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What's worse, a jewkin or a traitor? The world may never know.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 12:33 AM
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It was getting to the point where they were the majority of my followers, and since none of what I posted really applied to them since it was a non-political feed for women, I didn't see the point. I didn't figure the Chanukkah tweets would go over well.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 12:28 AM
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Get/look at a detailed color wheel, determine whether your skin tone is cool (blue-favoring) or warm (yellow-favoring), choose colors on the wheel in that region (blue or yellow based) that are on the opposite side of he wheel from your eye color.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 12:14 AM
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Ah, the mystery continues. I ended up shutting it down because it was getting awkward, and I figured I must've been doing something wrong, especially since the followers were overwhelmingly male.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 12:07 AM
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Were you the person attracting all the white nationalists to my Twitter, lol?
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 12:01 AM
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I think natural birth and breastfeeding are way overrated and promoted for the wrong reasons sometimes What reasons are you referring to?
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 11:53 PM
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the fact that men don't know what the hell they want from us. They want the virgin and the whore. No, they know exactly what they want. They want you to be a 'whore' for them and only them, just like women want their man to 'only have eyes for' them. Same concept. It's not complicated.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:15 PM
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Assuming they're dating men their own age, does the average 20-something man even have enough money to pay for expensive dates?
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:08 PM
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I would also like to add that the advice for cool/warm colors according to your skin tone would be good to take for home decoration as well so that the consistency not only makes a room look good, but you also look good in it.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 07:52 PM
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NP. I've always been a big fan of Robert Jones' work, especially since so much advice out there is overly simplistic, lacking in the 'why, and often just bad, mostly because the person parroting the advice doesn't understand the 'why'.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 07:44 PM
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Correct.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 09:28 PM
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Food generally isn't taxed in Texas unless it's junk food, luxury items, or restaurants/fast food. I'm pretty surprised that it would be anywhere. Tbh, I'm against taxes in a lot of circumstances, but it seems incredibly counterproductive in any system to tax necessities, especially since it hits the poor the hardest.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 08:52 PM
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A big part of why childcare is so expensive is because the centers are heavily taxed, feed, and regulated to death, which is odd considering that it's kind of a necessity. I always thought it was odd that food isn't taxed because it's a necessity, but things like diapers aren't treated similarly.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 07:10 PM
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Blah. I so want to do things, but I don't have time. I do, however, plan to make embroidered sacks (as opposed to wrapping paper) for the holidays, and I found this design that u/TempestTcup may enjoy. http://www.urbanthreads.com/products.aspx?productid=ut15241
/r/RedPillWives26/10/16 09:08 PM
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Marie Antoinette (the Sofia Coppola one - it's visual candy, I love seeing so much beauty), The Royal Tenenbaums, and Black Swan. Omg, are we the same person?
/r/RedPillWives18/10/16 11:52 PM
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Realistically, it has never been bad in modern history. Since at least 1900 there has not been a significant gap between men and women at universities, with the except of of short periods after wars, during which the returning veterans had GI Bill funding. Outside of this, post secondary education has primarily been accessible to solely the rich until the past few decades.
/r/RedPillWives18/10/16 11:49 PM
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Lol! I still find myself saying inappropriate things, which really confuses people because I so don't look the part.
/r/RedPillWives16/10/16 07:47 PM
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I'm dressing up as a Tokyo citizen and my baby, who loves to stomp on everything, will be Godzilla- all in black/white/grey, of course.
/r/RedPillWives16/10/16 07:45 PM
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That's a good find. I'm currently putting together a homeschooling YT channel. Maybe there's a podcast in my future.
/r/RedPillWives10/10/16 12:38 AM
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I think it depends on the people involved. I was raised in a family where the women didn't care who they were naked in front of, but am personally a very private person, so I wasn't very fond of it all. What I had the biggest issue with was that certain people never respected my boundary to not be seen. It got to the point that I had to lock the door when changing or going to the bathroom because my grandmother was guaranteed to barge in without knocking. It was as if she thought closed doors = …
/r/RedPillWives27/09/16 07:15 PM
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I have a few questions: If you don't mind me asking, how successful have your works been? Generally how lucrative is e-publishing now? I personally don't care for reading from an e-reader or my computer, but I don't know how the general population feels about it. On that note, I know what I want to write! It's not housework related though, lol.
/r/RedPillWives11/09/16 06:59 PM
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I have to say that the common criticisms of the questions victims are asked by the authorities (i.e. about dress, level of intoxication, behavior, past relationship with the attacker, etc.) are both ignorant and unfair. These questions are necessary for collecting evidence and corroborating testimony, and anyone who is telling the truth would only benefit from them.
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 04:11 PM
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I always carried a bento. Nothing fancy most of the time, but very convenient and cute. too much Paper and Printing costs Also, if you don't have a scanner/printer, get one and stock up on paper when it's on sale. Campus printing/copying is expensive and there's usually a long waiting line for it. *ink is cheaper to refill then it is to buy new cartridges.
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 05:08 PM
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My favorite isn't in English, but it's RP almost literally. It's a medieval song about a girl that works by the sea and is teased by a mariner that comes into port every so often. He always insists that she runs away with him, and she concludes eventually that if he ever comes back and asks again, then she will. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=neJN7YDGjO8
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 04:41 PM
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Choose your prerequisite classes wisely. Profs of certain subjects have a tendency to think their class is the only one in existence, so they have a habit of assigning way too much. In my experience, the biggest offenders are visual arts and Lit professors, so I suggest art history if you don't want to spend all your time on art projects, and Librivox for your Lit class to give your eyes a break and/or use your time efficiently. Order your books early and shop around. They only get more expensiv…
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 09:37 PM
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I like the knee-high lace-up boots from Frye (probably won't be sold again until it coos down a bit). They're pricey, but good quality, so probably worth it in the end.
/r/RedPillWives06/09/16 06:11 PM
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I've heard of putting some type of bitter fruit juice on yourself so they become disinterested.
/r/RedPillWives06/09/16 06:01 PM
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I highly recommend Karen Straughan's videos on YouTube for a comprehensive view on all waves. Fair warning- it might make you rage for about a month.
/r/RedPillWives06/09/16 05:41 PM
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If you intend to breastfeed and have insurance, you can typically get a good quality electric pump at no cost. I suggest getting one even if you don't really intend to pump regularly to help establish your supply and create a stash for emergencies and/or transition periods.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 07:25 PM
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I didn't experience much pain with my birth. It was really just more uncomfortable than anything because my water wouldn't break until I did it myself, so until then it felt like thee baby was going to come out my butt. There's a lot of evidence that the more fearful/tense/stressed you are, the more painful the birth is, and I did hypnobirthing and used a birthing tub for most of it, so that might have been why it was fairly easy for me. It's also worth noting that I didn't get the oxytocin rush…
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 10:00 PM
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I like to cook pretty much everything and I do a lot of embroidery work. http://imgur.com/761gLqk http://imgur.com/gIei9zG http://imgur.com/7xKpaCb http://imgur.com/QpO8kFI http://imgur.com/e14Objb
/r/RedPillWives28/08/16 06:01 PM
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Military. He was my mission team leader at my first duty station. I was seeing someone else when we met, but he was awesome, and I trusted him with my life well before we started dating.
/r/RedPillWives28/08/16 05:36 PM
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I had planned to do that, but so far it has been a bust. All my daughter wants to do is eat, I can't fathom how you can nurse with a Baby Ktan (doesn't seem safe base on instructions, and my Ktan doesn't fit because their sizing instructions are stupidly based on weight/height rather than measurements.
/r/RedPillWives28/08/16 05:26 PM
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I haven't. Not sure if it would my type of humor.
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 08:39 PM
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That's just BP idiots not understanding subtext or recognizing an aweful person when they see one.. She was attractive in surface-level matters, but at core she was not a good person. I could be wrong, but from what I have gathered from the first two seasons is that she and Paul are basically the same- both abused/abandoned as children by their parent of the opposite sex, and, in turn, they abuse and use members of the opposite to feel powerful. Paul understands this, but she's too self-righteou…
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 08:51 PM
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Hell on Wheels Yes, and I also forgot Narcos.
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 08:05 PM
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Do you mean the other characters or audience members?
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 07:53 PM
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That's a good idea. I just refuse to turn stuff on until I finish my work, but whatever works for the individual.
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 03:17 PM
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I loooooove Stranger Things. Cannot recommend it enough. Aside from just being generally good, it's a great nostalgia bomb for those of us 30ish and older. Also, some of my other recommended shows, although not new, are: The Fall: a drama about a London-based detective catching a serial killer Broadchurch: a drama about a small town looking for the killer of a young boy Peaky Blinders: a multifaceted drama a WWI soldier dealing with his issues along with his crime family's business, communists, …
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 02:40 PM
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Thanks! That sounds like another great template.
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 02:34 PM
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If anyone is looking for some new hairstyles, Kayley Melissa on YouTube has a bajillion of them.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 09:36 PM
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I usually put everything in excel at first just so I can easily see what all I would like to be done and so I can easily edit and rearrange the order by priority, but the initial lists aren't permanent, so I suppose it doesn't really matter beyond your preference.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 09:25 PM
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I can, but I'm kinda giving it all away for free already, lol.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 04:28 PM
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She should have not one trade but twenty hobbies; she, unlike the man, may develop all her second bests.. . . . Women were not kept at home in order to keep them narrow; on the contrary, they were kept at home in order to keep them broad. It's basically (part of) the gist of Proverbs 31:10-31. A great read even if you're not religious.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 04:04 PM
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Oh man, now I kinda want to publish something. Tbh, most of what I know I learned in business school of all places.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 03:30 PM
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You're welcome! I prefer to use my phone still, but that italian coffee maker one may have changed my mind. <3
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 03:28 PM
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That's usually the case for me as well, but if a family member is having surgery or something like that, you'll want the option. Plus, I want my husband to be able to contact me no matter what.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 08:05 PM
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make a playlist, listen to an entire album, or have netflix/Amazon prime on autoplay Definitely. That will be included eventually. I'm in the process of organizing/relabeling my iTunes after an update dumped all my data. Worst thing ever. You can also make playlists on YouTube and play them in the app on your tv, which I love because as much music as I have, I don't have everything. It's also handy for holiday parties. My Halloween one is a big hit.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 07:58 PM
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This applies to alarms as well.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 07:51 PM
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I didn't get chance to respond, but I live in Texas too! I wonder how many of us live near each other? I need some new friends...totally not in a creepy craigslist killer sort of way, of course, lol.
/r/RedPillWives16/08/16 06:33 PM
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Their claims and expectations are way over exaggerated. The glam look in most professions is neither necessary nor welcomed. A basic look, free from distractions, is what's ideal. The simple fact is your grooming and dress are a reflection of your character, intentions, and willingness to make a good impression, and that is what hiring managers are looking for- standards tend to relax once you're hired.
/r/RedPillWives21/07/16 06:43 PM
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I interpreted the that part as mostly getting angry at your partner over normal, everyday interactions. Mate guarding is one thing, being a control freak who sees subversion everywhere is something else entirely. As for the response to legitimate mate guarding, what works depends on the couple. Some people like the protective behaviors, others don't. My husband and I don't do any of the mate guarding behaviors, nor would care for the other person doing so, because neither of us see anyone else a…
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 04:57 PM
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Time to get a spine. While I understand that you don't want to cut your parents off you may have to threaten and follow through on it at least temporarily. You can't legitimately argue that they're good grandparents when they're actively trying to undermine the family your kids rely on. Makes me wonder what they say to the kids. I would tell them any negative commentary about your husband to anyone is crossing the line, and will result in reduced contact.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 10:44 PM
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I think I had read somewhere that there is a hormonal cycle that happens as a result of sex that make you want it more for about 3 days, and then it starts to decline, so you should have sex every 3-4 daysif you want to keep your libido going strong.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 02:38 PM
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I'm 30, a military veteran, I married my team leader (8 years total), and we're expecting our first goblin in June. I currently stay at home (will be homeschooling), love to cook, sew, build furniture, and am trying to work out what kind of business I want to start once I actually have the time.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 02:28 PM
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It may not be the the most exciting job in the world, but doing book keeping or accounts receivable/payable is always in demand and the pay is decent. It might require a few extra classes (I don't know how common it is, but some places will just train you), but the payoff is pretty big compared to the investment.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 02:08 PM
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Thanks! Officially Air Force, but I worked on joint missions, so it was a little different than the typical AF experience.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 05:38 PM
