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You're a fool, it's not your looks, it's your garbage personality. Just reading this post is enough to show that your personality is dogshit. Guess what? Ugly people have partners too. Fat guys get married, disabled guys get married, it's not your looks. You're just an insecure, angry little bitch. Stop complaining and join a damn gym. Get a fucking haircut and ACTUALLY STYLE IT. Do your eyebrows, dress well. Just stop being such a whining dick and get your shit together.
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:35 AM
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Dude! Congratulations! Don't play this down by saying it's a small thing man. Those early steps are the HARDEST ones to take so be proud of what you did! Next time try to chat a little bit longer if you feel up for it. If you do you'll soon realize that the VAST majority of girls aren't waiting to throw their drink on someone the first chance they get and are actually pretty friendly. Soon you'll have no problem approaching people. Goodluck brother!
/r/seduction06/06/19 07:58 AM
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Hahaha, yeah, crazy chicks are always the best lays. And you're right, sometimes you've gotta learn from your own mistakes
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:09 PM
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Lol, what?
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:24 AM
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Dude, what you need to do is move on. Right now you're coming from a mindset of scarcity. You need to change that to one of abundance
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:31 PM
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I'm also a follow my feelings kinda guy. I usually just go with what I feel is right or fun and handle the consequences later. The real problem with this sort of relationship, and my fellow brothers here will back this up, is that you don't realise how toxic and miserable the relationship is until you've already broken up with them. For some reason it's next to impossible, even for pua's like us, to look at the relationship objectively. Be very careful of thinking "I'll go in for a little bit th…
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:25 AM
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RUN! Run now and run fast! Let me tell you a little story my friend. So I met this girl on fb. She was super cute and easy to talk to and things were good at first. When we went on our first date we had some good conversations for a while until the topic of previous relationships came up. She told me that "all of her ex's were assholes" which was a red flag but I thought to myself "this girl is really sweet and kind and caring so maybe they were all assholes. She then dropped a few other red fla…
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:30 PM
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Brilliant! I've never thought of it like this before. Definitely gonna give it a try.
/r/seduction31/03/19 07:11 PM
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True, they use outlandishness and aggressiveness as a substitute for confidence and trick themselves into believing its making them alpha males. Those are the guys who don't realize that game isn't about techniques and canned lines and is really about self improvement
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:58 PM
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Let's talk my friend. This community has your back!
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:37 PM
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I disagree. I think the "alpha attitude" is legit cos it's worked in my life but a lot of people confuse being alpha with being an asshole when it's really all about confidence and humor.
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:28 PM
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I agree. I personally haven't noticed much "macho" BS here cos I normally just answer the questions instead of browse the comments but seems like those guys are confusing being alpha with being an asshole.
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:27 PM
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You wouldn't. Don't be foolish. Keep your professional life separate from your private one. And yes, even if you're stocking shelves for a supermarket it's still important to conduct yourself in a professional manner. Not because the job is important but because the value of professionalism is.
