.	Lifestyle	Smugdemeanor	/r/seduction	20/10/20 12:13 AM

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0	Interesting date at a strip club (date game field report) Not bad son.	/r/seduction	25/06/21 06:06 PM
27	Send your text and forget about it THis is nearly impossible to do if she actually IS the only girl in your life. People simply cant help themselves. Which is why I think the more appropriate advice is to get as many options as possible. The rest of the behaviours will follow. Hard to be overly invested in one particular girl/outcome when you have 6 others on your roster	/r/seduction	29/05/21 03:52 PM
3	The only opener you'll ever need This is what mark Manson referred to as "performing" in his book models	/r/seduction	18/05/21 10:30 PM
3	I finally did it, didn’t go as planned. True, there's no way rejection is a bad thing. Anyway I think about it, rejection is almost always for the better. Either it's a lesson, or she was never interested and there's nothing you can do to change that	/r/seduction	18/05/21 10:29 PM
1	Conclusive proof that, as a typical guy, you're better off avoiding dating apps altogether and focusing on cold approach. lmaooooo I mean, that was my guide. keep checking on me over then next five years you'll be wonderfully surprised.	/r/seduction	04/01/21 11:06 PM
22	Asking her out this week. Wish me luck The fact that you had to post this on Reddit means you're not shooting your shot enough! You should typically not be going for only one girl at a time because you end up very invested and needy. Shoot your shot every fucking day man! Asking a girl out should not be the pinacle of your seduction career. Treat it with the same nonchalance as dressing up in the morning: it's simply a step towards other things.	/r/seduction	05/11/20 07:58 PM
3	Any tips for girls? That, and putting yourself in positions where it's easy to make a move on you such as going out alone.	/r/seduction	27/10/20 10:12 PM
42	Any tips for girls? Don't know why nobody is mentioning this, but 90% of a girls work is physical. Dressing presentably: whatever that might be for your personality. Taking care of yourself: good hygiene, trimmed hair and the whole shebang. And then if you like a guy, hold eye contact with him for longer than a sec. Also put yourself in positions for guys to shoot their shot. Guys will typically not approach you if you're always out with friends. But if you walk alone you'll have anyone remotely interested in you a…	/r/seduction	27/10/20 03:01 PM
1	Rejection is only a big deal if you make it one. Its about finding the ones who will :)	/r/seduction	25/10/20 01:37 AM
1	Game is NOTHING compared to face or height, watch how I end the conversation with just two numbers This is not the attitude of winners is all I'm going to say. At least most guys are open to the idea that there's something that they can do about their situation. You seem hell bent on proving that you're destined for damnation. You're setting yourself up for failure. And this conservation is simply not worth my time anymore. Thanks. "Your looks come before everything in life" Jesus fucking Christ!	/r/seduction	24/10/20 01:31 AM
1	Game is NOTHING compared to face or height, watch how I end the conversation with just two numbers I already told you, I'm 5'5" Not that big a difference And no, I would not trade places with you because you lack confidence. You're not selling yourself very well I know many 6' guys who would trade places with me anyday though...	/r/seduction	23/10/20 10:33 PM
1	Game is NOTHING compared to face or height, watch how I end the conversation with just two numbers Lol this made my day. So this is how research works: you come in with a bias, everything you find will confirm it. You could have easily found articles affirming that height doesn't matter. Anywho... Nothing you've said is wrong, being short is a disadvantage. But it's not insurmountable. It's not that you're going to end up alone, it's just that you're going to have to go through more girls till your find one for whom your height isn't that big an issue. As Mark Manson put it in models, why wou…	/r/seduction	23/10/20 10:29 PM
2	Game is NOTHING compared to face or height, watch how I end the conversation with just two numbers Thank you. read his comments and wanted to bitch slap him into tomorrow. Listen dude. I'm 5'5" Yes being short is a disadvantage. Yes. Being ugly is a disadvantage. But guess what, even at 5'2", you're at least the same height as many girls. Approach those and see. From experience it's only an issue when the girl is more than two inches taller than you. But even then, it comes down to how you carry yourself. Don't believe me? Go check out Kevin hart's wife.	/r/seduction	23/10/20 07:58 PM
1	Conclusive proof that, as a typical guy, you're better off avoiding dating apps altogether and focusing on cold approach. I personally didn't find tinder "passive" whatsoever I had to actively spend time swiping and checking out profiles I have this app that tracks how I much time I spend on apps in my phone. I used to spend at least 45 minutes on tinder everyday. If you put that same amount of time into gyming you can be in pretty great shape And I left it with about 6 matches (it also doesn't help that I was a bit picky)	/r/seduction	20/10/20 08:03 AM
11	Conclusive proof that, as a typical guy, you're better off avoiding dating apps altogether and focusing on cold approach. To add more context to this image, I got it off a meme page on Facebook. What struck me most, but seemed oblivious to most people was how many matches this girl had. Imagine that. Matching with a girl you find attractive is already hard enough, but once you match, you are competing against literally thousands of other very good looking men. Probabilistically, it's lunacy to even try this shit. Conversely, with cold approach, She's there. You're not competing with anyone else for her attention, s…	/r/seduction	20/10/20 12:19 AM
