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Sorry for the late reply: It ain't stupid. I'm glad that you're in our community, and I hope you'll enjoy it ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:23 PM
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Share this with your friends, your daughter, every woman you know. For those that never saw it, it's so striking. Ana Bey did a similar version but with money too. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YvjvOWpTINg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:31 AM
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I suggest r/wgtow then :) Glad that you are choosing what's best for you, and carry on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 12:22 AM
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But excessive matsurbation does. And porn induces excessive matsurbation and ridiculous expectations for women hence porn induces ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:22 PM
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Yeah, women want to be ravaged but not by a limp dick that's porn-induced/s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:26 PM
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Oopsie I forgot! Must remind her that nothing will come so that she's double hurt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:46 AM
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God that tastes SOUR. Why would a man forget so much?? Setting up a calendar alert isn't that hard, takes me 15-30 seconds, maybe 1 min if I want to make it all customised... there's NO excuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:15 AM
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That's a dom thing, they expect the submissives to call them with caps. (Which I find a bit ridiculous let's be honest)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:19 AM
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I'm choking, I can't EVEN LOL Well done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:21 PM
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There was someone that replied with her BF's art of her, and it was her body, minus head, arms and legs... Are we truly that for men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:16 AM
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There's always a start for everything, and we don't think of everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:09 AM
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r/wgtow is there for those that don't date anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:12 PM
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To add to this, sending some apparently emotionnal (compliments, their personal feelings) texts in one single biggish paragraph as a opener = HIGH PROBABILITY they're sending this to lots of women! And it's on all OLD platforms, not only fetlife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:10 AM
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"Deserve" implies entitlement to someone. You can't say that you're owed a HVM, but you can say that you're worthy of a HVM.. If a man rejects you, or doesn't acts interested towards you, instead of readjusting your stantards for lower and accepting scum/unattractive ppl as BFs, just move on and keep searching for a man that's decent and that corresponds to your stantards. You deserve to be appreciated as a person and respected as a person, and if he can't do that, well, you're better off single…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:48 AM
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BANG BANG BANG BOOM WE GOT A NEW QUEEN ❤ Carry on, darling, and also, r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy might help you for a few things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:47 AM
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Too Hot to Handle might strike a few chords for you, but doesn't strikes all of them. It was fun to analyze from a FDS viewpoint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:46 AM
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oooh AWESOME! Hope it goes y fine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:45 AM
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Same: I abandoned so many hobbies because I didn't want to be juged by a ex (or I was being mocked), and I'v taken so many uninteresting hobbies because I wanted to gain my exe's approval. Feels so good to get rid of those unloved hobbies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:44 AM
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He started off with two 5yr relationships then did only short relationships afterwards 🕵️‍♀️ and EIGHT relationships ... Ain't those red flags?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:50 PM
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Eh, maybe it's just me but I couldn't bear sleeping in the same sheets as my ex did sleep in. I don't want to be contaminated by his dumbfuckness. (Maybe throw away the sheets) but throw away the BF def!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:55 AM
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Lordy that's a big unbalance but yeah, that could count! I initially thought of THAT rusted and noisy corolla that smells like cat piss when I wrote up this bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:48 AM
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The_fuck.jpg He's in love with his dick 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:44 AM
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😭😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:02 PM
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Bad diet, smoking, NO exercise habits, not enough water, too much salt, too much meat, drug use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:26 PM
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You're welcome! Gosh the dick size complexes gave me so many headarches. And WHEN HE ASKS FOR THE EXE'S DICK SIZE ☠️ Nothing good will come out of this LMFAO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:17 PM
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u/butterfree_zhuangzi u/anotherface95 There's the FUCKBOY version :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:07 PM
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Be more critical of him. And why aren't you with a man you're fancying? And oof, why isn't he taking you on dates? Dates doesn't have to be costly, it's the intention and effort behind that counts more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:00 PM
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Listening to audiobooks and to you is better than NOT reading at all. And that's kinda expected so few meet those simple stantards. They're not that hard to attain!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:18 PM
