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I've always considered it a sign that she wants to meet if she has to bail on your suggestion but asks for a different time.
/r/seduction21/01/14 10:47 AM
-8

implying humans still rely on these basic instincts and there hasn't been a social-evolution. this shit is backwards as hell and won't be valid anymore in a 100 years top.
/r/seduction11/01/14 04:07 PM
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Felt like reading a "manual to your very own female" and not a guide to become a better guy. fuck this
/r/seduction11/01/14 04:04 PM
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can I tell her how I feel before her and him get serious NO. if she's back with him you will be 100% rejected. also don't expect that they're not serious right now, he's her EX, not a new date. If anything you should SHOW her that you like her, kino, kissing etc. but everything would be easier if you just let it drop and pursue someone new. maybe you can be friends with her! just don't mug yourself
/r/seduction11/01/14 11:35 AM
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if you don't treat her as a friend, you will not be in the friendzone. it's actually that simple
/r/seduction04/01/14 11:02 PM
1

difference is in "being a douchebag", meaning good guys don't lie and pretend and openly flirt, whereas nice guys disguise their intentions.
/r/seduction27/12/13 02:59 PM
1

while 80% in there is great and true, the other 20% is just convenient generalizing to make this appeal to sad men more...interaction between genders is way more complicated and can't be easily put into patterns.
/r/seduction26/12/13 12:12 PM
9

well you just gave me a small epiphany....
/r/seduction30/11/13 09:06 AM
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sorry but prostitutes dn't solve anything and will fill you with regret later.
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:40 PM
2

this is a common thing here haha
/r/seduction26/11/13 11:59 AM
1

damn straight!
/r/seduction25/11/13 09:40 PM
1

well my friend the game is different for everyone, and if you are more focused on getting laid with nothing attached, I'd agree with you. However this doesn't apply to me since I'm way more interested in meeting compatible people; romantic, or not. I think what I do goes really well with a point you mentioned yourself (become vulnerable). It makes you a strong and great guy to be with, and as long as escalation is involved (like you pointed out) things will turn out the way I want them to.
/r/seduction25/11/13 02:04 PM
1

Interesting that you say that, because I find myself quite "succesful" in giving broad advice. That means that I don't tell her exactly what to do, but rather give her general guidelines in life that every person should try to embrace. Most girls I meet love this, react impressed, and it doesn't take long for them to become very personal about their lives (which of course puts pressure on me, but also creates intimate, interesting relationships, in-and off-romance). I just try to make sure that …
/r/seduction22/11/13 11:01 AM
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In my opinion both are unnecessary. Why would you need to tell her that you want to see her, if you could simply ask her out in the first place? Much better effect. However, if you already hooked up with her and want to do it again, then saying "I want to see you" works really well. "I miss you" should ONLY be in relationships, any other situation screams PEDESTAL.
/r/seduction18/11/13 10:57 AM
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sounds like you're building up a pedestal for her to stand on. and forget the friendzone, that's something only you put yourself in. there is nothing wrong with being friends with girls, but doing it just to get her at some point later is very selfish and won't work. girls can see through this. also it will make you feel like shit once she's seeing other guys. act around her like you always do, but show more sexual interest. and try to meet more girls! if you show her clearly that you are a pote…
/r/seduction10/11/13 10:07 AM
1

consider your mind as a muscle: it's a matter of practice in my opinion. "fake it till you make it", just refer to your list as long as you have to, some day it will click!
/r/seduction10/11/13 09:52 AM
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I generally go by the rule that if she's interested but busy at the suggested day, she will tell you when it's more fitting. if she's evasive and doesn't suggest an alternative time, she's not interested. like in this case
/r/seduction10/11/13 09:51 AM
1

how much, psychologically speaking, can you compare facebook texting to phone texting? especially since nowadays people have smartphones with constant facebook access...is it still kind of regarded as weirder than actual texts?
/r/seduction04/03/13 11:45 PM
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I'm not sure but I guess it's the way water exists in this world, as in: ice, steam, rain, ocean, puddle, lake, drinkable water, salt water etc.
/r/seduction08/02/13 05:51 PM
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This is coming from an introvert who has climbed gigantic steps in the game so hear me out: Introverted IS NOT being lazy and scared. like others already said: MOVE OUT OF THE COMFORT ZONE, get rejected, learn that communicating with women is fun and rewarding!! There is NO WAY around these steps. However, it's absolutely NOT necessary to become a "life of a party". Learn to love yourself and have fun with talking people while still being introverted. Sounds contradictory? not really. OUTCOME IN…
/r/seduction28/12/12 11:22 PM
1

