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Red Pill ExampleSolipsistic_guy/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 04:22 AM
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Solipsistic_guy/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:14 AM
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+1 for fight club -1 for talking about it
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 03:32 AM
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And to add to this; internalize the pill my bro, true abundance mentality, holding frame etc.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:43 AM
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Let no kindness go unrewarded and let no slight go unpunished my friend.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:44 PM
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Does she know about your startup ? Then she will know of the motive. If she is submissive to you and you usually order her around, you can tell her it displeases you, she’ll remove it. Another course of action would be to pretend to be beta, but her with many texts a day, asking how she is and stuff with will drain her. She will seek to move on, burn the pictures and that’s your exit.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 07:13 AM
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Gotta assume she has no copies,
/r/askTRP10/01/19 07:10 AM
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I third, when I see a chick who has 5000 male followers on insta all commenting that she’s awesome, but no real friends...it makes me cringe
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 12:34 AM
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99% and I think that’s the way it’s supposed to be. OP doesn’t say don’t bang these chicks, just don’t put a ring on it.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 12:32 AM
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I used to give the same advice to everyone. Lock me before they realize their SMV. But now I’ve changed it to boost your SMV so high that nothing else matters haha
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 12:31 AM
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Single mom, largest red flag of all.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 12:29 AM
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Quality post my dude ! It narrows down LTR options to about 1% of the female population. I just try not to care when I’m dating. Smash that kitty cat regardless but when you’re thinking long term partnership, most don’t deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 12:28 AM
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Now that you mention it... I’d just skimmed the article earlier but I now read the accessories bit and have to agree.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 11:44 PM
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Hey man ! Agree with your post overall, but what’s wrong with a smart watch ? And what would you recommend in its stead ?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 05:55 PM
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If people know the consequences of disobeying then they’ll accept your decision even if you ask nicely. It’s like your boss requesting you to ‘support’ an initiative. He won’t command you to do it cuz he knows that you know what happens if you refuse. I find many strong people intentionally be polite to give the other person the impression of having a high ground. On the other hand if you come off as too strong or ‘negative’ you automatically antagonize. Take Donald trump for example.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:38 PM
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Tell her you have other plans ? Or fall ill last minute ?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:21 PM
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Please give us an update on how it ends for him ha
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:37 PM
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48 rules of power applied at their best !
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:17 PM
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Thats rule #1 for manipulation . That’s how Darth Sidious became emperor. The fault lies with the BPs for never realizing this till it’s too late and their freedom has been taken away.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 02:19 PM
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Yes she got away the first time easy, Also you can’t save him brah, let him die and be born a new.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 02:09 PM
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I can relate. BP me grew up wanting to be loved for ‘who I was inside’ when you take away the money, fame etc. let’s take a look at nature. The peacock and lion are quite beautiful right ? Very flashy and majestic. Now look at the, peahen and lioness in comparison. They look pedestrian. Nature made it such that the female chooses the mate and as dudes, it’s our job to be flashy and display value. 99.5% of the people don’t give a shit about me ; always asking about my work and commenting on the h…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 03:19 AM
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Gotta agree with this, it’s the sales guys that are most prone to midlife crisis.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 07:53 AM
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Who’s better ? If it’s him, it explains why he’s shitting on you.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 12:54 AM
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Fun fact : North Indian guys are perceived in India, the way white men are perceived by America haha. Rowdy, entitled etc... East Indian men look like Asians and South Indians looks like Emasculated Black men. You should all pool together and Gift him 1 deodorant worth $4 from target for his birthday.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 04:34 PM
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First rule of the game is to understand that you’re in one. Women subconsciously do and do not try to work against their instincts. Au contraire the BP fucks have theirs killed by years of conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:34 PM
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Fredrick Niechze famously quoted that the 2 most potent narcotics of our time are Alcohol and Religion. They dull our senses, make us accepting and docile.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 01:28 PM
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Dude, chill ... it’s just a movie.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 07:27 PM
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Well it’s good you’re acquainted to TRP. The whole idea is to create so much value in your life that women would want to be a part of it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 06:30 PM
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Dude make sure you’re not being lured into a pyramid scheme where you have to recruit more suckers... Edit: if you were single I’d have told you to lure your plates into the pyramid and doom them for life but...
