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ADVICESobinia/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 06:32 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTSobinia/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 04:59 PM
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FIELD REPORTSobinia/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 10:22 PM
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DATING ADVICESobinia/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 10:49 AM
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DISCUSSIONSobinia/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 04:11 PM
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DATING ADVICESobinia/r/RedPillWomen17/08/19 11:18 AM
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Sobinia/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 10:27 AM
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LIFESTYLESobinia/r/RedPillWomen01/09/19 05:08 PM
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ADVICESobinia/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 09:06 AM
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DATING ADVICESobinia/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 08:29 AM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTSobinia/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 10:23 AM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTSobinia/r/RedPillWomen26/08/19 01:55 PM
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ADVICESobinia/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 09:15 AM
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Sobinia/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 07:20 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGESobinia/r/RedPillWomen13/11/19 04:37 PM
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Sobinia/r/askTRP16/11/19 01:09 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTSobinia/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 09:43 PM
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ADVICESobinia/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 10:29 AM
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In case you didn't know, calling someone a "white bitch" is racist
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 08:42 PM
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Not all. Some examples include: ​ Single motherhood. If a man gets a woman pregnant, all he has to do is pay her child support and, in some cases, visit the child on weekends. Women, on the other hand, are stuck with their offspring for at least eighteen years. Men are less likely to get raped, beaten up or have their boundaries crossed when hooking up because they are on average physically stronger than women. It is on average easier for men to disconnect sex from love, since they are biologica…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:56 PM
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When you're on top, you are literally so into him, that you're sitting on his manhood and getting off. You're actively taking part in intercourse. Let that sink in.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 09:30 PM
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Exactly. But it can minimize the chances of ending up with a cheater.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 08:34 PM
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Every person has the propensity to cheat, but not every person will act on such propensity.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 07:27 PM
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Here are some examples of tattoos fading over time: https://www.boredpanda.com/tattoo-aging-before-after/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic And here's an article discussing the potential substances that can be found in tattoo ink: https://www.nontoxicrevolution.org/blog/how-toxic-are-tattoos
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/20 11:02 AM
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Tattoos stay on your body forever and as years go by, they tend to look worse and worse. That's an indication of not planning ahead for the future Tattoos are painful to get and they serve no practical purpose. The ink that's used to crrate tattoos is often toxic and cancerous. That's an indication of not caring about your health.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/20 07:55 AM
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It's fine! You have the right to be nervous and I understand that you might prefer to settle down now, when you have the ability to attract the best man possible.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 11:31 AM
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You're 22, not 32. Unless you look 10 years older than you are, you can relax. Even if you start from scratch now, you are still in your prime.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 06:59 AM
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I've been treating it more like a red flag: I didn't match with overweight men or message them first. As to not responding to men that demand an explanation for not wanting to date them, I think that's a good idea. If they politely ask, though, should I provide them with the reason and be honest? Also, the line about not giving out my number to people I haven't even talked to sounds like a decent idea. I'll implement it more often. As for the vibe, I'll DM you the links to both of my profiles in…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 08:45 PM
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Yea, I mean "keep talking", in case their personality somehow outshines their looks. I once had this happen to me. The guy was quite witty, funny and he told me that he'd been working on losing weight for the last two months. We talked a bit about fitness, our weight loss journeys and I'll be seeing him on Friday. If I didn't continue the conversation, I would have most likely skipped past a decent guy.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 08:14 PM
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If he lifts, then I'm obviously swiping right ;) When I said "overweight", I meant "overweight because of extra fat".
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 08:08 PM
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It's mostly guys that ask me out on a date after 1-10 messages and that haven't matched with me. In order to keep the messaging going, I have to reply to them or match with them. Also, it happens quite often (about 10% of all my DM's) that a man messages me without matching, I try to give him a chance, but instead of having a conversation, he asks for my number or to meet up and then I tell him that I'm not interested. He proceeds to ask why that is the case, and I tell him that it's because of …
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 07:51 PM
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I want their BMI to be in the healthy range, without too much extra body fat, though I prefer those on the skinnier/more muscular side. If his BMI is in the higher range of normality, though, it wouldn't be a deal breaker.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 07:44 PM
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I have a question. I'm relatively thin (55 kilograms and 170 cm. tall) in spite of the fact that I have a tendency to gain weight. I simply control myself. Therefore, I have set being overweight as a hard deal breaker for men, because of: aesthetic reasons it being is a clear sign that you have problems with delaying gratification it meaning that you don't care for your health it meaning that you have trouble consequently working towards your goals (I've noticed that the percentage of men that h…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 06:21 PM
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That's why one must vet to see if he is even willing to become engaged, marry, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 06:08 PM
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She should, but when it comes to some men, it's almost impossible to inspire milestones in them.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 11:21 AM
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You didn't hurt anyone. Nerdy Bartender isn't your girlfriend, and the Drunk Girl could have regretted sleeping with you and accused you of rape on the day after.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 08:22 PM
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I've been reading lots of your posts and you seem to have major self-esteem issues. If I were you, I'd work on them first before trying to look for a Captain. Otherwise, you will only attract losers and low-value men.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/20 09:39 AM
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Kissing isn't as big of a deal as sex is, unless you are dating within a community that places a huge emphasis on purity. After all, you aren't risking pregnancy and most STD's if you kiss someone. In my opinion, the best time to start kissing your partner is once you are dating exclusively or you're in the beginning stages of the relationship, which usually happens on the first 3-4 dates. If you kiss your potential partner on the first date, though, it isn't that much of a huge deal.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/20 09:31 PM
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Recovering from alpha widowhood is very much possible for OP. She's still young, her N-count is low and she hasn't gotten dating fatigue yet, allowing to attract an equally good or better partner. Most alpha widows are post wall and blue pilled.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 09:35 AM
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You're 22. Get a job and you'll be able to pay for the nose job yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 08:49 PM
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If a man has issues with being monogamous, he'll cheat on you even if you'll be ready to sleep with him every day.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 06:26 AM
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Men are conquerers. They enjoy overcoming shit tests, holding frame and earning a woman's submission. If they realize that you are submissive to every man, they might subconsciously worry that they will easily get you to cheat on him or leave him, or that you're a low-value woman. Of course, there are boundaries to being sassy and "hard to get". If you act disrespectfully towards your boyfriend for a long period of time, he will eventually dump you, unless he's an omega male. Therefore, I'd reco…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 08:58 PM
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Just because she isn't a virgin, doesn't mean that she has an entirely casual approach to sex. Also, if she'd been with 2000 men, then yes, it would make a difference, since she would be more likely to have STD's, her brain would be accustomed to one-night stands and psychological issues. Something would have prompted her to sleep around that much, after all...
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 05:20 AM
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Resting bitch face. It's a cold and mean look on your face, indicating that you're not a nice person.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 07:53 AM
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You might be too invested then. Tell him when he asks you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 07:51 AM
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Perhaps he was honest, though? He's her boyfriend, after all, not her simp.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 07:29 AM
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Looks matter when it comes to being approached, sure, but a man won't go up to a model if she has an RBF. If you smile at him, though, his fear of being rejected will weaken and he'll walk up to you even if you aren't a 10/10.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 07:25 AM
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In Poland.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 05:42 PM
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I usually wear trousers and long-sleeved shirts that cling to the body or t-shirts that are a bit more loose. I sued to tuck them into my pants, but that usually ended up showing that I don't have a small waist, so I stopped doing so. As for shoes, I usually wear sneakers and sandals. I wanted to appear thinner because there's a LOT of fat-shaming (sorry for the SJW term, but I don't know what else to call it) going on where I live. If a woman weighs 60 kg.'s, she's considered fat by many people…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/20 08:47 AM
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Sure, but: What if you get the teacher pregnant? What if she regrets everything afterwards and accuses you of rape? What if everyone finds out because of you bragging about it and the teacher goes to jail or loses her job, depending on where you live? What if the teacher didn't like the sex and ruined the rest of your days at school for you? Fulfilling a fantasy isn't worth such consecquences, and the list of them could go on.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/20 08:34 AM
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Life isn't a pornographic film and there could have been some severe consecquences if you had actually come across such a "teacher".
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 09:17 PM
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I've been doing that excercise for a while now and it actually works. It improves waist to hip ratio by making the waist smaller, and therefore the hips appear wider.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 09:10 PM
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Probably that as well. I've been experiencing quite a bit of it due to moving out to the other side of Poland.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 05:45 PM
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It's in the process of getting fixed, since part of my workout are spine exercises.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 05:19 PM
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I'll definitely look into that, just subscribed to that sub. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 01:11 PM
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That's probably the case. Almost all of my fat is stored on my abdomen and stomach. Add lordosis to the equation and maintaining a flat stomach can be really challenging.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 11:50 AM
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Yes, 30 minutes per day.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 11:26 AM
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There are lots of things you could do that don't involve PIV sex and can give both of you pleasure. As for fixing the situation now, initiate first. Your boyfriend is probably waiting for you to do so, since he's probably not sure when the bc will start working. If you don't feel like initiating PIV sex yet, try making out or having him touch/perform oral sex on you, if that's his thing.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 12:48 PM
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Validation Attention Company Cuddles Emotional tampon Stability Back-up source of sex when chads don't want her Free meals Gifts She's in a relationship like her friends
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 09:15 PM
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She was maintaining you as an orbiter while she was in an LTR - or perhaps even used her boyfriend as a placeholder. Big red flag.
/r/RPChristians23/05/20 08:39 AM
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Sarah Therése. She's a minimalist, christian and mother of three.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/20 06:25 PM
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You do you, but: - Don't virgin, traditional Turkish women (I assume that that's who you'll try to date for marriage) want to marry a man that's also a virgin or has a low N-count? How are you planning to navigate this? - Most "chaste virgins" (those that don't sleep around due to their beliefs or value system, not because they are ugly, "technical virgins" or afraid of intimacy) are withholding sex until marriage. Are you willing to wait? - There's this guide about vetting for sexual compatibil…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 03:53 PM
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I think Australian women can be quite similar to American ones, at least to an outsider's point of view, so his videos should give decent advice about dating in your country. He even did street interviews in the USA! Also, if all else fails, I guess you could try to date overseas :P
/r/RPChristians16/05/20 01:09 PM
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Well, if there are lots of virgins in Turkey, then go ahead and look for one if that's what you really want. Just remember that virginity isn't a guarantee of a girl being good wife material.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 12:05 PM
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Try watching Alexander Grace's videos on YouTube. He's redpilled, but against MGTOW. You seem like a decent man and if you put in the proper amount of work, you should be able to find your SO. Also, have ypu tried volounteering? There are lots of high-quality women helping homeless people, animals at shelters, etc.
/r/RPChristians16/05/20 08:58 AM
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It's hard to find non-virgins in their 20's these days, even in places like Eastern Europe. They are usually either very religous, ugly, are afraid of intimacy (due to trauma, body image issues, etc.), "technical" virgins (ones that have anal and oral sex to avoid having their hymen broken), have a low sex drive or suffer from mental issues like Asperger's Syndrome. If I were you, I wouldn't look for a virgin (but if you find one, then good for you!), but instead, date girls that can count the a…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 08:36 AM
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Perhaps some eomen enjoy his company, and are spending time with him willingly? There are women out there that are into casual relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 11:06 PM
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I did, today. Wish I could watch the stream, though...
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 10:46 PM
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I am stuck on this one guy, then. I was doing quite well on forgetting about him, but then, a song we used to listen to popped up in my recommendations on YouTube and everything I've worked on so hard was destroyed. Once again. I didn't even turn that song on...
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 08:06 PM
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Avoid him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 07:58 PM
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I wish I had a beta-cuck pilot like that :P That's a prime example of exploiting an orbiter to the maximum.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 07:54 PM
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This was really wholesome to read! I'm glad you found your SO!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 11:19 AM
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Yea, traveling with another person (especially if it is a tough-looking male) is a good way to deter such perverts as well.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 03:28 PM
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A rapist could easily disarm you and use the knife against you. Also, odds are that if you try to defend yourself with it, you could accidentally kill the assaulter and get in trouble because of that. Therefore, if I were you, I'd replace the whistle with a can of pepper spray. It's easier to use and, though less deadly than a blade, can still easily help you defend yourself. I'd also recommend taking a self defense class, in case one of these degenerates tries to go a step further.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 03:10 PM
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Betas, with their laziness and whiny attitudes, can be toxic as well. Anyone can be a bad person, regardless of status, age, gender, race, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 07:54 AM
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Thanks for the compliment, but I live in Poland, where the obesity rates are much lower than in the USA and UK, so being thin might not be enough.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 08:57 PM
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He'll enter his prime in 8 years and if he won't be married at that point, he'll probably date women that are hotter than his current girlfriend - and at the age of 28, I definitely won't be one of those women. In fact, he'll most likely be far out of my league.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 08:45 PM
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If bisexuals can be friends with people of the gender they're attracted to, then so can straight people.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 08:08 PM
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I love how you insult my friend because you ran out of arguments :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 08:06 PM
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How do bisexuals manage to have friends, then? Do they orbit every single one of their acquaintances in hopes of getting into their pants?
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 07:58 PM
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You're right. It's easy to find men that have a low n-count because no woman wanted them. That's the bottom 80% of men in the west and bottom 70% in Eastern Europe. However, finding a man that could have slept with many women, but has a relatively low n-count because he only had sex with people he loved/was in a committed relationship with is just as hard to find as it is to find attractive women with low n-counts.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 07:56 PM
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He has a girlfriend that's 10x more attractive than me and we sometimes go out as a group of three, but that totally makes him my orbiter!
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 07:46 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 01:50 PM
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I'm so angry that I missed this stream! Is there any place where I could re-watch it?
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 01:05 PM
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That's true... I myself have been friends with a guy for over three years, though, and he wasn't orbiting me and neither was I orbiting him, so it is possible to maintain a male/female friendship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 11:20 AM
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While I wouldn't marry or get into an LTR with a guy that is a virgin because no woman wanted him, I'd also avoid men with an N-count that's higher than 5 if he was from Poland, where the hookup culture isn't that developed yet, or higher than 10 if he was a westerner. Why? The higher the N-count, the larger the chances of someone having an STD. If someone has had lots of casual sex in the past, chances are that his approach to sex will remain casual in the future. I'd be worried that, because h…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 10:56 AM
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Nice username! Also, have you ever checked out Alexander Grace? He's also worth watching.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 10:22 AM
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If you get too beta, then sure, they'll leave, because you won't be providing a subconsious sense of safety for them. If a man is afraid of and submissive towards a woman, who is weaker than him, then how will he protect her and her offspring from real threats?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 10:18 AM
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No, it's not normal. Most men don't make such offers unless they are certain that the other person's attracted to them. Also, you shouldn't be sending mixed signals their way either (at least at first). Avoid spending time with them one on one. Don't talk about sex. Maintain your common hobbies, goals and interests. Don't flirt with them, even lightly. If you wouldn't say something to a girl friend, don't say it to a guy friend. Edit: TL:DR Be clear about your intentions both through actions and…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 08:15 AM
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Friendships with men are possible, as long as both of you made your intention to keep things platonic clear and are sticking to it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 08:06 AM
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Who's more chaste, OP? A woman that sucked off 10 men, had anal sex with 5 others but still has a piece of hymen between her legs, or one that was assaulted, but hasn't been willingly sexually active before or after that incident? If you aren't giving your chastity away, then you aren't giving away your virginity, at least in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 06:42 PM
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Interesting... I'll definitely try it out, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 12:03 PM
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How exactly do you mask your accent? I've been learning Russian for for three years and even when I was in my "prime" russian-wise and people could barely tell the difference between me and a native speaker as long as I texted them, once I had to speak to them in person, my heavy accent immediately gave away the fact that I'm Polish.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 11:08 AM
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Yes, you can get married! In fact, having an N-count of zero could have been a bigger red flag than sleeping with one guy, because it could be an indication of: you being afraid of physical intimacy you having a negative attitude towards sex, as if it were some sort of sinful and dirty act you having a low libido The only thing I MIGHT recommend is not waiting to have sex for marriage, since you allowed your college boyfriend to sleep with you before wifing you up. Instead, I'd wait until you ar…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 09:18 AM
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IMO, cohabitating without marriage isn't that bad, as long as you aren't making decisions that might affect the rest of your life (having a child, taking debt for your SO, etc.) because of that person. Living with someone before the wedding can help you learn about his habits, weather or not you can take spending most of your days with him and if he's a good match for you on a day-to-day basis.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 02:37 PM
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Biologically speaking, a man's job is to impregnate as many women as possible, whereas a woman's goal is to raise a child with a top-quality male. Because of that, women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. In order to get into an LTR with a high-quality man, a woman needs to have high RMV, which is what RPW focuses on. Men, on the other hand have trouble getting laid, so TRP tries to help them fix their SMV's.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 07:52 PM
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If you are taking risks that could affect the rest of your life for this guy, such as having children, quittimg your job or school, then you are playing wife.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 09:38 AM
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That's true, but even if you are a male supermodel from tinder, you have to meet up with your matches at some point and if you act very beta IRL, you won't get much success either.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 09:23 AM
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Did you get your hormones checked for PCOS? You sound like you might have this issue. Please, please PLEASE do so ASAP! Even if your parents say that you're making problems up, get ANY trusted adult to go to the doctor's with you. This can fix the way your body looks, but you need to act FAST. As for the rest: ​ extremely dry unkempt hair Use moisturizing shampoo and oil your hair once a week. Brush it every day and wash your hair every 2-3 days instead of every day. ​ uneven skin all over my fa…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 03:22 PM
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Although cheating and divorcing someone and taking half their assets is a terrible thing, I don't think it's a reason for a woman to end up on the streets if she remained a dutiful wife prior to when the relationship went downhill. If she went into full on Karen mode after marriage, watching soap operas all day and wasting your money on makeup, then sure, kick her out. If she contributed to the household by taking care of it well (cooking, cleaning, looking after the kids, doing the laundry, bei…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:21 PM
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You're her orbiter that she's using for attention and valiation. She might be a bit into you (highly unlikely) but not into you enough to put out. If she really wanted to sleep with you, she would have done so by now.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:49 PM
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Six pack abs and height and shit might help you feel confident, but they won't make you an alpha/sigma for you.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 08:31 PM
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How come the most popular term searched on porn sites is "teen", then and why did girls get married when they were 16-20 back in the days of the patriarchy, if they are in their top prime looks-wise at the ages of 20-25?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 09:37 AM
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17 isn't that young. Most women actually enter their top prime around the age of 16 and remain in said prime until around 20-21. To me, liking a 17 year old's picture wouldn't be a red flag, but liking a 13 year old's would.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 07:13 AM
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You're welcome! Poland might seem as a great country, sure, but you still need to be careful. Many women will gladly marry a western man just for his resources and a ticket out of their country, so you'll still have to vet carefully. As for the term SAHM, it is a Stay at Home Mom. That's a woman that stays with the kids and takes care of the home.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 09:42 AM
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AWALT, regardless of race. Also, even if you get a Saudi Arabian women that hasn't even held a man's hand before marrying you, odds are that once she comes to the west and gets her green card, she'll start acting like a typical western woman. I'm from Poland and in theory, the women here should be amazing LTR material. In reality, there's just as many females treating their beta spouses like trash as in any other country. The only differences between a statistic Polish and western woman are: The…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 06:57 PM
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You became too beta and entered her frame. Because of that, she lost her respect for you and once a low quality person looses their respect for someone and knows that there won't be any negative consequences to their behavior, they'll abuse you, accuse you of absurd things, gaslight you and destroy the family.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 06:43 PM
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Lol no. It will create an abundance and further the black market for underage trafficking. I live in Poland, where prostitution is legal and somehow there aren't 12 year old girls at every corner of every street wearing BDSM-style clothing and offering the most degenerate sexual acts imaginable. Most prostitutes are above the age of 15. There's only a certain capacity of pedophiles willing to pay for sex with underaged girls. I highly doubt if any of them would stop paying for sleeping with mino…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 09:25 AM
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If you make prostitution illegal, it will be entirely out of control. There will be nobody to compete with the traffickers, making it heaven for them. The demand for prostitutes will remain the same if prostitution was legal, except some of the whores currently in the market would be replaced with legit sexworkers, therefore decreasing the amount of trafficked women in the market.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 05:48 PM
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He was the first guy I've truly formed a connection with. Around who I wasn't pretending to be absolutely perfect, who was my best friend and "best lover" at the same time. I think I am: Afraid of feeling loss again Feeling undeserving of love because I am not a virgin anymore (and gave my virginity to a member of a nation that many Polish people consider lesser than themselves) Feeling guilty for talking to other guys Feeling like I will never find someone like him anyway
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 03:35 PM
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An RPW has to have some sense of independence and know how to manage finances. She can't rely on her captain for everything (happiness, having her own savings, etc.) and high-quality men won't want a woman that can't control her behavior, is childish and socially awkward.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 11:37 AM
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Legal prostitution would actually decrease the amount of trafficked sex slaves, because prostitutes doing their job willingly would compete with the ones being forced into the deed.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 11:07 AM
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Will try it out, thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 11:01 AM
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There's only a certain amount of alphas the world can take, and if the book has managed to help at least 10% of its readers outside the beta trap, it's not a money grab. Also, you can read the most perfect book ever, but if you don't apply its teachings, it will remain useless.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:03 AM
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Yep. I'd also recommend against committing to one woman too soon (i.e. before dating and preferably sleeping with multiple females to be able to get to know them once the "lust goggles" are off. I'm not a man, but I've heard that you guys vet women in a much more rational way after sex, whereas women vet more carefully before sleeping with someone). Get to know them and their behavior well, learn to recognise high-quality women and... have fun with your new schedule :D
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 07:57 AM
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Don't neglect his problems. Instead of making fun of them and telling him that they're unimportant, listen to him vent and ask questions. If he wants space, though, don't push him to talk to you. Show him that you'll always be there for him and if you know that he's having a hard time, give him some extra attention and affection. Respect his decisions. If he wants to, say, buy a blue sofa, don't insist on getting the pink one simply for the sake of having the final say. Allow him to commit minor…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/20 08:23 PM
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I'n glad you're seeing much higher quality girls now! As for dating multiple women, what makes you think you should feel guilty about it? When you're in the dating phase, it's normal to see multiple people at the same time, (and most attractive women do so ;) ). IMO, there's nothing wrong with dating many people at once, as long as you don't lie about being exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/20 08:00 AM
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I'd highly recommend reading the wiki of this subreddit, as it's full of Redpill theory and advice, including where to start. As for good YouTube channels, Mrs Midwest and Cynthia L are amazing for starters. Another thing that might help you is taking an honest look at yourself: both in the mirror, and in your mind. When re-evaluating your looks, ask yourself these questions (this isn't meant for you to start seeing and obsessing over even the tiniest flaws!): Am I overweight? If the answer is "…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 10:03 PM
3