20	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. I do not have reason to believe so. Again, it all goes back to the failure to manage expectations and lie and mislead that's usually associated with womanising. They might also not dig it if you seem sexually indiscriminate and hit on anything that moves. But if you fuck dozens of women, and ensure to be discreet about it(if anyone is bragging about the sex you had, it should ALWAYS be them) and have unmistakable standards and convey that you're getting with them because they meet your (high) st…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 12:03 PM
24	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. I don't think women hate players per se. What they hate is being lied to and being misled. If you're screwing every girl on your floor, and everyone is very clear about the expectations, you'll go a long way.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 11:38 AM
1	How do I cope with rejection? There's no confidence for your face. If you are instantly rejected and insulted constatnyl for your appearance, no amount of confidence will make you attractive. Then if all you're saying is true it doesn't sound to me like this is your lived experience.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:27 AM
1	How do I cope with rejection? Callibrate your approaches. Don't be too overt the top.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:09 AM
118	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. Number 3 is the cheat code to life for as long as women are involved.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:09 AM
1	How do I cope with rejection? If you are not trolling and are genuinely asking: What if you've already done all of these and still get harshly rejected? You are probably approaching in an uncalibrated manner and should work on approaching more subtly and happenstance-ly... As old time PUA's used to put it "over the shoulder" Yea, you mean the 6'2" famous guy that has like a 1B net worth with his wife? Many better looking billionaires without a wife as fire as he is. Also, just look around your community. If you're in a colle…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:00 AM
2	How do I cope with rejection? Thanks for the upbreat attitude man! (Not OP, but I appreciate good energy when I see it)	/r/seduction	14/10/20 10:40 PM
0	How do I cope with rejection? I'd say, unless it's against the policy, you should definitely go for the coworker if you're interested. At the end of the day, it's only awkward if you let it be. If she says no, make it clear that you respect her decision and it's NO BIG DEAL! From experience, it's only a big deal if you take the rejection personal.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 10:39 PM
7	How do I cope with rejection? There's a lot you can do about your looks though. Getting in shape, getting a haircut, and wearing fitting clothes is one of them. For Pete's sake, have you seen JayZ?? Looks are very low on how girls rate men! How you carry and present yourself reign supreme!!	/r/seduction	14/10/20 10:36 PM
1	How do I cope with rejection? As all other comments are suggesting, exposure therapy is pretty much the only way to grow out of it. I think at the end of the day, reminding yourself that there's tonnes of girls out there that would like you should give you all the motivation you need to move on as quickly as possible in search for them. I asked a girl if she'd like to kiss me over the weekend, and she said "I don't think so", I handled it awkwardly, but what I realised is that it hurt significantly less than when I did it th…	/r/seduction	14/10/20 10:34 PM
1	100 numbers and 2 dates. My mistakes. Your gain Bro. This comment is a GEM! you literally have him all the tools to succeed!	/r/seduction	11/10/20 01:38 AM
3	Approaching indirectly Lol I like this guy. Looks like I have much to learn. And you're right in that I tend to be more of a one at a time kind of guy than a plate spinner. But you've definitely given me a lot to think about My last though would be: how does one learn the art of turning a woman on with ones words?	/r/seduction	06/10/20 10:53 PM
1	Approaching indirectly I like your response man. I can't disagree with it because I realise we are simply approaching the same thing differently. So good on you for this approach if it works for you. Personally the times I went direct and got shot down ended in the girl avoiding me all year, which is not a space I want to be in with about 20 girls in the same college. Also one more thing: you make the assumption that the indirect guy never lets her know his intention. Far from it. He just does it strategically after k…	/r/seduction	06/10/20 07:26 PM
1	Approaching indirectly Not exactly since you are still approaching..? You just need to collect vital information first before conveying sexual interest. And correct me if I'm wrong, but rejection IS a very possible outcome of your approach. You're talking like it's not.	/r/seduction	06/10/20 04:11 PM
1	How to attract a woman( and not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationship Lol mine is about 5,000 And for some reason you see the same people over and over again especially if you're all living on campus.. which for small schools like mine, most tend to do.	/r/seduction	06/10/20 11:00 AM
1	Approaching indirectly My sentiments exactly! Thanks	/r/seduction	06/10/20 03:03 AM
1	How to attract a woman( and not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationship simple pickup had great videos on that but honestly speaking all you have to do is walk up and say hi Bonus points if you can notice something "interesting" about her Like an article or clothing she has on, a bracelet, a book she's reading, etc and build commonality from there. Works like a charm	/r/seduction	06/10/20 03:03 AM
