StopBreakingFrame Archive

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1	[FR] Keep Waving those Red Flags, Woman. I spoke loosely.....it took a kick ass girl to finally pry me away from that crazy bitch. Now, that kick ass girl has moved on, and I'm flying solo for the first time since about '94, with a short interval in '04. I'm not going to put up with crazy. I'll hit on younger women. Daddy issues? Next. I'll hit on older women. Looking for Beta Bux? Next. In all cases, I'm not going to tolerate being pulled away from what I'm doing in my life.	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 06:45 PM
1	[FR] Keep Waving those Red Flags, Woman. Didn't work with my second wife. I hear you.....it's not bad advice.....and you're right, they have a special set of skills.....but I spent 3 years in hell, and hopefully I've learned a thing or two. I let like 4 or 5 hot young women go by while I was an old guy in college....one gal, in a mathematical proofs class, told me "I have Wednesday's off and like wine and picnics." Is that an IOI? LOL anyway, I passed up that cutie to continue fighting with a crazy bitch. I'm thinking hard next, up to …	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 06:37 PM
1	Regarding recent influx of beta posts. Yep. My focus is on smart women. Take them lightly at your own peril. It remains to be seen how much luck I'll have.....I'm good at LTR's but it's time to date casually.....I mean spin plates.....The approach to the "exclusivity" talk with a particularly smart woman might look different than what's typically presented here. Her ability to see the full battlefield may be a boon. "Keep looking for Mr. Right, but in the mean time let's have some fun." Not every smart and ambitious woman is looking …	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 06:28 PM
3	[FR] Keep Waving those Red Flags, Woman. I think it's bad form to comment on one's own post, but I had to drop this here. My therapist, a really old crone, laid this gem on me: "All the fairy tales imply that the damsel in distress is just missing one thing, and if they can just be rid of the dragon/black knight/abusive husband, they will be OK. That's not how the real world works. She's in that situation for a reason. She's not going to be OK." I'm coming around to the idea of not sticking my dick in crazy.	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 05:18 PM
1	Careers and SMV Rock on! My qualifier is intelligence anyway. My best way to a 9 is a wicked smart one tired of her intelligence being ignored because of her looks. But it's not about finding a nice "one" because there's no way she'd be mine, but I'd very much like a turn!	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 02:57 PM
1	Don't put sex on a pedestal. Fair. Let me share one other thing. A number bandied around a lot here is that 2/3's of divorces are initiated by women....and in some groups, a full 80% are. This lines up with my experience. My second wife I had to scrape off like a barnacle, but other than that women broke up with me, either directly: "I owe it to myself to date other people when I go to graduate school" or indirectly: "You're fine as hell and will only be finer as you grow more distinguished. I've never been married and I do…	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 02:32 PM
1	Don't put sex on a pedestal. Maybe when I'm 50. I've been in LTR's 21 of my 23 adult years. I'm looking to take care of myself for a while. I want to have relationships, but casual ones. I wouldn't want to be exclusive because, well, I like smart and ambitious women and the last thing I would want is to slow them down on their quest. I'm good with being Mr. Right Now and would never pitch a fit if someone I'm seeing breaks it off because they're getting serious with someone else. I'm a good enough guy to pull this off, too.…	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 02:08 PM
2	Don't put sex on a pedestal. Respectfully, look at this from my point of view. I'm 44 years old, solidly handsome, and in good shape. I have no children, and I rent. I have a good career with bright prospects. I run my household like a boss, everything is clean and organized. Do you see how trivial it would be to date 15 or 20 single moms in the next year? Choose one based on how attractive she is and how much I like her family? Move in and help right her ship with my high levels of financial and emotional stability? How th…	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 01:55 PM
2	Careers and SMV I don't blame you a bit. I'd say I wish I did the same when younger, but regret is a mind killer. Anyway, my game is predicated on intelligence. Intelligence is my qualifier, in order to pull younger women who are tired of the studs their age chasing 9's & 10's :D	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 02:04 AM
10	Careers and SMV Good luck on your quest, man. I'd take a 7 I can talk to over a 9 any day. But then again, I'm a dumb old man who has no chance with 9's anyway. I scream my STEM point of view from the rooftops and seek the same.	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 01:49 AM
2	New to TRP need general guidance You're an earnest fellow....that's probably why the mods didn't nuke the post, they usually do nuke posts like this. Everything the other two guys said.....and.....you're pretty young. Remember this: even if the arc of your life is normal and you end up wanting a family, if you take these principles to heart, improve yourself hardcore over the next few years, and spin some plates, you are going to make more solid choices with women, well, than I ever did when I was young, anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/16 11:13 PM
1	Don't put sex on a pedestal. I agree that someone needs to be sexually experienced to see this perspective. I've been going at it since '94, so it was like OP was talking to me. My impression is this sub is born much more from dudes getting divorce raped and losing their kids, but I could be wrong. That said, figuring this shit out for ourselves is key.	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/16 10:03 PM
2	Don't put sex on a pedestal. I'm the new guy, so I'll feed the troll! This sub is about men taking control of their own lives and improving themselves and their outcomes. Try it. You might like it.	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/16 09:48 PM
