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RANTSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:25 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:21 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:18 AM
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RANTSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:03 AM
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RANTSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:47 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTESuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:33 PM
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SEEKING ADVICESuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:09 AM
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RANTSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:36 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:22 PM
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DISCUSSIONSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:25 PM
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SEEKING ADVICESuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:24 PM
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SEEKING ADVICESuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:29 PM
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How-To High ValueSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:24 PM
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DISCUSSIONSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:50 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:57 PM
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#JustLVMThingsSuccessfulShow5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:08 PM
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Same 🤘🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:40 PM
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They just want that girl for the convenience. They’re always going to chase the girl that’s a challenge and respect her more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:28 AM
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Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:44 PM
78

You hit the bullseye ! Honestly the only reason they don’t want YOU looking your best is so there’s no competition from other men looking at you . I had this conversation with my ex once because he loved liking pics of scantily clad bikini models, but the one time I entered a bikini contest and all these dudes were drooling over me he was all pissed off and said “yeah but I don’t want my GIRLFRIEND looking like that “......oh ok soooo you want to lust over other women you’ll never have and keep …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:28 PM
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I struggled with that and at that point you just got a chalk it up to discipline. Now every time I have the urge to unblock them I ask myself “ do you really hate yourself this much that you’re going to stalk someone who’s not even thinking about you?” That stops me real quick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:55 AM
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Omg yesssss . I’m charging a $50 reconnection fee from now on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:34 PM
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Girl me too, me too. This sub is my safe haven .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:56 AM
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I need info ! I don’t have Hulu! Lol .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:55 AM
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They might not get karma on a form you can see per se, but they’re never truly happy. A guy I briefly went out with until I found out he was married (gave me the whole oh I am getting separated spiel) ended up divorcing his wife , and wasted absolutely no time in getting straight into another relationship and now is engaged to this new woman in less than a year. He STILL tried to hit me up throughout their relationship and once during this new engagement to see if I was down to hook up. I had hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:27 AM
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Girl sometimes we JUST KNOW. I remember this one time that my ex told me he was going to work on a Saturday and he NEVER worked on Saturday’s. He told me it was for his friends shop and they were gonna lay him cash. I felt really weird about it because he hadn’t text me the whole day until he was “off” and then we went to go out to eat but he was broke ... I was like didn’t you say they were going to pay you cash? Omg It turned into this big long winded story about how the guy was gonna pay him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:38 PM
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Lol I’m not sure what you’re referring to, but I had some random ass dude pop up in my messages who copied and paste did one of my comments from a thread on here and lectured me on it??! 🤣🤣🤣 for someone who “doesn’t need women” he sure as fuck is bothered enough to go seek them out on FDS. Like I’m sorry who does that?!! I have too much shit going on in my life to go on the MGTOW thread and start lecturing random predators on there....Speaking of which can anyone tell me how to disable my direct…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:28 PM
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Yeah that’s why all the men you ignore are the ones who are constantly blowing up your inbox right 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:12 PM
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Sad to see that that behavior doesn’t go away no matter what age! Oh well. Not our problem anymore !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:42 AM
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YES.YES. YES to all of this . If a man’s “table“ can’t match mine, then he is just a burden to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:08 AM
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LMAO guys hate it when we pull their game on them... except it’s not a game to me. I genuinely don’t care about you bro 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:53 AM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:55 PM
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“Omg you found your bf banging your sister and you wanna break up over that? You’re so insecure ! Just communicate with him! Why were you going into his room in the first place? You’re so insecure men just need a release sometimes !”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:12 AM
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The female redditors are worse. Some of their responses make me wonder why they hate themselves so much ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:10 AM
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Yessssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:29 PM
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Quora and yahoo answers are full of pick mes (looks like quora)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:00 PM
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This was a big one. When my truck got stolen from my complex a year ago I called my ex and told him I was freaking out (this was after I had already called police) and he didn’t offer any emotional support whatsoever and just asked “well did you call the police ...” no outrage or concern in his voice at all. He didn’t call me all day , Not even on his lunch, to ask me how everything was going or if I needed a ride to work . He was at work too but my friend who lives an HOUR away offered to help …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:51 PM
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100 percent The guy who made this could not have either of those women if he tried🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:14 PM
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Not with those fucking shoes he’s not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:36 AM
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This was my ex In a nutshell. 40, never married ....Hadn’t been in a serious relationship since he was 30. And I thought I was going to be that “special girl “ who was going to turn things around hahahahahaha I wasn’t . I’m glad I didn’t waste more than a year on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:35 AM
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I will! Just waiting on my next paycheck 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:38 PM
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That’s so sweet! And also I totally need something like that ! I just have an ugly little patio chair in my yard now but I’ve been looking for something similar to your picture because I love spending time reading outside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:19 PM
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Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:02 PM
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This was sooooo funny 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:52 PM
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YES I feel the same exact way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:10 PM
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Oh my look at all those awards 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:07 AM
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Life for me is WAY less stressful single. I don’t miss going through phones and worrying about getting cheated on every night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:06 AM
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LOL they’re always like “oh everyone just left ! But you can still hang out “ byeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:41 AM
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Same thing! He was an hour away! I’m not gonna drive an hour for somebody who only kind of sort of wants me there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:36 AM
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I am glad you posted this because I had the same exact scenario a few weeks ago! This gUy said I was “welcome” to go to his birthday party. I thought I was overthinking things but I do not like “soft invitations” as in “oh you can come through ....if you want...” or “you’re totally welcome to stop by” like I want an affirmative ass “ I WANT you at this party. Please be there. I want to see you”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:45 AM
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Yeah that got me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:42 AM
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On another note , lion memes are so cringey to me haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:53 PM
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The same article was posted in Datingoverthirty and of course some idiot started with the victim blaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:55 PM
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Love your energy girl! Get it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:17 PM
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Get fucked, Reno
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:08 PM
