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Sumshot/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:02 PM
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Sumshot/r/askTRP17/06/18 08:33 PM
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The woman will lose respect. It means that you are unable to use plausable deniability, which means it is easier for other people to attack and descredit you, both in public and private. It also corelates with socializing. All in all, if you are good with words, you have a very concrete social advantage in avoiding and winning social fights. Just as being physically fit means having an advantage in physical fights. That's why girls are better in plausable deniability and why it's attractive to t…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 02:02 PM
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This. OP should 100% follow this advice. Why? Because I'm the exactly the same and agree with that comment.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 04:51 PM
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The question is now, how to approach a woman telling you that. I mean, it's a red flag, but still: how do I react and answer to her telling me her last boyfriend was abusive. I don't want to give her any information about how I see it (she shall have a way to put me into beta nor alpha) without giving the impression of not caring at all. I mean, I don't really care, but social narrative doesn't allow me to show this, so how do I diplomatically react, without giving her information/power?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 10:05 PM
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I think it can be argued that a bad marriage is often better than a divorce from the perspective of the children. But keeping people in bad marriages is not as bad as it sounds (or as you make it sound). First, people will start to invest more to prevent bad marriages from the beginning. Just look how family in eastern countries care for their children to marry a good partner. Second, people will work harder to make sure the marriage doesn't fail. That includes both parts. Last, look at kids now…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 08:52 PM
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Ask yourself: why is she a single mom? If you think she is not at fault, then go read the side bar first.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 01:45 PM
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Accepting that relationships are transient means getting rid of the attachment of failure towards divorce, removing the 'till death us do' part of the contract and finding healthier ways for children to flourish under such circumstances. So, if we remove "till death us do" then why are consequences after the divorce? Why should the financially stronger part have to pay for the weaker one after divorce? In most countries he has to do so for the rest of his life, Sweden is no exception. And if you…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 01:02 PM
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What double standards? I think if a woman searches a man to become the father of her children and care for them well, she will (statistically) have better chances with a man without tattoos. EDIT: let me clarify. I mean that tattoos on men are statistically an anti BP red flag - which means more trouble for the woman to handle her man and manipulate him easily.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 07:25 AM
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Rule 3 is wrongly worded or unprecise. You should not always assume she's is a slut but rather that she can always turn into one the next moment and that she might be one right know without you noticing. Rules 4 and 5 are most important, but there's a caveat. The thing with #4 is not that you do whatever you want but even more important that you always should have something interesting to do. That is most important and most people have a hard time achieving this. The rule is actually a generaliz…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 10:54 PM
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Even hardcore feminists will ignore some of the most “misogynistic” behavior if you’re alpha enough and give them tingles. So? If you are good enough and the girl thinks you are god then you can do literally *anything* and she can be *anything* it doesn't matter, she will give in for you. However, you are probably not god and even if you are: the chances that you will stay god in her eyes forever are extremely low. And the question is, how fast and how intense will she react to that? There's a d…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 08:40 PM
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Red flag doesn't mean it's 100% guaranteed doom. It's just making the probability higher. So if a girl has no red flags besides a tattoo, chances are good that she is on the bright side. But when you compare two girls which are equal otherwise except for tattoos, statistically speaking the one without a tattoo is the better choice (except for you being turned on...).
