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You are not fucking listening. Holy fuck. And you contradict yourself. Modern society was created by men yet men are also the victims here. Where? By society you don’t actually mean society, you mean the internet. And by society, you don’t actually mean society, you mean certain women on the internet. Most men, regardless of how they look, are not having issues dating. If you go to any town USA to any random store, you can be 300lbs, poor and homeless and everyone will be married or in a relatio…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/25 01:46 PM
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I also forgot to add a few things: women like to fuck. We have a biological urge to fuck just like men. For some reason, men have put women on a pedestal and act as if we are supposed to be infallible creatures who say no to every man except for the one special man that our female intuition should be intuned enough to spot. And if that man just so happens not to be the special one and he does terrible things, the idea that we are so smart and perfect that we should have known better and seen is …
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 10:32 PM
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Just think about it. If I made a judgement about all men because of the 10 or so men I’ve been romantically involved with the past 4 or so years, I would say that men are lust-driven, emotionally repressed, undependable, manipulators. However, for multiple reasons, I know that logically that is not true. I also know that my trauma and life experiences have led me to be attracted to men who are non-committal. I have to take ownership of my choices and realize that my picker is off and I need to w…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 10:11 PM
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Obviously you have some insecurities within yourself that makes you believe in some way that these people might be correct. If you didn’t, you would pay it no mind and move on. It’s not about whether they are correct or not but about how to address the small part in you that might actually believe it. Edited to change “are correct” to “might be correct”
/r/ExRedPill20/08/24 12:59 AM
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The point is CHOICE. The point isn’t to bash one or the other or to make one seem better or worse.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/24 12:51 AM
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Generally you ever into a relationship to facilitate a loving, healthy, reciprocal, and supportive dynamic. If you both eventually decide that you want to continue that loving, reciprocal dynamic with children, then you start a family. You give as much as you take, you sacrifice when necessary, and you push to have a deep understanding of yourself and the other person. You don’t HAVE to date now but it does help to have practice in dating if you live in a place that culturally allows that to hap…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 12:12 AM
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Pics or you’re lying
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 06:23 PM
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Remind me! 10 minutes! Remindme10minutes! my black ass to come back after I read the post I opened reddit to read
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 07:37 AM
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Drag me for filth!
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 01:19 AM
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Lots of women date men who are less physically attractive than they are. Walk around the mall or something. Being a kind, interesting dude with a nice personality is way more important to women than looks are. I’m sure it’s hard on you. I don’t want to down play that. There’s a song lyric that goes something like, some loneliness is acceptable but some just outright mean. Unfortunately the way that you speak, saying that women are trying to baby trap men… eek. I’m a military veteran and I’ve see…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 11:37 PM
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It doesnt need to be a black pill or red pill space. Those face rating subs are filled with red pill/incels. Some of them try to bait women and get them banned. Its pathetic really.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/24 10:06 PM
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Yeah, i dont need more details. I have personal experience with this but thanks
/r/ExRedPill29/03/24 03:13 AM
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Some Black men call themselves "kangs."
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 01:36 AM
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I've fucked a lot of men and I guarantee you that I don't compare dicks. Get real
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 03:06 AM
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It doesn't have to be hypocritical. He asked if its misogynistic and because he refuses to actually have an honest conversation with himself, theres not much left to discuss
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 03:05 AM
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Is there a TLDR version? Lol... I hope I dont waste my time reading this. No offense, im just being lazy.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 08:36 PM
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What examples? Give us a few please
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 08:35 PM
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Its hard for me to orgasm vaginally in general. Vaginal sex can also be painful for me. Also I like it really slow like reaaaaly slow and thats hard for men to maintain. In my LTRs even situationships, generally men are more eager to please their partner so that helps. I don't have to have an orgasm to enjoy sex. Im more of a pleaser anyway. So my body is part to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:09 AM
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You didn't answer my questions directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:42 AM
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Why dont you believe "the truth" from women directly? Why do you find a study more truthful than women speaking on their lived experiences? Do you think that we are conspiring and lying to men about being sexually unsatisfied to what? Make men feel like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:37 AM
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You can do it. I will be the first to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:19 AM
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My point is that many women are not being satisfied sexually and the answer is not to read a study and try to tell people, see! Women CAN have orgasms from penetration. The answer is to encourage men to have a curiosity about sex and pleasure and to learn every partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:15 AM
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If we poll the women of this subreddit, I guarantee that at least half of them have been a victim of sexual assault. Probably 25% if not more of the men will say the same thing. Lets be real here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:07 AM
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Im a woman and I will tell you that this study literally means nothing. Im not going to think about this study the next time I have sex and magically orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:04 AM
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Whats the point here? Like what are we supposed to gather from this information? Just because I CAN orgasm vaginally doesnt mean that its happening. What are you going to do, show this study to a woman before sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:55 AM
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The concept of the wall is BS because statistically its just not true. More people are getting married later and later in life. I think the average age is 27 or something like they. I believe that I look better than I did in my 20s. Men of all ages are attracted to me. Younger men have told me that they prefer older women because they tend to know what they want. Men still hit on me. Men still approach me. I still get matches on apps. You know what is different? Me. I take less shit from men. It…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 03:30 AM
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The concept of the wall is that when women reach a certain age, they lose value in the "sexual marketplace." Generally that age is...wait for it, 30.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 02:53 AM
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I think we need to quit worrying about what people that we will never meet or touch prefer. Some red pill dudes will go absolutely ape shit when you say that you prefer a larger penis, then call you a whore, meanwhile they actually believe that women do prefer them. Its quite odd.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 08:29 PM
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Hit the back walls is a disgusting thing to say lol
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 08:25 PM
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I’m terminally online but sheesh.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 06:19 AM
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I agree. When they say that women only like “chads.” I tell them, literally go outside. Go to Walmart. Go to a store, and see allllll types of men, big, small, short, taLL (not sure why my iPad turns those L’s capital) they all have wives, girlfriends, etc. They act Like they don’t see it.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 06:19 AM
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He got arrested for CP. I’m done. Jesus Christ.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/24 05:36 AM
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Omg I knew a guy who did this. He would also… nvm. Eventually a few years later we finally confronted him about it when his nose started bleeding because he did that shit so much. He ended up finding a Japanese wife that he brought to America. I wonder if they are still together. Let me investigate.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/24 05:31 AM
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The fact that you used the term "luxury" explains a lot. I wouldn't say that its a luxury to be able to sleep around. It can be a positive or a negative depending on the people that you sleep with, your self esteem, how the people you sleep with treat you, how society responds ect. It can be fun but only it it aligns with what you really want. A lot of people use casual sex as their only form of intimacy and don't know how to actually connect and be a good partner, even in casual sex. To be all …
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 07:16 PM
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Parent's absolutely need to know that this is being pushed to teen and pre-teen boys. Giga chad is a fucking meme to kids these days. A seemingly funny and harmless meme supposedly but if you like one giga chad meme, within a matter of days, their feed will be filled with red pill BS. Ask me how I know...
/r/ExRedPill18/09/23 08:27 PM
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What??? Kat, please. Sounds like you need therapy.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 09:27 PM
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👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 01:20 AM
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Lmao i love the username and correct. Once you get out of the ages 19 to 22, you expect a lot more from men. That's why these idiots clown older women, not because we are more used up or our eggs are dry, but because we can see straight through their bullshit. Im not dumb lol. Most women i know (including myself) have gotten hotter as time goes on. I have a lot more knowledge about hair and makeup and I care more about my appearance, personally. There are girls from high school who gained weight…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 01:39 AM
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You're right about anger. Anger is a secondary emotion.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/23 11:02 PM
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Lmao throwback to the time a guy on purple pill debate tried to tell me that men dont care about women being good at sex. Only a literal (non) fucking incel would say such bullshit. I feel a lot of pressure to be good at sex. I don't know if its my demographic or all women but the idea of providing men with a phenomenal sexual experience is definitely something that I feel and I know a lot of women feel. Meanwhile the amount of women who don't even know that they can have an internal orgasm thro…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 12:20 AM
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They deserve vagine. No one else but them. End thread.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 12:08 AM
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Basically. OP wasnt even worth responding to. If thats what he wants to believe, whatever it is, barely read it, go for it. Im sure it will make him a real fucking catch
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 12:04 AM
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It's inescapable. Its always blatant. Theres literally no way they can hide. Just get them talking for a few. Having an entire ideology is different from a simple personality flaw. I will say that a lot of women, including myself, can see red flags but we can ignore them for one reason or another. Then we kick ourselves when things go left. RP knows this and is always exactly why they are pushing that women are too picky and have too high of standards.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/23 12:09 AM
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That's what I'm asking you.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 02:49 AM
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I'm curious as to how screeching feminists on TikTok are also comparable to the alt right. If we are talking about radical leftists, they aren't who you seem to believe they are. Edit: I guess I just see a stark difference between feminists and... people who would actually do something ultra radical such as violence, a complete revolution, ect.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 09:51 PM
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To put a timeframe on it would be weird af
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 12:02 AM
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I'm pretty sure I've had a higher sex drive than ALL of my male partners. The weird horny men I've encountered are generally more sexual or want sex a lot sooner and that's an instant no for me but it terms of partners and stamina and longevity.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 03:20 PM
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Preach!
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 03:16 PM
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Girl you cannot save anyone but yourself. I tried and literally ruined my life. I'm just now putting the pieces of back together.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 03:15 PM
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28 and still seeks excitement. At least he's honest but he sounds childish. At 28 you should be seeking stability, support, connection, friendship. Fun and passion? Okay. Excitement? Go skydiving. Why do you want a man in a relationship anyway? I have an anxious attachment as well and it sucks. It's terrifying. It's generally at least influenced by trauma and a childhood where love and attention was often withdrawn. my old therapist said that the best way to learn how to be in a healthy relation…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 12:54 PM
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It sucks to hear and realize but infatuation and that, can't quit "loving someone" feeling because you are holding onto the absolute best of how things were and hoping that it will get back to that, is not love. It's a chemical addiction. It's your brain craving that intense connection and all of those amazing chemical reactions. When someone loves you, you feel it. I know sometimes the warmth of someone burning everything down can feel like love, but it's not. I'm not sure if you need medicatio…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 11:39 AM
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I'm still unsure of why you are taking my opinion personally. I stated multiple times that it's personal preference and anyone can do whatever they want. If you take that as a derogatory thing, that sounds like a you problem.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 05:53 PM
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You can vent but girl stand up. Please. I'm not sure what it is inside of you that makes you drawn to someone who makes you feel like shit, been there done that, but you should probably figure out why and do something about it. I'm not a proponent of the idea that you have to love yourself before someone else can love you because it's just not true. What is more certain is that you will more easily accept less than you deserve and that's the real crime. Or the opposite, when I felt like shit and…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 05:51 PM
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Most people need community and support but I'm sure as you work on yourself you will be inherently less narrowly focused on finding a girlfriend and naturally other things will become more important or maybe you will just actually care less which is the real goal. One YouTuber I follow frequently talks about becoming less male-centered and the idea just baffles me. Making a point about becoming less male-centered is completely male-centered. It's like "I'm not gonna talk about men. I'm not gonna…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 05:35 PM
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Tell us how it goes. I hope my response to the other dude didn't make you feel weird about wanting to be friends with this girl. That wasn't my point at all and and I think that me calling his advice basic just took the conversation in a direction that it didn't need to go into 😂. My whole point was to be thoughtful. If I had two people in front of me and I had to choose who I wanted to have a conversation with and person A asked me what my favorite music is and person B asked me what the last s…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 05:06 AM
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Im pretty sure I specified like... very clearly.. that I as in me, personally and not in general, would need a good reason to befriend a person who is trying to be calculated in the way they they befriend me. If I found out some dude I worked with made a post about me to figure out how to develop a deeper connection with me, I would want to know why. I don't think that's odd. I think that's perfectly reasonable. It's different than an organic friendship that just happens. It seems calculated. Th…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 04:26 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with a teasing friendship. It can be some of the most fun friendships IMO but if you want a more genuine deeper connection, have deeper conversations. Asking what she likes to do outside of work is cool but it's just very basic and unless you have a good connection and it flows naturally, or you know about her hobbies, it will be hard to shift that into something deeper but definitely not impossible at all. There's certainly a way to do it like guessing what …
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 01:16 AM
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This can come off a bit... Taxing or interview like?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 12:57 AM
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Doesn't sound like it because would you ask this question about a man?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 12:55 AM
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I don't know how many times my input as a woman, along with many other women, was called a lie in red pill spaces because it didn't fit some study done on 2000 people 6 years ago. I get it, if you have no personal experience and your only knowledge comes from studies or whatever perceived social interactions that you have had from the outside, if they don't fit your narrative, it's easy to dismiss. It's also dumb and immature.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 06:25 PM
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This is also true. If I see a hot guy I'm usually like omgg and just smile to myself like dayum. I'm not gonna go out of my way to talk to him until I'm at least somewhat confident that he's interested lmao
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 01:54 AM
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This is why that...person.. commenting up there about parents complimenting their children is bad, is just idiotic. Your parents can compliment you however much they want but if you don't believe it, it doesn't matter. People can throw it off as they have to say that or they can internalize it which is clearly better.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 01:52 AM
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I mean, as a woman who gets compliments from random men on the street quite often, the compliments.... It's not all it's cracked up to be. from the literal age of 12, I learned to always smile and be nice and friendly even when I don't feel like talking or giving someone the time of day because even when I was fucking twelve, if I didn't actually engage with some men, it was like, "oh fuck you then bitch." That reaaally shaped who I dated and was attracted to. But back to the point, the complime…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 01:48 AM
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He literally just internalized this entire post and made it about him. Probably not much to say to that dude
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 01:22 AM
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Sometimes it can take a long time to get over someone. You aren't alone at all. It took me 2 years to get over someone. Sometimes it takes months. Sometimes you are over it before it's over. It'sdifferent from everyone. The fact I finally got over him is remarkable because whew. If I can do it, you can do it.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 09:56 PM
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Looks don't matter as much as men think. The last guy I dated was ugly. He was hip and fun to hang out with but definitely ugly. I had reservations at first but he was nice and seemed genuinely interested in me. And if a guy is hot, that's cool but what is his personality like? I cant just look at you all day. What will we talk about? Are you fun? Smart? Kind? Empathetic? Emotional intelligence is really fucking huge and red pill misses that completely. A lot of these guys are autistic and think…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 06:07 PM
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I haven't checked to confirm but good riddance. The mods were biased af.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 11:58 PM
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Leave lol. Wtf .. Being single is so much better than being with someone who makes you feel like shit.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 02:22 AM
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You just worded it as if it were some phase that has no real meaning. I'm saying that generally they are more emotionally fulfilling than m/f relationships for a lot of women and acting as if it's "nothing" which were your words is quite problematic IMHO
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 08:07 PM