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That has been my experience as well, I’ve only ever gotten a handful of dates from men that I’ve met online but nothing ever flourished. I really don’t think most men on online dating sites are looking for anything serious And just treat it as a numbers game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:15 PM
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Yeah, leave me out of this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:07 PM
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I 100 percent agree with you OP. OLD dating is not for me , and if that means I stay single longer than so be it. I’ve always met men while out and about or engaging in hobbies. That’s how I prefer it. OLD attracts men Who think that now that they are hiding behind a screen they can say anything gross or offensive thing to you that they would never have the balls to say in public . Not worth my energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:36 PM
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What’s nosurf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:38 AM
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Cry me a fucking river😹😹No thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:37 AM
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I aLways think of that rule ! Great Book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:13 PM
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I never actually look any of my exes up after breakups . I’ve kept them blocked . The only way I’m ever notified of how they’re doing is when they inevitably hit me up from a new social media account or number. And every time they are doing worse than me 😂. But anyways . As another user said it doesn’t matter if they won the fucking lottery or they’re living in a piss squalor. All That matters after them is ME and my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:07 PM
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That part ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:05 PM
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Hindsight is a bitch !! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:58 PM
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I literally suffered the exact same scenario , caught my ex DMin his past flings when we had an early rut in our relationship. I was so emotionally invested that I also let it go the first time and gave him a chance to redeem himself, Even though it killed me inside for so many months . well it wasn’t a one time thing and it occurred like two more times until I left. Don’t beat yourself up. The good thing is that you WERE strong enough to finally leave, and didn’t let it go any longer than two y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:51 PM
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This is so fucking gross. Yeah cry about being unfair because he can’t meet the minimum required standards of just being a functioning human in society. I don’t even wanna know what his room looks like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:58 PM
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I saw that too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:10 AM
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I’m in the same boat. My LVM ex Gave it to me (herpes 1. The more common type). I’ve heard of women disclosing it to a partner and the partner accepting it because they truly love her for who she is. They just continue to take precautions, such as not having sex when breakouts occur or using condoms. My break up is sort of fresh though and I haven’t started seeing anyone new so I am not sure myself how to disclose it 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:04 AM
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Sooo refreshing !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:58 AM
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Yay! I had and sometimes still have Trouble with this . There will always be time for Meeting men/ socializing . Your needs come first though ! I’ve had to say no to things too where I knew there would be opportunities to mingle ....but I needed my rest or I had bigger priorities . Men never have trouble putting themselves first , so neither will we !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:59 AM
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If this isn’t the goddamn truth. I am the table , but ima keep it over here with me ....lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:51 AM
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That’s justice right there !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:05 PM
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Toxic workplace behavior when someone gets finished talking you (especially a boss) then immediately goes to a coworkers office and gossips with the door closed. Happened at my old job all the time .Crazy how some people never left high school....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:42 PM
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Dammit isn’t that Dee and Mac from Always sunny ?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:31 PM
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Moving too fast? Lmao buddy you skipped that mark when you got her pregnant .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:30 PM
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Omg are we the same person ! I am a military vet with a bachelors as well and about a year ago I left a super toxic work situation similar to yours. My equally toxic ex found me a job with one of his old buddies construction companies as a receptionist. The dude was going through a divorce and couldn’t run his company worth a shit and was always blaming me for not being trained right when they weren’t even showing me how to do things the right way. On top of that I was barely breaking even with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:16 PM
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The ex definitely don’t want his ass LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:18 AM
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That behavior manifests itself way early. The signs are always there . She’s just been making excuses for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:50 AM
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I think that’s 95% of it right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:47 AM
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Girl I really needed this today . Thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:21 AM
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I feel you 100
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:56 AM
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One thing I still can’t figure out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:46 AM
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That’s what I don’t understand. All these men that seem so unhappy with their wives when they were the ones that chose to marry them 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:55 PM
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“ They can’t comprehend that women can end relationships to be completely single” So much truth in this sentence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:43 PM
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In short , I I felt like I was the one planning and initiating most of the dates in the beginning. I pretty much felt like I was the force behind the relationship and if it wasn’t for me Planning everything , We would have never really formed anything . Well two years into the relationship I still felt like I was still the driving force behind everything and I was exhausted. Like he wouldn’t make any effort in relationship/ dates unless I explicitly asked him to. No conversations about marriage.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:44 PM
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I am in your same boat . I am in law school right now and between school work and my own hobbies I have little time for anything else. Ideally , I would love to find a man who fits into my schedule. But I’m afraid I’m not going to be able to attend to a mans “NeEdS” right now with all my time being taken up and I’ll just end up getting cheated on and being blamed on it for being busy. I don’t want to be pessimistic but I can totally see that happening and I would rather just avoid it🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:25 AM
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Right...I was so rooting for meadow ! She acted super pick me with Finn But didn’t she end up getting engaged to one of Parisi’s sons ? Or whatever that guy who killed him self was .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:20 AM
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Yup if they start out low effort in the beginning that’s pretty much going to be there energy throughout in a relationship. Had to learn this the hard way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:08 AM
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By the way: I still wanna know what happened to Tony soprano on the last episode 🗣🗣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:30 AM
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Me too!!! I love all that stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:29 AM
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Thank you! I was (am) such a huge fan of the show but as soon as I realized what a “pick me “ was ....I was like she has Got to be the biggest of them all . I know it was just a fictional TV show, But there’s a lot of wives like her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:29 AM
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THIS 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:14 AM
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I would like to say that this wouldn’t be the case if I met a man I was truly compatible with and is a high-value male . Idk. We’ll see. Last two ex’s were toxic so I’m holding out until I find my idea of perfection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:43 PM
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I’ve always been a better version of myself Single than in a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:56 PM
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Omg absolute fucking QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:57 PM
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Yesss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:37 AM
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It bites at their ego SO hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:35 AM
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When can women just be left alone...my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:34 AM
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Classic move. Just had a LVM from my past who I used to hook up with hit me up in the DM with that whole “Heyyy how’s the family /school blah blah “ And he turned the conversation straight to hooking up again after my response 🙄 blockeddd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:08 AM