/r/askTRP12/12/17 02:44 AM
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I’d like to know about podcasts too ! As for successful men : I try to mix and match aspects of historical personalities that I like and learn from their follies. An interesting fact about Jobs, Musk, Trump and Hitler is that none of them were into drinking. Their reasons varied. Correct me if I’m wrong.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 02:16 PM
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TL;DR : she figured out OP is fake RP so all OP can do now is either hard next and learn or be his real BP self.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:59 AM
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Could be a bukkake... just sayin...
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:05 AM
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OP : Use text 2 instead of text 1. Problem solved
/r/askTRP10/12/17 06:21 AM
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This post needs to be stickied. AWALT to the max ! Thanks for sharing OP.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 10:58 PM
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OP, I know some of the words here sound harsh but it’s indeed a bitter pill to swallow. After my first relationship ended with that chick cheating. All she had to say for herself was “women are meant to be loved not understood.” That’s all. They are not logical creatures like men. The whole point of TRP is that men are not incomplete without women. Our goal in life is way more valuable than making a family. Women should be treated as a sidequest. A man should create such value in a life that a c…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 05:41 PM
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Loved their argument on education, considering the fact their so called higher education is in non STEM fields and probably due to the fact that their bachelors degree was useless so now they can at least be a lecturer somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 12:23 PM
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Hey don’t make fun of gramps !
/r/askTRP06/12/17 02:29 PM
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Pretend like nothing happened and sext if you like... But you’re missing the whole point of TRP. You’re supposed to make the chick enter your reality not react to hers. Why would you wanna sext when you can just sex ?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:32 PM
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If it’s a cultural thing then find people of the same culture who get it. Or break free from yours if it’s holding you back.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:58 PM
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How does she show it ? Also her tone and location of declaration matter.... Maybe she was just excited about something awesome you did ? I’ve had friends fall for me over time but I didn’t pursue it as I don’t blur lines once I draw them.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:55 PM
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I saw the post and that’s what made me ask the question. Most of the cues in the post haven’t happened to me unless I was already on my first date with her. Let me try to rephrase : how do you guys know that a chick is checking you out ? Or do people just know it and I’m the autistic one ?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 05:48 PM
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Since you’re not looking for a sexual relationship, you’ll need to spend much more. The more you spend the lower your orbit. Also do her homework... chicks love that stuff. Learn to provide for her. Always be there to console her after jock boy breaks her heart. Take care of her bills while she spreads her legs on daddy yankee’s tailgate. It’s not the guy who fucks her, it’s the guy she comes back to ! The guys willing to raise the postman’s baby. Be the that guy. Be the hero.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 05:48 AM
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Can you elaborate more on these points ? Seems everyone these days has tattoos...also what’s up with beauty salons and gyms ?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 04:56 AM
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I really like this post ! I’ve always LTRed girls who didn’t like to party or drink. I myself don’t do either and it was great until I had to move away to further my career. The power games were minimum. They were very homely, nurturing and sex was fulfilling. The good and bad part both is that such chicks are hard to find ! Add limited social media presence to that list !
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 04:49 AM
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I agree that low n count is hard to verify directly but the other two are pretty stark obvious. Are bars are her go to place ? Does she like to “girls night out ?” Also those irritating tongue out selfies...
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 04:35 AM
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I think TRP already covers emotional regulation. Meditation, stoicism are all lifestyle choices we make.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 03:03 AM
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No shit... wow ... I guess the last resort is forming pregnancy pacts
/r/askTRP27/11/17 04:18 PM
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That’s a sad truth, thank god for prenups.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 04:57 AM
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OP, on the bright side he didn't go for the subway "sandwich architect" internship that pays 4$ an hour while you learn the art of putting together as sub...
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 04:22 AM
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McD is a good starter job, but I do hope he plans to rise higher and higher. He has a no doubt an alpha dad as well as a fair bit of resources. I'm from an upper middle class household too as well as an erstwhile HS jock, and I'd very much like to build a legacy. A person's lifetime achievement should be something beyond being a high school jock.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 04:19 AM
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I can confirm OPs observations, The older the woman the more bombastic the compliment, 'oh your dog likes older women but you probably don't' while passing me and my dog on our walks 'This guy over here looks like a movie star' . Again a comment as a 40s woman passed me at LAX. 'Your dogs pretty, and so are you' I've also received similar compliments from non-white women in their 20s but never a white girl in the 20s unless they were already dating me, But I do get stares from them me they give …
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:54 PM
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Exactly ...First rule of fight club ...