I really don't think that "fake it till you make it" is sensible advice, when it comes to anything else than inner game. especially with negging.
/r/seduction18/11/12 07:31 PM
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soooo that's a negative thing how exactly?
/r/seduction15/11/12 01:53 PM
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use them while talking. don't hide them. while making points or telling her something funny use your hand in movements that stress what you say. if you're listening: keep them still! just assume natural positions, like when you're talking to your buddies you using them somehow too right? take up space with your body and let your hands rest as much as you can when she talks. it's also interesting to note what bodylanguage one exposes when placing the hands somewhere. if it's something interesting…
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:23 PM
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I agree. if you lose a girl for good, BE SAD for a few days, maybe a week. let it out! learn what it feels like and don't forcefully apply the 3 steps the moment you lose her. after 1 week take means to get over her.
/r/seduction06/10/12 07:17 PM
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how about at places that offer satisfaction of your interests, like sports, clubs, conventions, schools and whatever the fuck you like? not that hard.
/r/seduction06/10/12 05:44 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. While I have overcome general AA, there will always be this one girl that totally sparks my interest and makes me start trembling in fear and shyness. Everytime this happens, I feel regret. DEEP regret, as soon as the chance passed and she walks away. After that missed opportunity I fall deep into a dark abyss of self loathing and analyzing, in other words my game obliterates for the rest of the day. Remember this: Most of the time you will only get a SINGLE fucking…
/r/seduction02/10/12 08:29 PM
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haha yea fair enough. forgot that
/r/seduction17/09/12 07:57 PM
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this! pretend you're sleeping when she walks up to you (standing or sitting, doesn't matter), wait for her to talk to you and then say something funny about interrupting you while sleeping. or if you you see her walking into your direction, quickly strike up a conversation with somebody (just talk to somebody random walking by) and pretend to have a AWESOME time by visibly laughing and such with that conversation. She WILL be sorry then, I promise.
/r/seduction17/09/12 07:49 PM
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sounds like nicholas sparks bullshit that doesn't apply to the real world. thank you for your insight
/r/seduction10/09/12 11:23 PM
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well maybe you're just frustrated that you never had him, and now that he's attracting lotsa women, maybe jealous and even more frustrated? wouldn't surprise me
/r/seduction10/09/12 11:21 PM
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I honestly don't understand what you're trying to say? does it hurt to be able to read eyes correctly? Absolutely not.
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:40 PM
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I have experienced basically everything you said, however this only applies to a certain type of day-game. day-gaming at an event or a place where people deliberately form crowds is A LOT more satisfying. day-gaming doesn't always refer to street approaches, it's a broader subject.
/r/seduction21/08/12 06:39 PM
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let's assume that she's still interested; I think you have to let it rest with her for a while. wait some time and make her notice that you're not around. the next time you write her think of something funny to say. don't just say hey, how are you. be creative! then ask her out and see where things go afterwards. just wait a few days WITHOUT contacting her and see what happens.
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:19 PM
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fyi I have to deal with as many stupid ignorant people as you do, even if i'm white in a european country, so don't make yourself and others feel sorry for yourself.
/r/seduction08/08/12 10:17 PM
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well, next time just look her in the eyes. you clearly need small steps so making eye contact is a task for you to work on. looking in the eyes of a girl is an exciting thing! if you managed that, try to NOT break the eye contact. you're the guy so you maintain. do you know how awesome holding eye contact feels like? it's a big rush and i'm sure for you absolutely mind blowing. now don't stare at her all the time, you have to of course look somewhere else once she lbreaks it off. but whenever yo…
/r/seduction08/08/12 08:30 PM
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I'm sorry but I don't see much relevance to seduction/PUArt. We all know ignorance is a wide-spread thing but so is acceptance, so what's your point?
/r/seduction08/08/12 08:23 PM
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generalizing much?
/r/seduction06/08/12 04:31 PM
1