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Lol oh man that used to be me in your before messages . Writing them paragraphs and details When they would only be bothered to write a few words back at most. If I do reply at all now to these low effort men, I just give them sweet and vague answers. If you want to know how I am doing then ask me on a proper date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:43 AM
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This is amazing who keeps making these ?! LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:32 PM
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Sane here . I own my home and whoever my future husband is will have to own his own home as well or buy a new one for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:19 AM
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Ewww. I own my home and this is exactly why I will only marry a man who has his own home also and won’t try to put his hands on my shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:14 AM
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Omg hilarious these have all happened to me in the last few months 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:21 PM
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I’ve always thought this. A man want a wife/girlfriend for the stability but they still want to be able to fuck around and do whatever they want for the thrill aspect and to have their cake and eat it too. Fuck that. I don’t even want to give them the satisfaction 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:29 AM
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I know ! Wtf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:19 AM
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Right ...like ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:11 PM
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He just couldn’t help himself ....and ewww that’s just weird I’m sorry. If my mom or someone in my family introduced me to a porn collection I think I’d be traumatized 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:50 PM
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I’ve frequented bars and restaurants alone often and that’s where I feel the most self-conscious ha ha . But I do it anyway and eventually once I’m settled in my seat or talking to Someone else my nerves dissipate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:02 PM
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I don’t do online dating but of the hundreds of screenshots I’ve seen of both men and women it seems like they just like to create profiles and say really vulgar/left field statements for shock value instead of actually trying to attract a partner. I mean some of the shit these people say in nobodies right mind would attract a decent person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:09 PM
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Yay I’m so happy reading all these comments and knowing I’m not the only one 🤗 I definitely feel more encouraged now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:05 AM
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Yes girl 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:01 AM
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Yup. feel the fear and do it anyway !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:33 AM
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I’m in Orange County !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:31 AM
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I’m here for it LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:11 PM
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In the morning ? So he’s going to have some poor pickemisha drive to his place at 7 am to give him some nookie ? Oh god bless her 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:59 AM
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Girlllll 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:32 AM
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🙌🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:36 AM
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Yeah he wants you to be invisible on social media while he’s in like 20 chicks DM‘s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:35 AM
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Girlll cut those losses. I’m 28 too and kicked my ex LVM male To the curb and never been happier. Cheers to new beginnings and wisdom in year 29 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:34 AM
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Dude I went out with a guy , slept with him a few weeks in after a couple of dates and Him fixing my motorcycle and the sex was terrible. I mean on top of that , His behavior at dinner was kind of rude (looked at his phone a lot ) and I kind of like being single right now and I’m not planning on changing that until I find a guy who takes all my boxes. I kicked him out of my house after the sex and he was soo butthurt. He thought he was going to be spending the night 😂 I never texted him back but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:20 AM
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This x1000. I just don’t like you dude.....deal with it and move on like women are expected to deal when we get ghosted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:30 AM
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Yeah this is like one of the only posts on FDS I disagree with lol. Whether anyone likes it or not he actually is still pretty hot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:09 AM
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I’m not the biggest fan of her music but she is spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:09 PM
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I’m going to throw up if his girlfriend still with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:08 PM
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Lol it’s fucking true . Being monogamous to a man is a waste of my time these days. I’m holding out for the one that will prove me wrong....but sighhh idk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:04 PM
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He bought me a gift for my bday on the first week we meet which I never had a man do before and I basically felt obligated to him 😬 I ignored a bunch of red flags in the months that followed and I was too emotionally invested to leave by then. He wasn’t the best , but he was better than any other guy I ever dated which wasn’t saying much because those guys were shit. I had the “scarcity” mindset basically and thought any guy was better than no guy. Luckily I dumped his ass after a year and half …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 10:15 PM
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That’s why I don’t envy anyone now.... I am not saying no marriages are happy, but you never know someone situation. One of my friends just got engaged to a dude she couldn’t stop complaining about to me last week. Idk 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:03 PM
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These posts were literally made to fish for pick me and get women fighting each other. They fall for it every time🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:39 AM
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Yeah I didn’t get that either with my dad . He’s a construction manager and met some contractors at a job site when they told him that so I was like that’s really weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:33 PM
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I give em the joker smile haha haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:33 PM
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Dude this is so annoying . And we thought we finally be immune from these stupid questions because we are wearing mask everywhere now. But yet I still got this question from someone I worked with while I was wearing my mask “ I can’t tell if you’re smiling under the mask or not”. Like I’m sorry does it matter ? We’re fucking working 😂 My dad was pissed because some guy at his job asked him the same question (if he was smiling under his mask). What is a man’s goddamn obsession with fucking smilin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:11 PM
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I love this sooo much. Just say NO to low effort men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:07 PM
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I honestly refrain from most therapists/psychologists in general. They’re counsel is way too clinical/robotic for me . It’s really never helped me .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:26 PM
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I feel the same way. I would only accept bills paid in such large amount from a man I already knew I was going to be in a committed relationship with. I hear a couple of “leveling up “groups talk about letting sugar daddies pay your bills and never sleeping with them .....but in my experience men will NOT do that unless they’re going to get sex, nudes, phone sex, etc from you . It’s never something for nothing. Plus men are crazy nowadays I am afraid of having somebody give me large amounts of m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:25 AM
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Yeahhhh I don’t get it either ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:35 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:07 AM
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My life is way easier and enjoyable single than any relationship I’ve ever been in. The only way I’ll ever change my status is when a man can make my life easier and happier than my single life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:35 PM
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I love this show and this analysis is spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 10:28 PM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:04 PM
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Why is she posting this for the world to see how she messed up...self sabotage ?? I don’t understand Tik Tok 🤦🏽‍♀️ I take my L’s in private lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:02 PM
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And the dummies fall for it every time . Auditioning like Broadway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:15 AM
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It’s just a joke .....nah I ain’t falling for that anymore. Those “jokes” are always disrespect and the truth about how they really feel about you disguised as a joke ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:17 AM
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Lmao! This made me think of one of the last seasons of 90 Day Fiancé where this last from Iowa was dating some Turkish mamas boy who didn’t have a job and didn’t know any English . They had every single conversation through google translate .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:34 AM
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Good luck and congrats On having the strength to walk away from something that wasn’t serving you . I am in the same boat and starting law school this year. No LVM are going to distract me from my goals!.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:48 PM
8

