An interesting phenomenon discussion

DrSleeper · 2019-02-06T12:00:31+00:00

I think it has a lot to do with your own confidence. You may get hit on more but also you notice it and interpret it as that instead of feeling insecure and thinking a girl was just looking at you by accident or whatever.

Only thing that really works for me is always assume attraction until proven wrong. Make them say no (yeah that sounds rape-ier than it’s meant). Just make sure you’ve checked if she’s into you before you do the rejecting for her.

Abel_Lemarc · 2019-02-06T10:31:29+00:00

sure. it could be your behavior and the way you carry yourself. you're not exactly chasing or gawking at other girls when you're (newly) with someone. its the same if you have an abundance of women in your circle.. women, unknowingly are attracted to that.

Frya · 2019-02-06T14:51:03+00:00

I've experienced it a lot and I believe it's more about sex than "being claimed".

It's the same with soldiers/fighters/heavy duty workers. You just feel in the way they act and the way they are, that they have experienced heavy stuff. Especially if they are fresh after work/fight etc.

When you are fucked like a king by a girl, your hormones shoot sky up, and it holds you for a couple of days.

And if you just seen some girls butt spread open on your dick, with pussy oozing with juice down her legs... Well, you are not going to look the same at other girls. You have sex and satisfaction in your eyes. You subtly move in a different way around other girls... Well, because you just manhandled some other cutie.

I don't think a married man that is not fucked by his wife has the same effect on girls. It's opposite, they can smell this resignation. And if they go for such a man it's more about them wanting to be homewrecker than being attracted by his lack of sex vibe.

ThrowawayPUA · 2019-02-06T16:40:45+00:00

It's not them, it's you. Everyone notices that women come on to you more when you're in a relationship. IMHO it's mostly about your abundance mentality. When you know you have a sexual relationship and don't have any trouble getting sex, you aren't acting like a horndog and creeping on women. You don't need to. So the women notice that (perhaps subliminally) and wonder why you're different, you're not entranced by their charms. This makes you a challenge.

Oh the opportunities I missed when I was in a committed relationship. I was loyal to a fault. I turned down women who begged me for sex, even willing to do a threesome with my girlfriend just to have me.

HaveADrunkDay · 2019-02-06T12:13:41+00:00

I see two factors here.

First, it's your own confidence that it's boosted since you already have a girl and don't need more game (p.s. you always need game)

Second, it's appealing to a woman's eyes to see you walk around with a good-looking girl. See might be your GF, sister or just a female friend of yours but she doesn't know what is what. Looking at you with a beautiful woman see starts seeing herself in her position/by your side.

There's my two scents in the discussion.

SuperAwesome420 · 2019-02-06T12:15:22+00:00

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Title	An interesting phenomenon discussion
Author	SuperAwesome420
Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	February 6, 2019 9:54 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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