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You need to be or at least act indifferent Just say it’s all good and move on with your life She’ll most likely spin the block
/r/seduction28/07/26 09:58 AM
1

It’s proven that lense distortion will change how you look For example phone lenses are too small and distorts proportions
/r/seduction24/07/26 10:56 PM
1

This question is probably better suited for a cinematography/photography sub or whatever
/r/seduction24/07/26 10:55 PM
2

Depends entirely how he looks and carries himself
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:46 PM
1

Go for a date chump
/r/seduction22/07/26 12:02 AM
4

I thought we got taught this as kids? Don’t date within your own class… same goes for jobs you blockhead
/r/seduction21/07/26 11:31 PM
2

Once you learn to jump the fence where it’s the lowest It can easily become your way of life
/r/seduction20/07/26 01:40 PM
1

Well it entirely depends on wether you’re good looking or not ✌️✌️✌️
/r/seduction15/07/26 10:53 PM
3

Just shoot your game, and then she either bites or she doesn’t
/r/seduction14/07/26 01:58 PM
1

bet this dude is a Brazilian
/r/seduction27/08/25 11:31 PM
2

fuck it yeah, for the development ay
/r/seduction26/08/25 08:31 PM
11

whatever you do, just know she'll also cheat on you, if you decide to make more of this
/r/seduction26/08/25 07:47 PM
4

why would you do that? just why? casual sex? ehhh I see the vision but like
/r/seduction23/08/25 07:04 PM
3

if a woman likes you, she will make it easy for you this is not what you would categorize as “easy”
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:44 PM
2

exactly
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:44 PM
1

“what are you going to do about it?”
/r/seduction07/08/25 09:52 PM
23

uhhh condoms?
/r/seduction27/07/25 03:09 PM
2

scoring and getting into a relationship is two different worlds
/r/seduction25/07/25 07:55 AM
5

don't
/r/seduction25/07/25 06:34 AM
2

what?
/r/seduction24/07/25 12:21 PM
21

Godspeed soldier
/r/seduction23/07/25 10:24 PM
64

Well then there's your answer, I don't see a problem being with a 6 then. If that's your “range”, we all have to settle at some degree if we want a relationship
/r/seduction23/07/25 10:17 PM
111

maybe you aren't as good looking as you like to think…
/r/seduction23/07/25 10:14 PM
7

well dating apps is the equivalent of dumpster diving don't expect to find gold…
/r/seduction23/07/25 09:40 AM
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only use texting to set up dates and for what to do? just do nothing. if she isn't replying, move onto someone else or stop caring. texting isn't real life.
/r/seduction22/07/25 11:44 PM
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uhm what?
/r/seduction17/07/25 10:05 AM
1

ay man whatever rocks one's boat eh
/r/seduction16/07/25 05:35 PM
1

bar and clubs are great for finding low quality women
/r/seduction16/07/25 05:03 PM
1

We had our second date today, it went good, but I'm still a bit in question. Took a small walk and then we went to this cafe that had like shit ton of board games, we played for about 2 hours, where she bought both of us a drink each, and then went to eat dinner. Nice Italian place and she even paid for both our plates without saying anything, as i had just gone to the toilet while she had to check her train departures (23:00). Maybe she wanted to pay me back from the first date, because I paid …
/r/seduction15/07/25 11:47 PM
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an actual relationship, not just empty sex
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:10 PM
7

