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No the asshole always outshines a pretty face nobody likes an asshole
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 01:49 PM
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Not every antipsychiatry person is a scientologist
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 01:07 PM
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I'm not justifying the red pill but r/antipsychiatry is a valid platform. At least hear what they have to say and weigh out the arguments. Psychiatry can be extremely dangerous. Any cult of personality (red pill, psychiatry, heaven's gate ect...) tends to have some draw backs. Once you accept a group think as universal law which it seldom is, the indoctrination process begins.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 01:13 PM
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A great lover is not one who sleeps with a hundred women, it's who sleeps with one woman a hundred times
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 12:52 PM
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Better looking not necessarily,more money maybe but not always. Have to think too attention, enthusiasm, fidelity those are all big turn ons and they are seldom displayed by red pill men
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 05:24 PM
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Believe me these guys don't look good even on the surface. I've seen a few one of my favorite reminds me of gollum. He's half naked bald, huge eyes glazed over in anger ranting about women...or "the preciousss". Wish I could find that video now.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 12:10 PM
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Speaking as someone who is over forty I still haven't hit "eighty" do you know what I mean? Why is "thirty" the wall? To me that is just a random number in the early part of adult hood. The early part. What could be said about a group of people who thought "twenty" was "the wall" Or "Fifteen" There's a reason why they pick such a small number. Consider also for humans... The years between two and thirty are fewer than the years between thirty one and eighty Look at that magic number thirty and i…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 12:00 PM
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I can address this as the aging woman in the crowd here Does it suck losing your looks and growing older? Hell yes it sucks Do we all do it? Yes Is it better if we (like my grandparents did) find a partner we can grow old with? Yes. But we can't find the person to grow old w because he's up and decided to leave us for our kid's friends. We're in our forties and these people are in their early twenties It's just horrible on all levels Aging is horrible The desperation they feel in getting older i…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 11:40 AM
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There's a very specific borderline pedo kind of vibe to all this I have to ask myself what goes through a man's mind when he thinks to himself the "woman" he wants to be with must be under twenty five, unemployed and the same age as his daughter.' More and more I see the word "woman" used when most of us would use the word "teenager", "college kid" ect. What age is she realistically eighteen to twenty one? She probably doesn't have or need gainful employment right now, and probably can't buy bee…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 11:31 AM
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I don't know that it's a male or female thing In fact don't look at it as a male vs female thing because it is not. All people improve the quality of their life by networking. That's not hypergamy that's the human condition. We all want a partner or a boss or a friend that can help improve our situation a little (hopefully) Nobody wants a partner that is so broken down that person becomes a liability Nobody wants to date so their life can become effectively "worse" However by that same logic we …
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 03:42 PM
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It makes my skin crawl. It's like we've all been placed on the auction block naked in the minds of our fellow beings. It's dehumanizing. Granted nobody should decide who you date but you. I support individual liberty but that's all I support about it. I agree that we all rate who we date in our minds, and love isn't meant to be fair But there's no need for a point system. All of that is all covered by not dating the other person. Once you've decided to not date someone. leave that person be, giv…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 01:14 PM
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I think what I like the BEST about the red pill is how unattainable it is. The hand full of Heathers that meet these standards consider themselves elite but without any real accomplishment They, ultimately win though against the red pill men because as you observed their numbers are few and far between. What do the rest of us do? It's not for us to participate in. The red pill is more of a spectator sport.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 01:06 PM
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1.) Woman are people not property 2.) An individual male or female is the ONLY person who should decide who they fuck 3.) There's no such thing as alpha and beta, people like who the fuck they like...people fuck who the fuck they like. 4.) If someone wants to fuck you because they want to fuck you it should ALWAYS be free. 5.) Hopefully the two people who are fucking fall in love The end.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 01:16 PM
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Thank you for getting to the heart of the ENTIRE problem with the red pill Sex is not work for women, it's enjoyable as hell It's just next to impossible for many women to find a man they actually want to have sex with. Sex with the wrong man is not only work it's hell on earth and by a certain age it's a hell on earth that most women have lived through. The sad truth is nobody owes anybody sex. The sad truth is that if a woman (or a man) uses sex to reward, punish, or manipulate other people th…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 03:13 PM
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Je ne peux pas vous dire à quel point je suis désolé d'entendre que le mot «incell» est en fait issu de la culture américaine. Le terme aurait dû mourir d'une mort lente. Le Big Mac, Cocacola aurait dû mourir aussi mais hélas nous avons contaminé la planète entière avec ce type de déchets américains. Pensée à la poubelle et à la poubelle.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 02:19 PM
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Finding someone is nice, but there is a lot to be said for planning your life in such a way that you don't absolutely HAVE to find someone. It says a lot if you have someone, but out of enjoyment rather than necessity The problem with red pill women is that the life is planned in such a way that "single" is no longer an option. You literally train yourself to become useless.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 02:10 PM
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No I've worked the custodial arts many times, it's not glamorous but it deserves a pay check and a 401k just like anything else. That red pillers expect a twenty five year old female to give up her chances to become head of surgery just to clean their house (without a 401k, medical, dental, ect) just shows you the mind set. What exactly is she supposed to do in ten years time, twenty years time when he gets tired of her. How does all that look on a resume? It's not good for him either, he has to…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:42 PM
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Probably pretty high. I'm an older person (though not a senior) and a lot of dudes in that age group want to fantasize that their income will allow them the luxury of a young young young woman. It's kind of disturbing, I think their desperation is probably at the core of what is fueling the red pill movement Fifty year old men don't want sagging skin and wrinkles in their dates. Neither do twenty year old women. Just sayin
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 12:46 AM
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I had a chance at a dude w a 3 bedroom house, 2 cars and a pool. I chose instead a guy who rents and makes about half the income. Why? Guy B is just hotter and more fun to be with Some people are looking for a partner to be their day job but it's not the better people and it's not all people
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 12:44 AM
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I remember all the stupid shit I did when I was 24 and trying to be "wife material". Like cooking, ironing, buying baskets full of dollar mac and cheese and Knorr brand rice for tuna casserole. Now that I'm old and single I buy wrinkle free clothes, and get a take out salad. I used to buy us both cigarettes by the carton We collected points from marlboro miles and traded them in for cozy house ware items. Now that he's gone I quit smoking'' I thought I was happy, I really did. I used to take his…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 12:37 AM
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By that logic so is "existence"
/r/PussyPassDenied17/05/21 12:55 PM
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I believe women should be spanked too. I love spanking, rubber ball gags, dog leashes and little heart shaped paddles. It's good to burn cinnamon incense when you spank a lady. You can spank a guy too. I don't have kids People who spank their kids creep me out.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/21 12:45 PM
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People who say this crave the empowerment of saying that they are the ones in charge of all of their destiny. As you can attest it's a far better and more empowering thing to know changing your company and environment are both options. I see myself as Andy Dufresne from Shaw shank, honestly. There is a guy who understood value and worth were not going to come from other people. There is a guy who knew it really was everybody else's fault and because he recognized that he was able to disconnect a…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/21 12:39 PM
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Put the past behind you. However, don't feel you need to rid yourself of shame over bad deeds. Being ashamed of a bad deed makes you not a psychopath. That shame is good, it will keep you from repeating the mistake. Put the past behind you, and keep the shame so you don't repeat it.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 03:40 PM
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I have a newly Catholic ex who swears the red pill is almost exactly what Catholicism teaches. Having been to the Catholic church they tend to respect women a lot more than my ex does.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 11:45 AM
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It's hard to pick just one thing, I"m very surprised it's not completely obvious to you as well. Start with "the wall" as a concept and work from there.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 10:43 AM
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The idealism is conducive to inequality for one thing
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 10:36 PM
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Yes I do think so
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 01:49 PM
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And yet all of those things in your opinion have nothing to do with the Red pill style ideology that was the pop culture at that time in history? Don't you think the abusive father, the sexual abuse and even the mental institutions were all a biproduct of patriarchal culture of the fifties?
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 12:39 PM
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Look at history. Red pill ideology was exactly how the parents of "Boomers" were. They are largely the reason that the "Boomers" became how they were. Think about 1955-1970
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 12:07 PM
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Not really it's the same fifties pop culture right wing idealism that's recycling itself today Matter of fact sixties feminism was a reaction to fifties right wing culture.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 11:59 AM
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It does make you wonder. There's a phrase "not my circus not my monkeys" and there are different kinds of "success" , The worst thing about the red pill is there's no space where your life starts and someone else's life leaves off.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 06:03 PM
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Oh my gosh yes, as an American failure I can say first hand is very hard to adapt to for us.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 05:43 PM
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It's hard to know the truth, narcissists hide it so well
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 04:13 PM
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Red pill seems like a game that takes everybody's insecurities about who they are, amplifies them, and hands them back to you. No exception. There's some standard now that you must follow, who knows why, or where this standard came from. There's one for men, there's one for women. Nobody lives up to it, no one ever can or will live up to that bizarre effigy and nobody ever questioned it. They even forgot the basics like our insecurities once shared with someone else create a bond and that bond c…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 12:47 PM
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I hope we are not going down that path of what is or isn't a "true" alpha male. Much like being a "true" Christian or a "true Scottsman" it's critical to understand "alpha male" is a concept. I'm not advocating in favor of narcissism, which is also conceptual btw. I'm advocating against the idea of an "alpha" male. The only objective truth in the concept is a casually observed quality seen in giraffes and lions. Even then "alpha" exists in the eyes of the observing zoologist. I think we should d…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 01:01 PM
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The only one I know has a mom who was too sick to be a real mom to him. Not saying it justifies his approach but he had no real family to grow up too and maybe he craved a real family. He has 2 daughters now and I asked him to be mindful of what kind of world he creates for them to step into. I know he doesn't want his kids to be treated like red pill women. Funny how they want better for their daughters than the rest of humanity.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 06:47 PM
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I don't know. I am not especially attractive but I do get some joys in going this life alone. I don't like every card I get dealt but at least I don't answer to anybody so in that sense I have a freedom that allows me to not need to be thin and hot. I guess I just expect I'm going to be judged negatively by other humans and find ways to live life with minimal need for approval. I've been single for the last ten years.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 06:05 PM
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What drives me crazy about our society in general is that everybody's private life is confused w their public life.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 06:34 PM
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I don't know what is more pathetic, that you took the time to look into this, or that you mistakenly think you found a conflict and took the time to comment.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 02:41 AM
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Beg to differ, personal experience
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 06:36 PM
