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Yeah I agree. I could see this being a nice V in the DEVI, but last thing you want is to be giving back rubs in exchange for sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 01:44 PM
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"This week I challenge you to put your self improvement on pause and maybe practice not being shit scared of your wife for a second." So many blowjobs are located on the other side of fear. So many.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 01:40 PM
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Yeah they both will be unhappy.
/r/askMRP03/07/23 04:34 PM
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My response was always "like a 1000" or "only you". Obviously both are lies. We are now married, and I've never disclosed the actual number and she stopped asking after a few times of asking early on.
/r/askMRP27/06/23 04:20 PM
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Speaking from experience, do not tell her. There are no positives to this. Be prepared to handle the shit tests when she does find out. Like others, I prefer low dose Cialis. It has other positive benefits medically and allows you to be more spontaneous.
/r/askMRP31/05/23 02:16 PM
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Yeah wtf. Dude still lives in the 90's.
/r/askMRP08/05/23 02:44 PM
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I forgot part of the sidebar tells you to have conversations with your wife after you've tried really hard for a month? Give me a fucking break. This isn't a short term thing. It took me YEARS to get my relationship where I am at. Conversations with a wife RARELY fix anything. Shut up.
/r/askMRP24/04/23 03:28 PM
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"No, I also want blowjobs and anal." I didn't come up with it, but I have used it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 04:12 PM
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My wife asked me this before we got married a few times, and every time I would smile and say "yes, I would love you...like a friend." She would call me an asshole and tell her friends. We are still married, and she is still not fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/23 08:55 PM
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Protein: Whey protein was fucking up my GI system and pea protein was like drinking sand. Bone broth protein is super healthy and easier to digest. Otherwise 1st Phorm's vegan protein is really good and easy on the stomach. I typically do a scoop of each in my morning smoothie.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/23 03:40 PM
3

It looks like all that time you spend in the purple pill reddit is paying off.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/23 11:09 PM
8

I don't understand your silly comment. I didn't need to hear anything, just stating my experience for 3kindsoflucky. Nice insult though "bigboy".
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/22 08:26 PM
2

If you actually get really fucking strong, there are more dangers than form when going for 1RM. A guy I know had his humerus break while benching. He passed out from the pain and if someone wasn't around, he would likely be dead. Another guy I know ripped his pec major while maxing his bench. Both very experienced lifters (and also on plenty of gear).
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 09:36 PM
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Actually, it does happen. I myself was banned from the retard sub for calling a mod a dick. I didn't disagree with him, and it was meant as sarcasm, but I got banned. MRP preaches OI and Frame, yet a mod is so sensitive he bans someone from calling him a dick. Cry me a fucking river. I forgot who it was at this point. Rules are rules though, and I didn't complain about them, I just accepted things as they are, not as I want them to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 02:54 PM
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What an idiot. There are supermarkets full of food all over the place.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/22 11:13 PM
1

“hey, stop being a bitch”? I don't hesitate to drop this line. You can play games all you want, or you can you know, just say what is actually on your mind.
/r/askMRP31/10/22 08:58 PM
1

300 is really fucking low for Test levels. It will make gym progress much harder.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 04:36 PM
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I wouldn't mind fucking a nice 19 yoa college freshman.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 03:20 PM
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OYS 2 39, Married 10 years, 2 young kids. 5'8" 165lbs. DL 355 Be careful what you wish for. A couple years ago there was this list of like 15 questions on it (like how many days in the last week have you gamed your wife). One of those questions was about who you would fuck if you divorced. Well, the #1 chick on my list now works for me. I have to choose to not cheat on my wife every fucking day. And this chick is 8 years younger and smoking hot, like fucking gorgeous. She is married to a beta bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 10:48 PM
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Sex is not a ridiculously massive deal, unless you arent having it, and it is also one of if not THE method by which you derive pleasure, worth, and value. Bingo. This is the deeper layer to this I feel. Along those lines, if you are unhappy simply because you are not getting enough sex, are you really happy in the first place?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/22 10:59 PM
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Solid post. I was just thinking about this yesterday after a married female client hugged me for way too long and then grabbed my bicep as she left. In my flawed validation seeking thoughts wondered if my wife would ever let her guard down and just praise her awesome husband. The pills are different colored for a reason I guess.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 11:25 PM
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We're married. Just ask for sex. Sometimes it is really this easy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/21 04:05 PM
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It's shark week this week I call it hummer week. Or do you not like to fuck her mouth?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 04:00 PM
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That's what I was thinking, or before the pre sex foot massage.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/21 08:55 PM
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HornsOfApathy Logistics question... For number 23, when/how do you give the panties to her? My wife needs new panties so might as well have some fun with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/21 05:32 PM
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That's not how our bodies work. Now IMO it becomes harder for your body to start producing T normally the longer you are "on" and the older you get. But for most men, the body will start producing test once exogenous supplementation is stopped. I have blood work to prove this. There are also compounds you can take to help the body jumpstart normal T production again.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 02:59 PM
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Why are you wanting your kid vaxxed? Are they having issues, getting "diseases", or is it because YOU think it's right and want to be the boss? My kids are hardly vaxxed and won't be until they are older. I have researched this a lot, and have zero reservations on this issue. My kids are fucking awesome and healthy and I have ZERO regrets. Their health is my number one concern in life. I know I am in the minority, but the majority hasn't even read a textbook on them or watched a young boy go fro…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/21 05:40 PM
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Good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 02:10 PM
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OYS #3 2021 5'8 165lbs Deadlift (today) 340x5 Relationship: Had sex Friday. Wife was hungover Saturday and being a pile. While the kids were in the bath I tried to get a BJ and was denied. I got up and came back a few minutes later and she had taken my spot on the couch. Her face happened to be the perfect height for a BJ. I told her she could either move or my dick was going in her mouth. She said no, so I fucker her mouth. Owning Stuff: We had company coming over Friday. I cleaned the house, b…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 10:57 PM
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Like let him know his wife has already cheated on him and she is just making herself feel better by doing counseling even though she has no plans of staying? Or tell him she is having crazy sex with someone else, doing stuff she won't do with him? He won't listen anyways. If he'd listen I'd tell him to go to the bar, find a chick to fuck and not make it home until he's done railing her.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 05:00 PM
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OYS #3of 2021 (I deleted everything early this year) 5'8" 165 lbs DL 360x1 yesterday Sidebar:All Life: I have a drinking problem. I don't get drunk or angry, hell I'm probably nicer after a few. But it screws with my sleep, which affects my interactions with my wife and kids, and is not congruent with the life I want. On Sunday, we had a family social event all day. I brought my NA beer and felt great Monday. Both sides of my family have drinking problems big time. Fitness: I started doing arm w…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 03:49 PM
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You need to start living like you are a single man, because you are. I doubt she went on her trip by herself, and I'm an not trying to be a dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 03:25 PM
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If I stop stating my needs Words are overrated. None are needed to let her know you want sex, or a BJ. You sound like a big giant pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 03:10 PM
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This made me tear up, legitimately.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 02:53 PM
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Wait, is that you that wrote that post? The OG is deleted.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/21 02:06 PM
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It's like when you are at the gym and some out of shape guy comes up and says to you "I used to be able to bench 375." No one fucking cares what you used to do...or be. Especially women.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/21 02:45 PM
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ARE you acting in accordance with your true self? Sometimes yes, sometimes no, but I''m still looking for that person. The old me put so many fake limits on my life and relationship that I don't know where my edge is, although I know I'm not at it. Have you explored the realm of self? Working on it all the time. How much confidence do you have in her knowing her true self? Very little. I 100% understand women don't have a clue what they want. She is more gullible to the brainwashing present in o…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 05:56 PM
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There is a lot here and I don't have time to respond adequately (flying to Dallas), but I will get back to you and I appreciate the dialogue.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/21 10:53 PM
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Tried pec deck, not going to work. It hurt to bring my arm back. I did isolated biceps and triceps for the first time in a while and will see how things feel the next 48.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 08:59 PM
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Shoot, I don't know. Your initial response to OP got me thinking about my initiations, and how sometimes they "feel" better than others. I am not completely sure of my answers to your question at the moment, but I will give it a shot. What would you do if it didn't get her to react how you want ? Look at her with a little disappointment, go on with my day. Have a moment of self reflection to see if I am content with my actions. What would you do if you saw that if you acted in ways different fro…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 08:58 PM
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It's not about her...
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 05:32 PM
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Appreciate the insight. Lately he has used statements like "I'm a dummy", so that is why I said what I did. He is smart due to his genes, but that doesn't change the facts. I will try do some pec deck and see how things feel.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 04:37 PM
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And if you weren't completely sure of any of that, what would you do? If this was the case I would try different things to see which one felt the most true.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 04:06 PM
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Remember you aren't a dancing monkey. Live on your edge. Test how you feel when you act a certain way. Compare that action and feeling to the true self you know within you. That vision of who you want to be. Is this what you are saying here? Initiate in a way that feels true to your self and who you want to be. She may react good or bad but it doesn't really fucking matter because if you are doing it in a way that makes you feel like a pussy (can we have sex?), it is not a long term the way to g…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 03:07 PM
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After sex I still kind of felt disappointed, not much difference from being rejected altogether I know this feeling. If you really wanted to have sex to have sex, then you'd be happy because you...had sex. That's not really what you want tho is it? Just because you past this point one time doesn't mean it can't creep back.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 02:58 PM
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Should it matter?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 08:48 PM
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My PE, I can last more then a couple minutes in bed if I numb myself with some alcohol. I need to find a real solution for this I can relate. I don't think I had sober sex for the first few years most of my life. It fucking sucks. You know what helps more than booze...Viagra. Better yet Viagra plus a spray of promescent. I have switched from Viagra to Cialis for personal reasons, but Viagra will make you last longer and likely be able to keep going after you bust.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 05:40 PM
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Lol, just wait until you are good looking and you still get turned down...at least there is a logical reason right now. Don't take what I said as a reason not to initiate either, just a reason not to get butt-hurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 04:29 PM
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OYS #2 of 2021 (I deleted everything early this year) 5'8" 165 lbs DL 350x3 Sidebar:All Family: My MIL is dying, and has likely 1 year left to live unless a miracle happens. It is awkward to hang out with someone who knows they are going to die. My wife has been handling it great, but I now at some point it is going to hit her. Neither the wife or MIL is "open/real" with emotions about things, but it will be required to get thru this. Since coming to MRP, I have always kept the constant of death…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 04:06 PM
2

