| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | [FR] First legitimate success using seduction | Field Report | StarBarbershop | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 09:24 PM |
| 15 | Paying for dinner. Yea or Nay? | Beginner Advice | StarBarbershop | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 08:22 PM |
| 3 | 2 Girls 1 Problem | StarBarbershop | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 04:36 PM | |
| 3 | Not sure how to approach this girl.... details inside | StarBarbershop | /r/seduction | 07/11/11 09:19 PM | |
| 1 | Ive got her, but should I want to keep her? | StarBarbershop | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 02:09 PM | |
| 1 | So...that whole 'dating game' thing... | StarBarbershop | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 09:50 PM | |
| 1 | I need some advice (details inside) | StarBarbershop | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 01:26 AM | |
| 0 | Useless post- Just wanted to tell you guys are absolutely right | StarBarbershop | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 05:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Why You Should Resist Online DatingDO YOU EVEN LIFT? | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Could Seddit compare and contrast the pickup in small Colleges V. Large colleges?I go to a large college. My experience is that you will see many, many new people everytime you go out. However, with that said, you will keep seeing the same people in certain places. There are "crowds" that frequent places. You may see this one chick at house parties around X. Or those 3 perpetually drunk guys are always at Y. Oh yeah you were at Z! What are you up to here? It is a continuous flow of new faces and people with some familiar ones recurring in particular places sometimes. | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I made a Wingman app that lets you instantly find your closest Wingman to hit the bars with!Installed. Bloomington IN, USA reporting in | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 04:08 PM |
| 1 | What songs get you into your game the most? (Both pregame and in the moment)Eh it's catchy. Not saying it's good at all. I just find it catchy | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 07:37 PM |
| 0 | What songs get you into your game the most? (Both pregame and in the moment)I normally dont like club music, but basically anything FloRida, Taio Cruz, Usher, etc. Get me feeling good. In particular Wild Ones by FloRida. Dat shits meh jam yo | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Most girls at bars/clubs are not with the guy they're talking to.This | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 03:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First legitimate success using seductionLooks do not matter a ton. After a few days now i have heard her talk alot about how my confidence really impressed. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 12:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First legitimate success using seductionwhite and I would like to think good looking. Im not very tall. 5' 9" | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 04:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First legitimate success using seductionI feel like, as long as you are getting Alot of Really Strong IOIs, it is one of the better ways to break the 'kiss barrier'. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Confidence is key, but what exactly am I supposed to be confident about?Im pretty new and maybe I am an abberration here but merely not looking down, fixing posture, and smiling when i walk did wonders for my self confidence. Noticed more looksand comments from people on how i looked happy and confident. I was changed merely from that. My first successes in the field cemented a very confident/alpha mindset that has stuck with me. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 07:38 PM |
| -1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?This | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 03:26 PM |
| 7 | The 3 dates gameHa! Whats funny is i just got my first f-close using seduction this weekend. Happened on the 3rd date | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 12:25 AM |
| 1 | I just got my first kiss!Congrats man! Feels good dont it | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I FUCKING LOVE YOU GUYS! SEDDIT YOU ROCK!!!!Very good! This weekend everything Ive been studying gave me actual success. Makeout closed a chick on friday and we are hanging tonight as well. I have been with other women before but this is my first success using seduction methods. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 05:57 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012Just went on a date last night. Things went great. Make out close before she left (we both had stuff early today). Made it clear that she wants to hang tonight once I get off work. Took her to a bar and played pool/had a few drinks last night. So for the second date should I do more of the same and go to a different bar? I will be around 12:30 am once I am free and I am somewhat hesitant to bring her to a club. Should I invite her to my place? A silly newbie in need of guidance. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Transitioning and Close help please.I still have trouble with this. As far as text game goes scarcity is key. Only talk as much as needed. Text her when you need to. For example. Tuesday got a #-close diring the day. Texted her a couple hours later "Hey this is StarBarbershop. Figured id get my # in your phone. Small talk for a bit after that. Match her response times. She takes 10 mins to answer? Take 10 mins. 30 mins? Wait 35 mins. However i would reccomend a minimum response time of 5-8 mins even if she is answering immeadietly… | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 03:23 PM |
| 7 | A tip on what to do if she forgot your nameWell done. I agree jmc2424. Kind of limited use but definitely acceptable answer | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 03:12 PM |
| 5 | I've heard "building and breaking rapport" a lot lately, can anyone elaborate/explain?Little small talk that comes between the opener and seduction technique proper. Its the padding between fucking a complete stranger and fucking this cool guy she just met. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 03:08 PM |