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Not sure what that would prove except the existence of liars
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 12:27 AM
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Marriage (and I'm using my grandfolks as an example) happens because of actual love, self sacrifice and tolerance of another person's faults. The cheap parlor tricks red pill women offers can never offer that type of connection because they are based on putting up a facade from the inception
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 10:19 PM
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I don't think you can generalize. "Conservative" is an over used and over simplified term.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 10:17 PM
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My friend has a picture of a literal brick wall and himself as a cartoon kicking that down. I am Karen, I am their monster. I still work harder, look better, eat better and will eventually bench more than every man in there. We all age, and aging is a fear of everybody even those of us in the middle of it. But this is an eighty year old woman earnestine shepphard - Bing images ​ And this is a woman in her mid forties chyna wrestler - Bing images I'm with you on the "wall" thing but...y' know onl…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 06:18 PM
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Having a partner is optional, woman (and men) are ALWAYS in a position to be picky. You can always chose "no".
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 06:11 PM
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Incel is involuntarily celibate right? I think I am an incel. AMA but I'm female and in no way a misogynist.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 06:07 PM
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On board w this, hitting is not acceptable no matter what gender does it
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 06:05 PM
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Someone even down voted me here for speaking the truth. It's fake, it just is.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 06:03 PM
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Red pill women is fake. It's entertaining but it's not real. I am a woman and women just don't think that way, live that way or experience life that way. It'd be hard pressed to find a real female that was both ignorant and self hating whilst actually being beautiful and a great cook. The pieces don't ad up. There might be the occasional mail order bride or human trafficking victim trying to get a green card, but that'd be about it.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 05:49 PM
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Thou shalt not be a "beta"? I missed that too.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 04:41 PM
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I listen to Pink Floyd and remember I am also too old for Michael Jackson
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 04:36 PM
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That is a good point but I think it's a positive thing for scientifically measurable reasons...like stis. It's not a moral judgement it's a health care commentary..
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 12:35 PM
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Your vibe attracts your tribe. People will respond to your authenticity. If you don't know who you are, you can't expect anybody else to make that choice. It's ok if you don't know, we just can't make that call for you. As you figure it out your circle will adjust accordingly.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 04:27 PM
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Personally I've been called schizophrenic more times than I can count This video helped me ; Psychiatry is a Fraud & is all about Control - MUST WATCH - Bing video ​ Unknown quote of the day: "Before you diagnose yourself w depression and low self esteem, first make sure you're not in fact, just surrounded by assholes" - author unknown.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 04:22 PM
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Please no. His low body count and lack of disease are both perks. Please don't encourage the OP to ruin this for himself needlessly
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 04:17 PM
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Why wouldn't you be proud of not having hepatitis, herpes, warts or HIV? Anybody who tells you it's not cool to be a virgin is like the type of person who think's it's cool to be a smoker.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 04:09 PM
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First of all don't base your expectations on what you see in movies. Bully's and criminals are not sexy. Sad to say a lot of married guys get mistresses because in part they look "safe" ...he can't be a criminal he's got six kids and a wife. People like the same types of qualities in other people...good health, compassion, loyalty. Being trustworthy won't get you laid but being a crook is usually a deal breaker.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:37 PM
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I notice as I age things go wrong that I don't have the money to fix. It's like a car, parts wear out. You get some replaced but it's never going to be a new car again. The trick is to find somebody who you can love while one another are in the shop.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:30 PM
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Agree to disagree on some points. Enough for now this isn't the antipsychiatry sub. Glad anti electroshock is gaining momentum
/r/ExRedPill09/02/21 11:56 PM
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r/antipsychiatry The DSM was voted in by a panel of judges, personality disorders were manufactured, electroshock causes stroke and risperidone causes sudden cardiac death. such evidence does exist, currently
/r/ExRedPill09/02/21 11:47 PM
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People probably thought the same of phrenology and leeches before too
/r/ExRedPill09/02/21 10:40 PM
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Rejecting psychiatry is not rejecting science. It's rejecting psuedoscience and I'm fine with that.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/21 10:38 PM
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r/Antipsychiatry I know that sounds like I"m promoting my own agenda...but srsly what is a "mental disability" in your own words. Are you sure you have it? Can't change it? More importantly are you sure the world is not big enough to have room for you? I speak as someone who has been gas lit, called "schizophrenic",, "Paranoid" and worse. Im as "disabled" as the company I keep wants to think that I am. I also can always change the company I keep. The biggest "dirty little secret" about most "men…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/21 02:26 PM
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But you could chose to be, if you wanted to. You still have at least one x chromosome. You're not a different species than one.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 11:35 PM
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Human apathy isn't gender specific. Right now I'm on another thread trying to explain to people if someone in a psychiatric facility is abused or stalked, everybody else will chalk it up to "delusion" Crime runs rampant, and there are babies born addicted to meth Why? Because a huge chunk of the population consists of totally selfish, apathetic pieces of crap. Please don't blame that problem on being male, or female...people are just shit and all about themselves most of the time. They are usual…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 03:03 AM
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Not necessarily sure I agree in all cases, even tiny toddlers are socialized to have different preferences.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 02:54 AM
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More importantly biology is not a social phenomenon
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 06:43 PM
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Excellent question...probably nothing if you don't want them to
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 06:00 PM
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How One Man Lost Almost 100 Lbs. and Became a Top Model | PEOPLE.com I'm not a man but the guy above inspires me and I'm feeling your pain. I thought my dead bedroom was my husband's fault, but after a divorce I found out I was to blame. I'm angry, depressed, self loathing all that. Here's the good news we can still improve. Guessing you are young so the odds are in your favor. I hate people sometimes too...so you hate them, then what? Seriously? Then what? People don't give a fuck if I hate the…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 08:50 AM
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I feel a little jealous, and a little sad for myself that I can't still wear this, but damned if I'd ruin her chances to enjoy her youth. By that same token if somebody sees me at my age coming in a neon pink bikini or a tight leather mini dress, boy you better respect the lat pulls and the tread mill and the crunches that made that moment possible because it was not easy to get here.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 05:11 PM
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Respect is a choice. Respecting all people if they are dressed or wearing nothing at all is a choice, and the right choice. It just means red pill men are making the wrong choice. It also means they are trying to justify their bad decision by blaming the victim of their disrespect. It means they need to own their own choices. If they choose not to respect another human being the fault lies with them Not with their target's choice of clothing.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 05:07 PM
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Every long term relationship I've ever had the guy left for someone younger. Every. Single. Time. When I was younger one of my worst problems was constant harassment from men. What makes me the angriest is that 40yr old guys started checking e out when I was under 21 and now that Im their own age, I'm "too old" I have spent my entire life being rejected by guys my exact age and flirted w by guys twenty or more years older than me. And it's not just red pill guys. I don't know if it's mid life cr…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 11:31 AM
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One pill to rule them all, one pill to find them, one pill to bring them forth and in the darkness bind them
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 06:59 PM
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CC Riders, Wicked, Tricksy, False, Thieves they is, they stole the precioussss from him and he wants it back. Naked, bald and screaming would be a good music video. He's the other side of Chanty Binx dance medly If I had more talent I'd make him and Gollum or him and Chanty Binx set to music. Arguing w one another. lol
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 06:45 PM
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MY precious by Gollum - Bing video
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 12:13 PM
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They create the exact problems they complain about. How can a woman over thirty be anything but single, if she's "un-dateable" according to them? Plus their negativity and hate provide a good incentive to avoid them, thus taking more available men out of the dating pool. The women who would otherwise pursue them are too busy avoiding the bitterness and over thirty hate, and so then they are left to compete for the handful of non red pill guys that are out there. They hate what they've created. I…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 12:04 PM
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A career gives you some skills and a retirement account. I honestly don't believe in today's society being a stay at home mom is an option. Everyone gets tired at work and makes a fantasy of it but the down side is you have no benefits, no retirement, no chance for advancement and you always have to sleep w the boss. I've been trying to explain things to red pill women..things like betrayal and divorce, and cheating and oppression but nobody wanted to listen to my warning them. I have it tough r…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 10:09 AM
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"How my twin flame got hepatitis C, and then herpes...but I'm really not bitter." - A novel, by voluntarily celibate me. Based on a true story.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 02:09 AM
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Yeah that's harassment, and your employer shouldn't allow you to put up with that kind of crap.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 02:04 AM
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If women expire at thirty there's really no point in it, soon as you get into a routine we're better off eating a bullet, right?
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 02:02 AM
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Red pill feeds on insecurities. It faults women for aging and men for being rejected by people they weren't even meant to be with.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 07:40 PM
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Speaking as someone who was once gangstalked, hospitalized and coerced into cheating on my spouse I'd say you are spot on. Nothing frees up real estate quite like divorce. Would we have stayed together without the psychiatry and gangstalkers...maybe not But the combined total of pressures made sure we collapsed. There's always safety in numbers against the powers at play. Always. Look how many state sponsored divorces happen in N. Korea.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 07:31 PM
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Allegedly not the same thing but similar enough to have this type of effect on one another.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:54 PM
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I'm speaking of red pill women. They forfeit focusing on their career to land a husband. (Say she becomes a pretty wife rather than an air craft mechanic) Life A....as an air craft mechanic she always no matter what has an income. Life B...she has a husband twenty years older than she is who is either going to die on her, or because of his preferences leave her after she turns thirty. He has already established he has no expiration date, but she does. Either way she's alone without income or edu…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:49 PM
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Twenty something women busting their ass to land forty something men who have already agreed to stop loving them in ten years time. So I guess women marrying men who hate the future version of them. Further stuck in this cycle they are also eliminating their prospects of employment or income in order to get away from these guys. The whole program is about leadership and status which are in the eye of the beholder. If someone expects your admiration it's almost your human duty to disagree, to do …
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:29 PM
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This is about the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Has zero scientific credibility. Also seems personally disempowering not to mention invasive to make it a social issue.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:28 PM
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That's what I thought about Red pill women too. It's a vicious cycle of self improvement w no real end in sight. It's a game you always lose no matter how hard you try, time is your enemy and so is every person on earth. There has to be something less toxic and more reachable. It sounds like you found it.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:09 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 01:07 AM
1