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Which ones he doesn't has?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:03 PM
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He wiped makeup off your face?? Oh my, that's a first for me. And I'm happy he's a EX. Carry on being a Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:54 PM
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He doesn't dangles a carrot in front of you to make you move, like a fooled donkey. Example: "I'll marry you, I promise" but the engagement never comes and you stay in the relationship hoping for a ring and more commitment. Another example: "I understand and I'll make changes, I'll do X and Y" when you argue. And he doesn't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:48 AM
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You could include the emotionnal debt too, I thought of money debt when I did this bingo. As other said, student loan is different from CC debt (uh oh he overspent?? He budgets really badly), and is more of a investment for his future than a vulgar debt. For family, as long as he's mentally stable and happy, protects you 100% from his family's abuse or has a backbone and doesn't tolerates abuse spewed at him, it's okay. You should NOT have to deal with his family's shitiness. It's also okay if y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:45 AM
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If he's heavily under CC debt it would be a red flag. If it's student loan debt, he should strive to pay it off asap. It's basically him paying for his future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:39 AM
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I'll tag ya ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:40 AM
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For the brother issues, they're not your issues. That's where the backbone enters the game: he deals with his shit and does everything to minimize shit family impacts on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:37 AM
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Exactly all this! The remembering details about you is so important to me too. Also, the gut feeling is minimized and mocked away so much that some women don't even react to their gut. The book Gift of Fear is a good one about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:32 AM
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I'll post one tomorrow :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:46 AM
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HVM are rarer but they do exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:38 PM
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Oops, forgot it but it's def important!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:31 PM
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You're welcome 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:47 PM
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Eeeeeeh that SUCKS. I first started by doing a burn list: all the awful shit he did, said, thought, gave, etc. If you feel weak and want to come back to him (eh it happened to me!), Read this list. You're better off NOT with him. Once that's done (yeah it can be long and hard to do), clean up your room/apartment, trash away the things that remind you of him. If you can't trash some things away, stash them in a discreet box (shoebox will be fine) and hide them.away from sight. Your life is yours …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:19 AM
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I'll use that, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 06:59 PM
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How about 0$ in the jar, I don't have sex with an awful man that does that, and I spend my birthday with better people than you? Boy byeeee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:06 AM
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You should judge the man strictly regardless of careers, but mil and police should def be avoided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:01 AM
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I would tell the wife. That's like cheating what he's doing. He's the asshole in this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:21 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/flair_guide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:19 PM
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Don't share your contact info whatsoever, no names, etc. Keep personal info to a minimum. I'd suggest that the reporter contacts the mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:15 PM
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Men that spend ridiculously too much compared to their means (either it's money they already stashed aside, family money or, often, they're simply not budget conscious and are racking up CC debt.). That wouldn't be a red flag outright but you should be suspicious. He might have investments or real estate that provide him with passive income, but as always, analyze, analyze, analyze how he's acting with his money. Men that spend LOTS for themselves but won't spend much for you. They aren't happy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:06 PM
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Exactly, that's why I didn't say they were red flags. Some jobs can be total red flags, other jobs should rise suspicion on the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:46 PM
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Yes, red flag. If he's going into marine, besides the abuse/omerta thing, he'd have to move a LOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:15 AM
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You're right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:17 AM
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Military, police, positions of power. If you're abused by them, omerta will keep you from fair justice. Even if he's the sweetest boy ever, you never know. "Entrepreneurs" that don't have any tangible stuff to show it. Or that are all talk no show. Men that have a weird relationship with money, and avoid men with lots of branded clothes or flashy stuff or fake stuff. With artistic career men (writer, painter, sculptor, etc) the money influx is not stable, and there's no guarantee they'll have a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:55 AM
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Either pickmes or women milking men for their money by putting on a persona.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:42 AM
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I've noticed that men use Covid now as main conversation starters, and I'm finding this... Annoying. I'm already bombarded with information by the medias and my family, so I don't need more than what I already had. Do you ladies just unmatch or you ask to switch topics?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:36 AM