That couple is absolute goals . Loved them. Lauren deserves it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:31 PM
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That’s literally the first thing I thought! What fucking computer is 15 K?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:58 PM
2

LMAO good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:25 AM
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2 months free girl! I’m sleeping WAY better, not drinking as much , feeling 100% more confident and focused on law school. So happy for you . Go us! 🤘🏼🤘🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:22 AM
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My block game has been so strong this year!!!! Men are such fucking creeps lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:20 AM
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This. Is. Why. I. Don’t. Do. Online. Dating. Men have too much audacity to be saying this shit over a keyboard ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:19 AM
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Omg I went into a 5150 too because of my ex....one of the worst nights of my life . To make matters worse he was away on a trip while it happened and when he came back he didn’t even bother to ask me how I was doing. I don’t know why that wasn’t the breaking point for me because I continue to see him for another year until I broke up with him a few months ago. I’m so glad I am at peace now and I will never ever let a man drive me to that point again! Stability and peace from now on only
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:06 AM
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I’m soooo fucking guilty but I finally saw the light and I will never be in the dark again !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:02 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:59 PM
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For real, at 29 after a recent breakup I am no longer dating to just “hang out “ and “have fun”. My next SO needs to be on the same page as me early on and show no red flags. I don’t regret having fun in my 20’s at all, but it’s time to step things up and raise my standards as I approach my 30’s to avoid wasting time and getting what I want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:48 PM
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And then make you out to be the villain when you break up with them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:44 PM
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True. I just started distancing myself from a friend who I have always been super down for and supported unconditionally Because I just started realizing her support for me is not even on the same level. She’s been acting jealous , petty, and not supportive at all with the shit I’ve been going through this year . It’s really sad as I’ve considered her a good friend for 10 years. I know that she’s going through issues with her man and taking it out on other people (she is a huge pick me with her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:42 PM
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Omg I started doing that halfway into my last relationship in my iPhone notes!!!! This is sooo true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:17 PM
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The problem I have with dating in general is that many men just want to text you and “wyd” you to death. Yes communication is essential but there should be a mix of calling and texting in the pre-relationship stage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:43 PM
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I wonder how many idiots in the comments told her to just “cOmMuNiCaTe”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:10 AM
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I’ve found less, but higher quality men meeting organically. Of course you can meet shit men ANYWHERE, but I’ll get a better feel for a guy meeting in real life than online dating sites
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:17 AM
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I made my IG private recently because I had people from a campaign office I work for look me up on there or people from work /school that I only want to maintain a professional and not personal relationship with . Im a little surprised some of them even had IG considering they were much much older lol. I don’t really post anything inappropriate but I also don’t want people I work with seeing me in a bikini on the beach with my friends you know?? My Facebook is more tame and a little more tailore…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:07 AM
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Fuck online dating . I’d rather be alone . I haven’t touched it since 2015. But even then it was a nightmare . This is meme is probably pretty accurate for many regions/states
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:02 AM
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The only thing worse than a man who NEVER commits is the one who wants to do it too fast. Went on ONE date with a guy Who never even properly Asked me out on a second date (just the usual “wyd” , last minute offers that I ignored ) and the next text was asking me if I wanted to be exclusive??? Dude I barely even know you and you haven’t asked me on a second date ! What gives ?! Actually now that I think of it he probably thought he was going to get sex quicker by asking for exclusivity so soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:13 AM
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Ew I would never let someone embarrass me and throw me under the bus like that on social media 🤢🤢 SIS WHAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:16 AM
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Same situation here ! Let them go be with someone with no standards ....because it’s not us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:50 PM
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True. My ex never drank but he smoked weed EVERY day and interacting with him was really frustrating because I was awake and alert and his reactions /emotional responses were severely delayed all the time. I feel if it’s not one thing it’s another 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:19 PM
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The university is already doing more than my ex in that statement alone 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:11 PM
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these dudes want their girl to be non existent on social media but want to thirst over all these other girls selfies and Social media’s.....f**k off with that double standard shit! Ugh !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:15 AM
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Me too lady! Block game strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:21 AM
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I really am !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:21 AM
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Omg nooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:00 PM
14