Genders are able to be changed and so are gender roles. That's also a reality You're even using false reasoning to justify female preferential in your argument with "Women produce new human beings"...got news for you not all of us do? Does that mean that those of us who don't deserve to die? And if I don't deserve the front lines why would someone w a y chromosome have to go and not me? You are favoring someone based on their biological birth right. Sure male and female is a different set of cir…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 01:04 AM
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Verbal abuse is a common trick of narcissists to maintain control where they haven't earned a right to be in control People on your side allow you to be you, without having to fit in to their paradigm and have no such need to abuse you. People on your side don't expect their agenda to run over yours.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 01:56 PM
0

Did you ever ask yourself why this question needs to be answered by "men"?
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 01:50 PM
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I know this much, my crush (a male) went on a crying jag when his friend's kid died. It opened my heart, and my wallet and I gave money I didn't have to help people I didn't know because of it. Still haunts me. IMHO he's never looked more powerful and beautiful inside and out.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 01:36 PM
1

Dude I am up at five am every f'n day going miles around the lake, I hit the gym and live on fucking kale and garlic. I haven't had a cigarette since Obama was in office or a beer either. Nobody is immune from age, from cancer, from heart disease ok.. We all try, but life isn't perfect and if you think you've become perfect you are lying to yourself give it ten years time and you'll see what i mean This nineteen yr old could get in a car wreck, break a leg, get herpes or HIV, or Hep from a needl…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 05:55 PM
1

All of this is so shallow. I don't mean to come down on you but what if said person got burned in a fire. Out the door, right? Got fat, got cancer? Hit the road. We all understand love is not a democracy, but the problem is seeking to be more beautiful is that in doing so we wind up attracting shallow mother fuckers who only care about looks. I also kinda doubt young women are desperate for attention. Cash maybe, but not attention they have it in abundance usually with or without you. Nineteen i…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 05:22 PM
1

Not every comment deserves or needs an argument. I'm not preventing them from speaking their minds and my point hasn't changed. Many people post without replying to a single comment within comment section. The reason it was posted should be self explanatory and covered in its original content. There are no reddit rules saying each and every comment MUST receive a reply. It's just not mandatory. I'm a little surprised I"m responding to this antagonism but in the interest of explanation for reader…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 05:17 PM
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"When the power of love is greater than the love of power you will know peace" - Jimmy Hendrix
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 07:57 AM
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If you'll forgive the sermon here, I don't think that the red pill folks share your religion or values. If you find someone who does you'll have a better shot at compatibility. What red pill teaches is pretty far outside the parameters of what most organized religions would allow. I can think of at least for major religions off the top of my head that would be anti red pill and yours is one of them.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 06:57 PM
0

This is turning into a straw man. What I actually said was... The issues an MRA talks about INCLUDE circumcision and the draft. The groups that an MRA COMPLAINS about INCLUDE feminists. The brush stroke is broad to avoid paintings of straw men like this one.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 05:00 PM
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If you are fake for your lover, they love somebody you aren't.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 11:59 AM
15