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 08:34 PM
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Most of those "cool gamer girl anime nerd geek chicks" also tend to be liberal feminists as well Maybe depends on location but I can't agree with this. There might be more feminists within this group, but not even close to _most_ of them. Also, a lot of these only want to get attention, they are not really into feminism like real SJWs. However, the attention thriving ones among them are also quite bad, as it's also a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 08:32 PM
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I think most of what you say is correct. But I think you partly misunderstood the intentions of OP. A shit test is not a shit a test. There are different types - and some of them raise the probability that a LTR won't work out much more than others. He listed the "bad" ones.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 06:39 PM
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First some questions: what was her situation exactly? Do you think or know that she really didn't have to money to afford something alone? Had she no alternatives? Do you think she really would not have been able to find a girl even if she tried hard? What do you think would she have done if you offered her the condo and told her its X$/month? Then, while I like your post, it would have been even better if you had analyzed *why* you got the feeling that she's just trying to use you. What are the…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 10:11 PM
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I disagree. The LDR doesn't really matter so much other than reducing the possible ways for the girl to manipulate him. She would probably have tried other things first (like move in at this place) but at the end what matters in this story is the way in which she tried to make him do what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 10:05 PM
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It's really borderline here. What you say is very right, but one should be careful about the context. That is, if the girls starts to _change_ her behaviour in situations she has already shown better behaviour, then all what you said applies. However in new and unknown situations it depends on context. There can be reasons someone behaves not as you wish but might permanently behave better in the future if you handle his misbehaviour correctly. But when it comes to OPs specific case, as it sound…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 06:10 PM
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I didn't say whose ability to walk away is taken. I assumed it's clear from context.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 04:33 PM
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You can't fight evolution. First, the companies will try to find holes and ways to not hire women or if so, to make sure they can't do much harm and have as little influence as possible. Those companies who are unable to pull this of or at least worse at it, will be pushed off market fast, as long as customers buy the products with the best value for its price. But let's assume that laws and there enforcement are so good that companies have no ways and no choice. What happens is that other group…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 10:28 AM
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Are you a tall white guy? :)
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:14 AM
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Birth conteol & std tests already in effect, chill out Dude, you are going to get your life destroyed. You've gotten warned.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:26 AM
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I said “walk away. It’s done. It’s beyond saving. Do you know what marriage is for? It is to _take away_ exactly this ability. So that advice is not even good, it's actually pretty bad. It's okay to tell him that his relationship is _probably_ done for and would have been better to tell him to start prepare to leave his woman with as little trouble as possible.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 07:19 AM
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It's really impossible to have evidence that she was in consent with you _the whole fucking time_. After all, she can still claim to behave as if being in consent because you forced her to do so beforehand.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:24 PM
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Don't listen to your mother. Don't fall into the same trap as at least 50% of your friends. The following will enlighten you about your current position in life: https://therationalmale.com/2012/06/04/final-exam-navigating-the-smp/ After that, take a look at the MRP sub to get a grasp what getting married _really_ means. After that, you will probably feel better. :)
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:17 PM
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This should be on the top!
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:21 PM
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As long as there is competition, most CEOs will stay males, no matter what. And with competition I also mean competition of countries. A country that impedes its economy will simply lose against a country which doesn't do that, if the other terms are equal.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 08:08 PM
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What's your problem? I have a serious problem and I ask for advice. No reason to end your life because of that. Also, the sidebar doesn't solve my problem.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:31 AM
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I have not been separated from my mother or being abused. Still, can you provide me with some links? I find some stuff but it just said that the monkeys chose to have a surrogate mother which feels like a real monkey compared to a wired surrogate mother. I found nothing about the monkeys being overly attached or cuddling or something.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:28 AM
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Nice. I like that, but it doesn't work when using protection as a male.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:20 AM
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Ha! Hadn't expect to find some bro who feels alike. Good to know I'm not alone.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:16 AM
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Also, with all due respect, is there a possibility that you're just bad at cuddling? No reason to be so careful with your wording, I'm happy for every input. :) I think I'm really good at cuddling. It works out really well for me to escalate. The problem arises later. Say, on the 5th date or so, I have the desire to cuddle again. Right now I stop myself to do it, but if I didn't do that... than as soon as the girl is at my place and "ready", I will just take her, toss her to my bed/couch/whateve…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:13 AM
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or didn't do your work to get her interested earlier Yeah that's it. Basically I took to long time and was already half in friendzone. Trying to cuddle someone who finds you sexable while they're still sexually pent up is just cruel. Hahaha, true. I better prepare for the rape claim. ;)
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:01 AM
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Thanks, that's good advice! I'll give it a look.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:59 AM
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Surprisingly you aren't taking shit for taking about this. Well a little bit, but that was expected. But why would I anyways? It's like asking about a handycap and I have shown to have realised that it's a problem, I have taken countermeasures that work - and know and want to tackle that problem even better and more in depth. It's like asking "I started lifting a year ago but my gains are not as good as I want. I did X Y and Z, what else can I do?" Would be very sad for this sub if it started sh…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:59 AM
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That's also what I think of. I didn't want to tell in my post to not influence. It's not hard to imagine that cuddling is something like greeting just more intimate - so when you greet you assert that the other person is greet you too which means you can better estimate what his position is towards you. If he doesn't greet you back, there's probably something wrong. Same for cuddling. It gives comfort in that you can get more certain that the girl likes you and feels good to be close to you. So …
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:56 AM
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It's not that I neglect it. I'm just not very experienced in bed and probably not a natural sex god. So while I can see that "have good sex, then you can cuddle" can work for me, I need to be able to have good sex first. I guess I will start to read the sex god method in detail now.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:51 AM
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Can you give an example? I don't think I get your advice at all.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:28 PM
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I'm also a big cuddler, and not big on ONS, so my plates are generally chicks that I like being around outside of just fucking. Yeah, that sounds like me. I guess I have to work on my bed performance then...