😭😭😭
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:15 PM
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I think both of you are overreacting, stupid to create problems due to a piece of gum. Yes she overreacted, but you then doing something to get back at her for something so minor just seems not worth the drama. You did the correct thing of just brushing off her overreacting, but then IMO just leave it at that. Choose your battles wisely
/r/seduction07/07/25 11:48 AM
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It’s funny how every “Chad” has a good and funny personality… I wonder why 🤔
/r/seduction04/07/25 11:47 AM
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Well yeah, you're right, I've become better at it over time. But sometimes I fall through, and luckily this is the first time in a very long time I've done something stupid like this. Only problem is she haven't responded since Friday, but I know she also had stuff to do this weekend. And yeah thank you, normally I would also respond like she suggested. But the ghosting afterwards for some reason got to me, not an excuse but had some rough weeks leading up. Anyways, we live and we learn eh
/r/seduction29/06/25 09:20 PM
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At first I sent the message you told me to send, with nothing more. To sum it up she said that, she's really mad at me for originally saying the thing about perhaps we should stop talking. And again said that if I don't want to talk to her, I shouldn't do it. And that she's also dealing with other things right now. In short what I replied to that was basically just rephrasing what you said. That I understand, and that I own my mistake and I took things too far. Nothing asking her if she's still …
/r/seduction28/06/25 11:05 AM
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I did what you said, but she still seems mad and is airing me. She isn't saying she doesn't want to talk anymore, but she's mad at me for saying the part about maybe it was better if we didn't talk anymore. Because if I truly don't want to, I don't have to. I've tried to explain to her that I didn't mean it as so, and it’s my fault for taking it too far. This was around 3pm yesterday, and then she is currently airing me. Not left on read, just delivered. How long should I wait?
/r/seduction28/06/25 06:46 AM
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You suggest I tell her I was just messing with her yesterday? Or what is that last sentence?
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:22 AM
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And I agree, that's why I told her to just forget it, and I'm now going to leave it at that. Got date set up with a different girl next week, so I'm just looking forward to that one
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:06 PM
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We had another date next week. But that is currently out the window, I’m going away unless she hits back. But besides that I've already got a different date ready. This other girl in the middle of this asked to see me, so it ain't that bad. I'm just going to hang out with her instead then, and then see what happens
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:44 PM
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I do think she meant it as a joke, as she also said during the conversation. But what I react on is the ghosting following a joke like that, and I agree it's toxic behavior which is why I didn't accept it. And is now going away from her, now we see if she comes back, but either way I have a new date setup next week with another girl so I'm not stressing about it too much now
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:30 PM
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I will agree I didn't handle it the usual way I do this time. But I still think me putting a line in the sand now leaving her to be I her own weird whatever she wants to do, isn't that bad too. Because this is far from the first weird behavior she's shown, where other times I've just brushed it off.
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:27 PM
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I think I'm just going to remove my attention and not talk to her, we've tried this before in an argument she started where I wasn't having it. So I simply stopped talking to her, some days later she came back being all sweet trying to make it up to me. And I'm 99% sure it’s going to happen this time again
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:25 PM
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Yeah I'm moving on, that’s why I didn't bother at the end when she didn't see my perspective. And I told her to just forget it. Anyways I already got a date set up next week with a seemingly nice girl, so just looking forward to that now
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:23 PM
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I usually do this, when she says something like that, happened plenty of times. But this time she proceeds to ghost me for the night, instead of continuing the joke. And that's what I react upon, on top of her on-off behavior recently. But I hear what you’re saying
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:10 PM
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it's one and the same thing, you just poke light fun at them and take it and add to it as it flows
/r/seduction26/06/25 07:15 PM
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Depends what age he's at, in his early 20's? Sure he might look just fine. But over 30? Seems to be quite easy to go on dates. But the bottom-line still stands, if he was a 10/10 nobody would reject him on first date unless he was acting like a moron (which I doubt he does)
/r/seduction26/06/25 02:33 PM
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i bet there would be plenty of "spark" if you looked like brad pitt...
/r/seduction26/06/25 02:28 PM
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well flirting is partly joking around
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:40 PM
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follow rules 1 & 2 for dating….
/r/seduction22/06/25 07:11 AM
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The classic blunder Try and go on dates and actively avoid sexual intimacy and just try and enjoy the person and conversations you're having It might sounds strange, but perhaps put a minimum limit on how many dates you go on before engaging sexually? Like some girls want’s at least 5-6 dates so they know you're not just there to hit. It’s all about mindset. And seem to also have been engaging in girls who’s had the same mindset regarding sex. Best of luck
/r/seduction20/06/25 09:43 AM
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We’re waiting that long because she has to exams period and some travel with her family. So either way texting nonstop every day is going to get stale, just another reason to just pull the plug for a second, I'm not interested in having to text someone 24/7…
/r/seduction20/06/25 05:56 AM
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Again as I mention in other responses in the comments. This comes off the back of her being more distant, longer response times and also ignoring me a bit. So I genuinely didn't want to text for a bit, I don't do this because I want to, but because I also have to remember respect myself.
/r/seduction19/06/25 09:48 PM
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I don't do this out of nothing and I don't do it regularly either, this comes from a week or two of her taking longer and longer to reply and slight ghosting. So I genuinely didn't want to text for a bit.
/r/seduction19/06/25 09:44 PM
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Thanks for great response. I just want to point out, that a big part of the reason for me ghosting a bit, was due to her response time for a week or so was lackluster. So I genuinely didn't really want to talk when I had to wait 10+ hours for a response, even though the response was and is engaging. And as you mention, we know each others “texting schedules” by now. So I saw a pattern and acted upon it. I usually don't play games as I also hate them, but I felt like I was giving too much for wha…
/r/seduction19/06/25 09:32 PM
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please say this is satire 😭
/r/seduction02/05/25 11:20 AM
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looks is like 90% of dating ngl
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:07 PM
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where the hell did you get that notion?
/r/seduction19/04/25 09:15 AM
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personally, I would lose all interest
/r/seduction17/04/25 06:26 PM
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you don't
/r/seduction16/04/25 06:51 PM
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it’s perfectly fine to feel your emotions, but you have to learn to control them and not act stupidly upon them
/r/seduction14/04/25 06:56 AM
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I think my problem is being too self-aware, deriving from prolonged isolation of social circles. But I guess we all have our struggles, knowingly or not
/r/seduction26/03/25 12:03 AM
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Fair, godspeed you seem genuine enough
/r/seduction13/03/25 03:57 PM
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I don't like lies either, and lying about it to get a into a LTR is probably what most men fear about it, if they have the same views on it as we both do. And vice versa with men potentially lying about it to get into a LTR with a woman
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:54 AM
2