Your biological sex was determined at birth, everything else is either a set of rules you imposed upon yourself or a set of rules your society is imposing on you. You are the only one who should be making the rules. You get to be a real whatever you want to be, based on your choices and your own definitions. You get to choose what societies or parts of society you want in your life experience. I don't understand why anybody is waiting on them to live their advice or permission. They are not bett…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 07:56 AM
1

I am my own leader, why would any adult look to another adult to lead or protect them? Once we are no longer five we look to ourselves. Nobody is an island so we look to an assortment of peers and a group of unrelated people. To put all that on to any one person who isn't yourself is irresponsible and infantile Hundreds of different "tribes" could offer you part of a solution, the only one who is your alpha should be you..
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 10:05 PM
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You are responsible to yourself. If you don't like the structure of one company work for a different one. If those don't work then start your own. You can make a choice to barter or do without You fund and design your life, the only person who gives a fuck ultimately about you is you. Stop giving a fuck about those who won't do the same
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 10:04 PM
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Or free enough to teach others that they are free
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 09:53 PM
1

That doesn't make them an alpha, they are paying for your time. You literally sell your time to your boss or company. If you don't like like the terms, you quit, if they don't like the terms they fire you. Once they are done paying you your service to them ends They have no real power over you. The only person who owns your time is you.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 09:51 PM
2

Sure, just google "Prohibited Bias" and the regulations come up. It's a short list that includes, gender, race, disability, national origin ect.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 09:49 PM
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As an adult, the only adult whose leadership I will accept is mine. As an adult, the total number of followers I want is equal to zero. There is no alpha, there is no tribe. Vote for yourself, be your own leadership most adults are self managed ELECTION DAY 🇺🇸👁️ | Ralph Smart - Bing video
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 06:40 PM
2

Banking acknowledges prohibited biases, I wish that way of thinking would span outward from the financial district.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 06:27 PM
1

Feminism and the Disposable Male - YouTube ​ Karen Straughn . She makes some good points. In my opinion human beings (in general both genders) make a horrible mistake of thinking other human beings (in general both genders) exist to serve their society. This is at the heart of any sort of oppression (in general both genders)
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 06:16 PM
1

If it's so man friendly then why are they complaining? If someone is upset it's good to find out why, before assuming they are just "wrong"..no?
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 06:01 PM
1

I could actually get behind preferential treatment for service members by civilians. What I can't get behind is inequality based on gender.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:49 PM
2

Sorry about the spelling error. MRA is opposing war and circumcision as well as male survivors of rape and domestic violence. I would think Feminism should be with them
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:48 PM
1

Men get raped just like anybody else Men get beat up just like anybody else The people who do these types of crimes can be men or women Being a civilized person and NOT doing these crimes is commendable. Nobody should have to suffer through that type of stuff alone.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:46 PM
2

I think they are going to find like we all did that the system they are in doesn't work and for roughly the same reasons we all realized that system doesn't work
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:35 PM
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I'm thankful for men who speak out. I am a female, I want my rights to be heard and I understand that fair is about hearing other people's rights. The only way this is going to work is if people put themself in the other person's shoes.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:34 PM
2

Understood. I know there are a lot of women who do not like femminism for fear of the reality of combat and the difficulty of physical labor. It's not an easy thing to reconcile There are two camps because there are still two genders Im just saying in the future we may need to entertain that there are more than two and really think about how complicated this is. I'm glad femminism is trying to move forward on the human rights front. Should we have human rights groups feuding? Shouldn't they both…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:24 PM
1

There in lies the problem, What an awesome evaluation too. Its not going to be changed by anybody in this room, there's no easy solution and both avenues have some gains and losses.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:21 PM
4

Society can't de-evolve just because a few frightened people want some sort of reductive logic.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:09 PM
1

Thanks for the recommendation of Menslib What I"m saying is now we in our society have new experiences, trans, nonbinary and so on. There was no discussion of this in the seventies when femminism was in its hay day. I do think Menslib would have some good points, and even though I agree with most of femminism I do think some of the MRA stuff is important. The good points about MRA is worrying about male disposability (aka "war"), worrying about the draft, worrying about circumcision. These are v…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:07 PM
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I try not to label myself for roughly the same reason. I'm not saying I don't love feminists and that the movement wasn't necessary in history or that it's entirely wrong. I am saying I don't miss the irony that Buck Angel calls himself a femminist, and I wonder if he's ever pondered that he is now in need of an MRA I hope in the future both concepts will meet in the middle and that's where I'd like to be.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 04:52 PM
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Think about the word, it's a sexist word. "Femminism" It just seems to speak to favoring all things "female" Now I know nature makes us all female initially and then we mutate to greater or lesser degrees. What I"m saying is if there weren't people who feel excluded by feminism then it wouldn't be catching the complaints that it does. What if it were replaced by something neutral called something else like "Neutralism"...or "equalism". Favoring someone just because they are female isn't better t…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 04:48 PM
1

Welcome, congratulations on your ban!
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 04:29 PM
1

First of all I think you care about what you care about. There's no need for the rest of us to tell you if it's ok or not. It's not a great footing to lie to somebody in a relationship. It's not a great footing to feel like you have to lie. I value honesty in a relationship and know there are some things I don't want to know. There's nothing wrong with not asking about somebody's past. It's a call only you can make.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 04:27 PM
2

She's fantastic, and so inspiring. Goes to show age is related to what we do every day.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 03:54 PM
1

Right on. One of my heros Ernestine Shepphard is in her eighties and competes w body building https://www.bing.com/images/search?view=detailV2&ccid=VVEelRv2&id=D6D7E0558380671487065297B735C9429CC76785&thid=OIP.VVEelRv2PLaUhbvwRC0ncQHaJY&mediaurl=https%3a%2f%2fs-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com%2f736x%2fbb%2f48%2f1c%2fbb481c7f6e313c89e7ecab20255088d6--absolutely-fabulous-ernestine-shepherd.jpg&exph=794&expw=627&q=earnestine+shepherd&simid=607997881684266169&ck=AFADF8524530147CDF7DA0F3BF81C5BD&selectedI…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 03:51 PM
1

Agreed. There should be a set standard to where people can respectfully approach and reject one another without being humiliated. There's no set rules and that is a problem.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 03:39 PM
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As a woman who pursued a time or two I think it teaches you empathy. Nothing makes you reject people gently than having been rejected yourself. I pursue men all the time, and strike out more often than not but it's made me courageous. Women who never pursue are cowards, they never have to deal w rejection. That aside it's sort of a "common knowledge" that you don't pursue unless you want to be rejected. If they wanted you, they'd call, right? And that's the wisdom in it Most women are not ready …
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 03:23 PM
1

Everybody's attitudes are shaped by their environment. The more we travel and expand the more objectively we see our conditioning.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 03:05 PM
2

I don't know, personally I feel my worth has decreased with age and it does make me feel better to hear you say this. That aside my understanding of aging is that it is a series of different diseases that we all contract. It's not wrong to want a healthier partner, it's not wrong to side line dating for health reasons or put yourself on the bench if you feel you need too. We all want perfect health none of us have it
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 03:01 PM
2

If you are David Bowie, you are always David Bowie. The majority of people are not David Bowie.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 02:52 PM
1

Be around a different culture. In some cultures (like Cathoicism for example) virginity and purity is prized. Other cultures sexual prowess is prized. It's all relative but seeing that the opposite is valued depending on culture really reveals how arbitrary the judgement is
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 02:49 PM
1

Did you ever ask yourself why you think you have to compete w these people? We've all thought this way...who has the better house, car, job, hair, singing voice whatever it is but at the end we have to be alone w ourselves. What's the competition about, what is the "grand prize" if you win. Soon as you realize there's no door prize, the urge to compete hopefully goes away If not it might be keeping you from focusing on something about yourself you don't want to have to deal with.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 01:54 PM
1

r/deadbedrooms is helpful. I go through this same stuff and the best I can tell you is if you feel good about yourself you won't need anybody else's approval. Go to the gym, the dentist, the hair salon do body sculpting treat yourself to whatever you need to do to where you think you are awesome, or at least can forgive the parts of yourself that aren't perfect. We all fall short of our own goals, but still trying to reach them is what counts. There's no way to cheat yourself from your own opini…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 01:15 PM
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He's got a box, and needs you to fit into it neatly.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 03:14 AM
1