Yes!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:38 PM
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It’s not for me personally . I do want to date a man who’s financially stable and well off, but I still need to have a physical and emotional connection with him . Some women say they can get by on sugar daddy relationships where the man never expects sex in return , but I’ve never found that to be the case. Plus, I feel like there’s always the chance where if you benefit from a sugar daddy and you decide not to have sex with him , he could be crazy and turn violent . Idk , is rather pay for shi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:35 PM
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Come to think of it I’m not sure if he was referring to her tattoo or mine , but either way a dick comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:05 PM
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he posts her, what I meant was he doesn’t mention his wife in any of these sexual Memes that he post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:42 AM
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Right ! I know this guy on my timeline who is always posting sexual Memes but they’re never directed and he doesn’t @ his wife . Yes, he has tried sliding into my DM‘s before. I feel like these little things are telling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:33 AM
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I grew up around the desert so it kind of just came with the territory for me, But I know of some girls that ride a Harley’or street bikes and build their entire persona over it to appease to men. I knew some girl that rode a Harley and she posted a picture of herself and her bike with the caption “I am the girl your man dreams of ” like ....ummm was that necessary? Do you actually just enjoy riding your bike or are you trying to prove a point 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:01 PM
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I ride dirt bikes and I don’t mind guys with motorcycles. I WONT however EVER date a guy who is in a biker gang because they’re misogynistic as FUCK. At least , in my experience .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:53 PM
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I’m sorry YELP?! 😩💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:54 PM
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Ew. I had a dude follow me out of Ross to the parking lot to ask where I got my workout pants I was wearing so he could get them for his “wife”. You could tell it was just a pickup because instead of leaving when I answered him, he kept stalling and sticking around and kept talking about how he was trying to find them everywhere (they’re like 10$ leggings from Fashion Q 🙄). I do like being approached by men in A legitimate social setting where they actually intend to make conversation and aren’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:13 PM
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Seriously , and on the same topic I just really dislike when men in general from my workplace or school or any professional setting try to look me up on Instagram or add me or watch my stories . That’s why I’ve put my profile to private . It doesn’t even have to do with me having anything “inappropriate “ on there it’s just like can we not ? Unless we hang out regularly outside of work as well please don’t stalk me on there. Makes me feel super violated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:02 PM
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Yeah being in the military plus going into public interest law on the future, no fucking way in hell I’d ever dream of putting myself on any porn platforms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:22 AM
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He’s not military
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:12 AM
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Omg i was like I’m worth wayy more than that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:41 AM
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Who’s the toxic one ? The dude in the thread sounds like an instigator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:43 PM
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I blocked The fucking idiot And he was butt hurt enough to message me on Facebook going ” Wow you blocked me over a meme no wonder your ex was tired of your shit ” and. I said “ first of all I was the one that left Him But yes fuck you and him 💁🏻‍♀️” . Bitter ass dudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:46 PM
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😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:19 PM
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Personally I don’t do online dating . Too many time wasters and endless testers on there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:54 PM
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Haha I used to tell my ex the same shit. If you can throw money at women who aren’t even having sex with you , then you can throw a couple hundred at your actual girlfriend who cares for you, supports you, and has sex with you 🙄 or at least help when you know I’m struggling and you’re not . AT LEAST
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:38 PM
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Girl I swear these men would rather have sex with their vehicles more than their own gfs/wives sometimes the way they obsess over and invest in them. My ex spent all his money and time on his low rider and I was so over it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:47 PM
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My ex was a car guy and spent almost all his income every paycheck on it. It literally consumed him. Our outings were always car shows , going out to cruise in his car, car museums .......like I’m glad it makes you happy and those things are fun on occasion but are my interests ever considered ? Do you care about what makes me happy or what I wanna do? Everytime I wanted to do something that didn’t involve his car it almost felt like he was doing me a favor... Not to mention it got to the point …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:44 PM
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I’m so sorry about that. What I couldn’t wrap my head around was that whole “Epstein didn’t kill him self movement / trend “. I’m like who tf cares why or how he died? He deserves it. Why are you seeking justice or answers for this idiot ?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:36 PM
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Thatttt part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:28 PM
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So, Fucking . Proud of Her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:27 PM
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I don’t think there’s anything “kink meisha “ if you actually got them for yourself and not because someone coaxed or pressured you into it. I have mine pierced. But do what’s best for you first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:26 PM
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Finding others attractive yes; being physically attracted to; no. Idk if it’s just me I can acknowledge that a man is conventionally attractive without actually being attracted to them or feeling sexually attracted to them if that makes sense . When I have a SO, I don’t acknowledge other men really or yearn towards them. I’m only focused on my SO. While I kind of understand what people are trying to say when they use that statement , I also feel like it’s being used as a cop out to excuse shitty…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:36 PM
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Honestly Christian gonna go out on a limb here and say driving for Uber is probably the least worst thing about you 🙄😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:40 PM
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This reminds me of those women who like to retort “I’lL lOoK wItH hIm” 🙄 when asked how they feel about their men disrespecting them in public
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:41 PM
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I have the home and firearm....too poor for security system 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:26 AM
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Sis needs major pick me REHABILITATION
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:29 PM
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Omg same ! I’m military but I prefer not dating military . Weird how that works huh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:01 AM
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Where you guys at 👀 I need a gang like that 😍. I’m not totally avoiding dating , but it’s not a priority for me. After a recent breakup I’m definitely making sure I take my time and vet properly as I approach my 30’s. My standards are higher now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:00 AM
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Whoah....eye opener
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:36 PM
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That’s what I’ve been doing . If a guy makes vague plans and doesn’t follow up soon before the day with concrete details , it’s canceled. They ain’t gonna pull that low effort shit with me . “You gon learn today !”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:33 PM
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Daaaaaaamn! Truth !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:38 AM
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Ewwwe used to be me 😭😭 lazy mfer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:59 PM
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This made me legit LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:58 AM
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The golden question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:57 AM
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LMAO 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:53 AM
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Mine was even worse ...it would be of two our mutual friends in bikinis or them posting ass shots 🤦🏽‍♀️ he thought because they were my friends that he could like away ....like no dude ...you don’t get it ....and I’m not gonna teach you ...lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:43 PM
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Girl I salute you I dumped my ex for that same reason around a month ago! I thought I was overreacting at first but honestly that activity was just the tip of the iceberg for other dishonest shit he was doing. I am so glad I am hearing more girls on this sub Reddit leaving their guys for this behavior that’s so widely accepted nowadays 😒 I don’t care what a single man does , but if you really cherish and value your woman there is no room for that in the relationship . It’s a symptom of being tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:21 PM
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Yesss girl. 🙌🏻🙌🏻 that’s the way I see things . Although it honestly sucks with everything being closed now and this virus ramping up heavy (I’m in Southern California) I don’t get out nearly as much as I used to to socialize .But it does feel good to walk around Home Depot or grocery store and see good lookin men about their business lol . Helped me to get rid of that scarcity mindset after my break up as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:14 PM
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I highly doubt anything amazing come from this dude 🥴🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:34 AM
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I don’t necessarily have male “friends” but I do have many acquaintances because I was prior active duty military. However, I’m VERY wary that I don’t cross any boundaries or say/do anything that would make their spouse /gf uncomfortable and I don’t get too close or hang out with them alone, just group settings. Men on the other hand don’t seem to have these boundaries .....in my experience their female friends are someone they would bone if given the chance. Acquaintances I’ll just keep my eyes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:55 PM
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Sorry friend I know it hurts! I’m just starting to heal as well and getting better everyday . They’re loss for sure , not ours. I don’t envy the other woman for a minute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:24 PM
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Why do we all sound like we dated the same guys ?!! Dudes in their late 30’s who have done absolutely Nothing for themselves 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:15 PM
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Or dating the girl he told you not to worry about , so fuck him and never look back 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:35 AM