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It's all about materialism and feeding arrogance. It's not until time and/or circumstances force women to evaluate what their real priorities are/should be that they make these changes. I went through something similar after having served in the military, as did most of my friends. It had nothing to do with retreating from the world, but, having seen the world for what it really is, it's practically impossible to get excited about a title or some other societally-approved, ego-stroking hurdle.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 04:23 PM
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Bread results are better with the ones that the longer, double-coiled dough hook because of gluten stretching and the hook's ability to accommodate larger dough ball.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 06:00 PM
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I don't care for them because results can be inconsistent and don't seem to be well equipped to deal with all types of bread. I would go with a good quality mixer that had a dough hook. That way you can make all types of bread plus all the other things you can do with your mixer. I use a KitchenAid, which is a bit pricey (they're cheaper at Costco), but I think it's worth it if you can afford it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 05:51 PM
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No. No one has asked what he thinks about it. They're just mostly balking at the idea that I don't want him, or anyone else, to be there, which is really frustrating because people who know me well shouldn't be surprised by this. I'm basically getting the impression that the more emotional/needy people in my life think that it's a false front (trying to be "brave" or some nonsense), and they simply refuse to believe that I'm not like them.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 05:04 PM
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I know of no man that thinks so selfishly of himself that'd he want to cheat on his partner, but then think "better go after women older than her as to not disrespect her or her family. I would think an older woman would be more embarrassing considering that on a base level we all understand being physically attracted to others without it being a criticism of your SO, whereas, hypothetically, an average looking, middle-aged woman could easily indicate that there's something wrong with you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 02:57 PM
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I don't plan to have my husband there because I find people being present/talking/doing things around me distracting and stressful if I don't feel well. He doesn't have a particularly burning desire to be there either, so it's nbd. So far, this is the only thing that anyone has tried to undermine me on. Everyone is insisting that I have to have somebody there because reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 02:24 PM
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I found that cleaning in 15 minute spurts once an hour helped a lot when I wasn't feeling the greatest. Using the alarm/timer on my phone, in general, kept me from forgetting things and spacing out all day. A little bit of grooming/dressing nicely goes a long way, even if it's a clean, nice (heavy emphasis on clean and nice looking) looking set of workout gear. I think it's a good idea to set aside time, especially while with your SO, during which you do not talk/think about the baby. It can bec…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 02:12 PM
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Just because. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XxScTbIUvoA
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/16 04:14 PM
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Next! Any man that would allow an ex to dictate the course of his current relationship is either weak or uninvested. Either way, not good.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/16 03:48 AM
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The other day I saw a woman claim that RPW is place where women learn to manipulate and control men. Thought that was a tad odd.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/16 03:22 AM
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For mentors, a good choice are the women who are veterans themselves- and by veterans I mean those that served a full enlistment, not those who were in for five minutes, got knocked up in tech school, and then got out. Mil-to-mil marriages are usually either really chaotic and immature (so easy to spot), or they're rock solid. The ladies, aside from being full of useful info, lack the whining and laziness...and yes, there is no quicker way to piss them off then to claim your husband's rank as yo…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/16 12:12 AM
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I didn't really have any problems while on the pill (ortho-tri cyclen lo) other possibly a lowered libido, which may or may not have had more to do with familiarity. However, what happened when I stopped taking it was awful. My skin became really greasy and my cycle did not regulate for 10 months, which was really annoying and made getting pregnant rather difficult.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 01:34 AM
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I think putting other women down is a legitimate strategy- a desperate, underhanded one, but valid nonetheless. Basically it serves the purpose of damaging said target's reputation and/or demoralizing her so she won't compete. I'm not sure how much stock men take in women's shit-talking, but the demoralization definitely works. I think what the feminist perspective fails to take into consideration is that competing for mates is a natural behavior that has real value, and any woman who can't, or …
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/15 03:34 AM
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Lol, right. It has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with the fact that humans are lazy, and tearing down competition, rather than improving yourself, is easier. Also, it's interesting that in this competition it assumes that women see themselves as the prize, rather than men being the prize. In mating, both sexes are both the competitor and the prize. Both have to find and fight for the mate they want, and they do so by making themselves appear more attractive. Nothing sexist or demeaning about that. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/15 08:55 PM
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Thanks! So far everything has been fairly stereotypical, except no rogue vomiting and my coffee was taste really bitter for about a week, which is actually how I found out (coincidentally watches a video on differences in taste buds between the sexes). Funny thing is, I wasn't even trying this time. I was purposefully avoiding after months of trying because of Halloween, Oktoberfest, Scarborough Faire, and the fact that I may get the chance to hang out with Milo Yiannopoulos soon. Go figure.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 09:49 PM
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Thanks! Now if I can just fend off the women trying to make me fat, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 03:26 PM
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At this point, I'm just concerned about how much I should be eating for maintenance until I see the midwife. Every site gives me a completely different answer (1454-2079). 1454 seems right for me based on past experience, but there are a bunch of women (I asked) telling me that I'm eating too little, including one who told me she was my height, and that her maintenance is 1800 without exercise, so I should be eating at least that much. I don't trust it because I didn't mention my weight, and 180…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 02:45 PM
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Lol, that's weird. I already tested, and it's a go.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 02:38 PM
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Plus creepy/embarrassing. It's one thing if you make a comment like that about a celebrity who, for all intents and purposes, might as well not exist to you, but it's quite another when there's a good chance you will meet/have to work with that person. Now that I think about it, at what point does that become unprofessional/sexual harassment? Acting is still a job.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 03:00 PM
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What caught your fancy?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 02:15 AM
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Oops, lol. Just noticed the jacked up title.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 04:08 AM
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Not yet. I thought I would give it at 2 weeks before spending the money. Figured the info would be useful either way.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 01:53 AM
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I think it's too early to tell (a week late), but I was trying, and I'm having all the ususual pms symptoms, but worse, plus slight nausea, absent-mindedness, lightheadedness, and my coffee tastes really bitter for no reason at all. I just haven't felt like doing anything the past two weeks, so I'm behind on housework and gym time. I really don't want this to become a habit.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 01:10 AM
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A little OT, and not meant to be argumentative, but expiation is (usually) not used as a way to avoid acknowledging accountability, but rather is done as a symbolic gesture of acknowledging one's screw up, and still requires repentance and a serious effort to not repeat the mistake, otherwise the gesture is meaningless. This could be likened to a man upsetting his wife, so he brings her flowers to apologize. The apology and not repeating the mistake would suffice, but the flowers help smooth ove…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/15 09:20 PM
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Thanks! Hopefully you find it useful.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 12:39 AM
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Sometimes things need a change of perspective. For a little while my H was frustrated because he wasn't earning money (in school) and I was, but the issue wasn't the fact that I was making money, but rather he wasn't. After we had confirmed that we would be getting married, we simply traded places a few times with either going to school or working/supporting the other. It needs to be understand that you are a unit. Whatever needs to be done to make the unit flourish is what needs to be done, reg…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 04:33 PM
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Here's mine: https://www.pinterest.com/amberiella/ Most of my pins are food and sewing/crafts craft related.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 04:19 PM
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Hats off to those women for saying that knowing they'd take the heat. Hell hath no fury like an army of women scorned. The funny thing is, (for women) it's ridiculously easy to get the feminist ape off your back- you just have to put it down. By this I mean that, in the FSM, women only have one tool in the toolbox to use against you, and that is the revocation of "friendship"/acceptance. If you opt not to invest in gaining or maintaining that relationship, then they can't touch you. That said, t…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:36 PM
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I split my time between my place in the city and my mom's place in the country.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/15 02:55 AM
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It's pretty shocking how bad people can be with money, and what they consider essential. I have a relative who spends $800/month on food for him, his wife, and toddler. I can't fathom what he could possibly be spending all that on.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 09:27 PM
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I totally agree that these activities have both financial and other types of value. It just seems like the women who make a big deal about it have a sort of anxiety over not having a paid profession and how they view value in relation to income. I think they would be better off just not caring about what other people think of what they do.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 09:15 PM
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It's probably just a really cool ice breaker, and I highly doubt they're connecting it with promiscuity. Pretty much this. It's novel to people, especially in the US. I get the same reaction for speaking Russian.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 03:19 PM
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Good point. By this logic, anything can be classified as a job because you can pay someone to do pretty much anything.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 03:09 PM
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I don't think of it as a job in the sense that it is not a paid profession. It's an obligation more than anything. FTR, I stay at home, but I don't have kids yet. Overall, I would say that there is hard work involved depending on what your standards are (ex. I make everything from scratch, have high cleanliness standards, etc.), but I could definitely see it as a cakewalk for those who don't make a lot of things a priority. As far as the martyr types- they're either just insecure, attention-seek…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 02:50 PM
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It might be a Southern thing Maybe. I just went to a regular public school, and it was mandatory, but my husband (from California) thought it was absurdly funny when I mentioned it...something about buying a poofy dress for the debutant ball, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/15 12:58 AM
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They taught all the table etiquette and place setting stuff when I was in school. Is this not normal?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/15 11:07 PM
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I mostly cook, sew, and make various holiday decorations, matryoshki, and the like. http://imgur.com/a/ktWYb
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 03:55 PM
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Especially considering that the area he went to school in is predominantly minority, and is heavily populated by Muslims...but yes, he and his sister were totally being bullied by those white bigots.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 02:18 AM
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The microplane was a cheap one just called Microplane. This is the cup I was talking about. http://www.worldmarket.com/product/mobile/mix-n-measure-beaker.do?sortby=bestMatchesDescend&from=Search Also, I forgot the apple corer from Williams Sonoma and silicone spoons/spatulas/whisks.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 08:47 PM
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Where to begin? Silpat mats giant cutting board Kidai bowls (aside from serving, the wide most and flatish bottoms make mixing meat really easy) microplane grater measuring glasses (mine measures cups, ounces, tsps, Tbsps, mls, grams, and also marks the amount for different types of alcoholic drinks)
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 06:43 PM
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Also, INTJ women (they're rare, but do exist) usually to do not care for the company of other women because they find them boring, petty, overly emotional, etc. They tend to get along with other women of a similar view just fine, but, as previously stated, they're rare, so there aren't many opportunities.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:50 AM
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Or they find that other women have nothing to offer them other than trivial nonsense, gossip, and complaining, so they opt out. Not the most common scenario, but it is definitely a real thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:38 AM
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Most women who don't get along with other women are that way because of social politics/competition, but that's usually obvious as they tend to try to tear other women down and let their insecurities known by what they say to other women, or, alternatively, they are the ones being targeted. However, it could be merely due to personality type. INTJ women are known for not liking other women because they find them boring, petty, and trivial. If she tends to be introverted, analytical, more serious…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:28 AM
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Here's an alternative view to convention: Don't place value on contrived celebrations. I don't have a problem with celebrating- in general or at any time- but keep in mind that these specific celebrations, the ways in which they're 'supposed to be celebrated', the expectations for them, and the exact date are all made up and projected on to (and internalized by) you by society. It's all arbitrary, and has no basis in reality or the state of your relationship, so why let it turn you into a shriek…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 01:53 AM
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Have you tried marinating it in buttermilk?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 12:51 PM
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I've been told that, so I gave it a whirl, but didn't like the results. Kosher salt and a soft sponge works fine for me.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 12:41 PM
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It maintains even heat better, gets up to a higher heat, if properly maintained is basically stick-proof and requires less fat/oil, cheaper, lasts longer, boosts iron intake, and you're not eating bits of whatever they coat other pans with if that's a concern for you. They are slightly more complicated to clean, but it's not that that big of a deal if you know what you're doing and don't let everything crustify before you try to clean it.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:14 AM
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Really? It's still pretty standard where I live.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 09:46 PM
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You could run the risk of catching your clothes on fire or melting the buttons, so it's your call.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 09:43 PM
1