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Act like they're crazy or act like they're a stranger, simply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:24 PM
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Good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:20 AM
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Click on my username.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:46 PM
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I did update the meme, sorry for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:34 PM
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You can do it! Check r/femalelevelupstrategy for stuff to work on ♥️🐸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:30 PM
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👏👏👏👏👏 I'm proud of you for not kneeling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:28 PM
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Block him, flush him. Not a word said. You don't talk to trash. Being dry in the case of an abusive ex is encouraged if ever you want to say some final words. "You suck, bye" is a good start. But it's better to say nothing and BLOCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:26 PM
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QUICK NOTE: THIS IS THE UPDATED VERSION! (See post history)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:11 PM
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I'll repost it then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:08 PM
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Apathy is what kills men. Be silent, be minimal towards him. And read the handbook please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:16 AM
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They don't realize that they have ONE person they'll be with all their lives: themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:04 AM
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Oh you're right, I'll do another version w/ black! Template w/black + asian! Updated meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:23 AM
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Beautiful you and beautiful dress! Glad you took the big step and I'm proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 08:51 PM
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For the workout aspect, there's r/bodyweightfitness that's a great resource if you have no material. Else, you can use cans or bottles as dumbbells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:54 AM
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Read the handbook. Helped me have a clear mind in difficult times. Avoid drink dates all together. They influence your judgement and you cant judge objectively the man. A glass of vino after the child is sleeping, alone, is fine. Self-care isn't just baths and creams: it is taking care of yourself financially, taking some micro-breaks in the chaos of daily life etc. Consistency is key in making new habits, esp healthy ones. I recommend that you read "The Slight Edge" (there's audiobooks versions…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:17 AM
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I do second writing a list of pros-cons and the stupid shit he did to you. Be ruthless. If ever you want to get back to him, read this letter FIRST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:15 PM
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Had depression since I was 16 years old, and I think I can officially say I ended my depression at age 22-23. (I'm 24 now.) I did therapy with supervised psy student at my university. It was cheaper but it was still very good! It did help a lot, but I wasn't prepared for the homework to do. 50% of therapy's success is doing your work (opening up, analysis, doing the self-reflection, the homework). Therapy shouldn't be the sole tool in battling depression (else it would be useless. Did that mista…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:44 PM
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I would never ever circumcise my baby if ever I have one (I don't want a child). Even if the father wants so. I feel that's cruelty and an useless operation. You remove the bodily autonomy of your child doing so, and if ever the child wants to be circumcised, he can do it at a later age, and he will take better care of it than you, as parents (the diaper is full of shit and pee... not good near a open wound!). I've seen so many circumcised men anger toward their parents because they feel they lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 05:39 PM
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This one would be an excellent addition: https://redd.it/ffkux4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 01:50 AM
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Plastic surgery requires upkeep, and like after several years (depends on the implant) it may require replacement. I'd advise to plan a emergency fund on top of the surgery cost, if ever you have to replace it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:17 PM
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Boobs are boobs. And YES it is negging. Guys are happy to see a naked woman and he dares to criticize your boobs?? He's shit, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:59 PM
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Yo, why you're still letting him vampire your mental energy? You gain nothing from learning the most recent stuff about him, and you're not anymore with him. Don't torture yourself. Read the handbook (via the wiki ;) ), take some time to like... Recenter your life AROUND YOU. If he cheated, sorry sis, he's trash. An HVM won't cheat on you because he has self-control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:24 AM
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Choo choo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:09 PM
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The insurance prices say otherwise. (For those wondering, car insurance rates for young males >>> young females)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 08:49 PM
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Refuse and suggest a public meeting place like a coffee shop. Def him inviting at his house and talking about marriage are red flags. You don't need to be in a stressful situation so early in the courtship. Refuse for your own sake, not your parents' honor or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:07 PM
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I may add that trucks block the view a LOT. And we can't see the driver's because the trucks are so high. Yeah, probably for not facing the people they offend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:54 PM