My 2 cents is maybe we are and if so, so what. Who makes it past thirty without some struggles? Nobody. But if you are over thirty it shouldn't matter. ' To think otherwise is to say you are no longer willing to interact with and own your own peer group. What if every person in your age bracket is "damaged good" including you (which is probably the truth)....the answer of it is not to hang out w your little brother's crowd, or you son's trying to find a date. You can't disown your own generation…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 02:41 AM
1

Nothing in nature is ever constantly mating. Celibate is what things are when they are not active
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 02:18 AM
1

You know what I"m not seeing in this post.... for richer, or poorer In sickness, and in health That type of concept that is part of matrimonial vows is totally absent from a dating strategy designed to eventually lead to something much less shallow. Self improvement is fine, it's fine to be your personal best but when you bring somebody else in to your life, it needs to be about them too
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 02:16 AM
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narc - narcissistic personality disorder (Npd)
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 04:46 PM
1

Body snatchers pull a lot of people out of sober houses and mental health facilities in my state. They don't need to import them from the Ukraine
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 01:38 PM
1

I never did this, I just felt like my private life did not belong on social media. I talk about a lot of political issues but I don't put a lot of "me personally" out there. I question the ones who do. My social media profile doesn't contain a whole lot of personal stuff.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 01:15 PM
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Alot of women are conditioned to be peacemakers, even if not its natural to be roped in to trolls or people who piss you off and fight w them. Over time you begin to see toxic behavior as "normal"...when it's not. Sometimes sex happens because ignorant and desperate people are trying any way they can to make peace. Trauma bonds happen, it's miserable, but it's a reality. Takes a lot of self reflection and spiritual growth to put a stop to that type of a pattern. It's not true for anybody who is …
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 01:08 PM
3

I look at it more like bad advice is its own truth. The truth is that many men hate me, and don't see me as an equal. That's useful intel It's like any other type of hate. It's not great that it's there but it's worse to pretend it isn't.. Acknowledging that hate is real, doesn't mean you are agreeing with it.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 01:01 PM
5

It's amaizing to me how older generations constantly made excuses, ignored and overlooked the toxic and often illegal behavior of the breadwinner.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 12:59 PM
5

It's not unnatural. It's just the default setting. Most everything in nature mates "occasionally", but frequently..nah not really. It's also better to be alone than in bad company.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 12:54 PM
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I had a long history of narc partners. When I go into red pill rooms I'm insulted and dissed almost the second I go in there. I don't know the reason for it but it's rife with conflict opportunities. It's just a combative mindset through out. Agree w u it's a bad move to fk an enemy. Not sure why so many people don't make that distinction, or why it took me years to figure this out too.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 06:30 AM
2

Right, there's a distinct disrespect for sentient life forms
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 12:47 AM
10

It's a big human rights issue on many levels
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 10:46 PM
1

yep. Wasted the first half of my life living for somebody else.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 10:46 PM
1

As an old person all I have left now is my memories. I'd hate it. However second chance to make some new ones...maybe I'd learn to deal.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 06:44 PM
4

How is this even a question? Your gender was imposed on you by society. Want intimacy, want power, want money, want a cheeseburger w extra onions. Want whatever you want to want. If other people don't want you to want what you want, to hell w those people.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 06:38 PM
1

Its true that they legit don't want to date a woman over 25. As one I am offended but also glad for the warning. I like a visible enemy...it's when you can't see who is against you that you have problems.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 06:19 PM
1

The Stepford life seemed like a dream to me. I was newly divorced, wanted the pain to stop, wanted to craft store my way out of personal responsibility. I'm not saying there are things about it, hard truths that can help but I soon learned for me it was a big pile of locked doors....and nothing else. If you have to forge your own path, it's not your place. IF the people don't get you, they aren't your people. There was literally nothing down that road that was going to be empowering for me.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 06:11 PM
1

I consider it a compliment, I like being a little outside the box. It's good that I'm proof that the usual box doesn't fit for a lot of people.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 05:51 PM
1

I become less binary over time. I lost an ovary, gaining a beard...you never know, I could be like Buck Angel one day. Sometimes it seems like a good option. For the moment I'm menopausal, and have double D's, a southern accent and long blonde hair. I'm like Dolly Parton with some chin hair, if you'll allow non binary I"d consider it a complement I'm an old soul and I absolutely "am" more than my gender. "AFAB".
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 04:53 PM
2

I've thought about this, Buck Angel looks great and he was born female. Nature has already made me non binary-ish. Why not go full on switch
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 02:10 PM
1

Please understand I am in no way trying to be rude when I ask these questions, I'm just trying to open your eyes to something...ok? 1.) Glad u like your clothes...why do u expect others to like your clothes? 2.) Is there a return on the investment? 3.) Will it save you if you are stranded on the highway or need to close a window that's stuck open? Most importantly do you think being beautiful is the only way to be empowered? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and any power that relies on other…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 12:48 PM
1

Look I don't hate you. I totally believe in personal liberty. If this worked for YOU that's fine. The main problem w the red pill is the one size fits all mentality.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 12:45 PM
1

Their lives revolve around other people's approval. That mantra to me helps me move forward from approval chasing.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 12:39 PM
4

You can help me change my tire if you want. I like doing it, I always remember the movie a Christmas story when the kid swears. I don't need any help, but I accept company
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 02:37 AM
2

.....(brain suddenly fires off list...professors, psychiatry, police, military, ex husband, ex boyfriend, lawyer, stalker, internet troll, ex's friends.....) **looks around empty room sees no one... Yeah, we're good nobody here.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 02:13 AM
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Sorry, I must not have been explaining myself the right way. We as adults do not need to police one another's grooming habits. Like at all. It's a personal choice all way around. If you are curious I like neon purple lipstic, long showers, naag champa perfume and I hate psychiatry. Personally I think that's tmi. I think red pill women is way too focused on this, very invasive subject. It's kind of fun..but it's also kind of a waste of thought in excess
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 12:45 AM
4

It's great to pamper yourself, it's odd to expect any other adults to react to how you pamper yourself
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 12:34 AM
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We women need to honestly evaluate what we actually are doing for male attention and see if we are still willing to do that if there isn't any.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 12:28 AM
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I sound right
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 12:21 AM
6

Exactly. I love being single all that crap goes out the window.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 11:30 PM
2

There is no alpha. Please let that sink in. You get to define your own purpose.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 08:39 PM
1

BDSM is a game. And once again what any consenting adults do in their own relationship is fine. Most of us are here in this space because we don't want individual liberty to suffer. Submission of any kind that threatens individual liberty is problematic. If you make a rule and it applies to you and your partner, that's between you and partner. If it spans out to the rest of us...then there is trouble.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 08:26 PM
1

It's accurate in my old needing to not be single I'd turn into quite the stalker once whoever he was quit calling me. Unfortunately once she's past the point of thinking of a relationship as her main goal you not calling could also make her assume you don't want her to call either. ie: "Once you feel you've bothered someone never disturb them again" I dislike games, I'd rather have honesty.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 08:25 PM
2

You do understand that death is better than submission almost always, right? There is no alpha, there is no tribe, there is only each individual human and individual authenticity. Nobody really gives a flat fig who anybody else bangs. We do give a crap if we loose out on liberty for ourselves and at the end of the day that's what it's about
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 08:05 PM
1

speak your truth even if your voice shakes
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 07:59 PM
6

Nice may not be useful when it comes to overcoming rejection but it's still valuable socially among the masses.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 07:58 PM
2

The economic reasons speaks volumes. Don't get me wrong we've all run for safety in a protector's arms, but my theory is we shouldn't have to.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 05:59 PM
0

Brilliantly put, love is worth more than a cult any day.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 05:50 PM
3