/r/askTRP10/11/17 12:46 PM
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Or in this case, near where you sleep
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:41 PM
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I decided to like what I was good at instead of trying to be good at what I liked. Don't ignore your inherent advantage and pick a career that maximizes on them. You'll love it when you start doing well in it.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 11:53 PM
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In addition to the usual TRP guidelines on he side, here's some specific advice - 1) start planning for college : If you're smart, start working towards a degree with some actual professional value. Don't take arts, philosophy or literature . Money matters and from experience having a cool profession does impress. 2) lift, you're full grown by now. A lot can be achieved in a year and a half. I wish I had known this so that I didn't go to college looking like an auschwitz survivor. 3) If you're i…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 10:50 AM
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And are you a white guy ? That could explain the attraction !
/r/askTRP30/10/17 10:28 AM
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on a side note : I've been looking for conservative women for a long time now. Where does one find them ?
/r/askTRP29/10/17 10:13 PM
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Said like a true black knight ;) tips fedora
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 01:08 PM
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Thank you Sir, All I wanted to know is that there's no quick fix. I understand that progress will get slower and slower but the plan you outlined makes a lot of sense ! I'd tried to bulk in the past, but found it difficult to meet the calorie intake requirements without eating dirty and then women/some life emergency would cause me to workout less and then the fat would pile up from the junk. The last half year, I've been much more disciplined. I'm assuming that at 150 I'll hit a weight loss pla…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 01:55 PM
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Thanks for this ! A friend of mine did keto but couldn't sustain it after his job got more stressful. He said his head would hurt and his vision would blur after exercise or work until he took glucose. Did this happen to you ?
/r/askTRP22/10/17 01:39 PM
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Money can buy happiness ! Those who disagree already have a lot of it.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:04 AM
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90's homeboy here. Does no one do it in/on the car anymore ? It's a great place to get upto 3rd base. Sounds like she's resisting her own temptation.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 11:57 PM
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Except OP will end up going to jail instead. Thank you society.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 12:01 PM
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He's probably nearing his prime, while you, grasshopper, should be wary. Do whatever you want but always hold frame. I'd treat her party itself as a major shit test. Will you try to cling to her to show the others that you're together ? Or will you talk to all the other chicks and make her cling to you ? Take your pill.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 11:58 AM
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You got one thing spot on. Be it cars, food or a woman... always pick European ;)
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:44 PM
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Take the second. But remember this : never lose frame. The game is always on...
/r/askTRP13/10/17 04:40 AM
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I 100% agree with this post. One of the byproducts of having a dog is that you can talk to everyone in the park ! The ones sitting alone getting a tan and reading a book are always watching you.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 08:50 PM
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In my admittedly limited experience, hypergamy can be correlated to gold digging and AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 10:16 PM
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TBH I just skimmed thru this article, but lemme share may experience with Asian girls in the US. Without exception they'd ask in detail about my educational qualifications and career plans. I admire that because they actually place value on a man with ambition unlike most American chicks that go for the usual baseball hat, beer, dead deer, weekend spent on couch or in campers. Both categories of women are gold diggers. One of them is obvious while the other becomes a single mom. Also, I'm not As…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 01:07 PM
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Every breath, every word, every motion is a shit test brah. You can agree and amplify till they break or neg back, or even better make your plate meg then.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 09:29 PM
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What kind of emotions ? Asking cuz I'm a new arrival in murica. This place is a circus.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:01 PM
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I came here looking for an incest FR ! Dammit. Anyway thanks for sharing OP ! She'll be shell shocked when her looks begin to fade away and you'll see her on POF with the caption "Single mom and proud, looking for a real man to support me and my 3 kids"
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 01:27 PM
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Yep ! LTR is TRP in Expert mode. But you'll be playing regardless.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 01:33 PM
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My friend, the answer lies in comparative SMV. It's what she's being asked, but the rather, who's asking her. I doubt Dan Bilzerian can talk Freud or philosophy With chicks. Nor would they care if he did. The average bimbo will say "Oh Dan you're so smart, can we take a ride on your boat now ?" Also, on dating profiles, how many chicks put that they like Harry Potter books ? A man would be inclined to ask her what her favorite house is expecting an answer, but guess what.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 06:48 PM
