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| 3 | How I see RP as a former nurse who has worked with sex offenders & APDsIndeed and all the while you are encouraged to punch down instead of look up. Who are the leeches? Hmmm yes, it's people on food stamps, the useless eaters! Let's cut that and save a billion while giving 3.8 trillion in taxcuts to the super rich and a few more bailouts to failing companies like Tesla, because they just deserve it because I find the guy that runs it cool. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/25 04:25 PM |
| 5 | How I see RP as a former nurse who has worked with sex offenders & APDsI had this thought before and totally agree. They act like complete assholes, like bottom of the barrel scum and then turn around and say "uhm...this is...yeah, this is the way a man should be actually! Why don't you join? I can sell you a course for $400 a month, so you can become a winner too." It's quite ingenious really. They can abuse and stroll around the world being the biggest pieces of shit and then go home and tell 14 year olds to sign up for their alpha courses and thus they make the … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/25 05:19 PM |
| – | CMV: Men Should Stop Taking Social Advice from Women, Especially on Social MediaCool, thanks for responding, honestly thought it was just a bunch of alpha male fantasy (still kind of do but hey, internet be the internet, not gonna take lifestories at face value without any doubt). Honestly, as an autistic male, I think I could do all that and not get any because, well...it's a disability literally hardcore handicapping socializing because we don't understand body language, facial expressions or the flow of conversation. But cool that it worked for you. Seems like a shit ton… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 11:55 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men Should Stop Taking Social Advice from Women, Especially on Social MediaI'm curious, what is the advice you would give how to date and talk to women then? What did you teach the bois? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 07:52 AM |
| 3 | It’s unhealthy for someone to never having someone else be romantically interested in them.As an autistic man, I have been rejected lots of times. But I am not bitter about it or anything, they make their decisions as I make mine. But what hurt is that when there was this other (very likely autistic) woman at my age in my class (a bit younger, about 23 I would guess), she stared at me a lot and when I noticed looked down. I actually debated wether that is one of those "come approach me" moments, since I am bad at body language. But I tried talking to her during break and it was a bit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | My biggest and last insecurity: If you are a loving and respectful partner, how likely is it to get left for a "better" option?Never, might be due to me having very honest and loyal autism though, lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/24 07:25 AM |
| 8 | If you could get across any messaqge to the redpill community, what would that message be?Which women are into him or a guy like him? I mean, I legit have not seen a single woman actually say that, it's all just a sausagefest of misogyny. And remember, he actively pays women, like the other con artists in the sphere, to show up to his media. He literally has to pay women or keep them in his pimp scheme to be in his presence, he is that repulsive. All while claiming he is irresistible, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Is Hamza misogynistic?Over a year late but I have been hitting the gym for many years now and have never managed to have any romantic success nor to become "better". I have autism and most it's brought me is burnout and body dysmorphia. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/24 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Self-help RP: The case of Hamza AhmadNo, after he made a vid saying he is gonna do that he went into a city and started partying and hooking up with random russian girls, then made a vid about his ex saying "all western women are trash, only russian women are real women". In the same vid he also had a really long rant how much he hates brown people walking around wherever he goes. Dude is nuts. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/24 01:06 PM |
| 13 | Is the redpill a gateway to the alt right ?Yes. As u/squirrelscrush already mentioned, relevancy is a big thing for these people. So now you have even "self-improvement" creators (grifters) going into yelling at the camera about how the feminists, people of any colour, jews etc. are behind everything since the emotions need to be ever higher and these people have a strong sense of "crushing the competition", basically the sociopath mindset of getting ahead by every means. And most importantly, how they can only know the truth if they joi… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/24 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Aight, but just saying, if your worldview and identity are based on these things propagated by online movements whos figures go https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7l0Rq9E8MY&ab_channel=IV-everTofu whenever they are asked to provide scientific evidence for their wild claims about humanity and gender... Maybe there is something to think about here. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/24 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Firstly, I am not saying that Hamza and Tate might be predatory, because they are. And it's as simple as them telling you and taking pride in it. Literally look up on youtube "hamza dominate" or something to that extent and look at his unfiltered channel videos. He literally tells you that he could not give less about a shit about men and that in fact the more he hurts "dominates" others the better it makes him feel, especially taking money from the losers he describes his audience as. I ain't m… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?What I was saying is that these people, to gain authority in their speeches, always say that these things just are "natural" and we should not question them. This way you can justify ANYTHING, and honestly some of hamzas and tates content skirts close to actively telling you to harm other people to become the top chimp basically. As to your other point: Who cares what other people prefer in terms of what you should be? If you are a nice dude but some women find you "boring", then you aren't comp… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/24 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Ok but with that kind of logic you could justify anything. Scamming others? Just business, you gotta do what you gotta do. Hurting your intimate partner? Why not if it makes you feel powerful, shit on their feelings and needs all day everyday. Murder? You know man, think about our ancestors and shit. You think they gave a fuck smashing in the brains of another monkey? Hell nah, that is just a sad necessity. Other criminal or abusive acts? The worlds your oister, take what you need and fuck the r… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/24 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?I am not telling you that your life experiences are delusional. I am telling you that your statements are. They are not anything near reality and they are clearly the common rhetoric from incel sites, which as mentioned before, are not there to help you. They are cult hotspots who have fantasies of grandiose victimhood. As long as you are polite, no matter how "ugly" you are, no woman that is not severely mentally ill will do anything to you but decline, which is her right, women are humans just… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?My dude, without trying to be insulting, you seem very mentally disturbed and incredibly immature. And all this stemming from a lack of self-worth "love does not exist for the uglies". You have gone into an online cult, where people hype each other up on how bad and sad everything is and how they are poor victims of society and that are idolizing equally mentally ill people. I hope some time along the line you can see how this is all stemming from your delusions about reality, informed by your n… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?You think a loving mutual relationship is not possible and respect a man who admits to abusing his girlfriend because he likes to feel powerful? The fuck? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?The most ideal situation is a loving mutual relationship. If that is not currently doable then I'd say being alone is preferable to an abusive relationship fueled by negativity just to prove something. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 04:10 PM |
| 6 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?So having a partner is the most important thing, regardless if you treat them like shit, traumatize them, and you both wallow in negative emotions? My dude, you need to do some introspection. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?True but the upside is that this is just a rather small echo-chamber on the internet, which is far connected from real life. It is a business, just a very hostile one. Most people in the actual world are nothing like this, so focusing on disturbed online communities and making up your picture of a gender by that is not good either. Though, of course, there is a strong patriarchal aspect to even the most progressive of countries still. Just not as overtly toxic. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 12:59 PM |
| 8 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Bold of you to assume he hasn't already graped a bunch. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 10:36 AM |
| 5 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Thanks, glad I could so something good for you :) I think the most dangerous aspect of these online cults is that they start out with reasonable advice, like "go to the gym and eat and sleep well", which these young people could get from their parents but I guess some youtuber telling it to them from half the globe away seems more reasonable. But anyway, then it becomes them basically saying "men need to become walking wallets/ATMs with muscles" and a lot of guys stay. Then it becomes "others ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 09:53 AM |
| 40 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?I feel the same. He also recently had a thing IIRC where he said that when he tries to hoover a new girlfriend or sex partner (beside his usual girlfriend), he immediately tries to disconnect them from their family and support network, because he knows better and she should not be "corrupted" by them. It is abuse in plain sight and I am sad no one really seems to care. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/24 03:17 PM |
| 17 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Yes, totally. His videos are just a bombardment of shaming and triggering your own arrogance and imbedding you in the "we are godlike in this group, now pay 499 and then 99 per month to get to speak to me" fantasy landscape. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/24 03:15 PM |
| 2 | What turned you off of Red Pill?I agree. I am ashamed to say that I was also following him, the only motivation related channel I ever followed because I thought he was being realistic (duh) and down to earth (duh²). After he went to Thailand he took a hard nosedive though. He is a textbook grandiose narcissists and went out of control. Saying that the roman empire fell because of an incel crisis. Saying that "bad calories don't count for muscle building". Source: - Saying that 1-2 rep sets in the gym work "if you just grit yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/23 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Hamza and his untreated OCDHe's a deeply sick person who admits to wanting to indirectly harm other people with his actions because it "proves" that he is better. Has conflicting ideas simultaneously (he is the perfect dad but at the same time womanizer). Treats his gf like a dog, saying he has to tell her when she can take a shower. Complete and utter narcissist. Stay away. Edit: Also just remembered he envisioned himself having 200m subs on youtube by 2024, says that no professional doctor knows better than him and he i… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/23 12:06 PM |
