StockholmPUA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
131	Why you shouldn't think about it too much.		StockholmPUA	/r/seduction	16/01/13 01:43 PM
23	[FR] Texting, setting up and going on a first date. K-close.	Field Report	StockholmPUA	/r/seduction	24/01/13 10:31 AM
11	[FR] #-Close, K-Close, Titty-Close HB8 (LONG)	Field Report	StockholmPUA	/r/seduction	14/01/13 10:48 AM
2	[FR]Daygame. Bought a new shower handle!		StockholmPUA	/r/seduction	09/07/13 09:02 AM
1	[semi-FR]I became too needy, I talked to her and ended it. Now she's constantly pushing to hang out.		StockholmPUA	/r/seduction	03/07/13 03:13 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	[Journal] Breakn' A Sweat In SWEDEN (Week 27) A fellow Swede! High-five for a good report and evaluations! holds hand up high	/r/seduction	09/07/13 09:09 AM
5	Met a girl had a great connection but didn't ask for number. What is my next step? You don't need to close to have a successful interaction. Getting the confidence is the most important part to me. However, if you really want to contact her I'd do a facebook message or wait until I run into her again (at a party or whatever, it's not improbable if you have mutual friends) and work from there.	/r/seduction	05/07/13 08:47 AM
3	What is your goal? For me, it's not about those "Ooh I need to boink 100x girls because alpha" or "waah I'm lonley need gf pls respond" type of things, I'm actually more in this because I want to better myself as a person, I trust the rest to come naturally once I've achived what I want. The way I see it, seduction does not only improve your chances with women, but also with men and in almost any social circle. Everyone appriciates a guy/girl who you can trust, who has a good sense of humor and confidence. I felt …	/r/seduction	05/07/13 08:34 AM
2	Seddit, let's hear your go-to 1st and 2nd date ideas that are conducive to lots of kino. I use this from time to time, and I've yet to meet a girl who didn't enjoy it. Dancing in general REQUIRES touching and cooperation. Eye contact is good but not essential, and you don't have to be talking all the time in order to entertain her. It's fun to learn how to dance and you can pick on eachother for how bad you are!	/r/seduction	04/07/13 01:46 PM
5	FR: #closed the ice cream girl. My new job is helping me meet women! Good work! Although if I were you, I'd to talk to her more in person than via text, especially if she's working right next to you. It's more personal and easier to close a time and day for a date if you're standing in front of her. If she's not there however, I'd keep doing business as usual and wait for her reply.	/r/seduction	04/07/13 01:21 PM
2	How to regain or recreate attraction? Is there a risk that woman stigmatize you as 'this guy has tried, but can never get farther' (friend) ? I see your problem, and I've had (occasionally still have) the same problem. If there is a "Ms.NotLikeTheOthers™" who stand out and click well with me, it's not uncommon for me to botch it after the 2nd/3rd date like you did. So far I have not tried to rebuild any attraction using PUA-methods because I don't think it will work. If you had a good time at first but then she flakes because you showed slight neediness it wouldn't have become more than a flirt anyway. However short and sweet it might…	/r/seduction	15/02/13 01:13 PM
3	New to the PUA scene, new to seddit. I Don't want to lose a girl, need your advice/expertise. If you don't want to lose her, you have to be comfortable with the fact that you might do just that. If you don't do that, you won't get her in the first place.	/r/seduction	11/02/13 02:01 PM
1	Share with the beginners: What trick do you use to show dominance but at the same time show that you are sweet and a gentlement? Use appropriate language, maybe by telling a story/joke to a group, try to minimize your "uuh's" and "eeh's" and basically speak like you know your shit. Given some practice and time this will come naturally. Your voice is used to communicate and is therefore a really important tool to emphasise your points and bring attention to you/whatever you're speaking of.	/r/seduction	06/02/13 01:12 PM
2	Share with the beginners: What trick do you use to show dominance but at the same time show that you are sweet and a gentlement? There are tons of ways of displaying dominance, but how you do it depends a bit on how subtle/unsubtle you want to be out it. Some discreet ways to assert dominance could be leading conversations (ie asking questions or changing the subject), coming up with minor activites ("Let's go buy a drink", "Let's talk over there" etc) and also controlling the pace of the interaction through body language and kino. Less subtle ways could be more physical (ie pushing/pulling her towards the bar/dancefloor/…	/r/seduction	06/02/13 11:52 AM