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If it's a "maybe" it's a NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:33 PM
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Pay your ticket, else you're out! And the train will carry on even if you didn't have your ticket!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:39 PM
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Go check the FDS wiki. All the lingo is explained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:25 PM
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Why you're being dick-hypotized? Don't be a side girl, just get out of this relationship. The mental torture you're going through isn't worth a good dick. Dicks are abundant. Think about yourself FIRST. Dont think about his feelings, THINK ABOUT YOUR OWN FEELINGS FIRST. I'd suggest to make a slow read of the handbook and analyse the relationship from a objective viewpoint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:53 PM
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Yo, the 1950s called, they want their Pickelle back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:44 PM
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I'm a moderator of the discord server, and you can't see the verified members. But I def second camouflaging your id wherever you are. Only unverified people and mods are visible if you're unverified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:45 PM
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I'm a moderator of the discord server, and you can't see the verified members. But I def second camouflaging your id wherever you are. Only unverified people and mods are visible if you're unverified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:45 PM
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The sole mod quit without nominating a replacement, and she tried to solve it, to no success.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:00 PM
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Aren't males to be banned on sight? The very first thing in the rules...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:27 PM
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🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:09 PM
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It took me one year to truly feel that I've moved on, to feel that I've forgotten him a bit. Give yourself some time to just focus on yourself. He shouldn't be in your mind, vampiring your energy when you'll be ready to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:42 AM
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One suggestion I have is to make a Meme Friday, and ban plain memes and basic text pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:40 PM
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There's surely some stuff like ultimate frisbee that seems to attract a lot of guys, CrossFit, and maybe maybe walking clubs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:29 PM
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Delete his number, delete everything about him. No temptation if there's no cookies around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:22 PM
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I feel that if you want to have a fit partner, he'd seek out a fit partner too. If you feel that you want a gourmet foodie, he'd want a woman that's not picky etc. But that's a very gross simplification to mark my point. Be what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:21 PM
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Wear ugly ass grandma panties for extra layer of protection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:18 PM
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I've tried this, three times. Doesn't works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:35 AM
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It's entirely up to you: looks are important in society, but looks shouldn't be your whole identity. If you want advice on how to improve your looks: r/vindicta
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:35 AM
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You didn't end up with them: you chose them. Keep your stantards up, be patient, work on yourself (there's always something to work on), be happy, be also happy single. If a HVM (up to your stantards obvs!) shows up, you're fully ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:10 AM
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Quickly quickly, I'd say some natural makeup that definitively enhances what you already have. (I'm not talking about the very very contoured face look). Else, I second someone's recommendation to check out Vindicta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:32 PM
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Et même s'il parle français, il a fait une erreur basique 😂 run run runnnn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:53 PM
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There's this sister subreddit: r/femalelevelupstrategy. And congratulations for overriding this habit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:23 PM
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I'm very grateful for this community and I hope for some more male tears to come. The Wall St Journal article helped us grow even more and give us even more legimity. There's surely more new articles to come in the future and MORE QUEENS to come too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:37 PM
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If he shows a tendency of being low-effort, red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:27 PM
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Dump your Valentine, call your Galentine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:07 PM
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I've experienced lots of vaginal pains and started to refuse sex a lot because of this pain, until I broke up with my most recent ex (reasons unrelated to sex). I've noticed that I had intensive sadness and chest tightness everytime I went at his home for the weekend. Both those things didn't happen since I've broken up with my ex. I didn't have trouble having sex with other partners!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:15 AM
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I feel that bringing a painting of a decreased dog itsnt very appropriate for Valentine's Day? It feels negative, albeit thoughtful, and in my mind, it goes against the spirit of Valentine's Day, which is a celebration of love and life. You're bringing him your presence as a gift,aybe bring some stuff to share and have a good time together. Some good wine, chocolate, etc. A card is a good idea too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:35 AM