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Everyone loves a hot introvert because they believe she'll be too reserved to get on a cock carousel but guess what ? It's the introverts that become hippies and get into polyamory. I'd rather say : start with low SMV girls, helps you build your confidence ! Introverted girls may or may not be low SMV. When you start with low SMV girls, there are fewer shit tests, just focus on getting conversion going and holding it. In the end all girls think alike. So now you know how to drive conversation wi…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 12:51 PM
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I seem to have a similar view as OP. I draw a line between a classy vs rebel (liberal aka SJW) look. Platinum dye is classy but white as snow is creepy af and might also have 'I am a spoilt high maintenance Cosplayer' or undertones.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 10:08 AM
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12.01234532 kms . Because each millimeter walked by man is a giant step for mankind. Convert to miles at leisure.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 03:12 PM
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Like take a bath at the water source to avoid the second trip no matter the consequences.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 01:10 AM
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The situation looked like a frame test to me. I'd smirk back at the very least, depending on how jobless I was, I'd walk up to them at medium pace and quiz them a little. My friend got a similar test on the beach, where the chicks were giggling at us. The rest of left him on the beach to go climb a cliff. When we came back it turns out 3 chicks had hit on him and asked his number. My friend looks like he's escaped from the psych ward.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 02:54 PM
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What about Omega ? Someone who's an outcast in general. Alpha and beta are both integrated into the society but omegas are not. I doubt Tesla was either being the recluse he was. I think that the reason Omega is scarcely used on this sub is because if you're in this category you lose the dating game automatically. An Omega can certainly become an intelligent Alpha though. He needs to learn how to be social and lift etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 01:14 PM
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TL;DR : The way the title it phrased, you'd tend to think that men should be classified into Agreeables or Neurotics instead of Alpha and beta, but the body pretty much tells us not to be agreeable and not be neurotic. So alpha and beta are still the norm. OP: wealth doesn't make you alpha. Frame does. I liked that bit about serotonin, imo that should have been the focus of this post.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 03:27 AM
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What's considered social is stratified by age. For the life of me, I can't relate to 16-22 yr olds who like blasting music, pussy, partying, or just hanging out. Fake IDs, first real IDs, cars and everything is a big deal for these guys and also girls of their age group I imagine. The world gets a lot bigger after college. I'm 26 and my social circle is very diverse now because I have friends from all over the the states. Hipsters, nature lovers, techies, country boys, swole team... you name it.…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 04:18 PM
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I wish this information could help hose at a geographic disadvantage of not living in your neighborhood. Cheers anyway I guess !
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 05:54 PM
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Oh ... it's you again. The guy with the channel...
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 07:54 PM
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Makes sense to me : to be favor of a few slaves being long term than a 100 ONS. I actually like to go out and do shit with my girls rather than just Netflix and chill.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 03:30 PM
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Does it feel good to get it in the ass from her ?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 03:28 AM
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2.5 inches .... What am I missing here ?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 01:09 AM
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Being nice : shit testing less in the beginning and making it seem like their personality is winning out. A novice will get phased by a HB9s shit test and will prefer a HB7 who's nice to him thinking it's genuine interest or more.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 02:21 PM
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The ugly ones use photo editing I presume. They might try to be nice and make a connection so that appearance is overlooked to a degree. Hard to be sure, most TRP folks aim above HB7
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 10:58 AM
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Back in BP days, and in both my LTRs, I'd started keeping records of conflicts. My bitches seemed to love starting a fight every Wednesday (I'd lose my shit and then we'd fuck like animals in the weekend and promise never to fight on the said topic again.) I'd also keep a track of their goddamn moon cycles both for sex and PMS. I eventually got tired of the endless cycle. No amount of reasoning would help because they weren't fighting over any actual reason except to build sexual tension. Most i…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 05:28 AM
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I have nothing to lose... literally it never worked out
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 02:11 AM
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Dude, my first ever relationship became a 4 year LTR with her cheating and hamstering. You don't deserve this. You're gonna be a freakin electrical engineer with a bright future. Chicks in SF will line up to ride in your mustang and suck your dick. Your task for now should be to be her daddy. Do things your way. She has to learn her place, if she leaves then so be it. She wasn't strong enough and won't get very far in life anyway. Her future ex-boyfriends are gonna hit you up for drinks and you'…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 08:20 PM
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To be fair OP stood no chance against a cock power level of : over 9000 !