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These are the men teaching our kids ? Uhhh 🥴🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:25 AM
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Lol “dear?” Like I’m not your granddaughter dude 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:21 AM
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9.5/10 it’s really just the guy looking for a third wheel 🙄🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:27 PM
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I personally fcking love this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:52 AM
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I’m back on the dating scene after 2 years and it’s abominable . If a guy is a dry texter during the first convo I ghost him lol. Or they don’t text back but will try to initiate convo with you on IG 🤦🏽‍♀️ like no , just no. I’m grown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:47 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:46 PM
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Lmao bar managers can be slimy . They just want profits $$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:00 AM
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LOL. Just no to any guy that doesn’t have his own space by 30...I’m not tip toeing around roommates anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:34 AM
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LMAO just no baby nooooooo 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:33 AM
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FDS is my only safe space on Reddit. I’ll leave too if it gets banned .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:38 PM
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Jesus Christ this was my whole bartending career in a nutshell. Take some entitled dudes , get them drunk, it can be a recipe for disaster when you decline to give them your phone number. Even worse I had some managers that encouraged flirting with the customers and sitting next to the gross ass regulars . Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:24 PM
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I had flashbacks too 😱 my ex gave me LVM PTSD and this post immediately sent me back to those dark times of questioning myself . Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:19 PM
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So glad he’s an ex now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:10 PM
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I would fall back and be a little distant . If you REALLY want the bike then buy it for yourself but go riding by yourself or with a friend (depending on how safe it is of course ). If he asks what wrong just tell him you didn’t really feel you had his support in looking for a bike for yourself ....maybe he’ll get a clue. But unfortunately in my experience this just points to an overall selfish attitude . Because at the end of the day even if he couldn’t help you financially he could’ve went wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:32 AM
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No bueno.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:23 AM
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👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:22 AM
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Inconsiderate for sure. He definitely should have tagged you along or helped you out in buying a new bike if he was financially able to do so ....which I’m assuming he was if he bought a new bike. This reminds me of when me and my ex rode dirtbikes together and he kept mentioning that I needed a new helmet because mine cracked when I crashed once. He kept talking about it so much I thought he was planning on getting me one; I told him I couldn’t afford one (300$-600$). Well he decided to go ahea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:48 AM
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Amazing advice 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:03 AM
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Yasss!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:45 PM
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For real. I stay the fuck out of r/relationships . Or maybe one night when I feel like getting hammered I’m going to take a shot everytime I see “yOu JuSt NEeD tO CoMmUNICatE” in the comments section lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:31 AM
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I know it feels like shit hearing that they got married right after you and you’re probably feeling like you missed out on what he was supposed to give YOU, and that this new girl is gonna receive alll the benefits you never got in the last relationship . That’s probably not the case. Maybe she tolerates more shit than you did. Maybe he hasn’t shown his true colors. I doubt he’s treating her that much better if he was trying to bribe you with gifts while they were engaged. I would just look at i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:27 AM
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Yup lol. Goes the same in relationships. The guy will want to move on super quick to whoever is most available or willing to be with him, while the woman will just take her time , enjoy being alone , and focus on personal growth . I’m in no rush! Taking my next relationship SUPER slow to make sure it’s the real and final deal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:00 PM
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SERIOUSLY. They want all these benefits out of you but can’t take care of you. I’m independent but when I tmprily lost my job due to COVID it took so much coaxing to ask my ex for help when he should’ve been offering . Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:08 PM
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Exactly . I mean yes those are the bare minimum standards I would have for a man.....but that says nothing about my compatibility with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:12 PM
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I used to be active military and it was so easy I always had friends around . Now not so much. Everyone went their own ways, got married , moved, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:10 PM
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So ? he can have the car , home , and career and still be an asshole and I wouldn’t want him 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:08 PM
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I need some HVW friends 🙋🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:06 PM
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Fuck that would sting me. Honestly though I feel like a lot of men would. I’ve heard of men having someone already lined up when their wives are in the hospital and terminally ill. Fucking sick, but.......harsh truth . I’m sorry I’m not even sure how to answer your question but that would hurt me .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:44 PM
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Our types are very different but I know exactly what you’re talking about . I grew up around dirtbikes , Harley’s, classic car scene ( I’m in SoCal). I’ve always been attracted to bikers and men who are heavy into the automotive scene. Bad boys I guess 🙄I’ve always dated blue collar , attractive , successful (like owns their own auto shop) older men. Always been my type and what I’m comfortable with . I love men who can help me with my own mechanical work and are overall very handy . But I’ve al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:36 PM
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This shit is all kinds of NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:48 PM
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A fake dating profile I mean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:41 PM
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Omg guys are fucking psychos ! I don’t which ex did it, but one of em made one of me too and was giving out my number on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:40 PM
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Hells yeah! I hit the gym for the first time in ever today and I’m finally starting to feel like myself again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:38 PM
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I think that’s why I’ve never really liked going to therapy. Their approach when I would talk about relationship problems was too matter of fact and I didn’t really receive any Empathy. At least when it comes to relationships or relationship problems , I feel better talking things out with trusted friends or family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:30 AM
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I don’t know how to to approach that subject either , I’m looking for answers too ! I got burned in my last two relationships by guys who kept female friends around that were actually way more than just friends, or they used to hook up with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:25 AM
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Kick Him Out 2020! Good Job on standing up for yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:20 AM
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Isn’t it the best when you look them up after so long and they look terrible! Haha. Been the case with all my exes. Well this ex is 39 and already at the balding stage .....doesn’t really work out or take care of himself. This new chick is pretty much the female version of him. Honestly everyone always told me I could do better but I was blinded by how well he treated me at the beginning and we shared a lot of the same hobbies ....sucks to not have anyone to do these things with anymore (yet) bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:47 PM
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Funny......but tbh that’s my strategy towards men 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:03 PM
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Already have !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:46 PM
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SERIOUSLY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:11 AM
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Probably ! Lol . He’s her problem now 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:48 AM
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Sooo true lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:53 PM
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He can’t he’s blocked 💀🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:50 PM
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I don’t care about them anymore , but I’m going to be super wary and jaded now of men with close female friends 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:11 PM
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Girl , there was more than one “friend” I was worried about with him ! This one was the least of my worries because she was the least attractive, not to be mean, so I was surprised . I think he’s trying to “show me a lesson” but I’m not jealous of them at all lol. Just validated that I wasn’t the crazy one this whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 02:02 PM
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Well it’s pretty obvious she was a backup plan in case he was ever single again....which is weird cause he was single before me for 10 years and he never made a move on her or at least nothing serious. While we were together she was crazy about him which I found weird, but since he ignored her and kept her at bay I wasn’t worried at all. She’s his age (around 40), already has a couple of kids, and her own house. I don’t think he ever wanted kids and marriage of his own like I did so to me this i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 01:54 PM
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I’m completely fine being single right now. I’m 28 and have lots of time ahead of me to grown and find someone. He’s 40 and stagnant and needed to find someone at his level. I did myself a favor by leaving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 01:46 PM
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NOPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:40 AM
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🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:50 AM
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🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:23 PM
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Omg yes ...my ex would always just say “he had something in mind “ while not taking any actions whatsoever that pointed to a future together (saving up for a house , building credit,etc.).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:49 PM
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So. Sick. Of. Hearing. This. Shit. Why are women trained to excuse so much bullshit behavior but men are taught to drop you in a minutes notice for anything ? We can’t have standards too ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:55 PM
45

