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In love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:45 AM
3

My bf is allergic to cats and will still come to my apartment more often if it makes me more comfortable. Don't settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:32 PM
1

Unless they were under 20 when they started dating....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:06 PM
44

Turned down a guy who purported to be my friend, 3 times. He kept asking. The fourth time I said that I was exclusively dating another man. He proceeded to "understand" and stop talking to me altogether. Men respect other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 10:12 PM
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Yes! Pm it though so trolls dont get ut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:30 PM
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Nope nope nope. It takes a long, long time to build that trust. A month? Thats disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:19 PM
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Do you have an insta? Can you PM it to me? Id love to see more!!! I love it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:05 PM
10

My brother is not only LVM but abusive. I always warn any woman he is brave enough to introduce to me, or ti be public about enough online for ne to find. I fucking love my brother, and he would never harm me, but fuck if I sit by and let him hurt another woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:17 AM
10

I love it when they say shit like "Oh you like that?" Especially when I don't, actually, like that. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:10 AM
6

SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:10 AM
20

My jaw fucking dropped. Fuck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:05 AM
31

Right, tf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:51 PM
182

Swing by to drop it off OUTSIDE OF HER DOOR, nonetheless. Not even to see her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:50 PM
6

Ughhhh this is so important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:12 PM
134

She sounds trapped and totally dependent on this man. I feel really sad and sorry for her. Among all of the other shinning examples of whay not to do in this post, this is why we should not EVER be fully dependent on a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:28 PM
4

Oh yes, hence the polite disrespect lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:47 PM
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I had someone who I thought was my best friend (for almost a year) at the time scream at me in the street one night while he was drunk, about how I was such a frigid bitch, but also a whore, for not having sex with him. Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:31 PM
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Owwwwwwwwwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:41 PM
5

Grosssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:40 PM
140

I love it when they weed themselves out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:58 PM
123

Fucking press charges, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:30 PM
14

They've been together basically since puberty. I doubt she can even imagine life without him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:26 PM
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ARE WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT THE FACT THAT THIS IMPLIES SHE WAS GONNA LET HIM FUCK WITHOUT A CONDOM AND HE COULDNT EVEN WASH HIS DICK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:22 PM
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She should shut the fuck up completely and totally and walk the fuck away and never speak to that man again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:21 PM
9

Yasssssssssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:17 PM
7

What was #6? Just a photo like with no conversation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:40 PM
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What a piece if shitttttt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:44 PM
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This is so important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:43 PM
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Theres absolutely NOTHING wrong with loving yourself and putting yourself and your needs first. Thats what you should do. You can't love anyone else fully unless you do. Only loving yourself is a slippery slope into narcissism, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 12:27 AM
4

Treat the dog with respect and as someone who is family and worthy of the effort and you won't be taking advantage of them the way the men in the meme do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:06 AM
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"I like looking at pretty things, but not caring for them."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 01:50 AM
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I mean, he's "safe" and "valued," but not in any real way. More like an object, like the dogs in the meme. Low effort, high reward. Less than the dog deserves. Trust me, I've tried repeatedly to take him in myself and give him a better life, but LVM wouldn't give him up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 01:44 AM
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Ouchhhhhhhhhhh, lmao On some realness though, my dogs have taught me about selflessness, unconditional love and acceptance. Not only receiving, but giving. I prioritize them over myself and as someone who grew up with an NMom, they were my first experiences with safe love and safely freely giving. People who don't treat their dogs as living, breathing dependents who should come first because they need you to even access a place to pee, are shitty and absolutely the subject of this meme (like my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:26 PM
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Yeah its not the jobs of disabled people to be interesting and encompassing for you. There are plenty of places on Google where people who've decided to share personal experiences have, already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:55 PM
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Expecting marginalized people to explain themselves to you is problematic and pressures them. I say this as a disabled person. And I linked you to google before they answered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:19 PM
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Honestly a man like that may kill her if she leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:20 PM
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I dunno, i can be blacked out and appear totally coherent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:19 PM
5

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:10 PM
10

Omg wtf did I just watch lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:06 PM
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Google.com
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:58 PM
3

Thats why she hates men. Because she believes all those things to be true and still finds men to be willfil and deliberate trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:17 PM
2

This. If you're an adult and you're calling women girls, that's problem number 1.
/r/askFDS29/04/20 08:32 PM
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I have a porn sick ex who was obsessed with sounding porn, but like in dickhole urethras. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:56 AM
1

You mean those arms and legs do it for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:01 AM
2

No contact with an abusive parent is completely different from "bad relationship." By going no contact, you've removed yourself from a toxic situation and therefore it is no longer unhealthy.
/r/askFDS27/04/20 11:46 PM
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You don't sound ready to be in a relationship. You should contact him and end it permanently and let him move on. Side note, your timeline is confusing. Mid June is over a month from now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:18 PM
3

That poor woman looks so fucking exhausted ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 10:11 PM
1

Mine too 🙄 Men are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:39 PM
2

Thats because he lives a 9 HOUR PLANE RIDE AWAY FROM HER.
/r/askFDS23/04/20 02:56 AM
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WHO RESPONDS TO THIS SHIT THO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:05 AM
3

Do you have a citation for that? My friend is escaping a dv situation rn (hopefully) and i think this is important for her to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:04 AM
4

