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| 3 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeI think first thing first is to acknowledge where you have gone wrong. What beliefs do you have that are toxic or dont stand up to basic scrutiny. What opinions are you holding that are causing you pain and friction with those around you? Start to look internally at these kind of questions and you will start to find a path out of it all. It takes time, it hurts and you will have to admit in all probability that you have been a bit of an asshole. I have found that making friends with women, talki… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeThank you, I have been doing pretty well in the last month. Got a glowing performance from work, a personal thank you from our CEO for stepping up to the plate during this crisis. Daily meditation and working out and have started to work on a side business I have been thinking about for a long time. I feel a lot of regret about my last relationship and how it came unstuck but also my friends and family have helped me to realise this isn't just all of my fault. There was a lot of stuff she was do… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeMan do not do it. Just steer well clear you will burden yourself with so much unhelpful shit it is unbelievable. You might see more results quickly but it will be shallow and painful and you will end up one messed up son of a gun like me. Anything of value from TRP can literally be gained from any other form of self help. Go sort your finances out, go hang out on fitness subs and learn and train, go learn how to dress yourself and groom yourself well. Go read self help books, start a business ge… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeSolitarymonk oh my sweet summer child. Firstly, thank you for taking the time and effort to try to balance out your views. That is certainly a healthy habit and if done honestly I think makes you a much stronger person. Please don't ever lose that questioning streak because the communities you are starting to circle are going to start slowly stripping that away from you in ways you wont realise until its to late. It highlights why extremist forms of red pill philosophy is bad and what happens … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeHang on haha. I worked in sales and went to art school. My entire social circle my entire life have done recreational drugs. I don't really see it as a big problem. I have often taken them myself as well. It can be fun, but Im at a point in my life now where that kind of party lifestyle just doesn't interest me. I didn't meet this girl at a club either, we haven't really been to a club together and for 2 of the 2.5 years we were going out she didn't really go clubbing either. She had a great rel… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/20 07:21 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeThat's the thing, I'm obviously devastated I contributed to ruining my last relationship. That message would turn into me trying to get her back and a whole lot of mess. It's better to let her get on with life and spend my energy doing what I have been doing. Which is to say meditating, journaling and trying to examine where my worst traits come from. Think I've worked out I have an anxious attachment style and that's why in my relationships I turn into a controlling jealous bf. However she didn… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeDid you ever manage to kick the porn habit? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/20 08:17 AM |
| 6 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeI dont think commitment is my problem, after my first ex I havent cheated on anyone and that was way back in 2011 timeframe. It was shitty and made me feel really crappy about myself. I just want brave enough to break up with her whilst at university but still wanted that experience. Idiot. Female friends is something I am lacking right now, there is probably 1 that I am close to when I used to have many which were really dear to me. When I got more into the anti feminism ways of thinking I mana… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/20 08:53 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeI have taken some time to think about your comment. You are right, it's a mental thought process that I have deeply ingrained. One of my biggest fears immediately was "fucking hell, what happens if I never get to be with someone this beautiful again" As you point out, its shallow. It relies on external factors for happiness and ultimately no matter how beautiful someone is their looks will fade. I don't really know how to change that about myself though? I have made a list of traits that I would… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeI dunno, my 3 older siblings are from my mothers first marriage and both of my parents are functioning alcoholics. The external validation I think comes from the fact that really you are not getting a lot of attention in that kind of environment and I would show off or act up on purpose to get attention. My Dad would hit me when I was naughty. I even had him kick the bathroom door down when I had locked myself in there because I knew he was going to beat me for swearing at my Mum. Look, I am ful… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeThank you so much for taking the time to write this. Today has been a hell of a down day. Finally got all of my stuff out of our old flat and was told just as I slid the key under the door that my uncle is going to die from terminal cancer any day now. Its been a horrible and tough day and I was really beating myself up about the hopelessness of it all before you wrote this. I have actually looked up the number for our works therapy support benefit a few times this week. I have bottled dialling … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/20 07:15 PM |