4	Talking to women over Facebook chat. You don't need to say much over IM/Text in my opinion. Most people will agree that it's nicer to meet in person, so don't be afraid to come off as wierd if you ask for a face-to-face meeting. I would say it like it is: "Hey long time no see etc wanna catch up over a cup of coffe?". Even if you're denied you've done nothing wrong or wierd.	/r/seduction	05/02/13 10:02 AM
2	[FR] The banana man Very true, it is a piece of Swedish culture I guess. But I would still avoid going on a one-on-one fika if you're not a great talker or don't know each other well enough. Anyway, as I said there are a lot of things to do in Stockholm. My guess here is that exchange students who come to Sweden are somewhat interested in our culture and history. A great thing to do is to go ice skating. I assume here that your spanish lady isn't very good on a pair of skates, and even if you aren't, I bet you can …	/r/seduction	29/01/13 11:28 AM
2	[FR] The banana man Hmm that manifesto you're doing is really impressive, keep it up! More OT, I like the FR. I usually peacock more discreetly but in a situation like yours it's a great idea because of the social proof that you mentioned. I believe that you being the "guy who can find the closest IKEA" in a very international atmosphere is great for you. Really, you can do so much DHV by just being local (Swedish, in this case) among exchange students. Make sure to use that, it's a great opportunity! Also, I try t…	/r/seduction	29/01/13 10:14 AM
0	[FR] Texting, setting up and going on a first date. K-close. She better make you a sammich then!	/r/seduction	25/01/13 07:44 AM
1	[FR] Texting, setting up and going on a first date. K-close. Dude. I burn spaghetti when I cook.	/r/seduction	24/01/13 10:30 PM
6	[FR] Texting, setting up and going on a first date. K-close. Cheers mate! Nah I didn't push it any further since I felt like the "theme" of the night was not to meet up and fuck each others brains out. I was mostly after the respect and adoration, as you said. She is a friend of one of my go-to-girls when I want to party, so if I had thrown myself at her that would've just made me look worse with said go-to-girl. HB8, I've learnt, is a pretty artistic person. She loves to draw and such, so I was thinking next date would be something more creative. Maybe b…	/r/seduction	24/01/13 12:20 PM
7	If you know a girl likes you, and wants to kiss you, what's a good line to make this happen? As an imposter, that man is a lawyer.	/r/seduction	22/01/13 01:15 PM
1	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. Fine. Eat a fistful of dirt!	/r/seduction	17/01/13 12:35 PM
2	[FR] James Franco First K-Close Good FR, very informative while keeping it within a readable size (unlike I do)! It's hard to say if you didn't make your move in time, since no perception of time is given in the text, but from the interactions I think you did it at the right time. The FB wall post though, I feel that's something you could skip next time. A Private message would be better since she could reply without worrying about friends and others seeing. Overall nice evening for you!	/r/seduction	17/01/13 11:06 AM
1	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. Wanna do something funny? Come up with a small punishment for every time you catch yourself daydreaming about a girl like that. Lick yourself in the armpit (tastes baaad), do ten push-ups, eat a raw broccoli or something like that every time. This will force you to think about other stuff.	/r/seduction	17/01/13 08:20 AM
2	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. I like that you're being nice to her and taking her to dinner and all, things like that will always help you out in the long run and is never a bad thing, even when it's a dead end. There's this Actual Advice Mallard I've seen a few times which is really good. Basically it says that "If a girl cheated with you - she will cheat on you" and I can vouch for that: I've seen it happen to friends. Never go for a girl who is already in a relationship, especially not if it's someone you know. You will n…	/r/seduction	17/01/13 08:18 AM
1	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. What's FWB? Sorry I'm not very good at remembering all these acronyms. Makes sense what you're saying. If you want to "selling" yourself to girls, have the life people want to be a part of. Instead of daydreaming about her or just laying around, do something worthwhile with your time. Read a book, work out, socialize: anything that gives you value! Lazy people who sit around all day procastinating are not attractive as partners nor friends. Think about that when making new connections! :)	/r/seduction	17/01/13 08:07 AM
1	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. This is only my 2nd post to r/seduction. I was thinking I might write more, especially FR's since I go on mini-dates quite frequently and I'm quite flirty by nature. It's a great way to share knowledge and at the same time reflection on your actions. Glad you liked it!	/r/seduction	17/01/13 08:00 AM