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 02:03 PM
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TL;DR : OP cared too much about a girl and failed her sexual assault shit test. In the 80's or 90's sexual assault might have meant something but now it's just a weapon. OP never get hung up on a single girl. I know the Broken type seem attractive for their vulnerability but remember : AWALT
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 02:02 PM
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OP speaks truth. I don't know about the others, but I've noticed symptoms of 'herd mentality' developing. which I personally consider to be a very BP ideal. BPers in TRP will say "Yes you and everyone should be their own person." .... "No, not like that, you should do this." If someone is successfully platings chicks in a Mariachi costume. That's that. He doesn't need to be Brad Pitt.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 01:55 PM
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This sub just doesn't want men to be used as doormats
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 01:21 PM
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Or just beta.... not confirmed that he has the bux.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 06:51 AM
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Darn ! Beat me to it ! I tried and failed to start my own version of FC in India...I even let new entrants take 3 free hits at me... people just didn't get it. But I'll try again in the states !
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 06:20 AM
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TL;DR Men and women are equal, but in different spheres. Unfortunately these words are now only whispered in subs such as ours.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 04:23 AM
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Create your abundance mate. What 1-2 chicks say is no consequence. You don't have to say anything. When they see the bite marks on your neck or strands of blonde hair on your sweater they'll shit their pants.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 09:03 PM
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Exactly ! You're supposed to look like you're a gang banger.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 07:50 PM
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I hate orbiters man... also you didn't break their friendship. She chose your cock over Mr friend-zone I had to deal with so many of them back in college when I was dating the 'it girl'. When I used to be BP I used to think that I should try to be friends with her friends (orbiters). They obviously had a deep seated grudge. They'd look for excuses to pick fights with me. At the time of our breakup. She blamed me for her friends (80% guys lol) leaving her and reconciled with them.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 12:57 PM
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I want to make a fight club. But I like your idea. California/Wisconsin represent ? Edit: rule 7 : Bros before hoes.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:37 AM
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You know you're doing it right when an occasional smile on your face makes your underperforming business partner's day. ;)
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:36 AM
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I don't take it as never fap. Just don't make it a daily ritual. I do it once in a week or two when I'm monk mode, never when with spinning plates. But I've completely stopped watching porn.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 01:08 PM
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OP, very few are born with great genes and a Beverly Hills style home with their dads gifting them a Porsche when they turn 16. The rest of us have to go through what we call 'life' with its ups and downs. Anyone can start lifting and eating right to get in shape. Academics require diligence and that's it. It's like going to the gym except with your head. To succeed at work : manage your manager. Anticipate him and proactively do what you expect him to ask you to. He'll love you. But to do all t…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 12:52 PM
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Unfortunately, nothing. They don't design and manufacture cars. But they're great companies that are working on autonomous driving as well. Let's see who gets there first, them or my company.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 12:27 PM
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Because I don't sugar coat stuff and I'm assertive. I think a bit of fear is essential so that you don't become a pushover.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 12:26 PM
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Dating sites inflate the SMV of even the blandest women (and men too) moreover she is making an opinion of you only based on your pics and the first message you send her, obviously there's also a chance she may never notice you. I second your post OP : approach in real life ! Be bold my brothers !