Ehhh personally speaking I wouldn't be with somebody if they had been around. But let me flip the question, why wouldn't they lie in a study? Even less of a chance of finding out the real answer in that scenario than with a romantic interest
/r/seduction12/03/25 09:11 PM
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Speaking from experience, most women lie (lower) their body count
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:27 PM
31

Nope. I show the basic respect of whoever I'm dating and only date one person at a time. Treat people like you would like to be treated.
/r/seduction06/03/25 01:08 PM
26

If a woman is actually interested, you won’t be in doubt…
/r/seduction03/03/25 11:21 AM
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just ignore them
/r/seduction23/02/25 12:24 PM
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+1
/r/seduction23/02/25 12:58 AM
0

you think 80% of girls is on dating apps??? Oh brother…
/r/seduction22/02/25 12:48 PM
0

The trick is, you don't…
/r/seduction22/02/25 12:17 PM
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Yes, the man always has to carry. But some girls will make it very easy and straightforward, if they're interested enough, they will break all norms. Having experienced it myself, you will not be in doubt if a girl really likes you
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:44 PM
10

From my experience, if she isn't already a bit interested, there's not much you can do. Attraction can't just be forced
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:33 PM
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If a girl is interested, you barely need any game, they will make it easy
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:24 PM
2

Might fuck around and accept the things I can't change
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:42 PM
22

Nice change for once
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:45 PM
80

See you in the gym buddy… If she starts accusing you without reason, it’s 9/10 times self-projection, good luck soldier
/r/seduction18/02/25 12:11 PM
3

Yeah sounds great, just one problem, how tf u even get into one
/r/seduction18/02/25 11:48 AM
3

I'm going to say this in the most polite way possible, grow the fuck up and get off Snapchat…
/r/seduction16/02/25 08:51 PM
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Distance yourself
/r/seduction05/01/25 04:02 PM
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