Thanks! I'm not an expert when it comes to relationships, but I'm thinking about making a post about telling the difference between a captain and a tyrant, to perhaps spark some discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 07:53 PM
1

It's tough for women in the entire Eastern Europe, but Ukraine's probably the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:17 PM
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Your partner is a tyrant, not a captain. People that are under a tyrant's reign will always suffer because he fulfills his needs even at the cost of his followers, unlike a captain, who fulfills his follower's needs, sometimes even at his own cost. If you were with a captain, he would have realized that you have recently become more tearful, afraid and resentful. He would have then adjusted his behavior and become more gentle when critisizing you. He DEFINITELY wouldn't pinch your nipples or spa…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 07:54 AM
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Many women would abuse the SAHM salary they'd be getting.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 07:27 AM
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Yea, I meant to say "she". My bad, typo. What other reasons are there?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 03:14 AM
2

Call him :) if he wasn't interested in you, he'd probably ghost you by now...
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 09:21 PM
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Christian here. I don't really go to Church, but I pray every evening and believe in God. Aside from that, I could really be a better Christian.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 09:18 PM
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Why not? Because ahe most likely engaged in hookup culture?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 09:11 PM
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I'm from Poland and am seriously considering leaving dating apps for good. I've either been finding men that only want to hook up (after tweaking my profile, their percentage has been reduced), are desperate (one guy even proposed to me within the first 2 days of texting) or have lots of red flags. Or a combination of all three of those things.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 02:23 PM
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Plastic surgery is also a thing when it comes to breasts.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 08:06 AM
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Pornography doesn't teach them how to please a woman. Many women fake orgasms and put up with poor sex, in order to avoid hurting the man's feelings. Most women need much more build-up to orgasm than men do. Sometimes men are horny, but simply too tired to put in much effort into pleasing their partner, especially if they're a few years into the relationship. It's sad, but there isn't much we can do about it. Learning to please a woman takes time and effort and every woman needs different things…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 07:56 AM
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I think OP went from being avoidant ro getting clingy and still needs to find a middlw ground.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 07:39 AM
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To me, "hamstering" is allowing our emotions to take control of our actions, which lead to negative consecquences.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 07:26 AM
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Thanks! I think that this feeling stems from the fact that my ex used to tell me that if a woman has sex with more than one partner, she is a slut. Because of that, I am afraid that I'll have to get intimate with someone at some point, and therefore degrade myself to ONS material. My mother reinforced this thinking in me as well and I'm still building up the courage to tell my psychologist (typing about intimacy in a foreign language is much easier than talking about it IRL with a male psycholog…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 10:11 PM
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I haven't been over him for over a year and I'm not getting any younger.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 09:06 PM
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You were a child, so they might have hid some nitty-gritty details from you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 04:02 PM
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If that's the case, then that's prostitution.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 03:32 PM
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You might lose some of the muscle if you don't exercise, but definitely not all of it (and not within a matter of 2 months unless you give up any physical activity and start binge-eating all day). As for the butt... it's probably bigger mainly because of puberty.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 01:45 PM
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I think you're the one doing the orbiting, not him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 01:30 PM
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My guilt wasn't about throwing the mixed signals girl out. My guilt is about asking multiple women out even after I just had sex with one of them If that's the case, then sorry for flooding you with the story about guys being (subconsciously) strung along.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 12:54 PM
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Can I PM you too? I always thought sugaring while staying chaste contradict each other.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 10:56 AM
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How many tatoos have you got, Karen?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 09:05 AM
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What exactly makes you feel guilty? If you recognize what causes this feeling and explain why it's unreasonable, it will most likely go away. If somebody's into you, they won't send mixed signals or try to stting you along. Also, remember: women make rules for betas and break them for alphas. When I was a teenager, I had 2-3 "boyfriends". I didn't let any of them hold my hand until date nr. 3. Didn't let them cuddle with me until I knew them for at least a month (my mother advised me to wait eve…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 08:13 AM
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Why exactly do you want to try botox in the first place? Is it because your friends went through the procedure? Just because they've done so, doesn't mean it's healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 09:06 PM
2

That sounds interesting! I'll definitely take a look at that.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 11:12 AM
2

