Why do I feel like this?

Impossible-asset · 2021-03-08T15:44:16+00:00

To me it sounds like you have low self esteem and sense of self worth.

Instead of just a polite "no thank you" you would be all angry aboit rejecting an advance? Because you feel you are low value enough that someone expressing interest in you must have something wrong with them? You have psychological issues and should seek mental health treatment.

Solo_and_Simple · 2021-03-08T12:58:58+00:00

I'll make a few guesses. I could be off, of course. These are just guesses, based only on what you wrote.

One element might be an overly harsh view of women and their motives. You might be assuming she's out to get you somehow.

Or, you could be ventilating some of the anger and hostility that comes from either that harsh view of women or displaced anger/frustration from other sources.

You might have some self-esteem issues. Your imagined response, "Of all the guys you can choose from, you pick me? Don't you have any self-respect" suggests that you can't believe a woman might be interested in you, unless she were crazy. I assume you have reasons for thinking that way, but it sounds like you don't think well of yourself. It's a common thing for people who think poorly of themselves to angrily push others away and keep them at a distance, because if they got close, they'd get to know you and see what a loser (or whatever you think of yourself) you are.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-03-08T11:58:35+00:00

I have shut down empathy for them, so i wouldnt feel anything like that either, the door is closed i dont feel anything for them good or bad or anything, they are and invisible even if what you say would happened.
Im unsensitized for them i only empathize with people i love like close family and friends.
So i think the reason you feel this is because you havent fully closed the empathy door yet.

BubblyBath7 · 2021-03-08T13:20:05+00:00

I have no idea what you're feeling.

Most healthy people do want sex but for me the disgust outweighed the need, not sure on what to post here anymore it's interesting to watch the group unfold into woman hating or hobbies or enlightenment (personally i think it is pretty civil discussion considering the things that could be said and done).

CuriousIncel2 · 2021-03-08T15:53:27+00:00

Looks like you hate yourself.

It's okay. First step is to face the harsh truth, especially about yourself.

Next step is to learn to love yourself.

gfyacab · 2021-03-08T16:10:10+00:00

Why do YOU think you feel that way?

BobbingForBunions · 2021-03-08T18:08:47+00:00

It sounds like you're giving women a lot of free real estate in your head.

2021-03-08T12:25:05+00:00

Strange! Early_Spirit1189, how do you feel you'd react if a guy approached you to become a friend? Would you react the same way?

Anyway: If I were you, I'd flirt with the girls. Flirting is fun, especially if you have nothing riding on it. You don't want a girlfriend, you don't care about rejection. You're bullet-proof, like a superhero! If I were you, I'd enjoy myself.

I reject her by saying something along the lines of "What the fuck?! Are you out of your flippin' mind???"

Flirt with the most beautiful girls you know, and if they reject you, say "I'm awesome! You missed out!" I mean, why not? Have some fun!

potatorockstar · 2021-03-08T17:45:52+00:00

well sounds more like a self depricating fantasy than anything. the opposite of love aint self loathing neuroticism. it is apathy. indifference. as if their existence became totally invisible to you. a 10/10 can lie naked on you and you are unphased like an inanimate rock. thats the opposite of simping.

cleats4u · 2021-03-08T20:49:23+00:00

I always wear my old wedding band to avoid these type of scenarios.Lol.

Swade22 · 2021-03-08T23:58:47+00:00

You can't deny that youd want to fuck her and maybe get to know her, you just have a better idea of how they operate and so you see yourself being played in the end even if you did get what you want. But with the way you talk it seems like you have zero self respect for yourself and has nothing to do with girls

SilenceIsGolden321 · 2021-03-09T05:34:44+00:00

Find out why you feel unworthy. Look as far back as you can remember.

Title	Why do I feel like this?
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Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	March 8, 2021 11:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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