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:55 PM
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Hahaha, I laughed.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:53 PM
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So, any suggestions how to learn to fight if you got health issues, e.g. problems with knees/ankles or other things?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 06:56 PM
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Please add "... right now!" at the end of every of her and your sentences.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 06:02 AM
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I made the same mistakes. If you try to get her to something then you have already list 100%. It doesn't work like that. The only thing that can sometimes work is if *she* starts the fight because she wants something from you. Then you can make her convince you that her claims/needs/criticism are valid. The other way around doesn't work. If you feel ever again that you need to convince a girl/plate/LTR then you immediately apply dread. You should get (or pretend to get) the feeling of "girl, wha…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 09:17 PM
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Be careful dude. If she says something like that about one of her last boyfriends... don't you think she might very likely also say that *you* raped her? And it might even be as worse as that she is really believing it. Here is the real advice then, and I hope other people will tell this too so you better believe it: get out of there as fast as you can. Don't make her angry. Show her that you are sad about leaving her, but that there are reasons and you maybe want to try again in the future or s…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 09:12 PM
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He gave valid reasons for the claim of someone else. Stop downvoting that.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 08:57 PM
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You should stop having discussions. Learn to suppress feelings of revenge or telling her how the world works or why she is wrong or whatever. It brings no good at the end. Better tell her you are not interested in discussing things and have stuff to do. If you don't have stuff to do, still tell her and start having stuff. For instance, learn a new hobby (piano, drawing, cooking, learning a language) and start to lift.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 08:45 PM
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She was raped a few times She claims she was raped - or have you seen the verdicts? Otherwise, now will maybe come a hard time for you as you are not used to the sexual market out that and will lose comfort simply because things change. It's good that you found TRP. Having this sub makes it easier to stick to your rational thoughts and not fall for the emotions (like going back to her). As one here said it: you are not married or having children. It sucks to be betrayed even without having a LTR…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 08:42 PM
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Really, the only problem I see here is that this is probably beeing paid by society (that means mostly by men). Also, poor kid, but kids can be poor in so many ways, you can't prevent that always.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 08:35 PM
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If you fall for it, you lose. She'll try to ghost you afterward as she feeds on the drama of your new sexual interest(s) nexting you and flipping out altogether, which in her hamster-wheel mind, is enough to convince herself that she got the last word, left you, and made the right decision slotting you as a beta cuck single mommy product, just so she can eliminate the reality that she got dumped for being a ho-gash in the first place. Very true, unfortunately. I know that feeling myself and I ca…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 08:06 PM
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I’d really like to know why you don’t think being the prize is worthwhile. I'm no English major so maybe I my wording was inappropriate. I think what you say is good. It's just that sometimes on this sub people tell others that "they are the prize". Obviously you are not always the price. But still, often people underestimate and hurt themselves so they should think higher about them even if they just force that. But I think it's not good to *always* feel like you are the *big prize*. Sometimes …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 07:54 PM
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I am actually not so much convinced of that RP theory about feeling like you are the price. But in this case I can see that it applies. Had you though "I am the prize, ofc she wants to go the cinema with me" you would have probably avoided all that. You had just asked and maybe she would have said yes but probably rather now (as you said she most likely had no intention from the beginning). But in either way you would have avoided the test, right?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 07:45 AM
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In general you are right :) I didn't want to question that.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 07:38 AM