Women are better protected against certain genetic diseases due to having two X chromodomes. I'm not sure about their immune systems being stronger for this reason.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 09:57 AM
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How does moving around a lot as a kid influence someone as an adult? (I'm genuinely curious to what it indicates)
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 08:24 AM
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What can I do to avoid feeling guilty for talking (not flirting/sex chatting!) with other guys on a dating app? I get this feeling quite often, and the thought that I'd have to date someone different than my ex makes me feel uncomfortable, even though we parted our ways almost a year ago.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/20 08:25 PM
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You are not a "slut" or "shallow" for having certain preferences and attractive men are an indication of good genes. It is normal to have a type and you aren't the only one that wants a handsome partner. If women weren't attracted to handsome men, most guys would currently resemble mountain trolls. There wouldn't be any incels, because those who lost the genetic lottery would simply master game and have dozens of sexual partners. TRP wouldn't put such a heavy emphasis on lifting. Having tons of …
/r/altTRP06/04/20 01:59 PM
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Leave the girl that's sending mixed signals, unless you want to orbit her and let her string you along.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 01:14 PM
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Alexander Grace will also come in handy once/if you'll start looking for an LTR (don't look for it yet, though, as you don't have much experience with woman and can still attract a low-quality one).
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 01:12 PM
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There's a sub called "Thank TRP"
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 01:02 PM
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I tried this app, but I couldn't get any Russians or Ukrainians. It only lined me up Chads that had 6 figure incomes and were seven feet tall. Also, could you add models with chest hair and beards, preferably 25-40 years old? Make sure they're douchebags that will get me emotionally addicted!
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 12:35 PM
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That sounds like an amazing mixture of alpha and beta traits, and a great husband for an RPW!
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 11:54 AM
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I've just never come across someone who thinks that a man getting laid is a man being fucking loved and doted on and all these other benefits that women don't give to their hookups. What I've talked about are mostly fuckzoned women. They are like friendzoned men, because they want a relationship, but the guy only treats her like a plate, even though he knows she likes him. She most likely got into the fuckzone by thinking that if she'll sleep with the guy, listen to him vent, support him, etc., …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 08:14 AM
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What I've listed are girlfriend benefits, not wife benefits. When you're a plate, especially a plate that likes her partner, you don't just come to his place, immediately start undressing, say nothing while the guy does his deed and leave immediately after. Even prostitutes talk to their client before getting to work! Also, why should he drop all of his plates when he knows that he doesn't have to? That the woman will keep giving him all the benefits even if he continues to sleep with other wome…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 08:00 AM
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However it is very stressful messaging multiple men at once and I would rather just stick with one and be in a relationship with him. You'll stick with one and be in a relationship with him eventually, but for now, you are just searching for someone. Remember: until you are exclusive with someone, it isn't morally wrong to even sleep with someone. I wouldn't recommend doing it, though. There's no need to boost your N-count for nothing. ​ Should I continue talking to multiple men and date multipl…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 07:47 AM
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Some of the practices listed there are quite extreme for people who have been having vanilla sex their entire lives and can appear intimidating to her husband.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/20 07:43 AM
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If a man is already receiving a woman's love, exclusivity, attention, sex, companionship, validation, etc. (Pretty much everything he gets from the woman after commiting to her) without having to commit, then why should he start "paying her back" with becoming her boyfriend/husband? Why should he drop all his other plates if he doesn't have to, especially considering the fact that the woman that wants commitment from him: - poorly manages her boundaries - isn't going to walk away if he does not …
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/20 07:35 AM
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After giving my virginity to my ex, I fell for him so hard, I'll never truly be over him. That never happened after giving someone a hug.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 07:35 AM
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But in most cases, you get STD's from penetrative sex.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 07:31 AM
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Same here
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 07:23 AM
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It was the ancient way of making sure that the woman is not pregnant with another man's child, but a woman being volountarily celibate and a virgin is an indication of: Her being able to control impulses, and therefore less likely to cheat (I'm not saying it's impossible!) Because she, say, drank too much or got into a fight with her husband Her being free of STD's Her being able to stick to her boundaries Her being devoted to her faith and capable of resisting temptation Her not needing extraor…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:16 PM
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There's a "no doxing" rule
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 08:57 AM
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Makeup on its own can take you from a 5 to a 6. But makeup combined with: - a decent skincare routine - fitness and good posture - flattering clothes - manicure - healthy teeth and hair - plastic surgery (in extreme cases) Can bring you from a 5 to a 7-8.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 06:23 PM
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when I meet very attractive women, especially in social situations where many men are present like work dinners, I immediately turn bitter inside me and I become closed off, which ruins the feminine energy I'm trying to cultivate and sours my mood for the whole evening. If you can, try to imagine that the most attractive women resemble mountain trolls. That they are all obese, have severely deformed faces, no sense of fashion or grace. In the meantime, do your best to improve your appearance. If…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 04:10 PM
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Being a mother doesn't mean being a housewife for the rest of your life. If OP is planning to get back to work and needs her degree to due so, she should pursue it. She's 25, not 35 with a ticking biological clock. 27 isn't an old age to have a child.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 09:30 PM
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We dont know her education. Many women her age have a Bachelor degree for example. Or a work education. You dont need a Masters or PHD to have children. You don't need a master's degree to have children, but you might need it to find a job once the children are older if you don't want to be a housewife. And like all mammals in the world, healthy and fertile females desires pregnancy. Its the most natural feeling in her case. I never said it was unnatural.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 08:45 PM
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You've only known him for 4 months. How do you know that YOU'D want him to be the parent of your children? That you'd want to spend the rest of your life with him? According to what you've said, once he'd get married to you, he'd gain a huge responsibility, even greater than in the West. He needs to be very wise. Take it slow. If he's the right guy, he'll show all of his positive traits soon enough. If he isn't, then at least you won't be stuck with him for the rest of your life, or divorced, wh…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 06:30 PM
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Yea, true
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 06:03 PM
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Baby fever is normal in your case. You would be sick and biological abnormal if you wouldnt feel sad about not being pregnant. You cannot fool your body. You cannot fool nature. Many women experience baby fever at a certain age, but it doesn't mean that they have to go through it as hard as OP. I understand its a problem. Personally, I would get pregnant in your situation if you already have a valueable degree. Why dont you deserve to be happy now and follow a good plan? On the other hand, if yo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 05:08 PM
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Yes, you are pretty. You seem slim and have beautiful eyes. If you want to improve something, though, I'd recommend getting braces - not only to look better, but to also avoid dental problems in the future. As for being African American, this will definitely impact your chances of finding someone nice to date: Just like your hobbies, values and goals in life. Also, looks matter, but they aren't everything.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/20 08:23 AM
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So basically, proving "in person" that you have aligning hobbies, and aren't low value?
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/20 07:32 AM
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I decided to try them out, because it was recommended here. Didn't know it would be THAT bad.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 10:05 AM
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Go. If he's inviting you out, it means he's attracted to you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/20 11:52 AM
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Men are more likely to get beaten up, sure, but women are more likely to get raped. And sexual violence is still violence. Also, when it comes to first dates, women are more likely to experience violence than men, because they are physically weaker than them.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/20 11:51 AM
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Or you can actually leave at the given time. That way, you and the chances of the guy missing you and seeing that you're a busy woman are higher.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/20 11:49 AM
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And my classmate got pregnant even though she was on the pill. The only method that guarantees you won't get pregnant is abstinence.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 01:07 PM
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I used to be on hormonal birth control for a month. It gave me extremely strong mood swings and I gained 5 kilograms in a MONTH. Never again! After that situation, I started tracking my cycle and using the pullout method on days when I wasn't fertile (after all, what are the odds of getting pregnant from precums putside of your fertility window) and abstaining from PIV sex when I was fertile. This method has a lower fail rate than condoms (when executed perfectly, the fail rate's 1% instead of 2…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 08:18 AM
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There are many ways a couple can meet their sexual needs long-distance, not just through phone sex. Sexting, having naughty video conversations through skype, sending nudes and videos, using toys that can be controlled from a distance... Sure, it might not be as good as sex, but it might be exiting enough to do the trick, like pornography for men who can't get laid and don't have enough money for a prostitute.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/20 09:24 PM
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The reason why people in traditionalist/redpill communities advise against dating people with bad upbringings, is because such men and women often don't try to resolve the issues they brought from home. Being from a house where, say, the father was a heavy drinker and abused his wife and children isn't a dealbreaker on its own. Instead, the fact that such a person doesn't go to counseling or therapy and instead acts in a toxic way is the reason why this is considered a huge red flag. I'm sure ma…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 11:52 AM
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This post was very motivating. If I could, I'd give you gold.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 09:26 AM
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You're the ones creating them yourselves. A man can achieve high SMV in a lot more ways than a woman can. You've lost the genetic lottery entirely and look worse than a mountain troll? Focus on your career and status. You're not intelligent? Make it up with hitting the gym. Dwelling on your low SMV isn't going to fix anything.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 07:38 AM
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I think it's possible, as lomg as: Both parties are honest with their intentions. They share enough hobbies and goals to distract them from potentially developing feelings. Neither of them are open to starting a new romantic relationship. Either they're both happily married (not in an "ok" marriage!), one of them's homo/asexual, or they decided not to date anymore for some other reason. They seldom discuss dating and sex. Seldom spend time one on one in enclosed areas. Seldom get themselves into…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 08:01 AM
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Of course not. That's why, in many cases, a high N count isn't a deal breaker, but more of a red/yellow flag, especially considering the hook-up culture.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/20 07:50 AM
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I personally want someone with a moderate number (ideally 2-5). Having more partners is an indication of: Considering intimacy disposable The inability/lack of desire for monogamy A need for multiple women over time Impulsive behavior
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/20 01:55 AM
1

This kimd of learning would be beneficial to both genders, but western governments won't allow it because it's "politically incorrect and sexist".
/r/TheRedPill24/02/20 02:12 PM
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I'd definitely go for the first guy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/20 04:44 PM
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You can be super special to him due to other aspects - and you most likely are :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 08:26 AM
1

But I'll sure eat healthy fats and try to make my diet more balanced.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/20 10:25 PM
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I actually ate tons of fat. At times, I'd eat 1300 calories and 80 g. Of fat, with small amounts of carbs and protein. I think that this made my body burn its own fat to provide glucose for the brain.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/20 10:25 PM
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I sure will! Thanks again!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 08:16 PM
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I'll ask a coach at the gym I started going to for some chest exercises, then. Thanks for the advice! As for creams, I saw some at a pharmacy about a week ago, but didn't know whether to buy a tube or not. I guess I will!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 07:28 PM
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I've been tracking calories for a few months. Unfortunately, I made the stupid mistake of starving myself in order to lose weight (eating roughly 1200 calories per day) for two months, therefore, I'm not sure how much I should consume in order to maintain my current weight.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 07:19 PM
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Mine aren't pancakes yet, however, they have seen better days as well. Do you happen to know any "milder" options than surgery?
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:56 PM
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Those 5 kilograms were 1/12th of my body weight.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 01:50 PM
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I turned 20 two weeks ago and have never been pregnant. That's why I assumed it was the weight loss. As for the calorie tracking, what's the best way to find out how many calories you need each day, especially if your metabolism may have slowed down due to anti-depressants and eating less calories? Should I use a calculator on the Internet, eat the recommended amount for a week and if I start gaining/losing eight, adjust?
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 01:48 PM
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That sounds like an over-interpretation and he will feel attacked if you tell him how he feels. Instead, just ask him why he says so and how he understands this saying. BF: She's not yours, it's just your turn. OP: Why do you say so? BF: Because nothing really is for certain or forever. OP: You're right, but if we just stop putting effort into our relationship because nothing is for forever, then our relationship will most likely fall apart and the phrase "it's just your turn" will become a self…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 10:52 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being constantly mentally prepped for a breakup, as long as he doesn't cheat on you emotionally (having "best friends" that serve as backup options, ready to date him once he breaks up with you) or physically and I recommend you do the same. Stay in shape. Maintain a high SMV and RMV. Dedicate time for hobbies and have positive relationships with family and friends. Don't let your boyfriend mess them up. That way, if you suddenly get a photo of him sleeping next to ano…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 10:42 PM
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Also, you can affect ypur odds of winning.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 10:31 PM
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Give him two years, no more. Don't waste your twenties.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 10:27 PM
2

Also, many women fall out of love once they realise that their partner is or became too beta and docile.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 10:25 PM
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You're right... but then again, simply falling out of love isn't the only reason why women leave their partners. Sure, most cases somehow boil down to lack of attractiveness, but things like imcompatibility, finding out about your partner's affair and abuse can also damage a relationship to the point where the couple breaks up, even though the woman still loves her partner.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 10:23 PM
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This case is an entire spectrum. Of course, some women will end a 20 year marriage because they've just "fallen out of love"/met Chad/"don't feel any chemistry anymore", whereas others will stay with an alcoholic that constantly cheats on them, rapes, beats and abuses them and her children, even though there are three other men that are willing to start a much happier LTR with her. Most women are in the middle of the spectrum: At first, they'll stay with their boyfriend/partner/husband if a prob…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 06:50 PM
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You're a placeholder that supplies your boyfriend with free sex, affection, company and emotional support while he waits for his true love to be ready for an LTR with him or exploits him (as an orbiter, of course).
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 02:46 PM
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Thanks! Also, this saying also serves as a reminder that if you want your turn to last, you should be constantly putting effort into the relationship, because the other party isn't your property and can walk away if you mistreat him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 02:17 PM
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Remind him that "his turn" could last a lifetime, if you build a good relationship together. Also, remember that the saying goes the other way around as well. Your boyfriend isn't entirely "yours". Would you literally like to own him? "Your turn" for being in a relationship with him can last 10 years, 20... or he might die in a car crash the next hour. A relationship with a man shouldn't become the meaning of your life and when it comes to interpersonal relationships, you shouldn't take anything…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 01:58 PM
2

Even RP men (at least those past their anger phase) are ready to look past 1-2 sexual partners. Virgins might wonder what it's like to sleep with another man and cheat.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/20 09:31 AM
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What would he do if his wife wasn't home? They clearly complement each other.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/20 03:05 PM
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A high n-count Obesity The inability to control emotions and impulses Low self-esteem Constant complaining and nagging A princess mentality Agressiveness Excessive masculine behavior Neediness Constantly rejecting someone
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 09:16 AM
1

"Looking forward to seeing you"
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:58 AM
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If things go downhill, though, you might get into trouble - not to mention that it might be hard for you to maintain zero contact with a former plate/LTR that you met at a workplace. There's a reason why this phrase is parroted. Of course, if you work at a few places at once, things getting sour at one job won't be a big deal. If that isn't the case, though, and you don't have enough savings to last you until you find a new job (which you might be forced to do in an extreme case), the risks of p…
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:25 PM
0

"Don't shit where you eatml.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 01:05 PM
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What's more important? A guy that's right here, for you, or somebody miles away? Date the 25 years old. The 31 year old has more red flags than a Chinese communist parade.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 08:28 AM
1