28% BF OYS number 4. I assume sex is the reason you are here, like everyone else, but if I could give you some advice it would be to put it on the back burner right now. Rule 1 is be attractive, and until you stop being such a fatty, sex likely isn't going to change as fast as you want. Focus on improving everything else you can at the moment. Don't expect to just start getting laid because you are posting here then get butt-hurt about it. Change yourself first. The awesome thing about being fat…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 03:17 PM
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I'm 100% against mask mandates btw. When my city enacted mask mandates, cases and deaths climbed faster than before. Same thing can be said about my state as a whole. Looking at the dates that other cities/states enacted masks mandates vs cases/deaths for those populations does not show support for their use. I am not saying masks make things worse...I'm saying crappy paper masks worn by healthy people do not make a bit of difference. An ER doc I spoke with said the same thing. There are officia…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/21 05:35 PM
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I'm not sure if you are more concerned about this guy being incorrect and making unsubstantiated claims or are wanting to validate the efficacy of wearing masks which has become such a polarized issue that it is a sole reason to make a judgement of someone.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/21 03:08 PM
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So if you are done having kids, I would consider TRT. Having high levels of testosterone will make the gains from lifting better. You will likely lose some fat and gain some muscle without changing anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 02:59 PM
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Your house, your rules. I don't get drunk, I hate being out of control, but I've never cared if others do. (Also, I'm not the one down-voting you, just generally curious about your dynamic.)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 02:53 PM
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So you don't let others get drunk around you?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 09:00 PM
3

Right, 5'9" 185 lbs and can't bench even one plate. Doubt much will matter until this is fixed. OP you are failing rule 1...be attractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 03:40 PM
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"she will throw creative shit tests at you that you never knew even existed. " Or sneak attack you when you are trapped with her after a few drinks when you least expect it. If all you have is STFU in your tool-bag you are doomed to fail.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/20 02:05 PM
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I've gained 12-15 pounds of muscle in the last year, and my wife recently admitted to not saying a single nice thing about it (or me in general) as she doesn't want to feed my ego...so don't expect your wife to be any different. I don't expect my wife to be different. Do what you want to do.
/r/askMRP26/08/20 02:26 PM
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I don't think you are going to listen either way, and your question is so basic it's obvious you have done zero work on your own, but at least you asked it in the right thread. Technically the answer is yes, but it's not that simple. You can't pull back and then tell her it's "because she is being mean to you and your feelings are hurt". You need to pull back and spend some time on the sidebar so you don't fuck up your next relationship. I don't see you saving this one asking these types of ques…
/r/askMRP29/07/20 02:21 PM
2

Wait you are asking if landing a girl way younger than you is bad? I think that is the goal. Don't fuck it up by being a super available dude and treating her like your wife. You can always put a steak back on the grill if it needs more cooking, but once it is overcooked there is no going back.
/r/askMRP21/07/20 02:45 PM
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If this were an option he wouldn't be here asking this question.
/r/askMRP16/07/20 09:14 PM
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That's a really good point. I like the idea of the added edge walking can add to one's lifestyle. It could help a lot of fat asses here in America. But walking purposefully as exercise is annoying to me in the same way dudes doing forearm curls is. And walking isn't going to build this dudes lats. For me, I will try to walk as little as possible as I can't stand to eat enough calories for my energy expenditures as it is. Also, now I assume you track your steps with your smartwatch.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/20 02:35 PM
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Need to expand that to include gaming her in shark week and after her shower where nothing is “meant” to happen Sometimes I initiate with my wife when I know sex isn't going to happen, just for the fun of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 08:22 PM
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Lol, good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 08:04 PM
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I did not find Ironwood’s Collection of Alpha Moves to be a helpful read Yeah I was not impressed with that book at all either. Walking for exercise...that is for senior citizens.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 02:22 PM
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God you are a softy.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/20 09:37 PM
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You gotta work hard to earn this flair. What was funny was back pre kids I never got a no, ever. I just chose to play video games instead of fuck my wife more often than not.
/r/askMRP01/07/20 08:26 PM
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My wife was horny AF in both her pregnancies. Being pregnant does not prevent affairs. But whatever makes you fell better buddy. I'll look forward to your future posts. Thanks for the downvote:)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 03:35 PM
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One of you hasn't had sex in 17 months.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 03:14 PM
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"I'd finished work, come home, and play a few hours of video games " Gee, I wonder why she had to find someone else to fuck? Which she 99% did. I know it has to be hard to hear, but you have to face the truth. Go somewhere alone if you need to cry about it. Then strap in and man up. Stop letting anyone see you scared or sad. Your kids deserve a better version of a dad. If you follow the advice of the forum and the vets, there is a good chance your wife will be begging you to stay with her. At th…
/r/askMRP01/07/20 03:11 PM
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Get your testosterone levels checked. You can order this online without a doc in most states and just go to a lab. It's likely fine, but that is something that needs ruled out.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:52 PM
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"She takes the train"...Yeah I bet she does. Why do you not have your own place? Do you really think your ex gives a fuck about your feelings about anything? I know lots of people working with CoVid patients, not one is worried about their kids getting anything btw.
/r/askMRP25/06/20 03:49 PM
1

All I can think about when someone says ice tea. SFW. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkVSdtNoscM
/r/askMRP24/06/20 08:44 PM
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It may be a compliance test. You will get less of these as you progress. I used to get these quite a bit. Super easy to handle. Don't be a bitch, but don't be an asshole either, you guys are on the same team. Do what you want to do. I didn't even realize how many of these tasks I was doing initially. Of course I'm a nice guy and I want to be nice to my wife, so I should do little things for her right? I didn't even get creative with passing blatant compliance tests. If we are both on the couch a…
/r/askMRP24/06/20 08:42 PM
1

Yeah what can get worse with this? She already doesn't have sex with you. JFC I wouldn't even consider someone my wife who didn't have sex with me. Fox you sound like you need a large dose of steroids. Life is short and you are going to die masturbating (literally and figuratively).
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/20 08:43 PM
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for guys who like wearing dress shirts with dress shoes and jeans Yeah I don't do that. I do wear short sleeve button ups a lot in the summer with grey shorts, so that's what I was perusing with me being 5'8". Thank you for the brand references, I will do some online shopping.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/20 02:35 PM
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you have a pair of shitty looking shades for the guys who think aviators are for douche-bags> How do feel about the Untuckit brand?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 10:19 PM
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Carreras Don't mind some of these. I think wearing aviators at the pool doesn't work right, at least for me, it's like you are trying to hard and come off as a douche. My Oakley's aren't actually wrap around...https://www.oakley.com/en-us/product/W0OO9417?variant=888392336477&cid=PM-FGS_000000-4.US_Smart+PLA&gclid=Cj0KCQjwiYL3BRDVARIsAF9E4GeYSU5gvh0of0hqdU1Mbc8Kc-Ncez3o3koeG-FY33XWqUtxc74f_HkaApK3EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 03:29 PM
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My Oakley's look a lot like the shades you bashed. What is your alternative to wear at the pool every weekend? Otherwise good stuff. Fit is the king. You will get more compliments off a $10 Walmart t shirt that fits well versus a $100 TM shirt that fits like shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 02:37 PM
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OYS:26 (it's been a couple months) 37, 5'8" 165 lbs (down 5 since before scamdemic), I have not maxed out whatsoever but pre covid lifts: Squat 340 (tested 1RM 340), DL 390, BP 283(275x2) OHP 154 2 boys 2 and 4. Married 9 years, together 11. All sidebar. I've been here at RP a year now. Currently Reading: Dirty Talk Mastery. It has levels and timelines....kind of like something else. Dread Level 1 (where i left off): I've 99% completely eliminated this behavior of getting butt-hurt about sex. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 10:56 PM
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WTF.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 08:26 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/MONEY-Master-Game-Financial-Freedom/dp/1476757860 This book is a great starting point if you are new to investing. TLDR is buy low cost index funds. Warren Buffet now says the same thing and has his family doing it. Also, fire your financial advisor.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 10:51 PM
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^^^This. OP why don't you just keep doing everything your wife tells you to do, that will keep her happy. Or just do what the fuck you want and stop worrying about what is going on in your wife's head.
/r/askMRP19/05/20 10:47 PM
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If your wife was 400lbs and made 1 million per year would you want to fuck her? I'd rather jerk off with a cheese grater. Nice excuse pussy, get to work. BTW-My wife makes double what I make and in the last week, I've gotten laid 2x, a bj and a handjob (regular sex was not an option).
/r/askMRP18/05/20 10:28 PM
1

You've had good success gaining (clean) weight while doing IF?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/20 10:51 PM
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boo the villains and cheer the heroes Yep, this is how talking with a woman is done. It is so funny doing it at the same time being aware that you are doing it. As a man it is hard to do because you want to give help or answers, but none of that shit matters. Just boo and cheer and let her feel her emotions. "It's not about the nail" is a great YouTube video that shows an example of this. I love when my wife is a little upset and I can do this, she always feels like fucking afterwards.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 02:18 PM
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I don't think there is anything wrong with what you want, you are free to want what you want. But you really need to read Johney's response a few times, because you don't get it. See if this makes senses. "You can't get a woman's full devotion and submission unless you don't need it." Part of you still needs it. You need to be free to do what you want regardless of what she does so that she can also have the courage to do the same. You have to have frame that she can relax into (if she chooses t…
/r/askMRP30/03/20 03:43 PM
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OYS:25 (it's been a couple weeks) 37, 5'8" 167 lbs (down 3), Squat 340 (tested 1RM 340), DL 390, BP 283(275x2) OHP 154 2 boys 2 and 4. Married 9 years, together 11. All sidebar. Headspace & RL: Dread Level 1: "Begin building a strong, indefatigable frame where you are not affected by her sexual denials." Well I'm just a couple days away from a full month without getting affected by denials. To be fair I have been getting lots of sex, hell two BJ's last week and sex. It's funny, a while back befo…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 09:06 PM
1

I have heard similar from a medical professional that is involved in multiple area hospitals.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 10:06 PM
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Yep. And then we can have another mandatory shot added to my son's schedule so that he can keep other people safe. Big Pharma can fuck off.
/r/askMRP14/03/20 07:43 PM
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Booked a flight to Dallas next month for real cheap. Put some additional money in the stock market when it crashed. Stocked up on water,tp,food for 2 weeks a while ago, always plenty of ammo in the gun safe. Trying to check some things off the sexual bucket list as well.
/r/askMRP13/03/20 07:07 PM
2

Where does your friend see himself in 15 years?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 03:25 PM
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Nice. I see so many guys here posting about how their wives are fucking like animals after they went from 25-20% BF. They think they are done, RP is easy and that's all there is to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 03:01 PM
2

I get that. I just thought that this might be one situation where going Rambo might be advised.
/r/askMRP04/03/20 08:50 PM
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Everything you say is true. However, in this situation, he doesn't really have time to go through the learning process as the health of his child is at stake. So how about just giving him some actual advice he can do right now to possibly fix this? This isn't some asshat whining about not getting laid. The health of my child is not negotiable. I would go full out nuclear on this shit with zero regards to her pregnancy feelings.
/r/askMRP04/03/20 05:42 PM
1

