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Not a single Indian man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:03 AM
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RIP, I don't know what's worse, knowing you're ugly like you or being delusional/in denial like me. At the end of the day I guess it doesn't really make a difference, we are both still incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:30 PM
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Do you like the way you look though? I think I'm pretty handsome but women have made it clear they don't think that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 01:44 PM
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TFW I'm an above average height Indian in the US with a big dick and I'm still incel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 01:16 PM
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But once again, you're placing the blame on the person with a shitty personality instead of the person desperate enough to put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 12:41 PM
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Definitely okay to lie to women to get laid. Almost impossible to have the life they expect you to have so you have to lie about some of it otherwise you are considered too boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:26 AM
2

Yeah unless mean quickly start giving each other emotional support like women do men will be worse off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:26 PM
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photoshopped Man the blue pill will really do anything to discredit what doesn't fit their world view
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 02:48 PM
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I'm am am incel that watches too much porn. I notice when I jack off to much daily I get ED symptoms, having trouble getting/maintaining an erection. If I stop watching for a week or so everything is back to normal though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 10:23 AM
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Lol she bought a fucking Xbox to impress boys and is trying to claim "society" made her this way. Remember folks, Niceguystm are all fat neckbeard virgins that need to get over themselves and their entitlement but Coolgirlstm are poor victims of societies brainwashing =(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 08:53 PM
1

Then I'm pretty surprised you don't think women are favored in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 01:25 AM
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Are you a woman? Download tinder and watch as hundreds of guys fight each other to take you out on a date, then say women can't be as picky as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:00 AM
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Why do you assume every man who hits on you just wants to use you for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:01 PM
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Lol what the fuck? Where do they say that in their comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:55 PM
2

I do, but I can tolerate unattractiveness unless it's in the form of obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 11:17 PM
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The only girls I considered unattractive are obese and I would never consider dating them anyway so it didn't really cross my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 09:33 PM
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For me it's a little of both. I thought "women shouldn't be imposed on by unattractive men" and I believed I was one of those unattractive men that should leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:52 PM
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Open up more race content. My only hope of escaping inceldom is understanding how to overcome my deficiencies and race is a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:13 PM
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Because humans crave intimacy and I can't get it. Growing up were you not bombard by messages that love and relationships and sex were massive parts of a healthy life? Imagine if no matter how hard you tried or what you did you couldn't get anyone at all to like you. Would you not look for answers to your problems anywhere you can? Many men feel this way and so they go online and TRP tells them they were playing the game completely wrong. TRP tells them what they need to do, and they cling to an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:28 AM
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I'm not exactly rp but I think they would say all 3 are bad. Actually being a slut means you don't have good personality traits for a LTR, and dating a girl that looks/acts like a slut negatively effects a man's social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:20 AM
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5 dates a week from tinder normal dude Somethings not adding up here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 02:02 AM
2

I'm not mad at the women, I'm annoyed at what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 01:50 AM
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just control the actions of others if you want social change You're a real critical thinker
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:44 PM
4