It depends on the man. Many redpilled men are in open relationships, whereas others are monogamous and faithful.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 08:09 AM
2

Life span has nothing to do with this. It wasn't as if people normally died at the age of 30. The average life span was lower due to the fact that many children died at an early age, but if you survived childhood, you were quite likely to live for 60-70 years. Girls were married off in their teens (usually at the ages of 15-19, though sometimes a bit earlier or later) because: that's when they entered their prime This ensured that they were virgins and weren't alpha widowed or pregnant with anot…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 08:07 AM
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Sleeping with a 14-15 year old doesn't make you a pedo. 150 years ago, it was quite common for girls in this age to get married off.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/20 04:13 PM
1

I don't watch porn and N-count is one, so I haven't seen too many dicks in my life, but I'm pretty sure that his manhood had a normal size. Some girls' hymens are more flexible than others' and only break upon childbirth.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 02:51 PM
1

My hymen never really broke, even though I've had PIV sex with a man multiple times. If I started riding the Cock Carousel, it would have most likely still remained intacted, unuless I slept with a guy with an enourmous manhood. Does this mean I'd be better than all the "dirty sluts" whose hymen broke because of "degenerate" acts of using tampons, masturbation, exercising or having an accident?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 08:25 AM
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I'm somewhere in between. If a woman gets raped, her life or health (both physical and/or mental) is at risk because of the pregnamcy or if the baby is going to be born with a disorder/disease, she should have the right to abort. If, however, she had sex willingly, she should carry the pregnancy and give the child off to adoption if she does not want it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 08:02 AM
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It depends on the situation, but in my opinion, OP would rather do so and have her child be alive, even if it meant limited or no contact with it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 07:53 AM
1

I personally listen to a lot of Red Pill podcasts for men and I'm certain that there are many women who do the same. If you're saying wise things, your gender doesn't really matter, at least in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 08:14 AM
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He could have at least let her give the child up to adoption. Sure, she wouldn't have much contact with the baby, but at least she wouldn't have been forced to abort her pregnancy. OP, this person isn't a Captain. Captains prioritize their followers' needs, even at their own costs. Tyrants prioritize their own needs, even at their followers' costs. Also, your husband clearly lacks responsibility.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 08:06 AM
1

She might as well have been working all night or couldn't sleep. If she was having sex with someone else, she wouldn't be rubbing it into your face. Not if she behaves so well in other situations.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:27 PM
9

I'll add in my two cents: Green flags: - takes responsibility for himself and the people who rely on him (younger siblings, members of his team at work, ill parents, etc.), and cares for their well being - has goals in his life and knows what he wants - respects others and himself - has healthy relationships with his parents and friends - sticks to his word (for instance, if he promises to pick you up at 5:00 PM, he picks you up at 5 PM and doesn't come late) - doesn't speak poorly of others - i…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 08:30 PM
1

LTR's are possible, but they recquire two high-quality people to find each other and be committed to taking care of it.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:28 PM
1

It's great she is seeking to resolve the issue, but I'm not here to save a ho. If she's attending therapy and actively working on her issues, then she's saving herself already and you won't need to become Captain-save-a-hoe. Plus, she may revert to her broken personality, as you were together while she was broken and not fixed. IMO, every person, regardless of their gender, upbringing, sexual orientation, age, status, etc. can behave immorally under the right circumstances. However, you're right…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:11 PM
1

It actually is! For instance, many people who's parents were alkoholics go to therapy for this reason, not to mention patients that, aside from their mommy/daddy issues, are adressing their other problems during counselling sessions. Edit: While you're vetting her for an LTR: Observe her relationship with her stepfather. Does she respect him? Consider him an important figure in her life? Or could she be just as well-off without him? Look how her mother acts. Chances are that she'll be very simil…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:59 PM
1

If she leaves you on read, it means she doesn't care. If you text her after that, you'll act clingy, which is a huge repellant.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:18 AM
5

Does she have any other positive male figures in her life, such as a grandfather or uncle? If not, is she trying to address her daddy issues? Attending counselling and/or therapy? If not, then she might not be LTR material.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:13 AM
15

It sounds a bit like a comfort test. If you stop giving her rough sex entirely, therefore entering her frame, she'll eventually lose her attraction to you and dump you. Try "rewarding" her with romantic sex every few weeks for good behavior (preparing your favorite meal, cleaning up the entire house, etc.). That way: She won't get fed up with being treated like a cheap slut (it can eventually happen) and leave She'll dive even deeper into your frame You'll avoid showing beta behavior by givibg h…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:10 AM
8

People thought that you want to be dominant outside of the bedroom, not just in the sheets. I would recommend working on your mental issues before you start pursuing relationships, though.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 12:11 PM
1

I called him and he told me to book a visit. Sadly, I'll have to pay for it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 12:01 PM
1

The hunger was supposed to be there for only the first week. Week two has just passed and... I still crave food.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 12:00 PM
2

I said that I won't attract a decent guy with mental health issues not because I consider myself to be a type of "crazy lady in the subway screaming about the apocalypse" just because I need medication, but because major emotional outbursts and tantrums, followed by days when I lay in bed, complaining about how miserable my life is, all while doing nothing to better my mind (no therapy, medication, etc.) can repell even the most patient man. Also... thanks for telling me that I deserve to be hap…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 11:08 AM
1

Citronil and Convulex (300 mg.), which is a mood stabilizer.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 08:03 AM
2

I'll try volume eating, then. Until nów, I ate whatever I could get my hands on and it wasn't always healthy. Thanks for being honest with me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 08:02 AM
1

Sounds like a good idea that's worth trying out!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 08:11 PM
1

I'll exercise to burn off at least some of the calories, thanks. Also, another question: is it worth booking a visit to the psychiatrist for 15% of my montly earnings in 1-2 weeks? My next free visit will be in 4 weeks.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 07:51 PM
6

My next appointment is in 4 weeks. I understand that it's the lack of self-control that's making me gain weight, however, a slower metabolism combined with a larger appetite is one of the side effects. Until I started taking the medication, I consumed 1500-1600 calories per day and felt full. Currently, my body demands at least 2500. Edit: this isn't a troll post. I wrote it after weighing myself, my sister telling me to "just eat less", hence such emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 07:48 PM
14

What helped me is imagining that I'm talking to an average beta. If the guy is extremely handsome, I pretend that he's normal looking and it really helps take him off the pedestal.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 06:05 PM
6

Ultimatums are almost never RPW friendly. Using them often leads to breakups, because high quality men don't prioritize a relationship with a woman (especially one that they haven't been seeing for too long). Sure, it's important to them, but it isn't the meaning of their life. Therefore, if you force your partner to choose between, say, you and going out with his childhood friends every day, or you and his hobby, odds are that he'll pick the latter and dump you. Only use ultimatums for very ser…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 04:51 AM
7

You'll always be the last option for him. Even if he marries you, once he finds a (in his opinion)more attractive woman, he'll have no troyble branch swinging over to her. Don't settle for such a person. Instead, work on your appearance. Become the best version of yourself. Your looks gave protected you from maximizing hypergamy to a point where you can't fall in love anymore with anyone worse than Chad, so you're at a huge advantage when it comes to finding your real SO and staying in a happy r…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 04:35 AM
1

In my opinion, it depends how you phrase your comment. I've posted on AskTRP and TRP and haven't really gotten downvoted into oblivion or lashed out at by men in their incel phase.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/20 03:06 PM
6

Doesn't hooking up with a girl make her seem even more promiscuos, though? After all, she isn't just hooking up, but is also performing an unusual sexual act. Not to mention that homosexuals have more STD's than straight people.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 06:02 PM
21

First of all, you need to work on your self esteem. Being insecure won't help attract high-quality friends - let alone men. Get your hormones checked ASAP, while you're still growing. Perhaps you lack estrogen, which leads to the defects in looks. Learn to dress in a way that shows your positive traits. Clothes, makeup and a decent hairstyle does wonders and looks can be controlled. Work on your posture as well. Sure, this might not make you an 8/10, but if you become a 6/10, you'll still be abl…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 12:03 PM
12

Masturbation doesn't give the bonding and emotions that come with sex.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 07:09 PM
1

Start slowly. If you flat out tell him that, say, you want to get tied up, beaten and called bad names, your SO might feel intimidated. Instead, you can ask him to penetrate you faster - and show him that it feels great to you. After a few nights - suggest trying out a position where he has more control over you. Once he's comfortable with that, move your boundaries in another way. Perhaps because of this, he'll develop a desire to be rougher with you naturally. Respect his hard "no's" and don't…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 09:08 AM
3

It's not like a man only likes only one specific sexual activity, though, and it's the only thing he wants to do in the bedroom. Also, with time, most couples adjust to each other naturally and come up with a "routine" that suits them both.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 08:41 AM
3

Married red pill. It's for redpilled men who don't want to divorce their wives.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 08:33 AM
3

It was to ensure that the husband doesn't raise another man's children and virginity was a guarantee that the wife hadn't slept with others, and therefore wasn't pregnant.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 08:31 AM
9

From what I've realized (I moght be wrong, though), many dead bedrooms there evolve a bit like this: 1. A woman is nearing the wall, so she decides to settle down. 2. She finds a guy who's very beta and tries to convince herself that she loves him (after all, he's very caring, ready to get married, etc.). One of the steps in doing so is having lots of sex with him. She isn't doing it to hurt him. She really wants to believe in this. 3. They get married. 4. She eventually gives up trying to truly…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 08:28 AM
7

Most men have average sized penises, though, and many things that they like to do in bed, so the odds of such couples being completely incompatible with each other are low.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 03:38 PM
2

A leader cares for his followers needs, even at his own cost. A tyrant cares for his own needs, even at his followers' cost.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 03:35 PM
3

Telling someone to weigh out all of the pro's and cons before having sex or taking responsibility for their safety isn't shaming, though.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 07:00 PM
5

Most people in the Dead Bedrooms sub aren't sexually incompatible because of low/high libido, but because one of the partners no longer finds the other one attractive, so he/she starts pushing him/her away, which causes the "high-libido" partner to long for his SO more, which in turn puts pressure on the "low-libido" partner and makes him/her even more closed to the idea of sex. This cycle eventually breaks the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 09:15 AM
2

I got a few-day-long ban for "slut shaming" on that sub as well, and my post got deleted, because I told a girl to think twice before sleeping with her coworker. If things went downhill with him, it could influence her at the workplace.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 08:43 AM
4

He probably makes up by being manly in other ways.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 08:57 AM
14

Because she was giving him the things he wanted (sex) without asking for anything in return. If you were offered tp take your groceries for free from the supermarket (or offered a 90% discount) would you insist on paying the full price?
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 09:45 AM
4

I be born Poland. Are there hope I learn English Language? Polish language very beautiful, but it different from English Language. Grammar very different. Spelling also. It just be very hard. I try no speak Polish Language, but it no helping. Learning to vet is like knowing a foreign language (or any other skill). Sure, some people are lucky enough to be native english speakers, others were raised at farms and have known how to care for animals since an early age, whereas others pick up these sk…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 09:50 AM
2

The pull-out method, combined with tracking your menstrual cycle and not sleeping with each other on certain days, has a 4% fail-rate, which is low compared to other natural birth-control techniques. It's even lower than using condoms in an imperfect way! Also, the only 100% effective form of birth control is not having sex at all.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 10:59 AM
1

Thanks! If you want to make a post ouy of this comment (and perhaps expand it with examples), then... go ahead :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 10:49 AM
2

Things will only get worse with time. He'll feel more and more comfortable with every week. Walk away now. It will become harder with every day. Do you want to wake up after five years when he ditches you: - post wall - with a huge amount of emotional baggage - with even worse self-esteem - possibly as a single mother He's trying to make you emotionally dependant. There's a difference between a first mate and punching bag.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 10:14 AM
2

Not every red pill guy is an abusive tyrant, though.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 10:04 AM
18

A leader takes his follower's needs into account. A tyrant fulfills his needs at the cost of his followers. A leader's followers follow him by choice. A tyrant makes his followers follow him through terror, manipulation and force. Your boyfriend is making you follow him by lowering your self-esteem, so that you'll think he's more important and better than you. A leader would help you solve your self-esteem issues. A tyrant would exploit them and make them worse. A leader might make remarks about…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 10:03 AM
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He's emotionally manipulating you. There's a difference between a leader and a tyrant. Eventually, this relationship will burn you out and cause self-esteem issues.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 11:24 PM
1

There are a few.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 08:37 PM
3

Men are programmed to spread their seed and have sex with as many women as possible. Of course, Chads most likely won't sleep with 3's when there are tons of 8's chasing them, but... with a 6? 7? Why not? This is how alpha widows are created.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:58 PM
10

Shallow people are on both sides of the equation. Sure, there are tons of women that are only after status and money, but there's an equal amount of men that are only interested in womens' looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:48 PM
2

Everyone has their own preferences. I, for instance, am a lot more into Russians, Ukrainians and Belorussians than Polish and western guys, mostly because they seem a lot more manly, honest (sometimes even TOO honest), compassionate and loyal - not to mention that their language is beautiful.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 12:36 PM
3

In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with going to Russia. Just remember to stay safe by: Having an extra copy of your documents Having enough money to pay for a plane ticket/hostel and food in case things go downhill (you'll get kicked out of the house, break up or your boyfriend tries to act aggressive or perhaps even traffic you (I know that it isn't likely, but such things still happen)) hidden somewhere, where you can easily access it, but, if you get searched, the cash won't get found at o…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 06:18 PM
3

They already met IRL.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 06:05 PM
3

Things I don’t agree to? Someone could also do that while in a relationship? Of course, but if you're in a relationship, the guy will most likely care more about your pleasure than if you were just casually hooking up (and therefore, not pressure you into doing things you're uncomfortable with), because he could leave at any given moment without becoming an asshole for breaking up with you. ​ I’m already emotionally attached :’( You'll fall head over heels once you sleep with him, then.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 07:46 PM
1