I have the same issue in German game...Sie (vous) vs Du (tu) I almost always go with Du, as it's simply more personal, however there were times when I received the "Sie" reply back, which neutralizes a lot in an instant. if your game is really smooth, the polite form can actually be very sexy though. Think of a seductive gentleman. I'd say to rather go with Du (tu) in day and night-game, Sie (vous) in store/cafe game when approaching working girls.
/r/seduction06/08/12 04:11 PM
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meh it's a stupid situation for you since you're not really in control. absolutely do not do what you intended to do in the last sentence. thats neediness. she asked for your number and she can figure it out on her own how you will get hers, IF she ever contacts you. to be honest this sounds a lot like a potential oneitis case, as she already assumes control over you. but maybe I'm wrong and she actually likes you. in that case just sit back and wait. don't contact her for a while (more than 3 d…
/r/seduction06/08/12 02:41 PM
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except that you generally shouldn't buy girls drinks the first time you meet them.
/r/seduction06/08/12 09:20 AM
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demonstrating sexual interest shows neediness? since when? it's the men who are afraid to express themselves and their wishes confidently that come across as needy, as someone who NEEDS a woman to help him come out of his shell. thats neediness!
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:50 PM
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haha the opener really is great. kudos to your wits man
/r/seduction04/08/12 01:14 PM
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I definitely have been there and sometimes still am. But I realized something. I don't actually need friends to go to places or events to enjoy! you want to go out, go to festivals etc? then just go! I think it's a huge virtue in life if one is able to comfortably be alone and take matters in their own hands. don't depend on other people that much, you're a man and you direct your life! if you internalize that, you will meet people. guaranteed!
/r/seduction04/08/12 10:49 AM
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can we please get more moderators to control this xenophobia? holy shit there are some dumb people here.
/r/seduction03/08/12 04:36 PM
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don't worry, the length didn't stop me from reading and enjoying it.
/r/seduction31/07/12 09:35 AM
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quick and concise list that helps understanding kino. One shouldn't forget the small of a girls back though, since it's such a highly erogenous zone. good stuff!
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:28 PM
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absolutely agree with you.
/r/seduction28/07/12 11:30 PM
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yes tell a woman that they don't have to do anything compared to men and let me know how that worked out for you.
/r/seduction28/07/12 12:16 PM
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what? are you saying women don't do anything to attract guys? really??
/r/seduction28/07/12 09:03 AM
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i've seen stuff man...and things too!
/r/seduction26/07/12 08:56 PM
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as a bonus be asian and you'd be my type as well haha
/r/seduction26/07/12 08:06 PM
1

How about trying to playfully guess the "basic and dull" information rather than simply asking? Gives you great opportunities!
/r/seduction23/07/12 11:26 AM
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that conversation was great to read. nice article!
/r/seduction23/07/12 10:10 AM
1

urban photography! it's a lot of fun if you achieve artsy results and you draw a lot of attention towards you, good and bad. it's also a great reason to go outside and meet people. I have my own website too and it just feels good to have accomplished something, even if I don't get paid for it. but thats not the point of it anyway.
/r/seduction21/07/12 05:08 PM
2

counter strange shittest with exaggeration and approval
/r/seduction20/07/12 04:24 PM
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well it's actually not unusual to have braces at that age. as a matter of fact 1 guy in my closer friend-circle is also 20 with braces and he has no problems with women whatsoever :) give yourself a clever nickname and be proud to stand out form the masses of AFCs!
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:50 AM
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well you also have to be aware of mistakes and faults you committed yourself, otherwise you will do the same mistakes over and over again and won't get any progress. but thinking positively is a good thing of course, just don't become irrational :)
/r/seduction16/07/12 04:06 PM
20

"did you just say lol?"
/r/seduction15/07/12 11:42 AM
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but you have to leave it before you can get somebody in it
/r/seduction14/07/12 03:53 PM
2

your alpha stance seems to be held by weak strings if you get upset this easily by methods you clearly don't understand. have it your way
/r/seduction13/07/12 10:57 AM
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are you sure that direct daygame approaches make good use of outrageous appearance compliments? Isn't it more wise to use unusual compliments that go beyond her beauty in daygame? like complementing a sitting girl on the "glorious spot/view" she has chosen to do whatever it is shes currently doing? In my experience being THAT bold like "fukcing stunning, absolutely gorgeous, ridic. beautiful etc., makes the approach a bit over board and maybe even scary. Also the more neutral unusual way leaves …
/r/seduction12/07/12 08:29 PM
2

