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Thats the purpose of shit tests right? To make sure her man's frame is stronger than her constant worry. I got this babe, relax.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 10:48 PM
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Always be sex positive This is key. I need to remember. Keep it in the open, keep it positive. I think some women have been taught to supress their desire in much the way Nice Guys have been taught to feel ashamed by it. This is America, where it's fine to show people getting shot on Prime Time, but making love? Inappropriate. For YEARS even when I brought up the topic it was in a negative light, as in, not happening enough. Now, if I'm gonna talk about sex Im gonna talk about how awesome it is …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 07:18 PM
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Mostly from memory, though I have always kept a journal. It is essential for me to vent my frustrations and create plans of action. I have a paper one and a digital doc. Reading it is funny, because it makes me seem very troubled...but that's just because I don't get the urge to write when I am content. I have new friends too. From work, rec-league sports, other parents, and I'm in a man-book club -- which is where many of these titles came from. We meet in clandestine locations and drink obscur…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 03:38 PM
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This was after she explored the mano-sphere, before she told me about it. She SAID it was because she realized she loves having sex, too, and she is not doing it for me anyway. This is congruent with her actions because she was feisty and trying to be dominant. This did not last because that is not her true nature. She hates the idea of "submission" (but she loves the way it feels.)
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 03:29 PM
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Lift, Read, Grow. I keep telling myself, "let her go, let her go." This is about you and your solo journey on a floating rock in space. She had the hots for you once, and she will again. Find your space and do your thing, just make sure it includes books and iron.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 03:22 PM
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You. You have put in so much work, and your posts have directed and inspired a great many man-boys and men, myself included. I am proud to be on this journey with you, which doesn't end until we die.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 03:18 PM
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Thanks. It took a while. I write slowly. I had a lot of shit downvoted and even removed early on. It hurt, but I I realize now that I was just circlejerking noob gains. Even this post fails to mention the hard days in the good months, but I tried to just tell the honest truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 02:52 AM
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Actually, the One Year is a year ago today that my dad died. This one's for him. Respect for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 02:50 AM
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You are making her happy but keeping her on her toes. Sounds like the right level of dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 02:49 AM
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You know, it IS worth it. I think a lot of guys on TRP miss that. Hard mode is a good mode, once you figure out how not to suck at it. I wonder if I was 20 reading that, I might never get married. But there is power in a good LTR. I no longer rely on it for my validation, but I do value what we have done together. Also, You helped me a lot. I still marvel at how 1) dudes I will never meet, dont even know where they live, can make such an impact, and 2) you can READ some shit on the internet. Not…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 02:45 AM
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Good reminder. I still have not articulated mine. Great examples on OYS weekly though.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 02:40 AM
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I guess you don't just get engaged once. Gotta re-engage. So many have helped me keep focus, it's nice to contribute to the conversation. It's a long game. Years and years. Not every step is forward, but you gotta keep hiking.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 12:58 AM
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Billy Lynn's long halftime walk. Funny and deep. Redpill dudes through and through movie coming out soon
/r/askMRP04/11/16 03:25 AM
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This has been very informative. I have been dealing with this too. Very similar situation, wife found my OYS post. Definitely has been an issue, but I told her, now that she learned about it, she had to learn all about it. Took a while to explain the difference between MRP and TRP, but I think she's finally getting it. In truth, MRP is amoral, but I am a moral person and I think what's happening here is a very good thing. Men discussing how to save marriage in an age when its endangered. Yes, th…
/r/askMRP04/11/16 02:22 AM
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It's a good use of your time man. You have a good message. Remember you are helping lots of people that never even respond. You and BPP and others saved my marriage. I was about to explode. I'm calmer now. Maybe that's the first first step toward effortless.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 01:13 AM
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Sound advice. Thats a good recipe for starting any new habit, I suppose. I feel so busy, but I know I am still wasting time. Priorities.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 01:09 AM
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Owning It Started this journey last September. I’ve made huge progress from the sad beginning; I’m nowhere near where I need to be. Fitness: Grade C- Need to get consistent again. Recent travel shook me off the routine, then crazy work upon return. I was at a good steady 3-4 days lifting and 2-3 run, ride or swim sessions. Work has calmed now, so I will get back to the routine. Need to push harder when I do. Nutrition: C Also need consistency. Lost 15 pounds on paleo/low carb this summer, a few …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 09:43 PM
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That is so badass. Three months later and the handful of times i havehad a warm shower, i end up feeling like a pussy and turning it back to cold. I dont even feel clean if its warm. I was trying ro figure out how and why itseems to fit with MRP principles and i think you nailed it. Hold frame and STFU. Thanks
/r/askMRP11/08/16 02:33 AM
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I have been thinking of the same strategy. If the NO is being weaponized, take away the weapon. I might try it for two weeks first though...