2	Don't put sex on a pedestal. My low expectations based on the title of this thread are totally blown out of the water. Good stuff. You're speaking my language, man. Honesty and open communication. Be comfortable with yourself. Enjoy her company. It's not about your n count, it's about having a good time. I'll admit to some skepticism. I have had LTR's of 10, 4, and 4.5 years. I have never actually said look, this is not going anywhere serious, but come on over because I make excellent steaks and Souffle Grand Marnier to die…	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/16 09:26 PM
1	Went on a bad date last night and confirmed a lot of what I already knew about women with broken home lives. My last LTR was much younger than I......it was nerve wracking not knowing about her father at first.....I finally brought it up and she bubbled forth about how great he is. It was then, and only then, that I thought things might work out, and they did.	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/16 07:40 PM
2	[FR] Seven Days of Failure Drier than the surface of Mercury, but not nearly as hot!	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/16 01:43 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Excellent response and highly appreciated. I knew I wasn't alone in this, and I think if people are going to be told "go spin plates" it makes sense to acknowledge this difficulty, which is normal but it can be gotten past. I think you're right that women are not hardwired to want sex with randos. I posit that ASD/LMR has as much to do with having been stalked by a lousy lover as the more traditional explanations. I'm just looking for a good time, man. As I said elsewhere, I fully expect women I…	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 01:13 AM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Also true. I'm overcoming more of an inferiority complex than a superiority complex. I appreciate your input, Internet stranger, and there's no way you would know this about me, but I need to be much more assertive rather than humble in my attitude. That's why I've been spending time at TRP. The beta must die. At the same time, I like younger women, and 80% of them are an immediate no go. However, as some senior mod here, I think Uncle Vasaya, pointed out, there are younger women who like older …	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 01:02 AM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Thanks for posting. That's what I've come to. Once I dive back in, I will have a rule at first: always date a new woman before the next date with the previous. Once I get at least two or three plates in the air I think I'll be golden. With my looks, personality, ability with women, etc, it should be no problem. And of course I'll assume they're fucking other men, because they are.	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 12:24 AM
1	Plate tells me she doesn't think it's healthy for her to have sex without commitment, then has sex with me Your family/friends know one of your plates? Careful, there. I'm going against the grain and calling this one the softest next you can pull off. You've got other plates.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 11:33 PM
2	[FR] Seven Days of Failure Dry as a Churchill Martini.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/16 10:50 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) It's a question of implementation. I'm not down for LTR's. I'm out to have a good time. I just let go of the snowiest snowflake of them all. So yeah, I get that she's not mine, it was just my turn. I honestly don't think that it's thinking that another person is mine. I think we all have ingrained, evolutionarily selected predispositions along these lines. It's not cultural. And I think the answer is I need to get at least two plates in the air as soon as I get started, to acclimate myself to th…	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 10:36 PM
3	Expectations of a college-aged girl If that's what you seek, why are you here?	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/16 10:21 PM
0	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) You've internalized that? Any of your plates banging other guys?	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 10:13 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Fair enough. I'm much better at closing than opening. I know what you mean. Although I'm the weirdo who watches Smithonian & PBS instead of Netflix :D	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 10:01 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) More actionable intelligence, much obliged. I know this will be the hard part for me. One downside of 20 years of marriage is I really like women in my bed. Let's be clear, I've cuddled strangers and that was just fine. But that will be tricky to navigate. I'm the one cooking the food though :) I have a kick ass kitchen and a really nice bed. I'm going to be very reticent about going to women's places. There are going to be questions I'm not going to be asking that don't need to be asked if I do…	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 08:45 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) I'll agree with you on that. The place I break most sharply with TRP is my estimation of women. My last LTR earned a mathematics degree, so arguments about women not being able to logic fall on deaf ears. The next girls I attract will be intelligent, because that's my game. Then there's all this MGTOW shit. I think that subset of men, in particular, cut women down in order to make themselves feel better about not being able to pull them.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 08:36 PM
2	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) It's not my choice to be innately jealous. What I'm trying to do is explore how to not give a shit when the plates I'm about to accumulate fuck other men. I want them to. Please understand that. I do not want an exclusive girlfriend. I want to date women who are likely looking for Mr. Right but are down to fuck Mr. Right Now.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 08:27 PM
