Swankymcdoogle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Are insecure women better than secure women? In my experience, I much prefer the company of confident women. Not arrogant, not egotistical, not overbearing, just confident in themselves. She could be high energy, or really cool headed. It doesn't matter. If she's confident, it feels right. It's cool to be around and there's less neuroticism on her part. Insecure women, I find, end up going the indirect route in getting what they want and that causes a whole bunch of shit, which I hate. Of course this is not always true, but a generalizatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/15 08:06 AM
2	Being told you're too confident? yeah, I'd say that's a smart way to view things.	/r/seduction	30/09/15 09:58 PM
1	Being told you're too confident? I used to be into TRP. The thing is, some of what they talk about is true IMO, but having female friends you're truly close to and connect with shows you that what they write is only true for a certain type of person. TRP also tries to clump all women into this one static identity of "secret slut that only cares about fucking and resources," when in reality humans are much more intricate and human than that.	/r/seduction	30/09/15 09:44 PM
1	Do girls like the 'kiss on the back of her hand'? Nah most think it's corny but you can do it as a joke	/r/seduction	30/09/15 05:21 AM
1	Book on having better conversations? "The charisma myth" and "how to win friends and influence people" the latter has been my staple for years!	/r/seduction	30/09/15 05:21 AM
1	How to re-initiate convos on Tinder "Oh hey remember when we used to ___?" Usually works pretty well after not texting for a while	/r/seduction	30/09/15 05:20 AM
4	Being told you're too confident? Yeah probably. Maybe she's looking for vulnerability as well...	/r/seduction	30/09/15 05:19 AM
1	Men who have been able to drastically enhance the caliber of women they get with - how did you do it? it usually happens when something (usually a girl) fucks with me emotionally. For some reason I find myself in "true feeing" mode where I don't supress my emotions or self-expression to maintain some balance or smoothness to my life. It's pretty much NGAF in motion. For reference I'm almost 25, been with like 7 girls but the last two were legit models. Had just got out of an 8 month relationship before meeting the most recent one.	/r/seduction	30/09/15 05:14 AM
1	I want a life that consists of partying , drinking, having alpha males as friends, and sex with hot girls but I am afraid I am too old to ever be in a fraternity, how do I make this a reality now? You gotta find some male sphere to join like a lot of what the other commenters are saying.i just graduated and there were a few guys in Greek life at my school who were in their late twenties. As long as you're cool with them and down for the movement, game on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 09:29 AM
1	Guy catches GF cheating and takes back all the stuff he bought her. Girl thinks she can stop him getting away by parking him in. trick ass bitch	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/09/15 02:36 AM
2	Going out to clubs solo? Be really friendly, fun and charismatic and you shouldn't have a problem. This type of strategy works when you're in the smoking area. Inside the club, I've never had a problem just going up to girls for dancing and flirting. They're receptive if you are bold enough.	/r/seduction	20/09/15 09:55 AM
1	she cheats - response? Uh LMAO. You go about your life like she never existed. You can never let someon disrespect you like that, even though it's usually not about you.	/r/seduction	20/09/15 05:48 AM
1	Am I weird? When I haven't been with a girl for a while, I usually get pretty comfortable being single, so no, I don't think that weird at all. What do you mean by comfortable? You have to take the risk so you know what it's like. If you genuinely like her as a friend, then be her friend. If you want something more then you'll have to be honest with yourself and her about it.	/r/seduction	20/09/15 05:46 AM
1	What do you guys think about NoFap? After a while, I started seeing resemblances of an ex gf (a 7) in an overweight 3. All in all, you feel more confident and solid. Little things I'd react to or feel weird about after working my personal shake weight don't even phase me like a week into it.	/r/seduction	13/09/15 07:49 AM
2	I attended a 10 hour pick up seminar! This sounds fantastic. What city was this in and where does he tour?	/r/seduction	04/09/15 05:13 AM
1	I just can't make myself do it. The first time you do it right, you'll realize that your fears were only in your head.	/r/seduction	24/08/15 08:49 PM
1	How did Pick Up/ Self improvement enrich your life? Bravo indeed!	/r/seduction	01/08/15 11:41 AM
2	I have no friends I've relied on cigarettes for years now. Shit works, but there are certain types who do and don't smoke. Try asking yourself what kind of person you want to surround yourself with, and go to where they'd be. (who, what, where, when, why, how) It's easy for someone who's confident in something to just say, 'yeah just do this' like it's incredibly simple. And it is once you're already there. Really, one way I've found works for me is to do nice things for people and bring the good mood. Lend a cig…	/r/seduction	31/07/15 09:51 AM
1	Escorts vs. Seduction whatever dude. You have no place on reddit then.	/r/seduction	31/07/15 09:42 AM
1	Escorts vs. Seduction It isn't even clear why you posted this garbage post. I hope for your own sake that you're just a troll. Otherwise, I'm just gonna have to tell you that you're scared and you should just admit it to yourself. I'm done helping you.	/r/seduction	30/07/15 08:08 PM
1	Escorts vs. Seduction Dog, I take girls home in 20 minutes being myself. I don't have to buy her anything.	/r/seduction	30/07/15 08:02 PM
1	Women attracted to violence? Thank ye kindly	/r/seduction	30/07/15 08:18 AM