I have yet to find a salad I actually enjoy eating and that is filling Not even fajita or berry chicken salads? Anyway, I basically trawled Pinterest for vegan/vegetarian recipes and sites. I'm nowhere near vegan, but obviously if your going to be one long-term you have to get creative or go crazy, so I figured they what know what works. Beyond that, I add things to my eggs (onions, spinach, mushrooms) and sandwiches, and blend them into soups, the sauce or ricotta for italian dishes, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 09:38 PM
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The perfect test is to watch their reaction after asking them to put a caste-iron skillet in the dishwasher. ...you wouldn't let her actually do it, though...obviously.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 04:19 PM
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Is he ok with soups? When they're completely pureed you can't even really tell what's in them except for maybe the main ingredient.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 12:49 PM
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Here's a post I did on it. http://southernpetite.weebly.com/entertaining/troubleshooting-baking
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 10:06 PM
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What kind of hair do you have?
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 09:47 PM
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You do wash them, but with warm water, and don't use any chemicals when cleaning with them.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 04:04 AM
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A good food processor is a lifesaver. The Cuisinarts are is pretty good, and in the right price range. I also love my Ninja, which has a food processor attachment, but that was around $140 when not on sale.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 09:42 PM
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A quick chicken vegetable soup is good, and you can do most of the work in advance. Basically, you cook and dice/shred the chicken, and dice 1 carrot, 2 stalks of celery, 1 gold potato, and peel and crush 2 lg cloves of garlic in advance. Saute the garlic in a little oil Add the carrots, celery, stock, spices (black and white pepper, thyme, onion powder, and ground sage), and potato Bring to boil and reduce to simmer, add chicken, and simmer covered for 15 min.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 04:15 PM
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If this is a regularly occurring thing, you can prepare this or anything that can marinate in advance, and it will just get better. That way, you basically just have to stick it in the oven.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 04:08 PM
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Firstly, I think a lot of it comes with age, so that may come at play here. For some reason around 25ish most people stop really caring what everyone else thinks, so that helps. That aside, confidence comes from competence. Learn how to do something useful well, and your confidence will grow from there, particularly as you continue to master new things.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 02:52 PM
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She sees you as an ATM I know of more than one dependa who got married, and then split up with their husband, but refused to file/sign the paperwork because they get half the guy's retirement if they're married for at least ten years. Of course you have to file for retirement for them to get anything. I also know a Chief who didn't file for this exact reason...something along the lines of "that bitch ain't getting shit".
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 08:53 PM
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You have to understand that these are potential red flags- not absolutes. Also, there is room for individual variation, so if your SO likes those things, then there's no reason to change them, but if it doesn't work out, you have to understand that at least some of your behavior may be off-putting or, at the very least, not a green light right out the gate. Edit: I do very much disagree with the past about large boobs though. More years of male attention =/= more willingness to spleep around. I …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 01:45 AM
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I think it's a common misinterpretation of facts. Females, as children, have a more developed and faster growing language center, so girls generally start talking much sooner than boys. Additionally, females, on average speak a lot more than males do, and in a more descriptive manner; however, none of these findings make any judgements about the actual quality of the communication. Basically, women have a million different ways of saying something, but they rarely have anything of value to
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 11:10 PM
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I had always thought something was amiss, so I wasn't blindsided by anything RPW had to say. It was basically everything I already knew- just stated in a cohesive thought. That said, I'm not sure anger over the denial of reality and injustice ever really goes away (especially if you look into how men are treated legally and the criminal justice system), but you eventually fail to be surprised by it. I suggest not to fret over your former friends because if they can't handle you living your own l…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/15 10:47 PM
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Meh, still wouldn't make you pedophile.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:12 PM
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"It's toxic masculinity!" Basically it's still the patriarchy because men are the assailants. The same thing happens when you point out sexual assault in homosexual couples. They has to concede that it happens in their various campaigns to be considered inclusive/not hetero-normative, but none of the scenarios concocted ever showed a woman as the aggressor- only man on woman and man on man. Never mind the fact that lesbian couples have the highest rate of domestic violence and sexual assault...n…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:03 PM
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And no DI is going to let you run around the base to get a divorce. There is no pressing need to get a divorce RIGHT NOW.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:48 PM
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I'm going to go out on a limb and say that this story, or various details about it, are made up. It sounds like it's written by someone who either never served, but knows a little about the military, or someone who did, but is just spinning bullshit because the average person doesn't know any better.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:43 PM
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I saw something a while back that claimed something along the lines of the school system, child labor laws, and legal age being designed time-wise to reduce competition in the workforce. Before standardized schooling was established it was normal for people, especially males, to finish school well before 18 and start apprenticeships and jobs. I don't know how valid the claim is, but it's interesting to say the least.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:28 PM
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They kept telling me how I'm gonna be on a list and I'm gonna go to jail for being a paedo. Were they kidding?...or do they actually think it's illegal for legal adults to have sex?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:18 PM
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spoilers, but really, the movie's older than most of us I haven't read it either, but I've seen the original movie. The main character was a psycho. She not only did not work, but she also didn't really take care of the house or kids, and pitched a fit when her H got angry when she would opt to hang out with her friend and get high. The "work" she did was photography, which she could do anywhere, and was close enough to the city if she wanted to do some work there, say, once a week. She also had…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/15 06:34 PM
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Most women are taught to be submissive home makers While validations can often make people lazy, this is not the reason why women don't pursue STEM, and it hasn't been normal, in the west at least, for several decades, and is often discourage if not overtly ridiculed, so I highly doubt this is even remotely a cause for why women don't pursue STEM. Even the feminists who constantly complain about there not being enough women in STEM don't pursue STEM. The biggest impact in desire to pursue STEM b…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:42 PM
1