3	The culture of this subreddit is almost completely beta now. Hell yeah! I'm here for self improvement and chasing women, without getting lassoed in by someone looking for beta bux because there's a Texas sized target on my back. . I got a pretty good discussion going on asktrp today about the nuts and bolts of handling jealousy. I got some really good feedback. Life is good, go forth and slay. Or don't fuck somewhere else.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/16 08:17 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Excellent. This is what I was driving at. Thanks again for engaging. I'm actually solidly average at least in all of those categories....it's good to not have red flags. My advantage is clearly intelligence. I have a mathematics degree and a job as an analyst for a renewable energy consultancy. I continue to learn on my own, too. I'm a self taught programmer and am expanding on the math I learned in college (we only did 2 weeks on Bayes, if that makes sense to you.).....and am working to underst…	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 07:59 PM
2	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Totally fair. And, that's why I'm here, man. That's why I'm here. I've let shit happen my whole life, just sort of develop how it develops, like a degenerate hippy. I'm done with that. I'm putting my mark on my life. Controlling my frame. Acting in my best interests and no one else's. TRP is strong antidote to feminist brainwashing I was subjected to my whole life. A year from now, I hope to have had a few plates, avoided LTR's, executed on my other plans (I'm not banging away about them because…	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 07:21 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) GFTOW is damn good advice right now. What do I want? Yeah, about 10% of that sweet chemical buzz. It's probably as realistic as being "a little pregnant" but we'll see. I want to fuck people I genuinely like and care for, and have that be reciprocated. And I want many of them. I'm tired of the drudgery of climbing the damn mountain with one woman after another.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 07:01 PM
2	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) I hear you and really appreciate you engaging on the question. It's quite useful. Increasing my SMV is a huge priority that I'm working hard at.....but also, owning the fact that my SMV is way higher than I thought it was when I was Mr. Beta is even more important, at least for me. But here's the thing: I'm not interested in low SMV women. I'm 44 with a good job and no kids. I could line up single moms from here to eternity, and twice on Sunday. Fuck that. So.....I'm left with the idea that all …	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 06:09 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Right, that's only fair. I wouldn't want a plate to be getting railed by every dude in town, but at the end of the day I have my own shit to take care of. If a woman is casually dating me and more seriously dating someone else, that that seriousness goes to exclusivity, no problem. All the best. Next.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 05:55 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) That's pretty solid. If I had to spell it out, it would be problematic. Talking about non-trivial stuff is an absolute must, so I'll be targeting hardcore science types. I can't stand vacuous crap. Tim Minchin's "Storm" illustrates it perfectly.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 05:44 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) My view of my SMV is out of whack, to be sure. My last two LTR's couldn't be much different. One was a 3.5, the other a solid 8. There are two questions: What is my SMV? What do I think my SMV is? At this point, these are distinct questions. There's more going on, of course. There was a great thread in the main TRP about mothers. I had a pretty jacked up childhood, and ended up being the "adult child" and taking care of my mother. Needless to say, that fucks things up with women later on. To mak…	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 05:39 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Fair. I had situations during the beginning of LTR's where we weren't solid yet, so there was some overlap with other women. I absolutely loved fucking two different women at the same time. It was exhilarating. I think that with my history I have to blow through my innate oneitis, and it will take focusing firepower to do it. I have to say, at least once, "I think you rock but I'm not going to be exclusive with you" and be good with her walking away.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 05:26 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Thank you for your specific answers. I agree entirely, mate guarding is a remnant which only gets in our way in the modern world. This has been a pretty useful discussion for me. I've come to the conclusion that when I jump in, I have to jump in hard. Actually, I think I've got it: If I want to date a woman a second time, I always have to date a different woman first, at least until I have my sea legs. Push through until it's natural. If I don't date multiple women right out of the gate, I might…	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 04:57 PM
1	Unbelievable arrogance in todays 20year old girls Yeah, I don't get it. I have an active question on TRP about dealing with plates. I've been in LTR's 21 of my 23 adult years, and I'm ready to game for a while. How to not get attached without being a raging douchmeister is an open question in my mind. edit: the question is on asktrp. No questions on the main thread.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/16 04:40 PM
2	Expectations of a college-aged girl Qualify women based on intelligence. Preferably in the hard sciences.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/16 04:06 PM
2	Unbelievable arrogance in todays 20year old girls Finally some rationality. The CC gives me hope. About 3/4's of my game is going to be swooping in on the chicks who are tired of younger men being all "boo hoo, MGTOW, it's so hard, blah blah blah" Fine, fuck off. I am going to slay. The one place I break with TRP though is I don't need to protect my ego by telling myself all these girls are going to have terrible lives. I think plenty of smart and good looking young women like getting laid, will fuck me as an older guy (a few already have), and…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/16 03:54 PM