Honestly in your position I wouldn’t go into online dating. I feel like it just makes you feel worse. Just take a break for a little while or focus on meeting people in public. To me it just feels more genuine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:32 AM
34

Yup....I don’t understand why you can’t have both / a balance ? I’m nowhere near wealthy but I own my own condo , have a degree , have military service history so yes I’d like to meet an equally or more successful man. I don’t see how any of these things makes you “masculine” , as it’s sometimes put, as long as I’m not throwing these qualities in someone’s face all the time. And yes I still would like a man who can act as a provider and leader even if I have my own shit sorted out . Why is every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:02 AM
13

🥳🥳Congrats!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:56 AM
46

At this rate I feel the same . Is it really that fucking hard to find a man who’s not fucking around on Instagram or only fans?!! I’d rather be single then have to put up with all of that AGAIN...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:03 AM
8

What’s wrong with his eyes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:21 PM
173

She’s trying to NLOG (not like other girls) soooo hard 🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:25 PM
3

So sorry about your situation but I’m glad you are safe now. Wait so they were harassing you even after finding out about your situation ?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:45 AM
2

Yessss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:33 PM
50

How is even someone even *good * at cuddling wtf ? Agh I just.....this why I refuse online dating lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 10:57 PM
7

That is the point we shouldn’t have to pretend we have boyfriends to reject someone offer...... I don’t know why men can’t fathom a woman being happy and single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:55 PM
110

Lol @ guys who have no gold telling women they are gold diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:48 AM
16

LOL 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:16 PM
45

OMG..this reminds me of this one really embarrassing time I was at my ex’s company BBQ. I would always offer to fix him a plate at outings but he would always decline and he likes to pick out his own stuff anyway. I went to go make a plate for myself and his boss called me out loudly “Aren’t you gonna fix Jason a plate ?” I was speechless and embarrassed. I didn’t even have a smart come back I just said “he doesn’t like me fixing his plate” and turned back around. My family is Hispanic and they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:51 PM
90

Wtf is up with all these 38-40 year old men and their addiction to social media and younger women !!! It’s like the trend of the year! So glad you found out before you took the plunge. You’re so young and you’ve got your whole 20s to find a great high value man. Good for you and block this creep .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:46 AM
6

Go ahead and look at the first post I made on my Profile ... all I can tell you is that what you allow will continue. No you are not wrong in disapproving this behavior. Many women are OK with this, but that doesn’t mean YOU have to be ok with it . And if he knows you aren’t OK with it and he keeps doing it anyway that’s disrespect. That goes with any issue really. I’ve been seeing this particular issue with social media frequently on this sub Reddit lately and also other HVW forums is there lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:11 AM
40

I’m Latina and I’ve experienced men have fetishized us because of what they see in porn/the media and they don’t give a fuck about our culture . I’ve invited exes to my family’s home and they didn’t want to eat any of our dishes , try to learn our language , none of that. Only thing they know about Latin American culture is taco Tuesday , Cabo, and “big booties”. Lames.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:03 AM
16

Great list. I’ve been there too, hence this post. I’ve realized sometimes placeholder relationships can seem VERY similar to the real deal but you just KNOW something’s missing in your gut. I am armed with enough knowledge now to make sure I don’t stay in a placeholder relationship anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:12 PM
17

It’s such a catch 22! I’ve got all my shit together , on a good place, and I’ve always dated below my financial level but with someone who I found a connection with and nothing ever went anywhere . I believe I need to date someone at or above my financial level now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:08 PM
23

Great point . I’m not a fan of 50/50 at all, but at least your ex did that ! Me and my ex lived apart and I paid all my own bills. He made much more than I did and when I fell on tough times financially because of COVID he never offered to help or asked if I needed help. He just suggested I look for another job...which I did....but seriously ? I had to coax him into helping Me out and it felt like shit. Among other factors this helped me know I could never build a life with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:30 PM
24

Why are all our exes the same on this subreddit?! 😂😭 limp dick chronic weed losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:32 PM
1

Don’t worry you did good ! More women need to step up and leave when men do these sleazy behaviors or else they’ll never learn....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:01 PM
3

This , or every time I brought up an issue in a relationship I was being negative and not “enjoying the moment “ 😂. Deflection at its finest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:25 AM
61

I’m super chill , but the second you disrespect me I’ll walk the f*** away 🤞I don’t care if you were my best friend , fiancé , whatever .....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:06 AM
5

Issa “fuck no” from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:04 AM
26

What is this ? I don’t like anything about this picture . Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:56 AM
54

As a female in the military , this is exactly why I don’t date military. I’m sorry but many of them have this over inflated misogynistic masculine ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:54 AM
16

I’m totally in your place right now. I’m going through a breakup that is now a month out and it’s seriously the hardest thing I’ve ever had to. You can look on my profile at my first post and it pretty much explains everything but yeah. I feel it’s even harder to find support when you are the person who dumped your ex, because everyone paints you out to be this villain who was just too immature for a relationship or was just looking for something “better”. I don’t know your unique circumstances …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:48 AM
72

notgrownmanshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:22 PM
119

Glenn is smart. Be like Glenn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:51 AM
3

They’re just trying to get your attention . Dumb. What I hate more is guys that will follow you and immediately start liking like 20 and up pics of you in a row. I’ll block anyone who does that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:35 AM
25

“Wow we’re so different until we’re not .....cause now every girl is doing the same thing “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:42 AM
5

Not “private “ I meant *activity *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:30 AM
9

If you want you can look at my first post and this is the exact reason I broke up with my 39 y/o ex! Even though rest of relationship was great this was an absolute dealbreaker He had a hot young thing he was LUCKY to be with but he still wanted to act all thirsty and obsessed with IG models he would never meet . Fuck em! Let him have them . ...honestly in my experience this seemingly “innocent” private manifests into much worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:30 AM
125

Why do girls think this self degradation shit is cute now ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:24 AM
5

I’m trying 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:01 AM
21

Bruhhh you just described my ex although instead of moms basement it was living with roommates at 40. All of them the same way. Lazy , always complain about single , but too insecure to do anything about it .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:56 AM
71

I’m newly single after 2 years and the dating world is so discouraging right now . So many low effort men who just want to “hang out”, text you to death through Facebook messenger , “haha” and “lol” you to death... good lawdddd. Feel like so much has changed since even before my last relationship . Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:53 AM
2

Lol that’s exactly what it sounds like ! Someone trying to be fake woke. It’s too forced and not flowing naturally.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:14 AM
1

Hell. To the No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:52 AM
1

My first post 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:50 AM
4

Yeah the other girl being married or taken doesn’t nullify it. My ex used to be friends with some girl who was engaged but I knew they had feelings for each other a couple years back . Despite being happily engaged this girl never asked about me, wanted to get to know , never liked any of of our pics together but liked ones of him only .....it was all very weird and had bad intentions written all over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:27 AM
3

It’s a lose lose on either end ! Best situation is to be a prioritized girlfriend to a great man who keeps no one on the side
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:24 AM
5

I just made an entirely new IG account because I had soooooo I mean soooo many mutual accounts and friends and companies he also followed so going through my timeline was literally like going through our relationship everyday. I didn’t even take the time to look him up and block him and I’ve resisted the urge to search him to do so. So much more peaceful now . I’m not really worried about what he’s doing cause I know it’ll just be the same old shit 🤷🏽‍♀️ and I’m not going to ruin my healing by l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:11 AM
19

If he really was that concerned about her not hitting him up he would just get a new number....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:04 AM
78

Men will fuck a hole in the wall and stare at anything with tits and two legs. Maybe not even the legs . I am absolutely not flattered by attention anymore 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:52 AM
2

So glad I started following this page ! No more pickmeisha !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 07:03 PM
2