Yes, kids definitely need time to figure things out on their own as well. I was just making the point that interaction and exposure to everyday things makes a world of difference, but is something that children often don't get because of people's conceptions of what they can understand and what they would be interested in.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/15 03:14 PM
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I have actually not read his work. There, however, is no shortage of evidence on things such as differences in brain structure, and the fact that speech and math/spatial reasoning areas of the brain develop at different times and rates between the sexes. These are developmental traits, not inherited ones like studies on race might suggest. That said, while environment might be the biggest factor for the average person, there is clearly something else at play with the extremes. I find it really h…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 07:10 PM
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Biologically speaking, the strengths of the sexes are different: for females it's consistency, and for males it's variability. The reason for this is lies in the chromosomes. Most genetic flaws are on the X chromosome, so females, having a backup, can compensate by 'turning off' the bad gene, and using the other. Because males only have one X, they do not have this option. The natural result of this is that females, as a population, have fewer expressed flaws, but also have fewer exceptional ind…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 04:06 PM
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Best one I've seen so far. The theater itself was new, so it was set up do do all sorts of cool stuff that you might not get at most performances. If you get the chance, the Russian-style performances, I think, are better than the German-style ones since some of the traditional imagery and dance types (like the one intended for the Trepak) are either not used or not used as well.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 07:18 PM
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Cute! I can't wait to have enough room for a vanity. Also a big fan of The Nutcracker, btw. I saw a performance a few years ago that was incredible- the stage set was amazing (colors, flying pieces) and it snowed in the entire theater. <3
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 04:05 PM
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Kids will do it even if you didn't want them to. I practically gave my parents a heart attack when I was three by bringing them bagels with cream cheese to them in bed (I toasted them in the oven because we didn't have a toaster). It never even occurred to me that I 'shouldn't do it' because I had seen it done a million times. Experience=competence=confidence
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 03:10 AM
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You might to want to check out Montessori-style education. I don't always agree 100%, especially since there aren't any requirements for a school to call itself a Montessori school, but its based on interaction, exposure, and mimickery of everyday skills.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 03:03 AM
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This a problem with the fundamental way female social circles/interactions work. Women often say irrelevant/non sequitur things as a way to assert status, whether that be the status of a victim, mother, etc. It's subtle, but a quick way to figure out who it's healthy for you to be around, especially if you have goals and aspirations that are different from the group, which in the current climate, is to be happy and competent in anything. Much better to be a free agent than another drone in the h…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/15 09:02 PM
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It will always depend on the kid, but there are general guidelines of what children can comprehend at certain ages. For example, 2yos can understand to put things like dirty clothes and loose toys in containers. There are even tribes who gives 3yos razor sharp blades to cut bits of meat off of animals, and they usually don't hurt themselves. I don't know if I would go quite that far since kids are clumsy, but it does show that kids are capable of far more than we tend to realize. I think the big…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/15 08:41 PM
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Worse than merely not having to, there are parents that are outraged by the idea of a kid, say 12, doing chores. As if somehow you're stealing their childhood. Don't get me wrong, I've known plenty of people who practically use their kids as slave labor- not a fan of that either; however, I see no reason why a kid can't and shouldn't be responsible for what is theirs, and learn how to do and have a partial responsibility in all things that are communal, i.e. cleaning floors, cooking, etc. Also, …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/15 08:24 PM
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Agreed. Plus, he does way more day to day than I do. Why not ease his burden if I can? It would only make him more productive where it really counts. As for children, however, I'm a firm believer in teaching all life skills as soon as possible. It helps their brains and personal responsibility. My job is to teach them how to survive (and well) without me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/15 04:17 PM
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Weird. In the US it's included in your tuition fees, so you pay for it no matter what.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 08:02 PM
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Does your university not have a gym? If so, you're already paying for it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 03:51 PM
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She isnt "low libido", tired from the kids, or stressed out. She is bored and not attracted to her husband. He is too familiar and safe, he doesn't generate tingles. Anonymous confessional boxes on mommy blogs are filled with women who thought they had a LL, but discovered that that wasn't the case when they 'accidentally' started having an affair. Those things are pretty horrific reads.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:42 PM
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I'm starting with this list. I've read plenty of them before, but I was too rushed (school) to let most sink in. http://www.welltrainedmind.com/great-books/
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 02:55 PM
1