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Awkchuallyy.... Relationships between women are generally a lot more emotionally, sexually intense, and profound. I remember watching a Netflix show about women in relationships with other women and came to reddit to talk about it. The straight girls were posting, is this what healthy and open communication looks like? Is this what I have been missing out on being with straight men?
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 11:18 AM
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You realize this has absolutely everything to do with you and nothing to do with her, right? you* are worried that you aren't good enough. You aren't worried that she is a slut. Let's be clear. You have a personal problem that you need to work through. If she is as amazing as you say... nvm I had a girlfriend at 19 and she's the only person that I can honestly say I've been in love with. I've loved men romantically but in love? I can't confirm that. I actually felt my heart explode into a millio…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 02:29 AM
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There are some parts of your post that I'm side eye'ing but in general I'm happy for you.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/23 06:11 AM
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Also, I went through this some months ago. Hung out with a dude and couldn't tell if he was into me so I asked him straight up and he called me and explained that he wasn't lmao.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/23 02:52 AM
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Sounds like a cop out but text her and see if she is hot or cold. If she seems interested, go for it. If she doesn't, let it go.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/23 02:50 AM
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Ehhhh..... I wouldn't put too much stock in the showing up part. How long did you hang out before she had to leave?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/23 02:30 AM
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I understand that you mean. RP thinks that the gym is a cure all and it's not. Wait, I forgot to mention getting money. They think money and gains will attract women and don't talk about their mental health or emotional intelligence. It's all shallow. Edited to add overall happiness with self, and accepting yourself while you're also working to be better. Meanwhile if they knew any actual gym bros they know that they get more attention from other men than women lmfao. I knew a dude who was absol…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/23 12:05 AM
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Exactly. I love wigs and make up and pretty much every single person I've ever been with said that they prefer me natural but I don't care lol. I do it because I like it.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/23 11:59 PM
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No one daily drives a ferrari. Most people with Ferrari's know that it isn't practical to drive one daily and the value would go down tremendously so they generally drive more practical car. Like dating a guy who is extremely attractive but void of substance and is impractical may be fun when you are 22 but as you age, you realize that you want a partner. Someone who can last the long haul and brings more value than just looks and fleeting excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:27 PM
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I get so relieved when people don't fall for the BS. Earlier he asked for a list of something that women want out of long termrelationships and some poor soul actually wrote a list like he was gonna take notes or some shit.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 02:46 AM
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You remind me of when I just want to vent to my therapist but he wants me to actually do something and I'm like no <3
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 02:43 AM
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I think that we can blame the government for a lot of shit black absentee father's isn't one of them. Jews went through a whole bunch of similar shit and their family structures didn't fall apart. Men still took pride in being providers, father's, and husband's. They do to this day. So many other persecuted people, their men were still men. Their men kept the community together. They were even tighter than ever. Unlike Black men who want to be white men so bad and take white women, most of those…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 09:13 PM
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The end.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 04:48 AM
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What exactly did I blame black men for? And btw... I'm not angry. Just so you know. I've seen you mention women and anger twice today and I would hope that you can learn the difference between women expressing their opinion in an honest and straight forward way and anger. Its hard to tell though text but automatically assuming that a woman is angry can't be great for your interpersonal relationships.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 04:47 AM
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I also felt very bad reading your post. I can be very harsh when speaking on black men but I guess its moreso implied than stated that its not all black men. I dont know what else to say.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 08:32 PM
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Bruh the fact that you went and posted in a divestor group after this post is CRAZY. I knew your username looked familiar. In general, a place that says "black women" or "black girls" is not for men. You can try "ask women" but those spaces are gendered for a reason. Thats why they went in on you. A divestor group is also pretty radical. Don't take it too much to heart.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 08:27 PM
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Im speaking very specifically about porn addiction and excessive masturbation. Just so we are clear.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 08:22 PM
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I believe that is what they call strawman argument so goodbye.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 07:35 PM
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No its not two sides of the same coin. Your logic is broken. You are still absolving the man and blaming the woman. Why? Im legitimately interested in knowing. People like you expect women to be all knowing and perfect and choose the right partner, but never tell men to be good partners or fathers. Or just pull out and stop being a slave to your penis and your own personal pleasure.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 07:06 PM
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Yeah I addressed this in my initial comment and the idea that an absent father is the fault of the mothers ability to choose a mate or his own mother for whatever weird reason takes away accountability and agency from men.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 06:46 PM
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FACTS ON FACTS.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 06:39 PM
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I guess attitudes or beliefs would be a better word
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 06:34 PM
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Who is it? You know you can click do not recommend channel
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 06:31 PM
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You seem really sweet. But yeah, i said masturbate too much, as in an excessive amount. The hand and the vagina feel very different and if you are used to a certain feeling and you have trained your body extensively to that feeling, sometimes its hard to cum with a vagina. Then they commence to jackhammer you half to death, or other things happen. Im not saying that he's forever ruined, im saying that he has time to not ruin himself and even if someone has an addiction, they can always change an…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 08:05 AM
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Soo you didn't read the post at all. You couldn't be bothered. You just commented some BS and reinforced my comment about black men blaming everyone but themselves for their behavior. Imagine being a grown man with a PHD and blaming your choice in women on people who made fun of you in high school 😂😂 like whet? You carried that hurt that long? Sir, go to therapy or just say you wanted to marry whoever you wanted instead of trying to blame 14 through 18 year olds olds for your grown ass male choi…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 07:31 AM
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Why? Because black men are allergic to accountability and responsibility. Everything is everyone else fault. Then black women reinforce this behavior because we are so stupidly race loyal to men who don't give af about us, and we coddle them. Anytime someone exposes a black mans negative behavior, its "You're just trying to bring a black man down." Instead of addressing his behavior, the woman is blamed for speaking up about it. Edit: if you're gonna downvote all my shit, at least have a rebutta…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 07:19 AM
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-The idea that people can confuse intimacy versus pleasure is very sad but it explains a whole hell of a lot. -Its easy to tell during sex when a guy masturbates too much and its the worst sex ever. i cant imagine that you would have much luck getting a female companion if you cant view her has a woman, and only as a vehicle for sex. Im guessing you dont have the charisma or charm to hide that very well. Another reason why you should actually get that under control. 1. To view women as human bei…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 01:21 AM
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The mods are also extremely biased. The incels can talk about women being fat sloots all day but as soon as you say anything even remotely spicy back to them, they will report you out the ass and the mods will be right there. Red pill fragility
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 10:38 PM
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That's infinitely better that r/purplepilldebate or any other RP subs full of males giving terrible advice and being completely wrong about what Women.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 10:17 PM
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Personality created by YouTube is too damn accurate
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 06:11 AM
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Its really not that hard because these males are textbook. You really deserve so much more and I hope you get it. The worst revenge you can get on him is to gracefully, lovingly, and happily move on.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 06:10 AM
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I also have a thought that your husband isn't only leaving you because you aren't allowing him to be the man that he wishes he could be. I dont want to be rude at all and thats not my intention at all so please don't take it as a slight, but im guessing that you dont fit the physical criteria of what a RP males fantasy woman would look like. He probably sees you as a negative reflection on himself in multiple ways. I do sincerely hope that you go to therapy in order to work through some of this.…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 01:15 AM
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I wish I had this guys number because I would completely annihilate his idiotic take. His overconfident balloon is going to be burst so incredibly quick. He thinks he's going to go out and find some gorgeous, submissive trad wife because for the first time in his life, he made a little bit of money. I would love to know even a ballpark amount of how much this man makes. Can he actually afford to be the provider? I dont mean just pay bills but also afford the lifestyle for this dream woman to liv…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 01:05 AM
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I find those things interesting as like a case study, not as in role models to look up to and idolize like they do.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 06:16 PM
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Adam is a culture vulture and I don't feel sorry at all for the backlash he is receiving. He has done absolutely terrible things to his supposed "friends." Like even he outted his day one for being with a trans woman and did that fuck shit when that same guys mother passed away. Now that being "black adjacent" isnt as profitable as it once was, he's starting to dabble in alt-right shit and im sitting back smiling like, i fucking told you so. He's all about money over any sort of integrity and he…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 09:09 PM
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Ive had a therapist for 3 weeks who made more of an impact than one ive had for a year and a half. I think people dont understand that different therapists specialize in different things. I had a therapist who specialized in trauma and she was the one who made the biggest impact on me in three weeks. I had another one for a few months and she was white but well versed in the intersections of race and gender and how that affected some of the things that I was working on. That informed her to ask …
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 08:13 PM
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/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 07:52 PM
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Im not sure what the problem is. How would you know if they wouldn't have liked you before unless you pursued them before and also after and they changed their tune? If it's just your perception then I'm not sure how reliable that is. I want to be in a relationship with someone I like and also someone I want to have sex with. Thats how most people are. Its not a personal slight against you so don't take it personal.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 02:41 AM
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This is the most pointless and unnecessary interaction I have ever had on reddit. I didnt read all of that. Bye
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 04:38 PM
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Yeah, in terms of science, cooking, and things like that. Personal body weight? I've literally never heard of anyone not using pounds unless its in a medical setting. Edit: btw after searching OPs profile, I was right 💖
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 02:36 AM
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What does life on easy mode actually look like is the question. IMO, women and men have different luxuries in life. Men get the luxury of making mistakes well into their adulthood while women are often treated as if we have some ability to learn things without having to experience them, so if we make mistakes, we become those mistakes and we should have known better. Ive had men tell me that they don't agree and that they dont get feel that they can make mistakes well into their 30s, but from my…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 02:34 AM
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Lol agree tbh. Im sitting here like wtf
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 02:04 AM
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The fact that you made inferences and put words in OPs mouth that werent there..... yeah... hard disagree. Im in my early 30s but often most guesses are mid 20s. Its women of all ages who are threatened by other women. I have noticed it happens in certain generations more than others but it could be for many reasons besides jealousy over appearances. Ive noticed women who are insecure and they feel threatened by my honesty and ability to speak up for myself. I've noticed women who are jealous of…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 02:04 AM
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Women do fucking go to war. You mean theres no draft? Okay. Sure. So by that logic, we dont "send" men to war in the US either because there hasnt been a draft in 60 years due to patriotism, 'merica culture, and dont forget bonuses. I personally know women who were blown up by IEDs and shot at just like men. Its so incredibly disrespectful to me every time I see this narrative.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 01:58 AM
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I would like seeing my man be approached by other women. I would like that he is confident and cool enough to be friendly and make connections with people. I would also like if he politely declined and went on about his business. This has happened to me several times in various relationships. Sometimes ill just sit and watch, even walk away if its early in a dating/getting to know each other space cause I dont own him. Jealousy isn't cute but if I was jealous, I would admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:33 AM
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This track's because red pill is so incredibly easy to spot and its an instant left swipe
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 12:16 AM
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Seeing that he used kilograms instead of pounds, I would think he wasnt in the US.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 12:04 AM
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Absolutely. When I was a regular in PPD, it wasnt for the assholes who downvoted me to hell for saying that women have dating struggles as well, but for even a single guy who was lurking to step back and reevaluate. I would always think, if my comments and posts even changed a single guys mind, its worth it.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 12:00 AM
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RP males always believe that they are the magical, special male that a woman would want to lose their virginity with. Why? What makes them so special? Sadly, it usually takes women a good number of years to really get comfortable sexually to actually know what they like and to get pleasure from sex. The amount of women who have never had an orgasm, who dont even know that women should have orgasms during sex, who dont even believe that they can have an orgasm during penetration is just sad. Most…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 08:54 PM
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Why do you believe that you can actually pull a woman with the snap of a finger? I would really like to know this. As for why red pill is so bad most RP, you seem incredibly insecure and at the same time, full of yourself. A boy wearing his fathers oversized suit thinking that you look an adult when everyone else sees you for the boy that you are. Every reason that you stated for being a better version of yourself, aside from the porn, is shallow. Thats the problem with RP. Clearly you have hit …
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 08:46 PM
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My exact thoughts
/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 12:33 AM
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I think that TRP hates the idea of being a stepfather because a child is the biggest indicator that a woman has been sexually active. Its a constant reminder that another man has been sexual with her. All that shit about financially supporting another mans child and whatever else BS they say is cope, especially because their whole thing is about making enough money that their money makes up for their terrible personalities.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 03:37 AM
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That last logic is wild 😂 a chef who has been cooking for 5 years at 1 Chinese restaurant is probably really good at Chinese cuisine. Ask him to cook Italian food at the same level he can cook Chinese food and there will be a learning curve.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 10:43 PM
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Body count? No. Mindset? Yes. Its incredibly simple minded to base someone's character on something like number of sexual partners. I know men with a couple sexual partners who are absolute dicks, and others with a lot of sexual partners who are great humans. You also take into account age, maturity level, emotional maturity over time, ect. If a guy in my age range sleeps with 2 people on average every year, some years hes locked in, some years he goes a little wild, that's 10 to 30 people. I fi…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 10:18 PM
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Chat GPT? You couldn't come up it with a few of your own? Even I named a valid criticism in my comment. Some I agree with: -language. This is huge. In college, I took a ton of classes on race, gender, class, sociology, history, ect. And I felt that the syntax was very inaccessible for the people it was designed to help the most. -Call out culture. Some things are blown out of proportion and some aren't. -neglect of mens issues. Sure, I get it to an extent but also, it seems like a cope. If men t…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 08:57 AM
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Honestly, this sounds made up 😂. I've been in many feminism spaces over the course of my big age and I've never experienced anything close to this. Like MGTOW, for example, they have a whole entire subreddit devoted to posting screenshots of women's dating profiles, making fun of women for being obese, having colored hair, being single mothers, having cats, standards, ect. I've seen them say horrible things about women like they aren't capable of love. What misandry? How does it actually affect …
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 08:23 AM
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Whats the worst of feminism?
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 12:44 AM
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I don't see what men find wrong with feminism. I honestly would like to hear valid criticisms of feminism because in theory, feminism benefits everyone. If half of the population and half of the people in marriages are able to financially support each other equally, that's a win. But when both parents are now working, who is taking care of the kids, cooking, cleaning, ect? Instead of helping to fill that void and evolving with the world, a subset of males would rather bitch and moan and blame th…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 12:32 AM
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MGTOW is one of the most toxic things I've ever seen.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 11:58 PM
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"You can be vulnerable and cry next time." Sounds like a sentence never uttered by a human being before 😂 People say, "people who play games shouldn't be in relationships," but that's intellectually lazy. Every relationship is going to have trouble communicating sometimes. Every relationship will have struggles. You cant expect to instantly be in a healthy relationship. You have to actively work on it. Soo, if any of these situations happen, work through it. Sometimes women ask silly questions j…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 09:13 AM
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Im definitely a woman but yeah
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 06:57 AM
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Yall are soo nice because boy... I wholeheartedly believe that OP should apologize to every single person he hurt. Its one thing to go through life with self-hate, its another thing to go through life with lies or rumors being spread about you simply because people cant deal with their own shit. Its hard for me to have compassion for OP because bullying and false rumors have completely transformed the way I move throughout the world. Don't get me wrong, im not saying that OP doesn't deserve rede…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 08:08 PM