2	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Good luck in university. Skills, skills, skills, man....hone your fucking skills when there. You have no idea how much that will matter on the other side.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 03:29 PM
2	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) So now she's 27 and probably wants kids. If your break isn't clean, tread very carefully.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 03:23 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) 5 years is a goddamn long time for a guy your age. I don't know you or your situation but it's hard to think of a scenario where it's cool to stick with a woman you met at 18. Not impossible, but hard.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 03:08 PM
0	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) My last LTR was 1/2 my age, smoking hot, and razor sharp. My SMV is solid. Not spectacular, but solid. I'd never have pulled her if I was a fat schlub. It's easy to point to someone asking, rather than answering, in asktrp and say "you have low SMV" and to be fair, it's a safe assumption. It's just not true in this case. But, I asked here so I'm obliged to think through your answer. Your central point is that mate guarding is driven by low SMV. I don't buy it, but I also can't discard it. Rumina…	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 03:04 PM
3	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Yeah man. I'm lucky to have had a clean break from my last LTR. I was on a course of self improvement while with her (easy to do with college girls) and it has accelerated now that I'm flying solo. I need to protect my gains. I got Beta Bux written all over me......but goddamn I'm tired of not relentlessly pursuing my own goals.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 02:53 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Yeah, thanks. Some of these guys are pretty hardcore and perhaps don't remember what it's like at first. You're right, the primary strategy is to get as many plates as possible. Key will to not be timid out of the gate......I need to come at this hardcore once I start and make sure I get at least 2 or 3 in the air. I've got nothing right now but good looks, good health, a good job, and a nice apartment.....and 44 years under my belt. I'm not even slightly concerned about loneliness. I just don't…	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 02:47 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) OK, this is good and kind of what I was looking for. What is going on mentally.....and presuming it's happening anyway is a damn good approach.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 02:40 PM
1	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) That's fair. I don't know that I quite have the disposition for that. My 4 year plan (most of which has nothing to do with women) has me spinning plates over that time frame. At least at first I'm going to be targeting put together women and will expect some level of emotional connection just as a matter of course. I think there's a bit of a false dichotomy here.....either don't give a shit or marry your special snowflake. I'm looking for a middle way.....well, really, I'm looking to advance my …	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 02:36 PM
5	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) Much obliged. I'm actually working damn hard on improving myself. Men who aren't focused on self improvement don't get a seat at the table. I'm entirely uninterested in LTR's at this point. I don't have kids, don't want kids, can't have kids, and am entirely against raising someone else's spawn....hard stop. You put your finger on it, I think. It's a question of abundance mentality. When I do dive back in I think I need to go in hardcore. It needs to be a policy of dating multiple women from the…	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 02:20 PM
0	How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural) That was a nice and friendly answer.....ok, sorry about that. Anyway.......if you didn't have to develop it, that's cool. I'm guessing sort of a "systematic desensitization" type thing will get me over that hump.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 02:06 PM
11	Take ownership of you: One key piece of advice I have for everyone in their 20s. Solid. I was going back to college during the recession, and was kicking around the idea of philosophy. A buddy said "That's a great idea. That way you'll KNOW why you don't have a job." Yeah, good point, mathematics with an emphasis in prob/stats it is.....and it's been a life changer. But I should have picked up on skills, dude.....that's fucking money. I did a couple classes in finance, the last being financial modeling with spreadsheets, which has been really useful. Uni's should teach way m…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/16 01:20 AM
1	You can't be MGTOW or be 'Preferably Monogamous' if you can't get other women. It's not so much how other men choose to live their lives. That's really, really not the point. At all. I came to TRP because my sexual strategy wasn't working for me. Also, my perception of my SMV is out of whack, so I'm trying to sort that out. Reading about the experiences of others has been helpful. Men have given me constructive feedback, and I've been forced to think things through. What's not helpful is reading about the experiences of MGTOW. It's not so much "You guys are virgin neckbear…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/16 12:15 AM
1	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise Hell yes. I found that out the hard way too. I really, really love the company of women. I'm also a nice guy who can't really help himself on the matter. But what I can help myself on is the boundaries. Enforcing my own boundaries is new territory for me. I'm calling those boundaries Frame. I know it's a corruption from the official definition, but it's helpful to me. I have a pretty specific set of plans and goals, and distraction from them is unacceptable. The gold in your post is this: you ha…	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 11:48 PM