Не за что.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 02:47 PM
1

getting up early (very difficult after a lazy summer, but H just started grad school) improving skin care routine water picking every day working out 6 days/wk meal prep reading a laundry list of classic novels working on my business
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 12:56 PM
1

That does sound like fun. I've always wanted to learn how to make nice jewelry.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 12:54 PM
1

If you have any questions about Russian, I can help.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 12:53 PM
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First thing I would say is hit the gym. It will help with your depression, confidence, and appearance. Secondly, you don't have to hang out with people who are not like you, and it would likely hurt you in the end as it would influence what others think of you. That said, I would suggest reading, among the relationship books, 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' by Dale Carnegie. It's a short read, and will help ease you back into being social again.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 12:51 PM
1

I like Kaley Melissa (aka letsmakeitup) on YouTube. She doesn't have curly hair, but she shows how to do pretty much every type of braid imaginable. Any kind that scoops up some of the excess bulk on the sides/ends will work.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/15 07:45 PM
1

It was mostly an issue of where I went to school. Most of the black girls were ghetto, and those who weren't were basically really skinny nerds who were entirely focused on their school work. Some of them have grown out of their awkward faze, and are absolutely gorgeous now- all happily married, btw.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/15 07:39 PM
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I agree with u/Disappear_vanish. A few of the black guys I had dated were always given a hard time by people because none of the women they dated were black. I asked them why, and they all told me that it was because of how black women tend to behave, not how they look; however, black women who behave well would have just as much chance as any other. That said, if you carry yourself well, and dress in a polished, feminine manner, I highly doubt anyone would mistake you for a ghetto welfare queen…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/15 04:33 PM
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I used to always straighten my hair, and I've found now that I'm an adult, people love it (more feminine, stands out, etc.), so I would say that you might want to keep it curly. That said I second r/curlyhair. If the length is causing you to have issues (mine looks like a mushroom if it's too short), you can always do pretty side braids that reduce the bulk on the sides. Tbh, some days, if I don't feel like dealing with it, I just wear really pretty headscarves. That could also maybe be an optio…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/15 04:15 PM
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Lol, yeah. It's not the cheapest thing in the world, but you don't need much, and you're not really going to find anything good anywhere for curly hair that's cheap.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 08:35 PM
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NP. I got mine at Target.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 08:10 PM
2

Kinky-Curly's Knot Today is a really good leave-in conditioner the defines curls and sort of doubles as a gel, but isn't crunchy or flaky. It adheres to the curly girl method if that's what you're in to.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 07:59 PM
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I have naturally curly hair, but I change the shape of it occasionally. I use a clipless barrel and an InStyler. The trick is to hold the barrel as close as you can to your scalp, and pull it in the opposite way from the direction you want the hair to fall. Also, I would recommend a good heat protection spray that has hold if you have issues with that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 07:49 PM
2