That social status thing is an interesting phenomenon. One I'd like to challenge. My friend's theory on my crush chasing the 25 yr old is that he needs someone to make him shine. I'd argue that you don't shine because of who you are with On the contrary if eyes are on them, they are not on you Furthermore if you know they are jut there for the money or attention it's a hollow victory. It's a hollow victory if they don't want your time as much a you want theirs. People should hold their own. That…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 02:39 PM
6

My crush's girl calls me "mom". I was insulted at first, but warmed up to it soon as she started calling him "uncle". Now I think it's funny and call her kiddo. She adores me and is so thankful I"m at least giving her legit compassion without ulterior motives unlike my former crush. Truth comes out in the wash. Love goes where it may.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 02:31 PM
2

Back and forth to me signals indecision. If he's chasing he'll know he's there, and why he's there. Wishing you the best outcome.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 02:21 PM
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I don't know that what I"m about to say has anything at all to do w the red pill either for or against. But here goes...hot and cold means he needs to shit or get off the pot. I had one like that and ultimately I lost him, but you need truth more than anything right now. So what you do is put him to some insanely easy task and see if he complies. Such as give him a specific email address to use and ask him to write you. Or don't call for a few weeks and ask him to call you at a specific time. Th…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 01:22 PM
3

Fine line between a partner and a potential, gratitude is a choice just like effort either way.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:49 PM
7

Salty implies emotion over facts. Taking the emotion out of it, doesn't get rid of it.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:47 PM
4

That sounds about right on the money. anything over ten years is significant.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:46 PM
3

When I was 21 I had a crush on a 38yr old...it was honestly a little too much gap. Same w the 32 yr old that was next. When I found 26 yr old guy, that was about right.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:45 PM
5

I agree with some of this. I never said I'm personally putting a barrier against older younger dating relationships, I have no power over anybody and don't want any. I only pointed that the red pill is wishful in thinking younger women are always ok with it. They are not. Also, I'm not "depressed" and "going through bitter shit.."...I am aging. Meaning my body is slowly dying a little bit. So are they. My point is the slow downward spiral towards dead is something that isn't specific to me. You …
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:39 PM
5

Who says I"m currently attracted to anybody? I called one asshole out who I am attracted to, but it'd be a lie to say he's not an asshole. Being hot for someone doesn't have to mean your head is in the sand or that hotness gives you a free pass.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:32 PM
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Guys who want twenty year old chicks are in competition w twenty year old dudes, point blank. If you think you can keep up, be my guest. It hurts getting older and realizing you can't.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:31 PM
5

I still think most of that is based on economic oppression not actual love or even lust. If it's all about money why are there cougars? Why do daughters disappoint their dad's by bringing home a slacker...almost always. You'll always have the gold diggers and the Anna Nicholes, but if red pill men don't want to date forty year olds...how do they think twenty year olds must feel about it. Age happens to both genders, just in different ways. It's not all about looks, some people want security sure…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:27 PM
9

That's today's culture right there. Always focused on the self and never on the partner. No need to work out to make your partner happy, no need to thank anybody either. We've created a culture of narcissism
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:23 PM
12

Oh wow, ur so right she is missing out on peer activities. Never thought of it like that but yep. Then say twenty years time goes by, she's the one who's forty he's either still at it and leaves her for the next young thing (seen it happen) or he dies on her. Either way it doesn't mean she's won anything in mid life by giving up on her youth
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 04:29 AM
24

That's what I was wondering. I am crushing on a nearly fifty yr old guy who wants a twenty five yr old. girl. I am just a year younger than him. He's beautiful...looks amazing. But he walks ten miles daily. I try so incredibly hard, to look good for my age but I'll never look 24 no matter how much I jog or how much kale and garlic I have for breakfast..you know I can't do it. Well I sat down and talked to her and she was like..."Ewe uncle "his name" ... ..that's just gross" She thinks of him lik…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 03:33 AM
1

Because dating is supposed to be a thrill. It's your right to date "sensibly" but it's rather like describing your food based on its caloric measurements and vitamin levels without ever once using the word "delicious". Also may I ad that you assume I"ve never dated reeks of projection. I already know my own life history so where would you get such an idea from, if not your own.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 03:09 AM
18

Remember your twenties? Did you want your dad's friend w bad breath, or the guy in the band. Sorry man it was pancakes with the garage band and the dudes w holes in their jeans over filet mingon with the professional sales guy in a suit. You only have one life. What can he buy that the garage band guys weren't giving for free? To quote pride and prejudice, "All things can be borne, all things except marriage without affection" - Lizzie Bennet from Pride and Prejudice.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 03:02 AM
5

Not saying it can't happen, but there are plenty more American Beauties that are not so happy w Lester Bernham hanging around.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 02:48 AM
1

No word of a lie, I think the same about you but in reverse. You sound like you have literally never dated before..to my ears. But you say you have. Maybe we need to agree to disagree.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 02:46 AM
1

I disagree with you therefore you've come up w a few degrading insults and assume I'm absolutely wrong about my entire life experience. I guess that makes sense, sure.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 02:33 AM
3

I can say this much. Neither great sex, nor a fat paycheck has ever happened because someone made a fruit pie from scratch. I wish I could just go rolling through Michael's craft store and come out the other end with all my shit together. lol
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 01:46 AM
5

I'd find it hard to imagine that women who take marriage so seriously would want to marry someone who hates women. The two ideologies might intersect but they don't fit.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 01:34 AM
1

Enjoy the cold hands you wind up with and the fire you missed out on. Tears and heartache be damned, I'll take the fire.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 01:34 AM
2

True love has opened more than one kind unfriendly heart to a hallmark moment.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 01:33 AM
0

And you sound like somebody who has never fallen in love or had your heart broken, or fell face down in the name of happiness and good sex. And you call me inexperienced.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 01:21 AM
3

Maybe I'm remember this wrong but I thought red pill women had said they are not related to or interested in dating guys from TRP. Am I misunderstanding something. I was told by somebody in there they are not the same thing
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 01:20 AM
1

Income level, driving history, age, number of partners, presence of disability, Meaning you think you won't date someone who only makes a certain amount per year or can't drive...or whatever your "no" box is. But then you fall in love w someone and prove you were wrong on all levels. Then you realize your boxes were shallow and the person is valuable
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:51 AM
1

I don't think there's totally a disagreement here. I'm simply saying that the usual check boxes are over looked when it's love. Love does not obey logic
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:49 AM
7

I noticed there are a lot of shaming tactics on that sub. I've been bashed worse on other subs than that one but it's not an especially warm place. I thought it was kind of kitschy in a Stepford sort of way...though totally impractical.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:42 AM
1

I'm not wrong about what I want.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:37 AM
1

Yes the red pill makes check boxes, Under thirty Size six or smaller Income at a certain level Like a job interview..they absolutely do. What I'm saying is if you really love someone w any luck your boxes are no longer applicable.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:36 AM
1

"If you won't have me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" -Marilyn Monroe
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 12:31 AM
22

Why are you ranking people like prize pigs in a county fair. I mean stop for a second and be ex red pill enough to think about that What the hell is a 4 or a 9? Who does that? Even the original definitions for hypergamy don't involve a numerical ratings scale like the olympics. Come at other people like they are your equals and your friends BEFORE anything else. You are not purchasing them, you are trying to bring them into your home and into your life.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 11:55 PM
1

And every check box has a tic mark? I bet it doesn't
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 11:51 PM
1

But the jealousy is a litmus test, then it means the glue holding the monogamy together is working. If you have another person in there it's just not monogamy anymore at all. You can call it "love" if you want to, but it's not the fairy tale...any. more. at all.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 11:50 PM
0

Why wouldn't it be? How can you say how all relationships work...I can at least admit I only speak for myself
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 11:48 PM
1

I've never really seen romantic love that allows for that kind of sharing without jealousy. Not saying it can't exist anywhere, just saying it's very hard for most people to wrap their mind around and it gives me personally a sense of grief and loss.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 11:47 PM
0