| 13 | What does this sub think about Hamza?Completely psychopathic dude and scammer. Admits on his second channel that he is scamming his audience and how stupid they are, as well as saying how good and powerful it makes him feel to take money from "lesser men" and "having the ability to take and f*** their women". Very mentally ill person, avoid at all costs. Also should mention that behind the scenes he seems to be a very abusive dude that mistreats people until they leave. Only one gf came back after tweeting that he was abusing her, … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/23 11:26 AM |
| 5 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?You can also just use the "slow poison" spell, or alternatively the "neutralize poison" one if you got enough free higher level spell slots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most women can cum from penetration and we should stop falsely claiming that they can't.Jesus Christ my dude, get off this sub, I think it has nuked your mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To DatingI got decent muscles from years at the gym and imo the "just lift bruh" thing is a complete joke. I habe autism and often stutter or look on the ground whole talking, and the women I talked to often lose any semblance of interest within the first minute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 11:55 AM |
| 11 | Women, what happens when a man refuses to make a move?Since I have diagnosed autism I was pretty oblivious to a girl (that I think) that was hitting on me. She never looked at me with a smile but just repeatedly and kept standing in close distance to me, but when I talking to her she was tense so I stopped. But I guess she still liked me. Anyway, it ended up with her giving me looks of disgust instead and trying to play mindgames. Not a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Do men with (genetic) mental illnesses have a chance at dating? Can self-improvement solve anything?That's what I notice with myself to. Other people seem to regard human life as "higher" automatically. I very much admire trees and animals and think that they are purer than us, with a sort of innocence of not being an environment destroying leech. I don't think humans should die forcefully but when they do, nature will go on and that will be good. I know that even after I die, trees and animals will continue to exist and that is enough for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Do men with (genetic) mental illnesses have a chance at dating? Can self-improvement solve anything?The bitter part for me is that I do everything I should be doing, at least what is verbally told to me, yet it's wrong. I am given tasks at work, I do them how I am told to because that is supposed to be the correct way. But then I am told I am a pushover. I mean, it's work I am literally given. Same with when it comes to romantic things. I go and talk to women normally, it comes off as creepy apparently. And no one even bothers to explain what to do better, you just have to "get it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Do men with (genetic) mental illnesses have a chance at dating? Can self-improvement solve anything?I have yet so say any prominent figure promoting self-improvement that it just applies to neurotypical people. Everyone makes it out to be the ultimate solution for everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you know what Jujutsu Kaisen is?WeebsOut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Yes, you are obligated to by law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 12:27 PM |
| 10 | Q4All: How commonly do you think people (especially men) who are obsessed with dating and relationships are lacking fulfillment in other areas of life?"Life gives you what you deserve." Oh yes, for sure. People who work 100 hour weeks in sweatshops and earn 3 bucks a day while middle managers sit on their ass for 8 hours then go home and outearn the people they are supposed to manage. People truly get what they deserve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Dating is A Scam And Doesn’t Work For Most PeopleI am not from america and I for sure wouldn't sign up for the fucking army out of desperation. Also, a mental disorder is more than something you talk about. What if it actually makes you unable to build connections, like autism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Dating is A Scam And Doesn’t Work For Most PeopleUnless you have a genetic mental disorder. Then you are fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 01:34 PM |
| 3 | women are attracted to both looks and personality.I am a tall (well, relatively tall, it's northern europe) bodybuilder type guy with decent face but with diagnosed autism and light schizophrenia. I can't even hold a 2 minute conversation with a women that isn't solely job related. Or well, I had a few but I have no idea how people get girlfriends or prolonged contact with someone in general. Never had sex or anything once and I am 25. Have been to the gym for 6 years now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 08:41 PM |
| 6 | women are attracted to both looks and personality.Well, as an autistic tall bodybuilder looking man...I talked to women my age and stuttered the hell out of conversations, looked at the floor or walked behind others when I wasn't sure how to react to social situations, as a 24 year old. Sounds cringe, was cringe. So I would say if your personality is autistic you can look as good as you want, you won't get much success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 08:29 PM |
| 9 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionHave lifted "religiously" for years. Am nearing 30 now and never had gf or sex or anything. I think you vastly underestimate how fucked up the west is. I have diagnosed autism and light schizophrenia though, maybe its that. Also to clarify, I am not from the US but germany | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Going to the gym won't really change muchIt's sunk cost fallacy. Why stop now when I did it for so long? Besides, it fills a part of my day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Damn dude. Got nothing to add nor did I read all of it but really, kudos to you for writing that wall. Very insightful still, would have read if I had the time this evening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men todayI am 6'2'' (though in Germany, admittedly) and have been to the gym for 1.5 years now, 6 days a week. Didn't change anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | TRP doesn't work for neurodivergent menI bought some weights last year when gyms were closed. But sadly don't have the money for machines, so gym it is. Also, sorry to hear about your dystrophy. People complaining about the gym while you can't even go must be hard. Sorry my man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 09:45 PM |
