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If you don't have them, shouldn't you be interested in self improvement? Trying to be a m ore attractive person? Improving your own life will do more for your dating than anything else.
/r/seduction16/09/16 05:35 AM
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I never said that. I asked how do you create attraction without typical measures of value. But you deflected my question and called it ridiculous. Value is way more than social status. It includes physical attraction, mental health, intellectual abilities, social skills/status.
/r/seduction16/09/16 05:31 AM
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How do you create attraction without value?
/r/seduction16/09/16 05:14 AM
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I believe there is difference between doing and having. Game is something you can do when you are first learning, but after a while it should become second nature. When you incorporate into your life everyday, you don't think about it as something you are doing. It is more like something you naturally have. Does that make sense?
/r/seduction15/09/16 05:44 AM
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I guess, but I would never call it that. I could write a whole post on "being Alpha". I'm talking about lifestyle design and making game a part of your life in a natural way.
/r/seduction15/09/16 05:24 AM
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I don't think game is about those things. I believe game is about self-improvement. I don't think you have to have any of those to be good with women, although they do help. A naturally attractive lifestyle is one that is fun, not one of wealth. out of curiosity, what is game about to you?
/r/seduction15/09/16 05:20 AM
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I think we are hung up on semantics here. I think about game as a language. I even call guys who are good at this stuff "socially fluent" because of their social skills. You can go up to a girl with the intention of getting her number, going on a date, etc. I think of this as active game. This is you going out of your way top attract someone. (Which all guys should do). But you don't have to, just like you don't have to speak Spanish all the time. Passive game is simply your people skills that a…
/r/seduction15/09/16 03:17 AM
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This guy has balls.
/r/seduction15/09/16 12:34 AM
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STOP OVERTHINKING IT!!!! You remind me of me 2 years ago, and I hate it. The first step of being good with girls is being good with people. Join a club, organization, fraternity, or any group. This shows girls you are active and have a social life. Also, this will introduce you to more girls and make amazing new friends. in short, build or find a social circle in which you can thrive. Be direct with them. "lets hangout" turns to "lets go on a date". This is more honest and will break you out of …
/r/seduction12/09/16 05:44 PM
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A man-to-women relationship is one of sexual intent.
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:20 PM
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It really depends on your current relationship with her. If you usually go a few days without talking, go a week or two. Don't over think it. Just know that you need to start treating your relationship as man to women, not friend to friend.
/r/seduction09/09/16 02:50 AM
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Exactly! If she says that the 2nd movie was better than the first, create polarity by saying "that's a bad opinion" but in a joking way. Never attack her beliefs but never be afraid to challenge her. Meet up = you two being in the same room. So, if you want to ask her on a date, more power to you. I personally think that it is better to downplay the reason you are hanging out.
/r/seduction08/09/16 10:46 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1yyZNZKp2DY
/r/seduction08/09/16 06:33 PM
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When you meet up with her, you should constantly break rapport with her by challenging her. Don't debate with her, but create polarity with her. and as far as texting, you shouldn't use that text word-for-word. That is something I have said, but if it doesn't fit your personality don't use it. The whole point of dating is to show her your authentic self.
/r/seduction08/09/16 06:27 PM
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The whole point of texting is to get her to meet up. But I like what you are doing with texting. I often text people when I see something that reminds me of someone. That being said, I never have long text messaging conversations, they are a waste of time. I would start by keeping distance, from her. After about a week of radio silence (not talking to her), I would send a text like "Hey, sorry for MIA these last few days. Lets go on a romantic date! or just grab coffee." When you meet up with he…
/r/seduction07/09/16 05:50 PM
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Flirting- behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions. Flirting comes down to two things: self-amusement and creating polarity. Self-amusement is basically only doing and saying things that make you have a good time. When you approach a girl, say things that are genuine but also make you feel good. If this means saying that she looks like a sexy rabbit, by all means say it. The goal is to show her that you are not outcome depe…
/r/seduction07/09/16 05:35 PM
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I did two things. I forced myself to be social at all times. If I had nothing else to do, I would go on walks downtown. I took the bus. I never had headphones on me for my first month. I forced myself to interact with those around me. This is something that will make you comfortable in social situation. I decided that I am good enough. I realized how much value I had to offer the world. I do a lot of day game. So before I ever do a cold approach, I say to myself "I am good enough" with a smirk o…
/r/seduction07/09/16 03:47 AM
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Ask her to hang out, show her that you are fucking awesome human. Make your intention very clear. Always assume attraction. I much rather assume attraction and be wrong than assume rejection and be right.
/r/seduction07/09/16 03:34 AM
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The best way to develop social skills is by being social. I'm assuming your in high school, so this is just takes doing a few things. Start by doing things that you're interested in. I go to obscure book and vinyl shops. But when I was younger, I still went to sports events. I joined different clubs, and even started my own. Doing all of that will force you to be more social. Secondly, read books on body language. This will give you an upper hand understanding things. Finally, start inviting the…
/r/seduction05/09/16 03:14 AM
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It's probably not congruent to who you really are. She goes to your school, so she most likely has an idea of who you are. You randomly commenting on her photo is going to throw her off not in a good way. Also, think about what your social media says about you. If your social media isn't a highlight-reel of you at your best, then she might not be attracted. Ultimately, it is possible to attract women via social media. That being said, it isn't something many guys can do well. Work on social skil…
/r/seduction10/08/16 10:02 PM
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I don't know about that. I have a friend that pretty much gets laid solely of tinder and OkCupid. Online game for sure works for people, but I feel like you will end up with higher quality women by meeting them in either social circle or by doing cold approach.
/r/seduction26/06/16 05:06 AM
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I used to do them all the time when I was around 18. After building a great social circle, I just never had to. I went to Chicago and had a blast doing day game again.