Why wouldn't I? All the benefits of being skinny without any of the work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:27 PM
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MUH GENETIKS Fucking lol. 66% of the country isn't overweight/obese because of genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:07 PM
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Because the same women that praise fat women are disgusted by fat men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:05 PM
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Women may not treat fat men with disgust, but they definitely do treat short men like most men treat fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:00 PM
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I guess that specific metaphor could be seen that way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 07:10 AM
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But you're proving the metaphor, to women it looks like they just chose whoever they were attracted to to have sex with, but to men they have to put in work to have sex. Those men that your friends had sex with probably felt like they were working towards that goal (sex with your friend) while your friend just decided on a whim to have sex with that man. I really don't see how the metaphor implies women want something more than NSA sex, it just implies women have sex when they want to, men have …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 04:37 AM
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It's amazing how often this sentiment is stated but women still wonder "why are men allowed to have a high N count and women are not". I'm sure every person has heard some version of this since they were 13, and I don't understand why women don't accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 02:07 AM
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Because realistically the average man and woman is overweight which is unattractive, and we want to see attractive people in our media.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 04:49 AM
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I can see the appeal she has to other people but her smile is very off-putting to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:12 PM
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Stone has a fucked up face
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:25 PM
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Are you serious? Both are very noticeably overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:24 PM
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Gymcel here, you're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:20 PM
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Ah yes, good ol Jam with the "all men are disgusting rapists" narrative back at it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 03:12 PM
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I agree, I would call that ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 09:08 PM
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What is your friends standard for ugly? Since most men are rated unattractive I feel as if you're friends were going for 5/10 dudes and calling them ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 05:31 PM
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Congrats, you're attractive enough that women won't instantly shut down conversation when you talk to them, not everyone else is as lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 05:21 PM
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If you're an average looking woman then put on some makeup and become a sexy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 03:50 PM
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But if you can get sex easily, then it follows that you can get a relationship easily. It might not be with a high value man, but it's a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 06:27 PM
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Best explanation for why being "nice" is bad for your dating life I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 05:37 PM
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Do you laugh because it's funny or because it's untrue?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 04:51 AM
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Ooh can you tell me I'm high value next
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:41 AM
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I'm only an incel but I would agree with what you said. The more interested I am in a person the more I want to communicate/work through things to make the relationship work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 11:48 PM
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FeelsIndianMan
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 06:35 PM
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Did you really have to make an entire post just to humblebrag? We get it dude, you're sooooooo alpha girls just want you for your body but it makes you sad =(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 01:20 AM
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If you're trying to imply something you're doing a really shitty job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:34 PM
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Those comments are gold
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 05:17 PM
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I'm saying it is about rape, he is saying is isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:16 PM
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It doesn't matter HOW you believe the bad things happen, the bottom line is you still believe bad things happen to bad people because they are bad people, which is the just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 03:38 PM
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Can confirm. Had a very overbearing mother when I was growing up and now I am an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:46 PM
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Rape culture has nothing to do with rape ????????????? You can't actually believe this can you? Also, yes, karma is a real thing You believe in the "Just World" fallacy. You can claim you don't think it's a mystical force, but you are still saying bad things happen to bad people because that's how the world works which is untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:43 PM
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You don't seem to understand what rape is, and therefore don't understand what rape culture is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 06:53 PM
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That rape culture statement is the dumbest thing I've read in a long time. In what world does putting great value on sex = rape? Doing morally ambiguous things to get sex is in no way comparable to rape. Lying to a girl about being a millionaire to get her to have sex with you is not rape. Edit: also "karma is a real thing" fucking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 04:59 PM
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I was born in America so I don't have an accent/hold western values, and my best friend (who is a Chad) calls me the "whitest guy he knows". I also have been soft-following TRP for a while so I've been lifting for about a year already, but it seems my SMV is still too low to get any interest from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 09:16 PM
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So should Indian men in America just give up? We don't have large communities to date within like black people do, and with us being so low on the totem pole of attraction is there really any hope? It seems like the time an Indian man has to invest just to be considered a dating option next to a white man can be spent doing more beneficial things, even if it means carrying the burden of loneliness around forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 08:14 PM
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Do you know any social niches where sleeping around is a common thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 05:48 AM
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Guess being brown in America is being doomed to a life of inceldom, what a time to be alive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 08:06 PM
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Is Florida considered the "real" south? I love living here but it might be worth moving if it really does hurt me that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 07:42 AM
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Only the top 10% of men are gatekeepers to commitment, where 99% of women are the gatekeepers to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 07:09 AM
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I've had some success with white girls, but I attribute that to me being very western.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 03:12 AM
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Yes, but born and raised in America
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 02:47 AM
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And if that salesman becomes the best he can be but still can't make a sale then what? Could that time have been spent better doing something that would eventually benefit him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 09:53 PM
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Is it not possible to be beta but have low self-esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:59 PM
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I am north Indian but I was born and raised in America so I don't have an accent/hold western values
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:58 PM
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I actually think I'm really handsome and love looking at myself in the mirror but I guess other people don't feel the same way about my face
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:56 PM
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You're a woman, you will always have thirsty men chasing after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:05 PM
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Where can I find girls like this in real life, not on Tumblr.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:57 PM
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Is an Indian born in America still omega? I don't know if learning game is worth it or if being Indian just tanks my smv too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 07:03 AM
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Them being picked for Time is of not significant. Time doesn't care about those women, they just want to ride the hype to increase their audience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 01:13 AM
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Yeah what the fuck? Who's out there saying I love you to their fuck buddy's?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:23 AM
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They are just riding the popularity of these claims to try and gain a bigger audience, no surprise and it's nothing of any significance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 12:06 AM
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Congrats, you killed the straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 07:38 AM
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Can the average women not get a bunch of men chasing after them online any time they want? Just go on tinder and see how many men the average girl matches with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 05:48 AM
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What the fuck is this bullshit? Delete this garbage
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 09:21 PM
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Preference is not equal to exclusively mate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 08:04 PM
13

Yeah too bad religion is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 04:18 PM
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This is the real answer. As an incel I can tell you we don't look at older men when we talk about Chads, we all know guys in our age range, in the same classes as us, that women flock to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 09:47 AM
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Be attractive and the women will find you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 07:31 PM
1