/r/askMRP21/07/16 09:47 AM
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Man you are lucky to have discovered MRP 18 months after your second child. You have the information, consume it. Then take action. If you are drunk quite often you cannot drive a car, much less captain a ship. Your wife wants hot and wet sex just as much as you do, but if she doesn't admire you, she doesn't desire you. Direct all your frustration into the gym, not the bottle. For me, to STFU has been the hardest part. Use a journal. It will help you sort your thoughts and refine your voice. Pos…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/16 08:03 AM
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That's something I need to hear. I have an anthropologist/ social science background, so I am interested in society and pop culture. I am fascinated with how many truths are revealed to me in MRP that so many need, but so few understand. It's almost the way people in cults feel. It's interesting as fuck, but you're right, I don't need to really care about it. I feel sorry for all the BP guys who don't know how to escape the shit they stand in. But if they won't listen to J-lo, or other clues all…
/r/askMRP28/06/16 11:41 AM
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Everyone knows,even If they don't know they know. But you are so right...nobody really wants to EXPLORE the concept. Except for the sidebar guys. Thank the gods for them...and for you guys.... I have often lamented this year that I didn't find this sooner, but I guess I should be happy it wasn't later..
/r/askMRP27/06/16 03:24 AM
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True, true. Where have all the good men gone..
/r/askMRP27/06/16 03:19 AM
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Funny. I copy/pasted the lyrics. But funny. Thanks for not answering the question.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 03:19 AM
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Ok. Been hampstering this all day. (Is that the right usage?) i dont know what you mean about formatting, but i do see a sort of whiny, insecure tone to my posts. Just finished NMMNG and i can see how that tone goes back to my youth as an attention getter. I need to write from a more humble, confident, solid frame. Starting to see it. Thanks for your help.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/16 11:25 PM
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What happened here? Please provide feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 11:17 PM
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My wife is as liberally educated and girl-empowered as they come. She has no idea whats happening, only that it feels right. I love the part ,"i still need it, even when i dont want it." Clarity.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 06:43 PM
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That makes sense. Whats cool about the cold water is that it feels like you're getting your ass kicked but its not actually dangerous.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 01:21 PM
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they make you feel like a mofo True dat.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 01:20 PM
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The screaming was an exaggeration for humor. It's more of a gasp. But the challenge is to stand calmly. There is actual research that it stimulates weight loss, but the rest is probably placebo.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 01:20 PM
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Maybe we should call it "falling off the ship." The water is cold, you have to swim to catch up. Shows how well this stuff works...it immediately stops working when you stop doing it.
/r/askMRP24/05/16 01:58 PM
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So true. We need to remember this is supposed to be fun. Nobody in here is doing it 100% of the time, because being on Reddit and reading about gaming your wife is not Alpha. Every post id Verba, non Acta. I agree, sometimes we need to take a chill pill with the red pill. Then we need to get in the gym and push fucking hard. Thats fun.
/r/askMRP13/05/16 03:49 AM
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'Mental point of origin,' I like how you put it. It does feel like a return to something original, rather than a new perspective. Like we have had it all along, we just forgot for a while. I suspect I have some BP buried in my psyche as well. I will stay diligent, and hope it works its way out like shrapnel.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 02:35 AM
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True. I like what you said about how people see the outcome, but not the investment. My wife did offer a compliment, and I should have said you're welcome. What I meant by bait, is that I didn't take the opportunity to discuss the relationship, and the finer points of why it's better. I'd rather her just see the pyramid.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 02:28 AM
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Yes, thank you. I knew I had read this, but forgot where. Athol said, "there is a direct link between your sexual attractiveness, high energy levels, and your ability to attract success in your life . All three things exist in a positive feedback loop with the other." Right. I guess I just wasn't prepared for how this would play out in so many tiny ways. Your soda example is perfect.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/16 10:42 AM
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First time owning my shit here. I am falling short of where I need to be in many ways, but making progress. Here goes. Shit I need to own: I am currently uninspired at work. I am coasting on my skill and reputation, but i have not been innovative or much of a leader for the past year. I have been using MRP principles at home and I need to now extend them professionally. I need to focus intensely while I’m there, and not bring it home. I need to make sure my vision is helping guide what we do, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/16 03:04 AM
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