/r/seduction26/06/16 01:23 AM
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Very true, it gives you the opportunity to meet girls while you are pooping. When I did use it, I went on a few dates with attractive girls. I don't find it, I just find it dull. Does that make sense? The past few years, I've found a lot of success in social circle game. But I went day gaming with a friend and realized how much fun cold approach is.
/r/seduction26/06/16 12:32 AM
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Two big things. When you are talking to a girl and are interested in closing, don't get distracted by your surroundings. Imagine you and her are in a bubble and the outside world doesn't matter. Hold deep eye contact and be an active listener to her. I would also suggest moving the conversation to a less noisy area. Simply say that you can't really hear her and say "let's go over here" Don't ask, just do it. grab her hand and lead her outside. When you ask for the number, put no pressure on it. …
/r/seduction23/06/16 08:00 PM
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As a 21 year old senior in college, I find this amazing. That being said, I'm also nervous about my future after next May. I feel like I'm doing the right things, but gosh, there is a lot of things to do.
/r/seduction22/06/16 07:33 PM
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DisBetterBeGud, I have done my fair share of cold approaches. That being said, I don't do them that often anymore, due to the fact that I have a social circle. I also really enjoy Kant's philosophy. I believe that understanding and using the categorical imperative can give you a better life. Nothing wrong with critically thinking about life and different aspects. With love, OP
/r/seduction22/06/16 03:04 PM
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When you listen and read his manifesto he describes how he is entitled to love and sex due to his "high value". He said that he deserved sex because he was rich, handsome, and was the perfect gentleman. I agree that he was a person that suffered from conditions that gave him a warped view of the world he inhabited. That being said, his mindset about dating and sex is shared by a large part of the male population.
/r/seduction22/06/16 02:56 PM
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My post essentially is saying be a good person that associates with good people! I'm glad you can relate. I am a firm believer that being positive is super important in having a successful social life.
/r/seduction21/06/16 08:06 PM
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I have another post on how important it is to be attractive. Not just physically, but intellectually and emotionally. I believe so many guys buy into the wrong ideologies that actually negate them from meeting women. My goal is to try to show guys that attraction is natural and that sex isn't just a prize for saying the right things. I'm really happy you do appreciate and enjoy my post. I've had some mixed reviews haha
/r/seduction21/06/16 08:01 PM
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Exactly! I'm not saying not to do nice things, I'm suggesting that you do nice things for the sake of doing it, no matter the consequence. I know using Kantian Ethics is a little abstract for this particular sub reddit, but it is the best way I know how to describe the problem with "Nice Guys"
/r/seduction21/06/16 07:38 PM
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Listen to Nick Sparks fantastic talk with 21 convention "How to hold a conversation like a man" or read his book "Come As You Are". Nick Sparks is fantastic at being present and holding space
/r/seduction21/06/16 05:06 PM
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I'm sorry if you misunderstood my post! I am not suggesting that people shouldn't be nice, I'm suggesting that they shouldn't be nice with ulterior motives. The "nice guy" I am referring to has a sense of entitlement, much like the man that killed 6 people in Isla Vista.
/r/seduction21/06/16 04:21 PM
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So, I have a few different thoughts on this. I think it is awesome you are satisfied with yourself!I believe that the two ideas are not mutually exclusive. I love myself, and I love self improvement. I don't change who I am, just trying to reach the greatest version of myself. Our lifestyle is much like a car, you may be happy with it but it could always use a tune up. I'm a 21 year old kid, so I am constantly improving myself. I hope these improvements are needed less frequently the older I get…
/r/seduction18/06/16 03:51 AM
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Letters of a Stoic and the classic Meditations by Marcus Aurelius are the direct sources to the material. I also suggest both The Obstacle is the Way and Ego is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday. As far as how to meditate, just practice everyday for 5-10 minutes. Hope this helps!
/r/seduction17/06/16 10:33 PM
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Much like you, I also embraced the philosophy of stoicism. Stoicism, along with three years studying interpersonal communication, helped me come to these conclusions about dating.
/r/seduction17/06/16 06:44 PM
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I'm glad you enjoyed the reference!
/r/seduction17/06/16 06:41 PM
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Ask her questions! When she responds, let her have the spotlight. Become an active listener, hanging off every word she says. Don't try to come up with something brilliant to respond with, just be present in the conversation. Respond accordingly, relate the story to yourself, or respond with a follow up question. Also, don't be afraid of silence. The lull in the conversation causes tension, don't be afraid to let this build. Let her invest in the conversation by coming up with something to say. …
/r/seduction16/06/16 04:58 AM
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Be active in the things you like and are interested in. If you do this, you will find people you have things in common with. Taking classes on these things are a great way to meet people and you learn something new.
/r/seduction15/06/16 10:40 PM
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First off, congrats. Committed relationships usually scare young people off. Escalation anxiety is usually a problem for guys when they are trying to pick up girls, but you seem to have it even while you are in a relationship. This isn't an uncommon thing for your first relationship. The key thing is to remember, she wants you to do those things. You should have zero fear of rejection, because she has already accepted you as a person and physical intimacy is a way to express emotional intimacy. …
/r/seduction11/01/16 06:28 AM
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University of Wisconsin
/r/seduction09/01/16 05:29 AM
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My background: Junior(in a fraternity) at on of the biggest party schools in the country. Been learning game since I was a freshmen in college. Went from cold approaches at sketchy parties, to online, to daygame, to now social circle game in a pretty fast time. High school sucks, but you can lean a lot of lessons about how to make college so much better. First, look around. Parties in high schools focus on certain groups of kids getting blasted and nothing happening. They are ran by social circl…
/r/seduction09/01/16 05:09 AM
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