1	Escorts vs. Seduction Lol dude this isn't even about morals. It's just sad to see another human being with such a cynical, self-defeatist and victimized outlook on the whole deal who goes so far as to convince him self that paying for fake sex is somehow better than real sex, which could easily lead to a real relationship. But if that's what your gonna do, I'm not stopping you. And hoes gon be hoes, until she ain't yo hoe no moe ;,,(	/r/seduction	30/07/15 08:15 AM
1	Escorts vs. Seduction How you take rejection is entirely up to you, man. It's not like I never strike out. If some chick tells me to fuck off, then that's just what happens. I continue to enjoy my night regardless. For me, prostitution is the easy way out of developing yourself. They're nice to you because you're paying them. They're nice to your money.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 11:54 PM
1	How did Pick Up/ Self improvement enrich your life? Congratulations! How is it working as a pickup instructor? That's a total pipe dream of mine!	/r/seduction	28/07/15 11:40 AM
1	How did Pick Up/ Self improvement enrich your life? A reason to go out on weeknights. 2 girl friends, 1 fuckbuddy, 2 models in 3 years. =]]] And the realization that socializing and communication is really an art form, and it's beautiful because the masterpiece is your connection with another person. BOOOM lol	/r/seduction	28/07/15 11:39 AM
1	How do I create spark and get numbers or f-close in in bar or club ? First of all, congrats to you for going lone wolf status. Almost none of my friends ever want to do that. I find it liberating and just better. Be original. I've fallen into the trap of using common lingo and slang to fit in. You'll blend in for sure by doing this, but you want to be all you. I'm trying to make it a point to never say anything banal, and to always act from within. Also, fuck labels. There is no script. If you're an actor and she's an actress on stage, then this is an improve sho…	/r/seduction	28/07/15 11:33 AM
1	Thirty Three Man without much experience You seem like a goodhearted person, so that is not just a start but great news for the next woman you meet. I can tell you only what's worked for me in the past and I guess you can call it the watch, learn and practice approach: Watch seduction guru videos online. You really seem like someone who'd respond well to Richard Laruina or one of the more gentlemanly pick up artists, which is fine. I'd say also watch videos of comedians you find funny. Then, go out and practice. Go to bars and start sm…	/r/seduction	28/07/15 11:20 AM
1	Responding to "Woah you're tall" "I don't know if you can see it, but you're making be blush" "Who said that? Did an ant say that?"	/r/seduction	28/07/15 11:11 AM
1	Don't be afraid to approach hotter women Really attractive women (and highly sexual ones) I find are just more comfortable and confident in themselves. They just understand themselves and their sexuality so much better. They're much easier to talk to than the shy types. True story: I had just broken up with super virgin girlfriend after 8 months of a really sweet but kinda mediocre relationship. We messed around but never got to it. We talked sex but sometimes she'd be a total wiener about it, so I just let it go because it was my last…	/r/seduction	28/07/15 11:01 AM
1	Club game; does it exist? Dance with her. Compliment her and her friends on their dancing or something silly they're wearing. Talk to her. Tell her a little about yourself. Make sure you're feeling nice and "light" before this. Get her number. Show her you wrote her name in your phone as "Stacy, the sexy nerd" or "Roadtrippin Elena" if she told you about how she likes science fiction or just came back from a road trip or something. Then, lock eyes and grind away. Maybe give her some space with her own friends for a while…	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:50 AM
1	Can you morally justify juggling women? Be straight up about how far and fast you're willing to go.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:45 AM
1	How do you cope with hurting girls emotionally? Ok, I've hurt a couple women in the past. In my defense, it was always over a textual misunderstanding, but the memories linger. If she's crying, apologize and let her cry it out. Crying's healthy and she'll get over it faster than if she doesn't. Sometimes cat gifs help. If you piss her off...this really depends on if you're in the right. If you believe you're right, don't back down because she isn't pleased with everything you say and do. If you did something stupid, think or talk it out.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:44 AM
1	How do I get laid Dude, I can't say I was never in your shoes, so I won't judge you. What I will say is that I strongly suggest you become like a quality human being before you try to bang all the bitches in the world. Trust me on this, you will save yourself a lot of heartache.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:39 AM
1	College. This^ If I could, I would've done more of this in college. I might add that if you're the type of guy who really like to have one or two close knit groups of friends, play the rogue. Seriously. Like, find a hangout spot where a bunch of kids convene, keep some cool relations but don't get too close to anyone you don't plan on keeping in touch with. Then, just do what you want. Play guitar for a group you don't know, give advice to random kids with problems, say yes to drinking with that kid who …	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:35 AM
1	Cringing because of a girl. Honestly, this sounds like empathy my man.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:28 AM
1	I am most loser guy on the planet Oh man, oh man, oh man. You gotta love yourself. What do you do these days? Man, I have problems too but so does everyone! PM me? I want to help you out	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:27 AM