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Ya maybe. Still, I don't hang out with someone if I do not also benefit from it. Everytime we hung out, it was because there was something cool going on (e.g with friends). That repulsed me so much, I sat somewhere else, watched some of the battle and then went home without saying goodbye to do something else. Hm, to me it does not really sound like it. Be honest to yourself, otherwise, if it was a mistake, you will repeat it again and again.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 10:41 PM
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To me men, a HUGE red flag is when a woman's mouth or hands gets LOOSE when she's with friends and alcohol. Can you give some examples of what you mean? I suppose you are not talking about something like that she confesses some political incorrect stuff but rather about her environment like gossip?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 09:01 PM
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First, do you want to imply that I am wrong because I have a new user account? That's a pretty weak ad hominem argument. Second, you are speaking in very absolute terms. You certainly don't want to claim that *each single* woman that gives a guy a number wants to fuck him (unless he fucks up *after* her giving her number)?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 08:48 PM
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Very well described. That is why actions count more than words and logic should always be applied. For instance in OPs case applying logic as in consistency rules means, why did the sex with the girls last guy didn't count? Because she didn't come. Now, what about coming multiple times or screaming loud? Could there be a sane reason why it would only count when she comes multiple times or screams load compared to coming only once / or not screaming? If no, then there's also no reason to assume t…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 08:44 PM
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Why? Name a guy you know who puts up significant LMR (last minute resistance) when it is obvious that he's getting laid. Actually, I did this. More than once. The reason for me was that I was worried about performing in bed and also lying to myself thinking that if I am special and only have sex with my dreamgirl she will be faithful and fate will be good to me. Hard to imagine? Maybe, but being BP does crazy stuff to ones brain.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 08:36 PM
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So she said that sex with you is real. But did she also say "This one counts". I guess not. ;) But don't ask her, you will just force her to lie about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 08:32 PM
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Why did you even say > Me: "Lol again?" I mean, you wanted to go a fifth time with her anyways right? In that case, just suggest a time that fits for you. She either goes with that or makes a counter suggestion which you (after some time to "check" if you are free) can agree with or not. Everything else means you can forget about her. If you are reacting like you did, it can mean two things: I already watched it 4 times, why would I watch it again? I didn't watch it 4 times but I forget about th…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 08:14 PM
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German is hard but doable. Learn at least a little bit, that will give you great sympathies. Most people in Germany speak English well, so you will get along easy. Also, where exactly will you go. Advice depends heavily on that.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 07:30 PM
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You don't know the intentions of your friends. I sometimes do this (albeit mostly not in front of the guy) to check how loyal or open the girl is - in order to better estimate her behaviour and even protect my buddies. However, I will obviously stop before something happens. On the other hand, your girl should never do this. But here it depends on how flirty/touchy she usually is. You can expect her to be as flirty/touchy as she is to her girl friends. If she is way more flirty or was not flirty…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 07:28 PM
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I have, of late, come to the inescapable conclusion that when a girl gives you her contact information she has already decided she is going to fuck you. That might work for you but don't generalize. I'd say in average there are more "I give this beta orbiter my number for attention and possible being my backup later" than "I want to fuck him".
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 10:09 AM
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The fact she even stayed with that guy after him becomming aggressive seems like a major red flag. She's dependent on him and had no other options but still took the risk of going with and ending up in such a situation by behaving flirty towards you and probably other guys. Be careful dude.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 09:43 AM
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UV-rays have both positive and negative effects. The longer the expose, the more negative and less positive effects occur. So here's what you should do: Take antioxidiants, especially when doing long sunbathing. Good examples are green tea, astaxanthin (to be found in e.g. salmon and other), carrots and so on. Care for your skin after longer sunbathing to have it not dry out. Supplement vitamin D3 (and K2) when you don't get enough sun
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 09:23 AM
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