| 12 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeHaha I mean I think coming to a place like this to try and give people who are currently under the influence of this ideology some perspective is taking responsibility. It isn't fun to write out how much of a cunt you have been for the last 8 odd years is it... I've made amends where I can and I'm taking steps to go through therapy to change my thinking. If a place like exredpill is going to function bellends like you shouldn't be coming in here trashing someone who is taking active steps to aba… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/20 07:26 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeWell exactly, people can and will cheat for an incredible amount of reasons. It's stupid to blame it only in women like TRP makes out when the research shows actually more men do admit to cheating at least. I think that's one of the most destructive parts of Redpill thinking. It's so black and white and full of logical inconsistencies. Red pill does say if you're some kind of god you can keep a girl from straying but if you're online talking about, reading about and discussing cheating and women… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/20 06:46 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeBe thankful that you are a smarter young man than myself then mate! Its been like torture. Holding so many conflicting beliefs and desires in your head at once. So messed up it was unreal, and the only way I could deal with getting rejected, or more pain was doubling down. I think being in a relationship takes bravery and you have to be okay to be on your own. If you are not okay to be alone and be yourself then you will in so much fear of the relationship ending you will do all sorts of crazy t… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/20 04:25 PM |
| 16 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeI have thought about it many times. I have made amends with my family which I am grateful for. Telling my mother and my sister some of the thoughts about women I have harboured was hard but they are great women and helped me through it. I have actually recently apologised to the second girlfriend in this post as she had got back in contact with me. It felt good to get it off my chest and she said there was no need but it was nice to hear me acknowledge it. The first I am just going to leave, she… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/20 03:55 PM |
| 18 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeWell exactly, with TRP you only build up a stoic viewpoint for people you don't give a fuck about i.e plates. The stuff that you consume that convinces you that essentially all relationships are doomed etc means you just will never be able to be stoic about those situations because your mind is so tied up in knots about the whole situation. I am going to spend a long time as a single guy and give my self 6 months before I even start thinking about dating again. I need to deprogram a really bad s… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/20 03:49 PM |
| -2 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeHe didn't cheat he just admitted he had feelings for a younger woman he worked with to my Mum. I just stated bluntly that older men want to fuck younger women and that I didn't see it as a big deal. It was insensitive and unhelpful to an already volatile situation. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/20 02:26 PM |
| 10 | The Red Pill - The Incredible Damage It Has Done To My LifeHmm when I got into it back in 2013 it wasn't really widely known what it was. I found it at a time of extreme pain and a real low. This is how a lot of people find it, at that point in time you're not questioning much rationally you are just looking for a way to get better. Before you know it your in deep and you're also seeing success... So why not trust it more and keep going? I found during my relationships I would drop going to the sub all together... But the damage was already done to my w… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/20 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Amber Heard admits to hitting ex-husband Johnny Depp and pelting him with pots, pans and vases in audio confession.Please no... We can't be having that great mind destroyed by this piece of work. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/02/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | So a feminist research team suggests a 34 hour work week for women, and 47 hours for men. For equality.Wouldn't this just result in skyrocketing the perceived wage gap? If men we accumulating that much more experience per week then even over a short period of time they are going to be outclassing the female employees by a considerable margin. That just means they are going to be getting into all of the top and managerial positions more and more often... This seems idiotic even by their own twisted logical standards. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/20 01:01 PM |
| 16 | If you're gonna assault somebody, expect retaliation regardless of genderMy first thought was exactly that... Now he's going to be getting bullied for being a woman beater haha ffs. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Don’t date women with promiscuous pasts. They end up here.Man I have been there myself, and have spent the last year and a half trying to unpick the knots that my brain was tied into by all of these communities. Its been hard work trying to actually challenge the beliefs that I had built up from years of being involved with the red pill community. I originally found the community and used it as a kind of safety blanket after splitting up with a girl I had been dating for 5 years. It was like falling down the rabbit hole and hearing everything I needed … | /r/MensRights | 03/10/19 01:01 PM |
| 10 | Beauty Industry Part of Foreskin Flesh Trade, Anti-Circumcision Activists Warn - VICEJesus is this a thing?! How is that legal at all | /r/MensRights | 19/09/19 12:59 PM |