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For someone well doesn't care about women, you sure talked about women a lot.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 07:11 AM
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What purpose is that?
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 07:09 AM
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you're conflating something totally consensual and equally beneficial to.. something that's not and illegal
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 10:39 PM
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It sounds like you have a lot of fear that you project onto the world.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 11:10 PM
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Agreed. Like giving someone control is extremely intimate.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 11:05 PM
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Kink shaming much? Wtf... sex should be whatever you want it to be as long as it is with consenting adults. How dumb do you think women have to be in order to be brainwashed into BDSM? Just because people talk about their kinks more openly, doesnt mean that anyone is brainwashed. Since this is your point, where is this brain washing coming from? Do you have some examples where women werent into BDSM and then slowly transformed into some kink monsters? If most women are attracted to harry styles …
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 11:04 PM
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Girl. My body count is up there but its maybe like 1% of the offers ive gotten lol
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 11:16 PM
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I know many men with a home and job who are trash individuals who have not healed or evolved into fully emotionally functioning adults and yeah... Good on they
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 05:52 AM
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This is a very honest and appreciated outlook. At least from my perspective. I've noticed that RP males often downplay the struggles that women face because they are too wrapped up in their own struggles. You want to get the ultimate downvote and telling off? Tell a RP male that women face challenges in dating too. Tell them that socially awkward women face the same problems that they do. They lack empathy. They lack compassion for anyone but themselves and that will never lead to a healthy rela…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 09:39 PM
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Youre giving males who follow RP far too much credit. The truth is that society is evolving and they cant keep up. They want to go back to a time when a man could attract a mate simply because he had a house and a job. They feel as though they have no control and RP is their means to take back control but its not working because women en masse have already decided that they want more out of a partner than him having a house and a job. They want to take away womens choice's because ultimately wom…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 09:32 PM
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You can't feel like comments are true or false. They either are or they aren't. And I can't believe that until I see proof of a lawsuit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:39 PM
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It depends if it's a good or bad relationship. I'll tell you some of the downsides lol As someone who suffers from depression,I think one thing that kind of shocked me in my early 20s was that it's not the quick fix to happiness that one might assume when you are naive. That's why when these incels cry online about seeing other happy couples, and adding they could have what they have, Im like dude, you have it all wrong. Whatever emptiness you carry with by yourself will be with you in your rela…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 09:10 PM
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I mean, I get it but it's just not a healthy way of looking at things. That's all im saying. It can almost become a self fulfilling prophecy. You assume your relationships will fail so you behave in a way that can further ruin them.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 09:04 PM
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If that's what you want to believe then fine but I will tell you that most relationships don't work out. So if you continue to look at it the way you do, your self esteem might crack.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 08:41 PM
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People are complex bro. A lot of people want to lose weight and still eat cookies and cakes and shit
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 08:35 PM
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Or it's just honesty
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 08:31 PM
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No but it's just going to be decentralized
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 04:25 AM
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Glad you see it. Kudos
/r/ExRedPill17/05/23 01:44 AM
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I can't really claim to know how you feel but if I can make a comparison, it's like continually watching videos on how to ride a bike instead of actually riding a bike. I mean, if you don't have a bike, you obviously cant practice riding it. Maybe challenge yourself to a month break and do something different.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 02:03 AM
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HA. PLEASE.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 01:36 AM
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It's so ridiculous to me that people choose to focus so much of how absent fathers affect women, when mother's can do just as much good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:33 PM
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I'm a simp for a few men but only ones who deserve it and I have no problems with that lol
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 11:21 PM
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Yess. All of RP arguments are based on men being victims. Men are victims in court. Men are victims of women. Men see victims of society. Men are victims of the media. Men are victims of feminism. I'm the same breath, they are better, smarter, stronger, more stable ECT and they demand respect and sex just for existing. They live in a victim mentality and instead of trying to compete with other men who are actually whatever they lack', they choose to humble women. They don't have the fortitude to…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 11:20 PM
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Non existent...
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 02:14 AM
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Any time a man calls a woman masculine, it really means that he sees himself as more feminine than her and that is that on that. Its like when someone says that a person is intimidating. The question is, are they intimidating or are you intimidated? Are black women masculine or are you feminine? Black women are some of the most feminine women that I have ever seen in my life. Black women are highly obsessed with having impeccable hygiene and beauty standards. On top of that, black women are the …
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 12:38 AM
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Just like wm have stereotypes and also clear indications due to behavior that they are school shooters, have the highest rates of pedophiles, incest, and serial killers. Numbers and facts dont lie. And the poor whites? Rampant drug use and are the faces of meth, cocaine use, LSD, fentanyl, heroin, ect.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 12:18 AM
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Black women are extremely race loyal and they shouldn't be. They are obsessed with the idea of "black love." Black women marry black men at a rate of about 97% but they also have the highest divorce rate. We also outnumber black men by about 2 million the last I checked. If I had a single wish for black women, it would be to be extremely, extremely picky about who they date/have children with and to set boundaries and expectations that are a lot higher than they are right now. People say that we…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 12:12 AM
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This. All. Fucking. Day. Do you watch YouTube? There are a couple of content creators who talk about this stuff regularly. Its chefs kiss
/r/ExRedPill11/05/23 11:58 PM
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Yeppppp. I was absolutely SHOCKED when I found those subreddits. The highest voted things were always trans and people of color, but specifically black women.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/23 11:56 PM
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Whoever downvoted me doesn't realize how men who are abusive usually turn abusive after marriage or getting a woman pregnant. But whatever...
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 10:01 PM
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I wouldn't say that you're wrong to bring it up but this isn't the audience to ask this question in. They don't tried to date the pretty, popular black girls in HS and they were ignored. Other races of women MAY have given them the time of day a couple times and now all black women are insert whatever negative stereotype The truth is that Black men in the manosphere hate black women because they hate themselves. End of story.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 07:49 AM
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Eh... i dont know. Its best if everything is natural and not contrived. There will be a time when flirting should happen but it shouldn't happen too soon or I dont trust it personally.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 09:01 PM
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No. A man could be abusive or just a POS and doing this could put some women in harms way. I know most states do a version of this already if a woman tries to apply for government assistance, they seek child support before assistance. I think theres a caveat if he is abusive.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 08:57 PM
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I haaaaate when they get upset that a woman who once slept around chooses not to have sex with them. Some of them legitimately feel offended and have some weird justifications on why its wrong. And when women say that they won't have sex with a guy because she wants to have a serious relationship with her and not ruin it by having sex too early, they have some weird justification for why thats wrong as well... all while shaming women with high body counts.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 08:48 PM
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fitting. The males who brag about how logical they are yet are the most emotionally unstable... very RP lol
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 04:13 AM
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"Never heard a truer quote." quote makes no fucking sense Men are out here being loved every fucking day. I should post some of the really gross texts i've sent to men praising them for literally doing nothing but being themselves and existing. Dont try to deny reality because its not YOUR reality. Men know so desperately in their hearts that not only do women love them but that women WILL love them and be able to love them, that a good portion of them don't even worry about finding love because…
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 02:20 AM
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Whew jesus
/r/ExRedPill04/05/23 10:12 AM
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No.. if a man has a legitimate reason to believe that the child isnt his, he shouldn't sign the birth certificate. And you also shouldn't have unprotected sex and ejaculate into a person that you dont trust
/r/ExRedPill04/05/23 07:34 AM
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So don't sign a birth certificate to a child if you don't trust that the woman is being truthful? I don't know what Mexican laws are regarding child support though.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/23 06:47 AM
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Im the kind of woman that a lot of men have opened up emotionally to. Usually I do it first and then they feel comfortable enough to follow. I dont even like to tell these stories online because its not my story to tell. I think consistency is very important and following his lead. If he talks one day about something intense and the next few days if he wants to be alone and process what happened, that's okay. I had one guy tell me that I want consistent enough for him. I couldn't handle the spac…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/23 06:19 AM
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.. in the age of DNA, this is not realistic. In most states they do a DNA test before the child support order. The only way a man can generally pay child support for a child who is not his biologically, is for a man who is married to a woman and she has the child within the marriage. Even then most states won't make the husband be responsible. This is not a true concern
/r/ExRedPill04/05/23 06:09 AM
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Do what you want but like... that's not RP, that's common sense. Your dad was a POS and your mom did what she could to keep her head above water. Plenty of single mothers give their children incredible, loving lives, your mother just didn't elevate for whatever reason. Again, what you look for is what you see. I can look at all of the media that shows that men are terrible people who are ruled by the desires of their sex drive, then add that to the majority of the men that ive met in life who we…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 10:22 PM
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Oh so she didnt come with baggage but you did?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 10:07 PM
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From what I can see, yes, to be totally honest. HOWEVERRR, what RP thinks Alpha men are versus who actual dominant men truly are is a HUGE difference.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 10:06 PM
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Its the way you're looking at it that makes RP seem right. For like 5 minutes, I couldn't figure out what was RP about your story. Everyone sees the world through their own perception and your perception is shaped by RP. Its like that one theory that talks about once you get a certain car, you start seeing that car everywhere. Its not statistically true that there are more cars, its just now you have a new connection.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 09:58 PM
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Aww u/RatDontPanic blocked me
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 09:24 PM
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This shit right here. The males in RP are clearly, unequivocally, without a doubt, no questions asked, NOT the types of men who have built this world. RP are the males that when they get around actual men, they call them "chads," their penises shrivel up and eventually retract back inside of their bodies until they are safe on the internet where they can be their true beta selves complaining, bemoaning, and saying all of the things that they couldn't dare say out loud in front of normal people. …
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 09:19 PM
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As if men don't like carefree, outgoing women who are the center of attention in whatever rooms they walk into. Fuck outta here.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 04:23 AM
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Yes its a turn off but there are plenty of women who dont care so he can date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:52 AM
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And? Whats the rest of your point?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/23 03:42 AM
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This is so crazy to me because men like women who treat them like shit as well. While dating, I've met sooooo many men who have talked about the women they loved the most and all of those women cheated and treated them like shit. Honestly im tired of coddling these insecure little boys. A lot of them are boring and weird and women don't want to hang out with them. I dont see why that's women's issue as a whole.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/23 03:40 AM
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End thread.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/23 03:27 AM
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Really lol? Someone who asks the definition of awkward. Jk lol. Tbh im definitely socially awkward myself but I try to make it work by talking to men one in one instead of in groups and things like that.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 07:58 PM
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If women in your own life don't care about you, why would I?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 04:56 AM
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Thats why I have begun calling them males instead of men. They are not men at all.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 10:07 PM
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When I talk to real men who don't have to put on a fake veil of masculinity
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 10:05 PM
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Where the fuck is your mother? You either have to be 14 or extremely autistic. Which one is it?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 10:04 PM
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Is it circular or is it common sense? If im attracted to a man who likes women who are kind and emotionally available, I need to focus on being kind and emotionally available. Thats all that means. I
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 09:58 PM
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The bare minimum to who? Who are you getting these numbers from? It cant be women. And im so sick of RP males and this idea that physical attraction is the only thing that gets them in the door. Someone can not be physically attracted until they get to know someone and the attraction grows. I'm going to make a post asking women and get answers from the horses mouth.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 09:54 PM
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Exactly my point. You think that being relatively tall, somewhat attractive, and having a job means that you are a catch. That's 1950s thinking. Having those things does literally nothing to maintain a relationship. And you didn't answer my question. What unrealistic standards do women have?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 03:15 AM
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The fact that you think that women have unrealistic standards means that you literally dont know any women and you don't actually talk to women and all you hear from are awkward/unattractive men who think because they cant get women, women have unrealistic standards. What unrealistic standards have you ever heard out of a woman's mouth?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 12:34 AM
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I think you can teach men to have masculine attributes but the core tenants of masculinity are intrinsic. You take a RP man and put him in a room with men who developed their masculinity from boyhood until adult and he will be the follower.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 11:12 PM
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Anyone who says this doesnt know women personally at all. Men are not struggling more than women when it comes to dating. Men typically control the pace of dating. Men control when relationships go from one stage to another. RP males say men but they really mean a specific type of males, not all men. RP males are so out of touch with what's actually going on with normal men and women, and they are so self obsessed that they think that their problems are the worst problems. They cant even conceiv…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 11:09 PM
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I dont think anyone can teach someone else how to be masculine. They may teach you tricks that trick women into thinking that you're masculine but eventually the guise will fall. You can possibly mislead a woman but as soon as you get around a group of men who are truly masculine, you're going to stand out like a sore thumb.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 07:13 PM
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I dont know. Im not very beautiful so I can't answer that but I do know that men typically treat beautiful women as a trophy or an object. Its hard to see the humanity in a beautiful woman from most peoples perspective. They are stunned by the beauty. I think that the pool of men gets bigger the more beautiful a woman gets but the quality of men isn't necessarily bigger. Its just more BS to wade through. There are definitely a lot of great men in the world, don't get me wrong though
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 06:55 PM
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Sorry, I meant autistic. Not authentic
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 06:40 PM
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How doesnt the modern world not let men live the way they want? What institutional barriers do men have? Honestly you sound like a child so it would be better to talk to male family members or your father, than random men on the internet who want money from you and to be as miserable as they are
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 06:39 PM
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Its called trying to support people who have gained enough self respect and self esteem to live their lives in a way so that they 1. Don't live in toxicity and anger and 2. No longer feel the need to prop their fragile self esteem with BS
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 07:40 AM
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This 1000%. Yes. This is so underrated. People always focus on what men what or women want, but how can you do that? All men want different things. Sure, there are general things that people want or might not want ... like someone who is kind or someone who stabs them but even that's debatable. I think about about being the kind of woman that the kind of man that I want would want. That's much less pressure than trying to be some archetype of a woman. Who I am as a person doesnt even fit into an…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 05:53 AM
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Dating is more hard if you're authentic but becoming black pill or red pill is going to make it harder for you to date. Men in these spaces may say it'll be easier but that's just a lie and a "cope." I remember a PPD post about after learning more about red pill, if someone trust men more or less and every single woman in the thread said that they either trust men in general less, or they make further protections to ensure they they avoid red pill men. If you just want to say fuck it and give up…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 05:39 AM
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I don't know why people are so obsessed with a rating system. I know that RP men are OBSESSED with opening because they are obsessed with the idea of simply having a chance. However, things that attract someone in the beginning, dont keep them. Beautiful people get broken up with all the time. RP love to bring up Leonardo DiCaprio and looks (and age) might attract someone to him, but it didn't doesnt mean that he will stay with them. Its sad that RP neglects the integral aspects of a personality…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 05:23 AM
2