Yep. I had just began to level up and learned about female dating strategy 2 months into dating this dude so unfortunately i set bad standards from the very beginning and when I tried to go back on them later in the relationship it’s like he didn’t take me seriously and was like “why now ?”. Well hey girl it’s our turn to start fresh now ! Now we know what to do right from the get go .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 07:01 PM
7

The hardest part of my most recent break up is thinking that my exLVM is gonna be totally do a 180 for the next woman and she’s going to reap the benefits of all the knowledge I had to sew into his brain on how to treat a woman (ew never again). But then I remember he was single for 10 years before me and if I wasn’t the one that could make things work then I don’t think it’s ever going to happen for him at 40 years old 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:04 AM
6

That was hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:02 AM
8

Jesus woman and I thought my situation was bad at two years! Good thing we cut things off when we did and didn’t let these men take away any more of our youth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:38 AM
3

OMG you literally just described me and my ex. He would always tell me how he never thought I would stick around because I was out of his league but I really fell for him and we were official for two years. I finally left him due to his inappropriate social media tactics and because I didn’t see him improving his own situation so that we could have a future together. I have my own place, credit, etc and he was still living with roommates at 40 and he had never had his own place and had a shitty …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:34 AM
1

Ew wtf man. Good for you for taking a stand and ending things !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 01:07 AM
0

Hmm. I didn’t know that. I only knew they were split up for a while
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:19 PM
-2

I don’t know how many of you follow Motorsports, dirtbikes, or motorcycles but Carey Hart is my dream man 😍. If you don’t know him from there, he’s better known as singer Pink’s husband. Although they had a rocky beginning, he is so in love with her now and speaks so highly of her. He’s always supporting her causes, supporting her as a wife and mother , going out of his way and providing for her (although I’d venture to guess she probably make a lot more than he does). He sees her as an equal pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:03 PM
4

lol who is this ? An ex ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 04:58 PM
6

Ew my ex was like this . I like to be silly and make jokes, and for some reason me being in a great mood turned him off or I had to tune it down for him . Shutting my jokes down and giving me blank stares. The Grinch . Lol. Never again I need to be with someone who’s an overall happy person . I feel like some men are intimidated by happy women m, like in a sick sense they know you are happy without them too and they don’t like that .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:08 PM
3

It’s so normalized and I hate it !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:50 AM
4

Omg same here and I didn’t know if I was being sensitive ! I’m pretty good with doing my makeup , but if I had an off day like let’s say one my lashes was coming off at the corner or maybe I missed a spot with my foundation he would point it out to me; and not even like In a cute loving way or laugh it off more like in a an awkward or disapproving way. It made me feel like an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:46 PM
1

As a newly single female , I am absolutely terrified of going back into the dating world because of simple ass mindsets like this. shudders😩😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:41 PM
-3

I can’t remember what I was searching for but SOMEHOW this picture of a text exchange between a BF and GF popped up but it was included in an article called “guys and insecure behaviors that turn them off” like WTF. First of all that text conversation sounds like it was between two preteens LOL but men really do know how to press women’s buttons and then turn around and make them feel like they’re being insecure . So sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:10 PM
4

Already did !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:02 PM
3

LMAO. Lames
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:38 AM
28

Got Em!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:13 AM
7

Same girl , word for word. We set them free to live out their mediocre IG fantasy lives. Good for us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:18 AM
5

I’d ask him to stop around 3 different times and this last incident it hit me that he will never change. Ugh. Thanks !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:16 PM
7

Girllllll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:56 PM
35

This chick did (finally ) !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:42 PM
9

He was lucky he even snagged me 😒nothing is good enough for these dweebs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:17 PM
8

I let shit slide for so long and apology after apology came but the behavior never changed. Finally worked up the guts to say enough is enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:51 PM
20

I was starting to become so controlling and it fcked up my well being and then I snapped and was like why the F*** am I living in fear like this instead of just leaving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:49 PM
10

I honestly refuse to believe that a man who is crazy about his woman has that much time and attention to dedicate to ogling women online constantly . I refuse to accept it as JUST Instagram ; to me it’s he’s JUST not that into you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:44 PM
23

He was single for eight years before I met him and now I know why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:18 PM
62

Yes , the straw that broke the camels back for me was most recently after he deleted all the random women he was following , but all these insta Thots were showing up on his explore page when he was searching. iG next to me on the couch . I was like you know the pics on your explore page are based on what you look up, right ? He pretty much admitted he clicked on one of these pics and that’s why they were showing up again .So while he wasn’t following these women anymore , he was still looking u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:07 PM
20

I know right .....my mindset was if he’s doing all this PUBLICLY what’s he doing in private ? Not willing to take my chances .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:58 PM
105

Exactly . I had to post this on here because I would even go to my family and friends with this concern and they would say “ it’s just Instagram” and I was overreacting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:07 AM
3

thank you I saw this meme floating around and it threw off major pick me vibes.,..I’m also half Mexican and as another poster commented, many Hispanic men expect this mothering treatment from their gfs/spouses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:27 AM
54

This is fun with friends /family or a man who you are in a commmited relationship with who already normally plans dates out with you and just wanted to surprise you one day, but someone who make this a habit or does this for first few dates you are definitely just a last minute option lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:16 PM
3

Me too ...plus I have an A type personality when it comes to my professional and school life. It’s so hard to just relinquish control and just let things be when it comes to relationships but I’m relaxing more and more everyday and just being present , not anxious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:26 AM
3

Beautiful post , your situation describes mine WORD for WORD down to the description of your man lol. Although I have a healthy sense of independence and my own hobbies , working from home and being alone a lot was pushing me to be needy and clingy and I had to snap out of it . Thank you for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:43 AM
30

I’m bad at this too cause I tend to lean on the overly jealous side still. BUT one consensus I’ve gathered is that if you know or it’s been mentioned that they’ve had feelings for each other , dated , hooked up in the past , that shits not flying with me . If it’s a platonic friend (how often does that happen tho ) or family friend then I’m cool . I’m really lucky that my guy doesn’t have any female friends so to speak , but he did have a female acquaintance in the beginning of our relationship …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:39 AM
2

It’s so important to be married to/ have children with the right man. I’m not a mother but I can only imagine how emotionally grueling it is to deal with pregnancy physically , and also emotionally with not feeling attractive enough , etc. not to mention going through the actual process of childbirth Itself and dealing with a newborn. My partner cannot be anything less than FULLY supportive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:43 AM
69

Reddit is literally one of the worst places to go for relationship advice ....so male centric. Glad I found this group today !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:09 PM
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