I got one. No regrets. It's a walk in the park.
/r/askMRP03/03/20 02:59 PM
2

Every girl asks this question, not a single one wants to know.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/20 11:20 PM
5

And suddenly everyone feels better about their fuckups. Thanks Red.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/20 10:54 PM
3

I feel like you stub your toe a lot...what the fuck are you tripping over all the time?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/20 10:35 PM
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I still remember when my then GF now wife asked me how many girls I had slept with. The first time she asked I said around 1000. The next time she asked I said I was a virgin. She has never asked again in 11 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/20 10:32 PM
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I has a boner now.
/r/askMRP27/02/20 03:33 PM
1

I eat all the cookies I want, I'm always bulking:)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/20 03:25 PM
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Is anyone ever really satisfied?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 09:19 PM
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Yes, I grew up with NES, it was the most memorable Christmas memory I have, so that all makes sense. I just got pissed with how she has chose to use this phrase recently (and it's just been twice, in the last couple months that I recall). It's almost like mocking me. "Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power." I know my wife loves me, I'm don't even worry about that (it's self-love that one would question). I have a bigger vision of my relationship since coming here. I'm not OK wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 09:17 PM
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I get that. I do have a high libido though now, being on TRT though. I want to have sex 3-4 times a week, shit feels good.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 06:52 PM
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I know. The verbal diarrhea just came out. It is the fucking truth tho. I mean she will always say it when I do, but never on her own.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 05:04 PM
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My T was 292 This is a shit level. I would take things into my own hands if your doc doesn't put you on test ASAP. Having low test levels is a shit way to live life.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 04:04 PM
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OYS:24 37, 5'8" 169 lbs, Squat 327 (tested 1RM 320), DL 390, BP 283 OHP 154 2 boys 2 and 4. Married 9 years, together 11. All sidebar. Headspace & RL: Dread Level 1: "Begin building a strong, indefatigable frame where you are not affected by her sexual denials." I went 23 days without being affected by a denial, but then kind of took a step back last night. I initiated, got turned down, so I was just quiet and tried to fall asleep. She made some small talk, I talked a few minutes with her and ro…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 03:56 PM
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Most recent: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck That's funny right there. Must have missed the NGAF part.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 11:27 PM
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Too many people getting their egos hurt cuz it's not fair. Red is not the only man whore out their banging dude's wives. Shit I already know who's wives I'd fuck if things went south for me. There are only two things you can do about this the way I see it. Be a man who's wife wouldn't risk their relationship. NGAF if it does happen.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 11:23 PM
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Progress begins when your LTR isn't giving you hard no's anymore - Actually that is judging your progress by what someone else chooses to do. You don't control other people. MRP can make you a man someone would fuck, but not necessarily your LTR.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 09:11 PM
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Is your gym closed Sundays?
/r/askMRP23/02/20 02:58 PM
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We will see Tuesday...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/20 02:51 PM
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Right. Bailing on your marriage and starting over is the easy way out. Making your current life how you desire is the hard road. Men thrive on challenge.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/20 09:26 PM
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Exactly. Wanting someone else to love you because you don’t love yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/20 09:18 PM
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Yeah I don’t agree w what Mark said. Fuck I’m more self sabotaging than my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/20 09:15 PM
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"they do not know how to covert this acute awareness of their own frame to be the leading frame of the relationship" This is the part I don't quite yet understand how the transition works to be anywhere close to a D/S relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/20 11:46 PM
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Maybe your mission should be finding a gym with a squat rack. Where the fuck are you lifting, Curves?
/r/askMRP20/02/20 03:18 PM
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This is why I love this place^^^
/r/askMRP20/02/20 03:18 PM
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There are no TM's where I live. Little expensive for the midwest market where people wear sweatshirts out to dinner.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 03:50 PM
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Travis Mathew is where it is at for fit basic bros who are not basic broke Yeah, shit is expensive AF, just got a new $99 polo. Some of their t-shirts are super soft and girls want to touch them to feel them. Also, new rock workout collection drops tomorrow....
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 03:29 PM
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This was my experience as well. SL 5x5 is good to get your form down and a solid base of strength to move forward with.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 03:20 PM
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OYS:23 37, 5'8" 169 lbs, Squat 327 (tested 1RM 320), DL 390, BP 283 OHP 154 2 boys 2 and 4. Married 9 years, together 11. All sidebar. Headspace & RL: Dread Level 1: "Begin building a strong, indefatigable frame where you are not affected by her sexual denials." Day 19 without being affected by a denial. Hell, I got one last night and one this morning. This is my main focus, but I'll note some other stuff for my diary. To be fair, we just back from a vacation where we had lots of sex. Valentine'…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 11:32 PM
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start asking her if shes OK Eliminate this question from your vocabulary.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 10:51 PM
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I'd take the opportunity to fuck her in the ass and then file for divorce. Shit sucks, but it is over.
/r/askMRP17/02/20 10:03 PM
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Off subject, but that would be an easy case for you to sue the other person. Dog biting is an easy case to win. I have been on the other end of it, they got 20K, luckily home insurance paid for everything since it was at my house. I no longer have dogs.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 05:52 PM
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Posting vids with the sole purpose of creating dread....dancing monkey with a side of needing external validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 05:50 PM
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Thanks, I've been at the lifting game a long time, and have been very consistent the last 9 months.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 08:50 PM
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I've taken Clomid to recover from a cycle, which it works well for. You are low on test, a natural male hormone, so why wouldn't they just replace that? My family doc let's me self inject. I have to stay around 80mg every 6 days to stay in range. 100mg/week is a good starting point, broken down into 2 injections. Not all doc's think you need two injections, but if you self inject they don't need to know.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 03:27 PM
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Clomid would be hell to take long term. Get on test E and reap the benefits.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 11:48 PM
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Lol, the irony of his fat girlfriend using an eating utensil as a weapon. That's funny right there. There is only one solution for this problem. Get rid of all of your silverware. She can't use them as weapons and maybe she will lose weight.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 09:21 PM
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Probably.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 05:55 PM
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OYS:22 37, 5'8" 167 lbs, Squat 327 (tested 1RM 320), DL 390, BP 283 OHP 154 2 boys 2 and 4. Married 9 years, together 11. All sidebar. Headspace & RL: Dread Level 1: "Begin building a strong, indefatigable frame where you are not affected by her sexual denials." If you are still getting upset internally or externally from denial of sex, you are technically still at dread level 1 faggot. I initiate a lot, still get some no's. Last Thursday I had a little whiskey buzz, the lady was buzzed too, ini…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 05:11 PM
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Fuck off that is MY flair.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 04:01 PM
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So even looking at this in the best-case scenario in that she hasn't cheated, she overtly has told you she wants to fuck not just one, but numerous other men and wants you to be OK with it. That is hopeful thinking, although I'd put my money on she has already cheated, especially since she is trying to get you to cheat so she doesn't feel guilty. Take the day off and get to the lawyer's office ASAP.
/r/askMRP30/01/20 04:20 PM
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Yep. See you in a couple weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 02:48 PM
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Demanding the sex you want and commanding the sex you want are entirely different things. It took me a few times reading this to get what you were saying. I don't demand anything, but apparently I don't command it (yet)either.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/20 05:07 PM
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You might have read the book but clearly you didn't understand it if that's what you took from it. Yeah I just did my first read through. I am going to spend some more time on actually absorbing it this time.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/20 02:53 PM
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"handles gay shit like decorating" Haha nope. I just don't give a shit about what is hung on the wall of the bathroom or what color pillows we have, but whatever floats your boat. I'll be outside shoveling the driveway. Edit: This is how I feel. I understand leading and being in charge, but you really care about stuff like this? Isn't decorating feminine? To really have a RP marriage do I have to care about everything?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/20 02:50 PM
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Yeah, what the fuck did I just read.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 11:32 PM
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OYS:21 37, 5'8" 167 lbs, Squat 327, DL 390, BP 283 OHP 154 2 boys 2 and 4. Married 9 years, together 11. All sidebar. Headspace & RL: I skipped last week. I had a moment I was embarrassed about. I tried to get a bj on the weekend and got turned down. I didn't react just did other things, but I was angry. I decided to go lift, but that just got my blood pumping more and when I came home I was being a dick to my wife and kids. It doesn't help I may have just started blasting. Anyways, the wife cal…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 11:30 PM
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I've had this happen before. I guess I thought that one did not have to explain this shit to girls?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 09:25 PM
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You sound angry and boring.
/r/askMRP20/01/20 06:35 PM
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This. You will likely start feeling and acting differently within 48 hours, although you will look exactly the same and have the same amount of muscle. If your wife fucks you, is it because your T is higher or is it because you have a different spark to your personality? Who gives a shit?
/r/askMRP16/01/20 09:48 PM
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Pretty fucking overt communication to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 09:52 PM
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Go to a chiro who adjusts extremities and the spine, most that adjust with their hands do.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 11:42 PM
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As soon as you have an extra $40 bucks a month join a gym. You will lift harder, make more gains, AND have some built-in and much-needed dread. Instead of going home to your frigid wife, you can be at the gym. Try to look as good as you can when you go to, no NB 405's and white socks.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 03:46 PM
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Cool, just was curious of your dynamic.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 03:42 PM
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I was reading thru your posts, do you lift at home?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 10:20 PM
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Here is an easy move for you. Next time she starts talking during sex just take one of your hands and cover her mouth, look her in the eyes and say "shh", hold your hand over her mouth and fuck her hard. I bet she will love it.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 09:29 PM
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Also, it sounds like you already took a sex fast? "We tried a sex fast, I fucking HATED it. Nothing got better. We are doing it my way now."
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 09:11 PM
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Neither are bad IMO, I'm not a red beret though. I would think anything that let's her know that you are not phased, but are not sorry for taking what you want. "I'll try again later" or "Get used to it" said with a smirk, ass grab and walk away to do something better with your time than be with a frigid wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 09:08 PM
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About her wanting you to do a sex fast? Again, fuck that. She is dysfunctional because you are/have been dysfunctional. You doing what she wants will make things worse. Women don't want men to do what they say, they want men to do what THEY want. Don't ever take RL advice from a woman. A woman would never tell a HVM to take a sex fast. Grow some balls and tell her how you really feel about that. Hell, I would start initiating every single day, just once in a non-needy way. No words are needed fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 07:01 PM
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Ok, thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 05:12 PM
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Why are you listing so many of your lifts? No one cares what you can incline. Otherwise hope you are working and not reading this. Atomic Habits is a good book on habits.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 05:08 PM
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Higher reps at lower weight can be a decent workaround to a bad shoulder. 5x5 is usually done at ~80% of 1RM. Like you said, that's hurting your shoulder. How about 3-4x12 at 60%1RM? That's still a whole lot of volume on your muscles with less load on your connective tissue. This. Don't do heavy weight on injured joints. The good news is that you will continue to look better if you squat and DL regularly. I sprained by chest bad earlier last year and didn't bench heavy for a couple of months, bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 05:04 PM
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Your father can barely afford me I don't know if this was said to be funny or to be a bitch? "whores are free" comes to mind for me for a response. You can't let anyone disrespect you like that. I think it is something that required a response, but you also can't be butthurt and let it affect your frame at all. "Well I would have more money but my girlfriend likes expensive things." Also, it has been said to initiate once per week. She needs to know there is a man in the house that wants to fuck…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 04:46 PM
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when people are hung up on one specific thing (like CIM) instead of options from a range of similar choices, it's usually about validation and ego. This applied to me for sure. I can say I'm no longer hung up on any specific act now, however, I know I'm still missing emotion and intimacy in sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 04:32 PM
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Does your wife know you are screwing other women?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 04:18 PM
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Either way, I now take it as a given that this marriage will never be characterized by frequent, enthusiastic sex. How do you want to live the rest of your life? If your fine with this then there is no issue, but I have a feeling you are not. Your life is likely half over already, do what you want to do. *This is not me telling you to cheat just so we are clear, literally just to do want YOU want to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 04:11 PM
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Yep. What I got out of reading this was his wife actually expects him to need to fuck and wasn't surprised that he cheated. He cut off his own balls.
/r/askMRP07/01/20 11:53 PM
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OYS:20 37, 5'8" 165 lbs, Squat 327, DL 380, BP 283 OHP 154 2 boys 2 and 4. Married 9 years, together 11. All sidebar. Going thru NMMNG again currently. Headspace & RL: Be attractive, don't be unattractive. I think that I've done both in the last month. I noticed last night I am observing the wife a lot. I'm not overly concerned with anything, just observing. It is not just in the dancing monkey sense either. It's not just her, but others as well now to thru this RP lens. I have zero sympathies f…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 11:07 PM
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This will work way better than whatever he is actually going to say.
/r/askMRP06/01/20 04:00 PM
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Maybe it is because your answer is weak and doesn't show ownership of decisions. And who gives a fuck about downvotes anyways?
/r/askMRP06/01/20 04:00 PM
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Wow, you are one giant pussy. Go buy a Trump shirt, wear it out on a date. If she leaves laugh and NEVER call her again. You are letting a woman decide who you vote for? No wonder our country is so feminine. You are so fucked in the relationship already.
/r/askMRP06/01/20 03:51 PM
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Well one of you went without sex for a year.
/r/askMRP05/01/20 04:40 AM
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I agree w this man. I won’t be surprised to see a post about how he found out she’s cheated very soon..
/r/askMRP05/01/20 04:39 AM
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Gotcha. I didn’t think you were that basic.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/20 04:32 AM
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And this is a reply that frustrates me initially. There are so many posts about how to pass shit/comfort etc tests, but that’s not the end goal is it. The ideal state is that you are doing/saying/thinking what you want At all times and your frame is so solid that no test or other shut that is thrown against you matters. There is no longer a need to dodge bullets. Is that what your getting at?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/20 04:29 AM
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That's funny right there. (srs I lol'd)
/r/askMRP02/01/20 10:10 PM
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It depends on what is going on, but usually a simple no with a smile. Seriously, this is all that is needed most of the time if what she is asking is stupid, just no and STFU. If I'm heading to a different room I may not even respond. If I am already in the kitchen or going to get myself something in there I'm not a dick and would get her a glass of water. There is a post somewhere that talks about shit like this, but I don't have time to find it. Honestly, it is hard for me not to, as I am a ni…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/20 09:41 PM
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I don't think she is actively trying to make me her errand boy. She does give me a lot of small compliance tasks like that tho, and I don't think she consciously even notices it. For example, "hey will you get me a glass of water?" when she is sitting on the couch doing nothing and I am walking around doing shit. This was one of those things unaware men would miss, I just took the opportunity to capitalize on it. She isn't a malicious person at all. She wants a strong man and would even openly a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/20 04:59 PM
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She wanted me to go out of my way to get her a drink. I felt like she was trying to make me be her errand boy and she did it in front of others. My humor called her out and let her and all the other wives know I’m no ones little bitch. Wife thought it was funny and my SMV was raised IMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/20 05:39 PM
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Thanks for the insight this year dude. You called me and a lot of other assholes out and said what needed to be said. Hope you and everyone else has a great night and a fucking awesome 2020.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 11:06 PM
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OYS:19 37, 5'8" 164 lbs, Squat 327, DL 358, BP 283 OHP 154 2 boys 2 and 4. Married 9 years, together 11. All sidebar. Headspace & RL: She tried to use the cute girl voice on me. We were at a friend's party and I was next to the wife talking to 5 other girls. She asked me to go make her a drink. I brushed it off and kept convo with another chick. She asked me again, this time throwing in the puppy eyes, cute voice and a "please". I looked at her and said something along the lines of "No" and kept…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 11:04 PM
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We are on the same page.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 05:43 PM
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I think we might be saying the same thing. Your buddy's texting did not open the door for his wife's cheating. It had nothing to do with it is what I'm saying. She just used it as an excuse later, but her excuse could have been anything. Your OG comment comes across differently, and I'm not the only one who thinks so. Are they still together?
/r/askMRP31/12/19 05:24 PM
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Considering suicide over this, that is ridiculous. This is NOT that big of a deal, stop making it one. Suicide is literally the worst thing you could possibly do to your kids. You are going to be fine. Seems like your wife knows she needs to step up her game, and you do too. At least she knows now that you won't live a sexless life, nor should you. I would think after this event that some self-improvement by you and she will be a much better wife to you. Try this exercise. Spend some time alone …
/r/askMRP31/12/19 04:28 PM
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I don't think you are good at understanding a fucking thing. Her cheating had nothing to do with his sexting. Women will rationalize ANY excuse for their infidelity or any other damn thing they do wrong. Herp Derp husband smiled at a girl, better fuck some other dude, not my fault. I'm betting BarracudaRP is right and they are still together.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 04:18 PM
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Is pot legal in your state? I would somehow record her smoking pot when the child is in the house so that you have that to use against her later, as well as her violence.
/r/askMRP30/12/19 10:51 PM
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Other people matter in the sense that I know I sometimes I say and do dumb shit and getting input from others can be helpful in objectively looking at things. Ultimately though, I am my own judge and will do what I want to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 10:07 PM
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TRT is good for losing fat.
/r/askMRP18/12/19 03:00 PM
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Fucking A.
/r/askMRP18/12/19 02:58 PM
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Don't be such a faggot. You don't even have a GF and are wondering how to minimize the risk of divorce? Stop the hypothetical mental masturbation and go meet some girls. You shouldn't even be thinking about this right now. If 5 years down the road you think your LTR of multiple years may qualify for a wife, then come back here.
/r/askMRP18/12/19 02:57 PM
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That's what I thought about halfway through.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 10:31 PM
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So far TWOTSM has been one of my favorites. I felt it tied a lot of things together. Nothing you can do about getting sick, besides not complain and help yourself recover as fast as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 10:16 PM
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I just did the DL day on Boring but Big today. Holy shit, 17 sets total of DL. My back is shot. I will look into that though.
/r/askMRP17/12/19 09:42 PM
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OYS:18 37, 5'8" 164 lbs, Squat 327, DL 358, BP 280 OHP 144 Headspace & RL: The Bad: I came down with some viral sickness last Tuesday. I have felt weak and depressed all week and just now am feeling back to my normal self. I never once complained, but it is obvious. I couldn't bring myself to lift and had to force myself to eat. I still rallied for a social event Thursday but was dead Friday. I definitely have not felt manly, which made me start to question myself. I wouldn't consider myself RP …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 06:34 PM
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the process of betaization Patrice O Neal has a funny skit about fishing that relates to this. "Motherfucker how you gonna catch fish when you don't even have a boat?"
/r/askMRP12/12/19 04:45 PM
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I think you spelled Tren wrong.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 09:05 PM
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there are better options than test The only guy I know for this is a loudmouth who tells everyone what everyone is taking. Good point about the E2. I've been tested for sleep apnea as I snore, but the test came back fine.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 09:01 PM
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Thanks for the summation. 10,000 calories a day sounds disgusting.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 06:03 PM
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Yep, I just adjusted my app actually. I love it!
/r/askMRP11/12/19 05:12 PM
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I'm going to do that, looks perfect.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 04:49 PM
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Good shit. Fits the consensus so far.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 04:37 PM
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Thanks. I am going to start tracking my calories, I've never done this. It is part of my MAP for 2020. I usually start the day with 2-3 slices of bacon, oatmeal with a scoop of protein, and a pancake or two. I have at least 1 shake mid-morning and usually some real food as well, then lunch is Chipotle or a large sub, then nothing until dinner. I've never restricted calories. Shit after turkey day I ate a whole cheesecake in 3 days.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 04:36 PM
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“ I've never been so obsessed with my wife or caught up in the silliness that she is the one, the only one, the now and forever, and the purveyor of 'till death do us part.“ This part speaks volumes man.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 03:31 AM
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Not even close. My relationship is good, I'm striving for greatness.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/19 08:48 PM
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None of future plates business.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/19 05:19 PM
1