How would you rate the concealer? I have really bad circles too- mostly red, but has a hint of purple/blue.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 07:40 PM
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Oh, and someone also argued that rationality is subjective and cannot be tested.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:50 PM
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Of course. This was also covered, but they did the predictable: stuck to their conclusions, accused us of confirmation bias, and dismissed actual studies because apparently psychology and statistics are just voodoo, even if very predictive. I found it easier to just decide that it must be a bunch mathematically illiterate fems who laude their useless degrees over everyone while simultaneously complaining that there aren't enough women in STEM.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:18 PM
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We got into an argument about this on PPD yesterday. Apparently many think that we're all special snowflakes whose behavior can't be predicted, and are completely immune from science and instinct, even though we're animals. Never mind that pretty much all sexually dimorphic mammals tend to groom, preen, mate guard, and commit all sorts of trickeration to get ahead in the sexual marketplace. It must be coincidence!
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 03:22 PM
1

I suggest the Diva Cup. It has a reputation for being softer. Also, there's a little stem on the end for convenience, but it bothers a lot of people. It's nbd if you cut it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:56 AM
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There's such a thing as silicone cleaner that comes in a small spray bottle. Also, because there isn't a large volume of blood, and the cup makes an air-tight seal, it only needs to be changed every 12 hours. That can easily be scheduled to take place at home only.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:34 AM
1

Silicone is easily sanitized. Are you afraid of sex toys as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:00 AM
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More sanitary, more comfortable, cheaper, has to be changed less frequently, never unexpectedly running out, no cord pulling excess blood out of your body and getting it on your underwear, doesn't need to be changed when you pee, doesn't rip your pubes out, doesn't stink, doesn't expand to the point of being painful to pull out, and it doesn't absorb all your moisture causing you to chafe internally. Did I leave anything out, anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 11:57 PM
2

Jace Everett's Red Revelations album is always a big mood-pleaser...for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 11:12 PM
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It's sounds like the rhodium plating has worn off. That happens usually about every 4-5 years depending on wear, which exposes you to the nickel. It typically only costs about $40 to have replated. I suppose you could tell him that replating is just a normal part of having a nice ring, and it would be especially important for you since you're allergic to nickel.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/15 03:52 PM
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I don't recall anything specific, but he was basically already entitled to it because he was my first on-the-job superior while in the military, lol. We started dating about two years afterward, but by that point I already trusted him with my life. He was always reliable, consistent, and stoically in control, which was admirable regardless of whether we were dating. Edit: words
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/15 04:51 PM
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Current feminism is more likely caused by the cognitive dissonance women have trying to deal with what they think/have been told they want and what they actually want. This is further exacerbated by the fact that, when they figure out how things work in reality, the realize that they're going to have to put forth effort. This runs contrary to the upbringing that encouraged them to be lazy, entitled, self-indulgent, and narcissistic. A natural reaction would be to eliminate competition through at…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 03:47 PM
1

Lol! Your comment alone made me laugh hard enough. I've never heard of someone doing such a thing. What I found really odd about the comments was the fact that people are floored by the idea of a 12 year old washing dishes...or doing any chores, really. Where do these people come from?
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/15 05:13 PM
1

NOOOOOO! I still can't believe I see people giving instructions on the interwebz that involves soap.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/15 05:04 PM
1

Yes, definitely. I need to do that, and a blog post on kitchen lifesavers and how to properly take care of a cast iron skillet.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/15 04:56 PM
1

Oh, right. I knew someone was from Kentucky, but I couldn't remember who. http://blog.hwtm.com/2009/04/mint-julep-cupcakes-recipe/
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/15 04:40 PM
2

Can I ask where you're from? I live in Dallas currently, but I'm from the Gulf Coast. Also: http://www.southernfatty.com/
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/15 04:30 PM
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Thanks! I make my own sometimes as well, but if I'm busy I'll just buy some. I live in an area where you can get fresh ones for basically the same price as you can to make, so I'm lucky in the respect. Btw, do you follow Homesick Texan and Mexico in my Kitchen?
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/15 04:20 PM
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I second the food prep day and crock pot meals. When I was really busy I would eat breakfast at school, so I would assembly line my dry ingredients and honey (for oatmeal) into masons jars for the week. All I would have to do was add water and heat. I think you could reasonably only do grocery shopping every two weeks if you plan it well. I do it by buying a lot fresh ingredients that have a long shelf life (oranges, grapefruit, onions, potatoes, carrots, cruciferous vegetables). You can still g…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/15 04:01 PM
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I choose the proteins I would like to have that week, and then a type of cuisine or dish I'm in the mood for. All the other dishes are chosen based on the extra ingredients from the first. The trick is the know which world cuisines share a lot of similar ingredients. This helps cut down on waste as well. Ex of my logic: Proteins: 2 days vegetarian, 2 days chicken, 3 days beef I'm in the mood for Mexican food, and I decided on tacos, so I need to buy the all the meats, tortillas, red onion, cilan…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/15 03:37 PM
2

While far from the point of conversation, Japanese and Korean skin care products (non-prescription) are amazing. They're actually a couple of decades ahead in that industry.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 05:39 PM
1

There's not too much I can say other than what everyone else has already said. I served in the military for six years, and while I don't regret my career, especially because I met my husband because of it, the nature of the job causes you to neglect you household and relationships. Getting into relationships is not very difficult, especially if you're attractive, but keeping them is. The bad list is endless, which is why military divorcees are so high: stress, long hours, relocations (you can be…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 05:26 PM
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there is such thing as lying by omission Here is where women often get themselves into trouble/hurt and fail to take responsibility for their actions. While it would be nice if people put all their cards out on the table right away, people often don't, and anyone with a brain knows this. That said, if both of you fail to state/agree on what you expect from the relationship, then no one is lying, by omission or otherwise, and you can't pull the victim card because he's not going along with your s…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/15 09:55 PM
1

Lol, sorry, it's not your lucky day. I've bounced around a bit, but I'm originally from Louisiana.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 03:25 AM
1

There are occasionally from redpillwomen, but I'm not aware of any from anywhere else.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 03:07 PM
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Lol. As far as I have read/been told that female comments are fine as long as they actually contribute/don't serve the female agenda. That said, I was just demonstrating that the hatred goes beyond post vs. pre-wall woman.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:40 PM
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This also applies to, and is possibly worse with, women who aren't younger, but remain younger-looking. I basically can't meet a woman approximately my age and have her find out how old I am without there being an instantaneous flash of anger and resentment. Edit: They basically feverishly wait for younger women to hit the wall (usually expecting it the happen after they get married, have baby, etc.) with a lot of "you just wait until..." type comments, and rejoice when it happens, but if it doe…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:09 PM
2

The right music changes everything.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/15 12:19 AM
2

Oops, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 01:07 AM
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Here it is. There's obviously a heavy religious/cultural bent, but it's interesting either way. https://jofa.org/sites/default/files/uploaded_files/site/Library/Orthodoxy_and_Feminism/Feminist_Criticism_and_Response/View%20from%20here-Ross%20and%20Plaskow-2007.pdf
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 11:59 PM
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I consider myself to be somewhat naturally RP. I've never had negative/indifferent attitudes toward men, but I did have refining over the years that got me to what is essentially RP today. For starters, my Dad always told me that no man worth having wants a wife who is a slob and has bad manners, and he also made a point to teach me to dress properly, i.e. avoiding clothes that were gaudy/trashy-looking, knowing the difference between sexy and slutty, etc. After I became an adult, I had a free s…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 09:58 PM
8

They're spoiled, emotional children, and were raised to be that way. Children tend to think what they want is "fair" and what's best for them, but they're rarely correct.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 05:28 PM
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Let alone adherents of the "women's rights" movement condemning a woman for her private choices.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 04:12 PM
1