| 6 | I pick up on IODs no problem, but I'm completely oblivious to IOIs. Advice?Big ones are direction of her chest relative to you, eye contact (does she look away when you do or does she stay focused), does she touch you for any reason, and is she pushing conversation along when you stop talking | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Magic TricksA stupid little trick i like. Straws. If you are like at a resturaunt/bar and drinks arrive. Take your straw if its still got the paper covering and hold it firmly up and down in your fist. Knock it lightly but firmly until the straw breaks through the paper covering. Carefully grab the paper end at the bottom end with one hand and the exposed straw with the other. Remove the straw quickly without changing the straws shape. Whip it against the wall. The static built up in it will make it stick t… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 11:17 PM |
| 8 | My biggest problem is actually going out.... I don't know how to? (if that makes any sense)Reading through these posts and your comments I have two pieces of advice. 1) Shut the Fuck Up. These are the worst excuses I have EVER heard. You have been working on your body? Okay cool. You have been developing social skills? Really? And you still have these issues? Either realize how awesome you are really are and get out there or be a chode for the rest of forever. 2) Find friends who will go out. Does not matter if they sarge or not. Having some people to fall back on for light conversati… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 09:21 PM |
| 2 | DO NOT be afraid or hesitate to #close!That feel We all do it. Learn and live. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Paying for dinner. Yea or Nay?I like the idea of the second date being dinner at my place. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:53 AM |
| -4 | The Often Overlooked First Step to Success with WomenThis | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 12:55 AM |
| 6 | Paying for dinner. Yea or Nay?Thanks so much! Im a silly rAFC. Everything is set. Really i just needed someone to shout it at me lol. Thanks again | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Paying for dinner. Yea or Nay?Alright related also. I went to ask seddit and got dick all. Im newly over 21 so dinner is really the only "date thing" i know. I understand taking her to things you like is good (i hate the whole going to dinner idea) but if im in town, id go to a bar. But wtf are you supposed to there? Drink and talk? Ive got a date lined up tomorrow and my plan now is: 1) ice cream snack 2) dinner at an authentic turkish place 3) go to a bar and play pool(?) Not sure about it all. Could use an opinion | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 08:57 PM |
| 2 | An idea for alpha body language study - Presidential DebateThat is the thing. Im very political (inwardly, I dont like pissing people off anymore) and i watched it yesterday and shut it off because I could not stand the two interrupting each other all night. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 06:08 PM |
| 5 | An idea for alpha body language study - Presidential Debatecock fighting Accurate portrayal of last night's debate. Definantly interesting. Im gonna go back and watch it again, just muted | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 03:51 PM |
| 2 | First high school partyYour focus should be being the center of your immeadiate settimg. Be interesting, talk to everyone. It is my personal opinion that seduction should not be used until college. However these practices of confidence building and being a better you are usable as early possible. You are smart not to focus on getting laid. Be a cool ass motherfucker and people will want that cool ass mother fucker at their parties in the future. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Noobies, guys struggling with this, please watch this excellent video by Tyler of RSD.That's the spirit! Now get out there and suck less shit! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 10:55 PM |
| 2 | I personally think this is a very overlooked topicWhen it comes to women i treat my FB like a resume. I want to communicate myself but hide the reeeaaalllyyy nerdy stuff i hide from them (I DM a DnD campaign, play a number of PC games, and am well versed in LoTR, Star Wars, and WH40k lore) | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 06:15 PM |
| -3 | Learn from Drunk You to improve Sober You (crosspost)Definantly something I need to learn more strongly. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 05:41 PM |
| 2 | How has this changed your lives?Was a total AFC until I was 20 years old. Had 3 GFs and my 4th was great. I had learned of Seddit before her, but was too beta to do anything. 4th GF geos bye bye and a new friend of mine tells me I should read 'The Game'. Black is white. Up is down. Cats are dogs. My world changes in an instant. Only been really into the community for about a month or two but it is a world of difference. Working on smashing the remnants of my AA, dress like a champ, walk around like I just threw a 90 yard TD pa… | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 08:57 PM |
| 6 | How to ask for a FWB?First reading this comment I thought it rhymed. Disappointed to find it does not | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 04:23 PM |
| 3 | A brief psychology lesson to demonstrate why you should stop reading and start approachingRigh' here | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:02 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach a girl when they are already talking to a friend?Move on. Open different women. Sounds like a possible Oneitis in the forming stage. Also, if you are wondering how to approach a woman you are not ready to AMOG a boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 01:15 AM |