| 3 | TRP doesn't work for neurodivergent menLifting honestly made me somewhat depressed, mostly due to overstimulation at the gym. Whenever I go I end up having super bad mood and being useless for the rest of the day. I can't quite get it the way you do I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 09:29 PM |
| 3 | TRP doesn't work for neurodivergent menI am german, so these social programs don't really apply to me. Maybe should have mentioned it in the post. But we have similiar things here too. Maybe I will check it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 09:26 PM |
| 2 | TRP doesn't work for neurodivergent menTried a therapist some time ago but he was pretty damn rude and not very understanding. Despite advertising himself as an autism expert. But yeah, I try to live my life as happily as I can now. Though I still often wonder if sex and other relationship things are actually as good as people make it out to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | TRP doesn't work for neurodivergent menI take your advice as something that is meant well but like the red pill advocates I am somewhat critcizing, you are somewhat missing the point. Many peoples can't fathom what it's like to have a mental disorder. For example, I never had a real life friend in my entire life. Not adult life, actual whole life. Most people are either weirded out by my lack of body and facial expressions or weird janky movements that sometimes happen or general nervousness. I don't even know how to make friendships… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Coaches Are NOT Making Alphas - They Are "Building Better Betas"Red Pill Coaches are sucking their audience's wallet dry, that's all what they are doing lol. TRP offers fertile ground for an easy repeat content model, the ability to charge ridiculous prices (most of them charge 1.2k+ for talking half an hour to them) and a desperate audience that is willing to give them their money for salvation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 08:06 PM |
| 3 | What is the best route for autistic men to take in regards to dating?Oh yes, I feel this one. When I first got into the redpill it was...baffling to be honest. At first it felt very "Oh I see, it works like this" to me because it appear to set up rules for interactions and attraction in general, which to me, as an Asperger, made total sense to me. Then I noticed how some of these people promoting the redpill on youtube just seem downright narcisstic. I almost fell down a real bad misogyny hole. I think I am better off staying away from it because it is mostly pus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:58 PM |
| 9 | What is the best route for autistic men to take in regards to dating?Damn man, I am very sorry to hear that. Middle and Highschool are hell. Basically permanent survival mode. I personally never got physically assaulted in a harsh way though, is that a thing in the US (I assume you are from there)? Would not surprise me, that country hss gone to hell anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 08:22 PM |
| 2 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?I'm an Asperger guy who has no friends and plays rhe same type of games everyday. I dunno, probably my calf size holding me back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?Short answer: The economy, internet and social media. Long answer: We are at a point in history where, at least in the US, class and social division is at an all time high. This has started predominantly with 2008 and the Occupy Wallstreet movement, which was destroyed from within by people we used to call SJWs but in their original form. This excessively benefitted the rich and the division of people has been further pushed over the years. After the recession, prices, especially housing, reboun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?Hamza. He recently did multiple vids on his second channel talking about how he uses manipulation tactics to get what he wants at any price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?Just gotta say, the vids of this guy are openly manipulative and he is a self proclaimed narcissist because "it gets him what he wants". He also says that he doesn't mind people killing themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Status Hierarchy of an NFL team by positionWhat inhaling too much TRP does to a mf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Where does this hate for TRP come from?> TRP is basically: "I'm going to hate an entire gender because I can't get laid with dozens of hot women as I want since those women only want attractive men instead of undesirable men like me" I actually somewhat I agree with this. It's a cope to imagine a solution to the problems of people employing it. I personally have gone beyond any pill, or maybe could call it black pill, idk, but categorizing people like TRP, Purple Pill, Black Pill or whatever is useless. Personally I used to be a genu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 05:16 PM |