What about unwanted pregnancy? Him doing things that you don't agree to? STD's? People finding out about you sleeping without commitment and your reputation getting worse (or perhaps even ruined, depending on where you live)? Getting emotionally attached? Your risks aren't low.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 07:11 PM
1

Secondly, how do you know he has a high SMV? Because you are letting him sleep with you before commitment, which is a risk most women take only for those who they perceive as higher SMV than them. ​ but is it really true that someone can be so evil? I definitely have a bit of naivety left in me that tells me that there is no way that someone can lie and manipulate someone else to this extent... And how would a good man be so selfish? He's not evil. The situation is simply convenient to him, so h…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 07:05 PM
1

There are tons of reasons for this. He might be worried that if you're not exclusive to him, you'll find a boyfriend (or someone better in bed than him) and he'll lose his stable source of sex. He might be unable to secure other girls and be jealous that you're able to sleep with multiple partners. He might think that exclusivity resembles a normal relationship much more. He might not want you to be on the lookout for other options.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 06:35 PM
1

Most women lose the upper hand in dating or, as you might say, hit the wall at around 30. Sure, there are some exceptions to this rule (like the women in their 40's and 50's you've mentioned), hitting it can be delayed by staying in shape, living a healthy lifestyle, caring for your skin, avoiding smoking, drinking, drugs, pregnancy and excessive stress. Women don't just wake up on their 30th birthday looking ten times older than the day before either. It's a gradual process and you don't necess…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/19 06:10 PM
2

Men usually bond before having sex and once the "lust goggles" are off, they can easily spot the flaws in their partner.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 04:10 PM
2

The last two sentences are gold.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 04:02 PM
3

If you can't or are too ashamed and uncomfortable to talk to someone in a neutral way about sex and your concerns regarding it, you shouldn't be sleeping with him.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/19 08:06 PM
3

You need a guy with a good balance of alpha and beta traits. How many traits from each category? It's up to you to decide.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 08:43 AM
3

He's still texting you, so it isn't too late to act high value. Do so gradually, though.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 11:14 AM
1

You can't change the past, but you can influence the present. Remain loyal towards your boyfriend. The fact that you've been with another man most likely isn't much of a concern to him - if it was, he wouldn't be with you now. Also, women can usually pair bond with the first five men they sleep with, so you're good to go :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 07:49 AM
7

You can find high-quality men everywhere, it's a numbers game. My older sister's friend found her husband on a hookup app (she told most of her friends that they met at a bar, though). Get a job that involves working with people. Once you find a job, it will be easier to meet acquaintances and buy a car. Work on being more assertive and sticking to your word. Saying "no" to something won't make you any worse. Learn to cook. You'll have a huge advantage over other women that way. If you're social…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 11:24 AM
1

A lack of text messages isn't neccesarily an indicator that he's trying to game you. Here are some more obvious signs that he's only in it to get into your pants: He escalates really quickly. Makes out with you on the first date, or perhaps even tries to convince you to go to his place. He only compliments you on your looks. Doesn't try to have conversations deeper than small-talk. There's lors of awakward silence that he tries to fill with physical affection. He mentions that he's moving out so…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 06:37 AM
1

Not to mention the months/years she lost, being off the RMV for that period of time and nearing the wall (or even being post-wall), sometimes with a kid or two.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 02:40 PM
1

What are Mauve pills?
/r/askTRP30/11/19 08:58 AM
1

That's a pity... :( Looks like I can't even give you a second glance, then... Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 07:45 PM
1

Does ypur name happen to be Dimitrij?
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 12:03 PM
2

Women can pair bond with up to 5 partners in their lifetime and with each new partner they sleep with, the amount of hormones flooding her brain after intercource decreases and sex pretty much becomes an act of letting of sexual tension, not love.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 09:53 AM
1

??? Who said you mentioned anything bigoted? I didn't mean to attack or gaslight anyone
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 07:47 PM
2

Sign them up to some sports/martial arts classes as well.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 04:34 PM
4

Alpha widows can be created through LTR's. If you maintain strong frame throughout the relationship, game her and act alpha, only to dump her after a few months/years, she can still be an Alpha Widow.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 04:22 PM
4

Many feminized men find feminists attractive, because of their masculinity. That's the same reason why most feminine women preffer masculine men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 04:01 PM
1

I mean... the list I made isn't a list of things that I DEMAND a guy has for me to date him. Those were just the traits I admired in him most. Of course, I want him to share hobbies with me, have a good sense of humor, mission and goals I can help him achieve in his life (I don't want to be his life goal, though), not be a pushover or clingy and be decent (same level as me or higher) looking. But he doesn't have to, say, be 175.6 cm. tall, have chocolate-brownish-green eyes with a hint of grey, …
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 12:58 PM
1

Sure, PM me :) I think we could try being friends.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 12:00 PM
1

Would you rest on laurels if you had to put tons of time, effort and dedication into something, though? If you knew that doing so will make you go through all of the hardship again?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 11:12 AM
1

The Cock Carousel. "Riding the CC" means "sleeping around with multiple men without getting into long-term relationships with them".
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 10:56 AM
3

I promise :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:47 PM
-4

Thanks :) I'm 19 years old was with him from October 2018 to April 2019. As for my father... I understand that he wants what's best for me, but him following me around the house all morning and nagging made me quite nervous, causing me to have to do everything 2 times slower than usual, and when he finally left for work, there was no point in going to school anymore, since I'd skip out of 5/6 lessons.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 03:22 PM
3

I was joking about the orbiters,no worries.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 03:14 PM
3

I'll read about oneitis and try to draw more. Thanks for your kind words :) Edit: What's the equivalent of plates for women? Orbiters exploited to the fullest? ;D
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 12:46 PM
-6

I called him one day, asked what he was doing, and he told me that he was looking at girls on Instagram. I got really upset, started complaining that I'm fat, ugly etc. He eventually managed to calm me down, but when I messaged him the next day, he only responded with one-word messages. Therefore, I decided to stop texting him, certain that he'll message me after a few days, as usual. He didn't message me at all, but didn't block me either. Yesterday, I decided to talk to him and explain everyth…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 12:01 PM
5

Good point there. Not just the high pitched voice, but movements and gestures are also highly feminized. That's why I stopped watching most male Youtubers. They're painful to look at. ​ And girls have bad fashion sense and are more forward and louder than boys. Also they drink excessively. Someone has to become masculine, if men are becoming more feminine.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 11:21 AM
35

It depends how you convey the message. If you start talking about RMV, The Wall, pair bonding, etc., like you would talk to a guy, odds are that she'll pretend to listen, and once you're done, get back to Chad and her old ways of life. However, if you play on her emotions, make her fear what will come if she acts poorly, odds are that she will wake up. Only a person she respects is capable of doing so, though. Women listen to messengers, not messages.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 11:11 AM
7

Same here, in Poland. Prostitutes (and even girls that open their legs freely) are still shamed for their job. But then again, in the west... Look how many men are being pussified there. Go to any Youtuber's channel. Their voices are high-pitched, compared to voices of Russians and Eastern Europeans. Look at the Relationship Advice subreddit. No sane woman would willingly sleep with such creatures. Soon, their only way to get laid will be paying for sex and therefore, prostitutes will be crucial…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 10:11 AM
-1

Oh, it is and always was... people aren't just open about it... yet...
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 09:51 AM
84

Women should really be educated about the fact that beauty is temporary. That in 10 years, they will have a much harder time attracting a decent guy and, unlike what they think currently, they WILL be lonely if they won't have a husband and children in their 40's-50's. What will they be doing, once their looks fade away? Will they keep going to bars and parties at 48? Will the career they're pursuing truly bring them happiness? They received one of the most powerful things in the world for free,…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 09:45 AM
-1

The longer you ride the CC, the harder it is for a guy to give you "tingles", which are crucial for pair bonding. It's not the orgasm that makes you pair bond (though orgasms are MUCH easier to achieve with tingles). If that was the case, humanity would have died out thousands of years ago (until the sexual revolution, there were entire generations of women who have never experienced an orgasm in their lifetime) due to women getting pregnant during intercourse and leaving their mate, therefore h…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/19 10:08 PM
2

1 week prior she was playing with my chest hair while laying in bed, telling me how she has never felt more comfortable with anybody in her life. "Comfortable". Once someone's certain that the other person in the relationship won't leave/hurt them, they'll start moving boundaries, especially if they come from a place where doing so wouldn't get them punished. Your ex came from a place where disrespecting men was REWARDED. ​ 1 week prior, we were talking about our children’s names and what kind o…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 09:51 PM
4

"crazy in the bed, crazy in the head"
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 09:15 PM
7

Lookswise: Unless you're going to a fancy restaurant, dress slightly better than you normally do. That way, you'll feel a bit more beautiful than usual, but not like you're wearing a costume. This should help prevent awkwardness. Get a manicure and pedicure. Wear your ugliest lingerie. This will prevent you from physically escalating too far. Characterwise: Double-check where you're meeting. Plan the route to that spot, how much time you'll need to get there and leave 15 minutes early. That way,…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/19 08:50 PM
11

Wearing your worst underwear is also a good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/19 08:31 PM
2

I'd be ready to move to a different country, leaving behind my family and friends. I'd also quit my job if this was necessarry. Once I'd start living with my captain, though, I'd try to find a new job, social circle, etc., in case things go downhill in the relationship. I'd never sacrifice my passions, though, as they are tge kost important thing in my life. When I suffered through a breakup, had zero friends and my family despised me and I hardly even crawled out of bed, drawing kept me going. …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 07:35 AM
10

There are benefits. If a girl loves you and you're an alfa in her eyes, here are a few things you'll get from being in a relationship with her: A stable source of sex. Unless you're in an LTR with a girl that views you as a beta or there's an external reason (such as illness) for you not to be intimate, initiating sex with a girlfriend is much easier and cheaper than, seducing a new girl every time you want to have sex. If you "condition" a girl properly, give her strong tingles (which are a lot…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:44 AM
1

You simply aren't used to those smells getting you turned on. Sleep with more girls and it should change - or offer them showers before sex.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:00 AM
2

Matching pheromones. Those were your instincts telling you that if you had a kid with this girl, it would have a stronger immune system than if you were to "mate" with a different woman.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:55 AM
4

If all women didn't masturbate every single day in their youth, to the point where their brains became wired to only climax through self-stimulation and were in LTR's/marriages, with manly and mature men who communicated with them, respected and fulfilled their sexual needs and did not have a warped view of sex because of porn, they most likely wouldn't need vibrators. At least not as many as there are used today.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 08:17 AM
1

Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 08:02 AM
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Is it just me or does advocating for "sluts" foster rapey situations? In my opinion, advocating for "sluts" does foster rapey situations. It teaches girls and women that it's OK to send mixed signals and... you never know what kind of men you'll come across on dates, at clubs or in isolated areas. Some of them might respect your "no" and order you an Uber once you go to their place and refuse to have sex. Others might kick you out of their apartment and block your number... or be so turned on, s…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 01:28 PM
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Be kind, but firm. Thank your FWB for the time you've spent together, wish him luck in life and be prepared to move on. The same thing goes for the rest of the men. It's a good idea to hold the peace, but don't try to offer them to "be your friends", as it will needlessly get their hopes up. If they try to spam you with messages after you leave them, simply tell them to stop and if that doesn't work, block them.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 12:55 PM
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Send her a picture of an obese, ugly man and start acting like a thirsty beta (to an insane point. Say things like "I can't wait until I lose my virginity with you!") until she blocks you.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 01:28 PM
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I've been in the exact same situation for a few months. My "boyfriend" (if one could call him that way) was 25 (I was 18 at that time) and he put next to no effort into our relationship, to the point where I was the only one crossing the border to meet with him, destroying my relationship with my parents, almost failing the school year, losing friends and always texting first. Here's some advice that might (!) help you rebuild this relationship, assuming that he still has some lingering feelings…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/19 09:42 PM
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Inoctrination from the government. Also, in order to learn new things, you need to be curious and have an open mind.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:05 AM
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Here are some things that "tricked" a guy that was totally against me initiating intimacy (as far as I can tell now, he wanted sex to be viewed as something scarce and valuable, therefore becoming the "gatekeeper" of it), into starting sex with me - and thinking that he was the one who wanted it first: Sending him pictures of sexy lingerie or a bathing suit I "just happened to buy". Asking him where the clitoris is (during a conversation while we were alone), pretending that I don't understand h…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/19 10:00 PM
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I can totally relate to this. Once I started applying redpill principles to my daily life, my mother immediately tried to put me down. I went on a diet? I'm anorexic! I put on a dress, let my hair loose and stopped wearing dirty rags? I dress up like a whore and am TOTALLY doing that to get the attention of men and sleep with them! I started cooking for myself? The dishes aren't clean after 5 minutes of cooking! How dare I take things from the fridge without her permission?! Luckily, I only need…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/19 09:16 PM
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Here are some of my theories: College campuses in the West are well-known for the hook-up culture. If a woman spends a few years there, riding the CC, she might get bored of normal sex and want to try something new. Educated women are usually nearing the wall. They know that they have to lock down/keep Mr.Right, so they try to make up for not being in their prime by offering more taboo types of sex. Women with higher degrees of education are more open-minded, liberal and sex-positive. Therefore,…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 08:36 PM
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OP shouldn't be taking morphine instead of Tylenol to get rid of her headache, because after she gets used to morphine, Tylenol will do nothing to her. Abd once she gets a migrene or undergoes surgery, what will she use to ease the pain? Heroine? Also, what a vibrator's used for and what you experience with a partner is similiar. If you don't believe me, then why do so many women complain about their husbands/fianceès/boyfriends not pleasing them? Should they accept the fact that sex isn't meant…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/19 12:46 PM
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In my opinion, you had too much abundance mentality to be considered relationship material. After all, you only texted her once in a while (and even took a 10-day long break from doing so). You also didn't give into her frame, were/appeared cold towards her, which, though attractive at the start of a relationship, turns into a turn-off after a few weeks or months. When girls look for LTRs, they usually want a mixture of alpha and beta traits (or simply a beta. It depends on the girl's character …
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:50 PM
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Ask her if she's willing to use hormonic birth control. Aside from pills, there are also special rings that are inserted into the vagina. They give fewer side effects than normal pills, it's harder to "forget" to insert them, and if she gets ill, she can use more kinds of medication. If she isn't willing to use such birth control and another accident like that happens, think twice before havig sex woth her again.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:21 PM
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It's her seeing you as a sigma. If she viewed you as a cuck, she'd friendzone you.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:16 PM
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Do you really think that she'll give you sex once you start a relationship with her? Attraction can't be negotiated and once you're in her frame, she'll lose any attraction she has towards you.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:11 PM
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No. Just don't get her hopes up too high, if you decide not to turn it into an LTR.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:08 PM
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Back in the day, while I was still a bluepilled teen, I didn't really care what I wore. My clothes would often have holes and stains and my hair would be messy, greasy and in a ponytail. After discovering TRP, though, I switched to a more elegant style. I currently keep my hair loose, tuck my long-sleeved shirts (most of them have pastel colors, though I still have a black blouse covered in patterns that I adore) into my trousers (two of them are black, one pair is light blue and the other one's…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/19 09:44 AM
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Don't do antidepresants. You'll never know how your body will react to them.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 09:31 PM
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20% have at least some attraction towards the same sex.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 09:27 PM
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This is a rational sub and people normally don't get downvoted into oblivion for telling the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 10:06 PM
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Fantasizing is ok. After all, you have to create your fantasies in your head and you can easily recall them during sex, making it MUCH easier for you to climax. And if your fantasies involve your partner... As for porn, though, you're absolutely right. Watching it recquires no rffort and leaves zero room for the imagination and once you wire your brain to orgasm from it, you won't climax unless you watch porn during intercourse - and I doubt if any decent guy would agree to that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 09:59 PM
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She's 15. If she starts using vibrators now, what on Earth will she need to get off at 30?! OP, start with basics. You shouldn't have to rely on toys to get off - and that will happen if you use them, because they give much stronger stimulation than any man is capable of.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 09:53 PM
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This sounds like a decent plan. I want him to know that I'm attracted to him, and what you've suggested sounds like a good balance between maintaining some tension and not coming off as easy. Thanks a lot!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 07:47 AM
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Because they are easily manipulated and used by other people, such as their parents, friends and employers. It would also be easy for a different woman to get him to cheat on you – not to mention that after a few months, you wouldn't be attracted to such a man anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 07:33 AM
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I heard that love lasts for 4-5 years, because after that period of time, the child is capable of survival on its own. Of course, its life won't be particularly pleasant, but it can at least, say, pick some scraps out of a rubbish bin and not starve to death. In third world countries, there are almost no homeless orphans under the age of four, because until the child hits that age, it's entirely dependant on its parents and will die without their care.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 03:17 PM
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If women want equality, they should be given equal shit, but only if they earn it like men currently do. No gender (neither men, nor women) should be treated better just because they have a penis/vagina between their legs.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 03:11 PM
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Can I get a link too? I want to read through the comments
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 02:38 PM
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I thought men get banned from that sub simply for being men...
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 02:25 PM
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Especially if they've constantly been validated as children, told that they're special, etc. And for some reason, their parents stopped doing so.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:26 AM
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People used to reproduce with 3/10's back in the day. A 6/10 is above average.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:05 PM
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Just because a girl's hot, doesn't mean she automatically has high self-esteem.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 01:39 PM
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After 25 or 30, or once they finish their education. I'm 19 and I still prefer being called a girl.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 09:55 AM
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This can be a bit more dynamic, like taking the kid to your place on weekends, etc. There are many kids out there that don't see their fathers every day (military, pilots, traveling businessmen, etc), but not all of them end up bad. I'm not saying that the kid will definitely end up bad if you don't live with him. It's just that... the odds of that are much higher than if you started a normal family. Also, being in the military, a pilot, businessman are all "legitimate" reasons for being away fr…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 11:48 AM
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The kid won't have a father figure. If you have a son, he'll need a man to look up to even more than if you were to have a girl. Otherwise, he might become pussified, a criminal, or suffer from mental disorders. I understand that you'll spend some time at your partner's place, but... visiting her and your son, say, twice a week is not the same as spending every day with your child. His mother would influence him much more than you would - and she'd have more authority over him. It will be really…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 11:24 AM
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She most likely pretended. If you truly pleased her so many times, she wouldn't have blocked you.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:45 PM
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How are you supposed to game girls if you are: 1. Not confident 2. Not motivated to do so 3. You don't get hard during sex, because you're too used to using your hand. 4. You're Low T 5. You're overweight 6. You have a high-pitched voice
/r/askTRP05/11/19 12:00 PM
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Often times, girls that act very "prude" and "pure" are in reality doing so to cover up the fact that they're promiscuous. I'm not sure how many girls in your area sleep around, but if most of them do so, men might simply assume that you're one of them, especially if you (subconciously) give out signals that you might have a high N-count. After all, what's more likely to occur? A girl in a "high-slut-count-area" learning to give BJ's through practice, or PDF's? Why would a virgin read abput such…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 09:43 AM
2

Yes, you should. When you're still inexperienced, it can be a huge help!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 04:06 PM
4

Chose a few recipes to start with. They can be your favorite dishes, or something simple. I'd recommend buying a recipe book with lunches and/or dinners that are quick, interesting and easy to prepare. After all, during everyday life, you most likely won't have 3 hours per day to cook. Plan your meals ahead. Check what's in the fridge and cabinets and, whenever you notice that you need a certain ingredient for a dish (that isn't at home or will be eaten by your parents), write down the name of t…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 12:29 PM
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I mean... when would a woman have time to sleep with so many men? If she were to have a body count of 100 at 20, she'd have to have a new partner every 7,3 days, assuming that she started sleeping around on her 18th birthday. That would require TONS of dedication to boosting your N count. Who would want to go through all of that? And... why? What for? Where would she find so many partners?
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:17 PM
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It proves that she doesn't treat sex as an intimate act between herself and the man she loves/is passionate about. Therefore, in theory, she might find it easier to cheat on her husband/partner.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 03:52 PM
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I'm sorry if I sounded as if I accused you of being so addicted to masturbation, you'd need it to fall asleep. I must have misunderstood the fragment in which you said that you treat this habit like a sleeping pill. As for eyesight - like I said, there's no guarantee that it will improve thanks to abstination, or that you'll go blind if you stick to this habit. It's just that... my eyesight improved after quitting, as well as my ex's. I'm not sure how everyone else's eyesight reacts.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 07:49 AM
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It's a period of time, during which you give up dating and sexual activity in order to work on your goals.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 02:39 PM
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You shouldn't rely on masturbation to be able to fall asleep. That can easily lead to addiction. Also, what will you do if you'll have to sleep with someone in one room? Will you touch yourself as well? Here's a list of benefits that come from quitting this habit. Of course, they don't come immediately, but after 2-3 months without masturbation: 1. Your lady parts will become a lot more responsive to touching. You will need less time and effort to orgasm. 2. Your mind will be a lot more clear. O…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 09:50 AM
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This guy will mosy likely dump your "friend" for a newer model once her looks go away. Good thing he left you now, while you're still relatively young, instead of, say, after 10 years of marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 09:04 AM
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Ok then, I'll try. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/19 06:46 PM
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I befriended a guy while I was in Nun Mode and, over time, started to develop feelings for him. Yesterday, he offered to start an LDR. This guy doesn't have any major red flags and I'm doing quite well with achieving my Nun Mode goals. Should I agree to an LDR?
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/19 04:19 PM
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I finally memorized a recipe for baked oatmeal and don't need to check the recipe book while cooking it anymore. After a break, I got back to working out and managed to stick to my schedule. I've attended school every day, in spite of the fact that I didn't want to do so.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/19 09:39 AM
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10$ isn't a fortune You can always walk or ride bikes.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/19 09:30 AM
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The child didn't belong to the man you've broken up with. Also, you were in an LTR with him, so it doesn't count as slutting around.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 04:15 PM
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I'm usually away from home for over 12 hours per day and have to prepare my meals in the morning or whenever I come home a bit earlier, relatively quickly. Here are some of my tips: Make sure that there's always something with grains (bread, rice, pasta, porridge, etc.), a fruit/vegetable, as well as a food that has protein (meat, cheese, yogurt, ham, etc.) that will keep him full for the next few hours. Instead of thinking "I need ingredients A, B, C and D to make X", switch to a "I have E, F, …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 09:00 AM
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Yes, people adjust to the new culture/environment and you'd be a liar if you said that people don't get influenced by their surroundings. So unless she makes friends with immigrants from her country, expect change.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 08:16 AM
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Women can usually pair bond with their first 5 sexual partners, so OP is good to go :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 06:44 AM
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Ok then... just... be careful... 3 LTR's is quite a lot for a 19 year old. I'm not saying it's a giant red flag that should cause you to run away screaming (her having a body count of, say, 15 would be one, for instance) but it's definitely a yellow one, indicating that she might not be a keeper.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 11:59 AM
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You just got pumped and dumped.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 08:49 AM
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I'm from Poland and I have to disappoint you. Here, there are just as many flat-chested women as in other parts of the world, and a C-cup girl is considered average. However, I have good news too: most girls are slim here and maintain a healthy lifestyle. A girl that weighs 60 kilograms is considered a bit overweight. A girl that weighs 70 is deemed as straightoff fat - and is often shamed for her extra kilograms.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:20 AM
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Being able to speak a foreign language fluently is a sign indicating intelligence, which is an attractive trait.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:12 AM
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She's 19 and has already had 3 LTR's? When did she manage to get them? Teebage love isn't usually an LTR.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:03 AM
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80% of sexual assaults/rapes occur in relationships. Perverts jumping women in parks are, unlike what media tell us, rare.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 03:57 PM
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If OP started acting like a betabitch, though, that girl would have lost the attraction to him and went of fto look for someone more attractive. Girls don't like pussified, thirsty betas, even if they are 10/10 lookswise (because, say, they won the genetic lottery).
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 04:48 AM
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I usually talk to people on the train to school. Make sure you have an excuse to start the conversation. Walking up to someone (especially a beautiful girl) and asking her how her day's going out of nowhere might appear a bit creepy, especially if you're not good at talking to people yet. If you're waiting at a bus stop, ask someone when the bus will arrive. If you see someone with a dog, ask if you can pet it. After initiating the conversation, watch your the other person's reaction. If he/she …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 04:29 PM
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Practise. Like any other skill. Talk to people/women while waiting at the bus stop, in a queue, etc. Soon, it will be second nature to you.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 01:11 PM
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Is he addicted to masturbation, or have issues in the bedroom (like not being able to maintain an erection)? Perhaps that might be the cause.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 06:56 AM
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This.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 06:29 AM
1

What about oneitis? It usually happens to men with a low n count.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 08:40 PM
1

There's no guarantee that 3rd world women will be problemless 9's and 10's.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 08:39 PM
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Any time you have sex, even with a condom and a committed partner, you risk all those things. With a committed partner, the risk is smaller. Why? He's committed and exclusive to you, so unless he gets raped, the chances of you getting an STD from him are close to zero. If you're having sex with a committed partner, you usually use hormonal birth control (because you no longer have to protect yourself from STD's), which is a lot better at preventing pregnancy than getting your partner to wear a c…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 03:07 PM
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OP would be riskng STD's, pregnancy, pain and being disrespected for nothing (most likely not even an orgasm, since she' s inexperienced and guys usually don't care for their fwb's pleasure in bed as much as they care for their girlfriends being pleased). That totally doesn't sound like being used.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 09:19 AM
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Because they can potentially catch STD's and accidentally infect someone with them. They spoil the RMP by giving one of the key things a girl brings to the table (I'm sorry if this sounds sexist, but sex is one of the most important things guys want from their girlfriend. It IS NOT the only thing that they desire) for free or next to nothing. Imagine you're were selling apples at a marketplace. You have a small orchard, so you set the price to, say, 1$ per pound, like most other farmers. And the…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 09:15 AM
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That's because sex has been the forbidden fruit for you. Once you try it, you'll regret thirsting over it so much.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 08:53 AM
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Isn't it Ok to have friends if the same sex while being in a relationship, though? If OP's boyfriend was cheating on her, he wouldn't offer to show her the snaps, let alone apologize for sending them.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 08:43 AM
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It's not only about cucking yourself, but also: 1. Decreased testosterone levels. If you're a man and you masturbate every day (or even a few times per week), you lose semen every time you ejaculate. Sperm contains testosterone and if you're constantly getting rid of it... don't be surprised ig your voice gets high-pitched, you start picking up more body fat, lose your persistance and stop acting as manly as you've used to. 2. Getting an orgasm after only clicking a few times or touching the scr…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 04:27 PM
1

I usually get these outbursts when I'm hungry. Luckilu for me, I don't really suffer from PMS.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 04:13 PM
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I'm against porn. It: 1. Gives men unrealistic expectations regarding womens' bodies 2. Gives men unrealistic expectations regarding sex 3. Encourages masturbation, which leads to several negative consecquences 4. Makes it harder for men to get aroused while having sex
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 10:58 PM
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I'm currently in queue for therapy for other reasons (not the anger issues). I'm not sure if the psychologist I'll be going to knows how to treat such issues as well. He mostly specialises in relationships between people. Hopefully, though, he'll know how to prevent emotional ourbursts as well.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 03:01 PM
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Spend time practicing things like common hobbies. Go on a trip or hike together. Have fun and show him that you can do so many normal things together, aside from having sex. Also, avoid going to his or your place until you're ready to become intimate and don't hold sex off forever.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 09:05 PM
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If you're talking about using techniques designed for males, then no, there is no way, since our biological goals are different. A man's goal is to spread his seed amongst as many fertile females capable of birthing and nursing babies as possible, whereas a woman's goal is finding the best possible male (both genetic- and status- wise), that will give her a healthy child and provide enough resources for it to survive and grow into a strong adult. Unfortunately, there aren't as many tall, strong,…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:54 AM
2