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There has been some trouble, and now it has been solved! Come back and ask for verification 😊 (Signed: one of the discord's mods)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:58 AM
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Simply disgusting and I'm so sorry for those that will be subjected to even more torture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:15 AM
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And some males list their occupation as being doctors, but they say they're medical students. The fuckitty?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 03:49 PM
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Discord app on cellphone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 01:21 AM
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If I go on a date, I analyze the photos for some obvious clues about their interests, so if conversation goes dry, I have some new conversation starters. But you shouldn't be the one leading the conversation, all the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:01 AM
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I second this, it's kinda ridiculous to get drunk and feel like shit to start the new year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:20 PM
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There's brigaders that downvote automatically FDS posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 10:19 PM
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I've been in the BDSM world for a year and half. Lots of people are secretly mentally broken. Subs and Dom's alike. Play - after-care is very very weird if you really think about it. The men in BDSM are very often disrespectful. Lots of liars, lots of people that objectify you even before the play. I've had several Dom's lying about their age (I had a upper limit), and several Doms hiding the fact they're fathers (I don't like children at all, and they're NOT my responsibility, and if ever it we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 12:28 AM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 01:19 PM
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Sadly so. I'd love a partner that would cuddle me after sex, or converse or something that's being shared between the two. This pic shows a attitude like "I just want to play some games alone, I've come, lemme rest dammit"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:56 AM
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EXACTLY!!! I was wondering if there were the wrong pic Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 12:54 PM
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Or fingering too. I don't like much cunilingus but LOVE fingering. That's like 10x easier than cunilingus... And if the man says it's tiring... Thank you, next. And if he doesn't listen to you refusing something, that's a EASY RED FLAG! I've been facefucked against my will, and it's not part of healthy intercourse. I've been forced to give BJs, been forced to have sex, been forced to kiss too. I prefer kisses on cheeks or lil pecks, and if my partner REFUSES that, 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:20 AM
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I am!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:54 AM
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"But muh balls." Seriously one man I've talked to answered that. He was supposed to be childfree on top of that. Nah. Lots of men are more protective of their ball's integrity than their GF/wife happiness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:59 PM
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STAY AWAY FROM MEN (And as a warning, I do totally agree with this woman's message)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:24 PM
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Probably has to do with grinding and fluids travelling everywhere. Especially if the lady is horny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:55 AM
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Bunnies get with bunnies, elephants get with elephants. (Reference to karmasutra book) Only you can find your own goldicock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:54 AM
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Make it so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:35 PM
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Kinda self-conceited, blowing something to big dimensions. After her marriage, what happens? There's this big summum and afterwards it's gonna fall flat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 12:18 PM
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I would move, if you really like this guy, but to still have separate finances and homes. This way he doesn't becomes too comfortable with you, you always have something to fall back on (job, separate finances and separate homes). The advantage with big cities is that there's more job opportunities, and more people to date if ever it were to fail (let's hope it stays as good as it is! But it's good to take precautions)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:18 PM
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Hell no. Fucking no. No boundaries, the man is downright immature. She tried to address the problem, he ignores it. Just reading this inspired me to light a fucking scented candle right now. Hell NO. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 08:46 PM
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I really do like this, and I've subscribed to her. If you're feeling revengeful or want a good laugh, go on r/preyingmantis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 05:30 PM
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Ok, go to r/nosleep please. Couldn't even finish to read this post, have pity of me and my poor eyes that had to witness this abdomination of a man you describe. Edit: forced myself to finish reading, and oh that's better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 07:27 PM
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Even if I miraculously pulled a career out of my ass, I am still disabled and still have two kids from a previous marriage to a loser. So what? Cherish the kiddos, and I advise you to not value yourself low because of your disability. Myself I have a sensorial disability. I am not a total loss though: good-looking, well-dressed, I can cook wonderfully, I'm intelligent, I have multiple creative hobbies, etc. That's what you should put in front. Being uncomfortable with your defaults makes them mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:09 PM
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Honestly, I really feared for the woman in question and INSTANTLY HATED this lesser-than-bull-shit-tier guy. Honestly, this guy doesn't have a conscience?? Is he going to bed thinking "oh shit, what have I done?"???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:31 PM
4