You mean about about the possibility of future relationships? I'm done either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/19 04:06 PM
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Good call.
/r/askMRP09/12/19 03:59 PM
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I was thinking he could take her out to dinner and take a selfie? Not that fucking hard. Hopefully OP you have read the 12 levels of dread do not apply during pregnancy. Also, 2nd tri energy is typically way better and some girls get horny as fuck.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 11:53 PM
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I told my wife I don't like any hair down there when we first met. There has been none since. She shaves her pussy almost every single day, takes less than a minute in the shower. Not shaving legs though, that is fucking gross, who the fuck doesn't do that. I wouldn't even sleep in the same bed as a woman with hairy legs.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 02:58 PM
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Vasectomy is easy peasy. They give you drugs to take before and after but I didn't take shit. It's not that bad at all. I am DONE with kids at 37, so I take no chances. It's nice having zero to worry about, and having a wife not on BC is better for everyone.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 11:04 PM
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OYS:17 (a day late and short) 37, 5'8" 164 lbs, Squat 327, DL 358, BP 280 OHP 144 Lifting: Weighed in at 165 Monday, but that was a lot of pie weight. Still doing 531 but for the first week, I'm not moving the needle. I may look for a program in the 6-10 rep range for a while, as I've been doing 5 reps or less for the last 6 months. I'm going to get bloods in January, so running a normal TRT dose currently. I'm going to start taking some enzymes to help digest the extra food I have been eating t…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 10:10 PM
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https://forums.t-nation.com/c/t-replacement This is a good place to start. If you have a good relationship with your doctor, eventually he should let you self administer, although he may not think 2x per week is needed. The weekly dosage schedule isn't even known by a lot of docs, as most are clueless on TRT. Self-injection saves you time and money and allows you to control and adjust the dosage. E2 is the hardest thing to control on TRT, and causes the most issues. A lot of guys take an AI to k…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 04:46 PM
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So that is at the very upper limit on my labs. It could be contributing to the bacne I would think. The HCG is going to raise that even more AFAIK. Do you do your own shots? I break my shots up into 2x per week, using smaller 1 cc syringes that are easier to measure. Estrogen is weird and unpredictable in how it affects people, both being too high and too low.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 03:45 PM
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Fucked up last time by rage-deleting my post after getting a rule 9 violation ban I laughed so hard when I got to your ban hammer being dropped again.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 11:47 PM
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Maybe. I'm an experienced lifter but still did the 5x5 program earlier this year for about 3 months. I feel it gets to a point where pushing your max on squats 3x per week is no longer the most efficient thing to do. It did help solidify my squat base, and once I moved into 531 my lifts shot up. I only squat 2x per week now. I take a break one day and deadlift.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 10:32 PM
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Yep, this program is a great starting point and the app helps you track workouts. Stay on this for 2-3 months until you start to lift some decent weights and you plateau. Eventually, the weight gets too heavy to squat 3x per week.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 10:03 PM
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I choose prior to each session (of real sex) if I'm cumming or not What is your technique for this? Or have you always been able to control how long things last? I've got that book in my Amazon cart right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 04:00 PM
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How are your E2 levels? The only time I get bacne is if E2 is out of whack. HCG will help with the nut size, but it will raise estrogen, and there is no real way to combat this estrogen increase AFAIK. It's different than the E2 raise from test shots, and supposedly doesn't respond to an AI the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 03:59 PM
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Repeated infidelities? Are you just stupid or a huge pussy? If you want to set a good example for your son, show him you don't let whores walk all over you.
/r/askMRP03/12/19 03:23 PM
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Yeah, I think there is likely some truth to this story, but not sure what parts are bullshit.
/r/askMRP03/12/19 02:49 PM
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I have no timeframe that I have set for this. It takes time to change behaviors and longer for others to notice. I'm doing this because this is the type of person I see myself as.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/19 10:03 PM
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I get what your saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/19 08:54 PM
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You should know your wife may never mention your progress. She may even say she doesn't like it. This does not matter. I'm on TRT so my wife will sometimes make snide remarks about that when someone else comments on my appearance. I don't give a shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 09:53 PM
1