1	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise There are guys here 10 steps ahead of me. I've yet to withhold commitment from an unworthy woman, but fuck her anyway......or, better yet, withhold commitment from a worthy woman because hey, I'm just spinning plates...um, I mean "dating casually." That said, you seem to have a pretty good read on me. I only believe in science, and scientific beliefs are by nature provisional. Humans are part of the web of life.....everything alive is descended from a common ancestor. I think that's one of the m…	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 11:37 PM
1	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise I'm curious about the proportion of winners to losers in TRP. I think that I needed this community to help me organize for my next steps. It has been helpful to me, and I try to engage on a helpful level for others. It seems to me that the guys who really get it are kind of past posting on an Internet forum. But there are some pretty credible guys here, too.... VasiliyZaitzev being my favorite by a wide margin. I'd love to buy that guy a beer. I have a four year plan to pay down student loans an…	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 11:27 PM
1	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise This was actually a really helpful comment. I was thinking about how I wish I could run the asshole game. I just can't, it's not me. I'm a genuine, bone-fide nice guy. Warm, supportive, and understanding. But I'm damned tired of not having my needs met. So, what to do? Here's where I am right now: reflecting on my past 4.5 year LTR, my commitment was very, very valuable to that girl. Her life course is literally different because of my nurturing. She deserved it, but not a single other woman in …	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 11:03 PM
1	How To Split The Check And Still Close I hope what I have to say is helpful, but it's been helpful for me which is why I do it. I'll know I'm there when a good looking plate cries when we have the "Where are we going" talk and IDGAF.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 02:02 PM
8	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise Fuck no, and the mods will rightly bring down the banhammer for posts about hitting women. The solution is to have a fucking goal in your life. Organize your life. Stick to your guns. Women dig that, but that's not the point.....the point is to take care of yourself.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 01:59 PM
3	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise I have studiously avoided that post. I think Red Pill is very valuable as an antidote to the feminized society we live in. I've come across some very good ideas here. AF/BB is rooted in evolutionary psychology. But I don't see a need to cut down women. I'm man enough to deal with women.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 01:55 PM
2	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise Case in point: this LTR I'm banging on about....like all normal dudes, I absolutely adore getting my cock sucked. So, she would suck cock and well, because she does everything well. I like positions that give a good view, but her favorite position was laying on her back with her head hanging off the bed. Great view of her tits but otherwise not such a good view. She liked it that way, though, because I had control. She would masturbate while doing this, and as she got closer I would go deeper...…	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 10:53 AM
31	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise With all due respect, fuck you. I don't have a perfect love life. I hand out commitment like it's fucking candy. I'm here for a reason.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 02:44 AM
4	How To Split The Check And Still Close Fuck no. I'm the poster boy of all that can go wrong. My ex-wife defended me, because that's how fucked this situation was. I'm trying to contribute to Red Pill because I know how psycho shit can go.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 02:41 AM
8	How To Split The Check And Still Close Dude, in my Blue Pill days I covered my wife getting pregnant by another man. Dinner is nothing.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 02:18 AM
3	How To Split The Check And Still Close I'm just too broke for that man lol I get steaks from Costco and cut them in 1/3's. I eat fucking great. If I can pull women to my pad I can fuck them. If not, next.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 02:14 AM
1	The numbers game: how to be a manwhore if you want to. The funny part is that I fucked an Israeli chick in the same time frame. The differences were shocking.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 01:58 AM
6	Recognize that your beta behaviour may come from a domineering mother Yeah man, no doubt. She doesn't want to be abandoned by her own children, and I don't think she will be. But let's be really clear. The only allowable aim for any parent, in my opinion, is to prepare your children for the real world. I'm pretty specific on this. That's it. It's almost like the Red Pill maxim,"She's not yours, it's just your turn." Your success as a parent entirely hangs on how well you prepare your children for the real world.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 01:54 AM
12	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise Only beef I got is the steak I'm about to cook, bro. Life is good.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 12:53 AM
11	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise Interesting. While we were together, there were two guys who took a run at her. One was a Marine, and the other a millionaire from crypto-currency. So......sure, man, cut me and her down if it makes you feel better. We're on the Interwebs. Many exaggerate. I'm downplaying it because it's hardly believable. But I'm telling you, she's fucking hot. 5'8", big tits, child bearing hips, blue eyes, solid morals, razor sharp brain.....she's fine as hell.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 12:46 AM