| 3 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.Holy fucking based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenThis lol. This sub is full blown autism and yet people come here and expect normal discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Virgins at age 26: who are they?I am 6'2'', athletic, good face and have a decent job. I have aspergers though and I can't talk to people for more than 3 sentences and lack most forms of facial expressions. 27 year old virgin soon :(. Any advice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 2 | If you’re of average genetic physical looks and are “incel,” the actual “black pill” is that you are involuntarily romantically uninvolved because of your divergent personality and malsocialization.I am 6'2'', have what you would consider a chad face and got near 0 friends and never had a gf or casual fling lol (I am 23). I have Aspergers though and am generally a bit socially awkward to people I don't know. So much for looks being the primary factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | What are going to be the biggest problems and challenges for generation z?Ah yes, I too am excited to go into college for 120k debt, then have to go through multiple internships, then apply to an almost minimum wage job, while I am living with 5 other people in a 2.2k$ rent studio apartment. While the ice caps are melting and amazon workers are lying dead on warehouse floors but getting ignored by people running by to meet their schedule. Plutocracies are so much fun! Haha just joking...I live in Germany. Well, I guess USA is the punchline here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | A hypercompetitive society that is based on external value (i.e. the "sexual marketplace") will eventually collapseI don't know if that is sarcasm (sorry, this sub has somewhat corrupted me), but if you are sincere: I am german and used to be very conservative. Like really believing in trad values until my early 20s. But over time I realized that my lifestyle was only possible (and with lifestyle I mean staying in my room, doing my gaming and reading stuff) because my parents were so "do whatever you want, as long as it doesn't hurt anybody else". If I grew up in a trad household, I probably would have lived… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 08:31 AM |
| 10 | [Q4W]Whats the most obvious hints/signals men have missed from you?> Or I can let him go after 10 min to try for a different girl Yeah, this sums it up pretty much. Most guys don't get to try for a different girl so quickly. You need to establish trust, then make her comfortable, and before that get to meet her through his social circle. You are so obviously thinking out of the abundance of men you have at your disposal, you have no idea what the male experience is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever okay to tell a very unattractive man to focus on something else besides wanting to date? (Genuine)I am 6'2'', go to the gym 4 times a week and have been for almost a year now, got a good face, decent job. My standards are basically zero. Still nothing. "Know your limitations", yeah... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever okay to tell a very unattractive man to focus on something else besides wanting to date? (Genuine)It's mostly middle aged men because they once were sold the dream of that if they work very hard, they will eventually be "chosen". Well, turns out everything you do is make billionaires, who would glady see you die, even more money. The american dream, everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it ever okay to tell a very unattractive man to focus on something else besides wanting to date? (Genuine)Yes, I can totally relate. Though look on the bright side, we can live for ourselves and watch society degenerate into a neoliberalistic clusterfuck. Grab the popcorn and watch the fireworks in a few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 11:13 PM |
| 2 | A hypercompetitive society that is based on external value (i.e. the "sexual marketplace") will eventually collapseGreat comment and very well written. The most important thing to me is that people enjoy true freedom. We, especially the USA, say that we have freedom...but often only as long as you do exactly what is our ideal. It should be acceptable to not strive to be the best at all times, it should be ok to just enjoy your life, have a job that is stable but "deadend". There is nothing wrong with it, and the drive for it to not be is unreasonable. The people who really want to compete and find meaning in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?Meanwhile middle aged white men are the main demographic for suicides because when they hit 40 they realize all their "hustling" lead them to nothing. They are still in debt while the m/billionaires they busted their asses for bought another yacht with their labour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?Good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?Ouch. Well, sounds like its better to stay out of that game then and just do what you like. At least if you aren't in it for the thrill of the hunt. Would save a lot of money and time for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?I can't say how it is with marriage personally, though from what I experienced there are high divorce rates at the moment, mostly because we still have older generations who married out of necessity. Germany was still a rough country in the 60s because of the world war, with very religious villages being dominant and cities being rarer. You had to get married and have kids at an early age. So now with a taste of freedom 50 and 60 year olds are divorcing. Some aren't even if they are miserable an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?They are pretty similiar, except that german gyms are way less "shiny" if you get what I mean. In the states they are more visually appealing and more metal looking, in Germany its just machines standing around for use without much thought. But like I said, thing I noticed is that in the states gym culture is way more of a thing and you see roided people way more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:57 PM |