The first few months of TRT feel like heaven, but it will level off a bit, enjoy it tho!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 09:49 PM
2

Yeah, I learned it the hard way too buddy.
/r/askMRP26/11/19 06:48 PM
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OYS:16 37, 5'8" 162 lbs, Squat 327, DL 358, BP 280 OHP 144 Lifting: Caught a cold over the weekend, still feel weak as shit but still lifted yesterday and moved my max BP up a little. My weight is down a couple of pounds tho which is not awesome. Goals: DL: 405 and get to 170lbs. Relationship: I finally found a couple of posts that have helped me figure out what I want to do and where I want to be, and really what the hell frame is all about. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/c06q…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 05:28 PM
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Now is not the time to be needy. She has an infant literally sucking her tits all day, then her husband gets home and wants to suck her tits and she has had her fill with tit sucking. Now is a great time to work on yourself you weak asshole.
/r/askMRP26/11/19 03:29 PM
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I only have caffeine upon waking already. My energy levels are good on the days I get good rest, so I could eventually cut it all out. I have some concern over how it would affect my mood due to its effect on serotonin, which I fell I have lower levels of. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 05:26 PM
1

Good call. I was in a rush but will update this. Sleep is varied. I usually am in bed from 10-6. Now I am always woken up multiple times from the boys, and then some nights I can't sleep at all, been an issue for years. I cycle melatonin, Kava, benadryl, and take CBD oil frequently. If I have even 2 beers my sleep is fucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 10:09 PM
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OYS:15 37, 5'8" 164 lbs, Squat 327, DL 358, BP 278 OHP 144 Lifting: My suit doesn't fit anymore, literally could not get it over my shoulders. I had to stow away some shirts as well that are too snug. I'm still increasing 1RM on at least one lift each week doing 531. I run TRT and keep test at the top of the range. I did crash my E2 levels a week or so ago, which is fucking hell. For me, it causes anxiety and insomnia. That could be why I was so emotional for a week or so. I'm back to normal now…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 06:54 PM
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Definitely get test levels checked in another month. Your first results were complete crap and helps explain why you have almost 20% BF at only 150 lbs. If you are done having kids TRT is awesome. And no sex for 4 weeks? It sounds like you have a roommate at this point, hell you even have separate bedrooms. Read through Hackage's post history, he had a similar situation early on.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 03:49 PM
1

If there is one thing I give less than zero fucks about it is if I get a downvote.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 05:41 PM
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It's definitely not a good sign. She is at the minimum annoyed by you and wants some time alone. If you stay I'd find things to do away from her.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 04:30 PM
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You can bench press your bodyweight? Isn't that called a pushup?
/r/askMRP14/11/19 11:38 PM
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Right! Dude is in Ibiza without a wedding ring and she doesn't give a single actual fuck.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 11:36 PM
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especially when the focus shifts to you instead of wanting something in particular from your wife This. I was already lifting, getting laid, betting BJ's, had a successful career, great kids and a wife who is actually enjoyable to be around. I came here from a TFA post about making your wife your slut and wanted to figure out how to make my wife do anything sexually I wanted, anal and all at any time. I don't even care about that anymore. I do know that I felt like something was missing and I wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/19 11:03 PM
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I saved that page and ordered the book "The New Codependency" from the author of "Codependency No More". Not all of the bullet points apply to me, but some do. "Obsessing over the correct response, the need to engage." Is this along the lines of not having to dodge bullets? I still have some confusion over hiding things vs telling people things when it is in regards to something the other person would be upset about. Since most here don't tell their wives about RP, does that mean they never clea…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/19 05:14 PM
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Ok, I would have liked to hear what you originally were going to say. And by stop being codependent, do you mean dependant on my wife for validation or what are you meaning by that? Overall I feel like this was a big step for me and I have nothing but optimism for the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 11:13 PM
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The interesting thing in the comments I noticed is that the guys who started lifting just so their wives would fuck them more were disappointed, dancing fucking monkeys.
/r/askMRP13/11/19 05:05 PM
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Now that is funny. That was meant as a joke. A dude asked where I got my awesome flair from on that sub and he linked directly to it. I didn't take it personally at all. It's something I say all the time to my friends.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 10:11 PM
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OYS:14 37, 5'8" 164 lbs, Squat 327, DL 357, BP 270 OHP 144 (I can also see my abs and veins in my shoulders but I have no idea what my BF is.) Readings: Sidebar. Recently the collection of Iron moves which was shit. It's been an interesting week. I told my wife I've been using Viagra heavily for the last 6 months and on and off the last few years. That did not go over well. I take it to help with PE/confidence issues, not for ED. This has always been my biggest insecurity, and telling her about …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 04:34 PM
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Is it because what she does and says does not fucking matter and is out of our control? And this is about us fixing the things we can control.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/19 02:52 PM
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thanks dick
/r/askMRP06/11/19 08:47 PM
1

So I should say this tonight then. I am pissed about that. I tell her something that is a big fucking deal for me and her instead of understanding she gets pissed and gives me an ultimatum.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 08:46 PM
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I did not violate the first rule of fight club.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 08:44 PM
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Yeah, I'm sure it could happen. Fuck it if does, then I can have a good excuse to start taking Cialis:)
/r/askMRP06/11/19 06:45 PM
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I'm starting to feel better. I am free now. I have no other issues to hide from her or anyone else. This was/is my biggest insecurity and it's out there. I'm not carrying the weight anymore. I have no reason to be anything besides myself now, and she gets to decide to stay or go, my decision is made.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 04:59 PM
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Thanks. We had some discussion via text this morning (logistics only I know). She told me if I lie to her about something that affects us both that she is out. Now I'm not freaking about this and I'm not worried because I'm not hiding shit anymore. I vocalized that and left it pretty light. I told her just because I'm not taking Viagra doesn't mean I'm not going to stop trying to bang her all the time:)
/r/askMRP06/11/19 04:57 PM
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If you can relieve her from the responsibility for your self-worth, a mentally healthy wife will be happier. Yes. I have to make her understand without words that I don't need her approval or validation.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 04:39 PM
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Yes, I get this. I am getting bigger and stronger every week. I am not going to stop trying to fuck.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 04:08 PM
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Because I've been seeking advice on what to do for a while. Because I want someone to discuss this with as I feel like shit today and know you guys will give me some logical advice.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 04:07 PM
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Well, taking both I try to fuck her more. And I do a poor job of gaming her, and ignore if she's not in the mood. Her mouth noises said that it doesn't seem genuine, it's not spontaneous, and all relationship is only sex now.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:58 PM
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No, I don't fully get it.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:56 PM
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I am thinking of Cialis when shit settles down and after I see how I do on my own. But at this point, if I did and didn't say anything I don't think it would be good. If I want to take Cialis I'm going to fucking tell her.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:52 PM
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That's what I ultimately decided. I feel like long term that this was the correct move, but I have no fucking clue. She's not fucking happy and now I seem super insecure which is not attractive at all.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:24 PM
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No, it helps with PE. It makes sex better for me. I have high T:) due to TRT. I'm in great physical health.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:22 PM
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I have. This is the dilemma I have, hiding shit out of fear vs telling people shit that has to do with me.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:16 PM
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Oh, I will continue to do TRT, there is no question there. TRT usage and me trying to fuck her all the time coincided at the same time along with me starting the RP path, so it is all blamed on that. I'm not sure I will change anything, but I have to change some unattractive behaviors. I'm just kind of pissed off right now, wanting to tell them both to fuck off. I have been an ass tho and can't deny that, making my wife have sex she didn't want to have. Medical doctors admit they no shit about T…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 09:54 PM
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OYS:13 37, 5'8" 163.5 lbs, Squat 317, DL 344, BP 270 I haven't internalized shit, I have ignored good advice and am paying the price. Lots of drama this last week, had an embarrassing post in AskMRP, have a look if you want. I have failed to recognize comfort tests and fail the shit tests half the time. I had to leave for a trip Friday, so I initiated which was meant with compliance. I tried to bust out the bed restraints that haven't been used in years and my wife flipped out. Same issues I've …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 06:45 PM
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Maybe. I'm pretty sure there are posts from respected members telling guys to become sex gods. Why is being great at sex a bad goal? SGM talks about shit to do become a sex god and parts of it involve being able to pound away.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 09:52 PM
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I want sex to last a long time as like the act as much as the finish, so no it's not just for her. She can get off fairly easily, and even if I finish quick she can usually finish as well, so it's never been an issue with her.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 08:51 PM
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Get it out of your head that women are these perfect little creatures. If you fucked an NFL cheerleader would you brag to your friends? Girls do need dick, the only question is who's dick will she get. Seriously though, it sounds like she is really into you, don't fuck it up by being an insecure faggot. Don't ever bring any of the shit you found up and never show jealousy or insecurity. Everyone has those feelings at some point, but your girl is not who gets to see them. What matters is what is …
/r/askMRP04/11/19 06:58 PM
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Actually not at all. But (I think) it's because that is not the real issue like others have said.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 06:50 PM
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I don't see anything wrong with her behavior. Do yourself a favor and don't go looking for reasons to be insecure. It sounds like she likes you right now, but if you worry about gay shit like this your time will be limited. My wife was sleeping with at least one other guy before we got together, and I was banging a hot blonde, who gives a fuck? Women like to have sex too. Get to the gym pussy, I am close to your max bench at 100lbs less than you.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:36 PM
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I had a talk with the wife, she was on board with everything I said and wants the same things. I have been an ass to her sexually and had to own up to it. We are good now.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:26 PM
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I don't think I need anything else fucking with my noggin, plus I hear that shit is hard on your hairline (not that you would notice:)
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:21 PM
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You are right about everything. I have ALWAYS had issues lasting, so I take Viagra so I can stay hard after I bust. Stop and start just pisses girls off. I've started a reverse kegel program and need to work on my deep breathing as well. I've considered trying some hypnotherapy. I know STFU is preached, but I felt it was time for a talk, so I had one with the wife. I told her some things I was doing and why and what I wanted for the relationship and for our family. She said she wanted the same t…
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:20 PM
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Yep, I see girls every damn day that would leave there husbands for me without a second thought, but my wife takes me for granted. I will get over this.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 09:36 PM
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I like this thank you. Oh and my looks and hygiene are on point there is no issue there. My issues are all upstairs
/r/askMRP02/11/19 07:35 PM
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I don’t think so. When I first came here I had major validation issues and I think I’m making progress on those. She was willing to have sex with me I’m just trying to push boundaries and limits, Doing or trying to do some things that I want to do. Fuck I don’t know. I want her to want to have sex with me. Married RP is hard, Keep thinking I’m making progress and then fucking back to square one
/r/askMRP02/11/19 07:04 PM
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No I did not post this for validation. I didn’t want to do anything else stupid so I wanted some advice, No matter how harsh.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 06:11 PM
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Ok
/r/askMRP02/11/19 06:09 PM
1