While it's not for desserts, I have a blog post on troubleshooting baking since there's all sorts of important things cookbooks conveniently leave out. http://southernpetite.weebly.com/entertaining/troubleshooting-baking
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 08:37 PM
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My husband and I have switched back and over our relationship depending on who's in school at the time. Historically I have always made more, but long-term, once he's done with school, he will be making far more than I've ever made and probably ever will. The difference, as Tempest pointed out, is that I never held it over him, I never made him feel like he couldn't provide for us, and made it clear that I was just doing what was best for the family at the time, which was enabling him to go to s…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 08:19 PM
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Monogamy meant I controlled her sexual expression It's ridiculous to act like it's some assault on her freedom as both partners are limited in the exact same way, which they both agreed to when they became exclusive, and then further solidified with a marriage contract. If these people are legit, they live in the Twilight Zone,
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 05:25 PM
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If a woman likes sex, she’s a whore and a slut; if she only likes sex with her husband or boyfriend, she’s boring and lame; if she doesn’t like sex at all, she’s frigid and unfeeling. I've said this in another post, but this line, with the exception of the third part, is complete bullshit. Even churches encourage an active sex life (within marriage of course). If women enjoying sex was frowned upon by society, we would hear people comment on it regularly enough to know it's a taboo (after all, s…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 04:50 PM
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Sounds like you just dated yourself, or simply didn't watch MTV in the 90s. Everyone knew who those guys were whether they liked the music or not.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 10:46 PM
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it's not the amount of sex you have; it's the number of partners. I'm glad you said that. I've seen a lot of people, even here, claim that society frowns upon women who enjoy sex, yet I've never heard anyone ever claim to hold that position. It's always about promiscuity, and, in my experience, most women who are promiscuous don't actually enjoy sex- they just put on a good show for everyone, and then secretly ask their friends who actually enjoy it for advice on how to figure things out.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 06:01 PM
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Plan for it. I know it doesn't sound incredibly romantic, but you won't do what you don't plan for. I make it interesting by having formal "shows". Some basic knowledge of burlesque, lap dancing, and stripping go a long way, especially when paired with nice lingerie, good music, and whatever else you'd want to include.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 05:16 PM
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If I remember correctly, the mod in question was berating and blocking/removing comments that even suggested it is, claiming that the comments were just fat shaming, and that diet was not relevant.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 09:52 PM
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Although I can't speak for everyone they've always worked better for me (I have sensitive skin), so I guess you never know until you try. Worst come to worst, you can just eat the leftovers.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 09:49 PM
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Is that one mod who freaked out over anyone making a connection between diet and skin still there?
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 08:40 PM
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The author's serious. I just thought the newer ladies should hear how ridiculous this type of stuff sounds when said out loud.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 03:52 PM
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I've had a container of the aztec clay mask for years, but haven't been consistent enough in using it to tell how well it works. It is a pretty intense experience though. Your face pulsates like crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 03:39 PM
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They both soften your skin and kill bacteria, so you can rinse you face with buttermilk and use honey as a mask.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 03:37 PM
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I live in the US, and a French/Semitic/Eastern European hybrid. While the milk I get is pasteurized, it does come from my state, so idk. I've never noticed a difference with consuming other kinds though.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 03:36 PM
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I'm kid of the same way sans the depression. What works for me is I have a routine which has all my tasks planned for the day. Keep in mind I said routine, not schedule- meaning that the stuff on the list doesn't HAVE to be done in any particular order or by a certain time, unless it's a time-sensitive issue. When it comes to the daily tasks themselves, it's important to have reasonable expectations, to only do what's on the list for that day so as to not overwork yourself, and to schedule other…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 04:21 AM
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This could definitely be an individual thing. Everything with me (skin, hair, mental clarity, menstrual issues, weight) all improve with eating more dairy. May I ask what your ethnic background is?
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 04:01 AM
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I know Russian, French, and Hebrew. If it's not for job purposes, I recommend French and German. They, along with English, will enable you to get by pretty much anywhere in Europe.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 08:21 PM
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Np. I emphasize getting the unsulphered kind, unless you're a masochist. I usually mix it with my coffee in the morning.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 07:04 PM
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This is very very true. I served in the military and went business school when I got out, and all the women who were truly successful were successful because they played by the rules, were hard workers, and left the female tendency toward cattiness and holding grudges at home. Even all the case studies and news interviews I saw with highly successful women (the best one being an interview with Joan Rivers), for the most part, did not consider themselves to be feminists, and they didn't care abou…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 03:50 PM
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Perfectly illustrated by the fact that, apparently, everything, it's polar opposite, and everything in between in "sexist". If the had a legitimate, principal-based concern, this would not be the case. Edit: "...denying you sex are both just as violent." If that's not rape culture, then I don't know what is.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 03:39 PM
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The confessional on Scary Mommy is pretty terrible too. So many of the post revolve are women cheating or just deciding that they don't want to have sex anymore, and their husbands "will just have to deal with it".
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 03:53 AM
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For starters, it sounds like you didn't tell him you were going, you just let him know what was going on implying that you wanted to go. There's no problem here, especially since it was something you knew he would be interested in. Basically, there's nothing controlling about having ideas. No one can possibly think of everything and know everything at all times, so this is actually a good example of you doing/embracing your support role. Think of all the political intrigue movies/shows- the powe…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/15 03:39 PM
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I haven't! Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/15 05:39 PM
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Lol! "A woman dresses for herself." Well she can please herself then because no one else will want to. I will never understand the childish obliviousness people will play in regards to the realities of physical attraction. I bet these are the same women who harshly judge men for their appearance, and control what their SO's wear... maybe throw out his favorite shirts, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/15 06:25 PM
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I did this while staying at home, but generally it's not as much work as it looks. The first week is usually tough because there's a backlog of work to do, but once you get past it, it's nbd. Also, doing food prep once a week (Sundays for me) saves a lot of time.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 05:37 PM
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The rubber side of a window squeegee is really good at pulling fur out of the carpet.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 05:23 PM
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White noise helps with paranoia. It drowns out the little noises that distracts you. I bought a rain soundtrack that plays on my iPod dock.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 05:19 PM
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Also, if you've never used them, microfiber towels are magic. I'm pretty sure it's what high-end restaurants, hotels, etc. use because they leave things effortlessly streak free, pulls up dust, dirt grease, and without the use of chemicals. At most you might need to get them slightly damp. The pack I got comes with one for glass (great for bar glasses), one for chrome, one all-purpose, and one that's all-purpose on one side and a rough scrubbing surface.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 03:43 PM
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I generally follow this list, except I exclude the things that aren't relevant, rearrange the order a bit to be more practical for me, and I work out for more than 10 minutes. http://stepford-sisters.blogspot.com/2012/09/schedule-for-50s-housewife.html
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 03:04 AM
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I don't know why there's a difference in specific area of interest. I love both them and horror. Also, this is what I don't get about people claiming women don't have much of a presence in authorship- women dominate several genres, and not just romance and children's books. Plus, this year, over half of the top best-sellers, including #1, are women.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/15 02:34 PM
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If you haven't already, it might be a good idea to make a large changing pad with the diaper cover fabric. Everyone I know complains that the standard ones that come with diaper bags are small, and outgrown quickly. Maybe something like this: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/39969515416259543/
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 03:10 PM
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If you have your femininity worked out and dialed in correctly, "masculine" interests actually are kind of icing on the cake, and add a sort of coolness factor to you This is correct. I'm a big horror fanatic, and like building stuff and distilling moonshine, and it has only made me more popular/interesting (irrelevant now since I'm married).
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 03:05 PM
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Yes, psychological thrillers, mysteries, and crime/detective shows have a much larger female than male followership.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 02:55 PM
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NP.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 08:59 PM
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Personal training certification varies from state to state, but where I live, there is a 3 month program that they do at the community colleges that hooks you up with the internship you need once you're done. Assuming you still plan to get your undergrad degree, I would think what you're doing is still a good choice. Maybe add some weight lifting/athletics classes for your electives or do it as a minor. You could either wait until you're finished with school, and then get your certification, or,…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 05:39 PM
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I agree with netflicks. Also, If you don't want to do the full thing (my cousin did, and it took forever), maybe getting your undergrad and a personal trainer certification might work well for you. As I understand it, they make pretty decent money, are increasing in demand, and you can do it anywhere/at any time.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 05:15 PM
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nit-picked about my size and weight and "skinny shamed" It is pretty terrible right now, especially if you're a parent. so many implications to being associated with the sub Don't get me wrong, there was plenty of stuff on there that was petty and of little substance, but my main issues were rooted in the fact that my experience in military service and then working in the medical field has given me a position to see how bad the situation on a national and individual level is, yet people are acti…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 03:53 PM
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it was automatically assumed if someone suggested weight loss that they were from FPH That's the basis for all of the "proof" of harassment I've seen so far. Apparently they all think anyone who's aware that being overweight is a bad thing, and suggests it where appropriate, is a hateful FPH shitlord.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 03:12 PM
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I wonder if we and TRP should voluntarily move. There's a good chance they might try to get rid of TRP (misogyny card) anyway, and if Reddit/redditors hate us so much why should they get the money they make off of us?
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 03:14 AM
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Likely. I saw something that said all the mods were shadowbanned.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 03:09 AM
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Sorry, I corrected it. We tried again and got it back up to 5,000, but the new one was shut down too. There's a third one, but we never fully recovered. We weren't expecting it, so no one knew where we went, and we had no way to tell anyone. Plus a lot of the mods that made it such a great place left because they didn't see the point anymore. On top of all this, I was writing something that my followers were contributing to. When the page shut down I lost basically all of my sources too.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 12:55 AM
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This same happened a few years ago on FB, except it was an outside feminist group demanding FB take certain pages down. They were shockingly successful, and a horror page that I had created (~80,000 followers) was axed. No complaints, no warnings, no explanation- just gone. This was the case for a bunch of other horror pages and, strangely enough, mommy pages too. Nobody has any clue as to what the fuck that was all about.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 11:56 PM
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That would be an individual issue, not a page issue. You can't possibly expect a sub with over 100,000 followers to keep tabs on what everyone is doing unless they admit to harassing, and those who have admitted to were immediately banned.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/15 11:35 PM
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Noooo!! I already had a crazy group of femnazis on FB get my horror page, which had almost 80,000 followers, deleted. I received no complaints, no warning, no explanation. They even managed to get a bunch of mommy pages shut down too. To this day no one knows what that was all about.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/15 11:33 PM
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Here's some prep ideas/inspiration: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLziprGSUFGYRHt2TFDLX4scT9Qh6pxYWD
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/15 02:38 PM
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It takes a while to learn what's in everything and where the overlap is, but there are websites where you can enter ingredients, and it will tell you what you can make with it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/15 12:52 AM
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decide what meats/main protein you want for which/how many days determine what types of cuisines you might like and decide on a particular dish you definitely want choose recipes that are compatible with the leftover ingredients from your chosen recipe and the protein of their respective day. Ex of my logic: Meats: 2 days vegetarian, 2 days chicken, 3 days beef I'm in the mood for Mexican food, and I decided on tacos, so I need to buy the all the meats, tortillas, red onion, cucumber, cilantro, …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/15 09:12 PM
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I still like it as a generality as I love vintage stuff and a good chunk of her posts/advice is very RP, but she does talk about being a feminist occasionally. She simply doesn't see it all (the behaviors, not necessarily the reasoning behind it) as incompatible.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/15 08:42 PM
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Meal prep on weekends and doing things in stages always works well. I wouldn't say reject crackpots outright as it can do a lot of the work for you (i.e. shredding meat, cooking beans, roasting potatoes, whole chickens, etc.). It doesn't have to be all pot roast and beef stew. Ex. You could start marinating meat two days before it is needed to be cooked, start beans in a crockpot the morning of, and make a salad while the meat is cooking. Edit: Also, if you happen to eat a lot of rice, a good qu…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/15 02:23 PM
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This is a big problem area in anthropology and native rights. On the one hand, you have people who won't help people when they want/need it because the anthropologist want to preserve the people as if they're some exhibit at a zoo, and on the other, activists rush in to impose their random agenda that has nothing to do with what the people wanted needed. An example was there were some native people in South East Asia that had been planting trees on their land for a long time, but the government …
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 05:48 PM
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Exactly. I think a lot of it really is just the difference between rural and urban people, in addition to the general religiosity of the area. The reality is that life in a city is simply easier. It just happens to be that the south is mostly rural, and that influence has carried over to the large cities.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 05:35 PM
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Baptist, Methodist, Catholic, general fundamentalist, nondenominational...we have them all here I'm not one of them, but we get along pretty well most of the time. This actually brings up something that irks me about negative stereotypes of the south (submissive wives). While it is more common down here, what a lot of people fail to realize that these ladies generally are a lot stronger, more capable, and respected within the community than what outsiders tend believe. What's funny about is that…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 05:17 PM
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I have a few. There are plenty (more or less) RPW in my area for religious reasons (think TLC's Submissive Wives). I have noticed that a lot of the younger ones don't put much effort into their appearance though. That's an area I definitely think is needs some work.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 04:34 PM
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I'm just pointing out that some might not find it entirely RP friendly, in case they didn't already know.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 03:34 PM
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It's dangerous to feel the need to continue with something just because you don't want to lose your investment. He was/is having an emotional affair, he lied, you aren't his top priority relationship-wise, otherwise these things wouldn't have happened. He is essentially the male equivalent to an alpha widow. You are a convenience (physical or otherwise) to him while he pines away for someone else at the expense of your dignity. I know it hurts, but the sooner you accept it, the better.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 04:43 AM
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Bail. Don't invest in a dutch auction. It won't turn out well for you in the end.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 04:04 AM
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The Glamorous Housewife is a feminist. She doesn't talk about it too much, but it has come up in a few articles, posts, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 03:56 AM
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I started one somewhat recently. There's not much on it yet, but it focuses on mostly domestic stuff (cooking, cleaning, sewing, etc.). http://southernpetite.weebly.com/ "Judgy Bitch" is a good one if you like to read about the goings on in the world. I don't know if she's RP per se, but she's anti-feminist. http://judgybitch.com/
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 12:21 AM
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It's pretty much the same here, but more and more people are paying for their own, especially if their parents can't afford it or simply never planned on paying. I'm not so sure about the bride's family collecting money to pay for the wedding, but the couple usually get gifts or money from the attendants.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 08:10 PM
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I don't regret it at all. Even the little bit of planning for the elopement and honeymoon was stressful enough, let alone a full-scale wedding. We ended up spending most of the money on having a really fun honeymoon. In all reality, it worked out perfectly because I had wanted to get married at the place we got married since I was a kid, but was really disappointed later on when I found out it was always booked years in advance, 200 guest minimum, and cost-wise was "if you have to ask, you can't…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 05:16 PM