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 07:40 PM
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This is a brilliant answer ! I can really relate with this ! I actually do have a small group of friends in every interest sphere of mine and that's about it. I was the funny guy in middle school and yes it sucks long term. Also I've learnt self deprecation doesn't work. I do try to engage people on their terms but run out fuel in a few hours ha ! I'm the guy who has to leave a party early so that I can wake early the next day. I really struggle at family cookouts and social gatherings lol. I've…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 02:35 PM
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To be honest, these things sound tedious for someone who's works 10 hours, then works out, then sits on the board of a few moonshot startups. I'll try though. Also, I don't do these things to get laid lol, some people are just mad dogs chasing cars. I thought elucidate was pretty common. So back to point, what do you do/are good at ? I figured I might start by joining your circle if it's conducive.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 06:16 AM
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I'll ignore your condescension in favor of a constructive discussion: So how do you socialize? Please elucidate.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 05:16 AM
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I'm a lone wolf. It's not that I prefer isolation but rather the fact that I've always outgrown my friend circles. In high school, my friends were chasing girls and playing 'one tree hill' while I was busy trying emancipate myself from my oppressive household. In college, again my friends were busy trying drugs and again getting laid. I was working towards a great job and going to the gym. Not to mention I was in an LTR with the 'It girl' who all my friends wanted to bang the moment we broke up.…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 02:00 AM
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OP, could you go into the detail of the shit tests you were subject to ? There might be the biggest takeaway from this post.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 05:42 AM
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I believe we have someone going for the black pill here. Omega human detected. You go brah !
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 02:15 AM
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TL;DR nothing new folks. These topics have been extensively covered in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 07:13 PM
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I'd like to say that D's interpretation of what he read here is root cause for his incongruous behavior. TRP doesn't advocate lying to build up ones value. Nor does it encourage depreciating women. Based on your narrative the only time D held frame was during the initial courtship, after which he consistently broke it with his insecurity. Also, from what I've learnt in my stay in the States so far : Anyone is free to see anyone until the 'exclusivity talk' is had. (Took me a while because where …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 05:39 AM
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Gotta admit, this shit test was legit
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:34 AM
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I'd love to unfortunately I am clueless on the dance floor. I can do social dancing but the clubbing scene is not for me ( I rationalize it as a waste of time so I'm uncomfortable) I don't know how to let go of the tight control I maintain on my life. When I used to drink I didn't care and would go crazy with my gals having no recollection of my actions on the floor the next day. Any advice for this hermit mode guy ?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:50 PM
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Yes ! Be Marcus Aurelius not Nicholas Sparks.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 12:53 PM
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Yes 'pics or didn't happen' as the saying goes.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 05:40 AM
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Yep, if she can cheat on an LTR for you, she can cheat on you when the next Chad Thundercock comes along. Good on Tom for being rational.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 01:58 AM
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And meditation. I doubt how many people actually follow this one.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 08:50 PM
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I'll leave mine in the wilds to be raised by wolves
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 08:49 PM
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I know where you're coming from brah, I was in an LTR with a Slavic beauty. Whenever I'd meet friends back in India , they'd ask me more about her than how I was doing. She had to make her privacy settings on Fb = Defcon 4
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 06:24 PM
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On a side note, this explains why I have been successful in adulthood. Childhood oppression ftw. Suffering builds character.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 04:35 PM
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But villages still follow the arranged marriage system. So man really doesn't have to go 'hunt'. He'll be married off when he comes of age. There is also a dowry he receives from the women Also some societies are down right oppressive : forcing mothers to abort a female fetus. Where do you think feminists get their fuel from ?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:13 PM
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Yes, I too believe that one should chase not women but rather success and perfection . Women will be a byproduct of this endeavor to create an awesome lifestyle for yourself. A Woman doesn't complete a man, she's a supplement.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:08 PM
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You my friend should get some brown trousers ;)
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 01:42 PM
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Seconded1000 . OP threw a few paragraphs about himself in the midst, probably trying to further justify his post.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 10:12 PM
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If you have to buy a girl drinks to get her attention you're automatically sending the signal : I'm not good enough for you so I'm bribing you to get you to spend time with me. These chumps need to work on their frame
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 09:57 PM
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I'd go behind the guy grinding the girl and grind him until he starts feeling awkward. I'll probably even tell him I want to bone him. That should get him outta there and give onlookers some good laughs.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 04:31 PM