Exactly what I did, it was pretty much mild. And I constantly bought new cute panties too, that was a plus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 08:24 PM
6

600$ for one hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 08:23 PM
10

I thought the amount of money he offered was quite too low, and honestly I would never do this line of work. I was quite close of that, selling panties to pay for university but, never sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:50 PM
14

The worst is that he already paid for hookers, and high-class escorts "but nothing compares to [me]". One side, I'm flattered, other side, I hate that he classifies me in the same category as sexworkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:36 PM
14

A nice sofa, flowers, a fleece cover and some goddamn good drink, AND ALONE, that's my retirement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:55 PM
21

Exactly. Tinder dates should stay more for non-kinky, vanilla stuff. Kinda for letting the hornyness outta your system. But like, as a last final solution. People get naked with complete strangers, at their most vulnerable state ever, and do the most intimate thing they can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 10:05 AM
20

Not any way to 100% assure that someone is safe to be with...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 09:20 AM
7

He shut the door on my face and then I knocked. His roommate let me in. I repeatedly said “please, talk to me.” He responded “I don’t give a fuck. Get out.” He then grabbed me hard and threw me on the cold pavement, shutting the door on me. That's coming as desperate, and to me it's not a great look, either on men and women. You told earlier that you were drunk, and drunkenness brings out desperation from people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:24 AM
3

Bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:17 AM
11

Next time, drink less. It affects your capacity to make good judgements. I am not saying to stop drinking, but drink to taste the beverage. If you're too broke for good stuff, forget alcohol. And that was creepy from you, literally chasing him to his apartment. Calm down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:14 AM
3

She is GODDAMN hot... He can go suck a cock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:04 PM
3

I never really imagined there were so many ways to fuck up a person... Too many responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 02:07 AM
3

....amputated?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 10:02 PM
2

Honestly after reading this thread I told to myself "Guess I'll never date then!" There are some good guys in all professions but let's be always careful, whatever the job is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 12:30 AM
4

You're absolutely right about the lack of effort mirroring the relationship dynamics, all I see right there is porn brain kinda. Lack of effort in texting, trying to get the pussy lazily etc. Seriously, I refuse to carry on with people that are like that or do lots of spelling mistakes etc. Turn off, and kinda a indicator of how a man is. Would definitely prefer a man that wrote well, eloquently, and did very few mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 03:47 AM
3

Some might say it's a waste of time, others say it's good if you need sex to go forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 03:37 AM
6

You have no fixed lifescript to follow. Myself I never ever want children, and am not interested in marriage and domestic life itself. Be yourself, and very importantly, be YOU. Do what feels best to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 03:05 AM
4

Thats a good idea to do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 02:59 AM
2

Reading for me helps me reflect on things, slowly. There's not any pressure to perform really, in reading! Somewhat a meditation. And have a wonderful trip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:16 PM
7

I think it's simply learning about yourself, being able to live alone, to know yourself. Take hobbies, change for a routine that's for YOU. I also suggest to read on anything (newspapers, novels, non-fiction stuff) it helps you know more about what you need, what you are etc. Consciously our not. You know better what you want, then you can be more assertive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 01:07 PM
1

Yet that's how you get attention from a woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:12 PM
3

I get it and thank you!! 👌👌👌👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:33 AM
1

Thank you dear 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:32 AM
1

Sorry, but what's "dropping my zero"? Not a native speaker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 11:51 PM
11

Ugh, wouldnt even think of sucking dick on a simple headache... Would NOT ever suck dick if I were sick of.a grave sickness. Men that are celibate could do self-sucking if they need it THAT much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 11:40 PM
3

No, they are capitains of the Concordia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 09:34 PM
10

Fuck was my first English word, even before "cat" and "apple". Must kinda confirm this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 04:24 PM
10

My actual reaction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:44 AM
9

Mostly, be a goddess for YOUSELF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:38 AM
5