I get hit on a lot in the wild and you have me in my feelings right now 🤣 but regardless of my feelings, I just find that not true lol. I work in a place with a lot of attractive women and I've been around men a lot and men always find ways to tell a beautiful woman that she's beautiful. Especially if she needs help. Maybe if 10 guys think 1 woman is beautiful, not all 10 guys are going to approach her but she's going to be approached. Even if they dont direct hit on her, they are going to find …
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 05:06 AM
1

5
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 02:17 AM
5

I dont think they are all broke and ugly. I think they typically work decent jobs and might look okay. Their personalities are typically shit though.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 02:16 AM
2

I would look better? To whom? The thread in which literally everyone disagreed with you? Or look better to you? A person who couldn't build your own sense of self esteem and self worth on your own so you had to seek out a cohort of awkward, lonely, and sad men who had to make up theories for why they can't attract women naturally? I'll give you a couple of reasons since your very small ego requires me to do such and im sure you aren't used to women listening to you or caring about you at all. Th…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 12:52 PM
14

Because in RP, men are seen as human and women are seen as objects
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 12:20 PM
2

Well duh. I'd rather waste my time talking about how idiotic the theory is than by explaining why its false to a brick wall who is intent on keeping their position. Of you were willing to concede some points, sure. But you arent so it's exhausting and pointless. Good ye.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 02:20 AM
3

Its clear that you have no intention on changing your perspective because any time anyone gives you their opinion of why it makes no sense, you push back. It seems like you're pushing a narrative instead of trying to change your perspective.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 09:58 PM
7

Shout out to the people who ignored this dumb ass theory.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 08:22 PM
1

Again, seek help.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 09:05 AM
1

Seek help. Please. What you probably mean is that no woman ever loved you.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 09:00 AM
4

No. We wanted different things. Its a long story 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:25 AM
4

I don't necessarily think you understood what I meant. Im not sure how you extracted women from the word partner. Men can feel the same pressures. That's literally your entire post. In general though, the one who holds the power in the relationship is pretty obvious to both people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:10 AM
2

You're right. It sucks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:03 AM
1

I definitely sensed an agenda but I was off in which direction it was coming from. I still think its pointless and disingenuous to respond to a comment about a certain time period, in a specific country, that was limited to about 5 decades, to counter with what women were doing for thousands of years in a vague geographical area. In the US, which is what im referring to, which is what I specifically mentioned in my first comment, women entered into the workforce in a way that they never were, du…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 05:03 AM
2

I think that "fundamental truth" just isn't accurate. You can love someone else without loving yourself. Plenty of people do it all the time. A more accurate statement should be something like, you cant have a healthy relationship if you don't or dont know how to set boundaries and know what you want, or at least willing to learn what you want. Part of that natural progression is dating, being in relationships, and experiencing things for self. Secondly, you write "men" but you really mean certa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:47 AM
1