She isn't implementing TRP properly. If she was, she wouldn't drag you to her room and send so many mixed signals.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:12 PM
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Intelligent women don't look for boyfriends at work, because they know that if things don't turn out well, they'll have to spend time with their ex every day or get a new job. Also, ask yourself 2 questions: Are you stimulating them mentally as well? Can you hold up a meaningful conversation? Doing so is your responsibility in 50%.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:06 PM
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That's why I said MOST women with an IQ of more than 115 don't spend MUCH time in clubs and bars. They have other ways to spend their time than just to get drunk and party.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:00 PM
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Back when we still lived in caves, intelligent women were harder to pick up, take to the cave and mate with, which is why most men ended up having children with women that were more emotional, stupid (easier to convince to have sex with) and self-centered (cared for themselves more during pregnancy, giving the child better chances of survival). The smarter girls either got picked up by intelligent men, or died off before having babies. That's why so many women are shallow. Another reason why so …
/r/askTRP11/10/19 10:19 PM
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Tell him why you're reading the book if he asks you. If he doesn't, then just read it. I mean, you're not listening to anyyhing like "how to trick a guy into marriage" or "emotional manipulation of men"
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 06:23 AM
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That's why I said that they MIGHT not take her seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 01:45 PM
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Yep, sadly... I'm currently trying to improve myself both looks- and character wise (losing weight, actually caring for my appearance, being responsible)to learn to be happy alone. If attract someone like my ex and actually get to lie him, then good. If not.. I have other things to do in life as well. Luckily for me, I won't be forced to marry a beta-loser like it's the 19th century.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 01:56 PM
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You might be unsubmissive because you're afraid of abandonment. Keep in mind, though, that even if your boyfriend marries you, he can still divorce you. There aren't too many men that will stay in a marriage "no matter what". Also, marriage doesn't act like a magic wand that will immediately turn you into a perfect wife. Sure, you mught see imprpvement for a few months, but after that, your old habits will return. If I were you, I'd resolve your issues before the wedding, since you're stuck in l…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 12:48 PM
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Older guys might not take her seriously, because she isn't experienced in maneuvering around the RMP. Such girls can easily attract abusive partnersthat will treat them like slaves, not equals/first mates, or pretend to commit to her only to get free sex. In my opinion, OP should look for a boyfriend her age or a few years older, but outside of college.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 07:12 AM
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Low self-esteem They know that once they hit the wall and don't manage to put "wife goggles" on their high-quality husband/LTR's eyes, he'll ditch them for a younger and hotter model, simply because he has options. A beta guy will remain loyal, because if he divorces his older wife, he won't manage (or is too afraid to) to find any new option for sex that's better than his spouse. Therefore, he'd rather not risk anything and just stay with his SO, as long as her flaws are somewhat tolerable. The…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 10:43 AM
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There was an article on Return Of Kings about slut tells. Hope this helps you filter out potential plates/girlfriends: http://www.returnofkings.com/16837/24-signs-shes-a-slut
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:59 PM
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There's a post on a site called returnofkings, where there are like 40 signs indicating that a girl's easy. I'll post a link to it in a moment.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:51 PM
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Yea... People know what they type in the search box. If someone writes, say "coprophilia" in google, he shouldn't be shocked if he finds gross photos and videos. Same with subreddits. If a community uses hate speech, encourages self-harm, allows users to post NSFW content, etc. it should be marked as offensive, but not removed. Users should be able to decide on their own whether they want to, say, look at gory photos, spill their anger on an incel sub, or go to a safer subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 03:09 PM
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The internet should be a free space and if one finds a subreddit offensive, he should simply visit a different sub. Nobody's forcing anyone to go the TRP's community here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 03:00 PM
4

Don't pretend that you're someome you are not. High quality men will immediatelly realise that you're pretending and stop dating you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 08:35 PM
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It helps me understand the dynamics between men and women. Of course, I usually stick to the womens' sub, however, every now and then, I come over here to take a look at the strategies men use in dating, so that once I get out of Nun Mode (not dating and, instead, focusing on self-development), I'll have an advantage in the dating marketplace.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 07:58 AM
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Plate spinning (like men do) is too risky for women due to the risk of unwanted pregnancy, becoming a slut and getting zero pleasure from casual sex. Usually, they just friendzone their orbiters, get all the benefits of being in a relationship (attention, validation, favors, gifts and sometimes even love and exclusivity) without having to do anything in return.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 07:46 AM
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In Poland: getting naked = sex talking about your private parts in any way (and paying attention to them) = you're a whore using contraceptives = you want to have sex with someone Many women are ashamed to visit the gynaecologist as well. While writing this post, I had to quickly switch to another window whenever my mother passed by the computer and if I were to say such things IRL, it would make me a bit nervous tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 08:34 PM
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Because many people that live with their parents as adults do so because they are still dependant on them, irresponsible, immature, lack the skills that most adults possess (such as managing finances) and don't have a stable job.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 10:10 AM
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If you're hanging out with someone for the 3rd time (when you said that the girl should start undressing), how are you supposed to be certain that he's trustworthy? That he'll respect your "no" and not try to pressure you into having sex (or straightoff try to force you to sleep with him, since you've already gone this far)? Of course, every guy should respect a woman's boundaries, but then again, if a woman takes off her shirt and makes out with a man, and once he tries to undress her completel…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 06:35 PM
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How are you supposed to feel empowered by casual sex if you're a woman?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 06:19 PM
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Delete all dating apps, if you use them. If a guy tries to ask you out IRL, politely turn him down. Analyse yourself. Think about the things you could do to become a better version of yourself. Are there any issues you have to overcome (extra weight, insecurity, trauma, being clingy or overly jealous)? Find ways you could resolve them and set your goals accordingly. Don't have casual sex, because it boosts your n count, makes you feel like a piece of meat, can lead to pregnancy and disease witho…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 07:40 AM
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You feel desired and beautiful, if you do it with the right partner. It can also allow you to somehow have "control" over the relationship when used at the right time (after all, there's a reason why redpill men try to bed women ASAP and "f*ck their brains out" (like a user from that sub said). Whoever rocks their partner's world sexually (or has the potential to do so), wields power in the relationship. I would have left a guy I was emotionally dependant on much earlier if he didn't give me ext…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 07:11 AM
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Wouldn't undressing come off as sending signals that you're ready to have sex, even though you aren't?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 06:58 AM
1

Thanks for your advice! I'm currently using 2 3-kilo weights and am saving money for some heavier ones (5 kilos each).
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 06:22 PM
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I'm 19 and currently in Nun Mode until I finish school. My goals are: 1. To build and maintain a stable social network. Get rid of my fear of emotional dependancy, attachment, and learn to find a middle ground between being a cold-hearted, calculating psychopath and extremely overreactive. Graduate with straight A's. Maintain a weight of 55kg's and proper hygiene. Increase the number of sit-ups I do every day to 500 (so far, I'm at 300), since they make my stomach look flatter and help woth lord…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 08:27 PM
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If that's the case, I'm sorry for misunderstanding your comment and immediately defending OP. It's just that... in my country, most people consider an n count of six at the age of 27 a rather average amount of partners. Some more conservative people would even say it's a bit too many. Therefore, I judged your comment through those "lens", for which I once again apologise. If you want to, I'll delete that post.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 07:49 AM
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There's no need to bash OP for having slept with 6 people. I mean... she's 27, not 17 and there are lots of women out there that had slept with 3 times as many men by the time they reached her age, even in places where the hook-up culture isn't well developed. Also, she isn't a single mother, so she at least knew how to protect herself.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 05:17 AM
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My periods have been extremely rough as well over the last year. The first day of them is an absolute nightmare (severe cramps, back pain, wanting to throw up all the time and having to be constantly using the bathroom)The gynecologist I go to says I have thick endometrium (or whatever that stuff that lines your uterus is called) and I should be taking hormonal contraceptives, however, my mother threatened to kick me out of the house if she spots a single packet of pills, because she thinks I'll…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/19 08:27 PM
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Not dating while I have such issues sounds like a good idea, I think I'll remain in Nun Mode until they're resolved, in order to avoid hurting anyone. Also, I'll talk to the school psychologist tomorrow... Hopefully, he'll think of a way to get me to therapy a bit faster.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 02:14 PM
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Currently, I'm trying to develop a stable social network (sort of what Red-Pilled men do with their plates, except I'm doing so with acquaintances), as well as learn to be happy even when I'm alone. I'll try to arrange a visit to a psychologist, though and, until then... try to find a middle ground between emotional dependency and shutting out anyone that gets too close.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 11:58 AM
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Yes, he pointed it out, but I usually came up with lame excuses as to why I didn't draw/write as much as I used to. My friends got pushed away, simply because I was putting all of my energy into the relationship. These were some of the reasons why he left me (aside from being really toxic towards him, which I realised just recently, after finding some old screenshots of our text messages). As for therapy, I really don't have the money to pay for it, and if I'd have to wait for a public appointme…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 11:54 AM
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Thanks for your kind words! I am no longer afraid of getting left as much as I used to be (if someone ghosts me/starts ignoring me for no reason, then too bad for him/her), however, I have trouble opening up to someone, because I am afraid of becoming emotionally dependant and hurt again. There are times when I even feel like a heartless psychopath.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 09:40 AM
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I didn't know she got slatted for potentially dating a red-pill man, and, to be honest, I didn't watch that many of her videos (maybe 3 or 4), mostly regarding relationships. If that's the truth, then I apologise for mentioning her as a Redpill woman. I'll delete the comment, so that others don't get mislead.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 11:57 AM
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I used to be a textbook 4. With over 60 kg. of weight (most girls my age weigh 45-55 kg. where I live), stained, often smelly clothes, poor hygiene, greasy hair and pimples on my face, I scared off most high-quality men. After I started maintaining proper hygiene, wearing clothes that show every positive trait of my body type, letting my hair loose, I became a 7.5/10 look-wise. If I wore a waist trainer, makeup and did more exercises to have a larger butt (I don't always find enough motivation t…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/19 05:57 PM
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The more feelings you develop for someone, the more physically attractive he appears, even if he doesn't change his appearance by a single bit.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/19 05:50 PM
1

There's The Ukrainian Lens (they seem pretty red-pilled) and a Polish Youtuber called Anna Szlęzak. I often find myself noticing similarities between what she says and what RPW say here and... her advice works. Sadly, I don't think her videos have English subtitles.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/19 05:23 PM
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I live in Poland and here, abortion is only legal if at least one of these circumstances are met: The child has severe genetic diseases that would make it suffer for it's entire life or be stillborn. The pregnancy is a threat to the mother's life or health. The pregnancy is a result of rape. This doesn't stop women from sleeping around, though, since they still have access to birth control that prevents pregnancies from occurring in 90%-99% cases, depending on the method she's using. If you want…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/19 01:18 PM
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Someone give OP gold! This post was so helpful!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/19 06:49 AM
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I think you just attract bisexual guys and therefore, it seems to you that there are more of them.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 05:20 AM
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And puts him in the friendzone, making him her beta-slave
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 05:09 PM
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Doing at least 100 sit-ups every day (I usually do somewhere between 200 and 300), combined with a low carb diet does wonders for a flat stomach.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 02:56 PM
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Hug: After the first date, in order to indicate romantic interest. Kiss: Somewhere between the 2nd-4th date, depending on when the "tingles" start kicking in. If tingles don't show up after the 5th date, I'm out. I've wasted ebough time dating guys that I didn't feel attracted to, because I didn't want them to feel bad and my mom kept telling me that they were "so nice". Emotional intimacy: In Poland, you almost always date one person at a time and going out with, say, two different guys within …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 09:16 AM
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Yes, it will cause loose skin. It's best to loose no more than 1 kg. per week. I lost half a kilo every seven days and although I didn't have loose skin, my breasts got a size smaller.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/19 02:00 PM
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It's because there's lots of advice regarding that on the internet, however, tips regarding keeping a relationship stable and happy can be hard to find.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/19 10:43 AM
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They're probably jealous incels that can't get girlfriends themselves.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:53 PM
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Men prefer blonds for ONS's. If they're looking for a wife, they will more likely choose a brunette over a blonde.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 08:04 PM
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Be assertive. Keep to your word (If you say "no", don't change your mind. If you agree to meet someone, don't cancel the meeting at the last minute). If you want to attract and keep high-quality a high-quality man, be a high-quality woman.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 08:03 PM
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I've been in the exact same situation as you. The first days were horrible, but now, after 3 months, things have gotten better. Here's what helped me: Exercise and self care. Every evening, I work out, wash my hair and face. After that, I choose clothes to wear on the next day. It releases endorphins, relaxes me and helps me get rid of any negative emotions I've experienced during the day. Not to mention the stability and my body becoming more attractive. I used to be a 4-5/10, however, after ma…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 06:37 PM
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Speaking slowly proves that you're calm and confident, making the girl feel safe at a subconscious level. A deep, clear voice indicated high testosterone levels. It all down to nature. We, women, desire alpha males that can give our offspring good genes and protect us and the child.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 04:54 PM
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Thanks a lot! I try to stay low-carb too (and limit myself to 1500 calories per day until I achieve my weight goal, the majority of said calories coming from proteins), mostly because I'm working on getting a flat stomach (and so far, I'm doing pretty well). I'm not allergic to anything, so I'll be trying out the recipes you've sent me. Once again, thanks a lot!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 04:50 PM
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Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 03:35 PM
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Head-over-heels feelings will often make you end up in a toxic relationship, feel used, miserable, etc. Although they're addictive and feel amazing (been there, experienced it), once they end, you will only be a shadow of your former self and unable to fall in love with someone that isn't as alpha as your former partner. That's why I envy girls that never had to deal with highly desirable guys and why I think that back in the old days, this was one of the reason for marrying girls off in their l…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 03:32 PM
5

And end up with 10 cats?
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 03:21 PM
2

Thanks! What's the exact recipe?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/19 07:41 PM
1

Poor you! Don't drink/do drugs with him again, and try to get a new room as soon as possible. Hopefully, you won't have to deal with him for too long...
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/19 07:13 PM
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I sure do! I'll try to make it today!
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/19 06:22 PM
1