This. I moved in with my ex after some GIANT red flags in part because my family was involved and I felt pressured to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:58 AM
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Send screenshots to his fiance. She deserves to know. Don't be hostile or upset if she gets angry at you though, if that happens block them both and move on with your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:56 AM
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I especially like how the bar is at a steep angle and gets realll close to the floor at the bottom, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:47 AM
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Its not about thinking this guy is trying to take advantage of her - is that hes not prioritizing her independence, hes infantalizing her, and he's looking to make her a dependent in a LDR for the sake of maintaining a hold on her while he ditches her and moves to another state even though she begged him not to go. Come on. "I know FDS stance is different than mine and is designed to prevent women from being manipulated and taken advatage of, but FDS is wrong and its ok for that to happen someti…
/r/askFDS12/04/20 12:45 AM
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If you end up dating, he's going to look at you in person anyway. Looks really really aren't everything and there will be someone who loves you for you - whether it's this guy or not. Confidence and HONEST are the most attractive traits a human can have, so absolutely do not catfish him/hide your appearance, and focus on your good qualities both physically and otherwise. Also, if your appearance is bothering you this much, nose jobs arent that expensive - but do it FOR YOU, not to attract men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:54 PM
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I needed this today, i was forgetting how emotionally abusive and manipulative my ex really was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:38 PM
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You shouldnt be talking to these guys 24/7. A few texts a day isn't much, and maybe a date or two per week when we arent in quarantine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:32 PM
2

Read the whole handbook. Its very worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:31 PM
1

Trim your beard/don't grow a neck beard. Trim your bush, your junk shouldn't be hiding in it. If your chest hair is excessively thick/long, trim it. Make sure you shower every day at least once because you probably smell if you're super hairy and sweating. Otherwise, body hair is great and masculine. I prefer it to hairless.
/r/askFDS11/04/20 11:26 PM
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Are you lost?
/r/askFDS11/04/20 11:19 PM
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Do not combine incomes unless youre married. If you make 80% of the income in the house, you should be paying 80% of the bills. Split bills based ok income and maintain separate accounts. You're SCREWING her otherwise if you break up. Edit: This is a LDR? WHY ARE YOU EVEN CONSIDERING COMBINING INCOME. YOU ARENT MARRIED AND WILL LIVE A 9HR PLANE RIDE APART?! TF. This is awful. Its a great way to destroy her independence, maintain power over her from afar (whether deliberately or not), and foster …
/r/askFDS11/04/20 11:15 PM
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My ex would get really upset if anything cut into his 12 hrs a day of video games and whine if he got kess than 8. He would bitch if me or the dogs needed him while he was playing. THATS low value. I play video games when theres a game I really like out. I play every few days for a few hours when nothing else needs to be done (esp in quarintine!). If my animals need or want my attention, or someone calls me, I prioritise that. It's a game and living things and responsibilities take precedent. A …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:46 PM
2

In that case I'd support her by validating that she is doing something, at the VERY least shes growing an entire human being inside of her right now.
/r/askFDS08/04/20 02:49 AM
1

Yuuuuuuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:41 AM
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The answer is sure, as long as it's not an addiction. An hour here and there as leisure is one thing, but all day everyday is not ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:40 AM
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🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:36 AM
1

Lmaoooooo wtffff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:36 AM
1

Good, good. All good. Support her in her goals, move slow and get that therapist. Don't become complacent. Keep working on yourself.
/r/askFDS23/03/20 03:31 AM
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This part. Men leave after you help them grow.
/r/askFDS23/03/20 03:21 AM
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1000000%. Saying you want a LTR and then trying to fuck on the first date makes it sound like you're lying about the LTR part to get laid.
/r/askFDS23/03/20 02:48 AM
1

My jaw just DROPPED at this. It is 100% your responsibility to bring the women you sleep with to orgasm. You're very LV. You sound like these women should be grateful for your drinks and shitty sex and wondering why they arent calling back lmaoooooooo
/r/askFDS23/03/20 02:47 AM
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At 24-33 those are women. Stop referring to women as girls. We are not children. You are not a boy, you're a man.
/r/askFDS23/03/20 02:44 AM
9

Yes. So much yes. My ex never genuinely was happy or excited for me, his first concern was always how my good news would impact him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:58 PM
3

My success isnt, and has never been dependent on a man. However, being with a LVM in a LTR where I was pushed into a normalized, bullshit relationship where I took on all of the emotional and managerial labor definitely hindered my own energy. I'm good on my own, but my time with my ex would have been better spent with a HVM for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:00 PM
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I mean sure I learned things, but would my life be better had I been with a HVM instead? Absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:51 AM
9

RIGHT THO. MEN ARE TRASH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:38 AM
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Resilient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:54 PM
4

It has to be lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:43 PM
1

It's usually anti patriarchy stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:43 PM
6

My ex was like this. Ughhhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:37 PM
3

YES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:45 AM
9

That's the opposite of what it says. Someone said "let's change it to the moon" and someone else said, "no the sun is accurate and this is why."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 03:42 PM
12

Very well written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 03:49 AM
7

Fuck yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 02:39 AM
27

That's beautiful. Totally different meaning, beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 02:38 AM
56

Ughhhh my friend does that stuff too, I don't understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 09:41 PM
19

That looks straight painful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 05:37 AM
10

I needed this tonight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 05:35 AM
19

This is beautiful lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 05:34 AM
4

No way, you're not wrong. Him bragging about you and showing pictures to his students is weird and creepy after 1 date. Him crossing your boundaries ESPECIALLY in front of his friends - not cool. Him pushing you when you're uncomfortable - not ok. Him reducing you to "nap dates" after one real date and a date where he was pushing your boundaries is a FWB thing. I definitely would not see him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 04:02 PM
30

Right. I'm sick to death of men looking for a "fun girl." major eyeroll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:10 PM
1

... was that a star trek reference!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:30 PM
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