17	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise We're all feigning, dude. All of us. No, her pussy wasn't dried up, and neither her face wrinkled. She was 19 when we got together, and is 23 now. She's going to pull Chad, and he's going to be lucky. This shouldn't be a pissing contest. We have enough of that with the MTGOW pussies who apparently are the primary consumers of TRP. Larry Summers was thrown under the bus because he said that the top thinkers are men. He was right. The flip side, though, is most idiots are also male. Men simply hav…	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/16 12:35 AM
2	You can't be MGTOW or be 'Preferably Monogamous' if you can't get other women. Fuck yeah man. Rock on! "Men age like wine, women age like milk" -some Red Piller who knows his shit.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 11:58 PM
11	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise This is the top comment in the thread, not mine.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 11:52 PM
61	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise My last LTR earned a B.S. in theoretical mathematics with minors in both chemistry and computer science while we were together. 3.98 GPA. No fluff. Underestimate your enemy at your own peril, dude. I report to a woman now and she's fucking good at her job. I've worked for incredibly talented and driven women in the past. TRP is great for me because it's helped me figure shit out. "She's not yours, it's just your turn" and "Women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of commitm…	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 11:50 PM
1	You can't be MGTOW or be 'Preferably Monogamous' if you can't get other women. Damn right! But.....let me say 40's me would wipe the floor with 20's me, so there's that. Hard to say when ones best years will be. But hell yeah!	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 11:30 PM
1	You can't be MGTOW or be 'Preferably Monogamous' if you can't get other women. Wait....I think I fucked that one up. RP is steak, and MTGOW is vegetarianism. My bad. I hope GLO doesn't bring down the banhammer LMAO I crack myself up.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 11:24 PM
-1	You can't be MGTOW or be 'Preferably Monogamous' if you can't get other women. Hell yeah! It's not so much that one is better than the other (I do have an opinion on that) than why the fuck go to a subreddit on vegetarianism to talk about steak?	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 11:21 PM
-1	One can experience freedom going MGTOW, without any remorse or regret That's right, and I probably shouldn't engage. This whole thing has the flavor of going onto a sub for cooking steak and saying, "You know, veggies are very good, you ought to try them." (Not that I have any problem with veggies, they complement the steaks I make just fine)	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 10:09 PM
5	De-Programming Yourself Part I Thanks for posting, will watch for Part II. I think the types of posts are helpful. I will say this: I totally and absolutely bought the idea that I was the White Knight for broken women. That was my programming. My second wife was badly broken and I nearly broke myself trying to fix her. In the middle of all that, I met a girl in college who was so fine, it just blew my mind. We were in a class together....the next semester, she came to the lab where I was tutoring. She started visiting regular…	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 10:05 PM
-3	One can experience freedom going MGTOW, without any remorse or regret I think the RP mods are being cool. I'd probably have nuked the original post. Go your own way somewhere else, you know? This sub is about sexual strategy, not copping out.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 09:13 PM
10	Recognize that your beta behaviour may come from a domineering mother I was somewhat defeated after that. After my mother died, I wanted to stay in Phoenix for a while. I needed time to heal and I also had my first corporate job. Things were stable. But, my Florida girl wife hated it there and talked me into quitting my job and moving to Denver, where her mother lived at the time. I love Denver and have been here since but my point is that I lost control.....I lost Frame. I had no authority. And that's an intolerable place for any husband worth his salt.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 07:40 PM
4	How To Split The Check And Still Close I've not been on a single on-line date, but that will change soon. TRP probably saved me $1000 on dinners......it's too much money for too much food. Also, I'm not an ATM machine.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 07:15 PM
7	Recognize that your beta behaviour may come from a domineering mother I just don't want to admit to swallowing on a public forum.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 06:58 PM
94	Things That Keep You Beta: Compromise LTR's are trench warfare, dude. And those little compromises are additive.My last LTR had much go her way, but she was younger, smart, and hot so frankly she had advantages over me. Once you compromise too much, you lose all authority and might as well start over with a new woman.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 06:56 PM
1	Loneliness - What is it really? Thanks, man. I'm just glad I didn't fall into any really bad habits.....things aren't perfect but they're good. I'm really glad I haven't fallen in with any women. I was talking to one at the bar about 3 weeks ago. She was pretty hot, but then was talking about how weak she is as she's in a relationship that she knows she's going to get out of. Hard next. She pressed her number on me....I threw her card away. I like sleeping with (not just fucking) women but not just for the sake of not being al…	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 06:26 PM
8	Recognize that your beta behaviour may come from a domineering mother The fucked up part is adult children are, from what I understand, great. Parents who act the way your mother did, driving people away, don't realize what they're missing. Good on you for getting out.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 06:15 PM