3	Approaching indirectly Well... You've got to admit that when you go to a car dealership, you mean business. There's a lot that the car salesman can infer from just the fact that you came into the dealership. Take meeting a random girl at the bookstore... you can't infer anything from her being there. Perhaps your analogy is better fit for when you're at a club.. and even then, i'd still argue that you never know who she's there with.. she could be a married woman uno.	/r/seduction	06/10/20 01:38 AM
4	How to attract a woman( and not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationship Cold approach should always be your go to method because among all other options, it's the one where a lot of how the interaction pans out is in your control. Tinder/online dating: not an efficient use of time if you're not extremely good looking. It's an uphill battle and you're fighting with hundreds of guys for one girls limited attention. Conversely, in person, she has no choice but to give you the time of the day and engage with you and only you at that time. More opportunity for you to con…	/r/seduction	06/10/20 01:34 AM
2	How to attract a woman( and not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationship Lmao I got that part. But that's a very broad thing to ask. I have lots of thoughts about lots of things. How effective dating apps are? Do you need to have money to get the girl? Do looks matter. So it's best if you ask something more specific to get the most out of this	/r/seduction	06/10/20 01:02 AM
3	How to attract a woman( and not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationship Lmao that is such a broad request. You gotta be more specific man	/r/seduction	06/10/20 12:43 AM
25	How to attract a woman( and not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationship I'm honestly not a fan of approaching directly, especially on a college campus where, if you're turned down by the person, you have to see them for the next year or so... Do this with a dozen girls and it can get quite awkward real quick... Also, it might work better if you are very attractive. I'm pretty decent looking and dress better than almost everyone on my campus (not flashy clothes, just well fitting dress pants and shirts), but I'm quite short (5"7) so If I go in directly, most girls wi…	/r/seduction	05/10/20 09:36 PM
1	Best Books on Text Game? Pm me. Google drive links are banned on reddit	/r/seduction	29/09/20 10:15 PM
1	Best Books on Text Game? Ignore the above comment. Check out TXT by pickup podcast! I recommend it 1000%	/r/seduction	29/09/20 09:46 PM
1	What men really want: A Michelle Obama in the streets, and a Cardi B in the sheets It's not about their celebrity status. It's about the way they carry themselves and the vibes they exude.	/r/seduction	29/09/20 07:55 PM
2	So many girls find you attractive, don't focus on the ones who don't Too many comments about how you can't approach in eastern Europe, but Whatever happened to the subtlety of approaching indirectly? Find a way of gaining proximity next to her.. for example ordering food in line next to her, standing in the subway adjacent to her, and things like that where you're in her periphery, and then nonchalantly talk about something you just found out today, or an interesting piece she has on over the shoulder. It's honestly that simple (the complicated part of course is …	/r/seduction	29/09/20 06:34 PM
1	Is it possible to attract girls/a girlfriend as a 21 year old virgin dude with ZERO friends/hobbies? This is actually a pretty dandy and concise piece of advice!	/r/seduction	28/09/20 12:05 AM
1	Tips for cold approaching in dining hall? Thanks! I always try to go for spontaneous whenever possible. But because of covid, the way our dining is structured is that the tables are quite far apart. And the booths have a wall between them. So communicating from across, especially over the music is nearly impossible.	/r/seduction	25/09/20 10:06 PM
3	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. That's not what I said. I said attractiveness for men is perceived differently. Reread my above comment.	/r/seduction	24/09/20 05:16 PM
8	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. Do you seriously wanna use extremes to invalidate my argument? What I've said is true for 99% of all people out there 🤦‍♀️	/r/seduction	24/09/20 05:07 PM
5	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. THIS! At the end of it all, as a wise friend once said, perfect 10's don't happen naturally. Behind the scenes, there's hours grinding in the gym, an expensive assortment of cosmetics and a strict dietary regimen, and most importantly, an eye for fashion and style. Same goes for guys. Chris Hemsworth did not wake up like that!! A looottttt of effort goes into him being the hunk he is.	/r/seduction	24/09/20 04:50 PM
12	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. The thing about men is, what does it mean to be ugly? If you're talking about the symmetry of facial features or the smoothness of skin, while those are a plus, I think looks especially in the way women perceive them on men, are about how present themselves. While you might be balding, if you get a good haircut, maintain good posture, get in shape, wear FITTING CLOTHES (CAN'T STRESS THIS ENOUGH), and smile, you're 95% of the way there. If the rest of your game is tight, you'll do just fine witho…	/r/seduction	24/09/20 04:45 PM
2	Friendzoned by a guy who spends all his time with me and confused: need help I'm curious as to why you agreed to spend THIS much time with him? Didn't you have other guys in your dm asking to meet up. (Sorry if this is a naive question, I tend to assume all girls have more options than they can take)	/r/seduction	03/09/20 10:11 PM