High school vs college parties

SublimeScholar · 2016-01-09T00:09:03+00:00

What you imagined only happens in movies. It's a fantasy created by Hollywood. Though if you go to a college/university that has a reputation for partying, it will be like a toned down version of what you have described. My school is pretty small and our parties are pretty laidback, but my friends and I have visited a party school and had some fun there. Don't expect getting laid to be easy, even at a party school, unless you're a confident fellow who has game. Of course, you can become a fellow like that if you work on it.

Cynical_Doggie · 2016-01-09T00:01:58+00:00

Obviously, college parties are going to be better, but seriously, if you want your mid 20s to light up, focus on school.

This is coming from someone who had a 0.62 GPA the first semester from partying too hard.

The main goal of college is to get that degree and connections for a job that pays well.

Partying/game/social life is secondary.

SiberianBear97 · 2016-01-09T00:20:02+00:00

Wow, this is very relatable. Its my first year of college currently and the differences between high school and college are drastic! In high school I was pretty much 90% focused on my education, outside of school sports (hockey), and my hobbies. I literally didn't even think about girls all the way from freshman to senior year. I went to a high school of 1500 students and most of them "came from money" and the people there were shitty so it was pretty hard to make friends. Granted, apparently a lot of girls had a thing for me but i never made a move to talk to them (apparently im really good looking). So I never went to any parties, didnt drink or smoke, didnt have a girlfriend (I lost my virginity the day after graduation).

I started college in late September, I joined the Hockey Team of my university and believe me...girls like athletes, especially hockey players for some reason lol.

So I went to some parties and it is insane man, if the party is less than 50 people, then you should probably go with friends or know someone there. At these parties you can get free alcohol and drugs usually.

A party with 50+ people, you usually bring your own bottle of alcohol and you should be good but its still full of fun (beer pong, music, HOT GIRLS).

You probably have heard that it is easy to get laid in college...you're going to an environment of thousands of 18-21 year olds who have full freedom to do what they want, of course everyone wants to have sex! But it is easier to hook up with or in general meet girls at parties because everyone who goes to parties has the same agenda for the night. 1.) Go to a party! 2.) Meet new people! 3.) Get drunk! 4.) Take home/fuck a cute guy/girl.

Believe me man, you have so much time to prepare for an amazing time in your life; literally four years of happiness!

So my advice, focus on grades and school for now so you have a bigger choice of where you want to go for college; that is where the fun is going to be.

SIDE NOTE: Since im on the hockey team, we have track jackets so a buddy of mine from the team and I go to parties sometimes and groups of hot girls literally grab me and pull me towards them to ask if im on the team. It's literally like a dream hahaha.

enkae7317 · 2016-01-09T04:22:30+00:00

Gone to HS and college parties. College parties are definitely 100x better in almost every way. More mature people, and girls are more comfortable with their sexuality.

This doesn't mean you'll pull every girl there. You still got to play the game correctly...or to an extent.

TheyCallMeNatty · 2016-01-09T05:09:37+00:00

My background: Junior(in a fraternity) at on of the biggest party schools in the country. Been learning game since I was a freshmen in college. Went from cold approaches at sketchy parties, to online, to daygame, to now social circle game in a pretty fast time.

High school sucks, but you can lean a lot of lessons about how to make college so much better. First, look around. Parties in high schools focus on certain groups of kids getting blasted and nothing happening. They are ran by social circles, and you can learn a lot from that a lone. Being part of a social circle comes with it's advantages like parties and easy women that will sleep with you. this rule applies in high school and in college. As far as parties go, it really depends on where you go. If you go to a big college parties will be happening, but you might not be welcomed unless you know the people in throwing the party. If you come to a fraternity party, unless you have friends in that organization, you will be asked to leave.

As far as pulling girls at college, it is so much easier than high school. Logistically it just works better. College girls are more willing to engage in sex due to lack of judgement in a bigger area. Also, no parents interrupting. Just focus on doing well in school, getting into a good college, then worry about the parties. You will have more luck with girls at parties if you have social proof.

TL;DR- High school sucks. Learn social circle game for college.

Title	High school vs college parties
Author	Swade22
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Date	January 8, 2016 9:58 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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