Yasmin issue since I was 16 so I tried about everything
/r/askMRP02/11/19 06:08 PM
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Got it. Jesus those were her words and I let them define me.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 05:58 PM
1

Yes
/r/askMRP02/11/19 05:54 PM
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5 months or so in, so still gay. I am not to the point mentally where I’m OK with ending. I would have no problem finding a new one but that’s not what I want, that’s the easy way.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 05:53 PM
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I’m driving now but before I go home I will.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 04:11 PM
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That is correct she did say that and that is why I feel bad because it’s fucking true. So do I tell her that she was right? Or Somehow apply comfort and let her know that she is more than that?
/r/askMRP02/11/19 04:11 PM
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It lets me last as long as I need to. I’ve always gotten off quick. I have no issues w getting it up.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 03:06 PM
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I already lifted at the hotel gym.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 03:01 PM
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Ok. I’m just not in a good spot mentally today.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 02:43 PM
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Thanks, both of those posts are relevant to my situation. Eliminating my need for a thank you is another layer I've yet to rid myself of. I needed the apology post to as I still have been harboring some anger from talk a couple weeks ago when she said some mean ass shit to me. I haven't brought it up, but it's been there inside and I've wanted to. It would be stupid, she gave me a morning BJ and few days later along with other improvements recently. Moving on now, I don't need thank you's and I …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/19 02:39 PM
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OYS:13 37, 5'8" 163.5 lbs, Squat 304, DL 344, BP 262 FR: I danced with all of them. Halloween party Saturday night. All these people have known each other for decades, all of them went to high school with my wife. I am one of the lone outsiders. I knew I would be in charge of entertaining myself as the wife would soon get lost with her old friends. All the kids leave, rap starts playing. The two AMOG's immediately take center stage on the dance floor. I'm fully aware they own the place, and I'm …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 02:27 PM
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If you were already in shape and strong, what were the biggest things you did to turn things around?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 01:29 PM
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Ok. She just played a big fucking mean card, so I thought it was appropriate to play mine. I wasn't mean, just didn't give her attention, time, or affection. I didn't expand on what was said as that would involve too many "she's" and I would have been temp banned, but it wasn't nice shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/19 02:30 PM
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OYS #12 37, 5'8" 162 lbs, 10%BF (my estimate) , married 9, together 11, kids 1 and 4. DL 336, Squat 304, Bench 225x5 Fitness: I squatted 300 raw yesterday, felt good. I currently do not use a belt, even at my max, but I may start. I think I need to add a little more volume to my workouts, help increase size along with the strength gains. Work/Financial: I've been wanting to move to a new location as my lease is up but haven't found anything and the new lease was about to start. Well, I found a n…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 09:18 PM
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I used to love beating single-player games as well. Fuck I probably still do, but I don't play anymore. Video games give you a false sense of achievement, a feeling of accomplishing something which in reality doesn't mean shit. I even recently sat down to do some gaming, and it just didn't feel the same after all this time. Plus I don't want my boys seeing their dad gaming and want to spend waste their lives doing that shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 02:40 PM
1

What AI do you use on the normal cycle and the blast?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 02:03 PM
1

I go to business conferences 4x per year. There are multiple speakers at these events, and most are pretty damn good, but others I think are worthless. We have a saying though, that everyone gets what they need from the conference. Just because you didn't get any value from this post doesn't mean I didn't. I have had issues with fear, so I bookmarked this motherfucker. Go find what you need. JFC you negative fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/19 02:38 PM
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Yeah, I agree, which is why I owned up to doing it for the wrong reasons. My mindset on the why does need to be different, even if I end up doing the same thing. Getting out of the house apart from the wife is a weak spot for me. Thanks for the reply.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/19 08:49 PM
2

You considered suicide? You are a selfish bastard.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 05:06 PM
1

Right, who the fuck does this? Maybe I need better socks.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 04:57 PM
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OYS #11 37, 5'8" 161lbs, 10%BF, married 9, together 11, kids 1 and 4. DL 336, Squat 304, Bench 225x5 Fitness: Doing 531. All lifts are going up and I will hit a 3 plate squat very soon. Weight has plateaued again which means I am not eating enough. My new goal is to weigh 170. At 2 lbs per month, that should happen by next February. Frame/RL: After sex Friday some verbal intercourse happened and I got called a sex obsessed robot. I know they are mouth noises and PMS is a bitch, but there was som…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 04:01 PM
2

This book honestly opened up a period of Dominance/Submission with me and Ms.SoggyTrain. We started doing shit we had never done before. Then we had kids and things went downhill (my fault) and I have yet to get it back there.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:28 PM
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" I couldn't trust my wife with my emotions any more than I would trust a teenager with my financial portfolio " I've never seen it stated like this, good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/19 08:24 PM
1

Goddamnit.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 08:13 PM
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Well, I think you are a fucking idiot for believing this line. I know you are in a lot of pain and it is hard to think logically, so instead why don't you listen to these dudes here trying to help you think clearly.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 08:47 PM
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OYS #10 37, 5'8" 161lbs, 10%BF, married 9, together 11, kids 1 and 4. DL 327, Squat 286, Bench 225x5 I have been lazy and haven't posted here in a month, which hasn't helped me. I went from feeling very OI to noticing feelings of validation issues again. So we are starting again today. Mission (in progress): To live my life authentically without fear. To model calmness, confidence, and happiness for my sons and raise them to be manly men. To be the man in my relationship. To enjoy this fucking l…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 05:47 PM
1

Also, consider a food sensitivity test. Diet can play a major role in how you feel, and sometimes you don't know what is fucking with your gut. You could also go to a tanning salon weekly. Getting rid of beer is a good start.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 02:54 PM
2

It seems you keep trying to make yourself happy with sex. You are getting more sex than most, including anal. Maybe sex isn't your issue and isn't why you don't fill fulfilled?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 05:48 PM
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First, never talk about that night again. Second, chill out, this is the long game. FWIW I think your marriage is going to be fine IF you continue to improve beyond where you are at. You are obviously much more worried about her leaving you then she is about you leaving, fix that. I'd like to say my wife has never had a crush on someone else, but I know better. I do know if she left I would fuck someone 10 years younger than her, and that makes me feel better.
/r/askMRP26/09/19 04:35 PM
1

Getting roasted by a bunch of assholes on the internet is no fun. I post the dumbest shit I say or do so that I hopefully never repeat the behavior. My life, my lifting, and my relationship are better since finding this place.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 03:06 PM
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Doesn't sound like she has any fear that you will sleep with other women, or she doesn't care.
/r/askMRP24/09/19 05:23 PM
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Yeah, I miss my big gay al flair.
/r/askMRP23/09/19 09:52 PM
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JFC if you have read anything you wouldn't even bother asking this question. She cheated and is continuing to cheat. The relationship is over you pussy. If it makes you feel better, none of the younger guys currently fucking your wife are going to stay with her. Eventually, she will be left cold and alone bitching because all the guys her age want to fuck younger women.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 03:33 PM
1

"I have a problem with not lasting long that keeps getting worse" Want an easy fix? I've tried them a lot of things. My favorite is old china balm, from Amazon. Takes a little experimenting to figure out what amount works for you, but it's fairly user-friendly. I also take a very small (20mg) dose of V. The combination has greatly increased my confidence in that arena.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/19 09:28 PM
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With my insurance, my TRT is around $20 per month. My levels were 400 post-vasectomy, so still in the normal range. However, I complained of libido and fatigue issues so the doc was fine prescribing test.
/r/askMRP16/09/19 04:07 PM
1

-Porn - I watch it maybe 1x/week, if that (unchanged). I don't see negative effects but I'll continue to avoid the stuff. Give it up for 90 days and then you will have some idea of how it affects you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/19 03:25 PM
2

I liked Tony Robbins "Money Master the Game". TLDR-fire your financial advisor, do this shit yourself. It's a long game, like marriage.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 09:38 PM
1

OYS #9 MRP 3 months. 37, 5'8" 160lbs, 10%BF, married 9, together 11, kids 1 and 4. DL 315X1 raw, Squat 255x5, Bench 225x5 which caused a sprained pec minor that I am rebuilding. So I've been working out a lot harder the last few months, making gains and looking better than I have in a while. The wife has been slacking and as a result, she has gained a few (~5lbs). I think she may have finally hit the wall, as she is 36 now. I haven't said shit about the weight, she is still hot and I let her kno…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 08:57 PM
1

