SuchPressure Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	First FR	Field Report	SuchPressure	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/16 09:56 AM
1	Need insight about my relationship with bf of plate		SuchPressure	/r/askTRP	15/04/17 12:37 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Need insight about my relationship with bf of plate Agree on almost everything you said, I'll give you an detailed answer because it helps me to clarify things for my self. Feel free not to answer. I'm aware I have some oneitis, but I chose not to eject consciously to see how I feel and how I act in this situation. I'm here to learn, and for me the fastest way to learn is to expose myself to the storm. From the beginning she had him updated about us, and he was ok with it. For him shit hit the fan when he realised that the girl was more attached …	/r/askTRP	15/04/17 07:02 PM
1	Need insight about my relationship with bf of plate Yep, seeing things more clearly. Thanks for the input, think I just needed some redpillers to get me in the mental state.	/r/askTRP	15/04/17 01:23 PM
1	Need insight about my relationship with bf of plate I'm guilty of getting some oneitis with her but got over it, good catch on your part. I agree with the drama part, that's where my question starts really. I don't mind if they have problems as long as they leave me out of it. Talking with the bf about feelings and stuff will make me a part of the drama. That's why I decide to just be stoic at the moment, try to make clear that I'm not taking part in the drama, ,but if he needs a hand to get out I can help him. Might sound a bit cruel considering…	/r/askTRP	15/04/17 12:48 PM
3	How does TRP feel about Buddhism? You will find that TRP and Buddhism share some concepts. Holding frame is almost the same as being conscious of yourself, TRP uses this position to control situations p.e. passing shittest. If you improve your inner game (acceptance of ego) this things will start to feel natural. TRP is like getting rid of some selective ego's, Buddhism is trying to get rid of all. I follow some Buddhist teachings, but focus right now on the intersexual dynamics part and how my ego manifests itself. Feel free to…	/r/askTRP	21/03/17 01:23 PM
4	Doing great yet no rarely getting second dates? My guess would be that you open up to much to them. Mystery plays a big part in attraction. Keep some stuff for yourself. Cuddling only makes this worse. You are telling her that you need her. You don't, you have 3 more like her waiting for you. No mystery, female attitude,.. nice when you are with them, but it won't make their hamster run wild thinking of you. Keep the personal info you share to the minimum, cut the cuddling, and don't push to hard for the second date. Give it a try and let me …	/r/askTRP	01/03/17 01:51 PM
1	Any tips on how to escalate with a married woman who likes me? You sound insecure bro, get your shit together first. You probably can pull things like this of with a solid frame, but you don't have it. Sorry to be harsh but you are just an orbiter and she is having fun playing with you, and getting some attention meanwhile. Anyway, if you want to go for it escalate. Touch her back to guide her, arms when laughing, etc. Doesn't matter which way it goes, it will clear things up. If she resist you know she is not dtf, if she doesn't continue. Kindly reminder: …	/r/askTRP	01/03/17 11:18 AM
7	Hey AskTRP how do i come to terms with my girlfriends past? You are just being a kid, but don't worry, a lot of man never grow up. Be careful with your oneitis, remember it is just your turn, she can meet chad tomorrow and she's gone. The glass is already broken, enjoy it while it's yours, but don't get attached to it. “You see this goblet?” asks Achaan Chaa, the Thai meditation master. “For me this glass is already broken. I enjoy it; I drink out of it. It holds my water admirably, sometimes even reflecting the sun in beautiful patterns. If I should tap…	/r/askTRP	01/03/17 11:08 AM
1	Kids play music loud in bus, you ask for them to stop, they refuse. Now what? Beeing big is nice, but it's good to back it up with a head that can make it move accordingly.	/r/askTRP	01/03/17 11:02 AM
1	Kids play music loud in bus, you ask for them to stop, they refuse. Now what? The way your formulated your answer make it sound a bit harsh, maybe people don't understand that the most important thing is to way you carry the message. I suppose you do, so don't pay attention to the downvotes.	/r/askTRP	01/03/17 11:00 AM
5	Kids play music loud in bus, you ask for them to stop, they refuse. Now what? Verbal judo helped me out a lot. Keep frame and follow the steps, will get you around in 90% of the situations. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S06jEwRI34A&t	/r/askTRP	28/02/17 01:03 PM
2	My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go. "Our great danger in this life is not that we aim too high and fail, but we aim too low and succeed." ~ Rollo Tomassi Go for it, keep frame and escalate. The world is yours my friend.	/r/askTRP	26/01/17 03:48 PM
2	Books for absorbing knowledge and remember them Just a general advice, read slowly understanding everything. If you don´t comprehend something, read it again. Most people have concentration problems because they don´t take the time to consider what they are reading. See it as a process, start slowly and little by little you´ll get used to it and you can increase your rhythm. If you are just reading for the sake of it, you are wasting time. Learn the difference between knowing and understanding. Read to understand, not to know.	/r/askTRP	18/01/17 02:01 PM