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:46 PM
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100%
/r/seduction23/03/19 01:53 AM
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Okay, respect to you for your hard work. I've also been through the grind (and I'm currently still grinding) so I know what it's like. I think an improv class may help as it'll help you expand your field of humor. Also try reading "the subtle art of not giving a fuck". I've never read it personally since I'm naturally someone who doesn't give a fuck but I've heard good things about it amongst the pua community. I think you need to focus on inner game more than anything. Inner game is all about c…
/r/seduction22/03/19 02:04 PM
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There is a way to overcome it. The way you begin overcoming it is simple. You start small and work your way up. Begin by asking strangers (particularly beautiful women) small questions like the time or directions to a place and such. Once you're comfortable breaking the talking barrier you can move onto making small talk and then flirting and then implementing game and so on. It'll only take about a week if you do it regularly and you'll be so much betterg off for it
/r/seduction22/03/19 06:43 AM
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You put her on a pedastal and that wasn't a good idea for a number of reasons. Firstly, by putting her on a pedastal you put extra pressure on her. Remember that even amazing girls have their insecurities and by giving the impression that you see her as special and incredible you just make her see her insecurities in a harsher light (she'll probably be thinking something like "this guy's says I'm amazing when I'm really just a bitch/slob/lazy/ugly/etc). Secondly, you should always try to frame i…
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:57 AM
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Yes there is a chance. Honestly, I HATE it when someone says "I'm this way" or "I'm that way". That kind of complacency goes against EVERYTHING game stands for. Game is all about self improvement. You look average and feminine? Join a gym. It's boost your testosterone levels making you more masculine and handsome. You aren't charming? Take in improv class to sharpen your wit. Read up on classical love stories/mythologies so you have a romantic tale to tell. Learn how to be a good story teller (i…
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:42 AM
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I'd probably say something like "Well you're going on a date with a stallion so if you play nice I may grant your wish" but my text conversations are usually already flirty and playful so the tone would already be set
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:08 PM
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If you think it's worth it then you should definitely check it out. I also think it'd be cool to learn under him but prefer forging my own path and developing my own style of pickup but that's just me. I understand not everyone is the same. If it's truly life changing then by all means go for it
/r/seduction18/03/19 02:44 PM
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I think the reason people have begun losing interest in the problem is due to a loss of respect for Max. He initially seemed like a genuine and cool guy but ever since he began opening his videos with a speech about how great he is and how everyone else sucks and began removing tutorials from his YouTube channel I've lost respect for him and I'm sure others feel the same way. It feels like he's changed from a cool, pua (a brother-in-arms in the game) to a sellout who's only interested in pushing…
/r/seduction18/03/19 02:28 PM
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Okay, this may turn out to be a bit of a long post. I don't really know since I'm just gonna rant a bit here. I'm a 6'3 Indian dude, 23 years old and currently on university. I've been learning game for about 2 years now but only been putting it into practice for 1. At this point I have 3 friends with benefits and get laid once a week (not including my FWBs). Before I started learning game I would only get laid about twice a year. So here's a few things you need to learn. Firstly, women ARE NOT …
/r/seduction09/03/19 01:40 AM
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Dude! Congratulations! That's great progress! You'll notice that as you progress with not giving a fuck your vibe will become more and more vibrant and much more attractive to women! It's also going to help with any approach anxiety you may have and soon your game will be through the roof! Good job bud, keep it up
/r/seduction01/03/19 07:02 AM
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That's why I'm here Bro. I never lead women on into thinking they're my girlfriends or could be so in order to fuck them. I've seen how badly it can ruin a girl and refuse to do that sorta thing, especially when there's other beautiful women out there who will be willing to have casual sex. Hence the question, I'm just hoping some mPua sees this thread and give me an answer
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:18 PM
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I see where you're coming from Bro. My issue is that I'm on university which is where I meet the overwhelming majority of my girls. I start calling things a relationship the moment there's an expectation of exclusivity. I'm not against the idea of being exclusive but I'm having so much of fun having multiple relationships that she'll have to be amazing for me to give that up. As for the relationship component I always tell girls that I'm just looking for something casual and not anything serious…
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:14 PM
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I wish that were an option Bro, I come from south africa and women here, particularly Indian women who I prefer, are conditioned to follow more traditional values by their parents and society as a whole. I have met a few promiscuous ones and those relationships were fun and wild but they fell apart like all casual relationships do after a while. And I'm on university, where you'd think women would want to "find themselves" and explore their sexuality but the social conditioning is too strong.
/r/seduction23/02/19 06:51 PM
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Bro, I'm in my final year of college. You wanna know how to meet people? YOU WALK UP TO THEM AND SAY HI! Yes, it's literally that easy. If you don't know what to talk about then talk about their studies until you're comfortable enough to start flirting. Remember, people on campus WANT to be approached. They want to make friends, they want to get to know people. IT'S COLLEGE! That's what it's all about, being social. And let me tell you something, a beautiful woman is just DYING for someone to ha…
/r/seduction23/02/19 06:34 PM
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Yeah, that's the down side of this phenomenon. It's works both ways and you tend to get lax on your game improvement when women are throwing themselves at you
/r/seduction06/02/19 03:00 PM
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Pretty graphic but I tend to agree with you on this one. Girls are much better at reading those subtle differences than us men are.