If she is that overweight you have to be a faggot as she isn't scared of losing you. She knows she can be a fatty and still boss you around.
/r/askMRP03/09/19 08:47 PM
4

I think you will find if you stay off the weed it will be easier to also quit the video games and porn.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 04:00 PM
1

I get that about not changing too many things at once, just sets one up for failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 03:51 PM
4

So you are drinking less but smoking more weed and cigarettes? I thought you were better than that. You are just substituting drugs, good job. Who the fuck still smokes cigarettes anyways? It is a waste of money, makes you unattractive, the list goes on.JFC there is no upside. Stop being a pussy and just quit.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 02:53 PM
2

Good luck with this relationship if you are already asking her permission if you can work out do any fucking thing you want and you're not even married. She's not your mom for fuck's sake.
/r/askMRP29/08/19 09:45 PM
1

Got it, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 08:22 PM
1

Lol, that too. My responses were spoken with a genuine smile on my face and I was laughing on the inside as I was in a great mood that night, so I don't think they came across as passive-aggressive.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 05:55 PM
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OYS #8 Sorry red, still doing this today. 5'8" 160 lbs. Lean AF. Frame: Last week was PMS week, and it was awesome. She woke up with laser eyes Tuesday, I was amused and stayed positive. I decided we should go to the pool that night, brought some booze and had a great time with the kids and stayed super positive around her. That night I railed her hard. I had some internal anger from her behavior in bed last week that came out. She didn't know what to say, I kept pounding her harder and she just…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 03:41 PM
1

Weird, I just meditated twice this weekend, which I haven't' done in at least 2 months. You guys ever do a float tank? You can't see, hear, or feel anything. You have nothing to do but be alone with your thoughts for an hour. You leave in a completely different mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/19 02:27 PM
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JFC one can only imagine how bad you DEER to your wife if this is what you do online to a bunch of assholes.
/r/askMRP22/08/19 05:22 PM
1