3	Plate wont fuck me, she asks me whats wrong, I escalate again, she stops me, I ignore her for the rest of the night Citing u/Popular-Culture classic shit test post. 15 “You look sad” / “Why are you upset?” Translation: Are you a pathetic, loser beta? Response: “It’s really hard being as attractive as I am” I would say your frame is weak, and she got into you. It´s like they say, she must like you to give you so much changes with such a weak frame. Probably your oneitis affecting you. Get your priorities straight.	/r/askTRP	18/01/17 10:24 AM
2	Plate wont fuck me, she asks me whats wrong, I escalate again, she stops me, I ignore her for the rest of the night The context is the message. You don´t need to tell her explicitly. Make it covert and let her hamster run, she´ll understand subconsciously and feel tingles without knowing why.	/r/askTRP	18/01/17 10:19 AM
1	The Blue Pill Reloaded Are you meditating? Hardest war you will ever fight is the one against yourself.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/17 11:09 PM
10	Learn from my mistake : escalation is everything Don´t think about it and just say it next time. You would be surprised how easy things are if you don´t give them a thought. Look at her, and shoot. Fuck her or walk away. Win-win situation. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing relations with new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/16 01:46 PM
1	Lesson Learned as I Transition Same for me, online game is horrible. Real life is easy. Atm I just put minimum effort in Tinder and concentrate my efforts in day game. Going good this way.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/16 10:23 AM
2	The most effective pickup line to get laid One deleted me some hours later, one ignored. Having a laugh about it though, good filter for the girls who just want attention. Will let you know if somebody bites, and the context, which is also important. I think my profile (smiling, no nude body pictures) and my messages are giving different vibes, so should work on that. But hey, that´s who I am, if you don´t like it move along.	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/16 09:21 AM
13	The most effective pickup line to get laid Kind of agree with you. Going for the second line directly, covers that base for me.	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/16 09:06 AM
13	The most effective pickup line to get laid Interesting. I´m working my text game atm and find tinder horrible, last week had 2 appointments and both didn´t showed up. Going to try your approach. Just did this with a few matches. Will give feedback later on.	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/16 09:04 AM
1	How to game at a (rock) concert? Possible course of action: turn around, smile, and give a bump back. Let´s you measure if she was interested or just not paying attention. From there escalate, etc. Can´t really help you more then that. Take care.	/r/askTRP	14/11/16 10:30 PM
1	Help a fellow young man choose his career Interesting, I think it more oriented to finding life goals. If your work is your passion you will excel in it anyway, and make money, if that is what matters to you. Have you thought in combining you craft with engineering? I am musician myself and went the engineering way (sound engineering, not the DJ, but the one who designs the DJ´s stuff). Anyway, good luck.	/r/askTRP	14/11/16 04:40 PM
1	Help a fellow young man choose his career Look up Mastery from Robert Greene and spend some days thinking. Asking for answers is easy, but finding them yourself will be a lot better for you on long term. Good luck.	/r/askTRP	14/11/16 03:07 PM
2	How to game at a (rock) concert? All depends on the context. What I was trying to say is, don´t think about, "should I do this". Just act without thinking. Possible course of action: turn around, smile, and give a bump back. Let´s you measure if she was interested or just not paying attention. From there escalate, etc.	/r/askTRP	14/11/16 03:03 PM
2	First FR Hey, thanks for the feedback. I asked the mods if this was OK, didn´t had an answer for 2 days (still don´t) and seeing some similar FR I decided to follow the guidelines as good as possible and give it a shot. To be honest, I was excited because the community helped me with a lot of things and this was my first step to active collaboration. Since I do respect your tag, and some of your old posts, I will keep your advice in mind. Next FR is going to be way better anyway. Take care.	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/16 10:16 AM
2	How to game at a (rock) concert? 3 second rule, don´t think and just start talking. Sooner you start messing up, sooner you start getting better.	/r/askTRP	13/11/16 09:34 PM
3	bringing her home. My place is always clean, you never know what happens and it keeps me disciplined. So yeah, clean. Good luck tonight	/r/askTRP	13/11/16 09:33 PM
1	Lucid dreaming and sex - The start of an experiment Hey bro, I don´t see the relation between good sleep and ED, expect the obvious benefits of a good night rest. BUT, I can relate with you about the ED. I´ve been coping with performance issues my self, and a thing that is really helping me is something I read a while ago on here, and the IDGAF attitude. "Fuck her like you have a 12 inch cock", in combination with, "whatever happens is good, because I decided it". It´s a mindset. The more you think about it the worse it becomes, don´t think about…	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/16 03:47 PM
1	First FR You are right, doing this next time. I´ll be back.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/16 01:41 PM
9	First FR You should take this as massive IOI. She gave you an open for pulling. Thinking back later it seems like I was pulled off by the first resistance she gave me. Should have ignored and just keep playing. Thanks for the link, was insightful.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/16 10:51 AM