3	Recognize that your beta behaviour may come from a domineering mother Time and keen attention to one's own goals.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 06:12 PM
9	Recognize that your beta behaviour may come from a domineering mother My mother died before I had a chance. She was already sick and wanted to move to Arizona from Florida for the dry air. I was recently married and said, look, we'll move you in September, but we have summer jobs in Yellowstone and it's going to be fun. She moves anyway in fucking June with another junkie loser who was fleeing town because a young women in the social group committed suicide while high on junk he gave her. Mid July we're getting desperate letters because she was dying. I really did…	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 06:10 PM
6	Recognize that your beta behaviour may come from a domineering mother Oh God yes. My mother was an active man hater. Hardcore lesbian feminist. Hours after her first child was born (me) she had a full hysterectomy, so I was her only shot. I'm just a normal dude. A transgendered/gay/bi male would have been lucky, in ways, to have her for a mother, but for me it was an absolute disaster. I married the first woman who came along and treated me like a man and reveled in my masculinity. She began the process of opening my eyes, but I'm still a work in progress. To top …	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 06:04 PM
14	The numbers game: how to be a manwhore if you want to. Perspective, man. 25 is a solid year for a seducer, but to a 19 year old JAP (Jewish American Princess) I might as well have been Hef with an n-count like that (of course she converted to atheism first and used me to enter the real world, fair deal). If I could pull her, I'm not just "getting what I can" I'm rocking the fucking house. Anyway, most of my adult life I've been in LTR's.....that's part of why I'm here, I need to fucking stop giving away commitment like it's candy. I baffled how many…	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/16 11:23 AM
5	The numbers game: how to be a manwhore if you want to. Yep you were up to like 5 or 6 points when I upvoted you....not that any redditor is a karma whore, but clearly your message isn't being well accepted lately. You're totally fucking right, though, and I find it bizarre. It really seems that often times things are downvoted to obscurity even when they align with the spirit of the subreddit. This subreddit is exactly about male sexual strategy, and if you're sexual strategy is to go your own way, then you have nothing to add to this sub.	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/16 01:13 AM
21	The numbers game: how to be a manwhore if you want to. Condoms provide incomplete protection but are a damn sight better than raw dogging it. Also, as far as I know, I don't have HPV. She was taking precautions, which made sense, but she was also pretty horny, so it was a level of protection she was comfortable with.	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/16 12:45 AM
21	The numbers game: how to be a manwhore if you want to. Yes. When we met, I was 39, had been married twice, and around the block a few times. She was 19, and a virgin. She wants a large family and her fertility is very important to her. She wasn't going to take any chances. HPV can be invisible in men and fucking wreck a womans reproductive tract. edit: not complaining that I had to use a condom. She probably made the right call, and it was fun as hell.	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/16 12:30 AM
1	[TIME TRAVEL] "PARTNER COUNT DOESN'T MATTER" VS. MEDICAL REALITY; be careful where you stick your dick, gentlemen. I like the idea of calling it Herpes Type 1 instead of HSV-1....gets the point across that it's not a big fucking deal.	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 11:12 PM
40	The numbers game: how to be a manwhore if you want to. Succinct with actionable information. Little rehashing. Solid post. Definitely wrap it up. I was an idiot when younger and the only reason I didn't get anyone pregnant is because I shoot blanks. One girl ended up with HIV, but that was after I was with her. After two wives and probably 25 or so sex partners, my last gf demanded condom usage, and I was with her 4.5 years. I finally got good at condoms.....oddly enough, it's a skill to do it right as angles and such are different. Makes foreplay t…	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 11:01 PM
3	This obsession with girls is beta Damn right. Also, intelligence has huge benefits in a sexual selection sense, not just natural selection.....we're smarter than we needed to be to survive. Sexual selection is absolutely at work on the human mind. Of course....we're also the second largest primate on the planet who used to engage in persistence hunting.....for hundreds of thousands of years, our game was to run dinner into the ground and slit its throat. Pencilneck anthropologists used to try to make us think we're weak and live…	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 10:11 PM
1	This obsession with girls is beta I don't know how fair of a characterization that is.....I don't think I'm alone in having had many LTR's,and looking for a way to keep things under control. I've been in LTR's 20 of the 22 years of my adulthood.......I need to better manage things, though. My last girlfriend was delightful, but my second wife was a harpy....and my first wife, well, things didn't work out and weren't handled well because I didn't own my shit. edit: a word	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 09:55 PM
1	Loneliness - What is it really? Right there with you, single man apartment, working from home. I'm traveling to the San Diego office next week, and the Albany one next month.....but for the most part, I'm totally alone. It kind of sucks. You're totally right about action. I know I'm a bit in the dumps right now as a LTR of 4.5 years ended....in a good way, but still, I worked from home and she took a gap year between undergrad and grad school, so we were literally always together, plus she took care of the household since I wa…	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 08:57 PM