I did the mistake to date two men that were insecure about their dick size. Man 1 was my first time and was well endowed. He constantly asked me questions about his dick. It was annoying: "can't you stop talking about your dick, I said it was fine, it is actually fine goddamit". Didn't pester me anymore because I was assertive. Man 2 was a virgin, and lost his virginity with me. Did pester me with his dick size. I told him what I knew about dick sizes, and stuff around this. Said that his dick i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:35 AM
15

"properly explain to those women" ugh, can't you leave people alone? Stinks of something something... Pedantic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:04 AM
7

But did they even communicate? I kinda have this feeling that this couple doesn't even have talks, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:54 AM
17

God, I actually laughted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 11:43 PM
3

The morning I wash my face with water, then tone with the remaining morning tea I took at breakfast. After washing, I use a little bit of cream on my face (contain moisturizer, and mild sunblock), with massage movement on my face. Add Burtbee's mascara, some rouge on lips, slap lightly my face. If I feel my forefront is greasy during the day, I use some tea to remove the grease and inhibit grease production. It's important to me, since I have bangs and bangs get greasy FAST. The evening, I take …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:41 PM
3

To add to this, I definitively recommend to watch the K-12 movie-musical-visual if you like Melanie Martinez! Before watching, prepare a tea/coffee/your usual poison and biscuits, and be cozy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:25 PM
5

You mark a point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 12:07 AM
3

I'm exactly in the same situation as you; I am not looking for dates and am planning to finish my life alone or with a female companion (either sapphic or platonic), and animals. I've been hurt too many times and enough is enough. And yes I agree, the empowerment is incredible here. Women are taught from childhood to be helpless, be easily manipulated, and we're here to reverse that and know what we are and what we are worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 11:45 PM
7

I really like what you wrote here! But I have a question, what dis your mother mean by staying busy, and why? I'm curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 09:26 PM
19

Then Ali's secret was to be assertive basically?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:20 PM
6

On top of that, it's not a long-term work. Shoulders will start to hurt, you won't want anymore to suck or give handjobs. I recommend to take classes. If you want, you can ask the desired school if it's possible to do a diploma longer than the usual 3 years, so you can work at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:06 PM
12

That was exactly my problem with MGTOW. The true MGTOW to me is staying single, working with oneself, not being enslaved by the woes of dating (dating is hard for both sexes!) And giving to others. Now it's a cesspool of "woman did that, me not happy" or "why womeeenenenneneee"... Ain't really "going your own way", dude. Yes I saw some posts of dudes being happy, and I'm glad for them. But I'm talking of the majority of the filth in this subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 06:05 PM
26

"not emotional"... Yet they cry and scream to us here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 05:01 PM
9

Respect to you women. You do a gigantic and fantastic work!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 04:05 PM
18

I think this subreddit is completely different of their philosophies and they try to diminish us by mocking us. Why can't we be equal and have something out of a relationship? Why should we lose out hobbies, personality and character when were in a relationship? Myself I lost myself because I absolutely wanted to please my ex-BF, but not anymore. I now have hobbies, a life, and am saying things my ex wouldn't "approve". Now I don't give a fuck, and am living my best life. And now I stumbled upon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:53 PM
0

But I can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 01:54 PM
21

Reading this was almost like watching two massive locomotives almost colliding. God, girl. You did the right choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 01:47 PM
1

I'd prefer the company of a animal instead of the company of a child that happens to be 30 yrs old lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 01:45 PM
10

I think this is downright lamentable from him. It's kinda this Surprised Pikachu meme right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 12:55 AM
8

I'm speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 03:48 AM
14

Fun fact: I worked at a mixed gym, and men's lockers were SWEATY STINKY and women's lockers smelled so fuckin nice. We used special detergent to clean lockers and yet smells stayed. No hope for male strench.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 02:23 AM
3

I think it's to shift the relationship balance to find someone that truly respects you. And to date according to YOUR preferences, instead of adapting to your date. Also, I think the ultimate objective is to promote your happiness without destruction of self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 01:25 AM
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