Not too bad, I wouldn't mind having those numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 10:46 PM
1

How many women approached you in college?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 10:22 PM
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Were they all really attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 10:04 PM
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Were they homeless while you dated them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 12:52 AM
1

Oh man the things she does to her asshole.... She's gonna need adult diapers when she's 40
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 02:02 AM
3

I kinda get the feeling you don't want an argument and instead just want to hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:29 PM
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You're the one calling the man in 2nd place a victim, I just said it wasn't ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:45 PM
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So is the message to all men not in the top 20% "be happy with 2nd place"? Something tells me a lot of men won't be okay with that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 05:47 PM
2

Good show, Titus is just too funny to not watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:21 PM
2

Is your flair an unbreakable kimmy reference?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:05 PM
1

Tfw I'm getting my degree in computer engineering rn and I'm an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 09:42 PM
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As a fellow below average man I sometimes wonder why guys like me bother holding out like you do. I understand intimacy is very important but I'd rather focus on my career and use the money I would have spent on a girlfriend on prostitutes instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 09:08 PM
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I liked your story
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 06:32 AM
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Good fucking answer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 07:18 AM
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Initiate touch. It is by far the best subtle hint you can give a guy that you're into him. When he makes you laugh lay a hand on his arm for a second, or if you want to be more direct put it on his knee/thigh. If he works out then give him arm a squeeze and mention how big it looks, or put a hand on his chest and say "omg it's so firm".
/r/seduction09/11/17 03:38 AM
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That used to be my favorite YouTube channel until YouTube made them take down 90% of their videos
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 09:28 PM
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Is it worth it for an Indian man in America to learn game? I feel like being Indian just tanks my SMV too much for any amount of game to make up for it.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 04:18 PM
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As an incel I think telling men straight up that they are ugly and will probably never be loved by a woman would make life a lot better. I think it's better to never have any hope than to have hope just for it to be crushed when you realize that you will never be up to anyone else's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:04 PM
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Is your husband as logically thinking as you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 01:50 AM
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Damn you're stone cold Atlas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:59 AM
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dating as an Indian man My time to shine
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:12 AM
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You're right, they should go to jail. But there will always be people who want to do bad things and they usually go for the "easy targets".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 06:28 AM
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I don't think they are afraid of women, I think they hear women complaining about "pushy assholes" so they think if they play the part of the polite passive guy women will eventually fall for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 12:25 AM
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It is really that hard to make sure you have a sober friend around when you go get blackout drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 02:58 AM
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The victim does have some responsibility to avoid rape though. Evil exists in this world and it's foolish to believe your actions don't influence other people. There are certain steps women can take that reduce their chances of being raped, why is it so taboo to suggest those actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 08:51 PM
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TIL holding women responsible for their actions is "rape culture"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 04:53 PM
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I'm pretty sure op doesn't know what manipulation means, they are just throwing it around as a buzzword when they don't have an actual argument
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 05:36 AM
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Have you seen the rates at which black people commit crime compared to white people? Why is it racist to draw conclusions from that statistic, but not sexist to draw conclusions from the rate of crime between men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 11:40 AM
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But my momma won't let me get tattoos =(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 01:34 PM
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Atlas use your godly wisdom to teach me how to be successful in the western SMP as an American born and raised Indian man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 07:03 AM
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Teach me how to not be a subhuman curry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 02:21 AM
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Bong rips 4 Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 09:33 PM
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I'm a daily stoner and still suck with women RIP. Ps: literally taking bong rips while I post this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 08:55 PM
1