Switched my TRT injections from once a week to 2x Yep. I find I can also use a higher total weekly amount without a big estrogen increase.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 02:18 PM
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Are you retarded? Your wife is not premenopausal at 36. She is also not asexual,demisexual, or anything like that. Those are labels that justify her not sleeping with her you, that way she doesn't feel guilty.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 01:58 PM
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OYS #7 MRP 3 months. 36, 5'8" 160lbs, 10%BF, married 9, together 11, kids 1 and 4. Mission (in progress): To live my life authentically without fear. To model calmness, confidence, and happiness for my sons and raise them to be men. To be the man in my relationship. To enjoy this fucking life as much as possible before my time is done. Fitness: Good news is I am up 5lbs in the last 2 months, with lower BF. But I am stopping the SL5X5 program. I am squatting 255x5, and deadlifting 280x5 after tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 10:54 PM
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Partly. I have read that post many times. Part of it is just seeing what I can do with my life, seeing if I can really have everything I want. If I want to have sex, but am scared because she will say no because we just had it the day before or some other bullshit reason, that is an issue. It's a little testing of the waters.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/19 09:20 PM
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I agree that all women like to be dominated, not arguing that at all. You think a man should tell his wife if she can masturbate or what are you getting at here buddy? I do want to be more dominant, and know that it makes both parties happier.
/r/askMRP13/08/19 04:48 PM
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Yes, I should not have followed her anywhere, that was stupid. She didn't say shit about anything the next day.
/r/askMRP13/08/19 04:46 PM
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OYS #6 MRP 3 months. 36, 5'8" 159lbs, 10%BF, married 9, together 11, kids 1 and 4 A couple days ago I posted a poorly written post about a retarded conversation I had with my wife where I went full retard and was a complete fucking asshole as well.johneyapocalypse/ called me out hard, and he was right. He has a little different view on things than a lot of others here I feel, and his reply hit me hard. So what's my issue? I have had one big insecurity for a long time, and it has to do with sex. …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/19 04:26 PM
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Yeah I used to be big gay Al.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 10:58 PM
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I wouldn't mind that type of agreement in the future. I've read SGM and want to get to the ownership stuff. We have to realize we actually have no control over others, including our wives. Your wife could be flicking the bean on the daily, you'd never know, ya know? Yeah we are all a little fucked up for sure. And the last thing, not sure? Probably just protecting my ego.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 10:56 PM
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Yes, we don't tell each other when the other can or can't masturbate, or poop, or anything else. I know your relationship is different but you both seem a little crazy. She's always used one, way before we ever met.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 09:05 PM
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So this is the major shit test she gives me, ever since starting TRT, and I have yet to pass it. Also my test is low because I did a shit ton of prohormones without proper recovery, and a couple cycles. Plus once you experience elevated test levels, you realize it's fucking awesome.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 08:57 PM
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Yep. I went full retard. The TRT has changed me. The truth is my biggest insecurity in life has been in regards to sex. I have the tools now to have the sex I want, and I am taking advantage of it and being a selfish as well.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 08:50 PM
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The sex was going to happen until I tried to do something unexpected, not so fucking vanilla. But yeah, leaving would have been way better than the shit I did. To be fair I am different with the drugs, but I am happier and am not changing.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 08:45 PM
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Thanks and fuck off. It was a retardedly written post about a retarded conversation where I was being a retard.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 08:44 PM
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Failed. Got a little too drunk and was not smooth. Just had normal sloppy drunk sex. I honestly think if I had my shit together it could have happened. No big deal, I'll get there.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/19 08:39 PM
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She can't use them skin on skin or gets inflammation. She typically uses it over underwear, hence my idiot idea to cover it with a condom.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 08:37 PM
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Yeah just didn’t feel like making her do something she really didn’t want to at the time , rather wait a day. Sometime starfish does turn into good sex, but this wasn’t one of those times.
/r/askMRP09/08/19 10:38 PM
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Alright will do. And typing on my damn phone while feeding kids, knew it was coming out retarded. I plan on backing off. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askMRP09/08/19 10:25 PM
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Funny, but not helpful.
/r/askMRP09/08/19 10:18 PM
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Haha. Yeah libido is stays high, but I can go a couple days now and be OK. Initially daily release was needed.
/r/askMRP05/08/19 04:16 PM
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Yep be ready for the shit tests if you do get on TRT. The first 1-2 months most people feel fucking amazing and you will want to bone daily. It's the new drug high, and eventually levels out and you just feel good all the time.
/r/askMRP05/08/19 02:41 PM
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Yep. I get the situation, and I won't say that. We are both aware that it is my birthday, so that won't need to be repeated, but she will be expecting me to use her. I'd say odds are 30/70 against me. If it doesn't happen I'll be just fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/19 07:54 PM
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OYS #5 MRP 2.5 months. 36, 5'8" 159lbs, 10%BF, married 9, together 11, kids 1 and 4 Fitness: Definitely strained a pec muscle the other week going HAM. The only thing that hurts is bench press, so not a huge deal. Will just work harder in other areas.Current Lifts: BP:253 Squat:270 Deadlift: 292 (haven't actually went 100% on this). Really getting hard to try and squat heavy 3x per week, and feel I'm near the end of SL5x5 for progression. Goals: Squat 315 Deadlift:405 I can do this, just need ti…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/19 05:15 PM
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BENCH PRESS: 187.5lb DEADLIFT:233.5lb SHOULDER PRESS: 156.5lb Are you actually doing a push press instead of a strict shoulder press? Your bench seems weak AF for a shoulder press that high.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/19 02:46 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/c2l5dt/your_woman_is_one_of_your_greatest_creations/
/r/askMRP24/07/19 07:57 PM
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There was a recent post from a guy who had completely transformed his entire self and relationship over the course the year. He got compliments everywhere he went. During the entire time, not one word of support or compliment from his wife. You could become a world champion BJJ or whatever the fuck you do, gain 50 lbs of muscle and be 4% BF and there is a chance she may never say a word about it. Who gives a fuck tho, you would still be a ripped monster.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 05:48 PM
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Am I actually being unreasonable about leaving my 8yr old daughter with her grandparents for 2 nights so I can have a weekend out of town with my wife? No you are not the asshole at ALL here. She is being a cunt. Kids need time away from their parents and vice versa. We leave both our kids (1 and 4)with grandparents for 4-5 days every year since birth. I'd leave them alone for more weekends if the grandparents weren't so fucking lazy in their retired days. JFC.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 03:36 PM
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Thanks Johney. Luckily I have adopted the "reset" every day mantra, which is liberating. We were both normal and happy yesterday, she got the rest she needed and was eager to have the sex she missed out on the night before. I guess I don't think I'm being hard on her? I get mad at myself, but don't vocalize that shit. I've only went RAMBO 2x, and that was within the first month of finding this place. I get the part about only how my perceptions have changed.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 03:22 PM
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OYS #4 MRP 2 months. 36, 5'8" 159lbs, 10%BF, married 9, together 11, kids 1 and 4 I have been making progress then was a retarded faggot last night. I didn't even want to write this. Fitness: Up 4lbs in the last month or so. Squat no longer hurting, did 235x5 today. Right pec still hurts when I bench, it is fine with all other lifts. I still benched today, but it doesn't feel right. Didn't meal prep so calories aren't high enough. Based on the leangains site I need to be at 3330 to make gains. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 08:59 PM
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Didn't someone recently say the more you use your wife for things other than as your personal slut, the less sex you will have? I want lots of sex and some help raising the kids. Priorities I guess.
/r/askMRP22/07/19 03:30 PM
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Nice. My squats do not look like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/19 04:25 PM
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I'll add it to my Amazon list.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 07:57 PM
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OYS #3 MRP 2 months. 36, 5'8" 158lbs, >10%BF, married 9, together 11, kids 1 and 4 Went on a family camping trip 9 hours away from last Wednesday thru Sunday. This led to not much change in some areas. Fitness: Felt like a strained left pec ligament last week benching 225x5, still did prescribed weight on bench Monday, but def hurt. Also failed last set of 230x5 on squats. I think I need knee wraps at this point, feel a little unstable above 225. Drinking and eating like shit Wed-Sunday didn't h…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 05:26 PM
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Right, I believe the correct response to "You're an asshole" is always "thank you" with a big grin.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 05:47 PM
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So you have a 1 year old running around during this time? I believe you are divorced, so not sure what your kid situation is these days.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 04:45 PM
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TRT is awesome. I would say for the average person, 50mg 2x per week with no AI is the best place to start. Do that for a few months and then get checked. I test over at that dose, so have to do 40 2x per week before I go get bloods. I had an interesting start to TRT tho. Felt awesome for 3-4 months, then felt like shit. Spent some time on some other forums, ended up taking selenium and iodine for a couple months (had some low thyroid symptoms although bw was good), and that seemed to balance ev…
/r/askMRP15/07/19 04:28 PM
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I've read this but for some it is really the only time M-F. Me and wife both work FT, normal hours. Our 1 year old forces one of us (usually me) to get out of bed 6am latest. We are neither waking up before this. We then take turns watching the 1 and 4 yoa while we each get ready for work. I get home at 6:15 and from then until 9pm when the 4 yoa goes to sleep, it's just feeding, playing, baths, and bedtime routine. I could slip in a quickie during getting ready for work or evening routine but i…
/r/askMRP15/07/19 03:59 PM
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I've always known. What I didn't know is how to handle shit tests properly, which has been know to close down assholes and vaginas alike.
/r/askMRP09/07/19 10:16 PM
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OYS #2 ​ Fitness: The good-put up 225x5 on bench today. Got 3 compliments from dudes at the lake and pool this weekend, no homo,wife was around to hear. The bad: Drank from Wednesday to Saturday, got the shits Saturday(still drank as I had a bags tournament with the wife and wasn't going to be a bitch cuz I was peeing out my butt). Only was able to lift 1x last week and 2x this week as leaving for a 5 day camping trip. OHP is maxed out and has turned into a push press, otherwise still getting st…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 09:55 PM
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Haha I had a similar question when I first got here and got my ass reamed.
/r/askMRP09/07/19 09:16 PM
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20 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/19 01:47 PM
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Don't have a solution for the headaches though, which make me tired and cranky and generally a disinterested fuck. FWIW-I had a sudden onset of migraines and headaches last year (literally a headache or migraine every day for months on end). After trying all sorts of natural and rx shit, what really made them go away was a food sensitivity test. Found out my body didn't like eggs and dairy. I eliminated all eggs and dairy for 90 days and have been great since. I still minimize that stuff, but ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 03:34 PM
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Ok I mean more slut, not whore. I understand the difference, although don't always differentiate between the two. So you think the comment made the BJ about payment therefore whorish? And I agree, not submissive everywhere, def bedroom. Consider this, if you saw us out to dinner and asked, hey who is in charge of the relationship? I don't want her answer to be "ME". I don't think she wants to be the one in charge either. She will never be a submissive everywhere, she handles her own shit profess…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 02:13 PM
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Well you can always make your levels tank on purpose if you want. But I wouldn't at your age unless they are super low AND you don't want kids. Otherwise you have to deal with a huge mess of shit when you want to get off and try for kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 08:34 PM
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This is funny, but doubt OP has strong enough frame to pull it off if he was considering staying with her.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 08:28 PM
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Ok. MMSLP talks about thanking your wife for behaviors you want to reinforce, thought it was a funny way to do that, guess I did that wrong. I want her to be my whore. And are you saying she may not want to be submissive in the relationship outside the bedroom? I know she won't and shouldn't be in the workplace.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 08:07 PM
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All I can think is that she is getting mad at you for setting up a date, that's not barking orders at all. Sounds like you got a lot of work to do.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 05:07 PM
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OYS #1 Stats: 36, 5'8", 158lbs, below 10% (visible abs), wife 36, married 9rs, together 11. Two boys 1,4,. Doing SL5, current lifts Bench: 185x5 Dead:245x5, Squat: 225x5, Press: 105x5. Haven't maxed out this year and these lifts are starting to become hard. I felt like the first 6 weeks of SL5 were so easy it was a waste. Been here for 2 months. Read: NMMG, WISNIFG,MMSLP, Book of pook. In progress: RMYO,SGM, waiting on MAP and Meditations to get here. Background: I think I'm in a spot most peopl…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 04:47 PM
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This sounds appropriate. Took another dudes dick in her ass, she can call him for a ride home.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 02:14 PM
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Yeah you are so right. I have even told my wife that she fucking hates me when I'm sick. She literally has no sympathy if I'm dying. I figured this out even before coming here and now take whatever drugs I need to get by and and act normal until shit passes. And if I have to go to the dr there is no mention of it, even tho she says it makes her upset if I go to the dr without letting her know.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/19 02:25 PM
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Yeah go over to https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/ and see some of the guys posting about their wives cheating on them. After a while, all the stories like that start to sound the same.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 02:46 PM
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You have to be their rock, and you don't get one. This. At a rough point in my life I had to put my dog down that I raised since a pup.Did it over my lunch hour and went back to work. A few days later I cried, and my wife saw. Now she had cried everyday, but men are not afforded that luxury. I didn't know this at the time. Looking back it hurt our relationship. I now understand that no matter what happens or who I lose, no one will ever see that emotion from me again, ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 02:15 PM
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" For those struggling with validation… Not a single time did I get encouragement from her. Not a single bit of praise. Not a mention of anything that would resemble a wife who is proud of or to be with her husband. Not a single comment on my physique, style, new haircut, sexual position, or attitude. Nothing. " This is one of those shitty things that is good to know. Watching actions now, not words.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/19 10:28 PM
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I struggled with leaving the wife alone initially with the kids at night too, feeling guilty for leaving them and my wife. But guess what, she does just fine if I leave for the weekend, and so do the kids. Your wife and kids will be just fine.
/r/askMRP19/06/19 08:51 PM
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Here is something that should piss you off. Women do not go long periods without orgasms. She is choosing to fuck someone else or just get herself off as opposed to have actual sex with you. This goes for anyone going thru a drought. Unless this is stupid thinking, I'm new here. But I've never had a drought.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 10:56 PM
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practicing breathing like I read in TRM. What is TRM?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 10:14 PM
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Sometimes we feel like a loser or a piece of shit because we are being a fucking loser piece of shit. Heard of Meetup.com? Get on there, connect with people both to build yourself socially and also to get a fucking job. If you are actually smart, then it won't be hard. Also I would spend a lot of time away from your LTR. Tell her your studying,writing resumes,trying not to be such a faggot. Oh and then actually do those things.
/r/askMRP06/06/19 02:43 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askMRP31/05/19 12:52 AM
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That's the plan.
/r/askMRP30/05/19 08:55 PM
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Got it.
/r/askMRP30/05/19 08:54 PM
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Insightful, especially the last line.
/r/askMRP30/05/19 08:52 PM
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I expect once I get all the sidebar internalized I won't ask these stupid fucking questions anymore, but at least it gives you asshats some amusement.
/r/askMRP30/05/19 03:13 PM
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Current book I'm on in the sidebar progress.
/r/askMRP30/05/19 03:13 PM
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Both actually, I have the plaques on my wall to prove it.
/r/askMRP30/05/19 03:09 PM
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This one made me laugh the most. But srs tho I always look out for your posts, thanks.
/r/askMRP30/05/19 03:08 PM
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I have not. Got some conflicting answers here and am getting my shit together before confronting that. I actually do plan to atm. Just put it all out there and basically be like this me, idgaf take it or leave it.
/r/askMRP30/05/19 03:07 PM
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Hard to tell how gains yet as I dialed back weights according to the SL5 program. I take 100mg per week, as my doc doesn't like if I test out of range, which happens on 120 per week. And yes why am I so scared of my wife is the question, obviously because I currently lack frame and acting like a spineless bitch.
/r/askMRP28/05/19 02:32 PM
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I got the sarcasm and already knew those two things were ignorant. Thanks for looking out tho. And I'm sidebar in process.
/r/askMRP28/05/19 02:18 PM
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So that I don't live in fear of her finding out eventually, and just the aspect of hiding it seems beta. On the other hand it's my body and I'll put in it whatever the fuck I want. I'm getting different opinions on the question, but almost everything everyone is saying about me is not wrong (currently).
/r/askMRP23/05/19 04:30 PM
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She gets into it during sex 90% of the time. You would totally own that shit and tell her? Seems like that is the unpopular opinion. Yes on the frame, I am improving every day. Just difficult because she genuinely acts like it is hurting her feelings (she thinks it's all cuz I'm on test), and says it's not fair for her and I'm not the person she married.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 02:45 PM
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What do I want to do, well I want to take the V, I like sex on it, and I only take 20mg, which is less than 1/2 a normal dose. I am for sure afraid to tell the wife, seems like it would hurt her feelings and kill sex for a while, and also make me look like a scared little bitch (which I'm being). One life, that's why I take the test. I was not going to live the rest of my life with lower T levels. Having high T is fucking awesome.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 02:32 PM
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I absolutely have validation issues, I have learned that since finding this place. I'm in the process of eliminating them. And yes I'm scared to have that conversation with my wife, think I made that clear in the post.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 02:21 PM
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Did you tell your wife before you started taking it? She hates that you take it you say, but still lets you do what you want? Also I said I have issues with PE, no ED. I've never had that, ever. I watch my E2 closely and keep it low with bi weekly injections of a low amount.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 01:56 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 12:34 AM
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True. Thanks.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 12:34 AM
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1)test levels don’t equate w muscle definition. 2) no contradiction here, her words. I want to screw longer, cuz I enjoy it. She cares way less about it than I do. 3) yes, shit tests are a weakness in working on.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 12:32 AM
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Expand on the thirsty beta part and how it's different from trying to get laid all the time.
/r/askMRP22/05/19 10:41 PM
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This is the book I'm reading currently. In NMMNG it says lying is a fear based behavior so that is where I thought I should come clean.
/r/askMRP22/05/19 10:40 PM
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Stop talking so damn much. You sound like a little bitch, you keep it up she will leave you.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:27 PM
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So is giving a girl a towel to clean up the load you just blew inside her beta?
/r/askMRP14/05/19 03:31 PM
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I do private md labs, or other online lab ordering sites. My doc actually tested every 3 months in the beginning until we got it to stay in range. I feel better at 120 per week, but test too high even at 6 days post injection. I typically do 40 every 3 days, and take my tests on the 3rd day (day of next injection), and all lab values are good. I do feel a little estrogen creepin up on 120+ per week tho, which I don't on 80mg.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 02:30 PM
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I consider normal at the upper range of lab values. My doc doesn't want me over normal. My levels were 400 before (at 36). Now I test around 800, right before I take another dose. I also order my own tests for test and estrogen if I change things so that I don't fuck things up.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/19 08:27 PM
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Yeah your dose is crap for your size. I'm 5'8" 155 with extremely low body fat and test normal on 80mg per week (and typically go a little above that). Splitting up the dose to 2x per week makes things better as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/19 02:41 PM
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And what DOES drive female sexuality? Narcissism. Can you expand on this?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 10:12 PM
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You know you are probably right, I am probably just super gay, guess I'll need some tighter jeans. I checked out that thread tho, and saw the posts you are referring to. To be fair, I am not needy about it. Once, maybe 2x a year I will get the desire to try it again, it doesn't happen and I drop it for a year. I have a buddy who is needy about it to his wife, and my wife made the comment about it being gay.
/r/askMRP01/05/19 09:11 PM
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I just want to say thank you for everyone who responded, I take no offense. I know I'm just some unknown asshole here.
/r/askMRP01/05/19 05:35 PM
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