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On the logistical front : To attract girls at the gym - look like you workout : monk mode till then socialize with everyone so that when you talk to a girl it's just business as usual. make friends with all the trainers, they will be good plugs to link with people help out the newbies, they will value you for it. Nothing like walking into a room and have everyone greet you. Ups your value in chick's eyes . approach her within the first few times of seeing her. Take the plunge. You don't have go …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 04:28 PM
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I was in the same boat as you. Girls find you attractive too, they are just not open about it cuz if they tell you, then you've already won. They want to shit test you. Looking good is part genetics, part confidence. By being sphinx like, they are testing the latter.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 04:20 PM
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They are not making fun of you. They are curious. They hang out in numbers because that makes them feel secure. Imagine if a single girl were to grin at you or look at you. You'd take it as a sign to approach. Just because they are a herd doesn't change what they subconsciously feel. Next time turn around and smirk back.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:48 AM
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No one here or anywhere can tell you how to live your life. There is no such thing as a bad decision. Whatever you choose is automatically correct because you applied your best judgement. If things don't work out, it's not the end of the world. As you said yourself, you're yet to reach your prime.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:31 AM
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Agree 100% with OP. Many years before my TRP days, I used to see couples who looked like total mis-matches when it came to appearance and wonder how a guy like that scored this chick etc etc...now things are much clearer : it's the frame game. That being said, it's not easy for one to overcome their self perception on looks.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 09:10 PM
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I agree, also pop culture references are not permitted on this Sub if I read the rules right.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 03:46 PM
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Great post ! A perfect eye opener for those who think it's gentlemanly to respect a girls wishes.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 04:40 PM
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You are Enough. Face your fears and never lose frame.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 12:57 PM
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I think D is a resilient man, but what about you ? Is the game still in you ? What if P comes back ? What's your end game ? Guys I know have usually thought ahead. Not sure about most women though
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 11:27 PM
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I practice chatting skills up on cashiers and servers. You can tell how much of their response is 'professional' and they can't give you a cold shoulder. They're also the most hit on. Keep trying various iterations. You'll know when she's interested
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:49 PM
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Woah 30 mins ! Sensei, I submit myself to your teachings. Please post link /\ if you don't mind !
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:47 PM
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My thoughts exactly ! Also if I may add, my interpretation of TRP is that it gives us the ammo to succeed in life in general. Women are just a byproduct of that success. Like a freebie from a cereal box. OP, what are your life goals besides women ? How far have you come in achieving them ?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:42 PM
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Yep ! My take learning here : Don't wait to strike the iron when it's hot. Make it hot by striking it. Jesus was just a smoke screen... Great job OP !
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:04 PM
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I was lost too my friend. I look back and realized that I was always RP, but would always become BP in relationships.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 04:01 PM
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Thanks ! I'll delete my post
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 11:14 PM
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Personally, I show minimum emotion or aggression to a woman outside of sex. My motto is a "A true gentleman is dispassionate" If she does something I don't like, I would call her out on it in a calm manner and ignore her till it sunk into her.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 05:15 PM
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That was my first Ayn Rand novel ! I'm glad you've read it !
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 04:59 PM
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Your father is a good man ! And yes, attractiveness is always a plus. it has actually been proven that fit attractive people have a higher chance at getting a job. If I may digress I've also seen an alpha - beta conflict in interviews. If the interviewer is beta but the interviewee is alpha, then the interviewer feels threatened. If its the reverse, however, than its 50-50. They may like your drive (appreciation), or like that they can easily dominate you (control)
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 04:57 PM
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Hombre ! You captured my thoughts exactly. Correct me if I'm wrong but My take away from TRP is that a man is defined by his actions : what he does. Whereas a woman is defined by her emotional depth (basically she's nuts lol) This is why so many articles recommend stoic beliefs because it deals in dispassion. A man who puts his feelings out in the platter excessively will have it used again him.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 01:02 PM
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I think line 5 covers that ;) .
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 12:57 PM
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You are absolutely right my friend, but consider this: when have women ever loved practical ? ;)
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 05:14 AM
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Word ! I've learnt over the years that women are poor decision makers. There's a reason the lion lead the pride not the lioness.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 02:35 AM
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I've added alcohol to that list and denounced it completely. I no longer go on drinking bouts with my 'brahs' and now they behave as if I'm some elite prick to good for them.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 05:38 AM
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This is a late comment but I'm glad I read this ! I've really struggled through my childhood years ! All of what you mentioned caused in me a constant feeling of inadequacy. But things have changed now and I believe I'm more a man than any who had it "easy".
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 05:08 AM
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