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My husband had implied that he had every intention of marrying me after we had been together for about a week. After a few months of being together it was our norm to talk about our future and plans together (it just seemed to be understood that we were getting married), and we did do some occasional ring shopping just like you and your SO. All this went on for quite some time (6 years), but we weren't in any hurry. Realistically we just saw the wedding as a formality, and saw each other as bein…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 05:04 PM
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It all started with Scary Mommy. If you're not aware of what it is, it's supposed to be a satire page talking about the less than pleasant aspects of being a mom; however, every article seems quite serious, and everyone pretty much agrees with the writers, and those who don't get descended upon by a flock of winged monkeys. They basically wear their "imperfection" as a badge of honor. I can get having a sense of humor about things and not stressing too much, but a lot of it is judgmental, mean s…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 03:46 PM
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doesn't mean you have to do 100% of everything domestic 100% of the time I figured that this is pretty much the way things would be. When I made the post I was thinking more along the lines of all the women out there who assert that it's normal (and to be expected) to regularly go a week or more without showering, their homes are always a disaster, they never cook, etc., even though they are SAHMs, and many of them are in ideal situations as far as children is concerned, i.e. just one baby witho…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 03:53 AM
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I'll be staying at home, so that won't be an issue. Generally, I just have issues relating to other people's experiences with responsibility because I'm a veteran, so when women tell me their horror stories or why they're not getting x done (assuming they aren't under unusual circumstances) I have trouble hiding my skepticism.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 03:44 AM
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I was skeptical as well. To be honest, I don't like the kitchen, but I would've been even more upset (although I wouldn't have reacted that way) if that much money was spent on it because that's way more than that kitchen is worth.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/15 08:21 PM
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I was shocked at how many women commented that they would shoot their husband if he got them an appliance for a gift I would be too! I dream about the day that I'll finally get a five burner (with the griddle plate) gas range and double wall ovens. Anything that makes my life, easier, more organized, productive, etc. is ideal. Besides, their understanding of value is way off. Would you rather have something pretty, but the novelty wears off after about a week, or something practical that makes y…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/15 08:18 PM
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The inherent problem in their reasoning lies in the fact that they still see each other as individuals with differing interest that are in competition with one another- this is not my perspective. My relationship is a single unit, with thee same path and goals. It has different parts that perform different functions for the purpose of the unit to function well. It doesn't matter if it's a small part, or a big one. They both matter. Think of it like your hands. You wouldn't call the less dominant…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/15 08:05 PM
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Do you prefer sweet, less so, or anything? There are some pretty stiff ones that I can't handle, but my loves them.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 10:32 PM
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Mint julep, french 75, absinthe suisesse, pimm's cup, st. charles street car...I can't decide. That's not even considering the coffee drinks.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 10:18 PM
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Also, for Asian food, I highly recommend Maangchi, Helen's Recipes, and Cooking with Dog from YouTube.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 05:10 AM
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southernpetite.weebly.com I plan to add another post this week.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 04:44 AM
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I have a blog that I post helpful cooking info (among other things) on. It's still new, so I've only done one on baking so far, but you can follow it if you like.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 05:40 PM
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I'm from Louisiana, so I've got you covered on cocktails!
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 05:37 PM
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NP. Also, I forgot a few things: Putting a quarter-sized divot in hamburgers will prevent it from shrinking When dealing with ground meats (that are to be to grilled or cooked in some other way where it's not cooking in its own juices) mix in some meat with a higher fat content. Most of the excess fat will still drip out, but it will help prevent the meat from getting dry. Slow cooking is the easiest way to get soft, shredded meat. Pineapple juice will also cause meat to soften and fall apart. S…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 04:54 PM
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-My best advice for improvement in cooking meat is to marinate it for multiple days (if it requires marination), and let it get to room temperature before cooking it (also works well with eggs)- this helps with even cooking and prevention of shrinkage and generally tough meat. -When it comes to vegetables, look up basic tutorials on sauteeing, blanching, roasting, and caramelization. -If you're sauteeing multiple vegetables, cook the ones with the highest water content first. The first one is us…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 09:31 PM
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I vote for chocolate lava cake. It's basically just undercooked cake batter, doesn't really require any decoration save for a dust of powdered sugar and maybe a couple berries and mint, and everyone loves it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 09:28 PM
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My mother is not, however, my grandmother (dad's mother) lived near me, and was a constant presence in my life. She fits that list entirely, and made both my and my dad's life hell. She has been divorced three times, is financially irresponsible and expects everyone to take care of her, refused to help anyone in the family in legitimate need when she easily could have (rare, but has happened), is constantly miserable, only speaks to anyone to complain, gossip (to include fabricating stories just…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 09:13 PM
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Love the title.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 07:13 PM
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Not only that, but female on female rape is denied as well. Anything to maintain the halo of innocence, I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 07:12 PM
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I've actually been hearing a lot of feminists making both sex positive and negative statements lately. I don't know if they're spoiled brats that want to change the rules when convenient, or if they're con artists, but it's definitely bizarre.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 07:08 PM
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you don't need to train women into special snowflakery--you have to train them out of it. You're probably correct. It seems that the heart of the issue is that humans, as their baser nature, tend to be controlling and selfish- the only difference being the nuances in how the resulting behavior manifests itself between the sexes if said nature isn't controlled. What has happened is males, generally, are taught not to indulge these instincts, whereas females' potential to behave poorly either go u…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 10:59 PM
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How would you suggest that RPW/female MRAs go about combating the everyday misandry that has seeped into regular society, particularly since the social expectation within female circles is to never criticize, always agree (even if you don't), praise, "uplift", and "support"?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:42 PM
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I agree with this. Women have been and pumped up with so much false compliments, entitlement, and specialsnowflakery for so long (even before the self-esteem movement, which has undoubtedly made it worse) that even civil disagreement and/or constructive criticism results in a toddleresque tantrum of epic proportions.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:24 PM
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Never mind the fact that water is pretty much teal/green in many parts of the world.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:37 AM
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So exciting! I have no idea what to ask her though. 😕
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 04:30 AM
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I don't know about creative, but as a trainer, he would probably love a Ninja, if you don't already have one. The ones with the individual containers is ideal. It runs around $250 at most places where I live, but I managed to get mine for $120 at Costco.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 06:20 PM
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Ok, well in case you didn't already know, since the machine is old, make should you get it oiled (if it's not self-lubricating) and tuned-up before you start working.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 08:55 PM
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Lol! I did not notice that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 04:55 PM
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I'm seriously considering taking a millinery class. It would save me a lot of money.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 04:54 PM
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One thing I think is very important, especially for women, is to learn to not take things personally and not be solipsistic. For one, it helps avoid issues over things that realistically don't have anything to do with you, and it also gives you the opportunity to separate yourself from negative emotions and analyze the situation properly so you can react in an appropriate way.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 04:20 PM
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Fun! How experienced are you?
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 04:10 PM
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That was an interesting article. I learned how to sew early because we didn't have a lot of money, and I have unusual proportions that practically no one caters to, but I'm so glad because I might not have otherwise. I also thought it was funny that the article mentions that people don't really wear hats anymore. I love big hats! (I'm going crazy over one I'm getting for a wedding, lol) They've never really fallen out of fashion where I'm from, but the location is often described as like being i…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 03:57 PM
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Do you use Hoarders as cleaning motivation too?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 07:59 PM
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Someone should have asked her why she should NOT be the one to unload the dishwasher. I'm pretty sure the confusion/lack of answer would have been hilarious.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 07:58 PM
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What I find works best is to have a clear schedule of what's supposed to be done, on what day, and in what order. It helped me get stuff done efficiently and without getting distracted, but prevented me from tiring myself out by trying to do everything in one day. The key is sticking to the schedule, unless there's something random that HAS to be done right away. When I started I followed this schedule: http://stepford-sisters.blogspot.com/2012/09/schedule-for-50s-housewife.html . (Don't be inti…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 07:43 PM
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Pro tip: More often than not, if you tell someone something negative about another person, the person you told is significantly more likely to (accidentally) associate that negative trait with you, rather than the person you were talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 04:25 AM
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Has anyone else noticed the irony that so many women assert that women who stay at home should get a salary, yet here are some who essentially do, and women still can't help but complain?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 01:08 AM
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Part of the problem is that, in addition to those who simply cannot fathom women being happy living this way, there is also a segment of feminists (many have been vocal recently) who admittedly don't care about women's happiness. They have an agenda, and are more than willing to use other women to serve that agenda. They essentially tell the unhappy women to continue down the path of unhappiness because patriarchy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 12:42 AM
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She was supposed to do everything without modern conveniences. When I did the experiment I did it for an entire summer, but I used modern stuff, it mostly because it was mostly about general behavior/maintenance and the general day to day routine as it would apply in my actual life (although I did watch/listen to do a lot of old media, which was fun). You would be amazed at how many women chose to do the experiment, but only for a week, and no cooking, and no behavior modification, and were outr…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 09:48 PM
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Lol! She acts like these women are so oppressed by working in their respective fields. Did it even occur to her that many of these women went to prestigious schools explicitly for the purpose of snagging a high SMV man so that they can live that lifestyle? I thought this was practically a regional sport in rich areas.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 06:59 PM
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The only real hesitation I've seen is from a friend of mine who has a very beautiful ethnic last name and married a man with the last name Smith. I had the same issue- unusual and difficult to pronounce/spell last name to one of the most plain, standard names you can get. At least I don't have to correct people anymore, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 04:20 PM
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Same. I'm from the southeast, obviously. Also, it seems like a lot of the skills for making things yourself (baking, canning, sewing, knitting, carpentry, etc.) were lost very quickly in more urban areas, which definitely has a huge impact on your quality of life/bank account. I thought it was hilarious when I moved to a large city and all the hipsters thought they were so special because they do stuff that "no one else knows how to do".
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 03:41 PM
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I think it might depend on where you live. If you live in a low cost of living area that has higher buying power per dollar, then it's fairly doable, especially if it's a more rural area where you can have a garden and a some livestock. It's also pretty common where I live regardless of socioeconomic background, and far as I understand it, never fell out of fashion, but I can imagine it would not be feasible in places like the northeast (US).
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 03:30 PM
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She pretty much discovers that he doesn't like x food throughout the whole thing. I'm guessing she never cooked enough to find out.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 03:09 PM
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Tbh, I thought a lot of the food sounded bizarre and revolting, but it could be a regional difference for all I know. Also, a man I know told me that back then people tended to have an odd belief that canned fruit/veg were more sanitary/healthy, so they very rarely ate fresh stuff. Other than that, yeah, all the meat and fat didn't bother me. It was mostly her attitude that got me. It seemed like she was coming around once she had finished the experiment, but old habits die hard, I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 03:02 PM
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Yeah. It's kinda sad because my path to RP (though I think I was fairly naturally RP anyway) started with a similar experiment because I had the time and was bored (coincidentally stumbled upon GWW not long after), and it changed my perspective completely. I don't understand how someone can be beaten in the face with the truth, yet still reject it outright.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 03:34 AM
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I gather, but I thought the resources/segments on behavior were interesting and basically all very RP. Funnily enough (or not), I noticed just today that in spite of the fact that the author's relationship improved during the experiment, she seemed to have returned to her previous behavior of not taking care of herself, griping, and badmouthing her husband on her blog, which resulted in him leaving her. So, informational and a cautionary tale!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 02:19 AM
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feminists absolutely shocked at the idea of having sex with your man more than once a year Was that an exaggeration or did someone actually express that? I couldn't imagine only once a year, let alone expecting my husband to put up with it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 11:19 PM
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Work out at least 3 times Perfect skin/hair care routine Call my Dad Spend less time on my phone Read something Get embroidery machine tuned up, and get supplies for work Try making spring rolls Choose my birthday present Write a blog post
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 11:10 PM
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I really hate trashy lingerie as well. I would suggest looking at some of the vintage-style stuff at Trashy Diva (don't let the name throw you off). They carry a lot of items that are classically sexy. A bit expensive, but I don't know what your finances are, and, if you know how to/learn to sew, you could make your own version for much cheaper.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 04:32 PM
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I would not recommend it (I'm an AF veteran that worked intel). The military is very hard on relationships because the hours, physical separation, and high infidelity rates. Also, for intel specifically, a lot of couples fall apart because one of them can't handle not knowing what the other one does for a living. I don't regret my time serving, and I got lucky in that I met my husband on the job, but he's not representative of most of the people I met.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 03:52 PM
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We eloped at the Oak Alley Plantation just outside of New Orleans, I got an nontraditional wrap dress from Diane von Furstenberg, and we had flowers, but as far as the wedding goes, that was it. We spent the rest of the week in New Orleans eating, drinking, listening to music, shopping at nice lingerie and vintage clothing stores, and visiting the local breweries and swamps. It was a pretty fun time
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 08:53 PM
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I think it's BS primarily because of his stated reason for leaving. Yes, it is true that some people want a partner like that, but if the person they're dating doesn't fit the mold, it's basically an "Oops, maybe we should just be friends." They don't keep dating the person for a year. Even, for the sake of argument, if that's how he really felt the whole time, he was being inconsiderate of you because he was wasting your time and using you under the guise of a legitimate relationship. I would d…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/15 01:44 PM
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^ This is probably the most accurate.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 05:09 PM
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I think maybe women were emphasized in the article because A LOT of women won't do these things on principle, as if cooking/cleaning are an affront to feminism; therefore, they don't have to do it anymore. The fact that these are basic life skills is apparently lost on them.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/15 02:35 PM
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I would say that if he flat out doesn't like it, then don't wear it when you're with him. If he doesn't mind it, but doesn't care for all the time, money, effort, etc. spent on it, I suggest maybe sticking a very basic/natural look (a good quality tinted moisturizer, cream-based bush, mascara), and of course, taking very good care of your skin. I suggest looking at some Asian beauty sites because they emphasize this over makeup. As for hair, I've found this channel very useful: https://www.youtu…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/15 02:07 PM
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Ok, good. I agree. I've just been seeing way too many people pushing the idea that beauty is a social construct. I just wanted to make sure everyone was on the same page.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/15 01:59 AM
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I think it would qualify as RP- you're doing what makes him happy, and giving him praise in a way that he values. Saying "I love you" can easily become a meaningless reflex, whereas what you said actually reflects a certain level of thought and an actual acknowledgement of something he did.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/15 06:07 PM
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I got that reaction when I got married (20). It didn't work out, so on the surface it seemed like they were correct, but I still think I was ready- it was my (ex)husband who suddenly decided he wasn't. That said, if you know each other well enough and have the same life goals, you should be ok. I would just ignore the comments because nothing you say will convince people otherwise. It's all comparative/arbitrary anyway- even in the 80s is was still normal to get married at 18.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/15 12:32 AM
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