In my opinion, RP "eating their own" at beginner stages is a pretty good way to filter out those that are too weak and uncommitted to become true alpha males. After all, there can only be a certain percentage of leaders and winners in society.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 04:04 PM
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I tried doing lunges a few days ago... Boy, are they exhausting! I can nearly feel my glutes growing, though! Will do them instead of squats!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/19 08:57 PM
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In my opinion, RPW "teachings" are true feminism. They tell women that being soft, kind, gentle and feminine aren't bad traits that should be supressed, unless you are a slave of the "patriarchy". They support women in being what they were naturally "designed" for, teach them to embrace their femininity instead of surpressing it, don't teach them lies, such as "every woman is beautiful", "you can do whatever men are capable of", "you only have to be yourself and Mr.Right will find you", "casual …
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/19 08:51 PM
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I'm not sure... I'll look for it, though, and DM you the link if I find one.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/19 12:40 PM
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The moment I bought better-suiting, feminine clothes that I used to avoid, looked in the mirror and, for the first time in my life, I didn't see an ugly tomboy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 08:43 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HAzSTk4ZJtI&t=347s I'm not sure if this video has subtitles, but it explains what to do if you had an unexpected hookup quite well. Also, if you start messaging him more/less than before you had sex, there's a chance that he'll think you're mad at him, or want to force him to commit. I'd try to aknowledge the dact that you've slept with each other and... move on. Meet in public places, talk about the same things you've talked about before, so that he won't treat you…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 02:45 PM
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The second option might be hard for OP, because she already loves him. If you're in love with someone, it's not easy to look for other options.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 07:23 PM
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In my opinion, he is just trying to lead you on and waste your time. If he truly liked you and wanted to spend time with you, he'd find enough time even for a quick coffee date. Don't meet with him on Monday. He might try to give you false hope then and won't change much in his attitude towards you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 05:48 PM
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You're not a virgin, so I don't thinkthere will be that many guys who will be willing to wait for sex until marriage, since you've already given access to your body to someone who you weren't married to.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 10:25 AM
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You can also try to meet in a public place and kindly deny an invitation to his place, if he brings up this offer, because once you're in his flat, there's a 90% chance that things will get heavy (since you've already been sexting before) and nothing discourages a guy more than sending him mixed signals, because it shows that you don't know what you want and don't really respect yourself. It's almost as if a guy treated you like ypur girlfriend, (perhaps even slept with you), only to tell you th…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 08:37 AM
5

What about pair bonding and sex being an intimate, special process?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 08:21 AM
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As long as you don't live in a place where most women save their virginities for until marriage, you don't have anything to make up for. An n count of 3 at 20 isn't the worst, especially in the West, where the hook-up culture is well developed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 08:20 AM
1

Thanks for all your advice, guys! I really appreciate it. I tried posting similiar questions on other websites, however, the only results I got was very bluepill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 06:50 AM
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I'm currently focusing on my legs, bottom and abs, as well as using whitening toothpaste. The results are already showing, but there's still a lot to improve. I also live in an area where most women are goregous and, if you want me to, I can DM you a photo of myself, as well as a few girls from my social circle (friends, cousins, etc, that, in my opinion, are average-looking (not exceptionally beautiful, but not ugly either) for Polish standards)
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 06:48 AM
2

I'll try it for a month, perhaps 2... Do you think wearibg it while you're sleeping is safe, or should I use it during the day?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 06:43 AM
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Unfortunately, I live in Eastern Poland, where most women would be considered goregous by American standards. If you're a 7/10 in the USA, you'd be a five here at most.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 05:15 AM
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To me, being Red-pilled is about knowing the dynamics between men and women in relationships and using said knowledge. If you meet both criteria, then sure, you can be a lesbian RPW. It's just that you'll have to learn different rules and ways to act, due to the nature of your partners and what they're seeking.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/19 01:02 PM
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I made some sort of homemade dumplings/noodles with fried sausage and onion. It took about 15-20 minutes to cook and a serving costs of it costs less than a dollar in my country. Here's the recipe: – You will need: 2 cups of flour 1 egg 2-3 tablespoons of milk A teaspoon of salt for the dumplings/noodles (I don't really know what to call them), as well as: A single sausage 3 tablespoons of oil/butter/whatever you use to fry things 1 onion – How to prepare this meal: Fill a pot with water halfway…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/19 10:38 AM
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Why? The time between engagement and marriage is designed to let the couple see if they're suitable for each other for the rest of their lives (at least where I live). When a man kneels down and pulls out the ring, he offers to spend the rest of his life with his girlfriend. He doesn't promise her anything yet (that happens once they get married), but proposes that, if everything works out, they'll become husband and wife.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 10:41 AM
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I know one, it just depends on where you live. If you're from the USA or Western Europe, where the hook-up culture is well-developed, pumpers&dumpers won't wait 3-4 months just to get laid. Once you go to a more traditional part of the world, though, such men are quite common. Here are a few red flags that I ignored from the person that used me for sex and intimacy for a few months, only to tell me that I'm not his type after 7 months: 1. He asked me if I was a virgin during our first conversati…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 01:50 AM
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If that was the truth, he wouldn't send that girl pictures.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 01:23 AM
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Did you think about saving your virginity until you're engaged? That way, there's a 99% chance that you won't lose it recklessly and you'll be able to make sure that you and your partner have similiar sex drives, needs etc., and if the sex is truly awful, you won't be forced to have it for the rest of your life or get a divorce. In the place I live, most modern couples do so (they also start living together once they're engaged) and this seems like a decent middle ground between sex before commi…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 01:11 AM
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I think that she's trying to "fake it till she makes it" and manipulate OP into committing to her.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 05:49 PM
1

Poor you! Didn't your wife do anything at home, since she wasn't working?!
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 07:49 AM
2

The pull out method doesn't always work, because some men have traces of sperm in their precum and it only takes one spermatozoid to get a woman pregnant if you're extremely unlucky.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:18 PM
1

If she wants you to date/commit, say "no" and stick to it. Don't lead her on just for more pussy. She'll end up with a broken heart, and you'll end up being annoyed/considered a dick in your social circle, if you and the girl you're dating have mutual friends. Don't call her honey, sweetheart, etc. Don't romanticise too many of your interactions.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 08:02 PM
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Saliva only helps for a moment, but after a minute or two of penetration, it gets a lot worse tgan it was in the first place, at least from my experience. If I were OP, I'd invest in lubrication that's designed specifically for sex. It should help her get over the first few weeks of sex, while her vagina stretches and "learns" to produce enough lubrication on its own.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/19 10:13 AM
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I think you might have a specific "kind" of approach/game-style that attracts mostly black and hispanic women? This might also be the reason why indian/east-asian guys attend so many pick-up classes.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/19 01:15 PM
3

I cut off all contact with him the moment he told me that I'm not his type. Normally, I can get through the day without crying because of him, however, in the evenings and nights, all the emotions and memories kick in and, although a few months have passed, I'm still not ready for a new relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/19 08:42 AM
1

I think you should stop contacting him and let him initiate the next meeting. Give him some space and show him that you have a life too.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/19 10:43 AM
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Don't date incels. Those are people without respect, both for themselves and other people. In my opinion, their looks aren't the main reason they can't have sex - after all, there are so many other ways men can become attractive (status, money, etc. Just look at all the older millionaires that, in spite of the fact that they're 2-3/10's lookswise, are surrounded by goregous women. Sure, some may say that these women are using the rich men for money, but then again... Don't beautiful girls get us…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 12:00 PM
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I am currently 1,7kg. away from achieving my weight goal. I managed to keep myself motivated to exercise every day, in spite of being called an anorectic whore by my mother. My hair is currently in a better state than two months ago. I managed to maintain proper hygiene (wash my hair every day, brush my teeth after every meal), even though I had problems with it earlier. What I still need to work on: Rebuilding my social circle. Learn to trust other people. Get rid of the fear that I will get di…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 11:12 AM
1

He might have been fascinated with the new woman, or she told him to stop contacting OP and he liked her enough to do so.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 03:41 PM
3

Precum might contain sperm, and all you need is one spermatozoid to get a woman pregnant, if you're extremely unlucky. Having to control yourself all the time might ruin the pleasure for many men. Not everyone can "time" the moment they pull out the penis. The pull-out method doesn't prevent STD's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:21 AM
2

Being an hourglass is a lot better than being a rectangle, and once OP loses her weight, she might become an 7-9/10, depending on her facial features and hair.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 10:13 AM
2

It might not even be possible for her to "prove herself" to him. Losing weight and getting over your issues for a plate spinner is like trying to get out of a woman's friendzone by showering her with even more gifts, commitment and affection.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 10:11 AM
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Work to get what you really want and stop spending time with this guy. He's simply wasting the years of your prime. If you try to settle down with a lower quality man than him, there's a high chance that you won't be able to fall in love with such a person. You'll keep comparing him to your FWB, making both of you frustrated, which will eventually lead to a breakup. If you find someone better than your current lover, though, you'll get over him a lot more easily and manage to be fulfilled in the…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 10:08 AM
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He's getting all of the benefits of being in a relationship with you, without having to give anything in return. Why on Earth would he want this situation to change? He'll never commit to you if you keep "rewarding" him for such behaviour. My advice? Cut off all contact with him and work on yourself. Otherwise, you'll waste what's left of your prime years, hit the wall and, instead of a family with him, you'll end up with 10 cats. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, moralising or rude. I've been in a si…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 09:32 AM
1

People used to live in tribes of 50-150 their entire lives and if you were to spend 30-60 years in a single community, you would know all of the gossip, who slept with who, etc. That's one way there was to tell if a girl was a virgin. Another one was checking hymens. Of course, some women are born without it, however, a vast majority of them have them until they lose their virginity.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 07:11 PM
2

Set a limit, like one chocolate bar/three pieces of candy per day and stick to it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 10:14 AM
3

You sound exactly like my mother. It's scientifically confirmed that the more partners a woman has, the harder it is for her to stay in a relationship and the more likely it is for her to cheat. Also, if everyone had sex only after marriage (or at least slept with people that they wanted to spend their future with), there would be a LOT less STD's, single parents, as well as girls with hearts broken by pump&dumpers who cannot fall in love anymore (like me). Also... Men like "untouched", innocent…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 10:11 AM
3

If you are feeling doubt, don't do it, because there's a 99% chance that you'll regret sleeping with him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 09:52 AM
1

I'm planning to move out next year, after I finish school, mostly to get away from her. If I move out now, though, I'd pretty much have to fight for survival and graduating with D's.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 05:31 PM
4

Wouldn't it be better for OP to buy thr ingredienys herself, though? That way, she'll also practice managing time and finances.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 08:51 PM
3

Perhaps hold me back. She's always been overprotective, and that flaw got even worse when I started spending time with an alpha man at 18. Our relationship is far from perfect to this day.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 08:43 PM
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I'm 19 and she called me a whore for wearing a normal dress. I tried to tell her how I feel many times, however, she doesn't really take criticism well and tends to blame me for her behavior. I have a feeling that she genuinely wants me to be happy, however, her definition of happiness in a relationship (having an obedient husband that would never leave her, but can't really do much around the house, is indecisive, can't lead the family, stand up to his mother and pretty much has to be cared for…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 07:19 PM
1

Thanks for the advice! I tried to find a teeth whitening kit available in my country, however, most of them weren't being sold in Poland or were really expensive. Instead, while searching for these kits, I found some whitening toothpaste (also from Colgate) which will hopefully work well too. I'm also planning to go to the dentist in a few days to have my teeth cleaned thoroughly.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 04:29 PM
1

It depends on the woman. Some preffer height over muscles, and others - the other way around.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:53 PM
1

She doesn't have to automatically be cheating. If she's only been with betas for her entire life (which is possible if she's a 5/10 or lower), she might not know how good sex can be and probably does't want to risk her boyfriend breaking up - which is also why she might be "keeping" him unnatractive to other girls. Or she isn't manipulating him at all, and OP's friend is just lazy.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:48 PM
1

If women were really into obese guys, men would be stuffing themselves up with junk food on purpose, and gyms would go bankrupt. Muscles are an indication of strength, health, good genes, and being able to protect the woman and her child (the last bit is at a subconcious level). Your friend is simply too lazy to work on himself and jealous of you. Keep working out.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:37 PM
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In my opinion, it would be naive to say that there's no "pretty priveledge". People are naturally attracted to beautiful, witty, confident, rich and happy human beings, because back when we still lived in caves, such friends increased our chances of survival. Usually, the children that didn't have friends and were bullied at school were either unnatractive (fat, red-headed, with lots of acne or without developed breasts/muscles, wearing glasses, you name it), poor, had mental issues (unable to c…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 08:38 AM
3

In my opinion, you should talk to your current boyfriend about you and your boyfriends' boundaries and what you expect the relationship to look like. If your expectations slightly differ, you can try to negotiate something that might suit you both (such as moving in with your boyfriend after you get engaged), however, if the differences of expectations will be too large, you should THEN break up and try to pursue other guys. Also, in my opinion, waiting for cohabitation until marriage isn't exac…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 11:08 AM
2

Also, by how many points can a girl possibly improve her appearance without plastic surgery? 1-2, or more? I'm not particularly overweight (58kg./127 pounds and 168cm./5'5" tall, many girls from my region are slimmer than me, though, weighing about 50-55kg. if they are my height), however, I have a relatively large forehead, yellowish teeth and have problems sitting up straight (hopefully, though, doing sports will help with that). My hair also used to be in a better condition than it is now, as…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 07:52 PM
1

I'm quite surprised about that... never thought that a guy can get aroused with a girl that isn't "his type"... looks like I've learned it the hard way... :(
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 06:27 PM
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Thanks for your advice :) You're right, I've been a... "bit" passive in my teenage years (pretty much wasted them on computer games and didn't do much socialising aside from school). A few days ago, I got commissioned to draw a large amount of small illustrations, for which I will receive the equivalent of 100$ – which is quite a lot of money for Polish standards. At first, I wanted to spend the money on better-looking clothes, however, after reading your comment, I decided to pay for 2 months o…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 02:51 PM
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