| 6 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?Fuck. That's awful to hear, and I am not saying that out of habit or because I have to. I wish it wasn't like this for you over there but I think you are going to experience a crash soon. One that will hopefully see the cost of living lowering. It feels like your government has been lobbied so hard, they are just pandering to the billionaires now, some of which could buy a third of the earth by now. I wouldn't even call it an oligarchy anymore, it's beyond that. Just know that no matter what any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?Those are pretty cool, I try to mix those in too. I do weightlifting for aesthetic reasons too but it just feels good to me to do it. I can't say why, but once I started exercising with proper form and weights it just became fun to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 41 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?I totally get that. As I said in a comment above, in our schools we teach children that they have intrinsic worth, that life itself is sacred and that communities are important. Not only for money reasons but for happiness and emotional stability. We try to encourage sharing and empathy. It sometimes fails but a lot of people here think in terms of what's best for society. The minimum wage is raised every 2 years by over 10%, basic education, uni and healthcare is free because we see them as hum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?Here in Germany we kind of see you as goofballs, but it's really sad in a way. We look at your shitshow, which kind of motivates us to be better but I genuinely feel sad for you people. I hope you are alright and can escape the rat race mentality over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:18 PM |
| 24 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?I am glad there are people like you in the states, but I also feel sorry that you have to experience it. The thing that was the saddest to see for me is how people market themselves are products. The steroid overuse is just one symptom of this I think. It's like you are born worthless and have to market yourself to other people to be worth something. In Germany/Europe we teach children that they have intrinsic value from a young age, which also means that they should show empathy towards others,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:16 PM |
| 43 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?Beautifully worded. And yeah, I feel like that too. Everything, even people, just seem like products anymore. Not making enough money or didn't do enough networking in your youth? Go starve to death. Can't pay 1k$ per month for a one room apartment? You're just lazy. What especially angers me how there is this "think positive, everything is possible, just work 100 hours a week #grindset" mentality. It's okay to be negative when you are stuck in a shit situation. Not everything in life is your fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:07 PM |
| 6 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?"lmao nazis bad", haven't heard that one before as a german. Not like that's been taught to us our entire education, almost every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:01 PM |
| 4 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.Maybe its a culture thing, but why is saying "trap" bad? It's more of an internet meme than anything, not an insult at all. Personality wise I am a pretty introverted and sensitive person I would say. I only want the best for people and am genuinely interested in talking to honest people. That caused me to experience lots of backstabbing and other disappointments though. I tried to be generous and kind to people who just kept trying to see how far they can go before I say its enough (especially … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 12:57 PM |
| 4 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.Are you okay my dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 11:38 AM |
| -1 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.I am a guy that is 6'2'' (to be fair, its in Germany, where average height is about 5'11''), decent finances, great face and hygiene, went to the gym for 10 months 4 times a week now. My standards are basically not be morbidly obese (optional) and breathing. I would love to date an average woman, really. I also love women who don't wear any make up and dress in non girly clothes (and no I don't mean traps or tomboys). Yet I have never had a gf at 24 years old. And that's without almost any stand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Are there men who actually PREFER an average woman over a stunning one?Yes, I do for sure. I LOVE women without make up. Especially when they dress in non girly clothes. And no, I am not talking about traps or tomboys. There just is something about a woman that doesn't care that is just so attractive to me. That said, while my standards are basically 0 besides not being morbidly obese (optional) and breathing, I still don't have a lot of luck. And that is me being 6'2'' (in Germany though, where average height is like 5'11''), with a decent face and hitting the gym… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | From a red pill perspective, what's going on in the black community in America?Thanks for that comment, sadly this post will probably get deleted soon :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | From a red pill perspective, what's going on in the black community in America?Not gone yet :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 12:26 PM |
| 1 | People here are under the impression that "chads" just have everything given to themI have Aspergers FeelsGoodMan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 09:52 PM |
| 0 | People here are under the impression that "chads" just have everything given to themTrue, but they would take a small dude with some game rather than a "chad" with less (not even much less). It`s quite interesting really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | People here are under the impression that "chads" just have everything given to themTrue. I evidently lack both :p. I was mostly on about how chads are defined by looks and status on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 09:48 PM |
| 2 | People here are under the impression that "chads" just have everything given to themYeah I think so too, lol. This sub has become the host for a certain community that has been banned on reddit repeatedly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Is getting a quality girlfriend nowadays almost impossible?Then I'd rather stay single tbh, I am not going to finance a woman that has been passed around for a decade. I can find happiness by myself too. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 07:00 PM |
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