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You can't deny that youd want to fuck her and maybe get to know her, you just have a better idea of how they operate and so you see yourself being played in the end even if you did get what you want. But with the way you talk it seems like you have zero self respect for yourself and has nothing to do with girls
/r/MGTOW208/03/21 11:58 PM
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#3 I feel like was me looking back on my earlier college days. After awhile I had to ask myself if I was actually interested in these girls or if I just pursued them for the validation and to make myself feel better. I also was definitely focused on the numbers a lot which didn't help my confidence, because numbers can always be higher
/r/seduction15/02/21 08:23 PM
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I think you're on the right track tho. It sounds like you have the confidence to go out and approach it's just logistics preventing you. Plus you're working on improving yourself and making money and learning, which is invaluable in life in general and will make you more attractive in the long run
/r/seduction15/02/21 08:14 PM
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Seems like you just have a lack of confidence, the best thing for you I think is just a mindset change. If you think you have nothing to offer, you're not gonna have the confidence to get women. If you meet women you might find that they'll be interested in something about you that you never even gave a second thought. Plus you saying that most people already found their passion kind of sounds like an excuse that now you shouldn't have to find yours. Age is just a number
/r/seduction15/02/21 08:11 PM
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#3 is really good but I didn't even realize this until just recently. I figured it was all about looks and what's conventionally attractive. Then I realized there's something out there for everybody and there's a whole host of things that people find attractive
/r/seduction15/02/21 08:06 PM
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Yeah one time a girl told me she doesn’t meet anyone she matched with on tinder
/r/seduction10/12/20 08:52 PM
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Do you have a lot of success on dating apps? I tried tinder in high school, got no success so it kinda turned me off of apps. I should’ve used it in college, but I also had the bars/parties and I go to a big school so I didn’t really see the need. Now I’m considering it again but I feel like girls will be more hesitant bc quarantine
/r/seduction09/12/20 09:41 PM
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For me I love the chase and just the process of approaching and talking to girls. Obviously the result is important, but it’s less important when you enjoy everything that comes before it as well. It kinda sounds like you just don’t enjoy the chase. For me if a girl rejects or ghosts me I just move on to the next one. If you approach a lot you’re gonna get rejected a lot. It’s just a numbers game
/r/seduction09/12/20 09:37 PM
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Being interesting can make you more attractive.
/r/seduction08/02/16 03:56 AM
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You can't know if they're clowns just by what they say.
/r/seduction21/01/16 06:03 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Those guys are too busy partying and banging girls to get involved in the seddit community
/r/seduction21/01/16 05:22 PM
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The "pointless bits of theory" are actually really beneficial. If you've already gained confidence and approach regularly, you can use these techniques to improve your game
/r/seduction21/01/16 05:17 PM
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I don't wanna be a fuckin hustler thug stud. I want to be someone who actually does something in his life. I want to be more than a shit stain. Please get off my post
/r/seduction20/01/16 04:40 AM
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The "sore tomorrow" thing is basically teasing. I've never heard of saying anything in a sexual tone to be flirting, if you're using this I can understand why it's hard for you to get laid. I don't think that staring at her for a long time will get you anywhere, girls start to get creeped out by that after a few hours. Finally, obviously you should act interested in her responses because you should actually BE interested in her responses. Oh, and uh, I can tell by your techniques that you obviou…
/r/seduction20/01/16 03:24 AM
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How can you have sexual energy without having sex?
/r/seduction19/01/16 04:11 PM
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There is no such thing as a flirting vibe. That guy is a retard
/r/seduction19/01/16 02:27 AM
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What you're talking about is just having a conversation. You can have a conversation and be flirting, as long as you incorporate these 2 things into the conversation. They are the basics of flirting
/r/seduction19/01/16 01:52 AM
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That's probably fine. Don't overthink it honestly. Guys on here ask the most insignificant questions that they really should know themselves. Just like what you'd aid here. If you think it works do it. Guys ask so many questions on here that they really should know themselves. Something I came up with is complimenting+teasing=flirting. Usually I like to tease more because I'm more of a humorous kind of guy. If she responds well to this you're doing good
/r/seduction18/01/16 07:37 PM
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I've always found this hard because i want girls so bad. I don't come across as needy around them, I'm actually very quiet and reserved, but I just want to have sex so bad. I have plenty of other interests, but girls are my main interest. I'm not in college yet, and I haven't had sex yet, and I feel like I won't be happy if I don't have an active sex life, even if I have success in other areas later in life. I don't know if I should change this, because girls really are my main interest in life.…
/r/seduction18/01/16 05:11 PM
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Why do you think he had more success in Washington? Is it because he was in the south before and the culture is more racist there?
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:58 PM
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You need help if you don't know what to do at this point
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:54 PM
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"You sure do." Something like that. Tease her
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:51 PM
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Do what you want to do. You don't have to think about the results of your actions and how they will affect her. If you want to do it, then do it. If you wanna hang with her at the party, do it. If you wanna talk to your other friends more do that instead. Just don't worry about what you do as long as it's what you want to do. You said you wanted to ask her out afterwards, so do that
/r/seduction15/01/16 08:24 PM
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If they flirt with everybody then it's hard to tell if she's actually into you
/r/seduction15/01/16 05:01 AM
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Complimenting+teasing=flirting
/r/seduction15/01/16 04:52 AM
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I'd work on yourself rn. Try to get out of your parents house. However, while doing this, practice pickup also. Just start talking to people. You're a bartender, you come into contact with girls nonstop, start by talking to them
/r/seduction15/01/16 04:51 AM
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You're doing the same thing and expecting different results
/r/seduction15/01/16 04:28 AM
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Once she didn't respond just don't answer. Girls are like that. She likes you less now than when she had just decided to not see you because you sent three more messages
/r/seduction12/01/16 10:01 PM
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Dance is tonight lol
/r/seduction09/01/16 05:38 PM
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What college do you go to?
/r/seduction09/01/16 05:13 AM
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You said talk to her like you would any other dude. I just thought of this a few days ago. Talk to girls just like you would talk to guys. The thing is though, does this really help you build attraction? Sure you can have a great conversation, but will you really get what you want if you treat her just like a guy?
/r/seduction07/01/16 11:14 PM
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Thanks. Have you read my other stuff?
/r/seduction07/01/16 01:14 PM
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May not lead to a date, but it is llikely that a girl will give her number or something that leads to more communication if she's interested
/r/seduction07/01/16 02:24 AM
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Thanks. I kinda just remembered that some of the girls there get fucked up before the dance, and they tend to only stick with the guys there that are fucked up too, because they probably got drunk and shit together. Like the drunk girls will literally be riding the same guy the entire night. Or they'll stick to only two or three guys on rotation, all of which are also fucked up. How do I break this seemingly impenetrable circle? (Btw I've never been fucked up and probably won't be this weekend)
/r/seduction05/01/16 05:00 AM
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