1	[FR] 80% guys have no chance on Tinder Got laid off during the Great Recession, hid in school and lived on loans in my late thirties. Not a great idea, but it paid off in my opinion. No forgiveness, I make too much money, $65K, which isn't "bank" but it's not too bad, and incidentally is about how much I owe. I'm not doing anything stupid like taking on a car payment....my '94 Saturn has 197K miles on it. I hope it will last during the next 4 years while I make heroic payments on my student debt to clear it out fucking asap. I don't …	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 07:53 PM
1	[FR] 80% guys have no chance on Tinder That's a good point. Joke's on them, though.....my student debt is high (worth it for a mathematics degree that got me good work) and I own no property and have nothing in retirement. No gold to dig but my time (which I'm getting way more stingy with).	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 07:02 PM
2	Girls are not your enemy. Betas are. I lose sight of the fact that many guys here might actually be angry with women.....at the end of the day, I'm on Red Pill because women have a framework for advancing their goals, and men need the same. I want to contribute to that. Women will pick up on it if you're angry or hating towards women. So, of course you need to stop being angry at women, or you won't get laid....if you do get laid, you won't get plates. To be successful, there is a lot to overcome. Women have deep evolutionary reaso…	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 03:29 PM
1	Don't wait for IOI's, and don't give place too much importance on them. I absolutely agree.....I've been in LTR's most of my life but am now looking to get into the game after stumbling into a ltr with a very young woman. I'm hooked on the younger ones, and I don't have or want kids so women my age are toxic. So.....I need to be goddamn selective. There absolutely are younger women into older guys, but if I go sarging around hitting on everything....yeah, your definition of creep is spot on.	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 03:14 PM
15	Honesty thought this sub was stupid but after coming out of a LTR, I wish I lurked here. Absolutely. At 43 this stuff is useful....at 23 it would have gone right over my head.	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 03:05 PM
1	Girls are not your enemy. Betas are. Nothing new here. Women have evolved to conceal ovulation, and men have evolved at least some amount of sperm competition. Women have always wanted both a good provider and good genes, preferable but usually not from the same fellow. The dualistic mating strategy of women is not only not new, but virtually predates us as a species. The question is this: What's your actionable advice? Does raging against betas really advance a modern males sexual strategy?	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 09:47 PM
2	10 Things That Will Fuck Up Your Life and Make You An Average Sexless Loser. One of the bigger injustices I know if is the differential punishment for cocaine and crack. I'm pretty disgusted by prohibition. People should be able to do what they damn well please.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 09:10 PM
2	10 Things That Will Fuck Up Your Life and Make You An Average Sexless Loser. Yeah, I don't even know why I posted in this thread....bored, I guess. I'm generally sympathetic to your point of view. My experience is that weed does degrade ability at least somewhat. It's a powerful psychoactive substance. I really liked Michael Pollan's idea that hunting was like being stoned.....basically, when he was hunting, his senses became more acute, time got fuzzy, and he was hungry. We have cannabonoid (sp?) receptors in our brains for a reason, and I don't think it's worked out as…	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 08:58 PM
3	10 Things That Will Fuck Up Your Life and Make You An Average Sexless Loser. There was sleeping in there lol. I'd say day 2 was about 13 miles, and I was in the car by 4 PM. Up to Abyss Lake, good stuff. Look, man, my mother was a degenerate junkie who blew that shit in my face when I was an infant to calm me down. I know how fucking complex the world is.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 08:41 PM
1	ELI5: Frame A better description than the OP's, and good stuff. I am thinking about it a lot. Right now, I think of it in terms of my schedule and my surroundings. Things like, I'm up at 6 to run, have breakfast, and be on the computer at 8 (I work from home). The idea is that I want to live a certain way, and I need to spend my time doing certain things to live that life. Also, things like keeping everything clean. If I don't clean after every meal, the space I want to see around me slips, the Frame is wea…	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 08:24 PM
1	The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex. I fully intend on taking advantage of the situation. If younger women aren't getting hit on by the candy asses, or are getting stood up by Chad, I'll happily give them an alternative for the night.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 05:33 PM
1	[FR] 80% guys have no chance on Tinder I'm going to try it. I'm 44, so it's not looking good, but I'll try anyway....I live right next to a university. I'm going to use a professional headshot from work, suit and tie. I don't know if I'm far enough on the right side of good looking to pull it off (yeah, I'm good looking for sure, 150 pounds and in good shape, symmetrical face, full head of hair), but a shirtless pic from a guy my age would be pathetic. I have a sweet apartment, no kids, no desire for kids, and am recently out of a 4.…	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 05:10 PM
6	10 Things That Will Fuck Up Your Life and Make You An Average Sexless Loser. Yep. I recently did an out and back backpacking trip in the Rockies, 18 mile round trip, 25 hours door to door....I felt high as a fucking kite coming down that trail. Clearly this was healthier than smoking a bowl, and it gave me good stories, too. Smoking weed shortcuts the reward circuits in your brain, imo, which is why it's really no good for a strong, thriving life.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 04:50 PM
1	ELI5: Frame You have high standards for the attention span of five year olds :)	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 04:39 PM