When you all say "women," I wish you would all qualifiers. Certain KINDS of men. There is a huge, huge push these days to stop giving boyfriends treatment that you should be giving husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:32 AM
3

Maybe. Or you can learn to adjust. I had to learn that the way I was loving someone wasn't necessarily the way that they best received. If you truly love someone, you will want to love them in the way they receive that, and with effort, you can change that. As long as they are willing to do the same for you. If they aren't, bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:30 AM
9

I eventually grew to feel uncomfortable in relationships where men loved me more. It was nice, especially at first but eventually it wasn't nice anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:28 AM
21

I've heard women say that men should love then more. Ive heard men say that women should love them more. From my personal perspective, when a man has loved me more than I loved him, I had the power. When I loved a man more than he loved me, he had the power. It really comes down to what you desire. If you want a happy and heathy relationship where no one is being neglected or taken advantage of, both partners should love and respect equally. If you want a partner to live in constant anxiety and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:24 AM
1

Absolutely not. How old are you?
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:09 AM
1

I was going to explain further and break it down but im pretty sure you're just upset with the fact that women have been able to create a movement that changed the entire course of history and awkward, lonely men today cant even get their movement off of the internet. Byeeee.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 03:17 AM
2

Whats the difference between what I said and what you said? Again, you're being disingenuous. Why are you talking about Lords and serfs when im speaking of the 1950s and 60s? 🙃 Women, now than every before, across class and racial lines, are able to at least take care of themselves financially. The men who have not been able to evolve mentally or emotionally from the 1950s are now all over the internet complaining about this and attempting to shame women into submission. Wont work.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 08:43 AM
3

No
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 07:17 AM
2

Yall are being so disingenuous. Im talking about the US. We can break it down by race and class if you want. Sure. Black women in the US have always worked outside of the home. This is nothing new. Before the Industrial Revolution, poor women and non-white women worked on farms, as maids, as concubines and prostitutes. Women were barred from titles such as Doctor and Lawyer even if they were fully capable. After the Industrial Revolution women worked in a way that was an assistant to men. Women …
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 12:50 AM
4

There are a lot more regular posters and people who push back more recently. Despite that, I couldn't stay.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 12:33 AM
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Bro!!!! Literally what I just wrote. Im glad im not the only one. I should make a subreddit to make fun of them so we can say what we want without the mods and there "be civil." Ive been banned for the most ridiculous things that werent even offensive.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 12:32 AM
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The mods are so incredibly biased towards the red pill/black pill shit. They let them get away with anything. Thats what I dont like, besides the extreme lack of insight from a lot of users. I have personal experience with some users and it was TRASH.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 12:30 AM
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I hate this because women were not even allowed to do things. They weren't allowed to read or go to school, own property, even divorce in certain countries. Women in this US have had since the 50s/60s to catch up to CENTURIES of male domination and now in some major cities, women are out-earning men. In 2 generations, women went from washing dishes to creating an entire movement that affected real, tangible change. Women are amazing. So yes, women individually don't need men and can survive with…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 12:59 PM
2

No that's a great point actually. I didn't know that breathing and grounding exercises did that! I thought it was some foo foo stuff!
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 07:54 PM
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You have to accept that all relationships fail before you meet your spouse. Everyone takes L's in relationships. Everyone. Aquaman was left. Brad Pitt was left. Its like saying that you are afraid to work out because of the physical pain. The pain might break you down temporarily but ultimately it facilitates growth if you keep building that muscle. To find love, you have to experience loss as well. You cant skip the loss and lead to success. Most marriages have years where the people don't like…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 11:38 AM
1

The fact that the most privileged demographic of men on the entire planet who face virtually zero systemic oppression feel discriminated against is insane to me. I always say that when people say "white men" or "white people" they don't actually mean specific individuals, but the system.... which was created and is maintained by them. You have to accept the reality of the situation. Imagine actually facing discrimination and oppression. Imagine that there are systems designed to hold not only yo…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:44 AM
1

I think its more of a self-esteem thing so whereas you're not necessarily afraid that women will treat you like your mother but moreso you don't truly believe that you actually deserve love and affection. I think the next time you meet someone, just let it happen. When you feel vulnerable and afraid, just keep going. Really pay attention to your feelings and explore them. Ask yourself questions. What am I actually feeling? What am I afraid of? Whats the worst that could happen?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:34 AM
1

The body keeps score is good but it didn't hit how I thought. I thought it was going to be more about how to heal but it was more... scientific/textbook like.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:26 AM
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Iono but he's fine af
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:06 AM
2

They will never succeed because they go from socially awkward to socially repugnant. Their beliefs alienate them more from what they want. They may feel some form of community from other men but thats about it
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 02:37 AM
2

This lol. As a grown woman, i've given men notes to keep it on the low lol
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:25 PM
2

I asked you what kind of personality you like and you didnt mention much about personality at all. You seem like you want some kind of answer sheet but all women are different and all women not only respond differently but the same woman could respond differently to different men. One day she could be attracted to shy and artsy. The next she could be attracted to funny and straightforward. But i dont know. Im not a dude. I act like myself and don't change based on who im around. I like men who a…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:23 PM
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I get it. And it kind of sucks. If im not attracted to a guy, I can be so open and talkative and real. As soon as I get around a guy I like, I get shy and question everything. If I get a guy one on one, its much easier. What kind of girls do you like, personality wise?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:24 AM
2

Im that way. I don't have a lot friends and I don't want any. It hasn't really affected my dating life because I don't date people who are outgoing and need to have a wild social life. Im upfront about being a homebody. I do like going out to shows and dinner but i'd rather just be with one or two people there. Not every single woman is attracted to the loud and outgoing guy. To me, that guy is overcompensating. He needs that praise and attention because he is a people pleaser. Obviously not alw…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:48 AM
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Practice. Hang out with people that are less high stakes and who you aren't attracted to. Don't lead them on or anything but practice. If you can be totally confident and comfortable around certain people, you'll have more confidence that you can open up when the right woman is around. Also, have things to talk about. Interesting, fun things that you can discuss.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:39 AM
1

I mean, men do the same thing. Not that it negates how you feel AT ALL. Im not trying to say that whatsoever. I just mean that unfortunately its what happens when you are kind to people. Certain people really kind of have low self esteem and they chase after people who don't want them. When someone likes them, they feel like the person must be desperate or weak or whatever because why else would they be attracted to someone so inferior? Its really not about you. I know it feels like its about yo…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:28 AM
1

Don't want what?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:11 AM
1

Same lol. Delusion.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 05:58 AM
2

The idea of working on yourself is more about being able to build up an identity so that you know what you want and you have healthy boundaries. Obviously having an authentic identity is a turn on for a lot of people and you solidify that while you work on yourself. To be totally honest, when I tell RP men to work on their personality and emotional maturity its because a lot of them, just like your example, don't really understand what it takes to create intimacy, trust, ect. ect. Your version o…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 05:50 AM
1

The point being what?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 05:41 AM
1

9 people liked this? I was with you until "women like that lead very empty lives." How do you know that? Im not a model by any stretch of the imagination but I know personally quite a few men lead with money or things by their own volition. Here we are again blaming women for men's actions. Just gross This is PRIME r/notliketheothergirls
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 12:17 AM
1

That makes perfect sense
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 12:12 PM
1

Sounds like your brother is miserable and misery loves company. I'd suggest you cut him off to protect your mental health. He wont change and when challenged, he will probably bury his head further in the sand and end up treating you worse and worse, therefore agitating him in a time when he should be focusing on his wife and child. I guess you could also say that this is the perfect time to change his mind if he were willing to try but doubtful. me. You can check in with your sister in law beca…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 10:59 AM
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2 lovers and 13 friends??? I dont know anyone IRL who believes these things. No offense but im just trying to understand. What kind of people do you hang out with? About how old are you?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 10:40 AM
1

I love the idea of these weir...men not wanting to be with a woman who is too successful while also not wanting to support a woman. Should it be like the standards of social welfare? Is there a mark above the poverty line that a woman should fall? 107% above the poverty line? 120%? They want a woman to be able to pay all of their bills yet live paycheck to paycheck? I will say that people definitely change as they get older. I had a long term relationship with a man who said he would never date …
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 01:31 AM
2

Honestly they just don't like women in general.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 01:18 AM
1

And some women would smash first date so..
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 04:05 AM
1

Eh... I don't want to f my friends. I want to f someone who is emotionally available, mentally stable, and attractive to me. Don't confuse someone with a decent personality and their head on straight as a friend.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 07:46 PM
1

I wouldnt say it always takes a while. If you have a great therapist, they can help you figure things out within a few sessions but thats rare IMO
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 05:03 AM
1

What alternate reality do you live in? Please find me an example of a woman in here saying that they will only fuck someone 6' Women know this for a fact that all kinds of men can pull women. This is why we tell men to go outside and go to therapy because we know that a less attractive partner who is emotionally regulated and an all around decent person, is better than an attractive dude who sucks. Its the men in here who like to parrot over and over that women are only having sex with 20% of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:16 PM
0

I can guarantee you that we don't ever think about who you sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:42 AM
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This is like saying that digestion should be based only if the person who eats the food consents to it. Once you put that food in your mouth and swallow it, you can't stop your body from digesting it and call consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:35 AM
1

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:24 AM
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Apparently not since you're still unfulfilled.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/23 05:25 AM
5

Honestly it sounds like a low self-esteem thing disguised as confidence.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/23 10:05 AM
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.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/23 05:21 AM
5

Do you have more specific questions?
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 03:56 AM
13

Depends on the women. We all do different things
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 02:32 AM
1

I watched this and then started to fall asleep and then I dreamed that I was at your house lol. Where are you from btw? Also, you made some great points. I will say that as women, we also feel a certain pressure of being the "good girl" vs the "fun girl." Men well often say that they won't wife the "fun girl" but they will cheat on their wives and girlfriends with them. They will like these women's pictures, hook up with them, spend years in situationships with them, fall in love with them, and …
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 05:25 PM
3

Outgoing and dominant aren't even mutually inclusive. I want someone dominant but not necessarily outgoing. I'm an introvert and I lean more socially quiet. Its hard to explain. I can speak out and stand up for myself and others with no problem but i'll never be the life of the party. I'd like a man who is dominant but if he liked to be the life of the party, I probably wouldn't be a good match for him.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 03:13 PM
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Its not as large as they think it is.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 03:05 PM
3

Are you actually ex red pill?
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 05:38 AM
4

Im not the one pretending to be happy and excited about something only to come in the comments and reveal that im actually terribly bitter and unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:39 AM
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Do whatever you want. Say what you want. Men and women both have grievances with dating. Thats.. pretty normal. Men are out here behaving terribly though. Its just a fact.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 10:55 AM
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You being disappointed that women aren't posting their own assault stories? Im not sure I can explain how off-putting that made me feel. Your post has a lot going on and I'm not sure I can actually type this out in words. This would be more if a long phone call or something. I will say that men should not look in all women spaces to get women's feelings. We will paint men with a broad brush because we know that we dont really mean all men. Men will read it and not understand that we truly mean t…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 10:10 AM
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Personally, I find jealousy to be the most pointless of emotions. Most other emotions actually serve a purpose but jealousy just seems so incredibly stupid. Any woman who finds herself pining after whatever another woman has is going to end up incredibly unhappy. So, if all of the women you know behave that way, maybe you should meet some mature women who have grown out of that phase. Most of the women I know are girl's girls and hype up other women all of the time. Again, I think this is anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:06 AM
5

Hi Chad. Why havent you returned my calls? Ever since you pumped and dumped me, I've been waiting for you with baited breath, hoping that one day I will have another chance at simply being in your presence. Please call or at least text. If not, I might have to alpha widow one of my orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:58 AM
4

