I was an AFC really bad for awhile. Had a LTR that ended 4 months ago and went full steam ahead with PUA material after reading The Game.
HB7 in my english class. Never really talked and didnt think about opening her (really busy around then). Class goes to art museum one day and HB7 and I walk in almost the same time. We share a moment of confusion about where to go. Afterwards im talking to a few other class mates when HB7 and I catch each others eyes for a good 5 seconds. Once we start going through I open about how she doesn't talk alot in class. She answers then immeadietly starts asking me questions and keeps conversation going. This continues over class. She is waiting for me after we get our bags and instead of talking I pull out my phone set to the add contact page and i walk away to the door. She follows. We small talk about stuff and i tell her i will hit her up over the weekend.
Text her a few hours later. More small talk a comfort and rapport building. Next day I text her and set up a date. We go to a local bar for drinks and a game of pool Night starts well and we get a table. Talking i pull out my phone. My one mistale that night. My "just in case" condom i carry sometimes falls out. O_O. Completely embarrsed. I give her the best smile I can muster and carry on. She doesnt seem tpo concerned. We play a game of pool. We both suck bad but im better. I offer her tips by standing near her, chest facing her, and an hand oon her arm. Im usimg my pool cue to point to certain balls and angles. She does not back away. We joke around and talk. I take another step in kino. Her pool form is awgul. At one point she has to hit a ball over another. I stop her with an almost snobbish "No no no. Stop it. Put it down. You are doing it wrong. Here." I move behind her and place my hand on hers and put my other hand around her waist. She doesnt back away.
After the game we sit down and talk more. On bar stools we are side by side. My body language is directly towards her. Her chest and face is turned to me but legs away. We get closer and eventually she is facing me directly. I cant think of any other way to escalate so i say. "I really want to kiss you right now. Lets try that." She agrees and we kiss. We pull away and i say that was nice. Her face is still forward, eyes closed, smiling. I tell her she isn't getting all of it right now. One pf the hardest things ive ever done i pull away entirely.
I had never seen the "Doggie-bowl look" until that night. Casually at one point i say "Despite what fell out of my pocket you are not getting any tonight." She smiled and gave a "Damn!"She is mine and I can see it. We get around to movies eventually and i invite her back to my place after. She agrees. More kino and a make out later we leave. We get back to my place, forget the movie and make out more. We both have stuff early tomorrow so she tells me to call her tomorrow. She was butter in my hands and I could see it. So weird for me being the AFC i usually am.
We meet up the next day and make outmore. The day after that she comes over fo hang and watch a movie. Make out and talk. As she is getting ready to leave we start kissing again and i pushher against a wall. Suddenly its back on. I keep remunding her she has to go, i at one point have to put my hands against the wall to try to convey she can go but she isnt. She says she cant leave "like this". Fuck it. I throw her on the bed and TA-DA! F-close.
Afterward she asked me if i was seeing other women. Blew me out of the water. Never before had I actually seen and felt the progress ive made so concretely. Thanks you guys! Another life changed. Any criticisms or reccomendations would be great.
TL;DR: First f close made me realize how much ive changed and damn does it feel great.
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