I remember a first date of mine which turned out incredibly well. We didn't exactly go into sport but a nice long bike ride to a museum in a different city. We had the chance to talk wonderfully during the bike trip and enjoy the scenery, =being for ourselves, while constantly having a goal ahead of us: the museum. It was quite the long date and it took us a full day spending time together until we rested from the bike tour in a remote cafe where we then kissed passionately. It was a lot of fun …
/r/seduction09/07/12 08:05 PM
2

just don't mention it? if she asks tell her the truth or be vague. Say you're not very experienced. Being good in bed is a lot like being good at pick up, i.e. be confident and it's gonna be good regardless of your experience., trust me Ive been there too.
/r/seduction09/07/12 07:57 PM
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nothing in this life is of permanence. not even the bad times. redirect the sadness and find a new hobby, go hiking, work out, read a lot, write something. remember that once you are passed her and you realize that there are countless awesome women out there just for you, you still carry the virtues and skills you gained from your times of darkness. this will only make you stronger and more interesting as a person. also don't believe it's gonna destroy you. war and hunger destroys you, heartache…
/r/seduction07/07/12 01:45 PM
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you already have the oneitis so just go for it. If you don't, you will regret it as you will already most certainly feel heartache when shes gone. make the best out of what you both have right now, create shared memories, sleep with her and brace yourself for the time afterwards. remember that nothing in this life is of permanence...everything will fade out again. all you have left is the certainty that you had a great experience. expect the pain and deal with it and you shall rise new and stron…
/r/seduction07/07/12 01:24 PM
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if you want her then you should ask her out in the way she likes you. if she refuses or says that shes already with that other dude then disregard her as a sexual partner, smile, say ok, move on and be genuinely friends with her. the most important aspect of this is that you GENUINELY don't care, which will happen if you start pursuing and approaching other women. Do not bullshit yourself. if you can't be friends with her then you have to leave her until you are outcome independent. chances are …
/r/seduction07/07/12 11:20 AM
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why is everybody making the first time to be such a big deal? Sex really isn't that hard as long as you WANT to please your partner, everything will turn out just fine...I remember my first sexual encounter with a girl who was more experienced, she asked me if I was a player since she couldn't believe that I wasn't experienced. Don't make a big deal out of it and just enjoy yourself. Sex is like Pizza, even if it's bad, it's still pretty good.
/r/seduction07/07/12 09:56 AM
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can you give us an example of what happened, because you illustrated your problem very vaguely and not approachable I think.
/r/seduction30/06/12 08:50 PM
2

how old are you?
/r/seduction30/06/12 08:40 PM
2

I successfully applied this on a walking woman with earbuds (quite the challenge) I wanted to approach: I noticed her first so I had time to foresee her walking path and position myself so that she would walk right past me, without looking like a creep. When she came closer I waited for a sign of her to have acknowledged me, which she did by eye contact. Reading her eyes I knew she was attracted so I let her PASS me. I immediately then go after her, therefore pretending me approaching her was an…
/r/seduction28/06/12 09:48 AM
2

it is fun but it's also veeeeeery exhausting. especially with 10 girls dude jesus christ..I wouldn't do it
/r/seduction26/06/12 03:30 PM
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yup well done shes into you! play it cool from here on now and don't get too excited about success :)
/r/seduction23/06/12 03:56 PM
1

you shouldn't ask, you should be able to read it in her responses
/r/seduction21/06/12 10:19 AM
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it starts with saying hello: apply kino and do a nice genuine handshake...or even a light hug, but it has to be light. don't press yourself against her yet. however don't do the hover-hand either. touch her arms while using gestures during the times you talk about yourself. you should use your hands a lot anyway and combine this playfully with a light brush across her arm if they're in range (e.g.: on table). if you do it right and make her laugh and comfortable she will slightly touch you with …
/r/seduction20/06/12 06:26 PM
2