I actually date and know very normal men and they think that RP is absolutely ridiculous. They see right through it like women do. The idea of "chad" is ridiculous and doesnt exist. Red Pill made him up so they could futher explain why women aren't dating them because if they arent dating RP, then they must be dating some mythical perfect creature named Chad. No. We are dating normal men who do normal things that normal people do. Just because we dont find RP attractive for a laundry list of rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:55 AM
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Who cares? Whats your point? This OP is about passport bros but somehow we are back to talking about women again. Talk about cliche
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:31 AM
5

Its hilarious that Chad has a fulfilling life and doesnt have to go overseas to feel wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:29 AM
14

Are you okay? Your whole energy changed from your OP until now. Maybe you should leave sooner so you can have some fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:26 AM
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Basically lol. The fact that his post was like "look how much fun we could have!" And im like... go have it then and he got mad... I think he actually wanted women to feel jealous or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:20 AM
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Im sure you like to tell yourself that but "Chad" has family and friends who love him, plus a good job and his pick of women. Why would he feel compelled to travel overseas to find a wife? Please be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:20 AM
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Maybe we keep saying it because its a fact. If "Chad" was wanting to leave, we would have a problem. But "Chad" isn't leaving. So... have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:12 AM
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If you all want to leave so bad, go. The demographic of men who make up passport bros aren't really in the dating scene in a way that would impact it much at all. The majority of American women don't want to date passport bros. The majority of passport bros seem to find lots wrong with American women. Its a seemingly mutual feeling so pack your bags and go. However, it is interesting that these men often record their adventures overseas and engage in the same behaviors with these women that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:56 AM
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I hope yall don't live in pigsty's the way you're acting like cleaning isnt that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:37 AM
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Sometimes when im on youtube and I see men complaining about imaginary household chores, I just chuckle because they struggle to even get a match on an app and a text back, let alone a household filled with a wife and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:36 AM
0

Just go already. In fact, we should get every woman in the US to donate .50 to these "bros" so they can leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:27 AM
1

Did you actually harm anyone or just have shitty beliefs?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 03:15 AM
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Its like drug or alcohol addiction. You cant help someone who isn't ready to be helped yet.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 02:10 PM
0

Yeah I knew when I found you in that other sub, you were red pill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:54 AM
1

Most single mothers I know have zero issues with dating in terms of children anyway. Maybe youre a lot younger than I am though. Im sure its my age group but most people my age have children and prefer to date others with children.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 03:53 AM
13

Are you in high school? That's the only way it makes sense to me that people around you are asking if you're a virgin.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 10:10 AM
15

Soo glad you got out and are enjoying life much more now.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 10:06 AM
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(If this were a college paper it would be much better organized but I typed as things popped into my head and she doesn't deserve even 5 minutes of me mental energy) She's the absolute worst. She's everything that she tells women not to be. She says that women like to be abused and cheated on because they don't leave relationships after those occurrences. She said that women should stay in abusive relationships because they should have chosen better. She's 27 and unmarried. She majored in busine…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 05:44 AM
1

Get real, please. Exception to what? An amalgamation of studies? I tend to get mods in my comments every time I say something like this but most of you in here dont even talk to women IRL. Most of you know nothing about women on a personal or intimate level. Then when women actually share their opinion and it doesn't line up with what you heard online, you think they are lying or "trying to be an exception."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:38 AM
1

Its pretty stupid. I always think when people say things like that, like if your perfect most beautiful person looked exactly the same but with dark skin, would that automatically make them ugly? Just crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:17 AM
1

Interesting, alright. I guess I'm just pretty shocked by others idea of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:15 AM
15

Lmfao send halp
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 09:35 AM
13

Okay well then don't date him.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 03:52 AM
1

Lmaoo dude. I did not know that was a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:50 AM
1

These women are above average in looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:48 AM
2

I get where you're coming from but black women don't care. Obviously hes... You know. But for the sake of black women, I'd prefer that men of all races who aren't attracted to them, stay the hell away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:47 AM
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You're definitely not the only person to notice this. They scream that women don't hold themselves accountable but they don't hold themselves accountable for anything that they can't change. They will say they need a better job, hit the gym, but that's about it.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 03:32 AM
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Well then be with him then. You know what the red pill men say, lower your standards or you'll be single forever. No but real shit, 80/20 is a real thing. No one is going to be perfect. If you like him, he treats you well, respects you, empowers you, go for it.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 03:30 AM
2

This is so incredibly frustrating that people focus so much believing that RP rhetoric is the problem. RP isn't necessarily the problem. Of course its morphed into something highly toxic but the problems are more about the thoughts and beliefs of the people who are apart of it. A lot of them are clearly dealing with emotions that they might not even understand what they are or where they originate from. They might not have dealt with trauma but they have a deeper understanding of how different e…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/23 10:01 PM
0

Yall are really not okay.
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 04:58 AM
1

No they don't. Please stop dragging good men into this BS
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 04:54 AM
3

What do you think "it" is?
/r/ExRedPill29/03/23 07:44 PM
7

Therapy really helps. A lot of people find excuses not to go but if you find someone who specializes in trauma, they can really help you get down to the things that drew you to RP in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/23 07:44 PM
3

💖💖💖💖 so proud and happy for you
/r/ExRedPill29/03/23 07:41 PM
1

Yeah lol. I had to lower my ego twice to get a chance to talk to him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:07 AM
1

Honestly, that's your prerogative but why would I have to lie to men on reddit about what I like? What would be the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:22 PM
2

Me? Can people learn to communicate better? Yes. Can people change their entire personality? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:20 PM
2

Exhibit A
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:18 PM
2

You're right. They all learn it since youth. No one ever has a glow up in HS or college, post grad and learns then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:12 AM
2

Do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:54 AM
3

They dont care what I think lol. But you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:51 AM
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Not all men learn it early. Look at men like Michael B Jordan. In HS he was called corny. Memes of him pop up about him being the kid who had the best pokemon cards. Now hes a sex symbol. People learn it differently through different routes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:51 AM
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If only you saw these men alone and in a bedroom would you feel like you two arent that different. I met this young guy last year. Very attractive. Super rizz. I found him so fucking cool and different from everyone else so I slid him a little note lol. I didnt want anyone to know I was feeling him . It was lame but whatever lol. It worked. Anyway, we ended up spending hours talking night after night and his personality just the two of us was not the same as it was when he was around other peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:46 AM
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Im attracted to people who are genuine and true to themselves. Even the so called "natural" guy could be putting on some type of show. You may see it as natural but if you talk to those guys intimately, a lot of them have just as many insecurities and problems as the second guy. I rarely get attracted to the life of the party. He may be fun but those people can sometimes thrive off of attention and they have no sense of self. Not all of them but a good amount of them are compensating for somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:29 AM
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Reading a pick up artist book isn't exactly "developing skills and evolving." Not trying to knock the guy but he could do things they he actually enjoys and meet women who share similar interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:16 AM
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Its me, hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:13 AM
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I as a woman will give completely 100% honest answers here and they'll be like, "study from tinder shows that 55% of women disagree so you must be lying."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:05 AM
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So I really hope you don't use OKC studies to back up your beliefs surrounding dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:03 AM
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10/10 I don't believe that all or even most the men you "know" have said this to you. 10/10 believe that you're basing these assumptions off of some Tiktok videos. To look at trash relationships and base your understanding of relationships off of them is WILD. That's like watching Maury and thinking that all couples behave that way. Either you're 17 and none of your friends have ever had a real relationship, or your friends have a very broken picker and probably date women based off of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:02 AM
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Many women might not be comfortable with this at first but I always prefer to get to know someone alone instead of in a group or crowd. Asking them to step away for a drink or a short walk or even for a chat in the corner is my go to.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 03:17 AM
1

I've watched a video of women explaining why they prefer men with college degrees. I didn't necessarily agree but they talked about the value differences and social differences. I think they were stereotyping but basically they wanted a man that they felt they could relate to. They wanted him to be able to have an interest in things that blue collar men aren't stereotypically into.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 03:15 AM
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I could never spend my mental energy worrying what anyone else's standards besides my own and the person im interested in. What a waste of time and doesnt help you at all. In fact it'll probably negatively affect you because you're inadvertently or intentionally comparing yourself. And as they say, comparison is the thief of joy.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 03:06 AM
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This so much. Even if 60% of women want a guy taller, more educated, that leaves literally billions of women who don't. Im so sick of people using statistics to try to cheat code dating. People are individuals. If a statistician asked me what I prefer, this guy would just be the perfect man. Would I date and marry a guy who was different from my idea of "perfect" Yes. Duh. If I met my perfect on paper man and he was a dick, not likely because kindness and compassion are on my list, I still would…
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 02:59 AM
1