| 14 | Ronda Rousey shuts down women's soccer equal pay argument. "How much you get paid should have something to do with how much money you bring in. I'm the highest paid fighter...because I make them the most money"Haha the mens team would challenge then to a charity match to put the stupid argument to need done and for all. They are no where near on the same level. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/19 07:27 AM |
| 3 | ... she called me to tell me that another guy kissed her...Out of curiosity why do you stay in the marriage then? The longer you wait the worse the divorce rape is going to be by my understanding. You mental well being is worth a lot more than that marriage | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 12:41 PM |
| 4 | LTR moving in with male friend roommate, how do you react?Sorry typed that out on my phone. Meant getting on with my own shit. I was training for a major career change at the time and I just threw myself into studying. I guess the core message really was demonstrate you don't take shit, that she full well knows is unacceptable and then throw yourself into something that improves you life. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 07:03 PM |
| 49 | LTR moving in with male friend roommate, how do you react?I've experienced a similar situation with an old LTR in the past. It's a difficult one, you cannot under any circumstances let her know this worries you as she'll lose respect and ultimately make him seem like more of a worthy prospect than he actually is. This is a make or break deal for me. A girl worthy of being in a LTR understands that it isn't respectful to foster such a close relationship with another guy outside of the LTR. When you enter into a more formal arrangement like the two of yo… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 03:42 PM |
| 14 | Update to "my gf met her ex while I was on holiday"What the genuine fuck did I just read?!?! As mentally retarded as this guy obviously is, she is still way over the line here in paying this much attention to an ex boyfriend. Also... Beanie date night? She is sending xx's in a text to her ex and not putting him down when he is suggesting things like it being a date night. This shit would be a red line in the sand for me. What logical excuse does she have to entertain this kind of interaction with an ex whilst she is meant to be exclusive with yo… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 09:29 PM |
| 13 | Standards too high?Man I have been where you are, trust me this is literally your mind playing tricks on you and your expectations of real life beauty have been warped massively. These girls on insta spend hours a day taking hundreds of photos, selecting 4 or 5 of those to photoshop, apply filters and change their skin quality to upload. All at the perfect angles, in the perfect light at the perfect moment. They do not look like this in real life at all. I remember me and friend sitting in a bar in Montenegro watc… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Where are articles about improving/changing yourself to become more attractive to women on the sidebar?This is really solid advice. Having your mission well defined allows you to push yourself in that direction. It's an important catalyst that helps to keep you on the self improvement path. Having male friends that come first ensure that you can reduce you're availability to these women. Women can turn into a huge vacuum that sucks up all of your free time. They actively try to invade every space in your life to do so. This helps you set boundaries, value your time and be less available to her. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Today I Really Fucked UpMan I think I'd struggle if I tried to fuck get again. All those old feelings would just come straight back and I'd be back to square one just now my gf has been pumped full of even more cum haha. It's over for good and there is no going back to what was! I have my eyes open enough to know to steer clear | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Today I Really Fucked UpI always doubted the being in the 30s sexual peak thing. I'm starting to see why it's true however. Can you give me your take on why you do it with more ease now than in your twenties? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Today I Really Fucked UpWhat age is that? I feel like its been downhill since o left university. I had a great time back then and pulled a lot, now I feel like I'm slipping. You're so right though. I can build a life like that for myself. Just need to carry on with what I'm doing | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Today I Really Fucked UpGg_s thanks man. I've got to get building the life I know I can lead. I've never strived to hit my potential ever in my life and I think that's where all of this regret is coming from. I'm going to be planting from now on! | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Today I Really Fucked UpI don't think she was that much higher value than me objectively. I'm doing well in my job, I'm confident and out going as I work in sakes currently. Body was not on point though. I have always relied on my genetics, I'm slim and have a good face but there's much to be improved upon and I know it. Been hitting the gym regularly since we split, also ran a charity 10k which was an awesome experience. I'm moving in the right direction. I'm going places, it was just a shock to see! | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Today I Really Fucked UpGot a date lined up this Saturday with a girl that's down to fuck already. Hopefully it'll help me get some perspective! | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Today I Really Fucked UpThanks, really solid advice in here! I've got my goals well planned out. Probably lacking a more lofty long term goal to build towards! I am going to journal on your advice this morning and make sure I stick to it. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Today I Really Fucked UpThanks, I deleted the app so it's harder to give into temptation to do that. I also had already deleted her number / all social media accounts. This was just a stupid move that was only ever going to end one way. I guess it hurts so much because it's very succinctly highlighted my failures In life and shows me the mountain I have to climb. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Today I Really Fucked UpMan that sucks so hard, mine is so much less worse in comparison! If you can make it through that I can pull my head out of my arse about this! I actually have a first plate forming. I was going to sack it off and just focus on me but she's called me and told me her plans and it's going to be some filthy sex so why not aye haha. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Today I Really Fucked UpThanks man, this has distracted me from that mission tbh, I wasted an entire evening on joining but self pity. What do you mean when she hits a wall? She's only 23 so pretty much approaching her prime at this point. I deleted instagram as an app so it's much harder to give into temptation. I'll get back on the horse and keep going haha . | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 05:59 AM |
| 5 | Today I Really Fucked UpI know the logic of what you are saying but its hard, its like I just want to be there already! Thanks though I will redouble my efforts. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Today I Really Fucked UpWhen I say jacked I'm probably over reacting, she was a gym freak even when we were together and I let that go so stupidly. He certainly is big though its quite the kick in the nuts. I am struggling with that, I have always been the guy in a LTR. I land on my feet when I break up but I feel I have some inner insecurities that mean I need a woman around to fill a gap. I have been journeying a lot since I became single and its something I'm working on / identifying how to remedy. I do however want… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | LTR Ended Today - I Need Help To Learn From ThisYou're so right I do need to push myself out if my comfort zone! I've become boring and that needs to be changed. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 06:18 AM |
| 2 | LTR Ended Today - I Need Help To Learn From ThisThanks, I think it's been long on the cards. I think 6 months may be to much, I'm confident in a lot if areas socially just need to focus on my mission and boundaries etc. Appreciate the advice thank you! | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Concerning hobbiesThanks for the encouragement, I am sure of what I am doing in so many areas of my life but as a s kid I buried my nerdy interests to look cooler to my peers.. I'm coming to realise it just means ive spent years not being my true self and since I have been hitting the gym and building my confidence in my sales based job im getting to the point where I am just thinking fuck it. Be who you want to be. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Concerning hobbiesThanks for the heads up on those games, Guild Ball seems pretty interesting, my hesitancy is finding people to play with so I was drawn to GW games because of that larger player base. How do you go about finding players? I like the idea of getting to know older guys im 26 myself atm and know a ton of young sales guys but sometimes I feel like it would be great to have an older pool of experience to draw from haha. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Concerning hobbiesI mean that's my problem haha, I gave it up at the tender age of 13 because I felt embarrassed about hanging in those shops with those guys haha. I mean this is a huge generalisation but I don't look like your typical Warhammer player, I'm in shape, I work in a high pressure sales environment so I'm confident and outgoing etc. My other hobbies like painting etc get me into art shows where I meet women, I'm thinking of taking dance classes or yoga but that's really to meet women not because it's … | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Moved to a new city for my ltr, she ended it today and I need help getting everything back on track.I think at that point I would have if thats what actually transpired. I remember breaking it off with her when she asked for it but that was quickly aborted as a plan from her side and she rushed down to see me instead. I get the feeling with this girl a lot of these plays are grabs at attention when I am focusing a lot on myself. Like right now a lot of my focus is on my career / night time work to build a freelance business. I remember at the time with the 2 week break thing she said it after … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 10:19 PM |
| – | Moved to a new city for my ltr, she ended it today and I need help getting everything back on track.The one savior of all this is, the move north was financially a good decision, Ive paid off all of my debt and started to gather savings and investments. I took a higher paying job and will be getting a promotion to manger level with my won sales team in 3-4 months. I have also made huge progress towards getting my dream job and starting my own freelance design business. That side I feel like I have made progress on, but I don't think I kept the captain and first mate dynamic in play at all when… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 08:41 PM |
| – | Moved to a new city for my ltr, she ended it today and I need help getting everything back on track.Thanks some good actionable advice in here. Ive signed up to a few life drawing meetups. I studied art at university and that should get me some good connections. I am in a sales based job but will be changing careers to become s a User experience designer. I have made a good network of professionals in that space here but wouldn't call any of them my friends. I have kept contact to a bare minimum with her since it all blew up last Friday. I will keep it up. Thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Moved to a new city for my ltr, she ended it today and I need help getting everything back on track.Yes it was going well tbh, we had a lot of fun together etc but if I am being honest there were problems but I ignored them. As soon as I held my ground and said if I didn't have my name on a lease I wouldn't live with her she went really weird. It went form come and move in with me into this new place to... I am not happy... to you're not giving me enough attention to... I am not feeling it anymore lets leave it. Whilst this has been going on I havent been needy and I started to go out more, ca… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 08:08 PM |