relax and ditch that guy. you're fine
/r/seduction20/06/12 01:59 PM
1

tell me about it...when going out I first have to ride 30mins on a train AND walk 5km through the woods haha. makes things difficult
/r/seduction20/06/12 11:59 AM
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age: whatever floats YOUR boat and tightens your pants. daygame: I agree, however that also means that you have to particularly put more into it in order for her to keep being interested. Use monotony of work life to your advantage. Spot a girl you want to get to know, approach, DON'T ask for number. Next day: repeat, pick-up on how you approached before and let it escalate a bit more. by the way it's a lot easier to approach shopping women than working women and the flakes should be lower too. …
/r/seduction19/06/12 08:54 PM
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inspiring stuff, wonderful read. thanks!
/r/seduction18/06/12 05:18 PM
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It sounds like you're justifying yourself and passively apologizing for daring talking to her, rather than just being the man and choosing your woman you ask her for permission. It's not a disaster saying it and I'm sure that if the first impression was right it will work, but simply leaving it out makes your opener generally a lot more interesting and exciting. additionally, "if you'd like that" is the same league and problem. Just be genuinely friendly and confident in tone and you don't need …
/r/seduction18/06/12 07:53 AM
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wait this sounds like you're actually not asking for the number but waiting for the girl to give it to you which is very very rare..is that true or false?
/r/seduction17/06/12 09:45 PM
2

get rid of the whole "this is random but..."
/r/seduction17/06/12 07:44 PM
1

do you even know what that is
/r/seduction17/06/12 07:43 PM
1

well it just seems that you need to lay off the nice guy and become an indepedent gentleman with clear sexual intentions and you're fine :) friendzoning happens due to lack of sexual display (kino, teasing, looks etc) also generic advice that is solid: learn to enjoy yourself the way it is now...don't go out seeking a girlfriend but having an awesome time you want to share with somebody new. get that pressure and weight of negativity off of your shoulders and it will all come together. tldr: be …
/r/seduction15/06/12 07:37 PM
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seddit is going down the drain I see
/r/seduction06/06/12 11:01 AM
2

youre 17 bro...you will and should learn on yourself..experience the thrills and make your own adventures. just relax
/r/seduction27/05/12 02:36 PM
2

thanks for the replies guys! nofap initiated!
/r/seduction23/05/12 08:42 AM
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hm maybe. But I already know the cause and figured that the confidence experts in this subreddit might have some advice and playful tricks!
/r/seduction22/05/12 10:58 PM
2

without sounding like a hipster but underground clubs are so much better! the music is really interesting if you pay attention to it and the people are more outgoing yet classy. sure you find your pretentious art student there but also more interesting persons than in your typical technodrome.
/r/seduction12/05/12 04:57 PM
0

how much time did you spend with her before you started texting? there were a few possibilities of erotic innuendo but would that have been too soon? getting the number was smooth! I think closing the conversation by playfully referencing something you talked about before, would have been better. e.g.: snowboarding edit: 7,5/10
/r/seduction10/05/12 10:27 PM
1

you're a great man nick! love ya
/r/seduction04/05/12 10:50 PM
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I just tried this with an asian as well...we'll see update: it worked! she laughed and pulled out some lame excuse....OP is not a troll
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:29 PM
2

this. experiencing the situation right now...got close to this "one" girl, moved on dating another now, first one closer than ever and likely to start something with me. Social proof is indeed damn powerful
/r/seduction23/04/12 08:26 PM
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To me it seemed there were two different kinds of you out there. First the attractive cool guy, but after that the wannabe-PUA which didn't come off sincerely and genuinely thus making you seem phony. After the owner-situation you fell into panic and forgot yourself and stopped being cool. You killed it entirely with asking for a kiss at this point. I don't know if it was the way you described that situation but that seemed immensely out of place. Point is: tried too hard, forgot yourself.
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:54 PM
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yes I love this. Constantly offering help to people to make yourself seem like a "nice" guy is really turning people off. Had to learn this the hard way myself.
/r/seduction07/03/12 07:38 PM
1

What about being honest? After that weak excuse of the party being too overpopulated couldn't he have addressed that and ask her why she is not frank and honest with him? You know more of the people you're dealing with if you're just plain honest.
/r/seduction01/03/12 11:10 AM
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thank you for this
/r/seduction19/02/12 09:41 PM
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