Are you brown or are you Indian? I feel like being brown such as Latin/Mediterranean is much more preferable to being Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:38 PM
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I do most of that already, except no six pack (but I am fit) and no car. I'm just too low value in the American SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:33 PM
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Eh you're right, but as an average Indian man I'm severely disadvantaged compared to an average white man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:09 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:03 PM
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Since I'm a curry in the west I'm about a 3/10 to all the women around me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 06:40 PM
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I actually tell everyone in real life I have a "technically not a micropenis because it's 1cm above the cutoff". I like to think of it as reverse bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 10:14 PM
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I don't think they let people under 21 into bars
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:42 PM
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Thanks man (or woman? Idk)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:42 PM
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Nah he was angry she went to a single guys house drunk and alone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:01 PM
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We don't penalize women for choosing family over their career. Every choice in life has sacrifices, it just so happens more women sacrifice their career for their family then men do. Before you say "see, shouldn't more men be sacrificing their career?" That's a problem women have to solve by themselves. They need to tell their husband "you stay home and take care of the kids while I work" and if he can't agree to that and the women is not willing to give up her career, then don't have a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 05:03 PM
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I've considered myself incel for a while. 1st generation Indian. I want to try RP but I have no idea where to meet women to try it out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 04:45 PM
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Yeah but I have yet to meet one that's cool with me eating beef/smoking weed etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:41 AM
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Nah I wear expensive cologne so I smell good as fuck, exactly 6in dick, and I'm not sure how to look masculine vs cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:40 AM
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This will probably just make your son resent you instead of thinking "wow, she's right, sex isn't everything as a 23+ male virgin!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 04:32 PM
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Eh I think it's different for male and female virgins though. Women can lose it anytime they want, they know they are desired for at the very least the thing between their legs, so they go into social interactions less desperate than men. That probably helps them a tremendous amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 04:30 PM
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I wanted to go to my university's ballroom dance club but pussied out since I'm a single guy, maybe I'll give it a try now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 08:03 AM
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I'm sorry if this doesn't relate to the OP but I want to ask you something. If he had traveled around the world at an earlie age, like 3-19 about 1 or 2 trips abroad a year, do you think that would be enough "life experience" to make it worthless to travel alone while older without his family?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 07:01 AM
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If you check my post history I have pics where I pretty much fit the op perfectly but I'm a 20 year old virgin not willingly. I think you underestimate how bad some men are with women if you think all average 23+ virgins are virgins willingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:57 AM
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Do you think a man 20+ should get a hooker for himself if he's a virgin even if he knows it's it's a hooker?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:53 AM
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You think a man should lie about being a virgin when he is past 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:50 AM
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You don't think it's weird for a guy to turn up to dance class/other activities alone? I feel like women automatically avoid men that are alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:49 AM
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If it was someone who didn't have parents that cared, would you advise him to get a few hookers of his own?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:42 AM
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Damn I wish you were my parent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:36 AM
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What's the best way to find your "niche"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:31 AM
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This describes me almost exactly, I'm 20 not 22 but I do go to an urban coastal university. Hopefully these responses have some good advice I can use to save myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:27 AM
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Idk man you think so? I saw that okcupid2 study where it showed black women and Indian men as the least desirable groups
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:21 AM
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I'm in Florida which is technically the south but is a swing state so I experience a little bit of racism but never enough to seriously complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:21 AM
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Hell to the yes. If I'm still a virgin when my parents die I would love the option to end it professionally instead of splattering my brains across a wall and making some poor soul clean it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 10:29 PM
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I think the majority of guys that want to stay friends after the rejection still secretly hope that they can change her mind over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 10:25 PM
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Do you all think it's worth it for an Indian guy in America to learn game? I consider myself incel mostly because of my skin color, I just think it tanks my SMV and RMV way too much to ever be an option in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 10:23 PM
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Yeah, it's dumb to think women will approach anything but the top tier of men, and since these top tier men have all these women approaching him he has no reason to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 09:19 PM
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Being in the bottom 30% doesn't sound normal to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 06:41 AM
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the 30th percentile for age of virginity loss in men is about 18-19 Holy fucking shit TIL I'm in/below the bottom 30% of men Jesus christ that feels bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 04:20 AM
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Ah my bad I should be clearer. "Hey" and a "well thought out message" both have the same response rate. So in the time I type out that "well thought out message" to 1 woman I could have sent "hey" to 30 women, where those 30 women all have the same chance to respond as the original 1. That's where the perceived higher response rate comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:18 PM
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Most of the messages just say hi or hey because most men have already tried the "well thought out" message route. If you get the same response rate from sending "hey" as you do a witty message why spend the extra time thinking of that personalized message when you could message 30 girls with "hey" in the same amount of time and have way bigger chance of someone replying back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 02:38 PM
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not drowning in messages only 2-3 messages a day Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:23 AM