No Love is about wanting monogamy. You can't have polyamory and monogamy any more than a door can be open or closed. If monogamy weren't a thing that love craves nobody would give a f about cheating
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 11:44 PM
1

I'm Karen, I'm what they harass..and it's not fun. Lol.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 11:43 PM
1

Either souls and love are real or neither one is
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 11:41 PM
0

Nobody anywhere would think love is logical. "We are meant to fall in love with the wrong people, ruin ourselves and die" -Moonstruck
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 11:40 PM
1

It's kind of like pain, can be subjective and totally ignorable, but when it's your own heart you know it
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 11:39 PM
0

I'm not saying don't have standards, I"m just saying if you approach it like a job interview you'll never find it. Things that look great on paper, rarely are great in real time.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 09:05 PM
-5

Everyone has goals, but I think there's something mysterious, evasive and unplanned about love. Love makes you not want poly. Love makes fun of the life you thought you wanted before it shows up
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 08:56 PM
-8

If you fall in love (and I've done it before) the important things look less important. You don't control it, it comes in and then your perspective changes It's a mystery, but it's a thing.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 08:50 PM
5

Sex without love is like a day at a theme park without air
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 05:50 PM
2

These people are not in my life, they come up in droves from every corner
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 03:19 PM
1

It doesn't come natural. I've had to look through society for someone else to care about me and wasn't successful. I had to force myself to find ways to take care of me. I think daily about being better to myself, but I'm just one person. I have to be there for myself and I have to do it up against a wall of opposition it's almost impossible. That I keep going after being so hated is proof that I think I'm worth while. It' s not easy when you can't convince anyone else. It's me against the world…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 02:08 PM
10

Agreed. Women need to pay attention to this. It's not ok, and it shouldn't be ignored.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/21 06:09 PM
3

What is sexy about someone are usually their emotional wounds and broken places...and their willingness to share
/r/ExRedPill14/01/21 11:41 PM
3

Sex for me has a purpose and that is to emotionally bond with someone else. I literally don't get recreational sex...it makes no sense to me. If you understand "better alone than in bad company" then you understand Demis
/r/ExRedPill14/01/21 07:08 PM
1

I am demi, getting used causes me a great deal of emotional pain
/r/ExRedPill14/01/21 07:06 PM
1

We can chose to be vegan or not, we work the third shift, or the second shift, we found scientific ways to change how we think and feel, and even our bodies are now able to be changed with surgical intervention What we don't like about the natural world we find a way to change and what makes us human is the extent that we can write our own rules
/r/ExRedPill13/01/21 01:02 AM
6

lol. Nice.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/21 12:52 AM
1

I disagree, that there is more complications and more available solutions means the same rules do not apply.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/21 12:38 AM
9

Ok, you know what I do hear that and am a fan of antipsychiatry myself. However you don't have to recognize specifically NPD as valid to understand why that mindset would promote conflict, loneliness and toxicity. You probably still recognize some other problematic themes like toxicity, abuse, and power imbalance. You probably recognize the lack of deep meaning or connection in superficial relationships.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 11:43 PM
1

If you don't want to own your own superiority to the barn yard then I'm not one to stop you. But don't throw me under that bus with you.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 11:20 PM
2

I'm getting it, though you may not be. The point is animals rarely have a choice in what they do. They don't put thought into it. That we can think is one of many things that separates us from the animals. It's a "behavior" but human behavior has the added benefit of being able to be reconsidered or rationalized. This is why what applies to animals does not apply to people.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 10:13 PM
5

Well said.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 10:11 PM
2

Sure, there are all kinds of reasons. I like to start with recognizing pooping into your own hand...that's totally optional. Throwing it at someone else..also optional Eating your own vomit..not obligated to do that either
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 08:19 PM
1

I was hoping for a Dune TLDR ie: TLDR: "The worm is the spice, the spice is the worm, who controls the spice controls the world".
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 07:57 PM
2

As a female who has survived my gold being dug by male gold diggers I take exception to this. Chumps like us should support one another not blame the gender or think trp is the answer.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 07:53 PM
3

Exactly. At the time I was young and dumb. The perfect solution was to make my Ex the new parental unit.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 07:10 PM
6

Yes this is what I mean I was still with my ex in my thirties, so I didn't learn a lot I should have learned. Like how to change my oil or how to set up an account for ebay. It's little stuff, but somebody else did it, so now as a result I"m having to learn that normal stuff in my old age. There was always a supervisor dynamic in that situation, and in the end it caused me to be held back from a lot of things. Everything he did for me became something I failed to learn how to do.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 07:03 PM
2

There's tons of people who can't or won't. I'm sure there are things that you can't do for yourself....change a tire? Put on a new starter cap or muffler? Understand your credit score or how to change it? The world is complicated We all need a little help. The problem is when red pill women want to settle back and let someone else learn everything for them, the less you learn the less efficient you become
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 07:00 PM
1

I seem to offend absolutely everybody from there...men, women, mgtow, small kids probably hell I don't know Whatever it is they hate, I am that thing. Whatever they work hard at not liking or becoming is something I just "am". Everyone there is very busy in fear of becoming....me. And I like me.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 06:06 PM
2

Probably the same type of reasoning if a thief thought people should leave their doors open. Sure let's make it really easy for you... Signing a lease...what fine print? Holy shit. Yeah there's nothing quite like a lazy predator
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 04:46 PM
5

N count is an assumptive state. Take me for example. I haven't been laid since Obama was in office... I think... but yet somehow I get accused of partying way too hard or having partied way too hard because I"m both old and single. I wish I were having the kind of action they project onto their enemies. Hell maybe I wish I even once had the kind of action they think I did. The truth is, I don't have a bed post covered in hatch marks with a change dispenser on the door. The real truth is they jus…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 04:40 PM
2

The ultimate irony is the more power you try and have over somebody the less sexy you become. Remember the Duke from Moulin Rouge? We've all walked through our dukedom, a time or two but it's not pretty and it's something in ourselves we have to fight against. Kudos to anyone who stayed as unduked as they could.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 11:42 PM
2

What is most disturbing is that both rape and domestic violence affect men. That he'd wish abuse on anybody just makes him a predator, but the ignorance of thinking these problems only affect his hated demographic is really special.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 11:40 PM
9

Alpha males and Beta males were something that zoologists used to describe orangutans. It's just no way to look at human beings. If you can wrap your mind around that part you're half way home.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 11:38 PM
4

I speak as someone who three times was the bread winner in my relationship. At the time I thought it was empowering and I thought role reversal was the way to go. I was never single until now (at fifty), ok. So Here I am looking back and I realize...yes I'm thankful for a good career and I"m thankful that I always had sex with someone I wanted to have it with However, I also have to recognize that these dudes didn't love me, that they were using me and that they basically were just prostitutes I…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 05:44 PM
1

The cause if this logic is not as bizarre as it sounds. Women in their eyes are property. It's not that he suddenly cares about women because he cares about mom or daughter. It's like if you substitute the word "car" or "house". If someone wanted to pour acid on his house he'd have a problem but not pourin git on the house of an enemy. There is zero understanding of women as human beings.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 01:02 PM
2

It's terrible makes them all sound predatory
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 12:56 PM
2

I think we should start "Pig tow" or "people going there own way" That way it can be decided if you want to be part of a hate group or if you want to just be single.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 12:50 PM
1

Marrying for wealth is one of the most oppressive problems ever. Imagine the person you most want to be in bed with...picture them in your mind. Now imagine you NEVER get to enjoy that person's company, because you needed to marry someone for money. Now here you are instead with someone whose touch feels like a block of ice...but you have to stay there and pretend you like it because you have no where else to go. It's not dating up its just a form of slavery. If you had your own money you'd bang…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 11:40 AM
5

If she's in it for the money she's a gold digger. Point blank. What's the real difference if you want a gold digger who you can wine and dine or a gold digger with a savings account?
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 11:30 AM
6