| – | Moved to a new city for my ltr, she ended it today and I need help getting everything back on track.Haha yea this is totally fair, what I mean is I know I fucked up big time, I knew I was fucking up big time when I made the move.. it was like watching a car crash in slow motion but I couldn't stop myself. I swallowed the red pill and couldn't really take the reality of it, I have always had success with women to some degree probably despite myself but suddenly I was getting with peoples wives walking them home from the pub or shameless having someones gf flirt with me in front of their BF and … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Swallowed the pill a year and a half ago, still learning and I need advice on this oneThanks, that was my main problem with the whole idea, it's just so stacked in her favour and I need to be able to walk away from a bad deal. Can't in good faith convince her not to because it's an amazing opportunity for her to get on the property ladder early. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Swallowed the pill a year and a half ago, still learning and I need advice on this oneExactly that's the major reason I don't want to go anywhere near a house I have no ownership of. Also as I have a very limited support network up here if things go sour I'll be out on my arse with nowhere to crash while I get a new place ha. I'm not one for putting myself in risky situations | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 07:35 PM |
| 3 | 'If' by Rudyard Kipling is a poem every man should take very seriouslyHaha read the whole thing in his voice | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/16 09:30 PM |
| 1 | LTR has gone to shit. What do I do?I went into this relationship with that mentality. I think I have lost that more recently. Do you stock in this other advice where she has another guy? Doesn't sit right with me because I have no gut feeling of her cheating or any suspicious behavior. Bar this | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 01:23 PM |
| 1 | LTR has gone to shit. What do I do?I honestly don't get that impression from her. No sudden new guys hanging around etc. No suspicious behavior thats set of any alarm bells. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 12:48 PM |
| 1 | LTR has gone to shit. What do I do?It was 2 hours way on the train and we would see each other 2 weekends a month plus bank holidays etc. I just went for a massive run, it seems to have helped clear my head a lot. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 12:27 PM |
| 1 | LTR has gone to shit. What do I do?Seems like a good plan of action. This has kind of made some things in my mind crystal clear and given me the impetus to go and sort my life out again. Would be good to go radio silent and just go smash life I guess. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 11:34 AM |
| 2 | LTR has gone to shit. What do I do?What do you mean? That she is going to use the next two weeks to fuck about? Yea I held good frame etc at the start of the relationship. alas I got dragged in and fell into the oneitis trap. Time to dust of and start the hard slog again then I guess haha. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 11:05 AM |
| 1 | LTR has gone to shit. What do I do?Should I tell her not to come and visit in 2 weeks then? When told her I need to know where your heads at because if your not in it I need to move on. When I said that she got a bit defensive about it, she knows I can easily sleep with other women. There is good soft dread there in that sense. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Just found out my LTRs number count... Wish I never asked.Site explained it was when she was much younger. She's only slept with me and one other in the last year. Me and her ex boyfriend that she caught cheating on her | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Just found out my LTRs number count... Wish I never asked.Is there things I would watch out for in regards to this? Don't want to get into something serious with major crazy haha | /r/askTRP | 01/06/16 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Just found out my LTRs number count... Wish I never asked.What is BPD and what signs should I look out for? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/16 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Just found out my LTRs number count... Wish I never asked.Thanks for the reply, some really sound points in here. I don't see evidence of her having settled for me, im a good looking guy and I keep in shape / work in a pretty intense sales based role. I don't get time to invest to much and sometimes I will put off seeing her for 3 weeks at a time because I have other things to do. She doesn't like it but she deals with it. I pulled some pretty insane moves on her at the xmas party in a club we went to afterwards. It wasn't an easy pull by any means she… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Just found out my LTRs number count... Wish I never asked.Social media side im pretty happy with, no slutty pics. She keeps her instagram on private and isn't attention whoring on any of the sites, I wouldn't date a girl that was. Mostly tagged in photos with her female friends and their boyfriends. Some bikini holiday pics from a few years ago but pretty tame tbh. No photos with her ex that I know of / can see but no idea what he looks like and its only ever been mentioned briefly before when