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Don't worry about sounding cringy man. These people want you to either just "get it" or will shame you for not "getting it" and trying to learn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 11:56 AM
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I was a loser virgin in high school and wanted to change that when I went off to college. I worked out 6x a week for 12 months and got in great shape, still a loser virgin though. I WISH great body >>>>> anything else but past experience tells me that isn't so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:45 AM
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Weirdly enough I know a very attractive set of 2 brothers that are semi professional water skiers and enjoy Latin dance. But to be fair they are kind of d-bags in most other parts of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:31 PM
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Why does this sub make you feel worthless for being female? If anything it should reinforce the idea that women have all the value in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 07:00 PM
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The sheer amount of men interested in you must mean at least a handful of them share your interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 06:54 PM
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I agree attractive men having fun will draw women to them. But unnatractive men will never have women come to them, they have to actively pursue women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 06:37 PM
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Slowly coming to terms with the fact I'm incel. So fellow incels, give me your best coping methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 06:23 PM
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I can easily be friendly with new people I meet but that doesn't mean I form a long lasting friendship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 09:16 AM
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I want to go to parties but I don't know anyone so I never get invited, I do occasionally use tinder but I get bored with it pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 05:29 AM
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What 1 on 1 activities do you invite girls to? When I get 1 on 1 with my buddies it usually us getting high and playing video games
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:17 AM
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When I say they are not interest in me I don't mean I don't bother trying, I mean I get their number and set up a coffee date, then get ghosted, stood up, texts ignored, last second flake etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:29 AM
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Ignored texts, ghosted, stood up, etc. If I know I will see them again (they are in my lecture/friend of a friend) I'll wait 2 or 3 times before I get their number, if I know I won't see them again then I ask for their number during a high point in the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 12:44 AM
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Going about getting women interested in me? If I like I girl I'll talk to her directly, keep strong eye contact, if I feel she's being receptive I'll ask her number and the next day (fuck waiting 3 days) I'll text her and set up a coffee date
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 12:25 AM
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My hobbies are weightlifting, woodworking, and investing (and admittedly I do spend some of my time in video games), I'm joining a college intermural soccer league with my current friends this upcoming fall. My issue is not making friends, it is getting anyone romantically interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 12:04 AM
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Your assuming these girls WANT to come over and I'm just not asking, the issue is these girls have 0 romantic interest with me to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 12:01 AM
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No, he said "I did what I like to do and a relationship fell into my lap". Sorry but for us less attractive guys we have to ACTIVELY pursue a relationship instead of waiting for a girl to express attraction in us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:45 PM
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As much as I hate to be that guy but.. women ARE attracted to the d-bag mentality, and if I can't get laid as I am now why is it wrong of me to change to how the guys that do get laid act?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:44 PM
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I'm fairly narcissistic in my head so I think I'm a 9/10 but realistically I'm a 6. I'm 5'10 so my height isn't a problem, as for approach if a girl sits next to me in lecture I'll crack a joke about the class and see her reaction and move on from there, or if I'm on the shuttle to/from campus I'll use a compliment to start a conversation such as "Your shoes/bag/earrings match your outfit very well" and gauge her reaction and take it from there. I don't think many people realize how soul crushin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:40 PM
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I doubt it's my personality as I have no problems making friends with new acquaintances, I have asked a girl friend for advice but she says she doesn't see me do anything wrong with other women, I guess at some point you just have to throw in the towel and realize that it's not meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:35 PM
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I workout 6x a week, get a haircut every 4 weeks to keep it clean, go clothes shopping with my girl friends to ensure I have decent style and all my clothes fit well, I approach women at my college and yet I'm still a virgin loser. What is wrong with me? When you follow BP advice for so long and still have nothing to show it really destroys you on the inside even if you don't let other people see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:12 PM
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Both, women are the sellers in this market and the buyers have to come to them for what the buyer wants. All the seller needs to do is advertise their product.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:47 PM
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This is where TBP falls flat. What is anyone supposed to do with "be awesome and get someone awesome"? This leads to a feeling of hopelessness that you either have "it" or you're going to be a FA virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:46 PM
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Step 1: Get a high paying job Step 2: Collect your salary. Now why are you not rich? TRP offers ways and detailed explanations to generate attraction, TBP plainly states "be attractive". Do you not see the difference or are you purposely ignoring it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:40 PM
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I don't mean to be rude but women really have no need for a dating strategy. At the most it's put on makeup, be thin, and wait for a man to approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:12 PM
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And everything but potatoes are not potatoes, I would like some specifics if you have any such as TRP offers kino, dread game, abundance mentality, what does TBP offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:11 PM
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So TBP only works if you have a large social circle and actively go out with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:07 PM
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That's a very nice way of saying nothing. "Don't be a mysogynist" is as useful as saying "don't be a murderer"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:07 PM
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So your admitting TBP is nothing but useless platitudes that get reposted every time someone wants dating advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:05 PM
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having called the police on anyone Uhhh are you serious? "Witness someone getting murdered? Better not call 911 or you are not a real man!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:11 PM
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Ah my old enemy, false pay gap statistics, we meet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 05:40 PM
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I'm just thrilled as a 19 year old guy who doesn't plan to stop working out any time soon my SMV is just gonna go up with all the extra fatties around
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