| 1 | [Advice needed] Preparing For Possible F-CloseMy 2 cents for the film. My favorite "scary Halloween film" is John Carpenter's Halloween. Not scary just creepy, no serious gore to gross someone out. Everyone has heard of it so there really is not a movie to be missed (even though it is great) and some sex scenes to shift the mindset of the viewers, who will likely be cuddling. I would bring condoms, but make sure she does not see them until you need them. It would kill a night (in my opinion) if she saw them way early and started thinking th… | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 01:03 AM |
| 2 | I don't want as many women as I can handle. I just want one. Someone I can love and treasure until I die. How many other sedditors are looking for monogamy?I have lurked here a long time, bought The Game last month and completely changed my life. I was looking forward to an amount of time of nothing but casual flings. However there is a part of me that likes one relationship at a time and believes in romance and all that shit. Ofc one of the first women I meet and talk to a good bit is really awesome and cool. We officially got into a casual relationship last night actually. I am so torn up because a part of me still wants to open women and sharpen… | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 05:26 PM |
| 12 | There is only one you.Watched a Tyler Durden vid on YouTube. He had a great idea where if you ever have thoughts like "What if she says no?" or "What if she doesnt like me?" or anything like that, get yourself in the habit of saying it again in the most immature, scared little kid voice possible. It really help you realize how stupid those thoughts are. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 05:16 PM |
| 28 | Dammit Seddit, I'm wasting my fuckin lifeThe only way I managed to break AA was to set concrete goals for myself. For instance: Today I will open 5 different sets (used at a bar on a friday night) Over the week I will talk to 7 different people. Tonight I will get 1 #-close. Obviously these vary depending on your skill, but if I can't get that goal within the time amount alotted i have to start over. My inner game is good enough that I can force myself not to cheat and that is the hardest part of my routine. If I find myself in a socia… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Seddit can you guys help me figure out what's wrong with me? And maybe teach me how to smile more?Np. Btw your face might hurt as your facial muscles get used to it. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Seddit can you guys help me figure out what's wrong with me? And maybe teach me how to smile more?Well, lets see. I began smiling shortly after discovering the Seddit community. Smiling obviosuly is just more positive and, this might sound cheesy, but I feel better just smiling and I feel like I am noticed more. My routine is simply this: Everytime I am in public I enter "walk like a boss mode". I walk slower and take longer strides (not ridiculous). As far as smiling I always have a smirk on. I feel uncomfortable full on smiling. I feel like if you full on smiled you would look like you wer… | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts On Asking vs SuggestingI feel like I see your posts alot here. Anymore i process it as "oh its rapist again" not sure that is entirely healthy for me lol | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Seddit can you guys help me figure out what's wrong with me? And maybe teach me how to smile more?I have been a hard core scowler my entire life. Anything but a bored/angry look is exhausting on my facial features. Dont matter none son, I been smiling like a boss for a few weeks now and feel fucking great. Just smile. Easy. As. That. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Excersizes to improve awareness. (Think Sherlock Holmes... :P)Would you recommend doing this at a regular time of day or just once a day? | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have any "Guaranteed Laugh" phrases?Agreed | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have any "Guaranteed Laugh" phrases?I like this better as well. Chubby penguin is cuter so it might get a more positive response (maybe?). | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Failure with women is fucking with my overall life...I know that feel. Fucking sucks. You know what I do. Fuck feeling bad I turn that shit around! Listen to George_Carlin_Said. Im a rAFC myself and practice makes. Approach like a mother fucker doesnt know the word quit. Find a good psyche up routine. Mine is reading any part of The Game by Neil Strauss or listening to Flo Rida. I hate rap and modern music but something about his stuff gets me feeling like a total boss. Above all, you are awesome. Not talking to that girl is selfish because you ar… | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 06:06 PM |
| 6 | Anyone have any "Guaranteed Laugh" phrases?I heard a variation of that from a friend. A:how much does a polar bear weigh? B: ugh...idk? A: just enough to break the ice. (Imlntroduce yourself) | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 05:51 PM |
| 6 | Does Seddit approve of the Sex Viking?I approve. I partially disagree about bars, but he makes a good point about coffee shops. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 04:40 AM |
| 1 | obsession.. oneitis.. help.First off, chill the fuck out. Take a big step back and breathe. As a rAFC I understand some of that. Only very recently have I been able to master the art of "Not giving a fuck about her". As much as we like to doubt it, every person on this planet is replaceable in just about every situation. So why should you hinge yourself so squarely upon this single person who is not even single (in some cases you've discussed)? I know it is not as easy as thinking it, but STOP THINKING ABOUT HER. Just Sto… | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Whenever you have a AFC thought, say it to yourself in a hilarious voice. I've been loving this tipAs somone with many AFC thoughts still I am going to do this all the time. Have an upvote | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 05:15 PM |
| 5 | how the fuck do I stop being the nice guy?Motion Passes. slam gavel Get a crazy bitch it is | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 05:11 PM |
| 3 | 2 Girls 1 ProblemThat went through my mind about an hour ago. | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 06:01 PM |
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