There's so much wrong it's hard to know where to start. You can't mechanize love or objectify people and wind up with a good result.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 02:05 AM
2

Exactly if you think it's the responsibility of other people to make sure you are satisfied you're wrong just stepping outside your front door. Just visualize anybody you are not attracted to and imagine if they thought it was your responsibility to make sure they were happy...and if you didn't well they'd harass you. What would you think of them?
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 01:43 AM
3

I think having a sense of humor about myself is empowering, shows I"m not taking me too seriously. But I digress. As far as being a career criminal I mean things like stalking, sexual harassment, violence whatever the case At sixteen it doesn't mean much but in two years or so those things could be misdemeanors or worse. You both have a long life ahead and being temporarily out of luck right now has nothing to do with what the future will hold if you just improve yourself, meet people and ride i…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 01:37 AM
6

Why in the fuck do you think you are entitled to have anybody play with you? Let me put it another way, I'm a middle aged dried up bitch, ok I' know I'm probably not gonna get laid unless it's in a coffin and it pisses me off However...its not an excuse to turn into a career criminal. I recognize that my complete lack of hotness is nobody's responsibility but mine. You and your brother should do the same. Look at it this way, you guys have the future and you never know what the future holds but …
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 01:28 AM
1

When I'm talking about economic oppression I'm talking about marrying for money. It's not specific to men or women, anybody can marry for money. I guess the larger point is why would you want to have sex with a gold digger? Gold digging is a universal problem,, but if you bang a gold digger you are in essence banging someone who doesn't really like you. I hate to be pedantic in the way I talk about this but it's pretty simple. Using you for your money is not being hot for you, or caring about yo…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 01:20 AM
3

Everybody's looking for something and gold digging is the oldest trick in the book. I've seen people making twelve grand a year in a trailer get used. All about the haves and the have nots. That's not love.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 12:29 AM
1

But what you are missing is that the word "value" is totally subjective. If anyone is choosing a lover for any reason other than there personal attraction to them, that person is oppressed (either gender). If you marry for money, something is wrong that you are not making your own. I've even seen gay marriage this way where a young person from a poor country marries an old person from a rich country (same gender) so no it's about social and economic struggles and not specifically just gender.. I…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 11:51 PM
1

The biggest irony to me is that the red pill thinks its a dating strategy. You don't see any other hate group that goes to bed it's targets. Most of us when a hate group has us on the radar, read the FBI reports, lock the doors, look out the windows, use the block user function. For some reason there are women who want to open the door and their hearts for their would be attackers. No wonder you feel bad, give yourself time to heal.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/21 05:18 PM
1

https://ksassets.timeincuk.net/wp/uploads/sites/46/2015/07/TROLL-THUMB-920x920.jpg
/r/ExRedPill08/01/21 09:01 AM
2

Right but my point is attractiveness does not have anything to do with usefulness. You can be ugly af an a good doctor You can totally unsexy and be a great plumber, quilter, shop owner..whatever the case.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/21 08:59 AM
2

Who the fuk said anything about having children? My complaint was about a reddit post on an unrelated sub being absconded with for harassment.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/21 08:49 AM
1

Women avoid closeness because of physical imperfections and insecurity. The red pill ideology just breeds more of that "not good enough" lecture. This kills any chance of real connection, real romance and good sex. It often leads women to date men who they really don't want, and aren't attracted to just so they don't have to face the pain of and shame of bonding with someone they do like who could reject them. Looking at this way sex becomes a mechanical chore and the man's fascination with them…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 10:59 PM
2

That role reversal sub is totally brilliant. Thank you
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 10:35 PM
13

They are a hate group. I'm surprised reddit allows for them, and it's just a matter of time before the FBI starts on them. Just watched a video about people having been murdered by "incells". Not kidding..murdered by mgtow extremists.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 10:29 PM
3

Ageism is a real thing. Ageism being a real thing is a fact. Why do you think there's a counsel on ageing? It's one of the prohibited basis on which you can't use it to determine if you should or should not grant credit. Ageism is a real thing https://www.who.int/westernpacific/news/q-a-detail/ageing-ageism ............................ I left another post up here (mostly for your sake) about ageism The red pill claims to be about "dating" Well there is a difference between someone not being "hot…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 07:53 PM
2

Why wouldn't I? "Old" is relative to health, most people think this is a measure of disease. If Im healthier in 2021 than I was in 2002 what would that measure? Your speaking like an ageist bigot and its because of the red pill
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 07:39 PM
2

That sounds like the exact type of ageist brainwashing mgtow and red pill have wedged into your brain.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 07:36 PM
4

Here's hoping. But Im divorced I don't want another situation where I can't be on equal footing with somebody. I don't want somebody I have to compete with.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 07:11 PM
1

Working on yourself...it's empowering and disempowering at the same time. It's literally the least social and smallest thing you can do; however sometimes the small things do help.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 06:55 PM
1

Divorced
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 06:53 PM
6

Exactly. I'm learning mechanics now at 49, why I was so afraid of tools before is an incredibly sad testimony to my upbringing.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 06:35 PM
13

It sounds counter intuitive but I"ve found being single is harder but also more empowering. I didn't do it as a political move but it turned out that way. I'm lonely, I want love but I know I can survive without it and that means more.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:50 PM
2

I would have a robotic husband but I've been feeling super antisocial lately. I don't think its a good substitute for a real person. You said it all when you said "a robot shaped like.." That's it doesn't matter what a machine is shaped like, it's a machine.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:43 PM
2

So many things look good "on paper" but the reality is so different. Love is mysterious and maybe it should be. You can find someone who hits every tick mark, and not an ounce of spark with them, or spark with someone who seems "wrong" but changes you for the better.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:36 PM
2

It reminds me of Eugenics the far right kind
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:08 PM
13

Lol. Thank you. I can hope.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:06 PM
10

Congratulations. :-)
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 04:33 PM
1

Right. Even if you are an atheist America is dedicated to the proposition that all men are equal under the law. Or "created" equal and it can be argued that "creator" means your parents...or the writers of law. I agree it's not a gender problem the problem is agism, and ableism
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 04:07 PM
2

This is Red Pill brainwashing too...all human beings have the same "value". I appreciate you understand they are predators though
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 03:49 PM
2

But they accurately reflect my life experience thus far
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 03:17 PM
0

Geezuss that was a joke
/r/MGTOW07/01/21 03:16 PM
1

I know it's not a pretty reality is it?
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 02:35 PM
0

From your posts you seem to be in favor of anything that would decrease the world's population.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/20 07:26 PM
1

Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 10:21 PM
2

Thank you, solid advice
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 10:07 PM
5

Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 09:52 PM
5

thank you
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 09:08 PM
9

I put him on the deed is how, I did it as an engagement gift
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 09:05 PM
11

He is five years older than me, she is ten years younger than I am so all together she's fifteen years younger than him. Even though he is older than I am, I don't doubt he saw me as a way to survive in the long run. Mine was the bigger income for most of the years we were together. Yes it was a horrible thing to go through. Compared to war and famine its little but it was very hard to pick myself up. Thank you for your kind words.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 07:51 PM
27

I've been on a personal overhaul. I just finished a long court battle for the house, I was caring for my grandparents, I lost weight, made new friends, started yoga and am debating going back to school. It is hard to see how I could wait that long.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 07:49 PM
2

I have a platonic friend who is a swinger. By not sleeping with him and moving him into the friend zone I was able to save the friendship, and allow him the total freedom he craves. It may not be the answer you want but stepping aside some is always an option. If he wants you, maybe he'll chase. If not maybe you will still have a friend.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 07:20 PM
2

I can only speak to what I've experienced. I am capable of loving a man. For everything he is, and when he has nothing to offer. That being said the experience made my life harder and his easier. Also loving a man is not a guarantee that they will reciprocate. You can love him for everything he is, but if you're not what he wants your love doesn't mean much. I've had my love wind up being present only for my own neural entertainment.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 05:22 PM
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