And of thread.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 02:51 AM
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Its like an addict who gets sober and once life gets difficult, they start to think about going back to using. Your brain will automatically go back to what brought you relief but you have to remind yourself that red pill didnt actually make your life better, its like a bandaid. Like others have said, you have to essentially cure the disease and but just treat the symptoms.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 02:49 AM
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I commend you for trying to work through this but it's wild to me that anyone would care about a persons sexual history if there are no STDs or anything that would actually affect you in a real way. Something that I try to do in dating is to see this person as a clean slate. I don't want to bring my past negative experiences and make them have to fix issues that other men created. If that show me that im important to them, why would I distract from what we could build together with women from hi…
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 02:00 AM
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You said it best. Theres dating truths for "normies" dating truths for men who feel pulled to the red pill and for everyone inbetween. They aren't the same and anyone who believes that there are universal truths is highly unsocially aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:52 AM
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I'll tell you with 100% honesty, no bullshit, these men know nothing about women. They use studies found on dating sites and stories they they have heard from other men online to make them feel as if they "know" women. If you look at the post last week that asked women how they feel about men after being in PPD/TRP, 99% of them said they view red pill men more negatively. They said that they will make an effort to stay away from RP men and they they appreciate more the men in their lives who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:36 PM
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If to think that being a terrible person who gets to have sex with a woman is "doing better" than a man who is actually a decent human being, I don't really know what to say to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:27 PM
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At the end of the day, who cares how it started? But since you ask, men. Question two, the same reason why you refuse to answer my question. Its hard to admit perceived weakness because especially RP men have a hard time taking accountability for themselves. Its much easier for them to blame women and blame "chads" because if they took an honest look in the mirror, they would have to take accountability. They would have to take a step forward. By putting the blame on others, it puts the onus of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:24 PM
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So eloquently put. Thanks for taking the time to write that with honesty. Its extremely sad. These men are making a bad situation worse. Im happy to see that you have climbed out of it and hopefully you're happier and in a better place mentally. I wish I could cut the comments off because it seems like a lost cause. I'll always go back to the post about how women who read PPD/RP content and how it affects the way they view men. The majority of them say that it makes them more cognizant of stayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:04 PM
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The fact that you said that is hilarious. Does TRP not teach men how to help women trust them? Wtf kind of dating advice do they give y'all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:29 AM
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I literaaaalllly said in my first comment that I texted him that the chemistry wasn't there after the date. Are y'all okay?'
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:23 AM
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Well, I don't disagree with anything that you said here except for the part about "normies wont admit." I think its more like what you said about their diagnoses being extreme. Most people believe that there is piss in the dating pool. Im starting to believe that this sub really isnt for me for a number of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:20 AM
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Maybe you would benefit from taking a course on grammar if I say "I don't like men who beat women." Am I talking about all men? No. There is a descriptor there that explains which type of men. Same as I said, "RP men who who indicates that im talking about a specific type of men in the RP but this is literally pointless so please so kthxbye
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:14 AM
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Frat boy who has sex in his early 20s? Makes sense. 30 yo grown man who thinks that acting like a frat boy will get him sex? Weird. I do understand that not all people have the opportunity to interact with people in a dating setting so data is all that they have. However, human interaction is so complex that you cant use data to learn how to interact with people. Unless it says that 99% of women like a certain thing, you're still going to be dealing with millions, if not billions of women who do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:11 AM
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Soo you're not going to actually respond to my question? Got it. End of conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:56 AM
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Lmfaooooo what? Have a good night
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:20 AM
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I'll break down the title and how it relates to my post. Title: do RP men who are extremely discouraged by dating ever consider how their attitudes come across towards woman? OP: do you think that the woman of your dreams would be attracted to someone who has a general disdain towards women? Do you have a plan to work through your frustrations? Okay. When I wrote in the title: "attitudes," I further clarified in my post that said attitude, is disdain towards women. In the next sentence, I wrote …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:20 AM
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Bro. I think you're a bro anyway but this. This 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:04 AM
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I think you mean people who get off the internet and who go on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:03 AM
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Ooooh. Men who joined an "ideology" thats all about tactics to try to get women totally understand women? If that were the case, the men you consider "chads" would join the red pill to get more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:59 AM
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Tall fit men like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:56 AM
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So did you not read my actual post? You just read the title?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:55 AM
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Some men have enough money that they don't mind using it. Its okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:54 AM
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Tell me you don't know how dating works without telling me you dont know how dating works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:34 AM
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How is it that funny when this entire post is a man going out of his way to ultimately shame fat women? OP is literally is an example of my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:32 AM
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Because that's LITERALLY what im talking about. I dont know how much more simple I can make my point but i'll try. Me not care about red pill ideology. Me talking about men who have are very sad and very angry. How do men very sad have good time with girl? If me very angry, men can see. Men see, men leave. If very angry man want woman stay, how do angry man fix self so woman stay. Example: racist man online say bad things. Racist man in real life, still racist. How racist man think, racist man a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:29 AM
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I edited
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:16 AM
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Theres a difference between fat women wanting men who aren't attracted to them to mind their own business and stop talking negatively about them vs wanting people to be attracted to them. Why would anyone want someone who doesnt want them? Just like the men who complain that women only want men who are 6' tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:15 AM
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More likely that you dont understand what people actually talk about when getting to know each other. What do you talk about on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:12 AM
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u/tired_hillbilly AGAIN, im not talking about RP ideologies, im talking about the feelings that either attracted these men to TRP or they keeps them engaged in it. Im not talking about simply being a red pill, but being angry, bitter, frustrated, discouraged, ect. How do these men navigate conversations with feelings that will obviously color the way that they think, talk, feel. Which is it? Do women have misogyny-detecting radar or not? Can women detect through conversation and actions it a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:58 AM
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At least you answered the question. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:56 AM
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I dont think you quite understand what body positivity means. Believing that bodies shouldn't be shamed does not mean that you have to sexually attracted to those bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:55 AM
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I really don't need a study to tell me that terrible men get in relationships. Duh. But those women are generally miserable in them and the men must be miserable as well since they are acting out in such a childish and immature way. I don't find think those relationships should be used as an example of why it's okay to be a bitter and angry person. I would hope that people would be emotionally stable enough to handle their negative emotions before they enter a relationship so their relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:54 AM
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Uhm... yah, that's why I texted him and told him that I didn't feel chemistry. And also why im not texting him back because I know it'll be a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:47 AM
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So you're one of those who think that its just harmless internet banter and IRL they just go to being completely normal people who don't say disparaging things about women? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:46 AM
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Obviously like many people have said already, I would hope they aren't dating and talking about "chads" and "betas" but if you have a conversation with someone, its not really hard to get an idea about the lens in which they view life. I literally just went on a date earlier today and the past few days, we've spent talking on the phone for hours talking. We talked about our previous relationships, about what we are looking for in our next relationship. Im so confused about why people think that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:43 AM
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Omfg 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:31 AM
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I went on a date today for the first time in a few months. I texted him and told him that I didn't feel chemistry and he was so kind about it that I kind of want to give him another chance but I think it'll be a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:24 AM
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My turn: She's painfully mediocre and her lack of research before debates is embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:22 AM
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So you're saying that a woman who has expectations for her partner and then when she meets a man who meets those expectations, she wants him? Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:20 AM
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Why do you care what "fat feminists with purple hair" want?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:18 AM
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There are overlapping beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:59 AM
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I don't date think that a RP man could emotionally or mentally satisfy me in a relationship so its okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:58 AM
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Reading is fundamental.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:56 AM
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If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:54 AM
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Comparing victims of sexual assault to men who can't get a date is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:53 AM
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The first part is an honest interpretation and makes sense. But you all still aren't answering my question 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:52 AM
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My heart. Im super happy for you. Thats exactly it. Exactly it. That's the answer to sooooo many problems that people have. And essentially thats what im trying to get at.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:20 AM
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Well alright. I hope you're happy in your relationship despite what you had to do to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:19 AM
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Im not talking about politics, im talking about having a negative perspective about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:17 AM
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So... you cant tell the difference in conversation between someone who is bitter and angry versus someone who is in a healthy place mentally?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:14 AM
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I'll never say, "just be happy." Obviously thats bs. Depression and despair dont work that way but you do have to honestly consider how to handle that. I remember going through a rough time and hanging out with friends and only talking about my problems and the shitty sides of life. Thats what friends are for but if I went on a date with someone in that space and I couldnt have fun or show my true personality because I was in such a terrible mental state, it would surely affect the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:12 AM
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No I totally agree. I said this earlier this evening in a comment when a guy was talking about how social proof doesn't matter. And I responded similarly to you, if a woman doesn't actually care about you and isnt interested in a relationship built on love and support, she wont care about the type of person you are as long as you can provide. But a woman who wants to wants to have a genuine connection built off of love and respect will care if you are kind to others, if your mental and emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:08 AM
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Uhm maybe thats why they are now exes. You think women who have a healthy mindset want to be with a man who treats her like trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:02 AM
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Im not talking about red pill philosophy. Im talking about men who are angry and bitter. How do they navigate those beliefs while working through a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:59 AM
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I guess that's a pretty balanced way of looking at things. But I think again, im talking about the men who are in that anger phase. How do they plan on working through that phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:58 AM
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I think that you missed the point of my post. Im not talking about RP beliefs. Thats a whole different question. Im talking about the men who think that women are terrible and shallow and only care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:56 AM
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You called it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:41 PM
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There are instances where a woman is not initially attracted to a man and he's not her type but after getting to know him and seeing how he treats others in his life and how he thinks and behaves, she develops an attraction based on other things. But to your point, of course if you're not attracted to someone, them having positive social proof wont do anything. However, at that point, nothing will help you. But I will tell you that to you if you have a negative attitude and believe like many men…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:39 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:23 AM
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🙄🙄🙄 Its not simply any friendships, its the idea that positive and long lasting friendships of any type can say a lot about a person. Just how they say you can tell a lot about a man by how he treats his mother. Its called social proof. It shows that he can work through conflict in a way that doesn't push away others. It shows that he is loyal to people he cares about. It shows that he can treat women with respect enough that they stick around him. It shows that he values women outside of his ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:22 AM
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All of that ^ 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:36 PM
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Okay mr low self esteem
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 10:14 AM
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Where did I say mental illness?
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 01:59 AM
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How do you know this to be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:03 AM
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Yes and no. Some aspects of being attractive are sort of difficult to deal with. Some things are easier. Some things about being unattractive are hard to deal with. Not sure what upsides there are. Edit since a lot of people cant fathom how attractiveness can be a negative: Jealousy is a hard one. Jealousy in friendships, jealousy at work, jealousy in social situations. I can be so nice and kind and go out of my way for people, and some of them will still choose to fake some sort of competition.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:02 AM
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I was with it until I heard the reason. Poor guy
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 12:50 AM
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Don't forget your wallet
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 12:47 AM
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My thoughts exactly. Im sooo fucking sick of the ridiculous argument that "im nice and women don't like me so women must be lying about liking nice men." No... theres clearly something else wrong with you.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 12:43 AM
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I think you're sort of missing the point here. There are overarching themes that men in TRP miss, specifically mental and emotional intelligence, that I think most women are looking for. Men in PPD will post things like, girls don't actually want a guy who is nice because im nice and I cant get women so clearly women only care about looks and money. I think the entire point is missed a lot of the time. Even the thread about how women feel about men after having insight into TRP and PPD. I dont t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:10 PM
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Sorry to break it to you but women as a whole are not wondering if every guy they date is red pill. What the comments are saying is that a lot of women now have a deeper understanding that they do not want to date red pill men. It doesn't mean that we are walking around trying to figure out if every man we talk to is RP. And to your next point, if these strategies were soo incredibly good, RP men would be swimming in 🐈. Even if these strategies somehow work by the Grace of God and they get a cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:44 AM
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I understand but its the response that ends up losing me. Its the complete and utter delusion that loses me. A lot of men in this sub act like women are evil. Like what woman would want to be with you with such a poor attitude? That's insane to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:02 AM
1

Honestly there are a lot of hills that I could die on in this sub but this one is I absolutely couldn't possibly care less about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:06 AM
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The guy in every single situation ever unless the woman wants to do it on her own without including him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:54 AM
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I don't need to read a study to understand how people act outside of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:51 AM
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TRP and PPD make me appreciate non-RP men so much fucking more. Like its insane how grateful I feel that most men I know don't have most of these incredibly self-centered and bitter perspectives. Its one of those things where if a guy shows any RP beliefs, he's an immediate no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:39 AM
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This is the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:35 AM
2

Theres a belief amongst a relatively small population that most men are suffering in relationships the way that they are suffering but most men are not. The part that kills me is that women can sit and talk until we are blue in the face about what we want, then this small population responds," No❤️." And then they wonder why they are still single. They would rather listen to other men who are just as misled as them than listen to women and it's baffling. These men have zero clue about what's act…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:32 AM
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A good political debate is sexy af to me. Keyword: good. Emotional intelligence mixed with intellectual intelligence is absolutely chefs kiss. A man who is confident yet open to being challenged a bit? A man who can teach me things yet also allows me to teach him a few things?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:13 AM
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You think a smart person is going to be easily controlled and exploited?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:10 AM
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Rich and educated men absolutely marry women for beauty and status over education. A lot of beautiful women dont have to be smart, funny, or anything at all. Of course its a bonus but absolutely not a necessity. A well educated woman is going to have a hard time taking the backseat to her husbands career so she can stay home with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:09 AM
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"he'll have sex with her but not wife her" is the biggest cope yall ever came up with. Then your "proof" is a PPD thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:04 AM
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yeah.. treating people as individuals is just basic human decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:16 AM
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Either you're just trolling or you actually believe this and that's WILD. One second: "Women lack accountability." Next second: blames women for absolutely anything and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:07 AM
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Im glad people like you can entertain such beliefs cause I cant without getting reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:02 AM
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The fact that you summed up my comment in one small paragraph and I droned on and on to say the same thing in about 10 paragraphs 🙃🙃🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:55 AM
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I think that main issue I have with men who have negative experiences with dating is that they find spaces with other men who have negative experiences in dating and in turn, create incredibly one sided and hugely misinformed beliefs i.e. "chads" are the only men who are engaging in casual sex and "normal" men are not. Someone responded yesterday asking me if ugly, broke men are having casual sex and the answer is: yes. Absolutely. Thats really besides the point though, I think my point is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:49 AM
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Some of them are and some aren't. I've seen enough tiktoks and YouTube storytimes to know that they are making the same "mistakes" every generation makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:38 PM
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The idea that the only men who have a fair amount of casual sex are all really attractive, successful men is insane. It's astounding how out of touch some people are with what's actually going on in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:57 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:43 AM
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This is the one lol. Its usually a pre-planned thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:36 AM
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You've seen it happen pretty often, huh? Okay..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:36 AM
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Its so funny how misinformed yall are lol. But continue on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:33 AM
1