we talked about past relationships. Not something she is al… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Just found out my LTRs number count... Wish I never asked.This is my worry, that something is broken inside. Now from what I have observed of her in the past she seems pretty stable. Same friends group since secondary school, and no chads hanging around the group. They are mostly in 4-5 year old relationships and the ones that arn't are recently single. Does the really strong family ties and great relationship with her father counteract some of the damage form the high n count? I have been seriously enjoying my time with her but this gave me a sharp ki… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Just found out my LTRs number count... Wish I never asked.I think thats the best course of action right now. Honestly I have been in LTR before and shes very chill compared to all of the rest which im enjoying. Thanks for the reminder of that utmost important RP tenant. She isn't yours its just your turn. So true its crazy haha. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Just found out my LTRs number count... Wish I never asked.I am very open sexual right from the start with any girl I meet. I think the key is to come of as nonjudgmental as possible. She offered it freely after a little teasing and just kept it light hearted. I feel you get an answer closer to the truth if they don't think you give a fuck, less crucial for them to hide it. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend all of a sudden doesn't want to swallow anymore.Pretty sure there was no side Chad, it was a problem right from the Start of the relationship haha. She did actually go to the doctors multiple times for it. And I know for a fact she has period problems. That wasn't faked. I dunno guess I'll never know and honestly I really shouldn't care haha | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend all of a sudden doesn't want to swallow anymore.Man wtf... I got out of a 5 year ltr like 7 months ago. This has blown my mind. I was very alpha at uni but when we moved in together, she never initiated sex etc. She had always been bothered about getting cum on the sheets etc ever since I met her. She was a bit ocd clean freak. Was this a beta tell or just part of her ocd type stuff? She had a period for a year straight once, something was seriously wrong down there she would cry in pain when we fucked.. was she just faking that? I could get … | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Will I come off as creepy if i message a girl on FB that I met at a wedding and we hit it off?I went with something along the lines you out, got an instant message back! Thanks for the input | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 11:17 PM |
| 1 | I need some advice guys!This is kind of what I'm thinking. I mean the amount is a significant proportion of my current daily wage, but I've saved loads of money in the last 5 months so it wont be a catastrophic loss. As you said it's the interaction I'm worried about. I've been steadily improving, made good progress in the gym, my freelance art work is finally taking off and my wardrobe, hair and skin is all in the best shape of my life. She still has some of my stuff at the flat which I told her to Chuck but for some … | /r/askTRP | 03/10/15 01:56 PM |
| 13 | Why the woman with a n=1 count may be most dangerous LTR of allI recently broke up with my ex, she's 22 had a 5 year relationship that started when she was 17... I ended it when I found her texting another guy from her work. Reading this gave me a little chuckle this morning! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 07:48 AM |
| 1 | TRUE STORY = GF on vacation has threesome with two guys as her drunk BF passes out on the same cruise (FR)Wait I really don't get all this advice about not taking your LTR to bars? If you need to lock her away why is she an LTR? I used to take my ex to bars all the time... I never worried once she would cheat (this was before taking the red pill). But I wouldn't let her go out of my sight with strangers... I would however get her to go get guys to give her cigarettes and drinks and come give them to me. It was hilarious to watch her play these guys then come running back with her loot. I mean this g… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 01:55 PM |
| 2 | GF of 2 years acting weird - goes drinking with colleagues I don't know. What to do?Your situation sounds similar to something I've recently been through! I would love you to learn from it, I fucked up big time haha. So I was with a girl for 5 years, I went to uni and we had a long distance relationship for a year before she moved to a uni near me. The distance, and mystery kept her very much interested in me. I was surrounded by attractive women etc so the dread was high. Things were great... I was naturally pretty alpha.. we had sex a lot ... Then we moved in together. That's… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/15 07:06 PM |
| 1 | My Interest Just Broke Up With Her Boyfriend, Partly Because She's Been Cheating With Me. How To Proceed?How long ago did she break up with him? Was it her decision to leave him for you or did he find out she cheated? You just have to be careful not to become the shoulder to cry on. Make her understand you don't need to be swamped with her bullshit and that you're just down for fun. But as everyone else has said watch out dealing with known cheaters. Cheaters going to cheat. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Should I snoop my GF's facebook?Op don't do it that way! If you reset it fb sends out an email with the time of the reset, the ip address and location of the reset and the device on which it was reset! If you do it be smart about it. If she is making you worry and feel suspicious maybe it's time to move on. Bide your time and observe suspicious behaviour and take action when it becomes necessary. Don't lose frame and demonstrate your insecurities. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/15 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend complains that I'm not romantic.Frequency is when ever the fuck you feel like it. You're the leader remember.. you call the shots. The key is to just have fun and if you're just doing these things to keep to some kind of frequency timetable it's going to be boring and predictable for both of you. Be spontaneous! The best romantic thing I ever did was convert my university halls bedroom into a giant tent... Inside the floor was covered in pillows. Snacks and a fuck load of booze. Got her piss drunk and fucked her brains out all… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriend complains that I'm not romantic.My ex started to complain of this just before I broke up with her. We was together 5 years and had recently moved in together. Money was tight so I dropped off taking her out places etc because I assumed paying the bills and having food to eat was important... Wrong haha. I don't think its really anything to do with romance its that they don't feel like you are being exciting. In my case this all started when she got a new job in a retail store and the girls there all had new bfs so they were ge… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 12:49 PM |
| 1 | What to reply to a playful "I hate you"I was wondering if you could elaborate on that a bit more? I think I have pretty good text game, I turn the conversation cheeky and sexual very quickly but I do insert the odd winky face... Now I'm questioning that haha | /r/askTRP | 04/06/15 12:51 PM |
| 1 | What are your minimizing STD risk tactics?Yea I had a scare once and now don't go in unless it's wrapped haha | /r/askTRP | 03/06/15 05:52 PM |
| 3 | What are your minimizing STD risk tactics?Is that true? I always shit myself when I go get tested, hiv scares the crap out of me. I used to be really stupid in university with protection. Some how never caught anything though! | /r/askTRP | 03/06/15 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend gave her number to another guy in front of mePhaha yes that's the word I meant to type! Thanks for catching that. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend gave her number to another guy in front of meMan imagine if the roles were reversed. If a girl asked for your number in front of your gf and you gave it to her... She would rip you a new one, make your life hell and probably leave you anyway. Why are you willing to take such disrespect from a girl. She emasculated you in front of a stranger, and all you want to do is figure out ways to forgive her. If she does this in front of you what does she get up to when a guy shows interest in her and she is out with her mates. I'm willing to bet she… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/15 08:02 PM |
| 1 | I find it hard to keep an erection using a condom...I'm pretty well endowed, I actually find them really hard to put on tbh! Maybe this could be my trouble | /r/askTRP | 19/05/15 08:18 PM |
| 1 | I find it hard to keep an erection using a condom...I'll check it out :) | /r/askTRP | 19/05/15 08:17 PM |
| 2 | I find it hard to keep an erection using a condom...Thanks I've only ever used durex. Maybe it's time to experiment haha | /r/askTRP | 19/05/15 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I find it hard to keep an erection using a condom...Thing is if I do that it's fine haha! Stays hard as a rock | /r/askTRP | 19/05/15 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl only wants to meet up as friends after she's been talking dirty with me and sending naked pics.Sounds good I think I'll take you up on your advice! Thank you | /r/askTRP | 04/05/15 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl only wants to meet up as friends after she's been talking dirty with me and sending naked pics.Exactly what I thought! She since text back apologising . I'm letting her stew. Only thing is I'm not sure how to handle texting her back. Do I just ignore it or do I comment on it and make fun of it? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/15 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Girl only wants to meet up as friends after she's been talking dirty with me and sending naked pics.I've been meeting girls in person. But I've only got out of a 5 year relationship 2 weeks ago. I've had a few chances to close but honestly I just haven't been interested. I got a text back off of her apologising haha I'll let her stew for a while | /r/askTRP | 04/05/15 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Girl only wants to meet up as friends after she's been talking dirty with me and sending naked pics.I didn't try to meet in the first few days just because I've been really busy. I have a few free nights next week so I tried to arrange for then! Think I'll do as you say and soft next | /r/askTRP | 04/05/15 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with ltr of 5 years. Going to the gym has helped me so much, but I need help in finding a good routineI'm in pretty good shape already just a little bit of a beer belly to lose haha | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with ltr of 5 years. Going to the gym has helped me so much, but I need help in finding a good routineThink that's exactly what I'm going to do! | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Broke up with ltr of 5 years. Going to the gym has helped me so much, but I need help in finding a good routineLooked up the strong lift 5x5 programme, looks like exactly what I needed. I don't have a gym buddy though is it safe to do on your own? Not sure if my gym has a power rack like he uses I'll have to check Friday | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 04:02 PM |
| 1 | A buddhist lecture that aligns with TRPI don't get it are you trolling about the whole Earth going round the sun thing? Because that really is very well proven at this point in time! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/15 08:48 PM |
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