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:59 PM
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I get where you're coming from with the beihg bored by other chicks. Maybe, instead of talking to intending to pick them up, just joke around with them and keep things fun, playful and flirty in the conversation. I also thought the exact same way but stopped running into this issua once I learnt how to control the frame properly cos then you're in the driver seat
/r/seduction06/02/19 09:47 AM
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Yeah, that's the approach I took. It's not that difficult when you're coming from a mindset of abundance.
/r/seduction06/02/19 09:44 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I had considered these options as well and agree that it's likely one of those (or a catfishingsituation but I doubt it).
/r/seduction06/02/19 09:42 AM
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I stand by what I said about girls not caring about looks as much as guys. I consider myself to be fairly handsome but I've picked up women on days when I looked like crap just as easily as I do when I'm looking good. All being handsome does is get your foot in the door more easily.
/r/seduction06/02/19 09:41 AM
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Hi friend! Reading your posting I'd say that your entire mindset is all wrong. You're coming at this from a mindset of scarcity when you should really be approaching it from a mindset of abundance. Remember that 99% of the guys who approach her will feel the same and do the same shit. They'll drop her lame "good morning beautiful" texts, compliment her and shower her with attention and affection. How many of these guys get laid? Absolutely none of them. You need to play things differently. Appro…
/r/seduction05/02/19 10:32 AM
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Easiest way? Go fuck a prostitute. Or 3. Most helpful way? Probably to stop using tinder and pick up more in person. You could also try to beat the meat before these conversations happen
/r/seduction01/02/19 03:13 PM
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I'd suggest watching videos on YouTube by a guy called RSD Max. Look at his body language and tone and the way he speaks when making videos and try to copy that. His videos really helped me improve. What I really like about him is that he focuses a lot on self improvement rather than just game which actually did way more for my game than any game theory did alone
/r/seduction13/01/19 11:35 AM
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What I do when a girl is being stand-offish or quiet is I launch into a story. I start telling them about something my friends and I did, a story from home, stories of my travels and stuff like that. I make sure that my tone during these conversations is light hearted and fun and I keep my vibe energetic and friendly. This way the girl sees that you're an interesting person, that you're fun and that you're not there because you're SUPER interested in her but because you just want to speak to som…
/r/seduction13/01/19 09:41 AM
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Something else that I think completely changed the way I interact with people and the success I've had making friends and getting girls was a mindset change. The change was going from the mindset of "I hope they don't think I'm weird and like me" (which used to put me under huge amounts of pressure and made me more nervous) to a simple attitude of "I'm just going to have fun in this convo and if they don't like me then there's millions of other people to talk to around here" which really helped …
/r/seduction29/12/18 04:20 PM
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Hi, I'm from South Africa so I won't be able to help in person but I was in a very similar situation last year. The way I got over it was by starting small. So I'd go out to the mall alone (helped me get comfortable being alone without feeling like everyone was judging me), asking random people for the time or directions (helped me realise that people aren't going to spit in your face for start g a convo), then I began complimenting people on things I liked (liked telling my waitress she had a n…
/r/seduction29/12/18 04:06 PM
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Dude, I feel your pain about your insecurities. I had a gf who was studying in another city and was proposed to on a regular basis (she was Muslim and that's common here). I'm going to tell you what I did to overcome these fears. Take a good look at the kind of woman she is. You need to be honest about it and not let your insecurities warp the facts. Is she loving? Caring? Honest? Open? You get the idea Internalize the idea that women don't care about social status and looks as much as you think…
/r/seduction21/06/18 06:51 AM
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Thanks so much. I just got reddit and I'm on my phone so I didn't know about that stuff. Will definitely check it out!
/r/seduction05/04/18 09:45 PM
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