💖💖💖💖💖💖
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:32 AM
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Its not a turn on at all. Probably more of a turn off because I doubt me and this man would have anything in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:31 AM
2

Still not telling 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:46 AM
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Its definitely a confusing feeling. It doesn't take much to be honest. I was dealing with a guy and everything felt perfect and I couldnt understand why things weren't progressing. When he explained why, it made perfect sense. You can choose your words carefully yet honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:26 AM
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Very underrated but extremely valuable take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:22 AM
2

Can you break it down a little further? Im not quite sure what you're actually asking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:21 AM
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Love Respect (given he earns it) Kindness Trust Care/attention (head rubs, listening to his day, good sex) Motivation (if he's down, reminders of his positive attributes, reminders of the larger picture) Honesty about my wants, needs, feelings, ect) Emotional maturity Keeping up with my mental and physical health Being a dependable mother But a man has to be worthy of all of that. I have to be able to trust that he will see the value in everything that I would pour into him and he willing to pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:44 AM
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My exact question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:26 AM
1

Ive wondered this as well. I get maybe about 30-40 matches a day across 2 dating profiles and 95% of them are excluded from me being interested in them because they become sexual almost immediately. Ive wondered recently if I should give them a break but, ive decided, no. Of all of the men ive been in a LTR with, they were very respectful and did not come off sexually too soon. So, i'll keep that up as an instant no red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:35 AM
2

10/10 the wall is a construct made up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:32 AM
1

One thing I had to learn the hard way is that even intense connection doesn't mean that a relationship is meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:44 PM
1

In TRP, I completely disagree. In men in general, a lot of single men make wonderful partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:48 PM
2

I mean yeah but its like trying out for the basketball team and spending all of your time for months talking about auditioning and you never spend any of your time actually playing basketball on a court, if you make the team, you're going to be on the bench the rest of the season and end up never paying basketball which is what you wanted the whole time anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:28 PM
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Uhm.. I don't need a study or something to show me that people have different tastes. obviously people can only be so different. we are generally born with 4 different colors of eyes, about 4 to 5 natural shades of hair, even height is generally seen as preferable within a handful of inches. So of course preferences aren't going to vary that much when as humans, can only exist in a handful of ways. Even personalities can generally be put in what, 12-16 types. Beyond that, I can use my life exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:12 PM
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That happens every now and again. Maybe once a month but no way on earth am I going to post those intimate comments for a group who generally has zero empathy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:54 PM
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Yeah tf right lol. TRP was obsesses over a womans past. Theres no way 5 men are going to tell you that a woman was acting nonchalant and youre going to use those same thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:20 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:35 AM
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Why would I be mad? Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:34 AM
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Whats the alternative? Feeling sorry for yourself and complaining all day? Everyone has preferences and no one is in every single persons preferences. Why would even want to date anyone who doesn't want to date you? The average woman in the US is what, 5'5? If short people werent fucking, all of these short men wouldnt exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:46 AM
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Do whatever tf you want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:38 AM
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Please. Please dont ever convince yourself that this is a thing. Its not. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:22 AM
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1000%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:21 AM
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These comments passed the vibe check.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:17 AM
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They aren't giving into them. Dont get it twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:14 AM
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Please keep being skeptical. It'll only make you more attractive to women. I find most of the red pills view on women completely and totally inaccurate most of the time. Not even like 70% most, but like 90% most. Even in this thread, there isnt a consistent answer on what an "alpha widow" is. Is it about looks? Is it about sex? Is it about feelings? I dont know how to make it more clear that most normal people are not stuck in the past. Most people are not comparing their past partners to their …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:58 AM
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This. All. Fucking. Day. The fact that they dont see the things as valuable means that they clearly don't understand what it actually takes to be in a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:42 AM
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Basically. The idea the man simply wants sex and has no emotional connection with a woman is definitely a leap. He may not want to be in a relationship with the woman but it could be for numerous reasons. A lot of men on the sub would rather believe that the man holds all the power and doesnt give a shit about the woman just because it makes them feel better than a woman is being treated as trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:38 AM
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Uhm... if that makes you feel better to believe, keep believing it. It makes sense that someones never had an intimate connection with someone but doesnt want to be in a relationship with them for whatever reason, to not understand the intricacies of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:33 AM
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Just date lol. Plenty of women date short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:29 AM
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Uhm... No. I said what I said. What fault do you find men to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:54 AM
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That's exactly what In said..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:44 AM
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Or you just don't understand what I meant. You said that the RP helps men in dating. I said it doesnt help men at all and explained why. That's not a strawman argument. Maybe it would be helpful for you to understand what it actually means so you don't use it incorrectly next time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:38 AM
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The red pill makes men more alienated and angry. It gives them a golden goose, "wait until you're 40 and successful and then women will want you because you're successful." And then they get mad about having to pay for a date. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:02 PM
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Absolutely. Men created this problem. Its totally beneficial to the men at the top. Now the men at the bottom are blaming women for the society that men created and are still mostly benefiting from. Sure women uphold these values but they didn't enforce them. Fathers used to tell their daughters, dont marry this man. He cant support you. Love wont pay the pills. Even arranged marriages are for the benefit of both families.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:59 PM
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Huh? All of these things exist for low income lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:31 PM
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Women have consistently become happier than men while being single. Women out earn men in cities with upward mobility. Women would figure it out. We always do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:29 PM
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Men taking accountability for their mental and emotional maturity. Men realizing that the world does not revolve around them . Women realizing that they can't change a man through love or something more. Women realizing that you can't love someone for their potential. Parents raising their children to love themselves and care care of their mental and emotional health so that they choose better, more longlasting partners. A society in which wages were fair and partners didn't have to fight over m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:26 PM
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Yall get so angry. For what? When someone online is so quick to insult people, I wonder, Is this how you act in real life? To prevent trolls, the person has to have an older account and pictures of the same person that go back over a number of months and look like the same person. They also have other measures that I wont list on here to prevent infiltrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:20 PM
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The fact that you became so triggered so fast and decided to insult me is extremely troubling. Are you okay? I wonder if asking someone to post a photo over and over is actually against reddit policies. But since your intellect is so superior to mine, please explain to me what purpose it would serve for me to post my personal information. I see that you're trying to prove a point but as I've said before, the context of this post would not change if I post my personal information. You understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:22 AM
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He needs to answer my question. Those groups are private and women only. What is the point of me posting my information in a public forum? Just because? Those groups are not posting men just because. They aren't posting Patrick from two doors down that they have no romantic interest in because they are nosey and want to gossip. They are posting Patrick that they actually have an established connection with, even if it only goes as far as matching and messaging back and forth, to see if they shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:23 AM
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Honestly, people don't have to agree with the premise of the groups. Everyone is entitled to an opinion on it. What bothers me is the misconception of what actually goes on versus what is imagined to be going on and that narrative spreading like wildfire. I understand a fear of whats being said in these groups especially because people act differently with different people. A person might ghost 7 people and treat another person like royalty. However, as i've matured, i've come to understand how …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:10 AM
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"No one." Okay bud. Btw, are you downvoting my comments or is that a lurker who doesn't understand that I can tell by the way that you respond that you disagree with my comments? Do you or the other person know that its against the rules of the sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:59 AM
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Most men have zero responses. Most men are not abusing women or doing otherwise terrible things. And another rule that In forgot to mention is that you can't post a man just because. For example, if you just matched with him or thinking of matching women and haven't spoken, you can't throw out feelers just because. I think this functions to stop women from posting a bunch of men without doing the work to actually get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:50 AM
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Have you not been on where are all the good men? They post a woman's entire profile, every picture. But you literally just proved my point lmfao: "Its okay if men do it." Peak selective outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:40 AM
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Its just the selective outrage and double standard for me, honestly. The way that women are discussed in these groups is generally unchecked by other men. I'll go and check where have all the good men gone, a group where men share screenshots of womens' profiles and say extremely cruel things about them. I haven't checked if there has been an outcry of posts in PPD about how thats unfair to women but i'll go check after I post this. Will report back once I do a search but I have a good idea. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:28 AM
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What does that have to do with anything? How does your questions actually correlate to the function of the aforementioned group? The group is for women who have established a romantic interest. The information is used for a purpose. No one in PPD knows me or is dating me to purposefully need this information. No one can corroborate any information either so your questions are moot. Also, you dont post full name in the group. Its first name only as mentioned in my post. I also addressed in the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:04 AM
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Did you actually read my post or just the title?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:06 AM
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What a great fkn question. I think leaning into you genuinely are and doing things that make you happy and make you light up when you speak is important. Really pour into yourself and discover who you are and what means the most to you. Filling your mind with things that help you grow mentally so you can have an interesting conversation with someone is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:54 AM
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Shes a moderator of one group. Perhaps they didnt have the rules in place that could would have created a productive group. Im not a moderator so I dont know what happens behind the scenes but I have sense enough to know that groupthink is a thing. If they didnt step in to moderate correctly and to create a space where the comments were productive, thats the fault of the moderators. That doesnt mean that ALL of these groups operate like hers did. The fact that she has a negative experience and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:46 AM
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I am very unsure how to feel about this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:10 AM
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As someone who is in 2 of these groups, these comments are COMPLETELY inaccurate. Like TOTALLY inaccurate. Theres no "bashing" of men. 9/10 there is is clear comments of women saying that dating is dating, you cant expect someone to be faithful to you in the dating stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:16 AM
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I mean of course but I doubt that's what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:56 PM
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"The wall" is definitely not a thing at all IRL. A lot of men IRL tie maturity and knowing what a woman wants with age. "The wall" is a scare tactic. A lot of women very gracefully Low body count: people Most men are forward thinking and focus on moving forward and seeing potential in the present and future. That's generally what non-redpill men say about why they don't care about a woman's past sexual experiences. Constantly thinking of the past is a sign of anxiety. Women care more about looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:42 PM
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It isnt as much of a problem IRL as it is for sexless men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:20 AM
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These men care because they are bitter and cant get sex if they tried. They want so badly to be the men who have sex which is why they use mental gymnastics to explain why its okay for men to be sluts but not women. But the truth of the matter is that no one cares what they think, women arent having sex with them anyway, they look pathetic and insecure, and mostly they are just talking to themselves. You think women are reading these subs and thinking, "Oh no, incels want me to not have sex. Im …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:39 AM
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Absolutely not true whatsoever. Most of the slut shaming is not coming from women. Most women can go to their female friends and talk about all of the slut shit they've done and they will be hyped up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:35 AM
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Oh yeah, he'll definitely find someone there who isnt after a financial sponsor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:31 AM
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Honestly it kind of sounds like you have a shit personality. You seem to look down on women and even box them into categories like they are breeds of dog or something instead of individuals. I would love to hear the perspective that these women have of you since you are such a catch. Or maybe you just suck at choosing what women to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:30 AM
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Man has no social skills and you expect him to hop on a plane and feel comfortable in a completely different country and culture with language barrier issues? Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:21 AM
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A lot of men find those kind of women attractive. Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:19 AM
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Say you didn't read the post without saying you didn't read the post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:17 AM
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If its not mental health related, the guy is absolutely a loser. Even the comments say that its pretty ridiculous.
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 05:18 PM
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What?
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 05:15 PM
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Because they only despise those women when they aren't sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:39 AM
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He definitely didn't read the post and then called women bitter when he's absolutely bitter lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 09:18 AM
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What do you mean? Women don't suffer at all about anything ever.
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 09:16 AM
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This is absolutely untrue. Women love to fuck. Women absolutely have to have self control and self respect in order not to fuck, especially because women typically control whether sex happens or not.
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 09:15 AM
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Im not sure what you think you're proving here lol. Clearly the guy has mental health problems.
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 09:10 AM
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It doesnt help men at all because the men in these spaces usually end up with worse attitudes, worse relationships with women, and terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:25 AM
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Yeppp
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:25 AM
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Yawp
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:24 AM
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Sam, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:22 AM
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