2	Kinda Want A MILF Go to a bar on like a Tuesday night. If she's on the dance floor, have a nice chat then dance with her. Make her feel young again.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:25 AM
2	Bad wingman or no wingman? solo, dude. fuck wingmen.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:23 AM
1	Beard or no beard - Opinion and some advice needed. beard is always the answer	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:22 AM
1	Women attracted to violence? This one time a girl I was into was talking to a friend of mine. Then I arm barred a guy on the street in front of them. when she got into my car she was mine.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:22 AM
1	Wow...talking to women can be boring...how do I lively it up?? say whatever you find funny or amusing man, haha.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:20 AM
1	To all you virgins out there.. Yeah I lost it in my early twenties to a girl I didn't really care for at all. The whole drunk hookup thing. I totally regret it so to the virgin guys out there, it's not a race. It's your life. Make it count ;]	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:19 AM
1	Are women attracted to neon beer signs? Can confirm. I am a neon beer sign. But really haha that's cool as fuck. I'm stealing this idea.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:17 AM
1	Im struggling with developing kino and escalting with kino. Any tips or strategies you use to quickly build physical escaltion Depends on where you are. In the club, touching is expected, so if you're having a good time and making a good connection, nicely touch her upper arms, do the hand clasp thing with fingers interlocked, then you can lightly touch her lower back. Make sure the connection's nice. If she doesn't like it, you'll know. If you did it right, you'll probably be dancing with her before you know it. If you're outside during the day at like a park or something, comment on her hair or necklace. Be like, "can…	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:14 AM
1	SHOULD I LET HER KNOW ABOUT OTHER GIRLS? Inexperienced girls react to it I think, because they get jealous. Mature women probably see you as a player, which isn't so good at that stage in life. If you're deliberately showing her other girls, then that's kind of a dick move and she'll smell the drama a mile away. Best just be straight up about it.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:05 AM
1	Was he running game on me? He's probably at a good point in his life now. When I "game" I'm usually over the top. Trying. Wanting. When I'm not thinking about any end goal, I guess I'm fairly calm about it. He's probably had a lot of experience.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 10:02 AM
1	I need to up my opener game. Where do you guys find inspiration? Think of something that made you laugh in the past. Or start out with a complement like "hey, you seem like a really creative person..." etc etc	/r/seduction	28/07/15 09:59 AM
1	People Who overcame low self-esteem Sounds juvenile, but do you know how many badasses are bald? Women probably wake up with a bald head fetish after a night with Jason Statham or Bruce Willis. And the NBA? Forget about it. Point is, they don't let their baldness define them, they let their greatness define them.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 09:57 AM
2	I'm a really nice, quieter, calm guy. It seems bad for game, how can I change this? I had always thought relationships were something so intricate that you had to think through. They're not. You just feel it. You know it's right on a gut level. You just gotta give yourself permission to live. When you're having FUN, there is no room for ego. What really helps is the kind of friends you have, the kind of life you live, and your mindset. Do you want to be like the friends you have? Do you really like them? How about your life, do you love your life? And your mindset, I'd say this…	/r/seduction	28/07/15 09:48 AM
1	Escorts vs. Seduction Mannnnnnn if you have to pay for it, does it really count? What does it matter if you get hurt? Shit, dude. Life hurts. But it can be great if you get past your own personal bullshit, realize that no one short of a serial murderaper can really hurt you that bad, and at the end of the day all you have if yourself, your pride, to look back on and judge. If you're paying for sex your whole life, did you really even give yourself a chance? I'm telling you this because if I ever say myself go down th…	/r/seduction	28/07/15 09:31 AM
2	Going on my first date ever, how to keep it from being a boring quiz show? Just have fun. The less I think when I'm with girls, the more fun I have. If you feel good, you're probably doing it right lol. As for concrete tips? Let her talk about herself and be as genuinely interested as you can. It's not an interview, you're just out on a casual coffee date with this great girl and you want to see where it goes!	/r/seduction	28/07/15 09:21 AM
1	I approach 3 to 5 girls every day. Here is my secret. This is nice, man. Sounds really well thought-out without going too deep into conjecture or whatever. Just what I needed to get back out there. Do you have any tips on how to deal with groups (cold approach) while daygaming? I find that it's easier to isolate at night, and it's really more appropriate then. During the day, it's a little more obvious and I don't feel like playing the "another new friend" angle.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 09:12 AM
3	Picking up girls at a famers market. Dress nice and go with your instincts	/r/seduction	21/07/15 08:48 AM
1	Becoming an "Alpha" Male Sounds like the real deal. Thumbs up to you, man	/r/seduction	05/07/15 10:01 PM
2	Please don't down vote, I'm a desperate guy in need of help. Let go... Talking and messing around with women has been, is, and will be one of the most fun things ever. You just gotta get over yourself, or convince yourself that you're a fucking winner. Whatever works, man. You got this.	/r/seduction	28/06/15 07:53 AM