2	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. What you're describing seems like a lost cause. Just swallow the bad memories and learn from the experience, that's all I can say. GL	/r/seduction	17/01/13 07:59 AM
2	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. Glad I could help!	/r/seduction	17/01/13 07:58 AM
1	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. I assumed my attraction wasn't built enough for her to want to make out with me. And you're probably right. Why would anyone not kiss someone they're attracted to? You sound like you have a case of friendzone in your hands mate and I don't have much advice to give except what is stated in the OP. Maybe /r/Askseddit can provide some advice. Good luck!	/r/seduction	16/01/13 07:23 PM
1	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. The first impression is always the strongest. If you first meet a girl gaming in your PJ's while hungover (unusual situation I know, but you get the idea), you will most probably not come off as an attractive guy. Instead, try to be well dressed, smile and give a good impression. It builds quickest and easiest within the first hours of meeting someone. People here say that attraction building reaches a certain point and then moves on to rapport, but in my opinion attraction can keep building for…	/r/seduction	16/01/13 06:32 PM
3	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. Added your point to the OP, thanks for the contribution!	/r/seduction	16/01/13 06:15 PM
3	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. You're right, making a mind map of a relationship with X girl you might be interested in can be good to check if it could be worth it. What I'm saying is that you cannot do it too early or you will never even have a chance at that relationship. In my case that's pretty much what I did, even though we had some sort of history. But even then, we never had a relationship, it was just a flirt. Assessing the situation to gain judgement is a-ok. Imagining things that are not real because "it's nice" i…	/r/seduction	16/01/13 06:07 PM
3	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. The kiss-out-of-nowhere might've worked out in my case if there was attraction involved. Had no time passed between our first dates and the last one I described, it would've worked pretty well I guess. Problem is that I had built way more attraction than she had, because of how I was overthinking and jumping to conclusions when what I should've done is started to build attraction again. Rapport was already there, but the attraction had come and gone, I guess. I haven't read about imaginary relat…	/r/seduction	16/01/13 05:59 PM
10	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. ITS OK TO CAPS WHEN YOU WANT TO CAPITALIZE ON SOMETHING IMPORTANT. THANKS FOR READING MY POST BEST WISHES TO YOU TO!	/r/seduction	16/01/13 05:48 PM
3	Why you shouldn't think about it too much. Fair enough, I guess it's general dating advice then!	/r/seduction	16/01/13 01:52 PM
16	Eye contact with strangers have a face tattoo of a dead baby ಠ_ಠ	/r/seduction	15/01/13 08:25 PM
2	[FR] #-Close, K-Close, Titty-Close HB8 (LONG) Will do, think I might write a report if something fun happens this weekend. Or at least after the date I've scheduled with this girl now :)	/r/seduction	15/01/13 02:48 PM
1	[FR] #-Close, K-Close, Titty-Close HB8 (LONG) I talk to a shitload of randoms, I just don't hit on them. Visst är det fan jobbigt att det inte finns ett engelskt ord för Tjejkompis? Stört mig på det i åratal...	/r/seduction	15/01/13 02:48 PM
1	[FR] #-Close, K-Close, Titty-Close HB8 (LONG) Well I'm not going to go reveal myself that much (this is a seddit throwaway after all) to tell you which bar it was. But I know of Treat; it's one of the cheap beer places in Stockholm and I've been there some times. Hah I felt I was going out on a limb talking about Dota on a seduction forum. Not surprised that other Swedes know about it though! Swedish daygame is pretty hard in my experience. I've never really had trouble picking up girls and always had a decent enough succes rate. While drun…	/r/seduction	15/01/13 07:56 AM
1	[FR] #-Close, K-Close, Titty-Close HB8 (LONG) Thank you! I have closed a date with her next week (a bit far away, but it was the only thing I could manage without letting her be in charge of the date.) and she seemed pretty enthusiastic. Might do another FR on that.	/r/seduction	14/01/13 08:05 PM
1	[FR] #-Close, K-Close, Titty-Close HB8 (LONG) Just find what works for you and you'll feel like a king every time you go out to charm the laidies!	/r/seduction	14/01/13 08:04 PM
1	[FR] #-Close, K-Close, Titty-Close HB8 (LONG) Den första? Förkrökställe i innerstan. Kan en hel del med billig bärs! And thank you!	/r/seduction	14/01/13 07:59 PM
1	[FR] #-Close, K-Close, Titty-Close HB8 (LONG) Thought it was worth mentioning somewhere. Thanks for reading.	/r/seduction	14/01/13 02:47 PM